Leading ADHD & Hypermobility Expert: '3 Ways ADHD Affects Collagen In Women!' | Nick Potter

4 Aug 2025 · 57 min · 33 chapters

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In short

Dr. Nick Potter, an ADHD and hypermobility specialist, argues ADHD and hypermobility are interconnected through “prediction error” and proprioception/collagen issues, affecting pain, anxiety, and fatigue. He emphasizes awareness, early screening in schools, and education-based treatment rather than symptom-only care.

Guest backgrounds

Nick Potter is a world-renowned author with three decades of medical experience; he worked in primary care (Fulham) and focuses on research linking ADHD mind states to physical body effects. He also discusses work by researchers including Jess Eccles and Carl Friston.

Key claims

ADHD people are not “broken,” but struggle to regulate balance. Hypermobility involves collagen-related tissue laxity that impairs proprioception, creating vision-body mismatch and fear-driven fidgeting. Shame and social withdrawal can develop early, especially in girls. Pain is framed as nervous-system processing; chronic conditions (CFS/ME/fibromyalgia) are presented as related manifestations.

Notable examples

Batons score/Brighton score for joint screening; “duvet dancing” for POTS; fidgeting as periphery sampling; avoiding heat, using salt/compression, and exercise to reduce dizziness and fear.

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Understanding ADHD and Balance

0:00 to 1:20

Learn about the challenges ADHD individuals face in finding balance.

“ADHD people are no different to anybody else.”

Nick's Mission in ADHD and Hypermobility

1:37 to 3:08

Discover Nick's journey and his mission in raising awareness for ADHD and hypermobility.

“It blew my mind when I learned about hypermobility and the links to ADHD.”

The Evolution of ADHD Awareness

3:08 to 4:23

Explore how awareness of ADHD has evolved over the past 15 years.

“It's not a financially driven thing, it's purely awareness and education and I think I found a bit of a talent for being able to explain it.”

Testing for Hypermobility in Children

4:23 to 5:52

Learn about the importance of testing for hypermobility in children.

“Yeah, I think the more awareness you get, the more the people involved are kicked into doing it.”

Understanding Collagen and Proprioception

5:52 to 7:21

Gain insights into how collagen affects proprioception and movement in those with hypermobility.

“for someone listening, someone watching?”

Hypermobility and ADHD: A Common Connection

7:21 to 8:35

Examine the connection between hypermobility and ADHD, specifically in women.

“They all want to do something new and exciting.”

The Impact of Hypermobility on Emotions

8:35 to 10:05

Discuss the emotional consequences of living with hypermobility and ADHD.

“So we have the most developed ocular system in the world and way more than hawks and everything else.”

Physical Exercises to Manage ADHD

10:05 to 12:42

Learn how physical exercises can help manage ADHD symptoms related to hypermobility.

“That's why I don't believe we'll make a robot that's sentient for literally years, because it can't be made of metal, it's got to be made of tissue.”

The Complexity of ADHD Experiences

12:42 to 14:00

Delve into the complexities of ADHD experiences, including shame and awareness.

“So the classic thing in the playground is if they're doing PE, is they just don't get it as quickly when their other friends are.”

Understanding ADHD and Its Challenges

14:00 to 16:07

Learn how ADHD affects individuals' ability to find balance and regulate their responses.

“In general terms, ADHD people are no different to anybody else.”
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Understanding ADHD and Its Challenges

16:11 to 17:09

Learn how ADHD affects individuals' ability to find balance and regulate their responses.

“What has two eyes is smaller than a fingernail, lives inside your phone and improves every element of your life and helps you remember all those social plans you made because you didn't know how to say no.”

The Link Between Hypermobility and ADHD

17:09 to 18:34

Explore the potential connection between hypermobility and ADHD prevalence in women.

“But I think I would certainly say in my experience, yes.”

Physical Sensitivity and Its Impacts

18:34 to 20:44

Understand how hypermobility affects physical movement and pain perception.

“And I've done it with a very nice educational psychologist friend of mine.”

Emotional Pain and Sensitivity

20:44 to 22:44

Learn about the connection between hypermobility, emotional sensitivity, and pain management.

The Neurological Basis of Pain

22:44 to 24:23

Discover how the nervous system processes pain and its emotional connections.

“And everybody rejects that, but it's completely true.”

Understanding Patient Perspectives

24:23 to 28:00

Gain insight into how patients perceive their suffering and the importance of validation.

“or it could be leg broken, those circuits are broken and the brain's saying they need to be attended to and fixed.”

Understanding Patient Interactions in Osteopathy

28:00 to 28:54

Learn how personalized patient interactions can enhance healing.

“I mean, the reason I can't do what I do in the NHS is because I simply, I take an hour with my patients to start with, and they're half an hour to 40 minutes.”

Stress and Its Impact on Physical Conditions

28:54 to 29:58

Explore how stress correlates with various physical ailments and ADHD.

“And in fact, I've got a nice little slide, in fact, of about 11.”

Energy Management in ADHD

29:58 to 31:08

Discover how ADHD affects energy usage and brain efficiency.

“Everything works for a bit with pain unless you get to the root of it.”

Morning Routines for ADHD Management

31:08 to 32:29

Find out optimal morning practices for individuals with ADHD.

“just chemical energy we're not talking waga waga energy this is this is real energy you're burning You're sitting there burning the heat of about a 60 watt light bulb right now.”

POTS and Its Effects on Hypermobile Individuals

32:29 to 34:06

Understand postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome and its implications.

“and then you're going to a multi-sensory environment in your office, open plan offices are an anachronism of the 80s.”

Innovative Morning Hacks for ADHD and POTS

34:06 to 35:26

Learn creative strategies to combat dizziness and enhance energy in the morning.

“I actually pretty much feel unwell all the time because when you open up your blood vessels to lose heat, you drop your blood pressure.”

Medical Community's Understanding of Hypermobility

35:26 to 36:48

Examine the medical community's approach to diagnosing hypermobility.

“just down regulating that fear all the time.”

Lifespan Implications of ADHD and Hypermobility

36:48 to 38:12

Discuss how ADHD and hypermobility may indirectly affect lifespan.

“Now I'm feeling, I'm feeling faint because the blood, the pulse rate didn't go up and then it did.”

Driving Safety Concerns for ADHD Individuals

38:12 to 39:46

Learn about the potential driving challenges faced by those with ADHD.

“That's going to happen to anybody to a certain extent.”

The Role of Focus in Driving

39:46 to 42:00

Discover how hyperfocus can affect driving abilities for individuals with ADHD.

“They can have heart valve disease and that sort of thing.”

Navigating Distractions in ADHD Driving

42:00 to 43:20

Learn about the challenges ADHD individuals face with distractions while driving.

“You know, so it's, I don't know, it's a constant balance, but I think, yeah, it's all about the signal.”

The Upsides of ADHD and Unique Talents

43:20 to 44:30

Discover how ADHD can lead to unique skills and talents, such as pattern recognition.

“for your time and your wisdom pleasure I want to move attention to your ADHD item, which has been patiently waiting underneath that cloth in front of us this entire interview.”

Observations and Intuition in Clinical Practice

44:30 to 46:50

Understand how ADHD traits can enhance observational skills in clinical settings.

“Well, another example, my daughter went to Zara and she wanted to buy a green blouse and she said, Dad, you know, will you treat me to go?”

Understanding Emotional Triggers in Patients

46:50 to 49:20

Examine how emotional issues often underlie physical ailments in patients.

“You know very quickly because in some ways you want to observe them when they're not thinking about it.”

Managing Hyperactivity and Impulsivity

49:20 to 52:10

Learn strategies for managing impulsivity and hyperactivity in ADHD individuals.

“Time for my favourite part of the show, which is the ADHD agony art section where a member of the audience writes in with a question.”

Finding Your Passion and Purpose with ADHD

52:10 to 56:03

Explore ways to identify and pursue passions that align with ADHD traits.

Navigating ADHD in Professional Life

56:03 to 57:16

Learn about the challenges and strategies for thriving with ADHD in work environments.

“you found this, you know, I don't know what else you were interested in doing at university, but maybe when you founded all your other podcast channels, et cetera, you know, you just suddenly said, I love linking people.”
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0:00ADHD people are no different to anybody else. We've got everything we need, but there's a balance. You've got to balance what you need at the right time. The problem with ADHD is we can do all that, we just can't regulate it. So we don't find that balance. Lots of different subtypes of ADHD, and I think we should be careful of that. And we can't just say that because somebody's just a bit over-vigilant and a bit this and a bit of a worrier that they've got ADHD. We've got so obsessed with cognition, the brain, how clever we are, etc., is that we've forgotten that we are an embodied brain. Dr. Nick Potter is an ADHD and hypermobility specialist.

0:27Nick Potter:World-renowned author with three decades of medical experience. Nick is behind pioneering research into how our ADHD mind can drastically impact our physical body. So there's a dissonance, a mismatch between what your vision is telling you and what your body is telling you. That's what we call prediction error. If you're on the planes, which is where our brains really are manufactured to be, that meant you got eaten. So we've still got that mechanism and it sets off fear and it sets us to move. That's why we fidget. it means also that we're constantly very often being drawn into the periphery to know what things could take us out.

0:56We just don't know we're doing it. Quick one before I get distracted. I just wanted to say a very brief thank you to all of my listeners. Thank you for tuning in and thank you for subscribing and following the podcast. It really, really helps. At ADHD Chatter, my mission is to ask the world leading experts the hard questions to give you access to the most pioneering advice the world has to offer and with an aim to help you feel seen. Following and subscribing helps me on my mission to book these incredibly insightful guests and to give you these incredibly insightful interviews. Remember, you're not broken, just different, and you have always been enough.

1:35Nick, thank you so much for joining us. Absolute pleasure. It's lovely to be here. It blew my mind when I learned about hypermobility and the links to ADHD. But just to set the foundation, Nick, what would you say your mission is in the world of ADHD and hypermobility? It's a great question. I think for me, it started with hypermobility. And as I was saying earlier, I worked in primary care down in Fulham, actually. So we were seeing families. And it was conspicuous to me how many of the population were hypermobile, particularly I and myself. And actually also its connection to other conditions, problems we were seeing.

2:08And I did flag it up to the GPs who were very receptive, actually, and sort of grew. But I think that as with so many, medicine's a funny institution, it takes probably 15 years to change consciousness around certain concepts. And I think certainly rheumatologists who were seeing these patients were like, oh, blimey, there's a whole new thing coming and we don't really know what to do with it. And then it was, oh, everybody's hypermobile. And it's actually, well, not really. And then the consciousness developed. But I also just noticed that increasingly they did have a neurotype, a body type was producing a way of, they fidgeted more, they twisted their ankles all the time.

2:42It's a classic question I say to patients is you know did you always twist your ankles as a kid and they go yeah yeah i did a lot and of course once you keep we've done it once you keep doing it but that's very important because proprioception which is what we use our feet for a lot which is to tell where we are in space relies on ligaments and if those ligaments are damaged and they come off they don't rehabilitate them properly then they keep doing it so then they get into a vicious cycle but i think my mission is awareness i'm very lucky i have a busy practice i don't necessarily need more patients but I'm very passionate that I actually wrote a book in 2018 on pain in which I included hypermobility and realized looking at data that if you look at the pain society data that 43 % of the population have pain chronic pain the NHS is unfortunately unable to really provide anything for it other than medication which doesn't work very long and that's 23 million people that's an awful lot of people and some of those people couldn't afford to either come and see me they're too far away I see a lot of international patients that's how desperate some of them are and I thought I'd like to put something back to a certain extent.

3:45It's not a financially driven thing, it's purely awareness and education and I think I found a bit of a talent for being able to explain it. I mean, I do it every day to my patients, but to explain it simply because it's quite complex, it's multifactorial. And it was at the heart of a lot of pain syndromes and it's at the heart, I think we know now, very, very connected to the ADHD domain. Do you think we're seeing a similar movement in awareness towards hypermobility as we've seen towards ADHD? It feels like over the last 15 years in the ADHD space, what people thought it was is very different to what they think it is today.

4:23Yeah, I think the more awareness you get, the more the people involved are kicked into doing it. So in the academic world, and a lot of the trusts within the NHS are attached to hospitals, but they're also attached to universities. And so you get the PhD students suddenly looking at this stuff. And so we now start getting a plethora of data. You've got to be careful that that data is good. They've got to be properly done studies. It's difficult to do because it's so multifactorial. And generally, research doesn't lend itself very well to the human organism because by the time you've reduced something down to a tiny amount, it's very useless.

4:55It doesn't tell you the relevant to anything else. So I think I would say hypermobility has taken longer. I think in the occupational therapy world, they're very aware of it. One of the things I'm passionate about and why I want Polly to come today is I want these tests done more on children in all schools. They're incredibly simple. They cost nothing. Even a teacher can do it. If you can flag hypermobility up, then you can say to the parents, and I would do it to all children, so that you're not isolating anybody and it's not an academic test it's not educational psychology it's just a physical test and if you flag it up and you say look to the parents just to let you know we know that hypermobility is more commonly linked to certain neurodevelopmental disorders and if we could get him doing very specific exercise to integrate himself better etc we would it is now proven that it would reduce the chances of loss of those neurodevelopmental problems coming on.

5:46It's much better to produce a resilient kid than it is to have to fix a damaged adult. What would that test look like for someone listening, someone watching? How could they test? Really simple and you can Google it immediately. It's called the Baton's score. There is one called the Brighton's score, which is slightly different. And as my colleague Jess Eccles, who's a dear colleague, they've sort of developed that. Brighton and Sussex have been leaders in this. But the Baton's score is a nine-point score and it's very easy to do. it involves things like having very extensible fingers on both sides so that's two and then whether or not you can get your thumb pretty close to your wrist I mean I really can't that's something I don't particularly do well but it's a lot more than most most people get past there extensible elbows so if you can go extend your elbows past about 10 or 15 degrees then we would consider that hypermobile okay which means your joints can go further than they should do okay and then the same with your knees and then the other one is that you can you can pretty much early in the morning no matter how stiff you may feel you can get pretty close to touching your toes and if you feel very high you'll just go straight flat on the floor the one that i'm particularly interested in which isn't in the test and is difficult to validate which is what we're trying to do at the moment is that you have what we call extensible skin so you do it at the neck and on the back of the hand and even quite young people obviously as you get older it tends to happen but even quite young people can extend their skin a lot longer off the surface of their body and that's very interesting because skin is a multi-sensory tissue and so it gives us a lot of feedback about the world and if that's very flexible or overly flexible it moves in relation to the body so we get impaired proprioception through it so that's something i'm looking at at the moment but then i have to get the dermatologist involved so there's lots of ologists uh who i have to talk to but they're actually really open to it because they're all sitting in silos and they all kind of know it but it just needed someone like me to come and say dudes i think we need to have a dinner at least and got talking and that's what we did with the ADHD hypermobility group and then I will factor in those other elements.

7:41But they're loving it. They all want to do something new and exciting. We all get a bit bored of doing the same thing every day. So how common is hypermobility in ADHD? Because you think of ADHD, right? And you don't necessarily think joints. How common is it? It's a really good question. I mean, really big studies. If you're going to prove this stuff, you've got to do 20 ,000 patients and then correlate it, et cetera. But in real terms, we're looking at probably the general population about 20 upwards in the adhd study done by jess uh at sussex it looked like it was about 40 of the adhd group but interestingly about 75 of the female group which is initially so it was higher and that's certainly anecdotally in my own practice you see more female hypermobile patients um so uh and then tie in with their what we call psycho neurotype um and the fact that they they have less bodily awareness and so on then it produces a form of anxiety um but so my passion is that these are not neurotic females you know these are people with an internal system that is constantly hyper vigilant and that ultimately turns which is a fear response and fear turns into anxiety if so it is more common in women and if what are the sort of consequences physiological emotional consequences of living with hypermobility um and adhd but not knowing so again as we were saying earlier i think all these there are some lots of different subtypes of adhd and i think we should be you know we need to be careful of that and we can't just say that because somebody's just a bit over over vigilant and a bit this and a bit of a warrior that they've got adhd there's lots of other reasons it's childhood reasons and so on i think maybe to wind back a little bit and without getting too technical the way i try and explain it to patients is our brain spends two-thirds of its capacity on visual information.

9:30We're very big on eyes, okay? So we have the most developed ocular system in the world and way more than hawks and everything else. And we use our peripheral vision to tell us about new information coming in from the periphery. So we orientate towards it. You know, Bambi in the headlight, she looks across when she hears, and they freeze and they hold their breath, right? But we integrate that with what our body is telling us. And my big zid is that we've got so obsessed with cognition, the brain, how clever we are, etc., is that we've forgotten that we are an embodied brain. We cannot build models of the world unless we have a body, because you have multi-sensory information.

10:05And it's a phenomenal piece of kit. That's why I don't believe we'll make a robot that's sentient for literally years, because it can't be made of metal, it's got to be made of tissue. So what we rely on is those five senses coming in, one of which, the most important ones, is proprioception that doesn't get talked about, which is stretch receptors in our body. There are there are millions of them, they're nano-sized, and they're particularly in your joints, they're particularly in the capsules and ligaments of your joints. They feed back to your brain about where you are in space, because if you can't tell where you are, you don't know everything relative to anything else.

10:34And it all gets quite metaphysical, but that's the point. The problem for hypermobility is that we have a collagen disorder. We lack a particular type of collagen. That collagen binds us together. So we have tissues that are like marshmallow instead of chewing gum. We don't have a sticky, agile form of soft tissue. Those receptors, are just mechanoreceptors. They just measure movement. And they're a propeller shape. They're called piezo-receptors. And interestingly, we actually have them in moving organs. So it's anything that moves, these receptors. So we've got the heart that moves, the chest that moves, even your bowel moves to a certain extent.

11:06So they're in both of those, and they correlate with each other where they are. And your brain is monitoring that at very high resolution. You just can't possibly know about it because you couldn't be thinking about it all the time. It literally knows what your big toenail is doing right now and is processing that for you. but it only makes you aware of what you need to do something about the problem for us is if you have a movement the soft tissues will not pick up that movement these receptors as high resolution as normal so there's a dissonance a mismatch between what your vision is telling you and what your body's telling you that's what we call prediction error which i know jess eccles talked about a little bit which is that my perception of the world is off now that's great in our safe world that's relatively easy in the modern days but if you're on the plains which is where our brains really are manufactured to be um that meant you got eaten because if you tripped up a tree stump over a tree stump when you were being chased uh you were toast so we've still got that mechanism and it sets off fear and it sets us to move that's why we fidget because we're trying to find we're constantly taking little parameters little little soundings about where we are and it means also that we're constantly very often being drawn into the periphery okay because we're constantly seeking to know what things could take us out.

12:20We just don't know we're doing it. So if there's a mismatch, the brain has to take many more flashes of the world. We burn much more neural energy. Again, we don't know we're doing it. And then we can crash much quicker. So it is a Ferrari brain that has its advantages. The way you can integrate that is actually physical exercise. And that's what these people don't like doing because they're clumsy. So girls are particularly susceptible to feeling shame. So the classic thing in the playground is if they're doing PE, is they just don't get it as quickly when their other friends are. So they actually just tend to give up and then they don't do it.

12:53Whereas actually, if you said to them, look, you just need to do 10 times what somebody does five, but you will get it. Then you will start integrating your body. So you're just knocking out that error by practicing. It's what any sport's about. The more you practice it, the more you get. The problem for us is we have to spend a bit longer doing it. But then we get bored or we find everyone else is doing it. I'm crap. I'll walk away. And girls, I've seen it with my own daughter and family, you know, they're much more aware of Who saw me fluff it? Who saw me get it wrong? Boys tend to be actually in those situations more competitive, more focused, so they will just drill it harder.

13:24The problem is then you don't get into the sporty group. Sporty group's often sometimes the cool group, and then they feel more isolated. And that's where the kind of social anxiety, I think, begins to develop. And it's quite an early age. It's so interesting. Shame seems to be such a common characteristic of the ADHD experience. Is it quite easy to look at the executive functioning challenges of ADHD, I think disorganization and forgetfulness, but I think the emotional aspects of it are so much more significant and impacting. How would you describe ADHD to an alien, for example? ADHD people generally, I mean, without getting into sort of the learning disorders of executive function, etc.

14:04In general terms, ADHD people are no different to anybody else. We've got everything we need, but there's a balance between it. The yin and yang sign that you see in the ancients really knew it right for every every action there was a reaction whether it's in your chemistry and your movements or your behavior you've got to balance what you need at the right time and the problem for adhd is we can do all that we just can't regulate it so we don't find that balance and i think that starts early in childhood for lots of reasons uh it can be parental familial uh those things traumatic all those sorts of things which just knock you and and if you don't recover from it properly then um you go forward in the world and the problem is if you and i've done this with traders when we stressed them deliberately looking at volatility what we didn't realize was that within less than two days if they were feeling they wouldn't know they were stressed but they were feeling it through their physiology they would actually change what we call the search algorithms so they would actually see the world in a different way when you say traders these are traders on a financial floor so they're trading masses of data that's why they're all they need to be at least that because that that's their superpower right they can they can see market movements way before i have an anesthetist colleague and it's fascinating he can tell before the computers whether the patient's going to do something weird well suddenly say oh hold on a minute and he sort of injects something into the body and then i said how did you know he said oh i can just because just from millions of patients he knows that lots of parameters are happening and from learned experience and i said what happens if you don't do it's all i don't there you go and then suddenly the computer went bing bing bing and it was picking it up so he was actually quicker than the he was he was seeing it quicker than the computer was pattern recognition pattern recognition exactly and we're very good at that So it is a talent.

15:37And we see it in medicine and we see it in, you know, surgeons are quite similar. They have to do very focused and intense operations. But most of the time they're, you know, they're also having to take in an awful lot of other stuff going on in the room. I don't think you could do that if you didn't have the superpower. So I think, you know, I think a lot of it's about finding what we're good at rather than feeling judged by, because we're slightly irritating in a classroom. You mentioned earlier, Nick, that women are more likely to have hypermobility. Does that mean that therefore women are more likely to have ADHD?

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17:19And certainly for NICE and people like that to buy into it, they've got to say. And obviously we get into what we call the correlation causation trap, which is just because two things coexist doesn't mean they cause each other. But if you look at the neuroscience, and this is something I found that I just had a bit of a talent, and I think is the talent of ADHD with, is the seeing the interconnectedness of things. You know, you don't need to be too much a rocket scientist to see why these things would happen. If you know some neuroscience and you know some psychology, you can actually say, well, it's obvious that this causes that.

17:46And actually maybe here I would mention the work of Carl Friston at UCL, which has been seminal, and he actually wrote an equation for how it is the brain thinks. and I contacted him and said, could you rewrite it for me? Because it's way above my pay grade to know the physics. Could you rewrite it with the arm that is proprioception and say that there's a mismatch? And so we are actually writing an equation for hypermobility, which would ultimately be probably really what ADHD is. It's an equation. And it's quite nice to be able to prove it mathematically. And I think that certainly Jess Eccles' studies, is Professor Critchley, Garfinkel, they have certainly seen in their experience that the ADHD people they're coming seeing through psychiatry, who they can simply do a Baten score, there's a huge amount of overlap.

18:34And I've done it with a very nice educational psychologist friend of mine. I rang her up and said, could you possibly just get all your ADHD kids a Baten score? And she rang me about three weeks later and said, Jesus, they all are. I went, yeah. So I think it's probably that one causes the other, but is interrelated. Sure. It's a problem of perception. So, and you have body perception as well as cognitive. I remember Dr. Jess Eccles when she came on and did her brilliant interview. She said, if you're hypermobile, you probably have been told that you've got a great party trick of, for example, being able to bend your thumb back and touch it.

19:09It is a party trick. I mean, you see some of these guys who can do it. I mean, look at these, the circuses and Cirque du Soleil. You know, these poor kids and Malaysians are very, very hypermobile So they come in and they're stretched because, of course, their parents see an opportunity. But I mean, they can get themselves through a tennis racket, you know. So it is amazing, but it's also, isn't it? You know, so it's a bit freaky. So I'm not sure. I think it's a party trick, but I think you're also, at least you can laugh at yourself maybe. But I think to a certain extent, it's also you're a bit weird, which we're quite used to being told probably.

19:39I mean, on the flip side, what problems do you think having a body like that could cause? Well, this is where I come in with the sort of body stuff. I think that the problem is having too much movement isn't just a neurological feedback thing. It's also that unfortunately joints rely on a reciprocal relationship between picking up tension and stiffness to support your joints. So we tend to fatigue quite quickly. Just we get tired, we fidget, we're constantly shifting. The classic is, do you shift all the time in the cinema? Do you twist your ankles? Can you flex your joints? But more importantly, do you constantly get neck pain, back pain?

20:11Yes. If I'm working the laptop, all those sorts of things, they're going to get it. They're going to fatigue earlier and they're going to get much more bodily pain, which again, makes them feel like there's something wrong with them. But once they, a lot of, a lot of my treatment is education. I mean, it's just, they go, wow, finally, somebody's told me why I'm like, and that's, um, that is the treatment really. Um, but it's, it's integrated with pain. Um, and if you don't understand it, then your brain starts saying what's wrong with me. And then you build that into a fear and you actually stop moving because not moving is easier and moving hurts when it's actually the exact opposite of what you need.

20:44to do with the pain thing i mean are there any real life examples that someone with hypermobility might avoid because they are more susceptible to feeling pain in that situation absolutely i mean it makes you retract if you know something it's like migraine migraineurs will begin to retract from the community because they tend to get it in social environments from stimulated environments so they just don't do it right they go back into a hole so the same thing is you know if you've got a sore hip you'll start limping and then you'll accommodate it then that becomes tiring so you you walk less and you know we see this in the elderly once they get injured they deteriorate very quickly because they can't move and you need your well brains are designed to move not to think and that's what people forget every affect every feeling that we have involves a movement if i'm thirsty i drink if i'm hungry are these sex horniness that you know you couldn't tell me what horniness was but you just know what it is right and it's a compulsion to do the sexual act they're all affects that's why i tend to call them affects their feelings they're not emotions then you have the other they're the survival ones then you have the other emotions which are socially based and parentally based so fear sadness despondency rejection etc they're much more subtle but even crying if you think about it if you're upset there is no function to crying physiologically producing tears doesn't do anything for it other than to show to the group that you're upset and if your sensitivity is higher your tolerance for doing that's lower so you are a more sensitive person that means you have a lower hypermobile don't like being told this only because i think i've got quite a high pain threshold by definition if you've told me that you haven't because you're feeling the pain so we can measure that and they do tend to have lower pain thresholds but that's because they see the world as a fearful place so you're as like an alarm system your brain makes everything more sensitive so they don't you can't see it there's nothing you can go and measure other than ouch or tickle they generally don't like being touched much they don't like being tickled they don't like being poked and they get very claustrophobic you do it to a child tickle a child who's hypermobile they really don't like it they don't really giggle they go get off you know so it's a generalized sensitivity and does that apply to emotional pain too yeah you're going down going down another hole yeah i wouldn't separate the two i mean when we call what we call nociception which is if i just prod you with a needle which is that the tension receptors will tell you that they're being so stimulated that it's dangerous there is there are no look the freaky truth is there are no pain fibers anywhere in the body there are no pain nerves.

23:03And everybody rejects that, but it's completely true. There's nowhere in your body that specifically fires pain. It's when a particular receptor is so overstimulated, heat, you know, you can put your finger on a hot plate and this is getting hotter, you go, ouch, right? That's just a tolerance at which your brain says, no, you're going to get damaged. Okay? If I start with a pen on your knee and I keep pressing it in slow and slow and slow, and then, oh, ouch, right? All you're feeling is summation. So that's what we call nociception. that's very different if you go on to feel chronic pain which you can't get out of that pain that's a very different that's when the the information coming in what we call somatossensory information coming in turns it flips into the emotional circuit so that's when it's gone deeper into the brain it's gone it stopped being here and in the spinal cord it's been sent up to the top and in my book i likened it to the cia this is where you know your bureau bureau out in hong kong's picking up a lot of noise it's then got to start reporting it back to langley and then langley makes a response okay so it's a it's a similar concept but it's so emotional pain yeah is is it hurt you know emotional pain hurts we know what hurt is it's very difficult to describe but something can have a physical hurt and it can be you know if you lose a loved one or you find out your girlfriend's um two-timing you that is a physical hurt because your narrative which is i'm in a relationship i'm happy i'm loved etc suddenly is catastrophically broken so you could say that pain is the felt sensation of a neurological network, which could just be story, relationship, or it could be leg broken, those circuits are broken and the brain's saying they need to be attended to and fixed.

24:38It's fascinating. So the brain to body connection is so strong. I mean, I don't know, is there research to suggest that heartbreak might be more painful for someone with ADHD, hypermobility? Well, you just said it. We have language. No other animal has language. Why? Because that means you and me can communicate. But we have to have an understanding, a mutual understanding of what we're talking about is. And it's endemic. That's why being articulate is really important. Because if I say on that, I was on the BBC once and I said to a whole lot of pain patients, I said, look, you've got to understand that pain is not in your head.

25:09It's not in your mind, but it is in your nervous system. Okay. And your brain. And it's weird. They will go, okay. If you say it's in their head, it implies malingering. It's all your fault. Again, it's a shame thing. As soon as you say it's a nervous system disorder, they go, okay, right, okay, I feel validated. I'm listening now, you know. And you see them in chat rooms. They're quite angry. They've got angry emojis. They're pissed off. They're in their room too much and they hurt, right? So who's this guy telling me that it's all in my head? I agree with him. But if you say it's in your nervous system and then you take them, once you've hooked them, you can then take them down this pathway saying, well, look, actually the only place that hurts is your brain.

25:43It's just taking information. but um so you have a representation of your body on the surface of your brain and when people can't i know when somebody's dissociated from an injury because they'll say to me hey doc it's the knee not my knee and that's very important because it means he's seeing it something other and that's part of rehabilitation you have to say to them no no it's your knee and we're going to fix it and then you the rehabilitation is reintegrating a model on the surface of your brain well what you just said is probably enough to make someone instantly not feel crazy to feel validated i mean i was i'm very passionate about i teach quite a lot and i'm very passionate about teaching students how to be with patients you know be understand amazing i went to go and speak at a quite a big um conference recently and i just asked them all what does where does the word patient come from and very few hands went up a couple went up and said young keen chap said oh it's because they're like they're patient they're waiting in the room i said no it comes from patio which is to suffer right patty ends is the participle they're suffering so we're very mindful to remember that right these people are giving us the privilege of them coming to us saying i can't cope anymore that's why they're here and that i'm suffering at whatever level my role is to find out what what's causing that and try and help them with it but it's about empowering them whereas i think now you know you go into some of the areas of the nhs who are over busy and demoralized, but they actually see patients as irritants.

27:07So when somebody comes in and says, I'm giddy, it's like, oh, it's either something or nothing. You know, I'm in pain. Oh, okay. Wow. And they've only got seven minutes. So what are they going to do? They're going to give you a medication. I think a lot of my doctors know what they should be doing, that my doctor colleagues, but they just haven't got the time and they're inundated with it. And the problem is medicine has gone into a reductionist point of view, which means that we, you know, you see your cardiologist and this, so hypermobile patients invariably will have seen a cardiologist, a neurologist, a rheumatologist, a psychologist, a psychiatrist, and none of them independently have given them the answer.

27:40Why? Because these patients sit at the intersection between all of those. That's why they get missed. So they get sent around this sea of endless practitioners and never get an answer. And that's why I have them crying of joy in my room. My nurses, when I first joined the King Edward, they said, they're all crying. I said, yeah, but they're actually happy because they just said somebody has told me why unlike i am and then that's where it starts and then you can give them all the little things and they actually fix themselves just by understanding not being afraid saying look this isn't actually broken anymore it's healed but your brain's got a representation that it is so we've got to change your perspective give you the give you the things to do and they and it happens quite quickly seven minutes appointment is i mean it's terrible ten minutes i mean if they were longer would that be more time for the doctor to maybe...

28:28Well, look at the private centre. I mean, the reason I can't do what I do in the NHS is because I simply, I take an hour with my patients to start with, and they're half an hour to 40 minutes. I'm always running over, right? Because you don't know what you're going to bump into. And it's a wonderful ride because a human isn't a sort of an organism, right? Somebody coming in with back pain is you. It's Alex with back pain. It's not just back pain. And Alex will manifest that pain in a completely different way and his perception of it. So I've got to know what makes up Alex, right from childhood, right through to that.

28:54So people, I think sometimes a bit surprised by what they get from it because they think oh you're an osteopath you're a backcracker it's like no that's not what osteopathic medicine is about and um but also I've worked in rehab medicine in Germany and whatever you know you formulate and you have to know the neuroscience then you start thinking god this is very limited what we're doing and you get a bit disappointed and with that knowledge of the brain and the body connection I mean are there other physical conditions that are linked to ADHD I would slightly change that by saying, are there other conditions that are a manifestation of neural state?

29:26If that doesn't sound too complicated. But yes. And in fact, I've got a nice little slide, in fact, of about 11. And gastric reflux, for example. 90 % of it is stress. You secrete much more gastric acid. But they'll just give you an antacid for it. They're not interested in why you're stressed. Okay? Could be emotional. It could be work. Could be any number of things. And if you are migraine, it's centered in the brain. And a lot of it is related to stress, a lot of it is backgrounds and so on. But they're not going to do that. They're just going to give you immigrant. They're going to give you something to a triptan, which also zonks you out and also works for a bit.

29:59Everything works for a bit with pain unless you get to the root of it. So I, again, I'll probably be shouted down for it, but I would say that CFS, chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, and ME are effectively the same thing, just manifesting in a different way. So why do we keep calling them three different things? Because the people with each one say, well, no, that's not the case. I get this. Yes, yes, you do. But it's just your brain is inhibiting you either through brain fog, fatigue, or pain. They're the three horsemen of those conditions. And surely those three horsemen perpetuate the ADHD burnout cycle if you're giving so much energy to something that...

30:38So going back to what we're saying about how you've got to take many more samples of the world, we call it sampling rate, if you've got much more error in the system. So you keep taking more flashes, right? You need more resolution. So you're taking more flashes. You don't know you're doing it but that means you're burning a lot of neural energy you're only given 20 of the body's energy every day and it won't give you any more this is something that again friston's labs they discovered is that you get a certain amount of energy as a packet and you've got that for the day and you can't have any more sir where does the other 80 percent go body but 20 of your body is and the other god certainly 20 30 of it is muscles muscles are very heavy on energy it's just chemical energy we're not talking waga waga energy this is this is real energy you're burning You're sitting there burning the heat of about a 60 watt light bulb right now.

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31:20That's a lot of energy. And in the old days, that was very expensive because you then had to go and find food. And if you had to find food, you were at the behest of the predator. Now in a world of abundance, that's not a problem to us. What we don't realize is just taking more food doesn't give the brain more energy. So if you are ADHD, you're a Ferrari brain, and you find it difficult to put, I think somebody I listened to and they said it very nicely, it's a Ferrari brain with bicycle brakes. But if you go down to Cornwall driving with a Ford Escort and a Ferrari, a Ferrari might actually not get there because he'll go off at 180 miles an hour thinking, oh, I'll beat you down there.

31:50But he runs out of fuel. So the ADHD brain and the neurotypical brain, let's say, they both get 20%. It's just the ADHD brain is less efficient. Absolutely right. With the 20%. You're just burning the nitro in your souped up brain much quicker than somebody else's. So it's regulated, right? So just that's where the impulsivity, oh, am I going to do this? It's like, whoa, just, is that good for me? Is that a good idea? And I was saying to one of your colleagues earlier, I mean, I would say to a lot of people, don't, if you're ADHD, is you don't go and do a lot of exercise, physical exercise in the morning.

32:17Certainly do movement. So do some yoga poses, move, get stretched. But don't actually go and burn because most of us need that energy between five and 10 in the morning. When you go to work, that's when you really need it. But if you're already going depleted and then you're going to a multi-sensory environment in your office, open plan offices are an anachronism of the 80s. On the trading floors, these guys are all neurodiverse. They're constantly bothered by this chat, this noise. They've all got their noise cancelling earphones in. And some of them I found in telephone pods with no air conditioning, wondering why they're feeling a bit faint.

32:48But it's just better than listening to all that noise. So, you know, if we could accommodate those, you could have office spaces that certainly would accommodate those people. You get a lot better work out of them, and they would be your superheroes anyway. What do you think an optimal morning routine looks like to sort of really make the most of that 20 %? Well, so going with the hypermobility, and you're asking about whether things are other problems, there's a thing called POTS. It's very important, this. So postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, not everybody gets it if they're hypermobile, but they can do.

33:16Everybody, when you stand up, gravity drops onto the blood in your system. So your heart and your breathing rate have to go up momentarily in order to stop that gain, otherwise you'd faint. But in hypermobile people, because of the lack of collagen in our blood vessels, they're a little slacker. So they're less reactive, less quick, a bit like our agility. We're just a little bit less quick and less gawky. The problem is, therefore, there's a delay. So the gravity presses down on the venous system, which is where there's no pressure. And then they should feel that stretch and stretch receptors respond by shutting, but they don't as a delay.

33:49And so the pulse rate doesn't go up as quickly as it should do. And they perceive that as a drop in blood pressure. Well, they have a drop in blood pressure and that's what makes them feel dizzy. And it's very disconcerting. It's like a pre-faint. They normally won't faint because it will pick up. But that's why in the heat at the moment, a lot of my hypermobile patients say, I really hate the heat. I actually pretty much feel unwell all the time because when you open up your blood vessels to lose heat, you drop your blood pressure. So we tell them to drink a lot more, and they're the few people who really need salt.

34:17They should have much more salt in the food because they will generally have lower blood pressure, and they can help regulate it. Keep your meals constant. A lot of women, for example, just avoid breakfast. They're the few that I don't think that fasting is a good idea because you have such big drops in your blood sugar. your internal state feels that and then you feel unwell so we're very sensitive to our internal state what we call interception and that's really important but with pots there are ways of getting around there's a fabulous neurologist i work with called um ali parry and she came up with a great answer for her pots patients which is uh which was duvet dancing and i love this so what she does and it helps with the adhd you set your alarm clock on your phone to have a serious dance music so it might be some techno whatever right which is pretty intense in the morning but it goes off and so boom right you've got high dopamine you're awake okay you're not procrastinating about getting up but if you get up quickly you're going to feel that drop and then you're going to feel unwell and they're going to so what she says is you you dance to it but in bed so you literally just lie there in bed dancing to the music because subliminally what happens is that puts your blood pressure up because your pulse rate goes up so when they stand up they don't feel dizzy so those little hacks but it helps the adhd as well as the pots so what you're doing is you're just down regulating that fear all the time.

35:33So then they approach the world in a fearful state. And as I said to you about the traders, if you are in a fearful state, you literally see, you're only looking for the things that can take you out. You don't see opportunity. And that of course is the beginnings of a sort of depressive state. I can't get out this hole because everything's fearful to me. So it's safer to stay where I am. And that's why slowly they go down that hole, but give them those, the capacity to change it. And then they get into exercise and then increase their blood pressure they get less variants they don't feel as dizzy and they feel in more control if someone's listening nick and they they relate to a lot of what you've said and they haven't quite got to the stage yet where they've recognized that hack to put techno music on in the morning mine would have been beyonce by the way amazing amazing me too and they've gone to the doctor and they've said they stand up they're feeling lightheaded could it could that person be accused of just having hypochondria and not be believed absolutely they just sort of think that it is just, they just accuse it of being sort of neurosis.

36:28Oh, you're just feeling, you know, because they don't, they don't necessarily understand what's going on because don't forget if somebody takes your blood pressure, it's relatively, they go, Oh, it's great. You've got great blood pressure. Well, not past a certain point. And if you actually took it when they're lying down and stood up, which I do, and you see the pulse rate delay, it's as easy as that to die. You don't need special kit. Um, then you go, there we go. And now, Oh yeah, that's it. Now I'm feeling, I'm feeling faint because the blood, the pulse rate didn't go up and then it did.

36:56so you feel a bit woo and in the heat so if you've been lying on a sunbed in mallorca or whatever and you get up quickly and you're a bit dehydrated you've been lying there for a while you will get i certainly i have to hold on a minute and then it passes and i'll get in the pool and it's why even temperature can be stressful that's why i get them to do cold showering and and all this stuff about deep cold is utter rubbish you just need delta you just need a difference because that's what the brain doesn't like it doesn't like rapid change so if you're just having a shower wash your hair wash your body and then just flip it for 30 seconds to cold but you get them to breathe through that it's a bit like vim hoff's breathing but you have to be careful with his stuff because they tend to hyperventilate but if you just get them to breathe through it and you calm the fear response then you're adjusting your sympathetic nervous system the dysautonomia as we call it so they sweat less they don't get sympathetic sweating they just they're just much better they realize oh i can control my response i can control myself self i can make this go away that's empowerment they get better and at third or fifth time they won't even go you know the first time it's like my god it's freezing it's second or third time they don't even feel it you've just watched resilience developing fear response has just retoned itself and that's you know there's the sort of things we teach them but once they do it and it works you know that's it do you think the medical community is getting better at recognizing hypermobility and when women particularly a community that have have been used to going to their doctors and being misdiagnosed and not feeling heard is the medical community getting better at recognizing it now so when these women do go they get validation i think they're better at recognizing it whether they're better about actually doing anything about it i don't know they might say oh you know you're hypermobile and then but not the meaning of that and of course it takes time right i have to explain why they should wear compressive garments why they like their lululemon leggings are good for them right because again it compresses their venous system they don't get as much dumping why having core stability is good is because you're going to get dumping into the abdomen so post post pregnancy ladies they're going to have this much more because they've lost their abdominal tone they're dumping the the venous blood into their abdomen so they're losing pressure we find on tilt table tests that most people will dump about 300 milliliters of blood into their legs but in these patients it can be up to 800 over double and that's just a drop with gravity and that makes you feel unwell what about lifespan because there's some scary statistics about adhd can shorten life by 20 years um through lifestyle factors impulsive decisions can hypermobility shorten lifespan um no i mean i can't see anything that would be i mean if you let your body go to completely to flop and we do see this but a lot of the eds patients have been so disabled for so long that you know their bones get thin and whatever but I mean, that's kind of just disuse.

39:38That's going to happen to anybody to a certain extent. So will it shorten your life? Possibly. There are extreme versions of hypermobility, which is where they have a lot of collagen. They can have heart valve disease and that sort of thing. But they're rare. They're on the far end. Marfan's disease, Dickler's disease, serious high-level ADS. But they're really rare, actually. And I think the job is they'll Google it and go, oh, my God, I could have a heart valve problem. It's like, no, no, but only if you're right down there. The ADD thing is actually an attention problem. So I think, could you say that hypermobility leads to the ADHD, leads to a shortened life?

40:08Possibly, but not because it's bad for them, but because they're more likely to be impulsive. They're going to go and do a bungee jump. They're going to go and do something stupid in a car. There is some evidence that driving is in inattention. You are going to have more accidents. So indirectly, but again, I think we've got to calm all this anxiety down around it. Are there people out there who have died? I mean, I am appalled still how I see people looking at their phones and cars. That just seems to have been allowed now. you know and if you're add you're going to look at it for a bit too long right because you've got no temporal reference so suddenly it's work bang extant so i would certainly say to anybody with hd just don't look at your phone you try and use your you know your ways as little as possible because you are going to get distracted i think digital screens are dangerous in the old day you had a knob you knew where it was your reference or you were still looking at these now you've got to go and look at the menu and i'm amazed digital screens are allowed if you're add because you're going to go and attend it and you might even get distracted by something it could be a message my and the wife's car brings up messages on the screen.

41:05So, yeah, I think distraction is the problem. But distraction in a dangerous situation, if you're in Formula One, you'll die. But, you know, they learn to control it, hopefully. They might have one experience that teaches them not to do it again. Driving's interesting. I'm sure, whether it's ADHD or just a particular type of focus, I'm sure that it makes me a very good driver. And maybe that's the anomaly. because particularly if there's a song playing and i can focus on that like i know exactly what's going on half a mile in front of me i know exactly what's going on half a mile behind me i'm so focused on the road um i think my insurance company should give me a discount i agree i agree no i think it does if and i feel like i was driving to corn the other day i am actually neurally not physically i'm neurally very exhausted i'm quite zombified when i get and i think it's because i'm just using you know uh and i actually ride a motorbike and i think that makes you more aware because you just know that everything that comes out is going to kill you instead of you haven't got the cocoon of the car so i think no i think you're hyper aware and i think you do see things coming from left and right you know i think pilots probably as well you know fighter pilots certainly would have to be because they can't process at that speed normally um but if you're in there you know the youngsters with the adhd if they're in their cars with their mates where the distraction the signal of being cool with your mates is higher than the signal of missing the guy on the zebra crossing that's where you're going to be in trouble that's the caveat don't talk to me and I probably just missed my exit.

42:30Exactly. Shut up. I'm not talking to you. I just need to get there. You know, oh, you're weird. Yeah. You know, so it's, I don't know, it's a constant balance, but I think, yeah, it's all about the signal. So I think, yeah, the danger is you've got, you've got the music pumping, you've got your mates in the car, you're talking about the girls you're going to meet, whatever. And then you just missed the motorcyclist. You know, it's just, don't be distracted. But yeah, when you're in hyper focus, you'll, you'll see a hedgehog move, you know. truly fascinating Nick good I hope so I feel like I could talk to you for another hour we'll have to have you back oh lovely I love it's made me a lot calmer doing some of this stuff simply because when you know it all and you want to share it you know you do get you get agitated and probably quite intense most of the time but actually it's been I was saying to my son that it's been very nice just airing it and explaining it to people because if you've got a lot if you've got the knowledge it's quite fun to share it and it helps people so we're very grateful for your time and your wisdom pleasure I want to move attention to your ADHD item, which has been patiently waiting underneath that cloth in front of us this entire interview.

43:29I'm going to reveal it now, Nick. Ah, the golf balls. Golf balls. Now, why do golf balls represent ADHD? Well, only this week I was in Cornwall and I was playing golf with my son, my daughter's boyfriend and father-in-law, and we hack. We don't really play golf. And I certainly sliced about six into the rough and realized that I've always had this weird talent. And I think it is just my sampling rate is that I can always find people's golf balls. And I think it was a good example of doesn't matter where you are in the rough. And my father actually said, could you come and find my ball? And it's funny become a thing.

44:06And it is just, you know, you're just taking a higher resolution, multiple pitches where you just see the difference in the environment. And suddenly there's the ball and actually found a couple of other ones that have been left behind. So I think it was just a nice example of these funny little talents you find that you have that are a bit weird but actually can be quite useful. I've always been very good at spotting Wally in Where's Wally? Oh, Wally Where's Wally? There you go. Always the first one. There he is. There he is. Well, another example, my daughter went to Zara and she wanted to buy a green blouse and she said, Dad, you know, will you treat me to go?

44:40So off we went. And I got green in my head. So we went through the store and she finally found the blouse and then she said, I wonder if I should get a pair of trousers. And I said, well, there was one over there, one over there, one over there. And I'd realized that I'd just set my head to see green, you know. And so, as I said, I'm a bit like Dr. Halliwell. I think that we've got to focus more on the upsides of what we can do and find our talents. And actually people who may be career masters at schools and things should actually be saying to us, look, you're not going to be a corporate bod.

45:09Why do you think they're all entrepreneurs, right? High signal, impulsiveness, drivenness, passion, drive. and maybe this could be guided better. But I think that it's, yeah, and also I'd gone through Zara and was, you know, nearly exhausted shopping, but it was just interesting. I'd suddenly realized I'd just seen everything that was green subliminally and was able to direct her to where they were, you know. So it's a weird one. And at 55, I just, maybe I've learned to manage it a bit better and focus it into something I love, which I'm lucky. But I think that's what I'd say to anybody in HD is find what really gives you the signal and just go for it.

45:42So maybe it's your passion. Maybe it's your, you know, but but don't let other people tell you you can't do it and question everything that's the other thing in education is you know we're taught not to question things and we're questioners we like truth which isn't always out you know it can be awkward for people but it's usually the right way to go and so we see it and i would say go for it but always ask questions but in an education world you're taught really what to think most of the time and that bores us because we want to say but why do you think your ability to spot things like the golf balls coupled with uh an ability to pattern recognition means you're able to spot or read someone's character?

46:19Yeah. Exceptional it's definitely an advantage in my clinical life because you spot those little moments when you say, um, how's your marriage? And then that little, you know, that little tense moment. And yeah, you definitely see that. Uh, and I think it gives you an ability to observe very definitely. You're a good negotiator. Uh, yeah. Although I'm a people pleaser, probably at heart, you know, So again, you don't necessarily be quite as aggressive and you might get rolled over. But I think, no, I mean, certainly I would say to students, the diagnosis starts from the waiting room. I will go out and get a patient because I'll watch how they get up.

46:53Or is it, are they better? You know very quickly because in some ways you want to observe them when they're not thinking about it. Because patients want validation. So if you say, how are the pins and needles? They'll say, oh, yeah, I'm still getting it, but I'm not. But yeah, but are you getting it all the time? No, I'm only getting it once a week. Oh, okay. So we've seen an improvement. So you have to play that game. but it's just looking at the way some foot isn't moving properly. They're carrying a hip. Their eyes did something funny when they turned their head. Ooh, better look for that. And it defines what you're going to assess.

47:23I suppose you can learn a lot from reading someone in those micro-movements before the mask gets put on. Absolutely. And you've got to judge whether you're going to go after it. Sometimes you can see people, they almost engulf around what you've just asked them, and you can just see, like, whoa that's wrapped up in something really big so you might go around the corner to it or you might just say oh tell me about that you know how's that going how's work and it's just the three parts of the life but you'll usually find one where there's an imbalance for example in the traders it's quite interesting when they come in it's very rarely the trading that's stressing them they've done that before they've lost money they've made money but it will be something going on at home they generally don't manage emotional stuff very well and that can be a bit more sort of autistic tendency but they're struggling with the relationship they're not really seeing what their daughter is trying to tell them empathically etc and it agitates them so that's when they come in and they and that's what makes them tense and stressed and so they come in with pain very often it's quite interesting so it does there's a lot of counseling as well in the job but i think it's it's seeing getting a feel for where's in all the different parts of their life where where's the problem lie fascinating fascinating i wonder if that ability makes people maybe good at poker you can see someone's reaction to their cards as they look at them I think the ability to sort of to a certain extent they'll be counting cards without realising it and actually one of the selection profiles we used to do for traders was just one of the questions was do you like poker, do you bet on the GG's because a trade is a bet it's a sort of hypothesis that you bet on it and hopefully you're right and then you've got the tell so of course they'll pick the tell and then they probably know their own one and try to mask it.

49:09So they're good at bluffing. But yeah, they like risk and that's the impulsiveness. But if it's gambling and it goes down the wrong way, you've lost balance. It's like alcohol, it's vape, it's whatever. If you lose your relationship with it, you're in trouble. Regulation. Fascinating, Nick. Time for my favourite part of the show, which is the ADHD agony art section where a member of the audience writes in with a question. And the section's actually called the washing machine of woes because the washing machine is my item it represents short-term memory loss because i always forget my clothes of the machine after i uh after the cycle's finished and i ask everyone do you relate to that struggle yeah oh yeah i mean you're so busy doing a multitasking then you forget the row that you do absolutely i think my wife would relate to it more okay i have been using the timo app which is uh and they give me a little they're very good at reminding me to if i can find the whoa there we go this week nick in the washing machine of woes someone's written in and asked i get so many injuries i have adhd and with that i'm very impulsive and then add my hypermobility onto that is this a combo that sets me up for disaster i hope not disaster but yeah i mean i think we've possibly answered quite most of that question but i think yeah so very quickly the inner tension these are you know clumsiness and things and is is the hypermobility.

50:25So you're not picking up the world quite as quickly, the twisting of the ankles and so on. So I would say if you're going to take up something new, if particularly if it's a sport, then train for it, you know, just do a few things that get you ready for doing it. Because if you go straight into tennis, you're going to go all over the court, you're going to be gawky all over the place, you know, and you're going to get demoralized. So just train for it, be careful, regulate your impulsivity. Um, but also the inattention problem is the issue. So if you're, if you're unable to put your body in a certain space at a certain time in the right order, then you're more likely to twist an ankle and yourself etc um if you're attending things it's the classic you know i knock over the glass of the wine on the way to picking up the salt cellar um that's fine but if you if you knock over something on a ward and knock out somebody's you know yeah slightly more problematic you're in trouble so it's it's meaning but i think it's um yeah i mean it's not going to set you up for disaster but i think understanding it and therefore saying well look do some training you don't don't play sport to get fit get fit to play sport was the old adage and it's particularly for the for the hypermobiles once you've got those motor patterns organized you're much less likely to then hurt yourself doing it so i would just say try and do you know and that's why generally in schools i'm so rabidly um pro doing exercise and we're taking more and more exercise out of schools because that practice that orientation and it's highly connected to intellectual capacity too so you know we seem to be doing less just give them more lessons you know and to an adhd brain that's just brutal right because they're going to get exhausted and then they fidget hey ho you know i just it's all a bit bonkers so i think the system doesn't fit us rather than that doesn't mean we need to be accommodated it just means to me that the system has thrown us out i think as being more obvious because we sit on the edge of the bell curve and we're not the middle 65 i think that's an advantage but you can learn to manage it it's a big topic we could go into i know we'll have to have you back for different day different day Nick thank you so much thank you it's been really really great being here just finally Nick I want to deliver you a letter that was written by the previous guest in fact I think you know the previous guest yeah Dr.

52:25Hassan and he's written his three rules to live by all right three rules to live by read it with passion Potter if there was only one thing you do to manage your ADHD fix your sleep or manage your gut health second find purpose this will change and evolve as time goes on something you are interested in good at and above all passionate about well that's very similar to what i was saying grievances and holding on to injustices is something that fuels your rsd let it go forgiveness is key be kind to yourself the first point like it's opening up a whole topic isn't it i mean how how does one start to fix their gut health um i i'm quickly i'm slightly loggerheads with the gut biome thing i think that it's not that it's not true but i think that what to reverse it i think that our gut calls to the bacteria that it needs to represent its neural health so what i mean by that if you take a stressed person you probably notice this you like carbs you tend to go towards because it's it's it's it's energy right so it's a call to action i want to move what we know is that the receptors in the bowel will switch on and form a relationship they literally hook on to the bacteria that will digest carbohydrate so and it's exactly what trees do so during the down season they need to they need to store so they will grow their roots out towards the thing that they're going to build with and that's where the bacteria are and then they will build a separate set when they need to be respiring and flowering and all that stuff and i think we do exactly the same and i have actually put this past a gut biome person doctor and she's actually said i'm inclined to agree with you so i think it's about i don't think we're ever going to know what the gut biome really is or what the national average is you need some of all of it and then your brain calls to it through the gut to absorb what you need so for example if you give acidophilus to somebody who is very stressed they'll actually poo their pants they get diarrhea because they're not in the right state to be absorbing protein which is what it does so i would say the gut health to me is be nice to yourself when you're impulsive tired and intolerant you're going to eat crap don't eat crap you know don't do the chips the crisps etc etc you know and eat meat i'm very pro eating meat you don't need to eat too much but you need it and girls particularly need it red meat need it for their b12 and lots of other things um but just don't overdo it you know um i think and the vegetables you know you are what you eat so be nice to yourself and eat well uh rather than anything specific but also keep it consistent if you're adhd you have low blood pressure and you're hypermobile you need a consistent level of of sugar and that just means food coming into the system but don't use sugar because it doesn't work it makes you spike dopamine spike and then you get cravings and then you get overweight it's that simple i'm smiling because we were going to do a whole episode on adhd nutrition I think you just did a very ADHD friendly answer to that in like a minute.

55:12Just finally, Nick, the second point, find your, how does some, how does someone find their passion, find their purpose? Well, it goes back to what I was saying about, you know, that I can find golf balls. I mean, look, if, if, if it all goes to shit, I can go and get a job on a golf course and make a pound of ball maybe. But I think it's, um, the whole, the West coast of America, these high tech geeks, right? They're, they're going to be ADHD, right? And it's a kind of genius, but they also didn't really grow up, right? They all, sit there eating too much they don't really know how to behave etc so so they need to be mature as well you know elon musk is a good example let him go and run tesla and ever don't let him run the world it's a disaster but i think that you can also argue that what he's done is some of the greatest stuff we're ever going to see you know he's done what henry j ford did four times over so he deserves some credit but he's got to learn to regulate and and his impulsivity is kind of got a bit dictatorial i think you know you just got to regulate it but um rather like you know you found this, you know, I don't know what else you were interested in doing at university, but maybe when you founded all your other podcast channels, et cetera, you know, you just suddenly said, I love linking people.

56:12I love hearing stuff. I love absorbing it. I see the interconnectedness of things. Um, and maybe I can make money from that, you know, and clearly you've done really well, but it's also helping people, you know, millions of people are listening to this podcast. So it must be getting an audience and they don't seem to be, um, cancelling you or trolling you too often so there must be something resonating um so i just say to people um you know if you are adhd you're probably not going to do that well in the corporate environment unless it's a small creative structured environment where you can also be creative and you have more roles maybe because you'll get very frustrated being stuck in one silo um so i think it's not just about your passion but also maybe about what what you're good at and you can do well in and then move forward you've also got to have a family you've got to provide you've got to do you know you've got to you've got to have babies you've got to do all those things it's not just about your career but you have got to provide and support so um sometimes your passion might not be the best thing to do but maybe the thing that you're really good at but just keep nailing it and just keep doing it just keep knocking at doors because it's not going to come easily but nothing ever great ever was really incredibly insightful and nick thank you once again pleasure um cheers thank you so much pleasure

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Nick has also been at the forefront of research into the link between hypermobility, pain sensitivity, and ADHD.

His clinic, Backbone, brings together clinical expertise across pain, breathing, stress, and neurodiversity to offer holistic, science-led care.

Nick Potter has been in clinical practice for over 30 years and is currently based at King Edward VII’s Hospital in London.

Chapters:

00:00 Trailer

01:46 Nick’s mission

05:51 How to test if you’re hyper-mobile

07:46 How common is hyper-mobility amongst ADHDers

13:54 How to describe ADHD to an alien

16:07 Tiimo advert

19:38 What problems can hyper-mobility cause?

29:12 How ADHD affects the body

38:09 Is the medical community recognising hyper-mobility

39:12 Can hyper-mobility shorten life span

43:22 Nick’s ADHD item

49:23 The ADHD agony aunt section

52:19 3 rules to live by

Nick is the author of the widely acclaimed book The Meaning of Pain, now translated into six languages. The book was praised by Sir Elton John as:"The man who taught me how to breathe."

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