In short
Jacob Elordi discusses his career and craft, focusing on his role as the Creature in Guillermo del Toro’s Frankenstein, plus his earlier breakout work (The Kissing Booth, Euphoria) and influences like Heath Ledger’s Joker in The Dark Knight. He also chats about being a “dog dad,” dressing dogs in clothes, and how fandom/internet reactions affect him.
Guest background
Jacob Elordi is an Australian actor known for The Kissing Booth franchise and HBO’s Euphoria. He’s worked with major filmmakers including Sofia Coppola, Paul Schrader, Ridley Scott, and now Guillermo del Toro. He trains/learns through director-driven projects and cites NIDA short courses and early stage validation.
Key claims
Del Toro’s set culture (“mainframe”) enables risk-taking; Elordi felt the Creature role was “deja vu” and not overcooked by limited prep. He prefers working with filmmakers who create cinema “for the wall of posters,” not just career moves. Online backlash once made him paranoid.
Notable examples
“Why so serious” Joker marketing; his first stage validation as Cat in the Hat (Seussical); being mistaken for Nicolas Cage; Ridley Scott’s “fuck me, man, you’re all right” direction; dog costumes (Matildas jersey; Chucky/Pennywise).
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOWelcoming Jacob Elordi
0:24 to 1:20
Josh introduces Jacob Elordi, discussing his background and current projects.
“He clearly lives and breathes this stuff.”
Jacob's Career Journey
1:20 to 3:19
Exploration of Jacob's rise to fame and career choices in film.
“Before we get to Jacob, a reminder, of course, check out our Patreon where you get all the early access and discount codes and autographed merch and so much cool stuff.”
What to Expect from the Conversation
3:19 to 3:40
Josh sets the stage for what listeners can look forward to in the discussion.
“Enjoy the feast that is Guillermo del Toro delivering one of his passion projects.”
Dogs and Personal Life
3:40 to 4:36
Jacob and Josh share their love for dogs and personal anecdotes.
“Without any further ado, here's me and Jacob Elordi.”
Dogs and Personal Life
9:11 to 10:27
Jacob and Josh share their love for dogs and personal anecdotes.
“And a fun place for me to reset is with my closet.”
Dogs and Personal Life
10:30 to 10:45
Jacob and Josh share their love for dogs and personal anecdotes.
“That's Q-U-I-N-C-E dot com slash happy set.”
Discussing Frankenstein
10:45 to 14:00
Josh and Jacob delve into Jacob's role in Guillermo del Toro's Frankenstein.
“Dude, this movie, this performance, you are the heart and soul of this movie.”
The Creative Process with Guillermo del Toro
14:00 to 16:50
Explore the profound influence of Guillermo del Toro on the creative process.
“So everything kind of happened for a reason.”
The Impact of 'The Dark Knight'
16:50 to 20:20
Discuss the personal and cultural significance of 'The Dark Knight' and Heath Ledger's performance.
“You know the world that he's created through his cinema.”
Growing Up with Stories and Fantasy
20:20 to 23:10
Reflect on childhood inspirations from fantasy literature and films.
“I do think he was one of our great, great artists.”
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Growing Up with Stories and Fantasy
23:50 to 25:27
Reflect on childhood inspirations from fantasy literature and films.
“That's why I'm so happy Rula is an ongoing sponsor for Happy, Sad, Confused.”
Validation in Acting Journey
25:30 to 28:00
Recollect the moments of validation that solidified a passion for acting.
“From the parents behind Law & Order comes a mystery the whole family can enjoy.”
The Magic of Film Sets
28:00 to 29:50
Explore the transformative experiences of filming and acting in different cultures.
“Like to me, it was like, you know, I broke down the kind of the teenage existential catastrophe that is Noah Flynn.”
The Impact of Euphoria and Kissing Booth
29:50 to 32:15
Discuss the contrasting receptions and fan bases for two major roles Jacob played.
“I think Pacino and maybe Hoffman said something along the lines of this, but if someone is paying for the room and the space that you are and then asking you to come in and act in that space, then you're doing it.”
Navigating Fame and Character Reactions
32:15 to 34:22
Jacob shares insights into handling fame and the public's perception of his characters.
“You should have a strong reaction to him, but did it catch you off guard?”
Choosing Projects with Visionary Directors
34:22 to 36:55
Jacob discusses the importance of working with great filmmakers and the impact on his career.
“I mean, you see the filmmakers you've worked with, whether it's, you know, Sophia or Paul Schrader, Emerald, Justin Curzell, Ridley Scott.”
Personal Philosophy on Acting
36:55 to 39:49
Jacob elaborates on his evolving relationship with acting and artistic integrity.
“artist and to put uh to put everything that I need to say on stamped in that you know piece a celluloid or in that moment in time.”
Upcoming Projects and Collaborations
39:49 to 42:06
Jacob provides an overview of exciting new projects and collaborations in his career.
“is a little bit like playing a movie star or something.”
Exploring the Impact of Film and Streaming
42:06 to 46:02
Discover how the viewing format of a film influences its interpretation and societal perception.
“And I just got to see the film recently.”
Behind the Scenes with Ridley Scott
46:02 to 49:51
Gain insights into the working style and creative process of director Ridley Scott.
“He's one of the, what a totally sort of mesmerizing experience.”
Rapid-Fire Questions with Jacob Elordi
49:51 to 52:44
Enjoy a light-hearted rapid-fire question segment revealing personal insights from Jacob Elordi.
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Worst note a director has ever given you?
0:03Jacob Elordi:What are you doing with your mouth? Stop doing that. It looks stupid.
0:10Jacob Elordi:I've worked with him for like seven years. A little euphoria action, Sam. Okay. All right. But you know what? He was right. It looked really stupid. Prepare your ears, humans. Happy, sad, confused begins now. hey guys it's josh welcome to another edition of happy sad confused another first time guest we're on a run lately we've had a lot of first timers we often have the repeat guest today jacob alorty one of the hottest young actors on the scene joining me to talk about everything from the kissing booth euphoria and of course frankenstein um thanks guys as always for checking out the pod. This is, this is a really, I won't say this was a surprise, but I didn't know what to expect from Jacob Alordi and boy, did he deliver not only in performance at Frankenstein, but in this conversation, I really gained so much more respect even that I already had for him because, um, he's just a true, I don't know.
1:11He loves this stuff. He loves acting. He loves film. He clearly lives and breathes this stuff. And I can always vibe with someone like that. So you're going to dig this one. I dug it. Before we get to Jacob, a reminder, of course, check out our Patreon where you get all the early access and discount codes and autographed merch and so much cool stuff. Patreon.com slash happy, sad, confused. We are publishing so many cool episodes right now. So there's more, more stuff there than ever, to be honest. And we do have some live events coming up, including Brendan Fraser, November 18th in New York City.
1:44Get in on that one. We're screening his new film, Rental Family, and some really cool other events coming up very soon. Oh, there's Lucy. She's getting up. That's the bonus if you're watching on Spotify or YouTube. Okay. So Jacob, look, this guy is doing it right. He, of course, came to fame in the Kissing Booth series, and that's one thing. And he's very sweet and appreciative of that. But to see what he's been doing lately. You know, big props to this guy for how he's navigating his career. Euphoria, of course, but then of course, working with Paul Schrader and Sofia Coppola and now Guillermo del Toro.
2:24Yeah. As the creature, no less, in Frankenstein. And I say this to him and I am not alone in this. Jacob Elordi is kind of the best thing in Frankenstein. And that's not a slight to anybody else, but he's amazing. It's a really great performance. And I honestly hope he gets some recognition in the award space. I mean, not that that stuff really matters, blah, blah, blah, but he deserves it. Guys, look at her face. Look at Lucy's face. Is that the cutest dog ever? And that's a good, actually, that's a good connection to Jacob because we talk a lot about our dogs. He's a big dog person too. So again, won my heart on that point too.
3:02Dog chat and movies chat and Guillermo del Toro chat with an actor, triple win. Frankenstein, I believe this is still in some theaters, but it's also going to hit Netflix. I think it might be on Netflix by the time you are listening or watching this. So no excuses. Enjoy the feast that is Guillermo del Toro delivering one of his passion projects. And enjoy watching a guy really coming into his own as an actor. And of course, I didn't even mention Salt Byrne. He's going to be in Wuthering Heights, can't say it out loud, coming soon, which is going to be a big movie next year. So lots in this conversation to enjoy.
3:42Without any further ado, here's me and Jacob Elordi. Why, look, it's Jacob Elordi on my Zoom screen. How are you, man? Thank you for doing this. I appreciate you. Josh, thank you for having me. Our paths really have barely crossed. I think we have like a fleeting moment at an MTV Movie Awards silly bananas show, which is not a real place to have any kind of human interaction. Yes. This is the real deal now. You ready? This is the real.
4:09Jacob Elordi:This is the realest of deals. A zoom screen, the idea of you, a digital idea of me. I'm better at digital. I don't know about you, but I'm better in digital form. Oh, my God. Don't say that. Well, I was saying before I'm coming to your event tonight. so hopefully we'll see each other in person after this. I'll see you in the flesh. I just start crying when I see your face. Oh, God, he was right. Oh, God. Get back into your Zoom box. Get back into your screen. So before we talk Frankenstein, and I adore this film and adore this performance, let's talk dogs for a second. It's on your shirt. My dog pillow is right behind me.
4:49I can see that, yeah. I believe we're both obsessive dog dads. Layla is yours? A little staffy. Oh yeah, Staffy Pit.
4:58Jacob Elordi:Little Staffy Pit. The best. So cute. Their bellies are so nice. Don't get me started. Yeah. That warm little belly. Just so, so good. Mine is out on a walk right now, but tell me about yours as well. That's very... My dog walker is known as my wife. No, we trade off.
5:26oh that says a lot about me um tell me about your dog and your have you always been a dog guy
5:33Jacob Elordi:yeah yeah my whole life we grew up with um we had a dalmatian when i was smaller called dotty and um and then we had a cavalier king charles spaniel called paris and love them, just love, love, love, love, love dogs. And my dream actually when I was a teenager, when I was in high school, my dream was to live in New York in an apartment with a German Shepherd and feed it pizza while I watched cartoons. So I essentially do that now, but in a much more responsible way. I don't give my dog pizza because I want it to live forever, but I am essentially living my dream. where do you stand on dressing a dog in human clothing Halloween is coming up is is Layla gonna get a costume or no you know I should say I should say that I hate it but I can't no I'm with you I used to make fun of people that did that but now I so cute when you put a little t-shirt on them and they follow you around with a t-shirt on it's so beautiful I mean, it's probably, and also I think my dog enjoys it.
6:43Jacob Elordi:Like she gets, she gets really proud when she puts something on, she starts just wiggling around the house. What have you dressed her as in just in a shirt? I put her in the Matildas are in Aussie soccer team. And I put her in a, in a little Matildas Jersey, which was honestly, I cried a bit. It was so cute. She looks so, so cute. And then I put her in like, I just usually put her in my clothes.
7:11she just takes it she just can't stand yeah ours i feel like is specializing in horror figures she for one halloween she was chucky and this halloween she's gonna she's gonna be pennywise
7:21Jacob Elordi:the clown so we're just running through the kind of one have you seen those costumes where the arm moves there's like an arm attached to it that's exactly it the video i have of her doing that is one of my favorites
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10:44Okay, we got the important stuff out of the way. Second most important is Frankenstein. Dude, this movie, this performance, you are the heart and soul of this movie. I mean, truly, what an accomplishment. congratulations i mean this is a stacked cast let's be real oscar isa christoph waltz mia goth i'm talking to mia tomorrow and with all due respect to all of them you steal this movie man this is your movie i mean talk to me a little bit about not only being in a guillermo movie being the creature in a guillermo movie this is this is rarefied air uh this is checking off i would imagine something that wasn't even on the bucket list perhaps i don't know no it wasn't on
11:27Jacob Elordi:any tangible bucket list this was on the uh the like list of impossible dreams that you have because your first dream is just to act you know to act in some kind of professional sense anywhere to be on a stage or do something and then i remember i had this pang when i was 16 i was looking at uh i was looking can you hear that wind a lot it's okay it's fine yeah yeah i'll get could you close those windows thank you i was looking i was like i was sleepless and I knew I was going to be able to perform. But then I was like, what if you don't get to do it the way that you've seen it done? What if you don't get to go to that next place and really be in movies?
12:10Jacob Elordi:So this kind of feels like the kind of beginning of that sort of dream or fear that I had. I'm kind of in a strange space afterward, sort of driving around New York and seeing the creature on a billboard and understanding that I just did my dark night, you know. Yes. You know, there is – it feels like that for me. So it's really heady and you can't – I think – I'm hoping this is a sign of a sane man, but you can't comprehend it. Right. You know, you can't really sit down and go, this is real and this is happening. Yes. And everything that you saw play in your head is playing out almost like it's deja vu.
13:01Jacob Elordi:You know, it's enough to make a man go mad. Well, I mean, look, you more than met the moment, man, because like that's it's one thing to get that role, get that opportunity. But then to deliver in the way you did. I mean, truly kudos all around. I mean, and this happens for those that don't know in an unusual way. I mean, I, you know, I've talked to the lovely Andrew Garfield, who's been so sweet. He's like so excited. He's so excited to see your take on this. And, you know, he was attached. This is obviously a passion project for Guillermo that he was trying to get off the ground for many years.
13:36And you, you kind of like were just dropped into this pretty last minute. In a way, are you happy it happened the way it did? I mean, obviously, you probably would have liked more prep time, but you clearly had enough.
13:48Jacob Elordi:No, it happened in the way that it was supposed to happen. I think if I'd been originally attached and had to sit on it for a year and a half, I think I would have overcooked it. um right uh and i also had just come out of a job with justin kozell um that was sort of felt like a different level of uh that it took a different it took a different piece of me to make um that i was looking to kind of process and go away and and reflect on but it ended up being the the fact that i had just given a different piece of myself was exactly what I needed to do to be able to just step straight into playing the creature.
14:32Jacob Elordi:So everything kind of happened for a reason. And I'm not completely opposed to the idea that it's because Guillermo del Toro has had like a witch's stew brewing for 20 plus years. And somewhere along the way, he sent a little fairy into my room to pluck my hair out and put it into the pot. Because so much of it felt like deja vu, if that makes sense. So much of it felt like it had been happening for a really long time. And it did feel like I had been preparing to play that character for a really long time subconsciously. It felt like the kind of – it's like what you – if you're a samurai, like what you've kind of been training for.
15:17Jacob Elordi:Building towards, yeah. Building towards your whole life. And you can only build towards something like that kind of unconsciously, I think as well you can't direct that kind of that energy it's just something that has to has to happen I think it also takes someone like Guillermo who like look I've been privileged enough to know for many years all journalists love him film fans love him actors love him because I don't know how many hugs he's given you I think I've been hugged by Guillermo del Toro more than like by my mom my mom perhaps the sweetest man on the planet and lives and breathes this shit and just and is born to be what he is um and i would imagine create such a a warm inviting space where you can you can take risks and you can feel like you're out on a limb and know he's going to have your back totally i mean he creates the he creates this kind of factory space in which he allows all different professional artists to come and uh expose themselves and feel good about contributing um i think and it's also just through curation like a director is a great curator i think a curator of taste and of and of style and he's put this this team is not deliberate is is not not deliberate right you know um it's taken him years to kind of he's to build this crew which is yeah which is like an extent there every person that works on that film is an extension of his creative soul.
16:45Jacob Elordi:Everybody knows the language and everybody sort of, when you check into work in the morning, it's like you're plugging into the Guillermo mainframe. You know, you're aware of the law. You know the world that he's created through his cinema. You know how he feels about films. And that's just, he just pumps that out constantly on set. But I think it's because he receives something from the process of filmmaking as well. he's getting an energy from somewhere else that we can't be privy to because he's dedicated his whole life to this thing. And then he's generous in that he shares that with the people around him when he's making a project.
17:22Jacob Elordi:And then the hope is that something comes out, which I think is what this film is, that is this sort of wonderful masterpiece made by a bunch of different artisans and craftspeople. yeah well I mean you alluded to this I love that you already mentioned Dark Knight because I've come across this in the research you mentioned that as a formative experience and like there are two actors that always come up on this podcast when I talk to actors from like 20 20 to 60 it's Philip Seymour Hoffman and Heath Ledger yeah because they have the same they have the same gaze the pair of them have the same uh they say something and then their eyes say something else and then there's this other thing that just gets into your stomach when you're watching that and that's i don't know what that is i don't know what that uh it's an unattainable thing and i think it's i think it's moved all of us you know so you have indelible memories you're what like 11 years old or so when you see when you see dark knight and it's it's everything about it but in particular is it is it that joker performance that knocked you back yeah because because i i'm sure you remember too the marketing there was uh these there was these posters that said why so serious in the fog of the uh there was a fogged out window and there's this like sort of purple silhouette behind the fog and all you could see was his smile in the and even now i can like i get i i'm terrified of that of that thing and then i remember it was the first time i was aware of press i remember driving to school and hearing people talk on the radio and they were like well don't take your young ones because there's a pencil scene that is just you know like highlighting this one sort of point and i remember sitting in the car and being like how does he how does he make the pencil because like he makes a pencil disappear in a way that will make your stomach stomach turn and i was like right how could you make a pencil disappear in my stomach turn i remember not really fully understanding it and then one time my mom was away and my dad had taken me on a basketball trip and um i remember we were driving after the after that radio interview and i was like please i know mom said no but please Like, please take me to see that.
19:31Jacob Elordi:I've got to see this movie. And we went and saw it. And I'll never forget when the pencil disappeared. I just about threw up out of excitement, like just pure excitement. Every movement he does with the grenade strings as he backs out of the room, everything, everything, the humor, the depth, the voice, the movement, the costume. And then just the film, Nolan's film as well. you know it's an interesting thing because now to speak like this about that movie because of the internet it's become like a uh it's become a cinema boy trope um which is justifiable which is we can't be overhyped it's okay which is sad because it is a masterpiece and yeah and for for a certain generation it it did it did rupture our uh our movie going experience and very few films have really done that because we were sort of going into a different kind of commercial cinema at the time so I think it is historically a really important film and performance It's also when you grow up and you get a little older and you start to get serious about this and you think about the context of his career and it is applicable to many young actors like yourself at this juncture where what Heath did with this like you know he could have been the pretty boy taken kind of the boring leading man roles but like broke back and dillard bob dylan and yeah joker it was like he was doing something he was doing something else you know he was um he was and if you watch him speak in interviews he he was talking about something else he was he was pushing something else and that's something else i think is something that's vital to not just cinema but to to art and to being here.
21:26Jacob Elordi:I do think he was one of our great, great artists. And I am biased because when you see, when I realized that he came from just the other side of my country and I realized that he drove across to Sydney, which is what I was going to do as soon as I finished school, when I realized it was a tangible thing and that somebody from home could cultivate something like that. It's an inspiration that I'll never be able to say thank you enough for. So growing up, it sounds like from what I gather, that's kind of the exception. You weren't a comic book kid necessarily, but that one kind of transcended that realm.
22:06Jacob Elordi:I was, but I loved, I just had an obsession with stories. um um i read all i read all kinds of uh comic books and and uh and um watched a lot of movies and read a lot uh i've always just my my world has always existed in through fable and and stories and um lord of the rings kid like what were you yeah yeah yeah massively massively and but especially around like 12 and 13 when when all you want to do is you want to see monsters and And that's what I love about, I hate that I say this about Frankenstein, but there was a few times where I would walk past a mirror and I thought I looked like a Uruk-hai, like from, you know, like I'd just come out of the mud, like there was something in that long hair and I was like this thing.
22:54Jacob Elordi:Oh, totally. He could go straight into Lord of the Rings and play something because the scope of that world is I'm pretty sure what most young actors, your dream is to step onto like you know peter jackson set and see you know fantasy and magic and uh prosthetics and practical effects and you know so because i read a lot of empire i read a lot of empire magazine oh please that was for me was i was buying old copies on ebay and like through the whole sort of process yeah back back in my day in the states it was premier magazine but later on empire totally in the uk i love it
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26:18So when you start to get serious about acting, Do you remember who the first person was that kind of gave you some validation that said, stick with this?
26:28Jacob Elordi:Yeah, yeah. I did. Well, I did my first play when I played The Cat in the Hat in Seussical, the musical.
26:42Jacob Elordi:Something happened on stage, that kind of feeling when, and maybe they just felt sorry for me, I'm not sure. but when you feel when you feel that you have hooked the audience in a moment when you when you feel them sort of hanging on your words i think a small version of that happened or it was just like my mom's enthusiasm and love for me just beaming to me on the stage um whatever it was i think i felt a lot of validation when i did that um stage play when because i would i'd be down in the floor under the trap door right and then i think the line was um maybe some kind of hat wearing and then the the floor would come up and i'd go cat you know and from the moment that trap door sprung up and that like that energy that just surged through your through your body i think that was the kind of validation that i was like oh i'm i'm in trouble here i'm gonna have to do this for my whole life.
27:41Jacob Elordi:But then I had a great acting teacher. I went to these NIDA short courses when I was 14 on Sundays. And I had a teacher there named Zoe who I did a speech from Goodwill Hunting. Like, what do you want to hear, Skyler? That I put these cigarettes out of me? Whatever it is. That one that everybody loves to do and you're really intense and yelling. But she saw something in that and then she told her, agent and then through her agent I met another wonderful woman named Veronica and she would kind of she would just have long lunches with me and talk and talk to me as if I was an artist on the same level there and they were they were now they were in you know stage productions in Sydney and Melbourne and I've one they were the first actors that I felt like really kind of understood what I was what I was trying to say or the thing that I couldn't quite articulate but that I was driving at it's so funny to look back and think of kind of like the things that like you know we laugh about now it's cat in the hat but it's so meaningful and then you think of something like later later later on and like look i mean a lot of people like you know i work for mtv so a lot of people first from kissing booth and obviously like that at the time when you're casting that must have been so huge must have felt like the world was opening up it was it was um and making that film the first film was one of the greatest experiences i've ever had on a set it was like Like, I remember that was when I really had the thought, like, you know, the best day in the real world doesn't compare to even the worst day on a film set.
29:14Jacob Elordi:Like, you know, it was magic, like, to be with people from a different country and to be able to connect with people from a completely different culture and to stand around and think that filming these words or this thing was important in some kind of way. and just the level of play. And I took that movie dead serious. Like to me, it was like, you know, I broke down the kind of the teenage existential catastrophe that is Noah Flynn. You know, the tragedy of choice and, you know, all these things. But it was incredible, you know. I think Pacino and maybe Hoffman said something along the lines of this, but if someone is paying for the room and the space that you are and then asking you to come in and act in that space, then you're doing it.
30:14Jacob Elordi:Then you are an actor. If someone else is paying the rent on the building that you're acting in, and that's what that was. It's like someone is paying money for me to put on a leather jacket and wear a disgruntled tie and ask this young woman when her boobs came in over the summer. Like, it's so totally absurd. Living the dream beyond, again. But it is, you know. Yeah, I get it. And I was, you know, I farewelled my friends and family. Everybody came down to the airport and I got to fly business class and cut the line. And, you know, it felt like something was happening. And I remember I bought, like, new shoes for the trip, like some Adidas sneakers that I never would have been able to get.
30:58Jacob Elordi:And I'm still, I mean, to now, talking to you now, I'm still on that same trip. I never went home. I've stayed with the same suitcases, essentially. It does feel like, coming full circle, what you were talking about, this is almost like the end of Act One. It feels like Frankenstein, kind of like, if I'm writing the book, the biopic, Jacob Alordi, this is either the beginning of the second act or the end of Act One. And now you're between salt burn and euphoria and this, you're like, you get into the juicy stuff. This is the fun, this is the fun times. I've been so lucky. And, uh, I was understood very quickly, which, which is a great, uh, a great gift.
31:38Jacob Elordi:And I've been given the opportunity to act on sets with people, uh, that, uh, that, you know, so you, you don't get this opportunity and that's not, that's not lost on me. you know um was was it shocking look you have kissing booth is huge in its own way and then euphoria is huge in a totally different way and the reception to that could be more it's always very similar it's another obsessive like obsessive fan base but it's totally so similar it was actually really similar it was just like a different age bracket um and some of the and some of the same it was weird too because i had i'd had once euphoria came out i'd had people that been watching my work since they were 12 right and then i was ready i was meeting them at 16 or 17 and then i watched you in this so i felt old really quickly right just by the nature of the size of both those the sort of social size of both those uh jobs you know were you immediately defensive protective of nate when the film when the show came out and the reactions were i mean or the design of the character.
32:44You should have a strong reaction to him, but did it catch you off guard?
32:49Jacob Elordi:I think I was excited that it made some people so sort of... Because if you get a reaction from something that you play, that's kind of the dream. And someone, like people telling you that they're scared of you on the street is actually an excellent compliment. you know, because it means that you've done something. You've caused some kind of effect, not effect, like an actual, you've affected something, which is nice. But there was a moment actually when I was in New York in a room not too similar to this. I remember online, it was maybe one of the worst things that he'd done had just happened on television.
33:34Jacob Elordi:And there was this picture going around on the internet of my face on a TV screen and somebody was holding a Glock up to the face. And then I was watching people sort of live tweet because I spent far too much time on the internet. And I was watching people be like, oh, he's on 57th Street. He's here. Someone run him over with your car. It was like people were following where I was walking around the city. So I got incredibly paranoid.
34:07Maybe next season, let's make him sweeter.
34:10Jacob Elordi:At that point. But at the same time, it was like the X Games version of knowing that you'd had some kind of effect. It seems like in the years, in this kind of period of time, especially since Euphoria, like many smart actors, you've been director driven. I mean, you see the filmmakers you've worked with, whether it's, you know, Sophia or Paul Schrader, Emerald, Justin Curzell, Ridley Scott. Yeah. Is that kind of like the rule of thumb? Just put myself in the hands of the best. Let me learn as much as possible at this point in time. How are you figuring out this stage? Because you're getting opportunities.
34:50You're getting a lot of cool opportunities. So for the first time, you can say no to things. How are you figuring this out?
34:56Jacob Elordi:That's the kind of ultimate.
35:02Jacob Elordi:for me if you work with a great filmmaker filmmakers are solely contributing to cinema and and cinema is the thing that i want to be a part of so these people that i'm working with have single-handedly from ridley have pioneered this this art form this like this form of expression and then you have people like Kurzweil pushing the form and making films for the sake of making films. They keep my spirit alive because my spirit lives in movies and it has for as long as I've been conscious now. So for me, it's partly like I have a great reverence for them and a respect and these people are my heroes.
35:51Jacob Elordi:And if I wasn't working with them, I'm devouring their retrospectives or they are the kind of gods of my world. So there's that first and foremost, just a kind of a great respect. But then also you can guarantee whether the film is received or not received that if it's made by a filmmaker that I really believe even that I think is an artist in the gallery of kind of cinema, that film will, will have a room. It'll have a spot where it can go on the wall. And that's more important to me than, than being a career actor. I want to kind of, at the end of my time, walk into this kind of what for me would be this kind of holy temple of, of the posters on the wall.
36:37Exactly. The Jacob of Horty closet. Yeah.
36:40Jacob Elordi:A personal criterion closet because, because Guillemot is something really interesting um these films are our biographies first and foremost the filmmakers but every character I've played is a part of my my biography and I'm I'm never um I'm never hiding anything on screen or my goal is to hide nothing to um to be a performance artist and to put uh to put everything that I need to say on stamped in that you know piece a celluloid or in that moment in time. That is my biography, sincerely. Every single one, cinematic or not cinematic. So for me, I feel more comfortable and I feel better understood in my biography when it's articulated through the lens of a filmmaker who I respect and think is of importance.
37:35So I got to think at some point you send over, you email your representation, here's my top five here are the filmmakers i'm gonna i'm gonna do anything for give me a couple
37:44Jacob Elordi:who's on the list i have well my it's constant it's constantly uh it's constantly shifting and and uh and and changing um and i don't you know i'm not even going to answer because if i do then i'll be up all night thinking about i really wanted to say like this person or i really wish I'd said this person. But I will tell you, you know, I met Wim Wenders two nights ago and hearing him speak about Walter Salles at the Academy Museum Gala was a really – I've only ever read and watched Wim Wenders stuff. I've never sort of seen it. And to see him give this speech, which I would have read in a book of essays or something 10 years from now, was super profound.
38:31Jacob Elordi:So, you know, somebody like that would be incredible. And I would have loved to have worked with David Lynch. I think that, I mean, obviously, it's such an obvious thing, but there's a spark that left the world when he passed. And I obviously don't know him, but everyone, if you have, you know, dined with his catalogue, you know that something's gone. something that really was from a different place. And I think a filmmaker like that, that would have been, for me, that would have been, I could happily have sort of laid down. No, I tell this story a lot. I got a chance to talk to him over Zoom in his last years.
39:19And I still have, I don't keep a lot of swag. He sent me a mug, an autographed mug after a conversation that sits on my coffee table and it's like my most prized. Exactly.
39:30Jacob Elordi:That is really spectacular. That's really, really cool. Are there rules you live by in terms of conducting a career? I mean, Leo famously said, I think to Chalamet, no superheroes, no hard drugs. Do you subscribe to anything like that in your own career? No, because I think that to think in that way is a little bit like playing a movie star or something. It's so specific. Right. Whereas I kind of, because people ask this too, they'll be like, is there any kind of like film that you want to make or character that you want to play? And no, you don't want to close yourself off. I really don't think of it like that.
40:13Jacob Elordi:It really is this kind of, I've unfortunately I've been referring to the process as a cancer recently, but it feels like something that just kind of mutates and grows. And I keep going down different tangents with it. And it's, it's constantly changing my relationship to movies. And I think if I thought about rules, then I'd feel like I was trying to construct a career or something. It would feel very, very business-like or whereas, whereas I, I do really, I can, it sounds so pretentious, but I, I can sit, I consider myself like a player, really like a, like a stock artist in a company. And when I find these filmmakers or they find me, I feel like I'm being hired to do this one, this very specific thing, which is to act.
41:08Jacob Elordi:And hopefully I can keep my tools sharp enough that people want to, I can apply it in different sort of spaces and in different films. and hopefully the more films that I make with great filmmakers that your tool becomes more varied or something like that. But I don't have any kind of like Hollywood rules. Well, it makes sense. It's like, I mean, on paper, with all due respect, I don't have you cast in Guillermo del Toro as the creature. Not on the top of my list. And now, like, having seen you do this, it opens up so many more. But that's why Guillermo del Toro is Guillermo del Toro. That's why he's him and I'm me.
41:50Jacob Elordi:Do you know what I mean? Yeah, totally. he does but he does see with that with that lens and it takes it takes that kind of trust and it takes the the ability to see in that way yeah to to uh to to know you know um and he knew he knew before we spoke that that it was going to that it was going to work you know um i caught up with margot wonderful margot robbie recently light of the universe another yeah i saw you you guys around about no iris she's a witch and just like such a film geek herself you know you know her like she knows she knows all margot robbie she knows all yeah so you guys have cooked up something special i'm sure with emerald um she's teased it a little bit is this going to make our head spin this your take on wuthering heights emerald fennel doesn't do a normal wuthering heights what am i in for i think it's going to obliterate your heart i think it's going to i i i it's It's such a painful love story and such a tragedy, the whole thing.
42:56Jacob Elordi:And I just got to see the film recently. And it's so painfully beautiful and agonizing to watch them suffer, to suffer in the most beautiful frames you've ever seen. Linus shot the film. So it's just stunning. I haven't quite wrapped my head around it yet, but I mean, it's, I've not seen a film like it in a long while. Did you, going back to Saltburn and your last collaboration with Emerald, you must have known how it was going to push buttons. I mean, it's kind of part of the design of it. She's a provocateur in the best possible way. Were you surprised, excited? No, not really. I didn't think it was so extreme.
43:37Jacob Elordi:I found the world's reaction to be slightly prudish, actually. Oh, really? Well, you know cinema. there's so many films out there that are like that are like infinitely more more disturbing like but not many that play on like 4 000 screens i guess like this was a mainstream movie that was do you know the film lived two different lives though there was a life when it was just in cinemas and it had a different response and then once it hit a streaming service it it got a whole different uh the whole lens on the film changed which was which was an interesting uh to see how a film uh structure can kind of change through its endurance and through through the format that it's viewed in was really interesting um because once it goes on a streamer it gets looked at through more of a social lens than uh than an experiential um cinematic sort of experience you know a friday night uh experience kind of thing and it does change the way the film is understood i think well yeah i had the same kind of i had the same kind of conversation with harris dickens and one of your contemporaries about baby girl and how that was kind of like well yeah actually i saw the memeification yeah yeah like how it becomes a meme and it kind of like you know gifts and and and just becomes a different thing it's not it's not it's not it's not for better or worse but it does it does change the intention but there is something about giving there is something when you do serve a film up to the world it does become the world's and that and that is that is in its own way that's it's a good thing you know uh even if your point is lost maybe it's a nice lesson in like letting your point go um and then sort of and moving on and i'm a firm believer that once once i've sort of put the film in the can and i've finished it it's not it really it really isn't mine anymore and the interpretation of it the edit none of it none of it applies to the sort of job that i've just done um so the only feeling i had when we were making it was it did it did feel like our last special summer as a family or something it did feel like that wonderful uh yeah that it was the sun was out every day and and it felt like a moment like a personal sort of moment in time you know i uh i know it's a busy day so i promise to let you go in a minute but quickly um euphoria i guess you've shot i mean we we're just thankful it was shot because i mean for a while i think a lot of us were were you were you kind of like is this ever gonna happen i think every i knew i knew it i knew it would i knew it would come around um eventually um um but uh but just so much i mean so much the duration of that show has the world has changed as as the show has changed and the the way in which it came out pre-covid and then during covid and then now sort of post-covid it has marked a really for lack of a better word interesting time in in the world but also particularly in like american culture um so it's it's strange it's it's really it's really quite strange and i'm excited to see what how this season plays into the kind of i guess world that that sam sam sam created but it was it was um i saw i've seen you know dailies and things like that and it's it looks so good like it looks so so good and i think the score is going to be um the score is going to be something else i'm really really excited to and because i've only done one sort of portion of it right i'll get to watch the rest of it and just consume it which is uh which is really really nice do you have a do a favorite snippy direction from ridley scott that guy is just like he can really like cut you to the core i know um what's your favorite piece of direction ridley gave you on dog stars i got this so much um um yeah i think it was maybe him coming out of his trailer and just giving me the finger and saying, fuck me, man, you're all right.
47:50Jacob Elordi:Something like that. I mean, that's all you want to hear. He's one of the, what a totally sort of mesmerizing experience. I got to watch this man who has been plugging himself into cinema his whole life, and it literally pumps through his blood. Like when he arrives on set in the morning, the energy that he comes into the set with and carries through the duration of the shoot like he's he's living off of cinema you know it's not even about the end product it's about the actual tactile act of going and making a movie he's like a he's a he's a master craftsman and he's like my dad in a lot of ways like my dad survives because he works you know he's a he's a he's a he's a what keeps the sort of the engine running.
48:47Jacob Elordi:So I'm literally watching like cinema sustain a life, which is a pretty, a pretty profound thing to, to be in Italy watching, you know? Yeah. He's writing the storyboards for the next three movies. He's literally sitting there storyboarding in the car in the, in the back of a Maybach on the way to work. And, and there's something about, you know, he directs from this trailer, which is wrapped to look like the set. And you'll hear this voice sort of croak from inside, you know, Jake. and then you come and the curtain pulls back and Oz is sitting there in a body of lies bucket hat smoking a Cuban cigar with 20 monitors in front of him showing you exactly how he's going to cut from this frame to that frame.
49:25Yeah, because he's got 10 cameras going. It's like, what the fuck?
49:28Jacob Elordi:It's like, how the fuck? Like, he's cutting this movie while he's sitting in there. He's like, you're going to walk from this camera and then you're going to come in through here and you see, I'm watching playback on like 11 different monitors while he smokes a Cuban and then he pats me on the back and says, isn't this what it's about? you know isn't right this is this is what it's about this is it you know all right we're gonna end with this i promise we're over time but the happy sad confused profoundly random questions here we go i know the answer to this one dogs or cats jacob dogs come on i don't i don't i don't yeah i'm not anti-cat though i do i do love a cat okay do you collect anything um yes um um um curiosities the little tidbits and weighted things okay little little bags of treasure love it favorite video game of all time oh oh um uh kingdom hearts okay dakota johnson asked me this i ask everybody would you rather have a mouthful of bees or one bee in your butt mouthful of bees that is a rare not many people say that jacob yeah like like candy man that's the movie reference of course that clock what's the wallpaper on your phone oh oh right now my wallpaper is me and my beautiful friend Kaylee's Maney from Priscilla I adore her I love her what a performance um last actor you were mistaken for ah nicholas cage i mean amazing a little bit of a different age bracket it's a long it's the longer story i'll tell you tonight okay fair enough uh worst noted director has ever given you
51:20Jacob Elordi:um um what are you doing with your mouth stop doing that it looks stupid
51:29Jacob Elordi:i've worked with him for like seven years little euphoria action sam okay all right but you know what he was right it looked really stupid and finally in the spirit of happy sad confused an actor who always makes you happy you see them on screen you're in a better mood josh brolin good call movie that makes you sad um synecdoche in new york and a food that makes you confused you don't get it mango and mango and meat mango and chicken salad fruit fruit chutney anything oh no better answer minestrone soup it should be banned there's the jacob already hot take of the day it's just a fact man congratulations on the movie Frankenstein is fantastic the performance is honestly next level and I'm so happy this happened I've been back in the career for a while and I'm a big fan as you can tell I wanted to talk to you for a long time so thank you for taking the time and I'll catch up with you hopefully for a second in person tonight yeah sounds good man I'll see you then and so ends another edition of Happy Sad Confused Remember to review, rate and subscribe to this show on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts.
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