Coi Leray: Girls Is Players Too

0:02What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper with Call Her Daddy. daddy gang i am so excited for today's guest she's a rapper a singer and all around amazing performers you also probably know her from her song players which i'm obsessed with i feel like it's the anthem of summer everyone is singing it everyone obsessed you just came out with your new album congrats you're thriving thank you koi larae welcome to call her daddy call her daddy i'm so happy to be here y 'all don't understand like this is so fire this is so so exciting first of all your outfit dude thank you you showed up thank you i just put a little oof oof you know just a little yeah we're kind of color coordinated too which we didn't intend to do no so i was actually gonna wear some dior sneakers but then i have like a huge closet and i tend things tend to always get lost so i look in the corner i see these little furry things i'm like i've never got to wear them And then it matches like the purple in my pants Yeah yeah yeah And then the blue and the denim I don't know I really put it on And it came out really good It's a statement I love it I also love when someone shows up like crazy shoes Yeah I was looking at the candle I'm like hopefully we don't burn on fire Everything's fine We're good we're good

1:37okay so your new album we just have to get into it because it's so fucking good thank you and i'm so excited for you how are you feeling about everything coming out i feel like finally you know i i work so hard um i feel like i work so hard and i always get underestimated a lot and um it feels good to finally have a body of work to my full potential and just out there normally i'm always worried about content and just rollouts and stuff but the music is so good that i'm like i'm gonna let the music live yeah here so that must be such a nice feeling like finally working to be like i actually don't have to oversell over promote i don't have to convince people like you play that shit and it's great yeah because that will like drain you i was at one point in my life you know i've been signed for four years and it drained me always worrying about a hit or worry about if the next person is gonna like this or like that like now i'm so like can i curse yeah yeah i'm like so fuck you like i don't i'm i'm it's koi's world all the way i love it how would you describe like the vibe of this album um koi you know me koi is my first name larry is my middle name so um you know my artist name is my my birth and i don't know i feel like all the legends with the self-titled albums it's like serious and i'm so versatile that like i just wanted to show every single side of me whether if i'm singing rapping you know we got black rose with some drums on there and um man's world very very r &b and just pain and soulful so yeah and then spend it with saucy like i love fashion week i love fashion i feel like i'm a fashion girl song in there so yeah no it's dope there's so many different vibes in the album which I think is for me personally that's what I always want I always want to feel like I'm going on a journey nothing all sounds the same it's really incredible I'm interested to know also from your perspective because you can brag a little bit here like what do you think it is about your artistic presence that has everyone so obsessed and in love with you I feel like um Um, since I started, like when I first came out with GAN or Huddy, um, I've always been true to myself.

3:58My, I, I was twisting my own braids. My parts weren't even straight when I first started, like my braids were just like, take it out, braid it. And they were this small. Okay. And I didn't care. I would just go out and give them energy. I feel like something that you really don't see, especially around the era when it was all about how you really look, I feel like in, And, you know, especially in the culture when it comes to the female and black woman and hip hop, it was like a whole thing of how you're supposed to look. So when I came out and I just totally went against the fucking rules, I guess, or whatever you want to call it, I was like, nah, I don't care.

4:32I'm coming out 100 percent me. My hair is not long. I don't wear makeup. I don't have the sexiest clothes. You know, I was very, very tomboyish still. I'm 26 now. So I'm just growing into a woman in my sex symbol. of course i always been but you know clothes are just a little tighter and a little less clothes but um yeah i always had this confidence of just like a heart of a lion i'm a tourist as well so that plays a big big part love love um you've said in the past that you want to write songs about men the way that they write songs about women which i'm like alleluia thank you so much coy we need that yeah how did you decide to even take that approach so i'm from jersey i was born in boston so all my family on my immediate family all my family's in boston i was born in roxbury but my um me and my brothers and my mom we moved to jersey so i have my little family in jersey but growing up being so close to the east coast there was a boogie and a boogie is so fire and i remember when he came out like first came out and he was just so real and raw and the stuff that he would talk about was crazy we talk about the girls he would really be like talk about you know his relationships what he was going through and the way that it's this one song he'd be like he says it a hundred times he'd be like i don't trust bitches i don't trust bitches don't trust bitches i don't love bitches don't trust bitches like he said it it's like 20 times on the song i'm like oh shit and i'm singing it i'm like i don't trust bitches i don't and it sounds so good i'm like nah i feel this i know the guys are feeling this right now i need the girls to feel this just as much as the guys feel this it's so true like even when you think about like fuck bitches get money like it's all this shit of like we get fucked and they just thrive and they just thrive they get their bag and we're like oh we're the bitches over here so it is really refreshing even just like players it's just like yes you're like spinning the gender roles on its head a little bit and being like no we're also players too which i love it's crazy because now like if you know the guys will be like yeah like because girls is players too right and i'll be like it's just the song hearing a man say it you're like uh yeah yeah yeah that's not for you to say but sure um okay so you kind of mentioned your family and i thought that's so interesting you grew up with five brothers yes you're the only girl brothers my my fifth one is baby zeno he's like probably seven now i think so yeah okay okay so four basically around you growing up and you are the only girl how did that affect you growing up um i was always a tomboy um you know i i always got my hands dirty i was never into girly things at all i remember my brothers used to play like drown me that's how i learned how to swim they used to like throw me in the pool and i could not swim this is like torture i could not swim for a run didn't even take my first swimming class so they would literally throw me in and like save me type shit or whatever like they'll feel like life in guard so i'll never forget like life was life was different growing up we was we was knocking beehives off and getting i was the only one getting stung like yeah it was one of those things i love how you also start that by being like so they would play this game where they drown me and i'm like that's not a game koi that's not a game they get to drown you and be the saviors and you're just like the object and i'm in the shit drowning like yo my mom cursed them out yo but it made me stronger honestly now i'm probably one of the best swimmers ever there you go you can do back flips you can do crazy i can race i'm ready to race anybody i'm going you're going to the olympics okay album's done now we're training for the olympics i'm out of here it's so interesting because you kind of can get that vibe like i grew up i only have one older brother but i lived on this like little cul-de-sac and it was all boys all the time playing games and i was one of the only girls and it does kind of affect you in a way that like i hated pink i refuse look at the studio now oh my god but it's like it's actually still very it's subtle it's subtle it's not too like yes even though i love to get a little girly now though that's what i think it almost like took me a little bit to love the girly side of myself because you don't want to be girly around the boys no at all especially when you're cute absolutely you're cute as fuck oh my god and i always hung around the boys so me i was like a little like tomboy for real like i thought i was one of the guys because i did not want them to look at me in a certain way right i really didn't and but but also too the guys respected me and i was such one of the guys that they would be like girl please right right like i remember when i first started growing boobs and i whenever i would play with the guys like i didn't want to like look like i had boobs because i'm still one of you yeah and then all of a sudden that shit just popped and it was over i was hoodies and sweats exactly um i'm interested to know because i have an older brother did you ever have a similar issue where did your brothers ever try to hook up with your friends or the other around did your friends ever try to hook up with your brothers um i was it would probably be me trying to hook up with their friends because i was the young i was the young my brothers are older than me so i'll see the boys come around be like damn but my brothers wasn't going for that did they find out that you like did you ever hook up with them i would tell them i'll be like we're me and my family are crazy i'll be like whoa your friend johnny bravo looks good boy he'll be like yeah uh-huh now i gotta keep him away now you won't see johnny come over ever again i actually can relate to that i did try to hook up with my brother's friends and i remember like trying to sneak out to like make out with one because my brother made out with one of my friends and i was like fuck you like i will ruin your life i'll hook up with your best fucking friends we were so close but when it came to that age where we started to hook up with each other's friends that's where it got like he's the older brother and i'm the younger sister and i couldn't have fun but he could have fun i'm like did you just fuck one of my friends your brother fucks your friends is your friends full your brother's that's a great question i think it's the level of closeness to the friend i think my friend should well i would i could tell if my friends like my brother immediately so i would obviously tell them straight up like no bitch we not we not doing that let me find let me catch you looking at my brother one more time let me find out i'll be like and i'm the only girl i probably was a little jealous or something like right and because it's like i don't want the drama because then you two are gonna like not like each other at one point and you come over for family dinner exactly you can't sit at the table with my brother anymore because you fucked him yes okay and you guys get into it now you're in your feelings yeah yeah i think i think i'd be more mad at my brother in the initial but then my friend i'd be like well you just fucked it up now we have to have play dates at your house yeah yeah you're a ho now we're going to your house okay god because you have older brothers i'm also interested to know like what's your mentality like are you confrontational or do you not like to be confrontational like what's your vibe with drama i remember like my brothers were very aggressive and we would play like cop cops and robbers and all kinds of stuff basketball and i would i'm i'm so athletic i wasn't good at basketball i was good at more at football but i was very athletic and um i realized when they would get angry and fight like or when i would get angry and fight i could not win they were so much stronger than me like and and we were all like they didn't care if we're mad we're mad and um yeah i realized i can't beat no boy i cannot be no boy so i kind of just i respected them yeah I feel like I respected them and we kind of were all growing up in a it was a different environment for all of us so I feel like it was important for us to kind of stay together yeah what are you like with women like if you're getting in a fight with a woman what's your vibe so I always say like I if I grow with sisters it probably would have been chaos because I was ready to go against my brothers even though I knew I couldn't beat them I was still ready to go in their face just as much as me i just wouldn't go so far like i probably wouldn't make the worst move or else you're drowning yeah exactly unless i'm drowning so i um but i always told myself if i had sisters it'd probably be chaotic i don't know how people deal with a house full of girls it's crazy it is so crazy because like it is annoying to watch like how guys can just settle things like even watching reality tv recently i'm watching the guys on love island be like it's okay bro like yeah you fucked her behind my back but like we can recover girls it's like it's fine and then you're like concocting a whole plan of how to kill each other and like scream it's just a different vibe it is it is i feel like guys too like where they it's like there's this thing where like let's just fight and then dump up after and then now it's like what up bro like no grudges yeah i don't know i guess it's uh it's just a different way that we deal with like how we go about things it's probably better on our end because emotionally we're getting it out we're actually getting to like we're resolving things where men it's like it's okay and then they're crying in the corner like five days later yeah okay talking about dating i'm interested to know have you ever had a girlfriend tried to steal a guy that you were either dating or you were into no because i never like my circle was okay i was probably when i was like 16 okay when i was 16 but as now my circle is very small and I have mostly guys and all my friends are also gay as well so like you know um I didn't really ever have that problem yeah no I remember I was when I was writing that I was like trying to think if that ever happened to me and I was like no and then I remember in college I had my best best friend in college I was obsessed with this guy freshman sophomore year obsessed and i would talk about him all the time and she would always put him down like no he's ugly like he's not even that cute like why do you like him why do you like him like always shitting on me like verbally just shitting on me to the point where i was like okay i guess i'll move on after two years and then i found out she fucked him oh that's so corny oh i would have had a beer up like it kind of like come outside bitch it hurt my feelings where i was like was it strategic that you wanted me to not like him so you could fuck him or by you telling me how awful he was did you slowly be like he's actually not that awful and then you went and fucked him i was always that friend to give them the benefit to give everyone a benefit of the doubt yeah i'm like i i see something and also too i was always that friend that or that girl i'm attracted to like what i'm attracted to like i i really like what i like like it's i don't have a certain type like i might really catch you off guard and be like damn he's you're like and yeah i'm like i see that so if a girl's like nah he's ugly or he's this or he's that i'll be like you don't see what i see and whatever girl because i don't care like you don't gotta worry about that so right i'll just go do it you're good yeah but that's spiteful do you believe that friends with benefits can work no i feel like it's either it's either we're gonna be friends or we're gonna be fucking i know and i don't think we could be fucking in being friends at the same time it's kind of hard as a as like me i'm i get emotionally attached like you know and then the dick might be so good then what like i don't want anyone else to have this right right and then after you're fucking then you can't be friends and then we can't be friends no i want i want to marry you i i'm a i'm a relationship i want a relationship you know anybody that i am single and i'm dating but you know someone if i feel like this is like the one then we should lock in on that level and just kind of focus on us yep um yeah because i'm also like i could please myself very very well i'm not gonna lie you know i could i could go a couple i know a couple weeks couple months without some dick like i could please myself very very well so i love that yeah we need more of that energy for women yeah like too many women are like well i haven't had dick in a week like i guess i gotta like put up with an asshole I'm like girl do you have your vibrator even your fingers something you could do it anything like you could just I I love pleasing myself I'm not gonna lie I feel like it's something I started I started doing a lot of masturbation masturbating recently I'm within this year I would say because it's just like I'm so busy and I get turned off so fast but I do like sex too though like I'm a big freak so wait so did you not masturbate before this year you're just saying you're doing it more i was massive i've masturbated before but i feel like i'm not i'm more like into myself this year i'm probably doing more this year wait talk to me about that yeah because you know like i started going to the sex store i never like really went into the sex store i feel like i'm getting older too so this is me tapping into just a different life i don't know but i go to the sex store i'm checking out different vibrators before i would just kind of be like all right let me just get the one that normally anybody would get but this time i'm like seeing which one you're perusing the aisles you're like i'm checking shit out like let me see if this is gonna turn like how this turns and how this is connected this way how many settings yeah and you know that's when i realized like i found my a dildo that i really loved like i you know you describe it to me is it just a dildo or is it like the rabbit thing where also is the claw coming out it's it has like a it's like this yeah yeah yeah it has a claw so it's like it's like shaped like this so it's going in and then it's hitting your clip and it's hitting my yeah it's hitting my and if you like turn it this way it's hitting my butt too yeah my my my ass so and i like my ass eight like i like my ass plate when it's stuff like that so i was i would just use it in the vibration for some reason it just worked right away so different that i'm like oh shit because i've used vibrators before yeah and it was like i don't know i wanted i rather i was like i rather the real thing yes you ever had that like you're like you use vibrators whatever toys and you're like i'd rather the real thing well i feel like that too because if you don't find the right one i've had that before where i'm just like you're almost trying to get the vibrator up to your speed of like yeah i want you to do this with me and i like want more yeah and then that just means you need a different toy and like i remember the first time i found this one that was a rabbit and i was just like i don't think i ever needed another dick in my life yeah because sorry my fiance but like it's like he's like oh i have to go away for like a month filming a movie i'm like so long like it really is it's a different experience but i get it's like intimidating to some women at first because you're right like i used to go into the sex store and was literally like head down yeah didn't want anyone to see me yeah it's like bitch it's a sex store everyone's having sex and we're a woman like we should be able to please ourself i feel like also too it teaches you more about your body and totally and i don't know um probably gives you more confidence as well like i i love it i don't i'm not against it i love sex as well but i think that like if you're one of those girls who just wants to tread lightly stay focused and not be all in the mix just grab you you know i'm saying get you one of them ones and then you know that way you got options with the dill bill and stack your nightstand with lube a couple different vibrators even when you're like masturbating and you can switch it up and you take like the dildo out then you go to like the clit stimulator like you're all over the place yes you're just like it's basically like you're switching positions i don't use lube though you don't i never use lube no i feel like i do sometimes depending on like the time of the month okay like sometimes i almost feel like right after my period i'm like a little more dry so i'm like oh like i want and i need like a little baby dot and then i'm like whoa here we go but it depends the time of the month um i i'm okay so i can't have sex if i'm dry so if if i'm not getting wet yeah then it's a problem and then and then i don't want to do it because then that's creating friction and shit and i'm good off that right how would you turn a guy down if you're about to have sex and you can't get wet i would just be like it's not going in like what are we doing here like it's i like this should be slipping and sliding like i wouldn't even want him to play with me because it's wet like a nigga feeling our name he's like oh this shit is dry and sound like yeah duh you're the now i'm gonna be like because of you like no so i you gotta give me wet i'm a big foreplay person and then also to spit does the job it does it does it does do the job we can just say it right there spit does the job a lot of things can play as lube but like spit specifically that's fine it's perfect so you're single you said yeah i'm single how long have you been single for like almost seven months now maybe six seven months how's it going it's good i i um i tried some celibacy for a couple months i was like celibate for like four months and think yeah you know but it's good i feel like i'm dating i i met this guy he's so cute and he's so sweet but you know they're all cute and sweet in the beginning in the beginning and then it's dementors yeah how did you meet him um at a party oh fun yeah it was very organic that's so nice because i bet it's like kind of weird for you now where you're like you have to meet people either like organically like you're not going on the apps and yeah so it's like through social media like yeah nowadays everything is like through the dms and stuff but now we met in person it was like really cute you said like you have a type you don't have a type what is your type i just like a man like i'm i also started realizing i like older men um yeah i like i like i'm a i like a i'm a little aggressive i would say you know i'm a little alpha i take care of my family i work my ass off um pay my own bills got my own money like very very successful for myself so i need a man to come in and just like you know over not overpower but yeah empower me like yeah list me up and kind of i'm willing to learn um i'm always the one teaching so i'm just really into somebody that has a really strong powerful mindset that shit turns me on so well i'm not and then i like hygiene i'm big on hygiene you got to be clean so be old and have hygiene yeah when you say old not old or what are we doing they're about to die like okay so the oldest i'll probably go i'm 26 i'll probably do like 37 38 30 yeah 37 that's perfect that's like perfect for me that is perfect that's 10 years older yeah i think so like 10 yeah that's what my partner is right now 10 nice but i also feel like men are like a little slow to mature so like we have to like yeah equate for that little age gap issue of like you weren't mature we're mature but i i love that for you also i agree with that i feel like it's really hot when you're constantly being the boss of your life and you're having to run shit every day you want a guy that can like be fucking dominant in certain ways and you're not also being like okay you sit down like oh like take your fucking dick out and you're telling them what to do just like you were two minutes ago to your entire team like i don't want to be the one to like my titties coming out it's all right girl views you know what i mean like if the if a nipple pops nipple pops or a little everyone's happy yeah i'm sorry i gotta hate these things looking oh great they look great no nipples out but wait what was the question so like i get i just was commenting on i agree with you of like the vibe of having someone that's like more able to be dominant because you're such a boss that it's like i need someone that can like actually equal me and you're not like treating them like a little boy no here we go and not treat me like shit but also just empower me and teach me and and guide me yeah and um i don't know i like fun too like i'm a nature girl like i'm trying to go outside and get my hands dirty like yeah take me and i love to eat so i can't stand going on a date and like happen to go to ruth chris or something because all they eat is some damn mashed potatoes and steak like and then what kills me is when they say they don't like sushi it's not a deal breaker for me but it's just be like damn how don't you like sushi like how we gonna go to these cute sushi restaurants if you're not gonna eat you just ordering the the the the bang bang shrimp and the teriyaki chicken california roll yeah the california roll like no my brother just doesn't like sushi and i looked at him i said look at me right now you're single you're gonna be single for the rest of your fucking life buddy if you can't figure out how to swallow a goddamn spicy tuna roll okay oyster like something so he's now been going out to eat with me and i'm just force feeding him to be like eat it and just pretend you like it and so now he's like taking girls out to sushi dates and like they're so happy when we go like see just pretend that you like it it's it's it's an important thing shrimp tempura is a good one i guess that's not like cooked it's a little crunch but yeah but still no i need i need you to be into food like i want to go fishing i want to travel i want to do like go in the wilderness and i want you to be able to build and fix something around the house i cannot stand someone who's just sitting around and just like you know i'm saying working off their phone and shit like that like nah like i need to see some can you put a tv up or something right like just start building something yeah build something or be the one to call the person like or just be the one to notice it i'm just i'm big on the mind like it would turn me on if some if a man comes to my house like i just moved and my my paintings are on the floor so it's like if i'm talking to someone and he's like yeah like yo we gotta get these paintings up you know like boys like i'm what i'm what this is perfect oh my god you want to hang my paintings i'm what he's like no well we'll we'll have a task rabbit but you noticed yeah so like i get what you're saying like be proactive in like doing shit yes don't be a stagnant motherfucker that you're like hello get off tiktok yeah yeah although we love tiktok but like still maybe not for a guy to be scrolling all day yeah tell me about your first ever relationship my first relationship was probably in like fourth grade it was this boy named richard i'll never forget he was so cute i had just moved to jersey and um well to hack and sack and i was like this new girl on the block and um his mom and his my mom and my his mom like mad and i would go to his house like my mom was cool as fuck like you know but she trusted me as well right she yeah we were we were but it was like playdates like it was like little i guess i don't know um my real my next i guess i wasn't in too many relationships growing up but yeah relationships are just this is my advice for relationships um I think that you should go with your gut you know I'm one of those people that feel like yeah you got to take time to build but also to like if you really feel like this is it go for it right away don't waste no time it's never too early for nothing you know and um um also too as a human being like it's okay to be physically attracted to someone like you know have sex have fun you know be safe have safe sex obviously and don't just be out there going crazy but you know normalize just being a human being in and don't go looking for love because you won't find it that's that's a fact like you will not find love if you're looking for it if you're just focused working and doing what you got to do somebody will pop up and be like and that's what i feel like with this move for you just like popped up how long has it been only like a fucking week no that's actually like the most exciting time is when you're like at that week mark and you're like they can do no wrong they're so cute they're so perfect yeah and then like if we catch up in a month you're like oh that guy he's fucking gone and then yeah yeah exactly i'm like uh but hopefully i don't know i really like this okay amazing how would you describe your approach to dating like are you straightforward do you play a little bit of games are you shy like i'm not shy at all i'm very straightforward i'll get to the point i'm like what's up you got a girlfriend hey hi baby what's going on you gotta go back okay like that has that always worked for you um probably not yeah i'm a busy person yeah so i really in my like i'm precious about time do you usually only talk to one guy or do you usually have like a couple people in a rotation i wouldn't be like fucking multiple guys at one time that's something i can't do but i would talk to guys yeah because it's like you got to keep your options open you got to keep your options open one thing about these guys they keep their options open but like you don't want to be fucking all your options that's something you don't want to do you know and it feels good when someone's acting up and you're like all right like you really trying to play me right now like because this one over here is probably willing to do it all for me and you're over here playing like okay like you're trying to take me to ruth's chris yeah like he's taking me to matuhisa so what the fuck bitch we're going to sushi and you're taking me for a steak and mash there you know i don't think so i don't think so that's funny because i think back to when i was like in the dating game very heavy and i used to talk to so many guys and would have like a rotation or a roster whatever you want to call it but I would get so stressed because I would have like in the beginning days like a couple really good banger stories that I would always tell that I was like this makes them like think you're funny and this one makes them fall in love but then I would forget who did I tell that story to so I started a notes app I'm not kidding you Koi I started the notes app and I'd like I already told like the college blah blah blah story to this one and I would have a notes app of which ones I sold which stories to because then you you get your shit fucked up it's like a full-time job no you want to know what i learned on tiktok this girl she she was like yo she puts all her like guys that play like play she puts their she'll delete like their the conversation to text that and put their name as a coffin so i put all so i got all my guys in a coffin like so when someone texts me i don't know who the fuck it is so i don't even respond because it's like you're dead to me like you're out yeah and it was like the perfect trick tiktok we lit sometimes what gives you the ick yeah i i hygiene for sure like you gotta smell good number one number two i don't like the ankles out like i really don't like i hate when the ankles be out and the pants cut off like right here like i'm just i don't appreciate that you know i feel like everybody should be able to get their pants tailored like when things don't fit me i add a couple things to the bottom or you know cut a couple layers off on the top or whatever you know what i mean but like i feel like they should do the same thing they need to put a little bit more effort into making sure that they're close i think also objectively like men's ankles are not as cute as women's ankles but they wear the ankle socks so it's like what the fuck are we doing like oh my god i don't i don't like that like sneakers and ankle socks and then their jeans stop like right above yeah and i can see the little like hair and then they're like the ankle i don't like that yeah you're just like get it together yeah i don't like put on a boot like i don't want to i'll take a boot over an ankle yeah okay that's good to know what is the most cringe thing a guy has said or done to get your attention uh they do a lot of cringy things like just being in the like i don't like when you come up and whisper in my ear all hot and wet like like i've been in clubs multiple times and it's like even if we talk i don't mind you coming and talking to me but like the whole like

32:40it's moist it's moist i'd be like oh my god i don't like that it makes me get like look i'm getting goosebumps just thinking oh my god you're like you can just back it up like let's just talk like we can literally because i can give great eye contact we can literally just stay right here and just talk to me you can even come a little but the ear like when it's wet right what's your go-to move to get a guy's attention i don't really have to get a guy's attention yeah i at all like i don't think i ever think about getting a guy's attention i just get it um yeah i love that i'm really that girl like i have to tell myself that every day like i say that being humble all the girls should feel like that always tell yourself like you're that girl but yeah no i don't i don't have to get that yeah can you give even more advice on that because i feel like everyone watching this most girls are gonna be like coy i fucking wish i woke up and was like i'm that bitch i am the icon yes no one's gonna deny me like how do you get yourself when you're even in party settings when there's so many beautiful people around how do you be like i don't give a fuck i'm gonna get what i want i feel good okay so i feel like ladies here's some tips i'm gonna give you guys some real tips right so i feel like people will be a little insecure about how they look like some girls be like oh you know i've had friends talk about their cheeks and have the most beautiful cheeks in the world their nose their forehead their chin their fucking you know all of us we all even i do it myself like i'll talk about you know my boobs i'm like certain shit i'm like damn i need some bigger titties to fit this shirt or whatever so feel on yourself you know like really feel on yourself get in the mirror practice your sex appeal like i don't practice my sex appeal but i feel like it's a thing where if you don't feel like you naturally have it find ways to find it because once you body that sex appeal and you feel like you have that in that confidence girl guys will fuck a tree okay fuck a donut anything with a hole in it so they will it would be amazing to have a a beautiful woman just who embraces herself loves everything about herself and just has this confidence and is able to just capture you in a way we're like oh like there's something about her that i just can't stop thinking about so yeah it's really like who gives a fuck what people say and really feel yourself no i love that advice too because i feel like it doesn't matter if you don't have what like other women you compare yourself to having you're so unique and if you also walk into the room with that energy and you're so confident it actually does people look at you like what the fuck does she know that i don't know because she's looking like she's having the best time yes and like why not why don't we just enjoy ourselves and have a good time and have the best sex and enjoy our sexuality rather than feeling like i wish i could be like that girl be that girl just be it just be it just channel it it's so it's so easy once you master it it's like something that no one can ever take it yet no yeah

35:51have you ever been cheated on um yeah i have i've i feel like cheating is comes in so many ways and it's not fun but it's also something that really teaches you a lesson because I realized like as um you know I me and my father and have the best relationship growing up you feel me so I would say I'm like one of those girls that have daddy issues or had daddy issues had daddy issues um so you know dealing with different people and learning as I get older is me really just figuring out what I want you know what I mean and what at the time when you get cheated on it's like okay this just isn't it clearly so it's time to just move on and go on because if he's not like making you that person like that priority and he's worried about fucking other hoes and being a dog then girl you know how many men are out there that will treat you and it's not even how many men there's that man that you're gonna fall in love with you will probably meet another guy that will cheat on you another guy might might do you dirty but at the same time every single guy like will get better because you know you learned from your last relationship because you're picking yeah and i and i also feel like um it's a positive way to look at it you know i prepared you for your next bitch basically so if you you know your next bitch should thank me because if you go in that next relationship or you go into that next situation whatever she gonna you done learned a lot you know from even just cleaning your damn ass and shit so i i'll be like you're welcome god put me in this earth to do go ahead and just teach teach and be the best i could be just be a great you know change the world and make the world a better place um in your relationships you mentioned your relationship with your dad how did that manifest like did you start to see themes of like what you were trying to basically like figure out within your relationship with your dad and playing them out in romantic relationships i would just try to find like i wouldn't know what was good or not you know i knew like my dad always smelled good he was a hustler he got money he he was clean he was fly so i knew that's what i kind of was into and my brothers also was on that type of time too um but i didn't really know like i guess the true meaning of love like how to be loved for real you know my mom and my dad weren't really that intimate growing up i never really seen a lot of affection with them it was more like a lot of arguments more than a more of affection so that that how to be love and is a thing that's why i'm saying dating an older man it makes sense because i need to be taught by someone who is willing to teach but also not manipulative and you know what i mean because it's not like i'm a dumbass i have a very lack common sense but also you know it's a lot that i i i'm still learning about men no i think that makes sense like when you meet an older guy again aside from them being a scumbag if they're like just going after younger younger women right it's more just like you want to be with someone that actually has been in love knows how to move in a relationship knows how to treat someone right knows what they want that is not going to happen a lot of times with younger men because they're going to be at the same stage of you just trying to figure out and you're kind of looking for someone with guidance of knowing like yes no no actually quite we don't i don't fucking do that like we're not gonna have a petty argument we're gonna settle it now because they're like mature and they know what the fuck that they want it makes it easier for you to actually enjoy a relationship and then be your best self because you're like oh this person actually wants to make this work yeah rather than like just doing toxic young bullshit exactly how are we doing this how are we gonna make this like exactly i i rather there's someone who who's really serious yeah with experience that's serious with experience oh i like that yeah um was there when you got cheated on was there any like crazy like how did you find out um i think i went through a phone i think at the time yep it's always now the technology i think i went through a little phone i did but i don't do that anymore yeah i went through a phone but my gut was telling me like and i knew it and i and it was it was that's what it was but um what did you do when you found it i was pissed i was ready to

40:29she goes silent for the first time you were you i get angry like you can't i don't like to get mad because like if i get mad like i don't want to be mad especially over some shit like that like i'll be putting too much on my all my time my money my just everything into my love my affection to get cheated on is just corny to me. It's so corny to me. It makes you want to fight, but I would never put no hands on a man. And I'm not a Mrs. Get Back. You just really a dub. I'm going to curse you the fuck out. And then it's like, bye. You'll never hear from me again. I don't care what you do. You could send a million, trillion gifts.

41:14You could try to pop up at my house. You're going to make it worse. Don't come to my house. Don't bring me no flowers. don't be outside my house like no because then it's giving stalker like you're a dub go you made your bed laying it i'm quick to cut a nigga off quick yeah yeah that's something i always struggle with when women write in and they're like i don't know what to do like i found out my boyfriend's been cheating on me i always want to say like i get it some people stay and they can i could never stay personally because i just feel like it's actually not about the act of like cheating it's about the fact that you don't respect me and also that you can clearly lie to my face and be living a double life um but i feel like everyone's got to figure out how they handle it but for the most part if you have a gut feeling yeah he's probably gonna do it again if you take him back they're gonna show up with roses they're gonna feel like a piece of shit it's also for their ego they can then get you back and feel good and then they're just gonna go about it again because you just rewarded them for coming getting back with them yeah i feel like once he cheats it's like at that point listen you i'm not taking back a cheater because you already looking for something else you know what i'm saying you already looking for something else you already if you've been in something else i don't know what it is so at that point you have your mind made up you know like you're not sure i don't want to be around nobody that's not sure in a second option to nobody you know okay we're gonna play a game okay block or not i'm gonna give you a little scenario and you're gonna tell me if it makes you want to block them or keep talking to them okay a guy surprising you at the studio are we dating already no block like what are you doing like get the fuck out of here yeah like i'm like yeah yeah in the middle of the court rapping he come in block about some hey huh fuck you get in now i want smoke with the front desk and my security okay ugly and pics but hot in real life i'm not gonna lie boys do don't be photogenic so i'm on black yeah we'll keep him around doesn't give you his phone password once you're dating i'll keep around i don't need i I don't ask.

43:30Okay. Has a girl best friend. Always together. Block. Block. I remember this boy talking about he got a female assistant and shit. They all like, I don't know. Block. I don't do that. I don't play that. It's anyone listening. No, straight up. Have your mom be your best friend. Okay. I don't give a fuck when guys have their best friend, their girl best friend. No, me or her. Call your mama. Call your mama. uh okay calls his exes all of them crazy they bitches is probably crazy we crazy i'm not i'm keeping him because that's probably true he probably got some crazy shit i think it's probably insane got these girls going crazy as a fact that's true but that probably means he's a little crazy too that definitely means he's crazy everyone involved is crazy everybody involved is a crazy craziness he's a mama's boy okay so mama's boys be a little tough let's talk about i don't want to block them but mama's boys are a little tough i do like a independent man so i only i love a relationship between a man and his mom but i like the the saddest i like the the fact that you know financially and like you know physically and like you know they can make decisions on their own you know what i mean like that's what i mean like i just hope yeah and i agree i think there's a difference between like there's nothing more attractive when you see a guy who is so respectful of his mom has a great relationship but there's fucking boundaries so it depends it depends the level of how intense is he a mama's boy yeah is he respectful mama's boy or is he fully still like sucking off the tit yeah i don't i don't want nobody sucking off the tit okay unless it's yours unless it's mine um not open to eating you out in the bedroom whoa okay i that is a block i don't like that we cannot be in a relationship i dated this guy i was in a relationship with this guy he was jamaican and it was like you know He was not, that was just not the thing.

45:47And we was there for a couple months, like a month or whatever. And I kind of just, you know. But then I said, look here, sir. Let me tell you something. Listen up. Listen up. This is what you're going to do? Or this is what the fuck it is, okay? I don't give a fuck where you came from, boy. You gonna eat this motherfucking bloody. Best believe I was betting on all over it, Tim. So, yeah. So eventually, you know, he end up, I guess I feel like I popped this cherry on that. And he fell in love with it. He wouldn't stop after that. So it was just like, yeah, that's a no deal for me. Isn't it so crazy?

46:39one when guys are like expecting you to do swirly twirly gumdrops on their dick with your mouth but then you're like okay your time eat me out and he's like you're like use your fucking tongue like what the fuck like yeah go down go crazy make it happen yeah i think it's just like my only thought could be that they're intimidated because they're insecure because they don't know what to do like we've got in a rubik's cube situation going down it's not as simple as a dick that you're like oh this is what i have to lick yeah this is a little bit more like some guys can't find the clits save their life oh my gosh but if we are loving about it and be like babe get in here yeah this is this is heaven down here come on come on in like are you crazy and guys that i just feel like every guy should do it i think it's and you should do it with passion and probably take a class to learn how to do it too why you want it because it's really a key to a woman's heart you know it is that's how you snatch a soul like that's this is because the man i'm not i had never had an orgasm in my life until i met my fiance from a guy eating me out oh everyone i was just clearly fucking with guys that were just like yeah get it together yeah like use your tongue as a muscle lock it and load it and go for the beeline yeah couldn't figure it out anyways okay good to know great um sends random dick pics i don't like that i don't like dick pics i don't want to fuck on facetime and i don't like dick pics you don't want to fuck on facetime no right why can't we fuck in real life just like come on over yeah okay flirts by being kind of mean i don't like that oh oh i don't like that you know how guys do that sometimes yeah we're gonna like shit on you and you're like are we in fifth grade i don't like that no i like nice guys me too has hooked up with one of your friends before no that's a no no you can't do that you can't do that okay you said at the beginning that you're a freak so i was gonna ask like on a scale of prude to freak like where are we at koi i'm a freak okay yeah no i'm a freak what do you think that your best skill in the bedroom is taking it

48:48i'm tiny you know i'm a little bitty tiny little thing i could take it what is your favorite position uh i like back shots but i also like riding riding i can make myself come oh front or back turned oh yeah i just gotta just push a little bit right push it a little bit and so you would prefer oh that's hard i wonder reverse cowgirl or on top staring at them if you had to pick one um i like staring at them i like to like whip my hair around like when i was out of hair and wigs and braids and stuff even now like i'll still swing my hair and just yeah i just i swing it but swing my head i'll swing this hair this head i'll swing and just like i just like i like to look i like eye contact i like to feel like i'm and love that's why when you know it's important like when i'm fucking with somebody i'm fucking with somebody yeah yeah what is the best sex tip that you can give our ladies today of something you just like know you're good at that they're like i'm kind of in a rut coy like my sex life sucks i'm not giving what do i do help us deep throat bitch oh this was nice girl grab it and choke almost throw the fuck up when you do it okay because that right there is gonna rail him right on then i was not like the best not the best i was always good at sucking dick but i i wasn't not into it so it's not something i like doing so it's not something i did so i guess i probably wasn't the best from the bitches that really sucked dick i would say because that just wasn't me and i hated deep throating like it's just not my thing but um past year that was my ex learned some shit and yeah and that's when you realize like okay like you just you know you gotta just take it gag reflexes like you'll learn it all like just and don't look ugly when you fucking do it bitch don't roll your fucking eyes back and shit like just close them if you need to it's fine as you said that i'm sure everyone's right taking notes and they're like how do we not look busted as fuck while we're literally getting gagged to the back of our throat no i agree even if you're just like look down or just close your eyes or look down but bitch take that fucking dick it's gonna hurt maybe a little bit your shit might be sore it might be a little raspy next day you're gonna be swallowing and be like oh but it's gonna be worth it and and especially if it's your man like don't just go out there deep throwing niggas because oh girl yeah yeah don't do that but if but but half a it's like you gotta you gotta if you want to trap him and you want him and he already kind of got you and you guys finally make it to the bed and like you know you don't even have to do it on the first day build up build up i'd never recommend like sucking dick on the first day anyway i think i'm telling you i don't like it you gotta be my man to get like goggled on you know what i mean i love that because i feel like i used to do the opposite where i would just be insane you loved it and i wouldn't fuck them though and then they would be like wait what like what's going on i'm like i don't know like i just wanted to have fun and like i like it but like you're not touching me so i think it's like as long as you know your rhythm of like how you like to hold your cards don't give it all up like yes that doesn't mean like don't have sex you can have sex on the first night but like you're obviously not fucking them in the way that you're gonna fuck your like boyfriend like you're not you're fucking them like oh this is the first time we're fucking imagine how i'm gonna fuck you when it's yours when it's yours exactly so you kind of want to tease them and tap them words i agree that's fine how the fuck did you get your throat to prepare i just didn't i'm just like ah here we go yeah deep breath this goes nothing bitch you'll block your fucking nose and then like yeah you know yeah one thousand percent you got to just kind of just force it yeah you got to just slowly get in there with a lot of spit and you got to gradually start going going going and then you just got to get in there get in there have faith in yourself yeah you'll you'll do you'll get in there and when you get in there as long as you like they love the fact that it touches there so if you just like do it real quick and then gag and then do it real quick and then gag real quick yeah come back you don't have to stay down there for five fucking minutes you don't have to chill you're just going down and you can make your noises have you ever done it this way it is so crazy i've never done i've done it that way and i had um full vomit coming up and i had to just it's hearty meal i feel like my fucking neck will probably break i'm like because it's gonna go down like the other way no one time i fucking did it i told the story of my podcast i did it once and i had eaten like all this like french onion soup and it he went down and i vomited everywhere and all those onion chunks came out on the ground what did he say he didn't care did he he's he was so obsessed he was like this he was like i don't care guys if they like you they're gonna be like i'll clean it up for you if they don't like you they're like bitch get the fuck out yeah they're like you can get the cum towel and the throw up towel and then you can get yourself your own uber thank god i never had an experience you know he's like picking out onion from his stomach he's like it's okay i'm like so it was also so romantic and now we're engaged that's so cute that's so but see deep throwing gets you far yes um okay i want to talk to you about some of the hate that you've gotten online like you kind of referenced it earlier but you've received some pretty fucking shitty comments about your body specifically yeah one to people that aren't familiar what are these comments and also like how do you deal with the constant comments and fixation on your body so i've gotten like comments like you're skinny you look like a aunt a cockroach you look like a boy blah blah blah but um i've been like skinny my whole life and been my whole life so it was kind of something that it was just like knew that was happening since i've been famous and like at first they would never say anything about my size first it was about like my overbite because i have braces and i sucked my thumb and then it would be about like you know just my appearance i would say my braids and my appearance and just and then it started becoming about my body so i started realizing too like every year they had something to say and every year i leveled up um so i kind of just say fuck them i remember it was bothering me like a little bit of probably like a year ago when um when i felt like it was taken away from my music you know what i mean i just don't like that like i'm so talented i put in so much into everything i do like when it comes to my choreo my fucking vocals going in the studio making amazing songs having all these hit records um you know just being this fucking bad bitch on everybody's mood board like a fashion an icon doing so many things like um so many nominations and just you know all kinds of blessings people still find their way to like create this narrative about me being yeah you know small or whatever so it was just more so trying to just fight through that and fighting through that was to keep going keep showing them how talented you are like just putting it in their face in their face because they're gonna eventually they're gonna be like all right like bitch we We didn't call you skinny a million times.

56:36What else can we do? Like, you're so fucking talented. And at the same time, there's nothing I can fucking do about my body. Like, I'm sexy as fuck. Like, you know, there's, you know, I don't want to change. I could change. Like, I could go and go enhance, like, whatever I want. Did you ever, like, with all the negative comments, did you ever think about ever doing that? No. No. I thought about, like, looking in the mirror, like, damn, my ass is fat. like my ass was like this big or my hips were like this big i'll probably look like this but it was never something that made me feel like i want to look like that it's just like it was a thought because you know who wouldn't want like i love big titties i think girls with big fucking boobs are sexy as fuck i think it's something that i adore i love the jiggliness i love the cleavage i love the push-up bras i love the how they look in big t-shirts like i love everything about a double d triple f you know c whatever cup um and i always would be like damn like if i had titties like that i'll be fucking doing the titty dancing shit too yeah it's so crazy too i think as women i forget who i was talking about this with we were like how the fuck is there there's never been a trend for like a male body but there's always a trend that's in for you know the female body and so for you getting shit of like you don't have this you don't have that you're too skinny you're too small i'm assuming but the issue also is so then if you went and got a bbl and you got your tits done then everyone's gonna call you fake and then everybody will call me fake and exactly they'll be like yo why are you but at the same time why would i you know i would say the same thing like why would you go and get your because you know i don't know i feel like again they make girls especially women in hip-hop you know we just have to do a better job by just showcasing more um bro life shit yeah you know I feel like because it's the glitz and the glams and how we are you know we are sexy all the time and doing a lot of stuff with our bodies and just showcasing and twerking and stuff like that um it would be good to switch the narrative to kind of change these kids mindset and put them in a different you know perspective of okay let's not just make everything about bodies let's make it about who can cook now let's make it about who could fucking fish the best you know who can wear the best sneakers or who could you know pop out with you know who can wear the highest heels and not fall like shit like that you know what i mean yeah shit that you actually like it doesn't actually genuinely affect the way that someone feels yeah about who they are and the way that they look yes because at the end of the day the reason you're getting hate i'm assuming also is because like you don't look like some of the other female rappers in the industry but it's like but isn't that amazing that you have your own identity yeah and then again if you try to conform then you're fake then you're trying to it's like you can never fucking win no so it's like just be yourself and i agree it's like don't try to go with a trend of how you look like you are the trend be your own trend look the way you fucking look and that's it big trendsetter and i don't i'm not against any body you know enhancing their body as well um if you get it botched and fucked up then that's just fucked up and now i'm just like damn you're fucked but i feel like as long as you're in this shit with like good intentions having making sure you're healthy following the proper procedures going to someone who's very professional knows what they're doing um then i support you 1000 yeah it's like do whatever the fuck you want it just sucks if why you're doing it is coming from a place of people making fun of you in the way that you look and so you actually didn't even know that you were insecure about it other people made you feel that way and so then you had to go and do something because you felt like so it's like it just sucks because most women are doing it because like society is telling them we don't have this we don't have this we're just it we can never fucking win no but i do hope we're getting to a place now where we've seen like one trend come in and then the next trend come out and they're so parallel opposite that you're like let's all just be good with how we fucking look and that's that okay i feel like i kind of you know set the tone especially in hip-hop you know you know for example now it's like me and you know we've got glowrilla now she's also very small i feel like she kind of swept past the small thing like they still try to say talk about her little butt for her butt is very cute and sexy but i kind of feel like it you know she you know i got it the i got it so the girls could get it you know what i mean like the the small girl the petite girls coming in this because they i went through a lot with it and and now i feel like they're accepting just that rawness the organic the natural you know i don't have any lashes on i didn't cut my hair off i'm just like yeah what more can you what more do you want to say just listen to me sing and rap yeah that's it that's it and look at my fashion yeah who is your dream collab this question's hard because i have so i'm a fan of so many amazing artists of course i would love a drink feature he's fucking amazing his i've been seeing all his tour videos fire um i want a collab with billy eilish i think she's incredible i've always been a fan of billy so good um yeet i want to collab with yeet um i think he's fire i wouldn't say yeah these are all dream collabs fuck that these are all dream collabs um and let's see uzi um i collabed with a lot of people that i dreamed of already yeah no that's amazing that's amazing what is something that you're really excited for that's coming up that you can share with us i just shot a crazy music video with buster oh and yeah he's about to drop a new album it's so dope because it's like um you know this is the hip-hop shit that i'm talking about that's this video is so major like anybody that knows buster rhymes and how crazy he is about his videos he was telling me this story and he was just like he was telling everybody the story about like how because you know i'm like yo this he must spend a bag on this video it was a crazy production like it's real buster rhymes like a real crazy video from back in the days like 2023 type shit so he's sitting down and he's like um you know I remember when me Missy and Diddy used to battle for the videos and like on you know if Missy Missy would spend like one million on a video and I'll be like nah like I'll get jealous so now I'm dropping 1.3 and then Diddy come around and he'll go ahead and drop like two million and then he's like I had to hit him with the Janet Jackson and hit him with the 2.3 million so it was just like so fire to re like i felt like i was like he was reliving the moment as well just on a whole nother different scale and he's he still looks good he sounds the same and um diddy pulled up i remember seeing uh swiss beats pulled up timberland pulled up um atl jacob pulled up it was just like a like okay this is crazy this is yeah this is cool as hell this is cool as hell damn that's such a probably a cool crazy moment for you too of just like growing up and like idolizing people like that and being like i get to just stand in the same room as these people and like swiss he's like pulling up soon as he walks in they just came from cutting something in the studio he's already playing the reference on his song like just over and over again out loud like they're just so musically inclined and just to be able to be in that setting with the music video timberland swiss like it was just like oh shit and they they love me and respect me so much so yeah that is so fucking cool and exciting for you you're doing so many big things yeah that i have all these festivals coming just drop the album so yeah just really about to just have like a fucking great year i feel like i've done so much i've been on i have three songs on the hot 100 billboard i've dropped an amazing album um you know i'm one i'm in the hot 100 most i'm a hot 100 spotify artist so there's like our spotify has a top 100 artists in the entire world and i'm like number 70 or some shit like that dude yeah i'm i'm so blessed though it's so dope i'm here forever last question if someone is becoming a new koila ray fan today what do you want them to leave this interview knowing about you i want them to know that i am just like you yeah koi thank you so much for coming on color daddy the people are gonna freak out you're amazing thanks guys