Bigots Gone Bananas

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1:13Ready? One, two, three. What? Why are you laughing? The ready. Ready. So embarrassing. Ready. It's like a cheerleader. Okay, I have to do my part. Patriots, gay-triots, they-triots, black-triots, brown-triots. We love you. All of the triple-Trumpers, who actually still supports Trump, can do what, Pumps? Fuck off! Welcome to America's Top DEI Podcast. Pumps, what do you have it with? Okay, what I've had it with, and I know I'm going to get shit from you the minute I say this, but so I've had it with children's birthday parties that go into all of us. hours of the night and that trash blows all into my yard.

2:03And for two full days, I'm picking up all the shit, like the candy wrappers, the balloons that popped. I mean, I understand I gave a ridiculously embarrassing, like hang my head in shame birthday party, third birthday for Emily. It was during the day. I scooped up all the animal shit. We had a bouncy house, a bubble guy, like a balloon guy, not a bubble guy, a balloon guy and a bubble thing, which my dogs love the bubble thing. I'm not, I'm not against that. It went off. Whose birthday party are you talking about? I'm lost. In my neighbor's backyard. My neighbor's birthday. Okay. Listener, you have to understand sometimes pops goes into a story, assuming the listener knows 50%.

2:49So you're at home and you're behind neighbors with whom you share a fence. Correct. Are having a big child rager. Yes. Okay. And then you're getting, you're getting child debris for days. Okay. And it goes late into the night. Like the kid is maybe, I remember last year, I thought it was, I thought I heard him say it was her two-year-old birthday. So now we're at three and we're going till 11 or 12 a.m. I don't think that's for her. I think that's for them. And then I cannot tell you how much my dogs, how many Reese's pieces, those Brown cups that are left afterwards. They're all over my yard.

3:34I almost feel like trash, like blue over anyway. I just think it's rude as fact. I think if you have a child's birthday party, it needs to end at bedtime at the latest. ridiculous so i think that's terrible i've had it with that by proxy and you're telling me like their candy wrappers are in your yard yes they're candy wrappers did you go over there and talk to them about it no because my dogs aren't the greatest they're the neighbors dogs in the neighborhood so i'm not gonna you know and here's the deal they're perfect neighbors except for their child's birthday every year. And they raged until 11 midnight.

4:16Yes. I mean, it's crazy. Last year I thought what, what are they? Cause it's like loud music. Like we're, we are having a full-blown rage. You think they're tripping Molly or something? I don't know. I mean, I don't know. Dance music. Is it electronic? Little kids music during the day. Okay. And then it moves into more adult music, but like kids could dance to it, I guess. I didn't know the name of the songs, but they weren't like wet ass pussy or anything like that. It was kind of appropriate for kids. Yeah. Yeah. That would be something, wouldn't it, if they played wet ass pussy at the toddler party?

4:54What would they do if I got up on a ladder? What would they do if you got a bucket and a mop?

5:03Can you imagine if I just climbed up there? That could be great. Get a bucket and a mop. Uh-huh. Um, no, I, I've had it with that. I think that's ridiculous. I think that's obscene. I think it's disrespectful. Um, but here's the thing. Sometimes neighbors have parties. I think what irritates me the most about this is that the age of the toddler. So little for all of this adult stuff into the evening. Like I'm not going to throw stones if it's till, you know, like 10 AM to 2 PM And they can have the clowns and the bubble machine, the balloon maker, the bouncy house, all that. I'm fine with that.

5:44Where it gets me going is when we're still doing it late into the evening. I completely agree. I think those kids need to get to bed. I think it's reckless parenting. I think it's bad neighboring. I would be every bit as irritated as you, especially if the trash were getting into my dog's mouth. And then your dogs have a history of swallowing things they shouldn't swallow with multiple emergency vet visits, extractions, forced vomiting. I mean, it happens, it seems like monthly with you and one of your dogs. So I agree. I think that's insane. I think birthday, kid birthday parties are getting ridiculous.

6:22So my nephew, Joey, and his wife, Madison, they just had a birthday party for my little baby nephew. you. And she like, she had a step and repeat for like, you know, like for photographs and I couldn't help it. The greatest thing about Madison is she's real self-deprecating. So I text her and I go, birthday party pics look really over the top. She has, I couldn't help myself. I go a step and repeat for a two-year-old. Seriously. She goes, Oh yeah. Wait till I send you the pics of the personalized juice boxes. It was so over the top and she, and she'll sit there and own it. She'll say it's ridiculous.

6:59It's a complete waste of money. I wouldn't have it any other way. It was all the birthday party was done for the gram and she will sit and own it. She will say it absolutely was done to make, you know, appealing Instagram photos. And I appreciate that. It's the people that thirst trap that deny thirst trapping that irritate me. Oh, my, my two-year-old was dying for a step and repeat. My two-year-old was dying for that. It's like bullshit. Yeah. No, Madison's the coolest. She's owned shit. No, she just owned it. And I was able to go in and she was like, Oh, couldn't love it enough. Wish I would have done more.

7:35All right. So, okay. Let me tell you, I've been thinking a lot about how triggered and fragile MAGA people are regarding DEI. You know, it's their big thing. Like we're against woke, we're anti-woke, we're anti-DEI. And so really what DEI is, diversity, equity, inclusion, it's about making sure people that are diverse have an equal shot at jobs that white people normally get. Well, I have a new acronym that I would like to introduce to the class, and it's IAI, Idiot Advancement Initiative. because every time I see a person on the television or on my phone that is an idiot, they work for Donald Trump and they have been advanced to this job over qualified, really qualified people because of their idiocy.

8:39And so I think we progressives need to say, We oppose IAI, the idiot advancement initiatives put forth by the Trump regime, because I have never seen a larger collection of idiots on display. It is unbelievable. It's breathtaking, actually. When you see J.D. Vance, Pete Hegseth, Tulsi Gabbard, Kristi Noem, who's still the president of the shield of vaginas or something that he's given her some job for. right? The shield of balloon titties. Big titty Brian. It just goes on and on and on. And it's, they really have a policy of advancing idiots, but I blame 77 million Americans for voting for the biggest idiot of all time.

9:32And then the buyer's remorse that they're all acting like they have right now. It's just more than I can take. Here's the thing on the buyer's remorse. And I, you know me, I'm thinking they have learned their lesson when elections roll around. Please tell me you're not thinking that. No, no, no, no. That's where I want to move. And then you say they would vote for Trump again. We've seen it with Megyn Kelly. She will go on and on about the missteps, how horrible the ball has been fumbled. And then she says, well, it's better than the left. And I would still vote for him. So here's the thing. As much as I would like to say that, you have put me in a position where you put someone in my life, a picture of them to my face and say, would this person quadruple down despite everything they're saying?

10:27And in my heart, I'm like, yeah. So I don't have a lot of faith. My biggest hope for this group of people that now have buyer's remorse is they just don't vote because I just don't trust them to not go in and make the same mistakes. So here's the thing. You bring up a good point. Here's the thing that Trump did is he got a lot of voter enthusiasm for the idiot advancement initiative. And so a lot of people came out that had never voted before or were not super voters that maybe voted randomly. And he really drove up Republican turnout numbers. And I do think, you know, this guy, I mean, I'm no physician, but it doesn't look very good.

11:13Right. You know, they remember they're like, Joe Biden's going to croak any second. And this is like, to me, worse. And I don't think Joe Biden looked lively young. It wasn't a good look. Like two years in, I was like, is he going to run again? Well, what, we're like 16, 17 months into Trump. And I'm like, are we still going to let him do this shit? Like he just sleeps on national television all the time or lies or talks about shit that nobody knows what the hell he's talking about. So I do think that the voter turnout will not be as good. But the Republicans have a really good way of scaring.

11:50I think in general, Republicans and MAGA men and women are very fear motivated. And these people get scared very easily. They get triggered very easily, like gay people trigger them. Chance people trigger them. People speaking Spanish trigger them. Women trigger them. Black singers trigger them. And so they get very motivated by fear to go out to vote against these very scary things, like black person singing. but I don't know that Vance or Mark little Marco or if he ends up running like some family member of his Domer Domer the sons I don't think people are going to just go kill themselves to go vote for them okay so I'll tell you uh watching basketball games I have to watch commercials I'm forced to I have no choice and Oklahoma as everyone is how it is running for all kinds of offices, governor, the whole nine.

12:53You would not believe these commercials. I mean, you would, honest to God, you would think that if you open up your door, you are going to get run over by trans people, that there is going to be a march of 70 million trans people all lined up to go play sport machetes with machetes I mean it's just I every time I watch them I just think who in the fuck is stupid enough to believe any of this and I have one guy he is promising if he becomes governor he's going to make a Trump institute for science like that but it's like the Trump Institute and it's like science or weather. And I'm just like, are you kidding me?

13:51That's what we're doing. Like there's this one guy, this one guy that's running for governor. And here's the problem. What happens in places like Oklahoma, because the Republican primary picks whoever's going to be the governor. So they all out crazy each other and it's a race to the bottom. So there's this one guy and his name is, uh, let me see it here. McCall. And he basically castrates a banana on a television commercial. He said, let me be perfectly clear. Cutting this banana, and then he does a dramatic chop, does not make it an orange. What that means, I don't know. And then he says, I have a simple message for any lunatic pushing sex change for kids.

14:37And then he does another chop and he says, you first. And here's the thing. nobody is pushing sex change for kids period end of story kids are not getting in litter boxes at school squatting down on all fours getting butt naked and scratching the litter and then taking a dump and then covering said dump with their hands like their cats it doesn't fucking happen and if you have believed that and somebody has looked you and said well i knew my cousin's friend over at such and such high school said she saw the litter box. You're a fucking dipshit. Everybody has these phones in their hands at all time.

15:17And here's all I have to say about how fragile MAGA people are. Like, have you ever been around a trans person? Have you ever interacted with a trans person? Like, is this such a threat to your gender, your religion, your family unit, that it's so fragilely constructed that a trans person will completely dismantle your entire life identity and faith and family and freedom and all that shit. Like literally it's such an indictment on these gubernatorial candidates running in Oklahoma about what pussies they are. That your entire political identity, family identity, religious identity can completely get dismantled because of a trans person?

16:06Like seriously, it's such an indictment on how weak minded these people are. Absolutely. And here's the thing. I would bet you 95 % of the voters in rural Oklahoma have never even been within a hundred mile radius of a trans person. But I do want to say this. I do think probably maybe they kind of have. And this is what I want our listener to remember. When you're in school and you're little, the phrase tomboy, a girl that is kind of boyish, that's very common before all of this culture war about trans people. Back in our day, perhaps people would say if there was an effeminate boy, they'd say, well, boy, he sure is light in the loafers.

17:00So this kind of gender fluidity has always existed. And nobody has freaked out about it until recently. Now, obviously, you know, these things have resulted in bullying and whatnot. But we've all kind of been around our whole lives, people that don't fit into these binary boxes. that as a society, we have made up that boys all have to be this way and girls all have to be this way. There is definitely, you can all think back on it, and I'll just tell you this much, anybody who's been to rural Oklahoma or any rural part, there's a real fine line between a cowgirl and a lesbian. You go to some boot scootin' bar and you see one of these cowboys that's about this big and has on the tight wranglers and the big belt with the big buckle and the start shirt twirling around on that dance floor, it's giving queen.

17:57So I'm just saying we have all seen this sort of gender fluidity in all of the places imaginable. And it's awesome. It's great. And And the fact of the matter is trans people are born in rural communities at the same percentage that they're born in big cities. I recently had on the podcast a Yale professor, Robin Dimbroff, and they are a non-binary person, born pumps in a very Christian family, homeschooled, went to Bible school. So by MAGIS guidance, in order to avoid woke and transgender, you have to raise your children in a Republican Christian environment. Professor Robin Dimbroff was raised in said environment.

18:54And they were outed after the Bible study stint, then began deconstructing, and now is one of these radical professors at Yale. Wink, wink, I say that. But by MAGA's logic, Robin should be a good Christian person that would never, you know, be non-binary or trans or gay or any of these things. But that's the thing about the LGBTQ+. The majority of the LGBTQ plus people that I know in Oklahoma had conservative Christian parents. Right. They do conservatives give birth to trans people, to gay people, because nobody fucking picks it. So then you have a choice like this asshole. What was his name?

19:44McCall. You can either be a dick about it and bully kids via your gubernatorial campaign, or you can say, you know what? Maybe these people are a little different than what we expect them to be. But as a person of power, I'm not going to stand on TV like a nut castrating bananas to try to scare the rubes. You know, it's just, it's fucking psychotic. But they're so ignorant. They're so, I mean, like, I can't even tell you all the trans commercials that are going on in the state of Oklahoma. And how sad is that? It's so sad. It's so, it makes me so mad. So mad. And I'll tell you what else. And I'm like, I've looked at all the polls.

20:27I see all the poll numbers. I see Trump's policies, his approval rating, these fuckers are trying to out support Trump. Like, well, this candidate didn't support Trump's this, but I did. And I'm just like, obviously, sadly, because my first thought was obviously that, you know, their campaign managers aren't cut up or caught up on the polling and the approval rating. And then I thought, it doesn't fucking matter. Well, that's what's so sad about states like Oklahoma, Mississippi, Louisiana, Alabama. In my experience, your experience is in Oklahoma. You look no further than if you're mad at the way the government is run.

21:08It is a Republican problem. The attorney general, the Supreme Court, the governor, both houses in the state legislature, all Republican super majorities. You hate education, Republicans. You hate the law and order. It's all Republicans. every bit. And as Governor Stitt, as I like to call Governor Limp Dick, as he goes on, he dedicated every square inch of that state to Jesus Christ at the very beginning of his second term. And still high crime, high teen pregnancies, 50th in education. I don't know if that's an indictment on dedicating things to Jesus, an indictment on prayer, an indictment on, what do I call it?

21:56The idiot advancement initiative. They keep advancing these idiots to do idiotic things that just dismantle. And I just, I'm at a loss for Oklahoma and people will say, well, you should have stayed there and fought for it. And I'm like, I fought for progressive politics in Oklahoma from the age 18 until 51. I hosted more political parties that anybody I know. I had everybody's fucking yard sign in my yard. And I finally came to the conclusion, this is what the people of Oklahoma want. And it's not that they win like by a little bit. It is double digit, ruby red, hellfire damnation, idiot advancement initiatives.

22:44And these people want to talk about trans people because they are fucking obsessed. with gay shit and trans shit. And how do I know this? Because I found a little study pumps, you know, where the number one place where all trans porn is consumed, Lawton, Oklahoma, they are over there watching trans porn on loop. And I don't give a shit if they do or don't. I just find it fascinating that these people are consuming these anti-trans commercials, trying to decide who is the most anti-trans dipshit that we can advance in government to dismantle more of what it's supposed to do. And then the minute they finish watching that commercial, it's whack city on trans porn.

23:28And that's my thing, which I don't care if you want to whack off to trans porn, do your thing. It's a free country. But it's just the breathtaking hypocrisy. And I just had to come back. And I hold, I'm going to tell you, I hold a lot of the churches in Oklahoma accountable for all of this because so many people are major church attenders and these pastors are just total pieces of shit that perpetuate hating on people. No, I completely agree. I would, I would link it in a large majority because you are, you hear it in your home and then you hear it from church and then you hear it from the pastor and it just, you think it's normal.

24:07Like, well, you, of course you vote Republican. That's what you do. That's what your parents do. That's what your pastor does. That's what your, you know, your school teacher does. So of course you do. Perhaps I remember I watched this like 60 minutes or vice. I can't remember which it was. It was probably about 15, 20 years ago before, but probably 10 to 15 years ago before this was such a, um, uh, culture war issue before it was really, really exploited. And it was a woman in Alabama and she was conservative Christian lady, kind of like, you know, exactly the way you grew up. She prayed. She did everything that she was supposed to do.

24:44She had this little boy. She lived in rural Alabama. She had this little boy, and this little boy kept telling her, age two, three, I'm a girl. I want to play with this doll. I want to play. It was the only child she had. And this boy wanted to wear dresses and do all of these things. So she, you know, they prayed. She spanked him. She put in timeout. She did all of these things, you know, pastors over. And then finally, she got out of the church therapy and was able to go to an actual therapist. And that therapist told her, like, your child is trans. Like, your child is telling us who it is. Church cut her off.

25:22Her family cut her off. But she said, you know, this is so painful for me because my whole identity was a Republican Christian woman. But I'm worried that my child will kill themselves. Absolutely. And I have to be a mother first. And so she agreed to do this interview. And it was just so, goes to my larger point that these conservatives that are hating on all this, that think their lives, if all you have to do is pray and, you know, God, the evangelical God plays favorites, you know, and does personal favors. And so these people are so narcissistic. And then because their imaginary friend is not doing personal favors for them, you have a gay child or a trans child or your child marries, you know, a black person or a brown person.

26:11And it's this diversity that protects us. It's this acceptance that protects us. Because whenever you have a homogenized group together, it just, they cook up a lot of bad ideas. A bunch of white people, that's why I don't like the suburbs very much. A bunch of white people out in the suburbs at HOA, they're just cooking up bad ideas. It's not good. Diversity is a protector. It protects us. It keeps our minds open. It keeps us cooperating, which cooperation we know is an evolutionary trait that helps with longevity. And so I just want all of our trans listeners, non-binary listeners, and Professor Robin Dembroff, and if you didn't watch that episode.

26:59It was, I believe Sundays. It was just very, very excellent. They are an excellent speaker. Oh, pumps. They spoke about psychological captivity and it made me think of you. Okay. So that when you're, um, when you're raised with this black and white religion, you're, it's like psychological captivity that you're kept in, that they're holding you captive psychologically. I have their book. They brought like three or four copies, I'll mail you one pumps. Okay. Yeah. Really? Yeah. I think you'll really, really enjoy it. But anyway, that's a long intro. Welcome to I've had it. I am a, uh, white woman named Jennifer and I support LGBTQ plus all the letters, all the fucking letters.

27:46I don't care how long the fucking acronyms get. You will see no pearl clutching for me only support. and I am very worried about the rise in anti-black racism in this country. It is at a boiling point right now and every white listener of ours, you need to use your privilege to call out every racist motherfucker in this country. If you see a racist watching basketball, call him out. If you see them eating in a Mexican restaurant, call him out because the racism is out of control in this country right now. And these people must have white allies that fight for the diversity that makes all of our lives better and protects us.

28:27No, I completely agree. And it's the boiling point. What's your name? Oh, my name is Angie. Or you can call me hot stuff. I like that. That's why you're America's top podcaster. But you were just saying the boiling point, Go back to that. I feel like the boiling point, like probably I would say, you know, several years ago, probably during Obama. So that, you know, you can mark it around there. I was like, you know, we're we're moving forward with, you know, gay marriage. Racism is down now. I feel like it is even worse than I grew up. and I don't up in it and around it like everywhere. And now I feel like it's more talk.

29:22It's just more toxic and worse. I don't know if it is, but that's just how I feel about it. It was bad. I mean, it was really bad, but now it just seems like everybody in positions of power and authority, they're just fucking saying it. We don't want you to fucking vote, sit in the back of the bus. I We have gone so far backwards. It's just, it really is mind blowing in one lifetime. How far we've gone back. All right. When Angie and I started this podcast, I'm just going to be honest with you. We're pretty much incompetent. We had no idea what we were doing and we had to set up like social media.