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Podcast Episode Summary: How I Built Hailey Bieber’s Favourite Beauty Brand In My 30’s (They Thought I Was Just Pretty!)
Podcast Title: Hot Smart Rich Episode Host: Maggie Sellers Guest: Mari Fonseca Release Date: [Insert Release Date] Duration: [Insert Duration]
Episode Overview In this episode, Mari Fonseca, founder of Gente, a body care brand focused on lymphatic drainage and wellness rituals, shares her journey from being a model to becoming a successful entrepreneur. She discusses the challenges she faced in the modeling industry, her transformation into a business owner, and the lessons she learned along the way.
Key Topics and Discussions
- Background and Early Life
- Growing Up in Brazil:
- Mari left home at 16 to pursue modeling.
- She experienced the harsh realities of the modeling industry, including low pay and high standards.
- Modeling Industry Challenges:
- Faced stereotypes that models are "pretty but not smart."
- Discussed the cash-centric nature of modeling vs. long-term wealth building.
- Transition to Entrepreneurship
- From Modeling to Business:
- Left modeling due to lack of fulfillment and started dreaming of building a brand.
- The turning point came during a dinner conversation that inspired her to launch Gente.
- Building Gente:
- Launched the brand with a modest budget and faced difficulties in fundraising, especially as a female founder and immigrant.
- Emphasized that fundraising for startups often involves rejection and self-humiliation.
- Branding and Marketing Insights
- Building a Brand:
- Mari discusses the difference between social media following and actual sales.
- Advocates for the effectiveness of word-of-mouth marketing over celebrity endorsements.
- The Halo Effect:
- Hailey Bieber's endorsement significantly increased brand visibility and sales, showcasing the power of celebrity influence.
- Personal Growth and Reflection
- Confidence and Aging:
- Shares how she feels more confident in her 30s than in her 20s.
- Discusses the importance of self-acceptance and the shift in priorities as she ages.
- Work-Life Balance:
- Explores the challenges of maintaining boundaries between work and personal life as a founder.
- Talks about the changes that have allowed her to create a more balanced lifestyle.
- Practical Advice for Entrepreneurs
- Mindset and Resilience:
- Emphasizes the importance of persistence and clarity through the hard times.
- Encourages young entrepreneurs to believe in their vision and not be deterred by challenges.
- Effective Strategies:
- Discusses the necessity of being consistent with wellness routines, such as lymphatic drainage.
- Shares insights on product efficacy and consumer expectations.
Key Takeaways
- Stereotypes in the Industry:
- The struggle against stereotypes in the beauty and modeling industries is real, but overcoming them can lead to empowerment.
- Importance of Education:
- Advocates for educating oneself on financial literacy and investing in personal brands to create sustainable wealth.
- Realizing Dreams:
- Manifestation plays a role in achieving goals—visiting retailers and seeing her products on shelves was a dream come true for Mari.
Guest Information
- Mari Fonseca:
- Instagram: [@mariannefonseca](https://www.instagram.com/mariannefonseca)
- Gente Website: [gentebeauty.com](https://gentebeauty.com/)
- Gente Instagram: [@gentebeauty](https://www.instagram.com/gentebeauty)
Conclusion The episode ends with Mari encouraging listeners to embrace their entrepreneurial journeys and to foster the mindset of being "Hot, Smart, and Rich." It’s a call to action for self-empowerment and the pursuit of personal goals, regardless of societal expectations.
Discount Code Listeners can receive a 20% discount on Gente products using the code HSR20 at [gentebeauty.com](https://gentebeauty.com/).
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This episode of *Hot Smart Rich* not only showcases Mari’s inspiring journey but also provides valuable lessons for anyone looking to navigate the world of entrepreneurship.
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0:59You're booking jobs modeling. I was like begging my parents, please take me to Sao Paulo. And then from there, I just never came back home. A lot of my dreams as a model came true, but not all of them. A lot of jobs don't pay much. The magazines don't pay anything. I don't enjoy it. I really don't enjoy it anymore. What was the hardest part when you decided to transition from being a model to being an entrepreneur? When you take a meeting, sometimes guys would just like hit on me. It was really hard to come around that people would respect you. You're pretty already like be happy with that. I'm an immigrant.
1:32I have an accent. I don't have a business background. I think people could tell, I don't know what I'm doing. I just have this dream to do a brand. I started the brand with... I was prepping for this interview. Holy s***, this is Hailey Weaver's favorite lymphatic drainage brand. I used to bring the packaging to different big retailers, like a Sephora or a Target, and just imagine that they were there, manifest and pray, and now seeing it for real. Wow, we did this. If there is one thing, if people are looking to glow up, I always tell them...
2:08in case you missed it you're allowed to be hot smart and rich so let's get into it
2:18Mari Fonseca are you ready to get hot smart rich yes are you nervous to fear I'm excited you are one of the hardest people to plan to book with because you live a very busy life you just got back from Paris doing some wedding dress try-ons. Can you tell us about that? My mom came from Brazil and we tried my wedding dress. It's almost ready and it's like a dream. I feel like you have to be a very, very secure woman to date a famous musician, especially Drew from the Chain Soakers. Like, have you always been secure or was that something you've learned over time? I think there's two things. I think it's a personality thing that I always felt secure, but I also think is like us in Brazil, we don't compare ourselves a lot.
3:03Going back a little bit to growing up in Brazil, what did it look like in your family in terms of the relationship that your parents had? My parents got divorced when I was nine, but both loving parents. They're both in my life still. And I love them so much. And they didn't work out because they got married really young. And then my mom got remarried when I was 12. I actually was the flower girl at her wedding. I lived with my stepdad and my mom and my sister for two more years three more years and then my mom got pregnant she had my brother I was 15 and then I started modeling so I just left did you have any entrepreneurs in your family like did your mom have any entrepreneurial people in her family or a dad or this was like the first person at 16 that was like I'm leaving and I'm gonna go do my own thing?
3:53I think I was the first one, but I also, my mom started like studying really young and she moved away from her city, but it's like the city next to her city. So I think I was the more like the one that just really wanted to like break out of like being in my city. I just felt like it wasn't enough for me. I wanted to do something else. I wanted to do more. And I always dreamed of coming to the United States. I always like had this dream. I didn't know it was going to happen but I needed to try because I just felt like I didn't have a future in my city that I would be happy so I just had to go you're 16 you're living it's a small city in Brazil at the time yeah you're booking jobs modeling are you leaving your city to go do that or they're kind of in your city but they're small they started in my city okay small when I was 13 I was already like doing like kind of like little jobs here and there my dad has like these friends they own a store and they're like oh Mari should model for us so like it started there so I had like some pictures and some like little runway stuff and I sent that to a modeling agency that was like in the very beginning of also like having internet and being able to send like an email with photos and all of that and then some agencies wrote back and they were like we would like to meet you and everything and I was like begging my parents like please take me to Sao Paulo because I'm from another state and then they took me to Sao Paulo we met some of the agencies and I was like so excited and this agency that wasn't very good signed me and I was like please please like let me stay so like we went back to my city it took some convincing from like my dad and my mom and and everything and then they both were like okay let's go with her let's see you know how this is and so we went back to Sao Paulo to see where I was gonna live and my mom was like you need to continue going to school So we found a school for me and it was the same school that some of my roommates, model roommates had.
5:51Yeah, it was really interesting, like how everything started, because I never thought it would like I would be here today. But like I had to convince my parents and be like, please, like, let me go. And they wanted to make sure like I had a good place to stay. I had a school to go to. And then from there, I just like never came back home to live in my house. So you moved technically out at 16, which is a lot younger than most people. Do you feel like there is a part of you that is relearning your childhood because you did become an adult so quickly? That's a great question. I think so. Honestly, like I'm doing pole dancing right now.
6:29I saw this. I was hoping you brought it up. Which is not at all what you do as a child. But like when I obviously, but when I saw I saw my mom now in Paris and she brought some videos from when we were kids because I want to I want to like do a little collage for our wedding, like drew as a child, me as a child and us growing up and meeting each other. So a lot of my life was like dancing. I did ballet for six years. And so sometimes I like miss that. And now that I have a little more time, I'm like, yes, I want to do this and this stuff that like hobbies that I used to do as a child. So, yes.
7:03Which I feel like is so important and it needs to be talked about more because the most successful people that I'm around have actual hobbies. Like they are spending time to carve out and think and do these things that like actually make them a better person. so when you were 16 and you had this big dream of leaving your small city and becoming a model what did you expect it was going to be like honestly I expect it was going to be more like the dream that you have like I used to watch like the Victoria's Secret fashion show for example and see like Adriana Lima Alessandro Ambrosio Giselle Binching and they are like all Brazilians and they all different from each other.
7:44And that was what I like, hoped for and imagined for me, not necessarily like VS, but more like, I want to be like those girls, like, they're so gorgeous, they're so confident. And like, I want to have a successful career as well. But I went to Asia before I went anywhere else. So like, I stayed in Asia for almost two and a half years, like going from China to Singapore to Hong Kong, Thailand, the Philippines. Like I lived everywhere in Asia first. And then I did the same thing in Europe and kind of lived everywhere because at the time to get a visa to come to the United States, it's always been hard.
8:23But at the time there was no like real like internet or like there were like magazines were actually printed magazines. So I I had to like collect like work from those magazines, like printed magazines, printed, you know, like campaigns and like signs from like photographers saying like she's a real model. Like I worked with her. You had to collect all that stuff, have an agency to, you know, sponsor your visa for you, which for me was elite. And you collect all of that, which takes like a really long time. You send it to them, then they file for the visa with all of those magazines and stuff.
8:56And then you finally get approved. So like only that took me like a few years to start. I dreamed to come to the U.S. like earlier, but it happened when I was 21. So like from 16 to 21, I was like around the world and other places and trying to build that portfolio. And then I moved here and, you know, I was living in New York for seven years. A lot of my dreams as a model came true, but not all of them. It's not that like fairy tale thing that people think, you know, like that glamour and that you just have like you're just making so much money with every job. Like a lot of jobs don't pay much.
9:32Even the jobs that you think are super glamorous, like magazines, the magazines don't pay anything or like shows. Sometimes they can pay really little because it's a lot about like you being in a magazine is good for you. It's a trade off that like the magazines know about. And so it's not that like you make this crazy amount of money and, you know, it's a buildup to get to that place. And it's not that glamorous. Like there is a lot of like hard work that goes behind the scenes that people don't see necessarily. You know, like you're far from your family. You're in another country that maybe you don't speak that language.
10:09There is like a lot of different like the seasons of the year. Like I'm from Brazil. We only have summer. and then I go to New York and it's like this winter that I've never I've never even seen snow and then I'm like leaving in like I don't even have shoes or clothes that I don't know how to dress up for that so like you're just like so much struggles that you know people don't realize and like you don't have a lot of money I couldn't go back home because I didn't have a lot of money in the beginning so I would never see my family you know like there's a lot of like little things that you have to sacrifice really for for this career a lot of the time you hear model and you kind of roll your eyes like, oh, pretty, but like must be nice.
10:47And it's not very hard. What do you think coming as a model is the hardest stereotype to shake now that you do so much more than just modeling? I mean, I think it's being smart. Like people don't think that you can be beautiful and smart at the same time. Hot smart rich. Hot smart rich. You can be all of them. You have to pick one, And especially because we live in a society where like women cannot be like bosses or we cannot like run a company or run the country or, you know, so like there is this like feeling always that, you know, you're not enough or, you know, you're pretty already like be happy with that.
11:25and being pretty and smart and rich. It's just something that it's not very acceptable sometimes. And I think that is just being around whenever I try to raise money or talk about the company to anybody or even the beginning when I just had the idea, it was really hard to come around that people would respect you in a way like when you take a meeting, sometimes guys would just hit on me. and it's just like I'm trying to talk about something serious and like actually like raise money but like people would just be thinking other things you know or like wouldn't understand like what I'm trying to build just because I don't know there is this stereotype of like you can do it all yeah you know you also as a model are always having to be in person you're on a shoot it's a very cash centric job so there isn't something where you're building ownership in something.
12:23And something that I find really hard, even when I'm trying to tell my friends about the power of equity to invest in something with me, they're so apprehensive. Because I think when you're a model too, you're told you have a ceiling. After 35 or 40, you're going to be past your prime and there's going to be people younger than you. So you're trying to make as much money as possible because you're like, I need to do it now. How did you successfully transition your brain to go from like cash to now putting everything you have into equity into your brand? I never really had a sense of money in the way I think that in the United States, like people invest their money and there's their stock market and all that stuff.
13:01Like I didn't grow up like that. We grew up like from paycheck to paycheck in my house. Like we had maybe a little bit over, you know, cause my parents were dentists, but still like we didn't grow up with like this sense of like, you have to like invest your money. And I didn't know about that until I moved to the US. So like a lot of the money that I made, I would spend it or I would save in a savings account. Like I wasn't smart with my money because I just didn't know how to be. I wasn't taught that. I left Brazil really young. And so all my money from modeling now is invested. I actually feel like it's safer to, you know, make a bet in something that you really care about.
13:43And because if you push, there is no like limits there's no time limit for that like there is for my career as a model so I feel like yeah I'm I'm safer in that way if that makes sense totally yeah I think it's just an interesting question for people that value cash so much because a lot of the time when I'm trying to get a friend to invest into a company they're like but I could buy a bag with this and it's such a hard thing to rationalize like even with a brand deal now as a creator myself right I get offered a lot of cash deals and sometimes with brands I really believe in I'm like I'll do it half for cash and half for equity.
14:17And the brands are always so shocked by that because they're like, most creators don't want to take equity for this because you never know. I mean, I have companies that have gone bankrupt, some that will never do anything. I've lost way too much money at this point, but I think any successful person will tell you that. And so I love what you said about betting on yourself because it's so true. But I want to go back to something that you said, because I think it's so important for people to hear this about aging. Do you think that being in the modeling industry for so long made you afraid to get older?
14:49In a way, yes. I am not afraid to get older. I think I enjoy getting older because when I before I turned 30, when I was 29, I had this like moment of freak out. I don't know if you had that. Like I was like, oh my gosh, I'm not married. I need to get on with life because I'm going to 30, you know, and you all exactly. And you just feel like, oh my gosh, from here, it's just going to go downhill. And then I woke up with 30 and I was like, okay, nothing changed. Yeah. And then from, from now I'm 35. So like from 30 to 35, I'm actually feel more beautiful, more confident, more energetic. There is something about being on your thirties, like, and I don't know how it's going to be about my forties, but I'm excited now because Because in my 20s, it felt like I didn't really know myself or like now that when I look back, I'm like, I didn't have a full personality like formed.
15:39And now I'm like, I know what I want. I know what I like. I'm so confident. I just have this like extra. Spice, as Alex would say. Yeah, spice and sauce because you're just older and also like you just don't care. Yeah. You care less about like the little things or like what people think about you or how you look in this way or that way. Like how you're going to say something like, I don't care. I just am more confident. So like, I'm actually excited to be older. But I would say that anybody that's like struggling with that, it's not that big of a deal. The industry is so like developed for, you know, procedures you can do or like, the wellness business is so big right now.
16:19So I feel like, why would we be afraid of, you know, be older? I think it's like nice. And I also think you changed a lot about your life, right? Like you went from being in an industry that scares you to that to being in something that actually, I would say, prevents it. What was the hardest part when you decided to transition from being a model to being an entrepreneur? I really wanted to stop modeling when I started my brand. So what happened was I met somebody that kind of like encouraged me to start a brand. And I was already kind of like thinking, what am I going to do after modeling? I don't really enjoy this job anymore.
16:54I'm a little bit like unfulfilled with it. You know, I don't feel like I'm helping anyone. I don't feel like I'm doing anything that's meaningful. And that dream to become this huge model didn't really happen for me. So I was just like, what else is there? And so I think I believe a lot of right place and right time. And I think a lot of the times that did not happen for me with modeling, but it happened for me with the brand, which I was at this dinner. This guy came over to say hi to other friends at the table. and just sat down with us and started talking to me. And we were like, he's like, okay, you should start this brand.
17:35And connected me with Center that we were talking about before, which helped me design the packaging and everything. And yeah, it just kind of happened. And when was this? This was 2020. Okay, this is during COVID. Yeah, right after COVID. It was the end of 2020, beginning of 2021. And were you dating Drew at the time or this is pre-Drew? No, this is pre-Drew, but I was about to meet him. I met him like 2021 in the beginning around that time, like maybe like in April of 2021. And this dinner was like in February. But yes, like the transition was something that I wanted to happen. I was like looking forward to like what else I was going to be doing after modeling.
18:12So yeah, I'm very happy that this happened right place, right time, which is what I believe it was. And did you completely stop modeling once you started it? Or has there been a little bit of a transition where you were doing both for a bit? I was doing both for a while because, you know, modeling was still my main source of income and still is because I don't take any salary from Jane Sheehy still. So you still do model? Not really. Okay. Not anymore. Not anymore because I don't enjoy it. I really don't enjoy it anymore. Yeah. It just it was 20 years of my life that it really was like a dream.
18:45And it set me up to do things that I'm doing now and to meet amazing people and all, you know, my whole life. I look back and I'm so happy with how it went and how, you know, it turned out. But right now I just like don't like it. Yeah. Don't enjoy it. Do you feel like people treat you differently as the founder of Genchi versus being a model when you introduce yourself? Yes. Can you think of a situation where someone's like completely changed how they think about you? I think like people have a different like respect for me because in the beginning when I was talking about the brands, people would just be like, OK, good luck.
19:24You're going to do a brand queue, you know. And like I think because I've pushed to this point now where like it's a real brand and I don't model anymore. I could take a salary if I want, but I don't want to. I want to invest in the brand. I think now that like we are, you know, profitable and it's like a real brand. And a lot of my friends, like I can just see, it's not like something that they tell me, but I can just tell that like there is this different like respect or admiration that like, yeah, some people also have mentioned to me like, wow, you talked about this brand and look how far you've come.
19:54And, you know, it's really nice to like see that people can, you know, believe in you in a different way or see you in a different way that you're not just a model. Not that like modeling is just a career because it's been my career forever. But you can be put in that place where like it's kind of like a vain profession, you know, and like now I'm doing something that I don't really actually have a background on, but I'm making it happen. And I think people like admire that in any founders, I think. You mentioned this a little bit before, but I want to hear of a specific situation because I think this needs to be talked about more.
20:28When you started fundraising for the brand, you had either venture capitalists hit on you or just completely dismiss you being like, she's just a model with a product. Can you talk a little bit more about that? I think it's hard for anybody that's just selling an idea. So in the beginning, the products weren't here. I had this idea to do a lymphatic drainage product. And a lot of the times, I think now the perspective is a little different around lymphatic drainage and much more people know about it. But I think at the time I would go into these meetings with especially like males and they would be like, what?
21:02Like, what is lymphatic system and lymphatic drainage? Like, what are you talking about? So like a lot of the times I think people would pass because they wouldn't understand what the vision was. and the body care industry became like really big in recent years, but it wasn't that big when I started, you know, raising money. Like it was a lot like face and skincare on the face and makeup. Yeah, it was really hard. Also, like I'm an immigrant, I have an accent. I don't have a business background. Like I didn't have a team. It's not like I'm, you know, I have this whole team and we're trying to build a brand and we know what we're doing.
21:34I think people could tell like I'm very green. I don't know what I'm doing. And I just have this like dream to do a brand. And so that was hard in the beginning to get capital. And then you start like, we started with like angel investors and like friends and people that like would put a little bit of money here and there. But like I started the brand with like$250 ,000. And we made like two products and the whole like campaign and, you know, advertisement and release and all of that, like the launch and everything with that budget. So that was like difficult. to do. But then once the brand was like here and it's real, you have like real products, like then you get like more, but raising money historically, at least for me has been always really hard.
22:21You know, like you either like don't have the right numbers or you don't have the product yet, or you know, you are in a saturated market or there is always some reason why. And I feel like only now I have a little bit of more confidence because, you know, the brand is three years old and we have proven you know that you know numbers and and product like efficacy and all of that stuff like we are in different retailers now so like that gives credibility you know like we are at revolve we are at nordstrom so like that gives credibility but until we got to that point it's just like i always tell nicole my partner i'm like it's just a humiliation process you're just like humiliating yourself you're always like okay can you give me some money like this is my idea and you're just always in that process of like begging which honestly makes you stronger like there is a part of it that I appreciate I'm like in the beginning I used to be like so afraid to like go in and like now I speak with my confidence about the brand and like what we're doing and everything so like also that like helps it helped me in a way too yeah I feel like also as a model you get rejected a lot because you're constantly being put up for campaigns and you're being told no and it's based on solely what you look like which I feel like builds really strong skin because you're like I'm just being told no based on what I look like not even what I think or what I can do so I feel like in some weird way although you didn't come into this with like a crazy degree background or like experience you did come into it with a lot of rejection therapy which is I think half the battle of being a really successful entrepreneur.
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25:27You haven't notoriously done a lot of podcasts, which I love because I just feel like people are getting to know you. But one of the things that you did say that went a little viral was big audiences don't equate to big sales. What do you mean by that? I don't know. I think for our brands, I obviously have a lot of friends in the industry because of my modeling career. And I think that like sometimes even myself, like when I post about the brands, there is sometimes not that many sales as like a small influencer you know like I think we underestimate how much like smaller influencer or a person that have a very faithful following can do for your brand and I think that that's have been for us like a proven you know concept and over and over again like the little you know influencer in the middle of the U.S.
26:17that makes a video that's so genuine that like that ones is the one that converts for us so i think that that has been always our our memo now to just like not look for like let's not like go out and like pay celebrities or like the word of mouth is so much more important it's so special and i think even though like we've been growing slowly that's what made us grow it's like the word of mouth is people like talking about the brand and like slowly you see your sales like going up it's not because like one person posts and it's like okay done yeah but I have to ask about her because I love her Haley Bieber she posted last week I saw and I was prepping for this interview and I was like holy shit this is Haley Bieber's favorite lymphatic drainage brand like I am influenced by Haley Bieber and what she does me too are do you notice like they call it like the halo effect right like Do you notice a halo effect of things that move in the business when someone like Haley does post so obviously about your brand?
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27:17Yes. Obviously, like somebody like Haley, she's so huge and she has her own brand, which is so successful. So obviously, she has a huge influence and people will follow what she posts. And any other celebrity that has posted our brand also converted. And, you know, there's articles that come out about it. Like this is their favorite product and everything. obviously that also builds credibility and it's like important and I really value like my friendship with Haley too because she's always supported the brand like from the beginning and she loves lymphatic drainage because she her mom is Brazilian so Haley's half Brazilian and so she always knew about lymphatic drainage and so we've been friends forever and when I started the brand she always supported so like I obviously appreciate it so much but her or anybody that's like you know has the visibility that she has it really impacts and helps the brand but it's not just that you can't just like depend no on that one person posting or famous people was like a brand is built on many different layers of like smaller influencer bigger influencers and all the work that you put in the ads that you do all the doors that you have to open like it's like little by little you get to a point where you know you are known and everything but it's not just solo like one person.
28:34Yeah. Impossible. It's hard being in a category where it takes a long time to see the results. How long does it take someone to be religiously using your products to see the results that they want? I mean, we say 30 days in the box, like you have to be consistent because nothing is magic. Like when you go and do like a facial, like you can see the results. But if you are consistent with that facial, then you will see like the difference. Yeah. Like so we made a product that's like a lymphatic drainage at home. So you go get a treatment, which you can actually see instantly, like from a treatment that, you know, you can compare one leg to the other leg.
29:11Obviously by yourself, it's not that, you know, that same effect. Yes, exactly. But with the product, you can maintain it at home. So that was the idea behind the brand to maintain your lymphatic drainage that you get with a professional at home. Or if you don't have time, if you're traveling, like lymphatic drainage on the go, because the ingredients of the product, they are going to stimulate the lymphatic system even if you don't do the movements but obviously doing the movements yeah help even more i mean we say 30 days i think you can see it from like 10 days if you're doing it like every day and being committed to it obviously again like you need to have like a diet balanced and work out and do all this other stuff like yeah it's not like magic you know like i never want to deceive people and tell like our products like are gonna work for sure you know like they are gonna work if you do all the other stuff too that you know are in a wellness kind of like lifestyle because you can't just like eat a bunch every day and then do lymphatic drainage and it's like it's not working you know like but we do have clinical trials on these products and they came out like 99 % of women saw reduction of their cellulite or their water retention so it does work if you actually use it for 30 days yeah I can attest to that just in terms of like really focusing on your lymphatic system because when I turned 30 I started noticing like I was I guess skinny fat even though I felt like I was muscular but I was getting cellulite and I went to this amazing Brazilian lymphatic drainage girl I need to connect you with her her shop is called Beverly Hills Wellness Club I think okay and she was like Maggie just do um lymphatic drainage on your legs at home for 30 days within 14 my cellulite was like half the amount.
30:56And I was always so hard for me because I'm like, I eat well, like I'm not, you know, going and having a bunch of junk food after I go to the gym. Like, why is this happening to me? And I actually started using these types of products and not actually the right types of oils. So I would do it in the shower. And I was like, okay, that's actually working. Imagine what you could do if you have the right ingredients in a product. But I think a lot of the time people are looking for these quick fixes, right? They don't want to actually put in the work. yeah how have you guys built genshi to become a ritual for people something that people enjoy and something that doesn't feel like they're trying to get rid of something they hate but more trying to move towards a body that they love i think when we incorporated the other products so like we launched with the lymphatic drainage effect and the bye bye cellulite the bye bye cellulite has a really like spice to it it's like tingle yeah there is a warming sensation so when you apply.
31:49I like to do it when I work out. So like you apply and you start to feel like the warming sensation and then you work out and you just feel like it's working. Um, and it does work. It's like really crazy. Like your skin is just like so much smoother the next day. It's like really nice. And so we launched with these two products, which, you know, we have to do a lot of like teaching and letting people know, like, how do you use this? What is the lymphatic system? How do you, you know, get rid of water retention that sometimes we think it's like fat, but it's actually just water weight. And so when we incorporated like the shower gel, the body butter, the scrub, it became more like a ritual.
32:24Like you start in the shower, you start in stimulating your skin with the scrub and then the shower gel, which is really refreshing. And then after that, you move on into your, you know, lymphatic drainage products. And it became kind of like, this is your ritual that you're going to do from, you know, the shower to to the lotion and now we have the oil so like there's different options also for people because some people don't love lotions so now we made the oils the oils can also be used in your face so you can do lymphatic drainage on your face with the gua sha and everything well that's what i was gonna say so the craziest thing if you look at my face like i have really nice to find cheekbones right yes but i have gua sha every single day really for five years and if i if you look at pictures like my husband actually when he was coming to my family house the first time like all my pictures growing up I have this like really round face and he's like babe you lost a lot of weight like since we started dating and I'm like no it was literally using my gua sha to try to like get away that's amazing so you're the perfect model you know literally they have like videos on tiktok and they're like I've been doing this for forever look at my before and after and I'm like wow this is incredible because I I wasn't even doing gua sha on my face because I it wasn't a thing in Brazil is more like the body.
33:37And so I see this difference on TikTok posts and stuff. And I'm like, wow, this is actually like amazing. No, it's like life changing. It's like my that's amazing. If there is one thing, if people are looking to glow up, I always tell them to start Gua Sha one because it is a little self ritual, right? And I think everyone in this world needs that. And two, I think it's the most inexpensive thing that you can do to actually change the shape of your face in a way that elevates you exactly what does it feel like to have your brand on the shelves of Nordstrom when you walk in and you're like that's mine crazy they sent us a picture and at first I was like I don't think this is real like I have to go see it and so we were in New York and we were actually doing an event with them um to do the launch and everything and so we arrived there and Drew is like filming me and I'm like like there is my reaction of like seeing it and I'm like I can't believe it like I really can't because when we started the brand also I used to take the packaging and I used to bring the packaging to different big retailers so like a Sephora or Target and I would used to put them in the shelves and just imagine that they were there and like manifest and pray that one day we will be like in a big retailer and I actually have pictures of it of those like just packaging of our brands besides brands that I love or just like that and we'll be dreaming about it and now like seeing it for real like besides so many other brands that I love I always loved Nordstrom I always loved shopping there and it just feels like I don't know I didn't even dream about that like in a way like you dream about it but you don't believe it's gonna happen and then when it happens you're like wow like we did this you know it's really it's really great that's obviously a high high of the business yeah has there ever been a low where you were like, I cannot do this and I just want to go back to being a model or just become a stay at home wife?
35:33I mean, there has been so many lows, like really so many lows, like we ran out of money so many times, like there is like many lows, I guess. And it's like this constant, you know, high and lows, I say like for founders. But I think like one of like the biggest lows, I used to have all the products in my house because we started this brand, we didn't have like anything. So like, I'm, I have the production, everything is in my house. Like I'm storing everything in my house. I'm making the boxes out of my house. The office is in my house. Like everything is in my house at this time. I'm not living with Drew yet.
36:06We don't really know each other yet. Like I'm living in my apartment and there was this two years ago, this season in LA that was raining every day. Like there was a lot of rain. I don't know if you remember this, monsoon season literally yeah but there was this one specific year which i think it was 2022 that it or three that it rained so much and my ceiling of my apartment fell on top of like all the products and all like our our office um and like just really important stuff like got lost and like documents and stuff like got like flooded like my bed was like flooded and you know my mattress I had to like throw it away and at the time like we didn't have much you know like we didn't make a huge production in the beginning and so that was one of the times that I was like what am I doing you know like maybe I should just give up and you know just yeah maybe just go be a housewife or something I don't actually think like housewife I don't think that was in my head but definitely like giving up was sometimes the thought I had in some situations yes that happened At that time, everything was kind of blurred.
37:19And I think that's the reality for a lot of people listening to this. They start with a business. It's all in their house. Like even to this day, we're recording the podcast in my house. With the business now, what are some of the boundaries that you have with like having it not be all encompassing in your life to be able to have the different hats that you wear, being a fiance, being a great friend, like doing things other than just being the founder and CEO of Genchi? A lot of the times we didn't have money to do the stuff that I wanted to do to create those boundaries. So like now that the brand is a little more established, like we have a 3PL.
37:54So we have somebody that's like do the boxes and the orders and everything for us. So like we don't do that anymore. So that saves a lot of like time. And like Nicole used to be always in my house, like doing the boxes and everything. And like then she started doing the boxes in her house. And then we had like a little storage place that we rented. so like all of that stuff like now it's like built in a different way like the brand is like we have like different call times with different people that are like our ads company it's this day and then this like everything is like set up and like we have weekly meetings with different like people that collaborate and work with us our production in brazil like and it's more organized in that way so like i can take time off to like go to paris and be with my mom and not have to like constantly work worry about like what's gonna happen if like I'm not here and I'm not doing all this stuff so like now there is this like possibility to create those moments where like I can go and travel with Drew or I can like enjoy this time you know trying my wedding dress and not have to worry but yes today is a Monday and I woke up with a million things that I have to do so it's a it's a balance that you create but like the boundaries are like becoming more and more like real for us and I know that like Nicole appreciate that a lot because she used to like, Nicole really, she does wear a lot of hats in the company.
39:12And I think as we grow and we have like different, you know, like people like involved in helping us and like hiring like this third parties, things get easier. And, you know, we're just like in that very like spot in the business where like things are like happening. Yes, exactly. And so it's nice to have like a bigger, you know, team in a way. And it gets you to be able to be in feminine a little bit more. And I feel like my whole life until I met my husband, like I felt like I was forcing everything. I was like running through walls and like trying to make things happen. And my favorite saying for my husband is like life is a dance between making things happen and letting things happen.
39:50And I think for the first time in my life, I've like allowed things to happen for me, but I don't think it can take away the decades of hard work to get you there. But it's so hard when you're in those moments, because then when it all starts happening for you, you're like, but I would never be here without putting in that grind. Right. For sure. It's so hard to be able to get to that point. But when it's there, it's like so happy. Yes, I'm like, sometimes when you think about like giving up and all of that, but like fighting through it and like making it happen, like now I'm like so grateful.
40:23I'm like, I'm actually like happy that even the hard parts happened because it gave me also like clarity and like ways that I saw things like in a different way, like it just builds you up, you know, in a different way. And so now that like things are like moving forward, it feels like more fulfilling even because I was there for like the hard parts, too. I wasn't just like, you know, let's put my name on a brand and let other people run it. Like I really ran this brand since day one. And so like knowing that like I touched every little thing that like involves the making of this brand is fulfilling to this point.
41:01I love that. Yeah. OK, I have to ask you some rapid fire because I can talk to you forever. Mari. Yes. What is the last thing you put on your credit card? I think it was my Scapparelli bag that I just bought in Paris. You didn't buy one thing from the airport? No. I went to the airport. I dropped my mom off first because my mom doesn't speak English. So how does she communicate with Drew? They don't communicate. It's through me. They do communicate with ICE, you know? And also Drew and my dad. The first time that Drew met my dad, I know you were in a rapid fire. No, I love it. Keep going. But we went to Brazil for a carnival because I was like, you need to be a part of my culture.
41:40You need to see like where I come from and everything. And he was so down. So like he came and he was in Brazil with me for like 10 days. And one of the days we went to my city to meet my dad because he hadn't met my dad yet. It's only my mom. And so he came and my dad is like, my dad is much older than my mom. He was 19 years older than her. So like he could be my grandfather. And so he's like 80, I think now. When they met, like I remember exactly because it was so cute. and I almost cried because like they just looked at each other and they couldn't really say anything and they just like hugged each other you know like that really like hugged or like kind of like do this in the back and then my dad said welcome to the family for him he practiced in English I think so I'm like I don't know that you know how to say this but then we had a whole dinner and everything and I was like translating things back and forth and I like when we said goodbye it was like kind of like the same hug that they gave each other and like they just looked each other in the iron watches i was just like this is so cute because sometimes you don't need words no but yeah so my mom i had to drop her off she also doesn't speak english to like just help like in paris like the terminals are like not connected so i had to drop her off in her terminal first even though my flight was first but yeah so i i was i was in a rush you know so like because then i went to my terminal and i was just like i gotta board this plane you know so so you just got a bag in the meantime yeah i got a bag right before yeah i guess it's funny because i was actually about to ask you like i read that you made the first move which was at a party and you saw him so you just went up to him because like what attracted you to him no we knew each other okay we always knew each other in like passing and like he would like dm me sometimes and i just be like no or like wouldn't answer because you know like there is this stereotype about djs which there is also about models like you know DJs they're womanizers and all this stuff and I'm just I'm like I'm not trying to get into this you know like I was 32 when we met and I'm like looking for something more serious and I just would say hi whatever at parties and yes at this party we were at the Oscars party at Guy Osiris and he was at a bar my friends went to a bathroom and I was like okay, I'm going to get a drink.
43:52And he was there. So I just said, hi. And we just started talking like meaningless stuff. And then he got like deeper and he started asking me these really like interesting questions about life. How did I see my life going in terms of like relationship and work? And it just became like this really long conversation. Then we got another drink and he got my number and like, we knew each other for like two years. I've seen him at the same party the year before, but nothing happened. And then he got my number and started texting me and everything. And then everything else happened really fast after that.
44:27Were you always one of those girls that dreamt of your wedding? No, I didn't want to have a wedding at all. And Drew was like really wanting to do like this huge wedding. And we're now meeting in the middle. Our wedding is really small. And it's around like 60 people. I don't have that dream. I would rather not, or like do a really, really small, like just immediate family. And he's like, no, I have all my friends. I need to, you know, invite all these people that I love and everything. And like, I have a problem about like being vulnerable in front of people that I don't know. Like, I don't like to share like the very, very like deep things about my life with people that I don't know.
45:10And I just feel like it's more special when you keep it you know to the close people with that are in your life yeah that was one of my main reasons but I also understand why he wants to share you know so like we kind of like met in the middle so I never really like dreamed of it but now that it's happening and I'm very involved with like organizing it it's really is a dream okay this one what is your third place so you know how Starbucks tried to like become the third place for people there's like work and home what is your third place? I feel like it's hanging out with my dog. That's really cute.
45:48Yeah. You have a Rottweiler. Yes. That's what I really want. Oh my gosh. It's the best dog ever, but it's dangerous. Courtney wants like a little 15 pound little thing. And I'm like, babe, I'm such like a German shepherd Rottweiler type girl. I am like that too. But was it your idea or Drew's idea? No, Drew already had this dog when we started this thing. And now it's my dog. Like, I'm sorry. Like it's my dog, but I'm very possessive of him and he loves me so much. And we are cute. Yes. That's adorable. Yes. Okay. Pilates or weights? Pilates. Brazilian winter or Euro summer? Euro summer. Oh my God.
46:32Mari, really? Yeah. Okay. What is your favorite thing in your closet right now? And it could be Drew's. I don't know. That's such a hard question. I just also got a Scarborough shoes that maybe is my favorite thing right now. Okay. Is it true that Hailey Bieber designed your engagement ring? No. Oh, but she did help me with one tip. Yes. Okay. She told me to whatever shape I was going to get to get an elongated one. Because when she got her new ring, she was like, it's not actually that much bigger than the other ring. But she just got an elongated version. And she was like, whatever you're going to get, just tell Drew to get elongated.
47:12So I was like, oh, I didn't even know about this. So, yes, she helped. Yeah. OK, I love that. OK, abs or a butt workout. You can only do one for the rest of your life. Butt. Brazilian butt. Of course. Always. Would you rather go for a run or walk? Walk. Yeah, I'm like that, too. You're like a low impact early. Yeah. Drew loves running. He's like into the running thing right now. and I'm like, great, have fun. I don't, no, I can't. Skincare or glam? Skincare. Mari, what can people in the community help you with right now? Are you hiring roles? Like where can they go buy your products? Like give the community what they can do to help you.
47:56Well, you guys can buy the products at our websites or Nordstrom's or - And can we give a discount code? We'll do a discount code. Let's do a discount code, yes. HSR 20. Yes. I think just, I guess, like educate yourself on lymphatic drainage. Like if you're curious about it, like we have a lot of videos on our website that, you know, explain how to do it. Explain what's the lymphatic system and why is it good to take care of it. And I guess, I don't know. Stay hot. Stay hot, Smart Rich. Exactly. Thank you so much for coming on. Where can people find you? On my Instagram, Mari Fonseca, and Gente's Instagram is Gente Beauty and our website, gentebeauty.com.
48:40And that is G-E-N-T-E. Yes. And why Gente? Like, what does it mean? Gente means people. So it's for everyone. We wanted to make a brand that was for everybody. And also, gente is a word that I say a lot in Portuguese. It's like an expression. It's like, oh my God. like when you try to say something to somebody like gente i have to tell you something gente you don't know what that person did it's like or somebody does something that's annoying you're like gente it's an expression but it also means people so it's like two different things that i say all the time and that i have a tattoo that says gente and a lot of my american friends and like even drew they just says like gente for everything now too instead of like oh my god or like wow or they just be like gente you have to tell you something so it's like an expression but it also means people.
49:31So it's just the truth. I love that. I knew I was going to love you because Patrick Finnegan introduced us who actually introduced me to my husband. Oh my God, I love that. So anytime Patrick says to meet somebody and from our first phone conversation, I knew you were going to be so special. I'm so excited to see where this brand goes and thank you so much for coming on and thanks for listening, HSR. Thank you for having me.
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Mari Fonseca breaks down what it really takes to build a brand with no formal business education or understanding of finance – and why she walked away from a long, successful career as a model.
Mari Fonseca is a former international model and the founder of Gente, a body care company focused on lymphatic drainage and wellness rituals - now Hailey Bieber’s favorite brand in this space. In this conversation, she shares why she dropped out of college at 16, how she became an entrepreneur, and the practical steps, mindset shifts, and challenges she faced turning her idea into a real business. Mari also opens up about her relationship with Drew from The Chainsmokers, and why building a business felt like the only path that truly aligned with her ambitions - rather than stepping into a more traditional role.
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[00:00] Intro
[2:19] Growing Up in Brazil & Leaving Home At 16 To Model
[5:32] Reliving Your Childhood as an Adult
[6:33] The Harsh Reality of the Modeling Industry
[9:57] Breaking the “Pretty, Not Smart” Stereotype As A Model
[11:27] From Cash to Equity: Rethinking How to Build Wealth
[13:51] Why I Feel More Confident In My 30s Than I Did In My 20s
[15:40] The Hardest Part About Leaving Modeling for Business
[17:48] Why I Don’t Enjoy Modeling Anymore
[18:17] How People Treat Me Differently as a Business Owner
[19:38] Fundraising as a Female Founder: What I Learned
[23:15] Why Big Followings Don’t Always Drive Sales
[24:37] Hailey Bieber Favorite Brand: The Halo Effect
[26:20] How Long It Takes to See Gente Lymphatic Results
[27:30] My Lymphatic Drainage Routine & Glow Tips
[29:08] Turning Gente Into a Self-Care Ritual
[30:42] The Most Effective Way to Glow Up
[31:49] How I Manifested My Beauty Brand Into Nordstrom
[33:10] The Lows of Starting My Business
[35:01] The Boundaries Every Business Owner Needs
[38:47] Rapid Fire: From “I Didn’t Want a Wedding” to Latest Purchase
[45:29] Gente Discount Code & Where to Follow Mari
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