Angie Martinez IRL - Emma Grede: Know Your Worth - In Business and in Love

22:02Not longer. I made super decisions like in a moment. And I realized in the morning that that was not for me. I was like, oh, you know, I, yeah. You would never like get to bad boys or anything? Not a chance. You know, I don't have the disposition for it. You let me down, I am out. I'm gone. I just, do you know what I mean? I've such a, and it isn't even about like high self-worth. It's just like low tolerance. Like I have zero tolerance for someone who's going to mess me around. Like miss a phone call. I'm like, bye. Like, no. Do you know what I mean? Because I never believed that. Oh, I see. Oh, they'll get better.

22:39like things are going to change i'm like they don't it won't move on and also there were like so many boys when i was little you know you were out here oh yeah you know i was like fashionable just move on and try something else you never went through let me fix somebody or any of that type of thing never really good that's not to say i didn't have like some not so great boyfriends that were like you know messing around and doing whatever that they were doing but it like not with me knowing and not with me tolerating anything. Do you know what I mean? It's like, that's just not.

23:10Angie Martinez:So it wasn't so much that you were looking for this type of partner. It's that your behavior warranted and, and, and you found somebody cause you were moving around that way. It was like, so. And I think I have really high standards, not just like with everyone around me, right. It's like my entire team, I have high standards, but also I give a lot. And I think when you're a person who gives a lot and has high expectations, like that comes back to you, And so as soon as I get a signal, it's like anything, right? If I get a signal that something's off, that I'm not getting equal back, it's like, I'm gone.

23:44Goodbye. I'm gone. That's the East London in me, though. You know, that's like where I come from, you don't suffer fools. Like you are expected to tell the truth, to do what you say you're going to do, to be true to your word and suffer the consequences if you don't. So it's like, I don't have time for foolishness. Yeah, yeah. Plus you are a woman on a mission.

24:01Angie Martinez:I'm on a mission. I've got time. But you know that literally, like, I don't have the energy. Like, I would lose my, I would lose it. Yeah. Lose it. There's a, I don't even need my cards because it goes naturally. What were you just talking about? About being angry. I know where you were going. No, it wasn't. Oh, about the anger, anger issues. But after you talked about that, I love that you identified your own anger issues and then went and then got help for your anger issues. Nobody, like nothing terrible happened. Nobody had to intervene. when I first heard that you had you went to anger therapy anger management I was like oh god something must have she must have been arrested or something no she had an incident on the train and she was like oh god I'm so angry and then went and fixed it yourself like you identified the problem within yourself yes and went and worked on it because I knew that that wasn't matching up to the life that I wanted I wouldn't be able to take me my little angry crazy girl self and do the things that I wanted to do and that was so clear to me I was like this is not gonna a role.

25:00They're not going to work in a workplace. So you worked on that. You got a hold of that, managed that. And I still work on that every day. Really? Yes. And I still sometimes lose it because I can go eyes with people and they're just like, you know, it's something that you have to work on every single day. Like in the same way that I work on being really sad sometimes. But what is the angst? What is that? What does that come? What does that root it in? I think that is like I'm hardwired like that. I am not, you know, I think it's so much a factor of my upbringing. You know, I wasn't taught to be thoughtful.

25:33We certainly weren't, I wasn't ever taught that you could like take a breath and move past something. I was always taught that if something happened to you, because someone was disrespecting you, someone was like, you were going to look after yourself and you were going to lash out. And that just becomes like a pattern, like a loop in your system and it wires and wires and it gets more and more attuned unless you deal with it and so I think that that is very much who I am and I have to work all the time and make sure that I keep keep myself like my head above water keep practicing keep training I wondered if it was

26:09Angie Martinez:hard or if sometimes it could be triggered by because I know a lot of amazing super high functioning women right and there is an impatience like the women that i know that i like run big companies and stuff they're all kind of impatient yeah i'm definitely impatient like and so i can see that the triggering anger yeah and you know almost anger here's my thing i've worked every single one of the jobs right so it's like i have an understanding for what it takes to pack the boxes to do the assistant job to work your way up the ranks to be a like you know mid-level executive I did all the things and so you're like you know was can you do you swear on this show yes please for the love of god did you see how we started our day today with our tiktok I did but you know in England they say you can't fuck a fucker like I am a person who understands so if you come to me with an excuse if you come to me telling me it's going to take three hours and I I can do it in 45 minutes.

27:06I'm like, I have been there. I did that thing. So then I have an impatience. But I'm not going to get angry about that. I feel like the things that I get angry about are when I feel like people don't care because I care the most. I care about everything. I care about the glass, the tablecloth, the thing. That's how I come into what I do. And so if you show a lack of care, anger, I'm going to take a deep breath.

27:34Angie Martinez:But you won't work with me for very long. I understand too deeply what you're saying, Emma. I have actually worked on that, right, Brit? I'm better now. I used to be very... It's also you expect people... Beyonce talked about this once. I think it was in her special. She would do the rehearsals and she wouldn't eat. She wouldn't sleep. She wouldn't drink. And then she realized, oh, other people need to sleep and eat. And you expect people to operate how you operate. And if you let it frustrate you because they don't, How can you really be a good leader? Because you can't. You can't, right? You can't.

28:08Also, they don't have the same thing to gain as you. Like, you've got to get real. Like, I'm out here doing what I do. Everybody around me has not got the same circumstance and they don't have the same upside. So also, I'm realistic. Yeah. You know? If I'm paying you 200 grand, I expect 200 grand of you, not a million dollars. Like, what are you talking about? So you're realistic. You don't have the same to gain as I do. Yeah.

28:31Angie Martinez:Oh, so the anger thing, it wasn't so much about the anger management. It was, you said that you were still working on forgiveness. Oh, yes. I'm not a good forgiver. Yeah. I'm not because, you know, it's so funny. I did the Hoffman process. You know what that is? No, tell. Oh, it's like such an LA thing, but it's an incredible process. Like a, you know, nine day intensive therapy process where you learn all your patterns and you undo your childhood trauma and all the things. This sounds very expensive. it's expensive and it's expensive on your like it's it's so hard like it's like it's such it's such a dick like a a deep deep dig and um I just you know it was one of those things where you're kind of expected to come out forgiving everything that's kind of happened to you and I got to the nine days and everybody's like yeah and I was like nope but still no still no but But that's like, you know, again, I'm boundary, right?

29:30It's like I can understand, you know, if somebody slights me, it's not actually always about me. And I think as far as it comes to like childhood trauma, it's like I can understand it. It doesn't always mean that you need to forgive.

29:45Angie Martinez:Yeah. You know. But the way you talk about that in here is you're more likely to instead of forgive somebody. Oh, my God. Do you know Jill Scott? Because I feel like there's so many similar things. You should know her. You should introduce me. I would die. And I'm thinking of our interview with her because even in that, even how you explained, we have a clip of her going saying, I'm much more likely to forget you than forgive you. And you talk about that here. You say, you know, it's not worth your time or your patience. So you'd rather just, I'm not going to forgive you. You just cut you out of the fabric of my life.

30:20You know, I always think about this idea of like who, like you operate on like these orbits and I have people that are in my inner orbit and I have people that are outer and more out. And it's like, you don't have to like, you know, be out of my life, but you just might not be one of my like inner circle people. Right. So I'm operating on a system that says like, you just might have to like be a couple out, a couple of steps removed. I don't need to cut people, although I have done that in the past. But to me, it's like, there's just like, there's an inner circle, there's an expectation, and I'm not going to lower my values.

30:53Angie Martinez:When do you care enough to work on that forgiveness? With my husband. You know, that's it. Yeah. That's it. He's the only one. So funny. Trying to think about it. Everybody else, you know. Nah. God bless. God bless. that's really funny sorry hey listen oh so you do um transcendental meditation too it's my that's one of the biggest tools that i have how long have you been doing this so i think i did a course that's a great question is i want to say like maybe three years okay and it's one regularly religiously so i don't so i don't do you're supposed to do 20 minutes a day twice a day That never, ever happens.

31:42But I do do it, I would say, I do 20 minutes a day in the morning, three or four times a week. And it is a game changer. Because I always thought of meditation as something that turns the noise down. Really, I actually think it gives you energy, gives you space and clarity. And so for me, it was one of those things that I was like, wow, this is an insane tool that I never envisaged I would ever use. but it really, really works as something to create some opportunity to slow things down and call the play. That's what I like to do. I've tried this. How did you find it?

32:16Angie Martinez:It's a specific meditation, too, where you have to say the word. You have a mantra. I was doing it for a little while, like a couple of months, and I didn't notice a difference, and I just fell off the regimen. I need to get back on it, and I only got to 10 minutes. Okay, but that's good. I can never get past 10 minutes. But when we've got like, you're like this in your head all the time. But they say 20 minutes is when you feel the real effects. It's a game changer. It is. The 20 is a game changer. You just got to find your perfect time. And also, I think this, again, it's like, yeah, it would be great if you had like 40 minutes every day to do it.

32:44I think you just find that 20. For someone who might be interested. For someone who might be interested. You get a word, a mantra. Yep. You say the word. Over and over again. And you meditate on the word. And you meditate on the word.

32:58Angie Martinez:And what does it do for you? What does it do? it literally like imagine it takes like the temperature down there's only two things that do this for me like when you you're you know because i'm in a constant conversation with myself like i'm thinking about what is happening over there what's happening next what we've got tomorrow what the kids need what my husband just spoke to me about what i'm doing in one company it's like like my brain is like this all the time it literally is like it's almost like everything just comes down to this like very quiet place and you end up having space and in the space comes something like literally like it's almost like a little gift like something will come in and you're like oh I did not see that and it becomes clearer you figure out what you need to do I come out with so much energy like so much clarity it's crazy it's so it really is to me like you know when people say it's a game changer it's like no it will change your game it will change the way that you move i'm motivated i'm gonna do it i'm going back i'm going back in i'm gonna britney got to five minutes right you got to five i tried to get her and i was like if it's really i'm feeling a difference i just didn't get i didn't get to i didn't go to the next level again and it's hard it's hard to learn new things like so much of what i talk about this in this book is like it's really difficult to untrain your ways especially when you get to a certain age it's hard to stop telling yourself the stories but you have to make sure that what's happening in your own head is not like bad for you right that your biggest enemy isn't living in your own mind and so I really try to make the things that I do like I have a big positive impact on me and that transcendental is one of those things what is the what is something that you've had to unlearn recently about yourself?

34:51I think honestly that I wasn't going to be capable of writing you know I'm dyslexic highly highly dyslexic and so I fixed my work and my life around almost never writing anything down you know like never I speak every email in on my phone I speak every text in I never you know when when in your adult life do you write like in that type of way and so I thought a book would be impossible for me. The other thing is like I wrote the book totally back to front. I started with all the things that were easy to me, building a business, making the career of your dreams, leadership, money, like bomb, bomb, wrote it, like chow, chow, chow, spoke it all into the phone.

35:30And then I was like, well, why can I do that stuff? And then I got to the managing emotions. Then I got to the vision part, but it was very, very hard for me to organize my thoughts. And once I had it together, there was this sense of achievement. Like I was like, wow, but that took a lot of doing because I was constantly telling myself, telling my agent, telling everyone around me, I was like, I'll never do a book. I'll never do that. I literally can't do that. That's not for me.

35:56Angie Martinez:I'm so surprised that you would say those kind of things to yourself. Yeah, because when you're a person of certainty, I should know better, but when you're a person of certainty, you're certain about a lot of things. You're certain about what you can do. You're also certain about what you can't do. And I'm like, that's not for me. I can look at an outfit and be like that's not for me yeah my body doesn't work that way i can't wear that and i'm like oh that's kind of cute i wore that i wore that um we have a voice note should we go to voice note now hey guys you ever sign up for a phone plan thinking wow what a great price and then a few months later it's like surprise your bill is higher we hate that with boost mobile you pay 25 a month forever that's unlimited talk text and data starting at just 25 a month there's no price hikes, there's no contract, and this is forever.

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39:38Angie Martinez:visit wellsfargo.com slash autograph journey terms apply all right we have a segment it is called um it's a voice note segment so this is a fan or listener of the pod knows you're gonna be here has a question or a comment we're gonna play that hi my name is Tanisha I'm 30 and I've been having a hard time getting credit for the ideas that I actually present how do I get compensated for something like that I because I obviously I have left the organization. I didn't get any compensation or credit for that idea, but it is an idea that has sustained that program moving forward. So how do you navigate situations like that to avoid being put in that position?

40:16Angie Martinez:I used to suffer from this. I would hold everything in because I'd be afraid somebody was going to rob me. Wow. Terrible. I don't know about that kind of, I mean, to me, that signals scarcity mindset. But if we talk about like what Tanisha is actually saying, She's obviously in an environment where her ideas can be taken because she's being paid to give ideas, to do whatever job she's doing. And then she's in an environment where those ideas can be taken and used. But she's not working for herself. She's working for an employer. That means she is being paid and compensated for ideas. You don't get to get the full value.

40:52And I do honestly think that sometimes employees can overestimate their contribution. if you're in a place where you're being paid to do a job you have to do that job that job might be giving some of your ideas now if you are doing something that is beyond the expectation of your remit and you're going above and beyond you need to go and have a conversation about your additional contribution but i think that it's kind of naive to think that you know you're going to be you're going to be compensated beyond what you're being paid when you're just giving your idea like Do you know what I mean? There's so much more to business.

41:29It's like there's so much more that goes into things. And I think sometimes we can have a little bit of a naivety about our contribution.

41:36Angie Martinez:Yeah. Also, because can't like 100 people have the same idea and not everybody can get it across the finish line? So an idea is really just an idea. Well, it's just an idea because it takes a lot of people to execute it, a lot of people to create the things. But again, if this is somebody that feels chronically undervalued, and I've been in that same situation, I've been in a place where I thought I was delivering value, and I talk about it in the book, to a company, they were making a lot of money. And I didn't feel like I was making enough. But the company were like, Emma, we pay you for this job.

42:08You are paid. And we make a lot of money out of it. I was like, okay, I'll take my services elsewhere. And that was the beginning of my first business. But they weren't wrong. I wasn't wrong either. But sometimes we have to know that there's nuance in the situation. You just might have to take your gifts and your services elsewhere to realize the full potential of what you're doing.

42:29Angie Martinez:But you probably got to be realistic with yourself. Is that like one one kind of fluke idea or one kind of limp? You know what I mean? Or do you have many ideas that can expand any business? Do you have so many ideas that you could pay yourself what you're being paid currently? And if you don't, again, it's never that black and white. In the book, I talk so much about negotiation. Right? Negotiation isn't one side winning or losing. You've got to find something mutually advantageous. So go and have a conversation. Talk about and understand. But go with specificity. You know, this would be the conversation to me.

43:04I'd be like, I'm currently - Let's give it.

43:05Angie Martinez:Let's role play a little. So you guys are paying me$65 ,000. And I came up with X idea that netted the business X. you're going to know those X's. You're going to have those numbers. Don't come in with emotions. Don't be sad. Don't be angry. Don't be silly. It's like come in factually, right? I'm paid this. I delivered this. The contribution was this. Once you've got that, you say, you know what? I would really imagine that my contribution in this company is worth 85 ,000. Oh, we're not ready to pay you that. Okay. What do I need to do to get from here to here? You show me. How can you value me and my ideas?

43:42Because if you're unable to do that, then I would need to move on because I can't see how I would be contributing above this. It's a conversation. You don't need to be stupid about it. You can just advocate for yourself. Let me tell you half the time, the people that are in charge don't fully understand your contribution. They may not know where the idea comes from. They also might be coming from a place that they see it differently. And that feedback is important for you to have. It's important for you to understand, well, actually, you think we made X, but the costs associated with this, there were five other departments involved.

44:13Then you can be like, oh, I got it. Okay. So actually this is what it was. And this is what I need to do in the future. But still, how do I get to this? And so I think that you can have a really nuanced negotiation. You've got to teach yourself to have those conversations. It also teaches resilience because when and if you get a knockback, that's not walking out with nothing. That's information. That is like you, what you need to come back and do things in a different way. So I just think like when you're, when you have ambition, when you want more, which is exactly what she's saying is that I want more, I want more credit.

44:49I want more money. I want to be recognized. It's like, go and ask for it. You can write into Angie. That's cool. But like, make sure you've had a conversation with your boss and the conversation isn't just happening in your head. You're not just talking to your coworkers that they can't do shit. You need to Go to the people that can actually help change and in a nuanced way express exactly what you need and what your expectations are. You might get it.

45:11Angie Martinez:Are you ever, you said in here that if you never hear the word no, you're not pushing enough, right? Absolutely. It's true. Are you ever like, because sometimes I'll be, I'm always like, I'm like too fair. So I'm like, okay, they want me to do that for them. I don't do it for this much. This is me talking to you. This I would say. Less than your worth? less than you think you were probably sometimes yes yes yes okay what is that that's terrible i'm getting better at it okay right i'm getting better at it um what's the reason though why are you doing that like doing a favor are you scared or what is it i'm like chronically obsessed with being fair like what to who yes right fair to everybody else what i think the value might be to them uh or kind of taking all of their things into consideration instead of putting my thing at the center of start with yourself starting with myself read the book angie it's so good it's so good no but i say to you have you never do you never have do do you ever say okay our business is valued at 100 million but i'm gonna go ask for 150 million whatever the thing is whatever then i just make a number up of something i do i do you ever feel like that was big.

46:27Angie Martinez:I went big and feel like almost crazy about it. All the time. But that is something that comes like, again, with experience and a willingness to walk away from the thing. Because when we make deals, right, when we decide like, I'm going to give it over here. Again, it's kind of a signal that we don't think there's something better on the other side or that like what you're willing to undervalue yourself. Like, for what reason? I always imagine that if somebody is offering me something, the chances are someone else will offer the same thing. So it's not that I don't ever do that. It's just that experience has taught me to know better.

47:05Like if somebody is willing to give you something, someone else will give it to you. In that same way, when I was like so young that my boss wouldn't take me from what I was on,£25 ,000. I think I asked for£30 ,000. I was like, someone else will pay me 25 are we better be over there because i can manage the trajectory so i think that again these things are chronic because this is just an old thought that lives in your head you are undervaluing your services you come from a place because you're sitting here maybe with a scarcity mindset that says you know if i get x somebody else gets less it's like why it's not it's not a zero-sum game right that's not how guys would everything doesn't make me because like, you know, someone gets something over here that somebody else suffers.

47:53And I don't think, to the contrary, I don't think it's about overvaluing yourself. I don't think that you should be like, it's a million dollars. You have to educate yourself. You have to know the space. You have to find a place that actually makes sense. But the idea of like undervaluing my services. You want to throw up right now? I want to die. I want to get angry.

48:16Angie Martinez:we're working on your anger Emma you've come so far I took a deep breath when you said it I was like I know I've gotten I have gotten way better but I did was me young I felt you know I started doing radio I was 18 19 I was grateful to be there I was at this you know and so I just was happy to have the opportunity yeah but like you I wasn't you know I didn't it took me a long time But now you're Angie, right? And we all have that journey. And if you stay with the stories, like this, like that stuff will just keep you small. Like I think that you have to like, again, it's like replacing the thought.

48:55It's like you've got all of this stuff that you've been doing for so long. You have this body of work. You have these ways that you behave, the ways that you do business, but it will, nothing changes unless it changes. But you have to do that. Like when I say start with yourself, I really mean to go back inside yourself and go, what is it that actually makes me undervalue myself? What is it that makes me do that smaller number that I know I'm worth? Kindness, like you don't want to be seen as a bitch. You don't want to be seen as someone who's taken advantage. Are you asking me the question? Yeah.

49:32Angie Martinez:Yeah, probably me wanting to, like I said, be fair. not take advantage of people i don't know yeah maybe wanting to be and it's so interesting because in you being fair and not wanting to take advantage you're allowing somebody else to be unfair and take advantage i know so what makes them better than you no it's no no no we have no way we're on we're on the other side of this okay we're we're already like on the other side i know so interesting right that it's so interesting this big age that it would take me but i talk but i talk through it because i think for anybody listening to this it's it's it's chronic it's patterned it's ingrained it's not stuff that you do knowingly and flippantly because i reckon anyone who listens to this podcast is like i'll undervalue myself i know what i'm worth i make my money it's like ah but do you like do you every time because sometimes we do things unconsciously and that's why i wrote this book in the way that i did because when you understand what you're doing when you understand what's running through your thoughts and the reasons and the ways you make decisions, then you can push against it.

50:35But it's not until it's raised to your attention that you understand some of this stuff. Because some of it is like, it's not even you, it's the culture. Women are undervalued, right? If somebody else with the same resume and the same, you know, set of circumstances, we put them side by side and we see this with AI, right? You upload the two same resumes and John gets paid more than Sally. You know, what the

50:57Angie Martinez:fuck like what is happening like why i can't believe in 2026 but it's true and so i think that there's plenty of things in society that are already entrenched that already make us like small and not progress you can't be one of those things for yourself smart with yourself it's so good it's it's so good hey guys support for this podcast is brought to you by walden university have you ever thought to yourself what if i could go after what i actually want and I could really make a difference well you are not alone and this is exactly why I want to tell you about Walden University for over 50 years Walden has helped working adults like you get the W with the knowledge the skills and everything you need to build the future that you want and you can make a difference where it matters most if you've been waiting for the right moment this is it head to Walden you dot edu and take that first step Walden University set a course for change, certified to operate by Shiv.

51:58Angie Martinez:Okay, in real life, let's do some in real life questions. In real life, what is one thing you are no longer apologizing for? The type of parent I am. Facts. Did they get you a little bit though? Did they start making you feel? No. No, I expected it. I anticipated it. I'm very used to the differences in the way moms are treated versus dads, the way women are treated versus men. Yeah. I did it purposefully because I want to give permission, permission for other women to just be honest and true for them. Like, fuck them. Okay, Emma. If God were to text you right now, what would it say? Are you a religious person?

52:41Angie Martinez:Are you a spiritual? I'm a very spiritual person. Okay. Not particularly religious. If God was to text me, you know, my favorite thing to be told ever is when people say to you, God bless. Every taxi driver in the whole of England says that to you all the time. But when someone says it to me, I actually feel like blessed, like I'm blessed for the day. Just that simple. God bless. So God would say to you? God would say to me, God bless. God blesses you. Like for real. Like you've got the real anointed, like it's coming from him in real life. Because I imagine that every day, like I feel like it's the best thing to be told.

53:15Like, you know, it's like you are blessed. You are, you know, what do you say? Like in America, they say you're blessed and highly favored. I always loved it when I heard that because I was like, I never heard that before in my life in England. But I feel like that so much. You're blessed and highly favored. It's like a beautiful thing. It is pretty great. It's amazing. There's amazing women in my life who say that too. And again, I've never, ever heard that. That was like black women would say that to me. It's pretty great. And I just thought it was incredible. Blessed and highly favored. Yeah.

53:47I love that. Is it beautiful? It's beautiful. When you break down the words, now we say it so flippantly, but it's like blessed and highly favored. That's insane. Well, thank you for today. And thank you for this beautiful book.

53:59Angie Martinez:And God bless.

54:04Angie Martinez:I'm going to go and spend more time with this book because clearly I need to start with myself. You're doing all right. Thanks. Everyone start with yourself. Emma Green. Thank you so, so, so much.

54:21Angie Martinez:Hey, guys, thanks for watching. Make sure you subscribe, like, comment, and check out all of the other episodes we have on Andrew Martinez's IRL podcast.

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