Being Sued For Refusing To Pay Rent

22 Apr 2024 · 58 min

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Financial Audit Podcast Episode Summary

Episode Title

Being Sued For Refusing To Pay Rent

Episode Description The episode features Daphne, a 27-year-old elementary school assistant from San Marcos, Texas, who discusses her financial situation, including being sued for unpaid rent. The episode aims to provide insights into budgeting, financial planning, and tackling debts while highlighting the various challenges faced by individuals in managing their finances.

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Key Participants

  • Host: Caleb Hammer
  • Guest: Daphne, Montessori elementary assistant

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Main Topics Discussed

Daphne's Professional Background

  • Works as a Montessori elementary assistant in Austin.
  • Recently signed a new contract with a salary of $22/hour, full-time, year-round.
  • Transitioned from a previous position in Colorado.

Financial Overview

  • Monthly income after child support: approximately $3,579.
  • Outstanding apartment balance: $3,060.01, leading to legal action.
  • Discusses safety issues and neglect from the apartment management, including:
  • A severe rodent infestation.
  • Living beneath disruptive neighbors involved in illegal activities.

Apartment Troubles

  • Unresolved maintenance requests, including a lack of air conditioning.
  • Had to leave the apartment due to safety concerns, leading to unpaid rent and subsequent legal issues.

Legal Proceedings

  • Daphne went to civil court without legal representation.
  • Entered a stipulation agreement that required her to vacate the apartment.
  • Currently facing a bill for unpaid rent despite having returned the keys.

Budgeting and Financial Management

  • Discussion of Daphne's total debt, including:
  • Car loan with high interest (18%).
  • Student loans and other debts in collections.
  • Suggests prioritizing financial stability, including building an emergency fund.

Financial Challenges

  • Exploration of Daphne's expenses and spending habits:
  • Notable spending on dining out, subscriptions, and miscellaneous expenses.
  • Emphasis on the need for budgeting and fostering financial discipline.
  • Highlights the importance of automatic payments and maintaining a budget.

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Key Takeaways

  • Emergency Fund: Stress on the necessity of having at least a one-month emergency fund to safeguard against unexpected expenses.
  • Debt Management: Recommendations to tackle high-interest debts first, such as the Synchrony card and rent-related issues while considering options to fight collections.
  • Budgeting: Encouragement to utilize budgeting tools and methods to track spending more effectively and allocate funds towards debt repayment and savings.
  • Legal Assistance: Importance of seeking affordable legal advice, especially in cases of landlord-tenant disputes.

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Final Thoughts

  • Daphne is encouraged to take the necessary steps towards financial stability, including setting a timeline for paying off various debts and securing an emergency fund.
  • The host emphasizes the importance of learning from financial mistakes to foster better habits moving forward.

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Resources Mentioned

  • Budgeting program link: https://go.calebhammer.com
  • Financial tools and resources for budgeting and investing.
  • Tips for finding legal assistance for low-income individuals.

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Conclusion This episode of *Financial Audit* sheds light on real-life financial struggles, particularly regarding tenant rights and debt management. Through Daphne's experiences, listeners are provided with practical advice on budgeting, navigating legal challenges, and prioritizing financial health.

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0:28Shopping is hard, right? My name is Daphne. I'm 27, based in San Marcos, Texas, and this is Financial Audit. Thanks for coming up from San Marcos. What do you do there for a living? I actually work in Austin, but I'm an elementary assistant. That's kind of a commute. Elementary assistant. So is that like front desk or like helping in the classroom? Yeah, I'm an assistant in the classroom. Do you have a degree for that? I have my certification. So I'm a Montessori elementary assistant. So it's not public. It's a little different. So you have to go get a bachelor's and then you have to get like a certification.

1:00specifically for Montessori. And I just finished that training in June. And yeah, so now I'm just working my way up the ladder to become a full lead. Oh, very nice. So what do you make right now? Well, I actually just signed a new contract today for a new school, and I'm going to be making$22 an hour. Okay. How many hours a week? Is that$40? Yeah, full time. Okay. But it's only nine months, right? No, it's year-round. It is. Because they have summer camp, So I get the option to work in the summer. Okay. So with no time off, which I assume is not a thing, would be$45 ,760. Yeah. But I also get the winter break and the fall break and spring break and all of that.

1:44We had come in$2 ,511. So that's from my old school. Which you were making how much? I was salaried at that position. It was like$43 ,000 a year. Yeah. It's$43 ,000. So this is going to be similar then. Yeah, it's a little bit less, but my take home is more just because here in Texas, they don't have the state tax. I was in Colorado. Oh, this was Colorado. Yeah, I just moved back like maybe two weeks ago. So you're from here and you came back? Yeah, I went to Colorado to do my training for the Montessori, and then I did my internship out there, and then I decided to move back for reasons. What's the state income tax in Colorado?

2:244.4. So I'd say you're probably going to bring home Let's include those vacations and everything On a monthly average $3 ,200 a month And I get$380 in child support A month So there's that

2:43$379 Okay$379 $3 ,200 So$3 ,579 We can call your income Yes Okay Cool. So welcome back. And I'm glad you got a new job and you're starting to climb the ladder. So that's good. What the fuck is going on in Colorado, though, is immediately what sticks out of my head. Because we have an outstanding balance. An outstanding balance for an apartment of$3 ,060.01. Outstanding balance. And you weren't making nothing. I mean, among the higher wage earners, no. but what is going on um yeah there was a lot of things that were going on prior to this and um i was having a lot of issues with the apartment complex i had moved there at the beginning of the year um and within i want to say was it like april i started having had a few months in okay yeah i had a really bad rodent issue like it was yeah for two months i had this giant rat in my wall and i kept telling them there's a rat on my wall they didn't believe me and I showed them the videos that I had of this rat and then they had the pest control come out and then they're like well it's not that big of a deal it's not a yeah it was so that was one issue and then underneath me was basically like a trap house and so that was the big yeah like there was always random people coming in at random hours of the night very sketchy things so drugs and insertions yeah Yeah, it was really scary because there was multiple times where there was violence starting.

4:25The police had to come out a couple times because of gunshots. To you? Violence against you? No, the person that lived there and then the random people that were coming in and out because of whatever they were doing, they were just always threatening violence against each other. You told me you had kids too. Yeah. How many? I have one. How old are they? She's six. Oh, yeah. It was really traumatizing for both of us because there was a couple of times we had to hide in the closet because of the shooting. What the fuck? Yeah, the cops had come out, and it was, so that was scary. How were they not kicked out immediately?

4:56Who would want this in their property? Yeah, that's what I, my neighbors were also said that they had been there for like a year, and. Was this like a lower income community, by the way? No, it was a regular apartment complex. I had to, and yeah, they, and I would tell them, I mean, my dog even got attacked by the, uh, cause the random people are always coming and then they had random dogs and just really scary. Yeah. And then summer came around. I didn't have AC. I kept telling them about that. They were ignoring me. They didn't do anything about it. I went the whole summer without AC. Granted that summers in Colorado aren't that bad, but still it was 85 degrees in my house and had a kid and my grandma was coming to visit.

5:34And it was just so I kind of got to the point where I was probably not the best choice, but I kind of got to the point where I was like, hey, I've been trying to talk to anyone legally. So I mean, I don't know. Yeah, I tried a lot of the places that I was getting referred to for like low income or just because I I was at the place to like get like a big lawyer. and I've never had to do anything like that before. So I was trying to find like local lawyers, like low income. I got a lot of recommendations from like the community center that I went to and they gave me a lot of like low income housing.

6:15But anybody that lives in Denver knows there's a huge housing issue out there. I'm not just talking about that. I'm talking about legal help with them not fixing AC, trying to get you out of, you know, contract, maybe even more with all the dangerous stuff that was going on and obviously not holding up their end of likely the contract that you signed. Yeah. Because I assume you just left. Is that what this means? Yeah. You just left. Yeah. And did you leave? End of September. So you made it all the way to September. Okay. Wow. Yeah. And then so like there's a utility bill that came in and it was a late fee.

6:51Then we had to back rent and late fee and late fee. well I mean you're just obviously not paying it but I mean okay I mean this it gets a little weird I don't know much about the stuff you pursuing them to try to get out of a contract it sounds like in any kind of way which is hard because you're just a person you know making 40 ,000 bucks a year or whatever it was after taxes was like you know almost 30 I don't think you're working as many hours as you but it was salary I'm a bit confused on the income that came in, I'll be honest. But either way. Well, I just started that salary. You broke the contract that you signed, which means that, I mean, yeah, this would be.

7:39Did you give them notice? So what happened was because all that was happening, they came to me and said, well, we're going to evict you. And then that's when the whole. Evict you? Yeah. And then that's. Or why? Because I wasn't paying rent. And that's when. Why weren't you paying rent? because of all the safety issues and they were ignoring me so i went i guess i'd probably not the most like the smartest move um i would have rather you talk to someone yeah yeah i in retrospect that probably would have been best instead of just not paying rent yeah so yeah and it got to the point where we had to go like oh it's like civil court or whatever um and i showed up and i told the judge i was like hey you know this is all been going on And I, from my understanding was my options where I either just paid the amount of rent that was due, which was like the 3 ,000, not without the late fees or anything, was either to pay that to the property to be able to stay or to get my stuff and just leave by a certain date.

8:36And then it would all be considered like even. Okay. That's what I understood. But now I have this bill that they sent me. What do you mean that's what you understood? Was that the decision that was? so what because the way that it's i don't know how to explain the way that it's worded it's because did they take you to civil court yes they took you to civil court yes okay and i don't have a lawyer like i just i just presented the court with all the photos of all damage that my apartment suffered what did the judge decide in the end they gave me it was a stipulation agreement is what they gave me okay and so that's what i signed and it said that you I had to be out by this date at this time.

9:15And you were? Yes. Okay. And I had my keys. And that's a funny thing, too, because a week later they called me and said, well, we need your keys. You're not out of the unit. And I told them. I said, yes, I did return the keys. There were two people there. And they were like, okay, well, we'll see if we can find the keys. And they didn't seem to believe me, but I haven't heard back from them since then. I also emailed them about that and asked what was going on. Well, they obviously seem like absolutely terrible landlords. They give every one of them are terrible. They have a two-star rating. So that was one.

9:42I'm not surprised. Total unpaid charge is$3 ,910, even though it says outbalances. I'll say any balance is$3 ,000. I think they took my deposit or apply it to that. That makes sense. Okay. Well, yeah, you're probably not going to get your security deposit back, but obviously you're just trying to get$3 ,000 off the bills, especially when we go to the rest of the debts. Obviously, your debts really stack up for your income situation as a single mom, right? So, okay. I don't have the judge's decision in front of me. I have no choice but to just take your word and just, you know, your hopeful understanding of the situation.

10:24So what are you doing now? You're challenging it? Yeah, that's why I reached out to them. Who's them? To the apartment complex. I sent them an email and it's like, hey, you know, I signed this agreement. It's from, this is what it said. I kind of quoted it a little bit, but I also don't understand legal. wording that well um and i just that was last week i haven't gotten anything back so i don't i don't know um they may have sent it to their lawyers and it could take a bit yeah so i'm not i'm not sure what to do about this and i don't i don't like have a lawyer or anything i don't really know i know and there might be people who are willing to do lower income services as well even if you hire a lawyer just to look over the agreement i mean that could maybe we could find someone to do like a few hundred bucks.

11:13I don't know. It's hard. It's probably going to be a couple thousand. It's a retainer.

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12:29No, I haven't. I don't... I recommend maybe reaching out to the office, you know, that judge's office, if possible. The court office? Yeah. Okay. You know, I was, yeah. Whatever system they were in. Was it like the county? Yeah, the county of that place. Okay. Okay. No, I get it. Okay. So, yeah, I mean, maybe we send an email in or leave a call or something like that. Okay. See if we can. Yeah, because obviously if what you said was correct, then obviously these people, they're probably stuck in a big paperwork of corporate bulls**t. And they probably don't even give a f**k to people who are working.

13:10Obviously, the people managing your place don't give a f**k to them. Well, I mean, in the few months that I was there, they had two different, that's another thing. They had switched over management. So when I moved in, they're like, oh, we just got new management, blah, blah, blah. And then right before the rat thing happened, they switched to another management. That's how I found out because I was emailing them. You don't know who the owners are, though, do you? No, it's a big corporation. That property is really big, too. But they switched over to new management. And when I went to go tell them about the rat situation, that's when I found out.

13:40They didn't tell us, like, oh, we got new emails. We're in new management or anything. So the communication there is also really sh**. Okay, I think first step for this, see whatever community resources there are. I'd maybe reach out to some housing lawyers and just explain your situation. in an email or voicemail and say, you know, I really don't have much, that kind of stuff, and just see who might be able to get back to you. Maybe someone's willing to do it for like$500, something like that. Reach out to a lawyer in Colorado, right, not here? Yeah, probably. That might just make it easier, especially if they have to show up in person or anything.

14:17Okay. So, yeah, whatever that town was that you were in, and look around, leave lots of emails and voicemails, try to explain your situation, see if someone's willing to help for a lower income situation, look at community resources, do that for a couple weeks. If we're like two, three weeks in, maybe reach out to the local judge's office there. And if for some reason, and I really don't think this is going to be the case, but if you can't get any community resource, You can't get a lawyer at all. And then you just never hear back from the judge office, which, again, I don't think all three of those things would not happen.

15:00That would just be wild. There is the potential that eventually this will go to collections and maybe you challenge it. You challenge it with the credit bureaus. Be like, yo, here's this legal. You have a piece of paper, right? I mean, what do you have? Yeah, I have this. I have a. They emailed me the copy of what I signed or the stipulation. Yeah. So that's what I need to help fight it there. Yeah. So I just need help. Do you have it with you? Decoding it. It's on my... Can I take a look? Yeah. Let me take a look. I'm curious. I've gone through many, many, many fun legal documents, especially on the real estate side, because I do own some rental properties now.

15:38I actually treat people who rent it with respect and don't around, and also if they just want to leave, I just let them leave anyway. But either way. Should have moved to one of your properties. Well, you'd have to live in Michigan for that. And I know we haven't gotten into any of the deaths yet, except for this one. It's an interesting thing to break down that we haven't had before. But while she's pulling this up, you should hit the subscribe button. We're trying to get to a million subscribers. Thank you to everyone who has subscribed so far. Love you all so much.

16:09I think this is it. I think this is it. So, yeah. I don't. All right. Maybe you can help me. Look, it's only one page. that's what they signed or they sent me that's what I signed this is why you don't sign things that you don't understand yes I would always go in with a lawyer I mean you were being sued did you look at any public options yeah so the public options that were given because I went to the community resources people and they gave me a list of like Bustwood the Boys is here to let you know that every college football Saturday FanDuel's dropping profit boosts that can turn wins into bigger wins.

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17:13Low income. What are they called? low income representation, something like that. And it was like either really low income or free. And then some of them, they were like, yeah, we can help you. We can't help you until like this day. And I was like, well, that's going to be too far after the whole thing. It's hard for me to read on the phone. Can you email that to us? Yeah. Okay. We'll see what he says. See if he has time to get to it before you leave. If not, I'll just text you later. and I'll probably leave a pinned comment if it's not included in this episode with what happened. So beyond that, we might owe that.

17:55I'm inclined to think you may, so I'm going to do rent,$3 ,060.01. Just slightly leaning towards that. I'm not 100 % sure. I'll let the actual expert in the field of law decide that. We have a 2019 Toyota Corolla. you got a car that was basically half the income that was coming in the loan the loan itself was half the income that was coming in in terms of the overall balance why'd you get this okay this is a good car it's a good reliable safe it'll get you a point a point b and it'll last a while as long as you take care of it could have gotten a little older version why'd we go and go essentially twenty thousand dollars in debt when you did this journey date twenty twenty six so you know we're waiting a few years still yeah um so i got that car in 2020 um six year long yeah um in june of that year i actually got in a wreck my car got totaled and um insurance cover up yeah so the total amount due for like the total amount and the amount that there was left on it was basically the same so i got like a 40 um check for the difference so they just like totaled it out so they paid the rest of that loan and then gave me the 40 extra dollars what's the interest rate on this thing?

19:16it's I think it's close to like 18 % oh why? and why did you get a car that was obviously well beyond where it should be for your income yeah just I was like everybody else just desperate for a car at the time my single mom didn't have a car my grandma gave me some money to put a down payment and And, yeah. Yeah, it was a very hard time for the car market especially. Yeah, this was September of 2020 when I got that. So you got gifted some money for the down payment? Mm-hmm. You don't have to pay that back? No. My grandma's awesome. 518 % death, though. That's death. Yes. At least you're kind of on that downtrend of more money going towards principal than interest.

20:04Yeah, I keep getting prompted to refinance my loan, I guess, because I've had it for so long. I just haven't done that because I don't know how to do that. With what your credit score may be. What's your credit score? So on average between the three, it's like 600 because one's like 595. 600? 6-0-0. Yeah. So one of them is 595. One's 6-11. I don't know. So yeah, they're right around 600. $526.06 minimum monthly payment. It's a lot. Yeah. Especially for you were bringing in 2 ,000 bucks before. Is that what it was? 2 ,600, 2 ,500? Yeah. But, yeah, I wasn't working here when I got that, but yeah.

20:44I know. You have student loans. I do. They're all at 5 % or less, 4.5, 4.5. What is that? Yeah. $12 ,000 for the certification that you got? No. So some of those are from a community college, and then the this one where is it this this one the larger one yeah that one's for the certification and these two are from Certification was$9 ,500? yeah man this is why this is why I like talking about my boys over at Course Careers for tech certifications because so much cheaper than that me $9 ,500 you borrowed did you put any money actually towards it or was it just 9 ,500 to complete it. No, that was the complete total.

21:38Okay. So, I mean, your minimum monthly payment across all these is probably what? 150 bucks. I don't know. I logged into it because I knew that in October, the nail net, it was said, so I'm not, so if I look on my thing right now, it says that zero is due. That's my monthly amount due right now. It says zero. When did you get your certification? I just finished it in June of this year. So, yeah. You do get a few months. Yeah. And then, yeah, these ones are... But I'd look out for it. It's going to start very, very soon for you. Well, yeah. So, yeah, the two of those start in April. The one starts in January.

22:14But I was trying to look, because I logged into my student loan account, and I was trying to look to see what the minimum monthly payments would be. And right now, it all says zero on everything. It doesn't give me, like, an estimated minimum monthly payment. Yeah, about 150, probably, across the board. What do you have so much in collection? see this is why all of a sudden I'm even more skeptical on the rent thing because you have four things in collections here so that just screams irresponsibility so one of these this 1000 and this 373 I'm fighting those because I did have my identity stolen in 2020 and they went to Banfield Vet Clinic I don't know I don't go to Banfield so and then the other one was I think the other one's I do have a pet but I don't I always pay out of pocket for her, which sucks.

23:02Well, you know what could have happened is she went in a little more. It was a little more happened in the visit. Maybe you signed something, and that's what you ended up owing, and you just didn't pay it. I go to a private. Well, at this time, because I was living in Colorado, I wasn't going, but I've always taken her to this private. You've never been to a Banfield in your life? My mom's taken her, but I haven't taken her. Now. Yeah. Okay. So your mom. I mean, that could explain it. Your mom took her, but it's still your dog on your account. And likely the payment was still owed on your account.

23:41Never paid. Went to collections. I don't think that's something you can fight. I mean, you just answered it right there. Okay. Maybe. Maybe. Probably. A thousand. Thirteen. Now. Okay. If you're identity. First of all, lock your credit. Yeah. I have a pin. So this year when we're in 20, so this year I did 22, last year we did 21. Yeah. Last year is when I found out I had my identity stolen. Cause I went to go, cause the lady who does my taxes, she's always done my taxes every year. And when we went to file, it said that I couldn't file it because it had already been filed. And she asked if I had filed them.

24:13I said, no, I haven't. And then, so I had to go, I had to go through the IRS and somebody else got paid. I'm still waiting on like 10 grand for the IRS to pay me from that year. That's what makes you conclude that your identity was stolen. No, no, no. When I went, or not me, when my CPA lady went and did it, it said that it was already filed. Yeah, but it being filed is what made you determine it's been stolen. So her and I called the IRS, and we spent several weeks and several hours talking to everybody, and they said that it had been filed, that it had been paid out to somebody, and then they told them.

24:48Yeah, someone tried to get your refund. Yeah, they did get my refund, and so the IRS said that my identity was stolen, and they locked my account, So now that's why I have a pin for both of my daughter and I both have pins on our things now because of that. I'm sorry for just playing devil's advocate. This is what I do. I push back on everything, but it's okay because it creates more open-minded conversations. Hopefully. Sounds like you also just really don't know what the f*** is going on. Like it sounds like you're all over the place. Money's mismanaged. You don't know what's happening. what if you accidentally went through TurboTax did a couple clicks did just a very easy quick minute refund I'm not saying it did I'm very skeptical that that would be the choice but again with the Banfield thing you said your mom has taken them there it's like you weren't able to get to there mentally until I was able to walk you through it so just a slight bit of skepticism when it comes to this I bet it probably was stolen that's terrible obviously that's a yeah because that 1000 is from like a phone bill that they said I opened and I know I've never had a phone bill with that company so I'm fighting AT &T I do not have AT &T I've never had AT &T under my name ever your parents have access to your credit score?

26:06no social security number my mom knows my social security number she's my mom well I don't think mine knows my social security number off the top of her head. I don't think she wrote it down when I was a kid. She might. This is a real good story about Bronx and his dad, Ryan, real United Airlines customers. We were returning home, and one of the flight attendants asked Bronx if he wanted to see the flight deck and meet Captain Andrew. I got to sit in the driver's seat. I grew up in an aviation family, and seeing Bronx kind of reminded me of myself when I was that age. That's Andrew, a real United pilot.

26:43These small interactions can shape a kid's future. It felt like I was the captain. Allowing my son to see the flight deck will stick with us forever. That's how good leads the way. My own card, but either way, what unfortunately is very, very, very, very unfortunately more common than I'd like it to be. Someone in the family. Going on the road of applying for things using a social security card of a kid, a relative. Again, not saying that. I'm just bringing up potential things that may have happened. I don't know. Can you ask her? Is she the only one that would know your social deal besides you?

27:24What about the ex? Okay, so we did cut something from the episode. We won't talk about it, but we may have found a potential person that has access to your socials that you're not in contact with. Yeah. Could have happened. I know communication with that individual is difficult I would try our best to at least try to hunt it down and then offset energy you at least accept responsibility for this one yeah that was when I was 19 and I moved on my first apartment and I moved down I just decided to not pay it so yeah that was me being young and stupid so yeah that's young dumb full of complete stupidity young dumb and broke versus vs a little oh oh yeah that was um that was victoria's secret card that was that was me yeah kill me now yeah yeah that one went bad because i was paying on it because i've had that i had that card for like six years and it went bad because over the summer when i was doing my training i wasn't working and i told that i would let that go so that was 100 me so i made a i made a payment to this one recently so my total balance day right now is 250 one 251 and interest is a career now it's a synchrony card did you finance something yeah it was care credit because that's how i always paid for my dog um but you said you paid cash no like i paid out of like that's what i meant okay that wasn't cash but like i didn't dude i know she's getting old she's had a lot of stomach issues and yeah i'm sorry i mean that sucks but please with me say what's this from this summer okay the other times yes i did pink cash this was from the summer i can show you the statement i didn't open this when was the statement when was the statement this statement was from the end of september okay so last month last month guess what amount Pass due$30.

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29:29This was less than a month ago. This was a few weeks ago. Yeah, September is the only month that I missed because it was done. All that matters is one. All that matters is one. Why did you possibly miss a payment? Because I was busy moving. That's not an excuse. No, we do automatic. If you're not someone who can be on top of it, we do automatic. We do automatic because if we're not able to be an adult, we need to let the program be an adult for us. so I have my automatic because I suck at organization stuff too. Oh yeah. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I know. I, I go a bit hard. Uh, it's just, I, I want to make sure that in the future when things are owed, you're not getting penalized for it because these companies are going to take advantage of you.

30:19Yeah. They're going to, they're, they wait, they want someone to be in your position where things get too busy. They don't have automatic payments on, and they just miss one thing, and they just hit them with a fee. Yeah, and I was also – A$40 fee is what you had. Yeah. Like you said, last month was the only month I didn't pay. I've been making$175 payments that week because – so the first amount that got put on it, it was over$200, so it's like six months interest-free. So that's why I'm really trying to make sure I paid off before December because I got it in June. The second one, though, it was under$200, so they said that that one doesn't have the interest-free option so that's where that interest is coming from and uh yeah last month like i said i was a lot of steel as you see in my spending but um yeah i was just and yeah i was in the process of moving everything from like my credit or yeah my credit union in denver to i got a sofi account so i was in the process of moving everything over there and updating my and i hadn't i didn't have the card yet when i got this and i didn't know that i could look through my samsung wallet and get the information so that's why i I missed that, but I didn't, as soon as I got my card, I made a payment of like$350.

31:28So I don't have$250 right now,$251. She did warn me before that she was going to cry, by the way. Yeah, everybody knows me. I was going to cry all the time. But do you want to take a brief moment? It's okay. I'm probably going to cry more late. Huh? No, it's fine. Okay. I'm usually, for some reason, I'm actually very much a crier myself, but for some reason, when I'm like in front of that camera like my brain doesn't allow me to. I'm usually a co-crier. If someone else cries I immediately get teary eyes. But something about right here I just can't. I don't know why. Okay. So is that all your debt?

32:05The collections, the rent, the car, the student loans, and the synchrony? Yes. Okay. And the collections was

32:18How long have they been on your account? By the way, what's the oldest one? Can I pull up my credit card? Or just a rough guess. The oldest one would probably be the Austin Energy. When I was like 19. 19 and you're 27 now. Actually I was 20. I was 19, 20, 20. So I should probably fall in off soon. What's your second oldest? I'm sorry? How old's your second oldest? I only have one. Second oldest. Oh, sorry. I started talking about kids. Sorry. No, you're good. Jesus.

32:52second oldest sorry so Austin Energy would probably be the oldest this I guess it would be in between these two because I'm not sure when this one how old ish maybe like a year or two okay so I'm going to assume the Banfield is going to fall off and I don't know about that thousand dollars I'm sorry I'm going to assume the Austin Energy is going to fall off $1 ,748 in collections that's likely what's going to be a thing no activity though Have you touched the Austin Energy at all? No. Made up? Okay. So this is your SoFi checking account? Yes. So, yeah. So you'll see in my credit union, I took out, like, cash because I moved most of it over here.

33:36And then I kept, like, in cash. I'm like, okay, this is the only money I'm spending for groceries or gas. Like, I kept it in cash so I wouldn't use my card. Are you just getting$6.88 a gas? Is that a thing? That's Safeway is a grocery store. what are you getting for 688 that screams taquitos to me no um it's more like i was like oh make spaghetti or something i realized i like forgot one two things and i do that like every second of your life yeah you stop in you stop in you stop in yeah you have 1416 in here so that's pretty okay uh that was my paycheck from my old school okay cool now in the standard checking account atm withdraw 80 bucks atm withdraw 100 bucks who knows about when we went to something birthday v birthday no so those um when you at this came out at this school oh so this is my saving my savings account um that i had your savings account this is not a saving i know that's why i did this um but so like versus like pink and v that's so when you set up like automatic like transfers you can put where you're putting the savings for so that's what that was the birthday and pink concert.

34:43We're not going to a pink concert. If we owe money on a credit card, if we have a death card, 18 % death insanity, we are not going to a pink concert. And I saw pink, actually. I saw pink live. Never thought, never had the desire to. It was just random at a music festival. She's great. I want you to see pink. Guess what? Not while you have an 18 % death, death, death interest rate. Because I want you to have a better life. I want your kid to have a better life. Pink doesn't need to have a better life. She already has a good life. I know. And the rent back out. I know there's confusion on them, but come on.

35:16Yeah, that's what that was. What's. P-A-I-I-S-O. 82 bucks, 99 cents. P-A-I space I-S-O. It's a lot of money to be spending in a situation and not know where it's going. It's probably just like a cash withdrawal because there is a banker right now. So it's probably what that was. Lice cleanse. My daughter had got lice. Yeah, I assumed. That sucks. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Yeah, she had got that right after she had COVID, which was not fun. Oh, no. Double. One, two, punch. Child help? What's this? So that is a, it's like a charity organization that helps. The holidays mean more travel, more shopping, more time online, and more personal info in more places that could expose you more to identity theft.

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36:50So if you want to support them, support yourself first, get to a financial stable place so you can then just completely fund them. Roblox premium. Yeah. Come on. No, that was my daughter. No. Yeah, I know. So I fixed the Amazon thing, so that shouldn't happen again. I see someone's looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend within the San Marcos area. No, Austin. San Marcos doesn't have good options. Oh, well,$32.46 for that hinge premium. I canceled it. I have hinge premiums. No. Alamo Draft House. Alamo Sloans. Sloans. That's another Alamo Draft House location. Okay, well, stop. We're going to...

37:39We're paying off debt. King Soopers. That's the grocery store. Okay. Red Robin's not. Neither is McDonald's. Neither is Taco Bell. Neither is the liquor store. Neither is the Birthday Fund or the Pink Concert or Peora or Raising Cane's. Peoria was my dentist. That was my copay for my dentist. That's good. Take care of teeth. Good. McDonald's, that's not dentist. Probably not dentist approved either. Donuts, I think. Venue, not 50 bucks. Chick-fil-A. Central Park, Arkansas? Who knows? Maybe it's a store you're purchasing from there. Is that say ILIF? ATM withdraw. Does it say ILIF? Because I know one of them looks weird, and it's actually a gas station.

38:17If it says EILIF, that's the gas station. Okay, well, maybe. ATM withdraw,$45. Kid to kid. Yeah. What is it? It's a consignment store for kids' clothes, so I was getting some jobs. Jobtest.org? You had to take that to get your job? It was like a placement thingy, so they were just like skills, like see where my skills are and all that poo. McDonald's, Burger King, liquor store, Lava Island, Lava Island, Google Purchasing or something. That's my Google One account for my, yeah. For what? Well, I'm a teacher, so I make a lot of stuff. Why isn't the school? I work at a private school, okay? So it's even more.

39:01It's even more, I know. I don't have a union or anything that protects me. You know what a teacher that doesn't make a lot of money and owes back rent and owes a bunch of collections and shouldn't be doing? Everything I'm doing. Door-dashing Starbucks. Door-dashing Starbucks. Two things that you should not be doing combined into one. Chick-fil-A, Papa Murphy's, the birthday fund, Pink Concert Fund again. Papa Murphy's. It's an ice cream and Hulu and a white glove car. You get in your car like detailed for$105? Nuh-uh. We go to a place with a little vacuum. Expedia, Sonic, Chick-fil-A. So the Expedia got refunded.

39:41That's good. Chick-fil-A, Chick-fil-A, Jersey Mike's. I think you said that was a grocery store, the king thing. So Amazon. Okay. So in your savings, we ended with$900. you've had overdrafts year to date, 60 bucks overdrafts. You can't be overdraft in my dude. Yeah. We got a kid. I don't know. You're. I don't know. Breakdown. Yeah. Transportation costs a lot of your money. 15.5 % of your spending goes to that. That's a lot. 2.4 % to your phone. Going to the grocery store, 8.2%. But guess what? 8.8 % goes to eating out. So not great. Unknown shopping, typically Walmart or Amazon because you don't necessarily know what that is.

40:27The 4.3. Subscriptions, 2%. Miscellaneous. Let's see what we have. Miscellaneous. Usually it's taquitos. Miscellaneous. Well, the child health, that's okay. Liquor store and that Central Park thing. Liquor store, Lava Island. Getting a massage, I didn't even see that. Massage is good. Self-help, good for the mental. Let's get out of debt first. I bet that's better for your mental. Either way, that's 10 % of your spending. 10 % of your spending. That was a big mess up on my part because my boss had given me a gift card for a massage for me leaving. And she told me it was for a two-hour massage.

41:00And so that's what I had booked. But when I got there, apparently, it was only for like an hour and a half. So I had to pay the difference. So that's what happened there. Go in and get in your car details and the f***ing ATM withdrawals. 20 % of your income. Meaning, out of the money that could have been going towards debt, like 30, maybe 35 % of your spending. Could have gone towards debt, but went to bull**** and said that you're prioritizing. I hope that's a wake-up call. I hope this whole thing's a wake-up call. Because right now, not good, dude. This is not good. Let's see if he's responded.

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42:12Right now you're living alone? No, I live with my grandma. Okay, so do you have rent? I have$300. Wow. Yeah. Living the good life. Yep. One of the reasons I decided to come back. So$300. Okay. And does that include internet and utilities? Yeah, that's everything. So do you give extra? Wow, that's incredible. That's incredible. Okay, your debt. I'm going to include the student loans because they're about to start anyway, so we may as well budget for it.

42:45$706.06. What's your phone bill? $30. How much needs to go to medical on a monthly basis? Prescriptions, child stuff. I don't have to because my daughter has, she gets state benefits, so I don't have to pay anything. Will she still at your$45 ,000 a year? She gets state benefits now. I don't I don't know I just signed my new contract with my job So I don't really know what that looks like And a lot of times you have to be there a year before you can get any kind of like Benefits through my school Or through your schools At least in the private sector I don't know about public Subscriptions and stuff How much was that Google One that you have to pay for for school?

43:30That was like$2 Or$2 or$3 something like that Okay see then that wasn't Google One The thing I saw you purchased through like a Google Pay or something and it was like 80 bucks. I'm going to give you$10, or I'm going to give you$15 for a subscription, whether or not, whatever that goes to. I don't care. $80. $15? Oh, yeah,$80. It was an expensive purchase on there. So let that be your subscription to whatever, roadblocks, blah, blah, blah. Okay. Groceries for you and your kid. She's six. Mm-hmm.

44:02And we've done a grocery shopping trip and everything here showing that you can do a healthy, good, happy budget. $250 a person. So let's just assume she eats enough for someone twice her size. Let's do$500 for groceries. This is meal planning. This is prepping. This is being very strategic. This is going on the H-E-B website. Finding what you want. Do a pickup order so you're not picking up things in the aisle. And shop lowest price to highest. That's the good thing about being back in Texas is H-E-B. That's right. Missed H-E-B. toilet paper fun all the stuff 100 bucks makeup and whatever else you'll make up for your hinge dates and not working out very well me either so i get it and the she's in school right yeah she was my school she was school with me let's say school supplies extra stuff what do we want to do we want to do like 30 bucks a month um sometimes Sometimes it's going to be zero.

45:04Sometimes it's going to be much higher. So what should we budget to it on a monthly basis? Yeah, I mean, 30 would be fine. She wants to do an activity, you know, like sign up for tennis or something. You never know. Oh, okay. Anything else that you have to take care of on a minimum monthly basis? My car payment. Oh, your debt's already in there. Oh, I see. Okay. Go on insurance. How much? 150.

45:30Anything else? My pet. Yeah, how much should we budget towards that? Do you have pet insurance? No. Probably can't at their age. Huh? Probably can't at their age, with what you were describing before. Yeah, she's about to be nine. Yeah, she might not get approved. I'm not 100 % sure. Might be worth looking into. It saved me thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars. Animals are always stupid and getting hurt. Yeah, it's easily at least$100 because she's on a prescription diet now because she's old and is having a whole bunch of GI issues. What do you have? What is she? She's a Rottweiler mix Okay Probably very cute And I would probably give very many pets She thinks she's a cat Which is interesting Well she like walks on furniture Well she like will find the smallest space ever And try to sit there Oh really?

46:27Yeah She's just as stubborn You know what I just learned today that one of my dogs is deathly afraid of rain. We haven't had rain since I've adopted her. And when it rains, she goes pee and poop on the back porch so she doesn't have to go in the rain. That's what I've learned. Yeah, my dog will literally hold her bowels for like a day instead of going outside. But she's also terrified of thunder. So she has like a prescription trizodone, which is crazy. Yeah. Yeah. All right, well, good news. You should have an extra...

47:02$1 ,648 left in the month. What you need to survive on a minimum is$1 ,931. You already had$1 ,000 in savings. Stop touching savings. You do things through checking. Turn on automatic stuff. At least have $1 ,000 in your account. Checking account. This first month, as you're just adjusting and everything, I'm just going to give first month wrap that $1 ,000 you have in your savings up to$1 ,931. You have a one-month emergency fund if anything happens so you can take care of yourself and your kid. It's a one-month emergency fund. Stay with your grandma until we're done with this process. What we're going to do from here, synchrony, month number two.

47:40I mean, honestly, month number one it should be, but I'm just going to be generous. Month number two, kill it, gone, done. It doesn't make sense. What we're... I'm going to put in the rent thing. If the rent thing doesn't happen, don't worry about it. Okay. Like, if we find out you don't have to, then don't worry about it. We'll have to figure out something legally. But for month two, month number three, you're paying off the synchrony bank and you're putting some aside. Month number two, then month number three, you're combining it all and you're paying off the rent thing. Does that make sense?

48:12So month two and month three, I'm going to save the money to pay off the rent. Mm-hmm. And you're taking care of synchrony as well. Yes. Okay. Lovely. Now, after that, collections we're going to let sit for a bit. But student loans, I think we're going to minimum the payment until they're paid off. Maybe. You can attack them if you want to. But right now, I need you to start catching up on retirement. Yeah. How much do you have in retirement? Nothing. Exactly. Yeah. That's not just why I wanted to come. Because I know I need to do that. And then I have a kid. So I need to do that. So after 10 months, your car will be paid off.

48:47So that's 10 months after that. So that's 13 months in total. 13 months in total, you'll finally own your car. you'll have no synchrony card anymore you're going to cut it up you're going to use something like fizz you know if you want to take advantage of credit card stuff but i just was able to get fizz because for a long time they didn't let android users use it oh that's right yeah so that's a new and exciting so you can use that use like a debit card but have it actually impact your credit you're not a credit card person chop up the synchrony i would honestly close this so you never have temptation the car will be paid off the background will be paid off and honestly by then the collections should be paid to.

49:22We're going to say 14 months. 14 months you'll be debt free except for your low interest student loans, lower interest student loans. If you want to tax the student loans from there, you can. But from there for me, personally, I'm getting you to a$10 ,000 emergency fund, kind of starter emergency fund, which you need before you move out and then it'll go up with wherever your rent's going to be at that point. So 14 months, can you live with your grammar for 14 months? Oh, yeah. I should let me stay forever. Can you? Oh, can I, like, be around my grandma? Can you, an independent person, you know, out there on Hinge, out there with a kid, can you live with your grandma for 14 months?

50:05Yes. Okay. $10 ,000, you need to have$8 ,000 total, or you need to have$8 ,000 more to get there. Divide that by our newfound$2 ,500 a month we have extra. So an additional three months were good. So 14, 15, 16, 17. 17 months fully funded emergency fund, no more debt except for the student loans. You can take the student loans if you want to. That'll probably take an additional five more months if you want to do it. But that's up to you if you want to. But from there, what I really need you to do is immediately, unless again you're paying off the student loans, but after the student loans or after the fully funded emergency fund, 25%, let's start playing some catch-up, needs to go to retirement.

50:4225 % on a monthly basis. Could be maxing out whatever retirement fund they have at the private institution. It could be maxing out your Roth IRA every year, taking advantage of whatever workplace retirement plan there is. And if all those are maxed out as well, you can start throwing money into a brokerage. I doubt both of those will be maxed out at your income. So that's totally okay. So I'd max out your Roth IRA,$6 ,500 a year at this point, and then close out the rest in your work retirement fund. We can talk about that when you get there because, again, we're, what did I say? How many months away?

51:11Like a year and a half, 18 months, 17 months. There you go. But a year and a half is nothing. you're 27 so you'll be 29 let's say 29 still decades of your life if you live a good long life you're a third of the way through so I mean that's great and you're finally on the right track and even then you can do 50-30-20 well 50-25-25 50 % to needs max 25 % to wants 25 % to retirement and that wants you can give money away to the charities like you like to do which is awesome and if you ever want to increase your wants, just decrease your needs. Figure out the ways around that. But you do not decrease investing to increase your wants.

51:50We never do that. And if your needs increase, it takes away from your wants. It doesn't take away from your investing. Because I need you to be able to retire. We need to hear about the rent. We'll see. I'll let you know.

52:06But that's what I got. Do you have any final thoughts? Any final questions? I know you, and I'm still trying to figure out the whole health thing um is there we can probably like put a budget for like therapy yeah well how what's your insurance coverage i don't know i just signed my thing today so i'm saying i need to yeah so i mean when you know it might extend it a couple months which is totally fine so just in your budget figure out what your co-pays are you know uh budget in what it would cost for you to go weekly or bi-weekly whatever you prefer maybe start weekly eventually go to bi-weekly that's what i did i started weekly and then once i was getting to a better place i switch to bi-weekly i've done therapy for years so i just you know it works for you then so just put that in your budget and it might extend the process by a couple months but that's totally good okay so they're good anything else um no just gotta start doing it so yeah if y 'all think about coming on do it it's really scary but it's fun you gotta make yourself better so come get yelled at by caleb so you can be better for daphne and her hammer financial score when it comes to spending in a budget it certainly wasn't the worst but it's not even close to great for her overall financial situation so two out of ten there debt if you're in collections zero out of ten emergency fund she's one tenth of the way there so one out of ten retirement she has nothing yet zero out of ten real estate there's nothing yet zero out of ten so those weigh pretty heavily against her it's going to be a point five out of ten make sure to check out all the resources linked in the description below they are what i use or would use in specific situations.

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