Revisited: The Beautiful Brilliance of Boredom with Creative Polymath Elle Cordova

30 Dec 2025 · 1 h 3 min · 31 chapters

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In short

Elle Cordova argues that boredom (or “good nothing”) is a creative resource, especially when paired with curiosity, questions, and intentional gaps from distraction. The episode also covers her introversion, pandemic-driven creative expansion, and her “advantage player” blackjack approach.

Guest backgrounds

Elle Cordova is a creative polymath—singer-songwriter, poet, TED Talk speaker, and science/space-fiction nerd. She grew up in Fargo, North Dakota, studied English literature at the University of Minnesota, and became known online for viral poems/sketches (including “Big Bang” and a “fonts at a party” bit). She also has a history of panic disorder and agoraphobia, with panic attacks varying from monthly at home to frequent during travel.

Key claims

Creativity needs space/gaps; ideas emerge when you ask questions and then allow rumination. Viral success came when she shared playful poetry/comedy during lockdown. In blackjack, small edge gains compound over time; it’s legal “information use,” not cheating.

Notable examples

Her “Big Bang” poem; the “fonts” sketch; memorizing basic strategy and optionally counting cards (high/low values); being banned from multiple Las Vegas casinos; “good nothing” blank Fridays; sugar packets/napkins to capture ideas.

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Chapters

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The Humor of Being Banned from Casinos

0:45 to 2:00

Discussing the light-hearted story of being banned from several casinos.

“It can actually be a remarkable source of calm and creativity, which a lot of introverts may already know.”

Boredom as a Catalyst for Creativity

2:00 to 4:00

Exploring how boredom can lead to creativity and calmness.

“and how we need to give boredom a rebrand, which, turns out, isn't boring at all.”

Elle’s Creative Discovery During Lockdown

4:00 to 5:00

Elle Cordova's revelation of her hidden creativity during the pandemic.

“So curiosity, and you've said the word a couple of times when you were speaking just there, curiosity is like sort of my motivating force in life.”

A Journey Through Poetry and Music

5:00 to 8:00

Elle shares her evolution as a poet, musician, and creative polymath.

“people see that, get this little bit of like resonant spark of curiosity in themselves, and then are either motivated to create their own thing or to like look up the concept I'm talking about.”

Curiosity as a Driving Force

8:00 to 10:00

Discussing the role of curiosity in Elle's life and work.

“Yeah, that's and I mean, I remember when you and I first got together.”

The Impact of Environment on Creativity

10:00 to 13:00

Examining how growing up in Fargo and introversion shaped Elle's creativity.

“Anyway, there are people who are actually appreciating this conversation.”

Embracing Introversion and Social Anxiety

13:00 to 14:00

Discussing the challenges of being an introvert and social anxiety.

“But as it turns out, you can come out ahead.”

Understanding Card Counting in Casinos

14:00 to 15:46

Learn how card counting works and its implications in casinos.

“But over the course of an entire evening, that point one adds up to an advantage versus the casino.”

A Mother-Daughter Casino Adventure

15:46 to 17:30

Explore a humorous anecdote about a casino visit gone wrong.

“It's not the bite of the apple you take.”

The Journey from Musician to Viral Poet

17:30 to 19:26

Discover how a musician transitioned into a viral poet during the pandemic.

“And then my second thought was like, thank God, because I really needed a break.”
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Creative Process and the Importance of Space

19:26 to 21:33

Understand the significance of creative space and how it sparks ideas.

“And a lot of people, I think, it's just like, share yourself.”

Embracing Gaps for Creative Ideas

21:33 to 23:50

Learn how gaps in activity can lead to creative breakthroughs.

“And the other 1 % I can't read my handwriting.”

The Brain's Dual Processing and Idea Generation

23:50 to 28:01

Explore how different parts of the brain contribute to idea generation.

“But this is the genius of your work, because we live in a world with unlimited access to unlimited information.”

The Value of Subconscious Thought in Creativity

28:01 to 29:09

Learn how our subconscious mind processes information and generates ideas when not actively engaged.

“Our subconscious brains, our limbic brains, have access to the equivalent of something like three acres of information around us.”

Creating Space for Ideas to Flourish

29:10 to 30:37

Discover the importance of creating mental space for idea generation and the impact of distractions.

“We don't just sit in the car in traffic and just sort of let our minds wander.”

The Importance of Asking Questions

30:38 to 32:39

Understand how posing questions can facilitate deeper thinking and creativity.

“What is the thing I want to write about next or whatever?”

Technology, Ideas, and Human Creativity

32:40 to 34:13

Explore the relationship between technology, idea generation, and the unique creativity of humans.

“And instead, I think what will happen is we'll channel our decision-making, our idea generation into our technology.”

The Value of Human-Made Creations

34:14 to 35:39

Discuss the significance of human-generated ideas and the premium placed on them in a technological world.

“But I do think there will be ways for us to work with them and alongside them to also generate ideas, continue generating ideas.”

The Joy in Boredom and Its Role in Creativity

35:40 to 38:00

Learn how embracing boredom can lead to greater creativity and insight.

“And there's a premium on the man-made, the human-made.”

Scheduling Time for Good Nothing

38:01 to 40:09

Understand the importance of scheduling deliberate time for doing nothing to foster creativity.

“Yeah, I think I agree because boredom is the very space you were talking about.”

Dealing with Anxiety and Seeking Help

40:10 to 42:04

Gain insight into personal experiences with anxiety and the importance of seeking help.

“Yeah, like not being able to leave your place because of fears of anxiety, panic attacks, which are happening anyway.”

The Journey to Seeking Help

42:04 to 43:19

Discover the challenges of recognizing and addressing mental health issues.

“I was having to leave classes, which is, like we said earlier, I'm afraid of authority.”

The Conversation on Mental Health

43:20 to 44:23

Explore the nuances of discussing mental health and the stigma surrounding it.

“Is there a reason you choose to talk about it?”

Nerdy Discussions: Star Wars and Archetypes

44:24 to 46:20

Engage in a light-hearted debate about Star Wars characters and their significance.

“It's not that I respect authority figures.”

Understanding Star Wars Villains

46:21 to 48:24

Examine the complexity of characters like Palpatine and their impact on the story.

“It is impossible and it doesn't exist for anyone.”

Relating to Star Wars Characters

48:25 to 54:14

Identify personal traits through Star Wars characters and their archetypes.

“It's like he lays - I mean, he'll stop at nothing.”

Roswell: A Song and Its Story

54:15 to 56:03

Delve into the accuracy and storytelling of the song 'Roswell' while correcting misconceptions.

“He's just behind the scenes, just so instrumental to everything.”

The Story Behind the Song 'Roswell'

56:03 to 57:36

Discover the origin of the song 'Roswell' and the inspiration behind it.

“han solo so yeah i am uh can i ask a favor yeah this is totally selfish totally selfish um i've I've discovered you because of this magical song called Roswell.”

Creativity Born from Boredom

57:36 to 59:10

Explore how being stuck in Roswell sparked creativity for the artists.

“Like, that's, as a space nerd, you know.”

Performance of 'Roswell'

59:10 to 59:45

Listen to the live performance of the song 'Roswell' by Elle Cordova and Tony Lindgren.

“We have El Cordova and Tony Lindgren, and they're going to perform Roswell for us.”

The Lyrics of 'Roswell'

59:45 to 1:02:45

Experience the lyrics of 'Roswell' that narrate the story of the famous incident.

“and we call the CIA There's big news today out in Roswell That sleepy New Mexico town And Major Marcel What can you tell us about Roswell Well, the Roswell Army Airfield sent their finest personnel.”
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Transcript

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0:00I've been backed off and banned from probably close to like six, seven casinos now in Vegas. And unfortunately, they're all my mom's favorite casino, so we can't go there anymore. She's told me to stop.

0:12Simon Sinek:So I love this. All you wanted to do was be a good daughter, celebrate your mom's birthday, and now you're banned from half a dozen casinos in Las Vegas. I know. It's a funny turn of events, but yeah, I blame my mom. She brought me there. I mean, it's always childhood trauma. Exactly. I just wanted to sit with her longer and have more drinks. Two introverts walk into a bar. Let's be honest, that's not happening. But here's what did happen. Two introverts sat down for a conversation about creativity and the importance of boredom. Yes, boredom. It turns out boredom is underrated. It can actually be a remarkable source of calm and creativity, which a lot of introverts may already know.

0:56Simon Sinek:That was definitely the case for El Cordova. She's a singer-songwriter, a poet, and a certified nerd who, in the isolation of lockdown, discovered a creativity she didn't know she had. The result? Well, I'm sure a lot of you have seen her sketch about fonts at a party or her poem about the Big Bang, both of which went very viral. Before the Big Bang, there was no up, there was no down, there was no side to side. There was no up, there was no down, there was no side to side There was no light, there was no dark, nor shape of any kind There were no stars or planet Mars or protons to collide There was no up, there was no down, there was no side to side And furthermore, to underscore this total lacking state There was no here, there was no there, because there was no space And in this endless void which can't be thought of as a place There was no time, and so no passing minutes, hours, days I first learned about Elle when I stumbled on her song Roswell which, if you stick around, she plays live for us at the end of the episode.

1:57Simon Sinek:And if you're a nerd, you'll appreciate our chat about Star Wars archetypes and how we need to give boredom a rebrand, which, turns out, isn't boring at all. This is a bit of optimism.

2:17You are a perfect example of why it's important to meet your heroes. Aw. I'm not sure if I'm taking this the right way.

2:27Simon Sinek:Because, you know, they always say never meet your heroes because you're always disappointed. I found you and your work from music. I found your song Roswell when you had a different name. What was your name? Reina Del Cid. Right. You had a stage name. I had a stage name. You had a stage name. Then I found out that's not your name. So I knew you as a musician, started following you on the Instagram. Then I find out that you're a poet and a smart person and a nerd and you are the personification of a polymath i reached out to you on the instagram slid into your dms you did and said hey and you wrote back and we got together and found and nerd bonded i guess yeah it turns out you're this you're cut from a similar nerd yeah you are even better than i thought you were when i saw you on the internet oh thank you simon and the same is true of you oh thanks and we just i think we can just cut right here i think our work our work is Job well done.

3:23Simon Sinek:But going back to this idea of a polymath, a polymath is somebody who has diverse interests, learned it across many things. And you have curiosities and talents in many places. You are, I think, have become famous for your poetry on social media. You've done a TED Talk about your poetry. You are a musician. You are extremely well read. You know a lot about science. You are a lover of science fiction. You seem to know not a little bit about a lot of things, but a lot about a lot of things. Intimidatingly so, I might add. were you always like where is that from like what's your journey of of discovery and and and how you have so many curiosities but also that you're good at those things it's not just you know good at one thing and have a couple things on the side yeah well i i i don't know how much is what you just said is true all of it is true okay well we'll we'll go with your premise um I think for me, it's just I've always been a very curious person.

4:31So curiosity, and you've said the word a couple of times when you were speaking just there, curiosity is like sort of my motivating force in life. And what I'm trying to do with the content or art or whatever that I put out on the Internet or put out wherever for people to consume is to try to spark a little bit of the same curiosity. And I want people to consume, you know, whether it's music or poetry or just, you know, random, inane thoughts that I post to the Instagram, whatever it might be. I just hope people see that, get this little bit of like resonant spark of curiosity in themselves, and then are either motivated to create their own thing or to like look up the concept I'm talking about.

5:09And I wouldn't say I know a lot about a lot of things. I just think I've been very curious about a lot of things.

5:14Simon Sinek:You know more than a little. Well, okay. And I've gotten to know enough about enough things that it just like keeps lighting the fire. And I always find like new things to... Where did the curiosity come from? Was it nature or nurture? well my dad is a really curious person so he he was like a really like one of those guys that's like it breaks teachers hearts where he he was really smart and he would he was curious but he you couldn't get him to finish an assignment or something you know but he would like read on his own he'd read the things you're not supposed to be reading about he'd just go and check out a book about trigonometry when they're trying to teach them about you know algebra or something so it's like if you taught him if you tried to teach him something he wouldn't learn it but if you let him loose in a place of knowledge, he will be hungry and he'll do it.

5:56So I think I got a little bit of that from him, although I'm more of a rule follower. So I went and got the degree and everything, less of a rebel.

6:03Simon Sinek:What'd you get your degree in? I majored in English. So I got a degree in English literature from the University of Minnesota. So that makes sense. Yeah. So English, I mean, to me, that's just like a gateway to books, like all kinds of books and knowledge and stories from everywhere. So it's kind of like majoring in everything. And how did you, because you grew up in Fargo? Yeah. Grew up in Fargo, North Dakota. Shout out to Fargo. Shout out to Fargo. Did, growing up in Fargo, it's cold, there's a lot of snow, it's not big. Right. Did that contribute, is that the nurture part of the curiosity? Like, Itzhak Perlman, for example, he has polio.

6:41Simon Sinek:So when all the other kids go out to play, he can't go out to play. So what does he do? He stays home and plays the violin and he becomes one of the best violinists in the world. Yeah. Or like Isaac Newton, you know, coming through his breakthroughs like during a time of plague, because what else are you going to do? He's like trapped in a trapped in quarantine, you know. All right. Yeah. Sometimes I think restrictive environments can definitely lead to like an expansion of mind. And was that the case for you? I think so. I mean, I think probably more than the cold environment, although that's definitely true of Fargo.

7:12And if you ever go there, you'll see it's like it's not it's just this unrelenting, bitter, bitter winds coming across the plains with nothing to stop them. And it's very, very cold. Less so now because of certain global changes that are happening. But, yeah, I think that's part of it. But I think that probably the bigger part is just this just introversion. You know, just I have always been so cripplingly shy. And it's just easier for me to stay in on a Friday night with a book than to, like, make myself go out and socialize. So I was even before the age of social media, I was probably spending too much time, you know, alone and not with a phone, but with, you know, books and paper device and like notebooks.

7:51Simon Sinek:And so basically, the polymathitude of it all is a defense mechanism to not wanting to socialize. Yeah. And so you accidentally because like, it's like Perlman, it's like you accidentally become incredibly good at something when all you're trying to do is not do the other thing. Yeah, exactly. Escapism, maybe escapism. Yeah, that's and I mean, I remember when you and I first got together. um, we're both, uh, socially awkward for first time meetings and second and third. You are not. You, you say that, I've heard you say that elsewhere. You are so warm and welcoming and you're like actually an introvert's dream.

8:26When you first, you know, when I first met you, I was like, oh, this, this person puts me at ease.

8:30Simon Sinek:Well, that's very kind of you say, but it is all, it is all practice. That makes sense. Because like if I'm not working, cause that's work, I'm not naturally like that. So if I'm not working, I will sit there awkwardly and sort of be like, be funny, be funny, say something, say something, you know? And so it's only through practice that I've learned to sort of ask questions and create an environment where, but by the way, it also produces insecurity being the introvert because I don't want to hold court. If I create a space and you're sort of one word answers and sort of head nods, I'm like, have I done something wrong?

9:08Simon Sinek:Yeah. You know, it's like so it does all of the introvert weirdness inside my brain is still happening. Well, you hide it very well. Well, thank you. Yeah. Makes it much easier to talk to you. Well, thanks. Yeah. Maybe maybe you should start a podcast. Yeah, it would be good. Yeah. A podcast by introverts for introverts. I mean, that's basically what it is. We just sit here awkwardly and people driving on their commute, just listening to sort of two people fidgeting and without the inner thoughts. Wouldn't that be even better if you could have the like if the concept of like a cartoon with a thought bubble, if there was a technology that you could hear the actual thought bubbles of people?

9:45Yeah.

9:46Simon Sinek:I would love that. I would too. Although I'd be really anxious about what my thought bubbles are saying. So you'd have to have a thought bubble of the thought bubble. Yeah. Anxiety of what my inner thoughts might be. I hope it doesn't catch that one. Then we've got an infinite thought bubble going all the way down. Very meta. Yeah. Very meta. It's like being in two mirrors. Yeah. But with thoughts. Anyway, there are people who are actually appreciating this conversation. Others have already changed the channel. Speaking of changing the channel, another thing I just learned about you literally minutes ago.

10:15Simon Sinek:You are a gambler. I wouldn't call myself a gambler. I would call myself an advantage player. There's a difference. It's a gambler is somebody who sits down at a slot machine or a table game just playing by the rules of the house and playing without an edge, you know. And then an advantage player has an edge. But you are engaging in gambling. Yeah, sure. It's like somebody who drinks is a drinker and somebody who gambles is a gambler. Yeah. I think if you talk to like the world of the advantage players, like they get really prickly about being called game. Advantage players. It's a world out there.

10:47Simon Sinek:they're just trying to distinguish themselves from like the tourist at vegas sitting at the slot machine or the degenerate or the degenerate gambler okay um okay so you're an advanced advantaged player and blackjack is your game yeah and this all started because i see i was like you know phobic of casinos i would say like you know in the way where it's just like that's a that's a place where you go to lose your money like why would anyone spend time in casinos but my mom is a big fan of Vegas she's a gambler and she loves doing that so she goes there every year for her birthday when I was 16 she told me when I turn 60 you're gonna come with me to Vegas and then when she turned 60 I kept my word and I came with her and I looked I just googled like what is the game that I can play while I'm in Vegas that's gonna lose me the least amount of money turned out to be blackjack and that's because you can have you can literally just memorize, they call it basic strategy, memorize the right hand for every, the right play for every hand.

11:45Simon Sinek:There's odds. Yeah, it's math. It's math. The statistics of whether you're likely to get an advantage or disadvantage based on pure odds, there's more 10 cards than any other card in the deck, et cetera, et cetera. Exactly. And so if you memorize that. Yeah, there's a right play for everything. Also known as counting cards. Okay, well, that's not counting cards, but memorizing is the first step. Or memorizing the shoe is the counting the cards part. Well, you don't have to memorize the whole shoe. So this is so much easier than people think it is, by the way. This is not a difficult thing. It's just a thing that you maybe have to spend a little bit of time to do.

12:16Simon Sinek:So you memorize the tables. Memorize the table of like the right play for every hand. Then if you're going to go to the length where you're memorizing the right play for every hand, then you might as well just go one extra step of just keeping track of when high cards are coming out versus low. So you just add it. You assign a value of one to everything that's high and then a negative one for everything that's low. And then for like a medium-sized card, it's just zero. So all you have to do, if you can add and subtract by one, you can count cards. It's literally that simple. So you don't actually have to memorize which cards have happened.

12:46Simon Sinek:No, definitely not. Because they keep adding more cards to the shoe to make it difficult to remember which cards have happened. They have multi-deck shoes. And so to get more accurate, so if you're going to do that then, if you're going to start doing the ones and everything, then you might as well make it even better for yourself and look and see the discount tray. and then you can kind of divide by the number of decks that are left in the in the in the shoe because they've these days they're using six eight decks you know yeah so to really get an accurate count you're waiting to the kind of the end and whatever so it's just like i got into this because i was like first just not wanting to lose all my money and then second i want to be able to hang with my mom so i'm going to be at this blackjack table anyway i might as well just like tip the you're just trying to make it so you can sit with your mom for as long as possible without losing all your money you're just trying to make a nice night just get some free drinks and like At least just come out even.

13:34But as it turns out, you can come out ahead. And it's not cheating. It's just using the information that's available to every player. So they can't arrest you. There's nothing illegal about it.

13:44Simon Sinek:It's not cheating, but the casinos don't like it. And I read somewhere, and you probably actually know the answer, which is the odds of winning in blackjack are 50, whatever the number is. I'm making it up. But 50%, let's just call it. And if you count cards, it's like 50.1. Yeah, it's barely. It's a very, very small percentage. Exactly. But over the course of an entire evening, that point one adds up to an advantage versus the casino. Exactly. And if you were betting a lot of money and you did this for long enough, yes, you're going to take a lot of money from the casino. But I'm just betting pennies, you know, or not pennies, but, you know.

14:16Simon Sinek:Small dollars. Yeah, small dollars. So it's like they're for the most part, they know you're counting cards. They actually have machines. They have cameras in the sky like watching your plays. They even have chips inside of chips, you know, so like little devices that track, you know, how is she betting? how is she changing her bets based on the count and their computers are counting the cards. So if your bets are changing based on the count, they know that immediately. They don't even have to watch anymore. They just know. But they'll let you... They have chips in the chips? They do. Like they have QR...

14:45Simon Sinek:Not QR codes. They have... They're called RF tags, RF chips. Oh, yeah. So I didn't even know. Yeah. So that's how you use a... It looks like a credit card piece of plastic. Yeah. In there is an RF chip that opens up your hotel room. Yeah. That's the same chip. It's probably a similar... the same thing yeah so i didn't even know that they're doing that so the old days in the 70s where they had the pit boss just coming like standing over your shoulder counting to see if you're counting that's gone they don't even have to let on that they know what you're doing because the computers are doing it for them so i've been backed off and banned from probably close to like six seven casinos now in vegas and unfortunately they're all my favorite my mom's favorite casino so we can't go there anymore she's told me to stop so you're not playing at Circus Circus because no one else will let you in.

15:30Right. Well, those are bad odds. You only play where they have good blackjack. But anyway, my mom is like, why can't we just go have fun? And I'm like, okay. That was the original intent anyway.

15:39Simon Sinek:So I love this. All you wanted to do was be a good daughter, celebrate your mom's birthday, and now you're banned from half a dozen casinos in Las Vegas. I know. It's a funny turn of events. But yeah, I blame my mom. She brought me there. I mean, it's always childhood trauma. Yeah. It's always like childhood trauma. It's exactly what it is you're banned from exactly i just wanted to sit with her longer and have more drinks so yeah but this is but this is what i love about your brain which is 99.9 of people on the planet would if mom says come to me with vegas i just want to have a nice time with you they would say fine i'll spend a hundred dollars and then i'll just sit with you or whatever you know whatever's in their limits and maybe they'll play somewhat seriously and slowly to maximize like no big bets all minimum bets to just maximize the length of play they would probably not have figured out which game can i lose the least amount on which is blackjack they'd probably play something where they'd guess they can lose the least amount on or just play the game that their mom likes but the fact that you did that and then your brain works in a way that you could not help yourself but to find the advantage to prolong the game and learn to count cards.

16:53Simon Sinek:This is what I love about you. It's not the bite of the apple you take. We all take the first bite. It's that you always find a way to take a second bite of the apple. And this is what I love. There's always something in addition to the thing that you started to do. And I'm just trying to think now, like, even your own platform, like, you always find a plus one in everything. Even in the way you're trying to you know sort of like make a you have accidental fame is it fair that is it fair to say yeah i mean was it or is it a little more prescriptive than that i think i was trying to reach people with my music before i started this whole social media thing but the fame came in a different way you had fame-ish yeah from the music a very small it's small but loyal group yes from the music but the when when the poem started yeah and i think it was the font poem that really put you on the map right the font skit and really was the before that it was the um the big bank poem which is a space poem that i wrote that was like probably the big thing that launched my oh that's right i remember that one too who's the other guy hank green we were just talking oh yeah that's hank green the lovely hank green yes okay yeah okay so yes the space poem the big bang which is by the way brilliant poem so the poem and the skit really launched you they you had viral success yeah twice did you know that was going to happen no no i definitely did not and um really what happened was that I was I was very much just all in on the musician career that's what I did for 10 years I was touring and and then you know I was kind of picking up steam as we went along we were slowly growing and we had these tours set up in like Europe and Australia and then bam the pandemic happened everything got canceled everything we had planned out for that year got canceled and my first thought was like oh no all the money that we're gonna lose and like how will we pay the bills?

18:41And then my second thought was like, thank God, because I really needed a break. I was like getting sick all the time on the road. I had no time to create anything new. I was just playing the stuff I had written, you know, sometimes five years ago. There just was, I had a schedule that did not allow me to be a human being and certainly not a creative human being. So when everything got canceled, it was such a blessing in disguise because then I rediscovered my creativity and then discovered that it was like, it went beyond music. I could write other things. Had you not written poems? I'd always written poems.

19:13I mean, I think every English major has written some poems at some point, but I never shared anything publicly with anyone. And I had never allowed myself to be playful online. It was always just like, share your music. And TikTok and these new vertical format apps, they really encourage something in me. And a lot of people, I think, it's just like, share yourself. Be silly. Who cares? We're all just killing time in the pandemic. It doesn't matter. So I shared this comedy side and that seemed to, well, like an earnest poetry side and then also a comedy side. I should probably niche down at some point, but you know.

19:47Simon Sinek:Because you're a polymath. Well, there's no niching down. We love you for your diversity. But various things, you know, just throwing things at the wall and it turns out like other things were sticking and I was just getting a lot of fulfillment from it. So I haven't really gone back to the musician lifestyle, although I'm starting to dip my toe back into it now. What's so interesting is I don't think people appreciate the value of space for a creative person. Like you said, you're sort of going about this music career. And then when you get a gap where you can't do the thing, you can only think about doing the thing.

20:18Simon Sinek:Yeah. And we saw like, I remember Bo Burnham, you know, when he wrote Inside during the pandemic, and it was it was of a time, I'm not sure it holds up anymore. I don't think you can watch it in 10 years. Some of those songs still will. No, the songs, yes, but as a piece of art. Yeah. You know, I don't know if it's timeless or not, but it is a work of sheer genius. And I'd seen his comedy before, and I think he's a brilliant comedian, but this was something, this was something else. That only could have been made in that time. That only could have been made in that time. Yeah. And I'm thinking about my own creative process, and people are like, how do you come up with ideas?

20:49Simon Sinek:And what they, it's hard to explain, which is the way I come up with ideas is when I'm not thinking. I get ideas sparked in conversation. but it's the rumination the space the gaps you know i i like to describe my writing processes is days and weeks of guilt and self-loathing punctuated by hours of sheer brilliance yeah if only i could predict when those hours would happen yeah and the trick is to be ready for and the trick is to be ready for them and i've sat at home going can't go out in case it strikes and then i like just end up watching tv and like i should have gone out and then i go out and then it starts happening and i'm like grabbing anything i can write on napkins I literally have sugar packets because I couldn't find anything to write and I know that one loses ideas as quickly as they happen and so if I don't capture it immediately I will lose it even if I wait a minute the muse is not patient and so literally I would take a sugar packet and open it delicately, dump out the sugar grab a pen and start writing I have binder clips of sugar packets with ideas on them and the thing that I've learned is I can't be precious yeah you can't be precious You know, 99 % of the ideas are shit.

21:58Simon Sinek:And the other 1 % I can't read my handwriting. Right. So it's the act of the writing that is actually more important. Because I sometimes go back and read them. Yeah. But once they're written, for some reason, they get stored somewhere else. But this idea of gaps in space, you said it during the pandemic, you know, watching TikTok, it was unbelievable how funny people were. Yeah. And how creative people were. Like, I didn't realize that people were that funny and that creative of every age and every disposition. And just people are really funny, you know. And I don't think anybody guessed that from you, did they?

22:31No, no, definitely not. So, yeah, I think that's true. And also when you're when you're contributing to that and trying to be your own brand of funny and your own brand of witty and, you know, smart or whatever. and to try to contribute to the conversation, part of what I find is helpful is to remember that your audience is also that. It's not just the people making this content. It's also the people consuming. And when you reach a wide enough audience, I can say confidently that even my best work, the work that I've spent the most time on, that I've put a lot of myself into, that I've made intentionally very, you know, I've tried to make it witty.

23:11I've tried to make it funny. nothing I've ever posted will beat the top comment underneath the posts you know because you get the hive mind and people are so funny and they're so smart you know so it's a good way to to stay focused and just stay humble and and you know and just to realize like you're part of you're part of a species that's really innovative and smart and funny and I think with these platforms a lot of that rises to the top you get you get really smart and funny top comments but you're

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23:37Simon Sinek:also attracting smart and funny people I've been really lucky with the community I mean well you're attracting there's a lot of people like us there's a lot of nerds yes really like your stuff because you have to know a little bit about something yeah exactly to appreciate your humor and i've pushed it a little i'm like could i could i make a really weird obscure skit about like uh particles hanging out in this luniverse you know and talk about like the higgs boson like and a lot of people in the comments like i didn't know what that was and then i googled it and looked it up and now i know what it is and that makes me happy you know it's like a sort of gotcha now we're now we know more.

24:10Simon Sinek:But this is the genius of your work, because we live in a world with unlimited access to unlimited information. And yet still, we see a post online, or we hear a comment from a politician, or some CEO said something. And in the span of 10 seconds, we can verify that statement or not. Yeah. And we don't. I mean, I joke about it. Like I go around saying, so I read the study. I think it's true. I don't know. But here you go. I literally could verify it any day. But I don't. Yeah, there's just like, it's amazing how the momentum of laziness, when we have the access. And what I love about your work is it forces somebody to go, what is that?

24:51Simon Sinek:And they do go look it up. Not because they want to be smarter. It's because they want to get the joke. Exactly, exactly. You dangle the joke as a carrot, dangle the joke as a carrot, where all the other criteria of like all the other circumstances of like, what's that politician saying? What's that CEO saying? It's like, oh, I have to go be smart now. Oh, forget it. Yeah. You know, I'd rather just react. It's easier. But if the reward is getting in on a joke and getting to be part of this little community where everybody's joking in the comments, then yeah, maybe it's worth looking up what's a Higgs boson, you know?

25:21Simon Sinek:I want to go back to this idea of space because I'm so fascinated by the gaps in space. Do you force your schedule because you're busier now than you ever have been? Do you force gaps in space? Because for you, lockdown was a thing that unleashed this new new creativity do you make mini lockdowns for yourself yes absolutely well it taught me the value of that so how do you do that like do you schedule space like do you put a blank thing in your calendar where like there's presence and absence right it's like yeah i mean i would love to tell you that i'm really disciplined and i have my phone and it's locked in a safe like from my creative hours every morning i would love to tell you that I don't.

25:58I'm just as addicted to everything. I'm addicted to the supply that I give out, which is social media, dopamine, whatever, as the people who are consuming the stuff. But I think what I do try to do, though, is I try to consume more of the things that are going to fill me up creatively so that my output is better. So instead of spending four hours a day just combing through social media, trusting the algorithm to give me the things to fill me up, which it will not, you know, I will try to minimize that amount of time and try to instead replace it with like rereading Virginia Woolf's Room of One's Own or something.

26:36Something I know is going to, if I'm, especially if I'm going through a rut, I'll revisit the things that I know are going to light me on fire and they're going to create better output for me. Okay.

26:44Simon Sinek:So this is, this is, okay, this is good. So, um, I'm not a reader, which we've talked about. I'm over the shame, but I still have embarrassment. I'm not a reader, but I do still need those things. I've had to recreate my creative process every time I've had to do something creative because what worked before it doesn't work again. I don't believe in writer's block. Okay. Right. I believe that the format or system that you're using to create in the past isn't working anymore. So you're not having writer's block. It's not that you're having no ideas. The system is broken. Okay. And so what we do when people have writer's block, they keep doing the same system and blaming themselves.

27:21Simon Sinek:And I say, okay, I know I have ideas. I know I'm an idea guy. So if I'm having no ideas, am I broken? Or is the way I'm attempting to have ideas broken? And so I have experimented with, and every time I lock up on ideas, I break down on ideas, I change the way I'm coming up with ideas. But this idea of space, like I, when I realized I needed time, and so here's the thing. So I learned us a bunch of years ago, which is our rational brains, our thinking brains, the part that weighs the pros and cons and access our expertise, that has access to the equivalent of about two feet of information around us, right?

28:03Simon Sinek:Our subconscious brains, our limbic brains, have access to the equivalent of something like three acres of information around us. Every conversation we've had, every movie we've seen, every book we've read gets stored somewhere. You just don't have access to it. And so the value of the brainstorming session is not to solve the problem, it's to ask the questions. Because your brain won't ruminate on things that aren't presented. It won't just solve problems that don't exist in your life. You're not going to just, you know, come up with some random idea. Like a problem must exist, or a question must be asked.

28:32Simon Sinek:And then you can, quote unquote, think about it. But if you think about it, we have our best ideas when we're falling asleep, or we go for a run, or we're standing in the shower, or, you know, sitting sitting in traffic. Like it's when we're not quote unquote thinking, but the brain is still ruminating in the subconscious and it gives you the idea. And it seems like divine intervention, but it's not. It's just your limbic brain. It's been working on the problem. And it's been working on the problem the whole time. And so the problem is, is you need those gaps for the, for your mind to give you the ideas.

29:02Simon Sinek:And in our modern world, we have filled in all those gaps. So we don't sit on the subway on our commute and just stare off into space anymore. We're on our phones. We don't just sit in the car in traffic and just sort of let our minds wander. We make a phone call. I mean, you go out for dinner with a friend and they go to the bathroom. We don't just sit and like look around the room. Or talk to somebody. Or talk to somebody. We pull out our phones because it's too uncomfortable to just sit. And so I have worked very hard to force myself. Like if I go out for dinner, I give my phone to someone else.

29:37Simon Sinek:Be like, here's my phone, and put it in your bag. So when they go to the bathroom, they take my phone with them. That's smart. And so I'm forced because I have no willpower. I'm addicted like everybody else. But if you take away the crack, can't do crack. Yep. I do the same thing with daily walks. I don't allow myself to bring a phone. But you're creating space and gaps. Yeah. And those moments, and by the way, space and gaps can also be created going to a museum or it's just engaging in other passive stimulation. Not playing a game, not doing work, not surfing the internet, passive stimulation has been absolutely invaluable to my idea generation.

30:14But I think another important piece of it is something you said earlier, where you said a question must be asked. A question must be asked. We can't expect our brains, the brain that's ruminating and doing all this work behind the scenes, to be working on a problem that we haven't presented to it. Correct, it won't. It won't just spit out random ideas, like you said. So I think our brains are computers. There needs to be an input. We need to ask it something. We need to ask it to solve a problem. And the problem might be, what is my next idea? What is the thing I want to write about next or whatever?

30:42But we need to actively feed our brains those questions and give them something to work on.

30:48Simon Sinek:I think more specific than that, too, at least for me, you know, that's where the conversations happen. Because the backwards and forwards, backwards and forwards, you know, yes, there's answers in those conversations, but it raises more questions. And so it's not like, what's my next idea? But rather, like, why are we friends? Yeah. And then you start saying, why are we friends? Okay, like, I understand the biology. I understand the anthropology. I can look that stuff up. that's pretty written about. What is a friend? Now it gets complicated. Yeah. So it's not just asking a question, what is my next idea?

31:16It's asking specific questions about specific.

31:18Simon Sinek:And they can be big problems like, help me understand the world order as we know it post-Cold War. That's something I've actually thought about, right? Like, what is the new world order? And it's such a big question that it's not going to be one. And that's why all the conversations and all of the articles I'm reading and all of the people I'm interacting who have different points of view, I'll either ask directly, so what do you think about the world right now? And it's all feeding that until at some point you go, aha, I have an idea. You need, I guess, two things. You need to ask three things.

31:50Simon Sinek:You need the question to be posed, big or small. You need to feed it with data through conversations, reading, whatever your chosen preferred way of intake is. And then, and only then, do you need space and gaps. and we do the first, we do the second, we don't do the third. And I think this is the thing, and there's been stuff written about this. There's a basic global decline in ideas. Like the number of patents that are filed these days is vastly fewer than in the past. Wow, that's terrifying. And the quality of the patents is lower. And so we know that there's fewer ideas that are happening.

32:27Simon Sinek:And I think this idea of space and gaps, and if we're going to be a hyper-scheduled, hyper-connected world, not rebelling against it, just it is what it is, then schedule gaps. See, now I know you are an optimist. This is sort of central to you. It has been, I've been accused of such. I will say the pessimistic take on this is, and I'm not calling myself a pessimist, although I have tendencies, is that now that we have the technology we have, we won't in any meaningful way be able to make those spaces the way that you're saying. And instead, I think what will happen is we'll channel our decision-making, our idea generation into our technology.

33:12Soon we're going to have, you know, you talk about the decline in patents. We're going to have AI coming up with a lot of solutions for us that we simply haven't devoted the brain resources to think about because we don't have to anymore. We have a much bigger, smarter brain to sort of solve those problems for us.

33:28Simon Sinek:I don't think it's either or. I think it's both. I think, you know, just as the calculator or the abacus could help us do calculations faster, the calculator upped that ante. Certain things in mathematics or going to the supermarket got quicker. And so I think where math got quicker, ideas will get quicker, but that doesn't mean that the machine has the lock on all the ideas. And I still think that a human-generated idea will always be the kind of idea that it's the asymmetrical idea. It's the idea that nobody could see happening because, and maybe I just either underestimate the power of the machine or overestimate the power of the brain, the human brain.

34:11I have a more pessimistic view in general of like, you know, I think that machines will take a lot of our purpose, you know. But I do think there will be ways for us to work with them and alongside them to also generate ideas, continue generating ideas. There'll always be a premium on human-made creations, human-generated ideas. But I do think that a lot of the really heavy lifting, problem-solving, the things that you'll need patents for, that's all going to – I think we're going to see a major shift.

34:43Simon Sinek:And then the question is, can you put a patent on the thing that a machine came up with? The company who made the machine will probably get the patent. Yeah, that's where IP law is going to get completely destroyed. Have you found this in your work yet? I know in the art world, artists are being asked to sign affidavits to affirm that this was designed and produced by them and not by AI. Have you found that in your work yet, that people are asking you to say, did you actually come with this or did the machine come up with this for you? Not yet. I'm sure it's coming. And I'm sure I've signed some agreement already that's signed away all my creative rights.

35:14Simon Sinek:It's not just the creative rights. They want the affirmation that the person came up with it. That it wasn't AI generated? So like, hey, this little cute little skit you wrote, this little poem that you write. That is in many contracts, yeah. So they want to know that you wrote it and you did not write it with AI. Yep. So that's what I mean, which is we're not buying the product. We're buying the story. Yeah. Well, you're buying a piece of the creator. You're buying a piece, but you're buying the fact that, hey, she did this. Right, exactly. And there's a premium on the man-made, the human-made.

35:46Yeah. Yeah. And I'm not saying that all like AI assisted art is worthless and should be thrown in the trash. No, no. Agreed, agreed, agreed. But I do think there will always be a premium on human, fully human made things. I mean, we don't watch, we don't sit around for fun watching computers talk to each other, play chess against each other. We watch humans play chess. It's more interesting to us. Yeah. They're better at it, but we watch humans.

36:10Simon Sinek:Because we like watching the mistake, the potential for the mistake. Right. It's true. Isn't that beautiful though? That the reason we find a human game more interesting, even though they're not as good, is the drama of the pressure and the mistake is the part that we find entertaining. Exactly. It's not actually the gameplay. Right. It's the human drama. Oh, I love that. I think one of the really good sides of the AI, and by the way, I can't have a freaking conversation without AI coming up. Oh, I'm sure this is just all over the podcast. every conference every other talk is AI but is I think it'll help us appreciate because we have this at least in America we have this sort of vomit reaction to the concept of boredom like that it's some sort of you cannot be bored you know and I think boredom is the ultimate space where you sit there staring off at the clouds not knowing what to do and you're kind of like how are you i don't know a little bored got nothing to do and i think there's joy in the appreciation of boredom because as i was saying before for a curious mind it goes right back to the beginning for a curious mind there's always questions and problems being asked and yet there's not enough solutions to all the questions yeah and i think boredom and joy of boredom is the thing that not only keeps us human but helps us see things find things invent things write things paint things sing things that the machine never can never will and i think i think in this hyper creative not hyper creative hyper productive world that we live in where the machines are just making us even more productive that our creativity comes from being bored not from being active.

38:02Yeah, I think I agree because boredom is the very space you were talking about. We need to create spaces where we can allow ourselves to, and I don't know if boredom is exactly the right word, but allow our brains to be freed of distraction.

38:14Simon Sinek:By boredom, I mean, I have nothing to do. Yeah. I have nothing to do, at most, walking. Mm-hmm. Yeah, and that's why I take my, I guess you could call them boredom walks. I take my, like, enforced boredom walks so that I'm forcing my brain to think, to just, whether it's problem solving or just thinking about the world around me or whatever it is, I think it's really important that I don't have my device and I'm just forced for the next 45 minutes, however long the walk is to my destination to just ruminate. And the important thing here is that it's okay if nothing happens. Oh yeah, absolutely.

38:47Simon Sinek:By applying pressure to the boredom is the paradox, is the exact problem we're trying to solve for. Or giving permission for boredom. Giving permission. I can just be bored. I don't have to solve problems on my walk. And that's one of the things that people don't realize, which is I actually, I won't schedule anything in my calendar for Fridays. Now, I work on Fridays, but I will not pre-schedule anything on a Friday. It has to be blank. So that if I choose to have three hours or four hours of whatever I want, which includes staring off at a wall, that is my prerogative. And this is expanded because I used to do hour, like I would literally put an hour break in my calendar to do nothing.

39:22Simon Sinek:I would schedule nothing. Not that I'm scheduling nothing. I'm scheduling to do nothing. Yeah, that's important. The act of nothing. And I think in any job, I don't care what your job is. I don't care if you're a homemaker. I don't care if you're a caretaker or a parent. I don't care if you're in a creative job, a non-creative job. I think all problems are solved. And maybe boredom just has bad branding. Yeah, it does. What should we call it? because we can't call it creative space because that creates pressure that the space has to be creative and it doesn't. Maybe a period of stasis or openness.

40:03Simon Sinek:Good nothing. Yeah, good nothing. I'm going to do good nothing for an hour. Yeah.

40:11Simon Sinek:I like good nothing. What are you doing right now? Good nothing. You want to do something? It's my good nothing time. I'm doing my good nothing time. Yeah. I like that. like that yeah it's better than boredom it's better than boredom because i'm not bored i mean sometimes i am right i mean i've i went out for dinner with a friend last night and you know she went to the bathroom and i sat there and just stared around in the restaurant and yeah i was bored and started wondering like she okay like she's been gone a long time i wish she'd come back i'm kind of bored do you have the same paranoia that i do when you go out for dinner with a friend especially if it's a new friend and there's a line at the bathroom that you're in a restaurant and so or somebody's in there for far too long and you're just waiting for them to come out and so you find yourself waiting for a very long time and then immediately you have the paranoia that the other person thinks that you have like stomach problems or something because you've been gone a long time but and i always come up like oh my god the line was really long somebody was in there it's not me it's not my stomach problems i was i was really quick in there i have that intense paranoia that somebody thinks i'm sick because i was gone well sometimes i do have stomach problems and i'll say it even then there's such a long line sneaky sneaky okay i have a couple more questions okay what's the thing you've dealt with what's the challenge you've for me it's it's anxiety it's an intense you know panic disorder i get panic attacks um they used to be incredibly bad when i was a teenager and then into like early 20s college um almost crippling I had intense agoraphobia, could barely leave my apartment and was like untreated, you know, during those times.

41:46And I kept thinking.

41:47Simon Sinek:Agoraphobia is afraid of outside. Yeah, like not being able to leave your place because of fears of anxiety, panic attacks, which are happening anyway. So, yeah. So, yeah, I think just thinking back to those memories, it was just like, again, like a warning sign. like if I don't get my stuff together and I don't get treated this is the the ultimate reality and it's going to tear family apart and you know how old were you when you started to be like I think I need someone to look after me well that's a good thing about having you know grandparents that have gone through stuff like that is you realize early on that you know this is a this is a thing that needs to be treated it's a condition you know so I was probably 16 when I finally started to ask for help because I was having such intense panic attacks at school.

42:39I was having to leave classes, which is, like we said earlier, I'm afraid of authority. I like to be a good student when I can. Having to run out of class and look like I'm skipping or something was not.

42:50Simon Sinek:Which only added to the anxiety. Yeah, knowing that you have to be in class. Is it under control now? I would say it's as under control as it probably ever will be to the point where I can live a normal life, but I just, I always have to deal with panic attacks. How often do they happen now? It depends. If I'm traveling, if there's like a lot of going on, especially if I'm traveling, I'll have them regularly in my travels. So maybe every few days or sometimes multiple times a day. But if I'm home in my routines and I'm taking care of myself and everything, then maybe once in a month. Is there a reason you choose to talk about it?

43:27I mean, I just think we could all just talk more about our mental health. I feel two ways about it because I also think there's like an over, maybe an over-diagnosing. We over-diagnose things, yeah. Yeah.

43:40Simon Sinek:Like everybody who's a little bit, you know, everybody's OCD, right? Yeah, like we have - They don't realize what real OCD is, which is deep, deep, deep superstition like your grandmother had. Yeah, yeah. There are so many forms of it, but yeah, that's how her is manifested. But yeah, I think, you know, on one hand we have people, I think over-diagnosing themselves and others and their friends and talking about it. And then I think there's another side of it where, you know, people who have really struggled with severe debilitating mental illness still don't really want to talk about it. And I think it's, it's just better for everybody if we get the word out there that, that these things happen because, you know, you, if you don't, it just gets worse, it festers and then we have negative outcomes, you know so have you ever written a poem about it no it's weird how i find that the things that are the most personal and then go down the deepest are things i i can't seem to get myself to write about maybe that'll change i don't know maybe one day but i like to just find solace in like humor and distract away from that i do find it ironic that you are such a rule follower and you sort of respect authority figures and running out of class created more anxiety.

44:54It's not that I respect authority figures.

44:56Simon Sinek:Fine, but you like rules. I am afraid to break the rules. Yet you count cards and are banned from casinos. But that's not a good feeling when I see the suits swarming because they get the pit bosses together. They start swarming. I hear the telephones ringing. I know they're coming. I hate that. I get all sweaty. Do you try and anticipate it and leave before they throw you out? No, I just let it happen because, yeah, it's just better to know because sometimes you're wrong. Sometimes they're actually just hanging out talking about something else, you know, and then they all disperse. So, no, they'll come over.

45:27And they're generally pretty nice, I will say.

45:29Simon Sinek:They haven't broken the law. Well, right. They'll say something really sweet like, ma 'am, I'm sorry, but your play is just a little too advanced for us. We won't be able to take your action here. But you're welcome to, you know, enjoy yourself at the bar or any other game in the casino. They invite you to play craps. You're welcome to lose your money at our other places where you don't have the advantage. Other ones ban you, though, from the whole premises. So it just depends on if you get a mall cop type pit boss. Yeah. By the way, I have to insert a warning. If you're listening to this podcast, the conversation is about to get incredibly nerdy.

46:06Simon Sinek:And we're going to talk about Star Wars and archetypes and in-depth characters. And if you don't know what we're talking about and you don't like Star Wars, perhaps go listen to a podcast another podcast right now so you and i um the first time we met we very quickly bonded about our love of science fiction you skew star trek i skew star wars i mean i love them almost equally that is not true if you put a gun to my head and you told me i had to only keep one i would say star trek i know that because no one it's like there's no such thing as I love Star Trek and Star Wars equally. It is impossible and it doesn't exist for anyone.

46:42I come very close.

46:44Simon Sinek:Well, you're the one. But you still skew. You still skew. And only because there's more of Star Trek. I've spent more hours. I've vlogged more hours. There's more to consume. Whatever. Whatever the reason. I just want to belong to both fandoms. No one is 50-50 on Star Trek and Star Wars. Everybody skews one way. I like Star Trek. I love Star Wars. Yeah. I like Star Trek and I like different Star Treks. you know like i'm a trekker not a trekkie okay which means i like next generation ah which apparently they call themselves trekkers i didn't know that i mean maybe i'm not a real member of the community maybe maybe i'm wrong or it's outdated because there's been so many star treks since then so i don't know what the new bifurcations are there wouldn't be bifurcations because that's only two things but but i don't know what the new delineations are but it was my understanding when next generation came out that you were a trekker if you were like into the next generation you're a trekkie if you're into the old captain kirk stuff okay i learned something new that's that's amazing i don't think i didn't notice my bedazzled yeah this is amazing and i don't know how the camera angle is but i love that i'm i'm associated here with the dark side you are associated with the lone rebel hero yeah i like that because in my mind i think i've said this elsewhere, Star Wars, Star Wars is not the story of the Skywalkers.

48:03It's not even the story of a beautiful rebellion against an oppressive regime. It's the story of a brilliant political strategist named Chief Palpatine, whose Machiavellian plans were foiled by dumb luck and familial relations. And if I get canceled for anything off of this podcast, it's going to be for being a Palpatine apologist. I just love Palpatine as a character.

48:27Simon Sinek:I know you do. Yeah. I mean, yeah. You just have to admire the man. It's like he lays - I mean, he'll stop at nothing. He stops nothing, like most villains, but he goes so much further because he lays the most intricate plan and it's just airtight. I mean, he creates the Clone Wars. He's orchestrating things on both sides. Yeah. No, he's an evil genius. Just an intense genius. and also one of the most gifted force users of all time. Happens to be both. Happens to be an evil mastermind and a gifted force user. It takes both, you know, Anakin and Luke. It takes a cheap shot betrayal to kill him in the end.

49:06And even that doesn't kill him.

49:08Simon Sinek:And a great actor. Because he pretends to be good when he's really bad and, like, got everybody fooled. His genial senator, like, personality. What a sweet old man, you know? So charming. and then his like dark, horrible voice. Right. Such an incredible, like it's the perfect amount of camp in that voice. It doesn't go too far somehow, but it's just perfect. One of the things I think that the reason Star Wars is important in the world is because the archetypes of all the characters are so true, so consistent that everybody, you can learn about anybody by saying, which one are you? And like, are you a Han Solo?

49:52Simon Sinek:Are you Luke Skywalker? Are you C-3PO? Are you R2-D2? Are you Darth Vader? Like everybody knows who they are and you can know everything. Like I have a friend who's like, oh, I am so C-3PO. Like that's - I also have a best friend who is 100 % C-3PO. And you know everything. Okay, so let's compare. I'll just tell you what my friend was like and you tell me if your friend was the same. Okay. Like service oriented, like loves to like take care of people and like get things done for them. finds joy in like getting through the checklist extremely organized yes right yes this is what i'm saying they're archetypes so you can learn everything about a person simply by them telling you which star wars character they are they're they find most like them or most drawn to so who would star trek character or start wars character are you so um i am an equal lover of boba of boba Fett and Han Solo.

50:44Simon Sinek:Okay. I'm full. You know, if you force me, like gun to your head, pick one.

50:55Simon Sinek:I mean, I had two computers at a laptop and a desktop and one was named Han Solo and the other one was named Boba Fett. Yeah. But if I don't know how to choose, can you guess why I like those? No, I'm trying to imagine. You and I have hung out a little bit. We're not besties, but you know me enough, I think. I mean, I can tell you I've thought about it plenty. Well, why Boba Fett? Tell me that one. Okay, well, I can't talk about Boba Fett without talking about Han Solo. They're both incredibly independent, right? Like Boba Fett is just, he's a bounty hunter, but he works for himself, right? And Han Solo, super independent.

51:32Simon Sinek:I guess maybe I'm more like Han Solo than Boba Fett. Boba Fett's just so damn cool. He's just so damn cool. He is. so I guess more like Han Solo which is fiercely independent begrudgingly like really wants to be a part of the group but really wants to be himself and is in constant battle like I want to be my own person but I want to be a part of the team but I want to be my own person but I want to be a part of that team and as independent as he is always goes everywhere with a friend Chewy just yeah so that's where I'm different than Boba Fett but Boba Fett's a total loner. And really loyal to those friends.

52:10And super loyal to those friends

52:11Simon Sinek:and plays up the independent, like I don't really care about you guys, but he really does a lot. Oh, 100%. And so it's the hyper independence, but the constant struggle of, I want to be my own self, but I also want to be a part of the group at all times, that paradox, but also as independent he is, he goes everywhere with a friend. And that rebel spirit of let's just give it a try, to me is, I so identify with Han Solo. Yeah. I think for me, it's, well, I love Palpatine. And I'd love to say I identify, I mean, obviously in the real world, authoritarian regimes, tyrants, ew, gross, don't want anything to do with it.

52:44In the world of Star Wars, he is such, I won't call him a dynamic character because he never changes. Like, you know, a dynamic character is one who like discovers something about themselves and has changed. And in the process, we as viewers change too because we learn something about ourselves. That's not Palpatine. He literally never changes. He's static throughout. but that character is so well drawn. And so...

53:06Simon Sinek:So what about you as Palpatine? Well, he's a planner and I like to be a planner. His plans tragically did not work out through real no fault of his own. But yeah, I'm inspired by his scheming. I won't say that I see myself in him entirely. I think if I really had to pick a character, I would say R2-D2. Because R2-D2 is also... By the way, the original, it's the original episode four five six that are the perfect archetypes it's those yeah those those are the characters the original characters although you really see palpatine shine in one two and three exactly but you and i have had this fight which is you can keep your one two three and i'll start star wars as a palpatine fan you got to watch the prequels i watched them no i know i know watch them again but they're they're worth it for palpatine okay so what is about r2d2 r2d2 is r2 is incredibly underestimated and i like that he's he always seems to know exactly what's going on he's like privy to more information than we are even aware like everybody's writing him off as this little droid it's like oh get out of the way you trash can you know but but he's always saving the day he's prepared he he knows where the map of where you know luke skywalker is at.

54:18He's just behind the scenes, just so instrumental to everything. The entire mission.

54:25Simon Sinek:Are you underestimated? And I want to say what I like about him is that he's not out there being flashy about it. He's just... Get the job done. Yeah, he gets the job done. He's really capable. Really much smarter than people think. And humble about it. And he's funny. And I just think that... I don't know. I relate to R2 in that way. You know? Unexpectedly funny. Yeah. Good planner. Yeah. Always lurking in the background. But like, yeah. Not a big bragger. No, he doesn't. That describes you. Yeah. I mean, to be fair, we don't know what he's saying. Only C-3PO can understand. But we assume that C-3PO is accurately translating because that's C-3PO's nature.

55:03Simon Sinek:He's a translator. And I love the relationship between them because R2 is always like checking C-3PO, who is kind of braggadocious. Right. But anyway, I just, I really like R2-D2. He's probably the most secure character in all of them. Yeah. all of them have their baggage and he doesn't he's kind of like he just gets his shit going and gets the job done there's a reason why Anakin bends over backwards to protect him through the Clone Wars the animated series and take him with he's the chosen there's an episode where he almost gets left behind and it's like oh it's a lost cause it's just a droid just let him get destroyed with the ship and Anakin's like nope I'm actually going to go risk my life to get my friend right yeah so i think that that's a perfect way to to end this and to move into roswell which is uh i think you are a friend that everyone would be lucky to have you by their side you are r2d2 thank you simon i won't call you c3po because you're not that but you're you're han solo so yeah i am uh can i ask a favor yeah this is totally selfish totally selfish um i've I've discovered you because of this magical song called Roswell.

56:16Simon Sinek:Oh, yeah. My favorite thing about the song is it's accurate. Yeah. It's intensely accurate. Every line. And I knew the story of Roswell. Yeah. And how it became a thing that it wasn't. It's not aliens, but it's funny. And I love that every line of that song is an education. Like if somebody sings along, they're smarter. Here's one thing, though, that I kind of got slightly wrong. and I'm going to take this opportunity to correct myself. So I mentioned the CIA. And technically, the CIA was created like a month after. It was the OSS. Yeah, I don't know. Was it? I don't know the exact. I mean, it was CIA-ish.

56:54Simon Sinek:Right. It was the precursor. But the CIA was formed kind of in the wake of this event. So maybe because of this event. We don't know. But I did mention that they called the CIA, which technically they couldn't have done that. They couldn't have done that, but they called the OSS. But it's a fun line. It's a great line. It's a fun line to put in there. So let's just be clear what happened at Roswell. I mean, well, actually, we don't have to. My ask is, can you please sing the song? Yeah. I can tell you exactly what happened in Roswell by singing the song. By singing the song. But first, tell us the origin story of the song.

57:22Simon Sinek:How did that song come to be? So Tony and I were, Tony's the lead guitarist in my band, and we were coming back from Minneapolis having played a show, and we decided, since we're coming close, we're going through New Mexico to get back to LA. I was like, we have to visit Roswell. Like, that's, as a space nerd, you know. It's Mecca. I'm less into conspiracy theories, but whatever. I just wanted to see it. So we stopped through Roswell. We were there for two days. And then on our way out, we were actually about to leave. The van broke down. And it broke down hard. They had to get some obscure piece that they needed to send in.

57:58And we ended up being there for 10 full days while the van was being fixed.

58:02Simon Sinek:10 days? 10 days. I mean, that's like, OK. That's a long time to be. It was a long time. And they kept saying, oh. And Roswell's in the middle of nowhere, right? Yeah, there's not much to do other than learn about the incident and go to the museum and all the like kitschy alien things. It's great. I mean, even the McDonald's there has like alien. It's like a spaceship. And it's really it's really a cute town. I liked it a lot. And everybody was super nice. So I would I was asking locals about it. I was going to the museum. I was reading books about it. Like, what else are you going to do for 10 days in Roswell?

58:32And then I was like, we have to write a song over here. So before we left, we wrote the song and then we filmed it in front of the Roswell water tower.

58:42Simon Sinek:I hate to point this out. Okay. But Roswell was your lockdown. It was your blank space. It was your good nothing. Yeah, it was. And good nothing. You had nothing to do. You're bored because you've exhausted everything there is to do in Roswell. The only thing left to do was to be creative. Exactly. That's exactly right. Maybe we shouldn't call it good nothing. Maybe we should call it Roswell time. I like that. I need some Roswell time. Yep. I like that. I need to be stuck in Roswell to create something. I like it. It's great. Roswell time it is. Okay. So amazing. We have El Cordova and Tony Lindgren, and they're going to perform Roswell for us.

59:18Yeah. Yes, we have to do it. All right. One, two.

59:45Thank you.

1:00:04The D.O.D.

1:00:05Simon Sinek:and we call the CIA There's big news today out in Roswell That sleepy New Mexico town And Major Marcel What can you tell us about Roswell Well, the Roswell Army Airfield sent their finest personnel. A rank and file officer was a young Major Marcel. A Major told a story and it echoed round the globe. Flying saucer captured at an old New Mexico. But the orders came from Washington, materials were changed. The town was hushed in silence and Macarazal was detained. They scooped up all the evidence and flew into Fort Worth. Staged a couple of photos and the headlines were reversed. There's nothing to see here in Roswell.

1:01:16A torn up old weather blue. Agent Marcel was mistaken as well About Roswell Get it, Tony

1:01:52The years pass on in Roswell But the story still persists Rumors turn to theories And theories turn to myth But to his dying day The major swore on he had There's no way in hell The film that fell was made by human hands This is the mystery Lives on out in Roswell At creepy New Mexico Oh, it's how Major Marcel What can't you tell us about Roswell?

1:02:42The story of Roswell. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you very much.

1:02:49Simon Sinek:A Bit of Optimism is a production of The Optimism Company, lovingly produced by our team, Lindsay Garbenius, Phoebe Bradford, and Devin Johnson. Subscribe wherever you enjoy listening to podcasts, and if you want even more cool stuff, visit simonsynic.com. Thanks for listening. Take care of yourself. Take care of each other.

From the publisher

Team Simon is revisiting some of the episodes you helped make our favorites of the year until A Bit of Optimism returns on January 27, 2026, with brand-new episodes.
We’re rewinding back to August, when talented polymath Elle Cordova joined the show and unpacked how we’re all wired to chase the next spark. We scroll, swipe, refresh, and repeat—but some of our brightest ideas sneak in when we stop chasing, let boredom settle in, and give our minds room to wander.
Elle knows the power of that pause. When the pandemic hit pause on her life as a touring musician, she stumbled into new creative territory—making offbeat comedy videos about delightfully nerdy topics like particle physics, grammar, and fonts. Those sketches went viral, and suddenly she was thriving as a social media creator with a devoted following.
In this episode, Simon and Elle talk about finding what truly lights you up, pushing through writer’s block, working with anxiety—and yes, Star Wars makes an appearance (because of course it does). Plus, Elle treats us to a live, in-studio performance of her song “Roswell.”
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