Living the UK-US Special Relationship with Lord and Lady Elliott

25 Sep 2025 · 54 min · 21 chapters

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In short

Sarah and Matthew Elliott discuss their UK-US special relationship, their conservative political careers, how they met, Matthew’s House of Lords appointment, and their views on UK economic growth, Brexit, and UK energy/net-zero policy. They also share personal stories (Royal Ascot hats, UK ceremonies, and favorite lunches).

Guest backgrounds

Lady Sarah Elliott is director of the UK-US Special Relationship Unit; she spent ~20 years in US politics advocating economic prosperity and individual freedom, worked for Grover Norquist-linked groups (Americans for Tax Reform, Americans for Prosperity), chaired Republicans Overseas UK, and co-founded/chairs the Hamilton Society for London-based center-right conservative professionals. Lord Matthew Elliott is a public policy thinker and campaigner; he oversaw nationwide referendum campaigns including Brexit, founded pressure groups, serves in the UK House of Lords, and is president of the Jobs Foundation.

Key claims

UK per-capita GDP has lagged the US since the financial crisis; growth requires “five kings of economics” (low taxes, low spending, light regulation, free trade, sound money). They argue UK Conservatives share responsibility for low growth via higher taxes/spending and net-zero energy policies raising electricity costs, driving investment/wealth out. Brexit was driven by “taking back control” from EU lawmaking; implementation delays undermined referendum results.

Notable examples

Sarah’s GOP campaign work (Bush-Cheney 2004, RNC donor programs); Matthew’s Taxpayers Alliance inspiration from US taxpayer groups; their House of Lords introduction ceremony (swearing on the Bible, lifetime peerage, “Micklefell” title); electricity cost comparisons (UK electricity ~4x US); claims of millionaire outflows; Brexit trade deal example (UK-US deal before EU bloc); Royal Ascot fashion/hats and UK air-conditioning limits.

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Chapters

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Initial Reflections on British Formality

0:00 to 0:30

Discussing the nature of British formality and personal gatherings.

“It's very British in the sense that there's a lot of formality, but you get to the point and move on.”

Sarah Elliott's Political Journey

3:43 to 4:33

Sarah discusses her early political career and mentorship experiences.

“So, guys, why don't each of you take a turn eating and discussing how you got into politics early on?”

Matthew Elliott's Political Awakening

4:34 to 7:40

Matthew shares his upbringing and early involvement in politics.

“I have gorgeous pictures of us from ever.”

Building a Conservative Foundation

7:41 to 10:31

Matthew elaborates on his political education and experiences in campaigning.

“communicate and translate British, you know, language and dialect, I guess.”

The Impact of Early Political Experiences

10:32 to 11:40

Matthew and Sarah discuss their formative political experiences and influences.

“So you side with your grandfather, not your father.”

The Meeting That Changed Everything

11:41 to 14:00

Matthew recounts the story of how he and Sarah first met during a political event.

“It was basically, it was in September 2010, and you, along with the economist Art Laffer, brought or arranged to have Lady Thatcher, Baroness Thatcher, come to her last public appearance.”

Friendship Origins and Early Meetings

14:00 to 17:30

Learn about the early interactions and connection between the hosts and their journey in the political sphere.

“bringing together people in the think tanks and the Hill and journalists who are on the centre-right to share what they're up to.”

Understanding the House of Lords

17:30 to 23:00

Explore the structure and function of the House of Lords and what it means to be a member.

“And I just realized I didn't want it just to be a friendship hug.”

The Ceremony of Becoming Lord and Lady

23:00 to 27:18

Discover the ceremonial process and traditions involved in becoming a lord and lady in the UK.

“No, I met his free market grandfather who influenced him, who was a businessman opening grocery stores in the north of England in the 1980s and 90s.”

Celebration and Reflections on the Ceremony

27:18 to 28:00

Get insights into the celebratory events following the investiture as well as personal reflections from the hosts.

“And then we had a bit of reception, didn't we, for friends and family and colleagues.”
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The Formality of UK Traditions

28:00 to 29:15

Explore the formal traditions of UK ceremonies compared to the U.S.

“so I should be coming back hopefully this fall what would it be analogous to in the U.S.?”

The Role of Royalty in the UK

29:15 to 30:40

Discuss the significance and evolution of the monarchy in the UK.

“but she has British, perfect British skin, eyes, blonde.”

Economic Growth Challenges in the UK

30:40 to 32:50

Analyze the economic issues affecting growth in the UK and Europe.

“who ruled the land and could say everything that happened.”

Five Kings of Economic Growth

32:50 to 35:09

Learn about the principles necessary for economic growth as discussed in a new book.

“GDP per capita has been basically flatlining since the financial crisis.”

Critique of Conservative Energy Policies

35:09 to 37:08

Examine the impact of energy policies on economic performance in the UK.

“And we've talked with five former prime ministers and 11 former chancellors to get their thoughts on basically how you get growth going within the UK and how you overcome those political obstacles.”

Taxation and Wealth Migration

37:08 to 38:36

Discuss the effects of taxation on millionaires and the economy in the UK.

“It's four times as much as the United States.”

Brexit: A Case for Sovereignty

38:36 to 40:57

Explore the arguments for Brexit and its implications for UK sovereignty.

“I was pro-Brexit because I thought it was very pro-Great Britain and my friends were pro-Brexit and it was such a hot issue.”

Behind the Scenes of a Political Movie

40:57 to 42:01

Hear about the experience of having a movie made about Brexit and its characters.

“our sort of control over lawmaking in the UK.”

Brexit Reflections and Family Conversations

42:01 to 46:20

Explore the personal anecdotes surrounding Brexit and its implications.

“And what's so funny is that when I first met Matthew's parents, we went to the Tate Britain in that same gallery, and Matthew buzzed off to go get a haircut, and I had to stay with his parents.”

Royal Ascot Fashion Insights

46:21 to 51:04

Discuss the fashion norms and experiences at Royal Ascot.

“But last year, no, big hats are always in.”

Dream Lunch Destinations

51:07 to 53:37

Hear about ideal lunch spots around the world from Lord and Lady Elliott.

“I don't know who wants to go first, but if you could have lunch, since we are a lunch podcast, if you could have lunch anywhere in the world, where would it be and what would you be eating?”
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Transcript

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0:00It's very British in the sense that there's a lot of formality, but you get to the point and move on. Very good, yeah. And then we had a big party and we had it catered. All of our closest friends and family were there. Wow. Who could make it? Right, right. And that made it special, you know? Does it blow your family's mind? Yes. I'm looking at Sarah. Yes. I mean, they all go, if anyone would have this happen, it would be you.

0:30Shelley:Welcome to Lunch with Shelly, the podcast featuring conversations with colleagues, friends, family, business leaders. At lunch, here's Shelly. Hello and welcome to the latest episode of Lunch with Shelly with two special guests today, Lord and Lady Elliot of Micklefell. This is so exciting for our podcast since it's the first time we've had a couple on, and it's the first time that we've had a lord and lady, and I think it's the first time we've had some Brits, so a lot to be excited about today. Let me tell you a bit about this power couple. Sarah Elliott, Lady Elliott of Micklefell, is the director of the UK-US Special Relationship Unit.

1:16Shelley:She has spent most of the past 20 years working in U.S. politics, advocating for policies that encourage economic prosperity and preserve individual freedom. Most recently, Sarah co-founded and chairs the Hamilton Society, which provides discourse for London-based American and British center-right conservative professionals. She served as the chair of Republicans Overseas UK and remains an active Republican Overseas UK board member and spokesperson. Her background is in GOP politics, having worked for Grover Norquist at Americans for Tax Reform, Americans for Prosperity, and she is also a veteran of many Republican political campaigns, including Bush Cheney 04.

2:03Shelley:Sarah started her career in Washington, D.C. with the Republican National Committee's major donor programs, which I remember. She received her B.A. in International Affairs with honors and a concentration in Spanish from the University of Mary Washington. And she also studied abroad at the University of Pablo de Olavide in Seville, Spain. Is that correct? That's correct. Okay. Matthew Elliott, Lord Elliott of Micklefell, is one of the UK's foremost public policy thinkers and campaigners, having overseen two nationwide referendum campaigns, including Brexit. He founded four high-profile pressure groups and convened two respected policy commissions.

2:48Shelley:In recent years, as well as regular speaking engagements and consultancy, Matthew has built a private sector portfolio while maintaining his interest in public policy as president of the Jobs Foundation and a member of the UK House of Lords. They both live out the UK-US special relationship every day in southwest London with their two young and very gorgeous daughters, Lottie and Grace. I have known Sarah since she was a young pup working in Washington prior to her meeting and marrying Matthew, and I've had the sincere pleasure of getting to know Matthew over the years with a special memory of martinis at Duke's and fond memories from events held here in D.C.

3:32Shelley:as well. I am so thrilled that our schedule has worked out for this. So without further ado, Lord and Lady Elliot, Welcome to the Lunch with Shelley podcast, and let's have lunch. Thank you. What an introduction. So, guys, why don't each of you take a turn eating and discussing how you got into politics early on? Okay. You want me to go first? All right. Well, I came to Washington on the backs of the successful George W. Bush 2004 re-election. and got in with the RNC and then Grover Norquist. And I'm not quite sure how we met, Shelly. Oh, my God. Probably right now. Right now, political chicks.

4:20Yeah. And you're great because you really embody this women supporting women. Thank you. And mentoring. And, you know, I was a nobody 24-year-old, 23-year-old then. I mean, 23.

4:35Shelley:Yeah, really young. I have such a gorgeous. You look exactly the same. I have gorgeous pictures of us from ever. Well, so do you. And I just remember being very embraced and supported. And you always took so much out of your time to meet, to have lunch with me, get to know me, build a friendship with me. And we would meet up and it didn't feel fake or imposed. It really grew organically. And we were buddies even regardless of the age difference. Yeah, regardless of the age difference. We were both single. Yes. We talked a lot about love. A lot about that. We were waiting for you for a long time, Matthew.

5:13Shelley:And Nelson. And Nelson. And you were great at giving job advice and perspectives and talking about current events. And I got to say, you probably don't even realize this, but you taught me a lot on how to do lunch professionally. You know what? I would like to take credit for that. Thank you. But wait, when did you realize that you were a conservative? Like, when did that happen? Gosh, good question. I mean, growing up in the 1980s, everyone used to watch the 7 o 'clock news at dinnertime. And so we used to always play it at the dinner table. And my parents and I, we would talk about what was going on.

5:51And I remember the first news story I followed was Noriega in like the late 1980s. And then that got into talking about Ronald Reagan and presidency in the 1980 presidential election. And my dad would talk to me about communism. He talked to me about freedom and the rest of the world. And he's a great free market capitalist guy. And he talked about that and what life was like in non-capitalist, non-democracies. and that got me feeling very, you know, grateful for being an American from a young age. Yeah. And watching the Berlin Wall fall. Yeah, that was amazing. I was like, I was very young then, but I distinctly remember it.

6:40And I said, I'm going to tell my grandkids about this.

6:44Shelley:It just is in your DNA. You're really a warrior. Oh, well, thanks. You are. And I mean that, of course, in the best way. I mean, your pedigree as I was going through it, like Grover, Americans for Prosperity, you know, the RNC. Yeah. It's perfection. I mean, it was just, I remember coming, well, I started university in the year 2000 when Bush got elected. Right, right. And you had the hanging chads and you had all of that. And I just knew then that once I graduated from university, I would be doing his re-election campaign. Wow. And you did. I was like, I had to do it. I had to go to Washington.

7:23And I've always been, yeah, I've always been proud to be an American. I studied international relations. I make the joke, I only started using my degree once I started dating Matthew. And now I do U.S. relations between the U.K. and the U.S. And British relations, too. You know, trying to build and strengthen that transatlantic bond, communicate and translate British, you know, language and dialect, I guess. to the American ear and the American ear to the British way of speaking and talking about issues. So I love it. It's the blend of both of my worlds. I think they're the two best countries in the world other than Israel.

8:08Yay! I just, I feel blessed to be in the position I'm in.

8:13Shelley:What got you into politics at such an, I guess, an early age? What got you into wanting to be political and a conservative? It was an early age, and I remember growing up in Leeds, which is a city in the north of England, and sitting around the dinner table with my grandfather, who was a big supporter of Margaret Thatcher and what she was doing in the 1980s, and my dad, who was less of a supporter, she was saying, and some very feisty arguments and discussions between the two of them about what was going on in the UK in the 80s. So really, in my early years, I was thinking a lot about politics and really engaged in politics.

8:56And I joined the Conservative Party in the UK at a ridiculously young age. Really? Very young. And took a year out between school and university to take part in the 1997 general election. Really? So I was still 18, working on that campaign. Went to university to the LSE. and did the well-trodden path of basically a politics degree and then working for an MP. Right. I just did that for a year and then left in my early 20s to set up the Taxpayers Alliance. At the time, this was the early 2000s, the UK had Tony Blair as Prime Minister. He'd had a good first term, but in his second term, he then sort of let off the brakes on spending and tax.

9:40So that's sort of going up in a big way.

9:42Shelley:Right. And there needs to be a group within the UK to really put a check on that, and really actually look at where's the money going, what's being spent on, why are taxes going up. And there wasn't a taxpayer group. So I got inspiration from groups like Americans for Prosperity, National Taxpayers Union, Citizens Against Government Waste. All these different groups in D.C. who are doing this patch and came over and met with them and had the ideas for a UK group along those lines. That's so cool. So were your folks bummed when you took a year off to work on a campaign? Was that normal? It's quite normal in the UK to have a year off between school and university.

10:23Shelley:Oh, it was between high school and college? Well, we would call high school. Okay, so a gap year. A gap year. Oh, that's becoming more chic or vogue again. You're listening to Lunch with Shelley. So you side with your grandfather, not your father. I did. But it was a very, you were overtly making a decision. You know, it wasn't like subliminal. I was always quite political and thinking about these issues. And I was actually taught economics at school using Milton Friedman's Free to Choose Book. Oh, my God. And they played the videos from his series in the early 80s. Wow. It teaches about tax and spending and regulation.

11:03Shelley:You're super indoctrinated. Right. So that got me on the path of the London School of Economics. joining the Hayek Society and being part of that and president of it. So really that sort of free market, classical liberal way of thinking about things was indoctrinated from a young age. I have a letter from Milton Friedman, and I don't know where it is. I know. Oh, wow. Isn't that such a drag? Did you ever meet Margaret Thatcher? Oh, yeah. Really? More than one. I introduced. Both of you did? No, yeah. He introduced her to me. Jealous what that was like. My girlfriend, Susan Casella, hopefully, well, she's Susan Carlson now, was such, she is still such an Anglophile, but her big political crush is Maggie Thatcher.

11:46Well, she's a good one.

11:48Shelley:Well, yeah. It was basically, it was in September 2010, and you, along with the economist Art Laffer, brought or arranged to have Lady Thatcher, Baroness Thatcher, come to her last public appearance. Oh my gosh. At the Guildhall in London, and it was for the conservative movement of the UK, and Grover Norquist went over. Wow, and Art was there? And Art was there. And also the president of Americans for Prosperity, Tim Phillips, was there. Right. And as I was working with Tim at the time, I came as well. And it was just incredible in this huge ancient hall with this icon. And, of course, the American icon, Art Laffer.

12:38Right.

12:39Shelley:Which we're going to get to. Because Art and I, I'm helping Art with his 50th anniversary of the Laffer group. and I know that you're doing a book with him, which is so amazing. All right, well, tell us, what year was it that you guys met? And tell us the story about how you met, which I only vaguely remember. Well, here's what I remember. Do you want to hear what I remember? It was over the holidays, and you were in D.C., and there was a party for Americans. Somebody, it wasn't an Americans for Prosperity party or something, but it was one of those people that was giving a party, and you were like, oh, God, it's not going to be fun.

13:14Shelley:And then you went to the party and you met Matthew. And then there was something about a bathroom or a bathroom window or something. Like some, I don't know. A bathroom window? I don't know. But anyway, I came back from holiday. And you had this boyfriend. Yeah. So that's my memory. Why don't you guys take turns? Matthew, you always let me tell the story. I met Sarah first at a Wednesday meeting. So I was over in D.C. attending one of Grover Norquist's Wednesday meetings. Which is? Did you guys go today? We did not go today. Describe what the center-right meeting is. So the Wednesday meeting is the weekly meeting that Grover Norquist held since the 1990s.

14:06Shelley:Yeah. bringing together people in the think tanks and the Hill and journalists who are on the centre-right to share what they're up to. And it's been a very influential meeting. And I came over to us in the... Would it have been 2002, 2003? Sarah was working on the K Street project for ATR. And you came up and gave me your card. and then a little bit late that day we're at the home of Matt and Terry Kibbe who at the time were running FreedomWorks and they were having a little house party for some people who were visiting and you were there. I was there, you were there. And that was it? No, no, it wasn't it.

14:52Wasn't it during the holidays? No, no, no.

14:53Shelley:Oh, no, it was several years later, right? So we actually met in June of 2006 and I didn't start at ATR until 2005, like March 2005, but we were on the rooftop. I don't remember the Wednesday meeting bit, but I remember the rooftop bit and there were French libertarians up there and there were also the Brits from Taxpayers Alliance and I was like, oh, we should do like a Western alliance, like we should all go out together. and so I found myself as like Judy the cruise director like organizing this big thing and I realized I was like the only female with all these like foreign men essentially and I was like okay I've got to call in reinforcements so we all went so that's when we all got together I got to know the taxpayers alliance um we went to Johnny Rockets in Georgetown and the French got up on the tables and started doing Saturday Night Fever.

15:54Oh, God. When, you know, when they flashed the lights. Yeah. And the English were completely embarrassed. Of course. They were like, this is horrific. So we had to like save them from embarrassment. And we went to the guards. Right. Do you remember the guards? Of course. With like the 80s dancing downstairs, which is my favorite. Yeah, yeah. So I took them all there and the French forgot their IDs.

16:15Shelley:Oh, God. So they couldn't. They wouldn't let them in? No, because, and they looked young. Right, right. I think some of them probably weren't 21 maybe some were but you know it was a mix but they wouldn't let them in without id and so i don't know whatever happened to them but but i stuck with the brits and we all became friends then we would see each other whenever you were in town and then you offered the same to me and i went to london um for vacation one summer and i met all these folks and um you tried to hire me twice uh and i don't remember this either i know matthew is looking curious but i i gave him my salary requirements the second time and i never heard back from him and i thought oh my gosh like our friendship is totally bust salary and health care package well i needed a health care package yeah um so you know matthew matthew ghosted me in like a typical british fashion because they don't like to say no and so i thought our friendship was over but he was in town again for cpac or some conference and it was over the holidays right so but we didn't get together then we got together on election night 2012 so it was election night and the party was an election watch party and matthew and i decided not to go to the election watch party once we arrived and we went to the Mayflower and you know how the bars close so early and also they're full of Dems and so we were trying to find the least happy place because Obama got re-elected that night 2008 was the worst.

17:56Shelley:This was 2012 but I was like and I had been actively campaigning with Americans for prosperity so I just said it was the best of times and the worst of times and he's like oh let me give you a hug sir This is like a friendship hug. And I just realized I didn't want it just to be a friendship hug. And that was the beginning. But it was. He came to visit that Christmas. Yes. Okay, thank you. And that was when everything clicked. And I went and visited his friends and family in February. And I knew that this was the one. And I resigned and moved in May. And I've never left. Yes. Yeah. But I cannot believe that you grew up to become Lady Elliot of Nickelfell and that you are Lord Elliot of Nickelfell because I obviously knew you before you were a lord.

18:45Shelley:But can you explain to the American public for probably the 90 millionth time what it is to be a lord and lady and how you came up with Nickelfell and all of that stuff? Okay. So the UK has the House of Commons. Right. Which is like the House of Representatives. and there are roughly 650 elected members of Parliament, all of whom have constitutions of about between 60 ,000 and 85 ,000 voters. It's quite small compared to the US. Then you have as the second chamber the House of Lords rather than the Senate. The House of Lords is unelected. It has a mixture of hereditary peers. where the title is passed down, although they're being phased out now, and then appointed members of the House of Lords, appointed by Prime Ministers, basically.

19:43And it's a less partisan chamber. You get the title and the position for life. And really, it's the place where legislation is properly scrutinised within the UK context. So bills go from the Commons to the Lords, and we spend lots of time in committee, going through the bills line by line to really eye them out. And often within those committee stages, you'll have many former government ministers who have been an expert in that area, people who are generally experts. So you'll have people who are top medics or top scientists or former judges who know a whole bunch of things about the subject, who can comment and help revise legislation and make it better.

20:27Shelley:These are all lords. Yeah. So the lords are... It's the House of experts. Pardon? A bunch of experts. But you come at things in a partisan way, don't you? I'm more policy, so I take the Conservative Party whip in the House of Lords. But I've always been more of a policy person, so I'm a strong free market, Brexiter, Conservative, and that's my take. And would that be considered partisan, though? It's interesting you say that, because if you look at recent history within the UK, we've just had a Labour government at the moment who've been in power for a year. Before that, we had 14 years of Conservative government, started off by David Cameron, then Theresa May, then, I'm going to run through them all, Boris Johnson, Liz Truss, Rishi Sunak.

21:18So five Conservative prime ministers on the trot at different times. And I think it's fair to say that that time had some great achievements, some really great achievements, but also a lot of things went wrong in the sense of government spending going up, taxes going up, regulation going up. So in some ways on the economic front, the reason for low growth in the economy is as much to do with the Conservative Party as the Labour Party. Really? I'm happy to sort of say that and talk about that. That's in the sense why I'm not partisan. I'm not somebody who will always stand up and say everything is good about the Conservatives and everything is bad about Labour.

21:55That's so interesting. And who appointed you to the House of Lords? So appointed by Liz Truss in Resonation Honours. Wow. And brought in under Richard Duneau.

22:07Shelley:And it's a lifetime appointment? That's so amazing. It is. Okay, so then now you're a lord and you're a lady, and then you get a name in addition to Elliot. Oh, yeah. So you get to pick the geographic part of the country that you're linked with. and there's a mountain called Micklefell right at the top of Yorkshire, the top of the country. So about, I'd say, 250, 300 miles from London to the north. Wow. And this is a mountain close to where my grandparents lived. Oh, nice. And at the top of the mountain you can see both England, of course, but also Scotland and Wales. Oh, wow. It's a mountain I climbed many times and it's a very beautiful part of the UK.

22:55And you're from Yorkshire. I'm from Yorkshire, yeah.

22:58Shelley:That's incredible. Well, he had me with the grandparents. Have you met the grandparents? Oh, they passed. I did meet his grandparents. No, I met his free market grandfather who influenced him, who was a businessman opening grocery stores in the north of England in the 1980s and 90s. And so, yeah, Terry. He was a great man, yeah. I bet. and um were you just blown away like do you have a ceremony to become lord and lady what happens there was a whole um introduction ceremony this happened in um february 24 24 and um your family came over my family was there um all the house of lords assembled and you're introduced and it's just you guys or is it like the class of 2024 for it so it's um myself and my very very good friend um john moynahan who's also been with and he's also a good strong pre-marketer and um you know believe in economic growth and all those good things too so both on the same day and um the girls were there right the girls were there so we were all sitting up in the gallery there were other lords and ladies are also called peers those in the chamber so there were other peers sitting on the red benches they sit on red benches and Matthew came in in an ermine lined red coat and what is that?

24:27robe so the robe with the ermine fur and it's that white fur with the black dashes in it

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24:40Shelley:where do you get that? But there's only one place to get it, actually. Yeah, and then is it yours, or do you borrow someone's? You each get one. You can either buy, rent, or borrow. What did you do? Well, we have our own. Okay, smart. I love how I said we. I know. It's not true that it has its own. No, but now can you give it to your daughter? Can she be a lady? Like, would it be the same thing? So, Grace and Lottie are both the Honorable. Right. They get the title, too. They get the title The Honourable, but they won't carry on this peerage like a hereditary. Like if it was a boy or just regardless?

25:22Shelley:Regardless. Okay, so they would need to be reappointed by someone else. They need to go kick butt in life and get the chamber on their own merit. Okay, and so who runs the ceremony? Is it the prime minister or, like, what happens? Is the king there? The king's not there. Okay. we're gonna get to the royals it's like they have about twice a month when people are introduced people of course sadly pass away so there are vacancies in there so roughly twice a month people are introduced to the house of lords it's the beginning of a work day just before question time each we have every day so the chamber is packed there are about 300 people in the chamber usually and it's right at the beginning and the gosh of arms comes in, the whole sort of notice is read out from the king and you swear on the Bible and sign something and then it's all done.

26:23Shelley:Wow. And who holds the Bible? Like, just finish the pageantry. It's important. So you walk in there in your robes with two supporters. You walk up to the front bench. You put your hand on the Bible. or a firm if you want to. There's no kneeling. You read out a pledge to the king. Once that's read out, you then sign a book, make yourself a member of the House of Lords. Then you walk out, you shake the hand of the Lord Speaker. And when you shake the hand of the Lord Speaker, the whole house is the key point. The whole house goes here. Oh, that's nice. It's basically the whole house, both sides.

27:03Right. Labour, Conservative, Lib Dem, Crossbench, all of them. affirming you as a member of the House of Lords.

27:09Shelley:Oh, that's so exciting. And then did you have to stay there for your work day or did you go find Sarah and the girls? So then you leave, you come back in to listen to a few questions. And then we had a bit of reception, didn't we, for friends and family and colleagues. I saw this on Facebook. Sarah's going to, oh my God, it was such a great picture. Your outfit, you know, that's what I cared about, was really gorgeous. The pictures were taken in the throne room of the king. so in the room where the king dresses before he opens parliament so it's a beautiful room which has beautiful murals painted about virtue all around the room and yeah you walk through the royal gallery I mean it was quite something next time you're London well I feel like London is all around me so I should be coming back hopefully this fall what would it be analogous to in the U.S.?

28:07Shelley:Is it like going to the speakers? Is it like being sworn in as a congressman, or is it more or less formal? I would say it's more formal. More formal. And it's very, like, the language they use is, like, from hundreds of years ago. So it's like listening to a Shakespeare play. The way they introduce you and the king and all of that. So it's a lot more tradition. but you know it's not super long it's very British in the sense that there's a lot of formality but you get to the point and you move on and then we had a big party and I mean it felt like a wedding reception afterwards really? well you were wearing white and I was wearing white but you know we had it catered, all of our closest friends and family were there who could make it Right, right.

29:01And that made it special, you know?

29:03Shelley:Does it blow your family's mind? Yes. I'm looking at Sarah. Yes. I mean, they just, but they all go, if anyone would have this happen, it would be you. And everybody has to see Sarah, which you will, but she has British, perfect British skin, eyes, blonde. Thank you, darling. Very sweet, Shelley. I'm not quite used to people in Parliament calling me m 'lady. Is that what they say? That's funny. But what I like, the American in me appreciates that Matthew received this, not because of hereditary, but because he earned it through merit, which is the American way. Exactly. It's much more virtuous.

29:50Yes.

29:51Shelley:Although either way is cool, but nevertheless. That is cool. Well, before we talk about politics, which I super want to get into, so are either or both of you obsessed with the royals? Are you more or less obsessed with the royals by living over there? And did you grow up loving them? Or what are your feelings about them now? I think it's probably fair to say. I know, and you're saying, I'm not obsessed. So use a different word if obsession is too strong. And the royal family's a key part of the UK. Right. And in a sense, and usually as a country, we haven't been through revolutions or gained independence from another country.

30:36So our constitution has evolved over many, many years. And, of course, we started off with having an absolute monarch who ruled the land and could say everything that happened. And now we've got a constitutional monarchy. where you've got the monarchy, but then the democracy underneath it, but with, of course, the king and the royal family playing a really important role in terms of our overall affairs. So it's a UK set-up. It's served us really well for many, many years. And, yes, I'm proud of that. I'm proud of that as a country. We've had centuries and centuries and centuries where we've had a very stable political system evolving over time, becoming more democratic, but one wishes withstood revolutions and so forth from that.

31:23Shelley:But how do you feel about the king and queen and the prince and princess? I mean, you're not an anti-royalist, obviously. Not so, no, I'm a big fan of the royalist. Have you met them? I've met some of them. Not the current king, but I've met some of them. Like who? The queen. Was it amazing? What? This is too much detail. So let's talk then just about politics in totem in the UK. So I work with Art and I also work with Steve Moore and he puts out something called the hotline every day. So I'm giving a shout out to the hotline. But in today's hotline, it was talking about demographics, which Steve and the Unleashed Prosperity folks love to talk about.

32:09Shelley:And apparently the birth rate in the UK and all of Europe, I'm sorry, is plummeting. In which case productivity, great productivity is going to be harder to achieve. And I know you're writing this book with Art and another gentleman, Michael Hintze, about productivity. So talk about, I guess, how you see UK and Europe doing. I mean, I hear all of these alarm bells. I'll give a very sneak preview. because it's actually still slightly under wraps, but I can talk somewhere about it. The key point, as you say, is that within Europe and the UK, Thank you, Madam. I'm the gentleman. GDP per capita has been basically flatlining since the financial crisis.

32:57So whereas if you look at the UK and the EU compared to the US, broadly speaking, if you go back to the early 2000s, roughly speaking people per capita had the same amount of money both in the EU, the Europe and the US. Fast forward 25 years now the US per capita is 40 % higher than the average European per capita. Now why has that happened? That's happened because of the tech boom, life sciences There's also the different things that happened within the US during that time. So people are wealthier. So really there's a big question about Britain and the rest of Europe. How do we make sure that our GDP per capita, our economic growth for every individual, goes up?

33:50How do we regain that economic growth we had before? So what the book I've written with Art Laffer and Douglas Williams and Michael Hintze tries to answer, which will come out later this year, is basically how do you get economic growth going within the UK with lessons for the rest of Europe as well.

34:09Shelley:And so what are your answers? I think Sarah could probably tick them off anyway, not having been an author of this book. But what are your answers? I mean, they're rather obvious, knowing art and steam. What we've come to, and what Arthur's done extremely well, is to work out that north star of economic growth. He says you need five things for that. The five kings of economics. There's basically low taxes, low spending, light regulation, free trade and sound money. And he basically goes through all of those areas to work out what are the key things you need. It goes back through economic history to prove that you need those to actually generate high growth.

34:54And then what we do in the rest of the book is to apply that to the UK and to actually talk about what do Armenian do in policy terms in the UK right now to get growth going. And then we also look at the political obstacles to higher growth.

35:08Shelley:In the UK or in all of Europe? In the UK in particular. And we've talked with five former prime ministers and 11 former chancellors to get their thoughts on basically how you get growth going within the UK and how you overcome those political obstacles. You're listening to Lunt with Shelley. I'm curious that you said that the Conservative Party was almost as responsible for the low productivity and growth in the UK as the Labour Party. Why is that? Good question. The key reason is because since the financial crisis, partly because of COVID, we've had a situation where government spending and taxation has gone up, which caused a slowdown in the economy.

35:57Shelley:Even under your party, you raised taxes? I'm afraid so. That happened. And also, of course, the population has increased. We've had very high levels of migration to the UK. So it may have sort of growth rates of, you know, 1%, 1.5 % some years. So very, very low growth rates. But the population is expanding faster than that. So you end up with having zero growth per capita. So what do you think that, well, I'll ask you, Sarah, you can keep eating, Matthew. What do you think the Conservative Party has done wrong? Or how do they right the ship? I mean, that's like saying Republicans raise taxes here, which would be a, you know, read my lips moment.

36:38Exactly. Well, thanks to campaigners like Grover Norquist, who made raising taxes a bad word in the Republican Party. Right. I think people are going to have to make an example out of the Tories now and read my lips, no more taxes. Well, I think they're being punished electorally for that. But the other issue is taking on net zero energy policies that just makes energy way too expensive for average day Britons. For example, the United Kingdom has the most expensive electricity in the Western world. Really? It's four times as much as the United States. It is sitting on all the raw materials to make steel, but it's not allowed to explore them or extract them.

37:25They have stopped drilling in the North Sea for the oil, all in the name of saving the environment. And what's happening is businesses can't operate. They can't pay the energy prices. They're fleeing. The electrical grid is very fragile. And the only reason it still can operate is because less people are using energy because of the prices. So it is not a recipe for growth or productivity or attracting investment. And people are going elsewhere. But they, you know.

37:58Shelley:When you say elsewhere, where are they going? Well, they're going to the Middle East. Oh, not people. You mean corporations or investors? People are leaving, too. The U.K. has the highest number of millionaires in the world leaving its country. Well, not yet. Wait till New York. Well, but that'll be like intra-immigration, right? All to Florida, Texas, right? That's true. Yeah, yeah. But the U.K. has lost over 17 ,000 millionaires in one year due to the taxation of the labor government, who's only been in power one year. And we have about three to four more years of this. My God. So I was, I think, pro-Brexit because I just was pro, well, I shouldn't say I think.

38:45Shelley:I was pro-Brexit because I thought it was very pro-Great Britain and my friends were pro-Brexit and it was such a hot issue. so I want to talk to you about that in your role but again in a somewhat more People Magazine sense there was a HBO movie about it and someone played you which was so cool so tell us about the whole thing, do you want to start or do you want Matthew to start? I think it's important to let's talk about the policy on the important parts and I'm not going to bore of these bits about the reasons why Brexit was a good thing. But an analogy I often use particularly to Canadian audiences, to be a bit controversial, is to say look, if you're in Canada there'll be lots of reasons why you should say why not join with the United States?

39:42Shelley:Well, that's what the President thinks. You share a border and you have the same geographic area and you trade a lot and you speak the same language and all these different points. So you could make the claim that basically Canada and the US should be one country joined up together. And, of course, if you're in Canada, you say, that's ridiculous, why should we have this? Because they said that very clearly in their recent general election. Yes, they did. Now, of course, with the UK being part of the EU, that's a very similar thing. People are saying that the UK should be part of, in a sense, Europe as a country, which has a European government and a currency, the euro currency, and laws made by Europe and pushed down to the UK level.

40:30So that's why it had that sense of unfairness from people. People thought it was unfair because why should people over in Brussels, in Belgium, make laws which are applicable in the UK and actually supersede UK law? Right. So that's the key reason. It's all like taking back control.

40:48Shelley:That was fundamentally, I think, what made the most sense to me. Yeah. So that's why I was for Brexit, take back control. That's why the UK voted for Brexit. It's about re-establishing our sovereignty, our sort of control over lawmaking in the UK. And that's what drove it all, really. And that's why we voted Brexit and why we won. In terms of the movie, you talk about that. Yeah, it was fun. The guy was cute. Oh, he was. And he's a really nice guy. His name is John Heffernan. He's a great West End actor. he came over to our house to have like a long liquid lunch oh my and it was very strange for the three of us to be sitting together I bet and me looking at him and then him studying Matthew and vice versa and I'm like did you have your hackles up like who is this guy of course I mean I know he's probably some left wing well yes and you're protective and smart but he was yeah Matthew gives people more of the benefit of the doubt initially than I but he's very no he was lovely he was a British gentleman and he was very he had kind eyes and I knew I looked into his eyes and I saw his soul but Matthew has kind eyes so I knew that we were in like good hands and he did a great job it was so funny because the opening scenes are with him in like the Tate Britain art gallery meeting up to have some secret conversation or something.

42:22And what's so funny is that when I first met Matthew's parents, we went to the Tate Britain in that same gallery, and Matthew buzzed off to go get a haircut, and I had to stay with his parents. I just met them.

42:37Shelley:Oh, God. And so we started talking, and I said, oh, you must have been really proud of your son. You must be really proud of your son for what he's doing. And they're like, what is he doing? And I said to them, like, in that room where they filmed that scene, I said to them, oh, Matthew's taking the UK out of the EU. And they were like, what?

43:01And the mother got all flustered. And she was like, that sounds very controversial. Right. And then I realized I had hit a button, like, oh, well, maybe he doesn't share everything with his parents. Right. But it was all fine Everybody supported you in the family God, it was such a divisive issue

43:25Shelley:How long ago was it? Nine years Because I remember being in Italy and watching European news Which is the best thing about being in Europe Is watching European news It's so different But it was calamitous It was expensive It was nail biting. I mean, in retrospect, it looked like it was a landslide, but it wasn't or was it, but nobody knew it was going to be. It was fairly close. It was on a very big turnout. Yeah. So it was, I think, a decisive result. And I think it was basically ahead of the curve. So if you look now at the U.S.'s trade policy, for example, with Donald Trump's Liberation Day.

44:11Shelley:Completely. It's very similar. The UK was able to do its own trade deal with the US. Rather than do the bloc with the EU and have many different interests in vying together to get a deal, Keir Starmer was able to sit down with Donald Trump and get a trade deal before anybody else. And also he came to the White House as just Great Britain for the talks about Ukraine. What I thought you were going to say was that the president's victory, recent victory, was decisive. there was a big turnout and it was a similar thing it was divisive but decisive and it was it was more positive than people assumed anyway i was making that analogy yeah yeah then i what was really uh surprising to me is that it took over three and a half years for the government to get behind the will of the people and actually implement brexit there were so many politicians who aren't even in Parliament anymore who were trying to overturn the election or turn over the referendum result.

45:16There was a whole political party formed called Change UK that wanted to overturn it and have a second referendum. There was, it was, I just felt like democracy was truly being undermined and it felt authoritarian. Yeah. And really you had the elites and the rest of the country. and I just thought everybody would learn their lesson and get behind the winner but that was not the case and yeah it was I'm glad Boris Johnson got the country over the line I don't think the UK is completely capitalized on all the opportunity that it can but it does have trade deals with other nations now that the EU is not a part of it has been able to make its own laws.

46:02The immigration law is the biggest challenge right now for the UK to implement its own agenda, which will come up in the next general election. That'll be an issue. You're listening to Lunch with Shelley.

46:17Shelley:So you guys were just at Royal Ascot. I saw the photos and you're all dressed up and I brought my hat but um you guys look perfect is my hat appropriate for royal ascot and tell us how it was and why would you do you did the curio not a big hat so our big hats like out of vogue or let's just talk all royal ascot so i wasn't there this year no you weren't there this year Oh, really? Oh, gosh. I was away in Dubai. I think you were in Dubai, yeah. Oh. Yeah, I went with friends. But last year, no, big hats are always in. Okay. You have to, you know, the more avant-garde and the crazier, the better.

47:07It also ends up being usually the more expensive option as well. So do you like my hat? I like your hat. And you don't love it. You need, no, you would need to ju it up. Do you know what I mean? And that's you. I'm sorry, you. Sorry, sorry. That's what I meant. Sorry. Why? Because it's too clear? It's a little casual for Ascot. Oh, yes, for Ascot. Would I put an Hermes scarf? Yes, you could put flowers, bows, whatever, but it is a good size. That's a proper hat. But they were very much against the fat of the fascinator with just the little dingy thing on the headband with a flower or something.

47:52Shelley:Who is they were most against? I would say the standard bearers of Royal Ascot. They're against it? Because that's what everybody seems to be wearing. Well, they can't fight the trends very well. But when they want a full hat, that's a full hat. Oh, good. A full headquarter hat. Yeah, I don't think I would look good in a curio. Yeah. Is that what it's called? A fascinator. A fascinator. Yeah. So I wore a big hat last year, the previous year. This year, I wanted to go for something. You had a fascinator. No, it was a boater. Oh, okay. So it was a boater that I tilted to the side, but I didn't want something that got in the way of me eating and talking and that sort of thing.

48:34Shelley:That's the thing about that hat. Yeah. It's like having an umbrella. But do you know what the men... The men have to, whenever they are standing up, they have to wear their jacket no matter the weather. They have to be in a full morning dress, tuxedo with a vest. This is American terms here. What would he call it? A waistcoat. A waistcoat. So a waistcoat, a jacket with tails, a cavat. But they can only take their jackets off when they're sitting. And when I went, it was 80 to 85 degrees all day. And the men had to wear everything. And they did make the exception when the weather got above 80 degrees that men could take their jackets off standing up.

49:24Really? But it's a great parade watching what people wear. It's the place where you can be the craziest or you can be the classiest. Really? Yeah. Is it like the Met Gala? I mean, kind of for like, you know, for Ritz.

49:43Shelley:But it is like the Met Gala. I can't remember. I know you look beautiful, but you looked also proper. Like you can't go crazy. I mean, I can show you some pictures of some really big discs on people's heads and flowers and things. But you have to be in that for like close to eight hours, eight to ten hours of the day. So you have to think about that. And it's hot, and there's a lot of walking involved, too. Did you say hot or posh? Hot. Okay. Yeah, so it was hot. I mean, it's beautiful. The best time to visit the U.K. is June to mid-July. Really? The weather is just stunning. Not the fall. The fall is beautiful, but you get the real sunny, long summer days, and it's warm, but not too warm usually, although we've had several heat waves this summer.

50:31Shelley:Yeah, Europe has been on fire, I heard. And we don't have air conditioning in the homes. You actually, you personally don't have air conditioning? No, no one does. Oh, my God. No one does. They're illegal to have the window units inside. You can have a little unit with a plastic tube to stick out the window, and that's per room, and they're mobile. Even in a commercial building, if you go to a shopping, a shop or something, the air conditioning will not be of, like, U.S. standards. Oh, my God. So it is intense, yeah. You're listening to Lunch with Shelly. Both of you take turns. I don't know who wants to go first, but if you could have lunch, since we are a lunch podcast, if you could have lunch anywhere in the world, where would it be and what would you be eating?

51:20Shelley:Anywhere in the world. So we've just come back from the Algevacs. Right. North Carolina. Right. Where we go for a year. Right. And we tend to go for two weeks and take a beach house and go there. I know, I was under strict directions not to reach out to Sarah until the 18th. Yes. And on this latest trip, because I love going there, it's a place where we relax every year and we end home in there and we sat at a special place. You really relax? We love it. Yeah. And I'm going to go very sort of down market. Yeah, that's fine. Anywhere in the world. In Kerala, opposite the food line, there's a very, very good barbecue.

52:00I went there three times, three or four times What do you eat? I love my pork barbecue I love my beef barbecue I just love barbecue

52:09Shelley:You love ribs Do you put it in a sandwich? Do you use hot sauce? I use the traditional North Carolina or bitty bitty sauce with a beer That's a perfect answer What about you? I think I like this because it's unique to the region and brings back memories. But I love picking blue crab. Ooh, yeah. And being my mother was a Marylander. Right. And we grew up with it, being that I went to high school in Maryland. I'm glad we're bringing her up, yeah. Oh, thanks. So Phillips Crab House in Baltimore. Oh, right. And pick some blue crab and then go to Baccaro's, if it's still there, in Little Italy for cannolis afterwards in Baltimore.

52:58Shelley:Fabulous. Excellent answers. Everybody, isn't it so exciting that I've had a lord and lady and a couple on today? This was really good. I mean, it really is very easy because each one of you gets to talk while the other one gets to eat. So this is very novel, and I think this could be a good system moving forward. But anyway, thank you guys so much for flying all the way to the United States for the Lunch with Shelly podcast. But anyway, it is so, so great to see you. It is lovely to spend time with you. We're at the amazing Cafe Milano, I think I've mentioned, with the wonderful Candido and Cleavon and his gorgeous fiance.

53:46Shelley:And anyway, we very much appreciate you listening to this episode. Please check out other episodes at www.lunchwithshelly.com or wherever you get your favorite podcasts. And as always, in the meantime, peace, love and lunch.

From the publisher

Welcome to the latest episode of Lunch with Shelley featuring two special guests – Lord and Lady Elliott of Mickle Fell. 

Sarah and Mathew Elliott are both old friends and a true UK power couple! Sarah Elliott is the Director of the UK-US Special Relationship Unit. She has spent most of the past 20 years working in US politics, advocating for policies that encourage economic prosperity and preserve individual freedom.

Mathew Elliott is one of the UK's foremost public policy thinkers and campaigners.  He founded four high-profile pressure groups and convened two respected policy commissions. Most recently, along with speaking engagements and consultancy, Mathew has built a private sector portfolio, while maintaining his interest in public policy as President of the Jobs Foundation and a member of the UK House of Lords.

This is the first time we’ve hosted a couple, a Lord and Lady and the first time we’ve hosted Brits!  So pull up a chair at the at the always delicious Café Milano to talk all things British including the Royals, UK politics, what to wear to the Royal Ascott and a special love story!

Check us out at www.lunchwithshelley.com or wherever you get your favorite podcast and in the meantime, Peace, Love and Lunch!

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