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Live Happy Sad Confused episode at the Toronto International Film Festival featuring Gary Oldman. The conversation mixes career retrospectives, acting craft, sobriety, and his role as Jackson Lamb on Apple TV’s Slow Horses (season 6 dropping Sept. 16), plus a brief “James Bond” clarification.
Guests
Gary Oldman (actor; Oscar/BAFTA/Emmy-nominated; knighted; plays Jackson Lamb on Slow Horses). Host Josh (Josh Horowitz) and Bill Simmons appear only as intro/ads/mentions.
Key claims
Oldman describes himself as loyal and “a softy,” credits sobriety with avoiding ruin, and says he “manifested” Slow Horses after discussing a spy-world role with producer Doug. He emphasizes collaboration on set and that actors should know lines to stay present. He says he does not know who the next James Bond is and won’t speculate.
Notable examples
“Brit Pack” auditions with Daniel Day-Lewis, Colin Firth, Tim Roth; sobriety stories including Dennis Hopper’s “15 beers + cranberry juice” anecdote; Friends casting via Matt LeBlanc; Friends/Slow Horses long-form TV envy; character work examples like Fifth Element teeth and Dracula directing clashes with Francis Ford Coppola; advice to young actors: no hard drugs, be on time, come prepared, bring ideas.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOSetting the Scene
0:00 to 0:38
Josh shares his excitement for the live taping with Gary Oldman.
“Insurance isn't one-size-fits-all, and shopping for it shouldn't feel like squeezing into something that just doesn't fit.”
Setting the Scene
1:55 to 2:30
Josh shares his excitement for the live taping with Gary Oldman.
“Welcome to another edition of Happy, Sad, Confused.”
Gary Oldman's Career Highlights
2:30 to 4:20
Discussion on Gary's accolades and projects, including Slow Horses.
“His fourth time on Happy Say I Confused.”
Personal Reflections
4:20 to 6:40
Gary shares personal insights on loyalty and sentimentality.
“And as always, we cover a lot in this conversation.”
Career and Sobriety
6:40 to 9:20
A conversation about Gary's past, career journey, and sobriety.
“I don't have many, but the friends that I do have, I've known for some of it, you know, For my friend George.”
Memories of Auditions
9:20 to 12:00
Gary recalls past auditions with fellow actors like Daniel Day-Lewis.
“This is a miracle That's things that I'm well, I'm not asked but the other members of the cast are always asked Does he smell?”
The Brit Pack and Competition in Acting
14:00 to 18:20
Gary Oldman discusses his experiences auditioning alongside contemporaries and reflects on competition in acting.
“Mentioned that in about like 83 or 84 he remembers going on an audition for Dune and Seeing you and Daniel Day Lewis and Colin Firth literally all lined up Auditioning for David Lynch.”
Outer Banks Podcast Promotion
18:20 to 21:01
An introduction to the Outer Banks official podcast featuring cast members and behind-the-scenes insights.
“All right, Outer Banks fans, it's time to listen up because you know I love this cast.”
Gary Oldman's Emmy Nominations and Role in 'Slow Horses'
21:15 to 27:20
Gary reflects on his Emmy nominations and discusses his journey to finding his role in 'Slow Horses'.
“How did you end up in friends my comedy period that was Yeah, I think.”
Character Development and Creative Process
27:20 to 28:00
Gary shares insights on character development and the creative process behind 'Slow Horses'.
“Well, of course, the one thing I have is...”
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The Legacy of 'Slow Horses'
28:00 to 33:47
Explore the collaborative environment and creative processes behind 'Slow Horses'.
“Yeah, how do you have you must have had that experience at some point being on a set where?”
The Legacy of 'Slow Horses'
34:06 to 35:37
Explore the collaborative environment and creative processes behind 'Slow Horses'.
“You'll be asked how you heard about them.”
Gary Oldman's Versatile Roles
35:41 to 42:09
Gary Oldman discusses his diverse filmography and experiences in iconic roles.
“Let me mention some of the now iconic roles in your filmography, if you'll indulge me and all of us.”
Navigating Directorial Styles
42:09 to 45:50
Gary Oldman discusses the diverse styles of directors and adapting to their methods.
“And some of them are very good friends, but we're all a bit nuts.”
Memories from Harry Potter
45:50 to 48:22
Oldman shares anecdotes about working with the cast of Harry Potter, including scenes and challenges.
“That's insane that we're gonna leave that behind Do you have a favorite scene at least can you cite like a moment that you felt between you and Daniel that then you take pride in?”
Remembering Alan Rickman and Heath Ledger
48:22 to 51:24
Oldman reflects on his experiences with Alan Rickman and Heath Ledger, highlighting their friendships and talents.
“to and we just got to get through it but I I remember I tell you what a lovely story about Alan Rickman.”
Advice for Aspiring Actors
51:24 to 54:46
Oldman offers practical advice for young actors on preparation and understanding their craft.
“Yeah, no superheroes and no hard drugs But I am Be on time Come prepared.”
The James Bond Rumor
54:46 to 56:00
Oldman addresses rumors regarding the casting of James Bond and Jack Loudon's involvement.
“You don't know who James Bond is do you?”
James Bond Speculation and Future Work
56:00 to 58:39
Gary Oldman discusses rumors about the next James Bond and his current projects.
“No, okay I've never never know we've there was an inquiry I'm sure back when I think peers was James and Not not no not for me not a bomb villain.”
Celebrating Season 6 and Josh's Excitement
58:39 to 59:33
The hosts celebrate the upcoming season of a show and fan excitement.
“But yes season season 7 is in the can come on great.”
Transcript
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1:23Gary Oldman:I remember I got into a lot of trouble because I said that there was going to be a third Batman and they hadn't announced it. And I got reprimanded for that. I got into a lot of for that. So even if I knew who, even if I knew it was who the James Bond, I wouldn't, I've learned my lesson. I'm not going to open my mouth. Prepare your ears, humans. Happy, sad, confused begins now.
2:01Hey guys, it's Josh. Welcome to another edition of Happy, Sad, Confused. Today on the show, it is truly one of our favorites, one of the great actors of all time. It is the one and only Gary Oldman coming at you from the Toronto International Film Festival. Hey guys, thanks as always for checking out Happy, Sad, Confused. Remember to subscribe on YouTube, on Spotify, on whatever podcast platform you are using. I appreciate you guys. I'm so excited to present this episode. It is always such a profound, profound honor to have Gary Oldman on the podcast. His fourth time on Happy Say I Confused. His third live event.
2:36We've done it in New York. We've done it in LA. And we brought our little crazy conversation to Toronto this time. So honored to do this one. this is our first Happy Say Confused live taping technically speaking outside of the United States I've been coming to the Toronto International Film Festival for many many years as you can see I'm in a sad banal hotel room but it's all for a good cause because I'm seeing good movies I'm seeing great people it's been a whirlwind coming off of Telluride right into this but I wouldn't have it any other way and certainly having the likes of Gary on the podcast is why I do this show truly.
3:15If you've seen his past conversations with me, you know he is a consummate storyteller, a sweet and gentle and kind of slightly chaotic in the best way soul. And it is just crazy to me that he is in my life to some degree and that he appreciates what I do. As he says in this podcast, he was very sweet enough to request me to do this kind of special tribute to him at toronto um he was honored as a visionary as part of their series here and um this obviously comes on the occasion of two really cool things for gary um he uh has been nominated for his third consecutive emmy for playing jackson lamb of course in slow horses and the new season of slow horses season six is about to drop on Apple TV on September 16th.
4:09I've seen it all. It's a great season, one of the best. And there's more to come on Soda Horses. As you might know, they crank these out. They somehow figured out how to not make you wait two or three years like some shows, I'm not going to name names, do. And they keep the quality up. So that's something exciting. And as always, we cover a lot in this conversation. Yes, we do some of the greatest hits, whether it's Dracula, Harry Potter, Batman Films, The Fifth Element, and more. Some great stories in this one, and I'm so, so thrilled to share it. My thanks to Gary, his folks, Apple TV, and the Toronto International Film Festival that's been a home to this great festival for so many years.
4:52And like I said, I've been coming for nearly 20 years, and I absolutely adore it. I've seen so many friends and great films here over the years, including this year. So always a pleasure to be here, and such a thrill to bring Happy Sad Confused as a live event to Toronto on this occasion with Gary Oldman. Okay, remember, check out our Patreon, patreon.com slash happy sad confused early access discount codes, live events, all sorts of cool stuff. If you like what I do, check it out over there. But for now, let's get to the main event. Here is me. Oh, and I'll just mention one thing. Audio, because we were in this live environment, might not be up to our usual higher standards, But forgive that, please, because it was a live event and kind of a little bit out of my control, frankly.
5:37But you'll hear and see everything you need to see in here. So here you go. Me and Gary Oldman. Enjoy. I can't think of a better way to kick off the Toronto International Film Festival than with an actual visionary. My favorite actor. I can't believe Gary Oldman. We're talking again. Welcome, sir. It's good to see you.
5:55Gary Oldman:Nice to see you. Thank you.
6:01Would your wife and family also agree you're a visionary is that an adjective that's often used to describe you at home No, it's the first time it's ever been used
6:12What are the adjectives that would describe you if I if I got your friends and family up here What would be the first words you think they would use to describe you?
6:25Gary Oldman:Be a bit of a bit of a softy. Oh, yeah I cry at, like, you know, movie of the week and stuff like that.
6:40Gary Oldman:I'd like to think I'm loyal. I'm a good friend, I think. I don't have many, but the friends that I do have, I've known for some of it, you know, For my friend George. I'm only 45 years. So I'm very I've long friendships and And Loyalty is big big big thing with me. Yeah, you talk about Sentimentality, I mean like you look you've always been acclaimed from the start But like especially in recent years you get, you know the Oscar and the BAFTAs You're a visionary today. You're you're nominated for an Emmy. You were knighted last year I mean was that was that meaningful for you to be to be knighted?
7:32Incredibly so yeah, yeah, I was deeply
7:36Gary Oldman:Honored to have that bestowed upon me. Yeah, and it's an experience that is is is I mean just unique and unto its unto itself you And it was at Windsor Castle which in itself is just the whole pump and circumstance of it is quite sort of overwhelming. And to have, you know, to have your work over the years, you know, recognized in that sense is a beautiful thing, yeah. Is it true that Prince William outed himself as a big Slow Horses fan to you? Actually, the Royals, yes, I believe. I know that Camilla the Queen is a big fan because...
8:31Gary Oldman:Well, I've run into her a couple of times.
8:36Gary Oldman:Like you do.
8:40Gary Oldman:And shout, are there any more? I hope it's coming back, isn't it? So, you know, and it was William who said to me, every time you come on the screen, he said, I just want to give you a good wash. So they're big, they're, yeah, they're big fans. It's hard to imagine, isn't it? They're sort of, one of the Windsor at the Palace on their sofa. Slow horses is nearly on. But the comment about needing a good wash reminds me like it must be so lovely like because of the nature of the character You play Jackson lamb when people see you out and about and you're put together. It's like oh wow. He's Look at this.
9:26This is a miracle
9:28Gary Oldman:That's things that I'm well, I'm not asked but the other members of the cast are always asked Does he smell? And I can attest you tell amazing. I don't know. No, it's all down with so spunk mirrors What we'll get the slow horses and I should mention season six is fantastic It's about to drop on Apple TV. You're all gonna absolutely adore it and there's more to come after that thankfully But I'm going back and we've had some conversations about your career I mean, we've talked before about you know sit and Nancy and prick up your ears kind of watching you in film You know like I think by virtue of Sid and Nancy especially you kind of got the reputation of like oh This is like this is a rebel.
10:13This is a punk actor Is that who you were as a young man? Will you describe yourself as a rebel?
10:19Gary Oldman:I'm not particularly it but it was a reputation that I Enjoyed And I I played it up a bit. Yeah You know that kind of the sort of bad boy thing. I feel like I'm Can I... I feel like I'm not on a level with you. You were on a much higher level. No, I want to be on a level with you. There you are. There we are. I can see you now. Yeah, I must have... I think I played the upper bits of Wild Boy for a while. I mean, it's no secret that I used to drink and I am 29 years somber. Wow. Which is something. It's an accomplishment. It's huge. It is a huge accomplishment. So I was a bit of a rebel, a bit of a wild boy back in the day.
11:29Gary Oldman:All my heroes as a kid, you look at these people. They're alcoholics and drug addicts. Yeah. Well, the Peter O'Toole's, et cetera. Yeah, the Peter O'Toole's and the Richard Harris and Richard Burton and, you know, you'd look at writers or poets and they were opium addicts. And it's all this, you were romanticizing all that sort of legacy and the boost didn't help. it got in the way you think it's helping for a while but it it takes a toll it catches up with you and I'm just very grateful that I had the wherewithal just to say you know I wouldn't be here I certainly wouldn't be here what was the first job post That transformation and do you remember it feeling there must have been nerves because again There's that kind of romanticized notion that this keeps me this gives me what I need you Yeah, I did a film years ago with with Dennis Hopper who Again was it enjoyed sobriety after many many years of abuse and he told me a story that He was working on one particular film and he would drink 15 beers a day.
13:07But then that was on top of, you know, in the evening he would move on to, you know, brandy in the evening.
13:17Gary Oldman:But during the day he would drink about, he told me it was about 15 or 16 beers. But what he would do is he would also couple it with cranberry juice because it's good for the liver. It's all about balance in life. You have to balance. You have to balance. You can't be stupid about this stuff. I'll never forget that. He told me this with absolutely serious face. Yeah. So I mentioned Sid and Nancy. I discovered something. I heard something literally just this past week that fascinated me. Even before you got Sid and Nancy and you're living the life in the theater, I was talking to you backstage about Kenneth Branagh and Freddie Fox's new film Kenneth Branagh Mentioned that in about like 83 or 84 he remembers going on an audition for Dune and Seeing you and Daniel Day Lewis and Colin Firth literally all lined up Auditioning for David Lynch.
14:16Do you have any memory of that?
14:17Gary Oldman:Um Well, I was still drinking
14:25The recollections will get better in the last 30 years
14:28Gary Oldman:Yeah, we used to pass. We used to see one another going in and coming out. There was Daniel, yeah, Colin, and Tim Roth. And there was a whole sort of gang of us. They called us the Brit Pack, didn't they? Do you remember? You had the Brat Pack. Right. Forgive me, America. That's what's up. That's we're in Canada! We're in Canada! So America had the Brat Pack and we had the Brit Pack. And we were all going up for the same roles. Were you competitive at the time? Was it a... Well, that's the thing. It's not a competition. you really really have to focus on what what you're doing and not what someone else is doing or achieving you know occasionally you can you know it can can niggle you a bit you know when you think they're doing awfully well aren't they but but i think as you as i've got older um God, good luck to them and God bless them.
15:53Gary Oldman:I mean, I don't see it as a competition. I mean, Daniel is, I think he's a year older than me, but we're of the same generation. And I think Daniel is an extraordinary actor. I mean, just transcendent. and there's no question I don't feel that I'm in competition with him I wish him the very best I'm not trying to start a beef with you and Daniel Taylor just for the record but if you want to start one that would be amazing for me no no we're friendly and I'm just saying but there's a lot of wonderful people a film that I particularly loved, which was, I can't remember now, if it was last year or early this year, was Train Dreams.
16:56Oh, yes.
16:59Gary Oldman:And I thought that Joel Edgerton's performance was absolutely breathtaking. I was in love with this performance. and I For my learning I it was that was the one that I think that performance is extraordinary and but Well, you just made Joel Edgerton's year I'm not in competition. No, of course I can look at it and go Wow, I I think it's I think it's great when you can look at something and in in in your field Look at something and just say You know, I don't know how they did that. Yeah. Wow. I Can't do that. You know what I mean? I think that's a that's I love good film and TV and good acting and good directing and and Only I only want to encourage more of it.
18:04I want you know I know literally every five of the 500 people in here are all thinking the same thing that's what we think about you when we're watching your stuff. How is he doing that?
18:18Truly. More Happy Say Confused coming up.
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21:24I Want to mention more than mention and talk about slow horses Gary has been acknowledged for the third year in a row with an Emmy nomination well-deserved that's coming next next week It's actually your fourth Emmy nomination does anybody know what Gary was first nominated for the Emmys Friends Fred friends But that's what we call a fun fact. How did you end up in friends my comedy period that was
21:50Gary Oldman:Yeah, I think. How did I end up in France? Yeah, Matt LeBlanc. I worked with Matt LeBlanc in a film called Lost in Space. And we became buddies. And then the spitting actor came up and he said, would you like to do it? It was, I loved it. I could get really used to it. You come in on a Monday, you did the read-through, then they rewrite. They send you some roommates on a Wednesday and then Thursday Can't even remember if we came in on Thursday And then Friday you came in and you blocked it Friday afternoon you shoot it in front of an audience. You're done by five I thought I Thought I could yeah, I could get used to this This could be the next this could be the next phase of your career after slow horses a sitcom a sitcom But I tell you, what was wonderful was observing them just going through the technical rehearsal.
22:56Gary Oldman:And watching those actors, it was like breathing form. By then it was well-willed. It was easy as breathing. It was just a wonderful experience watching it, the rehearsal and behind the scenes of that show. I would imagine in a similar way that's what Slow Horses is, especially now as you've... We're all pretty oiled in them. Yeah. This is such a gift, both to the audience and you, I know. You have such affection for this character and this series and this company that you've worked with. As you well know, this is not like, you know, you worry at different ages, are the parts going to come? Are the rewarding parts going to come?
23:43In your 60s, you have found arguably Like one of your favorite if not favorite roles. Can you talk to me a little bit and the audience a little bit about Just the meaning of this world.
23:52Gary Oldman:I feel very I feel very fortunate To as you say you get to a certain point in life and you hope the work is you know for some for some people the work dries up and For whatever ever serious reason it didn't mean they get less talented or any less good but And I was a big fan of long-form TV. And I would watch, talking about not being in a competition, but I would watch sometimes with envy these actors in these shows and think, God, it would be so wonderful to do that, to come back season after season a sort of company of actors rather rather in the way a closeness and a conspiracy that you have when you do a play to be in a company to come and play a character and really go on a journey with a character and I said to my producing partner Doug I'd like to is there anything i would love to do something long form i'd love to do tv um and enjoy what these these other actors obviously you know grew we were getting something out of it yeah yeah and um i said you know is there anything around i said but i said there's a there's a but i said um something in the spy world would be would be good if there's anything out there in the spy world that I quite like that.
25:41Gary Oldman:I don't want prosthetic makeup because I've had so much prosthetic makeup. I do not want to live in a makeup chair for four or five hours. I want my own hair. I don't want to wear a wig. I want so many wigs. I'd like something maybe a little closer to my own accent because I've done many accents and things. And I don't want big, elaborate clothes. I don't want, you know, I just want... I just want like one costume. I want to come in, throw on the costume, put some grease in my hair. And, you know, lo and behold, be careful what you wish for. And he said... You called this manifestation. You were the master of this.
26:27Gary Oldman:I did. I manifested. And then we were on a plane together, going, always on a plane together. And he always says to me, I've got a lot to tell you. we'll catch up at 30 ,000 feet. And we're on a plane somewhere and he's reading a script and he's chuckling away. And I said, what are you reading? And he said, I am reading a character that I think is about to become your best friend. And it was slow horses. And six years, yeah, six years on. um and we're still we're still going yeah you've said to me before you often kind of like put obstacles in your way before kind of taking on a character saying no or otherwise almost everything i've done i've said no to so you and it came back were there any obstacles that you put in place for jackson because you didn't say no you were excited seemingly but in on another in any other way did you create obstacles for yourself in this character?
27:37Gary Oldman:Well, of course, the one thing I have is...
27:45Gary Oldman:I thought, wouldn't it be fun just to maybe... You know, his description of him was such. But anyone would tell you that you put on a little weight and then you get to a certain age. and it's not quite so easy not quite so easy to take off so but there are no there were no there were no obstacles no not not with this one I was really thirsty for it the source material was amazing these books I mean the whole I mean I'm here you know bathing in the warmth of the slow horses legacy or but really That world and those people are all from the imagination of Mick Heron, right who wrote the books He can't he came up with the whole thing And it's a testament to his brain But also the environment that you all have created on set because I mean, I'm sure they're all we're also horses fans here I mean the company of actors yeah, it's it's it's a true testament to what you've created that Each season new and returning characters come into it And as you well know like the key in any production is like being in the same production And that's I think like what I sense in slow horses everybody knows their knows what they're in they're in the same thing Right.
29:15Yeah, how do you have you must have had that experience at some point being on a set where? That epiphany happens. We're like, oh, I'm in a different movie than the directors directing.
29:25Gary Oldman:Oh, yeah I should say so. And you're working with sometimes actors that you just think you're... You know, I tell you, I'm sure many of you are a Kung Brothers fan. I mean, it's just, yeah. and they tend to they dial in a tone or a frequency that you've just five minutes you know it's a Cung Brothers movie and there's a certain acting but it's consistent you know and I've been in situations where you know someone's in a Cung Brothers movie and someone's in a martyr's corset, you know, you do get that occasionally. Tonally, it's imbalanced. What do you do in that situation? You just have to really, well, you can speak up.
30:32Right. And then if you're heard, that's the other thing.
30:40Gary Oldman:The thing I will say about the slow horses is, well, there's been a current thing about the Will Smith leaving and the showrunner.
31:02Gary Oldman:We have many showrunners. there's a wonderful team of uh of creative producers there's a a room of writers and then the actors also who now really understand the dna of these people these characters coming I mean, it is very, very collaborative exercise, slow horses. And we, you never want to, you can feel that you can speak up, that you're not put down, you're not judged. And sometimes in past experiences with movies, Sometimes a director sets an atmosphere where you can really work and really feel that you can let go and be creative. And other times it comes from the top. It always comes from there.
32:12Gary Oldman:More Happy Say Confused coming up.
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35:50Let me mention some of the now iconic roles in your filmography, if you'll indulge me and all of us. Because I think about your chameleon-like tendencies, especially, it's so funny, you talk about slow horses being kind of like no prosthetics, close to your voice. It's like you're kind of in this, the total opposite era for you. Between Manc and Slow Horses, you kind of went in the other direction and found it just as rewarding. That's just something, I don't know, that I find fascinating.
36:18Gary Oldman:Actually, it was Manc to Jackson. Right, yeah. That was the last big well, of course my my cameo in a open I'm I missed you in the Odyssey though. I will say you should have really I did that was the one thing it was missing I Think of your voices though throughout they reverberate in my brain as a film lover and I think of something like and I know You don't have the most affection for it, but I'm gonna say at the fifth element
36:57Gary Oldman:What where did that voice come from absorb the voice for the fifth element well But the song would it now here's the thing It will give you lime raisings. Oh wow, which is supposed to be the thing you should you find a way of getting what you want you know but but you should never give a they say you should never give an actual line reading i mean david finch who gives you line readings i'm happy to take it actually how do you want it said okay i'll say it like that um but luke would sometimes give you line readings but of course he had this french right voice he had the sad very french accent at that time.
37:44Gary Oldman:His English wasn't great. So he would talk like this and he would give you a direction and he would say and he would give you an inflection of how he wanted to look. But he was hearing it in his accent. And I thought how can I give him what he wants but not do you know Immanuel Zorc could not not make it and not and I'm supposed to sort of are we in America you know it was never really we're in some other region yes so I thought how can I get close to what he wants but you know make him happy and and you know help me get through So I could survive it how could I survive this and So what I came up with was I had a little forced teeth that I used to clip in So I had the force the front teeth and I did a cross between it was Bugs Bunny meets Ross Perot
38:59Gary Oldman:And that and that's that old chestnut everybody does that one Remember you remember Rouse Pro is the sort of sound like that sound a bit like that and I just thought well if I just do Yeah, what's up doc if I if I just marry the two Then and it was perfectly I wouldn't always I wouldn't always come a character that way But it was a cartoon. Yeah, it was it's bigger than life. It's a cartoon so but that's how that That happened yeah It worked don't worry don't work. Thank you. Another one that works. I'm I'll always bring up Bram Stoker's Dracula with you because I think it's just I'm sorry as long as we're talking I will ask new questions because I'm always obsessed with this film I mean, I've been lucky enough in recent years to do a lot with Winona Actually, we're gonna ride her and talk to her a lot about the production and I will say she has nothing but love for you Gary you should know that and I know like it's famously kind of like a bit of a fraught production I don't know if that was overblown or not but did tensions like elicit to help the production in some way I don't know if in the case of like Francis kind of like pushing you asking you to improvise in character supposedly did that help as you recall or I mean overall yeah yeah it was good I mean overall it was a good experience and I only wanted to do it because of Francis right I mean I didn't it wasn't sort of on my bucket list you know I did I've got to play Dracula or I really need to play drag I mean it wasn't it wasn't anything I'd never even see it never even crossed my mind you know and then it was so the interesting thing about it was that it was Francis Coppola's Dracula and how he would see it and what vision that he would bring to it.
41:05Gary Oldman:And we... Sometimes we came together and we would butt heads. Yeah. There's some amazing behind-the-scenes footage. Oh, I know. Some of it looks... Yeah, I look at it... Have you seen it? Yeah. I'm not. No, I'm not very... I'm not very proud of it. No, the final process. But the fact... Yeah, but we... we we sometimes clashed yeah but yeah then when I like this is this this is the funny thing is when I later directed and I used a clip from Apocalypse Now I obviously had to ask permission and he gave me that clip free and he said yeah you know Gary can have whatever he wants and then later I ran into him again in Khan and we were whatever differences we had at the time you know we sort of we made up but I used to love the way I actually would like I love the way he direct because he would talk to you through in the take like it's like as if you were making a silent movie you love you love her you've never loved a woman like kiss her run your feet but sort of more more but and he would say okay that was good over let's now go out come in and do that again and the camera was the camera would be rolling and he would you know what and we're we're all a bit we're all a bit nuts and to do the job I do and directors they're all very they're all very strange.
43:12Gary Oldman:Yes. And they're great, and they're great. And some of them are very good friends, but we're all a bit nuts. So what you do is you just slip in, and you go, oh, she's like this. Okay, he's like this. Ah, he wants to do 100 takes.
43:38Gary Oldman:I'll surrender to the process and I'll go along and do that this person over here only wants to do two takes and is moving on and that is And you just have to morph right into each of your own Yeah, I mean you can you bring your you know most directors will cast you and expect you to do to do your work you don't get to a chris nolan set and he's hired you because he knows that you're going to do your homework and you're going to come and you're going to know the lines and you're going to be prepped i mean that's that's you know but they're all they're all different and um and you and you really you have to find a way of working with them and or it will it'll be really tricky it it it could make their life your life and the people that you're working with it can make their lives of misery so you have to and I was a little more a combative when I was younger right it's something that I've just learned with age that you know that thing I'm speaking to maybe the the over 60s in the audience but you know the thing where you just go life's too short life's too short
45:12Gary Oldman:you know you can you can still fight you can still have the it's taking your battles too the kit the commitment yeah to the work and everything but let's get along yeah you know rather than, you know, I read those stories about, you know, Fitzcarraldo and, you know, where he, didn't he get a gun and he was going to shoot him? I believe so. Because he wanted to walk off the movie. And he said, you're not going to walk off the movie because I'm going to, I will kill you and then I'll kill myself. I mean, you thought you were crazy as a young actor. You were fine. You were nothing. Yeah. Who is that?
45:50Gary Oldman:Kinski, isn't it? Klaus Kinski. Kinski, yeah. Yeah. What let's continue our ongoing debate about the quality of your work in Harry Potter that we've had over the years
46:03Is that what it's about you just want me to compliment you more because you're amazing a serious flag, but okay You've said before to me and others you've said you you call your work mediocre. That's insane that we're gonna leave that behind Do you have a favorite scene at least can you cite like a moment that you felt between you and Daniel that then you take pride in?
46:21Gary Oldman:Yeah, I have the scene with Daniel where I talk about the people that we've loved or that have loved us live in here and that we carry them always with us. Yeah, something like that. Yeah, I loved working on the... In fact, I just told a story just very recently.
46:49you all remember the rat scabbers the rat well that there's this electronic ones and this you
46:59Gary Oldman:know the sort of the those technical people magicians with what what they can do but there is a real scabbers right and he would have to have a break every 15 minutes and we'd be like in a scene he would go why was why we stopped you know well scabbers gets a bit stressed out oh really yeah and he has to have a break so every 15 minutes the rat in this scene with the where the rat really i mean it was scabbers scene we were just there it was all about the rat but um yeah he would have to be he would have to be taken off i do remember i do remember that and at a certain point the kids go to school right where's your excuse you need a 15 minute break yeah well that's actually when the rat kept going out i kept saying who's his agent i mean he's going what a fantastic deal there's rats on um but the um yeah and then the kids and then the kids would go to school and I would finish the scene with Daniel standing right you know and that's again okay this is what it's gonna be like the nature of the beast this is the nature of the M week and we've just got to and we just got to get through it but I I remember I tell you what a lovely story about Alan Rickman.
48:34Gary Oldman:God bless him. Alan Rickman, yeah.
48:43Gary Oldman:He, not only was he sort of, Alan was kind of like the cheerleader of it, you know, he was into it. He was doing it so he was with it and committed to it kind of thing. But he would bring in kids every single day. He would bring them in from a school. He would bring them in from a hospital. He would bring friends and their kids in every single day and lunchtimes and things. he would take kids around and tour the sets and we would meet them. I thought that was the most extraordinary thing that he was in this world that he got to be in and come in every day. And he knew how much it meant to these kids.
49:47Gary Oldman:So he sort of wanted to share it. I'll never forget that. He was such a darling like that. I mean you've worked with so many iconic actors and you know By way into the the Batman films. I want to ask you about working with the the sadly Departed Heath Ledger and we lost way too soon and you know You did get to work with Heath obviously in the dark night and I think of that interrogation scene Him bathed in black that amazing silhouetted image of him that Chris created on set. Yeah Do you have any memories of just like I mean he seemed to be on another level on that film it was teeth? Yeah, yeah, he was extraordinary Yeah, it was a Wonder to be honed on the set.
50:29Gary Oldman:Yeah, he was He was in it. Yeah You said like it did feel like the beginnings of a relationship I was watching like you you accepted the SAG award for him posthumously Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, we yeah, we yeah, I could see Being friends with him, yeah. And I remember Douglas, and you told me. You were the one that broke the news to me. Yes. And I was an utter, utter... And Philip Hoffman. Does it look terrible? Philip Seymour Hoffman. You know, and you... Just both. I mean, extraordinary talents. Yeah. both of them and to lose them to lose them like within actually No, they're the two actors that this next generation that they they talk about the most I feel like and you frankly I mean among others um Leonardo DiCaprio has famously said his advice supposedly to young actors is no superheroes and no hard drugs What would be Gary Oldman's advice to young actors?
51:47Gary Oldman:Yeah, no superheroes and no hard drugs But I am
51:59Gary Oldman:Be on time
52:12Gary Oldman:Come prepared. Know the lines. You know, just that's the minimal, isn't it? I mean, it's like page one. Like, come with ideas. Have an idea. Throw it out there. Not always. You know, the directors, well, you could come with ten ideas and they may reject them all and may reject nine and go you know that that's a really good idea but I I've noticed a little bit of just people who they don't know the text well enough and it's not to say that they haven't looked at the lines but it's you know you have you have to know the material if you don't know the material you can't relax and you can't listen because you're in your head going on I got a light coming up over it you're not it you're not in you're not in it you're in your own film not someone else's you're in your own film so that's always been a big that's always been a big thing with me you have to really know the material and so that you can live in the thing and really and really listen to other actors and and the people that you're in the scene with and um you know the the craft just the sheer craft of you know hitting marks and camera where you have to look at sometimes you know you have to do i've done it you know you have to look to a piece of tape you know yeah you know is that a bird is it a plane you know you have to uh succumb with imagination um um but you you gotta you gotta learn the craft of what you're doing because you if you're looking for truth so I guess we all are in whatever whatever creative journey we're on but you know that has to marry with technique and so you couldn't you just say you'd know it be open and you know it and then you forget it yeah kind of thing does that make sense absolutely now I'm gonna be a great actor thanks for that simple tip From Gary Oldman, I've got that down.
54:52Don't worry Before I let you go. Here's a random one. We're talking backstage. Should we set the record straight? You don't know who James Bond is do you?
55:05Or or if you do do you want to announce Jack Loudon right here and now?
55:09Gary Oldman:Okay, here's what I said Let me tell you and they've taken it as Doug pointed out, they've taken it to the very edge of almost misquoting me. But they don't. I was in an interview with a Canadian journalist. And she asked me about, oh, you know, James Bond and Jack Loudon. And I didn't bring it up. She brought it up. did not volunteer this and I said well there's a rumor has it that they've already cast bond but they haven't announced it yet which I believe I believe is true there's six people I think on a short list I heard a rumor that they've picked James Bond but they haven't announced it here which is their prerogative you know not for me to announce James Bond and I simply said because they brought up Jack and they know that he's on the short list Jack Loudon and I said yeah I hear that they've I think they've cast it but obviously we're waiting for them to announce it I said fingers crossed for my mate Jack that was it confirmation as far as I'm concerned I like I've got like I actually know and I've got I'm in with the oh yeah I mean with the bond people like I've got I'm on I got a red phone from you know me so let me please put the record straight I do not know who the next James Bond is I remember I got into a lot of trouble because I said that there was going to be a third Batman and they hadn't announced it boy and I got reprimanded for that I got into a lot of shit for that so even if I knew who even if I knew it was who the James Bond, I wouldn't I wouldn't I've learned my lesson I'm not gonna work on my mouth.
57:40Gary Oldman:So I do not know who I'm hoping It's Jack
57:53Hey, and I'll just say for the record look you've kind of left your baddie period behind but maybe one more But you know Bond villain as Gary Oldman would be really awesome I'll just show No Not to drag some bomb villains You don't want the white cat you don't want the whole thing. No, okay
58:12Gary Oldman:I've never never know we've there was an inquiry I'm sure back when I think peers was James and Not not no not for me not a bomb villain. Okay, no, but Jackson lamb for him We're gonna And on this we can keep I keep going with James good. He is keeping you are going because you've already shot I believe we can say season 7 is coming. We know that and perhaps more. We'll see we don't know But yes season season 7 is in the can come on great. Yes
58:49But before season 7 I'll remind folks Apple TV it's September 16th season 6 I've seen it all it's fantastic congratulations and
58:59Gary Oldman:Let's just let me say that when this was announced, we requested Josh because he's really, he's the best.
59:14You've just made 14-year-old Josh, whose favorite actor was Gary Oldman, very happy. So let's talk about your work. That's next time. We're out of time. Ladies and gentlemen, give it up for Gary Oldman, everybody. Come on.
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