In short
The episode argues that parents can make better medical decisions by reading publicly available FDA “manufacturer inserts” (package inserts) for vaccines/prescription drugs, emphasizing informed consent, contraindications, and post-marketing adverse reactions; it also discusses vaccine liability law (1986 Act) and how ACIP/VIS wording may differ from manufacturer inserts.
Guests
Alexandra, founder of Just the Inserts. Background: started researching during pregnancy after receiving a one-page Tdap sheet; found government/manufacturer resources “obliterated” her prior beliefs; launched Just the Inserts in 2020 to teach people how to locate and read FDA inserts using a free course.
Key claims
many parents and even some clinicians don’t know inserts exist; informed consent requires the ability to accept, delay, or decline; adverse reactions in section 6.2 reflect FDA/CDC causation; VIS may omit risks listed in inserts.
Notable examples
finding a vaccine insert for impetigo antibiotic while in a pharmacy; DTaP/VIS vs manufacturer insert allegedly listing SIDS in 6.2; Gardasil/HPV lawsuits (Merck) illustrating murky liability.
Written by AI. May contain mistakes. Listen to the episode to check what was said.
Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VODiscussion on Knowledge Gaps
0:00 to 0:28
Learn about the lack of information parents and healthcare providers have regarding medical products.
“The government knows, the manufacturers know, but the parents don't know.”
Guest Introduction: Alexandra
0:47 to 1:40
Meet Alexandra, founder of Just the Inserts, and learn about her motivations.
“general educational purposes only, and is not a substitute for personalized professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.”
The Journey to Just the Inserts
1:40 to 4:54
Alexandra shares her personal journey and mission behind Just the Inserts.
“And then we'll get into like the good stuff.”
The Importance of Informed Consent
4:54 to 6:15
Discussion on the significance of informed consent in medical decisions.
“We have a beautiful community of just diverse people, of people who accept medical products, who delay medical products, and who decline medical products.”
Understanding Manufacturer Inserts
6:15 to 8:30
Learn what manufacturer inserts are and their importance for vaccines.
“Let's talk a little bit about what the inserts are.”
Liability and Lawsuits in Vaccination
10:45 to 14:02
Discussion on legal aspects and liabilities concerning vaccine manufacturers.
“How do the inserts help manufacturers with liability or lack thereof?”
Understanding Medical Inserts
14:02 to 16:47
Learn about the importance of reading medical inserts and key sections to focus on.
“I know we're covering like so much here.”
Introducing Mom Mail Segment
16:47 to 19:34
Explore the new 'Mom Mail' segment where real parenting dilemmas are discussed.
“There's a little bit of a change that's happening to the Learning to Mom podcast, and I am so stoked about it.”
Setting Boundaries with Family
19:34 to 23:04
Discuss the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries with family members regarding child care.
“You have every right to decide what flies and what doesn't.”
Informed Consent and Parental Authority
23:04 to 26:23
Understand the concept of informed consent and how it relates to parental authority in medical decisions.
“Talking about informed consent and how it relates to authority and responsibility.”
Show all 15 chapters
The Role of Maternal Instinct
27:44 to 28:06
Recognize the value of maternal instinct and personal experience in medical decisions.
“It was something, it was like, I'm just butchering it.”
Understanding Parental Instincts and Medical Decisions
28:06 to 30:24
Explore how parental instincts play a crucial role in making medical choices for children.
“yeah, like we actually, we're the ones that suffer the consequences of if we choose that medical procedure or not.”
The 1986 Law and Financial Conflicts in Vaccination
30:25 to 34:26
Learn about the 1986 law and the financial conflicts influencing vaccine information.
“And the one thing I failed to mention was I think it's really important to understand.”
Navigating Guilt and Making Informed Choices
34:27 to 36:50
Discuss how to manage guilt over past medical choices and focus on informed future decisions.
“And that's why I say, look, if you are extremely worried about diphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis, which is what DTAP is meant to prevent, I understand.”
Promoting Free Educational Resources for Parents
36:51 to 38:04
Discover the importance of free educational resources for informed parenting decisions.
“And for anyone listening right now, you are not alone.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00The government knows, the manufacturers know, but the parents don't know. And I would also argue that most of the healthcare providers don't know. And what is the most heartbreaking messages that I get are nurses and pediatricians in my DM saying, I had no clue. I have persuaded so many parents to accept this product. I have administered myself not knowing, and it feels like betrayal to them. Yeah.
0:28Learning To Mom:Hey, mom friend, welcome to the learning to mom podcast. First off. Hi, hello. Welcome. I'm your official mom friend, Layla. Here you get the answers to all your gazillion first time mom questions. As I ask experts, all our motherhood questions and seek tangible information without making you feel overwhelmed. Please note that the content presented in this podcast is designed for general educational purposes only, and is not a substitute for personalized professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. You're going to get a lot out of this week's episode, mom friend. So let's get right into it.
1:03Learning To Mom:Hi, Alexandra. Welcome to the Learning to Mom podcast. Thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited to be here. You said that and you are so sweet, but I think I'm more excited to have you. I am a raging fan that when your team reached out to me to have you on, I was like, oh, they know I'm alive. It was a big moment for me. So I'm so thrilled to have you. That's so sweet. Okay. We have so much to cover today. So do you mind just briefly introducing yourself and sharing what spurred you to start just the inserts? And then we'll get into like the good stuff. Not that that's not good. Yeah, no, absolutely.
1:46Well, it's all kind of tied together. So my name is Alexandra. I'm the founder of Just the Inserts. So my journey started with Just the Inserts with my firstborn, my daughter. When I was pregnant, I was researching everything, reading all the books. Oh man, if I would have had this podcast, I would have just gobbled it all up. But I just was so overwhelmed by the research that when it came to the point where my midwife handed me a one-page sheet on the Tdap vaccine, I just could not comprehend researching one more thing. So I asked my mom to research for me. And when she provided her research, I found it to be very polarizing.
2:26I found it to be very fear based and not a lot of logic, in my opinion. I thought it was based on just very specific, in my own opinion at the time, rare circumstances. And it was conflicting with everything else that I was seeing on social media, everything that the medical experts were telling me. And so I just had this internal conflict. And unfortunately, I acted very emotionally. And my mom and I were not very good relationally for a while, which was very heartbreaking because we were very close prior to that. And it just proves that this can be such a polarizing and such a hostile conversation, even when it's between two people that love each other and are very close.
3:07So if you've been in that situation before, I completely understand how that is. So because of that, I knew that I needed to research it. So as I was starting to research more about vaccines, I made this kind of rule in my mind that I only wanted to hear from.gov resources because I figured if the government's saying this, if the manufacturer is saying something about its own product, they are the most intimate with it, surely that must be the most credible and valid. And so I eventually found what are called manufacturer inserts. And it are very important documents, so much so that I ended up creating an entire organization based off of it.
3:46But what they are, are basically just if you were to get an espresso machine, if you were to get a curling iron or anything on the market, you get that little pamphlet from the manufacturer. And it's just the manufacturer guidance. That's basically what a manufacturer insert is for pharmaceuticals for vaccines. And all of them, all prescription pharmaceuticals and all vaccines on the market have a manufacturer insert on the FDA website. So I found them, started reading them, realized, oh my gosh, everything that I'm reading from just.gov resources completely obliterates what I had preconceived notions about.
4:20And I was just completely flabbergasted that this was not common knowledge. So I started sharing and it blew up. I realized that other people were in the same mindset that I was. We saw how just at war everybody was at about this conversation. And hopefully by talking about the inserts, it was a little less abrasive, a little less hostile, and we could just have fact-based, open and honest conversation. And so that I started in the fall of 2020, and it has just blossomed. We have a beautiful community of just diverse people, of people who accept medical products, who delay medical products, and who decline medical products.
5:02And we have many, many medical professionals and pharmacists and all kinds of people, infectious disease scientists, and then moms and dads and grandparents, and just people who care about humanity all coming together, all having these open and honest conversations. So that is kind of in a nutshell of what I do and why I show up. So Just the Insert started with my story, but it continues with everybody else's story because this is such an important topic to continue talking about. Yes. Oh, my gosh.
5:32Learning To Mom:That was so good. And I love that you are just so pro-informed consent. And I say that as you're literally wearing a sweatshirt that says informed consent. And I think that that, I mean, that's what matters. Like, I don't freaking care if you decide to vaccinate your kids or not. but like just doing so because your doctor told you to is not a good enough reason. Right. Exactly. I agree. I just absolutely love that there is always a seat at the table for anyone like in your audience and your community. But it just focuses on informed consent, you know, like it doesn't matter what you do, but just make sure you freaking know why you're, why you're making the decision that you are.
6:14Right. Exactly.
6:15Learning To Mom:Let's talk a little bit about what the inserts are. You said it's like a manufacturing thing. So historically, the inserts were kind of just these secret things that only medical professionals could get. They're like folded up pieces of paper that are in, say you get a vitamin K injection or you get a vaccine or something like that. It's the folded up piece of paper in that box. However, it's widely known now that the FDA has all of those inserts freely available, publicly accessible on the FDA website. So all US licensed vaccines have a manufacturer insert on the FDA website. And it can be kind of tricky to find them because they are under either marketing names, which are called trade names, or they're under generic names, which can be maybe the active ingredient in whatever pharmaceutical vaccine you're looking at.
7:08So as someone who's not medically trained, it can be very, very overwhelming to try to find what you're looking for. You could go onto that database and be completely overwhelmed. And especially because there are vaccines that can be preventative towards several different diseases. So if you, for example, are trying to research measles, there's the MMR vaccine, but it's not just measles, it's measles, mumps, and rubella. And then there's also the MMRV, which adds the varicella component. And then there's ProQuad, which has all these other combo vaccines. So again, And if you just got overwhelmed just with that one little sentence that I just said, you're not alone.
7:44It's very, very common for us because we're not taught this and it's not common knowledge. So what I do is I try to break it down from.gov resources. And I have a free training course on my website and it's called How to Read an Answer. And I take screenshots of an FDA training course that was meant for medical providers, but I made it more accessible to the public. And so everything is cited for you because I don't want to replace your research. I want to streamline your research. And I took everything that took me forever to find and put it in a very comprehensive, beginner-friendly guide for you to walk through.
8:21So by the time that you finish it, it typically takes about two to three hours altogether to go through. You know how to find and read manufacturer inserts. All inserts follow a structure. So once you learn what each of those sections are, then no matter what you're researching, you understand, okay, if the manufacturer has this listed in the contraindications section, contraindications are medical conditions that might increase your risk to an adverse reaction. So if there is hypersensitivity to a certain ingredient or maybe an autoimmune condition or a circulatory condition or something like that, if you know that you or your child has that condition and it's listed in the contraindication of that medical manufacturer insert, then you know the manufacturer is communicating to you that you could be at an increased risk for an adverse reaction.
9:11So it's important to understand that structure of the insert so then no matter going forward, whatever you're researching, you can make the most informed medical decision for you and your family. Did you know it takes less than 30 seconds for your body to absorb whatever
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10:11Learning To Mom:My favorite makeup and skincare brand is called Crunchy. They are completely toxin-free. They prioritize certified organic ingredients and perform just as well, if not better than conventional brands. And I understand how overwhelming a website can be sometimes. So if you don't know where to start, go to learningtomompodcast.com slash makeup, where I linked everything that's in my makeup bag to help you get started. Or you can go straight to their website. I linked both of those in the episode show notes for your convenience. Go check that out. How do the inserts help manufacturers with liability or lack thereof?
10:51That's a great question. So it's tricky. I know that you talked pretty heavily about in the previous podcast with Dr. Meg, which was great, by the way. I only listened to the first part. I was so impressed by it. So if anybody hasn't listened to that, definitely go back because it was good. So right now there's actually a lawsuit going on with Gardasil, which is HPV, the HPV vaccine. So in that law, in the 1986 law, it stated that if manufacturers provided in their inserts what they know about those products, and they would not be liable for any, you couldn't sue them in the court of law. You couldn't go, and if you had an injury, you could go and sue them.
11:28You have to go instead through a government process, and you never see a manufacturer. You end up petitioning to the government your vaccine injury or death, and then you're compensated from a tax that is on every single vaccine that's given. So if you have ever accepted a vaccine, about 75 % or 75 cents per vaccine or disease that's prevented goes towards an injury compensation program for injury of vaccines and death that's caused by vaccines. But a lot of people don't know that. And that's per the disease that's prevented. So for the flu vaccine, you're paying 75 cents per shot. And then for MMR, that's actually$2.25 because it's per disease, which was mind-blowing to me when I first learned that.
12:12So that's traditionally from that legislation was created, that whole program. But what is important in this current conversation is if a manufacturer is fraudulent in reporting to the FDA certain studies or certain aspects of the studies or maybe some adverse reactions that were reported to them and they didn't report it to the government, then they can be liable for any suing from civilians. So what's happening right now is there were about 200 lawsuits going on with Merck for the HPV Gardasil vaccine. And just real quick, we'll pause real quick. So when I say HPV, that's the kind of generic name of that vaccine.
12:56And then Gardasil is the trade name or the marketing name. That's why you might hear certain terms when they talk about that vaccine. So anyway, so there was a federal judge that said that Merck was okay. They did disclose all of the information on their insert and therefore can't be sued. However, at the state level, they can be sued. So if you see a whole bunch of different things going on right now with Merck and HPV and Gardasil, it's because it's very murky and it's kind of very hard to weed out what is truth and what is maybe something that was fraudulent. and there's a lot of just internal investigation.
13:34So there's a lot of things going on with that law right now. And it's important for us to know as consumers to keep a line on that because if there was kind of fraudulent activity, then that would affect the 1986 Act. That would affect the vaccine information statement that we get whenever we're told that this is something that we need to provide for our children. And especially if in your state where it's mandated, you need to know about this. So it can be, as you can tell, it can get kind of messy. But it is important.
14:03Learning To Mom:So when – okay. So kind of back to the logistics. Sorry. I know we're covering like so much here. When you're talking about like it's important to know da-da-da-da-da-da, could you maybe go through like the sections of – or like what the most important things are so that way we can know like why is being able to read them important and what parts of them are important? Yeah. I'll give a great example. So a few years ago, my two oldest kids got impetigo. So when I went to my family doctor, brought my older daughter, and I was worried because it was on her face. So I was obviously like worried about blindness.
14:39And I just wanted to make sure we were doing our due diligence. And so she prescribed an antibiotic. And she even told me at the time, she's like, look, this antibiotic, it's not, it's for eye, you know, issues, but it's not necessarily the first line defense for impetigo. You can, you know, research more, research more about it. And so I, while I'm standing in the pharmacy, I pulled out my phone and I took like a screenshot of what my doctor had written down, the name of it, because nobody can pronounce any of those things. And I just followed the steps that I have in my own training guide. And I found the insert.
15:12And as I'm standing in the pharmacy, I like went through certain sections. So these are the sections that I would recommend. If you are getting ready, like you're standing in the line at the pharmacy and you're getting ready to accept a product, these are the ones that I would focus on. So those contraindication sections, that's the first thing that you need to be aware of. Okay, are there any lifestyle red flags or medical red flags that I need to be aware of that might increase my risk or my child's risk for an adverse reaction? Because according to the CDC and FDA, if you have a listed contraindication, you should not accept that product.
15:44So that's really important. And then after that, and maybe before that is kind of equal to that, is to read the indication section. So that is what the FDA has approved that drug or vaccine for. About 20%, I believe is the statistic, about 20 % of drugs that are prescribed or vaccines, well, not necessarily vaccines, but drugs, they are used off-label. So they are used for a different reason than what the FDA or the manufacturer produced that drug for. So if you're reading the indication section and it's completely off the wall, it has nothing to do with your condition, then most likely that drug is being prescribed off-label.
16:22And that just warrants a deeper conversation either with the pharmacist or with your doctor to say, okay, can you just walk through your diagnosis and your prescription of this just so I can understand how this drug works and then be more aware of, okay, maybe the titration or the dosage is too high and you can just be more involved in that process to make a better, more informed decision.
16:47Learning To Mom:There's a little bit of a change that's happening to the Learning to Mom podcast, and I am so stoked about it. Now, when I say change, don't freak out. It's really, really small. But essentially, there's going to be a new segment that is implemented into every episode of Learning to Mom podcast that's called Mom Mail. This is where you write in your tricky situation, and I give you advice only a real friend would give. I'm starting this because I want to serve you better, to really know what you're walking through, what you need, and how I can help. Think of it like we're chatting on a hot mom walk together or over brunch with Bloody Marys or mimosas, whatever your vibe.
17:25Learning To Mom:Here's this week's scenario. Am I overreacting? My mother-in-law insists on kissing my 15-month-old on the lips every time she sees him. I've asked her nicely more than once not to do it because I don't want him catching anything. Plus, I just don't like it. She brushes me off and says I'm being dramatic and that she kissed all her kids this way and they turned out fine. Now I feel like I'm the bad guy for even bringing it up again. Should I let it go or stand my ground? I think you'd need to stand your ground. You have a boundary that's not being respected. Why is it on you to change your boundary because it's not being respected?
18:03Learning To Mom:It's not on you. It's on her for not following through. What I would do as your mom friend, the advice that I would give you, take it with a grain of salt. Of course, I don't know your specific relationship, but set the tone for the boundary. If that needs to come from you or due to your relationship with your mother-in-law, perhaps it would be best for your husband to take that conversation and say again, we have this boundary. No one else is allowed to kiss him. Don't share why. If you share why, there's room for negotiation. Just state the boundary. Then state the consequence. If you kiss him, we're going to take him back.
18:46Or if you kiss him, you're not going to be able to hold him for the rest of the day.
18:50Learning To Mom:Whatever that consequence is. And then follow through. It's only going to take one or two times of that consequence being followed through for that boundary to be respected. But if you loosen up this boundary now when your child is only 15 months old, then the boundaries that you're going to have in place for the future, other boundaries, whether that be screen time, whether that be dietary restrictions, whether that be, you know, we feel uncomfortable with your neighbor and we don't want him going over there. your boundaries aren't going to be respected if you don't show that they need to be respected now.
19:32Learning To Mom:That's my two cents on the matter, and I hope that helped. You are absolutely not overreacting. Trust your mother's intuition. You have every right to decide what flies and what doesn't. If you've got a situation you want me to weigh in on, email me at learningtomompodcast.mommail at gmail.com. So indication section, which is typically at the very top, the contraindication section, that would be the second one. And then I personally scroll all the way down to section 6.2. That is the post-marketing adverse reaction section. So section one is huge. And the section 6.1 section is going to like rock your brain.
20:14You're going to be standing in that pharmacy line for hours trying to go through all of that. That's the clinical trial data. And it is important to go through that. However, it's also important to understand that most of those clinical trials, especially if you're talking about a vaccine, the placebo for those clinical trials were either that same vaccine administered at a later date, or it's another vaccine, or maybe it's part of that vaccine without the antigen, or it's a different part of the vaccine without one of the adjuvants. And so it just gets very messy. Because there's no true medically trained.
20:49Exactly. And sometimes you have to go to clinicaltrials.gov to really understand exactly what happened in that clinical trial because it's only summarized in the insert. So I personally scroll past it until I have a lot of time to sit down and research it. And I go to section 6.2, which is the adverse reactions that have been reported from the general public after the product went to market. I find that to be a lot more applicable because the CDC states that rare or delayed adverse reactions may not be known until millions of people accept a vaccine. That's important for us to know. If we know, and according to the FDA and the CDC, an adverse reaction is an undesirable medical condition known to be caused by a vaccine.
21:31So we know that there's causation there. A lot of people will say, well, correlation isn't causation. Yes, that is true, but causation requires correlation. And if there is an adverse reaction listed in section six on the FDA insert, then there has been some kind of causation tied to that adverse reaction in that medical product. So scroll all the way down. And it's typically, the newer products are typically broken out by different bodily systems. So it might say like circulatory adverse reactions, or it might say skin adverse reactions. It's typically broken up. so then you can go through and read through all of them.
22:08So if your child is prone to eczema, then you look and you say, okay, dermatitis is listed as an adverse reaction. There's something in here that might cause my child's eczema to flare up. Or maybe there's gut issues that your child tends to deal with. You can look in the gut section and say, okay, this is known to be caused. So I need to research more about this. I need to maybe have a pause and find out a little bit more and have a more pointed conversation with that pharmacist, with your doctor, and maybe still get the prescription, go home, put it on your table, and then have a conversation with your spouse or your partner, call up your doctor, have a follow-up conversation with the nurse, just to have that insight before you accept a layer decline.
22:53So those are the three sections that I personally prioritize. There are way more important sections that are still there too, But if you're crunched on time, that's what I would focus on.
23:03Learning To Mom:Okay. That was so great. Talking about informed consent and how it relates to authority and responsibility. This is so tricky. Just like, why do you think today's system is set up in a way that makes informed consent so hard to come by? Yeah, that is such a great question. It is the question of our generation sometimes, I feel like. So I think a lot of it has to do with a misunderstanding of what informed consent is. And for those that are listening that aren't really sure exactly what it is, it's basically the right that you have. It's a fundamental right. It's a human right that you have to understand everything about that product that is known from the manufacturers, from the dock of resources.
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23:51So the benefits, the risks, the ingredients, how that product was brought to market, how it's monitored and adverse reactions that are reported after it is in the market, how it operates within the general public. And then the ability that's baked into informed consent is the ability to make a decision. And in order to make a decision, you have to have the options to accept delay or decline. If the option to delay or decline is removed, it's not informed consent. It can't exist. Those are mutually exclusive. So that's where a lot of the debates come in is because there isn't that foundational understanding of informed consent.
24:32And that's what I focus on. I focus on that continually of saying everyone has a right to accept delay or decline. Whether I agree with you or not or whether I made a different decision than you did, I will respect your right to make that decision for your family because we all have different situations. we're so beautifully diverse and we all have bio-individuality and we all have different experiences we have different environmental exposures we all live in different parts if you think about the united states it's massive what somebody's going to be dealing with in the south of florida is not the same of what someone might be dealing with in the north of seattle or with you know one of the northern states or alaska so it's it's something that um i try to preserve and protect that space of everyone having that beautiful diversity and not being so absolute about that.
25:27But at the underlying fabric of all of that is that we are all responsible for ourselves and our families. We are stewards of our body. We are stewards of our children's bodies. And in order to make the best decision and to foster that responsibility, we have to step into that authority. We have to realize that because we have responsibility, we also have authority and no one can make that decision for us. And it can be really hard, especially as new moms, especially as women. We get into that environment, we get into that pediatrician's office and we feel so small and we feel like we're not smart enough and we feel like we're just misinformed and we're being disrespectful and we're being rude and that's, we have to shake that off.
26:11We have to get rid of that preconception in our mind. We are mothers. We have responsibility for our children and we have authority over our children and we have to make informed medical decisions.
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27:42Learning To Mom:I promise. You said something once, oh gosh, and now I don't, I can't even remember it. And it was so good. It was something, it was like, I'm just butchering it. And I know you have no idea what I'm talking about because I'm like, you said this one thing once. It was something like we have responsibility, like, or maybe it was just like, no one else is going to foot the medical bill or like where it was like something so simple and yet so profound where it was just like, yeah, like we actually, we're the ones that suffer the consequences of if we choose that medical procedure or not. Well, and it's just think of moms.
28:21Like I, I love that we're all moms here and we're all listening together because we know the second when our child wakes up, we know what kind of day it's going to be. We know we can tell by the cry. We can tell by If they had a blowout, we can tell if they are pulling at the ear because they're teething. Like we know our children so intimately. And we have the most anecdotal evidence and observations of our child. Our instinct is data. What we know about our child surpasses any level of experience that a 40-year pediatrician has for that specific child. And so it's important to realize that when we are seeking medical advice, that expert's advice, yes, you can respect what they can bring to the table, but also you have to step in your power too and realize that you have something nobody else has.
29:13And you also have the ability to make that decision because you will also be most likely the one that will have to live with a consequence no matter what you decide. So if you do accept a product and your child develops eczema, you're going to have to deal with that. My second child, he struggles with eczema and that is so hard. Like dealing with that and your whole day gets structured around it because you're worried about, okay, well, if he's exposed to this, it's going to make a flare happen. And he can't wear those pants because those pants rub his ankles in a wrong way and your whole day is structured around it.
29:45So when we see some of these adverse reactions and people dismiss it or belittle it and they're like, oh, well, he might have an eczema flare, but it's worth further greater good. Not necessarily. Sometimes for moms that can completely shift your entire life of trying to manage these adverse reactions. And again, being balanced, you know, it's on the flip side, too. If you decline a product that is known to treat this particular condition and then they do develop that condition, then you will have to deal with that, too. So that's why it's so important for us to be informed and to understand the whole aspect of it before we make those decisions because we're the ones that are going to have to live with it.
30:23Yes.
30:23Learning To Mom:Yes. Yes. Yes. We talked about the 1986 law before. Should we talk about the 93 Amendment? We touched on it a little bit. And the one thing I failed to mention was I think it's really important to understand. So the 1983 amendment, there is a federal kind of, it's within the CDC, it's a committee, and it's called ACIP. And they kind of come together and decide the CDC vaccination schedule. They also can decide what gets added or removed from the vaccine information statement. Unfortunately, the concern for that is within that amendment, it allowed the vaccine information statement to differ from the manufacturer insert if ACIP decided that it was worth it to be differed.
31:12And why that's concerning is there are many potential financial conflicts of interest within the ACIP committee. So the people that are making these decisions have disclosed publicly that they do have potential financial conflicts of interest with the vaccine manufacturers. and yet they're making decisions that affect all of Americans and affect all informed consent conversations that happen in the pediatrician's office. And the most vivid example I can provide is if you look at the vaccine information statement for the DTaP vaccine. So TDaP is if you're pregnant and DTaP is if for a newborn, for a baby.
31:50So the important thing to understand with the DTaP vaccine, so that's the one that's given to two, four, six-month-old babies, is that on the vaccine information statement, at the very bottom, it might say, in rare circumstances, severe or serious injury or death may occur. However, on the manufacturer insert for one of the DTaP vaccines, if you scroll all the way down to section 6.2, so remember those are the adverse reactions that are reported after the product goes to market and there is causation according to the FDA and CDC, in that section, the very last adverse reaction that is known to be caused by the DTaP vaccine is sudden infant death syndrome.
32:30According to the NIH, the highest rate of SIDS for babies is two, four, six-month-old babies. And here there is a product verified by the FDA that is known to cause, there is some causation for sudden infant death syndrome. That's very important for parents to understand. Extremely important. And so the fact that here we have the facts, and these are all verified from DACA resources, The entity that allowed sudden infant death syndrome not to be listed on the VIS have disclosed financial potential conflicts of interest with pharmaceutical industries. The VIS says in rare circumstances, serious injury or death may occur.
33:14And then the FDA and manufacturers state that SIDS is listed as a known adverse reaction to the DTaP vaccine. the DTaP vaccine is administered when a baby is at the highest rate of SIDS.
33:28Learning To Mom:Doesn't it just make you want to simultaneously ball your eyes out and throw up? It's heartbreaking. It's heartbreaking. And I think we start to, I get very cautious and I start to self-censor myself because it sounds so conspiratorial. But then when you look at just the facts and you look at just.gov resources, it's infuriating and it's frustrating because the government knows, the manufacturers know, but the parents don't know. And I would also argue that most of the healthcare providers don't know. And what is the most heartbreaking messages that I get are nurses and pediatricians in my DM saying, I had no clue.
34:07I have persuaded so many parents to accept this product. I have administered myself not knowing that our government says, our manufacturer says that SIDS can be caused by this product. And it feels like betrayal to them.
34:23Learning To Mom:Yeah. And it's just heartbreaking. No, it is heavy. It is so heavy. It is. And so that's why I focus so hard. And that's why I say, look, if you are extremely worried about diphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis, which is what DTAP is meant to prevent, I understand. I completely understand wanting to prevent that for your child. If your pediatrician showed you a video of a baby suffering with whooping cough. What parent would not want to prevent that? I get it. I understand. But we also need to be aware of that there are very, very severe risks that are involved with these products, and we just need to be informed.
35:01Just like any other product on the market, we need to know if there's that risk there. So then we can assess, do we feel comfortable with accepting this product? How are we going to navigate this based on our environment where we're living, our risk tolerance. We need to make that decision ourselves because, again, we are responsible and we have authority over our children and to make the best decisions for them. It's messy. It's messy.
35:29Learning To Mom:Yeah, I did not think about that. So any advice do you have for women that are listening to this and are now feeling really guilty for allowing or for having made a past medical choice? I've been there, man. And I've been there. That is so hard. And I would just say right now, we do best with the information that is available to us at the time that it's given. And we seek expert advice from professionals. And sometimes that expert advice is not the most well-informed because they themselves haven't been informed if they're not reading inserts or they're not taught by their own industry. and so we have to release ourself from that guilt and that shame and regret and speaking from experience because if you hold on to it and you don't let it go and you don't give yourself grace you will spiral into bitterness and it will rob you of the present moment and so if you need to journal journal if you need to pray pray if you need to cry cry if you need to take a really hot shower for 15 minutes and just let it all go do it I've been there I understand how that feels and And just step out from that experience realizing I will do my best to make the most informed decision going forward.
36:40I will step into that authority. I will take responsibility. And I will just know better and do better. But try not to just get into that cycle because it will just get worse and worse and worse. And for anyone listening right now, you are not alone. There are hundreds, thousands, probably millions of us that have been in that situation. and we just have to wake up the next morning with new mercies and a new fresh look on things and try to make the best decisions going forward.
37:11Learning To Mom:So well said. Yes. This has been so enlightening. I love you. I love what you're doing. I want to make sure that not only people can find you, but also maybe like could you go into a little bit of like your course and why that's so important to you that it's free and just like all that stuff. Yeah, absolutely. So everything is at justtheinserts.com. Everything I'm going to say is there just to make it easy. I have a free training course. And the reason why I wanted to make it free is because I just can't sleep at night charging people for it to have that information. It's just so important. It's everything I wish I would have known when I first started researching.
37:47I talk about inserts, but I also talk about just everything you need to be aware of, the way that a product is brought to market, how it's monitored, the industry itself, all those little things that you might come across when you start researching the medical, you know, and vaccine industry. So, so good.
38:03Learning To Mom:Thanks so much, mom friend, for listening to another episode of the Learning to Mom podcast. Now don't forget to hit the follow or subscribe button wherever you're listening to this podcast on so you don't have to remember to find the new episode every week. I'll catch you right here next week.
From the publisher
Did you know this was a thing?! Most of us don’t, and even if we do, we don't pay attention to them because we're afraid they're overwhelming, filled with confusing jargon, or we just assume our doctor will tell us everything we need to know.
But here’s the thing… those inserts hold A LOT of important information, and understanding them can help you make informed decisions for your family.
That’s why in this week’s episode, I sat down with Alexandra from Just The Inserts to break it all down in a way that’s simple, clear, and practical. We cover what you need to know, what to look out for, and how to feel confident as the one making decisions for your child.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
- What are medical inserts?
- How do inserts protect manufacturers from liability?
- What are the most important sections of an insert to read?
- Why is informed consent so difficult in today’s system?
- How should parents deal with guilt from past medical choices?
- What tips can help moms make more informed decisions going forward?
This conversation is an eye-opener, and if you’ve ever felt overwhelmed when it comes to your child’s health choices, you’re not alone, and this episode will help!
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