The Takeaway: This Is Killing Your Restaurant’s Growth

0:02Brian K. Sweeney: Welcome to Full Comp, a show offering insight into the hospitality industry, featuring restaurateurs, thought leaders, and innovators, served up on the house.

0:16Brian K. Sweeney: Welcome to The Takeaway. I'm Josh Kopel. The Takeaway is a tool, one idea, one tactic, one strategy you can implement in your restaurant this week. There's no guests, no interview, just actionable information that'll help you make money without costing you a penny, all in less than a time that it would take you to count out a cash drawer. Here is this week's takeaway. You are limiting your growth by being willing to do anything that it takes to grow. Let that sit for a second, because most of us were taught the opposite. Whatever it takes, right? Outwork everybody, say yes to everything. And whatever it takes usually means compromising.

0:56compromising your standards, compromising your principles. Here's what that looks like in real life. You don't have boundaries around your time or your relationships. So the people who matter most in life don't get taken care of. And that first person on that list is you. You're not doing the things you actually want to be doing because you're living somebody else's ideals. You built a business so that you could be your own boss. And somehow you ended up as an employee, an employee with literally none of the benefits. And here's the part that none of us want to hear. People notice. Your team, your guests, they watch you ignore your own instincts over and over again.

1:37And maybe they don't respect us for it because we don't respect ourselves. Now, I know what a lot of owners say to that. When I become successful, then I'll put the boundaries in place. And I hear that all the time. And I get it. It sounds reasonable. I told myself the same lie. But this isn't a chicken and egg situation. You don't put boundaries in place once you become successful. You become successful by putting boundaries in place, by placing intentional limits. Let me tell you how I did it. My non-negotiables went in first, every single week before anything else gets a spot on my calendar.

2:16Breakfast together every morning, date night, exercising on a weekly basis. My kids' activities. Those went in first, and then everything else in my business fit around them. Has that cost me? Absolutely. As a restaurateur, I lost business because I refused to come in on a day off. I've lost managers because I was willing to teach them, but I wasn't willing to babysit them. And I'm okay with that. Those boundaries were set for a reason. If I compromise myself, if I give my energy away to everything and everyone, then I don't show up fully for anyone. Not for my family and not for my team. And here's where it gets interesting.

2:54I don't just put limits on my own time. I put limits on the things I build. Because limits would allow them to grow. Right now, I'm intentionally limiting my community to 100 people. I've run much bigger programs than that. I know how to do it big. But I'm doing this one with limits in place so that no compromises are needed. Not from me and not from the people inside of it. Everyone has direct access to me on calls. Everyone inside a community where everybody knows everyone's name. Nobody gets palmed off to some coach who doesn't know their ass from their elbow. All under the excuse of making it more scalable for you.

3:31But here's the truth. Constraints enable creativity. I have endless ways to scale. Endless. But scale doesn't come through removing limits. Scale comes from those constraints. Constraints prevent chaos. and chaos is the single biggest inhibitor to growth. So here's the takeaway. Honor yourself and honor your growth by putting boundaries in place. Enable your own growth by enabling yourself first because if you do that, growth becomes inevitable.

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