Rachel Sennott

16 Dec 2025 · 1 h 14 min · 41 chapters

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In short

Rachel Sennott discusses her career and creative process, including her HBO show I Love LA, how she builds community through comedy/open mics, her Saturn return and turning 30, and her approach to directing/producing/writing. She also shares LA love and practical advice on using TikTok-style “talk” and on fashion/outfit play (trying things on, taking photos, getting feedback from sisters).

Guest backgrounds

Molly Gordon is an actor known for The Bear (plays Claire) and films Theater Camp and Oh Hi. She met Sennott through shared early projects and describes Sennott as her “wife”/partner in a joking, intimate way; they talk daily.

Key claims

Sennott says ambition and confidence came early, and that rejection pushed her to create her own opportunities (stand-up, sketches, student films). She frames Saturn return as a multi-year shakeup involving depression, a breakup, and trusting her gut to say no to other work while her show got picked up. She argues directing/producing isn’t a secret room—once inside, it’s collaborative problem-solving.

Notable examples

Her first stand-up open mic included a joke about being fingered; her Les Mis high school casting leaned comedic roles; Shiva Baby began as a short that got into South by Southwest, then expanded into a feature with a very small budget (~$200K).

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Molly Gordon's Introduction

1:10 to 1:40

Molly Gordon joins the conversation to share insights about Rachel Sennott.

“our guests, who can tell me something about our guests and give me a question to ask our guests.”

Molly and Amy’s Conversation

2:32 to 4:10

Molly shares her experiences and thoughts about directing and tea.

“Yeah, I've always seen you from afar and like I'm trying to send you very intense love.”

Meeting Rachel Sennott

4:13 to 7:42

Molly recounts how she met Rachel and their creative bond.

“And what kind of tea do you like to drink?”

Unapologetic Ambition

7:43 to 9:35

Molly discusses Rachel's confidence and ambition in the industry.

“But it's like, no, she wants to create things.”

Molly's Question for Rachel

9:36 to 11:23

Molly prepares a poignant question for Rachel about her ambition.

“Okay, and then the last thing I'll say, is there anything you want me to, any story you want me to prompt Rachel to tell?”

Short People Unite

12:07 to 14:00

Amy and Rachel discuss their shared experiences as short people.

“And I love, I love that we're both short.”

Growing Up in a Large Family

14:00 to 15:00

Discover the dynamics of being raised in a big family and how it shaped Rachel's identity.

Balancing Personalities and Needs

15:00 to 16:00

Explore how growing up with multiple siblings taught Rachel the importance of compromise and equality.

“Where are you in the birth order of that?”

Pursuing Art in a Numbers Family

16:00 to 17:20

Learn about Rachel's artistic ambitions in a family of accountants and how it influenced her career.

“And like you sort of had to like, you know, shout at the dinner table to be heard.”

The Grounded Presence of Rachel Sennott

17:20 to 18:30

Rachel discusses her self-assuredness and how it captivates audiences.

“It's a little, it's a little more lefty loosey.”
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Comedy Inspiration and Friendship

18:30 to 19:10

Rachel reflects on the influence of female comedians and the importance of community in her journey.

“And being like, I'll go to the weird open mic with you and the whatever.”

Growing Up in Connecticut

19:10 to 19:50

Discussion on Rachel's experiences growing up in Connecticut and its cultural nuances.

“And again, you seem like a Manhattan kid.”

From Dinner Table Humor to NYU

19:50 to 20:50

Rachel describes her transition from family humor to pursuing performance at NYU.

“I want to get to NYU and like be a performer?”

The Comedy of Casting

20:50 to 21:40

A humorous take on Rachel's casting experiences in high school plays.

“But I kind of know what you mean, because it's usually the comedic part.”

The Challenge of Being Loud

21:40 to 22:50

Exploration of how being a loud child shaped Rachel's identity and acting journey.

“And there's something, like, underneath being, like, a loud young kid that's kind of—can be very exciting, especially if you're, like, a young woman.”

Finding Your Own Voice

22:50 to 23:50

Rachel discusses the struggle of finding her place in the acting world at NYU.

“But I think like that instinct was always there.”

Unsuccessful Auditions and Motivation

23:50 to 25:10

Reflections on the rejection from auditions and how it motivated Rachel to create her own opportunities.

“And like we're doing we're like walking around the room and you're a cat and then you're like a chicken.”

Rejection as Protection

25:10 to 25:50

Rachel shares a powerful insight about how rejection leads to new opportunities.

“And that's when we first met was like at the auditions for those groups.”

Starting Stand-Up Comedy

25:50 to 27:30

Rachel recounts her early experiences with stand-up comedy and the encouragement she received.

“Because the best things happen to me right after I'm at rock bottom.”

The First Open Mic Experience

27:30 to 28:50

A humorous recount of Rachel's first open mic performance and the content of her jokes.

“So I was, I was just like, I have no experiences other than this.”

Chasing the High of Performance

28:50 to 29:59

Explore the journey of seeking validation and the highs and lows of early stand-up performances.

“all I brought to the story was like It kind of hurt.”

Building a Creative Community

29:59 to 31:58

Learn how forming connections with peers can shape your creative journey in your 20s.

“Or did you feel like stand up was a tool or like a stepping stone to what you wanted to do, which was right, act, direct, all the stuff you're doing now?”

Reflections on Turning 30

31:58 to 33:51

Discuss the significance of turning 30 and the changes it brings in one's life and career.

“Like, how can I form some kind of community to get me through the next X amount of years, like, of trying to do the thing that I want to do?”

Navigating Saturn's Return

33:51 to 36:11

Dive into the concept of Saturn's return and how it impacts personal and creative life.

“Then I feel like I moved to LA and I, like, I got really, like, a little weird and, like, hermity and, like, kind of, I don't know.”

The 30th Birthday Celebration

36:11 to 36:59

Experience the joy and excitement surrounding celebrations and the importance of letting loose.

“And then you get in the room and it's like three guys being like, I think we should shoot it really slow.”

Social Plans and Overcommitment

36:59 to 41:40

Discuss the challenges of maintaining social connections while managing a busy lifestyle.

“It was good because I feel like I've been working for so long.”

Creative Outfit Exploration

41:40 to 42:00

Learn about the fun and chaos of experimenting with outfits and personal style.

“I would say do it in, like, the daytime.”

Exploring Play and Fashion

42:00 to 44:29

Learn about the joy of play in fashion and personal style.

“And you throw stuff on the floor and you take pictures with stuff.”

Rachel's Journey in Filmmaking

49:22 to 56:00

Hear Rachel discuss her experiences in filmmaking and collaborations.

“and it got into South By and after it got into South By Emma was like, I still remember it was like Emma and I like met up at a dig in.”

The Origins of Confidence

56:00 to 56:40

Exploration of where confidence and ambition come from.

Marketing Passion and TikTok Tips

56:40 to 58:00

Discussion about a love for marketing and TikTok strategies.

“I just started getting on marketing calls and I'm like, these girls are fabulous.”

Creative Expression and Fun

58:00 to 59:00

The joy of creating content and expressing oneself authentically.

“Wait, do you ever do slow-mo so then it speeds it up?”

Authenticity vs. Audience Expectations

59:00 to 1:00:20

Navigating the balance between being true to oneself and audience approval.

“And then afterwards you get to watch it over and over and go, I made that.”

The Pros and Cons of Living in LA

1:00:20 to 1:02:20

Discussion on experiences living in Los Angeles and its challenges.

“We talked about this a lot when we were creating the show.”

Winter in LA: A Unique Experience

1:02:20 to 1:04:40

The joys of experiencing winter in Los Angeles and activities to enjoy.

“Like I really, you know, my kids are almost out of school.”

Cigarettes and Vapes: A Cultural Shift

1:04:40 to 1:06:30

Discussion on the resurgence of cigarettes and the evolution of smoking habits.

“I think Los Angeles, California in the winter is where it really shines.”

Admiration and Inspiration in Comedy

1:06:30 to 1:08:20

Exploring role models and the impact of influential figures in comedy.

“Well, the cigarettes are people trying to wean off the vape.”

Emotional Vulnerability and Self-Discovery

1:08:20 to 1:10:06

Navigating emotional experiences and the search for personal identity.

“I think she's an incredible actress, or was an incredible actress.”

Exploring Emotional Connections to Objects

1:10:06 to 1:11:11

Discover how personal belongings can evoke strong emotions and memories.

“the job and I was trying to take it seriously and be locked in and I was like there's no time to cry There's no time to cry.”

The Power of TikTok in Friendships

1:11:11 to 1:12:13

Learn about the role of TikTok in enhancing connections and humor among friends.

“And then the last question is, what are you listening to, watching?”

Sharing Laughter Through Viral Videos

1:12:13 to 1:13:29

Explore how sharing funny videos brings joy and laughter in everyday life.

“But by the way, sometimes that's good because then you can go, I'm in a sad period right now.”
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0:32Hello, everyone. Welcome to another episode of Good Hang. Very excited about our guest today. It is the great Rachel Sennett, a super interesting, funny, charismatic actress, producer, writer. You know her from the film Shiva Baby, from Bodies, Bodies, Bodies, from Bottoms. She has a new show that's out right now on HBO called I Love LA. We're going to talk about that. We're going to talk about so many things. Open mic nights. We're going to talk about TikTok talk and how to use it and work it and what we love about it. She's going to give me fashion advice and she's going to give me reasons to love LA, which is what her show is all about.

1:08So very great conversation. But before we get started, we always talk to someone who knows our guests, who can tell me something about our guests and give me a question to ask our guests. And we have another supremely talented, delightful young woman joining us today, Molly Gordon. Molly Gordon is an actor. You may know her from the hit show, The Bear, where she plays Claire. She is Claire on The Bear. And she's in films such as Theater Camp and Oh Hi. She's super talented. And Molly is going to join us and give us some info about her buddy, Rachel. Hi, Molly. Can you hear me?

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2:31Hi, it's nice to meet you. Yeah, I've always seen you from afar and like I'm trying to send you very intense love. And I don't know if I've fully found my way over it. But yeah, but honestly, I've been listening to your podcast before I go to sleep. So you've been spending a lot of intimate time with me. Oh, yeah. That makes me feel happy. I'm so thrilled you wanted to talk today. I'm so excited to talk about my wife. She really is your wife. I was looking at the stuff that you and Rachel have done together and how long you've known each other. And you really are married, legally married. We're legally married.

3:08um she yeah it's she's my wife we talk every single day um wow well if one of us doesn't respond we'll just keep calling and it's hard to know when it's like an emergency or not i would say with with her um but yeah she's an incredible human being and like i you guys together is going to be magic well i'm thrilled to talk about her today with you but before i do let's not forget about Molly. Okay. What's Molly up to today? I'm prepping a movie that I'm going to direct. Fantastic. That I'm actually going to send you, Amy, at some point so we can. Yeah. And you have to tell me live on the podcast if you want to be a part of it or not.

3:52But I'm good. I just, I made hot tea and then I burned, I like burned my whole mouth and then spit it out all over the computer. And that's kind of where I'm at right now. Let's talk about tea for a second because I'm a tea girl more than a coffee girl. Are you two? I like tea. I violently wake up and I want like seven coffees of matcha. Then I have a tea around three. Okay. And what kind of tea do you like to drink? So I love this hot cinnamon spice Harley, uh, Harney and Sons tea, but usually English breakfast or a peppermint. You? Thanks for asking. I enjoy, my favorite tea is an Irish tea called Barry's tea, which I highly recommend.

4:33And it's a black tea and I don't like any other, I mean, maybe occasionally I'll do a peppermint. Like if I've had a, like a big meal, you just want to chill out. We needed to move through you in a way. I like, got it. Yeah, totally. But I've switched entirely from, I used to be kind of a coffee person and now I'm totally tea and it's made a diff. And do you feel like that's changed your whole personality. It definitely has changed my stomach's personality because I used to have to drink coffee like it was melted ice cream, like tons of cream and sugar. Yes. And now it's helped a lot to not have to get into that, like just to have that much shit in my stomach.

5:16You don't have to go to the bathroom every moment. Totally. Yeah, I moved back to New York and I was like, oh, it's really fun to like drink so much coffee and then like be trying to make it home to your house. Like I was nostalgic living in LA for that. Like, am I going to make it home? Yes. I mean, there for people who, you know, and this happened, this happens in a lot of cities, but like you get to know where you have to quickly go to the bathroom. You have to learn. And in Los Angeles, you're kind of in trouble. You spend a lot of time in your car. It's tough. A sweet green. They're pretty kind at a sweet green.

5:49I do have to say. They're sweet. Yeah, they're sweet. So when was the first time you met? Tell us about your meet cute. of when you met your wife. So I met my wife, um, Emmett Seligman, the director of Shiva Baby had a set of breakfast for me and Rachel and we all ate. And Rachel thought I was like a real actress because Rachel had just like been a standup and, and she, she was asking me a lot, like what it's like to be a real actress and, and lots of questions. And, um, and I was kind of like, I'm the normal, I'm just, I don't really get work. And like, we're because I'd been in like one movie but she yeah and then we like we read the script together and she was so funny and I had just never met like women my age that were that unapologetically unapologetically ambitious like she is so honest about what she wants in her life and like what she does what she's trying to achieve like what she does every day and I would always hide that I wanted those things and I feel like it was just so inspiring.

6:59But yeah, I agree. Like, I think she kind of showed me with like, with that film, she was trying out so many different things. And you know, it's that movie is a lot about sexuality and all these things. But she just showed me you don't have to fit in like some box. She was like, sometimes I want to do this. Sometimes I want to do this. And like, I don't know, I, I, when I was thinking about what I wanted to ask her, I was like, how did you have that confidence? Like, that's exactly what I wanted to start with. Because, But it's a funny question, right? I've been doing this podcast for a while, and there's people that come in, and I want to say, how did you know what you knew?

7:33Like, how did you get this sense of yourself? And it's a hard one to answer, because sometimes it's just kind of the way that they came out into the world. Totally, and she's still, speaking of what we're saying about containing multitudes, like, she's still really vulnerable, but she's just, but I don't know, the first time I met her, Amy, she was like, I wrote four scripts, I'm doing this, I want to do this, And like I had just never seen anyone act that way because you think, oh, that's like going to show that you have a big hat or something. But it's like, no, she wants to create things. Yeah.

8:03But I don't know. It's it's you can get into it with her. But it's like, yeah, she wants to create things and she wants to have great sex and she wants to have a great meal and she wants to cuddle with her friends like she wants all of those things. And there's nothing wrong with that. And you don't need to choose one lane to be in or something. She have a baby was made for two hundred thousand dollars. Yeah. Wow. Yeah, it's crazy. And how much did it end up making? And that all went to me. Yeah, you have a your quote was$199 ,000. Yeah, I had only worked a little bit, but my quote was, um, I don't know how much it made, but it definitely not that much because it came out in COVID.

8:47We do have to say Emma and I and Rachel always laugh that the movie is huge in London. we don't think a lot of people don't know it in the states but in London we're huge you walk around and it's it's like the Beatles in London I'm like having to go like this but everywhere else there must be a lot of like Jewish women who have sex at Chivas I don't know yeah for them And they all live in London. Yeah. Okay, so just to be clear, your question for Rachel is what? My question for Rachel is people have said that you, from a young age, were very unapologetically ambitious. Where did that come from or how did you learn to be that way?

9:32Where did that instinct – where was the through line? Great question. Okay, and then the last thing I'll say, is there anything you want me to, any story you want me to prompt Rachel to tell? Because she's a very good storyteller, I've noticed, on these kind of things. I'd love for you to ask her about the first time that she was fingered.

9:58Fantastic. I'm sorry. It's an incredible story, and she used to do it in, oh, and I'd also love you to ask her, if she'll come back to stand-up. Great. So did she tell her fingering story on stage? Okay, great. It's not like a violation. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You can say Molly or like someone was bringing up, you know, some of your first pleasuring experience or whatever, but I think her and I don't need to get back to stand-up. I know they're famous actors now, but it's like, come on, we got to see you on stage. I know, they're so funny. And stand-up is, it is like, I want to talk to her about it because as you know, like, And you know from being on stage, like if you can be on stage and hang in there, you build a muscle where you can kind of almost, you can handle almost anything.

10:45Almost anything. Yeah. It's so good talking to you. In the course of us talking, your hair has looked incredible down and also looks incredible up. I have to be honest, it's a gorgeous up to. It's so dirty. But it's really stunning. It is stunning. I'll end like and then you've gone like perfect it looks like you're just ready to walk out into the streets of London and just be mobbed I gotta be in I gotta get to London I just gotta get to London alright have a class okay thank you so much it was so fun talking to you bye bye this episode was brought to you by Visible when your phone's plans as good as Visible you've got to tell your people it's the ultimate wireless hack to save money and still get great coverage and a reliable connection.

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12:15I always talk about like, is it a short set or a tall set? It's very true because we can't reach things. Things are too high for us. And also, I don't like feeling short. No. If that makes sense. Right now, I'm feeling very tall. Okay, good. I'm feeling 5 '6". We're both giving 5 '6". We are? Yeah. That's my dream. 5 '6 is my dream, actually. Me too. I'm with Rachel Sennett. She is here. Rachel, I'm so happy that you're here. I am so happy that you're here, and so is my entire family. My dad was freaking out. And he was like, tell me about your dad. He, I'm addicted to him. I love my dad. Okay, this is what is so incredible about people in their 30s.

12:59They love their parents. You take, you take a journey. And I literally just turned 30 like a couple weeks ago. And I locked, it's almost like you have to like go away and be like, I'm my own. I'm an adult. You don't even fucking know me. And then I like something shifted and you're like, you're my friends. You know what? It's actually, I do want to talk about that. That's actually really deep. It does happen in your 20s. You have to kind of separate. Yes. And it's painful. It's painful. Was it painful for you? Yes. And I'm like scared because I know of everything I've done. I'm like, both of my parents are absolutely listening to every second of this.

13:40Okay. Other things they're like, we'll skip that one. So I'm like, let me try to, let me try to carefully. Tell me about your parents. They are, what are they, what were they, what are they like? What did they do? What was their job? Because here's one of my highest compliments. Yes. You seem like a Manhattan Nepo baby and you're not. Girl, don't flirt with me. Thank you. Thank you. Congrats. Thank you. I am maybe an insurance Nepo baby, basically, in that my dad works in insurance and he did hook me up with car insurance multiple times because I was driving around with a car with no insurance getting in car accidents and he was like let me help you he was like this is what I do this is what I do so my parents both were accountants and they met when they were both accountants at the same firm and then um fell in love dated secretly fun because they were sort of like we got to keep it low key which like you they're like we don't want it to mess with the numbers we don't want our romance to get like to screw up the numbers literally by the way they when they got married they got a mug that said which doesn't make sense a mug that said beware of accountants they multiply which i'm like they don't you two were already accountants and then you got together and none of your five children are accountants well excuse me five children That's a lot of children.

15:06Where are you in the birth order of that? I'm second oldest. Ah, okay. So they fell in love and they just started. They multiplied. And they multiplied. They started popping up out. And I will say I feel like they, having five or four siblings, but being in a big family is a huge part of who I am because I think it's like automatically you have so many different personalities. It's like if you put us all together, there's like you could kind of make connections between like pairs. But some of it is really random, like where you're like all of you guys. And I think like my parents did a really good job raising us and and sort of like taking everyone basically like not putting anyone's needs above another like everyone's career and what everyone does is equally important.

16:02And like you sort of had to like, you know, shout at the dinner table to be heard. And like you automatically have to compromise because it's like there's no way everyone's going to be happy all the time. And you have two very right brain parents, it sounds like, too. Like so are you like and you have pursued a very artistic path in your family with the siblings. Does it go either way? There's some people that are like strong in STEM and numbers people and other people that are artists. I would say we've got, I'm going to say three artists. But because I'm going to say my mom is secret artist.

16:43Like she did like my first play ever with me. I was like, I really want to audition for a play. And she was like, I'll audition with you. This is so different. So different. And she like sings and like plays piano. So it's like, I feel like the art was there. My dad, not an artist, but like trying to make everyone else do art. So he like forced me and my siblings to like play in a quartet for our family. That's very mathy. That's very numbery. Yes. Like you will play. Like, yes. Music and instruments is still like. Still kind of mathy. An accountant's dream. That's totally. Yeah. Totally. Yeah.

17:19Yeah. Versus. Right. Whatever the hell I'm doing. It's a little, it's a little more lefty loosey. Well, what I love about what you just said, because it does feel like you're in a, you grew up in a family where you had to kind of, you know, you just have to make space for yourself. Yeah. You have to figure it out. Like you said, you have to kind of compete in a healthy way. Yes. Or not healthy. Or not healthy. One of the things that I love about you, not knowing you, we're meeting for the first time, is that there's something about the way that you are in your own experience, like your own body that's very grounded and very self-assured.

17:58And it's kind of like you have it or you don't. It's like this ineffable thing where you just, you make us lean into you, Rachel. Like you're kind of yourself in real time and we all become very interested and curious about it. Like there's not a grasping energy from you. You're kind of doing your thing and people are like invited to come along. and that's really nice of you to say and that means a lot coming from you because you have I feel like it's like in comedy and like I read your book I read Tina's book when I was like in college and starting stand-up and like I feel like especially when I think to like the beginning when when you're like the first not the first women in comedy but like you're forming a group Like I feel like my friend group took so much inspiration from you guys of being like, I've got my girls.

18:51You know what I mean? And being like, I'll go to the weird open mic with you and the whatever. But like carving out that space for yourself and being like, you come to us as opposed to like trying to be a part of the other thing that you're like not necessarily invited to. So let's get into, okay, we talked about your parents. You're in Connecticut. You grow up in Connecticut. And again, you seem like a Manhattan kid. Congrats. Thank you. Connecticut is a strange state because it's like, where is it? Who is it that's happening? Right. Like Red Sox, Yankees, like what do you want? Okay. And thank you for asking that.

19:26Red Sox. Yes. Red Sox. I got actually like absolutely, my dad reamed my ass because I put on my boyfriend's Yankees cap. I just thought it would be a little flirty. And I picked up a face time for my dad and he was like, take that off right now. Yeah. Take that off right now. That's not okay. You can't do it. No, that's not okay. It's not cool. So you're more on the Boston side. Yes. But you grow up there and you get to NYU. Yes. Where is that jump from you like at the dinner table being funny with your family and deciding I want to get to NYU and like be a performer? How does that happen? So I always wanted to like perform.

20:01I feel like I did the classic thing. Well, wait, you were in plays. I was doing plays. You were in Les Mis. I was in Les Mis. Wow. Yes, I was. What part? I was Madame Tenardier, of course. Wait, who? She, you just said it in a French way. Madame Tenardier. I was, I was, she was sort of, do you know the master of the house? His wife. Oh, the master of the house lady. Yes. Okay, sorry, I should know her name. No, she is the master of the house lady. You had the comedic part. Yes, I had the comedic part. And you know, anytime I was in a play in high school, they were like, that's a witch. or the head of the, like, the prostitute house.

20:42Like, it was really, it was like, that was the only parts I was getting cast in. Why do you think that was? Why, as a little kid, did they, because, why? I know. I know. But I kind of know what you mean, because it's usually the comedic part. Yes, yes. Why were they, like, seeing something, like, were you, did you have, like, a maturity at age? Were you just, like, self-assured on stage? You know what I mean? Like, not nervous? I think it was like I was not vocally talented and loud. And I think loud. And I think like, I don't know. I look, I'm like, it was always like, and you're the little, the ratty little whatever.

21:22And I'm like, okay. I really, because at that time I was like, obviously I want to be cassette. I want to be Eponine. I want to be like singing the Pretty Little Voice. They heard me sing three bars. they said you're gonna speak the whole song and they're they're usually the most boring of the songs they are even though Eponine has some great songs because it has some great songs yes Les Mis is incredible yeah they're bangers and by the way the girl who played Eponine in my high school like went on to play Eponine on Broadway and I was like wow you know Emily Bautista I gotta hand it to you you were meant for the part voice of an angel incredible incredible yeah so I was like I'm not taking it personally Can we talk for a second about loud?

22:07Loud. Because I'm relating. Like, I was a loud kid. Yeah. And there's something, like, underneath being, like, a loud young kid that's kind of—can be very exciting, especially if you're, like, a young woman. Not always. Sometimes people don't like it. They make you feel bad about it. Yeah. But it is, like—it's, like, carving out space, like, taking up space. Yes. Somehow. And people saw that in you. Yeah, and they were like, she's not afraid to, I guess that, or they were just literally like, we can't get her to shut up. Like, just give her this part and maybe she'll lose her voice yelling on stage and then she won't be like annoying at home.

22:45But I do think you're right. It's like you have to sort of like be loud first and then figure out how to make it like entertaining as you go. but I think once you like break that I also like I feel like I've always had like a loud laugh which like I've read about like your laugh at the table reads at SNL and whatever and it's like I think like not being afraid to like bring joy into the space or be like I don't know once once you start shouting you're like I'm not gonna talk quiet like it's just you break into that space and then you can refine what you're saying or how funny it is or whatever.

23:23But I think like that instinct was always there. Yeah, and that brings you to NYU where you kind of join this class of people who are now your friends and successful actors and actresses in their own right who you meet. Like tell us about coming to NYU, like those early days there. So I think I at first felt like I didn't fit in at all And I had like a really hard time because the acting program was very like serious. And it was very like Shakespeare. And like we're doing we're like walking around the room and you're a cat and then you're like a chicken. And I was like but everyone's like crying while they do it.

24:03And I'm like what am I missing? What am I missing? The money is gone. We've paid. So I got to do something with this. But wow this is crazy. Like it was that I was scared. and I just felt and do you know what I mean? Yes. And you're looking around and everyone's like so locked into it so you're like there's something wrong with me. Do you think they were locked into it or was it like peer pressure to feel locked into it? Now it feels like a cult a little where everyone was like I'm crying as the chicken. I'm feeling things. Sure. You know. Yeah. But I I felt like oh there were a lot of opportunities that the school had which was like the plays, the school did shows that you could audition for.

24:51Didn't get into any of those. The school had like improv and sketch groups. I didn't get into any of those. Really? Really. Dang, I bet they're regretting that. Probably not. They're probably like, well, another year of doing our sketches. That's really, I'm really surprised. I didn't and Iowa Debris, who I met, didn't either. And that's when we first met was like at the auditions for those groups. Sometimes that's just the best motivator. Literally. By the way, I'm like, I always need, whenever like something doesn't work out for me, I'm like, thank God. Yeah. Whenever I'm like. Rejection is God's protection.

25:28Period. And also it's like, whenever I'm flopping, I'm not scared. It's when I'm doing well or then I'm happy when I'm terrified. Okay, that is the best way to say it, Rachel, is that to flop and not be scared. To flop and not be scared. That's a very powerful thing. It's a super power if you can do it. Because the best things happen to me right after I'm at rock bottom. Like whenever I'm like rejected hard, whenever I'm in love with someone who is treating me like garbage, that's when I fly. That's when you sort of like let go of everything and you're like, fuck it. I'm at rock bottom. I don't care.

26:10Let's go. That's a beautiful time. It's when I'm soaring that I start, I'm like, I'm soaring. The ground is really far away. I'm going to fall. Like, and then I get in my head and that's when, yeah. So you are auditioning, you and Ayo both not making what you want to make. What happens then? Then I think that's when I started being like, okay, I have to find my own opportunities. And I think that's sort of when I like started to find my friends and my community and doing stuff on our own. So I started like I started doing stand up. So tell us about your first like. Yeah. Because you were on a date.

26:48Is that true? Yeah. So basically this poor guy is like. He's also in Les Mis. He was also in Les Mis. No, I feel bad because I'm like everyone. It's like I still know him. he like is um he is like a comedy producer whatever great guy but he basically we went on like one I want to call it a date but it was like really like we went to the dining hall and then he like fingered me but it was it was I'm like that was her date but he's a lovely person I he's a lovely person that's just college you know but do you know what I mean yeah yeah sometimes that just happens but so he was like you should do stand up I've been going to open mics do you want to come with me to one and so wait and he was going to perform and he performed he did perform okay so he was like do you want to come watch me perform he was like do you want to come watch me perform but do you want to go to yeah and try it he encouraged got it got it got it shout out he encouraged so we go to an open mic and I think I did stand up about like him fingering me like two days before.

27:54So I was, I was just like, I have no experiences other than this. It's like pretty, like, I'm still like a freshman. Like I'm like, can you tell us a little bit more about what you talked about? Would you be okay to tell us that? Absolutely. Okay. I will, I, this part, this is where I got into something that I think I've, I've hopefully grown out of, but I've, the fingering was weird. And then my first joke, which I think he helped me write was that it was like, or maybe I think maybe my friend my friend Moss helped me write this part. Moss Pericoding very funny stand up and writer on SNL. Who I just got to work with recently because I was just there and it was really fun.

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28:33He's lovely. He's so funny. Yeah. So Moss and I would do open mics together too. So I think Moss actually helped me write this part of the joke which was that like he was fingering me and it was like trying to trick a vending machine. Great joke. Great joke. Great joke. That I think all I brought to the story was like It kind of hurt. And then he, like, helped me write that part. Yeah. But I did that. And I got, like, I also, it's like your first open mic, you go on stage and you're like, also I'm, like, 18 years old at, like, a random open mic with, like, guys from New Jersey. And I'm like, hi, it's my first open mic.

29:09So obviously, like, everyone, the room was warm. Warm. The room was warm. It was toasty. Yeah. So I go. Filled with perverts. Yeah, totally. Absolutely. So, and at the time I'm like, I'm a genius saying a joke I didn't write in a room full of six perverts who are all just like, maybe she'll only be here for one week and she'll kiss one of us. Totally. So at the time I'm thinking like, I'm crushing. I am crushing. So I do that joke, whatever. And I get that like high of performing. Totally. And then like for the next like two years of open mics, I'm really bad. But I am like chasing that initial that initial high of performance.

29:58Yes. And when you were when you were doing stand up, like were you feeling like there was a party that was like, I'm going to be a stand up like I'm going to be a stand up. Or did you feel like stand up was a tool or like a stepping stone to what you wanted to do, which was right, act, direct, all the stuff you're doing now? I think like a little bit of both. I think in the beginning I was like, I just want to do whatever I can get my hands on. Yeah. And like you can do an open mic for like$5. You buy like a beer or something and you can do an open mic. So I was like, okay, I can do this. And I did that.

30:31I did like every student film exercise that I could do. there is like I have like a whole reel of like some of the worst dialogue in history no no hate but it was really like I'm doing any I would do them like back to back to back and I would like skip class to do all these films but then also I met talented filmmakers that way I met my friend Emma Seligman and who directed Shiva Baby and Bottoms yes and so I was doing that and then like I started writing sketches. Io and I did a sketch together that that's sort of like one of my early memories of us like forming a bond because she was so funny.

31:16And I was like, I was laughing the entire sketch, completely unusable takes for me, but I was like cracking up at her. And then like, I wrote a sketch that the, these sketches about the babysitters club that she was and then we performed on each other's shows. So it was like, I was slowly like building out the community of like friends. So it was like, I met Ayo Moss, my friend Katerina, who's a writer director, Emma. So it was like, I felt like I got to like build out my community. I mean, that's what it kind of feels like the 20s are about. Yeah. Is like figuring out who is like me. Yes. How can we help each other out?

31:58Like, how can I form some kind of community to get me through the next X amount of years, like, of trying to do the thing that I want to do? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And when you were in that period in your 20s, like, well, I mean, you just said that you turned 30. I just did. What did you do for your 30th birthday? What, how did you celebrate it? Because I got to tell you, my vision of you is that you're partying every night. I. Am I wrong? Some times. Okay, let me, I have so many things to say. Okay. First, I just have to say, I just, do you know about your Saturn return? Not only that, but I believe that I'm going to, in just a year or two, be entering my second.

32:45Oh my God. Because I've been doing research for this because of your show. Yeah. Because I love LA, which we're going to talk about. And it's all about Saturn's return, which you just went through. I did. And I believe you go through a second one in, I'm 54, but I think you start going through a second one like 56, 57. Are you scared? I could look it up, but. Are you scared or excited? I'm excited. You're excited? Very excited. Because it does, I will say, it's nice, back to the rock bottom thing. Yeah. When life sort of like shakes you up and you're like, whatever, let's rock. How did it shake you up?

33:20Okay, I feel like it was, like, the whole thing is, like, three years long. But there's really, like, one month that's, like, super chaotic. Or for me, there was, like, a month that was, like, really bad. And I felt like everything all happened in one month. But basically, like, I feel like in my early 20s, I was partying every night. I was, like, very messy, chaotic. I was, like, crying at the bar on the table. Like, it was really crazy. Yep. Then I feel like I moved to LA and I, like, I got really, like, a little weird and, like, hermity and, like, kind of, I don't know. I went through this thing where I was just not feeling good in myself.

34:04Like, the strike was happening. I was really depressed. and I think I also like had a lot of insecurities about like myself as a writer or creator like I didn't think I could like make something on my own and I was really scared to and then I think like basically the the big part of this out of return was like I went through a breakup and I didn't know about if my show was going to get picked up yet but in the meantime I had to sort of saying no to other opportunities, which was really hard for me, especially because I think I defined myself off of my work and my value off of my work. And so I was like, I have to say no to stuff and like, trust my gut that this is going to happen and that I can make something on my own.

34:54And when I say on my own, literally I made it with amazing room of writers, amazing co-showrunner, directors, blah, blah, blah. Of course. But you know, women always feel obliged to say that and they don't have to but he just it was but but you know i take it back i fucking take it back because no you're absolutely right nobody does anything alone yeah nobody does anything alone but you're you're making a really interesting point which is like which i see see this in you and women that you're coming up with which is this you know this moment where you have to kind of decide to take ownership of the stuff that you want to make yeah and decide that you're ready to do it yes because no one's I think like it's also like you can't do anything until you do it like it's like I directed an episode you just have to direct one day and be like okay like obviously you prepare and you write you draw the little pictures you make all the things yeah and you go I think the shirt should be blue well that's the thing about directing and I want to talk to you about this because you've been really I love how you talk about directing and producing and writing and show running, which is, you know, people act like everything is like a secret room.

36:01Like we learned this from Hamilton. Like that, like there's a room where it happens and only certain people are allowed in it. And there's a language and a vocabulary and only one way to do something. And it keeps people out of the room. Yes, totally. And then you get in the room and it's like three guys being like, I think we should shoot it really slow. I think we should do it really fast. And you're like, this is all, this is what they're saying. this is what they're saying in here? Totally. You're kidding me. And they have snacks. They're ordering like three rounds of coffees to say, I think we should shoot it slower.

36:36I got pissed. Yes. It's incredible once you get inside the room. And then you get high and then you're like, I'm staying in here and I'm ordering 10 coffees and we're shooting it fast and then slow. So you're going through your Saturn's return. You come out the other side and you greet 30. Yes. do you party on your 30th birthday? I do party on my 30th. That's what I thought. I do, sorry. That's what I thought. I do parties. What does that look like? I went to Sicily. Amazing. For my friend's wedding. Okay, great. And I really partied there. Great. And then I stayed there for the week. Perfect.

37:13This is what I expected, Rachel. I'm happy to hear this. And I really went off. It was great. It was fabulous. And it was good. It was good because I feel like I've been working for so long. Yeah. Like I went into the hole of making the show. Yeah. And now I'm out every night. I'll tell you that. I am. I'm going to a concert tonight if you want to come. Where are you going? I'm going. Okay. I'm going to see. Do you know that girl Adela? No. I wish I did. You're going to. Do you, Jenna? I'm like that song, Sex on the Beat. You got to get under that. Oh my God. I'm so old. Adela. Okay. It's her concert?

37:49It's her concert. And I'm going and I can't wait. And then I'm going to, I just basically, this is the other thing. Tell me if you do this. She's a Slovakian singer-songwriter? Yes. Very cool. She's very cool. Cool. But she, so I'm going to that tonight, but I do this thing when I'm like shooting something where it's like you put off every single person in your life. Classic. Yeah. You make promises you can't keep, which is like, you're like, yeah, when this is over, I am going to be, I am going to be out. I am going to be just going to the club and then dinner and then we should go on a hike the next morning really early.

38:30Like I make so many promises and then it's like you get into a debt, a social debt, but it's actually kind of fabulous because then you just commit to a period where you're like, let's go. You're in that period right now. So tonight is a dinner first. I love talking to people about plans because I don't want to do them, but I want to hear your plans. I want to know. Yeah, I want to know what you're doing tonight. Okay, so the plan is we're doing a group dinner. Amazing. Where? At my boyfriend's house. We're ordering food. Fun. So we have a small group going. Yep. We're pre-gaming. What time is this?

39:04This is probably 8 o 'clock. Fuck. That's just dinner? I know. I like an early dinner, too. Okay. But it's more, it's sort of like, you know, if we do dinner too early, then we're going to get sleepy before the show. Right. So we got to sort of, what I'm thinking instead is like, when it should be dinner, that's when I'll be taking a nap. Yeah. But of course I'll be sleeping with my glam on because I want to keep it for the show. So I'll be sleeping like this. Like a soap opera star. Like a soap opera star, glam on, like this. Getting lipstick on the pillow. And then I'll jerk awake, 7.45. Listerine.

39:44You know, swishing around. Yes. Bam. Dinner, people start arriving. Dinner. Order in. Order in. No cooking. No cooking. No cooking. For that many people? Six. That's crazy. Cooking for six people? That's outrageous. What? What are you, some kind of machine? No. Cooking for six people? No way. I only know how to make sweet potatoes and ground turkey. And then we're going to be burping garlic all over the art hose at the concert. I can't do that. No. So. Then you eat. Then we eat. And it's like, you know, drinking a little. Maybe I'm trying on outfits. Maybe I'm leaving dinner, coming back, presenting an outfit to the group.

40:22Oh, that's fun. Yeah, can you do that? Okay. Do you do that? No. I don't, but I, in general, have a weird relationship to outfits. Really? That I, like, and I love, and I'm very, very intrigued by your relationship to outfits. Because for me, outfits, like, I don't have the feeling, like, I'll use my friend, my good friend Maya Rudolph as an example. When Maya Rudolph gets dressed and she gets to change, she would love to do that. What you're doing, like, come in and out of the room with different outfits. Yes. To be like, look at my outfit. What do we think? Look at my outfit. That, to me, feels so stressful.

41:00Do you know what you should do? Mm-hmm. Do you like to smoke weed? I don't really smoke it anymore, but I will. Okay. For this, or it could be a glass of wine, or it could be a little CBD joint, or whatever. Sure. I'd rather weed over wine. Okay. Yeah. Let's do a weed. Let's do a weed. Let's do, like, a gummy. Let's do a gummy. Okay. Okay. You not buck a gummy. Okay. Now, I kind of think it's good to do this, like, on your own. Okay. Because then you— And, like, maybe— By myself? Yes. Okay. Start by yourself because then you're not— You know you're not doing it for anyone. Or you better believe all carbonate.

41:34I'm in my social chapter. I'm free. So— I'm already worried that you're overbooking yourself. Don't promise that. Okay. Okay. But I'm just saying. Okay. I would say do it in, like, the daytime. time. Gummy, iced coffee, so that your body's fighting itself.

41:55Okay. I'm in my apartment. It's blazing sun, gummy and iced coffee, two o 'clock in the afternoon. I just cancel all my plans. And what do I do next? I go to my closet, play an elevator, getting really high from the coffee and then getting really down from the gummy okay music what do i play what do i play i think it's like something really like ethereal fun okay like like you know you make me feel like dancing okay i'm just kind of telling you about a saturday that i had like a week ago okay perfect and then and then you just start trying shit on. Okay. And you throw stuff on the floor and you take pictures with stuff.

42:46And it's like, and maybe like halfway through you stop, you order some food. And it's like, and by the way, you're not picking up any of the clothes till the next day when you're not high in the gun anymore. That's going to be really hard for me. Okay. But that's okay. But that's okay. It's part of it. Yeah. Is it's just like, there's no like, there's no I'm cleaning. There's no I'm organizing. You're playing. You're trying stuff on. And you should also have a mirror with really good light. This is why I'm saying the daytime, because in my house, I have a mirror that only looks good at a certain time.

43:16So you can take this and, you know, judge it for, like, your vibe. Okay. You know, like, but this is just for me. This is actually really helpful because it is about, like, what you're talking about is about play. Yes. Like, not, just not making everything so serious. Not making everything so serious. and it's like you can you can take pictures of stuff or lots of times I'll do videos of me like walking and then walk into the camera back and then I text them all to my sisters and I go like heart which ones you like okay this feels like a very sister thing yeah yeah yeah like what sisters do for each other yes and then you can get feedback and then they can be like drop the vest keep the scarf right you know and do you take that feedback do you go depends depends depends Because it's like, sometimes I'm like, you don't know, this is a really good outfit.

44:08And then, and sometimes you, by the way, sometimes you'll try on an outfit that you created that day. That this is, that's inventing outfits. This feels like level two. I feel like I'm at level two right now. I just need to start by taking the gummy during the day. Just start by taking the gummy. Just start by getting high in the morning. And then work your way up. And work your way up. To all of this.

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48:07Okay, you and your sisters make me think about the women that you have kind of like your chosen sisters, like you said, Ayo. And another chosen sister is Molly. Yes, love Molly. Molly Gordon, who we spoke to for this interview. Love. I love her. I just talked to her last night. She said you guys talk every day. Yeah. She called you her wife. What? Wife, sister. We're like, which is weird, but like five different things. So for people who like are getting, because I think like there's a lot of people who are getting to know your work, Molly's work, Io's work. Like you are this rising class, I think, of really, really talented artists and filmmakers and showrunners and writers and actors.

48:57but Shiva Baby was a film that you and Molly did together that was this teeny tiny film that really like exploded and took off. Can you talk a little bit about the path of that? Yes. So that was a crazy experience and it's crazier now looking back at it because so it was first a short film that Emma Seligman wrote and directed that I was in and it got into South By and after it got into South By Emma was like, I still remember it was like Emma and I like met up at a dig in. For a dig in. What's a dig in? Oh my God. At a dig in? A dig in. It's a fast casual lunch place. It's like a. Oh, a dig in is a restaurant.

49:45It's like a sweet green. It's like a sister of a sweet green. Sweet green was brought up earlier because Molly was like, that's a nice place to go the bathroom. They're usually nice. They sweet green. They'll let you. So dig in, is that an LA thing? No, it's a New York thing. Oh my God, I don't know it. Okay, good to know. I think they have them here too, but there was really a chapter where it was big. Okay. In New York when we were in college. Got it. So we meet at a dig in, we're catching up, and Emma is like, I'm going to make Shiva Baby into a feature. And that's also the same day that we came up with the loose idea for bottoms, and we started writing it.

50:21Wow. So we're writing bottoms, while Emma's also writing Shiva Baby. And basically it was like, this like slow process of building the movie out. And it's like, no one wants to make a first time filmmaker's movie. It's like so impossible to get people behind you. And it was sort of like this game of like, we're trying to cast the movie. We don't have the money for the movie. I want to shout out Rhiannon Jones, who was one of the producers who was like the first person to like be like, I'm giving you guys money to make this movie. and gave like a big chunk of money. It was like a super indie movie.

50:59I think the budget was around like 200K. But it's like, that's really hard to raise that money when you are college students. Yeah. And all you have is a short film to produce. So it's like, I remember like talking with Emma and we're like trying to cast the movie without the money, get the locations, but get the funding at the same time. So it was all of that. and when Molly signed on to do it, it felt like, oh my God, like she's legit. Because we had both seen her in Booksmart and been like, she is so funny. Right. So funny and like she's a real actress. I mean, that's exactly what she was talking about.

51:41Like she said, when you guys met, you were like, you're a real actress. Help us. Yeah, but I relate because when you come through the door of like comedy, you often feel like that's, that's just kind of like, you just, you've always, that's the door you've always come through. And it takes a minute to figure out that, you know, everyone is talented at a lot of things. So were you feeling then insecure about your acting or anything or? Definitely. You were. I was because I had never been, I was all of a sudden the lead of a film that wasn't fully funded yet and didn't have a location. Like, it was so, like, it was like, I think we got the rest of our funding like a day before we shot the movie.

52:30And basically, we go to film the first scene and it's me and Molly and I clam up and I just... Whisper. Oh, you whisper. I whispered. Right. Because, you know, sometimes when we're really nervous, we get like very sleepy and tired and quiet. Really? And I'm like, no one can tell if I'm doing a bad job if they can't hear me or see me. So it's like the first thing we film is that scene where we like run into each other. We talk for the first time at the Shiva and I'm like, excuse me. And it's like, Emma's like, cut. And so then Emma like pulls me aside because they're an amazing friend and director and they're like, so, we can't hear anything.

53:19We can't hear a word that you're saying. And I'm like, totally. Did this in private, thank God. And did it really nicely, but was like, I think just like maybe have a little more voice. And I was like, totally. We go again, and I'm like, so good to see you. And I was like sweating. This is so interesting because we started talking about like little Rachel on stage being loud. And then you have this moment. You're like, okay, now I'm a real actor. And now I'm going to get very quiet. I'm going to do, I'm actually going to do the, it's like, I'm not going to pitch my fastball. I'm going to do the opposite of what I do.

53:56Well, I'm going to drop it. I'm going to drop the ball on the floor. Yeah. Go. I, I would be like the mound. Let's, we'll keep the baseball. Your dad and the Red Sox would want to know that you can extend that baseball metaphor. So it would be. On the mound. On the mound. On the mound. we're sports yeah so um so you're but that's so interesting so then and then what happens and then I think Molly basically was like Molly can do she like charmed the pants off of me basically and was like she just started improv-ing and talking to me and talking before we were rolling and I didn't feel like I was in a scene anymore I felt like I was like talking to her and flirting with her but feeling like and it just it clicked for me and like between Molly and Emma Emma coming and then it was like we got into a groove and then Emma came over and was like whispering stuff in my ear of like really like make her work for it on this one or like like give in on this one giggle on this one and Molly let's move the camera slower on this one let's camera slower on this one and faster on this one fast really fast and then Molly was like improv-ing and like I just felt like basically they just but I just felt like so like brought into the space and then I felt like I know how to do this but it was like I think I just I just watched both of them like shine and like bring me into their like like artistry is like a big word but I kind of felt like they both We're like, come here, you can do this.

55:37And like, it just, anyways, it really like opened everything up for me. And it was really special. That's very cool. Yes. Now, Molly had a question for you. Okay. And the first one was, please have Rachel tell the fingering story, which you already told naturally. I did it on my own. Wow. Huge. Incredible. So thank you for that. and then this and and she said basically said you know when she met you that what she was so drawn to and what I feel drawn to you right now I'm feeling the same thing which is your like the great audacity of here's what I want to do I want to do this I want to do this like like ambition not being afraid of it like feeling like you want to take up a lot of space and she said that confidence like has that all as have you always had that the question is like where did you where do you think that came from it's interesting because I I look back at myself at that time and I think I was like I was very insecure and anxious but at the same time I did always have this feeling of like I have to do this and I think I think that's from my family for sure like I think it's like I there was like this thing of like okay if you're gonna do it then do it and I think like in my mind I was like I can't even entertain the possibility of not doing this because I don't have any other plan I don't there's never a job you would want to do instead of this did you ever think about like another major or another job other than insurance salesman yeah I think now Now that I'm here, I'm like, I would love to do marketing.

57:24I love marketing. Wait, what do you mean? I just love marketing. I just started getting on marketing calls and I'm like, these girls are fabulous. They're just so, I'm just like, I love, I love marketing. You like, you like figuring out how to get the message out. Yes. You're very good at marketing. You're very good at TikTok. You're very good at Twitter. And you better believe I have, I have sounds saved for us. For our TikTok? Yeah. If you're down. Um. I have a question, a TikTok question for you. How do you get your TikToks to move so fast? You make it slow. I'll show you. Wait, do you ever do slow-mo so then it speeds it up?

58:04No. We'll do that today. You shoot it in slow-mo? You shoot it, yes. So it shoots in, so the sound. Are we talking about a cap cut situation? No. Fantastic. I won't do that to you. I will not do that to you. Someone's laughing. I, Claire, Claire is laughing because I had her help me with doing a, what I've always wanted to do, which is green screen. Basically, I'm talking in front of a picture. That's what I want to do and I don't know how to do it. I just learned and I can show you. I can show you today. I can show you. I just found out how. Claire taught me and now I can teach you. Okay, we might have to do that for our TikTok.

58:42We have to do that. Is talk about ourselves in front of a picture. In front of a picture. We could even take a photo of us, pose, and then we can analyze like our outfits. We could do anything. We can do whatever we want. It's so fun. It's so fun. Why is it fun? Because I think it's fun too. Why do you think it's fun? I feel like I'm playing with clay and dough. Like I feel like I'm like Play-Doh. I feel like I'm doing crafts. And then afterwards you get to watch it over and over and go, I made that. I did that just now. It's so fun. It is so fun. And the noises and the colors. it's just the best but it makes sense to me because you definitely have this sense of knowing how to exist in that space and it kind of comes back to you just like being authentically yourself which is just hard to teach you you know you just gotta rock it I guess you do but sometimes things happen I don't know if you've had this where it's like you you're like okay I'm being authentically myself I'm being authentically myself and then you either these are two things that have happened to me.

59:45You're either being authentically yourself and everyone's like, we hate it. Yeah. And you're like, I should do be someone else. I should be someone else. Or you're kind of being a version of yourself. And everyone's like, we love it, slut. And then you change a little. I'm never going to stop being a slut, but sorry, something else. Sure. You know, you're like, I'm messy, I'm this, whatever. And then you go into a different zone and then you're like, but they still like that. I should keep doing that. But in reality, you're changing. You are the generation that has grown up? Like, when did you get your first phone?

1:00:16When I was in middle school. Yeah. And you've had a lifetime of being online. We talked about this a lot when we were creating the show. I think there's like a lot of times people like look at, like, I'm going to say that my generation, I'm like zillennial cusp. So I'm not claiming. You are. I'm not claiming. What do you claim? Do you claim Z or millennial? I claim zillennial. Because I feel real, like, I feel a bit of both. Do you know what I mean? And when we start getting into skippity toilet, I get lost. Sure. You know what I mean? I'm like, what's going on? I didn't do kindergarten on Zoom.

1:00:50So I, you know what I mean? Like I didn't have, what is this called? When your brain fully develops. Oh, your frontal lobe. My frontal lobe. I think my frontal lobe developed like, what time does that happen? Halfway through COVID. Say COVID. Weird time to have your frontal lobe closed during COVID. During COVID. but I felt it. Snatched. You were like, snatch. Snatched. Ah, yes. Yeah. And, and, and so I, I didn't have to go through like formative development, developmental years during COVID or whatever. Like, yeah, I think there's something to do with that that I don't have. Right. Um, but the, the, we were just talking about six, seven.

1:01:36I found out I'm in group seven from TikTok. I found out I was in group seven. Group seven. What does that mean? I don't know. Okay, good. And so if I was fully Gen Z, I would. Claire, explain it to me because she is because she's 25. Okay, Claire will explain. Claire will explain. And she'll show us how to do the green screen. How to do the green screen. Okay, let's talk about I love LA. Okay, I'm so sorry. I'm talking so much. No, it's so good. Same. And you have a great cast and you shoot it in LA. And do you love LA? I do love LA. Okay. Can you help me? because I'm actually genuinely, I'm coming up on like year 15 or 16 of being here and I go back and forth between LA and New York and I'm not loving LA right now.

1:02:16LA is crushing me a little bit. Okay. I think I want to go back to the East Coast. Yeah. Like I really, you know, my kids are almost out of school. I'm like feeling this giant pull and I'm trying to stay with LA because LA has been very good to me. And it's, there's a lot about it. I love California. There's a lot about Los Angeles. I have a lot of friends here. I've had great memories here. I've made a lot of stuff I'm really proud of here, but I'm just like what do you love about LA and can you help me love it too yes I like LA most in the winter I do too it's the best it's my favorite January to April is heaven because everywhere else is freezing everywhere else is freezing meanwhile we're going to the beach in an ugg and a hoodie beach in an ugg and a hoodie yeah and you're getting get this you maybe okay morning to Saturday okay again weed gummy coffee Sorry.

1:03:08You don't have to, but you could do something else. Who's driving? Who's driving? Somebody's boyfriend. Somebody's boyfriend is driving. Somebody's boyfriend is driving. Okay, great. Okay, I like this. Not us. We're getting in an Uber. Okay. But ideally, it's like someone's boyfriend is driving. Like the boyfriend of the friend group. He's driving. Great. I like this. Yeah. And you've got a playlist. You guys stop. You got bagels. Okay. Not good bagels, though, in LA. Yes. Yeah? Okay. You go to Courage. Okay. Great. You go to Courage, or there's a place in Burbank called Hank's. Underrated. giving away my spot, but I know you bitches aren't going to Burbank, so it's fine.

1:03:41It's okay. I work there, so I'm going. You worked at Hanks? No, I work at the lot. Oh, you work at the lot. So I'm right nearby. I was like, oh my God, you also work at Hanks? Okay. I have two jobs. I have three. So you get your bagel. So you get your bagel and now you're eating your bagels in the cart or you save them. You get to the beach, you run on the sand. You're just sitting on the sand in like jeans and an Ugg and a sweater. Yeah, I love the beach in a sweater. Beach in a sweater. It's completely empty. Because no one else is this good of an idea except for us. And you're just like, you're having a beach day, but you're having a winter beach day.

1:04:17And you can make it into a thing like, you could then, then you could go like up to Topanga Canyon and you could buy a set of tarot cards for your friend and go on a hike over there. There's like some really nice hikes in Malibu. There's like, you could go to the pier. You could get like seafood at Broad Street Oyster Company. But like you make a day in the winter that you couldn't do somewhere else. I completely agree. You know what I mean? I think Los Angeles, California in the winter is where it really shines. Is really where it shines. The rest of the year is tough for me. So what if, what if you stuck around?

1:04:55We do like beach day in the day. We got me closet. Yeah. Anna's like, by the way, we're in bed at 7 o 'clock. I don't believe you. We will be. If we're starting the day with a week, I mean we're in bed at 7 o 'clock. You already told me about your plans tonight. I know, but that's because I'm in a social chapter. But in January and February, in January and February, we're hibernating. But we're hibernating with our friends. Okay, okay. And our community. We're hibernating with like six people. Or three, if that feels better. That actually really did make me like Los Angeles more. What you just said.

1:05:31This is the thing. New York, bam. You're confronted with a new chapter or an event or whatever. And it's thrown in your face and it's fabulous. And it's going like, wake up. You just met this person on the street. LA, you have to do it a little for yourself. But you get to sit down in your room one day. Delusional. Me. This. Alone. Hi in my closet. New era. Let's go. Okay. Um, lightning round. Lightning round. I'm walking in. Have you done ayahuasca? No, should I? No. Okay. Um, okay. Are cigarettes making a comeback? They are. They are, but we have to stop, but they are. They are. And they're good.

1:06:18But also, who can blame us? Look at what is happening. I know. I know. And they were feeding people the vapes at 12. I know. The vapes hopefully are taking a break, but cigarettes are back. Well, the cigarettes are people trying to wean off the vape. Oh, that's so brutal. That's like heroin to not take your Oxy anymore. Heroin to heroin pills. It's hard out there. Okay. Album you're listening to right now. I've been listening a lot to the Addison album. It's an album that makes me feel very like free. It makes me feel like my mom's friend who always wore yoga pants, who was like really chic. And sexy.

1:06:58And sexy. And kind of a little sleepy and in a dream. And so free. I was like, yeah. Addison feels very like free to me. Is there a person's career path that you look at and admire? Definitely. I'm not being a suck up.

1:07:15You can't see me. I'm not allowed? You're sitting right in front of me. What if I was like, I need an idea. Bam. What if before this podcast, someone pulled you aside and said like, when Amy asks that, you have to say her. She gets really upset. She gets really upset. Yeah, that would be crazy if they said that. No, I just, I do want to say like, okay, so I'm sorry. I'll just say it and then we can cut it genuinely and then I'll say someone else. Okay. Okay. But I do really want to say like genuinely, like you have made a difference in my life going to pursue comedy and going to like be funny and be loud and be bold like and also be kind like I feel like when I read your book I was like there was the ability to be like both like bold and loud but also like vulnerable and sensitive I think is that like sometimes it feels like you're not allowed to have both and I I I feel like you need both and you should be able to and that's something that I get from you or like I'm inspired by from you and like I think like the women use your community like Maya Rudolph Tina Fey all of them thank you Rachel that's really nice so that's true but now do you want me to say someone else okay um Um,

1:08:50I, Brittany Murphy is an actress that I really look up to. Wow. I think she's an incredible actress, or was an incredible actress. She's just someone who, like, I saw her in, like, immediately, like, when I saw her in Clueless. Yeah. I was like, she just has something special, and she's very, she was very true to herself. She was. you know I she hosted SNL my first season there and she I remember her being like really kind really super hard working very open to ideas and you're right she had like a sparkly interesting quality about her and she could do a lot of things really well yes like I feel like had so much range yes and like I don't know I felt like there are certain people where it's like it's like the character wouldn't be the character if it wasn't you playing it and I feel like she has that which is really special when was the last time you cried um yesterday because I this is the other thing so I didn't cry for a speed round but I'll say it really fast that's okay you I like speed rounds to go slow to go slow I didn't cry for like a long time because I was so like stressed about the job and I was trying to take it seriously and be locked in and I was like there's no time to cry There's no time to cry.

1:10:11And then I think now that I'm in my social era and I have like a little space to breathe, like the lid is coming off. So I'm just crying more freely. Yesterday, I sort of had a little bit of a manic episode. This goes back to the closet thing where I remembered a shirt from three years ago that I haven't, I just was like, wait a second. Where is it? Where is that? And then I started like rummaging through my closet, not in a fun way, no weed gummy, just like panicked. Yeah. panicked, texting people pictures of the shirt, being like, have you seen this? Texting my mom, being like, is this at home?

1:10:46She's like, what? Like that? What do you think the shirt meant? What was it? When you thought of the shirt, where did you, where had you worn it? What did it mean to you? What did it represent? I think it was that I've been living in my place for too long. And I used to live there with my ex-boyfriend. And I moved around to Airbnbs before I lived in that place. and all of a sudden I was just like, where's all my stuff and who am I? And then I started to cry. Yes. I think that objects can do that. Yes. And then the last question is, what are you listening to, watching? What do you do when you want to laugh?

1:11:23What kind of stuff do you do when you like need a break? Like when you want to get out of your head and just feel good. And feel good. I have a couple friends and my sisters where it's like we send each other like TikToks that are like really weird. And then like I catch up on all the TikToks that like my friends or my sisters sent me. And I like feel like I'm watching like their show kind of. Yeah. The feed that they've curated for me. And then I reply to all of them like, ha ha, this is us when we're in the car with mom. This was us when we would go on a walk, drink, or whatever. Yeah. And that feels, that's fun and silly for me.

1:12:01It's funny. It's like we do this at our office at Paper Kite. We like show each other our feeds to see where everyone's heads are at. Yeah. And, you know, sometimes my kids will be like, Mom, your feed is really sad. You know, like I'm like, you're right. It's too sad. It's too sad. But by the way, sometimes that's good because then you can go, I'm in a sad period right now. Totally. I'm not in my social chapter. I'm not in my social chapter. So like what is it? What is it? I'm just as we finish. Can you remember any TikTok that you enjoy that is funny? Yes. Oh, my God. Amazing. You want to show it to me?

1:12:32would love to let me let me go i don't even know how to get tiktok on my laptop i was gonna show you on my phone yeah yeah yeah okay here we go what are we watching i'm just going through i mean let's look okay so how would you how would you describe okay this is incredible yes this is incredible this is a video of um it says congratulations it's a girl and then it says the girl and the girl's walking around wearing a giant pig head holding a baseball bat and to a creepy little song to a creepy song and she looks awesome she this diva is i'm like she knows who she is already yes yeah that's very good that's very very funny okay and then we've got priest DJ.

1:13:20A priest DJ. You just feel like he has a hobby and a passion. Like, do you know what I mean? Like, I'm like, he's having fun. He is having fun. Yeah. All right, Rach, I'm going to have you sit back in your chair so I can properly say thank you for coming and doing this. Thank you so much for having me. This was a damn delight. Thank you so much, Rachel Sennett. That was so fun. You are a delight. and so funny and charming, and I could have talked to you all day. And, you know, for this Polar Plunge, well, today's Polar Plunge is presented by Visible. When your phone plans as good as Visible, you've got to tell your people.

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1:14:40I don't know what's around the corner. If life has taught me anything, it's that I cannot predict what is going to happen. But I look forward to the first human robot marriage on TV and that we will be, we will have run out of water and we'll be drinking other things during that return. So, but if anyone's going through Saturn's return right now in their 50s, write in and let me know how it's going for you, babe. Can't wait. Okay. Today's Polar Plunge was presented by Visible. It's one-line wireless on Verizon's 5G network for$25 a month. That's top-tier network at a budget-friendly cost. Tell your people and make the switch.

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