In Good Health: The Matter Of Male Fertility

18 Jun 2026 · 43 min · 28 chapters

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In short

Male factor infertility—how common it is, what causes it (especially varicoceles), how it’s diagnosed and treated, and the psychological/cultural experience of receiving a male infertility diagnosis. It also covers testosterone use, childhood/genetic risks, environmental questions (plastics/endocrine disruptors), access/cost, and ways to reduce stigma.

Guests and backgrounds

Dr. Paul Shin, urologist specializing in male infertility at Shady Grove Fertility (largest fertility clinic chain). Dr. Bill Petok, psychologist specializing in fertility-related mental health; past chair of ASRM Mental Health Professional Group. Renee Almaling, Yale sociology professor; author of Sex Cells and Gynecology: The Missing Science of Men’s Reproductive Health. Tyler Teza, content creator who publicly documented treatment for a varicocele. Scott Burkholder, whose infertility story was featured in The New Yorker short documentary “The Paws” (and in the episode clip). Peter Proymos, cystic fibrosis advocate; sperm retrieval needed due to missing sperm tube.

Key claims

Male factor infertility contributes to about half of infertility cases; men are less likely to be tested due to stigma and medical-system bias toward women. Varicocele is the most common cause and is treatable; about 60–70% improve sperm count/motility after repair. Testosterone/other hormonal therapies can suppress sperm production; sexual drive/“virility” doesn’t reliably predict fertility. Mumps orchitis, undescended testicles, torsion, and some genetic conditions (e.g., Klinefelter syndrome) can reduce sperm later in life. Plastics/endocrine disruptors are plausible but causality is not established; exposure mitigation may help. Costs: diagnosis often covered; IUI ~$1,000–$2,000 per attempt; IVF ~$15,000–$20,000 per cycle.

Notable examples

Tyler Teza’s varicocele procedure story; a listener describing humiliation around semen sample collection and delayed testing; Scott Burkholder’s grief after unsuccessful sperm retrieval and later family-building via adoption/fostering/surrogacy; Peter Proymos describing CF-related sperm extraction and high cost/access barriers.

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Understanding Male Factor Infertility with Dr. Paul Shin

3:00 to 3:11

Dr. Shin explains male infertility, its causes, and treatment options.

“RWJF is a national philanthropy working toward a future where health is no longer a privilege, but a right.”

Understanding Male Factor Infertility with Dr. Paul Shin

3:15 to 8:30

Dr. Shin explains male infertility, its causes, and treatment options.

“Let's get to the conversation and start with our first guest.”

The Stigma and Testing Process for Male Infertility

8:31 to 12:30

Discussion on the stigma surrounding male infertility and the testing process.

“So it takes about 30 to 45 minutes per side.”

Personal Stories of Infertility

12:31 to 13:06

Listeners share personal experiences with infertility and adoption.

“But there's this whole generation now of specialty care directed at male fertility acknowledging that it's a problem.”

News Highlights: G7 and Global Economy

14:07 to 14:35

Quick news updates from the NPR app about President Trump's activities and their implications.

“This week on Up First from NPR News, President Trump is at the G7 in France and is supposed to sign a peace deal with Iran.”

Comedy Insights with Robert Smigel

14:35 to 15:21

A humorous anecdote shared by Robert Smigel about discovering his comedic talent.

“we asked comedy legend Robert Smigel about the moment he first knew he was funny.”

Cultural Context: World Cup and Conflict

15:21 to 15:47

Discussion about the World Cup's role in promoting peace amidst geopolitical tensions.

“On the next through line from NPR, the story of the World Cup and what happened when a tournament imagined to promote peace landed in a country primed for war.”

Experiencing Male Factor Infertility

16:09 to 16:48

Exploration of emotional responses to male factor infertility diagnoses.

“She's a professor of sociology at Yale University and author of the books Sex Cells, The Medical Market for Eggs and Sperm, and Gynecology, The Missing Science of Men's Reproductive Health.”

Demystifying Male Infertility

16:48 to 17:59

Dr. Shin discusses how to approach sharing infertility diagnoses with patients.

“But generally speaking, how do you see people react to getting a diagnosis of male factor infertility?”

Cultural Silence Surrounding Male Infertility

17:59 to 18:51

Discussion on why men find it challenging to discuss infertility openly.

“You know, it's interesting in popular culture, we have lots of examples of women who share their fertility challenges and their use of IVF or donor eggs or surrogates.”
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Link Between Masculinity and Fertility

18:51 to 19:36

Renee Almaling discusses societal beliefs linking masculinity to fertility.

“And we're not trained to talk about that.”

Testosterone Myths and Reality

19:36 to 20:13

Dr. Shin distinguishes between testosterone levels and fertility outcomes.

“Shen, what does the science tell us about the connection or lack thereof between strength, sex drive, and fertility?”

Impact of Hormones on Male Fertility

20:13 to 21:04

Discussion about how testosterone therapy affects sperm production.

“Well, we're getting questions about testosterone.”

Redefining Masculinity in Fertility Contexts

21:04 to 22:23

Exploring the need to reshape ideas of masculinity related to fertility struggles.

“And yeah, if you get on some testosterone, you'll probably feel great, but what it's doing in the background is really detrimental for your fertility.”

The Social and Cultural Dimensions of Fertility

22:23 to 24:24

A discussion about the social stigmas surrounding male fertility experiences.

“We have to do an awful lot to reduce that sense that masculinity and fertility are somehow related.”

Childhood Illnesses and Male Fertility

24:24 to 25:52

Discussion of how childhood illnesses can impact male fertility later in life.

“One of you asks, would your guests speak on boys who have mumps early in life and its impact?”

Medications Affecting Male Fertility

25:52 to 26:46

Dr. Shin explains how certain medications can impact male fertility.

“My son was born with a testicular hydrosol.”

Scott Burkholder's Infertility Journey

26:46 to 28:00

Scott discusses his personal experience with infertility as featured in a documentary.

“A Brief Contemplation of Scott's Infertility.”

Navigating the Emotional Landscape of Infertility

28:00 to 29:22

Explore the emotional challenges men face regarding infertility and support systems.

“not that they're going to die, but that their future is going to be drastically different than they thought it would be.”

Defining Family Beyond Biology

29:22 to 31:34

Discussion on what constitutes family and the choices made in building one.

“It just feels very different than having your own kid.”

Advice for Men Facing Fertility Challenges

31:34 to 32:02

Insights and advice for men dealing with fertility issues from Scott Burkholder.

“Really briefly, Scott, what advice do you have for other men going through fertility challenges right now?”

Understanding Male Fertility and Klinefelter Syndrome

33:18 to 36:19

A deep dive into the effects of Klinefelter syndrome on male fertility.

“Our investigation has uncovered new evidence and witnesses who say they've never talked to police.”

The Impact of Plastics on Male Reproductive Health

36:19 to 38:49

Discussing the research on plastics and their potential effects on fertility.

“We've gotten several questions from listeners about the connection between microplastics and reproductive health.”

Social Infertility and Access to Reproductive Technologies

38:49 to 42:04

Exploration of social infertility and the access issues faced by diverse families.

“that these things can improve from generation to generation.”

Rethinking Men's Health and Fertility

42:04 to 44:24

Discuss the need for a broader approach to men's health, reproductive health, and fertility.

“We got this from Allie in Pensacola who emailed, I'm amazed.”

Cystic Fibrosis and Male Infertility

44:24 to 45:53

Explore the challenges faced by men with cystic fibrosis regarding fertility and family planning.

“Now, male factor infertility doesn't always come as a surprise.”

Access to Fertility Care

45:53 to 47:26

Examine the disparities in access to fertility care in the U.S. and the costs associated with treatments.

“Well, there is a patchwork of state-by-state regulations.”

Breaking the Taboo Around Male Infertility

47:26 to 48:21

Discuss ways to reduce the stigma surrounding male infertility and improve conversations about it.

“how we can make this part of the conversation just people have about what it means to build a family.”
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0:00This is Ira Glass. On This American Life, one thing we like is a good mystery. Sometimes about really big things, but most times the little mysteries are the best. Our lost and found is currently filled with pants. I don't know. I've never seen this happen. Is this true? This is true. Mysteries of every size, each week, This American Life, wherever you get your podcasts.

0:31When a couple struggles to conceive, the assumption is often that there is something wrong with the woman. Women are evaluated for infertility far more often than men, but male factor infertility accounts for about half of all infertility cases. And when it is the cause, men are less likely to talk about it, seek support, or even get tested in the first place. I'm Jen White. This is the 1A Podcast. Today, for the latest in our series, In Good Health, we're talking about male infertility, what causes it, what can be done about it, and what it's like to go through it. and we share some of your stories along the way.

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1:53When my arm is down and hits my shoulder, that's not. It's those nuances that proved incredibly difficult for machines to be able to handle for a very, very long time. That is until IBM entered the octagon. Listen to Smart Talks with IBM wherever you get your podcasts. Every episode of It's Been a Minute, NPR's What's Happening in Culture podcast starts by asking three questions. Who? How? Why now? If the culture's asking it, we're talking about it. At NPR, we stand for your right to be curious and indulge your cultural curiosity. Follow It's Been a Minute wherever you get your podcasts, and we'll break down the zeitgeisty topics that are filling your feed.

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3:18Dr. Paul Shin joins us in studio. He's a urologist specializing in male infertility at Shady Grove Fertility. That's the largest fertility clinic chain in the country. Dr. Shin, welcome to 1A. Hi, it's super nice to be here. So first, just define male factor infertility for us. What is it? So male factor infertility carries a whole broad array of definitions, but put most succinctly, it's where either a shortage of sperm, either in terms of number or motility, causes a couple to have difficulty with naturally achieved pregnancies. So timed intercourse for six months to a year. And you said it's either the sperm count or motility, and just define motility for us.

4:00Motility is just simply the number of sperm that are actually moving and swimming. The way I kind of put it to patients is sperm have a job to do. They've got this massive Easter egg hunt to go on, and you need as many runners to start the race. How common is male factor infertility? So amongst the couples that we see, as you mentioned, the perception is that fertility is a female-only problem. But the reality of it is, again, you've got two people. It's a problem about 50 % of the time. In your experience, what are some of the most common medical causes? So the most common overall cause of male infertility is actually a very benign testicular condition called varicose veins of the testicle, or what's called a varicocele.

4:41It's something that many men have. They're oftentimes very asymptomatic, and it's the number one thing that we look to address. But other causes from a medical perspective can be anything from certain types of medications to hormones to underlying physical conditions. So it really runs the gamut of a broad array of different health conditions. You mentioned sperm count. How important is that count for fertility? So it's not only the sperm count that's important, but it's the number of sperm that are actually swimming and moving. So you can have all kinds of discrepancies with semen analyses where men have perhaps high sperm counts but lower motility.

5:19But at the end of the day, you want to have as many runners running that race as possible. We got this from Brian in our text club. Have there been any studies showing a link between obesity and issues with fertility? Dr. Shin? Yes. There can be a couple of different issues with being overweight. One of the more obvious issues is that with added body mass and added body fat, it makes the testicles warmer. And your testicles generally don't like to be too warm. They kind of want to be a little cooler than body temperature to operate most efficiently. So there's a body heat metric here. But there's also an endocrine metric or a hormonal metric where many men who are overweight within their fat cells will take testosterone and actually turn it into a form of estrogen called estradiol.

6:05And that conversion is enhanced in men that have added body fat to the point where sometimes that added estradiol can also impact how well a guy makes sperm. What do we know about the effect of lifestyle factors like exercise, drugs, and alcohol? So lifestyle factors are something that patients always ask about. And it's because there's that very human concern of, hey, I want to do something to make my fertility better. And these are the things that I have control over.

6:39So restrained moderate consumption of alcohol, for instance, or even the occasional cigarette or cigar if you're out with your friends is probably not that big of a deal. But higher levels of consumption can certainly be a factor both in terms of tobacco, marijuana, and alcohol. And so there's kind of a usage spectrum there. Well, male infertility has been a taboo topic for a long time, but that's starting to change. Tyler Teza is a content creator and shared a video before his own procedure to treat an enlargement of veins in his scrotum. I'm currently in Atlanta, Georgia for a procedure to help with a fertility issue that I have.

7:17I have a varicocele vein, and what they're going to do tomorrow is tie some of those veins up and allow proper blood flow into my, you know, area. Hopefully that helps with my fertility issues. But I wanted to make this video more for those guys out there that are having issues, whether it's a varicocele or whether it's sperm count or whatever the case is. I want you to know that it's normal. It's not just you. And it happens. When we talk about varicocele, which, again, you said is really the most common thing you see, how treatable is that type of infertility? It's very treatable. And it's almost like we set it up this way.

8:03That's beautiful. But it's the most common thing that we run into. It's one of the most common procedures that we do. And actually, somewhere in the ballpark of 60 to 70 % of men substantially improve their sperm counts and motility after a varicocil repair. The trick is just making the diagnosis because it's super subtle. It doesn't impact puberty. It doesn't change sexual functioning. So it really doesn't cross a guy's radar, usually until there's a problem with fertility. And so what does the procedure entail? How long does it take? So it takes about 30 to 45 minutes per side. The majority of men will have varicose seals, usually only on the left, but we do have some guys that have it on both sides.

8:44And what you're effectively doing is you are stopping the backflow of warm abdominal blood down to the testicle. So all these enlarged veins, like you've seen people with varicose veins in their legs, imagine those veins draped around a testicle, almost like a puffy coat. And so it's a layer of insulation that you're looking to basically thin out and allow for better heat transfer. And so you are basically tying off those veins? Correct. There's a ton of other veins. We're not choking the testicle off or anything, but you're selectively identifying these really abnormal veins. And we use a tiny ultrasound probe and a microscope to help us identify.

9:24And from a cost efficiency perspective, of almost all insurance companies will cover it too. Well, we got this message from another member of the 1A Techs Club. The worst part is providing specimens for testing. It's very humiliating, though I suspect it pales in comparison to what every woman has ever had to go through. Dr. Shin, what does that testing and evaluation process look like? So that is one of the primary complaints that has always plagued the notion of getting a semen analysis is, well, how do you get it? Where do you get it? How do you deliver it in? And then when you walk into a fertility clinic with a small brown paper bag with a container in it, everybody knows what you have in it, right?

10:01So there's a certain amount of stigma or almost shame that goes along with this. And one of the ways that we try to work around this is we have patients produce the sample at home and bring it in. So they can do it in the privacy of their home. They're not struggling to find a public bathroom to do it in or doing it in their car and trying to get it in. And the other real benefit to this is there's been an explosion of available at-home tests. So it provides a measure of discretion. The patient can produce the sample at home and just mail it into some of the companies that, and we work with a few of them.

10:38You know, there are a few limitations with doing that too, but in terms of lowering the barrier to entry, it is a huge plus when guys don't have to confront the whole issue of that interface. Well, here's another message from a member of our text club. My husband was sent to a urologist for fertility issues by my OBGYN. I went with him for support, and when we arrived, I felt the doctor was critical of me for expecting my husband to go through testing. Mind you, this was in 2005 or so, but it was horrifying to me that he implied I was some devil forcing him to do the testing. I ended up having more painful tests.

11:14We never got pregnant. We adopted two beautiful children from foster care and privately. all in good time. Women are often the first to be evaluated sometimes by many months or even years, even though men are statistically just as likely to deal with infertility issues. So, why are men less likely to be tested? I think that goes all the way back to just the way that men interface with the medical system. So, women from a very early age start seeing the doctor. They go to the doctor when they get their period. It's something that happens every month. I mean, can you imagine what would happen if a guy had a period?

11:56It would be kind of the end of the world, right? Well, it would also be a completely different healthcare system, but that's a different conversation. If men had menopause, we would have fixed it 50 years ago, right? Oh, yeah. But in truth, there's this perception that women have to carry babies. Women seem to have more complicated parts, so it's clearly a female problem. And that has its roots not only amongst the patients that we take care of, but amongst providers. People grew up in a medical system that trained them that this is a female fertility issue. This is a female problem. And that's changed.

12:30That paradigm in the last, I'd say, 20 to 30 years, I've got a little gray hair. I've seen this change occur. But there's this whole generation now of specialty care directed at male fertility acknowledging that it's a problem. Another member of the text club writes, My wife and I were told 37 years ago we would never have children. We adopted our son as a baby, and it was wonderful. Five years later, the doctor said my wife was pregnant, and we had a daughter by natural means. What a blessing. After a quick break, we'll hear from someone whose infertility forced him to confront why and whether he wanted to become a parent.

13:06That's in just a moment.

13:11Support for NPR comes from IBM. On Smart Talks with IBM, host Malcolm Gladwell speaks with leaders who are pushing the boundaries of AI and technology in partnership with IBM. Hello, hello. I'm Malcolm Gladwell, host of Smart Talks with IBM. I sat down with Alon Cohen, who leads research and development at UFC, to discuss the complexity of using technology to analyze fight data. With kick to the head, it makes contact with the outset of my arm, which I brought up. In our world, that's a blocked strike. Yeah. But teaching a computer what exactly that means and when and how. Like, when my arm is up, that's a block.

13:53When my arm is down and hits my shoulder, that's not. It's those nuances that proved incredibly difficult for machines to be able to handle for a very, very long time. That is, until IBM entered the octagon. Listen to Smart Talks with IBM wherever you get your podcasts. This week on Up First from NPR News, President Trump is at the G7 in France and is supposed to sign a peace deal with Iran. That deal, if it happens as planned, will have big effects on the global economy and more. and we will track the changes as they unfold. On a week of major geopolitical news, listen to Up First every morning on the NPR app or wherever you get your podcasts.

14:34This week on Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me, we asked comedy legend Robert Smigel about the moment he first knew he was funny. When I was like four or five, I could draw really well. So I could draw Fred Flintstone and Snoopy. And then probably a couple of years later, I started drawing them having sex. Listen to the Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me podcast in the NPR app or wherever you get your podcasts.

15:21at NPR Wildcard. On the next through line from NPR, the story of the World Cup and what happened when a tournament imagined to promote peace landed in a country primed for war. There's obvious reasons why neighboring countries will be rivals. This manifests particularly in football. Listen in the NPR app or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's get back to the conversation and add some more voices as we talk about what it feels like to live through a diagnosis of male factor infertility. Dr. Bill Petok is a psychologist specializing in couples and individuals dealing with fertility issues. He's a past chair of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine's Mental Health Professional Group.

16:06Bill, welcome to the show. It's a pleasure to be here. Thank you. And Renee Almaling is also with us. She's a professor of sociology at Yale University and author of the books Sex Cells, The Medical Market for Eggs and Sperm, and Gynecology, The Missing Science of Men's Reproductive Health. Renee, thanks for joining us. Thanks so much for having me. And we're hearing from you. Amy writes, my husband had a mild issue and the only way to address it was IVF. We were fortunate that it worked and we have two kids, but it was a long, expensive, and stressful process. Bill, you've been working for decades with individuals and couples facing fertility issues And of course, everyone experiences these challenges differently.

16:48But generally speaking, how do you see people react to getting a diagnosis of male factor infertility? Well, I think it's very similar to the way female infertility is experienced in that there's a lot of psychological distress, depression, anxiety, and a reduced quality of life. Those things are all felt and seen in individuals, both men and women. Dr. Shin, how do you approach sharing this news with your patients? I first like to demystify it by telling the couple that they're not a failure. So one of the things that is most rooted in our psyche is think back to what you were told initially when you were learning about sex ed in middle school with your gym teacher awkwardly teaching this to you.

17:33You're told, well, you need to use contraception or else you are going to get somebody pregnant. So the thought process is, well, all I have to do to get pregnant is stop using birth control, and it should happen. And if it doesn't, then I'm some sort of a failure. So it's reemphasizing that this is a very biological phenomenon. This is something that a lot of people go through, but aren't going to put on social media. So it's more prevalent than you think. And there's lots of ways to fix it and address it. It's just facing the demon first. You know, it's interesting in popular culture, we have lots of examples of women who share their fertility challenges and their use of IVF or donor eggs or surrogates.

18:10Michelle Obama, Mariah Carey, Celine Dion, there's just a few of the very high profile women who've shared stories about the fertility struggles. But when it comes to men, there are fewer examples. Bill, why do you think that is? Well, I think it's very difficult for men to talk about this because of shame and guilt and a sense that it's their fault. I mean, we're raised to be problem solvers, and here's a problem you can't solve. Oftentimes, as Dr. Shin indicated, it's nothing that the man did. It's just bad luck. And so when you can't solve it, it's difficult to talk about it. And it's embarrassing.

18:51And we're not trained to talk about that. Yeah. Renee, you're a sociologist. what connection do you see men make between their virility, so how strong, vigorous, and sexual they are, and their ability to conceive children? Yes. Well, there is a very longstanding association between masculinity and virility, sort of the ability to father a child. And as we have had more data come out about sperm counts, then the virility sort of gets quantified and people think about their sperm counts as a measure of their masculinity. And so I appreciate Dr. Shen sort of referencing these, you know, long-standing cultural beliefs, and they go back centuries.

19:36Hey, Dr. Shen, what does the science tell us about the connection or lack thereof between strength, sex drive, and fertility? There really isn't one. A lot of those things that we just mentioned and everything that you would think of in terms of sexual prowess really is more linked to testosterone. and it's two totally separate problems. So you can certainly have men who have little to no sperm, who have completely testosterone, who have completely normal testosterone levels. So the notion that strength or virility or sexual prowess guarantees fertility is really not a thing. Well, we're getting questions about testosterone.

20:15John emailed, as a urologist, I'm seeing more and more men with male factor infertility caused by supplemental testosterone use. Can you please address this? Now, we should mention here that this is part of this sort of looks-maxing movement, and they talk about maximizing testosterone, especially among young men. Dr. Shen, what are you seeing in your practice? We're seeing the same thing, and it's actually the reverse. When you go on some form of external hormone therapy, testosterone, or, you know, we have a fair number of trans patients that also because of higher estrogen levels, it suppresses your body's own need to make testosterone and along with that goes your sperm count.

20:56So it's a subtle thing and it's something that many people prescribing testosterone never even talk to their patients about. And there's this short-term end goal of, as you mentioned, looks maxing. And yeah, if you get on some testosterone, you'll probably feel great, but what it's doing in the background is really detrimental for your fertility. Well, we're seeing popular podcasters like Joe Rogan and Andrew Huberman, also Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr., speaking publicly about their experimentation with testosterone replacement therapy. How much are you having to sort of combat this idea that this is a way to build muscle mass and vigor and that it might be affecting your fertility?

21:41I think a critical part of what I do when I talk to patients about this is just talking about the science. This is why testosterone impacts your fertility, but there are some other alternatives that we can use that both supplement testosterone but also allow you to have your sperm count. So, Bill, in your discussions with individuals or couples experiencing male factor fertility, how much of your work is about sort of rewriting the script around what it means to be masculine or about that individual's role in that partnership? If they feel like, you know, that's being challenged because I'm having issues with infertility.

22:29I think we're doing an awful lot. We have to do an awful lot to reduce that sense that masculinity and fertility are somehow related. And it's a problem because men are not brought up to understand reproductive health very well, as Dr. Shin alluded before. Or when the women are pulled out to talk about menstruation, the boys are pulled out to talk about how not to get somebody pregnant or not to get a sexually transmitted infection. And in fact, what ought to be happening is talking about reproductive health, what one must do to preserve your reproductive health. So stay out of hot tubs, don't use things excessively, be careful about where you work, those sorts of things.

23:17So that's one thing that we do as we talk about how to understand things a little bit differently. Secondly, it's giving men a different definition of what it constitutes to be manly. It isn't necessarily about strength. There are many different ways to define manliness. I mean, Renee, what I'm hearing is that part of this discussion is a cultural one in similar ways as when women are dealing with infertility and these questions about motherhood come up and the role that plays in your life or doesn't or if you choose not to have children, right? That's a very fraught discussion for many people.

23:56But there's something similar happening for men, but it's less public. It's less in the public eye. What do you think we lose when we don't have that discussion in a way that's visible? Oh, yes. Well, I think it's a wonderful question and really allows us to think about the ways that fertility is clinical and it is biological, but it is also deeply social and cultural and psychological. And so when we as a society code reproduction as something that happens in women's bodies, is women's responsibility, is tied to motherhood and femininity, we're missing an entire part of the conversation about how men understand their own reproductive bodies, how they experience their reproductivity, how they think and feel about fertility.

24:48And so, you know, from high school health education classes to, you know, clinical visits with physicians to conversations that men have with their friends, there's not a cultural infrastructure that exists to provide them with the information and support that they need. One of you asks, would your guests speak on boys who have mumps early in life and its impact? Are there other childhood illnesses that affect male fertility? Sure. Mumps is the prime example because young boys can get what's called mumps or chitus, which is essentially mumps inflammation of the testicle. And that is one of the viral mediators that can impact fertility later on down the line.

25:30And fortunately, it's pretty rare, particularly with the level of vaccination that's out there. We just don't have that many kids that get mumps anymore. But other childhood issues can be things that are surgical, testicular torsions, undescended testicles. And then there's the whole suite of other hormonal issues that kids can have that can later on influence fertility. Here's another question we got from Mason who writes, My son was born with a testicular hydrosol. Will that affect his fertility, or is there anything we should look out for when the time comes? No, a hydrocele in and of itself really shouldn't be that big of an impactful factor, but sometimes hydroceles can be associated with an undescended testicle, which can be a bigger deal.

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26:13And here's another question from Ken who writes, you mentioned that certain types of medications can contribute to male infertility. Dr. Shin, can you expound on that a little bit? Which types in particular? The big offender is going to be anything hormonal, particularly testosterone of any variety, whether it's injected or a gel that you put on every day. But there can be other things, like, for instance, chemotherapy. Men who get chemotherapy at a young age for testicular cancer, lymphoma, leukemia, that's another big category of drugs that can really impact fertility. Let's turn now to Scott Burkholder, whose own infertility diagnosis was the subject of the New Yorker's short documentary called The Paws.

26:52A Brief Contemplation of Scott's Infertility. Scott, thanks for joining us. Glad to be here, and thank you for sharing this story. Well, the documentary opens with the night in 2018 when your doctor told you the procedure to retrieve your sperm was unsuccessful. Tell us about that experience of learning that you did not have sperm. I mean, it's still surreal. and I have the opportunity to, in many respects, replay that moment as a result of the documentary. And it still doesn't feel like it's my narrative, but it is. And at this point, I've very much lived it for the past eight years. And it's so contrary to essentially what I thought my life was going to be like.

27:42And I think one of the, having shared the documentary, and communicating with Dr. Harati, who delivered the news that night, he's said in conversations, it's actually probably more challenging to tell a patient not that they're going to die, but that their future is going to be drastically different than they thought it would be. And I think that's exactly that moment that you see in the film. And what I would say I was going through is just surreal. What I hear you alluding to is a type of grief. Did you process that with support? I did. And again, the community around me was a collection of family and friends and church and spiritual support.

28:41and I tend to be a philosophical, thoughtful person. So it was significant for me to share that and go through it with other people and not stand in isolation. But I will say it wasn't that I was a part of a support group, if you will, of men who had gone through infertility. And even to this day, I've maybe talked to, even having this very public story out there, I've probably talked to less than two dozen guys who have gone through it. I want us to listen to a clip from the documentary when you and your wife discuss the possibility of fostering or adopting children. It just feels very different than having your own kid.

29:26And, you know, the examples that I have before me are, within my family, a natural birth. Part of what I hear there is you grappling with this question of what it means to build a family. And what conversations did you and your wife, Jen, have about that and what to do next? I think that's exactly right. If you don't have a biological family, what's a family? And the conversations were, yes, about foster care and adoption and surrogacy and just the litany of other pathways to bringing a child into our home. But in my own pursuits of understanding this and grieving this, just trying to ask that question, well, what is a kid?

30:20You know, what is a child to me? And very much connected to legacy and what I leave behind. And one of the ways that I will impact the future. And so as I looked at it through that lens, recognized children are one of those things, but so is other creative work that I might do, both vocationally and personally, including making the documentary about infertility, interestingly enough. But I think for Jen and I, we've recognized that really what having a child in your home and what a family really is, is yes, there's that biological component, which we weren't going to have. But so much more of it is the people that you are choosing to do life with every day.

31:09And recently someone framed it beautifully and said, you know, it's not so much that you tolerate your partner or your children, but you accept them. And I really think that's what I've come to and what Jen and I have come to is that to have a family is much more about the daily care, acceptance, and love than it is the genetics of it. Really briefly, Scott, what advice do you have for other men going through fertility challenges right now?

31:43Feel what you need to feel and talk to the people around you. Like, let them know. what's going on, what you're aware of. Well, that's Scott Burkholder. His story was the subject of the 2020 documentary, The Pause, a brief contemplation of Scott's infertility. Scott, thank you for joining us. Thank you for having me. We have to take another quick break, but still to come, why are men often absent from the fertility conversation? And what does it say about our society and the field of reproductive health? We'll be right back.

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34:16We got this question about Kleinfelter syndrome. That's a genetic condition affecting males caused by an extra X chromosome. Dr. Shin, how does Klinefelter syndrome affect fertility? So the presence of the extra X chromosome doesn't really impact things early on. So many children go on to develop normally, go through normal puberty. But then in the post-pubertal years into their 20s and 30s have a precipitous drop in testosterone and sometimes sperm making. And so by the time we see these patients in their late 20s, early 30s looking to build families, there's little to no sperm that's being made.

34:54We also got this from Anne who says, please talk about the sexism that is involved in the assumption that it is the woman's fault when a couple can't get pregnant. Renee, I'll come to you on that. Yes. Well, I think the sort of cultural equation of reproduction being most associated with female bodies because of pregnancy and birth has led to a variety of clinical and social and political consequences. Clinically, you know, we've already talked about sort of the relative inattention to male reproductive health in education and in medicine. But it also plays out in sort of everyday conversations about who's responsible for reproduction and who's responsible when reproduction is not possible.

35:41And so, yes, it is completely accurate to define that as sexism. And Bill, how does that show up when you're talking to your patients? Well, frequently, the question of why me comes up. How did this happen to me? Because I believed that infertility was the function of my wife, my female partner. Again, lack of information, lack of understanding, and therefore, a significant hit to one's sense of self and sense of capacity as a man. We've gotten several questions from listeners about the connection between microplastics and reproductive health. A member of our tech club writes, I just watched the documentary, The Plastic Detox, and I am very concerned about the potential impacts of plastics on motility and sperm count.

36:37Is that a real thing? The Plastic Detox is a Netflix documentary that follows several couples with fertility challenges. It's been criticized by some scientists and doctors as drawing a causal link between plastics exposure and infertility for one has yet to be established. Dr. Shin, what does the research tell us so far about plastics, chemical exposure, and fertility, and what questions are still open? So this really came to light probably five or six years ago when there was a Sky is Falling article that said worldwide sperm counts have decreased by 50 to 60 percent over the last 50 years. And the justification for this is we fundamentally haven't changed how we do semen analyses.

37:16And if you look across the studies, yeah, numbers are lower. So the thought is, well, it's too quick to be evolutionary. It's too quick to be genetic. So it clearly has to be something environmental. Now, is that the advent of Wi-Fi and electromagnetic radiation? Is it bisphenol A that's in the plastics? Is it phthalates in the plastics? And it could be some or all of any combination of those things. The problem with the plastic equation is that exposure to plastics and hence what we term endocrine disruptors is something that's almost unavoidable in our society, right? So there are things that you can do.

37:58Don't microwave your food in plastic containers. There's already within the industry a number of non-BPA related things in baby bottles and But, you know, the penetration of it is in almost every aspect of our consumer life. So there are some things that you can control in terms of mitigating usage and exposure. But there's a certain amount of it that you can't really get away from. Are there certain areas of research that you'd like to see expanded around plastics and BPA and its effect on fertility? Sure. Well, one of the fascinating things is that, you know, as much doom and gloom as that carries with it, But these are chemicals that are also non-permanent.

38:41So the human body gets rid of them pretty quickly. Now, the whole issue of microplastics is a different thing, but the endocrine disruptors. And so evidence shows that, yeah, with enough care and removal of these things, that these things can improve from generation to generation. It's just that our generations are 25 years long rather than a mouse, which is one to two years. Well, we've covered, as I said, Luxmaxing on this show. And again, this is the online subculture that focuses on maximizing physical attractiveness, particularly among young men, often though through pseudoscientific methods.

39:15But I wonder, Bill, when you think about things like trying to boost your testosterone through medication, how does that discussion connect to this conversation about control and whether or not you can control your fertility, especially as you're talking to your patients and they're trying to find their way through their struggles with infertility? Well, of course, we're talking about what do you do to optimize health and avoid things which are going to be unhealthy. But I think the conversation about control and loss of control is one that's very important here, because there are things which are beyond the man's control.

39:59Nothing that he has done has caused this. There are other things in your life which are beyond your control, and you can equate some of those. But when you talk about fertility, that's very, very personal. And so how do you resolve that? And it goes back to something that Scott had alluded to, which has to do with becoming a parent and how one becomes a parent. There's one way that we believe growing up is going to happen. We're going to find a partner and create children together. And when that doesn't happen, that's a loss of control. But when you think about parenting, it's more than just the act of procreation.

40:42And in fact, as I tell my patients, parenting is everything that takes place after the baby is born. That's when you're transmitting the important things like values and attitudes and ideas. And that's a result of what you model as a man. And that's what you're transmitting. That's one of the most important things you're transmitting to your child. Renee, what about social infertility? So the term used for single people or same-sex couples and others who need medical assistance to conceive for reasons other than underlying fertility problems. What does the lack of resources for these people say about how our society views parenthood and who has a right to it?

41:24Yeah, well, I think it's really important to recognize that a lot of the discussions around infertility tend to assume a heterosexual partnership. And so the moment that you sort of expand your thinking into couples and individuals beyond that heterosexual sort of assumed dyad, it raises all kinds of questions about who has access to reproductive technologies, what do insurance companies mandate in terms of coverage, how are people going to be treated when And they walk into a fertility clinician's office in order to seek care. And so for LGBT communities who are often very interested in having children and partnering and creating families of all kinds, it's really important to not just limit our discussions of infertility to heterosexual couples.

42:21We got this from Allie in Pensacola who emailed, I'm amazed. I never thought of it until today. But why aren't there doctors for men like OBGYNs for women? I have a son and he only saw general practitioners unless something came up. I mean, Dr. Shin, you kind of alluded to this earlier in our conversation, but do we need to rethink how we approach men's health? So there is a entire society that's focused on men's health medicine. And part of the messiness of it is what constitutes men's health versus general health. So is it blood pressure? Is it cholesterol? Is it sexual functioning? Is it fertility?

42:57And so we are in some state of evolution of figuring that out, but the lines get a little blurry. Well, I think it's interesting because even when we think about OBGYNs, most of that care is built around this idea, Renee, that you are working towards having a child at some point to giving birth. And so when you think about, again, this broader societal cultural question about how we approach medicine more broadly, what questions do you think we need to grapple with? Yeah, well, I think the first thing to note is that the medical specialization and medical knowledge-making around reproduction being focused on women goes back to the 1800s when the medical profession started to take the shape that it takes today.

43:46And so very early on, OBGYN sort of emerged as a subspecialty of medical knowledge, and they kind of hived off fertility and reproduction and made it about women's bodies. And I've written about the various attempts over the last 130 years to create a specialty for male reproductive health. And, you know, it fails outright in the 1890s. It starts to take off a little in the 1960s. And as Dr. Shen noted, there are now some urologists who specialize in male fertility. You can find people starting to kind of focus on male health, but we have nothing that looks like OBGYN and reproductive health for women.

44:24And I think the sort of conclusion that I drew from doing that historical research was, I don't think it would be productive to try to create a separate specialty for male reproductive health, I think we ought to take reproductive health and medicine, which is technically a gender-neutral term, and expand that from women to men to all bodies. All bodies are reproductive bodies. Now, male factor infertility doesn't always come as a surprise. For people with certain medical conditions, it's a known risk. Peter Proymos is a cystic fibrosis advocate, and cystic fibrosis is an inherited genetic disease that causes damage to the lungs, the digestive system, and other organs in the body.

45:04And Pete, like many men with cystic fibrosis, was born missing the tube that carries sperm from the testicles to the penis. But he didn't find out until he was 31 years old. Here's Pete. For 99 % of men with CF, the only way to have a family is a procedure that extracts sperm directly from your body. To have my three kids, we needed fertility care that most families cannot afford or even find. We had to do carrier testing. Luckily, since my wife isn't a carrier, we didn't need to test our embryos. But if she were, we would have had the added cost and step of testing the embryos to ensure I wasn't passing the chronic condition to our children.

45:46Pete has three healthy children, but as he points out, fertility care is not universally accessible in the U.S. Renee, why is that? Who has access? Well, there is a patchwork of state-by-state regulations. There is a patchwork of insurance coverage depending on where you get your insurance, who it covers, what it covers. And so like so many aspects of medical care in the U.S., this is not a coherent, rational system based on somebody making decisions somewhere, but really is rooted in these sort of insurance and state-based regulations and federal regulations. And so some people end up having really wonderful coverage, but the vast majority of people do not, and it's extremely expensive.

46:29So it does put it out of reach for many people. Dr. Shin, with the understanding that every patient is different, what is the range of cost associated with both diagnosis and treatment of male factor infertility? So interestingly, most insurances will cover the diagnostic aspect of it because there can be other health conditions or medical problems that are associated with it. Where the rubber necessarily doesn't meet the road is the paying for the treatment. So in general, if you're looking at doing artificial insemination or what's called IUI, It's in the$1 ,000 to$2 ,000 per attempt range. But IVF, with the added cost of medicines and procedures, can be for a single cycle in the$15 ,000 to$20 ,000 range, depending on where you live and how much medicine you need.

47:12So I just want to mention here that we have about a minute left, and we are getting many more questions than we have time to answer. So we'll have to return to this subject in a future in good health. But I just want us to wrap up with asking each of you what you think we can do to make this subject less taboo. how we can make this part of the conversation just people have about what it means to build a family. Dr. Shin? I think it boils down for me to openness and accountability, right? The openness to talk about it and not be ashamed of it. It's as much a medical problem as a broken leg is, but also some accountability on the male counterpart's behalf, right?

47:48Accepting that, hey, you know, this is a parenting and creating an embryo and making a baby is a two-part equation, and I'm part of that. Bill, your thoughts? I would agree completely. I think the more we talk about it, the more visible it is, the more we demystify and destigmatize it, the better off men will be. Renee? And I would just add there's a lot of different people who can talk about it, from clinicians to health educators to public messaging campaigns to fertility apps. There's a lot of different places we can build these conversations into our society. Well, thank you all for being part of this conversation.

48:24That's Renee Almaling, a professor of sociology at Yale and author of several books about male reproductive medicine. Also with us today, Bill Petock. He specializes in treating individuals and couples struggling with infertility. And Dr. Paul Shen, he's a urologist at Shady Grove Fertility. And we always love hearing your stories and questions. So to get your voice heard on the show, download our app, 1A Vox Pop. It's an easy way to record a message to us in near-studio audio quality. You can find it wherever you get your apps. Today's producer was Claire Mufson. This program comes to you from WAMU, part of American University in Washington, distributed by NPR.

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When a couple struggles to conceive, the assumption is often that there is something wrong with the woman. Women are evaluated for infertility far more often than men. 

But male factor infertility accounts for about half of all infertility cases. And when that’s the case, men are less likely to talk about it, seek support, or even get tested in the first place.  

In this installment of our “In Good Health” series, we talk about male infertility — what causes it, what can be done about it, and what it’s like to go through it.

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