Bitcoin Pioneer: I Was Paid 100 Bitcoin An Hour When It Was $10 | Ep. 443 with Charlie Shrem and Courtney Shrem "Prince of Bitcoin"

14 Sep 2026 · 54 min · 19 chapters

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In short

Early Bitcoin culture, Charlie Shrem and Courtney Shrem’s rise and arrest, and how they rebuilt their lives afterward; includes details on first Bitcoin payments, prison experience, and views on future crypto/security (including quantum).

Guests

  • Charlie Shrem: early Bitcoin figure; founder of Bitcoin Foundation; involved in early exchanges; says he was paid “100 Bitcoin an hour” when BTC was about $10; claims he helped enable the first Bitcoin transaction accepted in a New York nightclub (EBR, 2012–2014).
  • Courtney Shrem: trained to run Bitcoin transactions at EBR; says she made “history’s first Bitcoin transaction”; former actress (acting in New York; a Denmark film mentioned); later works to support Charlie during incarceration; CEO of a stealth startup (per episode title).

Key claims/examples

  • Bloomberg “Bitcoin millionaires” cover during their peak.
  • DEA surrounded them at JFK after returning from Amsterdam; Charlie arrested and jailed for years; “diesel therapy” bus transfers; solitary at MCC.
  • Courtney coordinated visits, jobs, and support (including working in a winery for commissary funds).
  • EBR nightclub accepted Bitcoin; customers bought thousands of BTC worth of alcohol (e.g., champagne bottles).
  • Early Bitcoin conferences (2013) felt like a positive “social experiment”; community built infrastructure themselves.
  • Quantum computing could shift from threat to opportunity; Bitcoin’s “Lego bricks” upgrades make it adaptable.

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Chapters

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The Rise and Fall of Bitcoin's Early Days

0:45 to 3:40

Discussion on the highs and lows of Charlie's early Bitcoin experiences and their impacts.

“I was having a conversation with a friend today about something like this.”

Courtney's Perspective on Chaos and Love

3:40 to 8:20

Courtney shares her insights on dating Charlie and their unique connection amid chaos.

“I honestly didn't know what I got myself into.”

The First Bitcoin Transaction in a Nightclub

8:20 to 9:30

Charlie and Courtney recount the story of their first Bitcoin transaction in a New York nightclub.

“where Bitcoin fits in a broader portfolio, not as a short-term trade, but has long-term exposure to an asset that behaves differently from traditional markets.”

Building the Bitcoin Community

10:30 to 14:01

Discussion on the early Bitcoin community, its challenges, and the creation of the first Bitcoin conference.

“It went from nobody really even knows what this is to basically worthless to changing the entire world.”

The Birth of the Bitcoin Foundation

14:01 to 16:49

Learn about the motivations and experiences behind starting the Bitcoin Foundation.

“And let's get everyone together and let's form like an association, like a trade group.”

Memorable Moments from Early Conferences

16:50 to 17:41

Discover the atmosphere and unique happenings at early Bitcoin conferences.

“And you don't want to like put up obstacles in their way.”

Vitalik Buterin and the Evolution of Ethereum

17:42 to 18:41

Explore how Vitalik Buterin's vision led to the creation of Ethereum.

“We were coming back from Amsterdam and my mom and a family friend was actually with us as well.”

Personal Stories of Arrest

18:42 to 19:16

Hear a harrowing account of the moment of arrest at JFK Airport.

“If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at 11labs.io slash founders.”

The Impact of Imprisonment

19:16 to 22:21

Listen to the emotional and psychological effects of imprisonment over the years.

“Like talk about going back and forth really quick.”

Finding Positivity in Dark Times

22:22 to 23:49

Learn how optimism can be a powerful tool during challenging experiences.

“You just have to make the best of it in there.”
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Courtney's Support During Hardships

23:50 to 28:00

Understand the importance of support systems during tough situations.

“But when you're out running these other jobs, you can't do that.”

Life in Prison: An Unexpected Perspective

28:00 to 29:38

Charlie shares anecdotes from his time in prison and the surprising aspects of daily life there.

“had this coordinated system people were sending me money and books and things but just the visitation.”

The Day of Release: Emotions and Memories

29:40 to 32:42

Charlie and Courtney recount the emotional day of his release from prison and the friendships formed.

“I was getting released with friends that I was like very close with in there.”

Acting and Overcoming Challenges

32:42 to 36:34

Courtney discusses her journey into acting and the challenges she faced, including overcoming trauma.

Support and Misconceptions in Relationships

36:34 to 42:04

Charlie and Courtney discuss the misconceptions in their relationship regarding support and career growth.

“The more intelligent people are, the less...”

The Importance of Support in Relationships

42:04 to 46:08

Learn about the role of support in relationships and how it shifts over time.

“have a partner here that like supports me and chasing this dream and that we can do it together because if I didn't have him I don't know where I'd be and I think two years ago when I was pursuing this before I met him.”

Bitcoin's Future and Quantum Threats

46:08 to 49:56

Explore the potential future of Bitcoin and the impact of quantum computing on its security.

“It'll just keep going and going and going because it's gone there before now.”

Rapid Fire Questions on Bitcoin and Relationships

49:56 to 53:37

Engage with rapid-fire questions that reveal insights about Bitcoin's impact and personal values in relationships.

“And then as soon as the ceiling is lifted and people realize, oh, no, it's not a threat.”

Inspirations and Future Aspirations

53:37 to 55:38

Hear reflections on personal aspirations and the importance of inspiration in life and work.

“You can really, you'd be very surprised how strong you are.”
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Transcript

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0:00There was a front cover page of Bloomberg where I was like throwing money in the air and it was like Bitcoin millionaires. The moment I got arrested. We got surrounded at JFK Airport. Courtney, when you met Charlie, you know you're dating chaos. I honestly didn't know what I got myself into. Charlie Shrem got paid 100 Bitcoin an hour when Bitcoin was$10 and Courtney made history's first Bitcoin transaction. then the DEA surrounded them at JFK. I actually did the very first Bitcoin transaction to be accepted in a nightclub in New York City. Did Bitcoin make Charlie a better man or nearly destroy him?

0:40Nearly destroyed him and then it made him a better man. Satoshi left Bitcoin too when he disappeared. I was one of the people that...

0:54so it's great to be with both of you again how long has it been oh my gosh when was the last time that we saw each other in person so you had us on a panel in la i think was the first time and that was no i think it's 2021 i think that was like a film festival in can yeah that was the first time that was the first yeah it was the first time every year over and over again in can but uh you guys ran an event here in la a couple of months ago i think it was around ai or something maybe a year ago half a year ago i don't remember i think it's 2022 i have some oh wow that's how it's like as you get older time goes on you know how it is the time just time is great i don't even understand sometimes i look back i'm like wait a minute am i 21 oh no i'm 42 yeah yeah is this really happening is this the matrix are we really here i don't even know sometimes i wonder but it's great to great to see you guys again the interesting thing is there was a vice documentary that came out after we all met so i have to ask you this Were you a genius, lucky, or just early?

2:09I was having a conversation with a friend today about something like this. And I think it's really about luck and then not being afraid to go after the craziest opportunities that you see possible. and then just finding yourself in a very uncomfortable moment where you're constantly waiting for something like really good to happen. And where, you know, like you're putting everything on the line, your business and starting companies, it's like high stakes poker. So getting involved in the early days of Bitcoin and becoming the Bitcoin prince, I mean, you're right, there was a front cover page of Bloomberg where I was like throwing money in the air and it was like Bitcoin millionaires.

2:52And, you know, I was sitting there thinking that everyone was my best friend and had the first Bitcoin exchange, founder of Bitcoin Foundation. I was one of the people that Bitcoin left, Satoshi left Bitcoin to like when he disappeared. But, you know, when I got arrested and the whole story came crashing down, the only person that was left taking care of me was this one over here. So, I mean, it's crazy that you think you're on top and then you very quickly can go down to the bottom and you it's a beautiful way to live life especially at a young age because you get both extremes and it's like even in moments like when you're waiting you know that you're dealing with or whatever in normal life you've always dealt with something really much worse yeah which led to my next question courtney when you met charlie did you know you were dating chaos.

3:42I honestly didn't know what I got myself into. No. As soon as I met him, I knew that I was in love with him. He just had a certain different energy that no one has ever had before that I met. And like, we just hit it off as friends very quickly. And you would start to visit me at EBR and request the same table and for three months, and then we were set up on a blind date. And And everyone, they're like, I was working at EBR at the time as a waitress. And I was getting ready to leave for the night. And his best friend, my boss at the time, that owned EBR, was like, we're all going out for drinks.

4:21And Charlie may or may not be there. And I was like, okay, cool. You know, no one admitted that we liked each other yet. And we were supposed to all go to the same establishment. So we all went. And Charlie and I were the only ones there. Everyone else. Yeah, everyone else. No one else was out. It was a setup. No one was going to make the move. And so we ended up having a great night that night. I did throw up on her after like the third or fourth bar. And then when I went downstairs and came back from the bathroom, she was still there cleaning up, you know, explaining the situation. I'm so sorry.

4:51I love that first throw up. She's as my back, no matter what. Like we just met. And I was like, this only can go up from here. I'm so sorry. He's so nervous. And Courtney is a really, really smart person. And she comes to a lot of my business meetings. and the craziest thing sometimes because she's a great judge of character and knows, like, she, Courtney gives a great perspective of the situation that we're in a lot of the times. So, like, even, so even today, some members on my board will be like, let's get Courtney's perspective on the situation or something like that. Like, if she, like, if we have a business dinner, they make sure, they will literally point out and say, is Courtney going to be there?

5:32it's like because it's a part of the of the shtick in in these like you know these like work relationships people like it when you you kind of it's uh you're you're bringing them into your friendship or your family you think there's a women's intuition because kate also i don't people i could get scammed and i'd be shocked she's like no i knew that was a scam over the phone i said don't do a deal with that it's bad and and i'm 99.9 percent i save him a lot of grief and money same same situation i've lost a lot of money not listening to courtney and her mom a couple years ago on like a certain business relationship and they told me like outset and like every step of the way and i fights about fights about it all the time and i was like no no like it's gonna work out and i was so wrong and i'd never again yeah it was bad like you said life's all about learning lessons um you guys told us this story when we first met you about how much Bitcoin you were getting paid and how much Bitcoin you were spending.

6:34It was like, I wrote down here, 100 Bitcoin an hour. And I might be wrong on that. 400 or 100 Bitcoin an hour. Do you ever think back to that time? You're absolutely not wrong. Remember the champagne? Oh, you had the champagne showers at EBR? Yeah. Yeah. What is the champagne showers with Bitcoin? I want to know. How do you stop at that? So EBR was the, I don't know for anyone that knows our story of how Charlie and I met, besides being set up on a blind date. But I actually did the very first Bitcoin transaction to be accepted in a nightclub in New York City. And then that's how we met. What year was that?

7:07That was 2015. What is EVR? What does it stand for? It was a club. It was a nightclub. It was for two years from 2012 to 2014. It was one of the top nightclubs in New York City, like lying around the corner. And it was built by a couple of friends. Yeah, right beside the refinery. And it was the only bar. It was the first bar in the world to accept Bitcoin. and so you asked about like hundreds of bitcoin an hour which you have people that would come in and they would spend like thousands of bitcoin and buy one guy would he's crazy he would take a cart of champagne bottles because you know champagne a nightclub is expensive expensive so it's$1 ,500 a bottle plus the price of bitcoin is$10 so 150 bitcoin for a bottle of champagne so it's a thousand dollars and we had a bitcoin transaction system and like i can still log in and see those old transactions and you'll see them.

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10:26Then that obviously then crypto, like so much has happened since 2012, 2014. It's not even 20 years. It went from nobody really even knows what this is to basically worthless to changing the entire world. and not just the Bitcoin, just the community and just everything around crypto fascinates me. Yeah. You're absolutely right. And it was a social experiment before I really was money. Yeah, it was like a friendship. I first got into it even before doing the transactions, you know. So for me, I went to the very first Bitcoin conference in 2013. Oh my God, you were the only woman there probably.

11:05And I was like one of four because everyone else was a reporter. I could guess who the people were there. I could get yeah it was like all geeks and misfits but so was I geek squad in geeks and misfits like we figure out ways to to become I'm boring I think she was like one of yeah she was a reporter actually became like a head of a top uh crypto lobby but it's like so all these a lot of the CEOs of these the big exchanges today like Kraken and Coinbase and and all these companies were started off as just like nerds in at the Bitcoin conference that Courtney was at and we only took up like a quarter of the room right i was like dancing in the corner it was a crazy situation but what i liked it too and this is like what fascinated me about it is because i didn't really know too much about it because like falling into it and then learning as you go and it's just it's really interesting because like i said because it's a social experiment it was like there was no judgment it was so innovative like the energy when you go into that room it was beautiful The world is amazing.

12:08We can do anything, you know, and it wasn't dangerous. It wasn't because there was no stigmatism on it. No one was paying attention to us. There was no attention. You couldn't get Bitcoin in a media article. There's nothing. It was like emptiness. We were our own thing. And it was really beautiful. I just tweeted a picture the other day that I missed the good old days of the early Bitcoin meetups. Like, there was people walking in off the street post-Great Recession. People were all about it was a community of financial sovereignty. Everyone involved in early Bitcoin days. These are people, you would say that everyone involved in early days of Bitcoin came with like a massive chip on their shoulder.

12:46And everyone was like wildly self-sufficient in their own way. Look at Courtney. Like she left town one way train ticket, moved to New York City to follow a career of acting. When we met wildly self-sufficient person, like on her own, doesn't need anyone to help her out. I was leaving. I left my family. So I had been cut off from my whole community and family friend. So I was also struggling. And all the early Bitcoiners also were these very types of people. So and the banks, they never wanted to work with us. So we had to be very innovative. We had to fly around the world. We had to make relationships.

13:22We had to build new plumbing. All the Bitcoin financial infrastructure, the community, the conferences, ourselves as investors, everything, the media, we all did it. We self-sufficiently did it. And it was very important. We didn't have any help from the outside world for a long time. It was only until later did they pay attention to us. Well, can you take me back, you guys putting that very first Bitcoin conference? Oh, my gosh. what's a thought process there like i i know you wanted to to create this community but like can you tell me the why aside from what you mentioned it's a funny question because it's the it's the only motivation for me when i was starting the bitcoin foundation everyone had the bitcoin foundation was let's get anyone who has some semblance of like organizational structure or reputation in the community that they're in.

14:16And let's get everyone together and let's form like an association, like a trade group. And I was like, I just want to do a conference because I really enjoyed hanging out with people on the internet, but I wanted us to all get together in person and have a reason to, Courtney and I, to fly out to California. And we have friends all over the world too, which is so beautiful. We would never have met you if we weren't in the community. And it's just, it's crazy. What was that first conference like? What did we... wild. No, it was just, like I said, it was just really positive and people were just in a good mood.

14:48People were selling t-shirts. They had a lot of paintings. It was culture. They had a rapper come on and sing. He was wearing an anonymous mask and his name was like Chow Tonged and he was like the weird Al Yonkovich of the community. You can go to his YouTube and you can listen to all of his songs. They're like 2011, 2012, 2013. He's there, but he's not making anything new. He's A lot of the early Bitcoin community made money and have decided to kind of like recede into the darkness because you don't want to be targeted. I don't know if there's a lot of kidnappings in Europe. It's very dangerous in Europe to be a known Bitcoiner.

15:26The French government like sells, you know, the tax rolls to the mafia there. It's very bad. So you have to be very, very, very scary situation. Or be anonymous. Be very anonymous. Yeah. I seen. I went to prison. So like, you know, take my social security number. I've seen, I've seen, we can get into it. I've seen the video though. I saw like Vitalik there walking around. I saw like the guy from Coinbase. All these people walking around and they look very young. Did you see any of these people and think like, wow, these people, this person specifically is going to change the world. No, yes. They were all a bunch of Elon Musks.

16:04Like Vitalik, we were all really good friends. Courtney and him were friends. We all tried lobster together for the first time in New York.

16:14But weirdos who are wildly self-sufficient are people who are visionaries and will stop at nothing. If they have some motivation that they're motivated in, like Vitalik was so motivated by this ability of doing smart contracts on top of Bitcoin. And he wanted to build it on top of Bitcoin. And the Bitcoin community very mistakenly was like, no, no, no. Bitcoin should be only transactions, no smart contracts. And Vitalik said, all right, I'm going to go launch this on my own network, launch Ethereum instead. But he was very, he ran Bitcoin magazine, Vitalik. So you knew these people were going to be very wildly successful.

16:53And you don't want to like put up obstacles in their way. You want to encourage, encourage as best you can. Same thing, right? Same thing in your industry. It's you've got to just keep encouraging, encouraging. Yeah. Don't lose that drive. Yeah. Dan and I always talk about the world is run by geeks and pretty much. Not wrong. People on the spectrum. People on the spectrum. Everyone's a little bit. It's a real spectrum. I'm just saying it's deeper. It's a superpower. The ones who are running it are deeper on the spectrum than maybe some of the other people. Yeah. I will share in prison, I met some people like that, though, who did it for the dark side.

17:32and those are some really dangerous people. Like people who can use their autism superpowers for the negative, it's very dangerous. How was that experience? So let's take to the darkest moments that you both have had. How was that? What was your darkest moment? JFK Airport. The moment I got arrested? When we got surrounded at JFK Airport. We were only dating in eight months. We were coming back from Amsterdam and my mom and a family friend was actually with us as well. Last month, I called an airline to move a flight. 10 minutes of whole music, a robotic voice asking for my confirmation number, then a real person asking me for that exact same number.

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19:39But yeah, I'm sorry for interrupting you. No, it's okay. So we were coming back from Amsterdam and we got off the plane and we were in customs and they were so nice to us. It's like, how was your trip? You know, yada, yada. Then all of a sudden, I see this person just put his hand up. And then all of a sudden, I see somebody else put their hand up. And they all start running. What's going on? And then I see, and then everyone just surrounded us. DEA. It was like a movie. They like got their positions in advance. It was very scary. Yeah, and it was like a federal, federal like agents and the, you know, escorted.

20:19it's horrible it kind of read me the arrest rights and everything asked courtney to go claim my baggage and then shuffled me in handcuffed into like a black suv kind of the rest of the night was like if you think of like a montage in a movie like sweeping gray multiple cells probably three or four different cells that night by the time i made it to my ultimate like resting place cell it was like probably four or five o 'clock in the morning and we'd gotten I got rested at 6 p.m. But the final resting place cell that night was a solitary confinement in the dungeons of New York City at the MCC. And it was...

20:55How about diesel therapy? Yeah. Well, then the diesel therapy is when they put you on a bus and then they kind of never let you land in one place. You just get shuffled diesel bus around from week to week to different prisons. So you can never position yourself comfortably and then you're just always on the move and it messes up your brain. so it's like a whole it's a whole thing that's what the inmates call like diesel therapy and uh so i was in solitary that first night and uh but luckily you were there you were there at my bail hearing and everything like whoosh what a crazy night that night was it was over 10 years it was a long time ago now like 13 probably 12 13 a whole lifetime ago 12 13 years ago but um but it just it descended that night was like the first band-aid pull of darkness but it literally that it just was like constant darkness for a good seven years with streaks of light you know sprinkled in threads that you can kind of grab onto um but i really am grateful that i got arrested at such a young age because you know i guess when you're young you're just an eternal optimist about everything and you just like look at it we talked about grand theft auto earlier i looked at my whole prison experience is like i'm living grand theft auto i'm living this video game and this is just a cool story like even the most dangerous dangerous moments which you know you have a bunch in the prison system you're still kind of looking at it's like oh i'll get out god is on my side you'll be fine like even in like it's like almost like in the moments like where you see the violence in front of you you see the you see it you it's right there you don't even believe it's real because i just didn't grow up in the world that i ever thought i would ever quit a prison so it was like i never felt it was real and i feel like we watched you know if something would ever happen to you god forbid you wouldn't even see it coming so why like kind of worry just like gotta go through i you know what i mean yeah and his optimism is really what kept me through it all like and even my mom she she can vouch for the fact that like for as calm as he seemed to be, or I don't know if it was a show you were putting on to keep up.

23:12No, it wasn't. You just have to make the best of it in there. You know, what I'm saying is your optimism is what kept me together because if you weren't positive and I wasn't positive, it would have been. I know. I looked at everything with very eternal optimism. Like there were very bad moments where I could, it could have, the way you look at things like for example, something had happened where I lost my I was teaching students GED training and I really enjoyed it because I was working to help students get their GED very close to where I was living on the prison compound and something had happened where the job was no longer available they had too many people or whatever and I'd lost that job and you know they kind of snickered like oh they're going to send the Jewish kid over there and they're going to send me to like drive landscaping and the snowplow and everything.

24:03And they sent me to do this very like out there and they knew that I wasn't gonna be able to communicate with Courtney because when you're close to the prison where you live, you can write more letters, you can write the email thing, you can get on the phone, you can communicate better. But when you're out running these other jobs, you can't do that. So, but little did I, I looked at it as like, oh my God, I grew up in Brooklyn. I got to drive a snowplow, a street sweeper. I'm mowing grass. I'm alone for seven hours a day driving my truck on 5 ,000 acres. It was like a gift to get me. It was the biggest gift I could have done to get me out of the compound where fights were happening daily.

24:44So now I'm driving my own street sweeper. I mean, you cannot have. I would have paid for that. I would have given up anything for that. It was the best gift. But how some people shit is someone else's like gold. You know, it's a beautiful thing. Yeah. you know i'm really inspired by that courage and like that muscles of like man i i want to learn i want to learn like what goes through your head like do you practice like how do you because like charlie one of my number one nightmare is i'm gonna make something do something that i will make a mistake and i'll be in prison and i i told dan like i don't know how i'm gonna handle it myself.

25:24I don't think I can take it. Like that's my number one fear. So it's not an irrational fear, by the way. A lot of people live through this like imposter syndrome. They live through this, like these are very extreme anxiety, irrational fears. Like, yes, it's a very, especially after COVID. It's a very common thing today. And Courtney, how did you, I mean, aside from Charlie's positive energy and just have that strength, like how did you get by? It was tough. Just keep yourself busy. I ended up working in a winery just so I could get him paychecks for commissary. You had given up a crazy career acting.

26:01I was acting in New York before I met him and during. You did a movie in Denmark? Yeah, that was the start. That's crazy. Thank you. But you know what? It wasn't the right timing for me. I needed to be there for you and for us and for our future. And I knew I was right about you. And I know everyone else used to fight me on it. But I knew that you were a good person. Love you. And loved me too. And, you know, I think it's been a learning experience for both of us. I mean, it's helped our relationship. It's helped, you know, communication with each other. It's understanding, you know, more of different perspectives of each other.

26:41And, you know, we grew together in there. yeah we do together with everything i felt like i was in prison too courtney mentally put herself in prison with me yeah i would try to live at the same time you were going to sleep we woke up together every day we watch the same shows we would um do the online uh yeah the online letters thing the monitored they do this thing where you can write like yeah and stuff like that we would i'd visit you when i could um every three every for seven eight hours straight and we're playing spades and we're eating a jalapeno cheeseburger out of a vending machine and we're going so do cheese doritos in the middle of it to give it some texture of my of my month when courtney would come no but you know and we brought my grandma before she passed and she was there for you a lot of friends came and visited like really like they i had brother courtney's brother came sister-in-law they came international friends yeah it was in support that corny would like organize other people because to get a visit and it's very difficult you have to file there's a federal paper you have to print it out fill it out hold background check mail it to the federal government then they mail you back and you have to coordinate with the inmate like he has to approve you there's a lot of coordination to just you can't just show up at a visit so courtney like was had this coordinated system people were sending me money and books and things but just the visitation.

28:06So I never knew who was going to show up and it was great. And I had friends from Austria come visit my friend, like, and he'd like look around and he'd say, Charlie, where do you guys do like the sexy time? And I was like, Tom, that's, that's state prison, bro. Like they don't do that here. You know, I'm always looking at where founders can actually build something. So let me tell you about what not. I got on the app and started out browsing luxury watches then somehow ended up in trading card unboxings. And before I knew it, I was watching live shows for new electronics. That's the thing about Whatnot.

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29:19Buyers spend more than an hour a day in the app. This is not a side hustle. It's a real path to building something that lasts. I use Whatnot and if you've been waiting for the right place to start selling, this is it search whatnot w-h-a-t-n-o-t in the app store download and you can start selling right away as like it's better in federal prison though like we got better food it's nicer they paint the walls it's like smells good it's bleached we have cleaning fluid and because it's a bad problem in the state prison so he was like no no and he like got he turned red and he got i've never seen a friend get angry for me and he got like visibly he got stood up through his chair and he's like this is torture this isn't should not be like tom sit the fuck down like sit down it's fine i'll be out in nine months it's fine so that first time when you get out either was really short or really long yeah yeah no i was in the back seat with corny's mom was driving in the front seat and she's like guys just calm down back there like it was yeah i couldn't wait even two seconds but i got out in my you never forget the day you're released from prison it's a beautiful day you tell the story actually because you guys were a little bit late oh my gosh you're Raquel so it was his last day of prison and my mom I was living with my mom at the time when I moved away from New York that's how I was able to be closer to him and it was time for you to leave and we were late because of traffic sorry but anyway he was like the last one left and he has this box in his hand Like standing in the parking lot of the box.

30:55In the middle of the parking lot. My prison khakis. Like. Alone. But we weren't that late. No, you're like. I mean. You've made it. Maybe 15 minutes. Probably looking. Counting the second. But it mattered because you're. I was getting released with friends that I was like very close with in there. And these. These were my brothers who. We looked out for each other. And we. Just by the stroke of luck. Because we were in this like kind of. We're in this like. Cool cognitive behavior therapy experimental program. that was phenomenal in the prison system. And so we got all, like three of us got released on the same day.

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31:26And they had got, like, it was like a movie. They had got released like 15 minutes. One guy got released. And then we all said goodbye. And then the next guy got released. So next, like, I'm alone. At least you got to say goodbyes. And if you don't get, if they don't pick you up by noon, you have to live, go back for another day. They don't just release you out by yourself. So I'm like, should I just say goodbye to everyone? But I was like, you know, I know I made good. I was very close with everyone and we lifelong friendships. Actually, you meet some decent people in there. Actually, a friend of mine, like he was his Italian guy.

31:59He killed it. He started this phenomenal deli, two delis now in New York. And Joe Rogan went there and it's Joe Rogan's favorite sandwich in the world. And we didn't realize how good it was until a couple of months ago we went. And it was like Giovanni's DeFuture Sandwich Shop. I mean, like it kills it. And another guy that I was in prison with actually is an amazing guy. he really took me under his wing he co-founded black cannabis magazine here in in la and another guy running for office so like you know you you have some really good people that do some really great things and they all give back in good ways and and courtney's career ended up like you use all the trauma that you've been through yeah listen let's talk about that let's talk about the acting yeah i always wanted to be an actor when i was a kid i never got accepted to any theater i i was horrible i'm a horrible actor this is my acting you're doing great how was how is how give us some tips because katie and i we need to learn how to become how do you get into the role like how do you become an actor honestly for me i you know i'm assigned a character that i'm supposed to be and it's within the dialogue or the text of what they're saying you kind of I have some kind of relation to what I'm saying to the character so then you are able to kind of transform into that person um it's a lot of situational things too if if it's something that reminds me of something that I've gone through in my life you know happy sad angry depressed whatever it is that's how I'm able to channel it um and you just have to know who you're talking to and um and you really have to know exactly what you were trying to get out of that person in the scene because if you have an objective and you know exactly what you're going after then you you're doing your job and that's people are going to understand what do you mean what that person what do you like you you're you're saying that like you're living it that's crazy yeah that's a great it's a great analogy yeah jim carrey talks about when he i forget the name what is there's a word for when you like become the character it's like something the method method acting he talks about how he became someone and he got lost into that person and it took him years to get out of and find out who he really was could you see that happening not maybe to you just in general any of those roles yes in like real life with me trauma therapy psychosis oh yeah i had to really as a crazy role i'm like oh no we were living in scotland so it was cold it was depressing so it worked for the genre that i was doing it was miserable really it it's just crazy like i've i had a moment um that i just wrapped this film in nashville that's going to be coming out and i had a moment with this other actor and there was a scene that we were doing and the way that we were like communicating with each other it made the whole scene transform into something else because me and him were zoned in on listening to each other and I was looking at it from a different perspective as he was looking at from a different perspective and it just it becomes magic on screen when you don't and that's why they always say it's important to be prepared of what you want to show the director but then when you're on set you have to be open and really be listening to your your partner because it really helps drive the scene you guys need to have chemistry yeah it's it's such a true thing do you have to go to classes or got a mentor?

35:34I do a lot of coaching and I did a lot of courses and I was a dancer first before I crossed into acting. So I was signed with MSA in New York City when I was 24 and then I kind of just was in acting from there. But a lot of casting director classes, workshops, actors connection. I don't know if people that are familiar in New York, that was like the place to be for all these different mentors and acting coaches and stuff to come through and a chance to be in front of the casting director and show them what you can do. We were thinking about doing improv. We felt like improv, because I've heard improv can even help when you're in business.

36:10What do you think? Is that true? I think it's very important. You have to be able to think on your feet. If you can't think on your feet, you sink. So, you know what I mean? Like you just... It's a good superpower. You have to be in control. When like I'll, you get on like a Zoom with really brilliant like on spectrum folks like yourself and myself, everyone else, whatever and thank you for calling me brilliant yes yes thank you and you guys are visionaries thank you thank you love and i think we're all are all four of us i think we're all are definitely four visionaries we should come up with some problem to solve right now and i think the four of us together could solve a huge problem right now but not good at small talk that's why i was gonna say you it's a good superpower i have a friend i work with and he's really good at it too and when he gets on, he knows exactly what to say to get people going.

37:01So the improv helped small talk. Yeah, I could see that. The more intelligent people are, the less... They're never allowed. They're just a few words and that's it. Very quiet. We were just talking about this on the way here, how she could be silent. She could, on a daily basis... I have to send him a reel, like, successful people are quiet. He's sending me the reels all the time. I saw that. You know your wife is telling you something. It's interesting you say that because I feel like I'm like the quietest one here right now. It's interesting because you can be quiet. You can have breakthroughs.

37:33You can use technology and you can be in the moment. But we talk about like couples. We make a very conscious effort in something, especially the last two years with Courtney's career, really spending a lot of time. And I have my own career going on. We're not working as much as we used to together. And we do work a little bit together, but we both have very separate things. We travel with each other. We have to be very conscious of being present in the moment, especially on date nights and other things that we're doing. It's like don't take advantage of your time. I have to like consciously not think about work or something like you have to.

38:07It's very hard to stay in that moment. So we do things together that we both love that you can stay in the moment. And I think, too, because we're entrepreneurs, it's hard to kind of like get out of that because you're when you're an entrepreneur, you're always go time. creative thinking like if i'm not thinking about this oh my gosh well then this will never happen yes you have to be thinking using the time always on this can be mentally exhausting but oh i'll be like she'll be like no like i'm i'm i'm already spent because i'm like oh i have this idea she's like no no no like i'm already my battery's out i don't want to like he got like shatter of like ideas i'm like can you learn how to shut up like i really have to tell him that my brain is bad.

38:49Like I said, I think you'll be way more creative and can do bigger things when you learn in silence. It's good. Silence scares me. Does it scare you guys? Yeah. Silence? Well, actually, no. If we're, because sometimes I really enjoy sitting in silence. I feel that we could be in a way with each other and not be doing anything and just be happy just sitting there. We both, when Courtney's reading like her scripts or really trying to get into a character, I don't want to like be sitting with her like be on my phone or on the computer i want to like do something off of technology too so i study a lot of different old texts a lot of torah stuff you know different different things old philosophical texts as well uh proverbs anything really and um it helped really helps get my brain going but you're not thinking you're not using your brain for work you're exercising it in a completely different way but because that stuff that you're studying is so brain filling.

39:47It's like watching TV. Well, that's a bad example because people are on their phones and they watch TV. But imagine throwing bricks over a wall. You have to focus on throwing it. You're going to drop it on your foot. You can't be on your phone. You throw bricks over a wall. So when you study these older texts, it's like you're very in it and therefore you're not thinking about work. And then when you go back to work an hour later, you're like, whoa, I didn't think about my brain this way before. And then you solve something that you couldn't solve before. And it worked really, really well. It works like exceptionally well.

40:15What are the biggest misconceptions that people have of each of you? Maybe you can say about the other person. Misconceptions, I think for me, as far as like career wise, I took it upon myself to, you know, go through doors that have been open to me that having to do with my husband. because he loves me and he believes in me and he wants, you know, my career to be flourished as much as I do, that I didn't have the talent that I just have my husband paying for my roles all the time. I do believe you do have to create your own opportunities. Don't get me wrong, but I'm really grateful that that's a whole common wrong misconception.

41:00Yeah. A lot of people just assume that like oh anyone can act you know but i think because i took that door as much as i didn't want to it got me so much further because i was proving myself through every single project so up until this point i can say that i'm truly proud of myself because and i'm so grateful to you that you got me in this position you made one thing on your own and it's just been snowballing since then and like and i just you have to spark it off and it's you know it's made me such a happier person because excuse me i'm sorry i didn't know i was gonna get um it's just when you don't have that validation to even know if you're doing something correctly or not like you're following your dream and you know there's it's a very competitive career and you really have to prove how much you want it and talent is important but it also if you have to humble yourself because if you don't humble yourself you will get lost and I thank god I have a partner here that like supports me and chasing this dream and that we can do it together because if I didn't have him I don't know where I'd be and I think two years ago when I was pursuing this before I met him.

42:24The timing just wasn't right. And I went through hell and back chasing that dream. And it didn't happen for me at the moment. I was getting close, you know, and then, you know, nature took its different course. But I, you know, would go through it all over again, just to be where we are today. So I love you. I love you too. There might be, I think there's a misconception around support. Like you're saying, with a couple is there's so many phases of of relationship it's like at one time one person supports maybe through monetary and then that person has to support then another time it switches now this person is support through monetary this like there's different supports i think people don't always see too is like oh they think this person is making all the money but don't know like this other person is also doing a lot of work behind the scenes but it's not maybe in their face.

43:19Yeah, I think that happened to Dan and I. In the beginning, I was the one that's making a lot of money. And then my business crumbling down. And I was like, okay, can you give me space to just give time to heal, try to have a baby, then work. And now it's Dan's making money. But I want to make sure that I credit it because I don't want people to assume. But, you know, to be honest, the misconception too sometimes. I remember this guy, he wanted to acquire my boutique hotel in Asia. and I was doing a deal with him and he said, do you want to ask your husband? I said, no. I'm the only one. I was so mad.

43:53Ask myself. Like I don't have to report to nobody. You guys do some crazy stuff out in Asia with all your properties and things like that. I know. That's amazing. Yeah, thank you. It was doing well but like I get so insulted like what do you mean? I can't make decisions about myself. I built this on my own and like I literally told him, F you, don't buy. That means you're, you know, a judgmental person. and I don't want you to take over my team. So I told them that. I mean, I tell people, I'm like, don't mess with Kate. Like sometimes I tell people, I'm like, I wish you didn't say something to me, but don't say something to her because it's going to go south.

44:33Like you can walk all over me for sure, but you can't walk all over Kate. So sometimes when someone does something, I'm like, I wish you just did that to me. I love that. You know? That's so funny. It's true. Don't mess with you. There you go. You're either. We just like strong, independent women. Yes, we do. Not all men do, though. I think it's a good compliment. I don't understand why. Yeah, it's a good compliment. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I don't understand why. I guess you need to be a strong man to realize that you need to be with a strong woman to be successful. Because you guys kind of ladder each other up.

45:11and you can't yourself get to a certain point and grow from there without, if your person is not at that point too. And it's like, it's a very important thing. It's physics. How to make it up. I mean, it's physics is science. You can't make it up. Science, yeah. Science is a real thing. Supposedly. I don't know though. I was going to ask a question regarding quantum and crypto. Go ahead. Is this too off the wall? No, I think it's really good. So there's something that we had a guest on a while ago, and they do security around quantum. And there's something that they said that's really stuck with us.

45:52Okay. I thought this might be interesting. Because at some point, Charlie here told us that Bitcoin might be a million dollars. I remember you told us that. It's a will be. It will be. Even higher than that. Okay. Yeah. Supposedly. Yeah. Maybe in our lifetimes, hopefully. Hopefully we live a long time. Yes. the same so i'm less this next week i i'm getting in right what time okay i'm getting in right now the markets are still open if you see the price start pumping like it's 65 000 right now like i'm telling you that thing goes to 70 80 as it goes higher people are gonna be piling in and all the people who lost money in the previous bull markets are the first ones to come back and it just becomes this like imagine how the whole world knows about bitcoin like you said But could you imagine the media frenzy when it starts going up again?

46:41Everyone knows that it could go higher. So no one's going to ever let it stop. There's no ceiling. It'll just keep going and going and going because it's gone there before now. It's gone to 150. So it'll just, you know, 250 next time around. Yeah. So this is the fear, though. This is the fear that I have. Sure, sure. We've talked about it. supposedly as quantum is being more realized potentially 2027 2028 they're supposedly as much quantum realized that it could then hack all financial wallets as they are in this current moment dude it's a it's an absolute real fear it's not just bitcoin wallets it's the entire internet it's the security around this this this meeting that we're having right now it's our emails it's our banking system it's secure relationships it's anytime you get an update on your phone from apple out you have your phone is to verify that the actual update came from apple and there's a secure handshake that's at risk so a hacker can come and send an update and make everyone's phone think it's apple and boom hack everyone's phone in the world like real crazy shit like nuclear codes everything like the whole world yeah quantum plus so it's not so like i don't think the Bitcoin wallets are going to be, you know, it will be on the first top 10 list, but it's not the first thing.

48:01But I will say this, the beauty of the way Bitcoin was built is that it's like Lego bricks and that any new cool update in technology is very easily replaceable from the old ones. So very quickly, quantum is turning and the narrative is changing from a threat into this big opportunity. Quantum is becoming a huge opportunity for Bitcoin. There's new security that leverages quantum computers to make Bitcoin more secure and cheap. There's, I mean, now maybe we could send super fast, cheap transactions finally, because we don't need to rely on old computers doing it. There's a lot of cool, we can secure those handshakes with quantum computers.

48:37There are a lot of cool stuff to do. The beauty of Bitcoin is it's easy to fix and like make that upgrade. Our bank accounts, I'm a little bit more nervous because as we know, banks are the last ones to update. So you're going to see a lot of like, unfortunately, other types of hacks happen before people kind of wake up and get really excited about it. But it's definitely cool because the beauty of the Bitcoin and crypto ecosystem at large is it can kind of grab all these technologies and turn them from threats into opportunities. I really like that thought process. No, I'm not scared. I think I'm the optimist.

49:16I was living in fear. It's a really, no, it's not. Oh my God. There are some phenomenal new. So like at worst, the Bitcoin threat, as you say, at worst, at worst, at worst, we're talking about people being able to take the old Bitcoin that Satoshi, who supposedly when he disappears, he owns like a million Bitcoin and he's never moved them. And so everyone's assuming that Satoshi will not move those coins in light of like a quantum threat. But that's like the worst case. We're not talking about like Bitcoin being hacked or Bitcoin not working anymore. All the cryptocurrency, Ethereum, like that's not those are like the fear, the FUD, uncertainty and doubt.

49:53And that's why I say it's an opportunity, because what happens is these things become like ceilings where pressure builds up. And then as soon as the ceiling is lifted and people realize, oh, no, it's not a threat. the price just kind of pumps and it's going to be like a big bull market, right? That's a million. Yeah, I get paid by the CEO. Yeah, I get paid. The CEO of Bitcoin sends me, you know, he sends Courtney the invoice. I used your word Charlie for my purchase. Code Charles. Coupon code. 50 % off. Courtney gets me 50 % off. I like the optimism. We're going to do a quick rapid fire. Oh, okay.

50:27Are you ready? Here we go. Oh, you already answered the first one. Bitcoin at a million, crazy or inevitable? crazy not inevitable okay very inevitably crazy yes is money good for a marriage or dangerous for it supposed to be rapid fire i'm trying to talk to you um happy for it yeah this is good for it it could be it could be a it could be a double-edged sword but you could have the best part it it's what makes the world go round money that's true of Of course. Charlie, what's the biggest lie people still believe about Bitcoin? Oh, the lie that people think about Bitcoin is that it's like not backed by anything and it's like worthless, pointless type of thing.

51:18And in fact, it's the complete opposite. Okay, Courtney, this is going to be intense. Did Bitcoin make Charlie a better man or nearly destroy him? Oh, man. You guys are bringing out the heavy ones, the heavy artillery here. It nearly destroyed him and then it made him a better man. Well, that was good. Thank you. I'm trying. It's a lot of work. Charlie, what's more dangerous in business? Is it greed or trust? Trusting people who have greed is the biggest thing dangerous in business, really. Like trusting people who are motivated by money and greed alone and not by other things. Courtney, what matters more in a marriage, loyalty or honesty?

52:05loyalty charlie a thousand bitcoin and your old life back or your life today oh i got life today not even a question yeah that's that's not even not even oh man bitcoin won't be worth anything when it gets hacked anyways so yeah with quantum no i'm kidding we don't think have one roller coaster ride on this life and it's like you don't get a lot of years so to spend it with the person that I love is the best. How do you guys want it to be remembered?

52:39How do we want to be remembered? I think we just want to be people that inspire other people. And, you know, you go through all these trials and tribulations through life and you have all these learning experiences. And I think I want people to know that we are very genuine and very kind people. that are usually taken advantage of. And I don't know. I just, I feel... No, you're absolutely right. I want to be someone that knew that we were good, honest people. I just want to help others. I'm going to do cool things. And spread a good message. That's nice. Spread love. Yeah. Spread love. I like that.

53:21That's really nice. Well, you're the most inspirational couple. Yeah. You guys really love each other. Like, so supportive. It's very inspiring. Thank you. I know. I'm like, maybe I need to step up my game. I'm not sure. You guys are doing fine. You guys are amazing. You can push yourself harder and she'll be there to have your back. And it's like, that's the best part. You can really, you'd be very surprised how strong you are. I really learned this my first night in prison. And I thought I meditated on this for weeks and months. And I was like, first night. I mean, I can't tell you what I've seen.

53:57but when you go through it you really realize how strong you are on the other side and you can all do everyone can do it it's the human like that truck of that that story of that lady who like lifted a truck over her babe for to rescue her baby it's a real thing like you we are we are not using we are using maybe 20 of our capacity every single day we need to we could push ourselves so hard and then having your partner will always be your back right look look at your career you two TV shows, six movies this year that you've been doing. You won a Tully Award. Courtney's making a statue in the mail.

54:30We have a statue in the mail. It's huge. I didn't mean to announce it for you, but it's a very exciting thing. That's amazing. By the time this is released, you'll announce it on your own. Yeah. But is it EGOT? Is that the ultimate? It's like the Tully and then it's the Emmy and then the... One right before. It's a respective award. It's one of them. You get the whole thing, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You get all four. You got to sing though, right? because Grammy I think you sing yes he says I do so there you go you can win a Grammy without singing you can produce a record also but Courtney has a past history as a rapper she used to sing there's a song on SoundCloud you can play it in the show I'm going to hear your rapper here what did you call yourself again?

55:13Plain Jane oh that's her rapper name? yeah and it wasn't a rap you know hip hop my mom was a producer that was trying to mold me into something I wasn't basically. Well, now you can use whether it's Sora or Sona. You can make music now. Yeah. So you could rap on it again. Bring your shock. We should make a whole rap album actually. The four of us, that'd be, that'd be fast. But thank you both for joining us. Always for having me again. This is so good to see you on the video. Thank you so much.

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Daniel and Kate open the conversation by reconnecting with Charlie and Courtney and asking whether Charlie’s early Bitcoin story was genius, luck, or simply being early. Charlie says it was a mix of luck, chasing crazy opportunities, and being willing to put everything on the line. He reflects on the surreal rise, from being on a Bloomberg cover throwing money in the air as a “Bitcoin millionaire” to becoming a founder of a Bitcoin exchange and one of the people Satoshi left Bitcoin to when he disappeared. Then came the crash: his arrest, prison, and the realization that the people around him were not all really his friends.

The episode then shifts into Charlie and Courtney’s relationship. Courtney says she did not know she was dating chaos, but knew very quickly that she loved him. She remembers meeting him while working at EVR, the nightclub that became one of Bitcoin’s first real-world cultural hubs, where Bitcoiners gathered, spent Bitcoin, and built community before the world was paying attention.

The conversation becomes deeply personal as Charlie and Courtney revisit his arrest at JFK, the darkest years that followed, and how Courtney stayed by his side while he was in prison. Charlie describes the arrest as the first “band-aid pull of darkness” in a seven-year stretch of struggle, while Courtney explains how she organized visits, letters, support, commissary money, and kept their relationship alive through one of the hardest chapters of their lives.

Key Discussion Points

  • Charlie says his early Bitcoin success came from luck, courage, and being willing to chase uncomfortable opportunities before the rest of the world understood them. 
  • Courtney shares how she met Charlie at EVR, the New York City nightclub where she processed one of the first Bitcoin transactions accepted in a nightclub, helping turn Bitcoin into a real-world payment experience. 
  • The episode revisits the wild early Bitcoin culture, when Bitcoin felt more like a social experiment and community of geeks, misfits, builders, and self-sufficient outsiders than a mainstream financial asset. 
  • Charlie reflects on being arrested at JFK after returning from Amsterdam, being surrounded by federal agents, moved through multiple cells, and spending the first night in solitary confinement. 
  • Courtney explains how she stayed with Charlie through prison, gave up parts of her acting path at the time, worked to send him commissary money, coordinated visits, and mentally lived that chapter with him. 
  • The conversation also explores Bitcoin’s future, quantum computing, marriage, loyalty, trust, and why Charlie says he would choose his life today over getting back a thousand Bitcoin and returning to his old life. 

Takeaways

Charlie’s story shows how quickly success can turn into collapse. He went from being one of Bitcoin’s most visible early figures to getting arrested and watching his entire world change almost instantly.

Early Bitcoin was more than money. Charlie and Courtney describe it as a culture, a social experiment, and a community of outsiders building new financial infrastructure without help from banks or mainstream institutions.

Courtney’s role was central to Charlie’s survival and rebuilding. She did not just stand by him emotionally. She helped coordinate support, visits, money, letters, and the structure that kept him connected while he was inside.

Prison changed Charlie’s understanding of strength. He says going through darkness showed him how much capacity people really have and how much harder humans can push themselves when they have no other choice.

Bitcoin nearly destroyed Charlie, but Courtney says it also made him a better man. Their story is not just about crypto. It is about consequences, loyalty, growth, and choosing each other through chaos.

Charlie’s view of Bitcoin remains optimistic. Even when discussing quantum threats, he sees Bitcoin’s adaptable structure as a reason it can turn major technological threats into opportunities.

Closing Thoughts

Charlie and Courtney Shrem’s Founder’s Story episode is part Bitcoin history, part love story, and part survival story. In conversation with Daniel Robbins and Kate Hancock, Charlie and Courtney tell a story about the cost of being early, the danger of trusting the wrong people, the strength it takes to survive public collapse, and the kind of loyalty that can carry two people through prison, reinvention, and a life rebuilt on the other side. Charlie was there when Bitcoin was still a strange experiment run by geeks, misfits, and self-sufficient outsiders. Courtney was there when Bitcoin entered real life through a New York nightclub, and she was still there when everything fell apart. Together, their story shows that the biggest asset was not the Bitcoin they lost or the status that disappeared. It was the relationship, resilience, and love they chose to keep.

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