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Dr. Davina’s Dots

21 Sep 2026 · 1h · 10 chapters

In short

The episode “When You Want to Quit” encourages listeners to quit the habits, thoughts, and relationships that drain them—while not quitting their dreams or themselves. It argues that life’s repetition can cause fatigue, and that people often “quit the things that give meaning” (hope, faith, looking for good) instead of quitting what no longer serves them. Key claims include: quitting negative self-talk (“it’s too late,” “I’m not good enough,” “what’s the point”) is necessary; letting go of old pain, guilt, and outdated versions of yourself can bring peace; and quitting can be for healing, growth, and new beginnings.

Notable examples

quitting delaying dreams; quitting complaining; quitting trying to control everything; quitting draining relationships; quitting thoughts that keep you stuck; quitting apologizing for living your life; quitting reliving mistakes; quitting being overly hard on yourself.

Guests

The episode includes multiple smooth-jazz/music guest shoutouts—Darrell Evan Jones (ambassador of Instrumental Soul), JC Soul (international recording artist), Castella (singer-songwriter), Leon Presley (saxophonist), Marcia Mijay (international recording artist), Matt Lee (smooth jazz saxophonist), Carmen Bruner (jazz vocalist), Terrence Thompson (producer/songwriter/artist), and Mary Cross (independent artist/singer/songwriter/stylista).

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Chapters

0:30

The Permission to Quit

It's okay to quit habits that hold you back from a fulfilling life.

“Maybe you're tired, tired of overthinking, tired of doubting yourself, tired of carrying so much pressure.”
1:25

Musical Interlude

Enjoy a soothing guitar solo to reflect on the previous message.

1:58

Extended Guitar Solo

An extended musical segment to promote relaxation and mindfulness.

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6:49

Reflections on Repetition

Exploring how daily routines shape our lives and lead to fatigue.

14:00

Finding Meaning in Repetition

Explore how life's repetition can lead to fatigue and the importance of not quitting meaningful pursuits.

“The things we do every day eventually become the way we live.”
15:43

Embracing Hope and Beauty

Learn about the consequences of losing hope and belief in everyday beauty and the importance of maintaining a positive outlook.

30:00

The Power of Letting Go

Exploration of how quitting can be a healthy choice for personal growth and healing.

“Sometimes we hold on to things because we don't want to quit.”
44:08

Reflecting on What to Quit

Discussion on self-doubt, personal growth, and overcoming negativity.

56:40

Identifying What to Quit

Discussion on various negative habits to consider quitting for personal growth.

“Maybe you need to quit doubting yourself.”
57:02

Lessons from Everyday Moments

Introduction to the book 'Positive Principles Hidden in Plain Insight' and its themes.

“If this reflection resonated with you, my book Positive Principles Hidden in Plain insight is a reminder to slow down, notice the lessons, the beauty, and the meaning hidden inside everyday ordinary moments.”
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Transcript

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0:00Welcome to Dr. Davina Stotts, the show for anyone who loves inspiration. Every episode blends uplifting messages and the soothing sounds of jazz, so you can connect the dots in your life.

0:17Hello and welcome. I'm so glad you're here. Go ahead and get comfortable. Your time to slow down, relax, and reflect starts right here, right now, on Dr. Davina's Dots. Have you ever felt like quitting? Maybe you're tired, tired of overthinking, tired of doubting yourself, tired of carrying so much pressure. I want you to know that sometimes it's okay to quit, not on your dreams and goals, not on yourself, but quit the things that no longer serve you. It's okay to quit the habit of talking yourself out of living a life you love. It's okay to quit delaying your dreams. It's okay to quit complaining.

0:59it's okay to quit doubting sometimes we really need to quit we need to quit the negative conversations happening in our minds it's time to quit saying it's too late it's time to quit saying I'm not good enough it's time to quit saying what's the point maybe it's time to quit quit allowing yourself and others to convince you to quit on yourself you are listening to Dr. Davina's Dots

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14:44You're listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. Most of life is repetition. The things we do every day eventually become the way we live. And sometimes, because life can feel so repetitive, people get tired. Tired of waiting, tired of trying, tired of having the same responsibilities day after day. But unfortunately, instead of quitting the things that drain them, they begin quitting the things that give meaning to life. They quit looking for the good. They quit expecting good things to happen. They quit believing things can change. They quit noticing the beauty in the ordinary moments. They quit having hope and they quit having faith.

15:29And the problem is, if you quit looking, quit believing and quit expecting, you'll miss out on the ability to see the wonder and beauty hidden in everyday ordinary moments. You are listening to Dr. Davina Stats.

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29:16This is Darrell Evan Jones, the ambassador of Instrumental Soul. This is JC Soul, international recording artist. Hey there, this is singer-songwriter Castella. Hi, this is saxophonist Leon Presley. Hi, I'm international recording artist Marcia Mijay. This is smooth jazz saxophonist Matt Lee. This is jazz vocalist Carmen Bruner. This is producer, songwriter, and artist Terrence Thompson. This is Mary Cross, independent artist, singer, songwriter, and stylista. One of the greatest treasures is positive motivation through words and music. And when I want to be inspired, I enjoy listening to Dr. Davina's Dots with Dr.

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33:57You are listening to Dr. Davina Stats. Sometimes we hold on to things because we don't want to quit. We think letting go means failure. So we keep holding on to old pain, old guilt, and old versions of ourselves that no longer fit who we're becoming. But maybe there are moments in life when quitting is the right thing to do. Maybe there are times when you need to quit trying to control everything, quit relationships that drain you, quit trying to prove yourself to everyone, and quit thoughts that keep you stuck in places you've already outgrown. Sometimes, holding on takes more energy than letting go ever would.

34:39And sometimes, peace begins, the moment you quit holding on so tightly to what no longer is meant for you. Sometimes quitting is for healing, for growth, and a new beginning. You are listening to Dr. Davina Stotts. Sit back, relax, and enjoy. I'll be right back.

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56:39you're listening to dr. Venus Dots. What's one thing you need to quit? Maybe you need to quit doubting yourself. Maybe you need to quit apologizing for living your own life. Maybe you need to quit reliving your mistakes. And maybe you simply need to quit being so hard on yourself and give yourself credit for how far you've come. If this reflection resonated with you, my book Positive Principles Hidden in Plain insight is a reminder to slow down, notice the lessons, the beauty, and the meaning hidden inside everyday ordinary moments. Dr. Davina Stads

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59:53Thank you for listening to Dr. Davina's Dots, helping you connect the dots in your life.

From the publisher


Sometimes you’re not sure if you should keep going or finally let something go.

You may be tired, discouraged, frustrated, or simply wondering if what you’re working toward is still worth it.

In this episode of Dr. Davina’s Dots, we reflect on those moments when quitting feels easier than continuing.

Do you need to quit? Do you need to rest? Do you need to change direction? Or do you simply need a little encouragement to keep going?

Take some time to reflect and enjoy an hour of thoughtful reflection and relaxing jazz.


Musical Selections include

Waiting Phillip Doc Martin  

Coolness Kevin Jackson  

Cinder Isco MusiQ  

Your Smile Brandon Carceal  

Release me Ryan Lavette  

Its my time Willie Bradley featuring James Lloyd 

Love Stories Cal Harris Jr.  

Narrow Path Patrick Bradley  

Undulation Kayla Waters  

Take me as I am Paul Brown  

In the moment Althea Rene  

Rhapsody in Greene James A Greene  

When the time is Right Jackiem Joyner  


If today’s reflection resonated with you, you’ll find similar calming thoughts throughout my books, created to offer gentle perspective, emotional clarity, and meaningful encouragement for everyday life and leadership.


My books are designed to help you slow down, reflect deeply, and reconnect with what truly matters, whether you’re navigating personal growth, professional demands, or simply seeking a quieter mind in a busy world.


You can explore my full collection of books, reflections, and creative experiences at www.drdavinasdots.com


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