The Science of Journaling: How 15 Minutes of Writing Can Free Up Your Brain, Improve Your Health, and Make You a Better Friend | Dr. James Pennebaker

14 Aug 2026 · 1 h 9 min · 28 chapters

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In short

Expressive writing/therapeutic journaling—how writing 15–20 minutes a day for a few days can reduce stress and improve health, cognition, sleep, and social functioning.

Guests (backgrounds)

  • Dr. James Pennebaker, professor emeritus of psychology at UT Austin; pioneered expressive writing research; published 300+ articles; wrote/edited 12 books; elected to the National Academy of Sciences.
  • Dan Harris (host) and Dr. Bianca Harris (co-interviewed; clinician; interested in narrative medicine/psychology).

Key claims

  • Secret or unspoken upsetting experiences are more toxic; putting them into words helps organize meaning, reduces rumination, and shifts perspective.
  • Writing doesn’t require daily lifelong journaling; it can be used “like an antibiotic” during distress.
  • Writing can improve working memory and reduce cognitive “bandwidth” consumed by worry, leading to better decisions, tests, and relationships.

Notable examples

  • 1980s study: participants writing about traumatic experiences (vs superficial topics) visited student health about half as often.
  • Holocaust survivor project: after writing, survivors showed increased social sharing (e.g., showing testimony videos to 10+ people).
  • Lab “tape recorder” study: writing predicted more positive emotion language and better friend interactions a month later.

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Chapters

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The Science Behind Journaling

0:45 to 2:51

Dan shares insights on the benefits of journaling backed by scientific research.

“So today, I'm going to talk to the guy who really pioneered the science around journaling.”

Introducing Dr. James Pennebaker

2:57 to 3:08

Dan introduces Dr. James Pennebaker and Dr. Bianca Harris to the discussion.

Dr. Pennebaker's Journey into Journaling

3:08 to 5:24

Dr. Pennebaker shares his personal journey and initial findings on journaling.

“I'd love to hear a little bit of your origin story, Jamie.”

Impact of Secret Trauma

5:24 to 7:20

Discussion on how keeping trauma secret affects health and well-being.

“And even back then, I thought, you know, this could be a big deal.”

Benefits Beyond Trauma

7:20 to 11:22

Exploring how journaling can benefit anyone, regardless of trauma history.

“Yeah, one of the things that intrigued me from the very beginning was, you know, I would start interviewing people who had had, say, a traumatic sexual experience or some other kind of trauma.”

Writing Frequency and Methods

11:22 to 14:00

Dr. Pennebaker discusses his studies on writing frequency and its variations.

“I mean, that we are meaning-making creatures, There's, you know, our brains can't rest until we've made sense of something.”

The Evolution of Expressive Writing

14:00 to 21:41

Learn about the variations and personal experiences with expressive writing.

“Well, heck, Why don't we have them write four times?”

The Evolution of Expressive Writing

21:43 to 21:56

Learn about the variations and personal experiences with expressive writing.

“That's B-O-M-B-A-S.com slash happier, code happier at checkout.”

Guidelines for Expressive Writing

21:56 to 28:00

Explore practical tips for effective expressive writing and its benefits.

“Your protocol is called expressive writing.”

The Power of Personal Writing

28:00 to 29:00

Explore the benefits of writing for yourself and being honest in your narratives.

“I would, you might just try this, set aside some time and simply write for 20 minutes for you and you alone and throw it away when you're finished.”
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Understanding Narrative Medicine

29:00 to 30:20

Learn about narrative medicine and its importance in patient-provider relationships.

“And it just reminded me that you, I know, have an interest in, you took a course in narrative medicine and I think are looking into a course about narrative psychiatry.”

Holistic Perspectives in Medicine

30:20 to 33:00

Discuss the need for a holistic approach in healthcare beyond specialization.

“Now, nobody shows up in an exam room with a piece of writing to hand to their clinician and vice versa.”

Expressive Writing: A Path to Self-Knowledge

33:00 to 35:00

Discover how expressive writing can lead to self-understanding and insight.

“of what's going on with a person is so important.”

Linking Physical and Emotional Well-Being

35:00 to 37:00

Examine the connections between physical health and emotional experiences.

“And the partner to that, which I think comes through writing around illness and going back to narrative medicine is that so much of trauma is locked in the body.”

Linking Physical and Emotional Well-Being

38:13 to 38:35

Examine the connections between physical health and emotional experiences.

“He went away for three and a half weeks to make his re-entry smooth and joyous.”

Revisiting and Reframing Memories

39:38 to 41:20

Understand the significance of revisiting past traumas and reshaping narratives.

“But Bianca, just go back to accuracy, because that feels like something that's maybe worth running down.”

Exploring the Benefits of Storytelling

41:20 to 42:00

Delve into the benefits of storytelling in processing experiences and emotions.

“Also, sometimes going back to the players and as a mature adult versus a little kid, you know, going to a mom or a sister or whomever and saying, hey, is this what you experienced?”

The Impact of Expressive Writing on Social Connections

42:00 to 47:43

Learn how expressive writing can enhance social engagement and communication after trauma.

“Huge swaths of your life have been totally overshadowed by short moments, not to minimize those moments again.”

Physiological and Psychological Benefits of Writing

47:43 to 49:50

Discover various health benefits linked to expressive writing, including improved immune function and mental clarity.

“You've done decades of studies on expressive writing.”

Cautions and Best Practices in Expressive Writing

49:50 to 52:44

Understand the nuances of when expressive writing is beneficial and potential pitfalls for those with trauma.

“Don't expect you write for three times and then all of a sudden you're going to win the lottery.”

Journaling Techniques for Improved Focus

52:44 to 56:00

Explore the benefits of journaling for decision-making, memory, and maintaining focus during conversations.

“So, yeah, I think really writing about it for yourself is an important note.”

The Benefits of Journaling

56:00 to 58:38

Explore how journaling helps in decision-making and memory retention.

“Apparently, I find it very helpful in terms of setting my priorities and helping me make better decisions.”

The Benefits of Journaling

58:42 to 58:58

Explore how journaling helps in decision-making and memory retention.

“Progressive makes it easy to see if you could save when you bundle your home and auto policies.”

Understanding the Mechanisms of Writing

58:58 to 1:03:02

Delve into the psychological mechanisms behind the benefits of writing.

“I can really see the subjective benefit, certainly the measurements that you've made around physical symptoms and some illnesses.”

The Impact of Language and Word Choice

1:03:02 to 1:08:18

Learn how word choice reflects psychological states and can indicate mental health.

“Actually even being more than a single-celled animal.”

Analyzing Written Communication for Insights

1:08:18 to 1:10:06

Discover how analyzing our writing can reveal insights into our mental health.

“So we've done research in terms of with Reddit, looking at how the pandemic affected the culture and how it has changed the way that we have thought over the the last three or four years.”

Psychological Indicators in Language

1:10:06 to 1:11:52

Learn how the use of pronouns can indicate one's mental state.

“I have my own computer program and there's a commercial version of it, but my computer program is called Linguistic Inquiry and Word Count, L-I-W-C.”

Exploring Resources and Publications

1:11:52 to 1:13:44

Discover Dr. Pennebaker's recommended books and resources on language and writing.

“I mean, I'd be very concerned about them.”
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Transcript

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0:03This is the 10 % Happier Podcast. I'm your host, Dan Harris. I will admit from the outset here that I've long had a bad attitude about journaling, which is weird because I've spent more than 30 years working as a journalist. I dismissed journaling as some sort of new agey thing though, but then I started to see a bunch of science that really changed my mind on this. This is, by the way, a pattern for me. I reflexively judge something only to have my mind changed by the evidence. In the case of journaling, the evidence is quite abundant. According to research, journaling can be an effective way to reduce stress and anxiety.

0:37Two biggies for me. And that's not all. Various forms of journaling practice have been shown to increase immune response, sleep quality, memory focus, time management, and decision making. So today, I'm going to talk to the guy who really pioneered the science around journaling. His name is Dr. James Pennebaker. He's a professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. He's published over 300 articles and written or edited 12 books, and he was recently elected to the National Academy of Sciences, which is a huge honor. I interviewed Dr. Pennebaker jointly with my wife, Dr. Bianca Harris, who has no skepticism about journaling.

1:16We first aired this episode back in November of 2024, but we're re-airing it now because it's really, really good. Uh, you're going to hear us talk about the specific form of journaling called expressive writing or therapeutic journaling that Dr. Pennebaker invented and then studied. We'll talk about other kinds of journaling, including to-do lists and gratitude lists, why writing things down helps shift your perspective on your stress and your trauma, how that can lead to a whole cascade of benefits and why Dr. Pennebaker, who's a very laid back dude is actually so laid back about how often we need to journal in order to get all of the advertised benefits.

1:56We'll get started with Dr. James Pennebaker right after this.

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2:56We'll be right back after this. Dr. James Panabaker, welcome to the show. It's nice to be here. And welcome back, Dr. Bianca Harris. Thank you. Okay. So let me just, let me start here. I'd love to hear a little bit of your origin story, Jamie. And by the way, just for the listeners, he told me I can call him Jamie. How did you get interested in the subject of journaling in the first place? I actually wasn't that interested in it. What had happened early in my career, I was doing work on physical symptoms and how people come to know how they feel. And I was writing a book on it and I thought I should have a chapter on what kind of people report lots of physical symptoms.

3:33So I put together a questionnaire and I worked with my students to come up with what kind of questions should we ask? We asked all sorts of things. and somebody said, how about this? Prior to the age of 17, did you ever have a traumatic sexual experience? This was 1979. And I thought, yeah, that sounds good. So we threw that one on along with a dozen, maybe hundreds of other questions. And we discovered that one question was associated with every kind of health problem imaginable. And we ended up doing a more national sample and found the same thing. And I became fascinated by this. What was it about a traumatic sexual experience that could have been years earlier that was associated with reporting symptoms, but also other objective health problems?

4:23And one of the things that emerged was it was secret. And we did later studies and we found that having any kind of trauma was bad for you. We'd always known that. But if you kept it secret, it was much more toxic. And this made me start to wonder, if keeping secrets is so bad for you, what if we brought people in the lab and had them talk about them? Like talking was too much trouble. And from a research perspective, I thought just having them write might work. And so we ended up doing a study where we asked people to come in and either write about a deeply upsetting experience, ideally one that you hadn't talked in any detail with others, or to write about superficial topics.

5:06And they gave us permission to get access to their health records. And what we found was that those people who wrote about these traumatic experiences ended up going to the student health center at about half the right of people in our controls. That was a profound finding for me. And even back then, I thought, you know, this could be a big deal. And so that really was what spurred my interest. You know, and I had done, I had written occasionally, you know, when I was going through upsetting experiences, I would just sit down and I'd just write, what the hell is going on with me? Like, why am I feeling the way that I am?

5:46And I would generally just write once. And I noticed I felt a lot better. And I saw this with people in our study, and that was what got me into it. Just to sum that up, there were two findings that set you off on this path. One was if you have a secret trauma that has potentially deeply destabilizing health impacts, psychological, physiological. And the second is that if you write about it, it can reduce those negative impacts. That's exactly right. I'm interested, Bianca, we're early in this interview, but just those two findings, how do they land for you when they go through the prism of your mind?

6:27I love it. The first thing I think about is I write a lot. At various times in my life, I've called it journaling. At other times, I've just called it writing, since a lot of the sort of personal dump is relevant to what I'm trying to write about in terms of imposter syndrome. But what I really love just at the beginning of what you're saying as a clinician is that sort of merger of the psychological and the physical. And I say that in part because I've always known that it's been helpful, but to really see that there are measurements and a very difficult thing to measure, I'm sure. There's so many confounding variables, I'm sure, the types of trauma, how long the secret has been there, the characteristics of the human being, etc.

7:17But just the broad strokes of it, I find really fascinating. Yeah, one of the things that intrigued me from the very beginning was, you know, I would start interviewing people who had had, say, a traumatic sexual experience or some other kind of trauma. And what really completely shook me was, as they would tell me about it, they would talk about how keeping this big secret completely disrupted their lives and their social lives. So the very first person I interviewed talked about being molested by her stepfather. And she was in this position that she couldn't tell her mother because her mother was so happy with this new guy that she had married.

7:58And so all of a sudden she couldn't talk to her mother because she was afraid that it would leak out. She couldn't talk to her friends because she was only 13 or 14 and she didn't think they'd understand. And what was happening was she was getting more and more isolated from her family, from her friends. She couldn't tell anyone. She was constantly on guard. She couldn't sleep. And this sexual part of it was in some ways almost a minor part compared to the complete disruption of her life. And you can see the degree of stress this has on somebody. Does one need to have a secret trauma in order to benefit from journaling?

8:42Not at all. You know, all of us have had major disruptions in our lives. Could be you failed at something that everybody knows about. It could be almost anything. But we often choose not to talk about it with others. You know, I don't want to come across as weak. I don't want to come across as vulnerable or whatever. One thing that I think is important to ask ourselves is why is it usually at the end of the day when we come home, we tell our spouse or friends about what happened during the day? Upsetting experiences. And I think one reason we talk about them normally is that it helps to organize them in our minds.

9:25And if you have some kind of upsetting experience that you choose not to talk about, you can't talk about because it might hurt other people's feelings, you don't organize it. And one thing that I started to realize in the studies I did and other people started to do was that putting something into words almost forces some kind of structure, some kind of way of organizing the experience. How do you know when one is organizing their experience, which I think can only happen according to how that person experienced it, when then there's a story created around it, as we all do? sometimes that story and particularly in trauma may not be fully accurate in terms of how it was portrayed which is not to negate the impact of it or say that that story was not the true story to that person but how might that impact perpetuation of a story of inaccuracy that was just something that bothered me early on in my research, but I eventually came to realize I don't think it matters.

10:37Coming up with a story helps to still the mind. I think one reason we ruminate so much after a trauma, especially one we don't talk to other people about, is our mind is trying to put all the parts together to come up with some kind of meaning to it. And even if the meaning might not be accurate. If we believe it, we don't think about it as much. It allows us to move on. So, I don't think accuracy is the best way to think about it. Obviously, some stories may be self-defeating in some way. So, in that sense, accuracy may be very beneficial. But otherwise, I'm not sure it matters that much. It's really interesting.

11:23I mean, that we are meaning-making creatures, There's, you know, our brains can't rest until we've made sense of something. Generally, we hate uncertainty, ambiguity. So that definitely lands for me. Now that I'm talking about myself, I'm going to keep pressing on something I asked earlier, which is I don't have not had many big T trauma events in my life yet. Not to say that I haven't had ups and downs, and I don't think I've had many secret traumas. Although, as I say this, I realized I wrote a memoir about having a panic attack on television and not telling anybody that was caused by taking drugs in my after going to a war zone.

12:00So that was a secret trauma that I did write about and it felt better afterwards. But I guess I'm trying to represent the people in the audience who might not see themselves in either the word trauma or secrecy, but of course have had ups and downs in their lives and are wondering, can I too benefit from journaling? And I'm kind of in the same boat. I've had ups and downs in my life, and I haven't had a major trauma myself. However, what we find in all of this work is all of us have had major stressors and conflicts. And in our studies, in fact, in our early studies where we had people to write about traumas, I would always add, and if you haven't had the trauma, I want you to just write about a major stressor or conflict.

12:45It turns out everybody has something to write about. We all are dealing with issues. And I think one thing that I suggest to people is if you find yourself tossing and turning in the middle of the night about something, if you find yourself worrying about something too much or talking too much to other people about something and you can tell these other people don't want to hear it anymore, you may benefit from writing. And so I don't think, you know, the word trauma has become a very popular term over the last 20 years. But I don't view this necessarily as a trauma. I would view writing about something that is weighing on you can be beneficial.

13:29Another thing about writing, you know, the first study that I did, and this first study was published in 1986. We actually ran it in 1983, 84. board. One thing that was surprising about this study was I didn't know how much I should have people write. And I was in this position where I was at a small college and we had about 50 people who could be in the study. And I thought, well, I should probably have them write more than once. So I figured, okay, that they would get five hours of experimental credit. Well, heck, Why don't we have them write four times? And then I needed to find the rooms and I could only get rooms after five o 'clock.

14:11And I could only get so many rooms. And so we would essentially line these people up and run them for about four hours. And each person would write for about 15 minutes a shot for each of four days. So half the people wrote about traumatic experiences and another group wrote about superficial topics. and the study worked and so afterwards it became you know i thought well i guess we should stick with that that formula but then you know there have now been probably 2 000 expressive writing studies that have been published and you don't have to write four times you don't have to write 15 minutes a time or 20 minutes a time there you know there have been all of these variations And for myself, I don't write four times, 15 minutes a time.

15:02Very often, I don't write very often. I'll probably maybe two or three times a year. Usually there's been, I've had a fight with my spouse or somebody at work or I'm worried about something. And sometimes I just get up in the middle of the night, sit down, write until I feel like I've written enough. And then I go back to bed. I'm not a journaler. The idea of writing every day for the rest of my life, I find for me overwhelming and depressing. I just don't do that. I write when something bad happens and I want to get over it and move on. I find that so liberating. The fact that you could argue that, you know, the patron saint of journaling, the scientific guru of journaling, see it as a very useful tool that you do deploy, but really kind of in extremis, not as some death march that you have to go through every day.

15:58That's right. You know, I view it like kind of an antibiotic. I got some kind of health problem, give me drugs for a few days, and then I don't want to take them anymore and I move on with life. I guess it depends on the person. And by the way, because Bianca, what you were saying, you like to write a lot. And I have a lot of people who talk to me and they tell me how they do it. And, you know, I don't want to write a lot. I write only when I'm unhappy. When I'm happy, I would never write. Why do I want to write when I'm happy? I just want to enjoy the happiness. And how people write is tremendously different.

16:37So, for example, early on, one of my students said, well, she writes. And then after she writes, the next day she'll go back and she'll revise what she's written. And she'll do that over and over again. And I'm thinking, I would never do that. Reading what I've written is too depressing. Why would I ever want to read it again? But I do know many people really benefit. And one of my primary recommendations is, I am not a guru. I don't have truth. I don't know why it works exactly. And there's not one true way. And everyone needs to be their own researcher, their own scientist, and experiment to see what works best for you.

17:21That makes perfect sense. I think the thing that works best for me right now, and I've been writing now for years, is to understand the narrative, both in terms of what it had been, where it is, and where I would like it to be in terms of personal health. and what I find very interesting and I'm not sure if you've looked at this or could look at it is what let's just take one event for example that somebody writes about what does that event on paper look like over time because I know that I've written about aspects of a single event many times over the years and sort of taking the 30 ,000 foot view now which I'm much closer to than I was before, the narrative around it really has changed, which is a goal of mine personally.

18:15First, it was about the purge and saying things that I couldn't say out loud, whether it was a secret or it was, you know, a fight that I wanted to have with someone but didn't know how, I could put it on the page. But over time, it became more of this sort of really expressive writing where ideas behind it came through. And as a result of that and the change over time, there are many more positive emotions than negative ones. Because a lot of what triggers me to write is not a sit down and write moment. It's an insight. Sometimes it's distress. Usually it's an insight either coming from just my own feelings or from reading something and I have an idea.

18:58And once I start writing, then the interesting stuff happens. So it's a lot, not for everybody, but that's really what has served me well. I've spoken with so many people about their varying experiences, and yours is a very common one. I work quite a bit with people who have really used writing much of their life. And they say very similar things. I think mine was, and I suspect you're probably more introspective than I am. My wife sometimes rolls her eyes to the fact that I've become known for expressive writing because she's far more introspective than I am. You know, mine is, let's, you know, just put a band-aid on it and let's just keep, you know, just keep trying to move.

19:48And, you know, I do want to understand it, but it's once I'm there and it's, you know, I have a good enough idea. Am I able to move forward and have a good day or a happy life, at least for the foreseeable future until the next miserable thing I'm confronted with? I love that thing about your wife. I have a wife and I think she rolls her eyes at me being a quasi happiness expert given that she knows me as a barbarian so exactly that was not my word i can say other words but i notice she's not disputing the character it's not her word not the first word but i do write about you a lot yeah uh-oh where are you keeping those journals lock and key lock and key if you're a loyal listener to this show you know that i am an avid worker outer.

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21:55All right, well, let me ask a sort of a technical question, Jamie. Your protocol is called expressive writing. You've been very clear in a helpful way that one does not need to follow the exact directions that you use among your study participants, but it might be worth your describing what directions you do give to people so that we're aware of it at the very least. When I'm talking to a person who's not in an experiment, my recommendation is, look, go find a place where you won't be bothered and you can set aside, let's say 15-20 minutes a day for at least three or four days.

22:37And once you are able to go to this place where you feel secure, just sit down and you can write. You can write on a computer. You can write a long hand. How you write is entirely up to you. And really let go and explore your deepest thoughts and feelings about the issue or issues that are weighing on you. And in your writing, really let go and explore your very deepest thoughts and feeling. And in your writing, you might tie what you're dealing with with other events that might be similar to this. Maybe it might be related to your childhood, your relationship with your parents or family of origin, or issues going on in your social life right now, or loves or career issues.

23:23and you're free to write about that same upsetting experience each day or something different each day that's entirely up to you. But whatever you do, just really let go and explore your thoughts and feelings. And in reality, you might find that after the first day, you feel fine and you don't feel like writing anymore. Great, don't write anymore. Or you might start writing and you start to get extremely distressed. Then you know this is going to bother you even more. Stop writing. You know, writing does not work for everyone all the time. And you need to pay attention to how you're feeling both during and afterwards.

24:05If after I recommend writing three or four days, some people feel like they need to write more afterwards. Sure, do it. Sometimes they want to write more than 15 or 20 minutes. Great. It's free. Do whatever you want. Or, you know, some studies people have just written two minutes or three minutes a day and it's beneficial. Be your own scientist. You know what's best for you, much better than I do. And what topic should you choose? Well, what topics are weighing on you? I've had the experience of thinking I was really upset about a particular topic and I started writing. And I was bored writing about it after two or three minutes.

24:47And then I realized, wow, that wasn't the problem at all. It was something else that was related to it that was really bugging me. And let your writing guide your own thoughts about what are the issues that are important to you right now. But the primary issue is there is not one true way. And really experiment. I want to send some compassion out to my younger self because I did keep a journal, which I'm sure we call diaries in our adolescence, that was useful but also distressing to look back on, and I threw it out. and even in some then I took a long vacation away from journaling and then when I started again for a brief period of time years later when I look back on that I ripped out the pages that I didn't want to read just like we select photos for an album where we don't look terrible and the first time I did it I threw out the journals it was because it hurt me too much The second time I did it was because I didn't want somebody else to find them and realize what I felt about myself, which is there's some sort of progression or growth in there, I suppose.

26:04but it did dawn on me in reading about you before starting that would it have been worse for me to not have written or to have written and thrown away? Because in some ways, I was invalidating everything that I was experiencing by saying, you are not worthy of being here. It's not really an answerable question, but it is one thing that I thought about. You know that many people ask me about what should they do with their writing samples. I recommend starting your writing if you haven't done a lot of writing with the intention of destroying it when you're finished. In other words, this writing should be for you and you alone.

26:47The one thing that I caution people is you need to be able to put this writing someplace that nobody else can find it. because one reason you are writing this stuff is because perhaps you're afraid someone else will see it or you would be humiliated or would break up, you know, would hurt other people. And I've heard stories, all of us have heard stories where someone found their diary and it led to the kinds of things that they were fearing in the first place. So be very sensitive in terms of what you do with this writing so that it is maximally beneficial for you but not harming other people.

27:26I'm just keying in on the phrase for you and you alone. I have never done the type of expressive writing or journaling that you're describing here. However, I've written one and a half memoirs, one that's been published and another that I'm toiling away on. And I find that I get a lot of the benefits you're describing, which is that it helps me make sense of my life. It helps me see things more clearly, work process, ups and downs in my own life. And yet it's not for me and me alone. I would, you might just try this, set aside some time and simply write for 20 minutes for you and you alone and throw it away when you're finished.

28:11In other words, one reason I like you and you alone language is because it forces you to be truly honest with yourself. And when you're writing a memoir or you're writing it for somebody else, you can't help but twist it. You know, you kind of want to look good. Even if you say bad things about yourself, you kind of twist it a little bit so you look a little bit better than you really know you were. And so that, But I think if there's any way to, in addition, if you're writing a memoir, you have your dark, real memoir. And then you have the, you know, the gussied up. I like that. I like that a lot.

28:59Bianca, just going back to you for a second, we've been talking a lot about, you know, the value of meaning making, you know, processing, making sense of the stuff in your, of the hard stuff in your life. And it just reminded me that you, I know, have an interest in, you took a course in narrative medicine and I think are looking into a course about narrative psychiatry. And so I don't even actually know if I know what those things are. So maybe you could describe that and see if it ties to what we're talking about here. well i can't fully describe narrative psychology i was only introduced to that recently as something i'm really interested in looking at and maybe you could tell us more dr pennebaker so put a pin in that for a second my understanding though is it's just around how people tell stories and create meaning and how that shapes their lives and because it's a formal or informal i don't know how common it is practice within psychology, there are ways of doing it with some sort of rigorous methodology in terms of measuring things that other people write about.

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30:04But coming back to that in a second, the first part of what you were saying, Dan, about narrative medicine, that's a really, I think, really important feature that is probably not focused on enough within medical training because it really brings you to the bedside next to the human being. And it's about not only the patients being able to express themselves and what they're experiencing, and as the provider, you being able to better understand who they are, but also as a provider, there's lots to write about where you can certainly then discover not only what your issues are that may or may not help you help somebody else, but really just helps you be in the moment and benefit your patient as much as possible because of this connection and deep understanding.

30:55Now, nobody shows up in an exam room with a piece of writing to hand to their clinician and vice versa. But in essence, that's sort of what we would like to have what's on the other end of that. And that would take time and conversation, which most clinicians don't have. So the narrative medicine, I took a course in it, not a master's degree, which does exist. And there's a great one through Columbia University, is really about not only practicing writing, but practicing reading other narratives and really getting into what people are saying and how they are saying it, which I think Dr. Pennebaker probably has something to say about as well.

31:40I have spent some time with people in the narrative medicine world, and I've been impressed with their emphasis a lot on literature in terms of reading stories of illness and healing in classic literature as well as other kinds of narrative. and I think it has real strength to do just what you're saying is making a physician more aware of the person and the context of their illness and what I would love to see more of in medicine and in psychotherapy as well is trying to understand to appreciate that illness does not occur in a vacuum. This is, you know, dealing with relatives who have been having health problems.

32:29I'm fascinated that the kidney doctor just looks at the kidney and ignores the rest of the body. And the lung doctor looks at that and nothing else. And nobody ever says, well, what's going on in the person's life? That, you know, we think of the old family doctor, you know, who went around with a little black bag as a true holistic medicine expert. But our training is so specialized now that we just don't do that. And I do think trying to understand the context, the life context of what's going on with a person is so important. But again, the economic models of medicine now don't allow it. That's true.

33:12Really what resources are being poured into is dealing with the burnout and the fallout of not doing those things, which actually does involve writing. The other thing you said earlier, Bianca, that I don't want to get lost in this discussion is you honed right in on whether the story should be accurate. And I just I think that's a really interesting question. I understood Dr. Pennebaker's answer, which was, you know, I'm not dismissing the value of accuracy, but the real point of this exercise is a kind of a purge, getting it out there and making some sense of it. But I just wanted to make sure I didn't, that I gave you a chance to come back to this if it was something you wanted to say more about.

33:53If I could just bring up something about the metaphor you implied. I don't view expressive writing as a purge at all. I don't view it as allowing the pot to boil over, you know, to let all the emotions out. I view this as a much more cognitive process. That is, it's a quest for self-knowledge, self-understanding. Why am I feeling this way? So at the end, you walk away with greater insight in terms of why you've been so upset about this experience, why you've been obsessing about it, because you really need to understand what's happening. It's not that you're flushing the emotions away. It's not that you're purging anything.

34:37You have come to a new understanding of your situation, why you did what you did, why the other people did what they did, and also ways of how do I move forward from here. So it's not a purge, it's a shift of perspective. And a new understanding, right. I think that all sounds just right. And the partner to that, which I think comes through writing around illness and going back to narrative medicine is that so much of trauma is locked in the body. So they may be secrets that you don't even know that you have cognitively. And when you start writing about things that you actually physically feel, whether you're distressed or not, or you relate to an illness and start exploring that, there's a whole other world of experiences that you may not have tapped into that also shape how we think.

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39:55But Bianca, just go back to accuracy, because that feels like something that's maybe worth running down. I know for me, so many of the stories I'm telling myself benefit from some fact checking, from some mechanism to call bullshit on them, either through talking about it with somebody else or viewing them, you know, shifting my perspective internally. So I just want I don't want to let that pass. If you know where I'm going with this. I don't know if it's about fact checking, because I think the experience is the experience. Sometimes perhaps something was said that we don't remember or vice versa.

40:35It's more the interpretation of it and the putting together of facts in a particular order. and for me the writing is very much integrated with the talking and so there is an ongoing conversation with my therapist not after every writing of course but sometimes it does take somebody else seeing it I think you have to sort of graduate to that point but in a safe space being able to feedback what they've heard versus what you've been saying what they maybe know about you now versus the story you've told yourself from 30 years ago. Because no matter how healed you think you may be, there's always more to learn.

41:18You don't have to learn it all. But I think two things can happen. One, again, a therapist or a friend or some safe person that has, without judgment and with great care, held some of your secrets and pain for you and is able to circle back with things that help either validate or reshape what you have told yourself if it's not beneficial. Also, sometimes going back to the players and as a mature adult versus a little kid, you know, going to a mom or a sister or whomever and saying, hey, is this what you experienced? I am revisiting several of those things right now. And it's fascinating because one of the main things that comes out of trauma therapy in particular that I feel super excited about is that once you really unearth your negative memories, there's a whole boatload of positive that you've suppressed with it, even within the moment of trauma, or maybe not the exact moment, but within that time frame.

42:25and you can't access those. Huge swaths of your life have been totally overshadowed by short moments, not to minimize those moments again. But part of retelling the story, reframing the story and taking from it is recognizing that, oh, that year wasn't all shit. You know, there's a lot that happened that is still true and real and impacted me in a way that I can use now. Dr. Penderbaker, I know that, or I believe I know that one of the benefits that you've found among the folks that you've studied who have done expressive writing, which again is your journaling protocol, you see social changes, that they're more likely to talk to their friends about their stuff and they're increasing their social engagement generally.

43:12Am I stating that accurately? That's correct. It's been very Interesting. Years ago, I worked with a very interesting project when I was in Dallas, interviewing people who had survived the Holocaust. And they had been generally in concentration camps in World War II. they had moved to dallas these people now were had kids and i did surveys before we did these interviews with the survivors and the majority of people had not talked to other people in any detail about their holocaust experiences and this was part of a an archive project where we people came into a television studio and we interviewed them and then we gave them a copy of their videos.

44:01And then I contact them again several weeks later. And the average person now had shown the video of their testimony to at least 10 other people. And they now were talking about it and they never had because they were afraid that other people would be too distressed by it. And I found this over and over again in our studies that after writing about an upsetting experience people are much more likely to talk about that experience with others and also the studies that we did this is some other projects what we would do is we'd ask people to wear a little tape recorder and it had there would have a lapel mic and it would the recorder would come on for 30 seconds and go off for several minutes and then come on again they never knew when it was on and off.

44:54And we'd ask them to wear this for two days in the week before their writing, and then again about a month later. And what we found was that people on questionnaires would say, well, you know, this study didn't affect my social behavior at all. But in fact, it did. The month afterwards, they were talking more with others. They were laughing more. They were using more positive emotion language. They were better friends. They could listen to others. They could respond in ways that they couldn't do prior to the writing. And I think part of this goes to some research that was done showing that people who do this expressive writing, they have more, it's called working memory.

45:40They think better. They're able to remember things better. They have more capacity, if you like, because they're not worrying about the things they were worried about before the experiment. That is so interesting that if something is bothering you, whether it's a secret trauma or a sort of more mundane vexation, it's taking up bandwidth that once you write it down, process it, get a greater understanding of it. I know you don't like purging, but let's just say unburdening yourself to a certain extent, then actually you you have access to parts of your brain that were previously being chewed up by this noise.

46:23That's exactly right. And actually, the first study that did this was looking at the college freshmen during their first weeks of college. You know, if you think back to when you get a new job, you start college, you start anything, those first few weeks are overwhelming. And you're, am I doing the right thing? How do I negotiate this new life? And by writing about it, It helps to simplify it, to organize it. And now you don't need to obsess as much as you have. I'm not a psychiatrist, but I do recall, I think, that there's something called pseudodementia that goes with depression and or anxiety.

47:04And it really is this sense of having your brain co-opted when it's dealing with intense emotion or secrets or something else. and things as basic as word finding and certainly memory issues. And they can be very scary when they present, but that's real. Yeah, no, this is a very real, we all get stupid when we're under a lot of stress. And this has been shown over and over and over again. That's a great quote. I'm writing it down. I'm going to use it first. Don't be surprised if you see that on my Instagram sometimes. but I'll give you credit. You've done decades of studies on expressive writing.

47:48What other benefits have you seen showing up physiologically and psychologically for people? It's a very, very long list. And I'm very serious. There have been over 2 ,000 studies done on expressive writing. It's been shown to be related to how long people are in the hospital after surgery. It's associated with wound healing. It's associated with changes in various markers of immune function, kidney function, other kinds of biological markers. It's associated with absenteeism from work. It's associated with reduction in insurance costs. It's associated with better social lives afterwards. It helps people stop smoking, stop drinking.

48:31It helps them, And, you know, almost anything in life that you find yourself obsessing about or worrying about, it helps to organize them. People do better on standardized tests like the MCAT or SATs or GREs if they write about their stress, their issues in the days and weeks beforehand. In other words, any place where your mind is overactive, you're ruminating too much, writing can be beneficial. I've also read that it helps with sleep. It helps with sleep, so people sleep better after writing. If people are interested in trying to find out, can this work with this particular problem, go to Google Scholar and enter expressive writing and fill in the blank.

49:21And there's probably been a study done on it. Yeah, I mean, I've heard about it helping with autoimmune disorders, with decision making, with anxiety, lots of stuff. Yeah, and chronic pain is one area that there's been some really fascinating research done where it's associated with reduction in chronic pain, PTSD. You know, some of these big issues that we deal with in the mental health world and physical health world. And also, let me just stop for a second. This is not a panacea. Don't expect you write for three times and then all of a sudden you're going to win the lottery. Life will be beautiful.

50:03The people you have wronged in the past will come and beg to be friends with you again. No, it helps sometimes, but this is not a panacea. I have two questions. One is, and I grant you that these studies are probably pretty hard to do in terms of really in the randomized components, having, you know, samples that are truly randomized versus how are we controlling for mental health disorders and other things that might sway one way or the other. But generally speaking, are there any background mental health issues that either benefit more or perhaps should not be done in solitary, I guess? If somebody is deeply clinically depressed, I'm not sure that expressive writing is the first method I would recommend.

50:57if you've just had a massive horrible trauma i don't think writing is necessarily beneficial and if you're if you happen to be a therapist i would never ask somebody who's just gone through a major trauma to to push them to write about it at the time if they want to that's great but i think people are particularly vulnerable in the aftermath of a major traumatic experience i I generally think that people benefit most when they find themselves thinking about something too much. And if you've had a major trauma and you're thinking about it all the time yesterday, you're not thinking about it too much.

51:40That's normal. But if you're thinking about it all the time six months later, that's too much. So that would be my primary recommendation with not to write. And also, if you start writing and you don't feel better, if you don't feel so this is being beneficial, this might not be a good time to write as well. In terms of are there particular places where it is beneficial, you have to be your own researcher here. In other words, try it. Think about it. There's no downside. It's free. I'm not going to ask you to send me$50 because I came up with the idea and I patented it. It's not patented. Nobody patented the idea.

52:28And you can throw away what you've written. Nobody needs to see it and probably shouldn't see it. So try it. And that's what I like about it. There's no significant downside that I can see. it's interesting too what you say about doing it for you because just makes me think about you know admissions essays to medical school to colleges and how really it's become about proving that you've been through something and that you've overcome or perhaps you haven't but you're able to disclose more about it and for some people that really works but for others and i think for minorities in general from what i've read about that can be distressing if it's something that is expected to be brought forward and yet it's being relived and almost objectified in a way as a measure of your worth to an academic endeavor.

53:27So, yeah, I think really writing about it for yourself is an important note. That's exactly right. I know you all are thinking about some kind of writing exercise on your website. And the primary issue is, I would urge people when they do this, is that this writing is for you and you alone, that unless they somehow specify it, there's no feedback that this is something that is something that just gives them the freedom to write. You know, and there can be prompts as well. Questions such as, in writing about this, how might it be related to your family? How does this affect how you are getting along with others?

54:19Or how is this affecting your health? Or things like that. So you could have prompts. There's so many ways you can set it up. But the essence is giving people the opportunity to put this issue into words, ideally one that they've not spoken to other people about in general and letting them come up with their own kind of understanding of the experience. I believe there's been some research on gratitude lists. Is that something you've looked into as well? I have not. I don't know the literature on it. And again, I believe in trying everything. It's really important. There is not a true way. And so try gratitude lists.

55:06And if you feel better, if you feel so it makes a difference, fabulous. Keep doing it. So I think that's the most important issue. I'm not selling a panacea and nobody is selling a panacea. All of us need to, if you are suffering, to try to figure out what works best for you. Yeah. Yes. Yes. Just to emphasize, you're in a welcoming place for people who are allergic to panaceas, given the name of this show is 10 percent happier. So we're not about miracle cures here. Just to say on gratitude, I've done a little bit of looking at that. And it does appear there. It does appear that there are some benefits to that.

55:49There are a couple of other ways that I have found journaling to be helpful. One, there appears to be some literature on the other. I haven't seen anything. One is that the sort of making and remaking of to do lists. Apparently, I find it very helpful in terms of setting my priorities and helping me make better decisions. And it reduces it helps my working memory because I'm I've got it all in one place and I can then focus on what I need to do. And that appears to be backed by some data. And then the other thing I use journal for is when I'm in conversations, in fact, I'm doing it in this conversation.

56:25I'm taking a lot of notes, especially about things I want to say so that I don't forget what I want to say, but I also don't jump in and interrupt somebody else and cut them off. So any thoughts on either or both of those? Since I hardly do any to-do lists, I don't approve of them.

56:45But sure. They're helpful to do them. And I do, when I'm under stress, when I'm about to move, there are certain times I actually do to-do lists myself. And I do think they do exactly what you're saying. They are helping your working memory so you don't have to keep thinking about it. Those thoughts now are transferred to a piece of paper. So that paper is having to do all the work. So in that sense, yeah, that makes good sense to me. So I get anything that we do that you feel is beneficial. Do it. I've been very open about the fact that I come by my specific money neuroses, honestly. So I've found some tools that have really helped me reorient to my personal finances in a healthier and sane way.

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59:29And this, from a scientific perspective, is horrible because we want a nice, simple explanation. What I've come to appreciate over the years is it's really a whole cascade of things. When you sit down to write about an upsetting experience, ideally one that you have not spoken to other people about, the first thing you're doing is acknowledging it has happened. So that's the first issue. The second is you're putting it into words. When you put something into words, you are changing the way that it's organized in your mind. And we know this from research on eyewitness identification and many other places in psychology.

1:00:08Putting something into word really does simplify it in our minds. And it simplifies it in a way that it also distorts things because now it's simpler than it actually was when we experienced it. The next thing is once you've put it into words, you have to impose structure on it. even putting it into a sentence requires that there's a beginning middle and end of that sentence and your next sentence almost innately follows from the first sentence in other words when you you know you've had an upsetting experience and you're walking down the street you think about this part of it you think oh i should have done this and then you start thinking about something else and you think about that but you're not bringing it all together and what writing is doing is forcing structure, is forcing you to see things from a broader perspective.

1:01:02And then it, and all of this is effectively giving it some meaning, which means now that we don't have to obsess about it or ruminate about it the way that we had been in the past, which means we sleep better. And we know that sleep is associated with more efficient immune function. It's associated with improved working memory, drops in depression, all of these other markers, which is also associated with changes in our eating behavior. So all of these things are related with the changes in social behavior. It allows us to be better friends so we can listen to other people better and we are more socially connected.

1:01:44So it's a mixture of all of these. And we could also, if we wanted to go in the direction of the brain, there's been research showing there are brain changes and there's all sorts of changes in autonomic nervous system and immune function systems. So all of these systems are interconnected. So that's on one level not a very satisfying mechanism. But the reality is, is when we're dealing with people dealing with major upsetting experiences, their entire lives have been disrupted. their eating patterns, their connections with others, their work life, their home life, everything. And so it's not surprising that writing is one strategy that can help to help align all of these changes that have occurred.

1:02:34So mechanistically, it might be very, very generally speaking that it's really a modulation of the stress response that then impacts all these other pathways, even changes in the brain? Yes, but then someone could say, well, it's the changes in the brain that's modulating all these other responses. And then other people say, oh no, it's changing their social behavior, which changes their brain, which changes. So all of these, I mean, that's what's so interesting. These are all so horribly interconnected. That's the problem of being a human. Or actually being a primate. Actually even being more than a single-celled animal.

1:03:17And even... I'm picturing Iguazu Falls in Brazil, where Bianca and I just went with our son. You know, it's just these series of interconnected cascades. And that's coming to mind as you're talking about the benefits here. That's right. Now, that's a metaphor. I can work with that.

1:03:39we're kind of rounding third here into the uh into the final section of our of our time together but before i let you go in in preparing us to do this interview our producer marissa schneiderman who's uh who's running point on this episode she every time we do an episode one of the producers in this case marissa gives me or me and bianca a prep doc and in marissa's prep doc there was a section where she talked about another, and I think maybe related field of study that you've engaged yourself in, which is the psychology of word choice. And so I thought before we let you go, I'd invite you to say a few words about that.

1:04:18So fortunately, we've got another two hours to talk. So I, the expressive writing research, the first paper came out in 1986. And in the next few years, more and more studies started to show that it was beneficial. And it led me to, and others, to ask the question of why does writing work? And one of the issues I became interested in was maybe we could get a better sense of how people benefit by looking at their actual writing samples. And maybe if I analyzed their writing samples, I'd have a better sense of how they were changing in their thinking. I gave these samples to clinical graduate students and had them rate them along multiple dimensions, which turned out to not work very well.

1:05:08The people didn't agree on the dimensions and there were similar problems. And I thought, well, you know, maybe I could just get a computer to analyze this data. However, to analyze the words, and as had happened, I couldn't find any. So I ended up working with one of my graduate students at the time, Martha Francis, and she and I put together a computer program that would go through and analyze text and calculate the percentage of words in the text that were, say, positive emotions or negative emotions or different kinds of cognitive styles, the way people were thinking. And we also looked at other parts of speech, you know, pronouns and prepositions and so forth.

1:05:52And the computer program ended up giving us some insight that, in fact, that people who benefited the most tended to use more positive emotion words in their writing, which might get back to the gratitude issues. But what was even more potent was the people who tended to change and increase in their use of cognitive words. These cognitive words could be causal words, words like because, cause, effect, you know, for people trying to understand the cause and effect of issues. or inside words, words like understand, realize, know, that people who increased in their use of those words benefited more than people who didn't.

1:06:32And this started to get me to think about how we can look at thinking patterns and other psychological patterns in language. And one of the things that popped out also was that we discovered that people who benefited the most, Some days would use I words, I, me, and my words at high rates. And on other days, they might use words like he, she, we, you at high rates. Almost as though they were changing perspectives from day to day. And the people who wrote in the same style did not benefit. And this led me to the last 20 years, 30 years of research, focusing on what we can learn about ourselves and about people in general by the way they use words.

1:07:25So, for example, we can see personality differences in the way people use words. A good example might be of the people listening to this podcast. if we went in and analyzed all of your text messages or all of your emails over the last few months, I could immediately tell which people are really sociable and which ones aren't simply by looking at third-person pronouns, he, she, they, or maybe words like we, that people interested in other people make references to other people. There's a big shock. But what's interesting about this is there are these little words that none of us ever pay attention to that tell us about others.

1:08:12And that is where I've gone in the last several years. And it's relevant to our ability to see how people think. So we've done research in terms of with Reddit, looking at how the pandemic affected the culture and how it has changed the way that we have thought over the the last three or four years. And we can get, we can look at differences in cities and age, sex, social class, et cetera. It's a really interesting marker of people's kind of psychological lives as it's revealed through language. Are there practical takeaways based on this area of your research vis-a-vis the first area, which is journaling?

1:08:57In other words, can we look back over what we've written and use the lens that you just described to help us improve in any way? A little bit. Keep in mind that language reflects our psychological state. It doesn't drive our psychological state. In other words, we've done studies where we tell people, okay, I want you to write this using this kind of language. And they can do it, but they don't benefit more than otherwise. But one thing you can look at, you can look at your own emails or text messages over time and you'll see certain things. So for example, people who are depressed or they're heading into a depression, they're shifting their language some.

1:09:45And one of the best markers is the use of these I words, I, me, and my. When people are depressed, they use I words at higher rates than when they're not depressed. And people who are bipolar, who often fluctuate between manic and depressive periods, there have been some interesting Twitter studies showing that in the weeks before they are full-blown depressed, you see this increased use of i words that is a kind of a leading indicator of psychological state now that the differences are subtle and a person might not see it themselves a computer can see it but the point is is that there are mark we all are leaking our psychological state all the time through our use of word are Are there technologies out there, you know, that are commercially available that would allow us to do an analysis of everything we've written on email, Slack, social, et cetera, to tell us if there's any warning signs that we should be paying attention to?

1:10:56I have my own computer program and there's a commercial version of it, but my computer program is called Linguistic Inquiry and Word Count, L-I-W-C. We pronounce it Luke. It doesn't look like Luke, but hey, it's mine. I call it Luke. And so you could, if you just do a Google search, you can find where it is and you can enter text and it can analyze it or you can buy the program. And so there are ways that such programs do exist. I'm just wondering what the profile would be looking at the text of someone who doesn't use I or you and just answers in one word like yes, no, ooh, okay They're deeply disturbed I can't I'm struggling to guess who she could be referencing Jamie I mean, I'd be very concerned about them.

1:12:05Bianca, before we go, any more questions on your side? Not that I can really articulate. I'm just grateful to know more about it, truly. I was a psychology major in college, and I have to say, social psychology was tough for me because it was really difficult to sort of define, categorize, measure things. And this, in many ways, just feels more complete and relatable, at least as a clinical person. So thank you. That's exactly what I wanted to hear. Thank you. Jamie, before we let you go, two questions I ask at the end of every interview. One is, the first is, is there something you were hoping to talk about that we didn't get to?

1:12:58No, I can talk about lots of things. And I think what we did was just fine. Okay. And then the final question is, can you please just list some books you've written and other resources you've put out into the world that you would like listeners to know about? For the language work, I have a book called The Secret Life of Pronouns. It came out about 10 years ago. I've also written and co-written a few books on expressive writing and opening it up by writing it down, words, books like that. So you can just Google my name and go fishing. I also have a website through the University of Texas and there's lots of publications there if you're interested in a racial word.

1:13:44Okay, we'll put links to the website and the books in the show notes so that people, if they want to learn more, can get it. Having said that, this was a delight. You're really fun to talk to. Bianca, as always, you did a great job as well. So thank you both. Thank you. I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thank you, guys. Thank you so much to everybody who worked so hard to make this show. 10 % Happier is produced by Tara Anderson and Eleanor Vasili. Our recording and engineering is handled by the great folks over at Pod People. Lauren Smith is our managing producer. Marissa Schneiderman is our senior producer.

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From the publisher

Writing can reduce overthinking, rumination, and anxiety. Here's what the researcher who pioneered the science suggests.

James Pennebaker is Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. He is known for his early research on expressive writing and health. More recently, he has pioneered ways to study people's personalities and behaviors through the analysis of their language use. His text analysis program LIWC is used across disciplines. Author of over 300 scientific articles and 8 books, his research has affected our understanding and treatment of mental and physical health of people dealing with upheavals in their lives.

This episode first aired in November 2024, and is co-hosted by Dr. Bianca Harris.

In this episode we talk about:

  • The specific form of journaling, called expressive writing or therapeutic journaling, that
    he invented and studied.
  • Other kinds of journaling such as to-do lists and gratitude lists.
  • Why writing things down helps shift our perspective on our stress or trauma.
  • How that can lead to a cascade of benefits, from improved sleep to improved working memory
  • And why Pennebaker, who's a very laid-back dude, is so laid-back about how often we need to journal in order to derive its benefits

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