Offset: Relationships, Risky Texts & Rap (FBF)

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1:47Daddy gang, I am so excited for today's guest. He is a Grammy nominated musician and he currently has a new album out. Offset is in the studio. Daddy Gang, this episode is a chaotic but fun ride. We get to know Offset a little bit. We talk about his childhood, marriage with Cardi B, fatherhood, new music, and we answer, well specifically he, answers some of the most unhinged questions from you guys about sex, relationships, Sucking dick, eating pussy You name it, Offset is here to talk about it So come hang out with me and Offset Let's get into it One third Offset has had my opinion They are the best rap group of all The year D 'Amigo is out here D 'Amigo!

2:36I might give a little all to me D 'Amigo's member to make his solo debut This man just does not miss Are you announced on Twitter that she had secretly married Offset? I want to thank you since the lady right here in the front You always support me What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy. Offset, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Call Her Daddy. I am so happy you're here. We're talking about your fit. Tell me, I know you're very into fashion, tell me how you decided to wear this today so today um i want to do something fresh and new so i went to rig on got these pants i went to chrome heart and got this top and i got these balenciaga like slides but how they how they sit on the cuff look like a shoe so i felt like it was a nice oh those are slides they look like big boots yeah they look like they weigh a lot no they kind of light they're not too heavy oh okay do you ever utilize the pockets in those pants when you wear cargos nah no just for show just for show i like sometimes when they stick out though because it gives it a shape of the pant you know you want your legs to look even thicker nah nah i just want a little uh a little girth just a little girth okay good to know i feel like sometimes men struggle with fashion because they're extremely insecure they don't know how to like get out of the box they don't know how to trust themselves what do you see as the number one mistake that men make in fashion um

4:19mannequin challenge that's what i call it so when you a lot of people that got money sometimes it's not so fashionable they'll just go in the store and buy what's on the mannequin head to toe like a no-go for me it's like a track suit with the same print passing fancy top zipped up and then a lot of then other than that everybody think that designer has to be the drip like if you have on a lot of designers and you you you're fashionable no i could go to thrift store out dress somebody that got on some shit from designer and also you hit on the point a lot of men just be insecure when it comes to that i agree whenever i see people in like the gucci tracksuit i'm like it just gotta go it's too much a lot of g a thousand g's everywhere yeah and then i'm not big on print like i don't like the out loud like hey i got on gucci i got on hermets i got on i don't like that i like nice and subtle subtle if you know you know something that i really found unattractive for quite some time that even if he was the hottest man on earth khakis khakis on men was kind of like an ick for me like i couldn't get past when men had like tight khakis slacks they call them slacks slacks but specifically the like light colored slack on a man um i'm like it just did nothing like i just was like kind of disturbed by it and like i maybe i went to a prep school so a lot of these kids are like in their slacks oh they used to wear the sperry's with the slacks too did you ever own sperry's it wasn't my taste i did go american eagle and like ever cry me i did that i did that did you do the double pop polo double pop polo i did that when it was in when it was in i did that but the sperry's the potato shoes i couldn't do that i used to call them potatoes sweet potatoes how do you feel about uggs uggs are fire okay you got to be a confident man to pull those off i feel like you could pull them off i pull them off what is something that a woman could wear like for me my dick is khakis with men what to think something a woman could wear that you're like i can't handle it take it off i don't like when you have the busted air force wands i think it's just shoestring shoestring tied up so tight that you can they leave a little shoestring mark on your feet because they so tight those i hate those just be dirty beat up and the outfit might be fire but you just got those on it's like come on don't do that please thank god i didn't wear mine today um anyways i want to know a little bit about your childhood i know you said you grew up in atlanta but like i let's paint the picture of young offset okay let's go back to elementary school okay what are you like at recess like what are you doing who are you hanging out with are you in the cool crowd are you a weirdo what's going on at recess i um i don't know if i was in the cool crowd but i had my two little homeboys malik and um i forgot the other two names and elementary school i wasn't like that that cool okay people was roasting me about what just like my clothes wasn't up to par you know my mama was struggling you know i mean she didn't have it and um my clothes wasn't up to I just wasn't all the way there yet, you know?

7:26But by the time middle school hit, I was that guy. I'm playing sports. I'm playing football for the middle school. You know, when you growing up as a boy, it's like being tough is cool, too. I started to get a little musty. I started to get a little, you know what I'm saying? I started to get a little tough. Just had a couple fights here and there. Oh, puberty hit. Puberty hit. Started to get some muscles. Yeah. Yeah, I started to get a little rough. High school, I was that guy. Straightforward. And I won best dress my senior year, and I got on Gucci my senior year. How I got to Gucci, we'll talk about that another time.

8:05But, you know what I mean, I was fly though. Like high school, fly. I also love, like you said, maybe elementary school wasn't your vibe, but it's really sad because there are some people that peak in high school. Facts. right you i swear you so right and then you look at him now and it's like oh damn like i know the girl that i was like so jealous of in high school i'm like she's not she's not like it she's not even the conversation anymore don't even exist right you so right with that shit a lot of people don't say that that shit is so right like the super coolest dude be like later on in life be like god damn what happened to you thank god i didn't turn out like tom like he's a fucking loser now yeah he got the girls back then he's got nobody now yeah so we both didn't peak in high school which is good but you said you were popular in high school you know how people have like the superlatives of like most likely to live in their mom's basement most likely to become famous if your peers had to like name you as something back then what do you think they would have said about you i think they'll see me in this space because i always just like in high school i had grills in and like i always was trying to like i had a little fake jewelry on in high school and little chains and shit on like i was i was preparing myself for the real and like i always cared about how i look you know in high school like it'd be like how you look is key it's everything it's everything you could have the worst fucking personality but as long as you're looking good people in high school gravitate towards that exactly everyone's so fucking surface level and assholes a lot of people thought i would be in trouble too though i must say okay because i had a you know my my high school growing up and you go through that time of ignorance and doing dumb shit and I was doing a lot of dumb shit in high school a lot of dumb shit um even got arrested high school it's just like doing a lot so a lot of people like my teachers uh what's her name I want to say her name what's your name Mrs.

9:59Mrs. Smith no Carnegie damn it what's her name Deborah starts with an E pretend she's standing right here right now you told me you know who you are you told me that i was heading into trouble and i headed to success is that so good teachers that are assholes in that wild time like kind of like abusive like kind of abusive you really think about it and kind of like tearing you down and preparing you to like like because you know at that age those words are like somebody feeding you that yeah it's like damn and they're the people that you're supposed to trust like they're the people that are like but to guide you towards success.

10:41And one of them, Debra looking at you, being like, you ain't shit. But look at life. Look at life. Also, it's fucked up because you know that woman probably doesn't remember that shit, but you still remember to this day. I remember to this day. She's my counselor. I can't believe I can't remember your name. Let me know and we'll somehow dub it in at some point.

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13:46My personality is very fun, but I can also be very serious. I'm a Sagittarius. I'm very confident in who I am. Some people take it as cocky, but that's on you. I know I look good. I like to, I'm very creative and I love to learn about creative shit. Book shit is not my thing, but like creative shit. Like I'm doing my own films right now and the ADs and what it takes to actually have a production company. I'm interested in learning so I know how to handle my business from later on. And I think a lot of people with this album rollout was able to see that. Yep. Because I always kind of been like not talkative and like too cool for school.

14:23and then on this shit I was like man I'm about to have free spirit so why what changed I went through a big death to happen and I was down for such a long time and I just made me want to really enjoy life you know I'm saying enjoy life enjoyed my career instead of it being like a job or like cuz it had got to the point where I was feeling like a jobby and then people always got something to say and I'm like man fuck that it's about me my happiness and giving my identity of who I am as my as a solo act offset and it's like challenging myself to be more do more entertaining shit instead of the old shit because I you know you get successful you you start to doing the same patterns that got you successful and then but after a while it's like repetitive and it's like damn what's new no I appreciate you sharing that because I think like sometimes the most fucked up shit in life is like if you lose someone close to you or you just go through anything traumatic like it can reset the way that you look at things and that is a blessing in itself because you have to find the positives and moments in life and so to be like you know what i'm gonna not take this shit for granted i'm gonna make sure i capitalize on all this and like actually be present i think that's amazing thank you yeah of course okay so you kind of started to get famous you started migos around 17 right yeah did you always know you wanted to be in music Yeah, from like middle school.

15:48Were you rapping in middle school? Yeah. Not seriously, though. I wasn't taking it serious. Okay. But when I could, I would. And then by the time 10th grade happened, it started to feel like it was possible. With the school and the homies rocking with it and giving a little support. If you look back, because I feel like everyone in their career kind of has that moment of the oh fuck we made it moment with Migos, what do you think that was for you guys? See, so I was incarcerated when my song popped, and then Drake got on my song, got on my song, Shout Out to My Brother. And I was in a jail cell one day, right?

16:26And they're doing count like at 6 in the morning. I'm up, and he's singing my song as he do count. So the whole time I'm in there, I'm not telling people what's going on because I really don't know what's really going on. I just know we was in like a motion, but I'm in jail. Like my mind's everywhere. where I'm in a bad space and the guard doing the count. And he's singing, Versace, Versace, Versace. And I'm like, and I couldn't believe it. I walked up to the door and he like, move from the door so I can see who in the room. And then as he walked off, he's singing the song. I'm like, yo, what the fuck?

16:58No. And I'm like, as soon as we got out, I get on the phone, call it back home. Like, yo. Then they're like, yeah, Drake on it. And I'm like, what? So you didn't know that the song was big until when you were in? I was in jail, yeah, I couldn't. I didn't know, like, you know, like, your homie's like, yeah, it's on the radio, da-da-da-da. But I'm not knowing, like, I'm thinking it's like, they got it played on the radio once or twice. Right, it's like a penny play. Yeah, like, real quick or something. And then it's like, nah. Then, like, after, I had to sit down for, like, four more months as that went on.

17:29And then it started being, like, guards are like, you could talk on the phone. And you can, when the upstairs go in, you can stay out. And when the downstairs come down. and like i just started then like i had a visitation thing i'm married now y 'all so it's nothing crazy this is before my wife yep so on the visitation they had like six you can have six visits in one day 30 minutes apiece and i had like my mom on there and i had like some girls i was dealing with but they wasn't coming my mama was coming every week but the girls weren't coming then like i didn't know how it was going on all of a sudden they're like you got six visits i'm like i got six visits i'm trying to think like bro they sitting in the lobby it's like a screen and it pops up the face and they're like put their name and my name and they're going up and coming down saying something to each other going up back to back and i'm like oh shit that's when i kind of was like what the fuck what the fuck going on to my mama like son a lot of girls like they don't care i'm like mom i don't know i'll just put them on the list i didn't know they pop it they just pull it up and it was like oh shit this shit is crazy that was my first taste of like taste of it dude that is i don't think i've i never anticipated that to be like oh do you know when you got famous and you're like so i'm in my jail cell yes worst time ever nobody's showing love but my mama and then the guard is fucking singing versace walking past has that shit memorized and you're like wait that i ain't even i'm like oh god i ain't want to be the lame dude like yeah i mean and people like bro you want some jail story shit you lying so i just wasn't saying nothing and then that shit happened bro i was like oh shit how long were you in jail for eight months and i signed in jail you signed in jail How did that affect your life, being in jail while this was happening, when you look back?

19:26I was like, feeling blessed that I got something to go home to, to be honest. Damn, I got this to go home to instead of like the streets. And like, you know, because I was old, I'm 17, 18 now. So it's like, not living with mom dukes. I'm starting to see how life is in real life. The punishment's not the same. I've been outside of jail for eight months. So it's like, oh shit. I'm glad it happened that way though. I wouldn't take nothing back because I feel like it, because when I got out, I wasn't wild, wild west like, ah. Yeah. Because I had just been in trouble. I had to sit down. I had a lot of, my mama couldn't buy me out.

19:59It was a lot of things. I had to go through a program so I didn't have to go down the road. And the program was just teaching me, like, to be more determined and more focused on whatever I want to do and stop playing around in life, basically. Because there was a lot of young guys like me in the program. and they're like yo you get into any write-up in here anything you get kicked out gotta do two years and so i'm like oh and so it slowed me down before i was going too fast because i was wild i had got why i had got to the point where i was young and just doing dumb shit and then i feel like once you get on that path it's hard to like stop and recenter and it's kind of dope to hear that you're like i this was a perfect reason for me to be like oh i need to get my shit together like i do have something to actually look forward to and fuck my teacher because i'm not gonna let that bitch be right exactly it all comes back to the teacher um what are you most proud of from your time in negos i'm most proud of the time we spent together as brothers and what we have to what we did for the game for hip-hop um for music in general how influential to be a part of something so influential is the biggest blessing ever because we do this to influence people and little old us coming from Gwinnett County all the way to this now so it's like that's what I cherish the moments with the brothers obviously you're married now I love that you're like I need to clarify guys the women were coming in jail when I was not married like I know people are very hyper fixated on your relationship but But before Cardi, talk to me about your relationships with women.

21:38Like, what is the craziest, craziest thing an ex-girlfriend ever did to you? Like, we like some crazy stories on here. Craziest. Craziest. Give it to us. Oh, I don't want to name them, though. No, no, no, no. Yeah, because it'd be too. Yeah, so I come home one time and all my clothes is in the pool. Huh. Like crazy Giuseppe. This man, Giuseppe's is good. But first off, I'm just not getting to the money. So my$1 ,000 for the shoes is like a precious thousand. Precious thousand. You feel me like, whoo. I couldn't go out. I couldn't go spend$20 ,000 like it was cake water. I would be like, oh, I'm good.

22:16No. And I collect shoes. And shoes, when they get wet, some of them can't come back. They old, like old Jordans and like rare shoes. And all my whole closet like was in the water. and I was gone for like three days on the road. Oh, so that shit was like molded. Molded, stank, mildewish. You couldn't even clean it. It was over with and it's like, yo, you gotta leave. Why did she do that? Speculations. Little cheating speculation offset? Little speculations. Really, she had did something, right? Uh-huh. And so I put her on ice. Uh-huh. Then I met my wife. uh-huh if you get it i met my wife and so yeah that resulted in the flooded yeah what was your reaction when it all went down were you just did you scream looking at i'm like yo what the fuck is my clothes at and then like how my bathroom would sit like you walk out it was a window like a big ass window you could see the pool and my shit just floating some of the shit to the bottom Titanic some of the shit just like shoes to the bottom I've run down cause I'm not knowing how long it's been in the pool and I'm looking at it like yo it's green shit on it it's like September too so the pool ain't the cleaners it ain't even summer it's like September yeah sometimes that shit had me sick I ain't gonna lie that shit had me sick I have some Gucci Jack.

23:57I have some shit. But not a tracksuit. Not a tracksuit. Yeah. Never had those. Fuck. Top and bottom shit. Yeah. I don't know. I bet the Sperry's would have lasted pretty good. Potatoes. They'd have been soggy potatoes. Because they got that like thick thing at the bottom that kind of keeps it guarded. That little whip at the bottom. That thick little thing at the bottom. At the back. Yeah. So you eventually married Cardi. What was your first impression of her? I had seen her online first, right? Mm-hmm. And I just loved the way how raw she was and how confident she was. She didn't give a fuck.

24:31Nobody thought what nobody think, nothing. And it's like, damn, that's fire. Funny, great personality from what I could see. You know what I'm saying? I'm like, this is a funny girl. She's a cool girl. And then I shot my shot and I swished it. How did you go from being like, oh, my God, I want to meet that girl, going on a date? How did you know she was the one? First off, she's a family person, right? So I pay attention to, like, fuck the music and all that shit. That shit never mattered. That's not what I look at. I look at, like, your home values because I'm from the South, so I'm raised by my mother and my grandmother.

25:08So I come from strong women. And I see how dedicated and determined she was to get to a certain place for her family. It never was about, like, oh, I want to buy me a da-da-da-da. It was like, I got to buy my mama a crib. I got to buy aunties. Like, her family big. and she's like damn near the man because it's like she's trying whatever. And then her struggle, she come from the bottom, from stripping, and she still was helping. Like when I hear the story, she still was helping the family with that little money. And it's like her grind and her focus, you can't tell her nothing. And it's the same way with me.

25:44Like you can't tell me nothing. There's nothing you can tell me I can't do at all. I don't care what you think. I'm going to do it, and I'm going to show you I can do it. That determination. Yeah. Yeah, she's solid. Solid. What's your favorite thing to do together as a couple? Just being at the crib with the kids running wild. Because it's like we work so much, right? Yeah. And so like it be like the smallest things. People might think trips and da-da-da-da, but we do all that. Like we travel on the regular just with our jobs. Yeah. Buying things for my girl that's cool and shit, but like the quality time, because during that time she might push me or I might be pushing her.

26:19Or like, you know, you had those real conversations at the house. you know what I'm saying about what your aspirations or what you want to do what you see yourself doing the next five years and we talk a lot about business so we can set up the kids so they're not forced to be in this industry like we are so you don't think you would want your kids to like be in this industry I mean if they wanted to you know what I'm saying but I'm definitely not pushing it on them and I'm definitely not like because it's dangerous man it's like this shit is crazy I love that you're a family man What is a dad quality you have that you think people would be surprised to know?

26:54I can braid my daughter's hair. Love? Also, I can cook certain things. Okay, I can cook some chicken. You know what I'm saying? I can cook some mac and cheese. What kind? Huh? Mac and cheese. Vox? No, I can do it from like the noodles in the water and like drain the noodles and like clean the noodles and like I could do that. Okay. And make lasagna. yeah man i could whip it up if i need to damn if you need to do you do it often not so much but it's when it's appropriate i i can do it my mama taught me how to cook love it it's great it's a great quality to have obviously you and cardi went through things in your marriage and i feel like people online as we know are they love to stick to a narrative they love to be like once a cheater always a cheater like why do you think so many people are just stuck on that and like can't move on because i feel like people dive into negativity also i feel like there'd be like a hate train of of people that don't like my wife right and she does everything else to the t so that's the only thing you can attack and it's like we all humans but i hate that shit because at the end of the day.

28:13It does affect home. And at the end of the day, like, we move past shit, get past shit, grow up. I was married very young. I was 26 years old, getting married. As a mega superstar. Number one album, number one record. Fastest life ever. I made mistakes, right? But it's like, that's like me walking up to somebody. I just be wanting people to feel how they feel. Like, oh, you failed college. You didn't make it through college. You went to college and you didn't make it through and you work a bullshit job. people would never want to hear that shit every day like every day you wake up or every day you feel like or something you got to say every couple weeks or something it's like oh yeah you work at mcdonald's that shit is that shit is fucked up what i'm trying to say is i would never say that to anybody or do nobody like that but that's how that shit feels like punching somebody consistently punching and punching and punching and like trying to bring a family down i don't think people value or understand the value of family in this damn age because black people don't black people not married like used to be a lot of people don't talk to their parents i talked to my mama and like so it's like it's a family thing and it affects not just one person it affects the family so that should be lame as hell but we've gotten to a point where we were like okay bro fuck y 'all i appreciate you saying that too because i feel like it's like so many people think they know the ins and out of people's relationship we don't know fucking shit like we don't know anything about your guys relationship and so when things like that happen it's like how many fucking people have been cheated on i have everyone probably watching this has like that's just like that is something that couples go through and i feel like it just sucks that obviously that's one thing in the public eye where it's like now everyone's gonna have an opinion of like oh cardi leave him or oh you leave her like it's like shut the fuck up mind your fucking business like how's your relationship that's what i'll be saying the People who really be saying that shit be single as hell.

30:08And they're triggered by it. Or they get cheated on all the time and they're triggered because they're like, they have such a strong opinion, but it's like, mind your business. Live your life, man, and stay out of mine. How did you reestablish trust in your relationship? First off, by like respecting her position, right? We're both public figures. We're both in the eyes of people. Stop being selfish. we married this woman, we dedicated to this woman. And also like, just being more communicative about shit. Like we just talk more and like, cause you know, work was getting in the way sometimes and it was like, and it was, we would talk all the time, but like communication is key, man.

30:58If you don't like some shit, tell me. And if I don't like some shit, I tell you. If I did disagree with something, you tell, you disagree with something, I disagree. we talk and the communication is key not not communicating fucks shit up it's fucks shit up and it sounds so fucking simple but it's like right and then all of a sudden when you have a hiccup or something happens you realize like we never even talk about this shit right so like sometimes in moments where you're down like it kind of helps you if you're gonna move forward like rebuild something in a different way that actually will work for both of you like we never fucking talk or like we're eating dinners and we're not talking because we were too busy from our work like finding moments like you just have to reset sometimes i also like what you said because i think a lot of people i've experienced it if you stay in a relationship after that type of like infidelity the person that cheated like has to give that person grace and time to heal and not be like are you over it are you over it get over it and i know it's annoying for the person that cheated because it's like i can't do anything i just promise you i'm never going to do it again like i'm going to be a better person but the person that got cheated it's tough it's a lot of work what you did was selfish yeah it's their turn to be selfish and like you need to comfort them because luckily see luckily i have a very loyal one you know i'm saying and so like i don't want to lose her for nothing i love her to death my kids my son my daughter like they like where they were my daughter is like like by her dad like and i don't want to ever take the, like, myself away from them for my dumbass decisions.

32:33That was another thing in my mind. Like, this shit is a domino effect. Because I got other kids with, I have other kids, and I'm not with their mom, and it's like, that shit is hard. Like, baby, like, especially as they get older, they go to ask questions. Like, some of the hardest shit I went through was my kids asking me, why, why, why, why, and this, why why why why that shit hurts you and that's like another type of hurt where it's like oh shit like the kids saying that shit so i just want to be fair to everybody in the situation and not be like yo and not be selfish bro because that's how that should be when you do that shit that shit is selfish yeah it's like once you have kids you are like last priority like you got to be like making sure everyone else is good and it's you have to be selfless but it's also like do you have any kids no i did i no stop i'm engaged and like i know i eventually want them but like it's it's a lot of fucking work like you got to be ready to be like and it's gonna pump your brakes all this shit right here it's gonna pump it you think it's gonna pump it good to know thank you next um okay

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36:08Should I bring this up? And if I do, what the fuck do I say? Okay. Before you bring it up, right? Before you bring it up, you should try to change what you're doing to, to, to, to accompany what to do, to, to see what he's doing. All right. When I say that, I mean, there's something on there that he might want you to do that you're not doing. so you gotta pay attention to your man and then men want sex ladies to get back at your man the no sex thing is not it putting you down i'm just let i'm helping you out now these are key factors because this is what happens you get mad you turn the cheek and then you turn over in the bed and he's rock hard trying to get to his woman and you're like i'm mad at you about an argument wrong but back to the question right you gotta you gotta because because see that's very quick that's because you rambling through shit you gotta let it come across first like you gotta you can't he can't know that you're going through his shit you're violating first and foremost so you know that's a violation you're violating because if he go through your phone what will he see that's the question right so if he's with you because my key thing i heard was he with you and he still watches it there's something intriguing on that thing on that porn hub that he's liking that maybe you should dive into right like maybe he's watching all videos of like blumpkins maybe he wants to get his fucking dick sucked while he's taking a shit we don't know You never know.

37:47But you'll find out if you really pay attention. Don't just see Pornhub. What's the search? Yeah, what's the search? What is he? Is it like dressing up in a certain way? Then it's like you're still, don't look at it like too weird because at the end of the day when he's not with you and doing it, that means he's not doing it with somebody else or doing it to somebody else. So that's got you a good one. But you got to step it up in the bedroom, baby. Have you ever gone through a partner's phone? No. Wow, you're a strong man. You know why? because my mama always told me, don't do it if you don't want to get your back broken, son.

38:21Damn. You go through that phone. Those chains, that going through somebody's personal shit has ruined so many relationships. It's crazy. Have you had a lot of women go through your phone? Of course. How do they get your password? Don't know to this day. They're putting the phone up while you're sleeping. They, like, open your eyes, do face app things. Y 'all just have, y 'all just are slick, man. Women are slick, man. wherever you want to know you're gonna know but as a man especially as a man i'm definitely not doing that i just feel like it's like weird like bro what are you doing yeah i get it if you got to go through the phone that mean you don't trust the person anyways facts okay next i need some advice on how to come back from a horrible night of drunk texting the guy that i'm into let me set the stage i've been talking to this guy for four months putting in work playing it slow and making great progress but last night i fucked up real bad i had six tequila shots too many and the text just started flowing this man woke up to 25 texts of me saying things like i want you to tie me up fuck me and come all over my face i also even threw a nude in there that i apparently took in the bar bathroom all he replied the next morning was lol whoa how do i recover from this 25 messages is crazy baby first and foremost you might need to reconsider him because um i ain't gonna lie me like like if y 'all haven't had any type of intercourse no sex or nothing and you saying that type of shit as a guy we like that first and foremost we like that shit so the laugh out loud whoa he might be one of those cool ass guys too that like don't like respond but you're supposed to always make a woman feel kind of good when they do that type of shit because they're going out their way and if she was if you are drunk damn that was kind of crazy you kind of went you kind of went crazy time you up come all over the face it's crazy but as a guy he's supposed to said a little bit more than laugh out loud whoa yeah like holy shit you look insane like fuck let's do it and then the next morning let her not have that like hangover scaries and be like how you feeling this morning yeah like he should have just been like yo you had a long like what was going on last night you was lit last night but the laugh out loud whoa he might not be really you might gotta you might gotta choose somebody else and then i feel like as the girl too you should never have to be going so hard ever i don't give a damn yeah also like how scary was the nude in the bathroom at the bar like yeah like she's like putting her leg up how'd you pull that off in the bar anybody walking in on you she's she's damn six tequila shots how do you feel about getting unsolicited nudes like what would be your response to a girl sending you a nude non-married not married when you were single i would compliment him for sure but like i said i'm gonna like that type of shit open the phone some some we need that we need that gets you going yeah what would it take what kind of nude would it take for you to just give it a thumbs up response like the bar one because i know the angle the mirror too small and short you really can't see what you want to see it's cut off you probably looking uncomfortable in the picture you got to think a bar mirror it's over the unless unless you're a pro but where you gonna do it the bar mirrors like a sink yeah half a little ass mirror most women are short as hell how you like you angling that phone like like what's up in the bar you see like the nasty toilet paper on the ground yeah pissing shit I know it's stinking there it's the public bar bathroom niggas be drunk pissing on the toilet and shit yeah but i would i would you i would still give you like like i would still because you trying yeah like you you gotta appreciate the effort like you got a nude yeah you got a nude may not be a plus most of the guys thirsty and asking baby see me see me that ass real quick see that little ass real quick baby slick nice and cool long conversation been talking to him all day and then get to the nighttime.

42:43She a little titty.