Ep. 485: Ben Pentreath's New Book

29 Sep 2026 · 1 h 10 min · 22 chapters

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In short

Ben Pentreath discusses his new book A Year at the Parsonage, co-written with husband Charlie McCormick, about 15 years living in a Regency 1820 house in Little Bridie, West Dorset, and how the home’s history, garden, and evolving interiors shaped their lives. He also shares decorating principles: memories live in objects, not just rooms; paint and color should evolve; and function and comfort matter as much as aesthetics.

Guests

Ben Pentreath, British architect and interior designer in London; runs his practice and shop Pintreith & Hall. Co-author is Charlie McCormick (Ben’s husband), who contributes garden photography and takes photos for the book. Hosts are Caroline (marketing), Taryn (product designer), and Liz (creative team lead) from Ballard Designs.

Key claims

Houses are emotional because belongings and relationships carry meaning. Start with practical essentials, then let decoration “evolve slowly.” Color choices should be tested over time; period rules guide pigments historically, but personal preference rules ultimately.

Notable examples

Parsonage Pink (Papers and Paints) and “Victoria Plum” purple dining room that Charlie disliked; kitchen shifts from white to Farrow & Ball “Wet Sand” to gloss yellow “boiled egg” effect; lockdown Morrison/Sanderson shoot using their house.

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Introducing Ben Pentreath

0:30 to 1:16

Discussion of Ben Pentreath's background and new book.

“Ben Pintreith is a British architect and interior designer based in London, where he runs his practice and his beloved shop, Pintreith & Hall.”

The Emotional Connection to Homes

1:16 to 3:10

Ben shares insights about the emotional significance of houses and gardens.

“and it documents the space, the history, your history there, the gorgeous garden that evolved so much over the time you were there.”

Living in Little Bridie

3:10 to 5:42

Ben recounts his experience living in the village of Little Bridie and its charm.

“You realize that you leave a building and those memories come with you.”

The Unique Architecture of the Village

5:42 to 7:27

Exploration of the historical architecture and design of the village Ben lived in.

“There was the big house, which was our landlord's house.”

Restoring the House

7:27 to 11:00

Ben discusses the process and experience of restoring his home upon moving in.

“It increasingly felt like this place which you just couldn't find anything like it today.”

Decoration Philosophy and Evolution

11:00 to 14:00

Ben talks about his approach to decorating his home and how it has evolved.

“But there was something about the way that it sits within the landscape that I was just describing, this sort of valley.”

Choosing Colors for the Home

14:00 to 16:00

Learn about the initial color choices made for decorating a home and the evolving nature of those decisions.

“And I didn't have masses of time to think about all the decisions.”

Experimenting with Bold Colors

16:00 to 19:00

Discover the experiences and lessons learned from experimenting with bold colors in home decoration.

“I mean, it's a very good-selling colour from a London-based paint manufacturer.”

The Challenges of Choosing Paint

19:00 to 22:00

Understand the complexities of selecting paint colors and the importance of mood in decoration.

“It was right in the middle of the lockdown.”

Evolving Decoration Choices

22:00 to 28:05

Explore the process of evolving decoration choices over time and the personal nature of color selection.

“I've got certain go-to paint companies who I love to use.”
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Exploring the Journey of Decoration

28:05 to 36:28

Learn about the speaker's unconventional path to decoration and the essence of creating soulful interiors.

“i'm using shades of yellow which i hadn't hadn't hadn't done for a while but anyway hey ho um let Let me ask you about...”

Starting from Scratch in Decoration

36:28 to 42:00

Discover practical tips for those beginning their decorating journey and how to find personal style.

“It's all meaningless without people enjoying it and sitting on the sofas and spilling a glass of wine on the floor and all that stuff.”

Navigating Decoration Decisions

42:00 to 43:58

Learn how to approach decoration choices with confidence and creativity.

“and then I can be the helpful person who's saying that's a really good idea.”

The Art of Photography in Decoration

43:58 to 45:29

Explore the significance of capturing authentic moments in home design.

“I'm a definite believer in the fact that you can overthink decoration.”

The Absence of the Designer

45:29 to 48:22

Discover the unique perspective of not featuring the author in their own lifestyle book.

“I'd left a plastic bag in one of the photos, but I had.”

The Challenges of Capturing Reality

48:22 to 51:56

Understand the complexities of capturing genuine moments in design photography.

“kind of lifestyle in the way of those rather posed, um, shoots, you know, that lifestyle books, uh, tend to, um, steer you down.”

Transitioning to a New Home

51:56 to 56:00

Hear the story of moving from a beloved home to a new adventure in Orkney.

“I mean, so the whole story of the parsonage, you know, came to an end.”

Finding the Perfect House

56:00 to 59:24

Learn how the hosts discovered their dream home through unexpected circumstances.

“We were about to go down a different route.”

Renovation Plans and Local Builders

59:24 to 1:01:05

Discover the renovation plans for the new home and the local builders involved.

“It's like that is what we all want in our lives rather than having to go into your small house or end up in the care home or, you know, the hospital or whatever.”

Gardening Aspirations in Orkney

1:01:05 to 1:03:17

Explore the gardening efforts and plans for a vegetable garden on the island.

“But no, they're really great and they understand it all.”

Living on the Orkney Islands

1:03:17 to 1:06:07

Hear about the unique challenges and beauty of life on the Orkney Islands.

“And then if you follow me, then you'll get a lot of rousy stories.”

Celebrating Local Bookstores

1:06:07 to 1:08:36

Understand the importance of supporting local bookstores over larger retailers.

“Now tell me, do we have a decorating dilemma?”
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Transcript

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0:01Ben Pentreath:Welcome to How to Decorate from Ballard Designs, a weekly podcast all about the trials and triumphs of decorating and redecorating your home. I'm Caroline. I'm on the marketing team. And I'm Taryn, and I'm a product designer. I'm Liz. I head up the creative team. We're your hosts. Join the expert team at Ballard Designs for tips, tricks, and tales from interior designers, stylists, and other talents in the design world. Plus, we'll answer your decorating dilemmas at the end of each episode. We love answering your questions, so don't forget to email us at podcast at Ballardesigns.net. Now on with the show.

0:34Ben Pentreath:Ben Pintreith is a British architect and interior designer based in London, where he runs his practice and his beloved shop, Pintreith & Hall. He's been on the How to Decorate podcast before we had a two-hour episode. Today, we're thrilled to talk about his new book, A Year at the Parsonage, co-written with his husband, Charlie McCormick, the story of The 15 Years They Spent in an 1820 Regency House in Dorset, which you featured a little bit of in the first book and has been on your Instagram. You've talked about it on your blog. So your fans know the space well.

1:08Charlie McCormick:It was not, yeah, exactly. Not an unknown house, yeah, I'll say that.

1:12Ben Pentreath:Yes, but now it's in this gorgeous new book, A Year at the Parsonage, and it documents the space, the history, your history there, the gorgeous garden that evolved so much over the time you were there. And Liz, I think you said this when we were chatting about it, but it is such a sweet and sentimental story. And I wasn't necessarily expecting that. So I loved getting into sort of the emotional and the realness of your life there.

1:48Charlie McCormick:Well, I think in a strangest way, houses are quite emotional. And what I realize is that we sort of weave our whole lives through houses and gardens and places. But what I realized is that, in a way, it's not the physical place. It's the fact that we're in that place, and all of our objects, all of which carry sort of meaning and memories and ideas and friendships and all the rest of it. it's those things in aggregate and your time in a place and your connections and memories of people being there, uh, and all of that. That's the thing which makes a house an emotional, an emotional space, um, compared to, uh, rooms, which are much more neutral and, um, you know, which don't have that sense of belonging where you're sort of settling in.

2:46Charlie McCormick:And then the very weird thing is that when you leave and move on as, as we did, and that's obviously a whole part of the book is the story of how we arrived and how I first arrived there, and then how the house and my life shifted when I met Charlie and then he moved in with me, and then the story of how we left and moved up to Scotland where we are now. You realize that you leave a building and those memories come with you. They're not encapsulated in the rooms they're encapsulated in um the things which were with you when when you were there i

3:26Ben Pentreath:think yeah yeah there's also an incredible recognition of knowing that you are in a special place on earth you know like that is very very lovely charming it was an amazing i mean it is an

3:41Charlie McCormick:amazing place there. Um, I, I mean, when I, when I first moved there, um, which was about, oh gosh, 15 or 16 years ago now, 17 years ago now, um, yeah, I had this kind of long distant memory because as I explained in the book, when I was really young, um, a really good friend of mine had, his parents had rented the house in the 1970s. And I spent a lot of time there as a child, with my best friend, also called Ben. And so I had this sort of distant memory of the whole house and the whole landscape. And there's something interesting about that. It's actually quite unusual to get to live in a house which you knew really well as a child.

4:27Charlie McCormick:It sort of, you know, doesn't happen very often. But it was an amazing place. The whole village is stunningly beautiful. and it's in a very beautiful part of the English countryside. It's West Dorset, which is a really special unspoilt part of England. But even within the whole context of that beautiful Dorset countryside, and we were very close to the coast, so we could pootle down the valley and go swimming in the sea and all of those sorts of things, which are really lovely and attract so many people to that part of the world, either as visitors or it's a lovely, just a wonderful place to live.

5:06Charlie McCormick:There was something even more magical about the village of Little Bridie where we lived because it had this really unusual sense of being a little bit like a place which was completely lost in time. These sorts of places are increasingly rare in England. I mean, very rare in America, I would say. But it was an old agricultural estate. So it's one of those villages which, I mean, it's a tiny place. It had about 40 houses in it. There was the big house, which was our landlord's house. Really quite a fine building, an important architectural building filled with amazing treasures and, you know, contents.

5:58Charlie McCormick:And the family who built that, they were called Williams. And they moved down to Dorset in the 18th century and built this house. And then around it, they created this incredible village. There was a beautiful little church, which they extended and restored. And then they built our house and then terraces of little cottages, mainly thatched, the cottages. And the whole thing was designed as a sort of aesthetic creation. They actually hired very, very good architects in the early 19th century to build all of these buildings. And they created a lake, an artificial lake with waterfalls and little bridges over it.

6:44Charlie McCormick:And then the stream ran through the village and went through. There was a beautiful walled garden, like a really traditional Victorian walled garden where the stream kind of runs straight through the bottom of the walled garden. And it all sits in this incredible valley. and then the family had been there for basically about 300 years just under in this sort of benign ownership of the whole place very gentle nothing really changed our landlord who is a really good friend of ours and just the most amazing person you know he had a sort of wonderful sense that he he just didn't really want anything to change in the village and as time went on and as kind of modernity sort of encircled the whole place.

7:29Charlie McCormick:It increasingly felt like this place which you just couldn't find anything like it today. And when I first got there, there was just this amazing feeling of living in a settlement that really felt like it wasn't stuck in time because it was still, we had a lot of fun. There was an amazing sense of community. Everybody in the village kind of knew each other. We had crazy little social club where we had crazy nights and you name it. Like, it wasn't boring in any way, but it was this very rare kind of unusual place to live. It was just incredible.

8:10Ben Pentreath:So you moved into the home in 2009. What was your approach to living in the space? I mean, there are so many great things that I think kind of came with the house. There was a banner from the coronation of King Edward?

8:25Charlie McCormick:God save the king? No, that didn't come with the house. Oh, okay. That came…

8:31Ben Pentreath:I wish it had. That's my misunderstanding.

8:33Charlie McCormick:Not at all. That came with Charlie.

8:36Ben Pentreath:Oh, that came with Charlie.

8:37Charlie McCormick:Yeah. No, so I moved in. When I moved in, it was actually in quite an unloved situation. The previous people had left a little while before, and they had sort of left in quite a hurry, and then lived through a winter at least quite a long time without anyone being there and you know what old houses are like if they don't have people living there and the heat on and the windows open and all of that sort of stuff um they can quite quickly go a bit crazy and that had definitely happened here it was um yeah black mold on the walls and sort of all very run down and tired and it needed some love. But actually, in the weird way, that is, for me, it was the best thing ever because that's easy in a way to fix.

9:25Charlie McCormick:You just need to do some building work and you need to get the thing sorted and you need to do some painting of the walls and what have you to your decoration. But then it's all done. And if you can find a house in that setup, and obviously we'll talk a bit about maybe renting houses rather than owning houses, because that was part of the whole weirdness. But whereas if you're renting a house where the landlord has just done it all up, you know, ready for tenants, then there's nothing worse than that, because they might have put in the most horrible bathrooms or the most horrible kitchen, which they then would be extremely unhappy if you tried to change it.

10:05Charlie McCormick:So in a weird sort of way, my advice if you want to be a happy tenant is always trying to find a house before anybody spent any money on it, because normally it would be pretty horrible if they have. So anyway, we did all of that together. I did it in collaboration with the landlord, and then I moved in in those early days. And it was, yeah, there was actually not very much in the house at all. There was nothing. And everything which was nice, we put in. We restored the fireplaces and things like that which had been taken out. But what it did have was just this perfect, it had a really good energy.

10:41Charlie McCormick:And it was a house which had fallen out of love and it needed love. But it was one of those sort of buildings that as soon as you started loving it, it really gave the love back, if that makes sense. because it was such a special place. Small, you know, there's nothing fancy about it at all. It was quite humble, really, in its proportions and scale. But there was something about the way that it sits within the landscape that I was just describing, this sort of valley. And it was in this perfect position overlooking the sort of trees and woodland beyond. And the ground fell quite steeply from the house.

11:20Charlie McCormick:It was a really slopey garden, crazy garden on a really steep slope down to the bottom of the valley. And on the other side were these beautiful woods. And there was something about being in that position. It almost felt like you were floating over the woodland. And it was that position in the heart of the village with the little church right next door. It was just an incredible place to be. but when I first moved in you know I didn't have a grand plan for decoration I'm terrible at that as you've probably read in the book it sort of it all evolves very slowly there was no particular I also didn't have any I didn't have any money to do formal decorating if you know what I mean it was the cheapest finishes I could I could afford which was seagrass on the carpets ticking cotton ticking on the curtains and then over the years we just started filling it up with stuff and that's my kind of um that's my basic decoration mantra um i love that well okay

12:26Ben Pentreath:i did want to go back to um to the beginning a little bit like when you first rented the house that you were working in london and still your business is built there my studio is still in

12:41Charlie McCormick:London. So that was really in the early days. And in those days, the office was actually tiny. Now it's, gosh, it's almost 50 people. So it's a whole, it's been a really interesting evolution to watch that happen over the last 20 years. But yeah, so my main day-to-day job was in London. And then I was using it as effectively as a weekend house.

13:06Ben Pentreath:so when you um when you talk about in the book how when you first moved in and you did the light renovations and um yeah you're starting to fill it up you chose some mostly neutral wall colors but then of course the the rooms that we're seeing in the book there's a bright yellow in the yeah exactly in the kitchen and there's an olive brown so talk to me about how maybe as you were there, kind of how you're spending more time there, how you're approaching.

13:36Charlie McCormick:Yeah. Well, exactly. And actually, so when I first moved in there, um, I think I'm sure a lot of your listeners will relate to this, that, you know, you're suddenly, you know, you've, you've taken on a new house, you're trying to get it sorted. You're trying to move in. You know, I was renting another tiny little house, a flat and, and, and a house down the road. Um, and I'd sort of fix the end date for that. So it was time to move across. And I didn't have masses of time to think about all the decisions. And I think that often people can find making lots of choices all in one go quite overwhelming.

14:14Charlie McCormick:And my first instance, my first instinct for the house was to say that it just wanted a very gentle treatment. The kitchen had white walls, The dining room I painted very pale gray. The drawing room I painted a slightly different shade of pale gray. It wasn't that I was in a kind of pale gray phase. You know, there's that whole mean expression, isn't there? Greys. Everyone is very rude about pale gray or white. I actually quite like pale gray interiors. It's sort of, I've ironically become incredibly well-known as a decorator who does lots of color. um but that's sometimes just kind of accidents and then you do you do a colorful room for somebody and then everybody wants the colorful room and then you're known as a decorator he does lots of color you i'm talking to you here from scotland your leader your um listeners won't be able to see this because um you know it's it's just recorded it's not going to be on screen but you go you can see me i'm in a room with which has got white walls it's lovely um but anyway that's how I started and um the rooms upstairs were just very simple um soft colors and then as I spent more time there and I think this is a really nice thing to do uh you can live with stronger colors um but uh they take time to be for you to be certain that it's the right decision if that makes sense I mean, I went through my first winter and definitely some of these rooms felt a little bit cold and chilly and I'd anticipated that over time that it would shift and evolve a bit.

15:52Charlie McCormick:There are some early photographs from those early days. When I wrote my first book, I think it was, the house was photographed for a magazine when that book came out. And so I've still got those images. um i on balance we decided not to include them in the narrative of this story uh it almost feels like there's another book to come at some stage about how to decorate and that sense that things need to evolve like the whole point about interior decoration for me is that it's really not something that should be sort of fixed in stone and then never touched it actually is all about it's quite it's a bit like fashion or clothes you know you have your favorite things and they last for a long time and then you have things that don't last for very long but you know in a way now you know we're all told oh that's terrible like you know fashion's got to be really you know you've got to buy for permanence and all the rest of it you kind of do but we're humans like it's quite fun just having change like it it's good for your life to change your energy so I started uh I started as a with this quite neutral approach and then over the first or second winter I was like began to evolve living with colors painted on the walls and patches um and then went through yeah I had some great hits but I definitely had some misses as well the dining room in the phase where I painted the drawing room into the pink color which became quite a famous colour.

17:24Charlie McCormick:I mean, it's a very good-selling colour from a London-based paint manufacturer. It's called Parsonage Pink from Papers and Paints. And I bought a couple of other colours from them. The olive green bedroom upstairs, which Liz, I can't quite see the colour behind you, but it's about the same, I think. It's a sort of lovely brownie. And And the dining room I painted in a kind of really mad purple color at the same stage. It was a 1960s. It was a famous color in the 60s called Victoria Plum. And it was a really cool color. And I had been getting into books by David Hicks. And he was constantly using kind of crazy bright purple colors, particularly in dining rooms, actually.

18:11Charlie McCormick:And I thought this would be great. Like, it was amazing in the evening. Looked really beautiful by candlelight. Like, incredible. And if you had people around for dinner, and like, it just had this amazing glow and feeling. In the daytime, it was absolutely horrible. And if you went in there, you just looked really ill. Like, you just looked completely terrible. And anyway, it was quite short-lived because when Charlie arrived, the dining room was still in its purple phase. and he just literally couldn't stand it. So then we painted it a really bold, bright sky blue color. And then it ended up, as you see it in the iterations in the book, is when we used the house for a shoot, a photograph shoot for a collection which I had designed for Morrison Co., Sanderson, which was a really fun thing to do.

19:05Charlie McCormick:It was right in the middle of the lockdown. So getting into anyone's house to take, you know, to stick wallpaper on the walls and put fabric on the curtains and to do room sets was completely impossible. And I said, well, you can come into it in our house. Like, I don't mind. I'm not too worried. Like, I know the photographer. And we can just do that together. No one else needs to come. We had a great time, Peter and I, and we dressed the whole house. And some of it remained. And we can talk about that a little bit as we go through. But like, you don't want to live in a whole house where every single room is covered in a different wallpaper.

19:43Charlie McCormick:Like it was too manic. So we took a lot of it back down, but the dining room wallpaper stayed. The kitchen started out life as a white room when I first moved in. It's actually really beautiful, pure white. And that was literally because I didn't know what color to paint it. I just couldn't decide. So I thought white, it's a great color because it's kind of no color. And it's very neutral and and it lets you decide what you want to do over time. That same year I painted it, or the same time that I was doing the first phase of recoloring, I painted that room in a really lovely color by Farrow and Bull called Wet Sand.

20:21Charlie McCormick:It's a sort of rich orange, burnt orange color. One of my favorites. We use it a lot in the studio. And again, after a year or two, Charlie and I, when he arrived, he loved it, but he was like, it's a bit like, uh miserable he thought so we decided to paint it bright gloss yellow um like mad bright yellow and why we decided to do it in gloss paint i don't know but it was just like absolutely epic it was it was like living inside a boiled egg it was really like living inside an egg yolk it was really cool um anyway that hasn't actually now changed back to white again that room we were there the other day we can talk about that anyway so yeah lots of lots of color changes and the thing is that you can you can i mean you can do it yourself i hate painting rooms myself because i'm i'm terrible at preparation i'm just not into it you know and the art of painting is preparing everything really carefully and doing all of your edges and all of that i'm fine rolling the roller on the wall it's just all of the fiddly bits i've got no energy for it so i'm a good i'm a good person to hire a painter.

21:34Charlie McCormick:They're really skilled. They really know what they do. They're really quick. They're really clean. They don't kick cans of paint over, etc. Anyway, but it's a simple and relatively inexpensive exercise to repaint a room. It doesn't take very long and it does not cost very much. And yeah, it sort of completely changes your life. So I'm in favor of changing paint colors.

21:56Ben Pentreath:When you know that you want to change a paint color. Yeah. What are you sort of asking yourself or are you zeroing in on a it sounds like he just goes with it well but i'm curious are you thinking like what's the mood and then what's the color that matches that mood do you just does a color just pop into your head do you try less i'm just i think to a certain extent to a certain extent colors do pop into your i mean it is yeah i think i mean obviously you spend time

22:26Charlie McCormick:with paint charts and you know flipping them out i mean and then one of the burdens of decorating i'm sure we will find this is there's just so many choices that it's kind of mad um and uh and yet having said that when you're looking for some specific color you get every single paint range and just no one is making what's in your head like how's this possible but i've got where you

22:48Ben Pentreath:find it on the chart and then when you paint it on your wall you're like it's nowhere near that

22:52Charlie McCormick:Yeah, this is not what I was expecting. I've got certain go-to paint companies who I love to use. I mean, this is not a sponsored endorsement, but there are companies like Farron Ball, actually, I find incredibly reliable. I've used their paints for years. So I understand what the effect of the colors will be in the room. I really, really love Patrick Beatty, who has a small paint shop in London called Papers and Paints. and I use their colors, I find the quality to be excellent, and they've got an amazing array of different charts of colors. So they've got 1930s colors, 1950s colors, 1960s colors, they've got Georgian colors, they've got 19th century colors, they're really well presented, different charts of colors.

23:43Charlie McCormick:So they've got 1930s colors, 1950s colors, 1960s think about questions to do with the history of the house and kind of what sort of colors might have been used when it was first built, if it's got some sort of strong period character. The Georgian earth tones around the 19th century, they got more mineral, more chemical, brighter, and the Regency period loved, and Victorians loved, rich, bright colors. Well, so did the Georgians, if they could afford it. It was just incredibly expensive to have bright pigments in the 18th century, which is why so many Georgian interiors are stones and earth colors, because they were much more readily available and much less expensive.

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24:32Charlie McCormick:If you're in an early Georgian house and the walls are painted bright blue or bright green, that was a real bling status symbol. it was just showing off as to how much money you had to put those sorts of colors on the wall. A bit like Renaissance paintings. I mean, back in the 16th century, blue in a 16th century or 15th century Italian painting. That was just showing off. It was like, I'm really rich because it was the most expensive color in the world to use. So that's why the religious Mary is always dressed in a blue cloak. It's kind of a status symbol. um hey ho we're gone like really off piste but if i'm thinking about colors for me i actually don't think about it that much i'm just like what's my mood what's the atmosphere but then what i like to do is to have a few ideas and live with them for as long as possible and sometimes that's really hard if you're professionally decorating sometimes the house doesn't even exist at the point where you're being asked to think about choosing the schemes and colors to be ahead of construction.

25:42Charlie McCormick:And even if it does exist, it's hard in a way because when you're doing it for somebody else and you're visiting site, you're having to make quite quick choices based on short periods of time. You know, you're there for a day or you're there for a few hours and you're there in a particular light. Whereas the gorgeous thing about living in a building and then letting your choices evolve over time is that you can pin up. I mean, I actually don't normally splodge paint straight on the wall and normally put it on a sheet of cardboard or a sheet of paper so that you can pin it around and move it around and see how it feels in different corners of the space because it always changes.

26:22Charlie McCormick:And you can live with things and see what's nice in the evening, what's nice in the morning. And then you just kind of come up with a natural sort of idea as to what's best. How do you, is there any right or wrong to that process? I don't think there is. I've learned over many years that color is a very personal thing. I mean, there are definitely, you know, there are rights and wrongs or rules of colors. There's those period rules that I was just describing. But actually, there's no particular right or wrong. I had a client once, I remember I kind of got into her house for the first time for a site visit, and I was just kind of walking around feeling what I was feeling, thinking what I was thinking.

27:09Charlie McCormick:And I sort of had quite a strong feeling that her hallway would be pretty nice if it was painted a blue color, for example, a rich, warm blue color. People often think that blue is a cold color, but it doesn't have to be cold at all it can be a really warm color if you get that if you have a brighter tone and i was trying to advocate this and she just looked at me and said i'm really sorry i just don't like blue let's not do blue then it's kind of like let's pick yellow let's pick you know there's no

27:42Ben Pentreath:particular right or wrong that's so odd though because i feel like everyone likes oh no i agree with that you know me blue's the last color i choose yeah not everyone yeah and then i think

27:53Charlie McCormick:also we go through i mean colors colors have that moment don't they i mean instagram doesn't help but you know there are colors which go in and out of fashion um i'm suddenly using yellow more than i ever did in a long time i mean having said that i did have a bright yellow kitchen for years but i'm using shades of yellow which i hadn't hadn't hadn't done for a while but anyway hey ho um let

28:16Ben Pentreath:Let me ask you about...

28:17Charlie McCormick:Next question.

28:19Ben Pentreath:So, okay, we talked about this a little bit when we discussed, you know, when you were on last time. But when you moved into the parsonage, you were really more of a practicing architect. But now you do a lot of decoration with your firm. So I was curious if your approach to decorate or like did the parsonage teach you decorating? Or perhaps did you sort of use the parsonage as a, like, experimental?

28:49Charlie McCormick:It was all very unplanned and unintentional. No, you're absolutely right. When I first moved there, I was really involved purely in architecture. And most of my architecture in those days was actually to do with the town planning side. I think we, I remember we talked about before a lot, you know, the creation of these new towns and settlements. and um and yeah i was not a quote-unquote decorator in fact i mean i'm still not a quote-unquote professional decorator i've never i've never worked for another decorator um and i've never spent a day training to be a decorator um i i my decorator friends are still shocked at how little i know in fact some of my really lovely colleagues in the office are shocked at how little I know about, you know, names of curtain headings or how to, you know, upholster or blah, blah, whatever it might be.

29:45Charlie McCormick:It's a little, okay. So, but then actually decoration is something which I know that it's become a massive profession or these days, everybody likes to call it in England, at least it's an industry. You know, we work in the decoration industry, which I'm always like, really, is it really industrial? But anyway, um it's a business isn't it decoration but um i don't think that you need to have a formal professional training to be a successful decorator necessarily like actually what is it that create i mean in the past in in recent history there was no such thing as like courses in interior design.

30:33Charlie McCormick:Like John Fowler and David Hicks, the great mid-century British decorators, none of them had a formal training in interior decoration as a course or anything. They often had a great sense of historical understanding. So that's really important, I think, understanding history of design and history of furniture, history of interior architecture. Um, but a lot of it is quite visceral, comes from your heart. And, um, so I moved into Dorset. I've always had a really strong interest, a personal interest in furniture and objects and colors and all of that. So I was in play and enjoying myself kind of playing around with, you know, creating a little house.

31:26Charlie McCormick:Uh, that was a fun, it was a really fun project. And then, um, I was writing this blog with, you know, it was all quite early days of websites and stuff like that. And I had my little shop, which I'd set up with a friend in London, very accidental, the story of the shop. Um, but that's happened. And we had had a web designer and he was like, he's the brother of a really good friend of mine. And our web designer guy was like, oh, you need to have this thing called a blog. And I was like, what is a blog? And he was like, oh, it's a web log, you know, and you keep a little diary and it's a way of kind of generating interest on your website.

32:05Charlie McCormick:So I set up my little blog and it's still going, you know, 18 or 19 years later. It's kind of like, you know, people say to me, are you good at keeping a diary? I'm like, I hate keeping a diary in this. And he realized I've actually kept a diary for the last 19 years. It's a different form of diary. It's not writing down in my little notebook every evening. And it's very intermittent, but it's all there. So I was writing that, and then I had a particular way of writing. And an early supporter of the shop, I say supporter, that's a really nice word for customer. An early customer was a lovely editor.

32:43Charlie McCormick:Her office was around the corner, and she used to pop in quite a lot and buy things. And then she was reading the blog. And then she's an editor for a publishing company. She was in those days at Ryland Peters and Small, my first publisher. And she got in touch with me and said, Ben, would you like to write a book? I just love the way you write. And I love the way you talk about things. And that was my very first book, which was called English Decoration. Still in print, which is great. About 15 years later, which, you know, not many decoration books are in print for that long. So it was kind of fun.

33:14Charlie McCormick:And So it all led one thing into the other. The fact that I'd moved into Dorset led into the kind of, and the blog was already happening at that time. And the fact that all of those things were happening together led to me being asked to kind of write this book. and then I wrote this book and I punctually called it English decoration and that actually is what uh if you want to look at it in in a linear way probably created um a professional decoration career for me um because suddenly people started buying this book and reading it and calling me saying oh I really like the way you're writing about interiors would you like to look at my house and I was like okay this is great and of course the massive scam of the whole book it wasn't intentional like I was I tried to be honest about this but was that it was really just a book of of you know the only house in it that I had decorated it decorated was my own house in Dorset and our little my little flat and my tiny little flat in London had a brief appearance and um all of the other houses were just lovely old houses which belonged to friends of mine I I just persuaded 15 of my friends to open up their doors to a highly intrusive, lovely photographer to come in and take photos of their bedrooms and dressing rooms and their bathrooms and all of this sort of stuff.

34:40Charlie McCormick:And, um, but I think, uh, I mean, I never once claimed that any of this was my own work, but it spoke to a way of approaching decoration, which I think I've stayed quite true to all the way through, which is not to be too done up and too specific about things, if that makes sense. Like, just don't worry too much about all the kind of fine details. Because ultimately, that is not what makes a successful interior, in my view. It's got to have a sole. And that is not done through matching a piping to another piece of fabric. Like, we can all do that. You know, AI could do that, frankly, just color match really intelligently, um, and put schemes together.

35:33Charlie McCormick:Scheming, like, scheming kind of color, you know, taking a set of curtains, a set of fabric and a curtain or whatever it might be. yeah there's a color palette in there and then you can say right we'll do the ottoman in this match one and this like we'll do the piping to match this and that it's that's not what the soul of a room is about in my view so that's how i started decorating yeah

36:02Ben Pentreath:so where i mean you you mentioned earlier that you felt like the soul was in the things and the and the emotion what memories people it's it's it's all to do with

36:13Charlie McCormick:You can have the most beautifully decorated room, which we've all been in, which are utterly characterless. They've got no character, no sense of humanity, no sense of life. And it's life which it's all about.

36:35Charlie McCormick:It's all meaningless without people enjoying it and sitting on the sofas and spilling a glass of wine on the floor and all that stuff. those are the bits where your dog eating the chair leg or something like that that's that's

36:46Ben Pentreath:the fun part the character yeah okay well how would you suggest though to someone who is starting i feel so like so so few people probably do start from scratch but if someone was starting from scratch yeah moving into a new house and they have very little where would you say they begin like if if you if you're starting a room and you don't and you're i mean not starting with a scheme what is the kind of jumping i mean in the most in the most practical sense you've got to start

37:16Charlie McCormick:with really practical things haven't you like you need beds you need bedside tables you need bedside lamps right that's kind of right number one then you need a nice kitchen table and chairs and stuff like that and you probably want a sofa and then you kind of nah obviously that's really like putting it out in absolutely pure black and white um what where do i start with if you've got a completely blank canvas and um they don't you know if you or i mean if we're decorating for ourselves. If you're anything like me, you're carrying the baggage of your life. Like it's unusual that you're making a completely clean start.

38:05Charlie McCormick:I, from time to time, will have a client who, for example, has bought a new house and it's, let's say it's a holiday house, or let's say they live in the country and they've lived in the country for years and then they're buying a little flat in London or something like that. There are occasions where I'm working for a lovely American guy who's bought a flat in London and he doesn't have any furniture in London. He's buying a flat for the first time in London. So from time to time, you do have these completely blank palettes. Now, if you're working with a client as a decorator, you're interrogating kind of, there are various practical things about how the room flows and how does it all work.

38:46Charlie McCormick:And I think if you have if you have decoration that isn't actually robustly functional and comfortable it's ultimately gonna fail like it needs to be comfortable and a nice working place to live nobody wants to live in something that looks beautiful but it just doesn't work so you're so you're partly looking at things from that kind of rather black and white aspect and then obviously if you're working if i'm working for a client i'm trying to tease out things that they like things that they don't like and then and then you're trying to read the energy of a of a room and say well you know it wants to have maybe this atmosphere or or or another and we often tease that out by preparing quite a nuanced series of images for individual spaces which might be saying do you like this or do you like this?

39:39Charlie McCormick:You know, presenting choices. If you're doing it for yourself for the first time and you're trying to think that through, I think there is some merit in that approach of like gathering images that you love. I keep a little scrapbook. I mean, in days gone by, it used to be a physical one where I'd be tearing pages out of magazines. These days, so much of our imagery is digital that it's actually, you know, I'm not on Pinterest, I can't stand Pinterest, it's a really bad algorithm, it just spews up what you've already seen, it's like more and more and more of it. But certainly, you know, things on Instagram, I mean, it's overwhelming, but it's interesting, and you do see things that you think, wow, yeah.

40:29Charlie McCormick:But what I find is I can't, I have no memory for a digital image at all. So what I do, my trick is to screenshot everything and then every, and I keep my screenshots of pictures. And then every now and again, when I don't have anything else to do, which is not very often, but like probably once or twice a year, I just do a massive printout of all of my screenshots. and then they snip them all out, get rid of all of the Instagram logos and the captions and the little hearts. And I'd write on the back, you know, if it's a building that I've caught a glimpse of, you know, right where the building is, or if it's a photograph, like who the photographer was, or if it's a room, like maybe if I know that if it's named who the decorator was or something like that, I'll just kind of put a little note on it on the back.

41:13Charlie McCormick:And then I pin it on the wall of my office. And it suddenly moves from being a digital thing that you just instantly forget, like in one ear, out the other ear, you know, kind of in one eye, you've forgotten it because there's so many images out there. It's something which you can live with and enjoy. And I think that's a nice way to start, to find your personal style in a way. And it's very personal. And it's like, how do you pick a pair of trousers or how do you choose what shirt you're gonna wear or anything? There's no, I mean, people say there's rules, as I say, but there aren't really. It's about what makes you happy.

41:50Charlie McCormick:And I think an awful lot of my role as a professional decorator is actually being a little bit like a shrink and teasing out what people think they want to do, but are too scared to try it, if you know what I mean. and then I can be the helpful person who's saying that's a really good idea. Or sometimes they say, actually, if I were you, I really wouldn't do that. But you could still do it if you want, but I would travel cautiously on that front.

42:18Ben Pentreath:Right, so you're almost giving people the permission structure to follow their interests.

42:23Charlie McCormick:Yeah, exactly. And everyone is terrified about making expensive mistakes in decoration. And the problem with decoration is that an awful lot of it is expensive. you know upholstery or you know getting a really fancy set of curtains made oh my god it's expensive and so you're cautious about it so then that steers you in a certain direction towards something that could be a bit bland or anonymous sometimes because you're terrified it and it's a bit like how we all um speak these days you know with with everybody is um is i mean maybe with good reason Everyone is terrified of offending people. So then we end up saying, I mean, other than your president.

43:07Charlie McCormick:Some of us aren't terrified enough, maybe. Yeah, exactly. Some moderation would go down well from time to time. But, you know, there's a sort of fear of saying anything for, you know, because you don't want to. But actually, it's kind of fine to, particularly in the realm of interior decoration. let's dick off politics in the realm of interior decoration it's fine to uh do things that you're the only person who likes it it's yours it's not you know you don't have to please everyone so i i'd vote you know diving in headfirst yeah yeah that seems like such a challenge to

43:48Ben Pentreath:to be able to design on self-consciously but yeah really you just have to not worry about

43:56Charlie McCormick:it too much, don't think about it too much. I'm a definite believer in the fact that you can overthink decoration. I think that the workability side of it, the function, the black and white drawing side of it, like your kitchen design or how the bathroom is laid out or how a room is going to be structured and anything to do with architectural alterations to a house or planning, like you cannot overthink that like you really the more time and thought you give to those structural issues the more resolved and the better it will get when it comes to decoration which colors fabrics you know all of the ingredients of a room i genuinely believe you can overthink it you can worry about it too much and decoration is like painting it's like you it it's or it's it's actually like cooking it is something which you need to develop confidence in um so that you know when to leave alone and when to say that's great that's enough and some of the most i mean like if i'm being modest some of the rooms which i'm really most happy with at all of all i i didn't give that much thought to it was just a process where we said let's do this let's do this oh that goes well with that bingo you know i do love the way you show that though in

45:29Ben Pentreath:your photography because and i think we talked about this in your previous book i think we did before because of the shark island we did the shark island and then somebody else on a different

45:39Charlie McCormick:podcast i can't remember who it was was like why did you leave a plastic bag in one of the photos and I was like, what? I had no idea. I'd left a plastic bag in one of the photos, but I had. None of us had ever noticed it. Quite funny. Anyway, but yes. For anyone who doesn't know,

45:55Ben Pentreath:you photographed your last book. And did you photograph this book?

45:59Charlie McCormick:We did completely. And that was, and then Charlie obviously did lots of the photos of the garden as well. Yeah. And this book would have been impossible to shoot with an external photographer because so much of it was just about capturing a particular moment. And, you know, there are lots of shots, I mean, of the interiors, um, in particular, but, but also of the garden, you know, particular moments of the day, particular, um, seasons or, or whatever, but little shots of kind of like, you know, when we were having things like, I dunno, like our farewell party, when it was time to leave, I just literally a minute before door, everybody walked in through the door, I just snapped a photograph of this beautiful table that Charlie had laid with all of these beautiful cakes and cheeses and the candles were lit and the champagne was open and ready to pour.

46:54Charlie McCormick:If we had staged that as a kind of room scene, you know, for the professional photographer to come down in a two-day period, you know, that month and take photos of us doing everything. I mean, it would have still been really nice but i think it would have had a different feeling and um and it there's a curious absence in the book as well compared to i mean you know if you want to be um a bit mean about our book i guess it's kind of like what you would generically call a lifestyle book you know um and one of the things about all lifestyle books uh written about people like me or charlie or whatever in their houses, you know, decorators in their house or Charlie in his garden is that they are filled with photographs of me or Charlie kind of like doing stuff.

47:47Charlie McCormick:Okay. So, you know, Charlie would be digging or kind of like whatever I'd be, you know, wandering around with a bunch of flowers or whatever it might be. That's, that's the, that's the generic format for that type of, for that type of book the the one person who is never in the book is um is either of us because we're taking the photos if that makes sense so i'm not in the pressing click and then running around and standing there pouring the lemonade so there's a curious absence of um us living the kind of lifestyle in the way of those rather posed, um, shoots, you know, that lifestyle books, uh, tend to, um, steer you down.

48:34Charlie McCormick:But the difference is that we've been able to snap every single little moment of life. Um, and obviously the pets, you know, the dogs and the cat are kind of weaving their way through the whole thing, um, because they're on the other side of the lens. And I hope that it will have a richness, a sort of complexity, or a kind of mismatch that a lot of very packaged of that type of book just don't have. Because you can pick up those types of books and know that the whole thing was produced over four or six episodes of photography and quite often they bring somebody in to then write about the house and this and that and it's never very personal and we've tried to keep it more in that sense of like a diary really of our time there and that's exactly what it is it almost

49:33Ben Pentreath:feels like a scrapbook of your time living yeah yeah exactly yeah that's what's so magical it's

49:39Charlie McCormick:a nice way of thinking about it actually yeah yeah it is actually it was real yeah yeah it was

49:45Ben Pentreath:really real yeah yeah that comes through and i think sometimes what you're saying is that it's impossible for it to make it feel real because it's not because you're having someone come do it but the way that y 'all executed the book helped the realness and the authenticity shine through on the page which is what is so wonderful about it that's a weird thing isn't that if you're a if you're a um i don't know anything about what i'm about to say but if

50:14Charlie McCormick:you're a molecular scientist and you're observing under a microscope, you know, super powerful microscope, how atoms are behaving in a given condition, just the fact that you're observing them changes their behavior. Like it's a real, it's a problem of molecular science that if you try and start to see what things are doing at the molecular level, if you're looking, they behave differently because you're there kind of thing you're okay so now we're getting into quantum designing yeah we're into quantum design but it's a it's a it's a thing isn't it it's sort of like there is a i mean as you know from the last book i taught myself how to take very basic photographs i mean by the way kids photography is not complicated as i tell everyone the processing of the photos is complicated.

51:07Charlie McCormick:Like that's a dark art and it's a technical skill that I will never learn. But like just taking photos is not that hard. I urge anyone with a visual interest, buy yourself a camera and just start going with it. It's kind of fun. And it, um, I mean, when I was doing my big book about all of the different architectural projects, again, it meant that I could capture moments where there's no way I would have persuaded a photographer to get out of bed at 3am to drive to a site for sunrise and then leave and go somewhere else, you know, it just wouldn't have worked. But it meant that it was a lovely way of, I mean, obviously these days we've all got our iPhones, so we're just capturing everything the whole time.

51:47Charlie McCormick:And actually iPhones are incredible. They're getting more and more powerful.

51:55Charlie McCormick:So it anyway it has got i hope it's got an authenticity to it which doesn't feel too packaged or polished if that makes sense it does okay i have to ask you about your new place because okay the book

52:09Ben Pentreath:wraps up you've yeah you've left the parsonage and you give us a little bitty teaser yeah exactly yes yes but we want to hear more and well absolutely on instagram but yeah it's pretty magical.

52:24Charlie McCormick:It's amazing. I mean, so the whole story of the parsonage, you know, came to an end. I won't say abruptly, it's not the right word, but, you know, we'd been living in this magical place, which I described at the beginning of this little chat. And to be honest, all of us there thought that it would just last forever somehow. And then this wonderful family, the Williamses, who owned the estate, just for various reasons really, decided with their kids, they had four children, but they decided that their time of looking after it all and being in charge was coming to an end. Fundamentally, the children didn't really want to take it all on.

53:11Charlie McCormick:And we're entering a difficult phase in England where if you are a landlord, as they were, of 40 houses, so not nothing. They had increasing responsibilities to be making the houses hyper energy efficient and all of this sort of stuff, which for them was quite overwhelming to think about. And so, as I say in the book, and we talk about it a little bit, they made this decision to sell the whole estate. And that was the moment that Charlie and I decided that we wanted to move and try somewhere completely different. And you can either look at life, you know, when it comes up with an unexpected, you know, avenue, I won't say it was a blow, but it was tough in a way because we loved it there so much.

54:05Charlie McCormick:And we loved the house and the garden and Charlie had poured his soul into the garden. And, you know, my mom was buried in the church next door like we really had our roots there and but you can either look at life where you just kind of um feel sad or you can go great this is a whole new opportunity and we just decided that we'd go down that route rather than the morning the kind of you know what was going on and so we we had those two little houses which you'll know from the previous book up on the west coast of Scotland, the Bothys, which we loved and were hard to get to from Dorset. So we thought, great, we'll move to Scotland to be closer.

54:44Charlie McCormick:It's a long story, but we ended up, after lots and lots of house hunting, finding a house in the middle of nowhere. And it's just one of those things which, when you find the perfect house, it's speaking to you, you're speaking to it. It's a bit like falling in love with somebody. It's just irresistible. Whatever the issue is, we're in London, they're in New York or whatever it is, you overcome all of those things. This house is in a little island in a group of islands called Orkney. Orkney is a group of about 70 islands off the northern coast of Scotland. And there's a big island, which has got about 20 ,000 people living on it, called Mainland, confusingly.

55:38Charlie McCormick:It's not Mainland UK, but it's just Mainland Orkney. And our island is a population of about 200 people, and it's called Rousey. and the house we bought is called Westness and it was built in the mid 18th century. It's a very, very beautiful house with what's really exciting is it's got a 10 acre garden surrounded by walls with amazing trees. So Charlie is just so happy because he can create this incredible garden now over the next, you know, decades to come, you know, it's not going to happen instantly and we're by the sea and we just absolutely love it here and as i say we've been looking for we you know we knew that we lived in this house which was special and we really really loved it and then to try find something as good but different you know so we weren't just replicating kind of what we already had it was a it was it was a challenge in a way um but these things have a habit of falling into place at the right time.

56:44Charlie McCormick:We were about to go down a different route. We were going to build a little house at our place in Argyle, where these two little botthies are. We finally got planning approval to build a house, and we were going to start construction. And we were quite close to pressing the button on construction. And Charlie was pretty uncertain that that's what we should be doing. And that is why I was still hovering around in England. It's called Right Move in America. I think it was called Zillow or something like that, where it's like all the properties are listed on a website. And every single morning that you can search by area and I would scroll out, I would sort of zoom down so that you'd have the whole of the map of the north of the United Kingdom, you know, the north of England, Scotland, all of the outer isles.

57:32Charlie McCormick:I would just draw a blob around them and you could draw a circle around an area and you click on and you see what new houses have come on the market that day. And it's a massive area. So it's about 10 ,000 houses every day coming on the market. But obviously, you're looking at the first few pages because that's where the unusual or the special, you know, the more expensive houses are. And one of these mornings, I was drinking my coffee and then I clicked on this tiny little thumbnail picture of the house. I was like, wow, this is so beautiful. This looks amazing. And then I looked at where it was and I was like, oh my God, where is this?

58:15Charlie McCormick:This looks odd. And I sent it to Charlie and I said, Charlie, this is looking pretty perfect, but it looks really hard to get to. And he just texted back instantly saying, this is the one. And then about a week later, we went to see it. And, um, it was, um, lived in by this really amazing old lady. She was 90 years old. She had been widowed. She'd been living there on her own for about five years. They had lived there for about 40 years. So she had been there for a very long time. The people before her had been there for even longer. Um, and we went to go and see it. We fell in love with it and that was that it was just that was that was it and then amazingly 10 days later she she was meant to be moving out and moving into a small house on the main on the main island of orkney um much more manageable you know her kids had persuaded her that she didn't really want to go she loved the house so much and she about 10 days after we had placed our offer and she had accepted it, she died in her sleep and she just didn't wake up in the morning.

59:24Charlie McCormick:And she didn't have to leave. It was kind of like... That's so beautiful in a way. It was actually amazing. It's like that is what we all want in our lives rather than having to go into your small house or end up in the care home or, you know, the hospital or whatever. Like it was actually perfect. And she was amazing. And so she had really cherished the house and that's one of the reasons why it's so fantastic. It's just completely unspoiled. But we do have to do quite a lot here. We're sort of doing boring things like rewiring and re-plumbing, and we need to do some re-roofing and new windows.

1:00:01Charlie McCormick:So it's all of that stuff, which we're about to start on quite soon. And then having quite a bit of fun doing new things in the garden as well.

1:00:10Ben Pentreath:I have so many boring logistical questions, but is it... Yeah. Yeah, how do you do all the construction?

1:00:18Charlie McCormick:you gotta have well we've got a really lovely firm of builders and they are they're not on our island they're on the mainland so they come we've got a little ferry which goes back and forth 10 times so they come over on the ferry every morning we know exactly what time they're going to arrive we know exactly what time they're going to leave and um so they've started now they're doing their first little site setup and all of that stuff and they're just super lovely they They know everybody in Orkney. They're a really old firm of contractors, really high skilled, and they really understand old buildings.

1:00:52Charlie McCormick:And so that was the key. And they love the house. And they love Charlie because he bakes for them. He can't bake for them every day because he'd kill them. They would die. But no, they're really great and they understand it all. so and then yeah there are lots of questions so grocery shopping is yeah there's just a big uh good old-fashioned supermarket in the middle of town in the main in the little city actually so we have to take the ferry over there is a shop on our island it's open on monday wednesday friday and sunday afternoons yeah or run by nikki yeah which we can get anything you need in our little shop where there's a primary school um there is a doctor's surgery there's a post office you know there's all of those little kind of daily daily needs but for if we're doing a big shot we go over to um kirkwall is the main town it's actually officially a city because it's got a cathedral and then there's another lovely town called stromness so they've got really nice food shops um and then you've got a great vegetable garden so maybe charlie is growing a lot of veg Yeah, that's the one thing you can't easily buy in Orkney.

1:02:05Charlie McCormick:There's amazing, delicious meat from all of the local animals. And then there's wonderful fish. And there's amazing cheese. We've now got our chickens as well. He's hatched some chickens, so soon we'll have our own eggs. But fresh veg is hard to buy. Fresh organic veg. And so he is creating this massive veg garden. Is he going to set up a little farmer's market? like farmstead exactly that's the deal yeah that's coming you heard it here first yeah

1:02:38Ben Pentreath:because okay i was looking at your instagram and i was like okay that's a lot of vegetables so how

1:02:44Charlie McCormick:many salads are they having per day yeah we get through a lot of salad chardin it's a bit crazy we do actually eat a lot of salad but we are going to make a much bigger veg garden the house used to have a huge victorian walled vegetable garden which now is fairly overgrown with trees and we're he's chopping down all the trees and later on this year we're going to start clearing patches of that and getting that going and once we get that going then we will be providing vegetables to the whole island or to the whole of orkney yeah that'll be a big deal but it's going to be fun it's going to be amazing that's so cool it's it's i mean so cool our

1:03:23Ben Pentreath:listeners have to go follow well and you've created your own um there's a westness instagram right

1:03:28Charlie McCormick:i know we're bad at posting on that at the moment we we've i've um we've done lots of historical photos we've we spent a lot of time looking at um like research old photos of the house and the occupants and everything and i've just discovered a whole new batch of historic photos so there's We're actually about to start reposting on Westness on Instagram. And then if you follow me, then you'll get a lot of rousy stories. If you follow Charlie, he's a much more intermittent poster on Instagram. But when he does, they're very special.

1:04:06Ben Pentreath:Well, an amazing follow because this house is just, I mean, as was the parsonage, so insane.

1:04:13Charlie McCormick:The parsonage was amazing and we never thought we could excel it. But actually, this house is now, it is wonderful. And there's a whole story then in the book about how we've moved and all the rest of it. But that's going to have to be another book in about 10 years' time.

1:04:30Ben Pentreath:Yeah. Well, obviously, we'll have you back when that day comes. Oh, my God.

1:04:35Charlie McCormick:Definitely. I'd love to come back.

1:04:37Ben Pentreath:Do you spend winter there? Will you spend winter there?

1:04:39Charlie McCormick:Yeah, we've done two winters so far. It gets very cold, gets very dark. And you know, the sun goes down at about three o 'clock in the afternoon and it comes up at 9.30 in the morning because we're very far north. And it's fantastic. It's lovely. I love it. You get these crazy storms. It's good. We don't mind the winter. Lots of people up here don't like the winter. And then when we first arrived, everyone was like, oh, but you have to survive two winters. It's actually kind of fun the winter the flip side is at this time of year in the middle of summer i mean we've just had the solstice the longest day of the year but at this time of the year it doesn't really get dark like sunset is around about 11 30 and sunrise is at about three in the morning and if but if you wake up in the middle of the night it's still daylight outside like you could go out and read your newspaper in the garden at two in the morning it's really crazy um so i have an eye

1:05:39Ben Pentreath:mask yeah to sleep oh my gosh wild well thank you for sharing the book with us it's gorgeous and just thanks so much it's such an emotional read too which i loved it is yeah i had a whole list of questions and i haven't gotten to any of them but you know what we're just gonna keep this

1:06:01Charlie McCormick:episode to one episode yeah i think we should keep this one to one exactly otherwise everyone

1:06:06Ben Pentreath:You have a beautiful Scottish countryside to go enjoy. Yeah, exactly.

1:06:12Charlie McCormick:Yeah, exactly. Now tell me, do we have a decorating dilemma? I was reading my notes. We don't today. That's easy.

1:06:21Ben Pentreath:Yeah.

1:06:21Charlie McCormick:All the decorating dilemmas are solved anyway by just saying, just do whatever you want to do.

1:06:26Ben Pentreath:You're right. I think that was the best guidance of all right there.

1:06:30Charlie McCormick:Yeah. It just doesn't matter. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Least of all, any of us.

1:06:36Ben Pentreath:I'm also thinking that I've got some advice to just get yourself a Charlie. I mean, he sounds so remarkable. And he comes with all of his collections and gardening.

1:06:49Charlie McCormick:He's the most amazing. It's incredible. Yeah, life transforming. He bakes? He's the most amazing cook. Yeah, the baking. One of his most kind of like wanted recipes is for his sponge cake. covered in cream and raspberries, jam, and like, it's crazy. Anyway, he's finally releasing the recipe in the book.

1:07:16Ben Pentreath:It's never been written down before.

1:07:18Charlie McCormick:And I forced him to put it in there.

1:07:22Ben Pentreath:And it looks spectacular.

1:07:24Charlie McCormick:But he's also the most amazing gardener. And really, the book is about gardens and the seasons and the passage of time. And the garden is the thing which really flows through the whole book. um the house and the interiors we've tried to make it very practical as well like we actually tried to put in like lots of information about plant lists and you know these are his favorite tulips or the dahlias or kind of whatever it is like there's there's quite a lot of information and i did the same in the decoration side you know like actually this is the paint color this is where the fabric came from blah blah blah because so often you get those other books and And it all looks amazing.

1:08:02Charlie McCormick:And you're trying to work out what all the ingredients are. And you don't know. And it's kind of like really drives me mad.

1:08:10Ben Pentreath:Why don't I buy the book?

1:08:11Charlie McCormick:Yeah, exactly. You're not going to tell me. Anyway.

1:08:15Ben Pentreath:Well, thank you so much. Thank you so much. It's such a treat.

1:08:20Charlie McCormick:A year at the Parsonage.

1:08:22Ben Pentreath:You can find it on Amazon or wherever your local bookseller.

1:08:27Charlie McCormick:Go to your local bookseller, kids. We hate Amazon, but we all secretly buy our books from Amazon. But we actually do love supporting our local booksellers. And in England now, it's absolutely amazing because you can go to your local bookshop and order the book with them. And it turns up the next day or the day after, just like it turns up on Amazon. You know, but you're keeping a little local bookshop alive. And I really do actually love to give a shout out to proper local bookshops because they are the beating heart and the soul of any small town. and that is where you know the kids who aren't good at sport get to hang out that was me when i was 15 14 you know it's the bookshop and the art department that was it we'll speak in a year or two when the next thing happens whatever that is

1:09:19Ben Pentreath:and that's our show you can find all of the show notes on our blog howtodecorate.com slash podcast. To send in a decorating dilemma, email your questions to podcast at Ballard Designs dot net so we can help you with your space. And of course, be sure to follow us on social media at Ballard Designs. Don't forget to subscribe wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode. And please leave us a review. We'd love to hear your feedback. Until next time, happy decorating!

From the publisher

British architect and interior designer Ben Pentreath returns to the podcast to discuss his new book, A Year at the Parsonage, co-authored with his husband, Charlie McCormick. The book functions as a deeply personal visual diary of the 15 years the couple spent living in an 1820 Regency house in Dorset, England. Rather than staging polished lifestyle scenes, Ben and Charlie photographed the book themselves, capturing authentic daily moments, the evolving interiors, and the passage of seasons in Charlie's beloved garden.

Ben initially rented the Dorset parsonage in a rundown state, complete with black mold—a condition he prefers, as it allows for updates without feeling guilty about tearing out a previous landlord’s expensive renovations. Nestled in an unspoiled estate village owned by the Williams family for nearly 300 years, the home began with neutral pale gray and white walls due to a lack of time and budget. Over the years, the home's palette shifted drastically:

The dining room was painted "Victoria Plum," a 1960s purple inspired by David Hicks that looked magical by candlelight but made guests look ill during the day. It was later painted bright sky blue and eventually wallpapered for a Morris & Co. photoshoot.

The kitchen transitioned from white to Farrow & Ball's burnt orange "Wet Sand," then to a high-gloss bright yellow that felt like living inside an egg yolk, before finally returning to white.

While Ben stresses that architectural and structural decisions should be thoroughly planned, he believes interior decoration is easily overthought.

Embrace Change: Repainting a room is an inexpensive and fast way to completely shift a home's energy.

Physical Inspiration: To avoid losing digital inspiration, Ben prints out his phone screenshots, cuts off the social media logos, writes notes on the back, and pins them to his office wall to discover his personal style over time.

The Soul of a Room: A room's true character comes from its people, pets, and the practical comfort of daily life, not from perfectly color-matched piping.

When the Williams family decided to sell the Dorset estate, Ben and Charlie embraced the change and moved to Scotland. They purchased a mid-18th-century home called Westness on Rousay, an Orkney island with only 200 residents. The unspoiled property features a ten-acre garden where Charlie is currently clearing an overgrown Victorian walled space to cultivate vegetables.

Have you ever experimented with a bold paint color that looked vastly different in the daylight than you originally intended?

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