John Cena

21 Jul 2026 · 1 h 7 min · 29 chapters

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In short

John Cena discusses growing up in West Newbury, Massachusetts with four brothers; lessons from winning/losing and family; his views on professionalism (especially suits); his improvisational approach to wrestling storytelling; and his transition into acting/comedy. He also shares a story about helping his mother buy a house.

Guest backgrounds

John Cena is an actor, former WWE wrestler, and humanitarian. Cody Rhodes (WWE champion) calls in from a lake on Zoom and is Cena’s on-screen/real-life mentor and rival at times.

Key claims

Success has no single recipe, but unreliability, unprofessionalism, uncoachable behavior, and lack of investment guarantee failure. Suits symbolize uniformity plus freedom within rules. Wrestling is story-driven performance where the audience is part of the act; improvisation happens within rehearsed “third act” safety/trust.

Notable examples

Cena’s “punch me in the face” crowd-interaction tactic; SummerSlam table-to-table finishing move planning; using “hulk up” comebacks; West Newbury “Sina brothers” basketball culture; crayons-on-the-walls chaos; buying his mom a house via a 2008 opportunity and a surprise key gift.

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Cody Rhodes Introduces John Cena

1:16 to 1:50

Cody Rhodes shares insights about his relationship with John Cena.

“But we always like to start these interviews by checking with someone who knows our guest, who wants to ask us a question, ask our guests and speak well behind their back.”

Cody Rhodes on Wrestling Philosophy

2:38 to 3:40

Cody discusses the importance of feedback and social media in wrestling.

“I'm sorry if I was doing like the old people yelling, can you hear me?”

The Hero's Journey in Wrestling

3:41 to 7:09

Cody shares thoughts on storytelling and heroism in wrestling.

“I would never think to ask if anything from parks is used in any kind of curriculum.”

Cody's Relationship with John Cena

7:10 to 8:48

Cody describes his brotherly bond with John Cena and their experiences together.

“But John yells everything that's going to happen in the ring as loud as he can possibly yell it.”

Learning and Growth in Wrestling

8:49 to 11:01

Cody talks about learning from John Cena and the wrestling business.

“He had he was the busiest guy on the roster.”

Cody's Questions for John Cena

11:03 to 11:38

Cody shares thoughtful questions about John's future plans and knowledge.

“But, you know, I do really well with these big guys.”

Wine and Personal Style

12:14 to 14:00

Cody and John discuss wine preferences and the evolution of clothing styles.

“And I wanted to get you something that was like highly rated, but I didn't want to get you a 100-point wine.”

The Evolution of Casual Clothing

14:00 to 15:00

Explore how clothing has become more casual over time.

“And then someone made me a suit and I put it on and it felt like a warm-up suit.”

Professionalism in Modern Times

15:00 to 18:10

Discuss the importance of professionalism and reliability.

“My experience, I've got a chance to work with you and had the pleasure to get to know you a little bit over the last couple of years.”

Growing Up with Brothers

18:10 to 21:00

John Cena shares stories from his childhood with his brothers.

“But the experience, the way people feel around you, they remember.”
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Lessons from Losing Fights

21:00 to 23:10

Learn about the humility and lessons learned from losing fights.

“So, uh, these, these last, you know, four plus decades have been a different chapter in my mom's life.”

The Impact of Bullying

23:10 to 25:50

John Cena reflects on his experiences with being bullied in school.

“Like, what do you, what did you learn by losing a fight?”

Returning to Boston and Community Pride

25:50 to 28:00

Discuss the pride and community spirit of returning to Boston.

“I prefer to do these things without makeup because I want people to see me as me.”

Navigating Emotional Expression

28:00 to 29:40

Learn about the challenges of expressing feelings and cultural norms around communication.

“And man, as beautiful as the landscape is, sometimes there's a lot more anchors than sails over there.”

John Cena's Heartwarming Gift to His Mother

29:40 to 33:56

John shares the story of buying a house for his mother and its significance.

“And as a person who, the Bostonian in me had an early experience with it.”

The Art of Wrestling Performance

35:18 to 42:04

Explore the intricacies of wrestling, including preparation, storytelling, and improvisation.

“You know, my dad used to take me to wrestling in the 80s.”

The Thrill of Live Performance

42:04 to 43:53

Explore the excitement and unpredictability of live wrestling events.

“Anyway, I have the ref being like, you have 17 minutes left.”

The Art of Engaging an Audience

43:54 to 46:08

Discuss the dynamics of audience participation in live shows.

“Chants start out that are too hot for TV, that Netflix is turning us off and turning us off.”

Transitioning from Wrestling to Acting

46:09 to 47:40

John Cena reflects on his journey from wrestling to acting.

“Because then you're like whizzing to be like, I got another performance in 24 hours.”

Influences of Comedy in Early Life

47:41 to 49:57

John shares how 80s comedies shaped his sense of humor.

“So my dad was the only person, my only male in New England that didn't care for sports.”

The Reality of Acting and Performance

49:58 to 51:18

Dialogue on the challenges and rewards of acting.

“I'm sure this has happened where you look at an 80s movie.”

Philanthropy and Emotional Connections

51:19 to 55:10

John discusses his charitable work and the impact of human connection.

“I actually can't bend farther than the suit.”

Personal Reflections on Life and Connection

55:11 to 56:01

A deep dive into personal priorities and the importance of relationships.

“I like what I'm learning about you, John, is like you're chasing emotion.”

Introduction and Guest Talk

56:01 to 57:05

The hosts introduce the episode and discuss their guest, Cody Rhodes.

“Now, everybody calm down and get quiet so I can compliment you.”

Wrestling Terminology Explained

57:06 to 58:10

Discussion around wrestling terms like 'baby face' and 'heel.'

“Not a lot of WWE superstars on Good Hang.”

The Search for Knowledge

58:11 to 59:46

Exploration of personal growth, learning, and honoring luck in one's life.

“and pay attention to the good work of others, but that you're kind of constantly learning new things.”

Productivity and Its Impacts

59:47 to 1:00:12

Discussion on the nature of productivity and its potential drawbacks.

“But when you go to my wrestling matches, you're going to be encouraged to just take a break and calm down and take a nap.”

Quick Lightning Round

1:00:13 to 1:02:44

A fast-paced segment with various questions about reading, music, and movies.

“Right now, Mania's Crisis and Crashes, 8th edition.”

Working with Eric Andre

1:02:45 to 1:04:00

Insights into John Cena's experience working on the movie 'Little Brother.'

“Well, this is my last question, which is like what I know you love to laugh and you love comedy.”
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0:34Hello, everyone. Welcome to another episode of Good Hang. We have John Cena with us today. Actor, wrestler, humanitarian, good citizen of the world. And John and I are going to talk about a lot of really fun stuff today. We're going to discuss what it's like growing up in the Boston area with four brothers. We are going to decide my new wrestling character and realize that it's going to be incredibly successful. We're going to talk about Little Brother, the movie that he's in and how much fun he had working on it. And we're going to discuss how dress and suits are important to him. And because of that, I'm going to, after this intro, go spiff myself up and make sure that I am looking good for the interview.

1:16But we always like to start these interviews by checking with someone who knows our guest, who wants to ask us a question, ask our guests and speak well behind their back. And we are talking to our first undisputed champion on this show, WWE champion Cody Rhodes. Cody is calling in on Zoom from a beautiful lake. And I just like that he's a champ. I love talking to champs. And let's see what Cody has to say about his buddy and at times enemy and always mentor, John Cena. So Cody, are you there?

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2:37Cody, hello. It's Amy. Hey, can you hear me? We can hear you. How are you? I'm good. I'm sorry if I was doing like the old people yelling, can you hear me? I don't know how loud I am in the moment. I'm outside. Congratulations, champ. Nice to meet you. Yeah, very nice to meet you. I have to share this with you. You might have heard this already, but where I teach wrestling, we use bowling for boats as a part of the curriculum. No way. How do you use it? So it's a way what I suggest, I always ask, has anyone ever seen the show because I was a big fan of the show? But I always ask if they have, and then they have to go home and watch that night.

3:16it's a way for young, the prospect of wrestlers to understand that social media, if you scroll through 300 positive things, but then you find that one guy who thought you were fat, there's no point. Go with everybody else. Go with the people who already had your back, you know, but we use that episode. It's brought up every camp and most people know it too. So it's actually a lot of fun. Oh my God. That's so nice to hear. I would never think to ask if anything from parks is used in any kind of curriculum. Oh, yeah. But you're right. I bet you have young people who are trying to figure out how to participate in feedback, which is really hard, especially for a young person to like, not let that feel too personal.

4:07Well, particularly wrestling is brutal. I feel like every funnel is one thing, but I feel like wrestling and star wars is the most divisive social i've ever seen it's you can't just say you like a thing like a thing means you dislike something else and it means war speaking about star wars is really interesting i'm sure you've made this parallel before all this like hero's journey stuff is in the stuff that you all do the stories that you make in the ring it is very similar, which is the rise and fall and betrayal and like trying to get, you know, like figure out who you are in real time. It, it, there is a lot of Joseph Campbell parallels.

4:52Yeah. I, uh, I always tell people with the hero's journey for, for me as a baby face and John as a lifelong baby face, a lot of betrayal, a lot of betrayal. It's, uh, every week is, is new betrayal. when you know a storyline is happening when you know for example you're going to get betrayed let's say by someone like John do you guys look at each other and go yeah or do you look at each other and go oh I mean you guys probably never make that sound but um I make that sound a lot internally throughout the course of the day because a lot of like oh oh you know um but um With John, particularly when John, if you've ever seen it, the moment where he hugs me and his face changes, then he was so excited.

5:46And I was more trepidatious in terms of he had never done that. And it didn't even make sense to do it at this point. He had never gone, gone rogue, gone bad. So I just didn't want to screw that massive moment up. Right. He taught me everything I know because I drove him around for two years before he got his big tour bus. John was such a fun riding partner. A lot of strict rules. We do this little ritual stop where he had to load up a styrofoam cooler with an extra 24 beers in the back of the car. Just in case. I'd never seen anyone in terms of he was our top star and the lead babyface at the time, the lead good guy.

6:29and he was term baby face i'm obsessed with okay yeah he is he is the he is the ultimate i mean he was even after what he did to me they were still cheering him and booing me so it was like all right okay thanks guys john is pretty great at the magic and except for one area that is widely known to wrestling fans and wrestlers. John will not talk low or in carny, as we would say. Like, if I need to tell you Amy ducked the clothesline, I'd say, like, Dizzuck, you know, something. He's a little carny. Oh, he's a little, like, fake language, like a pig Latin. It's like a pig Latin means Snoop talk.

7:14But John yells everything that's going to happen in the ring as loud as he can possibly yell it. He calls it for the first four rows, an interactive experience. God, this is so helpful because one of my questions is like, you know, is figuring out exactly how you all improvise because you're improvising a lot. Obviously a lot is written and, you know, beat it out. But you're talking, you know, you're talking about really big physical things that you have to figure out how to signal to each other in safe ways, obviously. And that's really funny. Screams it. Screams it. Screams it. And then there's the last match I had with him at SummerSlam.

7:59He's about to slam me with his big finishing move, which is the attitude adjustment from a table to another table. So it's highly dangerous. It's going to hurt. We're going to do it the safest way we can. But you can hear him yelling at me why I'm on his shoulders. that he can't see because my arm is over his eyes. And I never spoke back to John. I never wanted to speak back. He's, you know, a mentor to me. But it was one of those moments where I thought, buddy, I'm the one doing this. I don't give up. Just throw me. Like, I'm not worried about your screaming at the top of his lungs. I can't see.

8:43I really love your relationship. You guys have a very brotherly relationship. Oh, good. Yeah. Well, I mean, I can't think of another guy who didn't need to take the time. He definitely didn't need to. He had he was the busiest guy on the roster. He took the time. He I was another term. I was he's not going to agree with this, but I was a job guy. What's that mean? I was laying on my back looking up at the lights every night. I was the three-second tan, as John calls it, you know? And he still wanted to—he had a belief in me. Ah, wow. You know he can speak a little French, too? Yeah, and Mandarin, right?

9:25Ah, the Mandarin. I can't. It's so annoying. I was just saying, like, it's so embarrassing. I can't speak another language, and I don't need somebody to be coming in here and showing off the two that they can speak. Yeah. You know? It's like, keep it to yourself. Not on your turf, you know? exactly not on your turf we ask the um the people we speak to before our guest to ask to give our guest a question is there anything big or small um dumb or serious that um you think i should ask john about or you'd want to know about him oh man what's he gonna do with all this knowledge right what's he gonna do with it we we don't have a book yet right there's no book Does he plan to write a book?

10:11And what is he going to do with all this knowledge? And if he plans to do nothing, what was the point?

10:20Perfect question. I don't know if that's any good, but what's the point, right? Why it's too short? You're not going to be speaking Mandarin, you know, ever. It totally speaks to the bigger thing, which is like, I want to know, like, when do we all get to rest? Yeah. When do you finally go down, John? When do you rest? Yeah. What's the thing that's going to take you down? What new thing? So, yes, that's the thing. Something he's going to tackle, he won't be able to do. Actually, that's a really good question is what can you not do well? He'll give you some some excuse my language. He'll give you some BS humble, humble answer.

11:00God, he sees so well. He's so well put together. You got you got your hands full. No kidding. But, you know, I do really well with these big guys. Oh, yeah. I don't know what to tell you, but I really know how to handle them. I'm a huge fan of the show, so I know you do. Oh, my God. Huge fan. Thank you so much. It means so much that you talked to us today. And I know John will be so thrilled that we talked. And it's really nice to meet you. Very nice to meet you, too. Have the best day. And thank you again. If you need anything and anyone wants to reach out, I could talk about John for days. Oh, awesome.

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12:13We enjoy a tasty beverage every once in a while. And I wanted to get you something that was like highly rated, but I didn't want to get you a 100-point wine. Because with a 100-point wine, when you drink it, you're like, I don't get it. But with something like 98, like, oh, man, they got gypped. So hopefully it's a good glass. Oh, my gosh. Thank you so much. It just is so nice. A lot of fun conversations happen over wine. I want to talk to you about wine. I know you love wine. Or you know, and you know a lot about it. I have had a lot about it. I've had a lot of it. But it is like that thing that you can just keep learning and learning and learning.

12:47As with most things, you can get deeper in the rabbit hole. John Cena is here. I'm so excited that I changed into, I put a suit jacket on for you. I put a suit jacket on for you and a pocket watch for you. Is that a personal pocket watch? It is. I even have the... Does it mean something? Of course it does. I didn't have my readers. Wait, let's put our readers on. Let me see yours. I will do the full presentation again. Starts out as a monocle. Here we are. Now that falls under some haberdashery. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you. I like that you, do you like to wear a suit? I do. I do. How come? I think, you know, I've tried to reflect on this.

13:29I think it has to do with uniformity. I do. So, like, there's the uniformity of knowing what you have, but then the freedom to do cool stuff within that. You know, like, not exactly base suit colors. So, there's an aggressive stance with the pinstripe. But it's still going to be like, okay, non-low-cut waistcoat, two-button coat, everything fits. Do you get them made for you? And that's another thing, right? So, like, I used to hate suits because they used to be so uncomfortable. Right. Until people were like, no, no, we make it around you. And I'm like, say what? And then someone made me a suit and I put it on and it felt like a warm-up suit.

14:07Yeah. Are you the same gen as me? Are you Gen X? Yes, I believe so. Okay. So I feel like in our lifetime, we've watched clothing get just more and more and more casual. In our lifetime, I feel we have watched clothing get more efficient. Yeah. You know, this one suit is made of stretch fabric so you can run a mile in it and you never have to wash it. Right. It's more of that. Yes. And this connects to kind of what I wanted to start talking. Again, just my lens. Yeah. But I think it connects to a bigger thing, which is there's something about the way in which you participate in what would almost be considered at times old fashioned things, which are professionalism, politeness, like wearing a suit, being able to be dependable.

14:58All those things sometimes feel like, sadly, that they feel sometimes old fashioned. My experience, I've got a chance to work with you and had the pleasure to get to know you a little bit over the last couple of years. And like, you're just such a professional, John. Like, you're such a hard worker. You do what you say you're going to do. And even the suit like feels like a symbol of like, I'm taking this seriously, I guess. Where does that come from? Have you always had that? Have you always been that person? So there's a lot there. Okay. There's a whole lot there. You got wine. We're fine. I don't know how simple that, simple, yes.

15:40You want to be in shape, go to the gym. Simple. Easy? I don't know. Right. Those things aren't easy. Yeah. And you equate those things with success. Success is ambiguous. There is no one recipe for success. Yeah. What I do is what I believe will get me the next opportunity. But I'm also wrong a lot of times. Where do I get those things? Through wisdom and experience. If we were doing this interview in 2005, I would have an oversized sports jersey on. I would have a backwards Michelin Ness hat on. I would have come in with more diamonds than I've ever seen in my life or I need. I would have been wearing a set of Reebok pumps and a set of jorts.

16:29Sure. And I never would have broken the character of the doctor of thuganomics. Yeah, you would have stayed there. Because that, at the time, I felt was my path to success. How did I get these things? Good question. So I don't know how to succeed. I don't. I always try to put odds in my favor, and I appreciate people's opportunity. I'm also not supposed to be here. I'm a kid from West Newberry. who didn't train for this. I didn't put in the hours of improv classes like you. It's like a happy accident. All said, life hands people opportunity and hands people some bad cards. If you get an opportunity card, man, try to work to make the most of it.

17:11I am where I'm at because I know how to fail. And I talk to people about this a lot and I want to try to, I'm trying to expand on this idea to get it out to people. Yeah. The things you do in life, I can guarantee you will fail if you are unreliable, unprofessional, uninvested and uncoachable. Those four things. And I don't mean like work. I mean like life. It's so, it's so interesting you say that because sometimes when I, when people ask about like succeeding in, in the stuff, kind of stuff that I do, I always say something that it feels like almost simple, but it's like, just be fun to work with.

17:54And it falls under that category, which is when people want you around, you get more opportunity. Like the, the, the, the, it's the final product of what's going to happen in your life to your point about what you're going to be successful at. You never know. You don't even know if it's going to be what you want. It always changes. But the experience, the way people feel around you, they remember. They remember, I liked working with that person. I had a good time. Or I liked seeing that person. I liked being entertained by that person. I had a good interaction. Yeah. That doesn't necessarily guarantee success.

18:30Yes. What I'm not saying is if you're coachable, professional, reliable, and passionate, you will succeed. because there's still a level of magic dust and ambiguity and luck and things beyond our control. I can't tell you how to succeed. What I can do is if you are unprofessional, uncoachable, uninvested and unreliable, you will fail. A hundred percent. Guaranteed. I want to talk to you about your thoughts about winning and losing and about collaboration. And I feel like it goes back to probably the fact that you grew up in a family with four brothers, Five boys. Amazing. Yeah, that is a feat.

19:11Your mom. Well, I mean, she had, albeit she had probably a tough 30-year run, I would say. We got a chance to, so John and I got to work together a few different times in different ways. And you told me a story about your brothers and you in crayons. Yeah. Can you tell that story? Yeah, sure. So the house was wonderful and not too many safety guards. So if helicopter parenting is like constantly looking over your kid, my parents were submarine parents. Like, I don't know. I'm trying to find the exact opposite. They were hiding in the basement. I think the only safety concern was at night we do like a 10 and 10 inspection.

19:57You got 10 fingers, you got 10 toes, go to sleep. That was such a cool thing to have as a young person. Yeah. Because we essentially could have an idea and do the idea. Amazing. So because there were so many of us and my dad would work and my mom would stay home, we would just do stuff. Like in a box of 64 crayons, if one kid was behaving and coloring in the lines, three other kids grabbed as many as they could and just ran on the walls and did whatever just to be like, this is great. because at the time doing that as a kid that is great yeah but my poor mom would be like oh man matt what a great what the i can't even imagine meanwhile like laundry for an army is piling up and she's like oh my god now i gotta feed everybody again i just fed you guys three hours ago taking years off her life man but honestly she she had an uphill climb for three decades and now all of us collectively as a group are like, man, we need to make, we need to make sure she's doing all right always.

21:02So, uh, these, these last, you know, four plus decades have been a different chapter in my mom's life. And especially like the last 20 between all of us and her have been in real special. I want to ask you about that because I know you've, you've done some very special things for her, but growing up in Boston in the eighties, not like, you know, what were you guys, was your family, you know, like, were you known as like the Sina brothers? Oh my God. Yes. And they all came, walked together. So, uh, this, I grew up in West Newberry. We got to take Boston out of the equation. Well, we all say Boston.

21:40Yes. Because anything around, no one cares. Right. So West Newberry is, if you keep going Northeast of the state of Massachusetts to New New Hampshire line. There are some old maritime towns that are quite beautiful. And inland, there are some even smaller farming towns. And that's West Newbury, 1200 people. And in 1985, your neighbor is acres away and you got to ride bikes everywhere. It was, it was like out of a, out of a movie. Like it was like Goonies. Yeah. You know, like you were awesome. So yes, we were the scenists and we could show up and a basketball game would ensue because we've brought the team.

22:15It was, it was incredible, an incredible place to grow up. Yeah. And I'm so glad I didn't stay there because it is, it is not a diverse look at the world. Right. But man, what a, what a cool place to grow up. Especially because when you're a young boy, like boys, young boys are sometimes like dogs. You have to kind of like run them out. You have to run them. Yeah. They need like a yard and you should throw the ball. Man, we had acres and like, we could go out in the forest and try to burn the forest down. Thank you, West Newbury Fire Department. Or we could have like pick up football games that would end in brawl for alls where parents are just pulling up in their cars and ripping.

22:53That's my kid. But it was great. And it was great. And did you learn how to like. I learned how to lose a fight, which I think is really like, man, that's why I'm a diplomat. Like you get your ass kicked a few times and you're like, yo, that this sucks. Yeah. And what do you and what are some rules to lose a fight? Like, what do you, what did you learn by losing a fight? Humility, embarrassment, physical harm. And another thing is like winning a fight also sucks. It doesn't feel good. Yeah. Especially when you're like, man, we just fought over like who gets to play bases loaded next. Like what?

23:30And that kid's hurt. Right. So you get on both sides of that equation. Yeah. And I don't think people realize that, you know, and when we grew up, in my high school, there was a fight every day after school. And it was like, oh, who's going to fight today after school? And women too. It was common. It was very common. And in fact, when I went to college for a while, I would go to parties and I would just kind of stand there. It's like an episodic three o 'clock high. Yes. And people would be like, what are you worried about? I'm like, there's too many people here from different towns. Like this is going to go down.

24:03The different town thing. Different towns. If someone showed up at your party from a different town, forget it. But as, you know, not to gender. You show up at a Morris party, but if the Haverhill kids show up. Exactly. Yikes. Like kids from Woburn show up like, well, it's going to be a bloody mess. But do you have to like as a big guy growing up as a tough guy with brothers like it. But also you felt like you were bullied a little bit too, right? I got the shit kicked out of me every day. Every day because I was a scrawny kid and dressing like MC Hammer. And Belbiv DeVoe. It was like if Belle Bivet DeVoe and MC Hammer ran into each other.

24:39Yeah. Rayon and airbrushed denim. And you got high top fade. And you got beat up by your brothers or by people in school? No, by my peers. So it was a multi-town high school where the junior high is at one place and the high school is at one place. And Merrimack's buses were here and Groveland's buses were here and West Newberry's buses are over at a high school. And I'm in junior high. And you have to like – I see the walk down the sidewalk as if it was yesterday. day. I'm walking down the sidewalk and I'm passing the kids who are like 15, 16, who can't drive yet and still have to go to the bus.

25:10And I'm the one SOB wearing like rayon polka dots in, in a, an eighties rock country music, combat boot, denim, you know, mullets. Like you, you can paint the picture. I stand out like a sore thumb and I was an easy target and like a scrawny, skinny kids. Even something as simple as like, boom, down the hill I go. Right. Shitty comment. Like that was on the daily. That was like the daily. But that's trauma. That's traumatic, John. I appreciate you saying that. Life deals us all hills to climb. Yeah. I doubled down. It was a great experience for me. Here I sit dressed loudly as myself. Right, right.

25:58I don't have a stylist. I prefer to do these things without makeup because I want people to see me as me. Now I understand. If I'm creating a character. Yeah. Put as much shit on me as you want. Right. But this is me. Right. And this is how I feel comfortable. And when those kids picked on me for how I dressed, I would go straight to Liberty Tree Mall and be like, what is worse than this? Yeah. I'm turning it up. I got the Liberty Tree Mall. And then like, and then I found weights. So I didn't learn to fight. I wasn't like, yo, I got to learn to fight. I'm just going to project the art of like the math isn't so much in your favor anymore.

26:37And by the time I got over to the new building, I was 15. I'd been working out for two and a half years and I was stronger than everybody. So it was like, ah, I may get them, but if I catch a stray, I'm going to get my teeth knocked out. So it hedged like it worked. So what's it like to go home to Boston? It's wonderful, actually. Yeah, yeah. It's wonderful. You must feel like they really, because the one thing I'll say, one of the things about Boston that's really lovely is your hometown really embraces you. Like if they feel like, if they have some pride in you, you really feel it when you go back.

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27:12Like people really feel like, hey, they share, like, look, you always know from Bostonians how they feel. They tell you to your face. You're good. You're bad. I like you. I don't like you. They do, but they don't. I want to elaborate on that, but continue. Do you think I'm wrong that they're more passive-aggressive? No, no. They'll tell you how they feel about you. Right. They'll never tell you how they feel. Oh, no. Feelings? And that, like, so that's why recently going home has been way better. Yeah. Because my brothers are all hitting that, like, late 40s, approaching the half century now. Yeah.

27:46And we all have wisdom of, like, man, it's kind of a shitty mindset if somebody's like, hey, how's life? And you're like, ah, it's taking forever. Like that. Yeah. But that's also West Newberry. Totally. And man, as beautiful as the landscape is, sometimes there's a lot more anchors than sails over there. Yeah. You know, and I love the pride. You're right. Like when someone from a community makes it, the community has made it. That's right. I like that. That's right. Because that's a win for everybody. Hopefully it gets everybody's spirits. Yeah. And I don't mind that. it's just sometimes hard to get anything real out of anybody.

28:27Oh, babe, the idea of figuring out your feelings and saying them in real time, that was not what we grew up with. Yeah. I mean, I still kind of can't believe sometimes when people are able to locate their feeling and then say it. It's like, how did you do that? Because we just, it's a skill. It's a skill to figure out what you're actually feeling. Yeah. Feel it and then express it. That's like a lifetime of work. and when you're around culturally this thing and this feeling of just like to your point there's a lot of like a lot of comedy a lot of self-deprecation a lot of self-deprecation and a lot of a lot of doom and gloom and pessimism a lot of pessimism and a lot of action over words right so someone's not going to say necessarily say like i love you but they're going to like fix your tire like the mass hole yeah the fuck you broken down for ah do you fucking idiot let me fix your tire All right, get the fuck out of here.

29:19Fuck off. Yeah. That's literally their way of saying like, oh man. Yeah. Tough day, right? Yeah. Let me help you out here. Right. I hope everything goes better for you. But it's not that. No, it's not that. Yeah. No, no. It's an asshole. He can't even fucking roof a house. I'll get up and fucking roof it in two hours. You told me a story though about, and I want to get to wrestling because I have so many questions about it. And as a person who, the Bostonian in me had an early experience with it. But it's changed so much. We've kind of lived in the same world, though. I know. Okay. Your mom, you bought her a house.

29:57My mom earned a castle. But that story is such a good story. So we settled on a house. Okay. Just tell a little bit of that story how it went, if you don't mind. There's never any land for sale in West Newberry. Right. And there came a large plot for sale in the height of development. and it was heavily overpriced. I don't know if anyone was following the financial ticker, but something happened in 2008. And that same person - Everybody made good decisions. Well, the culmination of all those good decisions happened and they stopped pouring the champagne. Yeah. The person who was selling the property came back and said, hey, we just want to recoup our engineering costs.

30:39Would you still be interested? So a value opportunity came up of like, I don't need this. but I have an idea of what I can do with it. And my brother, Dan just so happened to be in really good graces and working for a contractor at the time. And he's one of the most respected individuals in like our small building community met with him. And I kind of specced out like, what would this idea take in real time? He's like, less than the cost of what they offered you to buy the place for. I'm like, but you can do all this. He's like, I can. It's like, I'd like you to put your name on this place and make it something you're proud of.

31:15He's like, I still can do that. Okay, do it. And a secret meeting like this. Oh, my God. Everyone wearing suits. A lot of smoke. Everybody's scotch. It was 8 a.m. It was like, Dan, we're doing this. Don't fucking say a word. The story is I'm moving back home. So building a house takes a long time. And it's a beautiful plot on the hill where, like, from three towns over, you can see what's going on. So now we got a clear land and we're digging trenches and we're building this nice, beautiful New England home that exposes itself to the river. It's got viewpoints. It's got this crazy copper dome and all this stuff.

31:55Everything is settled for like creatively. Everything's on the first floor and there are multiple floors, but everything you need to get in and out of the access is on the first floor. And everybody's watching the project and everybody's like, when are you coming home? And everyone, you know, in the family is kind of excited. And meanwhile, I'm still in my residence, happy in Florida. So it finally gets done two years later. And it's around Thanksgiving, which is a great time in New England because everyone like comes home for Thanksgiving. And they go to the bars for Thanksgiving and the Thanksgiving football game.

32:25My mom's birthday is close to Thanksgiving. So we throw a Thanksgiving thing. And it's not for my mom's birthday. Everybody comes over because we're keying the door to the house for the first time. Play still smells new. and taking everybody for a tour. And I'm bragging about like, ah, this is this and this is this thing. And I built a bar over the garage because I had one space for me. My mom doesn't like that, but she wanted to come see the whole house. And when everybody gets in the bar room, I give my mom a birthday present. And it's the key to the house. And she like lost it. Like she absolutely, she's like, I can't, I can't.

33:02I'm like, no, it's already taken care of. Movers are coming tomorrow. My mom was living in the third floor of like a triple family in an attic in 300 square feet with her stuff packed in. And she was just by herself packed in and she was content and happy. That's who my mom is. She's a lunch pail blue. Like she'd go to work. She wouldn't accept it. So then I had to negotiate. I had to be a diplomat of like, you don't understand. There'll be trucks there tomorrow. Everyone's on board. We're going to move your stuff over. I'll tell you what, it's already here. This isn't for me. Could you please at least give it a try so all this doesn't go to waste?

33:40Well, if it's going to go to waste. And that was like 15 years ago, and she's been there ever since. And now it's her place. And we get together there on holidays, and it's her place. And that's what a son should do for his mother. Well, again, I... Buy your mother a house. She earned it. She absolutely earned it. It's such a beautiful story to John, because you also included everybody in that surprise, you know, like in and you. I just think I don't I just I just think it's it's so indicative of how you're always kind of thinking about how can I how can I extend my gratitude? You're such a generous, generous person.

34:24And we'll talk about that. But I'm after this. My parents are going to call me and say, why haven't you bought me a house? A hundred percent. Bill and Eileen are going to be like, we're against the wall. We have no space. We heard John on the podcast and we're wondering why you haven't built us a house.

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35:18You know, my dad used to take me to wrestling in the 80s. You're kidding. No, so we used to see Hulk Hogan. Where? Sergeant. I know you're going to ask me this. I forget. Maybe like the Worcester Centrum. Or as we would say, Worcester. The Worcester Central. So it was Hulk Hogan, Sergeant Slaughter, the Iron Sheik. Yeah. High 80s, you know, very. So here's the cool thing. There were a lot more performers on that card, but you remember like Americana, patriotism. Totally. It was USA all the way. Xenophobic, all that. But that was. Totally. That was the time. And I remember watching it and being like, you know, in retrospect now, it was kind of like the closest we could get to Las Vegas or something.

36:07Like it was like it was like how it felt like a like a high level, high energy performance. That's pretty. That's on the bullseye. Yeah. With audiences that were really, really invested. Yeah. And can you explain wrestling to me feels like a combination of. dance, choreography, writing, and story, and like magic that you will never know the secrets to. I'll take that. Okay. Is that fair? I think that's very fair. So when you are performing and you are in that arena and the audience gets to interact with you and you are, how much have you prepared for that day? Because the difference is like any other performance there is such skill needed for the physical i mean you like search of soleil doesn't wing it no but you there is a there's an amount of improv in wrestling that i noticed when i would see it and also in and watching it now that is like i can't always tell how much is prepared how much is actually prepared and rehearsed it depends it completely depends on the performance Okay.

37:26Yeah, it completely does. Some like to do that, some don't. Some. What do you like to do? I like to be an improvisational performer. Right. But that is not, I don't go out and wing it. Right. I prepare my ass off. Right. So I start with the creative part. What is the story? Yeah. So if we're fighting over the fact that you stole 10 grand from me. Right. Everything I do is going to relate back to your theft. and everything you do is going to defend that you never took it. And the thing that WWE is different than SNL, that is different than sketch, the audience is the act. Not observing the act.

38:08The audience is the act. So as a performer, the way I approach it is, okay, I have 25 minutes, we have a match together. And we've been telling the story of, you've stolen something from me. $10 ,000. for three weeks. This is a lot of money. You needed it for your... I was going to pay off my mom's house. Pay off your mom's house. And you took that away from me. And now she can't get in. And now she's going to be evicted. Yep. So just by... And what are you going to do about it? You've kicked my mom out of her house. Yeah. Oh, that's so good. You did that. Yeah. And I almost... This was the last payment.

38:41Yeah. You know, I've... And I got the keys and I'm just swinging them right in front of you. Yeah. So now you, you being a creative mind, we could have that wrestling match right now. Right. Give us 25 minutes. I'll take 35. Okay. I love that. And then you're right. So the, all the moves are kind of connected to that, right? Like everything goes back to that theme. And here's where it gets very interesting. If the story dictates in this match, it dictates you've stolen something from me. We're going to ring the bell. I'm going to show that I'm more skilled and I've earned this, the right to make this payment.

39:15You're going to cheat just like you stole and be like, no, I'm better. Right. And then And there's going to come a point in the story where the crowd is like, would you do something? It's the typical Hulk up. Yeah. It's called the comeback. So what I do is we have our why. What we need to really rehearse is from the comeback to the finish. Okay. And that's usually. Oh, I see what you mean. That's usually the last. We need to rehearse the physical part of that. The third act. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. The third act needs to be ad nauseum. You need to have it. Right. Because you're doing dangerous things.

39:51You are doing dangerous things, but there's a fundamental trust between performers that you know X skill, I know X skill. And the conversation we can have before is, do you do anything specific that's outside of the fundamentals that I should know about? Right. And the person who leads gets all that information and stores all these things in their card catalog. The third act needs to be prepared because it can also change. Right. Basically, you use the first two acts to go out and improvise. Right. And if we get out there in the Worcester Center, which I believe to be a rowdy crowd, but slightly different than Boston and Hartford, but they change.

40:27And they're like, we're for you. Right. We don't want that mom to have her house. But keep in mind, we need to gear for that moment where they're like, John, do something. Right. So immediately, a piece of line that I would throw in the water is punch me in the face. And they might cheer. You would say that to me? Punch me in the face? I would say immediately. Punch whatever we had planned. If we talked about something. And they came out and we're like, yeah, Amy. I'm like, punch me in the face now. Or like, I'll go out. Because you want to make sure. I will go out and turn my shoulder to the crowd as if I'm confused.

41:00And when I come back, hit me in the face. Bam. So we did two things there. You threw the first punch, which is not fair. It's not virtuous. And you did it when I wasn't looking. Right. So it's these subconscious things of like, they're for Amy, but this is my mom. I'm like, bam. Oh, geez. Get on me. Come here. And then I would have you just beat the tar on me. And they might like that. And then I would just have you lean into that. Yeah. Where it becomes like, oh, man. It's like watching a bad fight. And then I would just listen to be like, well, come on. Do something. Do something. Nah, screw you.

41:38Do something. Okay. Duck. Here we go. And then we go into it. Now we have the, now the audience is working with us rather than against us. But there have been instances where the people behind the curtain will tell the ref to tell you, like, switch the finish. So we've decided that the other person is going to win. So if you're super prepared, you can change things and change in real time. Now, keep in mind, as I'm saying, when I turn around, punch me in the face. I'm listening to the crowd. I'm hoping you're going to be there. I'm also listening to my ref. So sorry. That is, I thought that was real.

42:14No, it's fake. It's a real ruse. Anyway, I have the ref being like, you have 17 minutes left. You have 16 minutes left. So like it's all happening in real time. And there are coaches watching you from behind a curtain that will tell the ref what they think you should do. Right. Oh, you're getting notes. You're getting notes in real time. In real time. But that's why live TV is so thrilling. It's great. That's why I wanted to do it forever. And I just physically I can't do it anymore. But that's why when anyone says, like, what do you like more? Wrestling. Yeah. That's why I got run out of Hollywood the first time around.

42:51You talked about that. I love what you said, which is like. Look at what we just talked about. That's fucking great. Right. You can feel the excitement. The moment. The crowd. I want to be there now. The noise. And then when you get fluent at it. Yeah. When you're like, oh, I kind of understand this. I'll do this. And then the challenge becomes like, oh, man, the UK crowd is throwing a beach ball around. How do I work that into the act? Go out and get that thing and pop it. When you come back, I'm going to give you my finish. Real time. This stuff, I've had people get married. I've had people start fights in stands.

43:23And we work it all into the act. That's amazing. Just because you're prepared. It's the opposite of like doing stand-up and not wanting a heckler, basically. You want that feeling that people are listening and participating. Here's the thing. It's not that we want it. It's just it is. It is. In a stand-up, the kind of protocol is like, enjoy the comedy. Don't heckle. Yeah. Here, it's like you have paid your money to heckle. Yeah. And there's 12 ,000 of you. All right, good luck. And you can heckle en masse. Yeah. Chants start out that are too hot for TV, that Netflix is turning us off and turning us off.

44:01I was going to say, like, you— The audio goes out. Like, it's crazy. And you can't—the more you try to be like, calm down, everybody. Yeah, of course. You don't want to be the calm down character. You have to understand that you're working with them. That would be my character. They are part of the act. I would be like, you guys, calm down. Stop. I'd be like, guys, it's so loud. That would be my thing. Guys, it's so late. From Wilbur, Massachusetts, calm down, Amy. I'd be like, it's so late. It's so loud. I'd be like, why are we fighting? Why are we fighting? This is crazy. That would be my character.

44:32Do you hear that? Let's take a nap. Do you hear that off in the distance? It's the money printing machine. Take a nap. Take a nap. Take a nap. oh man calm down shirts we sell chamomile tea oh this is amazing that's actually great I can hear the money I can hear it I can actually I go shh guys and all of my holds all of my moves are like to just be like quiet just okay like and I just I snap and they go down just be quiet quiet just come on and then everybody brings their blankets in and they're like shh nobody calm down wait we sell big foam hands wait calm down Amy when the entire place is quiet CDA calm down Amy CDA it's instead of CBD oil it's CDA we'll get you that we'll get that brand partnership working this this is fucking genius we did this here we just did this here and here's what's also so crazy about the WWE you might see that character they'll be watching me like hmm yeah they're on to something hmm get the CBD go I love what you said in your transition to acting is that it was confusing to not have the show, you know, like the super long hours, lots of waiting around for your time.

45:48Different mindset. Totally. And you spoke about how in the beginning it was really confusing. As a young 20-something. Yeah. I wanted to be there and I want to go to the bar afterwards. Yeah, right. And then do it in the next town and in the next town. And get instant feedback. It's the best. Yeah. And I'm not saying like crushing it is awesome. It's the best when you bomb. Yeah. It's the best. Right. Because then you're like whizzing to be like, I got another performance in 24 hours. What do I do? Like, it's the best. Yeah. And you don't get feedback when you're shooting. I mean, you do from the director.

46:19It's different. It's a different mindset. Yeah. And it took me appreciation of the mindset to really apply. Yeah. And people like you to bet on me and know that like, oh man, I'm getting an opportunity here. What can I do? show up early and fucking be prepared. Yeah. Be ready to go. I mean, okay, so we worked together in a movie called Sisters. Me and Tina, the great Paula Pell. And it was so fun. Tons of comedians. Great cast. Great cast. It was so fun to work with you. And you and Paula Pell fell in love. You loved each other. And I mean, to me... We had a few conversations over wine. You and Paula had a few wine.

47:01What did you guys... Do you guys hung out and drank wine? A lot. I mean, And what's so great about Paula? What do you love about her? I like her perspective. I love her courage. Man, like I just like that energy. Like, again, I say anchors in sales. She's a sale. Yeah. You know, like always curious, always creative, off the wall. Yeah. I just know any idea is going to have like that whimsy, that magic in it. Yeah. And I want to be with those people. Yeah. You know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Were you a big comedy fan growing up? Because you've done a lot. Oh, my God, yes. What were you watching? We were all watching SNL.

47:39What were you watching? At a young age, I was watching stuff I shouldn't be watching. Of course. So my dad was the only person, my only male in New England that didn't care for sports. Not kidding. Interesting. Like, we never grew up with the Red Sox, the Celts, because that stuff all happened when I got to junior high. Right. And I had to fall into peer group, so, like, I got to start caring about sports. Right. My dad liked old 80s titty comedies and pro wrestling. Like Benny Hill. He loves. So I'm watching like Benny Hill. My people don't understand how important Benny Hill was. I mean, it's, it's, and now you watch it now and you're like, Jesus Christ, this is a terrible show.

48:19Like Benny Hill is talking about predator. It just didn't age well for the time. But at the time I remember being a little kid being like, what is this? Yep. A lady standing behind a bunch of melons. Yep. And Benny Hill's like, hee hee hee like a cartoon character trying to grab it and the music and there's always a chase and there's always a chase and it was like what what is this like yeah and and so in our psyche Benny Hill yeah the chase with the music has become a meme totally you don't have to do the Benny Hill style but you do the chase the music and it's a meme yeah and did they watch like did they we watched like Kentucky Fried Movie yes Animal House Caddyshack yes anything Rodney did yeah Like, I mean, you name it.

49:02I mean, all those comedies. We talked about Mr. Mom. Like, it's just 80s comedies. Yes. My dad would literally fast forward through the romance of, like, the rom-coms. Gotta get to the jokes. But they were great. Yeah, but, dude, some of them, like, you go back and you're like, oh, my God, Porky's? Porky's was a huge, that was on heavy rotation. And when you were a young woman watching Porky's, it was not good. So, John, it really fucked. It really fucked with our heads. I get it. It did because it was like, what is going on? It's like, like there was so much like, you know, I remember watching Weird Science and being like, incredible movie.

49:44And then a couple of years later, I'm like, two teenage boys create a sex robot. It's Kelly LeBrock. And they're like, come sex robot, come meet our friends. And I'm like, that did, that does fuck you up. It does. Because we saw it. I'm sure this has happened where you look at an 80s movie. You're like, this is hilarious comedy. And then you play it and you're like, oops. There's a lot of that. But you have a real knack and love, I think, for comedy especially. But you do all different kinds of acting. What's your relationship to acting right now? You know, you're retired. I'm a retired physical performer.

50:24We'll see. No, no, no, no. Okay. So I have stated that speaking in absolutes is impossible. Yeah, exactly. I've also used the term, it would be financial suicide for someone to be like, here's what it's going to take. And I'd be like, you did it. I'm a liar. Financial suicide. You know that how Judge Judy negotiates her contracts? She slides over a number. That is so, she's such a G. She's such a G. And then she goes, and if you don't want me to do it? guess what guess what cares i got i'm good i got a uh i got a 315 it's 307 she's like she slides she slides and they look and then they go welcome back or whatever um but i'm never performing physically okay got it got it and there's there's multi-tears to that uh i i need to stop because physically i want to be i want to enjoy a long good life i don't want to have a bunch of crusty years and punishing my body the math isn't in my favor for the good years what is the part of your body that barks the most when it's low back but so so i'm a male or i'm a human at 50 that's everyone yeah aside from that i did really good that's great do you do like pilates and yoga and like stretchy stuff heavy stretchy stuff yeah and i hate it and i do it a lot all the time can you touch your toes i can fucking i can't touch my toes Stay in frame.

51:54The suit is tough. Oh my god, John is doing it. He's touching his toes. I actually can't bend farther than the suit. Whoa! That's really good, John. I can go hands flat on the floor. That's my stretch. Hands flat on the floor? That's my stretch every day in the shower. And if you walk in on me taking a shower, you'll see me in a different POV. You can do hands flat. Man, I was really... It's just all the funky bits. Spread open. That is it. Every morning, full spread. Start with that full spread. Man, I was really hoping that you would be not flexible. No, because I have to work on that now. You have to work at it.

52:30That's incredible. I want to move around. Yeah. So I can talk about it or do it. Okay. And it sucks and I hate it and I do it. Oh, God. And it's great. You're good at doing things you don't like to do. But I like to do them because I like what it yields. Yeah. And forced austerities are a luxury because life gives you stuff that you really don't want to do that you didn't get to choose. And a lot of times the choose, like, I want to do this. I want to be good at this. All right. It's going to be a lot of things that are going to be tough. Yeah. Okay. So I'll fucking stretch more. Jesus. You got to.

53:01I know. You got to. I mean, it's just, it's like a crusty rubber band. You got to make sure. Don't let it get too weird. Oh, God. Okay. So physically I'm good. So you're physically good and you're feeling good and your relationship to acting now feels like what? What have you learned about yourself as you've acted more and more? What have I learned? Yeah. Acting and wrestling are the same. The same. Interesting. I don't run the company, so I don't control who wins and loses. Right. I get a chance to make choices within my story, but I can't change the finish. I should be prepared. I should hit my time.

53:35I shouldn't ask for more than I'm given and I should be grateful for what I have. if you do good work and you are professional, it increases the math of people calling you back. Right. And also I got to say, John, you're such a softie. You were the, like, you're really, really, I talked about it earlier. You're such a generous person. You're the person that's given the most, um, you know, you've, you've fulfilled more make a wish wishes than any celebrity over 650 at this point. You do incredible amounts of charity work. I know that about you. Giving that amount of time to people is expensive.

54:07It's a lot of energy. And even that, sometimes I'm sure you walk away feeling like, I wish I could have given more. How do you kind of, when you approach people who are sick and ill, because a lot of people are very scared of reaching out when people are in a tough place. You know what I'm talking about? It's not easy to be around, especially young people who are having perhaps like, or perhaps close to the end of their lives. Remember your why. Why am I there? Am I there to be scared? Right. Am I there to be sad? No. I am there to be the hope. And that is my why. And now I'm retired. People like Cody, people like Ria, people like Roman.

54:55It's their time to be the hope. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Those experiences renew my faith in humanity. Yeah. They give me gratitude for life. Yeah. I'm so grateful for the people I've met. Yeah. Like, and man, when people are just raw, emotionally excited, you see it. It's real. You can't fake it. I like what I'm learning about you, John, is like you're chasing emotion. Like you're looking for it. You like want to have real connection. Don't we all? No. I disagree. Well, I mean, I guess. I mean, I guess we do. But yes, we do at the end. There is no 100 % certainty of anything. There might be a mathematical anomaly.

55:38I guess it's just that people don't make it a priority, right? Like they might want it, but it feels like you prioritize connection. That's what matters. I'm just saying like. I'm just trying to do me the best I can. You won't take a fucking compliment. I will say at this moment in life, loving connection is pretty important. I'm swinging them around in the ring, and I'm going to give you a compliment before the finish. Now, everybody calm down and get quiet so I can compliment you. And now take a nap. CDA, CDA. It's too late. Okay. And so the other thing is you brought up Cody. Yeah. So we do a thing on the podcast where we talk to someone who knows our guest.

56:20I did this for Idris. Oh, yeah, that's right. It's where I gave you the mythology behind that bottle of wine you've pounded during this show. Oh, my God. And forgot that I did your show. Oh, yes. Yes. Oh, I remember you did it. What was the mythology? What is the... I told you the next time I see her, bring you a bottle of wine. Oh, I did forget that. I wish you had let me know you forgot that. That way I wouldn't have had to carry that in my bag. This is so fancy this morning. I can't wait to drink it. Okay, thank you for doing that for Idris. It's Idris. I know. He's my guy. And Cody, talk to us today.

56:56I'm so glad you talked to him. Cody Rhodes, first of all... Because I will say, not a lot of wrestlers on Good Hang. You're trying to have a diverse portfolio of people in the entertainment space. Not a lot of WWE superstars on Good Hang. Think I might be number uno. Yeah. Well, we've got two today. That's right. See, there we go. Chill out. We've reached our quota. I think this is a great day. It's a good start. You've increased your population by 100%. You're right. And I do want to talk to more wrestlers. You don't. That's why I started the podcast. You don't, but you will. Out of guilt. You'll be like, we got to, could somebody get the number of that guy?

57:34Because we'll have, that'll be crazy. But, you know, I love talking to Cody. And. That's good. Well, first of all, I found out that the term baby face, which. Yeah. Absolutely love. And. Heel too. Heel. Would I be considered a baby face? So this is another thing. It's kind of, it's kind of ambiguous. If you went out and tried to be liked, you would be a heel. Fuck. I think if you went out and you were yourself. Babyface? Born babyface. And then do women get different terms in wrestling? No, the terms are universal. Okay, love that. Okay. And it was really fun to talk about him noticing how much you not only care about your own work and pay attention to the good work of others, but that you're kind of constantly learning new things.

58:21I mean, you know Mandarin. A little bit. You know French, I hear? A little bit. Okay. Congrats. So that's like, you know, math. I know a little bit of math. I don't know all of math. Okay. I know. Could you speak, could you order in a restaurant in both those languages? Yes. Congrats. That's great. Well, Cody was like, what are you, Cody's question is such a brotherly question, which is like, what are you going to do with all this knowledge? He was like, write a book. And if you don't write a book, what's the point of it all? And then he was like, what can you not do well? But Cody was really funny.

59:01His question was really this search for knowledge and getting, like, you really want to know things. What do you, what do you, what's behind that search? What's behind, like, the drive for those things? Am I honoring life correctly? Yeah, but why do you worry that you're not? Because look how lucky I am. Yeah. Like, am I doing enough? Am I doing enough? If I'm not moving forward, I'm not honoring the luck. I talk about like earning the sunset. I'm big on like honoring the luck. This is not in my control. This is like the weird mystical piece of the universe from who I am when I was born, where I was born, the opportunities I've been had that are beyond my control.

59:43Just go like hell and try to honor the luck. It's what I do alone to focus, stay committed, do something hard, feel good about myself. Like it is mine. But when you go to my wrestling matches, you're going to be encouraged to just take a break and calm down and take a nap. You got it. You did it. You are. You want to talk about it. Because I do think productivity is a curse. You know, it can be a curse. We're eating money on the table. Okay, we're going to get a little quick lightning round. Here we go. What are you reading? Right now, Mania's Crisis and Crashes, 8th edition. What's that? It is a history of market manias, crashes, and bubbles.

1:00:27Uh-huh. Okay. Great. Because I just want to know about it. You want to know about it. Okay. It's a tough book to read. Yeah. The South City Crisis and the Tulip Mania bubble. And yes. Okay. Railroad fever in the 1800s. An album that you're into right now that you've been listening to. Old or new? I'm rocking to some cocktail jazz because I want to try to learn how to play it. But when I'm alone, blues. Like a John Lee Hooker, Howling Wolf, blues. Okay. Fun movie you've seen recently or like a comfort movie. Like one that's on that if you see it, you're just like, I want to watch it. Just watch the Lorne Michaels documentary.

1:01:04Oh, yeah. Loved it. Loved it. Like reminds me a lot of what we do. and man when I walked the hallowed halls of Saturday Night Live like as a single serving guest the amount of respect I have for everyone and then him seeing seeing that it was awesome it was awesome John the thing about wrestling you you know you've made it when everyone has an impression of you totally he is what a what a amazing person when I was wrestling in Canada Okay. Are you watching anything fun? We just got through four seasons. This is going to be taped, but we're taping it on Will Forte's birthday. Happy birthday, Will.

1:01:47Oh, my God. Happy birthday, Will. Happy birthday in hell, Will. That's Tina Fey's. Tina, the four seasons. Great second season. So we just got through the second season of that. Fantastic. Yeah. So that's that. And then you're in the new movie Little Brother with Eric Andre. Congratulations on that. And what was it like working on that and the experience of working on that? Eric is an eccentric physical comedian. He is awesome. I got to say, I've always been impressed by what he can do. Yeah. Give someone the chance to show what they can do and you set yourself up to be surprised. Yeah. He crushed.

1:02:22Yeah. Not only, I read the script and it came from him and I'm like, dude, this is your vehicle. I will gladly do this because you're going to shine. There's also parts in there that are really heartfelt. Uh-huh. And he crushed those as well. Yeah. And like, what a moment. I think it's going to be a great movie. It's going to be a great movie for people who see it on Netflix. I'm very happy to be a part of it. I got to do a comedy. Yeah. Where you know with comedies, you're like laughing all the time. Well, this is my last question, which is like what I know you love to laugh and you love comedy.

1:02:50What are you what's making you laugh right now? Like what do you. It could be anything. Yeah. Like is there a video, a scene from a what's something that you like. No, you never know. I think, OK, X makes me laugh. Yeah. I rule out everything else. A lot of it is me. Like the joke's on me. Uh-huh. Right. Being self, like, yeah. Allowing yourself to be a soundboard for humor not only, like, eases the tension. Yeah. You never know what it can lead to. Right. A lot of it is, like, the big bullseye and the fuchsia pinstripe. Right. So if you open that door, it's kind of cool. And then it gets, like, you don't want to be too crazy because sometimes ball busting can be bullying.

1:03:30Yeah. And you always want to, you know, cool that tea kettle. But a little bit of teasing can be a love language. I adore that like, hey, look at me. I'm such an idiot. Yeah. And then like, hey, let's talk. Yeah, yeah, yeah. See, you're trying to get connection there. You're back to connection. Laughter helps connection, doesn't it? If we're laughing about something, we're talking about something. It's so true. So my folks are going to love little brother. They're going to laugh. They're going to wake up the next morning and be like, what's your favorite part? Yeah, yeah. Awesome. Well, Sina, I love.

1:03:56This is a good hang. It's such a good hang. I love seeing you. You're so fun to talk to and fun to work with. and such a considerate, nice person. Thanks for doing this pod. Thanks for being here. I probably will never wear a tie again for anybody, but you never know. You wear it well. Oh my God, thanks. Yeah, you look great. We literally just ran out and got it across the street. You look great. Thanks. And you just put this together. Like a lot of those just put together looks are really trying hard. Well, I realized halfway through, I was like, he's going to show up in a suit. I'm like, we got, we were like, we got to get our shit together.

1:04:30Let's go, we have six minutes. Paper splice. it looks great thank you i appreciate it so much for doing it thank you thank you so much john cena it was so fun having you here and i can't wait to take this tie off and get reg get back to my regular sticking it to the man but um no it was so fun talking to you and um such a pleasure always to hear your uh perspective and pov and for this polar plunge as we wrap up. You know, we talked, John and I talked a lot about comedies, 80s comedies, those like big, dumb, funny things that we grew up on. And speaking of big, dumb and funny, I just want to remind everybody that Wet Hot American Summer, a film I did 25 years ago, is celebrating its 25th year.

1:05:21And there's going to be a million different ways to go back and watch what is really genuinely a funny, dumb movie with a lot of cast members who are at the beginning of their careers. So check that out if you can and check out John Cena's new movie, Little Brother, and continue to support the arts and wrestling because if we learned one thing, they are the same thing. Goodbye. You've been listening to Good Hang. The executive producers for this show are Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss-Berman, and me, Amy Poehler. The show is produced by The Ringer and Paper Kite. For The Ringer, production by Jack Wilson, Kat Spillane, Kaya McMullin, and Alea Zanaris.

1:06:06For Paper Kite, production by Sam Green, Joel Lovell, and Jenna Weiss-Berman. Original music by Amy Miles.

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John Cena is the babyface of this podcast. Amy hangs with the former WWE star and talks about building his mom a house, watching '80s wrestling at Worcester Centrum, and his morning stretching routine.Host: Amy PoehlerGuests: Cody Rhodes and John CenaExecutive Producers: Bill Simmons, Amy Poehler, and Jenna Weiss-BermanFor Paper Kite Productions: Executive producer Jenna Weiss-Berman, coordinator Sam Green, and supervising producer Joel LovellFor The Ringer: Supervising producers Juliet Litman, Sean Fennessey, and Mallory Rubin; video producers Jack Wilson, Belle Roman, and Aleya Zenieris; lighting director Caroline Jannace; audio producer Kaya McMullen; social producer Bridget Geerlings; video editor Drew van Steenbergen; and bookers Kat Spillane and Paige GarbariniOriginal Music: Amy Miles

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