In short
The hosts discuss hypocrisy in MAGA/Republican leadership, focusing on Kristi Noem’s husband Bryon Noem threatening to “tell all” after admitting he met an OnlyFans woman; they argue the real issue is Noem’s lie to Congress about a “godly marriage” and the administration’s broader culture-war hypocrisy. They also cover Erica Kirk’s appearance at Trump’s Easter lunch and the viral Drewski video mocking her, plus Epstein/Maxwell file allegations about dismissive treatment of victims, and Ty Cobb criticizing Trump’s mental capacity and lack of 25th Amendment action.
Guests
Charlie Goldenson (progressive political strategist/producer/commentator; worked on local races, White House advising, and digital political media; Instagram “Chez/Chuck”).
Key claims/examples
“Traditional families” rhetoric is coded bigotry; Bryon’s OnlyFans relationship contradicts congressional testimony; Drewski’s mirror-holding skit exposes hypocrisy; Maxwell allegedly showed no remorse toward victims; Pam Bondi hearing parallels; corporate media avoids coverage that could alienate profitable audiences.
Written by AI. May contain mistakes. Listen to the episode to check what was said.
Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOKristi Noem's Husband and the Scandal
0:45 to 1:28
Discussion about Kristi Noem's husband threatening to reveal secrets.
“Charlie has now taken his political commentary and strategic guidance to social media, where he has gained a significant following.”
Hypocrisy and Bimbofication
1:28 to 2:54
Analyzing the hypocrisy in political figures' personal lives and public personas.
“And some reporting from the Daily Beast come out.”
The Lies of Traditional Marriage
2:54 to 4:21
Exploration of how political figures manipulate traditional family values.
“The entire administration is based on lies, on hatred, on bullshit.”
Influence of Political Statements
4:21 to 5:48
Discussion on the impact of political figures' statements and policies on marginalized communities.
“That's where they're all of their social activities, their friend group center, and to take somebody's religion and just brazenly lie to them like that.”
Drewski's Political Commentary
5:48 to 6:45
Analysis of Drewski's video and its cultural significance in politics.
“But like, to me, it's so much broader than that, to your exact point about the traditional family and traditional gender roles.”
Trump's Easter Lunch and Controversy
6:45 to 8:02
Reflection on Donald Trump's comments during an Easter lunch.
“Of course we get to attack the hypocrisy over and over and over again.”
Ghislaine Maxwell and Epstein Files
8:02 to 11:20
Discussion surrounding the treatment of Ghislaine Maxwell and the implications of the Epstein files.
“Anybody that doesn't want to unload, darling?”
The Disconnect of Political Leaders
11:20 to 13:42
Analyzing the disconnect between political leaders' actions and the consequences for victims.
“More times, more times than Harry Potter is referenced in the Harry Potter books, by the way.”
Mental Capacity and Political Consequences
13:42 to 14:02
Discussion about the mental state of Donald Trump and its implications for governance.
“and they view themselves as not responsible to the harm that they've caused.”
Trump's Mental Capacity Under Scrutiny
14:02 to 14:41
Discussing concerns about Donald Trump's mental health and its implications.
“It's not a surprise that we're in this much trouble.”
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Voices from Inside Trump's Circle
14:42 to 15:55
Exploring statements from former Trump officials about his behavior.
“His audio came out, or he did an interview actually, where he called him a fascist.”
Media's Role in Covering Political Insanity
15:56 to 17:29
Analyzing why the media fails to properly cover serious allegations against Trump.
“We know this, that anybody who is inside the Trump orbit and then gets disregarded comes out and says, this person is fucking insane.”
The Impact of Messaging on Voter Turnout
17:30 to 18:32
Discussing how political messaging affects voter participation.
“it trickles down to the electorate, I think.”
Corporate Media's Complicity in Political Issues
18:33 to 20:04
Examining the profit motives of corporate media and their impact on democracy.
“They stop showing up for their democracy.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Can we just look at this for a second? And normally I wouldn't, but I'm bringing it back to everything, which is look at this fucking gold eagle that he's standing on. That is clearly cheap and clearly a toy.
0:14All right.
0:15Charlie Goldensohn:Welcome to the IHIP News, the I've Had It podcast studio in New York City. Our first in-person guest, New Yorker Charlie Goldenson. He's also known on Instagram as Chez, like in the house of, C-H-E-Z, Chuck. He is a progressive political strategist, producer, and commentator from managing local races to working in the White House, advising celebrities and humanitarians like Chef Jose Andres and running digital political media companies. Charlie has now taken his political commentary and strategic guidance to social media, where he has gained a significant following. So significant that I was in the West Village the other day and some girls came up to, like, Jennifer, we love you.
0:59Charlie Goldensohn:And I thought they were going to fangirl on me. They're like, we loved your guest, Charlie. We followed him now. I'm sorry to pull the attention away from you. That's okay. Pretty nice. All right. I would like to just completely dive into, I personally love Republican gay sex scandals a lot. And so the husband of Kristi Noem, whom I will affectionately refer to as Big Titty Brian, he is now threatening to tell all. And some reporting from the Daily Beast come out. Brian himself admitted in a phone interview with the Daily Mail, he met a woman on OnlyFans, a website primarily used by married men to purchase content from what are typically amateur porn stars.
1:44Charlie Goldensohn:In the same call with the mail, he denied putting U.S. national security at risk by speaking with online adult film stars, but they did not deny the relationship or his bimbo activities. And I believe this is called bimbofication. is what he does when he puts on his rack and then gets on OnlyFans. Here's something I just really am curious about this whole thing. Who do you think leaked this? So this is Twitter sphere. So like who knows? But what I've heard is that there was actually like an undocumented or immigrant sex worker who had knowledge of the story and released it to a reporter and leaked it to a reporter initially, which whether – I hope that's true.
2:29I hope that's the real case. But to me, it's like, you know, all these motherfuckers are going to get what's coming to them. And like, to me, this is like a perfect, perfect example of just like one little drop, one little punch back in the face to say, you know, you were so hypocritical. The hypocrisy here is insane. The entire administration is based on lies, on hatred, on bullshit. it and like what i love about this story is it's so fucking funny like it just allows us to laugh it allows us to point and laugh and it allows us to say as always we know that this is the case we know these guys are crazy fucking freaks and that's not to kink shame like teach their own right like we know that like everything they use and all the language they weaponized to hate on our most marginalized communities like it's just bullshit um and they're just operating in the shadows and shamed to do so.
3:27Yeah.
3:28Charlie Goldensohn:And I think the important part here is I don't give a shit if Kristi Noem has an affair. I don't care if Kristi Noem's husband likes to put on big titties and make a duck face. What I care about is the lie in front of Congress when they sat there and said, we have a godly marriage. And this horrible phrase that the Republican Party uses all of the time, traditional families, traditional marriage. And that is a very exclusionary, bigoted phrasing, coded. They try to make it coded, kind of like when Trump refers to cities, what he's referring to when he says cities are black people. And so this lie, as they sit there and tell people we have a godly marriage and they Christian signal to their base that we can do whatever we want to do because we're right with Jesus.
4:18Charlie Goldensohn:I think that is one of the more insidious things that MAGA does to its base, because in swaths of America, the only culture they have is with their church. That's where they're all of their social activities, their friend group center, and to take somebody's religion and just brazenly lie to them like that. And Big Titty Brian took part in that when he sat behind his wife at the congressional hearings. I would normally have empathy for him or just, I just wouldn't care. People are freaks. They like to do freaky things sexually. But the fact that he helped lie for her while she is taking orders from Stephen Miller to harass peaceful protesters in Minneapolis who are getting killed, that shit's just diabolical.
5:02Charlie Goldensohn:And I just think we need to expose these fucking hypocrites every chance we get. Yeah. Completely. I also think that like these, to your point, like I don't want to shame anybody for like living as their true selves and doing what they need to do. But like, that's not the full story here, right? Like first, he's not living as his true self. He's burying this and his wife is burying this and the administration is burying this. They're living a life of lies and they're using those lies to project their own or project their own hatred on others. And it's not just hatred. These are people in power.
5:39These are people with influence. These are people shaping the policies that define the everyday lives of everyone. And again, specifically our most marginalized communities. And the other thing with this too, is like, there's a lot of discussion, you know, because it's very easy to kind of like expand this and compare Big Titty Brian to all these fights and arguments around trans rights, right? But like, to me, it's so much broader than that, to your exact point about the traditional family and traditional gender roles. This just shows that the traditional hierarchy, the traditional gender role setup of these marriages is bullshit.
6:15Totally. It's made up. And even the people at the highest levels of government with the most attention on them, the ones who are spending tens of million dollars to get on a fucking horse and put on a cowboy hat and say that we're going to deport you, even them know that behind the scenes, there is no definition to traditional marriage. That you can do whatever you want. And so, again, it's not to shame this man, but it is to say, if you are going to pretend this isn't true, if you're going to pretend this is not how people live and act, and then you're going to attack others, then fuck you. Of course we get to attack the hypocrisy over and over and over again.
6:48Charlie Goldensohn:Yeah. And I think the shame is in shaming the hypocrisy. Yeah. I think that, you know, when you look at Lindsey Graham, a.k.a. Lady Graham, when you look at Moses Mike, you look at these fucking hypocrites in the MAGA movement. You look at Donald Trump. Yeah. And they're just all such bullshit artists, every single one of them. But speaking of bullshit artists, let's talk about Erica Kirk and what I believe one of the most important political videos made of this year is what Drewski did. Because I think in order for the Democrats to create the blue tsunami and get the executive branch back, we have to inject ourselves into the culture.
7:30Charlie Goldensohn:And what Drewski did in putting a mirror up to the Christy gnomes of the world, to the Erica Kirks of the world, say, this is how y 'all act. And this is the way it's perceived. It's the same hypocrisy as Big Titty Brian, and we're not buying it. Well, here's Donald Trump, a video of him weighing in. I guess Erica Kirk was at the White House yesterday for Trump's Easter lunch, which is another bullshit thing. and he tells Erica Kirk the following. Play the clip. A thing called Happy Easter. Do we have that? Everyone happy? Anybody that doesn't want to unload, darling? Wow, this is a good table.
8:09I like that table. You're doing well, right? Okay. I think you should sue him, but you know. I told her, you ought to sue somebody. They're so jealous of Erica. I said, you ought to sue their... I can say you're not allowed to say this. You have to be nice to her. Sue their ass off. Okay. Charlie. A couple thoughts. First is, do we have the ability to actually pull up that clip of the Trump clip one more time? If not, it's fine.
8:36Charlie Goldensohn:Yeah, we do. Can we just look at this for a second? And normally I wouldn't, but I'm bringing it back to everything, which is look at this fucking gold eagle that he's standing on. That is clearly cheap and clearly a toy. And like, I'm not gay, but like, I know what camp means. And like to me, that's like the most camp over the top, ridiculous in the best way. Yeah. You know, tool. And it's like, again, it's just it's bullshit. Like these people are it's all an act. But back to Drewski, what you said, I think, is what's getting forgotten here, which is if you watch the video, he's not even really making fun of her.
9:11He's like genuinely just holding up a mirror to her actual exactly what she did doing exactly what she does. He's just, you know, holding a spotlight on her exact actions. And of course, this thing gets hundreds of millions of views. Republicans, Ted Cruz freak out. Of course, the same Republicans who scream that comedy is dead and Elon Musk, who's sitting on stages, you know, with the chain stop screaming about comedy being dying. They're the same ones freaking out about this. It's a it's a recurring theme in not just the Republican Party, but in fascist movements is the hypocrisy. again. And I think that like, I agree with you.
9:51The skit is like, I didn't under, I didn't realize it when I first started watching it. And by the end of it, my jaw was on the floor. So I was like, this is one of the most significant pieces of political content I've ever seen in my life.
10:00Charlie Goldensohn:It is to me, it is the way forward because we have to do Charlie reputational damage to the MAGA brand. Like the JD Vance couch fucking stuff is a plus, but we need to keep going because this guy's writing a book, you know, that he's, you know, he's changed his name three times, J.D. Vance. He's changed his religion three times. He's written a book on Catholicism where he put an image of a Methodist church on the cover. And not to mention the varying degrees of eyeliner he wears frequently. And J.D. Vance is young, diabolical, and he wants to be the heir apparent of this movement. He's far more terrifying than Trump.
10:41Charlie Goldensohn:And so we need to not only talk about how democratic policies, progressive democratic policies can deliver for Americans, but also show the world what fucking buffoons and hypocrites these people are. And then moving along here, we cannot forget about the Epstein files, because that's really why we're at war with Iran. Because the president of the United States, who has vast support from white evangelical Christians, is mentioned in the Epstein files where kids, little girls are getting raped over 1 million times. They don't give a shit about those kids. So he starts a sworn Iran. More times, more times than Harry Potter is referenced in the Harry Potter books, by the way.
11:26Yeah.
11:27Charlie Goldensohn:Wow. And so Jen Shaw says that Ghislaine Maxwell was treated very differently and was dismissive of Epstein victims. Let's play this clip and I want your take on this. She is treated very differently there. And, you know, I didn't have a lot of interaction with her. There's no remorse there. And again, I obviously don't know all the details of the case or whatever, but I mean, we know enough. It was a lot when the victims would be on TV and talking, she was just complete disregard for them. And this is when they are pouring their hearts out in front of Congress and for this files to be released and stuff.
12:05And so to see that kind of behavior when there are real victims that you're seeing and what they've gone through and to be so dismissive of that, that, that just didn't sit with me the right way. Kind of reminds you of the way Pam Bondi. I was thinking the exact same thing. I was preparing myself to say that. Oh my gosh.
12:23Charlie Goldensohn:Great minds. With the hands behind her at the hearing. Yeah. Yeah. That's what I was picturing too. Yeah. What we're referencing is when Pam Bondi did a, was it a congressional hearing or a congressional committee? And, um, somebody asked her, you know, will you commit to basically interviewing to having the Department of Justice interview anyone who is affected by this who comes forward. And she said, of course we will. And at that moment, there is a like almost a dozen women who have been sexually abused by Epstein or by people in the Epstein file standing behind her with their hands up because they have not yet been interviewed by the Department of Justice, even though they've made themselves available and given their stories and given their testimony.
13:05um yeah again hypocrisy cognitive dissonance um these people i mean it reminds me a lot of again not it's always i want to be careful with when we compare things to nazi germany but like it reminds me a lot of the interviews that we saw in the nuremberg trials where a lot of these uh nazi leaders there's just such a disconnect there's such a delta between their own actions and the repercussions of those actions. And then the human bodies that were impacted by the repercussions of those actions. We see it over and over again. These people don't fucking care and they view themselves as not responsible to the harm that they've caused.
13:46And like, that is the most evil shit that I think we can imagine.
13:50Charlie Goldensohn:I completely agree. All right. Moving along here, we have the former MAGA attorney. And he was a White House attorney. So not like, The White House will have lawyers. Ty Cobb, and he is speaking out against the mental capacity of Donald Trump, our dementia duck president. Play the clip. It's not a surprise that we're in this much trouble. It's not a surprise that given the fact that the cabinet will not invoke the 25th Amendment for a man who's clearly insane. And this war highlights that. And these screeds that come out nightly at 2 a.m. or 4 a.m. or whatever time Trump decides to vent without oversight, it highlights the level of his insanity and depravity.
14:41You think he's just gone? I think he's gone. Yeah. Charlie? A lot of thoughts here. Again, mustache, camp. These people are ridiculous. this um what what bothers me about this clip is not the clip itself it's that like as much as i'd like to hope that these kind of voices matter uh this is not the first time that former trump administration officials or personal staff has come out very publicly um to call trump uh crazy to call him a sexual predator to call him a fascist if we remember when general kelly during the 2024 campaign. His audio came out, or he did an interview actually, where he called him a fascist.
15:27And the reality is I was on the Kamala Harris campaign at the time, which we've talked about before, was a disaster. And we produced a lot of ads trying to lean into that, trying to get people to understand that these calls are coming from inside the house. These people who know Trump closely are the ones actually using the most specific intentional language to describe him. And I don't know. I don't know if the reason it doesn't hit is because people don't care. I don't know if it's because our news cycle is so sporadic and quick that we talk about this and by 2 p.m. today, people will have forgotten.
16:03But no, we know this. We know this, that anybody who is inside the Trump orbit and then gets disregarded comes out and says, this person is fucking insane. And the general public slash the media, I think, have done a really terrible job of responding and covering it. So I'm actually very glad that we're talking about this right now.
16:22Charlie Goldensohn:Yeah. And scholars point out that oftentimes liberals collaborate with fascists. And so that's an important point when you talk about the media not covering this properly, because the corporate media represents the same corporations and oligarchs that liberals, Hakeem Jeffries, Chuck Schumer, Cory Booker take money from. So you have liberals that collaborate with fascists to keep the corrupt economic system in place. Furthermore, I would say a lot of this has been incubated with Christian nationalism. And a lot of it has been incubated when you see what happened with the George W. Bush administration and Obama came in and said, we're going to be forward thinking.
17:06Charlie Goldensohn:We're not going to talk about Abu Ghraib. We're going to talk about CIA black sides. We're going to let all the bankers off the hook. And you start to see the moral collapse, not just with Trump, but Democratic and Republican administrations prior to where we don't reconcile war crimes and or white collar financial crimes, that breakage, that trickles down. Wealth never does. But that sort of moral breakage, it trickles down to the electorate, I think. Yeah. I think two things that that reminded me of. One is it's disconnected, disconnected, which is that what you're describing of like, how trickle down economics doesn't work, but the kind of like degradation of morals absolutely trickles down.
17:48Something that we know we saw in Georgia back in like 2018, 2018 or 2020 is studies have been done around messaging and campaigning around voter disenfranchisement. And we would think, right, that if you tell people that like Republicans are trying to take their vote away, that that would actually like encourage them to vote. It doesn't. It actually does the opposite. If your messaging is simply these corrupt politicians and fascists are trying to make it harder for you to vote, it actually drives down voter turnout because people feel like, yes, okay, the system is corrupt. Like, why should I have any faith in the system?
18:27So in order to get people to actually show up, you have to provide solutions. You have to provide answers. You have to provide pathways. So that's just like an example of that trickle down moral degradation of how it actually has policy outcomes too. People stop showing up. They stop showing up for their democracy. And then on the media piece, the corporate media piece, something I want to say, it's a great point. And I think it's something that people don't think about a lot, especially folks who are kind of like, you know, still consuming a lot of traditional media and maybe slowly making their way into YouTube or independent voices, which is great.
18:58is we think about even these left-leaning or liberal media corporations, cable news networks. And I need folks to understand, like, these are profit-driven companies, right? And so a lot of folks, I think, have been confused over the years of like, well, why are they not going after Trump as hard as they were in 2020? Why are we having more MAGA voices on and not less? and it's because they are making decisions based upon their consumers. They're making decisions about what to cover and how to cover it to ensure that they're still profitable and are not infuriating or alienating certain parts of their viewers.
19:38And if they are seeing that some of their viewers are starting to skew right or some of their viewers are starting to actually be like, yeah, well, maybe Trump has a point, then they don't want to piss those people off. They don't want to lose those viewers, which will drive down their advertising revenue. So the entire model, frankly, of for-profit corporate media reveals itself in a fascist system as not being equipped to deal with fascism. So yes, liberalism, neoliberalism, liberal media absolutely plays a part in the rise of fascism because it is by definition ill-equipped to deal with it.
20:17Yep.
20:18Charlie Goldensohn:All right, Charlie, I can't thank you enough for stopping by our I've Had It podcast studios in New York. And I hope you come by a couple times a month. I would love to. I'm just going to say this because I've been told I'm one of the first people in the studio and I'm honored to be here. This is very fucking cool. Yes. Yes, you are. You are. We're going to have New York people and you are. I mean, we have been testing the listener. The ear things aren't working too well because Kylie bought the wrong ones. What do you have to say for yourself, Kylie? Anything? I like it. Sounds good to me. No, it's great.
20:55Charlie Goldensohn:We love Kylie. And Charlie, thank you for coming. I'll have you back in a couple of weeks. Thank you. Can't wait to be here. Thanks, guys.
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