In short
Dadville episode with Andy Roddick (tennis great, U.S. Open winner, former world No. 1) covers: how expectations change from childhood to adulthood; what retirement feels like (he says it can be “light” and freeing, but still requires control); and how he built a post-tennis life (businesses, then his foundation for at-risk kids, plus media work). Key claim: Roger Federer “ruined my life for a decade” as a rival, but Roddick says he loves Federer and cites Federer’s view that he likes winning more than he dislikes losing.
Notable examples
Roddick became No. 1 for 13 weeks in 2003 by tracking match math at dinner in Houston (Andre Agassi beating Juan Carlos Ferrero). He describes his “proprietary” serve born from frustration while practicing with Marty Fish on apartment-court grounds, and says it helped him reach elite levels without needing surgery. He also argues tennis needs a shorter schedule for player health and fan engagement, and discusses line-calling automation and coaching-rule changes.
Guests
Andy Roddick; hosts Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOIntroduction of Andy Roddick
1:00 to 2:42
Hosts introduce guest Andy Roddick and highlight his tennis achievements.
“He's racked up 30 plus titles, led the U.S.”
Reflections on Childhood Dreams
2:42 to 4:50
Andy discusses how his childhood dreams compare to his present success.
“Like, what would he say knowing that what you've done now?”
The Impact of Retirement
4:50 to 6:47
Andy shares his feelings about retirement and the freedom it brought.
“It's like, you've been spending, you spent like a decade, like having me going like, what are you talking about?”
Transitioning Post-Career
6:47 to 8:14
Andy talks about his transition to life after tennis and managing his foundation.
“It's one of the things that fascinates me most about professional athletes is the fact that pretty much every sport you can't do for more than 10, 15 years.”
Parenting and Resilience
8:14 to 10:50
Andy discusses his approach to parenting and the importance of resilience.
“But yeah, I think what, what you're mentioning with that kind of cutoff is jarring for, I'd say most athletes when they stop.”
Balancing Freedom and Boundaries in Parenting
10:50 to 14:00
Andy reflects on allowing children to learn from their own mistakes.
“Like, you know, we, if we have to be at the, the, out of the door in three minutes and the kids are not even, it's not even in their orbit that we have to leave.”
Parenting Challenges and Lessons
14:00 to 16:40
Exploration of parenting struggles and the importance of learning from mistakes.
“And so I almost have this like mechanism where I want to protect against all guilt with making a mistake, you know, it's like, and I consciously have to let my kids fall sometimes.”
Marriage Dynamics: Expectations and Balance
17:08 to 19:20
Discussion on marriage dynamics and balancing expectations in parenting.
“Well, you know, the other thing, too, that I think that I'm curious about, with the two of y 'all in your marriage, is there a yin and yang to that?”
Becoming Number One in Tennis
19:20 to 23:20
Andy Roddick shares the journey and emotions behind becoming the number one tennis player.
“In tennis, you break into the top 100, and then you break into the top 50, and then you get your first title, and then you get a Masters 1000 title, and then you win a major, you know.”
Memorable Matches and Career Reflections
23:20 to 28:00
Andy discusses significant matches and reflects on his tennis career experiences.
“Open, they had every former number one in the same room for like a dinner and like a celebration of the number ones.”
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High School Tennis Rivalries
28:00 to 29:10
Learn about the competitive spirit and experiences in high school tennis.
“I'll tell you, because I was the third best player in my junior year.”
The Evolution of Andy's Serve
29:10 to 30:46
Discover how Andy Roddick developed his unique serving style through frustration and practice.
“And then we beat Notre Dame, came down to play like a practice match.”
Impact of Unique Techniques on Performance
30:46 to 33:34
Explore how unconventional techniques can lead to significant success in sports.
“up and it like looks rhythmic and it looks like it makes sense.”
Advancements in Tennis
33:34 to 35:39
Understand the changes in tennis athlete training and game dynamics over the years.
“Isn't that, those, those, that again, this were professional sports and especially maybe tennis or like golf where it's so execution is down to such small details or maybe pitching, whatever.”
The Changing Landscape of Tennis
35:39 to 37:38
Examine how technology, player conditioning, and court surfaces affect modern tennis.
“I was like, that might've saved you three months.”
Challenges in Professional Tennis
37:38 to 41:16
Learn about the scheduling challenges in professional tennis and the need for change.
“So like when I rub this tabletop on, it's smooth.”
Tennis Innovations and Their Impact
43:16 to 47:50
Explore recent changes in tennis rules and their implications.
“We'd be playing a slam, you'd make semis and you'd get 12 seconds on SportsCenter.”
Parenting in Sports: Wisdom from Experience
47:50 to 52:36
Insights on how to guide children in sports without pressure.
“One of the things I love about having professional athletes on is talking about kids and their kids, especially around sports.”
The Reality of Professional Sports
52:36 to 56:00
Understanding the mental and emotional challenges of professional athletes.
“There's a lot of other aspects to it, but if we're just talking about the matches, like in 2009 Wimbledon final, you're in this epic battle with Roger Federer.”
Understanding Performance Pressure in Sports
56:00 to 56:50
Explore the mental challenges athletes face when competing against top opponents.
“You just have to be better than one person a day.”
The Physical Demands of Tennis Tournaments
56:50 to 57:55
Discuss the physical challenges of playing tennis in extreme heat during tournaments.
“But no, it takes away a lot of the fun, I think when there's consequence.”
Adapting Game Strategies Against Elite Players
57:55 to 1:00:09
Learn how players adjust their strategies when facing top competitors like Federer.
“All right, here we go with our speed round.”
Dinner with Legends: Reflecting on Influential Figures
1:00:09 to 1:02:38
Discover who Andy Roddick would invite to dinner and why their influence matters.
“It's like everything comes to us very quickly.”
Navigating Parenting Challenges as an Athlete
1:02:38 to 1:05:20
Discuss the unique parenting experiences and challenges faced by professional athletes.
“And I, how you parent, I mean, do you guys like, you guys parent, like we have a son where we have to parent a certain way.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:05Hi, I'm Dave Barnes and I'm Jon McLaughlin and welcome to Dadville.
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0:59Jon McLaughlin:dude we are really really excited to have you on thank you for taking the time who's uh are you guys both friends with drew hokum yes yeah and i'm glad you said that we need to start by shouting out the great he was great he said well you know will you go on this i said i don't whatever dude you tell me if you want you want me to go on he goes yeah go on it okay yeah yeah that's all it takes i've known since even pre-music days oh really when he was at tennessee yeah he and my little brother best friends but yeah we've done awesome for many many moons done a million shows so here we go and we're talent now talent now okay today on dadville we've got a guy who for a stretch there basically had the fastest serve on planet earth and honestly maybe still does in our minds andy roddick andy was the world number one tennis player won the u.s open and spent nearly a decade living in that top tier elite athlete world which john and i haven't even seen from a microscope which is dads we can only relate to in the sense that we've all yelled at kids to hustle at some point.
1:57He's racked up 30 plus titles, led the U.S. to a Davis Cup win, and held the fastest serve record for years, which feels like maybe the best brag in the backyard with other dads that I would use if I was using it. I'm just going to say it. What's really cool is that he's done off the court. He started a foundation serving at-risk kids, won the Arthur Ashe Humanitarian Award, and somehow managed to transition into media, podcasting, and broadcasting without losing that edge or a sense of humor. Also worth noting, he once hosted Saturday Night Live, which is so fun, saved people from a hotel fire which is even cooler and literally named sexiest athlete alive i can't even say that right no way to say that i was so intimidated uh which we'll be discussing further on our uh on this pod we're so pumped to have you andy thanks so much for doing this so the thing the thing that we always love asking initially especially with someone with a rolodex of accomplishments that you've had if i read that to 10 year old andy so 10 year old right Like, is like, what is his response?
2:54Is he like, well, yeah. Or is he like, wow, that's amazing. Or is it in the middle? Like, what would he say knowing that what you've done now? No, I think you'd be shocked. I think it'd be like ecstatic, you know, but then it's weird. Then you asked like 28 year old and I was like, I should have gotten a couple more. You know what it is? It's a lesson in like how your expectations reset. Like the question you asked is like a healthy one because it requires like a macro view from like a place of innocence when you're a kid, which is like, it would have been like ecstatic, right? But that's just not the way that it feels in real time, you know, once you've kind of set a new normal.
3:30But yeah, I think a 10-year-old version, long-winded answer, a 10-year-old version, I think would be very happy.
3:35Jon McLaughlin:You know, like amongst professional athletes, it was like, it's like you would maybe have to embody that trait that would constantly be robbing yourself of the joy. Because if you stay in that place where you're like, wow this is amazing i'm just happy to be here what are the odds that you're going to be the guy that's still there two weeks into wimbledon you know when you're at the final or whatever yeah i i'll i'll use uh one of my big rivals and the biggest thorn on my side i'm i'm not jealous of of federer i love him to death he's like the best human ever he ruined my life for a decade and i got to but i love i generally love roger and we're we're good good friends to this day I was interviewing him one time.
4:17I was, I'd been retired for about a year. I said, you know, you, you don't have this reputation. It's like Jordan broke a guy's nose in practice, right? Like, you know, Lance would do, Lance Armstrong would do anything to win. You know, he would cheat to win, you know, all these guys, like I have this thing, like they'll rip your head off. I go, you're like the only greatest that doesn't have that reputation. He looked at me and said like the simplest, most annoying thing ever. He said, he goes, yeah, I don't know. I just like, I just like the feeling of winning more than I dislike the feeling of losing.
4:46And I'm like, I have no idea what you're talking about. It was like the simplest little thing that it, what a great statement. Yeah. It's like, you've been spending, you spent like a decade, like having me going like, what are you talking about? What are you doing? And then like, I've had some freedom for a year and I come back and we talk and then you do it all over again. I was like, I walked out of that room. So confused. I had no idea what he was talking about. Yeah. Well, you just said this and I want to ask this really quickly because John's got, John is a huge tennis fan, by the way, you need to buckle up because this is going to be just a blitzkrieg of wonderful fan questions.
5:17But I want to just really quickly, you said that really articulately about retirement, like the year of freedom. Is that what it felt like? Did you feel free of those things? You missed parts of it. So it's like you, it's people want it to be, I feel people have been disappointed, like, especially the first couple of years after I retired, they're like, they act like someone died, right? Like, yeah how's how's retirement yeah and i'd be like it's great it's fantastic like i just i stayed longer for dinner last night it was fantastic it was amazing um but i was like a psycho you know i was like i i wasn't i wasn't at the tennis level of the people that i was needing or trying to beat so i had to like always i made sure like i felt comfort in making sure all the decisions that i could control like i was good at right like there was sleep there was food there was stretching there was like, it's like, if I mess that stuff up, I have, I have no chance.
6:05Right. And so as soon as I retired, I remember driving out of New York city, I lost in the second week of the U S open and I drove straight to Philly to, to play golf. Wow. And I felt like light. Yeah. It was, not because I don't love the game. Like I, it's, it's given me everything I've ever got. I love it. I play, I played this morning for two and a half hours. I love it. Wow. But it was just the, um, it, at a certain point when you're a pro athlete, that game loses its innocence a little bit. Right. So it's not the thing that you did when you were nine. It's somehow, whether it's other people depending on you, whether it's people wanting you to win because they're from the same place or whatever it is, it just loses innocence.
6:42So yeah, for a while, I felt kind of free of that. Well, retirement at that age is so unnatural. It's one of the things that fascinates me most about professional athletes is the fact that pretty much every sport you can't do for more than 10, 15 years. And so I can't imagine, it literally is the most fascinating thing about what you do is that you are, as John said, highest level. And that is as much mentality as you mentioned, Andy. It's not just, oh, I'm swinging. You know, it's everything about it. And then in one day, as you said, in your car, as you drove away, that is no longer what you do.
7:21Yeah. That is crazy. But I think you're right on because most of the people that I'm in the minority of like I was happy in retirement. you know i never really thought about coming back i was i was young i retired on my 30th birthday which is really young now for tennis i didn't have that struggle with with it right and i think one of the things that's important is when i get asked by younger players or people or even people that are you know thinking about it and i just said you know don't wait until that first tuesday after you retire to to figure out what you're going to do on that tuesday right like yeah that's so good if there's anything you can start now, whether it's a business, whether it's work, whether it's, you know, where you want to live after, you know, you might be training in a place, you know, all the guys train in Tampa, then they left as soon as they want, like maybe move a year early and start trying to get to know.
8:12So everything's not totally different. But yeah, I think what, what you're mentioning with that kind of cutoff is jarring for, I'd say most athletes when they stop. Yeah. Did you like, what were those last questions about this? Cause John's going to kill me after this, but last question, what was that for you? It's just a tease, but last question, because you're setting these up so well, what was that for you? What were those things for you that went, okay, I'm going to either, we're going to move or I'm going to have this other thing that I'm doing. What were those? Our foundation, which you mentioned, thank you for that.
8:43I love the, the free plugs in the, in the intro. That was very nice of you. That's something I've been working on forever. I had a real estate company that I'd started in 08 during the crash, which came so i i had a lot of things that were kind of already up and running um you know i wanted to i mean be a better husband like i was horrible to be around when i was playing because everything had to be perfect right yeah i'd be playing like a night match the us open and brooke's like can we go take a walk and i'm going i'm going to sweat and therefore i'm going to have to replace fluid you know yeah but that would that's like where my that's like where my stress head went and so like to the point where it's like yeah we can you want to go do something let's go do everything You know, so I think there was, you know, plenty to fill my cup up.
9:23And for the first, you know, eight years I retired, you know, none of my work was in tennis. It was all in, you know, different businesses. And, you know, somehow we got back to the first love.
9:33Jon McLaughlin:Did you find that you were the same kind of, you know, control freak that you have to be when you're playing? did you just you know like kind of turn that fire hose of intensity over to the foundation or whatever or did you find that you could let yourself be a slightly different kind of personality you don't have to hold things so tightly uh somewhere in the middle i think i don't think it's turning off a spigot i think like brooke makes fun of me uh my wife brooke makes fun of me all the time she tells a story it was like a year after i retired and she's like what do you have to do today i was like oh i gotta do some stuff in the morning and then i i have a workout at two and she's like okay cool well who's uh is you know lance is my trainer at the time he's like is lance coming over he's like no that's just when i have to do it and she's like you're working out by yourself and you set a time for it right i was like well yeah and she's like that's psychotic like this that's not like a so i was way better because there wasn't like a massive consequence from not being totally controlled and disciplined all the time it's not as if like as soon as I was done, my diet went out the door.
10:43Like it was, I said, I said yes to everything, you know, um, that I had said no to. So there, there are certain parts, but like, I'm pretty hardwired still. Like, you know, we, if we have to be at the, the, out of the door in three minutes and the kids are not even, it's not even in their orbit that we have to leave. I'm, I'm kind of like, yeah, like I get a little jittery and it annoys everyone in my family.
11:03Jon McLaughlin:Okay. So speaking of kids, we, Dave and I, this morning, we actually interviewed these two child therapists, they have a book about resilience with kids and sort of like the, you know, how kids are less resilient these days and there's a crisis and how do we turn the ship around, all that kind of stuff. You know, for you, you're someone who, your professional tennis player requires an insane amount of resilience, you know, and discipline and etc., all that kind of stuff. How do you, you know, like for me, I've grown up, I've played piano for almost 40 years now. And so, it's a huge part of my life, even that transcends music.
11:47Jon McLaughlin:There's just self-discipline and like doing something every day that you don't want to do, but yet you do it, et cetera, et cetera. And one of the things that I, you know, I spent a lot of I'm thinking about with my two girls, they're 13 and 10 now, is, okay, they're not on the track that I was on. We're going a totally different route. I did not force them into piano lessons. They haven't taken piano lessons yet. There's just a piano in the house and they can play when they want. I'll teach them a song that they want to learn, whatever. So that's the route. But in my mind, I'm like, is this the right route?
12:22Jon McLaughlin:This is not my route. We're on like a different... What is that experience like for you? Do you have two kids, 10 and 8? Yeah, 8 and 10. Yeah, older boy, younger girl, 10 and 8. So I don't have – if you're looking for me to come up with a great answer for you, you're not going to get it. I struggle because I was kind of – I was the third kid. I'm pretty sure that I was a whoopsie baby. I was like seven years after my brother. So we would go to New York City, and I'd be walking around by myself. like there was i went to travel to columbia by myself when i was 12 right like like it's just so but to play tennis because like you can't like people don't think like you go the better you get to tennis you have to start traveling around the world wow to take a parent that's like super expensive yeah right like it's that's a just doubled your expenses yeah that's a budget killer right and so you'd go with a coach and the coach is supposed to watch like six kids and like good luck like so but it's weird because i've seen people who have done the same things and i'm very convinced that if tennis doesn't work out, then it goes sideways.
13:26Right. It just happened to kind of work. So I constantly, I think the best thing that ever happened for me was those experiences. Right. The kind of like having to, you know, throw into the wolves, you figure it out, you go somewhere, you don't know how to speak, you kind of figure it out. You got to take a train to practice. Like no one's there holding your hand. Like there's, there's things that are like, and I, but I think they're great. Right. But like when those things go sideways and someone goes through this existence and it doesn't quite work out the way it should, there are a lot of people that end up, you know, it's like, well, they just let me do whatever I want.
14:00It didn't end well. And so I almost have this like mechanism where I want to protect against all guilt with making a mistake, you know, it's like, and I consciously have to let my kids fall sometimes.
14:12Jon McLaughlin:Yeah. Which is tough. And make the decision that you are convinced that you know is wrong. Yeah. Right. But they're like, it, it, it, it, I, I'm, I'm, I'm sure the therapist will say everything opposite of what I'm saying now, but like, you got to think that if the kids make their own mistake and there's a consequence, it's going to hit 10 times harder than if you just tell them that it would be wrong. Right. So listen, you're not the only one I'm sure. Like I, I struggle with that all the time. Cause like the best parts of anything, it was like, I went to the school of like earth. Right. Yeah.
14:42The best parts of anything that I learned ever was probably from that. and also if if you don't take those lessons they don't hit the right way i don't know then it goes i've seen it go sideways so many times so it's like you know the best athletes in the world you look at tiger woods and his dad's heckling him when he's seven on the driving range i'm like that's not healthy right yeah but it the the green jackets look pretty good you know that just be the title of the yeah i mean i grew venus and serena too like i used to practice next to them and it's like they they they practice nine hours a day like at like 10 years old that's not that's probably not healthy i'm sure the therapist wouldn't say that's healthy and it's like you're not going to play tournaments and then when you play them you're going to win it's like yeah oh okay well they're they're venus and serena so it worked out but like that strategy with anyone else is yeah it's probably a dumpster fire you know yeah i don't i don't i don't that probably didn't help at all
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16:59Jon McLaughlin:That's BolandBranch, B-O-L-L-A-N-D, Branch.com slash Dadville to save 15 % and unlock free shipping. Exclusions apply. Well, you know, the other thing, too, that I think that I'm curious about, with the two of y 'all in your marriage, is there a yin and yang to that? Or do you both? Because I feel like the intensity of you, surely she's not the same, right? She's the same, but just towards me.
17:29You get all of it. She's the happy relief valve, right? I mean, she's, you know, we're both like, I think something that we think that we think we're probably right about and hopefully we'll think that in 10 years is like - That's a great quote. I think it's okay to have expectations for your kids. You know, I think it's like, oh, they're kids. It's like, oh, what, he's 10. I mean, he knows better than that. Like I think we both, you know, we both have expectations and we kind of hold the line strong up to, you know, you have complete freedom up to a certain point and then wrong is wrong is wrong from kind of that point forward.
18:06So, you know, I'm a nerd about time and, you know, stuff like that. But our kids, you know, plenty of bandwidth to kind of go nuts and have fun. And it's, you know, it's certainly not a, not a practice type environment all day, but she's definitely the fun parent, they would tell you, I'm sure.
18:22Jon McLaughlin:Yeah. Okay. I've got a couple of tennis questions. I'm really limiting this. I want it to be said. I want to be patted on the back for how restrained I'm going to be here. Don't pull a hamstring. It's already pulled. I'm 43. Implied in the title of the podcast. Okay. So becoming number one in the world. As I'm making my list of things I want to ask you about, I'm obviously, you know, I listen to your podcast. It's great. Everybody should listen to your podcast. You do these Q and Andes and people are asking you questions. I'm like, I don't want to ask him all the questions that he gets asked a million times, but I'm going to let myself have this one.
19:05Jon McLaughlin:Let's do it. So becoming a professional athlete of any sport, you're already in the point whatever 1 % of human beings on planet Earth, right? Right. And then you have, you know, you kind of go from there. In tennis, you break into the top 100, and then you break into the top 50, and then you get your first title, and then you get a Masters 1000 title, and then you win a major, you know. So all these things, but maybe the tip of that pyramid is becoming number one in the world. And it's such a unique experience for a human being because again you know dave and i are musicians dave plays guitar there is no number one guitar player in the world it's fun to debate that you know there's no number one piano player if there were i wouldn't be on that list even though i've been trying my whole life to get better at piano but there is this time in your life where it's not a debate andy roddick is the number one tennis player in the world.
20:14Jon McLaughlin:That was a great cup of coffee when that happened. It didn't last long. This, this, this ponytailed assassin back then came and took my lunch. Yeah. I'll tell you the coolest, the coolest part about becoming it is one, it, no one knows that I was, I mean, I'll selling myself out now, but no one knows that I was only number one for 13 weeks. And like two months of that, 13 weeks was just off season. Like I just timed it right. My idol was Andre Agassi, right? He's like my favorite. We're dear friends. And it was before like you had the apps on your phone where you're just checking scores all the time.
20:53And, you know, so I remember it was in 03. I was out to eat and I had a friend that was in the stadium. So Andre, the way the math worked out, there were three of us that could have been number one. Roger was in third position. uh, Juan Carlos Ferreiro, who was recently the coach of Alcaraz until he wasn't. And then, and then me. And anyways, we played the first couple of rounds and then, so I know that if Andre beats Ferreiro, that I'm number one. So like this whole full circle moment of your idol being the person. So I'm listening. Uh, my friend's just holding his phone up and I'm like listening at dinner.
21:27So basically whenever you hear a massive cheer, it was in Houston. So the americans are going for andre and so then it gets to that last one and andre closes it and it's like you get goosebumps still it's just like that's the moment it's like yeah i don't i don't know if i'm actually the best player in the world but math isn't to your point math doesn't lie right in in in tennis and so that was uh it was pretty crazy there's you know a lot of slam winners which was like top of the top of the top but um you know different reasons for different things we were probably in like a transition year post andre and pete before you know fed and rafa and all that but you know it's something that can't be taken away which is pretty fun yeah yeah and
22:03Jon McLaughlin:it's interesting hearing you say some of those qualifiers because you know i only know what it's like to be me and i know whatever victories i've had in my career i can maybe you know hopefully i feel them in the moment and hopefully i feel them 10 years later but in between there there are a lot of there's a lot of times where i can kind of like well i mean technically it happened but you know here's why you know from the outside looking in it always we would hope that you experienced it fully and like felt that you deserved it etc etc you know but i know it's always more complex on the inside yeah i mean my it's i don't know there are levels like i was you look at that there's no way around this isn't false immediately you look at the people that have been number one it's like oh that guy that guy got in there you know that and then you look at the you know the people with 20 plus slams, like, I can't believe they were ever not number one.
22:57You know, it's, it's, it's a different conversation. So that there's certainly, you know, levels, right. It's, it's like my Dirk Nowitzki is one of the greatest players ever. And then he can't be compared to LeBron. Right. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's just, so I'm fully kind of eyes wide open on all of that, but yeah, I mean, it's, it's, it's wild. I mean, it's just, you know, where it really gets me is you'll go to these, like, I remember one of the years after I retired at the U.S. Open, they had every former number one in the same room for like a dinner and like a celebration of the number ones.
23:31And so when I get in that room, I'm like, this is like you're walking through your dreams of childhood. You're looking and they have them all lined up from like when they became number one. So it's like you look to your left and it's, you know, Guga Quirtin and then Andre and then Pete. And then you look to your right and it's like Roger and then Rafa and then Novak. And then you're like, like when you're in that room, it's like, I'm happy to be jelly. You know, I'm in the middle of these guys.
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24:01Jon McLaughlin:When you're in that room, are you like, yeah, these are my people. We are cut from the same cloth. No, no, no, no. I, you know, no, there's no, there's no cut from the same cloth. Like there, there can be hall of famers, but then there's like the people who snuck in on like the sixth ballot and you're all hall of famers. Yeah. But like you're, you didn't get like, you're not like Rivera. You didn't get like a unanimous vote. You know what I'm saying? Like they're a level. So I'm appreciative. I'm proud. I'm full of gratitude. Like it's cool as hell. It's amazing. When you get intro'd, I'd never, I always want to hear it.
24:36It never gets old. And also like, it's not the same as some of the others. So to your point, like when you were playing for the first time, you're playing Rafa for the first time. You're playing, you know, any of those guys, obviously Roger. Yeah. That first game, I'm assuming there's probably some hype coming in. You know about them, obviously. But when you play those kind of guys, and I'm sure people felt this with you, do you go, oh, boy, this is something? Yeah, the difference is like, so Rafa and Roger, we probably played each other. I played Rafa when I was two in the world, and he was like 40.
25:11So he was like 17, right? He had just learned how to tie his shoes or something, right? He was young. So you didn't really know what he was going to be. at that point it was like second round of the open where it's like you point backwards and it looks pretty cool but like that moment for me was like Pete and Andre like Agassi and Sampras I played Andre for the first time it was the first time I'd ever won a match in a tour event and second round I play Andre and so we go out on center court of Miami which is a pretty big event I was like a local wild card I was still in high school no way Yeah.
25:48So I had like gone to class on like a Friday and was playing Andre, like a night session on like a Sunday. And then he runs me out of the building and then my mom made me go to school the next morning. So I went from playing 15 ,000 people against the number one player in the world to like algebra at like 10 a.m. the next day. So it just so happened because we were living in South Florida. She's like, well, I mean, I'm sorry. Like go to school.
26:14Jon McLaughlin:and what was what was the school when you go to school the next day does everyone know about the match there was anybody yeah there was like there was a moment in school because no one else in our school like the normal kids like oh what do you do i'm like oh i'm a tennis player but to them it was like no different than someone saying like i'm a basketball player right yeah oh you probably like put up like 18 last week in the intramural scrimmage you know right so it it changed everything changed my senior year of of high school like i signed a deal with reebok that was announced i played it has just so having a two like pro events i played were like in our backyard like one was in south florida the other one was in miami um yeah so it was it was different and so i had like a good three-month run where i was like actually like people knew i was like a pro pro well you know what i was thinking about is like there was there It was some sweet kid who was in your grade, who was like the number one for the high school team, who really thought like I've got something.
27:13And then it's like, oh, yeah, but Andy's.
27:16Jon McLaughlin:Yeah, he's playing back all the conversations where he's like, yeah, and I play basketball. Have you noticed in your back swing? We're just two athletes. No, there was. So my junior. So we had like this group. So we trained with this group. Basically, everyone that got cut by our national federation all started training together. But we would play at our coaches like apartment courts. No. Right. And so, yeah. And so we had like some good players. Like every guy we trained with was like top 10 in the country, right? Marty Fish came out of that. He was like six in the world. A couple of guys won some doubles titles.
27:46That's like the greatest games no one ever saw. Yeah. But true story, I played one high school match in my life. You ready? No. I was a junior in high school. So I was number one in the country in 16 and unders. And I played three on my high school team that day. How on earth are you playing three? I'll tell you, because I was the third best player in my junior year. Because we had these phenoms at our school. So there was basically this. You guys will like. So we play this team called Cardinal Gibbons, who had these two twins, the Boker twins. But their whole thing was like, we're like 15-time national champs in tennis.
28:25So we had never played a high school tennis match. And it was like we circled these guys. Because in tennis, you don't get defined by high school championships. championships yeah right you like go we were we didn't play high school because we were playing like the junior french open right right right right it just happened to work and we're like we're gonna beat these guys yeah and so we went down there and swept them it was like yeah cute titles which is great you should have that yeah you should have one day where you get to do that yeah and so i love that you got to do that but marty fish played one that day and he was ranked higher than me at the time this guy dave martin played two and i played three our number I think our line five guy that day was like four in the country in junior.
29:07Jon McLaughlin:That's insane. And then we beat Notre Dame, came down to play like a practice match. And our high school kids, we beat them, and they were two in the country at the time. That's amazing. And is it still that way? I mean, down in, was it Tampa, you said? A lot of guys trained at Saddlebrook, yeah. Yeah. That's just like. But we were in South Florida at the time, yeah. so speaking of marty fish you have and i apologize because i know you've told this story a million times but it's just so great like you you have your you're infamous for your serve and that it was a unique situation in that you had like this proprietary serve that your coach you told all your coaches like we don't talk about my serve you can coach me on anything else can you kind to tell the story of how that came to be yeah is so the the aforementioned apartment tennis courts at crystal palms apartment complex they've been now been gilded yeah they've just gilded no one there's no way anyone even knows like there's those loud kids who played their music too loud um marty was you know he was better in juniors before i was good at juniors like on a on a world level so he would he spent a year just beating the crap out of me in practice i was frustrated one day I used to have like, so for people that aren't tennis people, like I would not take my racket down.
30:29I would just take it straight up and jump off, basically jump off of two feet, which is not normal for tennis. So like basically like a half motion and then just try to like explode into it. But I was practicing with Marty and I used to have a more traditional, you know, serve where you would take the racket fully down and you see people bring their foot up and it like looks rhythmic and it looks like it makes sense. It's not this like jerky, you know half-baked thing that i ended up doing but against marty i basically had tapped out in practice i was angry i hit a serve as hard as i could off of two feet and it went in and so then i did it again the next point and it went in and that was my serve really and you know that this
31:10Jon McLaughlin:is like you're breaking all the rules this is not what a serve should be no no no it was i don't know i was like i don't know let's just get to the let's get to the hitting um yeah you know but But it was, yeah, it was completely out of, it was born out of, I had all the greatest coaches when I was a junior and it was born out of frustration. Yeah. Did it do anything weird to your body? Like, cause I know that some of these movements can like, you know, long-term jack something up or did you notice that it changed anything? I don't think it was worse, any worse than it would have been. Like my shoulder, I would have probably had to have an operation if I wanted to continue when I stopped.
31:43Wow. But when I was 17, 18, people would watch it. And to your point, they'd say like, you can't throw a curve ball when you're 12, right? You're not supposed to do that. Your arm's not supposed to do that. We got 13 years. I never had an operation. That's incredible. I didn't hit it as big at the end. There was obviously wear and tear. If you did a blind MRI on 70 % of tennis players right now, they would have some sort of tear in their rotator cuff of some sort. I don't think it was any worse, considering it was probably technically flawed. When you went home that night, Were you like, oh my gosh, I have just found a significant thing.
32:25No, you're high on hope. You hope that you go back in three days and it's the same. It's still there. Yeah.
32:33Jon McLaughlin:That's the difference between professional athletes and mere mortals as myself. If I had done some version of that, I would have been like, all right, so now I'm going to go to the ad court and I'm going to do the same thing. And I wouldn't have done the same thing. My body just, I don't have that fine tuning. you know it just made sense and then like you get a month you get a month because you've never done it before so like you can see that it's coming off hot but it's like adjusting something and gaining three miles on our fastball but you're still not confident in the strike zone right right and so then like you get a month or two and then three months down the road i'm like oh this is i start winning i won like world championships i'm like oh this is this is different i'm i'm good to go that's it and obviously players don't know what to do with that no i mean i went from like this is going to sound good i was like 30 in the world in juniors which doesn't mean you're going to make it on tour.
33:18It means that you're going to get a free ride somewhere. Okay. To one in the world and juniors in like, and then it got, then I probably 18 months after that, I was borderline top 10 in the world. And it happened like quick. And it was, it was, it was because it was because of that. Isn't that, those, those, that again, this were professional sports and especially maybe tennis or like golf where it's so execution is down to such small details or maybe pitching, whatever. but to think that that one thing well think about that like i think about it often i'm gonna go what if i would have been winning against marty that day yeah i know that's crazy yeah what if it was that afternoon no because i was i wasn't great from the baseline i was fine but like i was i wasn't a top i wasn't number one in the world based on my my ground game or anything else like it was because because i could throw it well and so here's here i get to ask one nerdy question um what did you see change in the time that you were playing from when you started yeah when you ended that you were like man okay tennis has taken these steps forward what did you see so there's a couple things um one the the movement was in like the 90s you would have guys that were like maybe hit huge serves but were kind of like didn't move great oh wow you could like expose it and it It was like, so when the surface is slowed down and then the strings, the new technology and the strings where you can kind of grab the ball a little bit more, like you don't see slow people that are really good at tennis now.
34:49There's just no space for it. Like the way that people move on court, like you watch Alcaraz and Sinner and it's like, holy. The way these guys are getting in and out of the corners, it's just crazy. They've become the best athletes in the world, in my opinion, because it's like non-negotiable. You have to have the motor skills to be able to square a ball up all the time while moving. You have to be an elite, like 12 out of 10 athlete. You have to have endurance. You have to be able to play five and a half hours. You're not allowed to talk to anyone. So you have to kind of mentally be strategic around all things.
35:21So you kind of have to check every box where it's like, I got to number one in the world and I had like my back end was trash. That would not happen ever again. Like you're not going to see someone with like an incomplete game make it to the top of the sport. And you're not even seeing people with incomplete games win majors now. yeah like it just there's there's no space for it like forehands are like backhands there's no weaknesses that you can go to and the guys just it's like a game of pong like they just can cover so much ground movement is is by far like no one's hitting serves harder but like people move so much they move so well which lends itself to them not missing as much right because they're never extended or out of position the movement is is by far number one do you think that you credit that
36:02Jon McLaughlin:more toward like maybe now you know these guys just have teams around them you have like part of the on staff whereas back in the you know maybe mackinrose day you just roll up by yourself or maybe you've got a coach or is it that tennis is attracting the alcaraz or like the rafa who could have gone and played soccer they're coming to play tennis now yeah it's probably some i mean when the money goes up yeah sports become a lot more attractive right yeah yeah right um so that's one but like i know for a fact like i my coach was jimmy connors for a couple years and he's like i never lifted a weight i just hit more tennis balls yeah you know and now you're seeing like the i mean even but even like in all sports you're getting the data feedback from like a wrist watch yeah right and you're knowing like they're like you're at injury risk right now today and you go okay well, I'm going to back off.
36:58I was like, that might've saved you three months. There's so many advantages with what you can do now. So I think it's a combination. I think now that we have the technology, ability, and knowledge, if you give that to a sinner, he is going to max out what he is. You give that to Alcaraz, they're going to max out what they are. And so therefore, someone that's incomplete like me isn't going to sneak in and steal some of their lunch, because they're so well-rounded so complete um but also just i think everyone's just bigger stronger faster the courts have slowed down so it puts more of more importance on movement so it's i think it's all i think it's all of those things what do you mean it means okay so you're if you watch tennis in the 90s a lot of it was big serves just walking back and forth right everyone it was kind of like people like it's boring because you have sam presace and even isovich and becker and they're just doing the same thing back to him so no one will ever admit this on record but it's like known like you put more sand in the mixture of courts, right?
37:56So like when I rub this tabletop on, it's smooth. So I know that a tennis ball on this surface would shoot through because there's nothing to kind of grip it and slow it down. Now, if you put a piece of sandpaper, it hits, it's gritty, and the ball checks up a little bit more. So whatever they did with the courts, balls, etc., now you're seeing like these monster rallies every time where guys are having to run more, therefore running becomes way more important whereas if you watch highlights from like wimbledon in the 90s that ball is shooting through the court like yeah yeah you know whatever that mixture of sand and ground you know it's it's it's uh it's kind of like a whole process like a golf course that's firm like overseas yeah right versus like one that's lush with grass plays slower the drives don't go as far like you can manipulate you know where the bounce is and in kind of so so with with knowing that yeah what would you so i'm a big soccer fan you know thing that is fascinates me about sports these days is that you know people are i think because of money eyeballs whatever like they added five subs now to professional game right so it used to be three that changes a game drastically and for a fan it's great because it means fresher legs the game stays more exciting um what is there something you would change tennis like if like knowing what you know now is there something you'd be like either go back to this or change this or like when you watch it you're like you know what i wish they would do do you do you have any yeah i wish i wish there was more contrast.
39:20Like, I'm never going to be the guy that's like, back in our day, that's when it was the best. Like, everyone's going to be better. Like, bigger, stronger, faster. The game's going to be better in 20 years than it is now. That's just the way it is. Like, you know, it doesn't take anything away from anyone who's done anything before because they were the best given everything they were given. Like, you give someone a wood racket, it's going to come out drastically different than these, like, spin machines that they have in their hands now. Spin machines. Yeah. So it's different. The thing that has to be fixed in tennis is the length of schedule.
39:49And I go off on it all the time. You can't play professional sport from January 1st to December 1st. Yeah. Right. And then there's like mandatory events and all this other stuff. Like we have to, and the problem is all the governing bodies are all fragmented, right? The slams operate as the slams. They're all independent. Then the tours fill in, you know, nine months in between. Then you have, you know, the Olympic slide. And then ITF has team competitions. And basically no one ever agrees because they all just kind of look out for their own thing. There's no union. But we have to find a way to at least minimum finish by November 1st.
40:25Give people a break. Let bodies heal. Like, we don't have a home team. We don't have a Yankee fan base that's going to come even if you're trash. Like, we need star players. We need to keep Sinner and Alcaraz in the game as long as possible. Serena's thinking about coming back. You think that's bad for anyone in tennis? No. We need to keep our stars in the game as long as we can. And we got to give some space to breathe. And we kind of have to give, the point that doesn't get talked about, we got to give fans a chance to miss it. That's right. Yes, that's true. Like when football season comes back around, you're tuning in at the end of July being like, oh, they signed a backup tight end.
41:02Like everyone's all pumped up. We don't have that. And you guys are flying. It's a global sport. Oh God.
41:07Jon McLaughlin:I mean, you're flying literally all over the world. It's insane. We don't get it. I'm going to preface this with, we don't get hit in the head. I understand everything I'm saying. And also when I hear people talk about like, oh, it's a West Coast trip, that time difference. I'm like, oh, there's no way. It's like, no, it's like Memphis on a Friday and Dubai on a Monday, get out of here. Which is a literal true reference. You were in Memphis. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's not an exaggeration. I'm prone to exaggeration. That's not one of them.
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43:16Jon McLaughlin:Okay, so speaking of developments in tennis, there are two that I want your thoughts on here. one for people who don't know it used to be that there would be linesmen that would be calling but their entire job is like you just see if this ball is out or and part of the they watch one line they watch one line yeah part of the fun of the game is when they get it wrong the players have certain amount of challenges yeah now that's that i don't know if there's still linesmen in some tournaments but that it seems like it's all completely gone now there's just a computer that doesn't make mistakes it kind of bums me out yeah what are your thoughts on that yeah i agree with you i is like if i was the commissioner of tennis i'd be like it's the game more popular when we throw stuff and complain like yeah right maybe like i knew i knew for it never affected because like frustration is frustration is frustration and you're trying to win so this isn't a thing but like 100 like to your point i would be in australia we're playing in the middle of the night in America, right?
44:17We'd be playing a slam, you'd make semis and you'd get 12 seconds on SportsCenter. If you threw a fit, broke something and yelled at an umpire, it was like full two and a half minutes. Yeah, 100%. That's crazy. There's no, yeah. So I don't know. There's, I kind of go back and forth. I understand the theater argument and I kind of largely agree with it. I like that. I don't think everyone who complains about it doesn't turn the channel when someone's having a meltdown. They just complain about it later. right um but also i've been on the side where people have you know umpires gotten it wrong in a big match and you feel like something was taken and so that that offset i think if i had to vote you vote on like getting it right yeah and we'll we'll always find something to complain
45:01Jon McLaughlin:about okay what a great other one is is the coaching rule which is a little bit more inconsequential maybe yeah but but there used to be a rule that you cannot the player cannot speak to their coach. Their coach is obviously right there. You can't, if the umpire feels like you're communicating in any way, you know, you get a warning and then you might get a point taken away or whatever. But now that you can talk to your coach as much as you want, right? Yeah. So that one's a little bit different because like, I'm just going to openly admit to cheating right now. There's like, that one is a little bit different because everyone had like, they had a system.
45:42Yeah. It's like your coach goes like this, like they can't get you for it. But if your coach is like, it's like, all right, my return position is going back. Or like, or like they, you know, you look up and they kind of go like this. It's like an out wide there's, there's like, we were, they're all like third base coaches, but it's, it's like every, every tennis coach turns into like Don Zimmer. Shout out Don Zimmer. Yeah. You know, so I still think it's like, I don't, and people are like, well, the thing that differentiates tennis is like the isolation. Yeah. Right. And like the fact that you have to be out there alone for so long, I don't think that's lost right now.
46:21Right. Cause like anything you say as a coach, it's not as if you can, you know, you don't see people sitting down for, you know, however, and also like players and coaches don't agree all the time either. Right. Wow. You know, so like coach tells you something, you can be like, that's not what I'm feeling. I know that's what you're seeing, but I'm just telling you, that's not, that's not what I'm feeling and I don't I don't know that I can actually make the adjustment based on you know how big the ball is coming at me how you know I don't feel good on this side so it's it's it's not it's more nuanced than that but to your point about the theater of tennis and like do we want that being able to have mics and hear what the coaches are saying is is great for for viewing yeah wow like I want to I want to hear what they're saying I want to hear if they're full I want to hear if they're adding value I also love it when the players make a face when they say something.
47:09Yeah. Right. Like, it's like, go do this. And like, you know, that's great. That's great television. Yeah. I do too. So I was kind of against it when they were talking about it. And now that I've seen it, I don't think it makes much of a difference very often.
47:21Jon McLaughlin:Yeah. I still feel like that isolation is, is there. Um, cause also like when you're in the heat of the moment, I wasn't great at listening to people like in a heightened emotional place. Like it wasn't as if I was like, you know what? You're right. You're right. Yeah. I'll give that a go. Yeah. I'll try Yeah, we should, let's talk more. That's not the way it works. But I think it's great for TV. I think it's something else to watch. I think the more you can kind of peel back the layers and kind of give the inside view, I think it's probably a net positive. Yeah. Okay, a couple more questions before we hit the speed round.
47:51So buckle up for that, by the way. I'm ready. Just going to do your mental stretches. Yep. One of the things I love about having professional athletes on is talking about kids and their kids, especially around sports. So knowing what you know from having done it when you did, and obviously, you know, these years later, you know, kids in sports is such a different thing. But how do you think about your kids playing sports? Like if they, let's say that your son or your daughter showed extreme prowess in a way, does that excite you? How do y 'all talk about that in the house? Especially knowing what you know and seeing what you've seen and what you're seeing now.
48:22And the resources that you have at your disposal. Yeah. I'm, so tennis parents are pretty bad. Wow. Right? Like it's, we went through the 90s. It was like even the phenoms, like their dads were, it was gross. It was, you know, verbally abusive. I grew up seeing kids that were like South Florida in the 90s. I saw like kids getting beaten after matches. I saw parents getting in fights. And so I have this, like you have to gamble. If you go so hardcore, it's not dissimilar to what we were talking about when we opened the show. So if Tiger Woods gets past being heckled by his own father, the upside is tremendous.
49:05And if it goes sideways, so I'm pretty hands off. I don't say anything during games beyond like, here you go, good job. I don't talk about it too much. If I have an opinion, I'll kind of say, I saw something, do you want to hear it? Most of the time they'll say, yeah, but there's no pressure. Like I remember going home and it was like the mood of the house was kind of dictated by whether I'd want to loss something, you know, and it, I don't, I have like this, um, I don't want that. I have this like aversion to, to that whole thing. I, but one of my favorite hobbies is being at like a, my son's baseball game and hearing that parents say that is so stupid that it's like, like you'll see, you'll see, like my favorite is like, you'll be at a game and like, you know, some kid's just given up like three runs and then he strikes someone out to end the inning.
50:00The parents are like, dominant. I'm like... It's like... I don't say...
50:08Jon McLaughlin:Perspective. I don't say anything. It's like, I mean, if a couple things break the right way, we'll be... We'll be playing on Sundays. I'm like, dude, he's like, he's like the third backup. Yeah. Yeah, so I have a... I like going for the entertainment value of other parents at sporting events. So let me ask you this. I know this is a heavy question, but what would you say? Like parents that are listening that have kids that are good at sports, what wisdom would you give? Or like you have a friend that calls you who's not an athlete, and he's like, man, our kid is great at basketball or maybe even tennis.
50:43What do you say to that? So there's two things. There's one, whenever you think your kid is really good at something, just travel a little further. Wow. right so like you see the kids in our leagues and there's like there's how many kids are in your league are they the best 10 in their league so therefore we think they're awesome yes yes are there 50 other leagues like that in the state that's really good so then it's like let's at least let's apply math to excellence a little bit and like let's then let's let's stress test um against that the worst question i get asked all the time is how many hours a day did you train Oh, wow.
51:22And I was like, I don't know. When I was nine, I could hold my attention for like an hour. And what I think is how many hours can you play before it becomes tedious and not fun? Wow. Some kids can go three hours and they love it the whole time. Wow. You're doing a disservice to the kids that have an hour and a half. They feel terrible about the last hour of practice. And you can say, let's try to build. Let's build five minutes. Wow. But because some guy you asked who used to play sports says four hours, you're going to go do four. Like there's different kids progress at different times. They're ready for things at different times.
51:57There's not like a stock answer. And the other thing that I'll say is like, if you're a parent and you're guiding your kids, control the controllables, right? If something happens and you get called out on strikes, the conversation can't be for the rest of the day. That ref sucks. Yeah. Right. It has to be, you're going to, you're going to get one. You're going to lose one. Like what did we do well that we can control right did you show up were you warm when you went in you know were you one of the first ones there were you ready to throw when the time started like if the conversation centers around the stuff that's in your control and you get 95 of those right you're gonna have a lot more
52:35Jon McLaughlin:days that feel like wins i think yeah that's so good man gosh that's good okay i'm gonna throw in just one more last question before we hit the speed round um you know you bring up agassi i loved agassi i read his his autobiography open which i i thought was amazing yep and he he talks about how much he hates tennis throughout the whole book and we've had a couple professional we had a professional uh mma fighter on here and i'm curious with anybody who does what you guys do on a professional level do you enjoy it and i know that they're you know the matches are just like with Dave and I playing concerts, it's like that's, or Drew, that's 3 % of your time is like on stage doing the thing.
53:22Jon McLaughlin:There's a lot of other aspects to it, but if we're just talking about the matches, like in 2009 Wimbledon final, you're in this epic battle with Roger Federer. Are you enjoying the match? I'm not thinking about that. That's not even part of the equation. But I'll tell you like every single match, I won 600 and something matches in my career, which is a lot for a shorter career. I was nervous before every single one. Wow. Like every, I could be playing someone 150 in the world and it's like my stomach in like 12 years of that where you're going through that maybe six times a week on a good week.
54:06Jeez. Right? It's like, or you're going into, like I remember, and it's like this kind of, this is an extreme example, but I tell the story in our podcast sometimes, like, did you enjoy it? I'm like, I love it. I love the hard parts of it, but I like them more after the fact. Yeah. Right. Like we, we played in Australia and it's one of those ones where on center court, you walk down five steps to walk up three steps. Right. But you wait at the bottom before you go up those three steps. So you're kind of eye level with the court and they used to play it on this service that was basically like a rubber mat on top of concrete.
54:40So it was called rebound ace. but if you've smelled tires when they're hot or burning, that's what it would smell like, right? So you would, it'd be 140 degrees on court in Australia and you would be about to walk out and you would get like a waft of like burnt rubber. Holy cow. And you know that there's potentially, every time you go out there, you could be out there for five hours. Yeah. Jeez. Right? And so then you get that first thing. So like, yeah, that's brutal. And also I was good at being uncomfortable. Like I was, I was, I was, you know, so there are these very hard things that you're like, you can make an excuse for.
55:19And it's like, this stinks. That's not fun. Like no part of that is fun. Right. It's fun when the guy wilts and it's, it's like, it's satisfactory when the guy like rolls over. So I, but then how's this for like champions and smart people saying smart things. So I was complaining. I was, I was complaining. That needs to be the name of your podcast, by the way. No, no, no. This is, I'm not the champion. I'm not the smart person. um so i mentioned something like that to andre it's like man it's hot up there to me it smells like he goes he goes will you shut up i'm like okay that's aggressive um it's not not what you want to hear from your like idol right um so you i wore all the bad spandex with you you can give me a break um so so he goes he goes you need to think about it differently and i was like I mean hot is hot like I don't know like he goes no he goes how many other people have to be better at their job than exactly one person every day every wow every other job you have you're playing against the field every day like your music like the way you play piano you're playing against either yourself or the field right can I create something that's better than a million people you can't see yeah yeah He goes, you know who you have to be better than.
56:35You just have to be better than one person a day. I'm like, man, that simplifies a lot of things. That's probably why you're great.
56:41Jon McLaughlin:Yeah. You know? Okay. But like, no, so like the parts of it aren't fun, but then you get to that part of it and it's like, it's satisfactory. But no, it takes away a lot of the fun, I think when there's consequence. I just want to say quickly, I mean, obviously I would never know this, but what a fascinating, I've never thought about that, that you know the court is that hot and you're like, I'm about to be unbelievably uncomfortable for hours. Horrible. Hopefully not hours, but yeah. Like what you eat, your fluid intake, it's all on the possibility of you playing the longest match you've ever played.
57:17Right? Like you kind of have to do that. These matches are so long.
57:20Jon McLaughlin:I mean, the majors, yeah, you're out there five, five and a half hours. Yeah, the French Open was 539 last year. Crazy. Is the Australian, is that always the hottest one? It, yeah, not the hottest tournament. It's like has the potential. So you'll get like 65 degree days, but then when it turns up, it literally feels like you're playing in a hairdryer. Oh my gosh. It's horrible. And then the encore, because now it's concrete or rubber. So like if the temps 104, by the time it gets down and you're in a metal stadium, right? So it's like attracting this. So you're just in like a, you're in like a crock pot.
57:58Oh, that's unbelievable. It's pretty gross.
58:01Jon McLaughlin:All right, here we go with our speed round. All right, ready. Number one. Okay, what player did you have to adjust your game the most for? Oh, Federer. And that's the reason. Matchups matter at a certain point, right? I could play well, and I knew I had to play well. Everything he did bother me and really nothing that I could hit a serve big. And he had the quickest eyes I've ever seen, right? The ability to adjust to speed so that instantly neutralized my biggest weapon. So him for sure. Wow. Okay, I've got a second one. I'm coming up with this right now. If there's any ability someone else had that you wish you had, what was that ability?
58:38Yeah, I would say the ability to kind of accept pace the way like Andre did or Roger did. So what does that mean? Yeah, I want me to do that. It means if someone hit a huge shot, like your shot tolerance, right? Like I couldn't lean in. My strokes were too – like my technique was too big. I needed time to be effective, and those guys didn't need time. That's incredible. Yeah. So cool.
59:01Jon McLaughlin:All right. If you could have dinner with four people living or dead, who would it be? Is that a real one? Present company included.
59:13God, I hate these because I want time with it.
59:16Jon McLaughlin:This is Dave's question. Sorry. I said don't ask. No, I'm...
59:30one is going to be Cal Ripken oh wow okay love Cal Ripken talk about showing up for work every day I mean no joke that's pretty cool I met him one time and I couldn't speak I think Mandela I think there's a lot of stuff going on where it's like, I think we look for a shortcut to a result. Man alive. And for someone who like, Ali is the same, probably the same, like no shortcuts to, whether you agree, disagree, whatever it is. Yeah. Yeah. But like the ability to like, we've, we've a lot of, I think culture now is allergic to playing the long game for something important. Yeah. It's like everything comes to us very quickly.
1:00:12So I'd want to nerd out on that a little bit.
1:00:18Can I, okay. I have a caveat. hopefully you just say yes to this. This is your game. My father passed before our son was born. Can I invite my, can I have my, can I have one more dinner with my father and then have my son say hello? We'll allow that. That's what I want. There we go. That would be it. And my dad would also be pumped that Cal Ripken was there. It's a double. Okay. Who's the most underrated player right now, women's and men's? Underrated player right now. Or it could even be too, maybe like who are the ones you watch? You're like, ooh. Yeah. I mean, in tennis there's this culture of like you win a major or like you stink like and i'm excited because like i'm going to commentary for the first time and i have one job as i view it with going into commentary for the first time and it's to make sure people understand why it's so hard yeah that's right that's and so my like off the top of my mind is is like alex verev who's three in the world.
1:01:16It's phenomenal. Has won 25 tournaments, Olympic gold, been in grand slam finals. And every, every conversation is like, yeah, but he's not Alcaraz or sinner. I'm like, you can't throw away accomplishment just because he's not like an all timer. Yeah. Right. And so I, it's like to the point where I went off on our show, like off on a total tangent where someone on another tennis podcast was like, I mean, he's just not that good. I'm like, what the are you talking about? Like, you guys, three, what do you, what is wrong with you so alex verov is probably the one where it's like he's like the definition for what's wrong with the narrative in our sport yeah yeah like let's explain why the matchups are harder you can you can talk about deficiencies yeah that he has and why it's harder but like let's actually
1:02:02Jon McLaughlin:like not be lazy about it yeah yeah all right last question if you wrote a book on being a dad what would the title be? In progress. Probably. I don't like, I mean, you guys talk about this all the time, but it's like, you think, you know, a lot and then you realize you don't know much. I think it's just, it's like the ultimate gift. Cause you feel like you're making a million maybe decisions. And if something good happens out of that, it's like, it just, just, it's like sunshine. It just is, is the best. And I don't care what you know, like parenting is just different. It's just harder. And I, how you parent, I mean, do you guys like, you guys parent, like we have a son where we have to parent a certain way.
1:02:47And then we have a daughter where, you know, we found out she has, you know, ADHD. And so like the way that I have to learn all over again, how to meet her, where she's at versus our son, who you can just like, dude, that's, stop being a douchebag. Like you're going to like, it's, it's, it's just this ever changing never finished process that's just like you hope you're just white knuckling it into like a good job have they you know one one let's not speak around but just one last question yeah have they like did they know about your career yet is that something where like what does that look like with them they do now i think but they didn't know much they knew tennis because they hear me talk about it and stuff but um when they went to kindergarten they actually kind of understood because other kids or their parents talked about it.
1:03:33Yeah. But before that, so like my son came home and he was like, you're a tennis pro? I was like, well, yeah, well, yeah. And he goes -
1:03:40Jon McLaughlin:That's amazing. And he said, he's like, well, what club do you teach at? I'm like, well, not that type of tennis pro. It's confusing. Yeah. But then he was like, but then they started asking questions and it goes the other way where it's like, dude, never talk about this again. Cause he comes, he's like, well, what was your highest rank? I was like, well, number one. He's like, and then he'd be like, my dad's the best ever. I'm like, if you don't say that to anyone ever. No, my dad told me he was the best. Yeah, exactly. I'm like, oh my God, I'd want to crawl underneath the couch and never come out.
1:04:07Don't ever say that to anyone. So, okay, maybe this is the last big round question. If you, like, what match or how would you, if your son came to you today and fully enlightened and said, dad, like, I want to see you play. Like, show me, show me like, you know, a couple of points or something. is there a match that you would play for and be like this this was me doing my thing we've never watched anything back really would you ever like would you want to do that with him like if he asked would you feel weird honestly i just don't care um yeah like it doesn't he knows like he knows now like he under he understands our daughter my daughter could not care less like there's no there's not even like a like i feel like my son has like a little bit of sense of pride about it but our daughter just doesn't care.
1:04:54I don't know. I would go between like a loss and if you handled it well as like something that I had to work really hard to do. Like that wasn't always, it's like a learnable thing. There probably weren't many examples but I'd try to find the needle in the haystack on that. Yeah, yeah, that's great. Thank you so much for your time. Thank you, thank you, thank you. This was great. Appreciate you guys. Thanks for having me on.
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Roddick reflects on holding the world’s fastest serve record, his humorous rivalry with Roger Federer, and the "light" feeling of retiring at age 30. He shares candid stories from the "School of Earth," including traveling the world alone at age twelve and why he believes parents must let their children fall sometimes to build resilience.
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