Jack McBrayer

23:30In the outfit that I'm wearing tomorrow. No, but I don't care for dirty clothes laying around. So I have a hamper, but then I don't let it pile up too much because I don't like that. Do you step into your closet clothes and then begin undressing and putting items in the hamper and then rehanging the things that won't get washed? Sure. Does it all happen in the closet or will you sometimes get disrobed in the bedroom and then move the whole project to the... I think this is telling. It is? I do. No, for me, it's the closet just because you want to keep the stuff there. Yes, I had a hunch it all took place in the closet.

24:01Whereas I'm walking and I'm taking clothes off and I'm throwing one on the bed and then I'm throwing one over here. I'll ultimately gather it all, but I don't go to the designated spot. Okay, this is interesting. What do you do? I now, as of a couple months ago, have a walk-in closet. It makes a difference. It makes a huge difference because now everything happens in the closet. And I, before, was a mess. Willy nilly. It's just everywhere. And I would throw it. I'd throw it on this cushion and then some on the bed. But now that I'm a good steward of my belongings, I do that. I take off my clothes in the closet.

24:36I'll put them in the hamper. I'll hang the thing so it looks nice. Yeah, and then you'll get into your nighttime wardrobe. And my jammies. Your jam jam. Still in the closet. What do you sleep in, Jack? Fella. No. Foxers, jammies. I would have never guessed that Jack would be our hardest interview. I would not have guessed it. This is fun. No, it's fun. It is. You won't even say what you sleep in. It's nobody's business. Oh, my God. Okay, but part of this might be a little Southern. I'm not letting him off that easy. Something else is going on, but I'll let it slide. We'll get there. I'll let it slide.

25:06But the notion that people knowing what you sleep in might be. It's nobody's business. You sleep some Meandies. I sleep in pajama pants and a wife beater. That's a great story. And I have to because, Jack, my legs get sweaty when I sleep. Okay. Do your legs get sweaty? Why would you think this is information I'm going to share with strangers? We're not strangers. We're strangers of yours. These are. I'm sure, yeah. What is wrong with y 'all? Why would you think this is appropriate? If we were at lunch, would you tell me? Yeah. You would. Okay. That's good. That's good. There is a circle I could enter.

25:48Okay. I got to go back to your bits because they're so good. So less people think you're such a goody goody. I'm not a goody goody. I swear. You do? And for getting through a Marshall, I said some very racy things. Dirty stuff. Dirty grownup things. Grownups. Annuities. That was a character. Yeah. But Jack McBride was saying it. That's true. I think on 30 Rock you said probably some stuff too, but less. Rare swear words and more just crazy words, made up words. You know, we're celebrating 20 years since that thing premiere. 20, that makes me feel old. 2006? You did it. Wait, Jack, do you love acting?

26:29And I'm being sincere now because you get to play a different person and you're not really responsible for it. Have you seen the characters I play? I do not have range, fella. I smile. I talk Southern. I say weird stuff. Right, that you don't normally say. In front of people. Right, but in the shows, you have to say it in front of people. Is that liberating? Well, because then I can blame it on the character, I reckon. Yes. What I can tell is that you're not at all burdened by this. Like, this would burden me to have two different presenting versions of myself. Like, one I do here, one I do here, one I do there.

27:05That, to me, would feel burdensome. Well, now I do have to ask, and I'll ask both of y 'all. Do y 'all feel that I behave very differently? To me, I feel like even when I'm making remarks to your wife on her birthday. Foul remarks. Just really bad stuff, guys. It's still me just being in a more playful manner. Yeah, yeah. A little on in-hidden. So from my point of view, that side of you is so appealing. I can't even imagine constructing some story where everyone wouldn't like that. I'm not going to say those words in front of six-year-olds. Yeah, yeah, but there's no six-year-olds listening. It's okay.

27:39On Zillow Gone Wild. Yeah, we don't have a six-year-old audience. On Zillow Gone Wild, yes. You have to meet whatever the tone of the show is, where it's at, for sure. Okay, one other one you did. Well, you've done a bunch of great bits, which is you have been to many functions at our house, or parties, I guess. And they're not functions. You know, this is the first time me seeing this house. That's too long. And we haven't had as many socially things, because kids probably, I would say. But one time you came over, you called on the way and asked Kristen, is there anything I could bring over? And she said, no, we're all sorted.

28:10And then you stopped anyways and you got a bag of like ruffles at the store, brought them, put them on the counter and didn't make a big deal of it and then left. And after you left, we had discovered that you had left the receipt on it and you had circled in highlighter how much you had spent. And then you wrote a little note that said, this is my business manager's email. please reimburse me for these chips. Okay, I don't remember doing that. You don't remember that. No. And then here's an even better one in the same vein. That's funny. You're getting really exposed. But that's what I'm saying.

28:46Playful bits that are for y 'all. Uh-huh. And I realize for your podcast, we're telling the world about it. But they're so good. And then this one's the best. Another time you came to a party, you didn't bring anything, or if you did, you didn't leave a receipt. So we're like, oh, that's always bring something. OK, then you did. So Georgia. Yes, you did. I just we missed it and there wasn't a whole receipt thing. So we almost had that letdown of like, oh, man, Jack McBrayer was here, but there's no bit. Where's the paper trail? And then a full week later, we received mail from the post office.

29:20And when we opened it up, it was a letter to us saying that you had a nice time at the party and that you submitting your invoice for the personal appearance fee of$12 ,000, but that you were going to make some deductions because there were other celebrities there that helped you share the burden. Like Darcy was there and you deducted$1 ,500 and then Ryan Hansen was there and you deducted another$1 ,500. So it brought us down to, yeah, like$8 ,000. What joy you are to have as a friend. But see, that's fun. And that's playful. Like, that's fun. Yeah, yeah, you don't mind that story. So I want to know how much of your day, between the birthdays, clearly you call someone every day.

30:05It's someone's birthday every day, right? You're not wrong. Today I had six. You had six birthdays. See, this makes me think of like Sedaris and his postcard routine. This is a commitment. But also, how much time does that take? I mean, you talk to somebody for two minutes on the phone. That's really nice. I hate to add one to your list, but I'd love to be a part of the university. August 24th. I know. I want one of these bad, bad texts that Kristen gets. Are you going to post them? No, I won't. I promise. Well, that's what I'm nervous about. I feel unprotected here. I promise I won't. I'll do it.

30:40August 24th. We are going to quiz you. August 24th. I already have some August 24th. Yeah, it's a common one, actually. That whole week is insane. Yeah. In my house. Is that true? Yeah, my sister, my mom, Monica, my dead grandmother. What is nine months prior? Valentine's Day? People are going into Christmas. Oh, yeah. They want that warmth. Yeah. They're seeking out that warmth by the fire. Grow up. It happened to me. It's disgusting. I'm the one that came out of that. I'm allowed to say it. Wait, what's your background? Oh, gosh. Are you a performer? Yeah. I started out as a performer. Did you study theater at UGA?

31:15I did. Wonder if we know people in common. You're so much older than her, as am I. We're both so much older than her. What's wrong with you? I know, it's rude. I know the truth about our ages. Shut up. Okay. Just shut up forever. Okay. No more talking. And then she did UCB. You did? In New York or L.A.? L.A. Got it. So we definitely know some people there. Yeah. Okay. Crossover. Interesting. Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert. If you dare. We are supported by Allstate. Checking Allstate first could save you hundreds on car insurance. Not checking that your keys are actually in your hand before you close the car door.

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34:14Back to you. Have you ever had any blowback? Like, have you ever said anything that you regretted? Has that happened? Publicly. Publicly? I'm sure I have. or like in the early days of 30 Rock. Okay, here's a good explanation of something that you seem to be dwelling on. Yeah, yeah. So my background is in improvisational comedy. And so I was doing that in the mid 90s to the early 2000s in Chicago. That's kind of where I found my legs. Met Tina Fey there. So we're talking ImprovOlympic. You're talking Second City, like fun, established institutions of comedy. And I felt like a million bucks. Like I had found my people.

34:49I was on top of the world. What I loved about doing improv and doing improv at that time, I could be any character. I could say anything. I could create any scenario. And it was all in the spirit of this ensemble creation of playtime. It felt like being a kid on the playground. Pretty magical. Lo and behold, I moved to New York. I'm able to join the New York UCB gang. That was super fun. Paul Shear, Jason Manzoukas, Rob Hubel, Rob Riggle, so many just fun. Manzoukas. Come on. What a guy. That idiot. We're neighbors. We take hikes a lot. Oh, you do? Oh, those ones would be so fun. Really fun. I bet there's a lot of swear words on these hikes.

35:30Okay. And again, I'm in that fun sandbox world of improv. Then I get 30 Rock. And then you have to do press interviews and say things that go into print. I've never had to do that before. 2006. This is also the advent of social media, the advent of smartphones. Things are being recorded. Season one, I'll never forget, there was an incident with Michael Richards at a stand-up club. Oh, he used the N-word. And you start realizing like, oh, the internet is forever. And so I did start getting very self-conscious. I was censoring myself in improv scenes. Oh, in improvs even. And so then I kind of just had to take some inventory and just be like, okay, what am I comfortable with?

36:17What am I not comfortable with? That's why I tend to be more relaxed in conversation at dinner, at lunch, when there aren't microphones and cameras pointed at me. And just understanding that the words that I say will follow me for a very long time. And so, yeah, and maybe this is control issues. Am I being cautious about that? Very likely. Like, do I feel that it is keeping me from any happiness? No, absolutely not. Right, right, right. You don't feel like. There's no cost. I wish people understood this about me and I can't tell them or. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Is that fair? Totally fair. I also think there's some relevant context from where you're from, right?

36:55Which is like the South's very polite. There's a lot of decorum. We spend a lot of time now in Nashville. Oh, I didn't know that. I observe it all. Yeah, yeah. Oh, fun. I was just there in March. Reese Witherspoon's birthday. Oh, yeah. We're really sad we weren't at that party. Not yet. It's still going on. Y 'all, I could have fun parties. I know, of course, because you're fun to be around. And people know you'll never speak out of school. Exactly. Yeah, until you come on a podcast where people are shooting darts. Blowing darts and banging spray. You were so stupid. But both parents, school teachers.

37:38Kristen's met them. She's gone out to eat with them somehow. She has. Yeah, she said she loves them. We were at Mesa Grill a thousand years ago in New York City. Oh, they love her. But they're pretty PG, I'd imagine, right? If they're school teachers. At school, they are. But I mean. They had an Audi side too. Well, I'm going to say something I've never said in public before, but this is going to bite me in the butt, I'm sure. So mom was PE in health at my high school. And so a great number of my classmates would take her health class. the curriculum for sex education in Conyers, Georgia at that time period.

38:10And so Betty McBrayer would go and tell classes about her exploits with Jimmy McBrayer. Oh, boy. So I had friends at this new school that I had transferred to coming up to me, hey, you should probably never go in your hot tub again. Oh! Oh! Wow. That kind of thing. And also like they were young parents. They're very funny. The whole family, we're goofy and we joke. It's not like we come from some buttoned up and puritanical kind of thing. Were you guys religious? We went to church, but we went to Methodist church. And that's mostly social. Yeah. Tell me like Methodist versus what? Baptist. Okay.

38:52That's more hardcore. A little more hardcore. Ours was Cherokee Heights United Methodist Church. And mom and dad both went there. dad's mom, my grandma, was mom's Sunday school teacher. You know, that kind of thing. It's just like a multi-generational, let's go to church kind of thing. But again, it was a very relaxed, it really was about the social aspects. Once I learned the golden rule, I was like, oh, okay, I got it. What's the golden rule? Do unto others as you do unto yourself? Are you asking me what the golden rule is? I am, yeah. Yes, that is correct. God, Jesus. Is that it? What is it?

39:25Well, I had it. I don't feel as bad. You got it. There's so many like, that should not kill seems like a golden rule. That should be. That's pretty, that should be high up there. It's a command. But I guess if you want to do others as you do unto yourself, rules out murder, probably. You'd think. It's a pretty good umbrella. Unless you're suicidal. Yeah, it's not everything. Sorry. Middle name. That's the truth. Yeah, sometimes the truth has to be said out loud, Jack. What's wrong with you? This is where we divide. How did you end up in Indiana for school? Why did you pick that? I wanted to go somewhere outside of Georgia.

39:56With all due respect to Georgia. I love Georgia. I was just like, let me try something else. There was a program that I thought I wanted to do at the time, and they were offering me some money. And what was the program? I studied theater management. Tell me what that entails. I suspect it was essentially they're like, oh, you're not that great of an actor, but you're kind of smart. So you're going to help raise our GPA. Oh. But at the end of the day, I took a bunch of theater courses, but I was also taking a bunch of business courses, which as it turns out comes in very handy later in life. I have a lot of actor friends who are not very financially literate.

40:32Yeah, they're not savvy. Not very business savvy. And so I'm like, oh, well, I got this. Yeah. It's funny. It's shocking. And then it shouldn't be shocking at all. It's like these people already declared they were into the arts. But you are shocked when you hear like, wait, how would Nick Cage not know that he spent all of his money, right? On the island. The islands are pricey. It's the maintenance that gets you jazzed. That's how they get you. They don't show you those prices. You think you're just buying a jet, but it's the gas. It's the gas. That's how they get you. And then you go from there directly to Chicago.

41:02What prompts that move? I wanted to try a big city that maybe wasn't Atlanta. Again, with all due respect to Atlanta, I just knew that I would be always coming back to Georgia. Let's see what else is out there. And because I was in Indiana, I had visited Chicago. I had visited Indianapolis. I had visited St. Louis. I had visited Louisville. So Chicago was one that I'd visited. I really loved it. And some buddies of mine who had graduated the year before were already living there. I knew there was a room available. So it just made a very easy transition. When you went there, no goal of doing comedy yet?

41:33Not yet. You end up going to a second city show, right? Is that how it starts? Yeah. Changed everything. It was the summer of 1995 and there was a terrible heat wave. Like people were dying. Yeah, you said like 400 people died. Oh, God. Like they were putting them in refrigerated trucks. The mortuaries were full. It was bad. I lived. Well, you're from Georgia. Yeah. You were like, guys. I was just like, this is kind of hot. Like, it's one of those where you take a very cold shower right at the end of night, and you just lay in bed soaking wet and just pray for sleep. Ah. I know. It was one of those.

42:06People were saying, like, their bar of soap in their shower would melt. It was hot. Oh, my God. It was very, very hot. It was like up to 130 or something. Seriously. People were dying. Did you get the big box fan in the window blowing on that wet physique? Well, we knew that night you were sleeping nude, I guess. Oh. You're wet. Yeah. We just cracked that. Good deduction. I didn't say that. I didn't say it, but we just figured it out. Okay, figure whatever you want. Figure the rest of me out then. Idiot. And so it was so hot. My roommate was just like, well, you know, there's this comedy theater downtown.

42:36You know, they do free improv. They got cheap beer and it's air conditioned. And I was like, let's do that. Went there and I was like, these people are living my best life. These people are doing exactly what I want to do. I didn't know that this was a thing. And they are hilarious. And here's what I'm very excited about is that over the years, so many of those people that I saw that inspired me, I've been able to work with them. And that is a big deal to me. I'm very proud. Yes. That first show, who was in it? Adam McKay, Rachel Dretsch, Scott Adsit. I think John Glazer was there. Scott Allman, maybe.

43:14Jenna Jolovitz. Just some heavy hitters. I'm actually going to Chicago tomorrow. Oh, you are? And so I'm going to make sure I get to Second City and see a show. So you would start classes there? I went through the groundlings. I'm not totally sure how Second City works, but there's classes, yeah? Correct. So I started taking classes and then you just, you know, elevate up the ranks. Your last class, you put on a big show. There are kind of open auditions to join the touring company. That's kind of like your entry level to Second City. So I auditioned and I eventually got on the touring company.

43:46Where do you guys go? Do you go everywhere? Ooh, Ohio. It's Ohio. Great deal of Ohio. And do you like corporate things? A lot of corporate things, but a lot of colleges, performing arts centers. And Second City is a very established and illustrious institution. I was so proud to be there. And it was interesting because I was kind of forging my own path. And sometimes you'd get frustrated because I'd be real excited about getting the touring company. And you try to tell a friend back home or somebody in your family or something. And they're like, oh, you know, they don't understand what it is. Yeah, the weight of it.

44:21They don't really get what a big deal it is. Yeah, yeah. But I knew it was a big deal. And so I kept going, kept going. Got put on a resident stage. Was there for many years. Is there like a main stage there? There's a main stage. And I was on the ETC stage, which was the studio theater. And so you were there for seven years. What were you doing for employment? So when I first got there, I was waiting tables, got fired. For what? You seem like you'd be a great waiter. First of all, I'm a very good waiter. I did mess up, though. I was giving coffee to my regulars and not charging them for coffee.

44:52And then they'd leave$2 for a tip and I'd keep the$2. Okay. I was stealing thievery. Wow. People are still going to love you. You didn't like seat someone with COPD in the smoking section or anything like that. It wasn't that kind of, yeah, you didn't have that kind of infraction at work where you sat someone clearly on an oxygen tank in the smoking section. That is very specific and very strange. Yeah, but that's not why you got fired. I know. No, it's just old-fashioned stealing. Okay. It was coffee. Were you trying to steal or were you like, No. I just want to be nice and give these people some free coffee.

45:28That, but also, like, I was working the breakfast shift. One person running around that floor. All of these people just wanted to eat their oatmeal and drink their coffee, read their newspaper, and smoke cigarettes before they went up to work upstairs. We were in the basement of a big old office building. And so they're like, Come on, buddy. And so I was just running around. I was like, don't worry about it. Out of kind of necessity, but it was stealing. Oh, no. I'm not proud of it. What'd you go on to after that? Temping. Navigant consulting. And now here's a life hack I've learned. If you're going to be in a job like that, make yourself indispensable.

46:03Okay, how does one do that? That's easily said. Well, I was in charge of creating the filing system. and you just create it in such a way that you're the only one who knows where everything is. And I mean, don't get me wrong, they could have figured it out, but I knew where it was immediately. If they had the Rosetta Stone. If they, yes, knew the secret code. Yes, there you go. My hieroglyphics. But it goes back to, maybe that is where, I don't want to be so cavalier as to say OCD, because that is a legit hard thing for people to deal with. But whatever my tendencies in that world are, sometimes it comes in handy.

46:39And I'm not going to lie. I have everything on my phone. I'm talking about like a list of every teacher I've had in my life. A list of every roommate I've ever had. Really? Yeah. Why not? Because, well. Because that's a crazy person. Having the list sounds great. It's creating the list. That probably is where. That's my point. Once you do the thing, then you don't have to do the thing ever again. That's true. That's true. I would assume you were friends with Tina while you were in Chicago? Yes, more so her husband, Jeff Richman, who is my director at Second City. Oh, okay. And who was the musical?

47:18He was the musical supervisor, I think that was his title at SNL, and then joined us for 30 Rock, composer and director. And I've known Jeff longer than I've known Tina. I mean, like their family. And so she was charmed by you, I presume. Hope. Well, she ended up writing a little too late. She wrote the role of Kenneth for you. So there's a lot of ground laid before that happens. Correct. What causes you to leave Second City and go to New York? And was that a hard and scary decision? Very good question, Dax. And thank you. Yeah, it's the first one. I got one. I've been here like three hours. Was it hard to leave Second City?

48:00Yeah, it was. I left February 3rd, 2002. The reason I know that is because every February 3rd, the stage manager will film your final night. And they do a big thing where everybody says nice things. You get to do your favorite scenes. So I have the DVD of my final night at Second City every February 3rd. I'll watch it. So that was 24 years ago. But it was such an important time in my life that changed everything. But yes, it was a big deal. I had a job. I was doing fine. The ETC gig was one of the best gigs in Chicago. ETC, the studio theater, was, I think, a Thursday through Sunday schedule. So you always had Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday off.

48:40Oh, yeah. Main stage was perhaps the more recognized whatever and bigger stage. But they were working six nights a week, eight shows a week, and they were getting paid like maybe$14 more. I was like, I'm good. Thank you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'll stay right here. But to leave was a big deal. And it was a big decision. But it was one of those things when your skin feels tight and you're just like, let's see. Let's see what's next. Let's see what else I can do. Let's see what the next thing is. It felt exciting, scary. When you were at Second City, did you have SNL Dreams? Yes. Yeah, same. I think that's pretty common.

49:18I think a great number of comedians in general, no matter if you're at an established theater or not. That show was so important to me growing up. quoting the dumb bits and imitating the characters and it being such like a reference point for so many people just in my life, in my world. You could find your people in school by who liked us to now. Well, yeah. Yeah. I don't know. I felt so cool watching it. Like it was late at night. It was irreverent. It felt naughty. It was like timely, topical. It impacted me in such a way. So of course I wanted to do it. They did see me. You got to audition?

49:53I got to audition. I don't think they've seen the tape. No. No, of course it didn't happen. I auditioned the same day as Seth Meyers. Oh, you did? Okay, yes. In New York? In New York. It flew me out. Yeah. It was awesome. What was your nerve level? Oh, very high. Quite high. Oh, very high. And it's one of those things where, of course, I was not fit for this show. But man, just to be able to be on that stage. For me, just being in an airport and having somebody hold up your name on a sign. Yeah. It's so cool. You made it. I can throw it off. Yeah. But I got to be on 30 Rock. That is a show that is based on SNL.

50:32That is a show that is produced by Lorne Michaels. And written by the previous head writer. I'll do that. Yeah. When you moved to New York, did you already have something set up? Did you know you were going to start working at Conan? No. I seem so enthusiastic. No. No. The reason I went to New York was Jeff Richmond, taking care of his boy Jack McBrayer, was remounting a show called Hamlet the Musical that he had originally staged in Chicago 100 years earlier. And he said, hey, I just heard you're leaving Second City. Would you be interested in doing like a three-month run of this show that we did in Chicago?

51:06And I was like, yeah, I got nothing else to do. So my final night was February 3rd, 2002. I was in a U-Haul with all of my junk in a car on February 5th, 2002. So you quit before knowing you were going to New York? Isn't that crazy? That is. Why did you even decide to quit? My skin felt tight. It was time to go. You just listen to your gut. Well, surely y 'all have had that where you just, you know, something either feels very right or, you know, something feels not very right. Yeah, but I've never had that conundrum while one thing was a safety net. Right. That's fair. I've had that sitting in Detroit going like, I got to get out of this city within hours or I'm going to wake up and be 50 and an alcoholic.

51:49I could just feel where it was all heading. But I wasn't giving up something fantastic or any safety or something I'd worked seven years to achieve. You're not wrong. It was scary, but also it made me feel brave and strong. And also like the genuine curiosity. What could this be? Who could I meet? Where could I go? What is going to happen? That felt fun to me. That to me outweighed any of the fear. And were you about 29 or 30 at that point? I was 28 when I did that, turned 29 in New York. So how quickly do you get immersed in Late Night with Conan O 'Brien? Great question. So my first one would have been March 3rd, 2002.

52:28Wait, so you left in February and one month later you're on Conan? Okay, but it's not like, oh, he's brilliant. No. So many people who were writing for Conan O 'Brien had come from Chicago, had come from Second City, were already working with Conan. They heard that I was in town. They're like, hey, McBarris here, just plug him into something. What about Hamlet the Play? What happened to that? I was still going. Oh, you were doing that too? Yeah, because you could do a bit for Conan in the middle of the day, go do the show at night. Oh, wow. Multitasking. You had a lot of jobs. So many jobs. Also in New York, you kind of had to.

52:58Yeah, yeah, yeah. Did you live in New York? No. Bless your heart. Stop trying to make it about me. We see what you do. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But see, this is how people talk when they ask questions. Good people like you. Yeah, nice people. You're right. Yeah, I hate everything about this. Do you remember what your first bit on Conan was? Yes. What was it? I was the overconfident new prison inmate written by Brian Stack, who's now at Colbert. And he was Second City. So many people in my life have just taken care of me. And when I tell you I am so grateful, that's why you've got to be nice to people.

53:31Yeah, yeah. I'll start now. I'm going to start today. But it was an overly confident new prison inmate. And it was very special for me because I hadn't done hardly any TV before that. I didn't know how this worked. And I knew that Conan was okay with the bit. And so it kind of started a fun tradition of people just like, just put Jack in there kind of thing. Yeah, you ended up doing 80 appearances in the next three years. And that was paying some bills. For any of the UCB kids, like that was the gig. Hell yeah. The best. 80 paychecks, you're getting what, some kind of SAG minimum or after minimum, like 600 bucks every time maybe.

54:14You're so starving in New York. You got to move to New York. I'm good, I think. But no, it was the gig. I was like, I have arrived. Yeah, you're on TV at night. Can I tell y 'all something? I haven't told anybody this, but I think this is Jermaine. Is that the right word? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, relevant. Really good. Is that good? Really good. Is that correct? But every time I'd go to do a bit for Conan, it filmed in 30 Rockefeller Center. So I'm taking the F train from Alphabet City in Manhattan and get off at the Rockefeller stop. I'm a person who, if I find a penny heads up, I'm going to hold on to it because that's a lucky penny.

54:54If I find a penny tails up, I'll flip it to be heads up for the next person. Oh, wow. So nice. So nice. It's disgusting. Well, it's more than that. You're so busy. Between the lists and the having to stop for the penny, I just feel like your days are so busy. How much time do you think it takes to flip a penny? Are you stepping over cracks and stuff too? You got a whole thing with those? I don't believe in bad luck. Okay. I like that. Tails up, Penny. Well, then it's good luck for somebody else. So every time I'd come to do a bit for Conan, and if I found a Penny heads up in the subway stop or in the building of Rockefeller, I'd hold on to it.

55:31I had this whole like little box and stuff that I just put them in there. Lo and behold, you get on a show called 30 Rock. And I was like, that's because of you. Yeah, I like that. Do you still have it? Of course. Yeah. It'll be ridiculous. I know. I'm just. Monica. It's next to his list. I've got a PDF. You're doing that for three years and I'm sure you're pretty content and it's wonderful because you're on TV every couple weeks. And obviously we all worship Conan. And I was doing the shows at UCB. I was on top of the world. And then 2000 and what year is it? Like tail end 2004 beginning in 2005.

56:08When do you find out that 30 Rock is going to be a show? Well, I took a break and came to L.A. for a year. Almost a year. Another wild move, right? When you're on Conan and things are going well and you're at UCB, you came here for a year? Well, yeah. I mean, think about it this way. For three years, you're doing this thing and you're having a ball. But SNL wasn't hiring me. I had done bits for Conan. It's not like I could have elevated further there. I was doing my shows at UCB. I was like, okay, but what else? And not out of discontent, but just out of curiosity. What else? Also, New York is very expensive and it gets very cold.

56:48Yeah, and you're from Georgia. I'm from Georgia. And it got super cold. We can't handle that. Madam. Cannot handle that. So I was like, let me try LA. Let me go be broke and tan. Los Feliz. Oh. I know. And what was that year like? So fun. I was just like, look at me. I'm in LA. Are you drinking green juice and stuff? I don't go there. Okay, too far. Yeah, Monica. He's old-fashioned healthy. He is a sun worshiper. He believes in getting like six hours of sun a day. I believe in that as well. Keeps you young. They say it's really good for your skin. Sun bathing, really good for your skin. Here's the thing.

57:27Somebody's got to look into that again because it just makes me feel good. I agree. I'm with you. Vitamin D is real. Thank you. People have so many deficiencies. I have an unpopular take. I'm only very sparing with sunblock, and it's only in a few spots. And I feel like sun's good. People hate that about me. I know, but also we got to take care of so much other stuff. That gets exhausting to me. Right, there you go. Something's got to give. Dishwasher repair. What else do grown-ups say? Dishwasher repair. Okay, so you came here, you weren't drinking green juice, but... Living my best life. I'm temping.

58:01Oh, wow. So I'm living in Los Feliz. bought my 2004 Hyundai Accent from Enterprise Rental Car, which I still have to this day. No way. Wow. 22 years later, you're still. 22 years later. You're still in that car. That's such a good boy. And I just hit 65 ,000 miles. Oh, my God. Wait. So you're driving like 1 ,000 miles a year. Okay. So think about it this way, though. That one year I was here in Tempen, so I had to drive all the way to the west side at Teleflora. I worked there for several months. But during the course of that, I booked Talavera Nights, got some Arrested Developments, and eventually got 30 Reich.

58:34So within the year that I was here, I got 30 Reich, which took me back there. And because of that, I just left my car in a garage for seven years. Oh, for seven years. Seven years. Okay. It didn't start when you got back. You needed to call a tow truck to jump it. Well, no. I had a roommate who had started up for me. Oh, that's great. Well, that was the piece of the puzzle I needed. Really? Yes. Otherwise, you had a world record on your hand for the longest battery. That's true. And then sat stagnant and then working. This is the worst day of my life. The worst. So you go back to New York, but now you go back.

59:07Were you a season regular right out of the games? Series regular, yes, I was. Remember, it was not a sure thing. 30 Rock took a while for people to tune into and for NBC to have enough confidence to keep us going. So it was tenuous. The first year. Yeah. And I mean, subsequent years. But I just knew to keep my side of the street clean, Just do the job. Show up on time. Be nice to people, Dax. Uh-huh. Pick up the pennies. Pick up the pennies. I was just so excited to have the job. You loved it all seven years. So fun. New York eventually let me know that we were not meant to be together. Oh, in what way?

59:45Everything. It was just the amount of people and the cold and the gray. What a wonderful change in my life, my time there brought about. I'm not built for that town. It can feel oppressive for me if I'm there for a long time. I'm like, oh, just too much. Take me to the water, take me to the park somewhere, get me out of this zoo. Do you get intimidated by other people? I guess I'm really curious what it's like to work with Alec Baldwin. Oh, scared, yeah. Terrified, sure. Terrified to this day. No, it was one of those things where pretty much everybody on the call sheet was so much more established and just had so much more experience than me that I was just like, do the job, hit your mics.

1:00:24I mean, to be fair, Alec was brilliant on the show. And I think he knew very early on, I'm not gunning for his job. I am happy to be here. I am here to make this all look as good as possible. You are not a threat. I'm a team player. I was not a threat. I'm not a threat to blind kittens. Right. But no, the whole thing was intimidating. But also, it was just fun to kind of like prove yourself and be like, I can do this. Y 'all can count on me. Even to the writer's room. Y 'all give me anything that you want me to do because I can do it. There's something about being appreciated by Tina that feels so good.

1:01:02It's almost like an anointing, I guess. For her to like you and you make her laugh and she repeats things you did that she liked is a very rewarding scenario, isn't it? Yes. Yeah, I kind of just worship her a little bit. Of course, but I will say this too. She doesn't suffer fools, so she chooses people for a reason. That's why she's never come on this show. So she hasn't picked us yet. How do I change the subject? Can you probably text her and tell her that we'd love to have her? I'm going to fake a seizure. Were you sad when it ended or were you also getting that familiar kind of, okay, time for something new?

1:01:43Good question. It was a mix. All of us at different points would kind of just burst into tears, like the most random thing. I'll never forget. I was like, this is my last free haircut. Oh, yeah. And you're just like, oh, no. I'll never forget Jane Krakowski walking down the hall. It was me and our friend Alethea, who's in wardrobe. And we were just like laughing at some internet thing. And we're like, ah, ha, ha. And Jane just burst into tears because she's like, we're not going to see this anymore. Yeah, it is sad. So that was indeed emotional, but I was excited. And also, I wasn't worried that I was never going to see these people again.

1:02:14I call all of them on their birthdays. Right. Right. At least once a year. Well, and I'm telling you, for the 20-year anniversary, we got to do something, right? Yeah, I think so. We got to do a party or a panel or a table read or something. Were you not frustrated? I remember when I would watch the show, I would think, I'm so confused why this show isn't as big as Seinfeld. I thought it deserved to be a mammoth hit. And every year they kind of put it on the bubble the same way they did Parenthood. It was like, are we going to bring it back? Are we not? Well, I mean, I'm kind of glad that I didn't have to worry about that stuff.

1:02:43You could kind of sense the writing on the wall. We were talking about like the introduction of streaming. We're talking about the surgence of cable shows, you know, The Sopranos, Mad Men, all these things from cable were such heavy hitters. Also, what's my frame of reference? You know, like this is my first show ever. But I could easily tell that we were not getting the numbers that Friends, Seinfeld, Will & Grace, all these legacy NBC shows. Again, that was not my fight to fight. And so I was like, all right, do I have a job tomorrow? You were fine with it. But it just felt like it deserved it.

1:03:16It was so fucking brilliant. Oh, it's one of the best shows ever. Yeah, yeah, ever, ever. You know, the people who like it really like it. And the people who don't, they don't get it. Are my family. Are mostly back and making.

1:03:32Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

1:03:45Okay. In that period too, you do Forgetting Sarah Marshall. Yes. 2007, maybe. April of 2007. And Kristen did tell me some funny stories about that today. What'd she say? Well, one, I can think everyone was introduced to your sunbathing routine. Oh, on set? Yeah, well, she said that they would be on the way to set and Jack would be by the pool. Okay. Right out of the gates. That's good. I mean, she's not wrong. So, forgetting Sarah Marshall, my first time in Hawaii, I couldn't believe I was in a movie with all these like famous people. We were staying in the resort where we were filming, Turtle Bay in Hawaii.

1:04:25I was like, this is crazy. So, yes, I was there for a month and I worked eight days. I was going to say, the other thing she said is you somehow finagled them to be able to stay like two weeks after you were wrapped. No, it was just the schedule. I didn't like abuse anything. There was no finagling? No, I don't even know the meaning of the word. You called Conan and had them give you a full page outfit for your audition for 30 Rock. So I know you know how to call people. That's not finagling. That's asking for a favor. Okay, great. I think finagle is French for favor. That's wrong. I think that's a lie.

1:05:02But you managed to be in the sun for 22 of 30 days. Now, here's where it got tricky. They're like, well, Jack, your character is like a Mormon coming from Utah. You wouldn't be tan. I was like, that sounds like a makeup problem. So no, I tried to slather on as much. But after a while, you're like, bro, I'm getting tan. When you're at poolside, are you just sitting? Are you on your phone? Are you reading a book? What do you do with that? I can't sit for that much time. I can, and here's why. It is transcendental. I go somewhere else. It is meditative. I will be laying there and I'm not fully asleep, but I'm not fully awake.

1:05:44I can't lift my arms. I just go somewhere else and I just feel the warmth and I see the light from the outside. And I'm just like, this is who I am. This is who I'm supposed to be. But then I'm just like, who was I in a past life? Yeah. Sun god. Or like a lizard? Could be a lizard. Yeah, someone that's got to get its core body temp up before it can do anything. Maybe I was a reptile. Maybe. I was a solar panel. How long are you doing this? Like an hour? You got to flip. So, yeah, you don't want to do this for a full hour. I mean, you just flip, jump in the pool. Okay. But you're out there an hour, hour and a half, too.

1:06:21It's the best. And your hair just turns that bleachy chlorine green. Yeah. It's the best. Our youngest daughter has green hair and I'm so proud of her. I'm like, that's such a badge of something. Commitment to swimming is what it is. At the same time, and this is where I met you. So you and Kristen became friends on that movie. And then I start meeting you just right after that movie. And I want to say you came over and you had just filmed this, but you filmed a Mariah Carey music video. Oh my gosh. In 2008. February of 2008. It was during the writer's strike. I'm positive I was not the first person they called.

1:06:56But I was the first person to say yes. And I play Mariah Carey's love interest. What? In the hit video, Touch My Body. And isn't this one that's like, don't want to see you up on YouTube. I'm always enamored when there's been certain words they could put in songs, and I'm really impressed that they pulled it off. Toto's Africa. To get Kilimanjaro in a song is really, really hard. You're not wrong. Yeah. And then another favorite of mine, The Year of the Cat. great song what's the word? the year of the cat it's a 70s song but what's the word? Kilimanjaro just the title the year of the cat oh just having you have to sit down and write a rock ballad that's hugely successful and it's called the year of the cat that's like a feat so to sing like on YouTube YouTube that to me sounds impossible like if you approach me and say Dex you have to write a hit song and you have to say YouTube in the song four times four times while holding a little runner kind of do a run on it.

1:07:56That seems hard and I'm impressed. Well, to be fair, that's when YouTube was becoming a thing. I know. That whole era. It needed addressing. It needed addressing. And she's the perfect spooksperson. And she wants to do stuff, but she don't want to see that shit up on YouTube. Sure. So she's also letting us know I have like a little bit of a naughty side. And you guys probably were very aligned on this. Yeah, privacy. Like you gotta keep stuff off YouTube. I'm sorry. Setting healthy boundaries is okay. Yeah. We should all practice it. Recommend it. Dax. But now you did almost kill Mariah Carey during this video.

1:08:32Is that not true? I did kill Mariah Carey. But what happened? You did injure her. I did not kill Mariah. So, yes, I did. It was a terrible accident. And she was fine and she was a very good sport about it. So that is for the record. We're supposed to be like frolicking in a field and I'm supposed to throw a Frisbee to her and bless her heart. She was singing as she was supposed to and just twirling around. So I threw the Frisbee when I was supposed to, but it left my hands. It doesn't have like a string that I can yank it back. And it just happened to like hit her in the face. In the face. I was mortified.

1:09:06How soon into its flight trajectory did you start realizing, oh, fuck, I think that's going to hit her? And did you yell or were you afraid to ruin the video of her singing? Yeah, this is a tough position. The conundrum. Is yelling worse than a Frisbee hitting her in the face? I think it's better. Well, ruining the tape. I'd rather hear yelling than get hit in the face with a Frisbee is my pick. It was just an embarrassing and unfortunate thing. But was it obvious to you it was going to hit her in its flight? Nothing is obvious to me. And you know that. Everybody knows that. And it maybe happened so fast.

1:09:35It was a blur. And you have moments where you just feel your stomach just sink. And you're like, I might throw up right now. And I'm mortified. I'm not proud of this. Stitches or what? Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. She was such a good sport. I think she just needed some touch-ups and stuff. You just need to cover the bruising a little bit. Why are you trying to make me look like an animal? And did she explain to you why she wanted you to be her love interest in the video? Did that ever come up? It came up in conversation that she seemed to enjoy 30 Rock. But I really do suspect that they were trying to get bigger names and stuff.

1:10:09Okay. All right. I'm not lying. I don't know if that's true. She liked 30 Rock. She probably wanted to. That's your shadow filling in a lot of unknowns. What? The shadow voice that tells you you're terrible and a piece of shit. I don't have a shadow voice. Yeah, you do. Yeah, we all have one. You have a shadow voice. You can lie about having one, but you have one. You have one. Yeah. There's some part of you that's like, Jack, you're so whatever it says. Fill in the blank. Well, I would never because I can't think of a bad thing about you, but I bet your shadow has six or seven that things are bad about you.

1:10:37Is the shadow in the room with us now? Always. Oh, no. We bring the shadow everywhere with us. Y 'all are so stupid. Y 'all get tired of this job. No, we love it. All you're doing is talking. I know. I get tired of talking about myself. But that's not the premise. You didn't say, hey, can I come over and talk about myself for an hour? I'm like, hey, can I learn about you for an hour? And everyone else would like to learn about you. Yeah, but we could also do that over dinner. But no one else gets to hear it. Okay. Sounds good to me. Great. Do you watch interviews? Do you enjoy interviews? Mine?

1:11:09No, no. Other people. Like, I love interviews. I used to listen to all the Stern interviews. and I had the streaming app so I could just listen to the interviews. I just love interviews. I loved Letterman interviewing people. No, I'd see the iconic ones about like Drew Carey. Yeah, when Drew Carey showed his tits for Letterman's birthday. Before Price is Right. Iconic moment. That was a mistake.

1:11:41Man, am I dumb. Does your shadow tell you you're dumb? No. Okay. Well. This guy. I hope you don't think that. You know you're not. He's very bright. He's got a very good vocabulary as I watched other interviews with you. Oh, I did say Jermaine today. Yeah, you did. That brought me to Smoking the Bandit. Did you ever watch Smoking the Bandit as a kid? I'm sure I did. Set in Georgia. But one of the officers says to Buford T. Justice over the radio, I don't see how that's germane to the situation. And Puford T. Justice says, the goddamn Germans got nothing to do with this. He thinks he said Germans.

1:12:18The context led me to believe that. You figured that out. I did. Context clues. Because you're smart. She got me. You read me like a book. That's right. A pop-up book. Okay. Now, after having that security for seven years on 30 Rock, do you not crave that again? Or would you love that? Yes, having job security is wonderful. I don't need more money. I don't need more attention. I don't need any of that stuff. For me, I'm like, what could be fun? What might this feel like? What would it be like to work with this person or in this studio or in this location or with this script? That, to me, is more fun.

1:13:03That's a very rare commodity to not feel like you need more. Where do you think that comes from? I think that's just baked in the DNA. But I do think like we didn't have a great deal of money growing up. We were not made to feel that we were less than or, you know, anything like that. But I do feel that whether it was intentional or just subconscious, but that you make the best of what you got, whether that's financial, whether that's whatever's going on in your family, you make the best of what you got. and so that was a very helpful lesson for me in terms of like i don't need a lot i can make the best of a small space or a small paycheck or the 22 year old kia hyundai hyundai sorry sorry sorry sorry both korean i didn't get it wow they're both korean car i don't see color well i do know that about you.

1:13:58You're famous for that. You see Tan. We know that. I like her. I like this one. He sees a savage base in the mirror every morning. Somebody told me that you can take a... Peptide. Yes! How did you know that? Because we talk about it a lot on here. You do? Because we know people who've done it when sitting next to me. Is it you? I did it for... You barely tried it, but he did try it. Oh yeah, I loved it. I would love to be on it, but then a friend who got an illness we found out also loved that peptide So then me and the other person that were on, I got really paranoid about it. I see. I see. Based on nothing.

1:14:32Like, I'm sure there's a million reasons this person got sick. It also does weird stuff. Like, your freckles got darker. Oh, yeah, yeah. On my forehead. That was one version of it. There's two versions of it. Then I did the second version and it didn't have those issues. But here was my point because we debated it. I was like, I like how I look tan better. Everybody looks better with color. Absolutely. And if I have an option to do one that might up my rate of carcinoma versus one that doesn't, why wouldn't I choose this one? It seems crazy. I don't understand what the moral conundrum is about using a peptide versus the sun.

1:15:05I mean, I get it. For me, it's like, I'm not going to be the first person to buy the new iPhone. I'm like, y 'all go first. Yes. Y 'all work out the bugs, then come back. I had some ethical issues with it as a brown person. Oh, tell me more. I was like, as a group, darker skinned people are more marginalized. And then you're just picking the piece you like about it and getting to have that piece. And it just doesn't feel fair. I see. Yeah, it was a big debate for us. It was a big debate for us. Are there peptides that change your skin color in different ways? Like make it lighter? Well, there's skin bleaching and stuff, which a lot of people have done.

1:15:45Some Indian people have done skin bleaching to look lighter because you're considered prettier there at times. Is that an external thing? Mm-hmm. Well, like the movie stars there are generally quite light skin. Yeah. And there's like the paper bag test, like if you're lighter than a paper bag. Colorism is a real thing for people of color. So I think this gets a little triggering when people are like, oh, I'm just going to like take this peptide and be dark now. But my point was you don't mind when they get suntanned. I don't. Like no one's mad if a white person gets suntan. Because that's natural.

1:16:18So you're really drawing this, what I think is a little bit arbitrary line. Like, do you get it naturally or do you get it from a peptide? And that somehow changes it. But also like this is information that I didn't know. And that's helpful to understand. It all started because this woman identifies as black, which is clearly a problem. A white German lady. No, no, I was pointing to the TV. We put a picture of her up on the TV. She's like, this woman. That's bad. Yeah, she's fucking Irish, by the way. Oh, yeah. All to say, I'm white. No, there is a woman. She identifies as black, like saying I identify as a woman, right?

1:16:54Like that's her identity. She was white as snow, and then she took this peptide. She had a lot of body modifications, and then she took an elephant's dose of this peptide, and she moved to Africa. Oh. So I think that's what kicked it off. Understandably, that context puts it on a path where that reaction is justified. I understand. Rob, maybe you can pull that up at some point just for Jack's amusement because it's really something. It's not amusement. We don't have to do this. And I really didn't realize the path that we are going. You'd be amused that a human has chosen this path on planet Earth.

1:17:25And it's okay to be amused by that. And if we pretend that that's not amusing, I don't know where we're at. I also think I don't care anymore. For a minute, I felt pretty strongly about that peptide and feeling like, uh-oh, I don't know if that's good because of this. And now I'm like, whatever. I guess just do whatever you want. Everyone try to look as hot as you can. That's all we're all trying to do is look as hot as we can. Are you Jack? I am. Look at my hair. I think you look wonderful. You're kemped. Fisher Price hair. No, it's so nice. Lego. Yeah, I'm having like a Lego snap on here. You make the best of what you got.

1:18:00What you've carved out post 30 Rock is a pretty insane voiceover career. Yes. Which is kind of for people who aren't hip to it. it's about as good as it gets in a sense because the money's great, the time commitment's very low, and you can maintain some anonymity to some degree. It's the best. Now, I have been told, and I hope I'm not getting my information wrong, because many of the characters that I voice do sound like this. I believe the term that was explained to me was that this would be a signature voice as opposed to a more character voice like many of the actors on The Simpsons can do like, you know, 12, 14 different characters.

1:18:40I cannot. So pretty much every character that I voice is going to sound like this. Which I'm okay with. I'm not a good actor. But you've been in Wreck-It Ralph and the sequel, like big stuff. Disney shows that ran for an eternity. I know! I know. I can't believe it. What are you doing? Are we out of time? No, he's so excited. We're almost there. Don't worry. Are we out of time? Commercial break. Yeah. So that was a before and after of her. Oh. We don't know how she did her hair, what peptide that is, but the hair. That feels more like a wig situation. But it's clearly not with that widow's peak unless they do a lace front with that much extra hair up front.

1:19:24No. But you can see where this would kick off the kind of conversation that Monica might have some issues with peptide use. That's understandable. Yeah. I'm learning a lot today. We're here to teach. Okay, let's talk about Zillow Gone Wild. Yay! How did they? Yay! Happy birthday to Jack. Were you following the Instagram account before you got approached for this thing? Because I was. Oh, okay. I'm a first in Zillow Gone Wild Instagram. Excellent. So I'm not on social media, but I know that during the pandemic, this became a very popular Instagram page. And it's just actual listings on Zillow that stand out.

1:19:58Yes. Crazy listings on Zillow. They're gone wild. It's in the title. We'll get to this. This line, you got to kind of, you don't want to be mean to anyone. And also, let's call it like it is. Some of these are crazy. Fella. Yeah. I mean, like by season three, I realized like, okay, my baseline is, does it have a toilet? That's where we are. That's what you're hoping for. But it's been so fun. And what I do enjoy about this show, I get to do the TV version of what that Instagram page is. Right. So the Instagram page is like scouring all the Zillow listings around the country. and it's gathering the most unique ones.

1:20:34And when anyone would look at them, if you don't follow this page, you go, how on earth are they going to sell this? Someone has committed their entire house to raccoons and raccoon stripe everywhere. You name it, people have done. It's been done. When did you get approached in this? This would have been in March 11th. Well, it was June of 2023. Oh my God, it's crazy. It's weird, right? It is weird. But it helps me keep things organized. So here comes the dementia. I was in the ground links. Do you like looking at houses? Is that a hobby? I do. Yeah. No, I live in my dream house. But when I'm strolling around the neighborhood and I see an open house, I'm going in that open house.

1:21:14Oh, I love it. And I think that's just a very human thing. I mean, it's a genuine curiosity. Like, oh, what are they doing? What is this like? What's their view? So they approached me about the show. Did it. Had a blast. You know, you're going in blind. I was like, am I going to be good at this? This is my first time doing unscripted. And I was like, am I going to be interesting? Can I keep a conversation afloat? It was very important to me, and I made this very clear with the producers. I don't want to be snarky. I don't want to be cynical. I don't want to embarrass these people. I don't want this to be an exercise in humiliation.

1:21:44I want this to be celebratory. And I want this to be exploratory and really lean into the curiosity, the human curiosity we all have about what other people are doing. On top of the fact that these houses are crazy. Yes, yes, yes, yes. Bonkers. So you're 100 % right to have that ethos going in or that principle. And I agree. It should not be making fun of people. But also often you are standing in places where like the only thing one could say is like, this is fucking nuts. I don't know. Even when you go with that intention. Well, we have that like on Armchair Anonymous, same thing. Where it's like, we're not here to make fun of people.

1:22:24If you go in with the idea that you're not here to make fun of people, you do see the best. That's true. But his is more extreme. Like you need to see the places he's standing in. And you have to recognize, like, here's an example. And it wasn't even the owners of the house. They had bought it from someone else. But he's in a house. And the thing that makes it qualify for Gone Wild is the previous owner was obsessed with storage. And so you walk into the kitchen. You have your normal refrigerator high cabinets. But then you have two more rows of cabinets above that going up into what had to be like 15 feet up the ceiling.

1:22:58And it looks a little like it gives you vertigo a little bit to see that many cupboard doors. And then it just unfolds as getting crazier and crazier. And there's a moment where they walk into this. It's 80 feet by 40 feet. So it's about a 4 ,000 square foot room that is a big cavernous room in floor to fucking ceiling and shelves. I was saying to Kristen, we were watching it last night, and I'm like, I'm too distracted by needing to know what the mental illness was of the person who built it. Like, my explanation was, you know, just like there are alcoholics that are low-functioning or high-functioning.

1:23:33To me, that house was like, well, this is a super high-functioning hoarder. They had the money and the wherewithal to still hoard, but do it in a way that would be organized. And it's madness. That was a crazy house. But again, like, how can I spin that? I think you are probably correct. It was someone who might have had issues of holding on to things, but had the wherewithal to keep it organized. But then it also begs the question, were those shelves ever filled? How did they clean out this house when it originally changed hands? Yeah, no, you are correct. And so what is crazy, they don't let me even do any homework of like what the house is about to be because I want to catch my reaction genuine.

1:24:14one. And I'm like, well, I bet you anything I'm going to say, wow, this is scary. Like that room weirdly was a little bit scary. That one was unnerving because, you know, I had seen the scope of the house from the outside, but I don't know what I'm about to see inside. And it was like a high school gym of shelves. Wow. It was so big that they were ultimately going to cut it in half so that he could have a four car garage on one side with his cars inside and she could have another workspace and whatever. And there was still going to be plenty of room. It's the size of my barn, Monica, in Nashville, but with shelves.

1:24:47So you're interviewing the people who, not in this case, but normally the people who live there or like you're walking through? A lot of times it is the people who built it and made these design choices. And sometimes it is the people who bought it because of those design choices. Either way, it is fun. I get to like spend several hours with the person we're taking the tour and, you know, a great deal of it is on camera, but some of it is off camera and you really get the dirt and everybody has been a joy. They're opening up their homes to us. Yes. That's a big deal. It's vulnerable. You're saying, go ahead and judge me, basically.

1:25:21And especially in season one, they didn't know what they were saying yes to. Right. So we got lucky with that. We were able to like set the tone. And I feel that that has made it easier in subsequent seasons to, you know, have that proof of concept, even though just like, I'm not here to make fun. Show us what you got. Yeah. And another one in the first season was this bunker. So I personally, you can't take this swing. This show works on so many levels. First of all, you're the greatest host. You're so fucking cheery and likable. I have to be a good house guest. You're an incredible one. As we said, the chips, the ruffles.

1:25:51You'll receive a thank you note. Yeah. You will. And a bill for personal appearance. I thought you called me a bitch in it. August 24. What? Okay, so it works on a lot of levels. A, it's just so fascinating to see people's houses. And all the houses are completely bizarre. You're a phenomenal host. But the part for me, the third gear and juiciest of it is, and you already witnessed it. Like, I love being armchair psychologist. And so I'm watching the one with the bunker, and this boy bought a bunker, a missile silo. An abandoned missile silo that goes seven stories into the ground. What? It's all underground.

1:26:27It's all underground. There's a door above ground, and it's all underground. And you walk down 50 feet of steps, and then you're in this rusted out cavern. Now, mind you. This is a horror movie. Yeah. He painted the walls and he put some stuff up. And then he takes Jack over to where the missile used to sit. And it has just taken on 50 feet of water. There's just standing water. Groundwater seeping in. Not his fault. Not his fault. No. No. What are you going to do? And also, what are you going to do? Put a raft in that? He put a raft in it. No, he really did? No. It was huge. I mean, a missile sat down there.

1:27:03Oh, God. Oh, my God. You can't imagine how stressful it is to even just look at the environment. I can't imagine what it was like to be in that subterranean, damp, rusty. All right. May I? Yeah. Our homeowner, Andrew, was a delight. Very sweet boy. You know, good old boy, did some hunting and fishing and stuff, and treated himself to his own man cave, which happened to be an abandoned missile silo. Was it creepy? Yep. Yeah. But when you have someone like him leading the tour and stuff, It did answer some questions. Would I have spent a great deal of time down there? And no. No, thank you. No, no, I don't want to go there.

1:27:44But the psychology I was enjoying, and I said to Kristen, because he's giving his interview, and he's like, you know how many people can say they've owned a missile silo? And I'm like, yeah, that's the only value to the place is to say you owned it, because there's nothing pleasurable about being down there. No one would ever want it. It's for sale. Some other boy. No woman's ever going to buy that place. You're not wrong. There's something about boys that are like, yeah, I have this thing nobody has. I'll tell people at school. It's so cute and sweet. That was sweet. And I will say this, and I'll be delicate.

1:28:13I suspect, and I haven't followed up to see if it's still on the market or what, but someone who perhaps is more concerned with long-term safety. Prepping, yeah. Prepping. Your words. Might consider a space like that. Yes. Yeah. Safety is really the through line, though, because that's what everyone is looking for in their house. So the person with all the shelves, that's also about safety. I agree. I've learned a great deal about how people define home. It's been really wonderful seeing how people define that. For me, it was just like four walls and a roof and peace and quiet. That's not the case for everybody.

1:28:48But this season, what are you doing? I know you're piling up with David Bromstad. Yeah. So he's like a legit HGTV person. Yeah, he has a huge show, My Lottery Dream Home. Correct. And so the thing is, like, he knows what he's talking about. I don't know what I'm talking about. Right, right. Shut up. Yeah, that's right. You got it. But when it comes to houses, I know there are words I'm supposed to know. Like, oh, wainscoting. Your most genuine self always comes out when you see a swimming pool. Like, when you're at the pink house, you're like, oh, my God, the swimming. Like, you almost explode it out of your body.

1:29:20Oh, my gosh. Like, pools are the best. Are you a good swimmer? I mean, I float. Okay. Well, yeah, I never do all that. Tell us how many Bud Lights he's got in a pool. I love Bud Lights. I do. I do love a pool. What caused that, I wonder? The water. Do you like the ocean? I do, but I like the controlled environment of a pool. Never contained. So this season, you go 26 feet under Las Vegas? Yes. What was that one? It's a bunker. It's not just a house. It's got a yard, a fountain, an event space. You feel like you're outdoors. Like they painted the sky. They've got lights. It is weird. It messes up with your circadian rhythm.

1:29:59That's the word. Yeah. Did you watch Fallout by chance? You watched Fallout? No, but I know which one you're talking about. Yeah, with the no-nos. But they're all in vaults underground. So it makes me think it would be. They're living the real life. In paradise. Spoiler alert. Yes. You haven't seen it yet. You're probably not going to. Yep, I just ruined it. Season three, we saw 41 houses. So like, I've been traveling a great deal. My carbon footprint is not great. It's not great. But how's your airline status? So good. If I knew what those meant, it just gives you all these numbers. I'm like, I don't know what this means.

1:30:34Okay. You're at the top. You're probably diamond or platinum. And then you got the hotel doing the same thing. I was like, I don't know what this means. Do you cash any of these in for your own life? I don't know how. Okay. Okay. I don't know what this stuff means. Have you ever gone to see Alexander in Sweden? Yes. You have. Yes. What's that like? How are you not in love with him? I would be in love with him. We all are when you meet the boy. Yeah. So lovable. I'm the godfather of his kid. Oh, that's so sweet. Oh, no. He was such a delight. We were surprised. We were completely taken by surprise.

1:31:11Yeah. And he's so gorgeous. I could just look at him. He's a beautiful man. He's one of those people where you meet him and you're just like, oh, you're my guy. What do you do when you're in the wind? You guys go out to bars at night and prom? No, he cooks at home. Okay. He can be quite a homebody. It's domestic. Yes, it's domestic. But it is also funny because half the time we're acting like an old married couple, half the time we're acting like middle school boys in class kind of thing. You know, we just giggle. And he loves comedy. And so I'm like, America's plus one. But I'll go with him to the SAG Awards or the Emmys or whatever.

1:31:42You joined him at SNL this year when he hosted it. I joined him at SNL this year. When he meets the cast of Schitt's Creek, I'm like, oh, let's go say hey. Let's go say hey. He's like, okay. So he gets nervous. It was the best. You guys are such a good duo. He's a gem. And then you were on Murderbots. With Alexander Skull and God. That was so fun. It is one of those things. You got to be best friends with people who just give you jobs. That's a really good rule. I want to act in something with him. Yeah, that sounds fun. It is one of those things where I don't know who we were to each other in a past life, but we found each other.

1:32:17Oh, I love it. Okay, well, the new season of Zillow Gone Wild is out May 1st on HGTV. I also was watching old seasons on HBO Max. Correct. It streams. So feel free to go over to HBO Max. Your birthday is today? No. Oh, my God. That would have... What's the date today? April 29th. When's your birthday? May 27th. Oh, May. I wrote down 427. It's 327. If it were 427 and it's 429. Oh my God. Today's five. What is today? 529. Are you okay? It's all that nicotine. He's been shooting too many blanks. That's right. Oh, I made it bad. I'm really confused. We finally got something naughty. It's 429. Today's 429.

1:33:07His birthday's 527. Next month. No, it's three. No, May. May. Jesus Christ. Sorry. Lincoln's birthday Lincoln's birthday is March 27th I don't know why I'm like I'm getting stuck on March 27th I have three birthdays so next month I'm sorry I'm going to try to send you a very vile you don't have to do that you don't enjoy receiving them just dishing them out do whatever you want I'm going to call you a pecker I'm going to go happy birthday you pecker you fucking jack the pecker McBride. You're terrible. I haven't used that word in 30 years. Good. They used to mean something in the 80s. They regularly call people in the 80s in shows and movies peckers.

1:33:55That guy's a pecker. Well, pecker was a penis. Yeah, yeah. Just reminding everyone. That's what it was. Spoiler alert. I'm all about the spoilers. Spoiler alert. Jack McBride, I love you. Thanks for getting through this with us. This was a weird experience, but it was fun. Was it? It was fun. Good. We had fun. I got a weird job. Yeah, we do. Yeah, we like it. It's a blessing. We want to keep it. I adore you. I can't wait to your next party attendance and your next receipt and your next invoice. Yeah, throw a party just so Jack can do it. I should. It's been too long. I don't know. Or we just want to go lay by the pool.

1:34:29Yes. Okay, great. Yes, let's do that. That's easy. Do you sauna? What does that mean? Do you go in the sauna? Do you enjoy a sauna? Is that hot or with steam? Hot. Dry. Oh, that's what I meant. Alexander's never had you in a sauna, in a Swedish sauna. I mean, can I just use the pool? Yes, absolutely. But the sauna's also nice. It's very social. We like to get in the sauna together, chit-chat. How big is the sauna? It's embarrassingly large. Is it big? It's shamefully large. It's like your carbon footprint. Is it? Yeah. I have a terrible carbon footprint. I know you do. You just let that out of the bag.

1:34:59Well, it's not your fault. It's not your fault. It's HGTV. Check out the new season on May 1st, which is five, which is the month of your birth in 1973. Okay. I love you. Love you. Good luck. Everyone watch Zillow Gone Wild.

1:35:19Stay tuned for the fact check so you can hear all the facts that were wrong.

1:35:27This episode is brought to you by Yellow. That's right. That is really right. It's officially brought to you by Yellow. Monica, as you know, I have these little snacks between our recording sessions. Yeah, you do. It's always the same bar. I'm kind of addicted to it. and it's got half of my fiber in it. It really does sound like this is an ad now. Yeah, but I'm not going to say the name of it. So it's not an ad. Oh. I just love this bar. It's got half my daily allowance of fiber in it. So I eat two a day. I love them. They're such a treat for me at night when I get into bed. Oh, it's your dessert?

1:36:03After I brush my teeth. Oh, after. Yeah, which people hate. Yeah, people won't like that. Then I'll remind them that, especially to tease more about the plaque being on there for 24 hours and becoming tartar or vice versa. It's more of a time game as long as you interrupt it. Anyways, that's neither here nor there. Last night I was laying in bed having my snack. Yeah. 190 calories. Okay. And I thought, huh, I wonder how this would taste on a melted marshmallow between two graham crackers. Oh, a s'more? A s'more. I want to try a s'more with my protein fiber bar. Whoa. This summer. I'm loosely scheduling it for July 4th weekend.

1:36:42Cool. Yeah. So that's a new project I'm working on. That's fun. I know sometimes we announce our new projects. I feel like you got inspired by an Armchair Anonymous we recorded. Maybe you didn't even know that you did, but you did. There's a camping one and I asked a little boy if he was going to make s'mores that night. And he said yes. Well, there's a story about s'mores. Yeah. And then I asked if he was going to use a Reese's peanut butter cup. Oh, yeah. He said he had done that. He was a pro. Yeah, he was. Yeah, he paid the price. But he probably hasn't tried this. I don't know that anyone has.

1:37:12I bet be the first person in history that tries this protein bar as a s'more topping. I think that could be true. I'm skeptical. Okay. But I'm hopeful for you. It's very rare. You know, I'm obsessed with anytime you can do anything on planet Earth that someone hasn't done. Eight billion people. We're at eight billion, by the way, now. I can just correct me. I think that's a ding, ding, ding for a fact, actually, coming up. Oh, it is. Coming up. Easter egg. Okay, forthcoming fact. But yeah, Lincoln had to correct me. I was like, seven and a half billion. That's not it anymore. Or we're well above eight billion.

1:37:48Now, are you worried about what the heat of the protein powder in the bar? There's protein in there, right? It's a protein bar, right? It is, which is unconventional for me because I don't prefer it. It is vegetable protein. Plant-based. Plant-based protein. So I do think it'll melt better than like, say, whey protein. That's what you're worried about. Yeah, I just feel like I'm a little nervous about what's going to happen consistency-wise when there's protein in there. Maybe I'll microwave one tonight to see what happens when it gets hot. Okay. You're right. It might turn hard, but I think it's going to get runny and yummy.

1:38:28You're pessimistic. Report back on the next fact check. Well, no, it's not going to happen in July. Oh, I can microwave it. You said you're going to put it in the microwave. Yeah. Yeah, let's do some experimentation. Sometimes you do start projects and then you don't follow up, like your cashmere that you're making out of your back hair. I'm still contributing to the stockpile. We just haven't heard lately. Yeah, I just haven't given an update. But there's a growing bag in my bathroom. How much do we have these days? Probably enough for like a pinky sock. Oh, all right. That might be maybe half a pinky sock.

1:38:59Okay, so like a thimble. I don't know how much it's when it's once it's spun. right you got a spin wool yeah i think it goes down in size quite a bit does it does so i don't i don't really know it's pretty thin this hair we're working with very that's its appeal it's baby soft because it's off of my baby's legs and you're you're in my daddy's back yeah none of the other hair would qualify because the rest of its course i was just getting complaints about it actually from delta about the beard's not soft unless it's a certain length oh and then my gray hair on the side is kind of scraggly. It's not as soft as the rest of it.

1:39:35Well, you could dye it and it'll get soft. I just reached out to Amy to see if she has a window to give me highlights. Not that my hair is getting longer. I like to have highlights. Oh, wow. You know that. I do. I do know that. Highlights are fun. Have you ever considered any kind of layers for your hair for dimensions? No. No. When you got perfect hair, you don't fuck with it. It's not that I have perfect hair. it's you have perfect hair well that's very kind thank you um but it's that i oh how do i say you're afraid you're gonna offend somebody somehow so if you're white and you are how you're a brunette you dye your hair blonde or or vice versa in the case of dakota johnson vice versa okay was that a film she was in or no no no she just went blonde to brown okay great yeah and uh it still looks natural.

1:40:27You could have been born with that hair color. Right. Now, if you have brown skin like me and black hair like me, I could not have been born with blonde highlights or blonde hair. I got you. I could not have. So it is just so obvious. Unnatural. That it's unnatural, that it is something done. Now, that's fine. Yeah, because look at me. Everyone knows I have gray hair on my sides and next week I'm not going to have gray hair on my sides. They'll know it's all fake. Well, that's because we're talking about it. It's more about just like the brain knows that. Well, by the way, if my hair goes gray, I'm dying it black.

1:41:09There we go. Like it's not that I'm against, but my I'm dying it my natural hair color. Right. And that will appear like my natural hair color. Now, if I do a big, if I dye my hair blonde, it's going to be pretty clear that I dyed it. But that might be okay. That's fine for whoever wants to do that, but I like keeping it match. You know, George has these beautiful ringlets, Panay. Okay, yeah. And here's there, it's very dark. I was noticing when I was FaceTiming the other day, he clearly has like a layer of blonde highlights. It looks really fun and radiant. Great. And playful. I'm sure. And it's clearly fake as hell.

1:41:48There's no way. Yeah, he doesn't care about that. Yeah. And a lot of people don't. A lot of people don't. that's great. Like do whatever you want. I'm just, I just mean for me, for your brand, I don't think I feel comfortable with like having something very obviously. Okay. Kind of like the shave sides. Yeah. Not, it's not me. Yeah. You're not taking big swings with your hair. I've never taken. What do you think your biggest swings are? I would say with your fashion. Probably. But even then I'm not taking huge swings. I don't take very many. I mean, no, I do. My big swings are in my ability to confront people.

1:42:27Okay. That's your, where you reserve all your, those are where I take bigger swings than most people in, um, I'm not afraid to have a hard conversation with someone who other people might be afraid to. Right. You're looking at me super intensely. I do have hard conversations with you that I do think a lot of people would avoid. and that's that's where i keep it i keep it in my hair i got you so i'm not willing to well and one time i got my hair cut when i was really little well my mom did it and it was a mushroom cut and it looked horrible yeah mushrooms cut very few people can pull off she didn't mean to make it a mushroom cut but that's how it turned out yeah and so i just cannot you know oh you're kind of reacting to a little bit of hair trauma a little i guess a little and i do think if you can have long hair i mean not for everyone because it's hard to maintain i guess like do it you did just bring up a grievance i have oh let's hear it and it's the least sympathetic grievance i could have okay i'm acknowledging that no one's gonna feel bad for me all right but i am frustrated the thing so the thing you just said like you're not afraid to confront me but other people were not afraid to confront me and other people.

1:43:41I'm not as well. It's both ways. Yeah. Aside from that, I've had numerous examples on a being one of them. Right. Where honest said like, Oh no, I thought I was afraid you're going to be mad. She's afraid of you. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm like, I'm like, Anna. I mean, really, if we were around every tape ever, I've been nothing but like, just so sweet to Anna. I know it's not about that. And I was just talking to Delta about this because. Yeah, this intimidation factor that I don't feel like I deserve or earned. Yeah. Yeah. Like that people would be afraid of me. I'm like, that's not. It's this is a slippery conversation.

1:44:25Oh, I want. I mean, I'm happy to have it. I'm happy to have it, but I don't want us to get in a fight. And I'm a little worried. Let's leave you an eye out of it. I don't think we can. Well, I think we can because I'm not addressing you and I. I'm addressing other people that are afraid of me. I know, but the people that are afraid of you. Yeah. Sometime, I think. I've seen instances of you being a little, okay, I don't know how to, it's not, well, scary, I guess, to them, to them, right? But that. I don't know if Anna has. I mean, if we're just all in conversation and me and you are like doing a thing, that's intimidating.

1:45:08That's like, I don't want that. I don't ever want to be on the receiving end of that, I think is the way some people feel. If they've seen it or been around it or. Also, you just you are someone who speaks their mind, as am I, and is not afraid. To like enter a tricky conversation, enter a fray. And what I've had to learn is a lot of people don't want to do that. Oh, sure. But that used to be hard for me. To accept that they didn't want to do it? Yeah. You thought they did want to do it. They were just afraid to. Well, all of it. It's just like, it's like, oh, like if you think this, why wouldn't you just say it?

1:45:56Uh-huh. And then I would get like annoyed. at people not saying stuff when and then like but then I had to understand that not everyone wants to have conflict not everyone in fact most people don't oh yeah so they avoid it and um uh that's fine you know and so I yeah I think that's I think being big is part of it too Because often, I think when I was talking about Delta, it's like these little kids that come around. I'm so friendly. Oh, are the little kids scared of you? Yeah, I think in general, a lot of the friends are afraid of me. Which is my doing. Like I got tattoos and I got big. So I'm going to take a lot of responsibility.

1:46:45But I'm just like, I'm so, I think I'm so friendly. Yeah, you are. But sometimes that's intimidating. To be friendly? A little because it's like. Why is he so friendly? No, it's just like, oh, I have to talk now. Like this person's engaging with me. So now I can't just go sight unseen. Like this person notices me. Yeah, yeah. And now I have to talk and I'm a little kid and I don't really know how to talk to adults. I remember, I don't, maybe this has changed over time. I hope it has. But I used to be so intimidated by everyone's dad. Doesn't matter how big they were, what they looked like. The role of dad.

1:47:23Yeah. The role of dad was always intimidating. Yeah. Of course, I don't want anyone to be intimidated by me. I want everyone to feel very loved by me and comfortable. And you also want people to understand that you aren't to be messed with or your family isn't to be messed with. Baddies. I don't care if baddies are intimidated by me. No, but it's all part of your persona. Your persona is I will not be fucked with. Like, I'll be nice to you. But if you cross a line, like I'm killing you. Okay. To death. So I'm killing you to death. Or if you say something about someone that I'm protective of, I'm killing you to death.

1:48:08So like, you know, there's some like, what's the line? What's the line I might accidentally step on? Okay. I don't know if the kids know about that. The Delta's friends. Maybe they just can intuitively. spidey senses. I wonder if your tattoos do contribute. But Anna, mostly this is probably my grievance against Anna where I'm like, sweet, sweet girl. I've been just so loving. I can't imagine having put more effort into being like loving. You're very kind to her. The idea that she would be scared of me. That just hurts my feelings. I'm sorry it hurts your feelings. I am. I really am. I am. I don't want your feelings to be hurt.

1:48:53And I hope you can understand, understand, like I can. We got we work through it. You're a you're a presence. I'm a president. You're you're a presence. OK, I guess I'm over it. Yeah, I just you understand what I'm saying. I do. The notion that someone would be afraid of me. Someone like Anna. But listen, OK, first of all, I just hate that. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. OK. Two things. All right. One, you've never been mean to Anna ever. And she doesn't think that she doesn't think like, oh, Dax was mean to me or anything. Like, I've never heard her say that. And then also Anna is also not you're putting her in a category of like, she's like such a big sweet baby.

1:49:42Like she's not. No, I don't think she's a sweet baby. She does cry very easily. She cries a lot. And that's hard for me when people, when girls cry. So anytime girls cry, I'm like, I have no game plan anymore. Sure. Yeah. Okay. So she does cry a lot. She's a Pisces. I love it about her. I mean, she's a Cancer. Oh my God, she'd be so mad if she heard me say she's Pisces. But she's a Cancer. And she does cry at the drop of a hat. Yeah, yeah. But she's tough. Oh, yeah. She'll be fine an hour later. Yeah. And she's not crying about. Sometimes she is crying about things that people say or do. But like, you know, she can dish.

1:50:27She dishes it out. Yeah. I don't think she's fragile. I don't think she's fragile at all. She's not fragile. In fact, I think she's very robust. I will tell you. So she she made a mistake once. OK. For you to. you and Kristen. Oh yeah. I already know what this is. She made a mistake. Yeah. And it was financially a hefty mistake. It impacted you financially. Yeah. And she told me, you know, and so she's very stressed out about this. But then she said, then you made a point to tell her to not ever stress out about your money. And that was very kind. She felt a little better. I said the best use of money that could ever be is that the people I love can be happy from it.

1:51:23And so the notion that someone would be upset because of missing money, that's the whole reason to have it. So I refuse to let you be upset about this because I'm not mad. I would never get mad at someone. I love over money. Well, yeah. Uh-oh. What? I thought it was really sweet that you said that and you did everything you could to make her feel totally better about that. What are you smirking about over there? I just, I don't know. Sometimes I'm jealous. Okay. sometimes I'm jealous of people who have honestly like a less I don't want to say intimate but kind of relationship with you like I think you know I don't know you think yeah if I worked with Anna every day for eight years and she blew a big chunk of money for armchair expert is that what you're saying kind of well i just i would i would address it i don't think you always and and vice versa ding ding ding um for me yeah me to you in dakota's hair dakota johnson vice versa um i don't think we necessarily treat each other with the same level of like sweetness and kindness that we treat other people that are less like, I mean, important to me.

1:53:02People who are less important to me, I can treat better. Well, yeah, which makes total sense. Like the less impact someone has on your life, the less concerned you are about their behavior. Because who cares? It's not going to affect you. But yeah, if you run a business with somebody. It's more than that. It's like, it's more than that. It's, you know, the history, the being there since the kids were three months old, you know, like the whole family element. It's deeper than that. Like it's and I'm so happy about that. But I think it can come at a cost. But that's just like the way life is, I guess.

1:53:46Yeah, I think if you cross this threshold, that's not full siblings, but it's almost sibling-esque. Yeah. It's like, we're together way too much for me to ignore things. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or, yeah, and they're just like, okay, well, I've earned this. You know how I feel about you. Like, this is what you think in your mind. Like, my siblings. Yeah. Like, I love my brother and my sister, and I'm going to be there for them until we're all dead. Yeah. And so I'll tell them things that are harsher for sure than I'll tell anyone else because it's implicit the safety of the relationship. I know. And I think that's where there's sometimes a weird like a extra hard layer for us or for all me and the family is like there is the that relationship.

1:54:41But there isn't the intrinsic safety like it's implied safety. It's a feeling of safety, but it's not biological. It's not, you know. Which biologically also people don't that doesn't always happen. And I think it all depends to like your own personal experience in life. So it's like Aaron, him being my biological brother would not make us closer, nor would it make our relationship more permanent. Like it's just so fucking permanent. Yeah, we both know it. And yeah, we talk to each other differently. It's what I love about it. Right. It's just like he knows I'm not judging him. Right. And I'll just say whatever I observe and vice versa.

1:55:23Dakota Fanny. Oh, my God. Dakota Johnson. Yeah. It's a big vice versa episode. Yeah. Brought to you by yellow and vice versa. You look all of it like everything in life. It's all tradeoffs. So you take on more good and you take on more bad. You take on more, you know, closeness. I'm still to some degree seeing Anna's presenting self. Right. You know. Yeah. I don't see, I'm not with her 45 hours a week. So I don't really know Anna the way that her ex-girlfriend knows her. Right. Or Kristen knows her. Or me. Or you. Yeah. And yeah, I just think all these predictable things happen when you get super close to somebody.

1:56:07Yeah, that is true. And you're like, well, we no longer have like an acquaintanceship or a loose friendship. We're now like we're coexisting. So if we're coexisting, we have to like call out. Yeah. Things that. Yeah. Yeah. I know. Yeah, it is. It's just tradeoffs. It's it's it's interesting. But yeah, you're very nice to her. All to say she shouldn't be. your feelings shouldn't but your feelings shouldn't be hurt because she's also like he's also my boss to an extent and Kristen's her boss but but I'm not I make that really clear well yeah but also if you ask her to do something she can't say no which I don't ever ask her to do anything well two or three times I've asked her to do something I pay her on the side and I say like you don't work for me I know I know but it's just part you know what I mean like it's a dynamic like if you if you ask her to do something i am her boss's husband if you ask her to do something it's different than if i ask her to do something yeah it just is yeah yeah and so there's gonna that's just the way you know again but again the time that i like someone asked her to do something that shouldn't have asked her to do something and i witnessed it and that person got a talking to but okay I guess you should be intimidated by me just because like you might get a talking to no one wants to get a talking to from dad that's just the way it goes yeah stay tuned for more armchair expert if you dare

1:57:55Speaking of family. Yeah. My brother proposed to his girlfriend. He did. Yeah. Did he make a big thing of it? He did. He did. He did. He took her to this nice restaurant and then he like had a whole thing. A whole to do. These flowers. It was a whole to do. Oh, wow. He got down on one knee and he did it up and they're very happy. Oh, good. She said yes. She said yes. Okay. Stressful. I'm glad he didn't do it at a sporting event. No. He wouldn't do that. I guess if you've already asked the woman, would you say yes? And she said yes. Then you can do it at a sporting event. Oh. But I do not like when the woman's surprised.

1:58:40She has an entire audience waiting to see if she's going to say yes or no. That stresses me out. That's not a fair assessment. You don't have a real answer. They have to. Yeah, that's fair. I know. If anyone wants to propose to me, do not. If you know me even a little bit, I hate audience participation. So if you propose to me in a way that's in public, I'm saying no. Okay, that's just across the board. No, you don't even know me. Matt Damon asks you in public. He doesn't know me. And what happened? Like, what happened with his life, you know? Well, he's single in this scenario. Okay. She left him.

1:59:17Oh, good. Okay. Yeah, yeah. He didn't. He wanted to stay with her forever. He's fine. Okay. He's coming out of the smelling like roses. Okay. She's the bad guy. Cool. And then he asks you at a hockey game, a Boston Bruins game. He wants you to see his Boston Bruins. Okay. Yeah. And we're on the cam? Yeah, you're on the cam. Matt Damon and Monica Padman. You kiss cam and then it turns into a proposal. Oh, all of this is a nightmare. I'm saying no. I always turned the non-kiss cam into a kiss cam when I would go to the Dodgers game with Peter Krause and my brother. Anytime they would show us on the big screen just to say like Fahrenheit's here, I would turn and try to kiss him as if it were the kiss cam.

2:00:03That's very funny. Okay. I have a situation that happened. Oh, okay. Great. It's been a while. Yeah. I'm I'm prepping for your response Oh okay So Jess and I went to a restaurant Quarter Sheets I probably shouldn't say it But I said it Yes love it it's very hard to get in We have a whole routine Where you stand in line You put your name in it's always like at least an hour And then we go next door We go next door And there's a bar next door called Little Joy Very cute we have a drink and chips they sell chips there like homemade no potato chips like the gas station oh okay like ruffles and lays yeah but like kind of the fancier ones like kettle okay you know and so they have different ones every time it's very exciting anyway we do that and then we go so we did that the other day and we got to quarter sheets uh there was a really nice couple next to us and um in fact you know we ordered they were getting ready to leave like they were got their check and we had ordered we got these beans they make the best beans and they're always changing up the beans and every time they're so good oh my god so we're eating our beans and we and like there's like this couple and the um woman looks at us and she's like oh my god so sorry we're just like stare we're just like staring and like gawking and and we were just like i know the beans are so good we had this like little exchange they were so nice they left right we're continuing and then the server comes he moves that table over so now there's this they make this big table uh-huh party of what six eight um four uh four okay but the table's probably like for six okay so then these people come in two couples and their kids so two couples each with two children and they were little kids some were babies and um we looked over and they were all sitting and it was like cute and you know we were like oh I wonder like are they like in-laws or like what's going on one of the babies was so cute like delta level okay it was wild and I really wanted to hold it once in a generation cute yes and and oh so cute and small and whatever Anyway, so we're like, you know, we, I will admit, I think, well, I will admit that I think we were looking like a fair amount at this family and like they're being cute.

2:02:43And they would like get up and like go and, you know, rock the baby and come back. One of the babies was feeding. One of the kids came around and I said hi to one of the kids. Okay. All this is going on. Yeah. We're enjoying our meal. It's great. and at the end we were paid and the server brought us this cookie and they said that's it's from them oh and i was like oh my gosh that's so nice and this is so embarrassing but i have to admit it of course i thought they were a fan of the show okay okay okay so i was like oh my god that and they were like because and she said because all the kids right and i was like oh oh and jess and i both were like no no no that was totally fine you didn't need to do that and like one of the dads was like no it's okay like yeah no problem but like didn't really wasn't like trying to like really engage just like you're welcome kind of like be done with it yeah yeah yeah and then what we kept being like, oh my gosh, like, we're like, I really hope like your family, like your family is so cute.

2:03:52We were talking about how cute your kids are. And, um, and Jess was like, yeah, like we're just single over here. And you know, there's kind of some laughter. And then we were leaving again. It's like, thanks again so much. You really didn't have to do that. And we both left and he was like, that was weird. And I was like, it was weird. The moms were mad at us. they would not look at us when all this was going on and like i was like trying you know i was like trying to engage i mainly was looking at one mom he mainly was looking at the other so he was talking about this lady and i was talking about this lady experiencing the exact same thing uh-huh and i was like wait a minute is this some sort of like resentment cookie like they thought we were judging them.

2:04:45So they got us this cookie to make like to abate the situation. But they were actually just they were mad that we were upset, but we weren't upset. Yeah. And then I hated this cookie. Oh, OK. But you're already eating it. No, I didn't. You were taking it to go. It's still sitting in my kitchen. OK. Yeah, it was wrapped. Oh, OK. And I felt weird because I was like, oh, my God. how is it that now we feel bad when we didn't we really did not the reason i know we didn't do anything wrong is because we didn't have any bad thoughts yes sure sure we actively we were not like oh my god there's like so many kids here anything i they were so cute yeah yeah yeah especially the little one yeah they're the cutest really wanted to hold it yeah so i didn't like me Well, first of all, I do this all the time.

2:05:37Okay. So like when I go to Brick Tops and it's the kids and we've got a party of nine and I know we're loud. I often buy the people that are directly next to us as dinner. That's sweet. I do that all the time. But you don't resent them. Often they'll go, oh no. And I go, oh no, it's fine. That exchange can go on too long. Well, that's because you're famous. well no just like i don't want to debate whether you you like you earned it or i shouldn't have done it or whatever it's just like i just want to go like hey thanks for being a good sport i know we were allowed and then if you're kind of like no i reject it no i loved it and at some point i want to go what are you like what are we debating now that you should like sure you want them to refund my car now you pay like maybe maybe they just wanted you to go like thanks and to be done with it and didn't want to have to beg you to take it or convince you we didn't say like take it back or we'll buy you one now like it wasn't like a whole thing like it was just like oh my god no okay that was it wasn't an issue like they were apologizing and we were saying it was unnecessary You don't need to apologize.

2:06:55Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And also, let me tell you something about quarter sheets, if you're going to go there. Okay. This was our table, right? Okay, you're - They're here. Okay, so they're - And that's not an exaggeration. Yeah, yeah. So for Monica, for the listener, we're talking - 12 inches. 18. If that. Okay. Like, I had to walk through sideways to get out of the booth. It was like me at the fight on Saturday. You got stuck. I was next to a linebacker. Oh. Jared Verse. Were you scared? No. Oh. But I was like, this couldn't be more inconvenient. We're in folding chairs that are butted up next to each other.

2:07:28Had a dainty woman been next to me, we would have been touching shoulders. But I had a real linebacker from the L.A. Rams and I sitting next to each other. Then Ryan, not small. Then Barry Bonds, probably the most jacked baseball player of all time. Wow, that's cool. It's great. That he was there. It's exciting. There wasn't enough room for all of us. So we had to choreograph and coordinate. Ryan and the linebacker would lean forward for a while and watch the fight. Okay. And then they'd want to come back. And then that was my cue to lean forward. And then Barry Bonds was following suit. So there was like all this choreography.

2:08:07Was it spoken or unspoken? All unspoken. Okay. But of course, because I was touching this man for three hours, this gorgeous linebacker. He's so good looking, Monica. Wow. I mean, he's so good looking. I'm like, this dude's 25. Oh, wow. He plays for the Rams. He's this good looking. That's cool. What a good time that must be. I was very friendly and talking quite a bit, maybe more than he bargained for. Yeah. But I was like, we are snuggling. Yeah. Let's chat a little bit. He's used to being touched. He's a football player. His butt in particular. Yeah, they touch each other's butts. And then they.

2:08:47Oh, here he is. Very handsome. Here he is. Very, very handsome. You guys see his smile, though. It's so infectious. That's not a good picture of him because he's chewing on a piece of plastic. But what was I going to tell you about him? I was going to. Oh, he's on a he's trying to eat non processed food. Oh, wow. Because I offered them some of my caramel corn I had gotten. And he said he wasn't fucking with sugar. And I was like, how long you been off sugar? He's like 36 hours. But in general, I try to eat processed food. I was like, look at this young man. He's 25. He's work. You know, he's conscious of his health.

2:09:20He has to. It's his job. And he's got to put on weight. Like linebackers are supposed to keep on a lot of weight. Yeah, it's a lot to deal with. Yeah, it was exciting. Anywho, so the closeness, you were sitting very close to him. Yeah, to a linebacker. As I was to this family. Yeah, yeah. And so you couldn't really just be like, thanks, and then like turn your head. It had. It required a little more follow up. And I really can't see. I can't make an argument where they're mad at you guys. i know like it just doesn't no i can i can like the they're like stop staring stop staring at us or yeah we have kids like that's this is what happens you have kids yes i felt that they were defensive and then i created a scenario where the husbands are the ones that sent the cookie okay okay even which would be very unconventional i'll just say that's i know but the husbands were the ones they were mainly sitting the whole time and the wives were like up and back up and back and so they maybe okay this is maybe what happened okay maybe the husbands were like hey maybe just like don't get up like don't because you're bothering them or something you know and then they're like well we have to like we have to take care of these children you might have stumbled into a little conflict between them exactly yeah and so then they sent the cookie and then you guys We weren't doing anything fucking wrong.

2:10:45You don't need to apologize. We're just handling the kids. Maybe they were mad at their husband. Yep. And then they send this cookie over reiterating that they had, everyone had done something wrong. So then they were mad at us. You're a youthful vixen. They're like, my husband's sending fucking cookies to this hot chick next to me. No, they're like, why did you? She's a known cookie boy. Literally, I am a cookie boy. But they like, why did you do that? We nothing. We didn't do anything wrong. You didn't need to do that. Okay. And then they sent their resentment at us. And so I had to throw the cookie away because it's laced with poison.

2:11:20Oh, my God. Mental poison. Okay. It wasn't just you were full. No, I took it home. I know. You took it home. But why didn't you eat it? I couldn't eat it any day. You really didn't want to eat it because it felt jinxed? Yeah, it felt weird. Not jinxed. I didn't feel jinxed. I just looked at it and I got annoyed. I got annoyed by the cookie because I was like, now I feel bad. and I should not feel bad. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. So when you were planning, before you laid out the story, you're like, I'm anticipating your response. Yeah. And what would you think my response would be? Oh, I thought you were going to be like, well, yeah, like moms are going through a lot and, you know, they probably felt judged.

2:12:04I thought you were going to do a lot of defense of them. Okay. Which I, again, I was not judging them. Yeah. They were beautiful women. Were they? Yeah. Yeah. And then like the daughter was so cute. One, yeah. Okay. Yeah, they were. All right. Okay. They were, they were. The whole thing was beautiful. It was beautiful, yeah. Everyone was pretty. Everyone was hot. The kids were so cute. Like it was a great, yeah. And then I started to do that. I'm like, now I feel bad. I don't even have a husband or children. And like, I can't have them. Your own personal stuff came up. Probably. I probably can't have them.

2:12:45And like, now I feel bad. Excuse me. You have this beautiful child. Like, yeah. So I got upset. Yeah. Well,

2:12:58my response is only. How do I. alleviate your upsetness yeah and then my solution to alleviate it is like the oldest fight we have non-stop so it's not even worth you know suggesting which is just i don't like the idea that strangers have sometimes control of your emotions that's what i don't know i know you don't like that's like the i understand that's the part where i get protective of you and then it always ends up where I'm angering you more so no you're not but I don't like that anybody has any control over your injustice fun night out to get pizza that's all I don't like but when he so he the fact that he said it first he is so oblivious to this type of thing yeah the fact that he said it he was like that was something was weird and I I was like, but I think if any of that was if you guys read that correctly, my money would be fully on.

2:14:05Yes. Some tension between the husbands and wives. Not not not you guys. Well, you're like immaterial. At this point, they just want to ignore this whole situation happened. It's not towards you. It's it's towards their husbands. Husbands or or us, though, like, oh, these single people like don't understand what it's like. And it's it's hard for us. Like and it is hard for them. They are having to get up and go and out. It's taking little kids to a restaurant is a beat down. It is a beat down. And what I wanted to be like, I know, like, I don't know because I don't have them. But I've also been to a million restaurants with with kids and I've taken kids to restaurants by myself.

2:14:44I feel for you right now. I know that that is hard. I don't feel put upon. Right. And but I don't want to feel bad for existing. Right. Right. um but you know i'm over it just got over it yeah just got over it but it's hard i think like families are everyone's having a hard time life's challenging life's challenging for everyone that's right everyone and i got this bruise and i don't know why you're not sure where that came from no okay all right let's do some facts this is for i just want to remind everyone about our presenting sponsor yellow yes that's right let's circle back you know what's happened since we interviewed jack mcbrer what our family has become obsessed with zillow gone wild and we're actually all caught up now we're in season three which is airing now there's only three episodes out oh and we watched two of them last night so we know that there's only one for us and we like to do two in a row so you're gonna wait but it's it is it has replaced it's been the salve of million dollar secret not being around it's our current show we love it monica i'm in trouble a lot while we watch it oh why because it's zillow gone wild you're seeing a lot of choices sure and i have a lot of opinions about the choices but aren't they kind of they're wild choices by their wild that they're on the show because they're pretty wild yes but some of them are very cool yeah um what But I'm more, well, first of all, the people are very interesting because anyone who's going to like turn their house into a pirate ship.

2:16:24Yeah. You know, they're unique. Of course. And then, oh, this is great. You'll relate to this because this has sometimes been our friction. I think when I notice things, it comes across as me being mean. Judgmental. Judgmental or mean. Yeah, we have gotten into that. Yeah. Oh, is it happening? on yes because i'm like oh notice they blank and i hear dad and i'm like wait so it's from the kids yes okay okay yeah dad and i'm like hold on a second guys what first of all this person's not here yeah you love that's a big defense of yours yeah it's true like this this person doesn't have any sense that i've said anything observed anything about them yeah and i'm not name calling I'm just like oh that's an interesting move or whatever that's unique unique is the word I like you know the word I don't like you hate weird that's why I specifically just said unique but do you say weird when you're watching with them no I'm on high alert with them too just like you

2:17:32I thank God for them that they are also representing me Yeah, I think my thing, like, what is the thing that gets triggered in me? The thing with me is some kind of baggage, which is like acknowledging reality isn't mean. Like reality can be mean. Yeah. The world's implicitly mean in some sense. But pretending certain things don't exist in reality, to me, feels very dishonest. Yeah. And not realistic. It's not how anyone thinks. It's like, I say the thing that I know they were thinking, but you're supposed to not say. Right. And that just feels disingenuous. And it's like, what are we talking about?

2:18:14Okay. But there's a scale. Like some people aren't thinking. You miss a lot of stuff. Yeah. Yeah. Like. But I blame your eyes for that. I think some of it is just your eyes, not your character. Maybe. Maybe some of that is true. Like we were watching someone infamously where this really came to a head. They had an enormous tongue. Right. To the degree where I was like, I can feel their struggle of trying to keep their tongue in their mouth. And it's like stressing me out. You were so aware of the tongue. Yeah. And I was like. You didn't notice it. No. Even when you pointed out, I was like, what?

2:18:48What do you mean? And here's the spectrum, right? It's like, you didn't notice. I noticed it said something. Kristen noticed, but hadn't said anything. But yes. Yeah. When I said this, she's like, yeah, I've been watching it too. Right. And then you were like, that's so mean. Also, what are you talking about? Well, it was mean to me because I was like, oh my God, you, you are, I think, well, it obviously triggers for me. That people are nitpicking. Yes, that they're looking at everything that's wrong with me and they notice it. And I already feel that way. And like, so I, I really, I don't, I don't really do that physically.

2:19:29Now I do do it. Yeah, you're watching couples therapy and I'm sure you have all kinds of. Oh, God, I'm first to know. A personality thing. And I'm very fast on it. Like, oh, this person is this. This person is doing this. This person is crazy. This person. I do that all the time. But physically, I really don't do that. And I maybe, as you said, it's not my character, but it is my trauma. And it is my reality. Like, I don't notice. Yeah, you don't notice. There's been a few whammies where we've been observing something. I'm like, you did not notice the guy had an eye patch on, you know, or something like that.

2:20:07This is the notorious story with Callie. I was talking about a girl and she was like, oh, the one with the lazy eye. And I was like, no. Right. And she was like, yeah, she has a very substantial lazy eye. You're like Nate in that way. Remember my famous one was like Nate's roommate had Tourette's very visible and active Tourette's. Oh, my God. And lived with him for a very long time. Yeah. And then I said, not in a mean way. Just simply inquiring, like, so, so-and-so has Tourette's. Like, have they shared it all with that thing? You know what it's like to – I noticed they don't have it when they're performing.

2:20:41That's fascinating. He was like, what? He literally was like, what are you talking about? And I'm like, what are you talking about? You live with this person. I know. Everyone here knows this. But you somehow, and you live with the person? I guess it's a beautiful quality. I don't know where it comes from but it is real it is real and then like do you think any of your friends have massive Tourette's and you've missed it they could you seem to know my tics pretty well they're not getting by you they're not and neither are Jess's he would join you there but anyway so what were you commenting on that was quote mean to them like can you give an example I mean, I'm afraid that the person would know I was talking about them, in which case then it would be mean.

2:21:29So was it about their house or them? Generally them. Oh, okay. Well, I mean, I got a lot to say about the houses, too, you know? Sure, sure, sure. I think what's regularly on the table with this show is, and it's sweet. Ultimately, it's sweet, but it's so delusional. A lot of these people are trying to get millions of dollars for these houses. They're the only people in the world that want to live with them. It's so specific. Yeah. Someone's going to have to definitely go in and like rip most of everything out. Yeah, but it's like their heart and soul. It's their heart and soul. And it's sweet.

2:22:02But I'm also like when they show the thing at the beginning, it's like this many square feet on this much property in this state. $3.8 million. I'm like, guys, I just can't help it. I'm like, guys, they're going to get$380 ,000 for this. Like that's the real. I also feel some obligation to let my kids know what like market value of places. But that's not mean. That can be mean to them. Oh, really? Yeah. They love it. You know, it's like. Well, they do. But both can be true. It's like, it's not. Again, I don't think it's mean. It's a certain reality. Like 2 ,400 square feet in the middle of New Mexico, 300 miles from a town.

2:22:39Oh, but are you saying like, oh, my God, this dump. And then they're like. I'm going. That house is really worth 270. OK, well, yeah. You know, like, that's just the truth. The truth is the truth. But sometimes you add color to the truth. Well, that might happen more. Well, then, yes. So then some of the houses, I'm just getting physical anxiety. Imagining being in the house. Because there's so much going on. It feels like a bad acid trip, right? It's just like a million doodads everywhere. And there's not a single plain wall you could look at and calm yourself. yeah and so i will be expressing like they'll go to the bathroom like oh like i physically am like i can't imagine sitting in that room right dad oh you know

2:23:33it's sweet you're right it's great every place is great for them oh that's not true that's not true they're discerning because at the end of each episode you're gonna vote they vote on the show what was the most extreme house and so we have favorites and then we're pulling for certain ones Some incredible tree houses and stuff. They're aware of people like, yeah. Yeah. They're not naive. You know what it is? And this is a great, great thing. I think for them, if like it were quarterbacks of famous football teams, houses we were going through and there was something insane about it, that'd be fine.

2:24:07But these are often really kind of introverted, cute people. And they just rather that, you know, I get it. They're like the notion that they're tender and fragile and the notion that anyone saying anything critical would be overwhelming to them and they feel protective of those people. That's how I feel. Through the television set. That's how I feel. And I go, but guys, you know. Because remember one time. There's no toilet in that floor. I know. But remember when we got in a fight because you did a voice of somebody. Okay. And I said. It was accurate. I said, well, probably. We don't know what the person sounds like.

2:24:42But you, by looking at them, gave them a voice. Oh, sure, sure. And I said, Dax, that's so mean. And then you got it. Look, here's the other thing. It's like you are funny and you make jokes and you do things like that. But then you're also very sensitive. So then if someone then says, like, that's mean, you feel like I'm not mean. Like you get defensive because you're like never in person. Because you don't want to be a mean person. Right. And in real life, I'm not a person. But in the safety of my bedroom, I do want to comment on this person's wardrobe. Right. And so, but in that same way, that person that you gave the voice to, I felt it was a fragile person.

2:25:25Uh-huh. You know, so. Yeah. But their voice probably sounded like. It probably did. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But like. But who cares? Who cares? Okay. Is the movie called Macon County Line? Yes. That is a movie, 1974, action crime. Only an hour and 29 minutes. You know, that's my kind of movie. Yeah, you hate anything over 155. I love a short movie. Oh, he said he was going to send us photos of his closet, but I doubt he did, did he? He didn't send me anything. I don't think he likes me anymore after that interview. I think this is one of the first. Generally, people come in here and maybe I think I'm not going to like him.

2:26:03We become friends. This is the first time like a friend came in. I don't think he likes me anymore. No, he does. I'm pretty sure he doesn't. Of course he does. He just doesn't want to be - Interviewed. Interviewed, yeah. Yeah, that's fair. Okay, Chicago, the Chicago heat wave of 1995, 739 people died. That's crazy. I know. Five-day period. Woof. Scary. That's over 100 a day. Oh my God. It peaked at 126 degrees. What? in Chicago? Yeah. Rob, what were you doing then? I don't remember that at all. Do you think maybe you were on vacation? He was laying bare naked on his sheets with a fan on him. He was a baby.

2:26:49And he was constantly getting aroused. Ew, no! That's what was happening. He was a child. No, how old were you? At six years old? What was it, 94, you said? That's inappropriate. I was picturing 16-year-old you. It was in 95. 97. It was 95. Maybe your parents took you out of town. yeah maybe because it was in july you probably had great air conditioning didn't even know yeah that's what i was thinking oh my god you're so frivolous rob god okay was uh jeff richmond the snl music director um yeah he was a music director for snl and then 30 rock um and then a lot of other shows too i think he might have done baby mama's oh probably score it's not list oh yeah yeah wow ding ding ding in 2008 he composed a score to the film baby mama which starred tina fay and amy puller and dac shepherd it doesn't say that no but i'll add it it says citation needed i'll add it

2:27:54i'll add it more attorney in that too i bet there's some people that would come before me I think you'd be next. I don't know. Is Greg Kinnear in it? Yeah. Both of you would be next. The Kinnearski. Steve Martin's in it. Oh, shit. Small part. Yeah, small part. Well, there are no small part. Okay, how many people are deficient in vitamin D? Everyone. It does say globally about 1 billion people. So in the United States, estimates of deficiency widely vary from 30 % to over 60 % of adults. I feel like it's the most common thing people find out when they start doing lab work. I know. I almost don't.

2:28:31I'm like, if everyone is, then no one is. I got mine straight. Mine was in the toilet. There's also this chicken and the egg thing, which is, does low vitamin D cause inflammation or does the inflammation deplete your ability to process and hold vitamin D? So for a long time, they were looking at it as the cause. And now some people think it is the result. Interesting. Interesting. Okay. Is finagle French for favor? No. No way. No. You said that as a joke. As a joke. Yeah. But the origin of the word finagle, it emerged as American slang in the 1920s. It likely derives from an older English and Irish dialect word finag, which means to cheat at cards or renege on a promise.

2:29:19Uh-huh. That word renege makes my children uncomfortable. I don't like it. Yeah. We were playing spades last night at dinner at a restaurant. And I said, oh, you just accidentally reneged. And they were like, what did you say? And they've heard it before. I know. Yeah. It's a dicey. It is. Yeah. It's really. Yeah. I know. I know it is. Oh, my God. There was a crazy moment I saw. Theo Vaughn had Tyson. Mike Tyson on a live show. Oh, cool. They did a live show. Okay. And Tyson made him say the N word. He was not taking no for an answer. What? Yes. I was like, geez, Louise, what is what happens in that situation?

2:30:01What was the context? What was it? I dropped in pretty. It was mid. That's so strange. Yeah. He's like, just say it.

2:30:15He's like, come on, say it. Oh, my God. Yeah. He was like he was bullying him. And it's Mike Tyson. You know, you got to. He could eat your ear. You got to be careful. You got to kind of do whatever he says. Well, you could hold your own. You could hold your boundary. Like, sir, please. I am not comfortable saying that. I don't like that word, sir. Yeah. That's how you say it. That's how you hold your boundary. I can see why Tyson did it. I can see being in that situation and doing that. He's so provocative. I mean, my God, he just can't stop himself. Tyson or Theo? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

2:30:49I mean, he's a one of a kind. This is, you know, again, you don't get all, you know, maybe they're like fucking most decisive punch thrower in the history of boxing. Yeah. And then you also went to a finishing school, you know. You probably don't get all those at once. No. No. And that is a result of him being like really overweight as a kid and being terribly bullied and his pigeons being killed. I mean, just a terrible childhood. I mean, I don't think he's I don't think he should have gone to finish. I don't think anyone needs to go to finishing school. But I also don't think you should force someone to say the N word.

2:31:23Right. Unless you're you're he's entertained by it and it's his right to do whatever he wants. Because he's the one who has to deal with it. Like in an audience. Like, yeah, that's like I'm not saying Theo should have. I'm saying I understand. He's like, I'm the one who gets to say this. He gets to say it. Yeah. And he gets to say, now I want you to say, I know. But it's mine. But no one can force anyone to do something they don't want to do. Correct. Okay. Unless it's to save their own life. Then it gets a little murky. But yeah. Okay. Well, yeah. If they're like, if he's like. I don't want this oxygen mask.

2:31:59You're like, shut the fuck up. I'm going to shove it on your face. It's true. There are exceptions. There are very few. Okay. Okay. Love you. Love you. Love you.

2:32:19Thank you.