In short
Rose Wylie’s Kent home and studio as an extension of her nonconformist creativity—freedom over tidiness, contrast over uniformity, and how ageing hasn’t dulled her excitement.
Guest backgrounds
Rose Wylie is a 91-year-old artist. She grew up in Kent near Bromley, lived through WWII (1940–45), studied art at Folkestone, met her husband Roy Oxlade at Girlsmiths (aged 21), raised three children, and returned to serious painting in middle age. She became widely known in her 70s, including a major Royal Academy exhibition earlier this year. Her gallerist Sarah is also present for discussion.
Key claims
Her “unruly” studio clutter is collateral painting, not junk—paper and paint pots are part of the process and release. She rejects imposed rules about how art “should” look; paintings are “something,” not illustrations. She values accessible materials and reworking expensive items into handmade forms. Recognition later in life feels great, but she insists it’s for painting quality, not age or gender.
Notable examples
Converting Loewe silk trousers into trousers made from a black art curtain; using kitchen paper as improvised shoulder pads; painting wildflowers to challenge “privileged” florist flowers; dense Richter-like backgrounds; painting moments from film and sports; jasmine and leaves shaping the house’s green light.
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Tap a time to open that second in VOIntroduction to Rose Wylie
0:00 to 1:10
Learn about Rose Wylie's artistic process and philosophy on creativity.
“People, they look at a picture and they think, oh well she lives like that.”
The Unconventional Home of Rose Wylie
1:53 to 3:09
Discover how Rose Wylie's home reflects her non-conformist lifestyle and creativity.
“There's half empty paint pots all over the place.”
Interview Begins: Early Life in Kent
3:09 to 3:38
Matt and Rose discuss her childhood in Kent and its influence on her art.
“This is, I mean I knew partly what to expect because I've seen it photographed but actually being here in your house is unbelievable.”
Experiencing War: A Child's Perspective
3:38 to 4:52
Rose shares her childhood experiences during WWII and their impact on her.
“Yeah, I lived in Kent and I've lived in Wales and I've lived in Vancouver and I've lived in India.”
Growing Up as the Youngest of Seven
4:52 to 7:19
Rose reflects on her upbringing as the youngest child and its implications.
“I can't pick one and say, I was there for a long time.”
Nurturing Creativity Through Freedom
7:19 to 9:33
Rose discusses how her parents nurtured her creativity by granting freedom.
“But one of the frightening things, and I've got a painting about this, was a high explosive bomb which landed on the house next door and the noise of the bomb was frightening.”
Artistic Beginnings and Childhood Adventures
9:33 to 11:48
Exploring Rose’s early artistic endeavors and adventurous spirit as a child.
“But they thought, and I think they were right, they thought she can swim, she can manage.”
Understanding Neglect and Embracing Identity
11:48 to 14:01
Rose shares her thoughts on being the least prioritized child and its effect on her.
“So looking back on yourself now at that age, how would you describe yourself as a character?”
Growing Up in a Large Family
14:01 to 14:59
Explore Rose's perspective on power dynamics in a big family.
“It didn't affect me because I'd been quite used to being, you know, certainly there, given a place, but not, I didn't have, I didn't have power.”
Meeting Roy Oxlade
15:00 to 17:06
Rose shares her first impressions and the connection with her husband.
“I mean you were together for so many years can you remember what you made of him when you first met him and what brought you together what sort of clicked between the two of you do you think?”
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The Art of Shoulder Pads
17:07 to 18:50
A humorous take on Rose's unique approach to using kitchen paper as shoulder pads.
“Anyway, they are, and you can have a new one in every day.”
Transforming Fashion and Home
18:51 to 23:08
Discussion on how Rose applies her artistic vision to both clothing and home decor.
“And also, you've described it as a bit of a sort of, you know, it's obviously you quite like the fact it's a bit surreal and it's a bit of a conversation starter if it falls out.”
Philosophy of Painting
23:09 to 24:22
Insights into Rose's philosophy on what paintings should represent.
“I mean, in the terms of a dressmaker, a designer, they'd say that it wasn't particularly well done.”
Respecting Wildflowers in Art
24:23 to 26:15
Rose emphasizes the significance of wildflowers in her work and society.
“Can I ask you then about self-consciousness and painting?”
Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life
26:16 to 28:00
Rose discusses how she finds visually exciting subjects in various contexts.
“and I've painted very, very dense paint on the background in the manner of Gerhard Richter, who is a big artist, big boy artist.”
The Artistic Process and Inspiration
28:00 to 30:00
Learn how Rose Wylie draws inspiration from everyday visuals and experiences.
“in the natural world, in a film, in a photograph, it doesn't matter.”
The Studio Environment and Freedom
30:00 to 34:10
Discover how Rose's studio environment influences her creativity and work habits.
“Because for a lot of other people, they would say, well, I can't think clearly.”
Contrast and Life in the Home
34:10 to 38:20
Explore how the contrasts in Rose's home reflect her artistic philosophy and approach to life.
“And can you describe how this house in general feeds into your creativity?”
Nature and Gardening Philosophy
39:36 to 42:04
Understand Rose's instinctive approach to gardening and her connection with nature.
“I walk around it every day several times.”
Freedom and Solitude in Home
42:04 to 45:50
Explore how living alone can lead to creative freedom and personal reflection.
“and that picking hazel trees and bramble leaves is accessible and everyone can do it.”
Balancing Family and Art
45:51 to 48:06
Discuss the challenges of balancing motherhood and an artistic career.
“She had difficulties of spatial learning.”
Recognition Later in Life
48:07 to 51:46
Understand the nuances of gaining recognition as an artist later in life.
“And that, you know, it's not a good idea.”
Artistic Style and Influence
51:47 to 55:43
Explore the significance of directness and honesty in artistic expression.
“But for a lot of other people, I'm a painter.”
Philosophy of Possessions
55:44 to 56:00
Discuss the importance of valuing objects and personal belongings in life.
“it was all stained I loved it She loved it too.”
Exploring Radical Non-Consumerism
56:00 to 57:40
Discusses the concept of being a radical non-consumer and the relationship with accumulated belongings.
“I mean, I love conkers and they're shiny and new and I like, but I also like crumpled and old.”
Psychology of Environment
57:40 to 1:00:00
Considers how one's environment reflects their internal state and feelings about clutter.
“There are no affectations, so yes, it's going to reflect.”
Navigating Loss and Change
1:00:00 to 1:02:10
Reflects on the impact of loss and the changes in the living space after a partner's death.
“How did that change your experience of being in the house?”
Artistic Conversations and Support
1:02:10 to 1:03:40
Shares experiences of artistic collaboration and the dynamic between her and her late partner.
“Roy would come and photograph something if I asked him.”
Reflecting on Life's Priorities
1:03:40 to 1:05:50
Contemplates what truly matters in life as one ages and the drive to create quality art.
“I wonder just what, looking back over life, what do you reflect on the things that kind of, I suppose when you were younger, you thought sort of mattered more than they really do.”
The Enduring Home
1:05:50 to 1:08:00
Talks about the significance of her home and its structural integrity over time.
“No, no, I used to size three large campuses at a time.”
Creative Instincts in Home Design
1:08:00 to 1:10:03
Describes an instinctive approach to home decoration and influences from art.
“There's a piece of sculpture in the Venice Biennale, which is a light bulb.”
Rose's Instinctive Home Changes
1:10:03 to 1:12:26
Rose discusses her instinctive approach to home changes and preferences.
“And my daughter was sitting at the dining room table and she suddenly shouted out, oh, you've done it.”
Reflections on the Visit with Rose
1:12:26 to 1:13:26
Reflecting on the experience of visiting Rose and her home.
“I'm a massive fan, and I think this has only helped that.”
Request for Reviews and Closing Remarks
1:13:41 to 1:14:22
Encouragement to leave reviews and closing thanks for listening.
“So I guess some of the things that I learned that have stayed with me as well.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Rose Wylie:People, they look at a picture and they think, oh well she lives like that. Actually I don't live like this. The rest of the house isn't quite like that. The thing is I don't come into my studio and start putting things away. I come in and start painting. It's all collateral painting. It's not junk, it's process. And it's release. It's a whole release. It's an example of someone who isn't governed by tidying up. They're not just random things I paint, they're things that I think are visually exciting. It can be anything, that's why people say I don't seem to have a particular direction. I am the direction.
0:38Rose Wylie:The direction is an exciting image.
0:43Rose Wylie:I don't like people imposing stuff on me. I don't like imposing stuff on other people. I liked the swap from taking a marvellously expensive pair of silk trousers and converting them into something that I'd made out of a black art curtain. That all appealed to me.
1:10Hello, welcome to Homing. I'm Matt Gibbard. My guest today is the artist Rose Wiley. Rose is 91 years old and she's had a pretty remarkable career so she stopped painting in order to raise her three children and only returned to it in middle age it wasn't until she was in her 70s that she finally became well known and now of course she's celebrated around the world and had a major exhibition at the Royal Academy earlier this year I recorded this with her at her house in Kent, where she's lived for 58 years, no less. And it really is one of the most extraordinary homes I've been to, I think. We sat upstairs in her studio and there's discarded paper all over the floor.
1:58There's paint covering the windows. There's half empty paint pots all over the place. It's pretty extraordinary. And then down in her kitchen on the ground floor, there's a big mountain of uneaten cakes, some of which are apparently four years old. The garden outside is essentially left to grow wild, so jasmine kind of comes in through the windows and grows across the walls inside. But the thing is, it doesn't feel arbitrary to me. I think really the house supports the way that she wants to live and wants to work, and it's basically adapted around her creativity and supported her life for nearly six decades now.
2:33Rose really is a genuine non-conformist. She hates being told what to do, but equally she doesn't like telling other people what to do either, which I really respect. There's a very strong sense of freedom running through both her home and her life as a whole. And at the age of 91, her energy has inevitably declined a bit, but she told me that the excitement definitely doesn't drop. So this is a conversation ultimately about freedom, about creativity, aging, and I guess allowing a home and a life to develop on its own terms. This is the amazing Rose Wiley. Hope you enjoy it. Hi Rose, welcome to Homing.
3:16Thank you so much for doing this. It's a very exciting day for me. This is, I mean I knew partly what to expect because I've seen it photographed but actually being here in your house is unbelievable. I always start at the beginning but I just wanted to say before we do that we will do a tour of this place together and we'll make that available on on the patreon platform um i'm really looking forward to doing that i really i can't wait but um let's start at the beginning where did you grow up oh high of kent on the coast okay so
3:52Rose Wylie:not far from here okay don't know it's not far half and half from here but didn't you spend some time abroad as well when you were young. Yeah, I lived in Kent and I've lived in Wales and I've lived in Vancouver and I've lived in India. So if I say to you, where was your childhood home? Where was the home that you spent the most time in? Was that in Kent? Yes. Also, I lived near Bromley and I was there for the whole of the war. So that was from 1940 to 1945. So that has a big impression. Yes, I can remember it. And it was an exciting time. Bombs falling, dogfights above, rationing, shrapnel, all of that stuff.
4:45Rose Wylie:So that was of chunk. But then after that, I lived in Hive. And I went to the art school in Folkestone. I couldn't pick, I think mixed. I can't pick one and say, I was there for a long time. and that's the one I remember the most, or have the most affection for, or the most disaffection for. But it doesn't occur. They were a bit mixed. Okay. You described the war years there as exciting. Was it not terrifying as well, or did you not get that from it? Well, it should have been terrifying. Yeah. But it was, I think if you are five when it starts, I think the beginning was the most frightening. There was this idea people were worried and we were blocking up our houses because we thought gas, maybe gas attacks, and we had to cut air out.
5:42And we were all advised by the BBC to get a room and make it gas-proof.
5:49Rose Wylie:And that was a bit frightening. That, in fact, didn't have a good feel to it. and I really didn't like gas masks. We were also asked to wear gas masks. I hated gas masks. I hated the smell of the rubber and the enclosure. I really didn't like it. But after that, somehow the fear of gas went. The fear of gas was at the beginning. Can you remember, is this part, do you know that? I think it was about 1940 that the gas raids and the sirens were, we were all prepared for it. But that went because Germany was no longer about to invade. I don't know, whatever it was, that fear disappeared. But that was taken over by aeroplanes in the sky and bombing.
6:40Rose Wylie:And Stuka dive bombers. I mean, it was... But we were involved. My older sister was keeping a diary and writing down how many air raids there were. And sometimes there were, I don't know, 11 air raids in one day or something. So you kind of got into the feel of it, which was not fair, but recording. I don't know what it was. And you couldn't get sweets. That was different. and you couldn't get ice cream and that. And we all had ration books and you couldn't buy much bacon. It was all. But one of the frightening things, and I've got a painting about this, was a high explosive bomb which landed on the house next door and the noise of the bomb was frightening.
7:37Yeah.
7:38Rose Wylie:Because it got incredibly loud screech and then it exploded. Before it exploded, the noise was getting louder and louder, and that was frightening. That's amazing. It seems to me what you're describing is as a child, you quite quickly accept what the norm is. You do, that's what it was. That was the case, that's what it was. It was what it was. I think the difficult thing is something closer home. It's been, I don't know, chased by a dog, or being frightened of the dark, you know, frightened of a ghost in your room when you go to bed. That is more frightening than something that was happening nationally.
8:22Yeah, so interesting.
8:23Rose Wylie:We were all sharing it. It was not just a fear of the child. It was shared and it was common to everyone. That's fascinating. So am I right in saying you're the youngest of seven children? What was that like then? What was your place in the hierarchy? as it were. What kind of character were you? Well, it was terrific because my parents by that time had given up a bit on discipline. They'd given up, they realised it didn't really matter because of the other six in front. So I probably had quite a free time, which I enjoyed very much. And one of my brothers wasn't well. He had aspirin bronchitis that took up my mother's time.
9:06Rose Wylie:So she was involved with taking care of him and giving him proper attention. And so I was allowed to... Well, I did all these wonderful things with child that you can't do anymore. You can... I used to swim out into the sea, when it was extremely rough, a long way. I think if anything had happened to me, my parents would have been had up for neglect because they allowed me to do it. But they thought, and I think they were right, they thought she can swim, she can manage. Let her get on with it. And I think they were perfect. I have no criticism about my parents. I thought they were, you know, ace.
9:49What a lovely thing to say. That's quite rare, isn't it? Is it?
9:52Rose Wylie:I think so. Yeah. I think so. I mean, I walked all over the place by myself. It was dangerous. And there were a lot of people who'd had a hard time in the war and they were emotionally disturbed. and they were sort of around. And so to be walking as a child unattended for miles from home by myself was actually also slightly dangerous. Yeah. So with that time to yourself, did you make art? When I was, I think, probably five, I had a paint box, a present, and it was green and it was proper. It was Windsor and Newton. It wasn't plastic. It didn't have little... It wasn't a child's paint box. It was a proper paint box.
10:39Rose Wylie:I used to paint in... Well, I used to paint on paper, but I used to paint... Take books from the, you know, shells in my house, grown-up books, and paint... If there were illustrations in Greek legends or something, I used to paint, or maps, whatever. I used to paint in... on grown-up books, which I also, I mean, I was allowed to do that. They didn't, my parents didn't stop me from doing that. They didn't say, look, here are some children's books. You paint in those, but don't paint in the others. They allowed me to do that. I did have children's books as well. I had those lovely books where you add water.
11:20Rose Wylie:You get them from Woolworths and you paint with water and then the sort of vague, faint, rather distant colour comes up. That was great fun. I liked all that. Yeah, my kids love those. I love them and I painted Christmas cards and birthday cards and Christmas decorations but I didn't, I think children now are encouraged to, you know, the parents give them canvas and say, look, paint, but I didn't have that. But I wasn't stopped, which is a big point. So looking back on yourself now at that age, how would you describe yourself as a character? I suppose I wasn't a snowflake. I wasn't a little girly girl.
12:05Rose Wylie:I had bows and arrows. I climbed trees. I swung across bridges. Adventurous, probably. I probably would say I was... I used to ride bikes all over the place. I used to do things like use my dolls as skates on the floor. I made powder from bricks. So I had quite a lot of boy-type characteristics. I used to ride my brother's bikes, which had a bar cross. You know, the boys' bikes were different. Girls' bikes didn't have the bar cross. So it was different. You had to sway around each side because I couldn't reach the pedals. I suppose that does link to art. You know, I used what was there. I didn't have things specially bought for me.
13:05Rose Wylie:You know, you're a girl, here you are, here's a nice new bike. I didn't have that. I rode my brothers' and sisters' bikes, which I think, actually looking back, I think it's good training. It makes you self-reliant and you don't expect anything to happen. Aside from the war years Is there anything else in that time that you think Looking back on it was particularly challenging for you Or was quite formative You know, any experiences or anything like that? I don't think so I know that I was got to I soon got to the idea that it didn't That everybody, the whole lot of my family above me There was, you know, a mother, a father And then other brothers and sisters is that they all had priority.
13:53Rose Wylie:So you got the idea that later on, when you, as an artist, you're neglected and you get no visibility at all. It didn't affect me because I'd been quite used to being, you know, certainly there, given a place, but not, I didn't have, I didn't have power. But I don't like power anyway. I've no interest in power. I think some children grow up I don't know, I think they grow up as the sort of apple of the parents' eye and the parents think they are just supremo but I mean, in my case, I was just the last of seven and you didn't get a kind of homage from parents a special place, you took your place as I said, I think that's actually a rather good idea That's really interesting, Rose you went to art school in Kent as you said I think you were 19 when you met your future husband Roy Oxlade is that right?
14:57Rose Wylie:No I was 21 I was 21 okay That was post-Girlsmiths I met him at Girlsmiths I mean you were together for so many years can you remember what you made of him when you first met him and what brought you together what sort of clicked between the two of you do you think? Certainly I remember Roy was intrigued with me because the first thing he noticed was that I didn't go around with a handbag. He thought that was pretty good. He liked that. He thought, why do women go around? His particular thing was the Queen always had a handbag on her arm. And he thought, you know, why did they? Anyway, I didn't have a handbag, and he thought that was intriguing.
15:39Rose Wylie:And I've intended I've never had a dressing table. I don't have one now and I've never had one. I don't have one. Well, seeing as you brought that up, you were telling me, I hope you don't mind me saying, you were saying earlier that you like to have the kind of shoulder pads because you prefer the silhouette of it, right? Yes, I like a bit of part. And what do you do for those shoulder pads? Oh, I just get a bit of kitchen paper. Sometimes I used to have two, you know, you can tell them easily and break off. Sometimes I took two sheets. and I used to stuff them in. But I decided after doing that for about 15 years that that was a bit big, and I've reverted to one sheet of kitchen paper.
16:22Rose Wylie:And they're terribly useful. I mean, if they fall out, you can wipe your painting with them, you can blow your nose, but they do fall out. But it's precarious living, and I don't mind a bit of precarious living because I think things can get a bit dull. It's quite funny if it falls out. You know, it can be stuck on your chest or your back or, you know, falls on the floor. I don't know. It just kind of opens the door to things. People find it amusing anyway. But it gives a better shape. You might say to me, well, why don't I buy shoulder pads? But shoulder pads aren't, that is, manufactured ones.
17:02Rose Wylie:They're not the same. You can, with a bit of paper, you can sort of get them to go upwards a bit. You can tweak them up a bit. Anyway, they are, and you can have a new one in every day. And often they're littered around the house because I don't like waste and I don't throw them away. So I've got them all over the place. I find that so interesting. It seems to me it's sort of a bit of a metaphor for everything. Probably is. In a way, yeah, because you're saying that it's, well, it's so many things, isn't it? And it's also cheap. Well, it's cheap, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's available, it's cheap. You don't have to, you know, it's not something, It's not privileged in any way.
17:41Rose Wylie:It's just a bit of paper. In fact, to add to that, if it falls out and if I'm out at supper somewhere and it's gone, I think, oh, that's a nuisance because I've lost my shoulder pad. So I can pick up a table napkin. They're usually paper. Well, it depends where you're eating. But I don't have paper. I have linen ones. But generally outside, they're often paper. I often tear one in half and stick the half somebody's table napkin in my shoulder just to keep the balance, to keep the thing going. But I think that's slightly unusual. I think it is unusual. I mean, I haven't come across it before. You've never seen a woman tear a table napkin in half and stick it in her shoulder?
18:26I'll look out for it now.
18:28Rose Wylie:Look out for it. I've never met anyone else who does it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's expediency. Well, it's again my art. You look around, you know, what's here, table, napkin. I'll use that. Yeah. It's expedient, but it's also, you're saying that you like it aesthetically as well. Yes, it's to do with the shape, all of it. Yeah. And also, you've described it as a bit of a sort of, you know, it's obviously you quite like the fact it's a bit surreal and it's a bit of a conversation starter if it falls out. It is. So it's a connector as well. Yes, it is. it's alive. In a way, it's a kind of living, and it's nothing.
19:07Rose Wylie:I mean, I don't care about it. It's no big deal for me. I was saying, if you're wearing something like evening dress, because I've got small Philippine Trills, that can be terrific. It can work. But with things like jumpers and things, they just look better. Yeah. Now we're on the subject then. Can you tell me about, you've got some Loewe trousers on today, which sounds quite fancy. There is a reason for that, isn't there? So tell us about those. Well, I love Loewe. Well, I used to not just shop Loewe, but Jonathan Anderson has bought a painting. I like it. I'm very fond of Jonathan. He bought a painting once, which has also helped.
19:46Rose Wylie:And he did a photo shoot to publicise Loewe. Well, that was nice. There was a chunk of money for the shoot. and then as well I was given, they said, well, you can spend£9 ,000 in the shop, something like that. I think it was nine, I can't remember. And I didn't bother. I'm actually rather uninterested in clothes. It's not something which takes a big place in my life. So I let it go and I had a year to go and get something, to spend£9 ,000 in the shop. I didn't do it. The time went. And then my children said, oh, that's silly. We could have spent it for you. I understood that. So I said, yes, well, I can't.
20:31Rose Wylie:That's fine. So even though it was after time, Loewe very kindly said, yes, I can spend my amount of money. And I didn't really want anything. And I said to Henrietta, well, get me something. Get me a pair of pedal pusher trousers. But because they were designed for a model, they were on the ground. so I had to guess. I turned them up, but I didn't. It's difficult to know quite how much to turn them up because you only know how much to turn them up when you're wearing and you're looking in front of a looking glass. So I took a wild guess and I turned them up about 11 inches. They were very difficult to sew because they were black and the cotton was black and the room was getting dark.
21:19Rose Wylie:Anyway, it took me about a whole afternoon just to do it. But I didn't cut the edge, the bit off. And I found I hadn't done it very well and it was a bit... They were bubbling a bit and gathered slightly. Shard, gathered. I hadn't done a good job with them. And I thought, well, that's OK because that will break the sort of straight chick or chic, whatever you want to say, of the highly special trousers. and it'll make them look like I've made myself out of black art curtains. And I thought, well, I liked this swap from taking a marvellously expensive pair of silk trousers and converting them into something that I'd made out of a black art curtain.
22:06Rose Wylie:That all appealed to me. And also it fits. I have exactly the same thing. The curtains are made of unbleached calico, which is a sort of artist's material, and the window was small, so I made a huge hem so that the curtain is like that. That's the window height, but the hem is about... It's more than 11 inches, but it's the same thing. I've done the same thing to my trousers, my really rather special trousers that I've done to the curtain. And in the drawing room, the sofa wore out on the edge of the back of the sofa. And I found a bit of material because I don't throw anything away. And I'd made the sofa cover anyway.
23:00Rose Wylie:And I hadn't thrown anything away. So I found a piece of material and I actually made a new rather sculptural form to the arm of the sofa because it's made by me. I mean, in the terms of a dressmaker, a designer, they'd say that it wasn't particularly well done. But from my point of view, it worked. It no longer looked like it was neglected, but it didn't quite look like a professional had done it because I'm not a professional upholsterer. but I think that links into my painting as well. Well, how does it link into your painting then? I understand the question because actually I am a professional.
23:44Rose Wylie:Let's say I'm not an amateur. Yeah. I'm not an amateur. Yeah. But I think that certain people think that the paintings do not quite fit how they think a painting should look, which for me that's a restriction. I don't think you should have an idea about how paintings should look. Paintings look how they are. Paintings are. They don't look like something. They don't illustrate something. They're not paintings of something. They are something. I like that. And it's my philosophy and I do it all the time. Can I ask you then about self-consciousness and painting? painting because how do you how do you somehow divorce your self-consciousness from it when you're making something it sounds to me like you're trying to make something very honest to how you're feeling or to a particular thing that you've seen no i don't i don't think about i don't know what i know what self-conscious means but i don't it doesn't come up downstairs at the moment i've got five paintings of wildflowers i wanted to give respect to the wildflower because people don't truly respect them.
24:59Rose Wylie:They say, oh yes, I love them. They say, oh yes, they're pretty. I love these flowers. Maybe their child brings in a bunch of little dandelions or something. Maybe you're planning a smart dinner party, but they don't put the dandelions on the table of the smart dinner party. They go out and they go to a shop, a florist, and they buy flowers. And everybody admires them and they say, what lovely flowers. But actually they've cost a lot. That means they're in a privileged position. People who are less privileged can't buy them. They've been forced by a florist. They've been brought from some far country.
25:40They're driving the planet apart
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25:44Rose Wylie:because they're being forced. They're being artificially preserved. They're too big. They don't have any smell. They don't die well. And then we have wildflowers. As you can see, I'm getting interested. We have wildflowers, which are small and completely beautiful, but they are regarded as insignificant. So my paintings are giving respect to wildflowers. and I've painted very, very dense paint on the background in the manner of Gerhard Richter, who is a big artist, big boy artist. That's the background upon which then I have painted a flower. Some people might say, oh, it's just a flower she's painted, but it's actually part of how I think and my attitude, my aesthetic.
26:41Yeah, really interesting. but some people may say something like a wildflower, it has quite a universal aesthetic beauty to it, albeit you're saying, you know, slightly neglected. Well, it has.
26:56Rose Wylie:They're absolutely universal. That's the thing. They grow everywhere. Yeah, exactly. So that's a flower, but you also paint things that are not necessarily universally aesthetically beautiful. I don't know. Lots of people, you paint things that you see in film, You paint moments from Quentin Tarantino movies. You paint sports stars like Cyril Williams. Yes, I know, but that's because Tarantino is such a... I don't know who his photographer is for his films. Yeah. But, I mean, they are such... They're good, or mostly they are. Most film directors have ace photographers to do their... I can't think of one that doesn't.
27:34Rose Wylie:But I don't know about aesthetic. The thing is, the image has to be interesting. Yeah. Exciting. I have to find the image, something about it. I suddenly think that's stunning. That's what I want to paint. What will it be? Well, it can be anything. That's why people say I don't seem to have a particular direction. I am the direction. The direction is an exciting image. Because you can see an exciting image anywhere, on the street, in the natural world, in a film, in a photograph, it doesn't matter. They're not just random things I paint. They're things that I think are visually exciting. So if you're going about your day and you come across something that you think is visually exciting or you're watching a film and you see something or you're watching a tennis player?
28:25Count it to me on the web.
28:27Rose Wylie:The web, you know, you can tool through the web. You can see a magnificent building. You can see a marvellous outfit, fashion outfit. You think, blimey, that's good. And I often make a drawing. You make a drawing of it. Yes. So I've got lots and lots of drawings. Sometimes at the time, sometimes a bit later, and sometimes a lot later, but sometimes they're at the time. And then I write study on the drawing usually because I can find an image from a 15th century manuscript or the Treyrich Book of Ours. I love it. It's medieval. And you can see something and you make a drawing of it. So I do that too.
29:07Rose Wylie:But I always acknowledge it because I think if you don't, then you have to acknowledge. So it's such a wide range of things that you're depicting. Yeah, it's the only thing that looks, it has to somehow arrest you. Yeah. It might be the way of the cat. I did a work once, it was called My Cat Looking Round. She used to always run in front. She took part and she ran in front. but she used to stop a little way in front and look round to see if you were following. And this was very charming of her and she was a very charming cat. So I did a drawing of Bunt looking round. You know, I do that and she had her head looking round.
29:50Well, this is obviously a particularly interesting discussion given that we're sitting in your studio upstairs. So let's talk about that because we're surrounded by a lot of stuff. so the floor is covered in bits of old newspaper looks like mainly the observer there's a lot of uh tins of paint it's partly empty there's some cardboard boxes there's i'd say a a layering of stuff and process and so i guess the obvious question for you rose is is how does it feed into your artistic process having all of this stuff here? Because for a lot of other people, they would say, well, I can't think clearly.
30:34Rose Wylie:A lot of people do think that. I think a lot of people think that, but also a lot of people think wonderful freedom. The thing is, I don't come into my studio and start putting things away. I come in and start painting. And everything that's here, I use newspaper when I'm painting. I use it a lot to wipe my brushes, because if you're painting into wet paint and you want a fresh colour into a different colour, which is wet, each time you put your brush into the paint and take it out, you have to wipe it. Otherwise, you get mixed colour, and the colour you want to be a particular colour becomes muddy or, you know, it becomes, you know, you lose it.
31:20Rose Wylie:So I'm using a lot of paper all the time. What I do as part of a kind of idea that you are free is that I don't then put it into a receptacle, I throw it. You get into a kind of way of working. You're not thinking, you're doing the painting, you don't care what... And it's release, it's a whole release. It's an example of someone who isn't governed by tidying up. And I think a lot of... The rest of the house isn't quite like that. I mean, the drawing room looks very reasonable. Yeah, yeah. People think, well, they look at a picture and they think, oh, well, she lives like that. Actually, I don't live like this.
32:06True. I was interested by that.
32:08Rose Wylie:It is interesting. But let me say again, I like contrast. Okay. And I like the difference. between a drawing room or kitchen or bathroom and where you work. This is completely authentic. I don't engineer this. It's not a mannerism. It happens. I've heard artists say that after a day's painting, they get backache because they have a concrete floor or they have a plank floor or lino, whatever they've got, brick, whatever it is. But this has a kind of soft. It's a kind of carpet, but I don't like carpets in studios. You can just keep piling it up, and when the paint gets... You can pick it up and put it in a sack, but it gets dragged because I have chairs which I pile my painting tins on when I'm working, and when I move the chair, I pull the chair along.
33:09Rose Wylie:Because I don't have a trolley on wheels, and people would say, why don't you get a trolley on wheels to do it? I've never thought like that. I always thought, use what you've got. So I drag the chair along, and that churns the paper up. So you can see it's, well, it's also, I don't know, it doesn't look precious. And so it, in fact, it encourages, it engenders work. It doesn't, you don't, for me it does. For some people it wouldn't. As you say, they'd find it would inhibit them. They wouldn't be able to work. But you're sort of saying that coming in here, it must be a state of mind that's entirely free because you can just discard something where you want to.
33:53Rose Wylie:As I said, there's no food in here. There's not old clothes in here. There's not old furniture in here. Any sort of books are books that I've used. They are tins of paint. It's all collateral of painting. It's all related to painting. It's not junk. It's a process. And can you describe how this house in general feeds into your creativity? How does it help you with that or hinder it sometimes? I think it does. Well, I used to worry about paint getting all over the carpet on the stairs. Actually, I don't like carpets on stairs, and one of the things I'd like to do is to get rid of the stairs and get a sort of wooden staircase which doesn't need a carpet.
34:42Rose Wylie:But the carpet has started to get quite a lot of paint on it because I've got bothered less. because my husband thought that I should keep the paint in here. He thought it was not a good idea to get paint all over the house. So I used to change my shoes. I used to wear different shoes in here. But I've given that up. I just wear the same shoes. So I walk in paint and I go out to answer the phone or whatever I did to look at an image on the computer because I often photograph work in progress. So I go in and out of the computer here, and I don't change my shoes here. The paint is starting to spread, but I think it's too late to bother about it.
35:29Rose Wylie:I used to bother, but I don't anymore. And the rest of the house, I said a moment I think ago to you that I like contrast. and I like contrast in painting which is why I often put paint on unprimed canvas and I don't paint all over the canvas I paint parts of the canvas because I like the contrast between the unpainted canvas and the heavily painted canvas contrast signifies life to me there's no contrast in death it's all the same I like contrast. But to come to your question, and the house, there's this contrast. The front of the house is very different from the garden side. Yeah. The light is different.
36:23Rose Wylie:The sound is different. The look is different. It's public on the front because the road, the house is bang on the road, bang on the pavement, which in itself for me has life. I always have the windows open. I like the noise of the traffic because I like... Traffic suggests to me that you're alive, you're not in hospital, you're not in a... Life is... You're in it, you're in life. And the noise of the traffic, people say, does it disturb you? And it doesn't. So I like the difference between the front of the house which has traffic and public people and movement. And the back of the house is completely private and is green, different colour, different light.
37:14Rose Wylie:It's covered in trees, has birds. And to go to the top of the garden, the sound of the road diminishes because there's a lot of tree. There's a dense tree. I was going to ask you about that because you've left it very wild, haven't you? I work with nature I don't control it and there's no junk in the garden there are no newspapers or discarded furniture or tins of paint it's all trees or plants and there are ones that have grown naturally and they grow they touch that's why the light is green because the light comes through the green of the leaves and makes the light that comes into that side of the house is a kind of green colour.
38:04Rose Wylie:Do you like that? I love that. On this side of the house, it's quite different. So the contrast, you asked me about how my attitudes and ideas in painting filter into the house. That's one of them, contrast. Hi, folks. A quick interlude to remind you that alongside the podcast, we also film house tours for our members over on Patreon. They're a chance to come with me inside the homes of some of my guests and to have a look at the rooms and the objects that we talk about in these conversations. Members get access to the full archive, so that's more than 20 long-form tours and there's new ones being added every week.
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39:31Thanks for listening and back to the conversation. Do you garden, in inverted commas? What do you do with the garden?
39:39Rose Wylie:Well, I leave it alone. I like to look at it. I walk around it every day several times. I like to look at it. I like to look at the field at the back. Suddenly there's an opening. Again, a contrast, because the garden is very... The trees meet over it like the top of a church or cathedral where you have ribs, structural ribs of the architecture. The same thing happens to a lesser degree in the garden where the trees all meet with ribs and the light filters through and then it suddenly opens up to the field. and I walk around it, which makes paths. You'll notice that there are trodden paths. So that's you just walking around it every day.
40:28Rose Wylie:They just appear because I walk around it. And there are a lot of little hazel trees growing and I love hazel leaves. And if you look in the house, there's a branch of them in the drawing room in a vase. There's a branch on the dining room table. The link. I love, I like leaves. So I bring the leaves into the, I grow the leaves outside and I bring them into the house. You bring them into the house and that, in fact, I don't ever cut a hedge, but it cuts. It's a natural, organic way of controlling too much growth. They don't grow over the path. I pick them all the time I put them in the drawing room, the dining room and the link between the kitchen which I like all it that probably answers your question it does, it's very in vogue I was thinking, you know, this rewilding movement that everyone's going through you're just doing it instinctively I think it fits my philosophy I am a green I love nature I like but I also like fast cars and computers.
41:44Rose Wylie:I love computers. I like cameras. You like fast cars? What kind of thing? I like fast cars. Well, I don't drive but I do like, I've nothing against, you know, I don't just want to go around on a bike with a horse. Not at all. Not for a minute. Not for a minute. You know, I like fast cars and I like, you know, I've said that I like things to be accessible and that picking hazel trees and bramble leaves is accessible and everyone can do it. But I also like space. So I wouldn't be averse to owning vast tracts of land. I'm not against that. So I like freedom. Having land around you suggests freedom because you don't have people imposing what they want on you, which I like.
42:35Rose Wylie:I don't like people imposing stuff on me. I don't like imposing stuff on other people. That's brilliant. How long have you been here now in this house? Nearly 60 years, 58 years. 58 years. I know because Henrietta's 60 and she was two when we came. So I'm not sure that I've done a podcast with someone that's lived in a house for that long before. That is a long, long time. so given that it holds a lot of memory this place doesn't it? to go back to what you said there's a table in the dining room which exactly fits the wall you can just open the door and you can get a six foot canvas art everything things work and I buy 72 inch rolls of canvas from Russell and Chapman and they just fit the table the sideboard table in the dining room and it's always there.
43:33Rose Wylie:It's not there now because I've finished the roll of canvas, but all the time it's there. So I have people come to dinner and the roll of canvas is on the sideboard. So it fits and I can get paintings out of the door. The house fits what I want to do. And how many children do you have? Three. Three, so three kids were all raised here. Henrietta, well, she's the youngest. Well, she was two when we came. Yes, Luke John was, I think, ten and he was there from ten onwards. Lizzie, yes, they're all familiar. They all know the house. Yeah. So I guess the reason I ask that is it's obviously had various lives, the house, hasn't it?
44:20Rose Wylie:We had a smashing time. Luke John was at Cambridge and endlessly we had undergraduates coming and staying and dinners and fights and irritations and drinking and boozing. So all of that was nice. How does it feel as a house to be in now you're on your own, which is obviously a different scenario? Well, it is, but nobody interrupts. I have no responsibility to get food for anyone. I used to feed people. I cooked and stuff like that. No, I can start working. Well, I can do something during the day maybe and then start working at seven in the evening and then go on until three in the night. It doesn't matter.
45:09Rose Wylie:So that's a nice freedom. I like that. And to get up late in the morning if I work. If I go to bed late at three, I'll get up late in the morning. Three. I do like freedom. Freedom, yeah. Do you like the solitude as well? I don't mind that. Yeah. That's why I wanted to talk to Sarah. I like talking to people about paintings. And she's a nice person to talk to. And she always does look and she responds. That's why I wanted to. Downstairs today. Sarah is your gallerist. Sarah, yes. I wanted to talk to her about the paintings downstairs because she's a nice audience to talk to. So are there some days where you're just here on your own for the full day or do you always have people coming to visit?
45:50How does it work?
45:51Rose Wylie:I have people visiting. people come I meet people in the evening I have a local some local friends after a time they all die off you know you don't know yet but when you've lived in a place for a long time the people you've known for a long time they either move to sheltered accommodation or they die or they can't move they can't drive anymore that sort of stuff happens which is not well I mean that's okay that happens I don't drive anyway can i ask you about recognition because in your case i think this is so interesting because your husband was a well-known artist he had some success while you were young and you it seemed to me tell me if i'm wrong had to put your painting on pause a bit because you had your children is that right i decided that if you got children and lizzie lizzie needed attention She's the middle one.
46:51Rose Wylie:She had difficulties of spatial learning. She can't manage by herself. So she took up a lot of my time. She had no sense of space. She couldn't manage. She couldn't count. She couldn't read. Luckily, she's been living in a related Rudolf Steiner community, and that's given me freedom to work. It's a good idea because as you get older, where you can't, in fact, start to look after someone who is needing help. So there's not that traumatic change where perhaps Lizzie's lived with me for years and years and years and then suddenly I can't manage and she then has to leave. That's very difficult. That's a very, very difficult and bad situation for the child who's got used to living with the parents.
47:42Rose Wylie:So that's been avoided. and she does live in a real standard community. So I was happy to look after the children and I think looking after children is important. And if you don't do that, children grow up feeling marginalised and they feel somehow that the parent has got a major attention somewhere else like in painting. And that, you know, it's not a good idea. So I decided that I would be a wife and mother, and Roy had more visibility than me. Then when Lizzie went away to live in a residential place, I just went into painting in a big way. I explained earlier on that I'm used to people, I'm used to fitting in with a situation rather than getting frustrated and angry about it.
48:39Rose Wylie:So then I started to paint. From your childhood, yeah. But painting then wasn't particularly easy because I had a gap and so it wasn't easy at all. People expect you to just come out of art school. But didn't you go to the Royal College in your 40s? Yes, I did. Yeah. So you went to the Royal College and then was that the point at which you gave it a concert to go? After that I started painting all the time, yes. Okay. But it seems to me that you've really found a lot more public awareness in your sort of 70s onwards, right? Yes. I mean, that's quite, you know, it happens, but it's relatively unusual.
49:18Rose Wylie:Well, it started because I was selected to take part in the National Museum of Women in the Arts in Washington, in the States. And I was the only English person who was in the final exhibition of this, and it was called Women to Watch. And because I was the only what was called Brit in an international other, in fact they were all American I think, Jermaine Greer became interested. She read an article in The Guardian. That was very helpful. And then things, I started winning things. Anyway, but then people say, are you a feminist? Are you, is it, oh it's because you're a woman that you're doing well.
50:01Rose Wylie:oh, you're doing well because you're old, you're doing well because women were neglected and now they're not being neglected, so their boxes tick. Actually, I don't like any of that. I like to be recognised for the painting and the quality of the painting. Yeah. Is that sort of quite clear? It's really clear, and I can see that. Later in life, you've found a lot more recognition. I'm just wondering, what does that feel like and how has that changed things for you? It feels great. Yeah, people noticing you. It feels great. I mean, one, I think it's funny. It's funny. The most place where you see it is locally, in your local life.
50:43Yeah.
50:44Rose Wylie:I mean, I don't, when people come from Japan or China to talk and look at things, I mean, that's nice. It's very, you're involved, you're included, and it's very nice to be included. Yeah. At a certain time, you're certainly definitely not included. but then I used to get into those things which are send-ins like the Royal Academy and the John Moores and I don't know what they all are the John Moores, East International there are certain things, Jawa, that you could send into and I used to get into those so then that all came together and it spiraled and then when Iswana asked me if I would care to join them that was great I mean, that was terrific.
51:32Rose Wylie:And then now paintings, they go and they disappear as I paint them, which is nice. But locally, you know, I was regarded as a wife and mother by some people and they've never forgotten that. But for a lot of other people, I'm a painter. Feel free to disagree with this comparison, but I'm going to make it anyway. I might be wrong about this, but coming to see you today, I was thinking about Alfred Wallace. And I was thinking about how he was discovered in his 70s by Ben Nicholson in St Ives. And he was obviously a seafarer and he used to just paint boats and coastal scenes on bits of old board that he found lying around the place.
52:20And those St Ives artists were just blown away by the honesty of what he was doing and the naivety of it. and I don't know but I just feel like your work has that same instinctiveness, honesty about it.
52:36Rose Wylie:I like Alfred Wallace. The only one small problem with what you said is the word naivety. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because obviously I'm not naive, this is the thing. Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. If you're naive, you don't know the rules of the game. You know, you do what you do but you haven't got judgment. I have got judgment. I know the game. I know the rules. If you paint like Rembrandt or Leonardo, everybody's happy. But if you paint like somebody else who is somehow something else, then they're not happy. It's a funny situation. I like the early Renaissance more than the high Renaissance. But mostly people prefer the high Renaissance.
53:24Rose Wylie:certainly not everybody but a lot of people I think one of the reasons I drew that comparison is because I think I don't mind it because I like Alfred Wallace I think he is I think he is direct and I think ultimately he painted what he saw which is what I feel that you do with directness yes there is a connection but there's also a connection with me and Pulka but nobody makes it nobody makes a connection with me and Pulka Go on, tell me about that then. Well, his drawings, not so much his paintings, because the line he uses is very good. Invention comes into this, and Polker is invented. And he has a good line.
54:05Rose Wylie:If you concentrate on having a marvellous line, you're not concentrating on fidelity, you know, realism. Waxwork, which is what Coleridge calls it. Coleridge hates waxwork. I don't mind a certain amount of realism. I like Pachamia. I love Magritte. I love Rousseau, Henri Rousseau, the douanier. And they all considered him to be a bit naive. But in fact, he's a brilliant and hugely skillful painter. I want to ask you about possessions, stuff, things, objects. Stuff, yes, I like stuff. Objects, yeah. I love objects. Do you? It depends on the object. Yeah. How do you choose what's going to live with you then in terms of objects?
54:50Rose Wylie:I just have to like the look of it. If it's a plate, a cup, I just have to like it. Everything, the tile, I have to like the colour. I don't want some crappy old pattern on my tile. I like honest materials. I tend to buy cotton or wool or linen. I don't have nylon or brine nylon. Why don't you? I just don't like the look of it or the feel of it or the way it falls or the way it moves. there's nothing much I like about it the way it accepts colour I love cotton and I like ageing too as well which is happy for me I don't want my painting to look like a bright new shiny car I was looking at the other day and a friend, she had a book of stick-in little postcards which somebody kept for years and years and years it was stapled together, stapled to gone rusty the corners were all air marked it was all stained I loved it She loved it too.
55:52Rose Wylie:But I also do like shiny new cars, but I didn't like my painting to look like shiny new cars. Do you have a shiny new car? I love it. Do I have one? Yeah. No, no, I haven't got a shiny new car. No, I didn't think you had. You just admire them. No, I have nothing against shiny new. I mean, I love conkers and they're shiny and new and I like, but I also like crumpled and old. I'm scattered. You'll pick up. I'm scattered. I conflict. Yeah, I saw in an interview you called yourself a radical non-consumer. Tell me about that. What does that mean? I'm not always rushing out to the shops to buy things.
56:28Rose Wylie:I have a lot of stuff because I've accumulated it. And if the look of what you put on changes, I just go back and I find something. I reassemble it in the way that suits me at the moment. I don't throw things away. I like stuff. I don't... I've got a lot of things that I've kept and so I can always cut them up or rejig them to make them different or that interests me. I don't care what interests somebody else or not interests me. Do you know where everything is in here? Yes. You do? And in this space? Vaguely. Well, no, because you could challenge me and say, well, okay, find me that book. I'd find that a bit different.
57:14Rose Wylie:Vaguely, yes. sort of. It's done chronologically. Yeah. The filing is chronologic. I can, it depends how much, how deep in a pile it is. Yeah. Are you ready for the psychology question? No, I probably won't answer it. Do trouble. You can try, you can have a go at it. No, I just think, I wondered to what extent you think this environment is reflective of, of your internal state somehow. I'd love to know how it relates to your state of mind. I think it probably does. State of mind, yeah. I mean, why not? How can it not? Yeah. I'm not controlling. There are no affectations, so yes, it's going to reflect.
57:52Yeah.
57:53Rose Wylie:And this isn't an affectation. I've told you, it's what happens. Yeah. So would you say that you've got quite a, I don't know what word you would use for your brain, busy, jumbled, multifaceted. How would you explain how you feel within yourself in that way? Open.
58:16Rose Wylie:I like stuff coming in I like new stuff I like to hear new stuff I love to look at new work that I've never seen I don't want to be stuck in a particular time or rut I love new I've said looking at new work artists' work films, photographs examples of stuff Yeah Theories, philosophies, music There's an obvious thing to say but there's a kind of unfussiness to it Right, it seems to me I wonder if the bigger picture is more important to you Certainly is, yes Than the fine detail, yeah The big picture is something of quality and that it's lasting and something which is actually good and morally good and is good That's the big picture And that certainly is important to me.
59:13Because I think I read somewhere that Roy was a bit more of a minimalist. I don't know if that's the right word, but he sometimes struggled with your clutter. Is that fair to say?
59:22Rose Wylie:So he used to come and photograph my work. I used to say, would you? And he said he wouldn't come in unless I did a bit of clearing up, because he didn't like the fact that he would get paint on his clothes and stuff. I used not to get paint on my clothes, because I don't know, I managed to naturally negotiate a problem I negotiated. He was more organised, put it that way. Yeah. I used to use his paint to use all the lumps. Finally, he said, you know, the paint's got too many lumps. I used to use it. I like lumps. Yeah. So was it about 10 years ago that he died, Roy? A bit more. A bit more than that.
1:00:01Rose Wylie:Probably about nearly 14, I think. Okay. How did that change your experience of being in the house? Because that's obviously a big shift. Well, it's just empty. It's funny because you've got no one to giggle with. And anything, if you've had a long relationship with someone, things take their place within the long relationship. They don't become a big deal suddenly, but they don't become exaggerated. It all is part of a big continuum. I like that. I like long relationships. and a shared past. So that all went. So that was difficult, but I managed to do that. Yeah, because I've met different people who have said different things about loss and space and some people find it too much because they're reminded too much of that person by being there and other people find it comforting.
1:01:00and I wondered which of those things you felt.
1:01:03Rose Wylie:Well, I am reminded that I like that. That's fine. That's good, I think. So I just managed. I don't know. You know, there are lots of stuff of Roys which are round. I haven't bothered to move them, like clothes in the cupboard and things. I've just left them. And the main, while there's nobody there and there's an element of emptiness, You know, there's a big gap where there's nothing empty. And a whole amount of fun goes out of your life. But other things come in which compensate, which is the freedom of being able to work uninterrupted. But then you can't share. You know, I watch films and you're not sharing them, which is a big loss.
1:01:52Rose Wylie:It's a huge loss.
1:01:57Did you used to ask him to look at your work while it was in progress? Did you ever help each other with that as you were working?
1:02:07Rose Wylie:Well, I just used to get on. Roy would come and photograph something if I asked him. And he used to say that there's not a lot you can say about art. And on the other hand, I used to say there's a huge amount you can say about art. You can say what you haven't done and why you've done something. I mean, finally, you can't say why it's got quality. It's very difficult to put that into words, but you can talk about other stuff.
1:02:37Rose Wylie:So I was possibly more outgoing in terms of talking about my work than him. Did he talk to me about work? Mostly, I think I got on with a bit of work and he would photograph it at the end when it was finished. I sometimes would come down to stuff and say, I can't do that, but I can't do it. It's all just absolutely horrible. I can't. You can make a painting and it just isn't right. It's horrible. It's unpleasant. Very unpleasant. It's just wrong. It has no quality. I used to go down and say it's wrong. He just used to say how you'll manage. In fact, I did manage. But he didn't come in and say, well, you could do this or you could do that.
1:03:24Rose Wylie:We didn't really work like that. Yeah. But he liked what I did. Yes, I'm sure. Which was, oh, that's a help. Rose, you're in your 90s. There's a lot of wisdom there. And I wondered... Are you sure? Yeah, maybe not. You'll be able to tell me. We hope so. We hope so. I wonder just what, looking back over life, what do you reflect on the things that kind of, I suppose when you were younger, you thought sort of mattered more than they really do. You know, how do you sort of look back on, like, what actually doesn't matter, you know, when you get to your point of life? Nothing much, I don't think. I mean, you know, it's going to end.
1:04:12Rose Wylie:When I say that, I've told you I'm conflicted. The things that matter too much hugely to me is trying to do something which is a good painter, that has quality, good quality, and that drives me, that matters. Okay, so you're very driven by making the work. Yes, I'm driven by the hope that the work will be, you know, it has some quality to it. And I don't mean bad quality, because quality can go either way, can't it? It can be good or bad. I meant good quality. As you said earlier, you make a piece now and it flies out of the door because you're now extremely well established as an artist. Do you regret that that's come at this point and you couldn't just reverse it?
1:05:00Rose Wylie:No, it's different, but it's the same. It's all exactly the same. With every painting, you're doing the same thing. You're trying to make a painting, which is a good, you know, it's kind of a good painting. So it's changed because they used to sit here and nobody looked at them or gave them the slightest thought. But now I do them. But from my point of view, the doing of them is exactly the same. It's just how they end up, which is different, which is true, and how people see them, the perception that people see, how they see them is true. Yeah. How do you feel, what do you feel about your energy levels?
1:05:41You know, do you feel like you want to just keep making work forever? Is that how it feels to you?
1:05:49Rose Wylie:No, I think you make probably less. Yeah. I don't, you can't. No, no, I used to size three large campuses at a time. No, I don't. I never do three. I think, well, why do three at a time? It's just, you know, it's hard. Why do it? So I don't do three. And I've noticed that. And obviously energy levels drop, but the excitement doesn't drop. Yeah, that's really great to hear. So you've been here for nearly 60 years. It's seen a lot of lives, this house. It's where you make your work. It's a studio as well as a home. What a fantastic building. You know, it's supported you through a lifetime. Oh, I love it.
1:06:39Yeah.
1:06:40Rose Wylie:Do you know, we had a hurricane, and was it 97? When was the hurricane? Doesn't matter. Oh, yes, yes, yes, yeah. I think it was 97. Not even a tile came off the house. Really? It doesn't need a lot of upkeep. Yeah. I mean, people will say, well, I can see that you don't do any upkeep. They'll say, well, it does need it, but you don't just actually do it. I mean, structurally, it stands. Yeah. When does it date from? late 1600s Amazing Which is nice So given that whole story then how would you put into words the importance of this house in your life overall Well I just find the house okay I mean it's I could have more space, perhaps that would be quite interesting, but then I quite like contained space, I like the fact that over there I can get two big paintings in and they just fit that beam and they just fit the door and they fit the ceiling and they fit the floor.
1:07:42Rose Wylie:And I like that. That is determined by the house. But I like the house. I have no problem with the house. I like brick and I like wood and there's a lot of brick and I like plaster. I love plaster. Oh, I must tell you, in the dining room, a little while ago I had a, no, it's still on, There's a piece of sculpture in the Venice Biennale, which is a light bulb. It's my light bulb from my computer room up there. It is a copy of my light bulb. And it was hanging in a palazzo on the canal in Venice. I didn't go, but I saw photographs. And the Platzo was a smashing, ornate Italian palace place on the canal.
1:08:31And it had bare plaster where it had deteriorated and they hadn't tarted it up.
1:08:39Rose Wylie:It had bare plaster. It had brick. It had wood. And I thought, well, it's a bit like my dining room because I've got bare plaster. I've got brick and I've got wood. Not the same scale. Not the grandeur. It's not take the grandeur away, take the scale away. But it had certain elements which were the same. But the palazzo had pillars, columns. So I looked at the dining room and thought, well, why haven't I got columns and pillars? And I looked at it and I thought, well, with a bit of deft painting, I could convert part of the wall into a pilaster. so it took me three minutes to do two pilasters in the dining room and it was all inspired by this Italian building and it's funny because they've got no depth.
1:09:29Rose Wylie:I've painted a Doric capital onto what could have been a column but which wasn't a column because you couldn't see it like that but now I've converted. I've given the dining room two Doric columns. And it literally took three minutes. I took a pint of paint from here. I thought, I don't want to drop paint all over the dining room floor. And I didn't. I just, I did that and that. You'll see it downstairs.
1:10:02Rose Wylie:And I was having dinner with my children. They knew I was going to do it. They knew that I might do it. And my daughter was sitting at the dining room table and she suddenly shouted out, oh, you've done it. she saw, I hadn't mentioned it she noticed that I'd done it It strikes me that the word instinctive keeps coming into my head but you're just very instinctive I think, aren't you? I just thought I'd go and do it but it's taken me 58 years to do it I mean it took me three minutes to paint it but to think of doing it I only thought of doing it because of the Italian building on the Renaissance building on the canal in Venice and I just thought, well, I haven't got a column but then I thought I can make one too, I mean.
1:10:52Is there anything else that you want to do here that you haven't done yet?
1:10:55Rose Wylie:Yeah, I did the same thing. I did the hinge in the dining room as well. I don't like taper. I like parallel lines. I don't like tapered candles. Okay. And I don't like, there's a hinge over there. You can't see it at the moment. It's a parallel. Oh, yes, there is. Oh, yeah. On the top of the bits of paper, there's a hinge. Can you see it painted white? The lines are parallel. Yeah. Downstairs in the dining room, they taper. You're going to change them. I have changed them. I've blacked. It's a black hinge. I've blacked. I've made it parallel just with paint. How do you explain why you don't like tapering?
1:11:33Rose Wylie:I don't like the shape. Also, it disappears and goes in. It's perspective, isn't it? Parallel is isometric. It goes on. It never ends. Also, I noticed that you've allowed a lot of the plants from the garden to grow inside, haven't you? Yes, I haven't stopped them. Roy was against that. He thought it was – he didn't think it was a good idea. It's actually flowered in here. Oh, really? It's amazing. It's jasmine. Yeah. And it's come up and it's flowered in here. Yeah. But in the dining room it doesn't flower. Yeah. And people do have a habit of trimming it, which I don't... Obviously, you've got to get through the door.
1:12:18Rose Wylie:But otherwise, I like it. Rose, thank you so much. We need to have some lunch at some point, don't we? We need lunch. I'm sure we've done our hour and a half. I think you've done really well. Are you happy? I think it's been so interesting. I'm a massive fan, and I think this has only helped that. But, you know, seeing you in your environment, and it's helped me make sense of your world. So it's been a real pleasure. Thank you. It's a real world. I can see that. And it's not sloppy, but it's flexible as well. Yeah. Thank you, Rose. Not a bit.
1:12:58Thank you so much for listening. And big thanks to Rose and her team for allowing us into her home. It really, really was such a special day. After we finished recording, they very sweetly put on some lunch for us. So some amazing scotch eggs, pork pies, that sort of thing, proper English lunch. And it was just magical. Really, really lovely to meet Rose and to find out more about her. We also, of course, did a house tour, as we always do. And that was so fascinating. So as always, the house tour will be available to homing members on Patreon. So do have a lookout for that there. I'm also going to try something new this time, actually.
1:13:34I'm going to post up some photographs of the house on Patreon, along with some of my reflections on the visit. So I guess some of the things that I learned that have stayed with me as well. So you'll find all of that at patreon.com slash homing with Matt. The other thing is that Juliet from Podshop told me that we need some more reviews. So if anyone listens to this regularly and hasn't left us a review, I would so appreciate it. The reason being that the more reviews we get, the more that the algorithm recommends us to other people and they then find the show and it grows, which is amazing. So thank you in advance if you can do that.
1:14:11This episode was produced by Podshop with music by Simeon Walker. Thanks so, so much for being here. I hope you enjoyed it and I will talk to you very soon. Bye for now.
From the publisher
At 91, Rose Wylie has one of the most remarkable stories in contemporary British art. She stopped painting in order to raise her three children and returned to it in middle age, finding widespread recognition in her seventies.
Today her work is exhibited around the world, and earlier this year she had a major show at the Royal Academy.
For the past 58 years, Rose has lived in the same house in Kent. It’s an extraordinary space where piles of discarded paper are strewn across the floor, and the windows are covered in paint.
Rose has little interest in domestic rules: she doesn’t tidy her studio, leaves her garden to run wild, and lets the house adapt around her life and art.
In this conversation, we explore the influences that shaped Rose’s unconventional life – from her wartime upbringing as the youngest of seven, to her partnership with her late husband Roy Oxlade, and finding global acclaim later in life.
Rose’s story is one of freedom, creativity, ageing, and the value of allowing a home – and perhaps a life – to develop on its own terms.
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