The Real Cost of Love, Business, and Building To $100M Together (Siff & Nish, Arrae)

3 Sep 2025 · 49 min

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Podcast Episode Summary: The Real Cost of Love, Business, and Building To $100M Together (Siff & Nish, Arrae)

Podcast Details

  • Title: Hot Smart Rich
  • Host: Maggie Sellers
  • Episode: The Real Cost of Love, Business, and Building To $100M Together
  • Guests: Siff Haider and Nish Samantray, co-founders of Arrae

Episode Overview In this episode, Siff Haider and Nish Samantray, co-founders of Arrae, share their journey from not having any safety net as immigrants in the U.S. to scaling their wellness brand to a $100 million valuation. They discuss the sacrifices made, including skipping their wedding to invest in their business, and delve into the dynamics of being partners in both love and business.

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Key Discussion Points

Immigration Journey

  • Initial Challenges: Siff and Nish discussed the difficulties of immigrating to the U.S., particularly the visa situation which added pressure to their entrepreneurial journey.
  • Decision to Move: They moved to the U.S. as most of their sales were from American customers, making it logical to build their team locally.

Wedding vs. Business Investment

  • Wedding Sacrifice: They chose to invest their wedding budget into their business, believing that it would yield better long-term happiness and fulfillment.
  • Planning Frustration: They found wedding planning to be stressful and unenjoyable compared to the energizing experience of building Arrae.

Business Growth

  • Rapid Scaling: Arrae grew from $1 million in its first year (2020) to a projected $100 million in revenue by 2025.
  • Secret to Success: Their success lies in a combination of gut instincts for trends and thorough data analysis, alongside a strong focus on solving specific problems for their customers.

Roles and Responsibilities

  • Natural Division of Work: Siff and Nish naturally gravitated towards roles that suited their strengths, which improved their efficiency and productivity.
  • Debate Culture: They encourage healthy debates within the company to ensure the best decisions are made, despite sometimes having heated discussions.

Company Culture

  • Team Dynamics: The founders emphasized the importance of fostering a competitive yet supportive environment that values winning and shared goals.
  • Customer Engagement: They treat their customers as influencers, ensuring that customer experiences are on par with those of traditional influencers.

Financial Mindset

  • Business vs. Personal Finances: Nish highlighted a shift in how they perceive money; in business, it’s viewed as a mathematical tool, while personal finances have evolved from a scarcity mindset to a more abundant perspective.

Future Vision

  • Long-Term Goals: Siff and Nish expressed their desire to continue running Arrae for the foreseeable future, focusing on building a legacy rather than selling the business.
  • Exploration of New Ventures: They aspire to branch into new business lines while reinforcing their commitment to wellness and customer satisfaction.

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Key Takeaways

  • Life Decisions: Sacrificing a wedding for business investment can yield greater rewards in the long run.
  • Strong Partnership: A successful business partnership can thrive alongside a romantic relationship if both parties are aligned in vision and values.
  • Importance of Culture: Building a strong, winning culture within a company fosters motivation and commitment from employees.
  • Data-Driven Insights: Combining gut feelings with data analysis can lead to innovative product development and trend forecasting.

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Conclusion This episode provides a raw and inspiring look into the entrepreneurial journey of Siff Haider and Nish Samantray, illustrating the costs and rewards of prioritizing business over traditional milestones. Their story is one of resilience, partnership, and a commitment to creating meaningful products for their community.

For more insights, listeners can follow Arrae on Instagram and TikTok or check out Siff’s podcast, The Dream Bigger Podcast.

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1:10Sif and Nish, welcome to Hot Smart Rich. Are you ready to get Hot Smart Rich? Let's go. So excited. I'm honestly so excited that we're here because I've known both of you guys independently, but definitely together. And I haven't seen you guys do a lot of together interviews, have you? We don't do that many. No. I think maybe the last one was when we did Lauren and Michaels. Yeah, that one. And we did one together on your podcast. Yeah, I love that one. No, we don't really do that one very often. Is that intentional or people just like don't ask? It's not intentional. Honestly, I think our time is like very limited.

1:46Yeah. And so we try to divide and conquer. And then also, I think it's tough to interview two people. And Nish and I both have a lot of personalities. So I feel like, I don't know. like it's only the pose we only yeah we only like going on podcasts where people ask us like good questions and insightful so we can say something about it because otherwise we've been on like in the early days we were on podcasts together where someone asked a question and Siff and I Siff would be like Nish get me out of this podcast right now you guys are making me so nervous now because I'm like oh about the pressure come on this is gonna be amazing this is gonna be you hang out with us enough to like know everything no this is like I remember I remember the one you were talking with I was like so funny Okay, well, let's start here because we are all technically from Canada.

2:32We are. You guys are actually, were you guys born in Canada? No. No. Okay, so you both emigrated to Canada and now you guys have emigrated here. We kind of moved at a similar-ish time frame. Can we just quickly talk on, like, how traumatic that experience was for you guys? I think, Maggie, it hit me harder than it hit Nish. And it's funny because I'm someone who's like very calm, typically like things don't really ruffle my feathers, but the, the visa situation was like hard. And so it was actually really nice for me to get to depend on you. He was like very calm through it. He's like, I don't know why you're worried.

3:09It's going to be fine. And I was like, how do you know that? Yeah. Because I think like the thing that people don't understand about if you're an immigrant building a business in the States is you don't only have the pressure of building the business and it failing on itself. You also have the pressure of like, can I sign a lease? At one point, if you don't even have a social security number, like you don't even have a bank account here. Like I remember the first walk we went for and you were like, I can't drive. I don't have a bank account. All of the money that I'm spending in the States is on a Canadian currency.

3:37It was insane. It was crazy. Why did you guys decide to leave Canada to build your business to move to the States? So what really happened is when we started the company, this inherently majority of our sales and our customers were in the U.S. Just inherently? Just right from the get-go, organically. And so we started the business, you know, March 2020. Literally by May, 90 % of sales were in the U.S. And so obviously we started, you know, nurturing those customers. And all of a sudden the business is bigger here. Then we started hiring more people here. and so it just made more sense for us to build a portion of the team in the U.S.

4:17So like all of our marketing team, a lot of our product development team is all based out of here. And so for us, it was like, okay, we have to be here because we want to be physically be with the team. And like for us, like building remotely is a part of what we do, but a lot of our primary kind of big ideas come under in person. And so even today, a lot of the team works together in person. So we just knew we had to be in the U.S. for that. And also for Sif and I, like the investors that we wanted to work with, the people that we wanted to work with, it was all here. So we just really wanted to move here as quickly as possible.

4:47Also, I think being a wellness brand, I think L.A. is really, I would say, one of the wellness capitals of the world. And so our intention when we thought of living in the U.S. was never to live in L.A. It was actually to live in New York. L.A. was kind of an accident. We came here actually to be on Lauren and Michael's podcast. And we were here for 10 days. And Nish and I were like, wait, like all the wellness trends are starting here. Like people are so ahead that it doesn't make sense for a wellness company to be headquartered anywhere but L.A. And so that's kind of how it happened. And then, of course, like even just from a personal wellness standpoint, living in L.A.

5:25is incredible. And I mean, I love New York and I love the energy that we get in New York. Don't get me wrong. But from a wellness standpoint, our quality of life is just just objectively better. You know, I get to walk outside in the morning. I'm just someone who gets more ideas that way. So it's just been really beneficial from both a business, but then also like a founder health and wellness perspective as well. Let me ask you guys, this is very controversial. Where I really wanted to start with you guys was going all the way back to deciding to like take the money for your wedding and actually put it into your business.

5:54And I don't think that I have met many people in Canada that do that. Whereas like that was almost a non-negotiable for you guys, where it was like, why would we do that when we could go and build for ourselves so when you guys had decided to get married and you made that decision can you just like take everyone through one like your love story of whatever you're comfortable talking about of like what that was actually like to come together and two especially for you guys once people hear like how significant that moment could be why you decided to spend that money in your business instead of on your wedding so I mean we met I mean it's our 13 year anniversary and like this Friday not Thursday Thursday what are you doing for it Nish we're going for dinner somewhere you guys go for dinner every week guys one of the things I love about you is like constant date night please be better Nish we you're right we were talking about it and we're like well what do we do and it's like we can't go on a trip because we're actually going on a trip like on Sunday for work okay and so it's not like I mean and also when your schedule is so packed it's like Nish hit me up for some ideas for Sip okay I will I actually will.

7:02I mean, he knows like my wish list for gifts and vice versa. So I guess we'll like get each other nice. We'll make something happen. We'll make something good happen. But yeah, we've like, we've been together for a long time. And both of us have always been very career focused. So I would say, you know, I, prior to Array, I was a creator. Nish was extremely successful in fintech. But we knew that at some point we wanted to work together on something. What that would be was undecided. for me I was always someone who I wasn't going to work on something unless it was like very meaningful to me personally that's just how I am and I'm also someone who's very like how can I make a difference in the world so when we found that idea it was kind of a no-brainer like for us I think I speak but also like you're such a girl's girl that like if you like you know the way that you think about Nish or you feel about him like was there ever a part of you that was like a tough decision of like it's either investing into my business or investing into the wedding you know what happened maggie we had started to plan our wedding and i was like this sucks like this is like the planning process is really like just hectic and then when we started to work on array we were like wait like this is so easy and so fun and so good for us both like it was like really energizing yeah it's like planning the wedding was the opposite of that and thankfully sif and i have all some people who we don't do things that we don't like to do and so like the moment when we started doing something and it feels like shitty, we stopped doing it.

8:31And so planning the wedding, thinking about that, like getting all of our families organized around that kind of stuff, it was so much work and not in a good way that we were just like, you know what, we don't want to do this. COVID hit when we started the business and it almost gave us like the perfect excuse to not host a wedding. And also we really wanted to work on the business and the business needed money. And so for us, we're just like, okay, let's just take this money and do this because it brings some more happiness we really believe in it and we actually don't want to do the wedding and we really want to do this like that's really what it felt yeah and then also we we always said that like we can always have a wedding like okay fine it won't be traditional but i wouldn't call nishanai's i guess like thought process around our relationship traditional but that's fine like i think that that's why we're so good together and our our focus has always been our marriage and not a wedding you know and i think that's what so many people miss the point of is it's like about the day and how big and especially with TikTok like I think over the last two years even with like specific celebrities that have blown up because of their wedding it has become like something I think other than what it is really meant to be and I think like you guys embody that exact type of partnership you want to find where it's not a day it's about the journey because especially like did you guys have the same vision of where your life would be like forget just the business but like the life and the world that you guys have created, has that always been aligned?

9:55Yeah, I would say so. Yeah, we like we always we always knew what we wanted. We've both been really big dreamers and we were not people who settle. That's the thing. And so it was always sky's the limit. We've always pushed ourselves. And so, I mean, I feel like we're just scratching the surface even right now. Like there's so much left that we want to do. So if I remember I asked you when we were in London a few weeks ago for Barney's wedding, Like I was, it was kind of getting to me of like getting in my head and like people just like even posting, I was saying like, it's hard sometimes when I haven't answered like so many people's text messages and I'm like posting and you looked at me and you were like, fuck it.

10:32Like, this is your job. And I just think like that mentality of how sure you've always been and how ambitious and like you both share that. Like, have you guys always been that way or has it brought it out in each other since you met each other? I think Nish and I bring out the best in each other. And for sure, you know, I think as you mature and as you put yourself in a more and more healthy dynamic, I think your confidence just continues to grow. And so I think that for me, Nish has been like a very foundational rock in my life. And so he's just always encouraged me even in moments where I've maybe felt a little bit shaky to just, you know, be like sure of myself.

11:12And so those things, like worrying about, oh, like if I do this, what are people perceiving of me? Like I feel like I've just been able to shed it more and more over time, I would say. For sure. And I think what's really cool is that like SIF's been that in a different way. And so you know how different people are inherently different. So for some people, lying comes really easy to them. And so they'll just lie blatantly, right? So like, for example, for me, doing something that I don't like, it really irks me. So I've just never been that kind of person to do that. But for other people, they might do that because they feel an obligation to someone else or whatever they're doing.

11:47So I think when you hang out with someone else to – for someone else, which seems so easy to do that kind of stuff. Yeah. It's like, okay, you learn from that really easily. You know what I mean? It seems like you guys have always been on the same page. Like going back to the wedding, it's like you saved up$484 ,000 before you guys started your business. And that so easily could have been put into like this extravagant thing. but you guys have always been aligned that it's like, this is what we're doing. So I guess like when you took that money and you like took a huge bet on yourself and you were like, we're going to start this business.

12:18Like, did you already have this like set? Like this is my roles and responsibilities and this is my roles and responsibilities or has it just like naturally formed? I think it's really naturally formed. Yeah. I think we, right from the beginning though, we knew what we were both good at. So obviously at the beginning you're doing everything. And then you get to a point where you're like, wait, this is a really poor use of our time. And like, we don't need to both be doing every single thing that's ridiculous and so I think we were both hyper aware of what we were each good at and so over time it's like those things we've kind of gone into each of our silos and also like there's obviously things we work on together but I think that just realizing becoming hyper aware of what we're good at and you know there have been times where I've been like oh like should I be on this call or this or what whatever and Nish has been like why would you it's a waste of your time if you're sitting on this with me when you could be using your brain for something else and so it's just become you've become more and more comfortable with that over time as well yeah for sure and i think you know initially obviously there's certain things that matter to both of us a lot but it's really crazy because you know there used to be a time where i used to be able to i used to sit on marketing calls and she used to sit on on like finance calls and then i was just like this is the biggest waste of time yeah like why are you in this call why am I on that call I'm adding zero value you're adding zero value here and so we're very naturally kind of flown into very specific roles that we're now part of and honestly I think this works even better because we're not overlapping on things that we don't need to overlap on and you're working on complete different parts of the business so it just like makes it even better do you guys ever disagree on like big decisions yeah 100 % do you an example of one I mean like product product is the one that we work on I was gonna say like that seems like the biggest overlap, right?

14:01Okay. So like, have you guys ever really fundamentally disagreed about a decision? Oh my God. Literally all the time. How do you guys work that out? We debated out and it's funny because I think initially when team members start and they see that they're like a little bit like shocked, but we always, I think we lead by example when we say that, like, you have to debate to get to the right answer. And so we encourage that same thing from our team as well that like if one of us is suggesting something that is inherently like not aligned with goals of the business or whatever then they should also have the ability to debate us on that so for sure like i mean it was even last week we like got into like a very heated debate on something for sure but the thing is maggie like we debate in the sense like we're actually like arguing like we're very intensely but very um uh articulately arguing about why we think the opposite thing and then what that forces us to do is it asks you like okay and then what and then what and then what so you're thinking of almost like the 10th order consequence of each decision yeah and so like we're thinking through that we're arguing through it and it's like very heated but I genuinely think is we get the best decision because we care so much about it you know what I mean I agree I think it's so interesting because I don't really think people understand the size and the velocity of the business that you guys have built.

15:22You talked to me last year about potentially doing 20 million of revenue in 2024. Did you hit that number? Yeah, way more than that. So are you comfortable to share the size of Array for 2025? Yeah, so we're gonna do over 100 million dollars this year. And, and we started the business in 2020. And so in 2020, it was a million dollar business. And now it's over 100 million dollar business. Can you repeat that? So in 2020, it was a million dollar business we started in march of 2020 in december of 2020 we did the first million dollars it's 2025 we're gonna do over 100 million dollars how does that feel it feels absolutely surreal yeah like there's like we i know honestly because we reflect back on these things and it feels absolutely surreal it's it's actually insane because i remember at one point it was around the 20 mark where we were like okay we see the clear path to 50 but we don't see the clear path to 100 and then we saw all of a sudden it was like a series of things and then we were like we see the path to 100 and now it's like we clearly see the path way beyond that so it's a very surreal thing that happens i i don't even know how to explain it in words but like i remember when a million was a big deal to us of course like doing a million dollars in your first year of business is extremely hard to do.

16:39Like, but 5Xing that, like in that time period in five years is, is honestly unheard of. Like Courtney, my boyfriend has made like over 300 personal investments. And when he heard your numbers, like he turned to me and was like, you do not see that. Like he's been investing for 15, 20 years. Like he sees that very, very rarely. What do you think it has been that has gotten you to that point? I honestly think it's because we're like, we seek the truth, like always. And so every question we're like, okay, so what do people actually want? You know, how do you tell that though? Because so many people that are listening want to start a wellness brand, right?

17:21Like VMS supplements is probably the most like sought after category. It's repeatable. It's something that people do in a ritual every single day. Like it's the biggest trend right now is the wellness industry but i think it again you guys are that exception to the rule like i think what people are listening is like how do you get to the truth how do you keep finding the right answer time and time again like what is the pattern of that honestly i think like we always ask the question of like what problem are we solving like that's where we're starting because a lot of it's exactly what you said maggie a lot of people we talk to they're like i want to get into vms because the category is really it's like it's a hot category it's not good enough yeah that's not why you start the company in VMS.

18:01It's not that this is the hot category. It's the hot category for certain reasons, but like even within VMS, like of the thousands and thousands of companies, there's only very few really good ones. And so I think we're always asking the question of like what problem are we solving, especially with the products. So when talking about products, I think you guys have always been on trend with like MB1, constipation, tone, below, creatine tone. I put that in my newsletter, like for all the reasons, but you guys have always been ahead of it. so when you guys are designing your products and you're looking at like the problem you're not looking at like what is the trend right now you're looking how does it start yeah it's too late when I like really need people to understand that once you're seeing something and it's trendy it's too late but how are you always ahead of the trends if I okay so there's two things I think that one of the things that I do in the company is oftentimes trend forecasting I don't I can't explain to you how I have a premonition about these things, but I do.

18:58And then we always back that up with data. So we're looking at what are the studies that are coming out? Like, is there an increase in volume of studies? Clinical studies. Clinical studies, correct. And then we'll obviously like look at ingredient trends as well, because that then tells us, okay, like if there's an ingredient trend, does that tell us about macro trend and what people are looking for? Like what problem they want solved? We are also talking to our customers. we do like really intense surveys and focus groups as well. So I would say that I get a gut feeling. And then after that, or like any of us get a gut feeling.

19:28Okay. And then after that, it's like, you know, triangulated with heavy, heavy data. And so I feel like that would be like our secret, which is that it's, it's both a combination of gut feeling along with like a lot of data to back it up as well. So we're doing the work to follow our gut and just like our instincts as founders. But But then at the same time, it's not just like, oh, I feel like it. Like there is, I have to be able to. But can I be honest? Like, you know, like I feel like even if you didn't do all the data piece of it, is that I feel like it, which holds like 90 % of the percentage.

20:01Yeah, it really is. And is it both of your gut instincts or it's SIFS? It's actually SIFS specifically. Like SIFS is really, really, really good at that. She's really good at that. And so what she will do is she'll be like, okay, Nish, I have a gut feeling about these five things. And I'll be like, no, it's going to be that thing within the five things. because like we just have an idea based on the data piece of it obviously but sith always knows so i feel like that can be and i have a really good gut intuition as well like the psychic that we see said that i'm kind of like a witch but it's sometimes really distracting because you get senses or you get like oh this is over there you guys have built a hundred million dollar business off of how many products eight eight yes max yeah you guys have built a hundred million dollar business off of eight products.

20:43Like what I see is such a failure of new entrepreneurs today is like they just get so distracted and put out so much stuff to the market. How have you guys created new news with eight products in five years to get to a hundred million dollars? I think you have to be so intentional. And the thing is that each product we release, we know it's a blockbuster product. Okay. Like it's like a hit every time. It's a hit. That's what we're betting on. And honestly, like this is, this is very much a niche thing where he has expectations for how each product should do. And that's either a failure or a success.

21:19And so what we pin ourselves to is like something that is going to hit the market. It's going to bring in a certain amount of revenue per year. And that is the sign of success. And so we take our time with our products. We do three max four releases in a year. It takes us two plus years to formulate every product and best rest assured that when it's going to market, it's not just a rinky dink, like one ingredient thing that's going to top up like a million dollars in revenue. That's not our business model. It's like we are solving the big shit that people want solved. And I feel like the marketing evolution is growing as well.

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24:01We've built one of the most powerful communities of women at the intersection of consumer, capital, and culture. So join us with the paid version of our newsletter free for three months with the link in the show notes to claim your free offer. I guess like my question to that is sometimes I think entrepreneurs or founders specifically are best from like zero to 50. Where do you guys feel like the business is at in terms of your guys' skillset? And like, where are you best? And how are you protecting the business almost from yourselves to keep the trajectory it's on? So you know, it's really interesting, Maggie.

24:33We thought about this a lot, but Sif and I are like multi-billion dollar founders. Like, I don't think we're ever gonna run out of steam. And also we want to build like massive, massive businesses. So I don't think a business is ever going to get too big for us to handle. And so anything, you know, when we build these businesses, whenever it grows and grows and grows, it actually feels more and more akin to our type of business. And so the bigger it gets, the more we feel empowered to be able to run it. Because I just think we're both really meant to have kind of be building and operating businesses aside.

25:08And so we're never going to hire people above us to be able to do that because we feel so good at it. But thankfully, what we are doing is we're just hiring better and better and better talent every single day. And so right now, like we have such an important kind of mindset and the way we tackle hiring and the kind of people that we are bringing on to the business that like every single person on our team is like top, top tier. And the way we operate, the way we do certain things in the business, it's a combination of us, like me learning from all the other pieces that I've worked at. And then half of them have been horrible.

25:43Half of them have been really, really good. I'm laughing because Nish and I worked at a company together and like had very similar experiences. But let's not put it on blast. So keep going. and so no but like you know at this point it's like okay if you're going to be a 500 million dollar business we're hiring that kind of employee today right and so so that's kind of the process is in terms of hiring at least but basically what i'm getting from this this is why i fucking love the podcast is like i'm just so fired up listening to you guys like you guys are just the anomaly and one of the things i've learned about your special sauce is the team structure it is fundamentally something I have never seen.

26:25And let me just try to explain what I view from the outside. And then I really want to dig into the why you guys have built an environment where it's like this perfect mix of friends meets boundaries, meets creativity, meets really hard workforce. You guys party with your team. You go to Coachella with your team. You take them to Tulum and dance on tables with your team. They are like an extension of you where I feel like if Alexa is representing the brand, it's like you train her to be that way. But like you guys didn't just hire like a players that had come from like the brands you aspire to.

26:59You actually like trained these people from almost like early stage of their career. Part of the thing that kills businesses is culture, right? Like people. So what are things that people can do that are going to inspire them to have a similar culture with the boundaries that you guys have also done at Array? honestly I think the very first thing is like to win because our team loves winning they like being number one they like seeing results and so for I think getting all your people surrounded and like really aligned with like the mission and like what you want to do and be like okay guys this is the goal this is where we're going and like this is what every single one of you is kind of a big part every single week on a Monday like chant you're like this is what we're doing like is there like a tribal thing no no honestly the fact that we like to win you guys are very competitive yeah we're like it's either number one or nothing like if we are not number one it doesn't get number two is not good enough and everyone has that same mentality and so I think we have said it so often and like it's not just us by the way like we'll be on calls and someone else will be leading the call from our team and they're like well you know is this really the best you know And so everyone has that mentality.

28:11And so I think it's not just Nish and I. I feel like now it flows, like even to the new team members. Everyone knows that winning is our number one philosophy. Yeah, it's also really interesting because I think one of your philosophies, and I don't know your like brand values or whatever, but from the outside in, I actually think you guys were the first people that really started treating your customers like influencers. This was like, I don't know if this was from five years ago, but at least I noticed it three years ago. And I think brands have really followed suit. Why did you guys decide to make that decision?

28:40And do you still, as you grow and you bring in like the faces that you just brought in for tone, like how do you balance working with celebrities talent versus treating your customers like the influencers? Your customer is an influencer. Okay. And I'm just going to give you a very like basic example that everyone can relate to. You can see an influencer post about a product, but if your sister tells you about that product, you're going to make that purchase immediately. Okay. Your sister tells you, I bought this really good lip gloss. What are you going to do? You're going to go buy it. So if you are spending all your marketing dollars on just the influencers and the celebrities and completely neglecting your customer, that's where you lose out.

29:20So for us, right at the beginning, we said that our customers should be treated like influencers. And so when we started the brand, influencers and customers would be getting the same packaging. And we wanted the customer to have that same unboxing experience that an influencer would have because these are the people who are actually spending money on your brand. And more than that, they can actually give you the best feedback. And so if we treat our customers like influencers, they're the ones who are going to go tell all their friends and they're the ones who are going to be the most real with us.

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29:49So that is, I would say like a very sacred relationship and people should not be neglecting that like community events, community PR packages. Like those are just things that are inherently a part of our brand value as is Nish and I feeling connected to that customer as well. Like we're not out here just trying to be besties with influencers like Well, it's so funny because one of the other things I was going to say is like, you guys have some celebrity faces. Hailey Bieber has invested in your brand through a DM, right? You guys never leverage Hailey Bieber. Whereas like a lot of brands are like, as seen on Hailey Bieber.

30:23Why have you guys not leveraged that? I mean, look, we did early days. But then I think it's like you grow beyond that. There's like new news, you know? So at the beginning, like that was very exciting. and like incredible. And we're of course, like so, so grateful to her. I mean, she was a customer. Like she believed in us early, early, early days, but there's, you know, you can't, that can't be your only claim to fame. Totally. You know? And so I think for us, we've always been like, okay, what's the next, what's the next? Like, we can't just be talking about this thing that happened four years ago.

30:57Yeah. Like we're, we're way beyond that. Last year, you told me that if somebody offered you$300 million for your business, you would sell tomorrow. That is absolutely not the case. That's gone. I was going to say it's all changed I was like what is the number today? I honestly I don't think we have a specific number in mind honestly Maggie we really don't and because like right now Sif and I are having so much fun running the business like we're not even thinking about starting the business we're thinking of what can we do to run this business forever because we're having so much fun running it our employees are having so much fun running it like they're just saying that guys I am sad for the day you sell this business because like I don't know how it's going to be once you sell it And so for us, we just want to run this thing for as long as possible, as long as it grows super fast and maybe open different business lines with the array.

31:45I don't know, because the array stands for solving an array of different problems. And that's what it means. Like we're going to solve an array of different things. And so it's been always positioned and named after being an infinity business. And so maybe we'll keep running it forever. Yeah, if we can, like, I mean, it's funny because sometimes we'll have conversations about like, I don't know, like we have like certain offers or whatever, like conversations on the table. And Nish and I will discuss it. And I'm like, oh, Nish, like, I really don't even want to talk about that right now because I just I want to be in it right now.

32:17Like I like I love every day. I wake up every day and I have my dream job. So so does he. And I feel like we can optimize certain things to like the other day I was doing an exercise where I was like, OK, like what if if I were to do it? where to sell the business what are the things that I really want like why would I even do this and so I was distilling it down and I was like oh okay so what I'm looking for is like a little bit more freedom with my time and like being able to like I don't know like travel to xyz place right I'm like I can actually do that right now yeah I just have to like implement more systems and so for for me it's about finding those systems and like still continuing to live in the now because I have my dream job I was gonna say like part of the dream is that you guys get to work together like you guys are you spend more time at work than you do technically with your family right and I think that's one of the beautiful things I love about my now relationship you guys have done this for the last five years and you want to for the foreseeable future what are the boundaries that you think are an absolute non-negotiable to be able to have your dream job for this long together honestly I think that you got to really find flow in business where it doesn't carry into your whole life because the bigger the business gets the more people that we have to help us through really difficult situations, which allows us to be in more of a steady state period as opposed to a consistently high stress period.

33:35Yeah. Like, do you guys still do your like Sunday parasympathetic days? Is that what it's called? Okay. Can you explain what that is? Okay. So basically, okay. This is for anyone who feels the need to like constantly be productive. I had to shift my mindset to realize that being unproductive is the productive thing from my nervous system specifically. Okay. So I'm someone just in general, I deal with like low HRV and an elevated resting heart rate. I just have like a health situation going on there. And so this had gotten to the point where I was just like fatigued. And so I was like, okay, like every Sunday, once a week, I want to do a parasympathetic day, which is things that I do.

34:17Like it's like a day that's like dedicated to nourishing my nervous system. So I will do things that aren't like, I don't know they don't like overwhelm or excite me you know so it's things like listening to like very calm jazz music I'm going to get acupuncture you know doing things that'll nourish me like long walks nothing like high intensity I don't like to do anything social on Sundays I will actually like say no to plans specifically on a Sunday because otherwise there were weeks where I'd go and it was like week after week I mean not only would I have work and being around people 24 7 and during the weekdays, but then also on a Saturday and a Sunday.

34:52And so that just takes a toll on you. And I start to notice this even, for example, like if we have people visiting and it's like weeks of that, right? Like whether it's like team members coming from like different cities or our families or friends visiting, whatever it is, if it's weeks and weeks of me not having any time to myself, I feel myself like more agitated and irritable and like just more heightened and I feel like that doesn't serve me from what I'm supposed to do at work. One of the things I've always wondered about you specifically Sif because I sometimes like want to just like be on the couch and shopping revolve and then that feels like work because I'm like now your image is a part of your personal brand and like then you're creating affiliate links and it just like turns it snowballs because there's this blurred line between like enjoyment of hobbies and then just like enjoyment for your life.

35:43And then there's like, now this is kind of becoming a job. Do you feel that same sense of blend of boundaries at all? Or is like part, because like your image, your look, your shopping is like something that people aspire towards. Is that something you're doing on Sundays? Or that is like a block in your calendar on like a Monday or a Wednesday. Be like, I need to plan my outfits for these events. Maggie, she's shopping all day, every day. Oh my God. Whenever I look over her laptop, it's always my three says open. always how do you know what my job is he sees the credit card bill something is always open no but I'm serious because don't you feel this blended like personal image into like your career now so okay for me my creative kind of release is fashion okay it's just fun for me so I will like sit at night and scroll on Pinterest like it's just fun for me it's like what I do to turn my brain off so it doesn't feel like work to me I will say when it starts to feel like that I'm like this is just like I don't like it so as an example we were going to Coachella and the amount of pressure women put on themselves oh my god it's actually it's out of control so then I I was like I'm actually not gonna buy anything for this I'm gonna buy I'm gonna have everything from my closet I like put like a very strict kind of budget on myself of like what I was allowed to spend on and it was like I think my budget was like$200 yeah okay because I didn't when you have too much out there where it's like everything's accessible then you're it you can spend hours yeah and days yeah who the hell cares yeah it's a music festival you know what I mean like it doesn't matter and so that's that was an example of where I had initially started to put so much pressure on myself and I was like fuck this absolutely not this is like a stupid waste of my time.

37:33And so then, you know, I think for me when it's fun, it's fun. And then if I don't want to do it, I just don't do it. Like it's exactly what Nish said. We're both people who, I don't know, like if it's not fun for us, we're not going to do it. Thankfully, this is something that's fun for me. And there are weeks, like, of course, like I was going through actually like, what was it? Like two weeks ago where I was feeling really like unmotivated to get dressed. And so I was like, okay, this is the week where I'm just doing comfy cozies. And so it's like sweaters and pants. Like I thankfully I've also built my wardrobe in a way that I don't have to use a ton of brain cells to get dressed and there's periods of time where I'm like very inspired to shop and you know like have like really crazy looks that I put together other times where I just rely on the basics that I have in my wardrobe but short answer is that it's just fun for me for the most part and so yeah so you're kind of like guilty pleasure not guilty pleasure but like what you like to spend your money on that you've earned is like fashion and clothes and like that's fun for you oh my god it's the most fun for me.

38:33Nish, what is the thing that you enjoy spending money on that you have earned the right to do? Look at his jacket. Do you know, we'll go on blast. Oh my God. We listen, we were in Paris. Nish was to the, the shopping got to a point for Nish where I was like, I would like to go to a museum. In fact, like, what are we doing? I was like, we need to leave. I was like, I have not had a meal. No, it's actually pretty bad. So fashion is your vice too? I really love it. Okay. I love it. And we bond on it. It's so fun. I love it. We both love it. I'm heavily inspired by fashion. Really, really inspired.

39:11Do you think that your relationship with money has shifted a lot since you started the business to where you guys are at today? Yeah, for sure. I mean, definitely. But more importantly, I think I've always thought about business, money and business separately than money and personal life. Because money and business is just a number. but money in personal life is emotional but ever since wait what do you mean by that um so money to me in business is like spend a dollar to get more than a dollar out of it yeah it's a tool it's a tool yeah and so it is you know even when it's like a hundred million dollars and i'm like we're spending very frequently like millions of dollars every month it doesn't feel like anything it's like okay yeah you're not like nervous depressed like why are the money yes exactly Yeah, wire the money.

39:54Because you're going to get more than that. It's very well thought out. It's all very systematic kind of thing. But in personal life, at least back in the day, it was such a lack mindset around money, which would just be like you must save more as opposed to make more. So that's obviously been a really big shift because now the limit to how much money we think we can make is just unlimited. And so you just start operating personal life in that sense as well. But also the way you systemize money in the way that like how it goes out, how it comes in, having checks and balances around that kind of stuff.

40:25I just implemented the same thing in my personal life. And so making purchases is not, uh, it's very mathematical. And so the whole operations of money, whether it's business or personal is so mathematical that it doesn't even like, I don't even think about it emotionally anymore. So if I want something, it becomes like a math equation, not like, can I like, should I get it or not? Yeah. It's not emotional at all. So you guys trust your gut with products and like where the trends are, but with money and purchases, it's like not your gut at all. It's like, does this make sense for us? Yeah. Yeah.

40:55Well, I mean, I think like this is obviously very basic and I'm sure your listener is given who you are. I mean, you teach this, but I think being responsible with what you're doing with your finances. And also if you're someone who doesn't, it doesn't come inherently to you. Like for me, personal finances was not something that was a strong suit for a really long time, but I kind of made it fun for myself. And so now like putting money away into like my investments is something that I really look forward to the same way that I'm excited to put money into like fashion, right? So I think once you take care of that, it's like, do I want to buy this sweater?

41:29Do I have like, you know, money that I, fuck you money that I can spend on a sweater? Yes, get the sweater. Yeah, I think it's so interesting because I love talking to people like you who have prioritized different aspects of what you spend money on at different times in your life. Like, I think I've been there with you guys through like not even having a car in LA to like now being able, it was like such a cool thing to just quickly highlight for both of them was like when I first moved to LA, so did they, they didn't have a car for like a bunch of reasons, but we would like go for walks and I would drive to you.

42:01and then getting to see like Nish give you the most balling Range Rover on your birthday was like the coolest 360 degree because it's like this happens for everyone that puts their head down and does the work and I think so many people like want to be at the end state already because that's where like you you think is the funnest part right you you have fucking money you can do it what you want but I think you guys have always had this principle of like just enjoying the process and And I think that's why the money has started to flow to you. So I guess as you think about the next, like, five years, like, what do you feel like that sense of funness is for you now that you do have a bit more in your pockets to go and enjoy?

42:41Honestly, it's really interesting, Maggie, because for me, I like buying, like, big things. I actually don't get excited by, like, small things that, like, even in fashion stuff, even if jacket's, like, really expensive, like, it doesn't excite me to buy that kind of stuff. But for me, I would love to own a hotel, as an example. Wow, okay. I would love to own a hotel. I would love to own a car company. Just things like that. Where, for example, let's say Sif and I are traveling to Europe. Then the hotel chain has something in the Alps, something here, something in Italy. So I really want the kind of wealth where we can build things like that.

43:22Where it allows us to grow our lifestyle. but also we can work through it. Yeah. Like I really like mixing what I like to do in life with work. Yeah. So that'd be really cool. Let me ask you a question about that. Do you guys think that, this is often what I hear with, especially co-founders that are not dating, that when they start something together, it's very hard to independently go off and find like their own personal things that they love. Do you guys think that like, there are going to be things that you guys do separately or do you guys think that inherently things will always be overlapped?

43:52I think we're always going to have businesses together. Yeah. That's been the decision that like, I mean, I feel like I'll speak for myself. I hope he feels the same way. Couples therapy on Maggie's couch. I'm kidding. But I can't imagine a better co-founder than Nish. And I think it's so much more fulfilling to go through this with him. And so there's nothing more exciting for me than to get to share like the ups and downs of being a founder. and all the spillover effect that that has on your life with my partner. Like he understands me on such a deep, like intimate level that I think only someone who has insight into like what's going on in your business understands.

44:34And so for us to be able to share that together and I don't know, like reap the benefits and then also the downsides is I think so special. I think it's strengthened our marriage and I hope that I can do this with him for the rest of my life. yeah okay on that note i am gonna do some fun rapid fire because you guys are just so freaking inspiring and you're gonna have to come on for a run too okay um you can only pick one for the rest of your life coffee cocktail matcha coffee cocktail what are your orders americano with cinnamon see okay so if the people that die on the hill for a black fucking coffee like i can't i'm sorry like are you kidding me it's so good oh my god are you joking right now you know this about me.

45:16What do you mean? That is so insane. Okay, what's your cocktail order? I just want a dirty martini. Okay. Oh, I love that. I wouldn't expect that for you. Really? Yeah, I feel like you'd be such like a whiskey guy or something. You do love an old-fashioned though. It's not on my top three at all. Okay. Night in or out? Night out for sure. Same. Love that for you guys. Outsource or hire internally? Hire internally. Okay. A meeting or solo work? Meeting. Solo work. Wellness or fashion for the rest of your life? You can only have one interest. Okay, I need clarification. What do you mean wellness or fashion?

45:50No, no, no. Am I completely unwell? No, no, no. More like guilty pleasures. You can't be constantly going to workout classes, doing new supplements, whatever. Can I work out? Yeah. But what is your passion and hobby? Is fashion or wellness? You're a wellness girly that is also a fashion girly. Pick one. Eczema isn't always obvious, but it's real. and so is the relief from Evglyss. After an initial dosing phase, about four in 10 people taking Evglyss achieved itch relief and clear or almost clear skin at 16 weeks. And most of those people maintain skin that's still more clear at one year with monthly dosing.

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48:09I can't wait to go on this eventually with you guys. So ski vacation or beach? Ski vacation for me. Ski. Okay. We have to go now. That's 40 years in my life. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Who is your favorite comfort creator? Not for a ray inspo, but like Sif, like Sunday parasympathetic day. Who are you typing into your search for on TikTok? Okay. I have two. Okay. They're very different. one is this chef his I think his name's Harrison Webb okay he's so funny okay so he'll like do things like I found the worst pizza restaurant in London and it is like I will be crying it's like comedy food it is so funny okay so I love him I think his handle is Harrison Webb and then And I also love Tamara Kalinich.

48:57I don't know her. She's fashion. UK. She lives in Milan. Oh, yeah, yeah. So it's like heavy, heavy, heavy fashion. So both of those. It's like very niche, like Hermes content. Okay. Just like for the girls. Okay. So I would say like those are my two. And like they're like so different. Love it. So good. Okay. It's so hard for me. Like can do NBA highlights count? Like that's what I want, honestly. You don't have comfort craters. No, I really don't. No, your thing is the crime. The bad guy gets caught. Oh, like crime junkies is your vibe? No, it's like so specific. No, it's just like I love watching bad guys get caught on YouTube.

49:39Oh my God, so does my boyfriend's brother. Yesterday we were celebrating his mom's 80th birthday and he has his phone in front of him. He's like, I'm just watching a police chase. Yeah, yes. And it'll be like the titles actually kill me, okay? So it's like, I don't know. Robert gets what he deserves. Oh my God, I can't. I like see it and I'm like crying, laughing. Because I'm like, literally, what is this? That is not a comfort creator. That's really comforting actually. Hermes or Chanel? Hermes. Hermes. Okay. Yeah. You guys, Sif and Nish, thank you so much for coming on Hot Smart Rich. I am just like so enlightened right now.

50:18I always think about how I feel when I leave people. And I always feel like I'm leaving the top floor of my house, even though ironically we're in the basement, like light and inspired. And you guys are so refreshing to just be so honest and open. And I can't thank you enough. It's been so cool to like be in your life, watching this journey from so long ago and to see where you guys are at and where you guys are taking it. I'm just like, so honored you shared it with my community. They love you. So where can they find you guys if they're not already following and listening to your podcast and like doing all the things?

50:46Array on Instagram, TikTok, Array.com. I'm Sif Hyder. my podcast is the dream bigger podcast it's a weekly ritual everyone it's really good and uh i'm just plenty of niche plenty of niche are you public now i'm always public i thought you were private for a bit no no okay well and i love how you're such an entrepreneur because you literally plugged your business first just to be clear and then is there a giveaway that we can do with array yeah 100 okay perfect and what date is your podcast come out every week sif every tuesday so guys every tuesday you're gonna listen to dream bigger every wednesday you're gonna listen to Hot Smart Rich, please rate, review both of our podcasts and thank you guys so much again.

51:21I love you so much. Thank you, Maggie. I'm so glad you started a podcast. This was necessary. This was good. This is one of the best podcasts I've been on. I love you. Thank you. Bye.

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