Messages and Threats

16 Oct 2025 · 46 min · 27 chapters

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In short

The May 5, 2009 triple murder of Sherry Coleman and her two sons, Garrett (11) and Gavin (9), in Columbia, Illinois, and how police linked the crime to death threats, spray-painted messages, and Christopher Coleman’s alleged affair.

Guest backgrounds

Detective Sgt. Justin Barlow (Columbia, IL Police; also a neighbor who first responded). Maureen Maher (reporter/host). Nick Pister (CBS News consultant who followed the case). Prosecutor Ed Parkinson (lead prosecutor). Detective Shannon Halstead (St. Petersburg, FL; interviewed Tara Lentz). Defense attorneys John O’Gara and Bill Margulis (represented Chris Coleman). Tara Lentz (witness; Chris’s alleged girlfriend/affair partner).

Key claims

Threats escalated from emails to hand-delivered notes; the killer left “Manson-style” spray paint messages (“punished,” “you have paid,” “I will kill your wife and children in their sleep”). Police say Coleman staged the scene, had incriminating handwriting matches, and threats originated from his laptop account. They also say he lied about the affair; Tara testified divorce had to happen first.

Notable examples

Open basement window/no forced entry; missing recorder; spray paint remnants on Garrett’s sheet; scratches on Coleman’s arms; threats typed on his laptop; October 21, 2008 photo contradicting affair start date.

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Chapters

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The Discovery of a Crime Scene

0:14 to 1:04

A neighbor discovers a disturbing scene at the Coleman home.

“A monster, I mean monster comes to mind.”

The Homicide Investigation Begins

1:04 to 2:56

Details emerge about the family's murder and the investigation that follows.

“After that, I went from the front of the house to the basement area.”

Community Impact and Initial Reactions

2:56 to 3:46

Members of the community express their shock and sorrow after the murders.

“A mother and her two sons had been strangled in their sleep.”

The Coleman Family Background

3:46 to 4:50

Exploration of the Coleman family's life before the tragedy.

“Tonight on 48 Hours, the writing on the wall.”

Threats Against Chris Coleman

4:50 to 7:27

Examining the death threats received by Chris Coleman leading to the tragedy.

“This crime scene, it wasn't bloody, but that didn't mean it was less gruesome.”

Escalation of Threats and Proactive Measures

7:27 to 11:11

How the threats escalated and the measures taken by the Coleman family.

“The bodies of Sherry Coleman and her son's...”

Community Mourning and Remembrance

13:08 to 14:00

Reflecting on the community's mourning and memories of the Coleman family.

“there'd be a heart for mercy that would come towards whoever that poor soul is that went to this extreme and that Columbia could begin to heal again.”

The Impact of Loss

14:00 to 14:40

Friends and family reflect on Sherry's life and the loss they feel.

“Close friends like Kathy LaPlante were crushed.”

Children's Influence

14:40 to 15:14

Discussion on Sherry's sons and their personalities.

“You know, Garrett was more quiet and more of a thinker.”

Early Investigation Challenges

15:14 to 18:14

Police investigate threats and interview potential witnesses.

“their best lead finding whoever wrote those threats we tracked down people across the country who didn't like Joyce Meyers and we interviewed them to find where they were at on May the 4th and May the 5th.”
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The Affair Revelation

18:14 to 19:56

In-depth look at Chris's relationship with Tara and its implications.

“That's because the information Halstead gained from Tara about the relationship was very different than what Chris was telling police in Illinois.”

Community Response

19:56 to 21:15

The community's reaction to the murders and memorial efforts.

“Chris's parents, Pastor Ron Coleman and his wife Connie, were stunned to learn their son had had an affair.”

Suspicion Grows

21:15 to 23:03

Police find evidence that raises suspicion about Chris Coleman.

“Megan Turnbow says it's a fitting tribute, unlike the funeral service at Pastor Coleman's church.”

Evidence Against Chris

23:03 to 24:28

Examination of evidence collected that points to Chris's guilt.

“Sherry was involved in an altercation before she was murdered.”

Handwriting Evidence

24:28 to 26:08

Police match handwriting found at the crime scene to Chris's samples.

“The Coleman's insist it is all a coincidence.”

Building the Case

26:08 to 27:51

Prosecutors detail their lengthy efforts to build a case against Chris.

“Finally, two weeks after the murders, police felt they had enough to make their case.”

Overview of the Case

28:00 to 28:33

Learn about the complex details of the Coleman murder case.

“The murders of Sherry Coleman and her two young boys were a big case for local media as well.”

Trial Preparations and Personal Testimonies

28:33 to 29:39

Explore the challenges faced by the prosecution and key testimonies.

“How do you get that much hatred for a child?”

Affair and Marital Strain

29:39 to 30:36

Discover the dynamics of Coleman's marriage and affair.

“Sherry told her friends a different story.”

The Murder Timeline

30:36 to 32:21

Understand the events leading to the tragic murders on May 5th.

“If he would have been having an adulterous affair while he was still married, then it could have definitely affected his job.”

Evidence and Defense Strategies

32:21 to 33:39

Examine the evidence presented during the trial and the defense's stance.

“all the time, constantly, and that they often professed their love for each other.”

Threatening Letters and Their Implications

33:39 to 35:40

Learn about the threatening messages linked to Coleman.

“Another double-edged sword in trying to use the fingerprint.”

The Chilling Surveillance Footage

35:40 to 36:54

Watch the unsettling moments before the murders captured on video.

“But after analyzing the blood red paint and those frightening messages on the walls, they believe they just might have something close to it.”

Jury Deliberations and Reactions

36:54 to 38:56

Analyze the jury's complex deliberations and emotional responses.

“The first vote inside that jury room was 7 to 5.”

The Verdict and Its Aftermath

38:56 to 40:50

Reflect on the verdict and Chris Coleman's denials of guilt.

“Chris Coleman, in this case, guilty on all three of these counts.”

Impact on Friends and Family

40:50 to 42:00

Discover how friends and family cope with the tragedy and seek to honor the victims.

“So if he didn't murder his family, who did?”

Reflections on a Tragic Event

42:00 to 42:15

Listeners will hear poignant reflections on the loss and tragedy faced by young lives.

“The boys had their whole life ahead of them.”
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Transcript

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0:14May 5th is the day that's going to stick with the men and women of this police department their entire careers. A monster, I mean monster comes to mind. Somebody with no soul. This was a promising family, a great family. I got the phone call from my neighbor, Christopher Coleman, probably around 10 to 7 in the morning. He told me that he was on his way home from the gym. He was crossing the JB Bridge. He said, I'm calling Sherry. You know, nobody's answering the phone. She should be up. Tell him, hey, okay, I'll go over and check. I'm going to get somebody over there. He was concerned from the threats that they've been receiving that he reported to us.

0:55My name is Justin Barlow. I was a detective sergeant for the Columbia, Illinois Police Department. I also happen to be a neighbor.

1:03I went to the front door just looking in. I couldn't see anything. After that, I went from the front of the house to the basement area. This is the basement of the home where we found an open window. Came in through the hallway here, up the steps. and the steps basically went into the kitchen. The first thing I remembered was the smell of spray paint. We turned to the left here and saw the message that was left. A lot of helter-skelter type of message. Manson-style spray paintings on the wall.

1:44Saying punished, it started with email threads. Move to written threats.

1:56Police were involved. When I read the letter, it was very specific about killing the family. I will kill your wife and children in their sleep. Then we started going up the staircase to the bedroom, the second floor of the house. And then as you're walking up the steps, this message here, you have paid. this is leading to what you're going to find upstairs. It wasn't going to have a good outcome. And at the top of the stairs we found the three bedrooms. To the left of the staircase was the master bedroom where we found Sherry Coleman. To the right was a bedroom of Garrett, where he was found in his bed.

2:39And Gavin, we found him in the third bedroom. all three deceased. It was a homicide scene. We have an active death investigation, who's responsible, why it happened, when it happened. If you don't believe in evil, I hope you do now. A mother and her two sons had been strangled in their sleep. This touched an entire community. They took it very personal, and that's something that you'll never forget as a reporter. We're following leads. We have leads in this case. We thought with the prior threats that was going to be a very good lead for us, who had such hatred for Chris Coleman. That's where our investigation was going to start.

3:31This is Columbia. Innocent women and children will get murdered and they're bad at night.

3:46I'm Maureen Maher. Tonight on 48 Hours, the writing on the wall.

4:15On the morning of May 5th, 2009, Christopher Coleman returned home from the gym to a scene of chaos and unimaginable horror. I told them, hey, they didn't make it, being the family. And we walked him outside through the garage. He sat down on the driveway and started sobbing, said he felt like he was going to throw up. and then kind of curled up in the fetal position. Detective Justin Barlow of the Columbia Police Department had been the Coleman's neighbor for five years and was the first to respond when Chris could not reach his wife. This crime scene, it wasn't bloody, but that didn't mean it was less gruesome.

5:00Were you at all prepared for what you were about to walk into? I don't think anybody could be prepared for that.

5:09Upstairs, where they should have been safe in their beds, were 31-year-old Sherry and the couple's two young boys, 11-year-old Garrett and 9-year-old Gavin. What is the lasting image you have in your mind from that day? I would say the one that sticks out the most would probably be Garrett, just because he's the one that, you know, I discovered. Is that a haunting image for you, even as a police officer? Yeah, a little bit. The killer had not only taken Garrett's life, but had desecrated the body by leaving another disturbing message. The spray paint in his room was actually on the sheet that was over his body.

5:54It was, and there were some remnants of the spray paint on him as well. We knew that this case was going to be probably the biggest one of our lives. Columbia, Illinois is a small, quiet suburb outside of St. Louis. A wonderful place to live and raise a family. And Chief Joe Edwards immediately recognized that his two investigators were going to need some help. So we called in a special unit. We're doing all we can to find out what happened in this house. Major Jeff Connor and the Major K-Squad, which brought in an army of 25 seasoned cops. It's typically your smaller departments that need the resource, need the help.

6:45Hours after the murders, the Major K-Squad swung into high gear. The CSI team started processing the house. Warrants were secured to go through the Coleman's phones and computers, while a very distraught Chris was taken to the police station to give his statement.

7:07Let's do everything we can for this man. Coleman told investigators that it had been a normal morning. What time did you leave your house to go to the gym this morning? He got up and left for the gym around 5.40 a.m. and called Sherry numerous times to wake her up. And you called her again at 6.35 a.m., 6.43, 6.52 a.m. The bodies of Sherry Coleman and her son's... As neighbors woke to the news of the murders... ...were discovered shortly before 7 Tuesday morning. They were both devastated and terrified. So as I got down the street, I had seen that it was at the Coleman house. And I texted her right away and said, is everything okay?

7:52and I didn't get a response.

7:58Vanessa Rigorex, who lived down the street, said the Colmans appeared to have a perfect life, raising their two beautiful sons. I always thought of them as the American family, the perfect family. Everybody would want their children like these two boys, polite, always helpful. They had a heart of gold. The couple had been married for 12 years and met when they were both in the military training at the canine unit. Sherry became a stay-at-home mom. 32-year-old Chris, the son of a preacher, used his marine and security experience to land a job for a well-known televangelist Joyce Meyer and the devil fills our minds with junk Joyce Meyer is now known throughout the country and known throughout the world as a leading voice in the evangelical movement Jesus died to set us free and pretty successful organization financially she's extremely successful financially I've seen figures from 50 to 100 million dollars a year reporter Nick Pister followed the case for two years and is a CBS News consultant.

9:18Don't ever let the devil steal from you. Joyce Meyer travels all throughout the world. There's conferences in countries that don't necessarily respond well to women who are preaching a Christian message. And so she wanted some deeper security. But being Joyce Meyer's head of security apparently put a target on Chris Coleman's back. In November 2008, Chris had begun receiving death threats to his work email. Whenever Chris Coleman reported the first death threat, he came to us at the police department. Tell Joyce to stop preaching the bull, it read, If I can't get to Joyce, then I will get to someone close to her.

10:01We give the Coleman family extra patrol, which we just give it special attention to make sure nobody's there. It was in January 2009 that a hand-delivered threat showed up in the mailbox at the Coleman family home. It read, deny your God publicly or else. No more opportunities. Time is running out for you and your family. Did it concern you as a neighbor living so closely when you heard that there were death threats being made to the guy who lived across the street? Absolutely. Each note seemed to escalate the seriousness of the situation. And on April 27th, less than a week before the murders, a final missive arrived with an ultimatum.

10:45Stop today or else. I know your schedule. You can't hide from me forever. I'm always watching. I know when you leave in the morning and I know when you stay at home. You decided to ramp things up yourself to be proactive. And what did you do at your house? We got one camera mounted up in my five-year-old's bedroom and pointed it right at the mailbox. With the camera aimed directly at the Coleman's mailbox, the Coleman residence lived about 214 feet approximately. They hoped to get a clear shot of whoever was leaving the notes. Be prepared for something that was going to happen and be as proactive about it as we could.

11:23Instead, days later, the killer somehow snuck into the Coleman home. and strangled Sherry, Garrett, and Gavin. But if the murders were linked to the threats and Joyce Meyer Ministries, that meant the cops might now be in a global search for suspects. There was a lot of fear that there was somebody out there killing families and who was going to be next.

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13:36This touched an entire community. The neighbors were shocked. They saw the young boys playing fudge football with their father on the front lawn. These were little boys that they knew. You could just see the pain on everyone's face. It devastated the community. The small town of Columbia, Illinois, was reeling with the sudden loss of Sherry, Garrett, and Gavin Coleman. Close friends like Kathy LaPlante were crushed. Sherry was a loving mother, loyal friend, and sister to me. My life's not the same, but a hole in my heart. If I would have known for one millisecond she was in danger, I would have been down there.

14:24For Sherry's brother Mario and their mother Angela, it was impossible to accept the reality of the brutal crime. She grew up to be a beautiful person on the outside as well as on the inside. They were her world, those boys. They were her world. You know, Garrett was more quiet and more of a thinker. You could tell by looking in his eyes, he was only thinking. And Gavin was? very he was very outgoing he was a very he's like a social butterfly his personnel is just like his mom's just like his mother's with Sherry Garrett and Gavin I mean I think that just that that's what the motivation was for everybody hours into the investigation the major case squad continued to pursue their best lead finding whoever wrote those threats we tracked down people across the country who didn't like Joyce Meyers and we interviewed them to find where they were at on May the 4th and May the 5th.

15:27And that morning, they were hoping Chris might be able to point them in the right direction. You suspect, I mean, out of all these emails and things you've been talking about, where there's got to be one person that stands out in your mind. I don't have any clue. I wish I knew if I had just been there this morning. But as police continued to talk to Coleman, they were surprised by how he was acting. How do you think they died? No idea. You guys haven't told me. Okay. Do you have any clues?

16:05Did he ever ask how his wife and children died? He never asked? No. What else sticks out in your mind from those first few hours? Just the lack of reaction. I mean, just the lack of curiosity of what's going on. So police kept probing. Was there a problem in your relationship? Was there anything currently that wasn't going so well in your relationship? Not really. I mean, it was the communication thing. Had you seen anyone else outside of your wife in an romantic way? No. Chris was adamant that he was not having a relationship outside of his marriage. So it seemed odd when he offered a stunning piece of information about another woman.

16:57Tara in Florida that you guys might have talked to. And I've talked to her a ton lately. And what's with that? Just a friend somebody talked to. Tara is Tara Lentz, a cocktail waitress and an old high school friend of Sherry's. You said you had a close friendship. But were you actually doing anything that you felt wouldn't be approved by your wife? Some of the conversations, probably. Coleman insisted they were just friends, that he met Tara through Sherry when their family went to Florida on vacation. Did I have the potential to go for that?

17:46No, I didn't want to do that to my kids.

17:52But during the interview, the Major K-Squad contacted police in Tara's hometown of St. Petersburg, Florida, to check out Chris's story. Channel clear. Detective Shannon Halstead got the call. We went from the station to go make contact with her, thinking it was going to be a quick 20-minute interview, and it ended up being very different. That's because the information Halstead gained from Tara about the relationship was very different than what Chris was telling police in Illinois. She provided the Blackberry and the laptop computer, obviously had files of videos and emails. relating to their relationship.

18:33Did you immediately step out and call St. Louis? I did. And what did you say to them? I said, I'm not positive, but I think this is his girlfriend. Armed with that information, Detective Barlow confronted Chris. The one thing that I did want to tell you right now is the St. Petersburg Homicide Unit is talking to Taryn right now. And she showed us the pictures that you sent her on with YouTube. We know you guys have been having an affair. So was that a pretty big break for you guys? It was an important piece. Investigators learned the couple had begun seeing each other in the fall of 2008, six months before the murders.

19:14During the affair, Chris would fly Tara to meet him at locations where he was working for Joyce Meyer. Are you with me so far? I know you guys went to Hawaii together. We pulled the Enterprise leasing cars, which is where you guys went on different trips together, right? This is just something. Well, any other thing to... I didn't think it was an affair. You didn't think it was an affair? Because she's told... An affair is when you're living with them and you're going to get married and everything. She had on her calendar a scheduled wedding to Chris Coleman, scheduled vacations, different accounts, credit card accounts that they held together.

19:49And I think she, honest to God, believed that he was going to leave his wife and two children. Chris's parents, Pastor Ron Coleman and his wife Connie, were stunned to learn their son had had an affair. But they insisted it had nothing to do with the murders. He's always been a real gentle person. Kind of quiet. Is there any way that there's a part of Chris that you don't know that could have been capable of this? Not in my view. You couldn't put something around your kid's throat unless you're a monster. Yeah, you'd have to. It's just not there. While investigators believed Chris' affair with Tara Lentz was a strong motive for murder, there still wasn't enough evidence to charge him.

20:34So after six long hours, Chris Coleman walked out a free man. It wasn't like we were wanting to believe that Chris is the one who did this. It's just that the evidence kept pointing to him.

20:56The memorial in their subdivision is awesome. There's a bench and there's trees. Every day, friends and neighbors are reminded of the beautiful lives that were stolen from them. The community got together and created that, so they wanted to do something positive. Megan Turnbow says it's a fitting tribute, unlike the funeral service at Pastor Coleman's church. No friends, no family, no coaches. Nobody spoke about these three awesome people that were dead. In the days that followed the service, any sympathy for Chris Coleman was stripped away as news spread about his affair with Sherry's high school friend, Tara Lentz.

21:42Well, when the affair came out and I had no idea and I heard about it from someone else, I felt like every day I was just getting stabbed in the heart by these little pieces of information. Did you think he was going to be arrested? Yes, and I couldn't wait. I was nervous, to be honest with you. The major K-Squad felt that pressure. Obviously, in any case, you want to get the person responsible for it, but you want to get the right person. But right away, there were red flags. police were concerned when they found a basement window open and others unlocked. Here's a guy whose family is being threatened.

22:26They're going to destroy his family while he's gone, but yet that window was left unlocked and it was obvious it was left unlocked because there was no forced entry. And remember that camera Detective Barlow installed in his house? You saw no strangers walking up and down the street. You saw no strange vehicles. And Chris had even installed his own surveillance cameras in his house. What about the surveillance equipment that was allegedly in the house? The recorder was missing. That's convenient. Yes. An autopsy on Sherry revealed that she fought violently with her killer, leaving her with two black eyes.

23:06Sherry was involved in an altercation before she was murdered. Those two boys weren't. which made scratches found on Chris Coleman's arms all the more suspicious. When did you first notice the scratches on his arms? It was brought to my attention by people at the scene. How you doing? I mean, is there anything I can get you freezing? Yeah. Okay. Police say Coleman tried to hide them during his interview. You can see on the video where he's asking for a blanket because he says he's cold. The only part of his body he covers up are the suspected marks on his arm. That'll work, won't it? Yes, I can't.

23:45I can't cover my arms up. I'll freeze it. I remember in the interview room it being very warm in that. Did you think he was in shock? No. Chris later claimed he got those scratches the day before, when he was removing a satellite dish from his roof. Was there any DNA found at the scene that would implicate him? I'll just say there wasn't any DNA found that didn't belong there. No Boogeyman, no unidentified DNA, anything like that. There was incriminating evidence found on Chris' phone and computers, starting with X-rated snapshots and videos that Tara and Chris had sent each other. It was a serious affair.

24:28He had written down her measurements, her favorite things, everything about her he had stored so he could you know buy her things or do whatever for her by November 5th of 2008 Chris had written on his computer that that was the day Tara changed his life for police that date would set off alarm bells and how many days after that then did the threats start to show up. About nine days after that. Nine days. The Coleman's insist it is all a coincidence. It's my understanding that he had written down November 5th, the day Tara changed my life, that they had exchanged promise rings, and that he had even written down the name of their first child were to be a little girl.

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25:16Is that true? That's not Chris. Honestly, I cannot imagine him doing that with anybody. He just didn't really operate in that arena of emotions. He just didn't. He was just very common, logical sense. Chris's parents believe their son is innocent and that it was an intruder who killed his family and left hateful messages. In fact, Chris even voluntarily provided samples of his own handwriting to police. What was the most important piece of evidence at the crime scene? At the crime scene, probably the handwriting on the walls. But those samples would later come back to haunt him. The crime scene lad coming back and saying that the handwriting found on the wall matches up to the handwriting exemplar that Christopher Coleman gave at the Columbia Police Department.

26:08Finally, two weeks after the murders, police felt they had enough to make their case. and Christopher Coleman was charged with the first-degree murder of his wife and two sons. If it was another time, they would have had pitchforks and lanterns in their hand. They were out for vengeance. They wanted this case solved, and they wanted it solved immediately, and they wanted him to be found guilty immediately. Were you there when he was arrested? Yes. It was at night. The worst scenario. We've lost three. We've lost Garrett and Gavin and Sherry and now Chris is gone. Sherry's friends and neighbors were relieved, but angry at the toll it had taken on them and their children.

27:00I've talked to some of the moms and the children in the community, wonder if their dad could do the same thing. and investigators insist all this pain was caused by chris coleman's obsession and all because of a woman i believe that had a major part of it

27:32His crime was about greed, sex, selfishness, and narcissism. Chris Coleman decided he wanted a new life, and his family was in the way. He was obviously a monster who carried out a very sadistic plan. By the time Chris Coleman went on trial in April 2011, Prosecutor Ed Parkinson and his team had spent two years building their case. This was a huge case. This was like a 10 ,000-piece puzzle. The murders of Sherry Coleman and her two young boys were a big case for local media as well. It's the latest documents filed by prosecutors. All the pre-trial publicity prompted the judge to bus in a jury from a county an hour and a half away.

28:25What was the biggest challenge for you as a prosecutor in this case? People who turn out to be jurors have to accept the fact that parents kill their kids. It's just hard to accept it. He just looked like a good guy. How do you get that much hatred for a child? As unthinkable as it was, at every corner, investigators had turned up more evidence against Coleman. Some of it came from Sherry's own friends, who were determined to have their day in court. What was it like waiting for the two years for the trial? It was life-changing, and not for the better. How did you feel about testifying? I was scared to death.

29:08I was like, I'm going to do this for Sherry. Coleman, sporting a new hairdo and a bulletproof vest at his trial, would hear those friends bolster the prosecution's claim that he had lied about his marriage in his interrogation. We talked about it a while back, about possibly maybe splitting up or something, and we started meeting with actually one of the pastors from Choice of Truth. Things have been going awesome. Coleman insisted that he and his wife had merely hit a few bumps in the road and were helped by counseling. Sherry told her friends a different story. She was in my room and she was crying and Chris wanted to leave her.

29:51And then he would start to say hurtful things like, I never loved you. But Sherry wasn't willing to let him go. And he would put on a face in front of the marriage counselor. and Sherry said when he got back home he'd yell at her and, you know, it would just be hell to pay. Prosecutor Parkinson says there's a reason Coleman wanted Sherry to be the one to divorce him. I believe he became so enraptured by Tara Lentz, but he couldn't get divorced in his own mind because then he'd lose his$100 ,000 job a year with Joyce Meyer Ministries. They frown on divorce if it's your fault. Parkinson believes Coleman was hoping to make a clean break before anyone caught on about the affair.

30:34In a videotaped deposition, Joyce Meyer confirmed her ministry's zero tolerance of adultery. If he would have been having an adulterous affair while he was still married, then it could have definitely affected his job. But eventually Sherry did find out her husband was having an affair with her best friend from high school. Sherry opened up her computer one night with a friend and said, do you want to see the woman who's having an affair with my husband? And showed images of Tara Lentz. But Sherry still refused to get divorced. And something she said to her friend Kathy LaPlante will haunt her forever.

31:18When he came home demanding a divorce, she told me that if anything happened to her, Chris did it. Several months later, Sherry and the boys were dead. What do you think the trigger was that made it May 5th? I think Tara was pressing him. I think he just got pushed into his own corner. They had wedding dates planned. And Chris had told Tara that he was serving Sherry with divorce papers on May the 5th, the day of the homicides. And had he ever filed divorce papers? Not that we found her, no. Did he ever speak to an attorney? No. After hearing all about this other woman, the jury would finally get to meet her.

32:01It was the most anticipated moment of the trial. Tara Lentz making her entrance under police escort. She arrived at the courthouse almost like a Hollywood star arriving somewhere. It was a packed courtroom gallery. Tara testified that she and Coleman talked or texted, quote, all the time, constantly, and that they often professed their love for each other. When asked whether she and Coleman had plans to marry, her short answer spoke volumes. Quote, the divorce had to happen first. Do you think that Tara had anything to do with the murders? No, I don't. And you don't think she had any idea that something was about to happen?

32:44Nope, not from any of the evidence. I don't believe that. But the prosecutor does believe Coleman's lust for Tara had everything to do with it. And to drive his point home, he showed the court the sexually explicit videos and photos the two sent to each other. We said, Lord, please help us. We don't have to look at this. But please help us sit here for his sake, that he doesn't feel that we're ashamed of him. Now, instead of embarking on an exciting new life and keeping his six-figure income, Chris Coleman was facing the death penalty. Did you kill your wife and your children? No, absolutely not.

33:38Chris Coleman had a prominent local defense team at his side when he went on trial for his life. Another double-edged sword in trying to use the fingerprint. But John O 'Gara and Bill Margulis had to admit they faced an uphill battle. The evidence was, although all circumstantial, it was very overwhelming. And at trial, one of the most critical pieces of evidence would be time of death. The prosecution maintains the three victims were killed hours before Coleman left the house to go to the gym. The bodies were stiff. They had rigor mortis that everything pointed that they were dead by at least 3 o 'clock in the morning.

34:23It could have been the whole case, quite frankly. The defense insists that Sherry, Garrett, and Gavin could have been killed that morning, during the hour and ten minutes that Coleman was gone. You know, you can use various formulas. You know, the time of death is not an exact science. As investigators kept building their case, something was troubling them about that trail of threatening letters and emails. It read, if I can't get to Joyce, then I will get to someone close to her. We didn't find anybody else who had received messages that were threatening to their family. The prosecution's computer experts discovered there was a good reason for that.

35:06Those threats were typed on his laptop. The email threats that came to him originated from his own laptop. Those threats were sent from an account called destroychris at gmail.com. Defense attorney Bill Margulis insists someone else could have sent them. Anybody that had access to his computer, whether it was a co-worker or anybody else, could have created that account. The investigators still had no so-called smoking gun, no DNA, no murder weapon, and no eyewitness. But after analyzing the blood red paint and those frightening messages on the walls, they believe they just might have something close to it.

35:53One can of that exact spray paint was purchased at a local hardware store, and the computerized signature said Christopher Coleman. You cannot paint that much without paint being somewhere on you. They literally cut him to the quick. He pulled his own hair out for them. there was not a trace of paint. But if Coleman was the killer, he had made this scene on the surveillance video recorded the afternoon before the bodies were discovered all the more chilling. It's a perfect suburban scene. He played catch with his son at the house, and then the next morning, they're dead. It's unexplainable. Chris Coleman did not take the stand.

36:48I didn't want to believe that he could do that. I cried myself to sleep. In a case that was gut-wrenching for everyone involved, it turns out the jury was no exception. Absolutely unimaginable. I mean, there's just so much hate. It's just hatred spread everywhere.

37:09The first vote inside that jury room was 7 to 5. Not guilty. But not because they believed Coleman was innocent. We all thought he did it. Who else would have done it? But many of the jurors were troubled by the circumstantial nature of the case. You wanted factual, tangible evidence that said he did it. Make him prove it. As the deliberations entered a second day, crowds began to gather outside the courthouse, the tension mounting. But Sherry's mother remained optimistic. We will get justice for my daughter and for my grandsons. I have what they call the mother instinct. I'm very confident. Incredibly, it was the jurors' own detective work that they say pushed them over the top.

38:05When they looked at the back of this picture of Chris Coleman and Tara Lynn's kissing, they noticed it was taken on October 21st, 2008. I think actually what I said was, oh my God. And I said, what was the date that he said the affair started? Yeah, the dates didn't match. Which wasn't until November. November. November, and the picture was created in October. way before they said they had been seeing each other. And what did that say to you? That was something black and white in front of my face that said, if he could lie about this, he's lying about everything. After 15 hours of deliberations, there is a verdict in the Chris Coleman triple murder trial.

38:54The verdict was guilty. Chris Coleman, in this case, guilty on all three of these counts. and the crowd outside the courthouse erupted in applause and cheers.

39:13I had never seen anything like what happened on the lawn of the courthouse that night. The verdict was handed down on May 5, 2011, two years to the day that Sherry, Garrett, and Gavin were found murdered. I walked out of the courtroom and first words out of my mouth, yes, we did it. We got justice. The judge sentenced Coleman to life in prison, in part because the state of Illinois' repeal of the death penalty was just months away from taking effect. Did you kill your wife and your children? No, absolutely not. We spoke to Chris Coleman by phone because our cameras were not allowed inside the prison.

39:55I absolutely love my wife and my kids, and this, you know, is not me. How do you love your wife and be having an affair with one of her best friends? Maybe I wasn't, you know, selfishly getting what I thought I should be getting at home as far as with my wife, you know, from the physical side of things, but I still absolutely loved her. Coleman denies he was planning to divorce Sherry to marry his mistress, Tara. So why does Tara say that? It was discussed on several different things. And, you know, it was a conversation, but there was no specific plans or no dates and nobody asked each other to be married or anything like that.

40:35She also says that you had told her that you were serving divorce papers to Sherry. You know, unfortunately, and I feel horrible about it. You know, if I ever talked to Terry again, that would be something that I would apologize to her about. That was a lie. I lied to Terry about that. So if he didn't murder his family, who did?

41:12Forgiving and moving on has been difficult for Sherry's friends. still struggling to understand this incomprehensible crime. As a Christian, I feel like it's imperative that I forgive because Jesus forgave me, and I want to forgive with my whole heart. What makes it so hard to do that? Because they were so innocent.

41:46Sherry's friends and family want to ensure that she, Garrett and Gavin are never forgotten. So they've been raising money to help victims of domestic violence. And they hope to build a new Little League field and name it after those two young boys who love to play ball. The boys had their whole life ahead of them. They didn't deserve it. This should have never happened. Should have never happened.

From the publisher

When the wife and two children of Christopher Coleman were murdered, it didn't take long for police to suspect Coleman for the crimes. The potential motive, an affair. But questions remained: who sent those emails and letters, threatening Chris’s family? And who left the spray-painted writing on the wall at the disturbing scene of the crime? “48 Hours" Correspondent Maureen Maher reports. This classic "48 Hours" episode last aired on 7/19/2014. Watch all-new episodes of “48 Hours” on Saturdays, and stream on demand on Paramount+.

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