In short
Re-release of a conversation with TV comedy director James Burrows, focusing on how modern sitcoms were built, why live-audience/multi-cam comedy is struggling, and Burrows’ directing philosophy (execution over “high concept,” staging jokes for audience response, and working with writers and actors collaboratively).
Guest backgrounds
James Burrows was a landmark television comedy director/creator credited with Cheers, Taxi, Will & Grace, and The Big Bang Theory. Host is Rob Lowe.
Key claims
Burrows says sitcoms are in decline because networks don’t give them time to build word-of-mouth, there are fewer studio audiences, and writers/industry prestige has shifted toward single-camera. He argues laugh tracks help only when studio audiences are absent. He emphasizes “lightning in a bottle” casting chemistry and that actors should feel creatively responsible.
Notable examples
A New Kind of Family (low-rated; network “fix” replaced one family with an African-American family featuring Janet Jackson); Cheers’ literate dialogue (Kierkegaard/Schopenhauer) and Sam Malone’s baseball-pitcher casting logic; Friends title changes and casting near-misses; live sitcom remakes (All in the Family/Jeffersons) and Burrows’ live-TV experience.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOJames Burrows' Career Overview
1:38 to 2:30
Explore the impact of James Burrows on modern sitcoms.
“comedy genius James Burroughs, responsible for Cheers, Taxi, Will and Grace, Big Bang Theory.”
A New Kind of Family Experience
2:30 to 4:19
Discussion about Burrows' first big job and the show's concept.
“But so I got to Ohio and I was like, my agents called and said, there's a TV show you could audition for.”
The Show's Struggles and Changes
4:19 to 5:34
Burrows shares the challenges faced by 'A New Kind of Family'.
“Sounds like a kind of family we've seen a lot of, frankly.”
Casting Decisions in Iconic Pilots
5:34 to 6:35
Insight into casting decisions made by Burrows in pilots like Frasier.
“Lisa Kudrow played his producer in the booth.”
The Importance of Titles and Writing
6:35 to 7:43
Burrows discusses the significance of show titles and quality writing.
“not, there's no feel good story on the other end.”
The Evolution of Sitcoms
7:43 to 10:46
Exploration of the changing landscape of sitcoms over the decades.
“And I try to explain this to my wife, who's always pitching me ideas for a show.”
Cheers: A Sitcom Legacy
10:46 to 14:00
Burrows reflects on the legacy of Cheers and its unique qualities.
“I mean, is it as simple as the laugh track?”
Exploring Cheers and Frasier's Humor
14:00 to 16:56
Learn about the unique humor styles in Cheers and Frasier, and how character relationships influenced audience reactions.
“Because it's just words and verbiage and being literate and attitude.”
Exploring Cheers and Frasier's Humor
18:10 to 19:02
Learn about the unique humor styles in Cheers and Frasier, and how character relationships influenced audience reactions.
“You want pieces that feel lighter and more breathable, things that are easy but still put together.”
Exploring Cheers and Frasier's Humor
19:09 to 19:21
Learn about the unique humor styles in Cheers and Frasier, and how character relationships influenced audience reactions.
“That's Q-U-I-N-C-E dot com slash Rob for free shipping and 365 day returns.”
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Behind the Scenes of Taxi and Andy Kaufman
19:57 to 24:00
Gain insights into the dynamics of the Taxi show cast and the unique performance style of Andy Kaufman.
“No, they were in the play in the early 70s.”
Mary Tyler Moore's Impact and Early Career
24:00 to 28:00
Explore the influence of Mary Tyler Moore on television and the challenges faced during her early career.
“Well, listen, people say, go watch The Outsiders.”
The Legendary Cat Scene
28:00 to 28:40
Learn about a humorous incident involving Dick Chamberlain and a cat during a performance.
“And Dick Chamberlain came out, crushed it like that, threw it down, and the cat, there's a famous cat in Breakfast Attivity, came out and played with it.”
A Letter to Mary Tyler Moore
28:40 to 29:10
Discover how a letter led to a significant opportunity in television.
The Evolution of 'Friends'
29:10 to 30:40
Explore the early title changes and casting decisions that shaped 'Friends'.
“I've heard Legend is, again, going back to titles, some of the horrible titles that were originally attached to that.”
Initial Impressions of the Cast
30:40 to 32:06
Hear about the chemistry and dynamics of the 'Friends' cast during auditions.
“And Jennifer Aniston, the famous Rachel.”
Staging with Originality
34:10 to 36:24
Learn about the unique approach to staging scenes and actor respect.
“He's got Davies at the table just behind him.”
Creative Responsibility in Comedy
36:24 to 37:59
Understand the importance of actor input and kindness in comedy productions.
“I work totally to respect everybody on the set, everybody.”
Casting Magic in Sitcoms
37:59 to 40:26
Discover the magic chemistry behind casting choices in sitcoms like 'Will and Grace'.
“That's a great lesson to come from a place of kindness all the time.”
Finding the Right Role
40:26 to 42:00
Explore the serendipity involved in casting and the impact it has on careers.
“for bodily parts And when I got on that show, they had Eric and he read with another girl.”
The Spark of Chemistry in Casting
42:00 to 44:11
Learn how the right chemistry between actors can create magic on screen.
“And Shelley Long had been turning down pilots forever.”
The Class: A Show That Should Have Succeeded
44:11 to 46:15
Explore the story of a failed TV show and the factors that led to its downfall.
“and he wants to get him back for a reunion and to meet his fiance.”
The Politics of Network Television
46:15 to 48:22
Understand the behind-the-scenes politics that influence TV show success.
“and that's the other show that I wish had gone.”
Experiences with Live Television
48:22 to 50:48
Hear about the thrilling and challenging nature of live TV productions.
“So that kind of show right now is on, I think it's HBO Max.”
Insights from My New Book
50:48 to 53:16
Discover the stories and lessons shared in my new book about comedy.
“Don't cut it right at the end because there's going to be a big laugh.”
Listener Questions and Answers
53:16 to 55:20
Listen to listeners' questions and fun interactions.
“And we wanted to know which outsider's character has the most flavor.”
Listener Questions and Answers
56:12 to 56:23
Listen to listeners' questions and fun interactions.
“Oh, y 'all already know, it's finna get crazy.”
Transcript
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1:30Rob Lowe:hey everybody today we are going to do a re-release of a conversation we had with someone who just passed who we are going to miss dearly throughout show business the fantastic television comedy genius James Burroughs, responsible for Cheers, Taxi, Will and Grace, Big Bang Theory. This man literally created the modern sitcom as an art form, and we will miss him. Here is a taste of some of his genius.
2:13Rob Lowe:so a new kind of family was the was my first big job and the only reason i got it was i'd been shipped off to ohio to be with my father as the divorce things go you'd be with your dad in the summers and i liked it it was fine i loved being my dad and everything but i'd just fallen in love for the first time puppy love really with me not yet that that of course happens as all actors fall in love with you. But so I got to Ohio and I was like, my agents called and said, there's a TV show you could audition for. And I used it as an excuse to come back to see The Girlfriend. And lo and behold, I got the TV show, A New Kind of Family.
2:49Rob Lowe:And that's where you and I first met because you directed. Do you remember anything about it? I remember Eileen Brennan. Yep, the star. She was so great. I remember Jane Eisner and Larry Gordon. Marjorie Gordon. Right. They were the producers. So that meant Michael and Larry were around. Yes. Now, Michael. So Michael Eisner. Yes. Most of you listening probably know the titan of show business. And then so it's his wife. And then Marjorie Gordon, her husband was Larry Gordon, who ran Fox. So we were on the hot seat. Those guys were watching over our shoulders. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. That's I don't remember a lot about it, but I do remember.
3:33and who was the co-star with Eileen? Do you remember? Gwen Guilford. Oh, right. Chris Pine's mother. Oh, my God. Crazy. Right?
3:44Rob Lowe:Well, you know the great thing. So you come in and you direct the first episode and, you know, you start your magic streak of getting every show you ever touch on the air and the show promptly craters. It literally is the lowest rated show on TV. Literally, I'm not kidding. It was opposite 60 Minutes. So no one is watching and the network decides the fix, because the show's concept was two single women living together, pooling their resources. By the way, it doesn't sound like a new kind of family. Sounds like a kind of family we've seen a lot of, frankly. Would have been a better title. And their fix was to fire the other family and bring in a new African-American family and never explain what happened to the family previously.
4:35Rob Lowe:That happened. I don't remember that at all. You were long gone. But that was the fix. And guess who played the young, wisecracking daughter in the new family? I have no idea. You ready for this? Yeah. Janet Jackson. Oh, my God. And it still didn't work. And then, get this, Jim. So then there was someone on the show who was an associate producer who then took the idea and went to a different network and made a show that ran for 100 years. And I can't remember what the name of the show is. Anyway, that's where we first met. Was I a terrible actor then? Do you remember? You weren't fired, so obviously not.
5:21Rob Lowe:How many people have you fired off of pilots? Well, I don't like to say fire. I like to say they weren't right for the role. That's right, which is right. The two infamous ones who I don't know what happened to them after I got rid of them was on the pilot of Frasier. Lisa Kudrow played his producer in the booth. unfortunately the final scene before he goes to confront his dad uh she has to be really strong and tough with him and that that was not lisa's colors so we let her go and i'm not sure what happened to her yeah well i'm gonna look i'm gonna check imdb and the other famous one was on the pilot of news radio after the pilot or i think maybe during the pilot we fired some actor named Ray Romano.
6:12Rob Lowe:Oh, that guy. Yeah. What a hack. So we let him go because he wasn't right. And again, I have, uh, I'm sure, uh, they're pissed at me, but that didn't last very long. But considering the amount of pilots and shows you've done, the fact that it's only two is kind of a miracle. Yeah. Well, there've been others, but not with the, not, there's no feel good story on the other end. coming off of a show with maybe one of the least evocative interesting titles in the world a new kind of family i'm obsessed with titles and as i was looking at your uh credits i look and i go oh that great title great title great title network title network title great title and i'm i've always been obsessed with everybody loves raymond because that title is really something because yeah because you can just read the review everybody doesn't love raymond like you know what i'm saying right And I asked Phil Rosenthal how they came up with that title.
7:13And he said it was really simple that Ray, growing up, was the favorite son.
7:19Rob Lowe:And his brother used to say, everybody loves Raymond. And that's how I just love. Titles are important, don't you think? Or no? No. I mean, it may get you to the dance. Right. It may, people may tune in, but you got to deliver the goods once they tune in. Well, you have a quote that I love, which is great. And I try to explain this to my wife, who's always pitching me ideas for a show. Ideas are not important. It's the writing. It's the execution of the idea. Yeah, well, that's how I've been successful. I don't look for high concept ideas at all. the only the only one I ever did real well I guess Will and Grace is a high concept show in a strange kind of way but the only outrageous one I ever did I did uh Third Rock from the Sun and I uh I did that because I wanted to work with John Lithgow I would have never uh Bonnie and Terry wrote a really funny script but I it just was you know it's not the kind of show I do but um but for me It's, you know, what's a show, if I came to pitch you a show about taxi drivers, wow.
8:35That's not a very high upscale idea, but it was the execution, a bar, execution, a coffee house with six people sitting around, execution. That's to me, that's what I look for. I look for the execution of the idea, not the idea. Well, all of those shows that you mentioned are just the Mount Rushmore of comedies.
9:00Rob Lowe:I wish those kind of comedies were on today. I don't know why they're not. I think that the three camera, multi, multi camera, they call them live audience shows today are in a tough period where is it that the smart comedy writers of which there's a very limited number don't want to work in that genre? That's sort of what I'm thinking is they feel like they want to make movies. They want to make single camera, which they perceive as more prestigious. What is the deal? Because in that era that you just described that you were a part of, all of those shows were not only funny and well-received, but there was no notion that they were less than.
9:38Rob Lowe:No. These were prestigious shows. They were. I mean, in the 70s and the 80s, it was all sitcom-driven. When I started out, it was a three-network world. There was ABC, CBS, and NBC, and there was 30 great comedy writers. Now we're in a 500 network world, and there are still 30 great comedy writers. So people don't have to, they don't talk about shows anymore. When a show's a hit now, it would have been canceled with that number when there were three networks. So it's more diverse. You don't need as much of an audience. that people are doing stuff who are not qualified to do stuff and it gets on the air.
10:23And so, you know, I've attended the funeral for the sitcom three or four times. And all of the times I've been there, we've closed the coffin and swept it off stage. This time, I'm not so sure. I mean, the man who was keeping sitcom alive for a while was Chuck Lorre, and they just canceled two of his multi-camera shows. So I don't know what's going on. I have no idea.
10:49Rob Lowe:I mean, is it as simple as the laugh track? I mean, is it the kind of thing where like I watch vaudeville and go, people were entertained by that at one point? Is it that? Like the contemporary audiences go, where are the people that are laughing in that living room? Is it that? That was never a problem before. I know. You know, so I don't know. I'm not sure what it is because laughter is contagious. And although there is a laugh track, it does help. you know we've in in the shows i've done the laugh track was used to bridge a cut or something like that on cheers we never there was never a laugh track it was just you know that was if the audience didn't laugh at the joke you went back and got you wrote another joke so that the studio audience would respond to it and then you put that out on the air so i think with the lack of lately there's been no studio audiences so they have to put a laugh track in right that's a good point.
11:46Rob Lowe:Did, of all of the iconic shows that you, and this is not to date you, I was going to say grandfathered. You didn't grandfather them, you fathered. Let's go with fathered, shepherd. I know which one I think is the most, what's the word, not only iconic, but informed the rest of the business for so many years has to be Cheers for me. Yeah, for me too, because the Charles brothers, Gunn and Les, who were my co-producers on the show, they were gracious enough to give me a created by credit. And it will always be because I was in the room when that show was birthed, the three of us talking about what kind of show we wanted to do and everything like that.
12:32they went off and wrote this unbelievable script uh it's just my favorite and it will always be so the original script the pilot script showed up great oh my god i uh we discussed doing the show and we they we talked about the characters they went off and about a month later i received the script and i read it and i said you guys have brought radio back to television because it was so literate, so smart, so upscale. And we ran with it right from that point.
13:11Rob Lowe:But see, that's the thing is the shows that we love, Mary Tyler Moore, Cheers, Frasier, there are a few other ones that were highly literate. And there were jokes in them, for sure, set up punchline jokes, but they didn't live and die on that. I mean, there's a whole other genre of sitcom that is nothing but set up joke punch. And I'm not a fan of that. But the ones that were character driven, story driven, that were funny coming from that area, which those were, I just don't understand why we can't have... I would give my flippin' eye teeth to be on a show like that. Like, if I could go back in time and be on Frasier, I'd be the happiest clam that ever clammed anywhere.
14:00Rob Lowe:Because it's just words and verbiage and being literate and attitude. It's so fun. I mean, Frasier might be my favorite of yours. Might be. In the beginnings of Cheers, we did Kierkegaard jokes, we did Schopenhauer jokes, and the network would call us and say, nobody knows who those people are. And we'd say, we don't care, because it's the intent of Diane Chambers saying those names, which is what is important to us. And then when and then when Fraser entered the scene, the character on Cheers in the third year, it became more and more of that verbiage. And then when Lilith came, it became more and more.
14:48And the audience roared at it. They they didn't understand. You know, it was it was no coward. The two of them, we did a show on Cheers called Dinner at Eight, where they invite Sam and Diane over Lilith and Fraser for dinner. and it's total Noel Coward. It's high-end comedy. And the great thing about it was you had Teddy there who, you know, was Sam Malone. And while they were talking and arguing, all he did was sit at the table and eat and react. And so it let the audience, if Sam doesn't understand it, it's okay that we don't understand it.
15:28Rob Lowe:That's right. Yeah. Well, I read, I didn't realize this, Not only did Sam not understand that conversation, but apparently Ted Danson had never heard of baseball, basically. He heard of it, but he never – I don't think Teddy ever went to a game. Sam Malone was originally a character called Sam Harrison who was a wide receiver for the Patriots. And when we cast Teddy, he didn't look like a football player. He looked like a baseball pitcher. So we based it on Bill Lee, the famous reliever. Oh, my God. Yes, spaceman Bill Lee. He's a spaceman. And so, you know, Teddy was a farseer from Carnegie Mellon.
16:08He was not a sports guy. I took him to his first baseball game. And then one of the finalists for the character of Sam Malone was Fred Dreyer, who later became Hunter. But Fred was a defensive end for the L.A. Rams. Of course. So I said to Teddy, we hired Fred to do a couple of shows to play Sam's buddy, Dave, who did sports at 11 o 'clock for a television station. It was called Eye on Sports. So I said to Teddy, watch this guy. This is who Sam Malone is. He's a peacock, and that's what Sam Malone is.
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19:56Rob Lowe:When you did Taxi, Danny DeVito and Christopher Lloyd had done Cuckoo's Nest? Yeah. No, they were in the play in the early 70s. in Cuckoo's Nest off Broadway. Wow, that explains a lot. It's amazing to go back and look at Taxi and to see that lineup. How crazy was Andy Kaufman? He wasn't crazy at all. He wasn't crazy at all. I love it. Tell me more. He was a Jewish kid from Great Neck, Long Island. Grew up in a home that was, you know, somewhat had some money. He was the bravest comic I had ever seen in my life because he would come out, he never told jokes. He would come out on stage and do a routine until you laughed.
20:47I saw him come out once and read Gone with the Wind. He started reading Gone with the Wind. And it was, he kept reading 10 minutes going on and on. And finally the audience started to laugh and he got what he wanted. So he was more of a performance artist. and uh he was he was amazing as latke he was uh amazing he was he had a photographic memory he he had day night reversal as most comics do because they're up performing at comedy clubs so he would come in at one o 'clock the rest of the cast would come in at nine and he he knew his lines and he was he was interspersed uh in the show occasionally when he was heavy in a show, he would come in earlier because I needed to rehearse him more.
21:38But he was amazing as a character. And the whole Tony Clifton incident, which now goes down in history, but is immortalized because Milos Forman made that movie Man in the Moon.
21:52Rob Lowe:Now, so Tony Clifton was his alter ego, but from what I'm gathering from you, it was just a a performance artist character that he was interested in. Right. Not a lot of people knew Andy was Tony in the beginning. And he would, if he had an evening, if Andy Kaufman had an evening, Andy would come out as Tony Clifton as the opening act. And he would, he had prosthetics on his face. He had a big belly. He had a brocade tuxedo. He had a ruffled shirt. He had a terrible wig. he had sunglasses and he would start singing songs from a Vegas act and he was horrible and the audience would boo him get off, get off, we want Andy Kaufman we want Andy Kaufman and you know he would do what, 15 minutes and he would go off change his costume take off all the prosthetics and he would come back as Andy and it was amazing Occasionally, you know, we all knew that Andy Kaufman was Tony Clifton, but occasionally he had a partner named Bob Zamuda.
23:02And Bob Zamuda would dress as Tony Clifton and walk around with Andy to try to confuse people.
23:11Rob Lowe:That's so interesting. So the notion that he lost the plot is an additive that history has put on that whole thing. Andy knew what he was doing at every moment. And Danny DeVito, would you have ever known? People forget what Danny has accomplished. Danny is an amazing actor. He's in Cuckoo's Nest, Taxi, all of the great movies he's done. Always Sunny in Philadelphia, which I think is probably the best comedy of the past, I don't know, 10, 15 years. And Danny made it happen. Not only did he produce it, but it wasn't going anywhere until he decided to be in it. and um you know his directing i think hoffa is a great movie that he directed people forget would you ever have known that he was capable of such things no danny had made a couple of short films but he always wanted to direct he has that sensibility i mean look at taxi who would you expect would be the movie star at a taxi right uh and cheers who would you expect to be the movie star out of Cheers, Woody.
24:19Rob Lowe:You never know. Well, listen, people say, go watch The Outsiders. And the guy with no teeth in it, who has five lines, becomes the world's biggest movie star, Tom Cruise. You just don't know. Right. The Mary Tyler Moore show, which is your first, that was your first sort of big show, right? No, that was my first show. First show, period. Period. Jesus Christ. I mean I don't know about you when I hear the Mary Tyler Moore theme I am transported still it just it just takes me back to a certain age and time and and I would have been you know pretty young and I loved that show so much I mean they are so great in it I mean it's I was watching the show the other day where um Maury was so excited that Ted was about to read one of his stories and he says, uh, and the, the dogs were, he confused which dogs they were, the doctor, because he was not, he was a vegetarian instead of veterinarian, just a stupid joke, but so funny.
25:25Um, what was Mary like?
25:28Rob Lowe:I never got to meet her. Uh, she was wonderful. Uh, she's the reason I've, I got into television. I was a theater stage manager and my dad was, a Broadway playwright. He wrote How to Succeed in Business and Guys and Dolls and directed How to Succeed and directed Cactus Flower and 40 Carats and Can Can. And so I was kind of born in a trunk. And in 65, when I got out of grad school, before you were born, I got a job as an assistant to the assistant stage manager on a musical my dad was doing called Breakfast at Tiffany's, based on Truman Capote's novel. And the stars were Mary Tyler Moore and Dick Chamberlain.
26:16So you had Laura Petrie and Dr. Kildare. Jesus. So the advance was huge because people in New York wanted to see them. And it was not my dad's best work. He was let go. And I said to my dad, can I stay on the Titanic? And he said, sure. so I stayed on and the man who replaced my father didn't help much and the audience we only played four previews in New York City we never went out of town the audience hoot and hollered and yelled at the actors because it was so horrible and Mary would come off and I would always meet her when she exited a scene she would come off and wrap her arms around me and start crying because it was so painful for her to endure, to endure this, you know, this, this nastiness.
27:13Rob Lowe:Why was it so bad? The show my dad wrote was okay. You know, it had a big advance, but they brought in Edward Albee to replace my dad, who's not really known for his musical comedy. And he, I'd say. Yeah. And he introduced Mary's, I mean, Holly's miscarriage into the show. Oh, hilarious. Yeah, I know. And he also had the character Dick Chamberlain played be able to take if a character was in trouble, he could the dialogue for the character. He could crush it and throw it away and she would be fine. I remember one one point he said, Mary, I'll write I'll write you a better scene. And from the audience you hear, why don't you write a better play?
27:54The final moment of the show, all there's all the scenery pulled back and there was one piece of paper on the stage. And Dick Chamberlain came out, crushed it like that, threw it down, and the cat, there's a famous cat in Breakfast Attivity, came out and played with it. So in order to get a cat to play with a piece of paper, you have to put catnip on it. So Chamberlain, Dick picked up this piece of paper, went like, crushed it, and the catnip went everywhere, including down his arm. And he threw the paper out, down on the ground. the cat came out and went right for his arm so you can't win for losing so that's how i knew her and then uh i had run a theater in san diego and i had done a lot of summer stock and i had seen i had tuned in one night and saw the mary tyler moore show on i say they're doing 25 minutes in a week and i'm doing two hour play in a week i think i can do that so i wrote her a letter and Grant Tinker responded to me, who was then married to her, the late Grant Tinker, and said, we're very interested in theatrical directors.
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29:07Would you come out and do one show? Yeah.
29:10Rob Lowe:Tell me about the legendary Friends. I've heard Legend is, again, going back to titles, some of the horrible titles that were originally attached to that. Literally, one was Six and One. Six of One. Six of One. Oh, even worse. That's a bad one. a dozen of another. Really bad. And that was a title. And then was Friends Like Ours? And then they cut it to Friends finally. Is that correct? Friends Like Us. Friends Like Us. I think so, yeah. I was in and out of that. I saw Courtney read. She wanted to be Rachel. And they had already cast Lisa. And they wrote Ross for Schwimmer. Oh, really? Oh, yeah.
29:54Rob Lowe:How did they know Schwimmer at that point? Schwimmer was in a show for them before. Okay. He didn't want to do it. He didn't want to commit to a series. So I had worked with Schwimmer on a show called Monty, which is a pilot that got on the air with Henry Winkler playing Rush Limbaugh. Hmm. His wife was Kate Burton, and the two kids were David Schwimmer and David Krumholtz. Oh, my God. And so I called Schwimmer and I said, look, David, I'm doing four pilots this year and I read the script. So I'm doing a fifth because I think it's really special. I think you should come out and at least talk to these people and meet these people.
30:36And so he did. And the rest is history.
30:38Rob Lowe:It's amazing that he almost didn't do it. It wouldn't have been as good. And Jennifer Aniston, the famous Rachel. I mean, just America's sweetheart basically almost overnight. Although they all were. But do you remember your initial thoughts on her? At the reading, I was blown away by the six of them. It was just because you never know until you get the cast together what the chemistry is going to be. So around that table, it was extraordinary. I remember up in Warner Brothers had a big square, huge tables all around formed a square. And it was amazing. And then Jen was, she was in second position because she was on a show called Muddling Through for CBS.
31:24And Warner Brothers did everything possible to have CBS cancel that show. And eventually they passed on the show. But it was a summer show. So she had done six episodes. And it was an extraordinary cast. I still see a lot of them. Some of them call me Papa. They're a wonderful group of kids. And the fact that they love one another comes across the screen.
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34:54Rob Lowe:What do you think made you, makes you the guy? Here's what I've heard. I've heard that you stage scenes unlike anybody else. That's what I've heard. Like, I'm like, what is it with Burroughs? Because I was 15 and I don't remember. And everybody's like, he just has, among the other things, is just a way of very original staging. I think that's true. I know the best position for a joke. Oh, tell me, give me some secrets. What's the best position? There are no secrets. You just have to know it's an innate thing in me. I mean, some jokes are said standing. Some jokes are better said sitting. Some jokes are better said over the shoulder.
35:41Some jokes are better said walking out a door without ever turning back. You know, it's that great, the one on Will and Grace and the pilot when Sean picks up the bird. Because every time he's told he could stay at Will's and Grace is still there. and he picks up the bird and starts walking out the set and he says what time tomorrow anticipating that he's going to come come back tomorrow so um it's just you know you got to see it you got to you got to know you know what's what's funnier and i think that's one of my gifts and I work totally from kindness. I work totally to respect everybody on the set, everybody.
36:32And since it is a writer's medium, the sitcom, the writers work hard on their script, and therefore when the script comes down to the stage and I have to stage it, I say to the actors, let's do it the way it's written. and I'll stage it the way it's written, and there may be problems. And I'll say when those problems come up to the actors, let's see if we can invent something to help these problems, or let's see if we can make up a line or a joke or something like that. But when the writers come down to see it, the first thing I do is show it to them as written to respect their work. And then when the scene has been shown, I say, we got something funny to try here.
37:18Are you game for it? And they say, sure. And so we show them something, and if it doesn't work, they'll say no. But it may spurn a couple of ideas, you know, may spur a couple of ideas in their head on how to improve the show. So what it does is it enables the actors to feel creatively responsible and just not parroting the writer's words.
37:45Rob Lowe:For sure. It lets the writers respect the actors and understand and acknowledge that the actors have funny things to do and funny things to say. And if you cast the right actors, you can only make your show better. It's amazing. That's a great lesson to come from a place of kindness all the time. Because as you know, the hours are – well, not on sitcoms so much, but still, the hours are brutal. there's a lot of pressure and it's it's so easy at least for me i can get super impatient sometimes um you just get ground down you know oh yeah yeah that one what you do your one camera stuff oh i don't know how you do it i i admire you 9-1-1 lone star we'll do like a you know avalanche sequence and this that and you're just like oh my god it's like brutal but it's it's a different it's a different it's a totally different thing so right yeah it's it's super i remember on the west wing we were three stages over at warner brothers from the the friends set and it was at the end when they were making a gazillion dollars and i and it looked like a beverly hills uh auto show let's see the the lamborghini pull in and the mercedes pull in and the porsche pull in of course they were pulling in at one o 'clock in the afternoon i'd been there since 6 a.m.
39:08Rob Lowe:and they'd be pulling out at 6 p.m. and I'd be there till midnight. It was just we used to laugh and go those little bastards they really have it good. It was super fun. It was I mean that then that's the other thing is that lifestyle is yeah is a great is a great lifestyle. You get to see your family. You have free time. What was the Will and Grace? Who did you see first for that and like who took because that's a great show. I mean that's an all-time classic it's it's the funniest show i've ever done laugh wow laugh for page oh my god and jokes on that show you couldn't do on any other show i mean we could get away with so many things because it was uh that show was little heightened reality and it was four really innocent people saying dastardly things but because they were innocent because you understood their plight we got away with it and we had we were the that show was the king of euphemisms for body parts and we you know it was just wonderful in the writers room to hear them come up with different different phrases for bodily parts And when I got on that show, they had Eric and he read with another girl.
40:36And I said to the guys, you got your will, but I don't think you have will and grace. Because there wasn't the magic between them. And I was there for Sean. I was, in fact, at my house. We auditioned Deborah. We had three people finalists for Grace. and when Debra came in and read with Eric, if we had a contract, we would have put it in front of her.
41:02Rob Lowe:Why is that? And you're right, it happens. Somebody comes in and you're like, duh. What is it? Are they that much better than somebody else? Is it a chemical thing? I've never been able to figure out why, what has happened when an actor comes in and just is the thing. I don't know what to attribute it to. It's lightning in a bottle. That's it. I mean, the example I can use about how much luck is involved with having the right actor for the right role at the right time is that the Friends pilot that I did in 94, it was the last pilot done that year, and those six people were available. That's unbelievable.
41:47So that's all I'm saying. So, you know, with with with Cheers, I had seen Teddy. He came in to read for a show I did called Best of the West. We didn't cast him, but I remembered him. And Shelley Long had been turning down pilots forever. So finally, she read something she liked. So it's just then if she reads it, you got to put her with Ted. So, you know, that's what when Deborah read with Eric, we knew there was magic there. It's like finishing their each. They're finishing their own sentences, each other's sentences. So that's something it's it literally is lightning in a bottle.
42:28Rob Lowe:When it's like Megan Mullally, I had worked with on a movie I did called About Last Night, and she crushed it as Demi Moore's best friend. Absolutely destroyed. and then it's like not a lot really happened for her and then she gets will and grace and and now you know she's had a career that continues a great one to this day but it's you know you can be as good as you're going to be but you have to find the right vehicle and that part came along for her and she just i mean i mean with that voice that she was doing it was it's unbelievable what what Megan's doing in that show. If you watch the first six episodes, five episodes, she hasn't got there yet.
43:11So the voice keeps getting higher and higher, and finally she locked in. She read for Grace.
43:19Rob Lowe:Mm. And we had a real hard time finding Karen, and the boys remembered her and brought her back in, and she killed. She could have been Grace. what is the one show that you to this day can't believe didn't happen you would have bet the house on it the one that i thought should have gone was a show called the class which is a show written by david crane who with marta kaufman created free uh friends and his partner jeffrey clarick It was this wonderful show about a high school reunion, Jason Ritter's in it, and he calls his friends from his class, his third grade class, because he's getting married and he wants to get him back for a reunion and to meet his fiance.
44:17say and of course he never gets married but it was this eclectic bunch of people that were so funny uh you had lizzie kaplan you had jesse tyler ferguson and heather goldenhirsch we had john bernthal we had david keith andrea anders and the boys wrote uh david and jeffrey wrote this wonderful script. It got on the air, but it was just mishandled, I think, by the network. It was, again, most of the shows I do are shows that you're not going to watch on the first airing because there's nobody in it you know. And in television, it takes time for the word of mouth to get out. So they love the pilot, so they put it at eight o 'clock before How I Met Your Mother.
45:13and it did well the first week because they promote promote the crap out of it but I knew that they would be promoing it for and people would watch it that would never watch it and or ever so the second week those people tuned out so they started to see a drop and it just it broke my heart because it was I think it's one of the things that drove David and Jeffrey out of network television, and they did episodes about working in network television because of that experience. And the other one, believe it or not, I did a pilot of The Goodbye Girl. This is a long time ago with Karen Valentine and Michael Lembeck.
46:01And it was a wonderful show but never got picked up because it was network studio 13 episodes or six episodes, and they never agreed on it. It was written by my friend Alan Katz, and that's the other show that I wish had gone. People don't realize the subterfuge politics that goes into why a show works, doesn't work.
46:27Rob Lowe:It can be as simple as the pairing, what shows in front of another show. I did a show called The Grinder. That's one of my favorite things I've ever done. super proud of it. I put it up there with any of the funny stuff certainly I've ever done, but it was paired with a John Stamos show called Grandfathered. They could not have been. I mean, one's one a very specific type of comedy and the other's a different type of comedy and those audiences would never, ever watch each other's shows. But there we were paired up. And, you know, the network's comp, their big smart idea was it's two handsome guys.
47:02Rob Lowe:what could go wrong and literally that's the way they think yeah i mean uh i always went once i got clout i always begged the networks that the kind of show i do to please put it in a spot it doesn't have to prove itself right away um well there is no such thing now well if you're at 8 30 instead of eight you got a little leeway a little bit or 9 30 instead of nine uh uh you know i begged them on uh on cheers not you know cheers when it premiered it followed it followed taxi nbc had bought the last year of taxi so and and those kind of things and i did i did the pilot of night court and i begged them to put it after cheers don't you know because it was you know nobody knew who harry Anderson was, and especially on Will and Grace, which was a show that I knew 25 % of the country would not watch.
48:04And I begged them, put us in a slot where we don't have to prove ourselves right away. And then people may come across it and people may hear from other people how funny it is. And we can build that way. And they did that with Will and Grace.
48:19Rob Lowe:Those days are over. there's no building no what are your favorite comedies that you were not a part of and that would include things on today is there anything on TV that's making you laugh right now yeah Curb Beer Enthusiasm amazing amazing I could never have even thought of the stuff Larry thinks of I'm incredibly indebted to him to keep it for keeping comedy on the air you know he's done it over 12 years I think And, you know, he only does, I don't know, 12 or 15 a year or every other year. So that kind of show right now is on, I think it's HBO Max. HBO, yeah. And again, it doesn't, it's not, I'm not sure how that show would have done in a three network world.
49:13You know, it's so specific to so many people. and uh i i don't know you know but you know seinfeld larry did seinfeld which was unbelievable and uh i wish i could have done all in the family uh couldn't do it today no in fact we did jimmy kimmel had the idea of recreating the shows live in front of a studio audience which i did how was that how was that experience we did all the filming the jeffersons and on the ship. I love the Jeffersons. On the Jeffersons, we did the pilot episode. But I had a great time. It was really scary for me because I had to cut that show live for America. Both episodes, all in the family and the Jeffersons.
50:00Rob Lowe:So you're up there snapping your fingers in the booth. My fingers don't snap anymore. I have a clicker. Looks like a frog. And I was, you know, you can't make a mistake. It looks ugly. If you do, you can't correct it. It goes out. And, uh, uh, I, I was scared, but it turned out great. And I did a subsequent one, uh, facts of life and different strokes with adults, with Jen, Jen playing Lisa Weckl and, uh, Kevin Hart playing, uh, Gary Coleman. Oh my God. Yeah. I saw that was amazing. Do you, do you, um, would you like to do more live television? I would, I've never, Other than Saturday Night Live, I've never really done it.
50:41I would love to do live TV.
50:44Rob Lowe:Love it. Once a year is fine for me. Takes a year for the adrenaline to die down. I have to rehearse it so many times. I have to because I have to keep doing the show over and over again, cutting the cameras so it becomes almost rote to me so that I can feel confident when it's going out over the air that I can tell my TD, the guy who pushes the cameras, watch me on this one. Don't cut it right at the end because there's going to be a big laugh. And we may have to bounce back and forth. Wow. I had not thought of that. You don't really, in theory, know where the laughs are going to be, which involves the cutting as opposed to a drama where you're watching George Clooney do Failsafe or whatever.
51:25Rob Lowe:You can just kind of do that. Right. So interesting. Well, when you do a live show, I hope I'm your first phone call. Okay. You will be. And vice versa. Well, hey, why don't we redo A New Kind of Family? Um, next question.
51:43Rob Lowe:Tell me a little bit about the new book. I wrote a book at the behest of my wife. She said, I've heard your stories for 25 years. Can you please let the world hear them? So I found a co-writer, a man named Eddie Friedfeld, who was a big fan of situation comedy and had written books on Sid Caesar and Carl Reiner and Mel Brooks. Not Carl, I think Mel. And I started talking to him, telling him stories for about a year and a half. and in making a deal with Ballantyne, the book publisher, they wanted it to be instructive along with telling the story of my life. So there are things in it about how I think it's best to do a successful comedy.
52:41I mean, they're not fail-safe, but there's talk about cameras and what cameras are involved in what I do and staging audiences and stuff like that. So I had a great time and it's been, I bought a copy, so.
52:59Rob Lowe:Well, I'm going to buy one because I collect books from the brilliant people in the industry, particularly when they're instructive. Oh my God. So if you buy a copy and send it to me, I'll autograph it, David Mamet, okay? please
53:22Rob Lowe:well I learned a lot and I'm getting that book that's all I can tell you very very very few people in the business with the experience that that man has and to be able to to just sort of suck some knowledge out of that brain was amazing for me and I hope you guys liked it as well
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53:58Rob Lowe:So have at it. Here's the beep. Hey, Rob. It's Charlotte and Gemma from Arizona. And we wanted to know which outsider's character has the most flavor. Thank you. Bye. Oh, my God. But Charlotte and Gemma are so damn cute. I want them as my co-hosts. I mean, I don't have a co-host on this show. I think I, how great would Charlotte and Gemma be as my co-hosts? Just cute and amazing. The most flavor. That is what they said, right? The most flavor. Well, listen, I mean, obviously I'm biased. Which outsider has the most flavor? I'm going to be biased. Soda Pop is going to have better flavor than Pony Boy.
54:43Rob Lowe:I mean, listen, I'm not crazy. I would drink. In fact, I do. I drink soda pop, but I'm not drinking a Pony Boy. I'm not drinking a Dallas. Oh, uh-oh. Oh, but she wasn't an outsider. Cherry Valance would be very flavorful. But she's a Zosch, so she doesn't count. So I'm going with soda pop, most flavorful outsider. Thank you, guys. Great question. We will be back, as always, next week with even more fun on Literally. Thank you.
55:41Brian. Special thanks to Hidden City Studios. Thanks for listening. We'll see you next time on Literally.
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