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Dr. Davina’s Dots

31 Aug 2026 · 1h · 4 chapters

In short

The episode “Hard to Let Go” focuses on why people hold onto something even when they know it isn’t working—describing the “weight” on the mind and heart, the fear of the unknown, and the grief of releasing hopes and expectations. It argues that letting go can feel like losing something you never truly had, but that holding on may be what’s holding you back. It encourages loosening your grip “just a little” and acknowledging you don’t have to carry it anymore.

Guest backgrounds

The episode includes brief self-introductions from multiple jazz/soul music artists: Daryl Evan-Jones (ambassador of instrumental soul), JC Soul (international recording artist), Castella (singer-songwriter), Leon Presley (saxophonist), Marcia Maget (international recording artist), Matt Lee (smooth jazz saxophonist), Carmen Bruner (jazz vocalist), Terrence Thompson (producer/songwriter/artist), Hashima Mojik (bassist/vocalist), and Mary Cross (independent artist, singer/songwriter, stylista).

Key claims

Holding on is often about unmet hopes and safety; letting go begins with small honesty and perspective shifts.

Notable examples

“Holding on” to a burdened thought/relationship/life expectation; “opening your hands” slightly to stop carrying it.

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Chapters

1:26

The Weight of Holding On

Exploration of the emotional burden of holding onto things we know we should release.

17:04

Motivation and Inspiration through Music

Discussion on the impact of music and words in providing motivation.

“This is Daryl Evan-Jones, the ambassador of instrumental soul.”
29:36

The Struggle of Holding On

Discussing the emotional challenges associated with holding onto the past.

“guitar solo guitar solo Don't go anywhere.”
48:13

Embracing Change and Release

Discussion on the difficulty of letting go and the encouragement to do so.

“What if you just loosened your grip a little?”
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0:00Dr. Davina: Welcome to Dr. Davina's Dots, the show for anyone who loves inspiration. Every episode blends uplifting messages and the soothing sounds of jazz, so you can connect the dots in your life.

0:20Dr. Davina: Hello and welcome. I'm so glad you're here. This episode is for the one who's holding on to something. You already know you need to release it, but for some reason, you just can't seem to let it go. Go ahead and get comfortable. Your time to slow down, relax, and reflect starts right here, right now, on Dr. Davina's Dots. Holding on, even when you know it's time to let go. Have you ever noticed how you can know something, but you're still not ready to act on it? You know it's time. You know it's not working. you know it's weighing you down, but you're still holding on. You know it's not helping, and you can feel the weight and pressure holding you back, but you can't quite bring yourself to let it go.

1:07Dr. Davina: What is it that you're still holding, even though you know it's time to release it? You're listening to Dr. Davina's Dots. Sit back, relax, and enjoy. I'll be right back.

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11:37Dr. Davina: Welcome back. You're listening to Dr. Davina Statz. The weight of what we carry. There are moments in the day where you can feel it. Something you're carrying. It's so heavy on your mind, in your thoughts, and it's weighing heavy on your heart. So maybe, just maybe, it's time to let it go.

12:02Dr. Davina: You're listening to Dr. Davina's Dots. Sit back, relax, and enjoy. I'll be right back.

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16:54Dr. Davina: Davina's Dots Tune in, unwind, and elevate your mind

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25:03This is Daryl Evan-Jones, the ambassador of instrumental soul.

25:07Dr. Davina: This is JC Soul, international recording artist. Hey there, this is singer-songwriter Castella. Hi, this is saxophonist Leon Presley. Hi, I'm international recording artist Marcia Maget. This is smooth jazz saxophonist Matt Lee. This is jazz vocalist Carmen Bruner. This is producer, songwriter, and artist Terrence Thompson. This is bassist and vocalist Hashima Mojik. Hi, this is Mary Cross, independent artist, singer, songwriter, and stylista. One of the greatest treasures is positive motivation through words and music. And when I want to be inspired, I enjoy listening to Dr. Davina's Dots with Dr.

25:49Davina Smith. You'll be glad you did.

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29:02Dr. Davina: You are listening to Dr. Davina Stats. Why letting go feels so hard. Why is it so hard to let go of something we already know isn't for us anymore? Maybe it's about letting go of what we hoped it would be. The expectations. The version of life we imagined. The way we thought it would turn out. And letting go can feel like losing something, even if we never really had it. Maybe we hold on because it feels safer than the unknown. But what if holding on is holding you back? You are listening to Dr. Davina Statz. Sit back, relax, and enjoy.

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32:29I love you.

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34:16Don't go anywhere. More inspiration is coming up next, right here on Dr. Davina's Dots.

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48:06Dr. Davina: You are listening to Dr. Davina Statz. Sit back, relax, and enjoy. Opening your hands just a little. What if you just loosened your grip a little? Just enough to acknowledge it. Just enough to be honest with yourself about it. Just enough to say, I don't have to carry this anymore if I don't want to. Maybe that's where it starts, because sometimes you've been holding it for so long, it's hard to let it go. If you've been holding on and it's hard to let go, my books offer simple reminders and gentle encouragement to help you shift your perspective and move forward. You can find them on Dr. Davina's Dots website under read.

48:52Dr. Davina: Now don't go anywhere. Sit back, relax, and enjoy. I'll be right back.

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59:51Dr. Davina: Thank you for listening to Dr. Davina's Dots, helping you connect the dots in your life.

From the publisher

Sometimes the hardest things to let go of are the things we already know we need to release.

A relationship. A disappointment. A mistake. An expectation. An old version of ourselves. We know it’s time to move forward, but knowing and letting go are two very different things.In this episode of Dr. Davina’s Dots, join me to reflect, breathe, and enjoy an hour of thoughtful reflection and relaxing jazz.


Music Selections include


Joy Clarence J. Johnson III  

Time to Chill Eric Essix

Already in motion Tim Kirsch 

Love Rain Down Judah Sealy  

My time Brendan Rothwell  

Rhythm of Love Kenny Rocket  

Love’s taken over Nate Harasim  

Rise Isaac Edwards  

Higher Calling Brian Lenair  

Mr. Tina E Clark 

Marcus Click Gratitude  

Paradise Marcia Migét 

Groove together Jayson Tipp 


If today’s reflection resonated with you, you’ll find similar calming thoughts throughout my books, created to offer gentle perspective, emotional clarity, and meaningful encouragement for everyday life and leadership.


My books are designed to help you slow down, reflect deeply, and reconnect with what truly matters, whether you’re navigating personal growth, professional demands, or simply seeking a quieter mind in a busy world.


You can explore my full collection of books, reflections, and creative experiences at www.drdavinasdots.com


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