The Most Ghetto Couple In Financial Audit History

24:34Now Morgan & Morgan is stepping up to hold these platforms accountable for the harm they caused. Click the link in my bio to take a short quiz. You may be entitled to a potential recovery of over$1 ,000. Well, in the beginning. The first few days of it. Yeah. That we were actually together before I found out. Okay, so you're snapping a woman. Yeah, yeah. So I was snapping this woman and she found out. and she found out just a few days before I was set to go back to North Carolina how'd she find out I went through his phone yeah she went through my phone and seen it on my Snapchat I didn't hide it he wasn't trying to hide this he wanted me to find it because he wanted to be done at the time I probably did because I thought she was crazy stop playing with that so she finds it and what happened right there that was the first time you put your hands on me That was the first time she put her hands on me at my grandmother's house.

25:27We lived. What did she do? Pushed me into a dresser. Pushed me into a window. You pushed me first, so I hit you in the face. Bullshit. I did not push her first. That is straight bullshit. I had your phone, and you were going. That is straight bullshit. So you pushed me, so I punched you in the face. No, no. Yes. No, I did not. I have never once put my hands on her first. And the only time. The only thing that's happened from her putting her hands on me is me slamming the door, the car door. And I accidentally hit her in the face. You pushed me at your mammy's house. After you stabbed me, by the way.

25:55But no, at my grandmother's house, no, I did not touch her first. That is a lie. No, I did not. Okay, so what did she do to you? So we broke up after she found out about that girl. I go back to North Carolina. But she hit you, you said. Yeah, yeah. She hit me in the face once, like kind of close-handed. Okay. So I go back to North Carolina, and we're broken up at this point. You guys have broken up and on like 50 times. Yeah. I can clearly tell. Crazy amount of times. Go on. During that time that we were broken up, she goes to a parking lot party. It's Kentucky, so there's nothing to do but rednecks with trucks in a parking lot.

26:39I guess that's fun. She thinks that's fun. I don't, that's bullshit. That's not fun. You can probably get easy dick there. I don't know. Well, yeah, that was the plan. So she texts this guy that she was friends with before our relationship. She texted him to pick her up. So she goes to this parking lot with a bunch of rings. You guys were broken up? Yes. We were. But at the time, we were not supposed to be. We were talking. Everything he's saying is we were broken up. We were broken up. Oh, but the shit that I do while we're broken up is a huge problem. But you were – whatever. Keep going. So were you.

27:12You were promising that we weren't talking to other people. Not at this point. Not this night. Well, anyways, she went and sucked some other guy's dick because she was mad. Was it good? I was good. What's that mean? It means she f***ing swallowed that shit quick. Did you? Did you swallow it? Yeah. She's not a quitter. Well, this guy's a little bitch, and if I see him, I'll slap the f*** out of him. Mark will take a turn after the show.

27:46So she sucks this guy's dick and then she goes and sleeps in the same bed with him. So this, at this time, this was about a week, right around a week after we'd broken up and we were for sure. You were broken up so I really don't care. Okay, but we were talking and saying that we weren't talking to other people, right? And she goes and sleeps with this guy that she used to buy weed from. Sleeps at his house and gets drunk and swears to this day that they didn't have sex and all this. It didn't even matter. You already sucked the dude off that day. So it's like, does it even matter? Does it? Okay.

28:15Well, she's just lying about not having sex with this guy. I didn't have sex with him. Your acne scars are crazy. It's pregnancy. You had that before pregnancy, but... No, I didn't. You had acne before pregnancy. Not scars like this. Well, she's a... To sum it up, she's just a liar. She definitely slept with this dude. Okay. I didn't. She slept in his bed and drunk. I don't even know, like five, six. All probably well with him, right? No, I've actually never had sex with someone else while we've been together. Well, you were broken up at that point anyway. Okay, yeah. Yeah, but I've never had sex with him.

28:54Okay, but why'd you go AWOL? I was asking this AWOL thing. Okay, so I get to North Carolina. You know, we had broken up, so there's a ton of stress in our relationship. Because he cheated, and he was begging for me back, even though I was outside. You created all the trust issues before I cheated. Then why'd you stay with me? If I cheated first, why'd you get back together with me? Well, maybe there was a point of you finding something on my phone, and you're the one that went insane that night and wouldn't let me leave you and all this. But then you broke up with me after you went insane and tried to run away through a field.

29:27What does A won't even mean, though? What do you mean? You ran from the base? Absence without leave, yes. Okay, so you just left the base, told no one. Yes, exactly. Okay, and you were in Kentucky. Yes, I flew back to Kentucky. And your base was in North Carolina. Right, correct. Okay, that's all of it. It was, my goodness, it was 10 minutes. Well, so. What the f*** is wrong with you? You know, I went AWOL for five months. Yeah, were they looking for you? Yep. Yeah, they were, I mean, not actively looking, you know, there wasn't people out there searching for me. They knew where I was at, and if they wanted me that bad, they could have came and got me.

29:55Okay. What's the consequence for this? It varies. I mean, my consequence was just a general discharge. It wasn't dishonorable. So they found you and they discharged you? That's down the road, but after I went to jail. Why don't you just tell me, because this guy sucks. He's a retard. Okay. He ran away from the Marines probably like three times in total. For why? What reasons? To come home to me. You're pathetic. This whore? I know. Cheats on me, but comes home to me and cries on me. You cheated on that black guy is crazy. It was way worse, Caleb. It was a lot worse. I'm sure it was. It was like a week ago now.

30:26This is crazy. Yes. Anyway, he runs away, comes home to me. The very last time he thinks he can get away with the shit, he's at Valvoline working, oil change place, whatever. He gets off of work. The cops are waiting for him as he's getting off work. They follow him all the way to his mammy's house, pull him over right in the beginning of the neighborhood. They're like, okay, FBI warrant, discharge, you're coming with us. You don't have a choice. Take him to jail. Mug shot. That's that. That's that story. Yeah, I mean, I went AWOL a couple times. They caught me on the second time with the federal warrant, and I went to jail.

30:59They extradited me. Better not be on disability. All while I'm pregnant, by the way. Oh, she was pregnant. That's wonderful. me. Why'd you impregnate her? An accident. Yeah, I want to know. Were you on birth control? No. Were you having sex with a condom? No. Were you coming inside of her? Yes. Yeah. That's not an accident. Okay, well, we didn't. That's not an accident. We didn't mean to have a baby, obviously, but we're here. You were coming inside of her with no birth control or condoms. That's kind of how the shit works. Like, what the f*** is wrong with you? But she blames it on me. She's saying, well, I was nutting inside of you, but she was spreading her legs.

31:33Is that not? You could have told me you didn't want the kid, and I could have It was on both of you. You were probably like, come in me. And you were probably like, I'm coming in you. She was. Exactly. You did it. It was on both of you, guys. It's not just me. It's not just my responsibility. Huh? She definitely has some responsibility in the past. You both do. You were f***ing sensually. Right. Yes. I would say so. Okay. Okay. Jeez. She's the one that set the tone for the relationship. bitch you stayed she fucked somebody days before we got together never told me about it we were talking for weeks I'm sorry but days before you got together it's not cheating you're right it's not you're gonna go fuck somebody else because I fucked someone before we even dated but he gets mad at me for talking about the big old nasty fat bitch that he fucked before we dated we weren't talking we weren't talking stop it We weren't talking.

32:35Hypocrite. But we were talking. We were talking. We were talking. Besides the weird earring situation, you are not an unattractive person. Yay boy earrings. What are you doing? You are a bit of a f*** mark. Like, come on. Why are you f***ing fat bitches? I was drunk. I was f***ing drunk. It was the one time. One time. The one time. I was drunk. It was one of those regret ones, you know. I'd rather you get stabbed, man. This makes no sense. I wouldn't. This s*** hurts. I would not rather get stabbed. So is the fat bitch on you. So is the fat bitch clapping back on them balls. It didn't really hurt.

33:07I don't know how he found the pussy with how many rolls that bitch had. Okay, you're getting, you're close to obesity. You're not there yet, but you're close. I'm like 145. Mark the Springer machine!

33:23Give me your phone while you do this. Open it. Okay. How much do you want to bet she's talking to other guys right now in your moment of immediately breaking up? Springer machine, go ahead. What does this mean? I doubt she is talking to other guys right now. Lots of people on Snapchat. Mostly women, though. Whoa, you have no ass. That's incredible. I've never seen anything like that in my life. Did she used to? She has more than... No, that's crazy. She did. It's five under, though, so add five to it. Add five to it. Hold still. She keeps having an ass and getting rid of it while she's up there, and it's going crazy.

34:02Okay, she's snapping like 50 ,000 women. Oh, yeah. I mean, because I think. But that's okay. Yeah, she does snap a lot of women. I mean, she spends all her time on her phone. What is it? 152.8. So it's 157.8. No, it's five under. The scale is five under. Okay. What did you say you were? I thought I was like 145. See, you don't know shit. You're getting fat. Oh, my gosh. Okay, let's get away from all these like streaks. Okay, why are you serious? You're snapping this many people. I've never seen this in my life. I would like to know that. Why do you snap so many people? They're all women. Except for Caleb.

34:40Black Caleb. He's gay, which probably has a crush on him. Are you gay? No. Are you bi? No. What are you saying? That's just one of her insults. He just looks gay. He looks gay. And a lot of men cheat on their wives with men. Do they? I think what it is is she might be insecure because she might be gay. You knew I was gay before I met you. You're gay? Bisexual? Oh. What woman isn't gay? Honestly, it feels like it. There is a Josh from five days ago. Gay Josh. They're all gay, huh? Literally, I'm not allowed to talk to a man that isn't gay. Well, yeah, I mean, that makes sense. You guys have cheated on each other, right?

35:23And I'm seeing if, you know, there's guys. That's my little cousin. Well, Kentucky. No. That's not even a joke. No, that's disgusting. You snap an insane amount of people. How do you know all these people? Do you? Most of them, yeah. Where's even him? Probably not pinned. No, she don't talk to me. And plus half the girls on there, he's probably. What do you guys. Is that true? Yes. No. Yes, it is. Half the. Wait, what'd you say? Half the people on my Snapchat, you've probably. Who? There's thousands. Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. Okay. So, what do you guys want from me? Because that was a shit ton of yapping of, like, insanity.

36:13Like, I don't know where we stand, guys. What's happening? I need to know if there's any chance that we can fix our relationship or if she's just completely off her rocker. What the fuck? She literally just stabbed you. And also, no, your mom didn't call the cops on you one time. It's been seven times. did. Every time she loses her shit, the mom calls. I think there's been seven times in total, but she only called once, I think. Maybe twice. Maybe twice. The rest has been somebody else or me. Or him. How many times have you had to call the cops on her and you want me to fix the relationship? Four to five times.

36:48See, what are we doing? Why would you want to be with someone that stabbed you on Saturday? That you have domestically abused and she's domestically abused you and you've cheated on each other. Why would you want that? I mean we Seriously We have a family I mean it's hard When you have a baby With somebody I feel like we still Love each other It's just There's just a Ton of issues I mean there's a lot of issues The big issue is You blame all the issues On me No I don't Even though you're The problem I am not the problem You're not the problem You're crazy I'm not the problem But you're gonna be With someone who stabbed you And made you get stitches Do you wanna be with him?

37:21If he can Change If he can get What do you want him To do to change? Okay I found you guys Neatriss, medicine, I don't know, anything. What's wrong with him, I'm asking? What is right with him? What's wrong with him? No, no, no. I need specifics. This is bullshit. Don't fuck with me. You're never there. You don't care. You beat him and you've stabbed him. You've cheated on him. I have to. What the fuck? You have to? There's no other way he'll listen. You have to stab him. I mean, no, but there's no other way he'll listen to me. There's no other way he'll change. I don't feel like there's much about myself that I need to change.

37:56the biggest things that I've done in this relationship are the infidelity and and when was that when did you do that a couple months after our baby was born and before okay that's insane what happened that's insane buddy he cheated on me while I was pregnant too he texted two of my best friends while he was in her best friends that we weren't even together we weren't together so how is that cheating she says cheating okay her best friends while she's pregnant it's kind of crazy it's every time we're not together And we were in North Carolina, and we were arguing back and forth, on and off. And she, I don't even remember what it was.

38:30She had done something to piss me off, and I wanted to piss her off. So you went to her best friends? I mean, I just texted them. And them bitches were ugly, too. You're calling your best friends ugly? Well, I'm not f***ing best friends with the bitches anymore. So what did he do? Tell me. He was just f***ing drunk flirt texting with them. And they were all making fun of him, calling him disgusting. I don't even, what were you texting them? Were you trying to f*** them? I mean, at the time, I was probably trying to get some pictures. At the time, I was probably trying to get some pictures or something.

38:57I don't know, but it was to make you mad, probably. I don't. Yeah, because I was in North Carolina, and we were off and on. We were off at that time. Okay, so while you were pregnant, what did he do? He f***ed someone? I wasn't getting any attention from her. I wasn't getting anything from her because our relationship... Why the f*** would I give you f***ing anything? I don't know, because I pay your f***ing bills. I take care of you, regardless of what the f*** you say. You impregnated me and thought I had what? Well, after we struggle for months, I think you should get a job, but you never do.

39:26Well, if the mom can watch the kid. She works. We have plenty. There's definitely ways that we could figure out for someone to watch the baby. I got a job and he took all my money. Bullshit. You barely got paid anything. Anything you got paid went to bills. Because you were trying to bring our kid around a crackhead. No, I was not. No, the fuck I was not. Is that who you're trying to fuck? Yes, probably. My friend moved in with us. Her boyfriend moved in with his ratchet ass girlfriend and he wants to f*** them both. She's literally. I don't know what's real or what's not. No, that's just bullshit.

39:58I don't know. Guys, you confuse me so much. So my best friend moved in because I need help with the bills because she won't work. She can't hold a job down. Who's going to take care of our kid? Babysitters. With what money? My mom. That works every single day? 12 hour shifts every day? Who can't stay awake? Who crashed her own f***ing car? You had two jobs that worked around my schedule.

40:48Availability varies 18 plus. I quit because I found out you cheated on me. And then the second one I quit because you were trying to bring around my kids. Okay, so he's talked to people. What's the worst she's done? Talk to people. Well, you suck the dude's dick. Yeah. We weren't together. Okay. So you guys have never f***ed anyone while you were together? No, no. I don't think, I mean, I think she's lying about the dude she slept in the bed with. It doesn't matter. I mean, I don't know. Listen, guys, this is a mess. And you want me to see if I can keep you guys together? Nobody wants us together.

41:17his mother literally tried to f***ing beat my ass. Do you want to be with him? If he'll f***ing grow up and man up the balls. That doesn't make sense to me. That part confuses me. I understand the things he's calling you out about. Make enough money to not have another man live in our house that took our daughter's bedroom? The only reason I have to f***ing do that is because you won't get a job. Who would watch the kid? Her excuse is, get a better job, get a better job. Who would watch the kid? My mom. That works every f***ing day. We could put her in assisted daycare. There's a really good daycare near us.

41:46It's a religious daycare. You're trashier than them. It's a religious daycare. It's a nice daycare. My little sister has went there. It's a great daycare. See, it's fine. Yeah, what do we do? Demon. No, she's just a little kid. Your kid will be. Look at the house the kid's growing up in. That's why we're trying to figure out if we need to just split up and do what's best for the baby or if we can fix our relationship. I'm supposed to determine that. How often are hands being put on each other? Every other week.

42:17And what is typically the reason? Alcohol. I understand you get drunk, but what is triggering it? The cheating and, yeah. But he's not cheating. So all the built-up resentment and anger comes out. Guys, if you never move beyond the mistakes that were made in this relationship, you'll always fight about the past. I can. We do. I can move past it. You're the one beating him. He won't move past it either. He puts it up in my face, and then I'm supposed to deal with it. So she gets drunk, and you put that she cheated. She gets drunk, and we just— I mean, so what usually happens is we'll get into a tiny argument.

42:48He has trust issues. We go somewhere. He's, you want to f*** him? You want to f*** him? You want to f*** him? You're a f***ing little insecure bitch. No, we go to a f*** party and she wants to do nothing but run around and shake her ass. There's nothing to shake. Literally, that is the flattest ass I've ever seen. Exactly. So why are you so f***ing obsessed? Our whole relationship, she bases her whole existence off of whether other people on social media approve of her or not. I mean, she needs approval. She has to. No one is right now. I promise you. Social media hates my guts. So what the, what do you mean?

43:20Including millions. It's just, you blame me for the times that I've talked to other people for attention, but you do the same thing. Have we ever considered just not drinking on the weekend? Is this an option? I mean, we need to not drink, yeah. Just stop buying. If he stops buying, are you saying you will not drink? We live in Kentucky. What else are we going to do? What are we going to do? That's the same thing for literally everywhere you are. you make up what you do everyone can say that about every town every city everything ever have you been to Kentucky? I've driven through what did you see?

43:54beautiful hills what the f*** are we gonna do with the hills? what would you do in Austin today? you guys would just wait I rode a scooter around the city what did you guys argue about this morning? what even was it? see it's pointless shit that we can't even remember It was the fact that he got mad because he went through my recently deleted messages and found dudes that I was talking to. And he shut down and got mad. Well, that's fair! But he wouldn't talk to me about it. Show me your recently deleted. Oh, I'm excited for this. Show me your recently deleted. Go ahead. He already deletes everything out of his recently deleted.

44:28I didn't even, whenever we were broken up this past week, I haven't texted anybody. Is that all of them? Yeah. Oh, f***. Now, see, this is what I was trying to f***ing see. What'd you delete with him? No idea. What did you delete with me? I have no idea. How do I get in there? I think just recover them all and go through all the messages. Okay. Okay. Okay. Including his mom because that seems to be a big thing here. Okay, and then I'll get back to them, I guess. Bring up his. What have you done? I have nothing to worry about. You recently deleted somebody. No, he has nothing to worry about because he deletes everything.

45:12I didn't text anybody. There's nothing to delete. Exactly. It was all on Snapchat. Okay. Here. Here's another place where we can find things. Oh, you'll find a bunch of shit in there, especially the videos of her going insane. What? Oh, anytime she loses her shit, I take videos. I make sure I record videos. Oh, I don't know where I'm going. Which ones were deleted recently? There's nothing in my recently deleted. Okay. Oh, things are usually in this as well. Open that. I know we might see some other things. There's definitely a... Stop. It doesn't bother me, but it's up to you guys. I mean, it's just pictures and videos of us.

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47:37Oh, I know, I know. But see, what I don't get. I mean, I do get it. You know, it just sucks that she stabbed me in the f***ing knee. Why was you with your ex? He got me pregnant, she's saying. And I'm a walking chick book. I mean, that's to pay your bills. Oh, yeah. She don't want to walk. You're a walking chick book. Or she don't want to work. That's one of the big reasons. Oh, she's sending like titty pics. It was a contact photo. Come on. Oh, I didn't know about that. What did you send? You can literally see it. Titty pics? What are we talking about? No, it was like this. Like it was clothed, but it was like with Cleveland.

48:09It was a picture that I took in our fucking kitchen. We stabbed him in the leg so he can't really work. Oh my gosh. Oh yeah, I got put off of work for a whole week. Or I mean, we're on a show about bad finances. And who are you talking to here? Just random people. Who is this? Random people. But this is definitely dating. How old are you again? 22. Are you religious? This is dating apps on. Yeah, it's Facebook dating. Facebook dating. So you are talking to guys? Yeah. That's cheating. We aren't together, are we? Not at the point of talking to him. So did you talk to any of these guys before? Yes, this guy.

48:41This was all whenever I got out of jail. Okay, let's see. When did you get out of jail? Saturday. Yeah, Saturday morning. Yeah, she immediately started texting. She went on Facebook dating the next day. Yes. What have you done with anyone? Nothing. This last week. Nothing texted. What have you wanted to do? Nothing. Don't lie. Really? I haven't wanted to do anything. I'm sorry. If I break up with a relationship, I go for a rebound. Maybe on the weekend, but I had my child the whole entire time, so I could never plan to do nothing. That's why she was so adamant. She was adamant about asking me if my mom was going to take the baby this weekend.

49:15So she was definitely planning something with somebody. Because you sit there and ask me over and over, is she going to take her this weekend? Is she going to take her this weekend? So what was your plans? I'm being told he downloaded Tinder immediately, though, too, right? Ah, here's her recently deleted. What's going on? There are things in here. There's a lot of things in here. What are you deleting all these photos for? Just so Jay wouldn't see them and go crazy. So what's in there? Yeah, what is in here? Just try. Just be honest. Anything and everything. Come on. Text with other people, text with your family, pictures of other people.

49:51Pictures of other people, like what? Like profiles, pictures of them. I don't have nudes for anybody in there. No one's, I'm not after nudes. Things being hidden, there's usually more interesting things. Also, we've all been in a locker room and we've all seen, who really gives a, you know how many dicks and tits I've seen on the show now? Yeah. I was like, who cares? What is this? Now here we go. What is it? She's texting a random person. and you murdered your own fetus and want to talk shit about someone getting pregnant? Fucking easy slut. None of your friends or family love you. Who are you texting?

50:27Shit, your own father. Old girlfriends. She got an abortion of his kid? Not his kid. No, no. I've never gotten anybody else pregnant. I've never. Oh, you bitch. You had sex with a tampon, Ann. You're sick. And she says, this person said, if you touch me, I'll file charges and your kid will be taken from you. Who is this? She loves to beef with people. Oh, another one of those? My goodness, dude. Dude, you guys are crazy. Crazy. Oh, yeah, yeah. I don't know who your boyfriend is who told you to hit me because he didn't. He slammed my face into the door and asked him. What the f***? You're texting so many women about him.

51:01That's his own family. What the f*** is happening? Let's not forget. Hold up the videos that were going crazy. Oh. And yes, I am going to see stuff, but I don't trust what you should have in there. That's the same thing he has in his hidden. Yeah? Yeah. Let's see what else. Put it on camera

51:27Okay, nothing else yeah, okay, you also have no but Let me see the videos now these we will put on screen. Yeah, so okay. No, just let me watch

51:49This is right after being stabbed. If I do, will you get in the car?

52:00Come look. Please get in the car. Leave me alone!

52:11Please get in the car. You don't give a fuck. You just let me walk home from the fucking hospital. after stabbing me.

52:24Can you please get in the car? Can you please get in the car? Can you tell him to leave me alone? Who is she talking to? Random people. On the street. Leave me alone! Get in the car. Leave me alone! What are you guys doing? I just wanted him to leave me alone. Why didn't you walk away? He would have followed me in the car. She did walk away and I did because she's walking around the town just wasted walking out into traffic I would have called my dad Walking out into traffic just being belligerent and I was actually trying to stop her from being arrested Do it now? You wanna f***ing hold up? Have you f***ing begged me to f***ing Have you f***ing begged me?

53:05She's tearing apart your car Yeah she destroys stuff

53:32I didn't even call the cops that morning by the way somebody else did

53:45What the f -

53:54The video is like stuttering

54:00Can I have something bitch? Oh f - You still going? Stop! Die I don't care I was literally just trying to stop her from going to jail because I knew she would go to jail for public intoxication.

54:21Please get in the car.

54:26You like saying slurs. Very homophobic, even though he looks it. He is gay. What did I even do? I was She's It's like she goes into a fucking trance And she's like fucking demonic She's like possessed You are going Like a whole other person Like it's insane And then the next day she'll I'm so sorry for acting like that What's that in the N word? Wait are you black? I can't Oh Yeah I guess you can say it Okay There's plenty more videos I mean there's Show me Show me the most egregious And then we'll move on We really do have to get into finances. This was while I was... So I had just been stabbed and I was sitting on the floor or...

55:12I was drunk, so it's hard to remember it was before or after, but it's around that time. No, I think that was before.

55:23I think this was right after I got stabbed. I was sitting on the ground. Okay. Can we announce something? You must give the best head that has ever existed. I'm sorry, the most insane top tier. Yeah, she gave me some last night. It was pretty good. Okay. Now, after that, get rid of her. One more time and then done. I can't. I can't. I've tried. I can't. I can't. I simply can't. It's like - You might need to move, dude. Okay. Okay.

56:02I'm not going to do that. I'm not going to die. So I'm not fucking a fault.

56:10What's that sound? He's crying I mean, yeah, my leg was killing me. I'm sitting there on the floor stabbed. I mean, yeah, I was crying. Yeah.

56:25We literally didn't know who stabbed him. He kept saying he stabbed him and then he said I stabbed him. Because I said that because I was scared of you to go to jail. Yeah. There's the, okay, trigger warning. Three, two, blood. One, boom, boom, boom. Put them all on screen. All those photos. Yeah, that's crazy.

56:51mocking me mocking i think i need you to understand right now this is literal actual domestic abuse that you're in you this is not something to joke around with this is not funny she's laughing about it she doesn't care i mean no shut up you need to leave because your kid will get hurt at some point. It always translates. What about the holes he's punched in the walls and all the screaming he's done at me with our kid here? At least it's not your body. There are degrees. It's not good. I have punched holes in the wall. Yeah, I'm not defending that either, but this is clearly Right by me and our kid's head.

57:26It's a wall. Okay, that's insane. It's me and our child here and it's our head. When did I punch a wall while y 'all were right there next to us? I have the pictures of the wall. What is that nighttime because you were mad because she wouldn't go to sleep? That is no the f***. I did not punch a hole in the wall because I was mad she wouldn't go to sleep. That is a straight f***ing lie. There's times when she wakes at night and you get pissed the f*** off because she has to go in the bed. With these videos and s***, I don't trust you. Maybe he did, but if it wasn't your insanity, if it wasn't for all this, I would maybe trust you, but I can't.

57:57Let's see. Then we'll get into the finances because f***ing. What's happening here? There's a medicine that I take My medicine Medicine that I'm supposed to take For you know for depression But you weren't prescribed it? No And he takes it every day No So I don't know The nights of blur Is one of those hidden videos? Yeah I think I stuck my phone in my pocket No she's hiccuping Because she's so wasted All right, show me the next most egregious thing. And then, because that was a long video. I don't want to sort through it.

58:43And you find all of this funny. Just because he is the one up on me, because he gets the chance to take videos and pictures of everything. He's just lucky I don't get to. What do I do that you need to take? I don't destroy the house. I don't put my hands on you. You've literally tried to run me over. When did I try to run you over? Whenever I was standing behind the car and you just go in reverse. When was that? Whenever we were about to go get our kid. When was that? Like two, three weeks ago. Were you trying to stop me from leaving for some reason? We were both going to get the kid. And you were behind the car?

59:18I was outside of the car trying to ask to get in the car when you were just standing there locking it, unlocking it, standing there locking it. You have the video. Yeah, fine. I don't know what you're talking about, so. Okay.

59:57I didn't try to run her over. I mean, there's been times when I wouldn't let her in the car and I'm trying to drive off and she's literally hanging off the side of the car. I only have one windshield wiper that works because she was hanging off of it. Where's the egregious video? What are you doing? I'm trying to find the video. Is it in a hidden? Is it in a folder? No, no, no, no, no. They're just all in your camera. Yeah. Okay, okay, fine. You guys destroy each other. I get it. Man, I don't know what to do. To try to see if we can get you back together, is the question you're answering? No, you shouldn't be together.

1:00:28You shouldn't. Neither of you should be. I mean, we have a family, so. It doesn't matter. This is a destroyed family. The family's already destroyed and fucked up. This is come, like, you don't think this is, we're able to come back from this? Do you guys not see what your relationship is? There's domestic abuse every other week at a minimum, you said, on average. No. Have you guys seen those videos? She has stabbed you. This isn't even just slapping you. She has literally stabbed you. You guys are cheating on each other. She, you guys, the moment you broke up, you went on Tinder to start f***ing bitches, and she went on Facebook Marketplace to start sucking dick.

1:01:05Okay? Which, I mean, like, just see where you guys are. We, you will never, this will never be a healthy relationship. I've tried to make it work. And you have, and guess what? It has failed. You guys are done.

1:01:21Okay. I think the, I mean, she would have been gone a long time ago if it wasn't for her using me for bills and stuff because she don't like to work. She don't like to work. Right? I would have been gone a long time ago if you would have just said get an abortion and not had the kid. Well, abortion is illegal in our state and. Okay. Well, that doesn't. Like you can't travel. Or get a pill. You're right. Yeah, I could have said get an abortion, I guess, and we could have been done, but I didn't. And we're here now. I knew what our relationship was going to be in the beginning of it, so why? I'm not the only one delusional thinking a wedding or a marriage could have fixed it because you thought a kid could have.

1:01:58In the beginning, I mean, it was the first couple weeks of our relationship. We were still in high school and we were going to go to prom together, and she was sending videos of showing off her ass to some sugar daddy. What ass? Some sugar daddy to pay for her dress. And, I mean, I was in boot camp. Old was she? How old was you at the time? 17. 17, this guy. Oh, is he? I have no clue about this guy. I don't know. I know nothing. Between 25 and 30. Not great. Guys, what do you think your individual financial scores are? Because I'm honestly, no, you should not be together, and I'm going to separate this.

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1:03:47There's something wrong with us. Clearly. You're attracted to each other, but that's it. That's it. I don't know. There are other people out there you will be attracted to. I think all the shit that we've done each other and been through together, I think we're somehow... Okay, you guys are 20 and 19. Like, emotionally. There's so much life. You don't even... Just shut up. Guys, neither of you can legally even drink yet. But the thing is, we're going to go back home and be together. we're gonna be together don't be you have choices go live with your mom kick her out she's done she's a domestic abuser use that video get full custody move on with your life find a woman who loves you that you can make more kids with she is a great mom she really what have you guys seen the last hour and three minutes of this conversation well so we definitely have issues she is a great mom we definitely have issues I can defend that we definitely have issues but she is a great mom guys you have more issues than anyone on the show she loves her baby she loves our baby more than anything else and she is a great mom not enough to not get every single weekend i did i f***ed up when i snapchatted another girl while she was postpartum but i mean yes she she i just i can't do the the physical stuff that's i think it would our relationship would be better easier to manage if it wasn't physical the the physical shit easier and better to manage if we didn't drink.

1:05:10Then don't drink. He wants to drink. He buys it there. He buys it. And even if he wants to drink, you don't have to drink. It's usually her that wants to drink too. You don't have to, even if there's alcohol there. Yeah. Okay. But why not? Because it results in this. Yeah. Well, if he wasn't there, it wouldn't. Does she ever lose her mind when she's not drunk? Yeah. If we argue, yeah. There we go. So it's not just the drinking. You're just an insane, crazy bitch. The drinking definitely amplifies it. What does she do around the house when she loses her mind? Besides hit you. I mean, she's destroyed a TV.

1:05:46She's destroyed blinds. She's destroyed my car. I saw her ripping her apart. That was on video. It's in this video. I saw, I mean, she'll wreck stuff, you know, just throw stuff, sling stuff off. It's just destructive. Like, it's, I don't know. Okay, you owe money to your grandma. What are we doing, guys? Why? Because. It doesn't work. Well, how, when, where, what car? She had a car. She totaled it. Drunk? Yes. Yes. So. You're disgusting. We still owe her grandparents$1 ,500 for that car that I was paying for for her. So$1 ,500 for the car. Why do you owe your grandma that? Because it was her car.

1:06:31You totaled your grandma's car. She came driving. She can't drive anymore. She's 100 years old. Is she 100? My great-grandma. It was my great-grandma's car. You took from a 100-year-old and— No, she gave it to me. Did she know she gave it? She's very here, yes. You won't make it. Not even close to half that. Huh? I can't make anything. No, you won't make it to 100 is what I'm saying. Oh, God, no, I know. God, no. That's not a good thing. That's why you're a bad parent. Okay. I don't want to live to 100. What? Why would I want to live to 100? Maybe their kid wants, maybe your kid wants their mom to.

1:07:11I mean. Is this even a girl or a boy? I don't even know. It's a girl. Her name's. Refer to it as like the fetus or the child or an abortion. Our baby, our baby. We refer to it as our baby most of the time, but it's a girl. She's a girl. Okay, so 1 ,500 you owe to your great grandma? Mm-hmm. When? When did you total this car? Before we get too deep.

1:07:38So why do you owe$1 ,500? Because we didn't pay it.

1:07:49No, no, no. I don't understand. Is that what she owed on the car? No, no, no. So what happened? We agreed to buy the car from her for$1 ,500. For like a deal for$1 ,500. If I would have like went and bought that car anywhere else, it would have been like, what,$10 ,000? Good. So what's the agreement now? Are you on a monthly payment with the grandma? No, we just... Does the grandma know you were drunk? No. No. Maybe she should. Well, she's probably going to. She'd probably croak over. Does she even know that it got totaled? No. You told me not to tell them. So who do we owe the$1 ,500 to? My great-grandma.

1:08:29No, but she knows it was totaled. The great-grandma. No. Not your grandma? Nobody knows. He told me not to tell my family that he sold it. Wait, how do you— I told him— How do we know you owe$15 ,000, then? Because— Is that just an— No, no, we owe her$1 ,500 for the car. She gave us the car. Oh, with the agreement for$15 ,000? Yeah. Yes. Okay, is there an agreed-upon minimum monthly payment? No, we haven't paid her. What was it? It was like$250. $100,$200. I'm putting that in the budget. That's what it should be. You should be paying that,$250. Okay, for the baby$400, Why'd you have to borrow$400 from Nana?

1:09:03Well, after I got out of jail. Which time? This Saturday. Hey, what was the first jail? Domestic violence and public intoxication. What did she do? That was when she... Punched him three times in the face. Yeah. What did you do? We got into an argument. What did that argument start about? What did that argument start about? Something f***ing stupid. Who knows? Oh, the fact that you got whatever. Someone I messed with was at Seven Brew. We were going to go to Seven Brew, and somebody that I messed with before was there. So I was like, oh, I don't want to go anymore. It's not his fault. No, but he made it a big deal.

1:09:40I didn't. No, what'd you do? How the f*** did I make it a big deal? I was like, are you sure you want to go? And you were like, no. And then after you got all mad and quiet and distant like you always do. So then I asked, what's wrong? Nothing's wrong. And you make it a big deal. You're looking at me like I'm. So why'd you. Boom, boom, boom, triple. Because later, okay, we separated that day because when we fight, we separate because we know it'll turn into shit. I just launched the brand new Hammer Elite app available on every major platform. So you can watch every show anywhere you want. You'll get three exclusive dedicated shows every single day, Monday through Saturday.

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1:10:42Bad idea. Two fifths of Fireball that night. Two whole fifths of Fireball she drank that night. I'm assuming that's a lot. I'm not a drinker. I don't know. Yes, it's a f***er. I know. Fireball's nasty. Yeah, it's disgusting, and she drank a f*** ton of it. and got drunk and went to a concert with her cousin with no clothes on. So we were texting. At the concert? You went naked at the concert? No, no, I mean, she had clothes on. So we were texting, and we agreed we can still have a good night. You're missing the whole entire point. Before this concert, the cops told us to separate. The cops got called.

1:11:13Why were the cops already involved? Because I decided to come back to get a few things because I knew we were going to spend that day separated. So then I came home. He wanted to make things right. I was like, no, I just want to be alone, have a good day. So I go off, go crazy. He calls the cops. What? You wanted to make things right so you go off, go crazy? No, he wanted to make things right. So you go off, go crazy. What did you do? I wanted to leave. I wanted to go to the concert. I want to have fun. Why were the cops called? Because I went crazy. What did you do? Scream, yell. Who called the cops?

1:11:42No, why did I call? No, there was something. I don't know. Because I think I poured sweet tea on the floor. Why are you so physical? call? I don't know. So the cops got called the first time. Mark, you're in for something lucky after this filming, buddy. You're going to come quick. So the cops got called the first time and they told us to separate that day. Well, we were texting and agreed we can still have a good night. So I came and found her at the concert. As I'm walking up, I literally see her boobs slip out because she's wasted and, you know, jumping around and she has no bra on. It's just like no.

1:12:15But I mean, I got a glimpse in that hidden folder. Those things, unfortunately, are sagging down to of toes. It's impossible. It pissed me off. So I'm like, why are you out here with no clothes on? And that starts the whole argument up again. And I had somebody drop me off because I was drinking. I didn't want to drop. So... At least someone's responsible to go. So I get dropped off and I'm telling her if we're going to go to this, we were going to go to another little concert with her cousin. So we get in the car with her cousin. It was like the 3rd of July. So everywhere... Go on, go on. It doesn't matter.

1:12:49So we get in the car and we were already mad at each other again because I had said something about what she had on. And it blew up in the car. It's just a little argument. Blows up. We start screaming and cussing. And then the next thing you know, she's punched me in my face three or four times. Where did she hit you? Just in the jaw. Closed fist? Yeah. Oh, no, this was— Boom, boom, boom. Yeah. What the f*** is wrong with you? A lot. So I called the cops and she went to jail that night for domestic violence and public intoxication. Good. So you got out of jail and you had to borrow$400 from Grandma?

1:13:19Mm-hmm. For what? Was it bail? No. $400? Well, I borrowed money from them for a lot. Okay, here's the$400. Mercedes said she found out that Jay cheated on her after she gave birth about two months and to give her$400 for what? I don't understand. Oh, for the baby. It says for the baby. Well, after I found out you cheated on me then, we probably, yeah, we probably did separate and I was living with Nana. So what's the agreed upon for the$400 for the payment to the grandma? Just living expenses. No, is there a minimum payment? No. Okay,$400. Okay, bail$1 ,500. Now that one was for the jail. Yeah.

1:14:05Grandma bailed you out. Did she know she bailed you out? I mean, yeah. Okay, so what does grandma think about that? What the f***? She's disappointed, obviously. Whoa, she's disappointed. They're all Christians, so they all think if— Maybe you should be, too. If we could just go to church, our relationship would be fixed. You might need that, girl. You're broken. I've been trying. You're broken in every way whatsoever. I've been trying to get him to go to church, and he'll say he'll go, and then we get ready to go, and then he doesn't go. I'm not super religious. That's fine. I think she needs something, though.

1:14:37Yeah, and if you wanted to help, why not just sit in church? I don't care what anyone, like you do your life, but it's like she needs some kind of help. I have seriously got to go piss or I cannot continue. I do not care. Like seriously. I do not care. I seriously have got to go piss. Open up that gamer substance and finish yourself off. I am finishing this episode. Money owed to your cousin. Now you're borrowing from your cousin? I have to borrow money from everybody. Everybody. Everybody. Why did you have to borrow from your cousin? Because she won't get a job or she would have her own money.

1:15:07Yeah, but what was it for? Probably gas, vapes, everything. Vapes? You're borrowing from your cousin for vapes? You are the most pathetic mother that I have ever witnessed on this show. I like a vape. You prioritize that over your future and kids? No. Yes, if you're borrowing money and not getting a job, I'm borrowing money instead of getting a job. Yes, you are. Can I get help with a babysitter? Can I get a job? You had two jobs that worked around my schedule, So I would be home. Which I had to quit both of them because of you. How the fuck you did not have to quit because of me? You would go to work for a day and complain my feet hurt.

1:15:44I worked at two hours, my feet hurt. That is not why I quit at the country club. This place sucks. I hate working. I shouldn't have to work. I stopped serving at the country club, number one, because you told me it was a shitty job and I have to flirt to make tips. She was bringing home nothing. Literally nothing. You're lazy, you're a drunk, you're an abuser, you're an addict. Apparently. Apparently? Apparently. Dude, it's been an hour and 15 minutes. That's what you are. Unless you have anything else. I tried to get a job. What'd you try to get a job? I was a server at a country club. Rich white people, you'd think you'd make a lot of money.

1:16:22And I did for banquets. Okay. Banquets, I did make a lot of money. That was like$150,$170 a day. Why'd you borrow$1 ,000 from your dad? That's just random. He just gives me. Why are they enabling you? Why are they enabling you to make all these bad decisions and face no consequences for it? Kentucky. I don't know. No, that's not an answer. It's just my family. I don't know. My family.

1:16:53What the f***? Is there an agreed upon minimum back to your dad, back to your cousin? No. They just helped me out. What do you see in her that you like besides your somehow attraction? I don't get it. because I'm not suggesting you're a good person, but she's objectively one of the worst people I've ever met. It's the family thing. You need to take the kid and be gone. It's the family. No, but it's just her. You can still be a family with you, the kid, whoever you meet, and your parents. You would get full custody most likely. Well, I don't want to. Yes, I would care, but I know with all the evidence that he has, he would absolutely 100 % get full custody.

1:17:28I'm not going to do that. I'm not going to take it. Because the baby doesn't deserve to be raised without her mother. No, the baby does not deserve to be raised in this household. She also doesn't deserve to be raised around this. You're right. She doesn't. Take her. Even if we split up. Okay, you're 20. I think you're just too immature, man. You don't know the consequences and bad life that can happen. I don't think if we were to split up and co-parent that she would be continuing. I think she would, I realistically think that she would get help for her baby. Maybe not for me, but for her baby.

1:17:55She hasn't in the nine months. Did you drink at all during the pregnancy? Be honest. Did I drink while I was pregnant? No. She didn't. Okay, well, you get f***ed up every weekend. When she's not there. Yes, I know that. No one's arguing against that point. This house has holes in the walls, stab wounds, and abuse every other week. In blow-up fights. Come on. In money that is being borrowed from family. This is not good. No, it's not. That's why we're on the show, so. No shit. You don't need to clarify that. I know. Why do you think? I think. I'm saying you need to leave. That is the conclusion I have come to.

1:18:35It's just not going to happen. Then what are we doing? What's the point? If you wanted my opinion, then what the f***? Because that's the objective reality. You're going to learn it. You're going to learn that. You've been together for a couple years. You're going to be 25, and you're going to realize this is the worst mistake you've ever made sticking with her. I might, but it could get better. It could get better. No. It could get better. In what world? Let's bring in Brandon. I need a man. I need another man to speak to him. Clearly, I am not breaking through. And I'll bring in Mark to stick his penis in your mouth.

1:19:07Oh, like you're not looking for one to suck right now anyway. You guys are broken up anyway. We are. Speak some f***ing sense into this man. Because clearly, I'm not getting through. Why the f***? He will not leave her. I talked to you guys before the episode started. Did I not? Yes. I asked you, is this the first time that she's beat a man? She said you're number four. Yeah, I didn't know that. You beat four other men? You're 19 years old, you crazy. You beat four boyfriends. They weren't boyfriends. Okay, doesn't it? That's even worse. That's actually even worse. That's assaulting random men.

1:19:41What happened? Alcohol. You just get drunk and hit random men? No, most of them deserve it. What did they do? How has he deserved it? You beat the shit out of him and you've stabbed him. What has he done to deserve it? Maybe he doesn't deserve stabbing. Maybe I don't deserve the stabbing Maybe I don't deserve it really Maybe She provides nothing She birthed a kid on accident She did do that She birthed a kid on accident I'm very grateful that she birthed my baby That's a hard thing She carried That's all I did She carried my baby for nine months And while I was AWOL And I'm sure I provided Crazy amount of stress But that's the only thing I can say That she's done that for me Exactly So get the f*** out.

1:20:30You can have a bright future. You said Electrion's Apprentice? Yes. You can have a very bright future. You can make a ton of money. The money's in the trades right now. I know, yes. The money's definitely in the trades right now. And all the money owed so far is to her family. She refuses to work. She refuses to be a mother. She refuses to quit beating you. She stabbed you on Saturday. Well, I just, I've tried. I've tried to leave. I just, I can't. I don't know what it is. If he gets a taste of just anyone else that is actually like above a four, like do you understand that you hold the cards in this she can't do any she has no money she has no support system she has no money you hold all the cards I just can't I've tried I've tried to leave you can't I don't know what it is she already admitted in this show that if it wasn't for your income she wouldn't stay I know I know she's told me that so you're being a pathetic cuck I know it is pathetic she's told me a lot of this shit to my face you know meaning if she ever gets any kind of independence she's gone anyway so you may as well bite the bullet It's just hard.

1:21:27I've tried. No one said it to me. You're 20 years old. I get that you have a kid. I get that you want... I can tell that you want the family to be together. You want the family to be whole. I do, yeah. I do. I think everybody wants that, regardless of how she feels. I think she wants her family whole, too. You had two parents growing up? No. No, I mean, I had two, but not my two. You probably want different than what you had. You're not going to get that with her. Dude, it's... Buddy. I know, I know. Hey, have you ever watched any true crime, anything ever? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, my family's told me before that it's going to lead to that.

1:21:59Who said that? My family has told me before that they're scared. But you've already gotten stabbed once in your leg. Imagine if that was in your throat. It could have been. That was an inch away from an artery. This isn't a joke. This is a real thing. It was an inch away from an artery? Less than an inch. There you go. You will probably die with her. She could have killed you six days ago. Like just where we're going. This doesn't get better. This escalates to killing. I just can't. I've tried. I can't leave. But why are you risking your and your child's life? You're being a dog shit father by keeping your kid in that situation.

1:22:32I think if, I think the best course of action would be for us to separate, but I don't, I don't feel I should take full custody. I don't. Okay. So that's your big sticking. Okay. We'll talk about that. Let's at least that's progress made. Let's leave that there. You owe on a USAA$694 and 35 cents. You didn't make a payment and your minimum was 151. You have a late fee right there. You're making money. Why not at least pay your credit cards? It goes, everything goes to bills. Everything goes to bills. Everything goes to. This is a bill. Other bills. I mean, water, rent, electric. Now that I have a roommate that's moved in, it's definitely going to make it easier.

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1:23:44Is it actually crackhead or are you just jealous of her? No, it's just an insult. I'm not jealous of her. Then why are you saying someone's a crackhead or not? Because his ex-crack, at first we didn't know her. He admitted he didn't trust her or anything. Okay, I feel like if I'm going to bring, so this whole thing is a situation because I was going to bring the baby back to the house. Because I did have a job. I wanted a job. I applied for the job. I got the job. I wanted to go to work. I had him as a babysitter. I didn't know who he was bringing my child around. He didn't either. He admitted it.

1:24:15Are you 10 ,000 hours in medical? I went to the hospital. There's a few things. when I went to the hospital and stayed 10 days for Crohn's, being stabbed. You're in the psych ward for what? Drinking. Oh, good fuck. Why the fuck do you still drink? Why not? Oh, you suck. If that isn't the biggest, like, just leave, she's never going to change. She doesn't want to. He doesn't want me to stop drinking. He's never just been like, hey, let's stop drinking. I've definitely said let's slow down. I've never once said stop. So the drinking isn't the problem. There's an underlying issue that the drinking amplifies.

1:24:53And when she gets wasted, you know, drinking's fine, but she gets wasted blackout. Drinking is not fine. Not wasted blackout. Drinking is not fine. Because if we just drink a little, nothing like this doesn't get amplified like this. They're too young. You know, maybe we should be infantilizing people. I was not this 20. The drinking is not what the underlying issues is what does this. The drinking just amplifies it. The drinking brings it all out. do we drink? That's a good question. There's nothing else to do. I mean, it's, I guess, and it's an addiction. Why do we party? I guess, and it's an addiction.

1:25:26I don't know. Here's the reality. You have additional collections of Verizon 1 ,709. More collections, 288, 548, 953, 655. You're not paying your own bills. You're not taking care of your own household. You're allowing her to drag you down just because she's good in the sack. This makes no sense. Obviously, the kid was a mistake, but it wasn't an accident. You were putting raw loads in her, buddy. You should go find people. You need to go to rehab. You need to get help. Go to AA. You need a date. I promise you we'll find someone. You just met her when you were young, and you feel like you should be with.

1:26:05How many women have you? I haven't kept a count. Maybe five, six. There we go. I promise you, you will find one that you're more attracted to that you are happy with. Yeah. That's not a lot, okay? it's just, it's hard. You know, I can't, I've tried. It's actually not. I don't know why I come back. I don't know why. Well, she doesn't even want you to, except for the bills. You have family to go to. I might need you to actually like, just get away from Lexington. I know what the family and the kids situation, that one's hard, but I need physical distance between you guys. How am I going to do that?

1:26:38What the, exactly. It might be hard. We might have to brainstorm, but the thing is you have some, you therapy to get out of this situation. you need to get away from this crazy. Everyone already hates her in your town for a reason. She's insane. A lot of people do hate her, yeah. Yeah, she's insane. And everybody knows she's insane. Everybody knows that. She has the craziest eyes I've ever seen on a person. She keeps looking over here and it's genuinely scary. You should wait until she gets into that mode where she goes crazy and it's like her pupils are just, she's just demonic. I saw some of it on video and that was actually insane.

1:27:12Yeah. That was terrifying. It was definitely not normal. And in this chicken account, listen, I mean, you had fees. that must have been an overdraft. You have like nothing in there. And it's vending machines and getting some bullshit and bullshit and vending machines and Taco Bell and getting some bullshit, getting energy drinks, getting energy drinks and smoking vape and energy drinks and raising gains. McDonald's, Apple bill, Cash App, Papa John's, Walmart, Energy Drink, Cash Express is, what is that? That's from me borrowing money. Yeah, payday loans. I got trapped in that cycle for a little bit.

1:27:45Just let it go to collections. You're done. Just like you already in collections. Just quit the cycle by just stop paying at this point. I mean, they could sue you and you could get garnished. Could. They might. I'd say there's a good chance. Good chance, I guess. Netflix, bullshit, bullshit. Apple, getting some bullshit, bullshit. Taco Bell, bullshit. Energy drinks and bullshit, bullshit. Energy drinks, McDonald's, Cash App, Cash Express again. Bullshit, bullshit. Market, Firehouse Subs, Bullshit, bullshit. Hey, you spend more on energy drinks than it takes to actually pay back these cash advances.

1:28:21So just don't get payday loans and energy drinks and you won't be in the cycle. I'm trying to get out of the payday loan cycle. Get out of the energy drink cycle and you won't be borrowing payday loans. I wouldn't have to have energy drinks if I could get sleep if we had a normal life. Easy pay, easy pay. Drink liquid assets from Gamer Subs. It's a powder. It's 40 cents a serving. That's a solution. Appleville, bullshit. energy drink energy drink energy drink energy drink energy drink apple bill spectrum bullshit energy drink energy drink energy drink taco bell bullshit bullshit and yes you are overdrafting for those energy drinks and her cash app is when you're on Facebook dating what are you intentionally trying to do right make him mad is that it why did you download tinder to talk to people to talk to other people you're not trying to talk to people on Facebook no what do you want right now she talks to others she doesn't talk to other people I want to talk to them, but that's not the goal.

1:29:15No, pause. Woman, you said if he wasn't paying the bills, you wouldn't want him there. So why aren't you talking to other men to have fun? That's not the only reason why I do want him is just the bills. What? You just said if he wasn't paying the bills, you wouldn't want him there. You said that earlier. You're like having a punching bag. She goes back and forth. Sometimes she wants me from me. Sometimes she doesn't. Sometimes it's just the bills. Yeah, you said that four times way out of count. What do you guys think? Do you guys think I'm manipulative? Honestly. You both probably are. I think I probably have been, but it's gotten to the point where I question.

1:29:50You just have videos and pictures and evidence. That's all you have. Plus a stab wound, which I have a black f***ing eye. That's not nothing. After you gave me a f***ing stab wound. We both f***ed each other up real bad. What's your rent? $800 a month. What do you get from the person? $400 a month. His boyfriend pays$400. Now it is, yes. See, you're just so weird. Like, is there joy ever? Like, what the f***? Having a boyfriend, even if it was your boyfriend, may not be your boyfriend. Exponentially better than having this bitch under the roof. I think she's just jealous because this guy's been my best friend since we were kids.

1:30:22Has he ever stabbed you? No. Huh. Yeah, I'd probably want him at home too. Listen, with your$2 ,491 in groceries, this is not a hard budget. You get f*** groceries for you and the kid. Kick her out. You can pay for this rent. He pays half already. Utility's probably a couple hundred bucks. You don't have a car payment. You don't have all this stuff. All you have is your USAA to catch up on and you're done. You can budget with an extra thousand dollars left a month. I bet you. What about the collections? Start negotiating them. But I think you have a thousand dollars left. Save up a couple month emergency fund, negotiate the collections, pay them down.

1:30:56With your thousand dollars left, you can pay off your collections in six months. This all depends on if I can leave or not. No, you don't have to leave. Kick her out. You can afford your rent. I don't know. She's not contributing. And then do the government thing for the kids. it makes no difference if she's there or not she doesn't bring any money in okay but you can easily budget this it's a reality if you have you have an extra thousand dollars left you can pay off your collections you can have a six-month emergency fund and you can 50 30 20 till you retire but the thing is i will make this easier for us to actually conclude and get her ass out because i have something she does not know about and we even extra confirmed she doesn't know about before filming in this envelope and i'm gonna open this in the post show and honestly you're done uh yeah this is the end of you and that's it so we're gonna do that in the post show so we'll see you there for an extra 20 minutes join in hammer elite the best membership on youtube that's why there's over 130 000 monthly members three premium shows every single day six days a week you can click join to join on youtube or that link below or you can go off platform on the hammer lead app or HammerElite.com.

1:32:08Wherever you want to be, same membership on both platforms. See you there. I hope you guys know that there's no way I'm going to be able to leave her. She could have killed you on Saturday. Why are you not really? Dude, she could have killed you. I don't know. And I've left, but then I'll always end up coming back or letting her back. Well, then make your f***ing decision. Well, let me help make this easier for you. What do you think's in here? Pictures. Pictures of what? Probably him f***ing cheating. You want pictures of me cheating to be in there? and make it easier for us to be done. Let me show you.

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