In short
Shahab Barbar, co-owner/front-of-house of Peacock Cafe in Georgetown, discusses the Persian New Year (Nouruz) and how Iranian culture, hospitality, and food traditions shaped the restaurant’s history and menu.
Guest backgrounds
Shahab Barbar immigrated from Iran to the U.S. in Nov. 1978 at age 13 due to the political revolution. He is the youngest of six; his brother Maziar (chef/part owner) arrived a couple months earlier. Their father was a well-known pediatrician in Iran; in the U.S. he couldn’t practice medicine, and their mother became a beautician/hairdresser. Shahab and Maziar attended San Francisco State University, then opened Peacock Cafe in Washington, D.C. in 1991.
Key claims
Peacock began as a deli with hand-tossed salads and sandwiches served on paper plates; later expanded to full-service. Their hospitality philosophy is “you can’t teach kindness.” Nouruz is a 3,000-year-old 13-day tradition tied to spring renewal and symbolic foods, and Iranians often celebrate it despite regime resistance.
Notable examples
Peacock has hosted major figures (including Hillary and Bill Clinton for her birthday; Jenna Bush’s engagement party). Maziar cooked Persian food at the James Beard House and later consulted for a Persian New Year event at the White House during the Obama years. Menu examples include ash reshte (noodle soup), tomato bisque, vegetarian chili, hummus, dolmeh/dolma, and brunch items; dishes are sometimes named after celebrities.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOPeacock Cafe's Journey
0:46 to 2:36
Shahab discusses the history and fame of Peacock Cafe.
“In fact, Peacock Cafe has been featured on all types of media, including TV, local and national newspapers, magazines, and of course, restaurant reviews.”
Nehruz Celebration
2:37 to 3:17
Shahab shares insights about the Persian New Year and its significance.
“Shahab, it is such a pleasure to finally have you on the podcast.”
Immigration Story
3:18 to 5:00
Shahab recounts his family's immigration from Iran to the U.S.
“So tell me, what was it like growing up in Iran?”
Growing Up in America
5:01 to 8:59
Shahab reflects on his family's adaptation to life in the U.S.
“Yeah, so first for a period, and then we moved to San Fran.”
Restaurant Career Beginnings
9:00 to 12:01
Shahab describes his brother's journey in the restaurant industry.
“Maziar was a lot more interested, and he took the jobs that we had to work during college years to pay the bills.”
Return to D.C. and Restaurant Opening
12:02 to 14:02
Discussion on the decision to open Peacock Cafe in D.C. after returning from San Francisco.
“The restaurants that are successful, it's like a hand in a glove.”
Foundations of Passion in Hospitality
14:02 to 16:39
Discover the journey of opening a restaurant and the importance of passion in hospitality.
“I mean, I appreciate that you were following your brother, but did you have any other passion or was your passion business?”
The Evolution of Peacock Cafe
16:40 to 20:16
Learn about the early days of Peacock Cafe, its menu, and its unique offerings.
“Well, because we didn't have a hot kitchen, so our menu was limited to a lot of daytime stuff.”
Memories of Growing Up in Iran
20:17 to 23:51
Explore the speaker's memories of Iran, their culture, and the richness of its history.
“and all you have to say is let's meet a peacock.”
Persian Culinary Traditions
23:52 to 25:36
Dive into the significance of Persian dishes and their cultural relevance.
“By the way, I'm glad that we're talking about this and we'll go back to Persia.”
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Peacock's Culinary Recognition
25:37 to 28:00
Hear how Peacock Cafe gained recognition through special events and culinary innovation.
“And ironically, you know, Peacock, we never wanted to, I mean, initially it wasn't meant, and we are not a Persian restaurant, but through these trials and tribulations and events that happened.”
Maziar's Culinary Journey and Diplomatic Contributions
28:00 to 29:26
Learn about Maziar's impact on American cuisine and diplomacy through his culinary work.
“Clinton, back then Secretary of State, they started this program, Connery for Diplomacy.”
The Challenges of Running a Neighborhood Restaurant
29:26 to 30:29
Discover the challenges faced by restaurants during COVID and beyond.
“But so all of these kind of came together.”
Understanding Iranian Identity: Persian vs. Iranian
30:29 to 33:05
Explore the difference between the terms 'Iranian' and 'Persian' and their historical significance.
“And I think people as the testaments to a lot of the guests, we're trying and every Every day it's hard work to reach that goal.”
Celebrating Nouruz: Traditions and Modern Challenges
33:05 to 34:33
Learn about the celebration of Nouruz and how it is observed amid political challenges.
“So we're at that stage where the faith I think for most of us is kept And do you think that Nehruz is being celebrated, or I guess you know that because it's 6 o 'clock there, is Nehruz celebrated in Iran today?”
Persian Heritage: Language, Culture, and Resilience
34:33 to 37:02
Understand the importance of Persian culture and language in the face of adversity.
“So last Wednesday, just two days ago, people in Iran, in different cities, different neighborhoods, they were trying to do this festivity.”
Memorable Encounters: Celebrities at the Peacock
37:02 to 41:40
Hear stories of interesting encounters with famous individuals at Peacock.
“Tell me, who are some of the most interesting people you've met in the last few decades?”
Symbolism of Food: Luck and Prosperity
41:40 to 42:00
Discover the significance of food in celebrating luck and prosperity.
“I think the next Tuesday or Wednesday, we got a call from the same office that we want the same table Mrs.”
A Special Birthday Celebration
42:00 to 43:30
Discover the memorable birthday celebration with Secretary Clinton and the significance of personal experiences in their story.
“So it was back then Secretary Clinton and Mr.”
Persian Culinary Delights
43:30 to 45:22
Explore the unique Persian dishes and the cultural significance of food in their traditions.
“So that's what, and the herb rice is just, and Maziar again does it with the full service restaurant.”
A Lucky Table and Personal Connections
45:22 to 47:22
Hear a heartwarming story about a lucky table and how food connects families and cultures.
“Would you like to go back to, have you been back to Iran?”
Modernization and Cultural Resilience in the Gulf
47:22 to 49:35
Discuss the evolution of Dubai's food and culture amidst geopolitical challenges and how they reflect resilience.
“And it's just a level of quality of food and service.”
Iran's Current Struggles and Future Hopes
49:35 to 53:59
Analyze Iran's geopolitical situation, including social movements and the hope for future change.
“because I feel like we were all surprised that Iran was bombing its neighbors.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00I was like, well, this is, let's see who's coming. Right. So it was back then Secretary Clinton and Mr. President Clinton, and it was her birthday. They came to you for their birthday?
0:12Shelley:Oh my God. She goes, and I said again, what a great honor to have you. And she goes, well, my mom hasn't stopped talking about you guys.
0:26Shelley:Welcome to Lunch with Shelly, the podcast featuring conversations with colleagues, friends, family, business leaders. At lunch, here's Shelly. Hello and welcome to the latest episode of Lunch with Shelly with today's special guest, Shahab Barbar. Shahab is the co-owner, along with his brother Mazar, of the very famous and beloved Peacock Cafe nestled in the heart of Georgetown in Washington, D.C. Anyone who has eaten here or even walked by the restaurant has seen Shahab's always smiling face since he is the front of the house for the restaurant, while his brother, the chef, oversees the great menu and delicious food that Peacock Cafe is well known for.
1:13Shelley:In fact, Peacock Cafe has been featured on all types of media, including TV, local and national newspapers, magazines, and of course, restaurant reviews. USA Today referred to Peacock Cafe as the local getaway where you just might spot Rob Lowe with Bo Derek. And famously, Jenna Bush held her engagement party here. Shahab and Brother Mazar came to the United States from Iran in 1978 and both attended San Francisco State University. They made their way to Washington, D.C. and opened Peacock Cafe in 1991. At first, Peacock was a deli with hand-tossed salads and sandwiches served only on paper plates, and it wasn't until after their first year that they even invested in real plates.
2:02Shelley:Fast forward several decades and Peacock is renowned for a wide variety of fantastic offerings, including my favorite tomato soup in the city and a very, very popular brunch, among many other wonderful things. We made a particular point of hosting the podcast today because today is the Persian New Year marked by Nehruz, which is a 13-day holiday during which the people of Iran celebrate the vernal equinox by exchanging gifts and feasting on symbolic foods. It is a 3 ,000-year-old holiday tradition, and I am completely excited to learn more about it and enjoy their festive menu. Shahab, it is such a pleasure to finally have you on the podcast.
2:49Shelley:So without further ado, Nuruz Mubarak. Thank you. Yes. Which I pray means happy Nuruz, right? Yes. And so welcome to the Lunch with Shelley podcast and let's have lunch. Wonderful. Great to have you with us. And you've done this several times here. I know. And you were gracious enough to host a podcast and I was always wondering, oof. What's it like? Well, I'm so happy to be able to be with you today and talk about our food and our rules and everything. Yes. Well, it is such a pleasure. Well, we want to talk about you. I want to learn more about you. So tell me, what was it like growing up in Iran?
3:32Shelley:And what was the impetus for coming over? And was it you and your brother or your whole family? What's the story? Sure. Well, I was 13. This was back in 1978. November of 1978, I came. My parents brought me here, and the reason for it was the political situation and the revolution that was basically heating up. And by early 79, when the revolution basically took hold and Shah left and Khomeini came. So we were there until toward the end of Shots Resume, unfortunately. And I'm the youngest of six in our family. I was going to ask about your siblings. So I was the last one that mom and dad brought out.
4:25Maziar, my brother, chef, part owner of the restaurant, he came a couple months before me. Oh, wow. So my older brothers and sisters, they were already here. My dad had this plan of them, you know, kids go to college in U.S. and then come back home. So we had a familiarity with U.S. and D.C. area. And at that time, what happened was a lot of the families who could leave the country, they went to places that were the most familiar with. Right. So for us was U.S. and D.C. area. Oh, so you came to DC? Yeah, so first for a period, and then we moved to San Fran. Yes.
5:12Shelley:Well, first of all, what did your father do in Iran? So he was a pediatrician. Oh, wow. He was a very popular, well-known pediatrician and beloved in our city. I'm sure. And he had a little bit of a stint with politics back home. Hence, the fact that he had to leave as the revolution was, you know, going into the next stage, complete stage. So we came to D.C. area, and I was basically 8th grade in middle school, and Maziar was in high school. My God, where did you go? I was in North Stafford High. Actually, you know, we settled. That's another long story, but we settled. We settled in the D.C.
6:12area, and my older sister was living in this area. She had settled down and married with kids. Already? Yeah, so normally that's, again, you gravitate and you come. And frankly, at that time, nobody thought we would be living here long term. We thought, you know, it's not going to last and everybody will go back in a couple years. Right. But obviously here we are 47 years later. So this was very interesting in a way that we settled down. We planted our roots. My dad loved his past on. Mom and dad have passed on. But they loved U.S. and what it offered. And we grew up in a household that were very appreciative of the opportunity that we were given.
7:10and they work very hard. My dad, unfortunately, could not practice medicine here. And my mom became a wonderful beautician and hairdresser. And so we grew up in a family that we worked. We loved each other. All of us took care of each other. And I always say from the six kids, we all love each other, but I think Mazia and I are the only ones that can work in a business together. It is a, I mean, especially restaurant business. There is a lot going on. So it's that feel of work ethic, appreciation of life, appreciation of where we are in the moment that I think built us and created our character.
8:04Oh, I'm sure. to run a restaurant for 34, going on 35 years. So kind of fast forward, we finished our high school period in the D.C. area. And then for different reasons, we had my older brother there and then my sister who actually, she's an architect. She designed a restaurant. Oh, you're kidding. So is everybody here still? So everybody's here. I have a brother that's in Seattle.
8:33Shelley:Okay. But everybody else is, yeah, within Northern Virginia, D.C. area. Yeah, it is. It is. And my nieces and nephews all have kids now. Oh, wow. Just a beautiful, you know, family. Again, given life's circumstances, you know, we don't get together a lot. But, you know, we try to see each other as often as we can. Everybody's busy. And so, but it's really nice to have everybody close by. So, we moved to San Francisco. And that was sort of a prelude, actually, to our restaurant career. Because of the food scene. Yes. Maziar was a lot more interested, and he took the jobs that we had to work during college years to pay the bills.
9:17So he took his jobs much more seriously than I did. He worked with some great restaurateurs and great chefs, again, having classes, and then at nights mainly working at restaurants. From a very small French bistro on Knob Hill. It was right by Fairmont Hotel. It used to be called Knob Hill Cafe. Fantastic small restaurant which reminded us of when we first opened Peacock in 91. Our place had five tables and as you mentioned, very humble beginning. So that place had 10 small tables, two servers, chef, sous chef. And, you know, so he learned a lot in that place. He, you know, from the food and service and so forth, amongst other places, great places that he worked in San Francisco.
10:13One of the most notable ones was at Star's Restaurant with Jeremiah Towers. Oh, wow. Jeremiah Tower, very well known, being called father of the California cuisine, as Alice Water was the mother of California cuisine. Jeremiah Tower, which has an amazing history by himself. And Anthony Bourdain, before he had passed on, he had done a documentary on Jeremiah Tower that I highly recommend. And it was kind of unknown. This was in an era of in the 80s that there was no, I mean, very little food network or, you know, celebrity chefs weren't as big and as notable and easily accessible as they are today.
11:02So he really made his mark on California cuisine and American, high-end American culinary cuisine. So Stars was a magnificent restaurant. the place to be in San Francisco to dine, and it was right by the opera house downtown. So fantastic stuff. So Maziar, actually, it was hard to get a job there. He got in, and he got his foot through the door, and he became very close with Mark Franz. Back then was Jeremiah's executive chef. So although Maziar was in the front of the house, but he learned a lot. Yes. Oh, that's so funny. Which again, it's an important point because as a restaurateur and as a chef, working at the front of the house, the point of service, accommodation, flexibility.
11:56Which you are incredible. Well, that's where it all comes. You understand the both back of the house and front of the house. The restaurants that are successful, it's like a hand in a glove. They just go very well together. And it really, again, creates a better experience for the guests and the staff are not as agitated or both back and front. So all of these experiences kind of led us to here. However, we came back after graduation. We came back. Mom and dad were getting older. and, you know, my sisters were taking care of them and we wanted to help out and we kind of, you know, again, my mom was a wonderful, wonderful mother and wife and human being where, again, her whole goal was to bring the family back together.
12:51Right. So we came back. It was supposed to be a temporary move for both of us because we love San Francisco so much, but here we are.
13:01Shelley:Right. Well, you know what? D.C. really dragged you in, and there's a nice feeling of community here. And it's all relative, but it's somewhat not easy living, but you can have cars and homes and family. It definitely has gone through its transition from the 80s and 90s to now. It's definitely much hipper and nicer. Right, that's true. It is much hipper. Cosmopolitan. Yeah, it wasn't that way earlier. So we opened up and we, again, actually, we were looking, Maziar and I, I was in banking. Well, that's what I was going to say. So it's funny that Maziar was the front of the house because you're such a perfect front of the house.
13:43Shelley:And your relationship is the business guy and he's the creative guy now, right? So he, again, the love and passion for the food and restaurant business. and again, opening the place. And he, yeah, basically, you're lucky that he's the chef. Was it your passion too, though? I mean, I appreciate that you were following your brother, but did you have any other passion or was your passion business? No, it really, it was business, but definitely restaurant, hospitality, always was it. I mean, you're such a natural. Well, thank you. You are. Thank you. So it is really, again, testament to, first of all, us being able to work well together.
14:31Secondly, you know, through ebbs and flows of life and business and cycles of economic cycles and so forth. You know, you stick to your gun. We always wanted to have, you know, again, opening a business. Restaurant was not a first choice for us. Actually, for a while, we looked at other businesses because we knew how hard. restaurant. Yeah, right. But then one day we're like, you know what? We both know it. We both enjoy it. Well, and he's such a good chef. Well, again, it came, honestly, it just came together really well. Because when we first opened the little peacock, as I call mother peacock, we didn't have a hot kitchen.
15:12It was a deli. So we kind of broke our piggy bank and opened up the place. And as you mentioned, paper plates, paper cups, and to be able to open with what we had. You know, it was, but at the very beginning, it was about the food we served and how we served it. So it was a lot of lighter fare. It was the tossed salads. These are days before all these salad bars. That you came to the counter, you ordered your salad, Maziar or our staff was back there tossing it to order, which was unheard of in D.C. back then. We had a great coffee program. Again, we couldn't get it back then in Georgetown. There was a moratorium on beer wine licenses.
16:02So we had a great coffee. I was making the cappuccinos, and, you know, there were, again, this is 91, 92. I know, it was very unusual, yeah. Amazing. We used Ely coffee and the great Spurso machine that we knew from the San Francisco days. And Maziar was familiar with it. So all of these lend itself to creating a great product. And I think that's where, you know, we really didn't mean it to be that way, but all of a sudden as a healthy place.
16:36Shelley:Yeah, and such a popular brunch place. Did you ever sit out and do that? Well, because we didn't have a hot kitchen, so our menu was limited to a lot of daytime stuff. Maziar was cooking on two burners, and we had a conviction of it, that he drove to Pennsylvania to pick it up the first day we opened. Oh, that's great. So with two burners and cooking the pasta and the vegetables and all that, so our menu, which still there is a lot of items, the tomato bisque, the vegetarian chili. These were all started. The tomato bisque is unbelievable. I appreciate it. And the sandwiches. And the sandwiches, yes.
17:19Shelley:And I love how you named them after celebrities. Celebrities, exactly. Some made the cut, some haven't. We had more, but, you know. But those are all, again, points of being able to appreciate what we do and how we do it and how we serve people. from the beginning again whether paper plates or later on you know full service restaurant it was about building relationships and you have incredible retention i mean yeah i've been coming year year after year the same people here year after year it's so marvelous well thank you you know um my i have two daughters and my daughters when they were doing one of them was doing the SA for college, she mentioned not just building a community for the guests, but also a community of staff.
18:13And that really, again, is a big part of our, I think that's how we were raised. And we are fortunate to have some really amazing people who are still with us and the people that were here before and definitely come and go. some great staff who really care about service. I always say I can teach you how to carry a tray or make a martini,
18:38Shelley:but you can't teach kindness. You've got to have that to start with. Or consideration. Everybody that I interview in this business says the same thing. You can't teach that. Just the hospitality. It's in the world of it, being hospitable. And you're constantly smiling. It's such a pleasure. Well, having people like you guys, of course, it's easy. Why? So we kicked after we decided, you know, to open it, what we could afford to open a small cafe. We kicked around so many different names. Yeah. The building we were at, it used to be a carriage house. We're like, you know, a long time ago. So we're So all these different names came about.
19:31And I have an older brother who was getting married at the time. And my sister, who's a designer, she's retired now, but she's done some fabulous work. She drew up the invitation with two peacocks. And of course, peacock being, you know, in relation to Iran, Shah's throne was a form of peacock. Oh, I didn't know that. Yeah, the peacock throne. So my parents were always excited to say that we named it Peacock because of the Shastron, which again, he holds dear to us. And we're very, but it just kind of blended really nice together. So those two peacocks that my sister drew on the invitation, and it's just the name kind of worked.
20:16I love it. And then it just rolled off the tongue. Yeah. And we said, okay, it is what it is.
20:22Shelley:And it is so memorable. and all you have to say is let's meet a peacock. It's really great. I like that. I use that. Let's meet a peacock. No, it's true. It's true. I mean, that's what I say. How about peacock at 1230? Done, done. Thank you. What was Iran like when you were growing up? Let me tell you, I am obsessed with this new show. I think it's new on Apple called Tehran. Okay, yes. I am obsessed with it. Have you seen it? Me too, yes. Okay, are you done? I've seen the first season. I haven't had a chance to. I don't know if there's a second. I guess I'm watching the first season right now.
20:59I think they're on third. Oh, my God.
21:02Shelley:I mean, like, now that's what I'm going to do tonight. But anyway, it's very dear because people in the show, you know, regardless of politics, talk about how much they loved Iran pre this new regime. Do you have fond memories of it? I imagine you do. I mean, your father was a pediatrician, which is such a marvelous thing to be. He was a very patriotic man. Everybody still seems very patriotic. Exactly. So that's what Iranian means. We have, although by, I mean, the way it has worked out that we're a Muslim country, But before that, and even through that time, we're very secular in a way. Like where we grew up, we have a very large Iranian Jewish community.
21:57Baha 'i, Christians, different ethnicities, the Kurds where we live in the northwestern part. They were, again, different. And all considered themselves Iranian first. Right, right. And then, so in that regard, I was very fortunate to live through that period because it was such a period of expansion and modernization of Iran.
22:24Shelley:Everybody always calls everything the Paris of this or that. But Tehran was the Paris of the Middle East? Or how would you describe it? I mean, it was, again, I guess that would, yes, resonate, because it was so, it was modern, it was our people culture, and just a Persian culture going back to thousands of years, as we talked about, Noru's and so forth. But the people that we've had that made their mark on the world, you know, in science, math, design, architecture, engineering. I mean, these are some magnificent accomplishments 2 ,000 years ago, 1 ,500 years ago. The poetry, all of these, math, science, you know.
23:21And I think this is sort of actually the result of what's happening now, that the whole generations has realized what we have missed out, what we were, who we were, and what we could be and where we are now. So that has fueled the movement. Whatever is happening, yes, the movement. And rightly so.
23:52Shelley:You're listening to Lunch with Shelly. By the way, I'm glad that we're talking about this and we'll go back to Persia. I have sort of dumb questions, but we can edit them out. But this soup is amazing. Thank you. So what is this soup called? So it's called ash reshte. Ash reshte. Ash means soup. Okay. Basically, we have different types of ash. And then reshte is the long noodle that's in there. So it's very customary that we have it for the new year, which the new year represents the harmony with earth, as the earth is the rebirth of earth, the awakening of earth, going from cold, dark winter into a beautiful spring.
24:39I mean, I love it. Thank you. It's very healthy. And really, a lot of the Persian food, in a way that the combinations are, it's the medicine, I always say. You know, it's not just so much flavors match, but what the ingredients are in there. It's, again, so good for the body. And these are all recipes of hundreds of years.
25:05Shelley:I'm going to take this home with me. Take a picture of your empty plate, or empty bowl. What do you think of this soup? Delicious. I appreciate it. You say it louder. Thank you. Absolutely delicious. Isn't it? But that's, again, part of... The beauty of your culture. The beauty of the culture, the food, the hospitality, and even the Noru's is a very family-oriented, very warm gathering of friends and families that it represents you sit around and the sweets, the food that you have. And ironically, you know, Peacock, we never wanted to, I mean, initially it wasn't meant, and we are not a Persian restaurant, but through these trials and tribulations and events that happened.
25:57One in particular was Maziar was invited and had cooked at the James Beard House. I saw, yeah. 2010, I believe it was, with the DC All-Star team. And on his biography, they saw that he was from Iran. So the next year, they contacted him from the James Beard House. They say, oh, for Noru's, do you want to be the chef, guest chef? And of course, it's such a big honor. Of course. And up to that point, we hadn't really cooked Persian food at Pico. At all? At all. Oh, my gosh. Because we're a contemporary American cuisine and not to mix the concepts and so forth. And back then when my mom was alive or my sisters were, you know, you couldn't match their cooking.
26:49Right, right, right. However, just on a personal note, my mom had just passed, and Maziar saw it as a sign that he got to do this.
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27:00Shelley:Yeah, he was going to take and did he use all of our recipes, of course. So he spent hours in the kitchen coming up with, you know, we have a pistachio soup now on the menu that is just fantastic. I haven't had that because I'm so focused on tomatoes. Sorry. And so we actually kicked off a couple nights a week doing the Persian food just to get the feel and the feedback. And it really took off. Yeah. So hence that became a prelude. Well, and you have hummus here. Yes, hummus. And, you know, like Maziar does the dolmen. He grills it. Right, right. He did that at the James Beard house. some of the and then we do the traditional flavors but sometimes the the look and the presentation it's more of a restaurant full-service restaurant uh look so that kind of kick-started it all and maziar was invited back again another year to cook at the james beard house because he went we sold out the whole townhouse as you know it's three levels and it was just went really great and the second year as well so he was invited there and then uh during the obama years uh they had a big event for the persian new year at the white house oh wow so they asked maziar to consult on the menu and he became very close uh with the staff there and um that went really well And that led it into, during, again, Obama and Mrs.
28:34Clinton, back then Secretary of State, they started this program, Connery for Diplomacy. I love that. It is an amazing program, totally privately funded. And they tapped into the top chefs in the country. and again as the chefs were becoming their own little celebrities and personalities, rightly so, to elevate and highlight internationally American cuisine. So Maziar was one of the first group of chefs that was invited to the program and he did two trips to Sicily on behalf of the US. Yeah. And which that's a great story. And for for another podcast. But so all of these kind of came together.
29:29And during all these years, it brought the sense of, again, Peacock. A lot of us know it as a great neighborhood place. Right. And at the same time, there is a lot of these little international fair and diplomatic fair. diplomatic fare. He has a blue jacket, which only, you know, not a lot of chefs in the country, they get the blue jacket from the State Department. Oh, wow. You know, when they go do the official, official tour. That's really wonderful. So we, again,
30:04we're going through these times, you know, right after that, it was COVID. So that kind of changed a trajectory of the restaurant. Now, currently, again, some more challenges economically and socially. But all together, we really have, I think what we wanted to be was a great neighborhood restaurant. Yeah. And I think people as the testaments to a lot of the guests, we're trying and every Every day it's hard work to reach that goal. Every single day.
30:42Shelley:But here's my first of probably several dumb questions. What is the difference between calling someone Iranian and calling someone Persian? Because of the long history of Iran, both names are used. Are they similar? Yes. Okay. Exactly. So it was Persia before when Shah's father, Reza Shah, took over the country. He wanted to reemphasize the name Iran. It was more of a past name to bring it up. So, to go back to the original group of Iranians that had settled, the Aryans had settled in the region that created the country. So they're synonymous. Synonymous, yes. Okay. And how big is the Persian community in D.C.?
31:43It's pretty big. Yeah. You know, it's a good Virginia, Maryland, D.C. thankfully there is a good amount of highly professional great group of people and I mean
31:57Shelley:we run into them every day doctors lawyers yeah but it seems like a rather large community yes yes and are there particular places of worship or is that also so that's a little controversial I mean not controversial but because of our recent experience with the Islamic regime which is totally misrepresent I think the religion some of us kind of distancing ourselves from practicing the religion. There are mosques. Again, Muslims, they go to mosques. Yes, so they go to mosques. So it's a bit of personal. I think that's a very personal thing. You don't need to go to a mosque to pray to God or church or synagogue.
33:05So we're at that stage where the faith I think for most of us is kept
33:14Shelley:And do you think that Nehruz is being celebrated, or I guess you know that because it's 6 o 'clock there, is Nehruz celebrated in Iran today? Yes. Does it have to be under wraps, do you think, or is it public? As brutal as this regime has been, and their brutality and inhumanity has just gone to extreme level. Particularly yesterday, yeah. It is the people are taking every opportunity to defy the government, to defy the regime. Right. So, like, for example, another celebration right before Nouruz is a tradition that goes back to the Zoroastrian days, before Islam. What is the word? Zoroastrian, the religion.
34:07Okay. It was the first religion that believed in one God.
34:12Shelley:I read this and I had never even heard that term. Yes, so it's a beautiful, again, as people like, you know, like I said, it's very private. No, I'm thrilled to learn about this. It has to do with your kind and good thinking. It has three pillars. you think good you do good and you be good oh I saw that this is so horrible I apologize in the movie about the lead singer of Queen that's what his father always said good thoughts good deeds good thoughts good deeds and be good yeah to be yes so those that was so during in that era not that they were worshipping fire but fire just because of the timeline thousands of years ago fire was very important to civilization of course cook, stay warm so there is a tradition again, I don't know why exactly I love learning about this so you set up small fire pits and you jump over the fire And you tell the fire, my sadness, my sickness, I give to you and I take your warmth and strength.
35:45That's beautiful. It's beautiful. Yeah. So last Wednesday, just two days ago, people in Iran, in different cities, different neighborhoods, they were trying to do this festivity. But they were met with heavy-handed resistance to disperse them, to, again, shoot at them. Because, again, it goes totally against what the religion, what the regime stands for. So, through all these, again, the Arab conquering Iran, they were not able to change this tradition. our language first and foremost which we give all the credit to the Iranian mothers and women who kept the language alive in the household and the that they could not change that's just too big
36:53Shelley:so that's that Persian, the Iranian culture that is so embedded in people. You're listening to Lunch with Shelley. Tell me, who are some of the most interesting people you've met in the last few decades? I mean, I know that that's terrifically subjective. Well, you mentioned at the beginning Jenna Bush. And we haven't, but years after they left, they would still keep in touch. She and Henry, one day she came, she's like, you know we're getting engaged and they used to come together you know um and it was fabulous and her sister barbara you know they used to come um during the presidency of president bush so she's like you know we got to do this thing with my parents but we want to have a party for our friends so back then again the phones were just coming on yeah and they both had a fun reputation, you know.
37:58So I didn't tell the staff. Oh, no. Because she's like, can you please, you know, just keep it.
38:05Shelley:All you said was there's a thing. So I got curtains for all the windows. Oh, wow. And during the shift meeting, I told them, okay, this is who the party's for. And we closed the curtain. And they were so appreciative. I mean, they were just beside themselves that they could comfortably have a gathering with friends and so forth. Did you do it outside on the patio? No, we can't use it inside. And then the other person who really, we love him. And he was a student at Georgetown. Obviously, during those days, we didn't know who he would become. Brad Cooper? Bradley Cooper, yeah. So he came during the first Obama White House correspondence weekend.
38:50Right. And we were busy like this. It was a Saturday brunch. And he came, and I was in the back. My manager came, and he said, Oh, my God, I think I sat Bradley Cooper on table 20. Oh, my God. Table 20 is this table.
39:07Shelley:Oh, funny. It's the most awkward last resource table. He came in. I didn't recognize him first. That was the only table. And he said, Fine. He'll sat there. So, Shelley, I came up. And honestly, it's just an amazing story where, just a footnote, at that time my mom had passed and Maziar would bring my dad every Saturday. They would sit at that table next to us for brunch. So they're sitting there, Bradley's sitting next to, you know, by this table. I walk up and he gets up and he like comes, gives a hug. Like, how are you doing? You fed me through college. Right. And I'm like, oh, you're doing really good.
39:54Because he had seen the little peacock. He graduated in 96, 97, I think. And I said, well, you haven't been doing bad yourself. So it just, and he goes, how is your brother? And then he met my dad. Oh, what a great day. And he stopped by a couple times after when he was in town. Last time was with his daughter. they stopped by to get some food to go back up to New York.
40:21Shelley:That's so cool. It's just, you know, again, and he's a great guy. He's like a good human being. He's also a Philadelphia Eagles fan. Yes, I know. We all have our faults at home. It's okay. It's okay. But, yeah, so that, and obviously from Mr. and, you know, Mrs. Clinton, and I mean how that happened again it's a peacock story because at the little peacock when Clintons were in office Chelsea used to come she was a small one day they called us from this office that we want a private table blah blah blah I'm like huh I wonder who's coming so these two old ladies walked in I mean really old I'm like, I'm just trying to think.
41:18And then she said, hi, I'm Mrs. Rodham, Hillary's mom. I'm like with her friend. And I'm like, oh, my God, so nice meeting you. And what a pleasure. How did you hear about us? She goes, well, I talked to Chelsea. And I said, we'll be in Georgetown. Where should we go? And she said, you've got to go to Peacock. So that was on a Sunday night. I think the next Tuesday or Wednesday, we got a call from the same office that we want the same table Mrs. Rodham had. Security will come. And so it was a little bit more high profile. Right. And I was like, well, this is let's see who's coming. Right. So it was back then Secretary Clinton and Mr.
42:07President Clinton. And it was her birthday.
42:09Shelley:They came to you for their birthday? Oh, my God. She goes, and I said again, what a great honor to have you. And she goes, well, my mom hasn't stopped talking about you guys. So that is, again, who we are. You know, in a way, the word of mouth, the experience, the personal experience, that's what makes it clear. Shab, that speaks so well of you. So Shab, so what are we eating now? This is also lucky, right? Yes. Okay. You're right. Not so much in terms of luck, but just the healthiness and symbolism. Again, greenery, coming of spring, prosperity, good health. Prosperity seems lucky. So it just really blends itself.
43:01And the whitefish, it was always in Iran. Actually, you have a dried whitefish. I think in the years past, the luxury of having fish for most of Iran, because south and north have the seas. Right. But most of Iran, again, it was very unique to have fish in the middle, you know, because of transportation and all that. So it was very luxurious, you know. So that's what, and the herb rice is just, and Maziar again does it with the full service restaurant.
43:40Shelley:I'm tasting the rice. Oh my God. Yeah. It's amazing. Thank you. Persian dishes, I mean, like that soup, it takes so much work. Does it? Because of the herbs and, you know, the cooking. I mean, some of the dishes are pretty complicated and time-consuming, but it's just so delicious. It's so delicious. Well, now I'm tasting the fish. Levon, what are your thoughts? What did you have, the fish or the rice? I just had both. The fish is so good. Thank you. But tell me, if you were going to have lunch anywhere in the world, where would it be and what would you be eating? I know. Oh, Shelly. I know. It's a great question, and I have to ask absolutely everyone.
44:34Shelley:Oh, and for lunch. If you could have lunch anywhere in the world, where would it be, and what would you be there? And you can use your imagination.
44:45Well, because I work a lot, and it's very hard to actually have a lunchtime off. Right. First and foremost, I wanted to be with my wife. I hope she listens because that's a great answer honestly it's very few and far in between but that's one of those things sometimes when we're on vacation that's the most part that I enjoy actually eating with my family and sitting down like I see a lot of people do
45:15Shelley:as they come in it's very enviable and where would you be? Oh, my God. There is, I mean, so many places. I know. Well, name a couple. Would you like to go back to, have you been back to Iran? I haven't been back to Iran yet. Would that be a wonderful place in your fantasy to have? Is your wife from Iran? Yes, yes. And did she have a similar experience? She did, but her parents, actually, her dad went to, you know, college in France. Oh, wow. to do law. And that's where they ended up. So as I was saying, people go where they're familiar. So actually she grew up in France. Love it, yeah. And then she was doing her master's here, and that's how we met.
46:07And quick little side, funny side story. So with the little peacock, I didn't know, but I had met my future mother-in-law first. Oh, no.
46:18Shelley:Did you like her? So I didn't know back then. Yeah, but so apparently when she was visiting her friends in D.C., her friend said, oh, my God, this new place opened. They have great croissant and wonderful espresso. Wow. So just like Europe. Right. Which is a great, you know, compliment. Right, right. So she, afterward, you know, she said, my God, I've been there a couple times because our friends, whenever I was in D.C., we used to come and, you know, it was again small and very quaint. And then I actually met her here, met my wife. She was with a group of friends. At this spot? Well, at Peacock, yes.
47:06And then this is the table where I proposed to her. You're kidding me! That's so wonderful. Yes, so this is our lucky table. It is the luckiest table.
47:16Shelley:It's the best table in the restaurant. Yeah, no. That is a wonderful story. You are listening to Lunch with Shelly. You know, recently we visited Dubai. My sister, you know, lives there. And it's just a level of quality of food and service. It's tremendous. I've not been. They just, and they really have done an amazing job. And unfortunately, through this time that we're experiencing in history, they've been hardest hit or attacked by Iran because they represent what the regime is totally against. They represent a part of Islam that is inclusive, that is tolerant, that is progressive. but still maintaining their moral values.
48:14So they were one of the first countries that signed the Abraham Accord. So they've been getting the grunt of the attacks. But they really have brought, again, the modernization, the quality of entertainment, coronary, at many different levels, really nicely to blend in, you know, to become part of one. So I really, I mean, I appreciate their effort and what the world could be like. because you see, you go and like old Iran, you have different people from cultures and background and, you know, that it used to be a lot more tourism. I mean, it's still tourism is their high part of their commerce.
49:17Right. But there's a lot of expats who live there year round. I mean, 90%, 95 % of their populations are expats.
49:25Shelley:Really? Yeah, and it's becoming just growing and growing, which, again, I hope they make it through this tremendous time. I feel like they will. I don't know why I say that, but I appreciate that explanation because I feel like we were all surprised that Iran was bombing its neighbors. Yes, the Gulf countries. And you think that that's the reason. I mean, I wish my parents were alive to see this day. You know, they really, because their life was, like, my father-in-law, mother-in-law, and a lot of the older generation, their lives were just uprooted in a short period of time.
50:08So it's really interesting. You got this collaboration of Israel with Arab countries. It's unbelievable. You know, like if you would say Iran is going to attack, you know, Israel and Arab Gulf states, you say, no, that would never happen. But I think they're just hopefully at a desperation point. Maybe they're just trying to inflict pain on whoever is around them and just like they've been doing for decades. but I think at this moment people are rising up as they have every three, four, five years for different reasons. You know, they have risen up, they've been put down brutally and then last one was the Women's Life Freedom Movement which was just again depictive of what a strong, strong women generation we have that they just resist this regime.
51:21Shelley:It's beautiful and heartbreaking. Yeah. And unfortunately not enough is spoken about it. It's becoming more normalized at some level. Oh, it's Iran. I know, things get normalized. That's how they do it, you know, unfortunately. But I think this is the time. Does it feel different? It feels different. It doesn't feel like a protest, but it's a movement. Right. You know, again, one of the people that I look up to and adore, Reza Pahlavi, you know, he comes here. I know. I was hoping at some point I would love to meet him. So he's doing it the right way. He's approaching this in a way that I'm going there as a transitory, as an intermediary leader.
52:16And then he has an 18-month, two-year plan to keep the country running, to govern. Because you need water, you need electricity, you need food. People need the basic needs. to, you know, he has set up apparently his judiciary, his economic team, his, you know, so for it to function and then to be able to put the future of Iran to vote for the people. So there is a lot. It's that seems to be further down.
52:51Shelley:But there is a person which we never had before, you know, during other. But again, there is unfortunately a lot of forces that they have their hands in and let's see how. How much brain space does this take up for you on a daily basis? A lot. And I want to stress the point, not to get too much into the conversation. For Iran, it's one thing, but globally, I think no one should lose the sight of the fact that this is a global issue. It's a global terrorism. It's a global regime. So are we at the moment in history that we can make a difference in that? That's again for the forces to decide. That's the real question.
53:41I think Iranians are very resilient. I mean, I hope and we wish better things come out, but globally, this is a moment in history that can define a lot of things. So let's see.
53:59Shelley:But listen, thank you so much. You are incredible. Thank you. I think so highly of you. I appreciate it. I'm so grateful that we could be here on this special day. I appreciate it. Thank you for making the time. I'm happy we were able to connect like this. And what a celebratory and gorgeous day. Thank you. So everyone, I'm so glad you've listened to this. Peacock Cafe is fantastic. So if you haven't been here, which is probably no one, you definitely have to check it out. Please check out other episodes at www.lunchwithshelly.com or wherever you get your favorite podcast. And in the meantime, and as always, peace, love, and lunch.
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From the publisher
Welcome to the latest episode of Lunch with Shelley with today’s special guest Shahab Farivar. Shahab is the co-owner, along with his brother Maziar, of the very famous and beloved Peacock Café, nestled in the heart of Georgetown in Washington DC. Anyone who has eaten here or even walked by the restaurant has seen Shahab’s smiling face -- since he is the front of the house for the restaurant -- while his brother the chef oversees the great menu and delicious food that Peacock Café is well known for.
Since Shahab is originally from Iran, we made a particular point of scheduling our podcast to coincide with the Persian New Year, marked by Norouz, which is a 13-day holiday during which the people of Iran celebrate the vernal equinox by exchanging gifts and feasting on symbolic foods. It is a 3,000-year-old holiday tradition - and it was an absolute joy to celebrate with Shahab on a simply beautiful spring day.
Grab a chair with us to learn lots more about Norouz and the traditions surrounding it, including the incredible food, and tuck in for our conversation about Shahab’s journey from Iran to the U.S., the current situation in Iran, how Peacock Café has grown into the mainstay Georgetown restaurant that it is, and lots more!
Check us out at www.lunchwithshelley.com or wherever you get your favorite podcast, and as always, Peace, Love and Lunch!
