


The episode “What’s Holding You Back?” is a self-reflection message about losing parts of yourself by prioritizing others’ needs over your own. It asks listeners to pause and identify what they’ve stopped doing physically, emotionally, spiritually, or creatively, and what guilt, fear, or the belief that “everything else matters more” is keeping them from joy, purpose, rest, and creativity.
No guests are mentioned. The host is Dr. Davina Smith (also referred to as Dr. Davina Stotts/Stotts in the transcript).
People can quietly trade dreams for someone else’s priorities, become the “strong/dependable/fixer,” and feel present but “a part of you is missing.” Your job and relationships may need you, but you also need you; you deserve to bring back at least one piece of what lights you up.
Relationships where you stop your own passions; daily life roles (work, family, parenting) that leave you with nothing left; feeling guilty to rest or create.
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Exploration of personal reflections on what holds us back in life.
“I'm so glad you're here with me for another episode of Dr.”
A brief pause for introspection followed by relaxing jazz music.
A series of guitar solos providing a relaxing atmosphere.
Encouragement to rediscover personal passions and self-care.
“If you're enjoying the show, I'd love to hear from you.”
Continuation of guitar solos enhancing the reflective mood.
Dr. Davina discusses feelings of being overwhelmed and the importance of self-care.
“Now let's get back to today's message on what's holding you back.”
A series of musical segments interspersed with expressions of gratitude.
“DeVena's Dots, the perfect blend of inspiration and relaxation.”
Continuation of music and appreciation, reflecting the show's ambiance.
Discussion on the factors that prevent personal growth and happiness.
“What's the one thing your heart is asking for that you've been ignoring deep down?”
Ending the show with gratitude and a lead into music, encouraging listeners to stay tuned.

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0:04Dr. Davina: You are now listening to Dr. Davina's Dots, your dynamic, optimistic, transformative show designed to relax you, inspire you, encourage you, and motivate you. I am your host, Dr. Davina Smith, bringing you only the best in positive messages and positive music. Enjoy.
0:44Dr. Davina: Hello, how's everyone doing? I'm so glad you're here with me for another episode of Dr. Davina's Dots. Today's show is titled, What's Holding You Back? Have you stopped showing up for yourself? Physically, emotionally, spiritually, or creatively? Have you traded in your dreams and passions for priorities that weren't even yours? It can happen quietly. One decision here, one compromise there. And before you know it, you've become someone who supports everyone else. Showing up for their needs, cheering on their goals, and being so wrapped up in being the strong one, the dependable one, the fixer, that you forget what it feels like to be you.
1:29Dr. Davina: You smile, you're happy, but your spark is dimmer. You're present, but you feel like a part of you is missing. So here's your moment to pause and reflect. What's holding you back? What have you given up and why? Go ahead and sit with that for a minute as we get started with some relaxing jazz. You are listening to Dr. Davina Stadts. I'll be right back. Enjoy.
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6:24Dr. Davina: Welcome back. You are listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. Thank you so much for tuning in. I'm so glad you're here. If you're enjoying the show, I'd love to hear from you. Visit www.drdavina'sdots.com where you can subscribe, leave a review, request a topic, or just let me know what resonated with you. Don't forget to like, share, and follow me on social media. You can connect with me on Facebook at Davina Blackett Smith or Dr. Davina Stotts and on IG and LinkedIn at Dr. Davina Smith. Let's keep the positivity going one show at a time. Today's show is titled, What's Holding You Back? Have you ever felt like you lost a piece of yourself?
7:05Dr. Davina: Sometimes in relationships, you might stop doing what you love. You shape yourself into what you think someone else needs. And sometimes you can forget what you need. So ask yourself, what have I stopped doing that used to light me up? And what would it look like to bring just one piece of that back into my life? You are listening to Dr. Davina's Dots. I'll be right back. Enjoy.
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24:27Dr. Davina: Welcome back and thank you for spending this time with me right here on Dr. Davina Stotz. If you enjoy the kind of inspiration and encouragement you hear on the show, I invite you to check out my collection of uplifting books and audiobooks, Perfect for those moments when you need a little extra boost of positivity in your day. Just search Dr. Davina Smith on Amazon.com and explore titles filled with positive messages, gentle nudges, and heartfelt reminders. Now let's get back to today's message on what's holding you back. Does it ever feel like you've lost yourself trying to keep up with everything and everyone else?
25:05Dr. Davina: Between work, family, parenting, and all of life's responsibilities, it's easy to give so much of yourself that there's nothing left at the end of the day. You stop doing what you love. You feel guilty for wanting time to rest, create, or simply be. The truth is, your job, your family, and your friends may need you. But you need you too. You deserve to feel joy, to live with purpose, and to make space for what lights you up inside. What part of you have you put on pause? And what's holding you back from making time for you and the things you once loved? What's holding you back? Is it guilt? Is it fear?
25:51Dr. Davina: Is it the belief that everything else matters more than your own joy? What's holding you back? You are listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. I'll be right back.
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45:53Dr. Davina: Welcome back. You're listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. As we enter the final segment of today's show, I want to thank you for being here. Every episode is designed to offer a fresh new perspective, to help you pause, reflect, and start connecting the dots between where you are and where you truly want to be. If you've been encouraged today, I invite you to stay connected. Subscribe and follow me on social media for more inspiration. You can find me on Facebook at Davina Blackett Smith or Dr. Davina Stats and on IG and LinkedIn at Dr. Davina Smith. You can also listen on demand anytime. Just ask Alexa to play Dr.
46:32Dr. Davina: Davina Stotts or find the show on Amazon Music. And if you love positive books, be sure to check out my full collection on Amazon by searching Dr. Davina Smith. Today's show is titled, What's Holding You Back? What's the one thing your heart is asking for that you've been ignoring deep down? What's keeping you from making time for yourself? Chasing what you love or simply feeling like you again? What's really been holding you back? You are listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. Don't go anywhere. More music is coming up next.
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59:29Dr. Davina: Thank you for listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. If you enjoyed today's show, be sure to visit my website at www.drdavinastotts.com, where you can listen to your favorite episodes on demand anytime and explore more uplifting content, books, and merchandise, all designed to encourage you and inspire you. Until next time, stay positive and be blessed.
What’s holding you back from doing the things you used to love, the things that once made you feel alive?
If you’ve been showing up for everyone else but slowly losing pieces of yourself along the way, this episode of Dr. Davina’s Dots titled "What's Holding you Back" is for you.
It’s a gentle reminder to pause, reflect, and give yourself permission to start doing the things that light you up and make your heart happy.
In this episode musical selections include
1979 featuring Michael Broening
Sunny Days -Hank Bilal featuring Phil Denny
The Thing is- Dee Brown
I love the way you love me -Andrew Nicols
Champaine Sky -Ilya Serov
Daydreams -Randy Scott (feat Cindy Bradley)
Turning Point Igor Fedotov
There is nothing like you- Pavel & Ricky
Northern Hospitality -The Moore Twins
That’s the way of the world-Nils
Foolish Heart- Johnny James Dr.J. Foolish Heart (Smooth Jazz Cover) Feat. Norman Brown
You only live twice-Christian DeMesones
Indigo-Jeff Logan
Late night drive- Brad Alexander featuring Judah Sealey
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If today’s reflection resonated with you, you’ll find similar calming thoughts throughout my books, created to offer gentle perspective, emotional clarity, and meaningful encouragement for everyday life and leadership.
My books are designed to help you slow down, reflect deeply, and reconnect with what truly matters, whether you’re navigating personal growth, professional demands, or simply seeking a quieter mind in a busy world.
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