Darren Aronofsky, Vol. II

25 Aug 2025 · 44 min · 15 chapters

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In short

Darren Aronofsky discusses his return to the podcast to promote his new film Caught Stealing, a fun New York City escapist story about addiction, redemption, and paranoia, and how it connects to his earlier work (especially Pi) and his long-standing interest in genre blockbusters.

Guest backgrounds

The guest is filmmaker Darren Aronofsky (director of Pi, Requiem for a Dream, The Fountain, Black Swan, The Wrestler, Mother). Host Josh (Happy Sad Confused) interviews him. The episode also references Caught Stealing’s cast: Austin Butler (leading man), Zoe Kravitz, Matt Smith, Regina King, Vincent D’Onofrio, and LeF Shriver.

Key claims

Aronofsky wanted “two hours of escapism” and is currently more open to lighter, entertaining films. He says storytelling still matters because audiences remember the emotional experience of movies more than short-form feeds. He frames Hollywood’s best role as empathy journeys.

Notable examples

Hidden “pies” in Caught Stealing’s production design; a stolen drone shot through the Unisphere (not permitted) and controlled subway filming this time; Coney Island’s emotional/structural parallel to Pi; a chase scene built around East River Park/FDR and Shea Stadium. He recounts near-misses with Batman (co-wrote with Frank Miller) and other superhero projects (Watchmen, Wolverine, Man of Steel meetings).

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Discussing 'Caught Stealing' and Filmmaking Journey

2:15 to 4:52

Darren discusses his latest film 'Caught Stealing' and reflects on his filmmaking evolution.

“I will be at New York Comic Con doing a lot of things.”

Themes and Inspirations in 'Caught Stealing'

4:52 to 6:50

Darren talks about the themes of addiction and his punk influences in creating the film.

“There'll be more chats to come and it won't be another 11 years, I promise.”

Filming Techniques and New York City

6:50 to 10:29

Darren shares insights on filming in New York City and how locations influenced the narrative.

“It's been I was telling you before 11 years 11 years you were one of my first guests on the pod so it means a lot to your back I'm glad that I'm not your first or last.”

Connections to Past Works and Influences

10:29 to 14:00

Discussion on how Darren's earlier films connect to 'Caught Stealing' and his influences from other filmmakers.

“And I was like, that's not so interesting.”

Discussing Film Acquaintances

14:00 to 14:29

The hosts talk about their hopes for upcoming films and acquaintances in the film industry.

“And like I feel like this is the kind of film that like they'll get a kick out of too.”

Discussing Film Acquaintances

15:51 to 17:15

The hosts talk about their hopes for upcoming films and acquaintances in the film industry.

“So some of you may think what you see and hear in the podcast is the total me.”

Aronofsky's Film Journey

17:37 to 22:49

Darren Aronofsky discusses his career trajectory and near misses with major film projects.

“You deserve mental health care that works with you, not against your budget.”

The Essence of Heroism in Cinema

22:49 to 25:23

Aronofsky shares his thoughts on the significance of hero narratives in film today.

“and that connects you to a larger world and tells you an emotional story.”

Provocation and Audience Reaction

25:23 to 28:00

A discussion on the provocative nature of Aronofsky's films and audience interpretations.

“There's no controversy for caught stealing.”

Reflecting on Past Collaborations

28:00 to 30:46

Darren Aronofsky discusses his experiences working with actors and the misconceptions in the media.

“I was just talking about this because we did the 25th anniversary of the film this year.”
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Directing Insights and Actor Dynamics

31:27 to 37:12

Aronofsky shares thoughts on directing actors and the creative process.

“I often ask actors, what's the worst note they've ever gotten from a director?”

The Impact of Requiem for a Dream

37:12 to 42:00

Exploring the legacy of 'Requiem for a Dream' and its influence on viewers and filmmakers.

“They definitely do other stuff as well, but great.”

Reflections on Requiem for a Dream

42:00 to 43:48

Darren Aronofsky shares his experience watching Requiem with Ellen Burstyn and discusses the impact of the film.

“I mean it's funny at the 25th the anniversary that they just did at the Tribeca Film Festival, Ellen came out at 92 years old.”

The Shift Towards Positivity in Storytelling

43:48 to 45:08

Aronofsky talks about the need for a more positive vision in storytelling and his current projects.

“And lead that way and dream towards positivity and bring good characters towards that.”

Closing Thoughts and Farewell

45:08 to 45:22

The hosts wrap up their discussion, reflecting on the future and the next podcast episode.

“Well, this one, as I said, a little bit of a different gear, but it's still pure Darren.”
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0:44There's something so important about storytelling because every single person in the world can remember seeing a movie where it blew them away. and they remember the exact theater, the exact time, the exact place where they were when they walked out and that feeling. And there's no one that's had a two-hour session on TikTok that knows where the f*** they were, except for maybe their couch or their bed. But that was memorable in an emotional way, and that's the power of stories. Prepare your ears, humans. Happy, sad, confused begins now. Hey, guys, I'm Josh, and this is another edition of Happy, Sad, Confused with the one and only Darren Aronofsky, one of my favorite filmmakers on the podcast after a long, long break talking, caught stealing, his entire career, his flirtation with comic book movies, and so much more.

1:39Thanks, guys, as always, for watching, for listening, however you're enjoying this episode of Happy, Sad, Confused. You guys know I love a great filmmaker, and Darren Aronofsky certainly fits the bill. A very formative filmmaker for me growing up, so thrilled that he is back on the podcast. Before we get to Darren, a quick reminder, as always, hit up our Patreon. Check out what we've got going over there. That's where you get announcements like who's coming up on the podcast, bonus materials, merch, autographed posters, announcements of live events. We've been doing a lot of live events lately, and there are many, many more to come.

2:15I will be at New York Comic Con doing a lot of things. I will be doing stuff at 92nd Street Y, other places, things, announcements to come. And as always, patreon.com slash happy, say I confused as the place for all of that news. Check it out. Okay, let's talk about Darren for a second. Darren is one of those guys who, look, I'm a guy of a certain age. And for guys of a certain age, he was and is and always will be a very important filmmaker. I mean, I've seen all of his films. I think this is his ninth film, perhaps. and have been a fan of all of them to different degrees. Certainly, the early work made a huge impression on me.

3:02Pie and Requiem for a Dream and The Fountain. And then, you know, as my career progressed, I started to get to know Darren and talk to him over the years about films like Black Swan and The Wrestler and Mother. So he's a fascinating guy. He's a New Yorker like myself. and I just love his big swings as a filmmaker. He was one of actually the first guests on the podcast over 11 years ago, if you can believe it, talking Noah at the time. And somehow it took 11 years to get him back on the podcast, but I'm thrilled it's happening for this. Caught Stealing is the film. It opens this Friday. It is, in some respects, a real change of pace for Darren.

3:44It is a fun movie. That's right. The F word, fun, which is not necessarily something you could say about Taron's films in the past. As much as I've gotten tremendous amounts of enjoyment out of them, this movie's goal is different. It is to entertain and be an escape and be a ride. And we have a great vessel in Austin Butler. You guys know. I know and love. He is our leading man in this. And he goes on quite the journey through New York City in 1998 in this. Definitely a story cut from the same cloth of Martin Scorsese's After Hours and the works of Scorsese and Spike Lee, etc. So really cool to see Darren channel his amazing filmmaking prowess in this way.

4:34He, as you'll hear in this conversation, is at a different point in his life where, you know, given where he's at, where the world's at, he is more open to these kinds of films. So it's an interesting time to talk to Darren about his priorities. This is a great chat. Always could have used more time, but hey, I'll take what I can get with someone like Darren. There'll be more chats to come and it won't be another 11 years, I promise. But yeah, we talk a little bit about this film's connections to the past, to Pi, set in the same time period, ironically, and also his flirtation over the years with these kind of, you know, comic book movies, big screen entertainments that he's come very close to doing, whether it was Batman or Superman or Watchmen or Wolverine.

5:22So there's some stuff in there for folks that enjoy that kind of stuff. And there's also stuff in here talking about his work on things like Requiem and Pi and Black Swan. So something for everybody in this conversation. He's just one of the cool guys to talk to. So really enjoyed this. If you want to see more of my conversations around Caught Stealing, coming soon, probably any day now on MTV's socials and YouTube page, had a really fun catch up with Austin Butler and Zoe Kravitz. Actually, it was on Austin's birthday. Surprised Austin with a cake. It's very sweet. I've already posted the photo on social.

6:02So that was a really cool moment. And yeah, lots more excitement to come, guys. Later this week on the podcast, we've got Benedict Cumberbatch and Olivia Coleman together. Yep, you heard that right. Talking the roses and many other things. And then soon, very soon, I will be off to some film festivals, seeing all the cool stuff this fall. Telluride, Toronto, to go recording some stuff out there, getting into the really fun time of year for us film nerds. So that's where we're at. Here we go, guys. Enjoy this conversation. Check out Caught Stealing this Friday in theaters. Support Darren. Support Austin Butler.

6:44Support Zoe Kravitz. Support Matt Smith playing a punk rocker. Amazing. And yeah, without any further ado, enjoy this conversation. Here's me and Darren Aronofsky. Darren Aronofsky. It's good to see you man. Good to see ya. We're doing this. It's been I was telling you before 11 years 11 years you were one of my first guests on the pod so it means a lot to your back I'm glad that I'm not your first or last. Yeah, no, we're not we're not done quite yet nor are you Congratulations on the film very much enjoyed it. I think the highest compliment I can pay you and this is not a backhanded Compliment is that I feel like this is like a young filmmakers movie.

7:20This is like a guy just starting out. Thank you You've been doing this a minute. Yeah. Well, maybe it's because just new leaf, new turn. Wanted to try something different. I just sort of, I don't know, like I just noticed my own habits of going to see movies right now. And I just really wanted two hours of escapism, something really fun. And not much else. So kind of when I look at movies, I'm always like, well, work. I don't know. Just lately, I've felt the need for this. It does look I mean it I love first of all like Griffin done right from the start It's like okay. Yeah after hours. I get it.

7:59We're in that we're in the right vein here by the way Since you're a film freak in the movie after hours his character's name is Paul, right? And this is Paul's bar but Same to your coincidence your coincidence pure coincidence Is that does this show continuity is this in the Darren Aronofsky universe are the pie characters running around at the same time It's the same timeline. Yeah, there's actually a bunch of hidden pies throughout the production design. Amazing. And I've just decided right now to do an Easter egg hunt, and whoever gets the right amount gets a free copy of a signed script.

8:39Look, there is a punk aspect to this. You literally have a punk in the film. But talk to me a little bit about what it's like for you to still be kind of a punk filmmaker you know, in your 50s as opposed to when you were starting out as a punk filmmaker in your 20s. Well, I like punk music. I still listen to punk music. It's funny because I had my music supervisor, Jen Malone, make me playlists for each actor in pre-production. We're actually going to release them now on Spotify as part of the promotion. And the only one I really listened to was Russ's over and over again. He's got a taste. I just loved the old punk music.

9:16I don't know. I think it's just the music I came up with at one of those founding moments. There's no, it's not weird that the Beastie Boys were originally a punk band. That's all. I think those aesthetics were floating in the water in the 80s in Brooklyn. So that's part of it. It's interesting because I know a lot of people are talking about this as kind of an outlier for you. And I get that in some ways. But also, it's funny to me that you didn't write the script for this, but you're all over this movie. I mean this is about this is a film that's about addiction and redemption and paranoia and the setting It's like you could have written the script yourself.

9:56This does feel very much out of you So I guess my question is like chicken or the egg Does this come to you and you see all the themes that resonate with you or do you kind of put your own into it? Yeah, I mean There's a reason I read the book 18 years ago and responded and was excited by it But then when it came back to us three years ago and I started working with Charlie, I was definitely pushing in certain directions. A big part was like the characters, which, I mean, was partly co-written by the casting process. You know, first, I think Ross, the next door neighbor, was just sort of a guy that looked like Hank.

10:34And I was like, that's not so interesting. And then I kind of, you know, one of the great things about living in New York in a fifth floor walk up for many years of my life is you just slowly find out that behind every door is another crazy New Yorker. Yeah. And I just imagined there could be an over the hill punk living in one of those doors. And so, you know, it started to go that way. I originally was a guy with an American accent and then I started doing the casting process and one really good actor came in who was English who did it perfect American accent. But I was like, you know what? Try it in English and it was like, oh wow, that's interesting.

11:15So then I was like told Mary Vanu, the casting director, I was like, let's look at British actors too. And then Matt shows up. I'm the president of the Matt Smith fan club. Yeah. I don't know how that, but so that helped. And also New York City itself helped write it. And that was me looking at locations to solve certain problems. And that led to certain things. So like the big kind of hostage handoff that turns into the chase scene all happened in the baseball fields on the East River Park by the FDR. But that was being ripped up and redone. And also just trying to do a chase scene on the FDR would be extremely difficult.

11:54Yeah. So just out of need, we just started looking, where else could we do it? And the idea of doing it in a park where there's no streets you have to shut down became very controllable. And then that linked us to Shea Stadium because it's right there. And I had one of those aha moments. I'm like, oh, the Mets are there and this whole Giants wildcard backstory. So that's not in the book. It just sort of happened because we were really making it in New York City. I appreciate that you honored the actual as a New Yorker the geography I always think back to like I love Die Hard with a Vengeance. It's a great New York film anyways The geography is all fucked up.

12:31Yeah, I can't I can't do that You know the biggest geography jump for us is like when he gets on the seventh train I don't want to do any spoilers and gets off before he goes to Coney Like that where he gets off the train isn't quite appropriate You know what that's the seventh train. No one really knows those stations anyway Exactly. Are you stealing any shots in this? Is Darren Aronofsky at this point in his career? I mean, I assume pie was all stolen. Well, we definitely we stole that drone shot through the Unisphere. That was not a permit acceptable. So that was a stolen shot. No, we had permission on the subway this time.

13:07This time we actually had control of the train, which I was like, oh, you could do that. Yeah, we had like a conductor and the whole thing and safety so that it was very fun. Is there some nostalgia though? Like, you know, you are recapturing literally the same timeframe some overlapping locations to a degree with some of your early stuff. Well, the funny thing is how Coney Island functions in this film is actually structurally and emotionally character exactly the same as it does in Pi. In Pi, Max wakes up in Coney Island, the last stop, and then goes down to the beach, stares at the water and kind of has a turning point.

13:43And it's kind of very similar, which is there was a fan site that posted that and I was like oh they're right. Discovering stuff about your own movie from the fans, that's how it works. I mean look this is, you've talked before about like the influence of folks like Scorsese and Spike. And like I feel like this is the kind of film that like they'll get a kick out of too. I hope so. Have you, yeah I mean I assume they are acquaintances by now in your life so are they? Yeah, no I didn't get to show it to Spike. I mean Spike's movie comes out this weekend. And Maddie's a DP on that right? The two great New York films.

14:15I can't wait to see it and I just I wish Freak I hope I can see it when I get to Europe. I'm dying to see it. So

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17:50So elaborate a little bit more on just kind of where you were, because you were saying, you were kind of like when you wanted to make this. Because knowing your career as I do in our past conversations, you've had some opportunities. You've come close to doing kind of like the quote-unquote popcorn movie many times in your career. Oh, yeah, yeah. And I don't know. First, go back for me for a second. So out of Pi and Requiem, I feel like that's a point where you could have probably... I assume the offer... That's when Batman showed up. Right, that's where Batman... But I wasn't... I was really focused on the fountain.

18:20I really never took that seriously. So I wanted to make The Fountain. That's where I was at. Can you clarify though, because like, how, like did you have meetings with Frank Miller? Like how far did you get on Batman? We co-wrote a script, but my whole strategy on that one was I wanted to make this totally wild, crazy film about love and the search for the Fountain of Youth. And I felt like if I was on Batman, they might let me make it, which is kind of what happened, sort of. That's a longer story. But it was also, you know, I think the Batman that me and Frank pitch was like really or wrote was a really kind of down and dirty duct tape type of movie that was never really going to, you know, it wasn't going to be selling Batmobiles.

19:12I don't think I was the right guy at the right time. It was rated R. Right. It was definitely I think a whole a whole world of superhero films had to first come out to yeah Scrape the bottom of that barrel before they would go to rated R films like right like some of the later ones Did you did you have a actor in mind? I've read somewhere that Joaquin was yeah, that's true Yeah, I mean, but you know the famously I pitched Joaquin and they were into Freddie Prince jr. And so I didn't know that Yeah, it was like a different it was a very different world back then of like like, aesthetically what was going on, I think.

19:51So you were focused on The Fountain, which was a bit of a journey. Were there other, were you getting, like, a lot of offers at the time for, I don't know, like, genre films for studio films? I mean, what was coming to you at that time? Well, you're going way back. I'm not sure I was that, that any of it really stuck and none of it was real. I mean, I did. I remember I chased Confessions of a Dangerous Mind. That script was such a hot commodity at the time. It was amazing. It was amazing. And I got nowhere near it. But it was funny because I had the book. That's why I knew about it. And I lent my copy to my producer, Eric, and he lost it.

20:33I was pissed off. And I went to the bookshop on St. Mark's. There's that East Village bookshop down the flight of stairs. and there was a copy of it. And I was like, oh, great. And I looked and the price was a dollar and there was an inscription and it said, to Red, I hope you like it. If not, don't sue me, Chuck. And the book is dedicated to Red, who I think is the Julia Roberts character in it. So I have the autographed signed copy for a dollar in my house. So I was like, I'm supposed to direct this. And I told the story to Alan Horn And it just didn't happen amazing Okay, so then throughout the years we don't have to detail all the near misses or whatever Yeah, like you did kind of like dance with a lot of things.

21:19There was man of steel. There's yeah, Vareen. Yeah Watchmen yeah watchmen for but that most of them were like a week I think I was that watchman I brought it into Sherry Lansing and she was excited And then I think a week later was when she retired okay, and so then it kind of disappeared And I never really I forget what film I was working on at the time. I was interested in that one You said you were a fan of Zack's. I remember we talked about that. You liked what Zack did with that film, actually. I thought it was a really committed, faithful to the source material, and it was great. And then I watched the animated one that just recently came out, which was fantastic.

21:57Really? Yeah, it's great. And then Man of Steel was pretty quick, too. That's like a... I never got Man of Steel. I think they gave it to Zack. Okay. I was never on that. I think I think I did just a meeting on it but You know it was never it was never mine or anything I didn't I didn't Superman is really hard as we know Yeah, I thought James did a really great job with it. I thought I mean It's it's a crazy difficult box to work in because of like the the lore and the legend is so huge But it was incredibly creative So where where do you find yourself now coming off of something like this? because now you have kind of made your popcorn movie and it's getting a really nice reception.

22:38Are you in the headspace to kind of like go back all the way in the other direction towards Mother, etc., or play in the sandbox more? I haven't really decided. I kind of want, I really think where I'm at right now is one of the great things that Hollywood does is it takes strangers with all different types of persuasions into a dark room and it puts a hero in front of them and takes you on an empathy journey where hopefully if it's a well-made film, you leave your shoes and you're with someone else for two hours. and that connects you to a larger world and tells you an emotional story. And those heroes are the ones that kind of connect us as a culture.

23:37And that's kind of, we need that glue right now. And we do it really well with superheroes and characters that are larger than life. but I think it's great when it's like human heroes and Hank in caught stealing is is a really it's a pretty good guy. Yeah, he's not hurting anyone He's probably hurting himself quite a bit ruffling himself, but he's he's he's not her anyway He's minding his own business and we don't see heroes like that guys that keep getting whacked down But keep getting up trying to figure out what the hell's going on and so that's what I hope I hope like people from everywhere come into this movie and you know can forget about their phones for two hours and just connect.

24:21So I kind of like, I keep going back to like, if Hollywood can do anything right now, it's shut up and dance and do what we do best. Yeah. Which is like, just remember, let's entertain people. Like, let's bring back the big musicals. Not in real life, although that would be fine. But like, just bring people in to have a good time. What you say really resonates when I think of like Austin's performance in this. It's really cool to see him do something like this, because it does feel like, it's like a back in the day. It's like what I love about the people like Harrison Ford and Tom Cruise way back one is like they they they knew the power of like getting hit in the face a lot.

24:55And that connected you even. Harrison Ford's perfect on Frantic. He did this. He did the hero completely. And he always did. Yeah. Sometimes he would play the president. Sure. But even though he was the president, he was still a normal guy. Yeah. Same thing with The Fugitive. Yeah. You don't see them that many of these stories. And Hitchcock did it a ton. After Hours does it. Yeah. But I just like, you know, all those films from the 70s, they're just great. And they're so grounded in the beauty of New York. So talk to me a little bit about, this might be the first film of yours that has no protests associated with it.

25:28There's no controversy for caught stealing. I don't know. Some people might come out against Bad Bunny. I don't think so. I think you're okay. I mean, that's an odd thing. I mean, look, you have been a bit of a provocateur over your career. It's not on purpose. It's not on purpose. No, I don't think so. I don't actually, I couldn't believe that there was anything provocative about the whale. I mean, it was such an exercise in empathy. Right. And trying to connect with a character that most of us don't have exposure to, you know? Yeah. So at least I don't. So what about on something like Mother, which I feel like some people.

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26:02Mother was a total provocation. Of course. I was like running in howling with my two middle fingers up into the fire because I was just like totally pissed off on what was going on. right then but a lot of people just didn't even read it correctly though at first or did i miss the whole thing it's fine it's fine it happens all the time it could have been probably sold better right or or more gradually um but it was uh i i'm really happy with the film i love the performances and it's the film i wanted to make it's probably the most precise film i've done sebastian stan said he had a panic attack during his i love it his uh audition for his audition for He auditioned for Donald's character apparently.

26:43Do you have any memory of that? I didn't know that. I definitely saw it, but I didn't, I actually don't remember that. When did he tell you that? He didn't tell me, but he said it in an interview. Oh, really? Interesting. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are there auditions over the years that you've put actors through that really resonated with you, whether they got the role or not, that like they jumped off of? Well, the first thing that passed my head is Jennifer Connelly's read on Requiem was just like, I'll never forget that. She came in and I didn't know what I was expecting, but not much, I guess, because I didn't take it that seriously.

27:17And she just came in and shredded the room. And it was like, oh, wow, okay, I guess she got the part. So that happens. There's also now I've been lucky over the years, certain actors have come into the room and I'm like, they're not right for the role, But they're a movie star. I remember Felicity Jones came in. I was like, oh, you're a movie star. It won't work on this one. There's been many of them like that over the years. Do you feel like, was there a big learning curve for you in terms of working with actors? Obviously, at PA, you're working with a lot of peers, young people. And then you're working with Ellen Burstyn.

27:52You're working with this whole other level of actor. How did you kind of navigate that? With terror. You know, I mean, kitchen mitts. I was terrified of Ellen. I was just talking about this because we did the 25th anniversary of the film this year. Right. And we went to, I was remembering this. The first time I hung out with her, I took out to the boardwalk in Cornell, and I had a camera point and shoot in my pocket. And I was too afraid to take any pictures of her because it was like, I didn't know what to do. So I didn't get any pictures of that moment of our first meeting. It's funny, though.

28:28I saw the quotes also. It's also an anniversary for Black Swan. and hear Natalie and Mila talking about kind of like how you playfully kind of like pitted them against each other a little bit. First of all, you're reading the clickbait of all those things. I fell for it. Clarify for me. It was totally— I'm so angry about that. I just saw those headlines. We had the most incredible conversation getting Natalie and Mila together. All they talk about is like this— because it was like the guy asked the question about the feud, and I said, oh, yeah, that was a silly thing that got blown out of water where I tried to pick a fight, and then they immediately saw through it, and I was a total fool.

29:04And then the headline just becomes, that redoes it, that I was trying to pick a fight. I stand correct, but I apologize. The whole thing was like a tongue-in-cheek, like, hey, you know, Mila's doing really great. But Natalie was like, okay, text Mila. Mila's like, shut the fuck up. And the whole time we were laughing about it, and then, of course, it became a big story then, and now they pick it up. And then it's just that's the thing that's driving me crazy about this is that how quickly things get picked up to be. It's just really it's just it's just not it's just untrue. Well, and the proof's in the pudding of like the performances you've elicited from your character.

29:42Yeah. From your actors, like the Oscar wins, the nominations. Yeah. They clearly enjoy the experience. Oh, this is about them. Yeah. Yeah. I don't have a problem with that. Actors, we have a great time. You know, that's that's one thing. I'm confident and it's like If if an actor is ready to work, I'm ready to receive yeah Is there a um is there an actor that's got in a way that you've wanted to work with for years that's keeps coming up in the course Who comes to mind? You know, there's a there's still a lot of great actors. I haven't worked with Meryl Streep I'm a work with Leo. I haven't worked with Timothy and you and we have probably have talked about something at some point Well, we've been talking nonstop.

30:23I've known the guy, me and Leo, friends for, I mean, not the beginning of his career, but definitely the beginning of my career. Yeah. He was very generous to me. I mean, there's so many. I'd like, I mean, even the comedian Sandler and Ben Stiller. There's so many great people I'd like to work with still.

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31:33I often ask actors, what's the worst note they've ever gotten from a director? Yeah. What's the last thing you want to hear from an actor? What's a, I don't know, what's like a vibe or something that you can't gel with? What don't you want to hear from an actor? I mean, I had a really great actor once say, when I was like, oh, let's try it again. Be like, what else is there to do? And that to me was like, well, hold on. I've been waiting. You get to work all the time. It takes me two years to get to set. And then it takes me like whatever hours and hours to get set up for the shot to figure it out.

32:12And then I get like, I don't know, 15, 20 minutes for the setup. And if I want another five, 10 minutes of like, let's explore it. Like, it's not that I should want to, like, that's the party. Let's see what the hell is going to happen. So I guess I think it was probably an actor who was angry. And if I corrected them, would be, oh, yeah, of course. But it did shut me down at the time because it was a major actor. And I was like, oh, OK, well, I don't know what else to tell him to do. So, you know, we're direct mean directors are human, too, is all I can say. Yeah. Well, time is so limited. As you know, time is the most valuable commodity on a film set.

32:54I mean, Fincher always gets flack for these endless takes, but it's like I get the method to the madness. It's like this is forever. This is for all time. Let's get it right. Yeah. Yeah. It's also. It's not about getting it just right because there's no such thing as perfection. It's discovery. Yeah. It's discovery. Like, things happen that are exciting. And that's just the fun. Between action and cut is, like, when we get to create. Is there something you can apply to this experience called Stealing that you found in the moment with Austin and Zoe? I mean, they're great. I mean, Austin's just, like, so willing.

33:32Usually you have to kind of convince Austin that you have it. Yeah. Because he's always willing to get more. Zoe's also like Zoe now as a director which is a nightmare probably for some directors but I love it because she's like she's like thinking so deeply and so three-dimensionally that it's just great to have a collaboration herself yeah yeah and a very good filmmaker um Matt Smith is just a wild roller coaster of an actor where like each take is different and original I mean Regina King like solid like steel. Yeah. Just so solid. So there's just great actors on this. And then you're three-fourths of the way through the movie.

34:19You're tired. And then suddenly Vincent D 'Onofrio and LeF Shriver show up to bring the film home. And you're like, oh, you got this energy. I love the structure of this film because the back half of the film is kind of a second movie. Totally. And the tone shifts. Everything shifts and so it was it was great to have them to bring me home I've been a lifelong fan of Vincent's and he finally did the podcast a couple months ago and just to talk acting with this guy He's just like he lives and breathes the shit. He's just it's like all he's great. He's great. He's great He's still he's still like a young film student or something He really gets the energy you I mean you must be thankful you kind of came up when you did because you you came up with this amazing crop of filmmakers in this great time and And we're in a really weird time right now, it feels like, for film.

35:07And it's like, you know, the pies and the requiems, I don't know. They come, but they come very rarely. Yeah, we used to get them every year, right? Yeah. What do you make? I mean, are you optimistic about the landscape? You've never made a streaming film. I don't know if that's like a line in the sand for you or not. No, I mean, it's all about storytelling for me. And I would tell stories in many different forms. but you know I think it I think it I think there's a battle for storytelling I think there's a it attentions are being pulled away by people swiping up and you know we're competing against 10-second clips viral clips and memes and that's a battle we probably we're not we're losing that battle for because attention's going elsewhere but i think there's something so important about storytelling because every single person in the world can remember seeing a movie where it blew them away and they remember the exact theater the exact time the exact place where they were when they walked out and that feeling and there's no one that's had a two-hour session on TikTok that knows where the fuck they were, except for maybe their couch or their bed.

36:27But that was memorable in an emotional way. And that's the power of stories. And so there will always be a place for stories. But the question is, how do we keep and hold on to people's attention? How do we get their eyeballs? And how do we get them to turn down the second and third screen and just tune in so that they can... Because when you have a second screen going, you are not surrendering to a character. So I mean, I really wanted, I mean, that's why I was excited about getting Austin Butler, because he is a great tour guide. And like he's going through a crazy world in Caught Stealing, but you connect with him because he opens up his heart for you and you want to like hang out with him.

37:06He's like a Paul Newman, where you're just like, can't take your eyes off of him. And it's like, okay, this is going to be who I'm going with. Let's go. I know what you're talking about in terms of like, I mean, I want to still be in the world where like I was looking back at your filmography and looking at the box office grosses and like it's like Black Swan made like 300 million or something I mean that's like I don't know if that world exists right now like it's I you know we'll see we'll see what happens do you see you know you know humblebrag is allowed here do you see your influence on filmmakers I mean I see the Safdies and I see you I see you in their in their DNA Yeah.

37:41Do you see that? I love their films. I'm excited to see them. They definitely do other stuff as well, but great. I mean, they're fellow New York filmmakers. I don't know them very well. I met them once. I think actually I met one of them once. I haven't met both of them. You know, I get to travel the world, and I meet a lot of, clearly Requiem has had its influence in Pi. So it's nice to get that feeling where people fell in love with movies because of those movies. Because I remember that as a kid. There were films I saw as a kid that was just like, oh, wow, that's interesting. What is that? You must have had that experience when you were starting out with Pi and Requiem where that generation ahead of you kind of connected with you and said, we respect what you've done.

38:30Was there a filmmaker that reached out or that you connected with in those early years? I mean, one of the first meetings I had is Ridley Scott called me in to look at RKO 184. Oh, yeah, yeah. It was an HBO film, right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I remember walking in his office, a huge one sheet of Alien when you walk in. And then I'm sitting there with Ridley, and I was like, I was pretty great. It was a great moment for me as a young kid. But yeah, I know I've gotten to meet a lot of the Masters. Michael Mann's been really nice and Marty's been really nice. And definitely my youngest hero, Spike, has been really sweet to me and supportive over the years.

39:17And we share the same crew, so it feels almost like we're family. So we talked about the superhero thing before. Is there a sandbox that would be tempting for you to play in at this point? I'm always interested and I've always like kind of stuck my head in and seen what I would what I would do. You know, once again, I do think there's an attraction to like real heroes. You want the human. Yeah. Yeah. Not just human. It's just like I think there's something bigger about connecting people to people that don't have the superpowers. Because normally in this movie and what kind of the studio was asking me for when they started to read the script a bit was like, oh, you know, that's when the character fights back.

40:00And I'm like, yeah, but this guy doesn't know Kung Fu. This guy doesn't know how to load a gun in three seconds. And that's interesting. This is a real person who doesn't know what to do. And that is actually true. So I think that's a limit to my ability because the only way I know how to direct actors is truthfully and honestly, meaning I don't know how to make them suddenly cool and put on a pair of sunglasses. But I do know how to make a real person go, oh shit, what the fuck am I going to do here? How do I deal with this crazy situation? Do you take a source of pride in, you mentioned Requiem, which has meant lots of filmmakers, It's also meant, I would imagine, like, you know, I don't know how you feel about kind of like films changing people's lives in a substantive way, but like I would imagine some people have seen Requiem and not done any drug because of that.

40:55We just had a, yeah, I was just doing a screening in Austin and a woman stood up and said, oh, thank you for Requiem, made me sober. That's real. That's insane. Yeah, definitely. Absolutely. I've heard definitely. I mean, Hubert Selby Jr. was a big sponsor of NA and AA for generations and saved lots of lives. And so I guess his work continues. Do you also feel a source of pride? I always say, I think it's Funny Games and Requiem are the two films that are like, shook me to my core. The remake or the original? Both, both of them. I think the remake's good too, actually. You don't like it? It's so, the original is so disturbing and so upsetting.

41:33I mean, the remake's not a walk in the park. Yeah, you know, it's hard for me. I think because and I think any remake is even at least he did himself right he did Hanukkah he did the remake as I Yeah, I know he did yeah, but it's still there was I don't know my PLS was something that the something with the foreign language that adds to like a certain type of even That's fair Yeah, but to my question a source of pride that like Requiem is always the one that I bring up people bring up as like That's the most disturbing thing I've ever seen. Oh gosh. I mean it's funny at the 25th the anniversary that they just did at the Tribeca Film Festival, Ellen came out at 92 years old.

42:11And she was like, I'm gonna watch. And I was like, I wasn't gonna watch, but I was like, okay, I guess this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to sit there with Ellen. Because Ellen hasn't seen it since the Cannes premiere in 2000, so it's been 25 years. So I was like, okay, I'm gonna watch with her. And throughout the movie she's slapping me going, shame on you! I was like, you did it too! You did it too. What was it like when the lights came up at the Cannes premiere of Requiem for a Dream? Yeah, I don't really talk about that moment because it was a very special moment. I mean, I can't even imagine.

42:44There is a videotape and my producer who took it has lost it. And he promised that he would get it to me and anyway, it's lost right now. Okay, we're running low on time. But let me just ask, I mean, you've had some passion projects over the years that took a long time to get to fruition, whether it's NOAA, etc. Are there any that are still around? Yeah, we're working on it. I've been working on this project called Human Nature for 25. It's not the Human Nature I came out for. I mean, I think I read the script during Requiem. There's gonna be a graphic novel of it coming out, starting to come out this year.

43:16It's like a 500-page comic, so it's a real opus. What's the nature of the story? Can you say something? It's a sci-fi kind of spoof. Oh. It's fun. You're in your fun years. You're entering your fun years now. There's a darkness. There's always darkness. You know, look, man, I think it's like, you know, the dystopian rust that Hollywood has gotten lost in. Yeah, we went to one mistake. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, it was great, but it's time for this protopian search. Yeah. Like, we need to dream a better future. Yeah. And lead that way and dream towards positivity and bring good characters towards that.

43:58And that's definitely what I'm sort of leaning into now. The guy that made Requiem and Black Swan and these haunting - But there's a positivity in those films. Sure. There is. By showing, and this all comes from Selby and Requiem for a Dream. It was all about you reveal the light by showing the darkness. Last thing, do you think of kind of like the box set of your career? You've got a lot of years. No. You're not the Tarantino where you think of like what the 10 or 20 films are going to look like. god bless them i think it's um you know i don't who has a who buys box sets anymore it's fair i mean the rights are all over the freaking place um and i kind of you know definitely when i was younger um you know those were my heroes the people that did that but i think it's just now just consistently bringing my best game with my best collaborators game to the projects that we want to make, that are in front of us, that are exciting, that challenge us.

45:02I mean, that's, for me, like how to keep my brain sharp. It's definitely by doing something different. Yeah. Well, this one, as I said, a little bit of a different gear, but it's still pure Darren. Well, thank you. I appreciated it. I love it. I appreciate your time always, buddy. Let's not make it another 11 years before the podcast returns. Okay, absolutely. No doubt. I'll see you next time around. And so ends another edition of Happy, Sad, Confused. Remember to review, rate and subscribe to this show on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm a big podcast person. I'm Daisy Ridley and I definitely wasn't pressured to do this by Josh.

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