Misfortunes To Purpose: The Carnivore Leader with CZ Lopez

2 Mar 2026 · 35 min · 15 chapters

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Podcast Summary: Mick Unplugged - Episode: Misfortunes To Purpose: The Carnivore Leader with CZ Lopez

Podcast Overview Podcast Title: Mick Unplugged Host: Mick Hunt Description: A podcast aimed at inspiring leaders to go beyond the conventional 'Why' and focus on their driving force, 'Because.' Each episode explores principles of Modern Leadership, offering practical advice and real-life stories to help listeners create meaningful impacts in their lives.

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Episode Overview Episode Title: Misfortunes To Purpose: The Carnivore Leader with CZ Lopez Guest: CZ Lopez Episode Description: CZ Lopez, an inspiring leader and former Air Force para-rescueman, shares his journey of resilience and commitment. He discusses his experiences in the military, the importance of humility in leadership, and how adversity can fuel personal growth.

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Key Takeaways

The Fluidity of "Because"

  • Core Motivation: Your 'because' evolves over time and requires ongoing reflection.
  • Temporary Existence: CZ emphasizes that our time on Earth is limited, urging listeners to make every moment count.

Adversity as Opportunity

  • Growth from Failure: Misfortunes should be viewed as lessons that strengthen character and drive.
  • Mindset Shift: Failure should be embraced as a catalyst for personal development and motivation.

Humility as a Leader's Anchor

  • Candid Feedback: Effective leaders remain humble, acknowledging the dangers of ego and surrounding themselves with honest voices.
  • Avoiding Ego: CZ warns against becoming a victim of one's own success by failing to accept constructive criticism.

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Sound Bytes

  • "My because is simply because we're temporary. Our existence is numbered. We don't know how long we have on this earth to make a difference. So we have to make every second count."
  • "I looked at failures as something that was going to make me stronger... a chip on my shoulder to just go ahead and keep on pressing forward."
  • "If it's going to be a book about you, buddy, I think you need your face in the front."

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CZ Lopez's Journey

  • Early Life & Military Service: CZ's path from feeling lost in college to finding purpose in the Air Force as a para-rescue man.
  • Leadership Evolution: Transitioned from a special operator to a senior enlisted leader, emphasizing taking charge rather than shirking responsibility.
  • Lessons from Adversity: Shared personal setbacks that shaped his leadership style, including the importance of hard work and resilience.

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The Concept of "Carnivore Leadership"

  • Meat Eaters vs. Grass Eaters: A metaphor distinguishing proactive leaders ("meat eaters") from complacent individuals ("grass eaters").
  • 20 Silver Bullets: Principles developed over time to motivate diverse teams and ensure mission readiness.

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Structure of the Book

  • Narrative Style: Personal stories interwoven with lessons to engage readers.
  • Collaboration: The book was crafted with input from both CZ's personal reflections and feedback from his wife, Janet, to ensure clarity and impact.

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Conclusion Final Thoughts: CZ stresses that leadership is about experiences and growth. The conversation emphasizes the importance of humility, accountability, and the proactive mindset necessary for effective leadership. The episode encourages listeners to identify their personal 'because' and leverage it for meaningful impact.

Connect with CZ Lopez

  • Instagram: [@therealczcolonlopez](https://www.instagram.com/therealczcolonlopez/?hl=en)
  • LinkedIn: [@ramoncolonlopez](https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramoncolonlopez/)
  • Book: [Carnivore Leadership: Taking Charge Instead of Taking Shit](https://a.co/d/4gE8AxW)

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Additional Resources

  • Mick Hunt's Book: [How to Be a Good Leader When You’ve Never Had One: The Blueprint for Modern Leadership](https://a.co/d/2wwLDE8)
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Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and consider how they can apply the principles discussed in this episode to become more effective leaders.

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Chapters

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Discovering Purpose and Motivation

2:21 to 3:44

Ray shares his motivation and the deeper meaning behind his actions, emphasizing the importance of making every moment count.

“Thank you so much for that introduction, man.”

CZ's Journey: From Misfortunes to Leadership

3:45 to 7:47

Explore CZ's journey through personal challenges and how they shaped his leadership path in the military.

“And I know from time to time your because changes.”

Adversity and Growth: Learning from Failures

7:48 to 9:26

CZ discusses how failures and adversities have contributed to his growth and leadership philosophy.

“And college, to me, wasn't going to do that at the time.”

Lessons in Humility from Leadership

13:13 to 14:00

CZ reflects on the importance of humility and the expectations that come with being a special operator.

“We talk a lot about trends on this show, and for the past year, AI has been everywhere.”

The Importance of Humility in Leadership

14:29 to 16:55

Discover how humility is essential for effective leadership and avoiding ego traps.

“I believe that one of the biggest lessons that I have learned is the value of humility.”

CZ Lopez's Leadership Journey

16:59 to 20:58

Hear about CZ Lopez's path to leadership and the lessons learned along the way.

“Bro, so let's talk about you and your leadership journey.”

Understanding Carnivore Leadership

21:01 to 24:10

Explore the concept of 'carnivore leadership' and its implications for success.

“But the failure is always yours because you are responsible, but never fail to recognize at certain stages of the project or the mission, the people that made it happen.”

Crafting the 20 Silver Bullets

24:17 to 28:00

Learn how CZ Lopez structured his leadership principles into actionable insights.

“And we got the call to go out and rescue her.”

The Journey to Writing a Book

28:00 to 29:06

Learn about the process and inspiration behind writing a book from a paper.

“Just make it short, sweet, and to the point.”

Creating Meaningful Content

29:07 to 30:20

Discover how to turn experiences into meaningful chapters for a book.

“And I said, nope, never thought about it.”
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Book Cover Decisions

30:21 to 32:08

Understand the significance of the book cover and author branding.

“And the reason it went so fast, I didn't use a ghostwriter.”

The Importance of Leadership Teaching

32:09 to 33:00

Insights on leadership and the message behind the book's subtitle.

“That beret needs to be in there because that's really who made you who you were, the career field of pararescue.”

Leadership in America

33:57 to 35:28

Discussing the current state of leadership and its challenges in society.

“So CZ, man, I'm honored that you did this.”

Finding CZ Online

35:29 to 36:11

How listeners can connect with CZ and find his book.

“Before I get into my rapid fire questions to get you out of here, where can people find and follow you, sir?”

Rapid Fire Questions

36:12 to 38:07

CZ shares quick insights on personal interests and beliefs.

“What's a weekend passion project that you have?”
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1:22Mick:Like first off, this book, if you're watching, Carnivore Leadership, subtitled, Taking Charge Instead of Taking Shit. Just that alone, you know you're gonna listen to this episode. So we go into his because, we talk about failure and the lessons learned there because most people get that wrong. And then at the end, we talk about the most favorite thing he loves about Robert Irvine, one of our best friends together. So, ladies and gentlemen, without further ado, this is my good friend, the carnivore leader himself, Ray CZ Lopez. Buckle up. You're listening to Mick Unplugged, hosted by the one and only Mick Hunt.

2:01Mick:This is where purpose meets power and stories spark transformation. Mick takes you beyond the motivation and into meaning, helping you discover your because and becoming unstoppable. I'm Rudy Rush, and trust me, you're in the right place. Let's get unplugged.

2:20CZ Lopez:CZ, how you doing today, brother? Hey, doing good, Nick. Thank you. Thank you so much for that introduction, man. I really appreciate it.

2:28Mick:Nah, man. I truly love everything about you. You know, we met through Robert Irvine, the Robert Irvine Foundation. And it was like moment one, right? Like we're sharing an adult beverage, right? and just talking about life. And I was like, who is this guy? And then I get to learn your story. I hear so much about you. And like, you've been like a mentor, an accountability partner, a friend, man. So I just owe you so much. So thank you so much for being here, brother.

3:03CZ Lopez:And then some people just come into your life to where you make that immediate connection, and a lot of it is because of the drive and purpose that you have in your life. And that's a common theme that I have seen with the people that we surround ourselves with Robert Irvine and the foundation. But yeah, likewise, man, you know, it didn't take long to figure out. I was like, you know, this dude is part of the pack, man. And let's go ahead and keep on pressing forward.

3:34Mick:Absolutely. Absolutely. And CZ, you know, on this show, I always ask my guests, like, what's your because? What's that thing that keeps you motivated, that keeps you held accountable, like that thing that's deeper than your why? And I know from time to time your because changes. So in the season that you're in right now, what's your because? Why do you keep doing the things that you do, brother?

3:58CZ Lopez:My because is simply because we're temporary. You know, our existence is numbered. We don't know how long we have on this earth to make a difference. So we have to make every second count. You have to make every relationship, every interaction count to ensure that we set up the next generation for success. That's always been my because and it keeps me driving forward, man.

4:25Mick:I love it. I love it. And, you know, I'm going to get into the book in a second, because as I've read it and for all of you that are watching or that are listening, the book is right here. If you're watching, I'm pointing to it. But Carnivore Leadership, go get it now. It's going to change your life. There's a lot of lessons. But before we get into that, man, let's talk about your career. Let's talk about what shaped you to where you are today. So for those that don't know you, right, highly decorated. I've never met a person that's in our circle, that's in our pack, that doesn't just oogle over CZ, right?

5:00Mick:Like, talk to us about your journey a little bit.

5:03CZ Lopez:I think it was a series of misfortunes that actually led to the path that we ended up taking. And when I say we, I have to go ahead and give credit to Janet quite a bit on that. Yeah. But was going to college, going nowhere really fast, decided to enlist in the United States Air Force. Started being stagnant by virtue of the job that I took at the time. And I mentioned job, not duty, because I don't think I really aligned with my initial duty, which was transportation. It wasn't really challenging me, but it wasn't until I became a special operator, specifically an Air Force pararescue man. that I found my purpose in life.

5:48CZ Lopez:From that moment on, every day, every day seemed like it was never work. I was looking forward, regardless of whether the situation was going to be unpleasant or something meaningful. It was the same drive and motivation to show up. And that was because something needed to happen at the time. So I ended up doing the special operations bid for about two decades. And then I got another call to be a senior listed leader, meaning to step away from special operations and become a figurehead for larger organizations. I was not too crazy about that prospect, mainly because I love my tribe. I love being a PGA.

6:30CZ Lopez:I love saving lives. And I love the team that we had around us, operators, support, civilians. It didn't matter. They were just phenomenal people. Um, but the need for leadership in those other echelons, specifically the higher echelons was something that appealed to me. And I thought that I had something to offer. Uh, I thought that I could do it different than the average. And I thought that I will go ahead and give it the same, uh, level effort and rigor that I gave special operations that eventually led to being selected as the highest enlisted ranking member in the entire Department of Defense, Department of War today, the senior listed advisor to the chairman.

7:16CZ Lopez:But it was that that series of misfortunes. And we can talk a little bit bad, a little bit more about what that bad means that eventually put you in a position to where you can make the most difference.

7:30Mick:So let's talk about the bad then. Let's talk about the misfortunes. Like for those that are watching or listening, like break that down a little bit. Yeah.

7:38CZ Lopez:So it begins, obviously, with not having a purpose in Bridgeport, Connecticut and going to Second Heart University. It was a very tough spot to be because as a 19 year old, you're trying to figure out what the hell your life is going to look like. And college, to me, wasn't going to do that at the time. So I just went ahead and went blind into military service. You know, I knew that, hey, you know, there's a purpose in there. You know, you're serving your nation and you're going to get the things that you require the most in your life at this moment, which is independence, discipline and that purpose.

8:15CZ Lopez:Right. Being part of a bigger team, not just an individual. So when I got into service and I was given the duty of a transportation specialist, I was sent to a rockliner station on Greece. And I got into trouble right away just because of my wild ass ways. Got an article 15 that is a nonjudicial punishment for adverse behavior. And I got demoted. I almost got kicked out of service there at that moment. And that was the first wake up call to realize that nothing is owed to you. You have to earn your keep every day. You have to follow the rules and you have to make sure that you exemplify those rules if you want to be a cut above the rest.

9:02CZ Lopez:And I fell grossly short at that moment. So that was wake up call number one. Wake up call number two, in order to fix that one, I needed to find a purpose. And that's when I decided to join the ranks of pararescue. And I didn't make it through the first try. I was 147 pound kid. My legs were not really all that strong. And man, I just couldn't keep up with the finning at times, swimming with those big rocket fins. And I got a setback. I was given an opportunity to come back at a later day. And it was at that moment that I had my second wake up call. It's like, all right, so you really have to work harder than the average in order to make it.

9:44CZ Lopez:Because there were some guys that were just breezing through the program and I was having a tough time. So what did I do? I went ahead and parked my car. I started riding my bicycle everywhere to go ahead and get that leg strength that I needed. And I started swimming at least five days a week just to go ahead and make up for my shortcomings. By the time I got back to the training pipeline, the instructors were like, holy crap, what the hell did you do, man? You must really want this. And that was success story number two out of adversity. Then throughout my tenure as a senior enlisted leader and as a pararescue man, there have been many other failures that ended up becoming synonymous with lessons.

10:27CZ Lopez:I never looked at a failure from then on as something that was going to hold me back. I looked at failures as something that was going to make me stronger, that was going to give me further drive, more motivation, a chip on my shoulder to just go ahead and keep on pressing forward. And that became probably like the greatest lesson learned to where in several bouts of adversity, I found opportunity to go ahead and prove myself that I was better than who I was the day before.

10:57Mick:I agree. And you and I, we've had this conversation, right? Right. Adversity reveals character and failure shows that drive that you have. Right. And I totally believe that a lot of folks don't want to accept the lessons that you learn, not just about yourself. Right. But but just the lessons within the lessons sometimes. You know, I think social media today and we could talk about just media in general, they always highlight the wins. And so I think from a societal standpoint, we just assume that like everybody who wins was born a winner and they never go through anything. But but you were proof that like in order to get there, in order to climb the mountain.

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14:29CZ Lopez:I believe that one of the biggest lessons that I have learned is the value of humility. And I will explain what I mean by that. When you become a special operator, you get put in a certain pedestal, right? So you have a certain standing. You have a specific uniform that is unmistakable. People expect certain things about you because you have gone through one of the most rigorous training pipelines and crucibles that the Department of War has to offer. And you have that aura about you that this is the person when the chips fall that is going to make things happen. Um, sometimes those things can get to your head, specifically when you start ascending through the ranks and people are shyer and shyer about telling you, no, you're doing something wrong.

15:19CZ Lopez:Everybody tends to agree with you. You start getting a lot of yes men around you. And that is very dangerous because if you start believing that hype, you're eventually going to become what many call a victim of your own success. And that is not a victim of your own success because you continue to do good. It is just that you're a victim of success to where your credibility is going to diminish over time because you become an egomaniac and you decide to go ahead and start disregarding the input and the candid feedback. and the criticism of people that matter. So humility is something that always reels you back.

16:00CZ Lopez:And I think that one of the best equalizers that I had in my life when it comes to humility was the presence of Janet. Janet being around me, she was basically the one with that pin to deflate my head when it was clearly starting to go ahead and get blown up and ballooned up. and eventually I started checking myself when it came to it you know if something didn't feel right when I ask input about something I will ask many questions and I will encourage people hey just the emperor's got no clothes just give it to me as it is just candid and honest feedback that is the only way that we're going to progress and if you lack humility you are never going to get there because eventually you're going to believe the hype.

16:49CZ Lopez:You're going to become another egomaniac and you start disregarding people that are actually trying to help you be better than who you were yesterday. Amazing, amazing. Bro, so let's talk about you and your leadership journey.

17:05Mick:And this is going to start to parlay into the book, right? Again, one of the most dynamic leaders that I know is CZ Lopez. And I'd love for you to just talk to us about when you realize that you were a leader and a leader of people, because you've been in some very high state situations, right? Your teams have been in situations that the average everyday human doesn't go through and it's kind of shaped you in the leadership world. So talk to us about when CZ identified, damn it, I'm a leader.

17:38CZ Lopez:I think the first taste of that, and I believe I wrote a letter to my sister, she may still have it, that when I was in basic military training, I could barely speak English, right? And I still keep in touch with my drill instructor, by the way, Hank Herrick. And one of the squad leaders, a squad was basically a row of beds. So all of the beds are properly lined up. And at the head of that row is the leader for that squad. One of my squad leaders got set back, basically got fell out of our BMT class, basic military training. So the opportunity came for the next squad leader. And it was Hank Herrick that made the decision.

18:24CZ Lopez:It's like, hey, Colon Lopez, you're going to be the next squad leader. Now, why did he choose me? And we had these conversations, he and I, years down the road. He was paying close attention to the way that I carried myself. Now, I wasn't perfect, but I had potential. And there's the difference between perfection and potential, because I think potential will always win. At that moment that he made the decision, I struggle a bit with it. Like, OK, fine. So the majority of these guys are making fun of me because I can barely speak English. I got to make up with something to be able to make sure that we are successful.

19:08CZ Lopez:and actions. That's when I started relying more on actions versus words. So I started making sure that they had all the information they needed. I started to make sure that we were in time, that we were passing the inspections, those that were struggling with certain things. I started putting the time to help them out. And it was in that process that I wrote that letter to my sister and I told her, I was like, Hey, you know, wow, I think I'm finding a place to exist here. Especially this thing about being in charge of things, having a responsibility for other than self that I'm really, really gravitating towards.

19:44CZ Lopez:And I believe that that was the first time that I figured out that maybe this leadership thing is something that is in you, that you can grow over time. And by the way, I don't believe that leaders are born or any of that crap. I believe that if you put yourself in certain situations, you either rise above or fall under and it's all about your courage to keep on pressing forward that eventually makes you the leader that you become. And that never changed throughout the years. When I became a power rescue man, it was the same thing. You know, I always decided to take charge. I never took like the subtitle of the book, taking charge instead of taking shit.

20:24CZ Lopez:That's where that comes from. Because I learned early on that when you start taking charge of things, you have control of the actions that actually equate to the outcome. And if those actions and that control is positive and empowering of others, you get to do magnificent things. And that was a constant drum meet all the way throughout my career to where I realized, all right, own it, be responsible, be accountable, and empower people to achieve the goal. Oh, and by the way, the failure, and this is a cliche, But the failure is always yours because you are responsible, but never fail to recognize at certain stages of the project or the mission, the people that made it happen.

21:12CZ Lopez:And it's never about you. It is just about the people that ended up getting the task completed.

21:19Mick:I love it, brother. I love it. And I think that's the perfect segue into the book now. Right. So carnivore leadership, let's talk about one. What does that title and mantra mean to CZ? So for those who are listening and watching, why the name of the title? Talk to us about that principle.

21:36CZ Lopez:This was late 1990s, early 2000s. This is before 9-11 hit. And I was assigned to a SEAL team in Virginia Beach, one of the most elite units in the nation. And I have this great leader, our boat crew leader. So the team was broken down, not into troops, but into boat crews. And I was part of Boku 3, led by one master chief, Jim Henske. And Henske always used to classify people into two buckets, the meat eaters or the grass eaters. Naturally, the meat eaters were the go-getters, the ones that will make things happen. The grass eaters were the lazy, complacent oxygen thieves that never got anything done, that needed consistent guidance and basically hand-holding to get anything out of them.

22:26CZ Lopez:And that stuck with me because I started paying close attention. I've always been a student of human dynamics. I always like to be aware of my surroundings. And I started paying attention. Then I started saying, oh, definitely a meat eater. Oh, bonafide grass eater. So I decided to go ahead and start sharing with other people outside of the command, basically the Joint Special Operations Command. And I use that mantra, you know, to help shape culture, right? All right. This is the price of admission to be an honorable member of this particular club. And if you fall short, you're going to be in this particular bucket.

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23:05CZ Lopez:And that is not shaming. That is just making you aware that you're not doing enough. So do not expect the same rewards that this group is going to get, all right? unless you decide to start getting with the program and be more proactive. And that's what the mantra is really all about. It's about being proactive, owning, having the courage to move forward, even at the price of failure, in order to learn. And when I got assigned as my first duty as a senior enlisted leader outside of pararescue at the first special operations wing, that's when I decided to write the 20 silver bullets. And that was to motivate the masses.

23:47CZ Lopez:I mean, you're talking the cooks, the administrative people, the financial people, the maintainer of aircraft, you know, the people that dealt with military affairs. I mean, you name it. It didn't matter whether they held a gun in combat or a pencil. I saw the need to make sure that we created a culture of warfighting because at the end of the day, the mission of the wing was to answer the call when the chips fell. And that became pretty evident upon the first two weeks of assignment at the first special operations wing. When we got the call from President Obama to go ahead and rescue a hostage, Jessica Buchanan, who also, like you, ended up putting a quick blurb on the book, on the preface of the book.

24:30CZ Lopez:And we got the call to go out and rescue her. And we ended up rounding up about 130 people from the first special operations wing on a Saturday, deployed to Somalia, got the hostages and brought them back. At that moment, I told them, I was like, hey, look, so this 20 silver bullet things that I gave you is not lip service. That is an expectation of who you need to be, specifically to be successful in this environment. If you're not ready, you will fail. And I'm here to prevent every single one of you from failing. But I can only do so much. It is your personal responsibility to play by the rules, to abide by the standards and to do whatever the nation needs you to do.

25:11CZ Lopez:And it was from that paper that eventually 20 years later, we end up with the book that we have today. That's freaking amazing.

25:20Mick:And this book, man, like it, it challenges you to think it challenges some of the principles that you may have. right but but what i love about it is it's storytelling and you know this right like i i read the book in a day and i just sat there and i was just like man like i'm i'm learning lessons i'm getting it through storytelling and i don't care who you are what industry you work in how many people report to you. Like the book is also very practical, right? Like there are moments that you can just pick up in the book and go. So I'd love to get your thought process on just how you engineered that in the book because your story, and I didn't, I mean, yeah, when we talk and we have an adult beverage, you have some amazing stories, right?

26:17Mick:Like I'm not even going to hold that you are one of the best storytellers that I know, but to put that in words and keep people captivated is a different thing, man. So talk to us about just how you structured and engineered the book itself.

26:29CZ Lopez:I have to give credit to Janet once again, because the original concept, clearly, you know, I kept these notebooks, these small sky notebooks, and I will, I was always taking notes. And those notes were nothing more than the bookkeeping of my character, right? Right. The salary of that bookkeeping was nothing more than the honor to serve. And the currency was credibility. And every single failure was a withdrawal on that investment. But unless you kept the books, you couldn't realize when you were falling short the most, what you were doing at the time and how to prevent it. So I started keeping copious notes.

27:12CZ Lopez:About 13 notebooks later, I decided to extract some of those lessons learned. And I started shaping them into mission accomplishment and readiness. And that was a way to sequentially highlight the company you kept, the actions that are expected to you. How good are you at rule following standards? How well do you treat other people? How serious do you take your purpose and duty? How in tune are you with yourself to be humble? So I sequentially started putting all those things together and I started writing. When I gave it to Janet the first time, she bled all over that paper. She's like, good Lance, Ray.

27:56CZ Lopez:You're just freaking chasing your tail about talking too much about stuff. Just make it short, sweet, and to the point. People don't have the time to read all this blabber. They probably don't care about it. So how about you make it two to three sentences per silver bullet and then put it out there? I listen like every good husband. I listen to her advice. And that's the paper that you saw, the 20 silver bullets. Yeah. Now. It was supposed to be local for the first special operations wing. But what I got to see year after year was that more and more people will mention the paper. He's like, oh, I got your 20 silver bullets.

28:36CZ Lopez:I just used it for this professional development session. I just used it as a lecture over here at this professional military education keynote that I did. And it was both officer and enlisted and some civilians even. So this went on for 15 years plus. And eventually when I was getting ready to retire, I was approached by a publisher that said, hey, I read your paper and I think you have something here. Have you ever thought about writing a book? And I said, nope, never thought about it. You know, that was then. This is now. It's like, hear me out. So what if you were to make each silver bullet its own chapter and then put a personal vignette beyond the five second soundbite that you have in the current paper to enlighten the audience on why that quote is important to you?

29:30CZ Lopez:And I think your experience is going to be critical to the success of the book. So that triggers something in my head. I talked to Janet about it and we went back to the drawing board. And the way that I wrote it was one chapter per day. I will take a silver bullet per day, whether I was on a flight, going to some engagement, whether I had some time in the morning before working out or at night. If I was feeling creative, I decided to just go ahead and shut everything off. And then you decide to concentrate on that one chapter. Much like the first paper, I gave it to Janet to go ahead and take a look at the first few rounds.

30:09CZ Lopez:And she bled all over it again. She gave me some guidance. So I went ahead and took that guidance from her and then went back to the drawing board. And in a matter of about 45 days, I had the entire book written. And the reason it went so fast, I didn't use a ghostwriter. I wanted it to be my voice, my writing for my first real book. Because I had a children's book with Mike Cirelli, Scarlett's Big Shot. But by the time the book was written, I gave it back to her and she read it much like you in a day. It was a flight from Dallas-Fort Worth to Raleigh-Durham. And in a span of two and a half hours, she read it.

30:49CZ Lopez:And it was her feedback that actually gave me confidence that this was going to be of value. And she said, well done. I learned things about you that I haven't known in over two decades. I laughed. I almost cried. This is it. You hit the sweet spot on this one. Yeah. At that moment, I went ahead and gave it to Amplify Publishing Group with the help of Naren Ayal and his great team. And we just went through the mechanics, put it together, the layout, you know, all of the things, every single detail that I consulted with them about, I wanted it to be meaningful. Like I originally didn't want my photo on the front cover.

31:34CZ Lopez:I wanted it to be just a silver bullet because that was the book. and the advice of some people like Janet, Mike Cirelli, Navy SEAL teammate, Wayne Fisk, and a couple of others, including Robert, they're like, if it's going to be a book about you, buddy, I think you need your face in the front. And I was just like, you know, that's the humility on me. It's like the book is really a generational commitment to set up the next generation for success. It's not about me. It's like, no, but you're writing it. So if you want something to be recognizable, You need to be on it. That beret needs to be in there because that's really who made you who you were, the career field of pararescue.

32:15CZ Lopez:So we decided to go with that photo. And then, you know, of course, it's like, do you smile? Are you angry? And that was a very just different kind of photo. And I just put it out for feedback from people. And we decided to just go ahead and stick with that. But everything from the small silver bullet thing, I wanted everything to have meaning just because that's exactly the way that I approached the book and the paper from the beginning.

32:42Mick:This is a great looking man right here. So if you're listening to this, definitely go straight to the YouTube and you need to see this. But no, this is an amazing book, man. A lot of endorsements on the book. A lot of great words. I love that you signed this copy and not just signed it, but you gave me a nice little note. that I'll forever appreciate, man. And again, for those that are watching, for those that are listening, Carnivore Leadership, you know, CZ kind of gave you the subtitle, taking charge instead of taking shit. And again, it doesn't matter who you lead, where you lead, this book should be your new blueprint.

33:25Mick:And so CZ, I'm going to do this for the first 20 people that messaged me silver bullet, because there's 20 silver bullets. You're going to get a free copy of this book. How about that?

33:38CZ Lopez:That is awesome, man.

33:40Mick:I'm paying for it. So you're not giving away free. I'm paying for it. So I'm going to go buy 20 copies. If you message me silver bullets, I'm giving this to you. And you're going to see the messaging, how easy this is to read, but more importantly, how it relates to you as leaders. So CZ, man, I'm honored that you did this. This book is amazing, bro.

34:05CZ Lopez:No, thank you. Thank you. And, and again, you know, I started the book with, uh, with a Mark Twain quote that, you know, experiences, uh, the bread, the blood, the heartbeat, you know, of the, of the essence of any book and author writes, you know, and, uh, then I mentioned that the book wasn't about theory. It was about experiences. And I think that that is really an approach that more people with similar backgrounds as us that have had the honor and opportunity to influence others to be better. We need to do this more often. And I believe that leadership is in decay in America. Everybody's looking for a finger to point.

34:49CZ Lopez:The divisions are so rampant right now to where I do not want to associate with this group because I'm part of this group. And we need to go ahead and put all of that to rest, man. We need to put a wrecking ball to some of those freaking walls that are being built, you know, amongst each other. And I think that one of the best ways that we get after that is just to go ahead and start talking a little bit more, to learn from each other, you know, gauge the differences and see the value of being different. And the more we do that, the better off we're going to be as a society. And this is just my small contribution to that.

35:23CZ Lopez:So thank you for wanting to put that book in the hands of other people.

35:27Mick:Absolutely. I'm definitely going to do my part. Definitely going to do my part. Before I get into my rapid fire questions to get you out of here, where can people find and follow you, sir?

35:38CZ Lopez:So my website is up and running carnivoreleader.com. The book is available, Amazon, Amplify Publishing Group, and Barnes & Noble. The links are included on the website and you can follow me on Instagram, Facebook and LinkedIn.

35:56Mick:I love it. I'll make sure I have links there for everybody. Definitely, again, make sure you buy in the book, whether it's Amazon, Bars and Noble. Go visit your local bookstore. Show your local bookstore love as well, too, to make sure that you're supporting them. CZ, you ready for this rapid fire?

36:12CZ Lopez:Let's go.

36:14Mick:You sure? Let's do it. All right. So take leadership out of it. What's a weekend passion project that you have?

36:23CZ Lopez:Weekend passion project, physical fitness.

36:27Mick:All right. You and Robert, you guys kill me every time you see me. I'm working on getting in shape. I'm back in the gym. I'm back in the gym. What's one myth about veteran leadership that people either get wrong or they don't know the truth about?

36:45CZ Lopez:Assuming that the higher a person gets in position, that it equals the effectiveness of their leadership. Some people are merely appointed and there are no leaders at all.

36:56Mick:I totally agree. Totally agree. What's one of your favorite ways to unplug after a long, busy day?

37:04CZ Lopez:Music. Always has been. Even in combat. Coming back from missions, I will either listen to Bob Marley Legend or Moby 12. Those were my two go-to wind down.

37:18Mick:I like it. I like it. What's one thing about Robert Irvine that you truly love?

37:26CZ Lopez:His charm. That guy can walk anywhere and light up the room, man. Just being around his presence just energizes you. I really love that little freaking British guy.

37:38Mick:I love him, too. I love him, too. So as the story of CZ is being written, what's one word that you want to define your legacy?

37:49CZ Lopez:Humility.

37:51Mick:You got that quick, man. Most people stumble on that one. I love it. That is definitely you. Well, CZ, man, again, you know I love you like a brother. can't wait to see you soon we'll see each other really soon can't wait to break bread man just proud of who you are but more importantly just that humility dude I love it because that is you right like you've never met a stranger you make yourself on equal footing with all people and you are just the charm that you talk about Robert has you have that too bro you have that too You got it. So thank you for being you. For all the viewers and listeners, remember your because is your superpower.

38:37Mick:Go Unleash It. That's another powerful conversation on Mick Unplugged. If this episode moved you, and I'm sure it did, follow the show wherever you listen. Share it with someone who needs that spark and leave a review so more people can find their because. I'm Rudy Rush and until next time, stay driven, stay focused and stay unplugged.

From the publisher

CZ Lopez is a true force of nature, a visionary leader whose career spans groundbreaking work alongside culinary titan Robert Irvine and a dedicated mentorship transforming the lives of veterans. From humble beginnings that led him to find his purpose as an Air Force para-rescueman, CZ's journey of resilience, humility, and unwavering commitment has shaped him into an extraordinary voice in leadership, inspiring countless individuals to embrace accountability, proactively take charge, and make every second count.


Takeaways:

  • The Fluidity of "Because": Your core motivation, the "because" that drives you, is not static but evolves with the seasons of your life, demanding constant reflection and alignment.
  • Adversity as Opportunity: Misfortunes and failures are not roadblocks but pivotal lessons and opportunities for growth, strengthening character and fueling future drive.
  • Humility as a Leader's Anchor: True leadership is grounded in humility, recognizing that believing your own hype leads to ego and diminishes credibility, while candid feedback fosters genuine progress.


Sound Bytes:

  • "My because is simply because we're temporary. Our existence is numbered. We don't know how long we have on this earth to make a difference. So we have to make every second count."
  • "I looked at failures as something that was going to make me stronger, that was going to give me further drive, more motivation, a chip on my shoulder to just go ahead and keep on pressing forward."
  • "If it's going to be a book about you, buddy, I think you need your face in the front... that beret needs to be in there because that's really who made you who you were, the career field of para rescue."


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