In short
Yahya Abdul-Mateen II discusses acting as preparation and emotional management, gratitude for “the good in life,” and the idea that everyone has problems. He also shares career milestones (10 years in acting; Broadway debut in Top Dog, Underdog; Emmy/Emmy nomination; Tony nomination and Best Revival win) and personal background (New Orleans family roots; raised in West Oakland; youngest of six). He connects performance anxiety to “tolerating discomfort,” turning nervousness into curiosity, and using acting to “disappear” from real-life stress while on set.
Guest backgrounds
Yahya Abdul-Mateen II is a screen and stage actor known for The Get Down, Aquaman, Us, Candyman, Watchmen, and Man on Fire. He has an Emmy win (Watchmen) and a Tony nomination for Top Dog, Underdog.
Key claims
Great actors don’t expect perfection on take one; preparation reduces nerves. Awards are meaningful but not the “be all end all.” Privacy protects his “business,” and everyone has a “problem in their pocket.”
Notable examples
Forgetting lines during Top Dog, Underdog’s debut; recording himself before a performance; “trouble is on its way” mindset; Wayne Strider character in the film By Any Means (FBI agent inspired by multiple real-life figures).
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Roland Martin Unfiltered
1:22 to 1:53
Brief highlight of what listeners missed in the Roland Martin podcast.
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Yahya Abdul-Mateen Introduction
2:51 to 4:21
Introduction of Yahya Abdul-Mateen and his acting career.
“We can't confuse you with any other actor.”
The Acting Experience
4:23 to 6:27
Yahya discusses the pressures and experiences of being an actor.
“You know, the moment right after action.”
Learning from Nerves
6:38 to 8:20
Yahya shares insights on dealing with nerves and performance pressure.
“You have ever fallen apart or you didn't deliver at the level that you know you're capable of delivering?”
Broadway Debut and Awards
8:21 to 11:40
Discussion of Yahya's Broadway debut and thoughts on awards.
“I've been on stage for Top Dog, Underdog.”
Influence of Family
11:41 to 14:00
Yahya reflects on his family’s support and early influences.
“Are you into awards and stuff, or is it kind of just...”
Yahya's Journey to Acting
14:00 to 19:15
Discover how Yahya Abdul-Mateen stumbled into acting and developed his passion for it.
“So if you was cool, you was kind of doing something, kind of attention seeking plus playing sports and doing nerdy stuff like playing chess.”
Navigating Life's Challenges
19:49 to 28:01
Yahya shares insights on managing challenges and the importance of perspective.
“Didn't catch the latest Roland Martin Unfiltered podcast?”
The Complexities of Acting and Life
28:01 to 32:21
Explore how acting serves as both an escape and a coping mechanism for real-life challenges.
“Because I have to, I must put all my stuff down at the door to come and do my job.”
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The Impact of Iconic Songs
33:04 to 35:32
Discuss the cultural significance and lasting impact of massive hits like 'Bodak Yellow'.
“You know the song dropped in 2017, Bo Daggala?”
Personal Insights and Family Life
35:37 to 42:00
Delve into Yahya Abdul-Mateen's family dynamics and personal experiences growing up.
“People don't know me and I don't know them.”
Discussion on R&B Music
42:00 to 43:43
Explore the impact and history of R&B music with its legends.
“All of us were trying to express women's real lives.”
Yahya's Role in Upcoming Film
43:44 to 46:28
Yahya Abdul-Mateen discusses his character and the film's themes.
“He gets to brag and he gets to be like, you know, everybody look at me.”
The Art of Being Present
46:29 to 49:18
A conversation about mindfulness and the importance of living in the moment.
“I'm looking for my nice little piece of land.”
Creative Processes and Inspirations
49:19 to 54:44
Yahya shares his artistic process and the importance of creativity.
“Yeah, it's about how it's about everything.”
The Influence of Artists
54:45 to 56:00
Discussion on influential figures in music and their impact on society.
The Power of Silence and Solitude in Creativity
56:00 to 58:04
Learn about the importance of quiet and solitude for creativity and reflection.
“But you got to, you have to, Jay-Z has that.”
The Power of Silence and Solitude in Creativity
58:11 to 58:25
Learn about the importance of quiet and solitude for creativity and reflection.
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Responding to Listener Questions
58:25 to 1:02:34
Explore fitness advice and the basics of a good workout routine.
“This is our voice note segment Presented by Boost Mobile Somebody sent us a message or a question I'm not sure, I haven't heard it Yo, yeah, yeah, my name is Eddie Help a guy out What's the workout regime?”
The Concept of Divine Communication
1:02:34 to 1:03:27
Delve into the nature of what it means if God were to communicate with us.
“If I'm being honest, I don't want no smoke.”
Transcript
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2:51Yahya Abdul-Mateen. Mateen. That ain't too hard. It's a great name. Thank you. We can't confuse you with any other actor. Uh-uh. Thanks, though. Yahya is celebrating a 10-year acting career. I know, right? Wow. Started with his standout in Netflix, The Get Down. That was 10 years ago. He's done too many projects to roll through right now for the amount of time we have. But Aquaman, Us, Candyman, Wonder Man, Watchmen, Man on Fire. By any means. By any means. paired with Mark Wahlberg. You've had some good pairings. You got an Emmy. You got a new Emmy nomination. Yeah. You doing all right, Yaya?
3:28Yeah, you know. Yaya's our guest today in real life. In real life. What's up? What's up? What's up? Hi, man. What's going on? I love that you're here. Thank you. It's good to be here. So last time I saw you was in Mexico City. You were on set of Man on Fire. Yeah. I was like a little student sensei upshadowing your director. Yeah, yeah. Stephen Capel. Shout out to him. Yeah. And it was really fascinating to be on that set and to watch, just to watch you work. Like, what'd you see? I see somebody who was dead ass serious about what he does. Is that right? Yes. I didn't even really want to say too much to you because you look so locked in.
4:12Oh, man. Well, you were in your space. You should be locked in, right? And obviously, you know, high levels of talent. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. Is that your happy place when you're on set? When I'm on set? Creating? No, no, no, no, no. Not all the time. Really? No, not all the time. I love the moment. You do? You know, the moment right after action. Right. Yeah, you know. People don't realize how much other shit happens before it's action. Yeah, yeah. That's what would be torturous to me as an actor. Yeah. The moment, you know, is really the moment before action. It's the night before. This is why people can't really get into that seat as an actor because it's about the week leading up to the job.
4:57And then the night before when you're learning your lines and when you're double checking to see if you're learning your lines and you got a six o 'clock pickup and then you can't sleep because you're working with so-and-so tomorrow. And then you wake up in the morning and then your car is outside. It's the hustle. And then you're not necessarily the hustle, but the anticipation. Like internally, you mean? Yeah, the anticipation up until that moment. You know, then the car comes to pick you up. And then if you if if you have a car, you know, picking you up. But if you don't, then you go to meet them at the pickup spot.
5:23Then you get in the van and you're looking over the script and your hands shaking a little bit because, you know, you want to make the best use of everybody's time. And you get there to put you in a little trailer. Of course, I get nervous. Of course, I get nervous. But what comes after the handshaking is you go to the makeup trailer, you know, when they drop you off and then you're putting on your makeup, you know, and, you know, you're trying to look at your lines. but somebody's messing with your face and doing this, then the next person next to you is talking and saying, hey, good morning, how you doing?
5:48And, you know, they're skinning and grinning and smiling and all that stuff. But you're thinking, you know, you don't want to be rude, so you're speaking and things like that, but you're really trying to focus and concentrate on your lines. Yada, yada, yada. I could draw that all out for another five minutes and really, really paint the scene. But it comes up to that moment where they're rushing you to set and you put on your stuff and, you know, the whole set goes quiet. and they stand you on your mark and you haven't even really gotten a chance to really do your thing sometimes you know what i'm saying and then everybody goes quiet the camera comes right there in front of your face and then they say okay now action do what you came here to do people fall apart in that moment yeah i'm seeing that we see it as fans too we see it from the other side you know what i'm saying internally have you ever fallen apart i hope not god no do you feel like You have ever fallen apart or you didn't deliver at the level that you know you're capable of delivering?
6:43Yeah, yeah, that's the thing. But, you know, you got to learn to live with that. Every pass isn't going to be perfect. But what I know is that that's why we have takes. You know, I don't go in there trying to get it right on the first take. Every take is a rehearsal. But one of the things that I learned was to tolerate my discomfort. And that's what makes an actor, someone who chooses this profession to be an actor, That's what makes us wired a little bit different because we can be in that thing when it's shaking and it's nervous and you got the whole motor going on on the inside. And the good actor knows that nobody knows.
7:16You know, the good actor is like, oh, that's interesting. Oh, I'm nervous. Wow. What do I what do I what's that about? I don't know. Let's find out now. Now I've gone from being nervous to being being curious. Inquisitive. Right. Right. To being inquisitive. And that's where that's just natural. learning how to, you know, people talk about tolerating your discomfort all the time, but I don't know how much people actually practice. That's interesting because when you say that, I think, wow, how does that apply in other people's lives? Because even when you think about great athletes or anybody who has to perform under pressure, there has to be a, there's something going on in your head if you're great at what you do and consistent at what you do.
7:56There's got to be like a pep talk or a, I don't know, a technique. where you can keep your insides calm. Yeah. Because I'd imagine you have to do that, right? Yeah, that's all technical, I think. Yeah. It's technical, but then it's preparation. You prepare, you prepare. I prepare, I prepare, I prepare so that when I get there on the day, you let it all go. Being prepared takes care of being nervous. You know what I'm saying? I've been on stage for Top Dog, Underdog. Did I see? I did. I went to that. I did see that. I did see that. Thank you. I mean, there were nights. That's funny you remember that.
8:31I did maybe 125 shows, right? There were nights, and I'm like in the 90s, where, so I start off the play. It's a two-man show for anybody who hasn't seen it. And when the curtain comes up, I'm on stage by myself, and I have the first lines. I start off the, I kick off the play with my dialogue, right? There's been nights when I'm sitting on the bed. There's a bed on the stage, and the curtain is down. and right before that curtain is about to come on, actually, before I go on the stage, I don't know my line. Oh, hell no. You know, but it's showtime and the audience is all out there. Hundreds of people are, you know, out there and I'm on a stage by myself.
9:13The curtain is down. I can hear the music. I can hear all the music cues. So I know that the time is getting closer and closer. I do not know my line. There's been nights I'm sitting on that bed and I see the curtain come up and I do not know my line. All I know is that I'm supposed to walk up to that crate and I take the card in my right hand and I flip it over. I do not know my line, Angie. I don't know what I'm supposed to say. Oh, my God. But the curtain's coming up and I have no idea what to say. But then all of a sudden, the curtain comes up. The house is quiet. I flip over my hand and then the words start pouring out.
9:51You know what I'm saying? I don't know the words. It's been so long. You know what I'm saying? Come on. Watch me close. Watch me close. watch me close now who see the red card who's the red card i see the red card red card is the winner you know and just going into that pitter patter that's what i love about about this that that adrenaline ride that that that i almost just went on just now you know that i just described you took me on you gotta be a little bit a little bit psycho to you know put yourself under what is that is it nerves that kick in that make you forget because clearly you said you've prepared for that moment so you know the words like in that's in that instance it's something that i've done it I've done this show 90 something times, you know, a hundred something times.
10:31So, yeah, I'm just like, I may be thinking about breakfast or what I'm going to do next week. There was one show where and I never do this. I'm always pretty calm. I have my routine and I lock in. There was one show where it was we had three more shows to go. And we were turning down the street of the theater and you see the theater lights all above. and I'm in my car and I take out my phone and I just like record myself you know in the band getting this moment that I've never captured before and that was a night when you forgot he was busy playing around that phone that was a night and I was like nope I was like you gotta stay locked in and the job ain't done until the job is done you know what I mean but you showed up though you got it done that's terrifying It is.
11:24It can be. Had you done Broadway before that? No, that was my debut. Wow, that was a great show. That was my debut. I remember that opening, too. So good. You got a Tony nomination for that? Yeah, I got a Tony nomination for that. Okay. We won Best Revival. Amazing. So dope. Are you into awards and stuff, or is it kind of just... Yeah, I'm into it. Yeah, I'm into it. I'm going to sit up here a lot. I like doing great work, and when great work is recognized, toward, you know, in the area of some of the places that I've been ambitious for. I'm always appreciative of that. I've learned to not make the award the be all end all, but it's nice to be recognized.
12:03Yeah. I was just looking at your Emmy speech when you won the Emmy for Watchmen. Yeah. And there's a line in there, you thank all the black women in your life. You call them your early investors. I love that. Yeah, that's exactly who they are. Yeah. Who are those women? My mother, my sisters, my cousins, my auntie, you know. Yeah, that's who they are. Your earliest investors. Yeah, yeah. So what is that like? Like, who are you as a kid? How are they pouring into you? How do they make you? How do they make this guy who's on Broadway and managing to pull it off after he forgets his lines? Oh, man, different ways, you know.
12:43It all, we talk every day, you know. and they've always you talk to your whole family every day no for the most part yeah really yeah for the most part we got a little text thread we know we're not we're not on the phone all day every day but you know we we have some form of communication every day except yesterday i ain't talking to nobody yesterday i kind of locked it down yesterday uh but no we you know we're always in communication we're extremely close but they've always believed in me you know they always told me that i could do whatever i wanted to do and they they just support me in that in that way.
13:18Did you know you wanted to do this early? Heck no. Heck no. I wanted to be an architect and I wanted to be a construction worker and I wanted to be a boxer and a race car and a basketball player. You know what I'm saying? I wanted to do all kind of things. All the things. I wanted to do all kind of things. You're in New Orleans. That's where you grew up, right? Yeah, New Orleans. I grew up in Oakland, West Oakland. And your family's from New Orleans? Yeah, everybody's in New Orleans. So you spent a lot of time there then also, right? New Orleans? Yeah. Yeah, that's home. I go back. Look when you say it.
13:45The accent pops out a little bit more. Oh, yeah. I go back. yeah i'll go back home so when did you know it was this when did how does that happen oh man i didn't uh i i i took some classes in undergraduate now oh was that late it wasn't like you as a little no i never knew nothing about it i never knew nothing about it i was doing i do i would do speeches in elementary school and you know uh uh i would do little silly stuff in high school everybody was silly at my high school so anyway you know anybody got no sense where i'm from you you know, from being at, you know, in the household to all the way at school.
14:18So if you was cool, you was kind of doing something, kind of attention seeking plus playing sports and doing nerdy stuff like playing chess. And everybody did everything in my high school. And your big family too, right? Like a lot of siblings. Yeah, I have a big family. I'm the youngest of six. So, you know, my mother is actually the one who is like the big personality in our home. You know, she introduced us to Peach Dragon and Bedknobs and Broomsticks and Chitty Chitty Bang, all the Dick Van Dyke. You know what I'm saying? So I grew up sort of with a big imagination. But no, I stumbled into an acting class on a dare in college and the teacher told me that I was good and I had fun with that.
14:59So you didn't love it out the gate? I liked it, but I wasn't taking it seriously. You know, I would always prepare. But that wasn't my major. I was studying something else. I was just really, I was looking for an easy A. That's what I was doing. I was looking for an easy A because I heard that the theater classes were just like recess. That's what somebody told me. Right. And so I get in the, excuse me, I get in the class. I don't even remember the class. I remember the audition. And then I remember after the semester was over or toward the end of the semester, I remember that teacher. And she told me I was in the theater building and she said, Hey, you're really good at this.
15:42And it's like, you're really good at this. And I think that you should stick around, you know, if you can. And I didn't know that I was good or anything like that. And, you know, I said, OK, well, we'll see. a couple years later i took another class and and i liked it then i did a play and i liked it i was just doing something that i liked that was i found i found a hobby yeah this is what it was and it wasn't until you know uh five five or six five years later six years later when i was working in san francisco i got laid off from my job and i was really i was doing i was working at the mayor's office of housing in san francisco working in a sort of city planning and um and then i you At what age?
16:27That's a good job for a young person. Yeah, it was a good job. I'm 22. That's a good 22-year-old job. Something like that. Yeah, you couldn't tell me nothing. You were smart though, right? I've always been a little brain. Had a little brain on you. So you got yourself a good job. Yeah, had me a good little job. How'd you lose the job? I got laid off.
16:51How good were you? No, I was very good at my job. I was very good at my job. You know, the city of San Francisco was building six housing projects. And I was working on something that was getting young people involved in the redevelopment of that. And, you know, the city ran out of ran out of money for those projects. And they started to have to cut back. So they cut my program, which was a blessing because I said, OK, well, what am I going to do now? And my brother, he let me not pay rent for a few months. And in that few months, I said, I'm going to go try this acting thing because that was fun.
17:22I had just had a long stretch of just not being able to get a job and, you know, hustling, trying to make ends meet and then finally get the job and things going well and then getting laid off from my job. I said so I finally said, you know, I'm going to do something for myself. I don't want to have no regrets. I said, I'm gonna give myself three years to make significant progress in this acting thing. And if that's that didn't pan out, I was going to go back to school and, you know, probably work in politics or something like that. Really? Yeah. Like city planning. And then at the end of 14 months, I got into Yale and went to Yale.
17:53You know, then the rest is the rest of that role brings me right here with you. And here we are. Yeah. Yeah. Any regrets about any of it? No. Can't be. No, I don't think so. You could be in politics right now. I'm so glad I'm not there. I'm so glad I'd be. No, that would be different. I'm too I'm too much of a brain to go. To be honest, I'm too much of a brain to have gone that route. Like this actor keeps me silly, you know, if you could believe that. I can believe it. Yeah. Because you're forced to get into different characters and play and be free, kind of, right? Plus, I mean, I have that side.
18:31My nephew, he hit me up the other day. He's telling me that he wants me to show more of my personality and things like that. Oh, what is that? Come on, like, you know.
18:44He's tired of seeing the actor me, you know what I'm saying? He want to see. He thinks you show up serious? Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I can't help it. You're a serious guy. Well, what does he say? I don't think so. I'm not so serious. Really? What does he know that we don't know? I'm the funniest person in the world. In the world? Like what? Like what level of... I'm hilarious. Really? Yeah, I'm hilarious. You see? That's pretty good. You see? Anybody who says they're hilarious, out the gate, that's kind of funny. Yeah, yeah. This episode sponsored by Homebase. Homebase is built for small businesses trying to do it all.
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23:14But everybody, if you look out, even in this room, everybody got one. Everybody got one. Everybody here got a problem? Yeah, everybody got one. So I like looking out in the world and just knowing that in this world where we're all trying to. I don't think everybody's trying to be perfect, but we're all striving. And we're all trying to show up in our best form. There we go. We're all trying to show up in some sense of our best form and present our best and things like that. It's the fact that you can't always see it. You can almost never see it unless someone's situation is so dire that they just wear it and that is obvious.
23:54and, you know, much love and compassion to those folks. Yeah. But the truth is, like, no matter what it looks like, everybody got one. Everybody got something. And that, everybody got one. And that makes me, that makes me smile a little bit. That tickles you? Yeah, because we all in it together. And it's kind of cute. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's kind of endearing. Are you one of those people that can see through people's, like, people present, right? Yeah. especially the most confident of people they seem to be the most confident of people yeah are you one of those people that because i i tend to be like oh they're overplaying this to make up for that i can see you know i'm gonna be some of the challenges i i i'd spend way too much time looking at myself to be honest like everybody other people as much as i can perceive that everybody has a problem.
24:49I only perceive that because I know about myself and I don't believe myself to be any different from anybody else. So, and it's, it's not necessarily projecting. I'm just looking at my human. It says, I'm not saying, well, if I got one, they got one too. You know what I'm saying? I'm saying that I'm human and I'm going to take a chance and bet that you're human too. And that the things that come with being human that I experience, if you're human, I bet you experience it too. So what that does is that allows me to go out on a limb and reveal something about myself and to give someone else the opportunity to say, yeah, I'm the same way, you know?
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25:28And then when you do that, it's a little bit easier. What was the last thing you've shared about yourself? Well, publicly, I don't feel like, do you share publicly? Not much, right? Not much, not much. Is that protective or? Well, there's business and then there's my business. You know what I'm saying? And I'm not in the business of making business out of my business. Yeah. You know, so. I just wonder what's a challenge for you that people might not expect. When we look at you, we go, yeah, I got it together. You got 10 years. You got awards. You got. So you want me to tell you the truth? Yeah.
26:06Yeah. You can't handle the truth. This is in real life. Tell me the truth. What's happening in your real life? You okay? You troubled? What's going on? You need us? What do you need? No, I'm all right. I'm all right. No, I know you're all right. No, you know, I'm blessed and I'm learning. You know, I'm blessed and I'm learning. I'm all right. I got the same thing that ails everybody. It's some of the same things that ails me. You know, and I'm learning to stay blessed throughout it all. You know? Yeah. That's a good reminder. Mm-hmm. You see how I kept it right there? You did. You kept it all the way out.
26:40And it was so far in the pocket that I realized it's not even worth me trying to dig in the pocket. I mean, I ain't thinking about nothing. You know, when you asked me that question, I'm not thinking about nothing. So I'm not interested in going digging. You know, to be honest, what I used to say all the time is like everything bad in my life. It's literally my job to go digging, by the way. But go ahead. But everything, everything is on its way. You know what I'm saying? Like all the trouble that I'm going to have in my life, it's on its way. It's on its way. It's on its way. Also, the answer is probably on its way.
27:20So I ain't in a rush to bring it here. You know what I'm saying? I see you when I see you. It's on its way. I know it's on its way. You know trouble's on its way? Yeah, it's on its way. That's life. Damn. A lot of good is on the way, too. Yes. You know, a lot of good is on the way, too. I don't ever want to think about no trouble on the way. Yeah, but, you know, that's how I go. That's why you got to stay vigilant. So that when it comes, it only stays for a short while. Got it. You know, when it comes, I don't want it to stay forever. Yeah. You know. Then my problem look like a cloud. Nobody know the trouble.
27:56How do you manage trouble? Especially as an actor, when you have to show up and be like, if you are in one of those, if you're in the middle of a storm. Yeah. A big old storm. Now we're talking. And you got to go play. Now we're talking. Yeah, what do you do? That's why I love this job. Yeah. Because I have to, I must put all my stuff down at the door to come and do my job. That's the beautiful thing about acting. You get to disappear, right? You get to disappear. You get to hide in this world. You know? Is that a real thing? Can you really do that? Absolutely. Like, if I'm devastated from something that happened to me this past week.
28:33Yeah. And I have to show up and be in a scene with you right now. Yeah. it's just goes it's supposed to be gone for me it may and it's have a pain or stress or i'm not gonna say that it look that's that i'm speaking for myself no no i'm putting i'm putting myself in your yeah but like but but it can because i got a job to do you know and sometimes you you you have to drop your shoulders be where you are feel what you feel and then go from there and then And now life feeds me, but life feeds my work. But there's other times when like I don't even have the brain to deal with that. So I'm just going to deal with this and live the life as this character.
29:15Sometimes, you know, you go on a job for six, seven months. You spend more time as a character than you do as your real self and life be happening on the outside and life in some even more messed up stuff be happening to the character. you know but the thing about that is at the end of the day you know as the character i ain't gonna get no phone calls in the middle of the night saying that you know so-and-so gonna die and i ain't gonna get no you don't get no unexpected phone calls you don't get the trouble well you don't rock with me for a second like you don't yes you don't get the unexpected phone calls as an actor like as a character because when i get the script i know everything that's bad that's coming i know what it is you know what i'm saying my life has been such that i have gotten unexpected phone calls so one of the things that i've learned about myself in the past two years is that like and i don't think i'm there anymore but where i was at that point
30:19i reinvested i was reinvestigating why do i do this in the first place at first it was because I really, I liked the, I loved the attention, loved it. And then I grew out of loving the attention. And it was like, I'm not, that's not the reason no more because if you, if it, because I've fallen back. So I'm not doing it for the, I'm not doing attention seeking things anymore. I'm, I'm chilling. So I was like, well, why do I still do this? What's really going on? And it was like, Oh, at that point in my life, it was like, because life is scary. So you're doing this because in this, because when you are operating in this character, you already know the script and there's no anxiety in that.
31:03But that's not real life though. But that's not real life. But you got to deal with real life. You see what I'm saying? And so once I learned that, I was like, oh, okay. Well, there's beauty in this. There's therapy in this. Now let's go deal with real life and let's go get uncomfortable and deal with like fear and, you know, finding something to help you to cope with the fact that all the problems that you have are on the way. Now, I'm talking a little bit gray right now, right? But I have so much beauty and, you know, love and positive things in my life, too. So I'd be remiss if I didn't say that.
31:40Well, everybody got gray shit. Everybody got a little gray on it. Everybody got a little problem in their pocket. And that's cool. That's something good to remember. if you're ever in like nervous about being in the presence of some, but sometimes people get nervous to walk into an interview or nervous to be, or think somebody's better than them for whatever reason, reminding yourself that everybody got a little problem. Now everybody gonna watch this. Okay. So all I got to do is project. Okay. All I got to do is project all my problems on Angie. And then I feel good about myself. Well, don't put them on me.
32:15My own damn problems. I don't need that. that's pretty great though yeah all right guys you know what is so funny hip-hop fans can literally debate anything they can debate the best rapper best era of hip-hop uh the best album and it gets serious these conversations and now sprite is giving us a whole new argument it is the sprite living track list it's 50 songs that help shape hip-hop culture from rap legends to the hottest artists carrying the hip-hop torch today but the coolest part isn't just the tracks it's the stories behind them. The lyrics, the moments, the impact, and plenty to argue about.
32:51Check out the full Sprite Living Tracklist and break down the stories behind your favorite bars at livingtracklist.genius.com This is the Sprite Living Tracklist and it's so much fun. Obey your thirst. Behind the Bars is presented by Sprite. You know the song dropped in 2017, Bo Daggala? Shut up. I was like, I had to Google that and I said, huh? It was that long ago? That's crazy. You know there's certain songs that come out that you can't even really say what it is it's just a swag about it it's like the swag about it alone makes everybody want to be down with it they want they want to say it they want to show you they know the words they want to you know every now and then a song will come out or a movement will come out and it's like the swag is so strong on it that people that it's fun to like just be down with it and i think that that happened with this i remember everybody doing videos and stuff and and knowing all the words and it really just was like i i don't even know the numbers but it had to be insane there you know no she broke multiple that song broke multiple records like one of them is you have records you have facts one of them is you are so prepared it became the first solo female rap song to receive a diamond certification that's 10 times platinum from from the recording from bodak yellow yes yes it was not it was a smash record it was you know how many songs that we could say that like big songs that they don't have no no this is an absurd amount of people listening to this one song even still today i i think it recently got something new like it's it's still almost 10 years yes still almost 10 years later it's still getting awards like it's Still in rotation.
34:35We should have a 10-year Bodak Yellow Party next year. We should plan it. That'll be a good time. It's also fun when you can see a song. When a song is so big that it launches a career. Oh, that's the best. Because then it's like, it almost, it allows you to take the ride with the artist. Like, because you were there and you saw the rocket ship go. And a lot of times artists, they'll get a rocket ship. And then they become a one hit wonder. And it's very hard to keep a career going for some. But when a song that big launches a career and we get to watch it, I don't know. It's really cool. Yeah, but it was a monster.
35:16That song was a monster. And for sure launched a phenomenal career. Check out the Sprite Living track list and break down the stories behind your favorite bars. The link is in our show notes so you can check that out. This is the Sprite Living track list. Obey your thirst. so acting is like your therapy in a way right no no no no no no it never was that it never was that i was just looking and saying why do i do this but it was never it was never therapy it's it's fun okay it's fun well it's fun it's not it's not it's not there it's a escape yeah at one point it was yeah at one point it was like i said it was it was the attention seeking and then the at the other point i did if it was an escape i didn't know that it was an escape you know but the cool thing about it is that once i can embrace that and say acting is an escape so then when i go i escape into acting and now it's fun again you see what i'm saying so and then when you go back to your real life what is your real life like we don't know that much about your like you see how i uh organized that oh you did that on purpose yeah oh you like that i'm like that what is that you're afraid to let people in your business you're are you just private by nature or what is that?
36:27I like my life and it's unnatural. I don't know y 'all people. I'm being real. No, no, you dead ass right. I'm being real. People don't know me and I don't know them. I don't know y 'all. You see what I'm saying? So let people in my life for what? Like I got a real life. I got a real life. A good one? A great one. A great one. You must have a very great family life. The fact that you talk to your family every day is really, it's not, I don't think that's, everybody can say that, that people have that kind of close-knit. Yeah, I'm blessed that, I'm blessed in that way. Yeah, and we got a big family.
37:11We were the only family that moved from New Orleans to Oakland. So we were sort of like made into a pact. I think also when my father died, my father passed in 2007. And so we turned into, turned toward each other even more, you know, so. Were your parents together the whole time? No. Oh, okay. No, no, no. Not at the time that he passed. But we all still turned, you know, in toward one another even more. But we just rock with each other. You know, we all silly. We pray. You have a lot of sisters. We got four sisters and then a brother at the end. So it's my brother, four girls, and then me. Yeah.
37:48Yeah. So that's why you said all the black women are one of my first. Yeah. They were all older than you. Could you do anything wrong? Do they spoil you? Are you like the baby of the family? We say Spurl. They would say I'm Spurl. They would, right? Yeah, they would say that. I never experienced that. But yeah, they would say that. But no, they used to tease me and all that stuff too. But what about when you're young and you got four big sisters and you try to have a little girlfriend or something? How did that go? See, there used to be stuff going on that I didn't know about. I would have somebody call a house and they would get the phone call before me and my brother and all that stuff.
38:26And I would never know. I would think, you know, come on, baby, you ain't never called. I did call. You know, I called a lot of times. You know, I just talked to a lot of people, everybody except for you. I ran into that a little bit. And then you got a cell phone. Then I got a little cell phone and I got to bring my, you know, bring my girlfriend around and, you know, and they was cool. I think it's been the case. I think, you know, my first girlfriend, and they've been friends with her longer than, you know. Yeah, you know. But it's all good. It's all good. They stayed friends after a breakup?
38:54Yeah, yeah. We was young. You know what I'm saying? That's tough. Is that tough? Yes. I'm all right. You're on to the next thing. Yo, your list, your catalog is so good. You got a lot of projects. This is your part. You want to see it? Yeah, that's the past, though. You know what I mean? You know, it's the past? That's the past. Really? Yeah. You don't miss a character after it's gone? Michelle, my publicist, the other day we were talking about something and she said, you know, if you win, did this, people would say, oh, look, that's Wonder Man doing that. You know, I forgot I was Wonder Man. Didn't catch the latest Roland Martin unfiltered podcast.
39:29Here's what you missed. And the argument is, do you want to win? If you don't win, you have no power. It's real. Those are the very people who I always say vote against their own economic interests and they complain about the very thing they were seeing. It's raw. I knew that the issue of transgender athletes was not going well with a lot of black men. Roland Martin unfiltered. I went off. I said, this is exactly what I'm talking about. Y 'all gonna scream at Chanel, but you don't want to see a black luxury company in the same vein. Catch Roland Martin's daily commentary on the Black Information Network.
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43:43I don't be thinking about myself and what I do. in the morning you don't get up in the morning and look in the mirror you know no i i'm i'm so when you are wonder man though in the moment does your real life personality change at all like at home are you acting like you think at home yeah like does it seep into your like who you are and real when you're in the middle of no but let me no but let me tell you something about simon williams right the cool thing simon williams get to get to gets to do all the stuff that i I don't really do. He gets to brag and he gets to be like, you know, everybody look at me.
44:20He gets to be a superstar because he wants to be a superstar. Yeah. You know, you should interview him sometime. Yeah. Did I do that with you? Oh, that boy, that boy's a piece of work. I would love that. Number one. Number two, your role in this movie now that's coming out. What is his name? Wayne Strider. Wayne. Wayne Strider. Strider? Strider. Strider. Yeah, Strider. Like, you know, look. Strider. Strider. strider yeah got it so in the new movie wayne schrider uh-huh by any means if i were interviewing him what does he have going on hey wayne wayne somewhere living on stressing me street right now you know he um he's a black uh fbi agent and he's trying to trying to crack a case of a murder of a civil rights leader in southern mississippi but he's partnering with uh your whole demeanor just changed did it really yes that's what's up in a good way or like subtle like you just went to a place you went you you i like i like where i'm at right now yeah yeah i like a lot i like this place well you tapped into him did i i think so yeah is that what happened i don't know possibly i mean you know you saw it okay you saw it yeah but no way wayne um well wayne got a lot on his plate You know, he's a what I like to say is he's a he's trying to be a good man in a wicked world, you know, and he's trying to do good.
45:47He's trying to do good by doing good. But in a wicked world, it's hard to do good by doing good. So, you know, he's navigating that line of trying to figure out when to go bad. And, you know, that's his 1960s in Mississippi. He works for the FBI. Is he living a dangerous world? Is this based on something true? Based on a true story. It is? Yeah. Real person? Or just a story? Not Wayne Strider. Wayne Strider is sort of an amalgamation of a lot of different characters. And Greg Scarper is the true-to-life character that Mark Wahlberg plays. So when did you wrap the movie? Recently? No, we wrapped last year.
46:29Okay, last year. So movie wraps. Yeah, it comes out September 4th. Are you still holding on to that? Like, are you still walking around? No. No, no, no. Lil Wayne. Lil Wayne. Yeah. You got bars? Uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh. No, you let it go, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Fascinating. I do. Well, I can't wait to see it. How's Mark? Mark is cool. Yeah, right? Mark is real chill. He's a... He's a golfer. Yeah, he's a golfer. I'm a golfer, too. Oh, yeah? Yeah, I love it. Is that right? Oh, God, I'm obsessed. I want to get obsessed with golf. I got my golf clubs. I'm looking for my nice little piece of land. Have you golfed?
47:04Have you tried it? Yeah, I've tried it. to me it's like what you explain about um i don't know it just takes you out of whatever else it bring you into right now right now is the best it's the best place to be it's the only place to be yeah you know i mean yeah it's the only place to be did you always know that heck no oh no how did you think at one point i knew it and then i forgot it and then when i forgot it it was hell and then it's ever since then it's been trying to figure out how to get it back but if you're trying to get it back you've already lost you just gotta accept it you know what i'm saying so you just gotta accept where you are now you see what i'm saying is that still a thing that you know heck yeah really yeah i've been working on it this whole time sitting there with you being in the moment yeah why what are you tempted to think about like something else you got to do later which i'm doing a pretty good job no you're in the moment it's great yeah yeah i know you're right we need to all do that I need to do it too.
48:01But that's what golf does for me. Is that right? Yeah. Yeah. So I know Mark has that bug too. That's what painting is for me. Oh, you do painting? Yeah. That's one of the reasons why I really want to, you know, make sure that I go and get my, I'm looking for a home right now. So that's one of the reasons why I really want to get the right place so I can do all my, do all my painting. Acting really funds my, funds my painting. That's what, that's what, that's what's going on. What kind of paintings are we making? Um, I'll show you. There's a, there's a, is it, is it, is it abstract? I guess some would say it's abstract.
48:31But when I have ideas, I try to work my ideas out on pen and paper. And by the end of it, a lot of times I diagram it in a way where I don't realize that I'm making art until it's done, until the thought is articulated. You start with a thought. Interesting. Because I never set out to paint something. I'm always figuring out a thought. But I use my pen to write down a thought, and then I end up diagramming it. And then by the end, once it makes sense, I look and I was like, oh, this is art. Give me one. Tell me one thought, your favorite thought that you came up with in that process. Why? Is it bad?
49:18No, I'm not quite ready to share it. Okay. Yeah, but I'll show it to you offline. I'm excited. Yeah. Yeah, it's about how it's about everything. It's about how everything comes together. Yeah, it's deep. Okay. Yeah. All right. Going into the speaking of deep, go deep into the IRL Bowl. Uh-oh. The legendary. IRL Bowl. I don't know if it's that legendary. Let's see. Let's see what you get. What's one thing you hope never changes about you? My smile. Okay. Yeah. I like my smile. I love my smile. I've been blessed with a good one.
49:59And, yeah. When you say blessed with a good one, is that like jeans? No, yeah, yeah. I mean, literally, I do really like my smile. But I think it's my sense of humor is in my, it's somewhere wrapped up in there. Yeah. And so you need that. You need that sense of humor. I kind of want you to do two more, then we're going to do your voice. All right. All right. My one? all right what's uh one value you think we're losing as a society uh-oh no no this is everybody know it's like the the appreciation for uh solitude and privacy no i think we know too many people i think we know too many people's business and i think it's unnatural to know that many people's business you know so do you never fall victim to that like of course yeah i know people business i know your business you know you know my business i don't know none of your business Oh, okay.
50:52So, you know, we good. I don't know nothing else. But no, I know, I put it this way. I know more people business than I care to. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? So then I tell myself, man, mind your business and get a life. I caught myself the other day. Yeah. Watching Instagram. Looking at somebody. Watching the triangle of Blueface and Creshawn and the other baby mother. And I must have been there for like six minutes before I was like. Don't put me in the people business. Before I was like, I don't even know these people. Why? it's good tv though you know why have i been here why do i know so much it's entertainment imagine that your life your life being entertainment boy that's cold then you got to keep it up especially if your life as entertainment pay the bills then you got to keep an entertaining life shoot put up a live stream in my house that'll sell actually i did put it now i want to know what we're gonna see You can see it all.
51:50All right, one more. Go ahead. Yeah, all right. What's this? If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be? The piano. Yeah, the piano. I feel like you could. I could. I couldn't do it instantly, though. Yeah. But it would be the piano because that would... Boy, if I mastered the piano, y 'all really never see me again. Boy, once I get in my house, I sit that piano somewhere outside. like somewhere under a big old willow tree or something like that, the big magnolia tree or something like that. Boy, I just set it up nice. You just going to be trapped up in there with your house painting, playing the piano?
52:29Playing the piano, singing. You know, you'll never see me again. I mean that. Well, that's terrible. No, it ain't terrible for me. Well, come outside. The people like you. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I make the people miss me. I'm going to make it dramatic. I'm going to draw it out. You know, I'm going to look. Do they miss me yet? No, not yet. Then I pop out, you know, give them something to see and then disappear on them again. What is your like North Star for all this work that you're doing and all these projects for you as an actor for your for your outside professional kind of, I don't know, connection to the outside to people?
53:03When you can't be in your house, you're coming outside for a reason. Yeah. You're making art, you're creating, you're doing these films. Like, what is the what is the North Star for you? I'm going to answer that the way that I hear it. And then if I answer it incorrectly, I want you to read. I want you to redirect me back to what you're talking about. OK, because my North Star is to is to go back inside, is to be able to go back inside so that I never have to come out unless I want to. I have that right now. Right. But I want it to be able to last. All my life. That way, when I do come out, it means something.
53:42this special. I come out because I got something to say. I come out because I've been in their workshop and in my workshop. And then I come out and I say, hey, yo, I got something. I got something to show. I got something for everybody to see. I'm excited about this one. This the one. This the one. Now I'm holding up my painting in my mind, but it could be my movie. You know what I'm saying? It could be a play. It could be a message. It could be, you know, whatever it is. I am an artist, so I'm going to be creating something. So my North Star is to be able to do the type of work that will afford me the ability to have that type of privacy and to be able to disappear.
54:23But also the type of work that gains the trust of my people so that when I come out with something to say that they want to know, you know. That it means something. Yeah, that they want to know what I've been that they want to know what I've been working on. and that means that you know I've been giving them good good food you know who has that in your opinion who is that for you when Kendrick put out Kendrick Lamar put out things I go and I listen I go check him out with Andre 3000 you'll stop what you're doing that's it when Andre 3000 come out with another album flute or whatever I'm not going I'm going to go I'm telling the truth I'm going to go take a vacation I'm going to go take a I'm not going to go take a vacation to go listen to it I'm going to stop that man said hey Miss Donna you running to my mama please tell her I said say something what?
55:24I mean for real yeah yeah okay Andre 3000 no you don't got to go no further Kendrick that's it I don't mean to say take Kendrick off but when I said Kendrick I was searching for it he's your north star in terms of creators of like uh people who've done what you choose what you're striving to be in your in your space like uh i won't go that far i say all that yeah but because i'm i'm i'm striving to be me you know what i'm saying trying to be him but i'm saying he he's mastered that thing in your world where when he pops out he has that thing but when when when he got something to say people listen everybody listen everybody everybody everybody like your favorite when he got something to say they may not let everybody know but they check it out they get quiet and they listen because they won't see yeah because they won't see you know i'm trying to think what people on a big scale on a mass scale do that for most people it's hard now because everything is so yeah polarizing or fragmented i don't know yeah there's no like when Michael Jackson came out, everybody stopped to see the thing.
56:36Everybody stopped. Stopped to do the thing. Beyonce has that. Beyonce does. But you got to, you have to, Jay-Z has that. Yeah. You got to disappear for that. That's the, you know, you have to, you have to disappear for that because it takes, you know, it's a, it's a luxury to be able to hear your own thoughts. The city is noisy. Not just the city, but like, you know, we, life is noisy these days. And so it's, you need quiet, some quiet time in order to create you know I don't think God created in a world full of chaos you know what I mean so I want my own little solitude so that I can hear my own thoughts and create I needed to hear that too I need to remind myself of that I think I need a little solitude there we go yeah go get it go get it all right we got it they're wrapping me up let's get to your how we do how you feel I think you're great I think you're amazing you think I'm great yeah Does that please you?
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58:56Eddie you know he just wants to you know what I mean find his way hey man pick stuff up and put it down man that's it that is your that is your pick stuff up and put it down and then do it again and then when it get heavy you know and then when it get light pick something heavier up and put it down put it down yeah yeah yeah you be that is the extent of your wellness plan of your workout Hey, look, that ain't so easy to do. You know, pick stuff up, put it down and do it again and then do it again. Do you do that every day? Mm-hmm. You do? Mm-hmm. No. A lot of days? I do it enough. Enough. Yeah, I do it enough that Eddie are calling, wanting to know the secret.
59:46I make myself laugh. You should. Are you disciplined though at it? Am I disciplined? Yeah. Yeah, I am. I could, and I'm always looking for more. I'm always looking for ways to be more disciplined. Yeah. And better. Yeah, better and better. My favorite question in the bowl, I will ask you this today. Yeah. Well, there's so many that I could ask you because we should have got to the bowl earlier. But because of due to time, I'll go to my favorite. It's all good. What you got? If God were to text you right now, what would it say? If you picked up your phone right now and it was God, what would he say to you?
1:00:28Today. That terrifies me. Really? Yeah. Why? Because it's God. people got got got got these ideas that they want to talk to god and like you know that that god is so pleased and that god is this this sweet loving yeah man if god hits you up he hitting you up about god's agenda you're in trouble you feel like you'd be in trouble most of us would be If I'm telling the truth, if I want to play the game and be like, ooh, what do I want God to say? You know, keep going. You're doing such a great job. It's going to be all right. God don't need to hit you up to say that. You know what I'm saying? When he gets your attention, he gets your attention for his agenda.
1:01:19You see how I woke up just now? That's what I'm passionate about. That's what I'm painting about. You know what I'm saying? That's why I'm trying to get away so I can create, so I can go make my stuff to have something to say, and then come out and say, boom, this is what I got to share. You see what I'm saying? So the gifts and all the things you do, you very much connected to God. I would want to be. Yeah. He'd be pleased with you right now in this moment. In some ways, yes. And then in some ways, no. You know what I mean? I don't get a say-so. and what I want him to say, what I want him to say don't matter.
1:02:05From what I want him to say don't matter. That's God. He going to do what he want to do. You know what I'm saying? The real question is like, whatever he say, do I have the courage to obey it? You know, do I have the courage to listen to it? Or whatever he says, like, am I living my life in a way that positions myself for him to say something good.
1:02:32That's really what I got to worry about because it really don't matter what I hope he say. It really don't matter what I... I hope he don't say nothing. I hope he stay right where he at. I hope he stay right where he at. If I'm being honest, I don't want no smoke. Do you spend every day trying to make him happy? Trying to please him? As best as I can. Yeah. Yeah. I get that. As best as I can. Well, keep going, Yaya. Yeah, you too. Thank you. That's Yaya in real life.
1:03:08This is Yaya Abdul-Mateen II in real life. Hey, guys. Thanks for watching. Make sure you subscribe, like, comment, and check out all of the other episodes we have on Andrew Martinez IRL Podcast.
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