2935: Build A Brain That AI Can't Replace with Jim Kwik

31 Aug 2026 · 1 h 30 min · 34 chapters

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In short

Jim Quick returns to discuss “Limitless Daily,” arguing that brain health depends on deliberate cognitive effort, not “cognitive offloading” to AI and devices. He claims AI can remove friction, reduce challenge-driven neuroplasticity, increase misinformation risk, and contribute to “digital dementia” (outsourcing memory and thinking). He contrasts this with building “cognitive reserve” through physical activity, mental challenge, and social connection, and proposes practices to improve “cognitive flexibility” and “cognitive antifragility.”

Guest backgrounds

Jim Quick is a learning/memory and brain expert and author of Limitless Daily (Instagram: K-W-I-K). Hosts are Sal DiStefano, Adam Schaefer, and Justin Andrews (Mind Pump).

Key claims

Challenge drives neuroplasticity (“challenge equals change”); cognitive reserve can preserve function despite Alzheimer-like plaques; social connection and mobility protect cognition; AI should be used as an augmented partner after “build before borrow,” not as an answer provider; teaching and applying what you learn strengthens memory.

Notable examples

The 1986 “Aging with Grace” nun study (plaques without cognitive impairment); “calculator/GPS” as historical offloading; cognitive offloading via AI-written generic content; MIT ChatGPT essay study (less engagement and recall when AI writes work); “WALL-E” as a cautionary future; cognitive training reps like memorizing lists/seed phrases and using the “BUILD” acronym (Brainstorm, Understand, Imagine, Leverage AI, Decide).

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Chapters

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Welcome Back Jim Quick

1:45 to 3:02

Discussion on Jim's recent experiences and thoughts on the studio.

“It's flavored naturally, and it tastes amazing.”

Welcome Back Jim Quick

3:05 to 3:17

Discussion on Jim's recent experiences and thoughts on the studio.

AI and Cognitive Fitness

3:17 to 5:36

Exploration of AI’s potential negative impact on cognitive abilities.

“I love, out of every, I'm on this book tour, and this is like the best studio ever.”

Digital Distraction and Memory Offloading

5:36 to 8:50

How digital tools impact memory and critical thinking skills.

“Digital distraction, which is just getting worse.”

Historical Context of Technology's Impact

8:50 to 10:46

Comparing technology’s impact on memory and thinking throughout history.

“And four people took out their phones to divide by 10.”

The Importance of Human Connection

10:46 to 12:18

Discussing the role of social connections in mental health.

“So current innovations, one of the biggest drawbacks, in my opinion, is people are seeing each other less.”

Cognitive Reserve and Mental Gym

12:18 to 14:02

The concept of cognitive reserve and its necessity for mental fitness.

“and more do their friends work out, eat right, read, study, entrepreneurs, whatever that is.”

Understanding Cognitive Reserve and Its Impact

14:02 to 16:56

Explore the concept of cognitive reserve and how activities can enhance brain health.

“like racket sports, reaction time, thinking speed, strategy, memorization, ballroom dancing.”

The Role of Cognitive Flexibility in Life

16:56 to 19:42

Learn about cognitive flexibility and its importance in adapting to changes.

“They, they, they invented the backbone technology for digital photography and they shelved it, you know, and they, then they're extinct blockbuster video.”

Deliberate Discomfort and Cognitive Growth

19:42 to 21:54

Discover how embracing discomfort can lead to cognitive antifragility.

“It makes this very convenient, but then I don't get my steps in, right?”
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The Identity Crisis in the Age of AI

21:54 to 24:14

Examine the potential identity crisis that can arise from AI's impact on careers.

“beliefs, you know, like create an incredibly strong argument counter to, to challenge ourselves.”

Building Cognitive Resilience with AI

24:14 to 28:00

Learn strategies for maintaining cognitive strength while using AI tools.

“and you have a community, a team or in the military, right?”

The BUILD Framework for Problem Solving

28:00 to 29:42

Learn how to use imagination and AI as tools for solving problems.

“And before I prompt it, I'll just get clear on what that, what that is.”

AI's Limitations and Human Responsibility

29:42 to 31:30

Understand the limitations of AI and the importance of human decision-making.

“It's AI could compute and process information faster than a human will ever be able to do.”

Human Qualities in an AI World

31:30 to 34:08

Explore how to maintain humanity and purpose in the face of advancing technology.

“a big gulp of soda or whatever happens to be there.”

The Cost of Convenience in Modern Life

34:08 to 36:05

Examine the consequences of a technology-driven lifestyle on mental health.

“I feel like the people are going to win that competitive edge is the only constant.”

Learning, Teaching, and Applying Knowledge

36:05 to 39:08

Discover the importance of applying what you learn and teaching it to others.

“You never have to see another human being.”

The Impact of AI on Cognitive Engagement

39:08 to 42:00

Learn about the effects of AI on cognitive engagement and learning effectiveness.

“Because like, I have a rule for every hour I spend learning something, you know, I don't know where I came up with this, but it was just like, just for me, it made sense.”

AI's Impact on Cognitive Engagement

42:00 to 44:40

Explore how AI affects cognitive engagement and learning processes.

“Like, like AI is writing people's books and their posts and everything else.”

The Dual Nature of AI Usage

44:40 to 47:20

Discuss the contrasting ways people use AI and its implications.

“Well, you're using it, like you said, like a partner versus like an answer, which I think a majority of people use it almost like a sophisticated Google search, right?”

The Role of Trust in Learning

47:20 to 52:40

Understand the importance of trust in personal and educational relationships.

“And it's like, Whoa, oh, you got to understand how to prompt this correctly if you want it to give you a less bias, but it's giving you a bias based off the way you're prompting it.”

Challenges of Modern Education

52:40 to 56:00

Analyze the challenges posed by technology in education and parenting.

“It's painfully slow in comparison to the kind of stuff that kids watch today.”

The Challenge of Boredom and Digital Distraction

56:00 to 58:20

Explore the challenges posed by screens and the importance of analog experiences.

“And it's just, but sitting in boredom is, is that there's a challenge.”

The Power of Morning Mental Input

58:20 to 1:02:40

Learn about the significance of the first moments after waking up and how they shape your day.

“And I was like, we looked at it, it was like two and a half hours.”

Daily Practices for Mind Management

1:02:40 to 1:08:20

Discover practical daily exercises to enhance focus and mental clarity.

“And until later on, you have all these tabs open because people are opening them for you, whatever.”

Designing a Day for Success

1:08:20 to 1:10:01

Understand how intentional design of your day can lead to better productivity and emotional well-being.

“And I feel like success or transformation doesn't come from just occasional bursts.”

Finding Flow and Purpose

1:10:01 to 1:12:08

Discover the significance of identifying daily goals to enhance productivity and flow states.

“And then I asked myself what had to happen in order for me to feel that way, for me to say these words to my wife.”

The Impact of Meaningful Stress

1:12:09 to 1:13:40

Understand how meaningful stress can lead to a sense of purpose compared to unfulfilling tasks.

“when you're most impressionable, then I feel like we're on default.”

Reframing Sleep and Productivity

1:13:41 to 1:16:58

Learn how shifting beliefs about sleep can enhance performance and productivity.

“where you were like, oh yeah, I think this is right.”

Overcoming Barriers to Action

1:16:59 to 1:19:52

Explore strategies for breaking down tasks into manageable steps to foster action and motivation.

“So I imagine when you're coaching people, you probably do before you really start giving advice or get going, you probably take inventory of what their day looks like and what, you know, right.”

Cultivating Daily Reading Habits

1:19:53 to 1:22:16

Understand the importance of daily reading and how small steps can lead to significant changes.

“Like somebody doesn't read 30 minutes a day.”

Morning Routines for Mental Clarity

1:22:17 to 1:24:00

Discover effective morning habits that can enhance focus and set a positive tone for the day.

“It tends to set me up later in the day without the goal of being that.”

The Importance of Memory and Identity

1:24:00 to 1:27:16

Explore how memory shapes our identity and the significance of remembering who we are.

“For his 70th birthday, I was with his wife and his daughter.”

Living a Life Worth Remembering

1:27:16 to 1:28:08

Learn about the concept of living a meaningful life that leaves a lasting impact.

“But, you know, and I just feel like life is difficult for one of, like, it's, change can be scary, right?”
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3:17Jim, welcome back. Thanks for having me, guys. Yeah, it's been a little while. I love, out of every, I'm on this book tour, and this is like the best studio ever. Oh, thank you. Absolutely, it has so much depth to it. I'm sure everything here has personal meaning. It does, and we're definitely all four of us. As you could tell, what's behind everybody, very different. I mean, one of the unique things about our podcast friendship business is that as good as we all get along, we couldn't be more different from each other. I love that. I absolutely love that. So I got to ask you a question just to open this.

3:50And it's about AI. Is it making us dumb? I think it has the potential to certainly do that. So, you know, your brain is like a muscle. Like it's an organ, but it's a muscle. It's use it or lose it. And I feel like AI is removing all the friction and the effort. Like you wouldn't go to the gym and have your friends lift weights for you. Right. Right. But it's kind of like what AI is doing. It's kind of doing the heavy lifting. and we don't get the effort. But when you're building cognitive reserve or cognitive fitness, it requires effort. Neuroplasticity is our brain's ability to remodel itself, but it's solely based on challenge.

4:31You build a muscle through novelty and nutrition. Same thing with your mental muscles. So my challenge, my big challenge with AI, and we all use it, right? It amplifies and it scales, but it only amplifies and scales what people bring to it. like their own natural human intelligence. So I think human intelligence is more important than artificial intelligence by far. Like somebody could use AI, it's no longer a competitive advantage because everybody has access to it. Just like information is not a competitive advantage, we all have access to it. Somebody could use AI to make a nice social media post.

5:05Somebody else could use it to make the next, you know, huge wellness fitness app, you know, a billion dollar venture, but it's the human that makes the difference. You know, my thing is there's this term called cognitive offloading. And that's where, you know, last time I was here, we talked about digital. And I wrote about this in Limitless in 2020 that forced supervillains to your mind, digital deluge, which is the overload. Right. Which is why it's so important to be able to learn faster, read faster, everything. Catch up, keep up, get ahead. Digital distraction, which is just getting worse.

5:38right every every like share comment cat video app notification social media alerts is driving us to distraction that's why focus is like your attention we live in the age of attention this is the number one currency digital dementia which is outsourcing our brains like our memory to our devices you know our devices keep our to-dos our calendars our grocery list phone numbers and then i termed the fourth horseman as digital deduction back then and that's where it's actually thinking for us. And that's the big challenge, I think. Well, imagine a society that's offloading and cognitively surrendering their thinking to AI.

6:16I mean, think about what happens to our own critical thinking, our ability, our judgment. I mean, it makes you so susceptible. Imagine a civilization or society that can't think for themselves. Think about the misinformation. Think about how we could be easily manipulated by other people's authorities, agendas, marketing, media, and everything. And then even if that happens, then even if everyone's thinking the same way, then everything they're using AI is going to be derivative. It's going to be so generic, right? I mean, you even see this now with the AI slop that's out there. That's just like a lot of noise.

6:50It's like empty calories. Like you eat, like I feel like today, we talk about in society, especially Americans, overfed, undernourished. But what about mentally? We're like overfed with all these empty calories from social media, you know, doom scrolling. And there's very little nourishment. Yeah. You know, what's interesting about what you're saying, Jim, is when I think of how we outsourced activity, okay, so we did that a long time ago. Being sedentary is a default. Being active is something you have to seek out. So one of the side effects of that is really poor physical health. I don't think people realize that not exercising their brains, right?

7:30Not thinking and remembering can cause mental health issues and actually deterioration of the brain. I think what we think is, oh, I don't remember phone numbers anymore, but those neural networks are gone. And if you do that enough times, you actually start to get some, you get atrophy. How is this different? How is this different than what we've seen historically when the calculator came, the computer came? I mean, even before that, But like, I mean, date back to spoken word, let the date back to humans 300 ,000 years ago, communicating with grunts and, you know, started using words and everything to the year.

8:08That's 300 ,000 BC to 3000 BC until like people started writing. Like people would have to pass on stories, you know, from memory. Like the whole Odyssey or the Iliad was communicated. It was an oral tradition. Yeah, absolutely. Through parables, everything before the written word. And so technology has always changed the way we think. When we started writing things, we started externalizing our memory. Printing presses allowed you to share ideas, you know, more, you know, at scale a little bit, not like today, but libraries, you know, calculators. And not that I went, the other day I was at a dinner and they brought the bill and it was 10 of us.

8:50And four people took out their phones to divide by 10. you know no you think it's a joke but you see some things like but that's the challenge it's just like and some people say like it's very convenient absolutely but you don't want to be crippling like that like math has a certain value in terms of even base logic right like i feel like our society would be really much better off if we just had common sense and basic you know basic logic um and kind of common sense but um gps if a third-party device tells you when and where to turn. We didn't need that before. I'm not even talking about hunter-gatherers.

9:27I'm talking about before GPS. We'd have to use your visual spatial intelligence. You didn't need to know where you are in time and space. But now people don't even know. The other day I was in an Uber and we went through the worst way just because he was following this thing and I just needed to be dropped off right here. But we just default our thinking. And so, yeah, technology and then with AI, it's more sedentary because machines are doing the work for you. And I feel like today, you know, there's a hitting cost to modern convenience. Like the whole world is optimized for comfort, you know, and then what happens to your muscles, physical and mental, where you don't have to strain or stress or challenge.

10:09But, you know, the primary rule here is with challenge comes change, right? You know, with struggle comes strength, but we don't have that deliberate, difficult, discomfort physically or mentally. It feels like it was historically almost like a slow death or slow adaptation. But with AI, it almost feels like it's coming on so much faster. And so, which makes me think that the repercussions of it could be far more dangerous or outlasting or egregious. I would agree. And the other thing that pops to mind too, Jim, is while you're saying this, past innovations did not reduce our communication, contact, collaboration with people like current innovations are.

10:57So current innovations, one of the biggest drawbacks, in my opinion, is people are seeing each other less. So I door dash, I do everything online, I don't go to the store. And that, I know the data on that very well. When you're not around people, you're not nearly as well. Removal of human connection. We had on our podcast the director of that Harvard study that 80 year plus longitudinal study on happiness and longevity. They said fitness is very important. Diet is very important. What's just as important is connection. It wasn't just your romantic partner. It was the depth of connections because again as hunter-gatherers we're social creatures.

11:41Right. Like even like a human being, you ever been around like a calm person, like a friend, family member, and you just feel calm. Your nervous system regulates that person. I mean, I mean, we get courage sometimes from, you know, someone we care about their their belief in us. Right. We're social creatures. You know, we also have these mirror neurons where we're constantly imitating the people around us. That's why that phrase, you know, we're the average of the five people we spend the most time with, you know, fitness wise, health wise, financially and other. because we start mirroring, imitating the words, the actions, the thoughts, the character, the habits.

12:16Whether someone works out, it's less to do with their genetics and more do their friends work out, eat right, read, study, entrepreneurs, whatever that is. Do you think, and I think I know what the answer is because this is kind of what you do, but today if someone wanted to be physically fit, they have to, for the most part, schedule workouts, go to a place or facility for this. It has to be organized. I got to organize something that allow that, that where I, where I'm physically fit, where I train my body. Cause if I don't, my, my daily life, none of it's in there. It's just not there. Do you think we're going to have to do this with our, our brain power, with our mental health?

12:55We actually have to. I mean, I would love to have these, these mental gyms, right? Like, you know, the, these brain gyms, if, if, if you will. But I mean, obviously, you know, like I think, so there's definitely, I mean, there's huge connection between physical activity and, and, and, and, and mental performance, right? And like, you know, we know all the benefits. I'm sure you covered this a lot and, you know, in terms of resistance training and what it does for the brain, all the benefits, the BDNF, the dopamine, the serotonin, the endorphins. I mean, we are, the primary reason you have a brain is to control your movement.

13:28That's the number one reason we have brains. And as your body moves, your brain grooves. And so physical activity is absolutely paramount. Like I, um, I have a family member years ago, uh, older seniors, she, she broke her hip. And when she was confined to a wheelchair, her mind followed, you know, and she didn't, she unfortunately passed shortly after that, but mobility is absolutely key. That's why leg strength, you guys know, this is so very important, especially for cognitive health and performance when she loses mobility. And then that's why the, some of the top activities outside of working out and going to the gym will extend your life, like racket sports, reaction time, thinking speed, strategy, memorization, ballroom dancing.

14:12And notice all these activities also puts your mind and your muscle, but it also is social activities. You do it with a partner also as well, which is a huge benefit. So there's this term called cognitive reserve. You could have two seniors and they could be biologically very close, you know, their brains. But one is independent, you know, and the other one is losing their memory. You know, they are very forgetful. They need assistance. And what scientists are thinking is that cognitive reserve, cognitive reserve is like, is the difference. It's like a retirement account. It's like you're putting, you're investing in how you build that retirement account, like we would do financially to be better when we're older, is through new learnings.

15:01It's all physical activity, mental activity, and social activity. Jim, I just today brought up an old study, and it specifically speaks to cognitive reserve. It was studied in 1986 on over 600 nuns. And the reason why they picked them was because they lived such similar lives. So there wasn't a lot of things they had to control necessarily. And what they found, there were a few things they found, but there were a few nuns in there particular. One woman, I think her sister Mary, I think was her name. She was 101 years old, great cognitive performance. She died shortly after. Because of the study, all of them donated their bodies to the science.

15:40So they looked at her brain. She had beta amyloid plaques, like somebody who had advanced Alzheimer's. But her cognitive tests did not reflect this. And the way that they explained this was that she had tremendous cognitive reserve. It gave her that cognitive resiliency that allowed her to maintain independence, even though she had all of the telltale physical symptoms or physical attributes of Alzheimer's, which is pretty wild. That's so wild. I mean, because we all have cancer cells and all these things in our body, but whether it gets expressed, it's kind of like I was just talking to Max Lugabier, and he was talking about how for Alzheimer's, your genetics loads a gun, but your lifestyle.

16:22would pull the trigger. Right. And so we all have these things, you know, in our physiology and in our bodies, but it's like, you know, cognitive reserve is, is huge. The study, I actually have, I have an actual copy of this that was on the cover of Time Magazine back then. And I have a, I have a copy. Yeah. So you knew about it. The study is called Aging with Grace. Yes. Which is so, which is so amazing, but they were having discourse, you know, debates. They were having deep conversations, reading a lot, writing, and it added years to their life, but also life to their years, which is, which is, it's just huge.

16:54That's cognitive reserve, right? Being active, like, you know, cause, cause what's the ultimate is cognitively rigid besides the longevity aspects and just having your faculties when you're older, even businesses, you know, a cognitively rigid, uh, you know, business is like Kodak, right? They, they, they invented the backbone technology for digital photography and they shelved it, you know, and they, then they're extinct blockbuster video. I mean, we can go on and on that's cognitive rigidity. Cognitive flexibility is your ability to be pliable, like be able to do mental parkour, be able to, you know, be flexible, fast, limber, you don't break, you bend.

17:33Um, and I think that's a lost art, you know, and like building cognitive, especially when most people are consuming rather than creating. and then the algorithm now is you don't, I don't know, like I'm not on social media a lot, but I tend not to see a lot of people I follow, more of whatever people engage with, but the challenge is whatever you engage with, you see more of. And so then you're in this echo chamber because you're only seeing the perspective of the stuff you're engaging with and you never have flexibility because you never get to see the opposing view, right? Like even using AI to point out your blind spots, I think is incredibly valuable.

18:08Some people would say intelligence is measured by, you know, be able to change your opinion based on new data, you know, and be able to be flexible like that. Cause a lot of people aren't cause they're, whether their ego is built into it, they spent this amount of years of study as part of their identity and they stay rigid. And that, that, that's a challenge. I think in an, I think we live in the age of adaptation, you know, ultimately human beings, our bodies adapt, right. To stressors, right. There's, you know, there's, uh, there's heat adaption, right. Temperature adaption. Like it's built in nature.

18:41Like you introduce, we were talking about my, our young, my young kids, we have a three and a half and a one and a half year old, but you introduce them to soils and bacteria and then their immune system is more robust. So I talk about something called cognitive antifragility, where I think cognitive resilience is like bouncing back to where you like under stress, you bounce back to a default setting. Cognitive antifragility for me is bouncing forward. It's like you're building a muscle. It adapts and then what was hard becomes easy. And then you pursue more and more hard. But I don't think people are mentally challenging themselves because of technology is doing a lot of the lifting for us.

19:17Give me some examples of some exercises or things someone can do to improve their cognitive fragility or to become not so fragile. Yeah. And so I think deliberate discomfort is so very important in a world that's optimized for comfort, that's optimized for convenience. Like you mentioned DoorDash and Uber. Like if I have to go 10 blocks away to run an errand at the bank or whatever and I call Lyft, that's technology like AI. It makes this very convenient, but then I don't get my steps in, right? An elevator, if your apartment or office is on the eighth floor, an elevator is a form of technology, but then you don't take the stairs, right?

19:57So I feel like, I don't think that AI you know and specifically because I see most of the lifting for most people like I was always my rule even as I use artificial intelligence is to build before I borrow I want to build my own intelligence before I borrow from AI but certain things that you could do to increase your cognitive anti-fragility and your cognitive flexibility let's talk about flexibility is studying something outside your field is incredibly valuable like having hobbies you like you notice some of the highest achievers they have they have dedicated other interests because that allows them to be more creative and problem solve and build and innovate because they have more references and distinctions from from other things i noticed that when i had i used to own a training studio and at one point towards the end i had these really high performing clients and it was interesting to me because these were people who had very demanding jobs like it was you know brain surgeon or heart surgeon and they also were like classically trained pianists or i had one pilot or something yeah i had one guy was an anesthesiologist and he's like he was a he got trained uh as a bartender uh just so he could learn how to make craft like like hobbies and i'm like man where do you get the time to do this but it must be a part huge huge i mean it's like like the whole like da vinci like he was a scientist and he was an artist.

21:18He could juggle. He has all this other interests. And I feel like to be flexible, you need perspective and you need to be able to have distinctions. You become less one-dimensional. There's a great research book called Range about the power of a generalist. You could specialize in your career and your studies. Become a master in that, but still being a generalist and having base knowledge about a lot of things allows you to be more whole. Or even if you're going to use AI, you know, have it, have it create an argument for what you're proposing, you know, in terms of your beliefs, you know, like create an incredibly strong argument counter to, to challenge ourselves.

21:59But I feel like, you know, it's important to have, what's the phrase? It's like strong opinions loosely held, right? You could change because who wants to be, I doubt anyone listening here as the same exact beliefs and thoughts and, you know, as they did 10 years ago, hopefully, right? Otherwise, where's the growth, right? Hopefully we have some beliefs, you know, that we would be embarrassed to even talk about, you know, otherwise if we're exactly the same. It's just like when somebody says, oh, I have 30 years experience in fitness or health or sales, and you really have a conversation. And because you guys have distinctions in those areas, like maybe they only have one year experience that they repeated 30 times.

22:37There's no growth. They just kind of mailed it in every single time because your brain, you know, this is 2 % of your body mass, but it is an energy hog. It uses 20 % of the energy and the vitality. I work with chess players, and they can burn upwards of 6 ,000, 7 ,000 calories just sitting like this all day because your brain uses. And that's why people don't think because it is a high-energy activity for people. And then if AI is going to do it for you, and then the other crisis besides cognitive offloading and cognitive surrendering where we're not using those muscles anymore, I think is an identity shift.

23:15You know, like what happens, like there's this barbell economy where the weights are on both ends. It's like that AI might not affect as much leadership on this side or, you know, things that require more physical HVAC, massage therapists, hairstylists, right? But the barbell here, the thin part that's really going to be hit, coders, right? Writers, visual designers, graphic designers like here. I mean, I just saw, what was it? A radiologist. Like AI could detect like a thousand times better than the human eye. So like what happens, you spent years of all this schooling and 10, 20 years in your career doing this thing.

23:56And all of a sudden AI could do it faster and more accurately and better. Then there's an identity crisis. It's like, I was at the Superbowl. I do stuff where the NFL alumni and like what happens when somebody's trained or vets, right? Like what happens when you are focused in this and you have a community, a team or in the military, right? And then all of a sudden you're moving on to something else. Identity crisis. Yeah. And then that's going to be a big challenge with AI because it's changing the way we work, the way we live and how we see ourselves. I mean, where's your purpose? So we need people identify themselves as their career.

24:32Yeah. Two things that come to mind. One, as you're talking about ways to improve your, or to be anti-fragile cognitively, I'm thinking like one of the best ways to do this is surround yourself with people and talk with them, especially people who might have differing opinions or people who are, who enjoy discussing without getting offended. I think that's great because you're going to automatically get hit with things you can't counter right out the gates or that you don't anticipate. And it's going to give you, it's going to kind of help strengthen that muscle in you. So that comes first. And the second question, the question I have for you in regards to AI, you said you use it.

25:07I'm curious to how you use AI. Like what do you, what do you specifically use ai for um in the ways that you know don't damage your cognitive strength i mean the same way that i that i as a memory trainer you know remember names and facts and figures and all that stuff right i like i would do even when i started and this is my you know 53 i've been like almost 35 years you know as i'm as doing focus exercises or i would do memory exercises for example yeah you know people forget what they read they forget like Like what room at the hotel, the room number, like I would, I would practice memorizing a license plate when I'm driving, or I would practice memorizing a grocery list, even though I could, you know, easily write it down.

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25:47You know, I would memorize, you know, something simple, like the seed phrase, whatever happens to be. So those, those reps count, right? Just like, you know, when you steal reps, you know, throughout the day, you're making your coffee and you do, and you do some squats and you're triggered that way, right? You steal those reps. Same thing with those mental reps. I was always looking for opportunities to hone my memory because I didn't want it to just kind of fade. Right. Especially because, you know, my grandmother passed Alzheimer's when I was seven and my brain injury and my learning difficulties.

26:15With AI, I created an acronym for you guys because I like acronyms because if someone's listening, like they're driving and they're working out, they can't write it down. So before I go to AI, I'll do I'll do certain things. And I said, you build your own intelligence before you borrow from AI. and so the B stands for brainstorm. So before I even go to ChatGPT, Klauge, I mean, whatever it is, I'll brainstorm my own ideas before, right? I'll kind of get a little mental warmup around this. The U is understand and this is specifically what I mean. I think people are optimizing a lot of their, like we ask AI with these prompts, right?

26:54We engage, but before we ever did that, we were prompting our own mind with the questions we're asking all the time, right? Does this make sense? How do I learn this? You know, how do I reach this goal? Whatever it is. And I feel like a lot of times we're optimizing for the wrong question, right? Like it's very different with like, oh, how do I hit, you know, how do I get, you know, whatever amount of followers are being, whatever, as opposed to like, I don't know, Peter Thiel's book, zero to one. How do I hit my 10 year goal in the next six months? It forces you asking, you asking a question.

27:22You have to, you can't work harder, right? There's a great book, 10X is easier than 2X, basically saying, because 2X you could, you your way to two X, right. In terms of money or whatever you do, but 10 X, you can't possibly effort that. So you have forces you to think differently about it, right. To get there. And so understand means like really understand what the problem is and define the problem. Einstein, and I don't know like how people credit this and it's attributed Einstein that if he had an hour to solve a problem, he would spend 50 minutes really understanding the problem, defining the real problem.

27:55Right. And so I would say understanding. So I would be thinking about the problem myself. And before I prompt it, I'll just get clear on what that, what that is. The I in build is imagine and imagine, you know, and so I said, again, imagination is more powerful than knowledge. This is where I'd come up with three answers to that question before I go to AI to just give it to me. Right. Um, and so like, and I, and I would ask, I would do thought experiments too. Like a question I ask myself all the time, let's say I'm dealing with the problem or whatever. and I would say like, how would a five-year-old look at this problem?

28:29Like how would they solve it? Because it's often the elusive obvious, right? Or how would somebody 10 times smarter than me look at this problem? Or an individual, like a mentor in my life, I would think about how would they look at this problem? And so I feel like that's very useful in terms of imagining solutions to your problem. And then the L in build is leverage AI. And then you could go to AI, but I don't give it, I personally don't go there for answers. I use it as a more augmented intelligence where it's like a creative partner. I'll use it more to say like, to stress test my idea. To point out the blind spots or the cognitive biases here or to argue against what I'm brainstorming or thinking about.

29:13Because I feel like that's, because I think a lot of AI is just placating to you. It can make the dumbest person feel smart because it's just like, oh, what a great idea. And it just, but it's not. And so, so much misinformation, how that, that intelligence is aggregated through Reddit through, I mean, just like, it's just, so I would say leverage AI, you know, after you do that. And then the D in build, it's then you decide. Because I just want to remind everyone who's listening, because I'm sure everyone's using AI. It's AI could compute and process information faster than a human will ever be able to do.

29:48That's just fact. I'm not going to debate that. but ultimately human beings their human intelligence have to decide what this information means which of this is important right what to do with this information because also ai doesn't have any responsibility it has no stakes in like what it's giving you as opposed to humans where you know we decide something and then we're responsible for that outcome so i feel like and also ai they're using it for therapy they're using it for coaching and i totally get that and we have that in our programs that we've trained our you know in our speed reading memory.

30:21Like we've downloaded all the, you know, all of this stuff that I've created. You know, but I think one of the challenges like AI doesn't have bedside manner. It could feign empathy. It could feign compassion, but it doesn't know how to like console a grieving child. It doesn't know what it's like to ask for forgiveness. It doesn't know what it's like to have heartbreak or anything else like that. It hasn't had a human experience. So it could feign it, but it's synthetic, right? And so I just feel like my optimistic view, this is my optimistic view, because this is really weird, because on the way here, the person next to me on the plane was watching this movie, WALL-E.

30:59Yeah. That movie was so sad. It was incredibly sad. And I didn't, I didn't have the earphones in, but all I remember seeing, because I haven't seen it since it came out is just this future, right? Where it's like, everybody is morbidly obese. They're sitting in these pods that are just kind of going everywhere, you know? Yeah. And then the one, the scene I saw was like the, one of these guys fell out of his pod, you know, and then he needs like five robots to pick them up because he couldn't even have the ability to get back in there. And then right in front of the guys, everyone there is like screens, you know, and then a big gulp of soda or whatever happens to be there.

31:37And that, that's a scary, that's a scary future. My optimistic view is, because everything's driven by money, I would say in the workplace, my optimistic view is if we can't out-compete process like AI, then it's going to force us to be more human. I think one of the most interesting conversations to have today is that I think we're living in this story where how do you remain deeply human? What does it mean to be human in a world of AI, right? Art of an age of AI. And I feel like it's going to force us to get better at the things that make us human because, you know, I'm all for AI automating things like lower test things that I don't want to deal with.

32:14Like, you know, my inbox, my account, like all those kind of things. But, you know, only if it frees up energy and focus to do like other stuff. Right. It's like we do our annual event for community for ours for 19 years now and all Limitless Live. And years ago, we had Rod Roddenberry, who's the son of Gene Roddenberry, who created Star Trek. And I saw him there, and I brought him on for Fireside Chat because his father had this vision of the future that with technology, right, you had a tricorder that could diagnose any health challenges. You had replicators that could make food. There's no disease.

32:50There's total abundance because it can make everything. So money is just – it doesn't really need money. So what are they doing? They're out there exploring. They're doing higher level things with their energy, time, and attention. So what I'm hoping for in a world of AI to be relevant, to be compensated in the workplace, it'll force us to be more human. And that's an acronym that I put in this book. So H is heart. I really feel like leaning into emotional quotient, empathy, storytelling, compassion, everything that makes us more human, EQ, in a lot of ways is more important than IQ. right? The U is understanding, going back to asking, you know, like why, right?

33:30Understanding, curiosity, you know, comprehension, you know, like real deep understanding. I feel like that's a human quality. I think the M is meaning, like purpose, like going back to identity. I think people should be really leaning to purpose, especially because purpose, having some kind of purpose, I'm not saying just life purpose, it gets you through adversity, right? It gets you through hardship. It gets you through difficult time, having a real reason. Like, you know, like, you know, who's counting on you to show up today, either clients or kids or whatever it is. So I think people are going to really have to focus on what lights them up, you know, and gives them drive and fire.

34:08The A in human is adaptation. I feel like the people are going to win that competitive edge is the only constant. Nobody knows what the future is going to look like 10, 20 years from now. They just don't. But change. There'll definitely be change. So our ability to adapt like human beings are good at, I think that's our superpower. Our ability to learn things, unlearn things that are no longer true or updated to relearn things also, to be cognitively flexible in the marketplace, but also flexible with our bodies and our minds. And then the N in human, I use the word nexus to fit the acronym, but it's all the social skills, leadership, sales, influence, coaching, parenting, all the things that the social aspect, because it's not just your neurological networks, it's your social networks.

34:57And so I feel like if we start leaning into that and we start developing our judgment, our curiosity, our creativity, our critical thinking, I feel like then we could usher in an AI revolution or evolution, a new human renaissance where it would force us to be able to do more things, the science and the art of that. I share that optimistic view. Although I do believe, because I think it's human nature, that we'll go through a lot of pain first. Because I think to your point, if AI goes the direction we think it is and we have this kind of Star Trek type future where things can be made for us, the money becomes less important.

35:39Everybody can 3D print what they want or have what they want or go where they want. It will force us into looking at purpose. But what will come first is higher depression, higher suicide, because they'll think that consuming more of that stuff is going to solve it. They'll find it's an empty hole and pit. Because technology is just making life so easy. Like, it's not like we have controlled temperature, controlled light. I mean, everything is so easy. You could order on app. You're right. You never have to see another human being. And so I think there's a big cost for that. Because the thing, when we're looking at first principles and like nature, like you can't buy a fit body.

36:17You have to earn it, right? Every single day. You can't buy a great relationship, right? You can't buy the things that really matter in your life. You know, it requires effort. So whether it's your body or your brain or your business, whatever it is, you know, and we can't be upset by the results we didn't get from the work we didn't do. You know, like so many people are, you know, doing this mental masturbation. They love like learning on podcasts or listening. And I'm calling people out because I'm a coach. but they hear the same thing but they're not doing anything with it and that's the challenge and from a memory standpoint like I'll make this really really clear there's this forgetting curve you learn something and two days later 80 % of it's gone you hear it on a podcast you read it in a book you go to a conference or whatever fitness event whatever it happens to be coach it's gone and the reason one of the reasons why it's gone is that you're not using it and the mind will prune and delete because whatever you whatever you focus on and you do and you say and you think and you behave then you're telling your nervous system, this is important.

37:13Let's preserve this, right? But if you're not doing something with that information, then it's just going to get rid of it because you're only going to strengthen the things that are important to you. You know, what's a good hack with that is, you know, when you learn something, to talk about it. Just to talk, teach it, talk about it, discuss it. Fumble it around. I mean, I got my trainers today that I'm sitting down and I'm coaching and teaching. And one of the things I talk about as a young trainer, when I knew very little and I'd learned something, I immediately turned right around and taught it to the next person I saw.

37:43And I definitely fumbled it around and it didn't sound very good. But by the second, the third, the fourth time it had become mine. And it's like, I think so many people are, the mental masturbation comes from fear, fear of how our peers are going to judge us, fear of I'm not going to get it right or say it right or do it right. And people that can get over that and unlock that or accept, I'm going to suck at it. I'm going to fumble it. I don't have a photograph, whatever, and get over that and teach it, say it, and repeat it. It then becomes part of you. Yeah. Richard Feynman, people attribute to the Feynman effect or the explanation effect.

38:23When you learn it, you learn it. And when you teach it, you get to learn it twice. Like if everybody could re-listen to this episode, but this time when you're listening, think about how you would give a TEDx talk next week about it. you would focus way different, right? You would own that information because it's, it's active learning, you know, cause learning is not a spectator sport, any, any different than, than lifting or anything else that's worthwhile. But yeah, when we teach something, we get to learn it better. And so like, you know, even with kids, right. And you could have their kids explain what, what they're learning, you know, and then it, it also shows you your gaps in knowledge too.

38:57And also I feel like when you teach it, it starts to become more of your identity in terms of, okay, I know this, I know this, I'm an, I'm becoming an expert at this. And I really think the sequence is you learn it, you teach it, you learn it, you live it, and you teach it. Because like, I have a rule for every hour I spend learning something, you know, I don't know where I came up with this, but it was just like, just for me, it made sense. For every hour I spend reading something or listening to a podcast, whatever, I want to spend an equal hour applying it, right? Because I feel, and people schedule their workouts, but they're not scheduling their implementation or their application, like somebody going to reading a great book on, and honestly, there's a book that could solve anyone's problem that someone wrote somewhere that they spend years, you know, going through mistakes in their research and experience.

39:44And you don't have to spend those thousands of dollars and time and everything to do that. So I think reading is great. And reading is to your mind, what exercise your body, great neurological, you know, cognitive training for yourself, but somebody could read a book and not apply it. Their life is no different than somebody who's illiterate who couldn't read the book to begin with. So, you know, that, that's, that's the challenge. I feel that you're right. People get this dopamine from learning something new, but they don't apply it. And I, and I really think like how I define intelligence in the new book is, and this is functional for me.

40:15It's not IQ that, that, that's, that's so antiquated. It's not a standardized test that you take when you're eight and that's your potential when you're 88. That doesn't even make any sense, right? Because of neuroplasticity and our brain's ability to grow. For me, intelligence, people say it's pattern recognition, it's your ability to be flexible. I feel like functionally, somebody is intelligent. If they're intelligent, intelligence is using your brain and directing your mind to create the life you want. So using your brain, which is the hardware, your mind, directing it, the software, right?

40:45To create the life you want, meaning somebody could know everything about fitness, but if they're not fit, how intelligent are they? Right? Somebody can know everything, read every research or every book on wealth and investing and whatever, you know and but if their bank account doesn't reflect that how intelligent is that person right and so i feel the life we live are the lessons we we teach so from for me you know and we live in this kind of expert economy where i feel like you learn something and then you have to live it right you have to practice what you post um and then and then you get and then you teach it also as well as well and so because then like i could roll out of bed like you guys can And also, and you could talk about this because you live it, right?

41:24Because you show up differently with the level of congruency. Because nowadays, I feel like people are, their BS meter is really sophisticated. Like you can detect AI stuff, right? I had somebody on my podcast. I usually always publish shows, right? We've done nowhere near as many as you have, but we've done 500 plus episodes. I had somebody on and it was recommended to me because, you know, team was showing all these, they have the great Instagram, I'm not going to mention who it is, but they have great Instagram posts and very like, wow, this is where everything's like lands. I was like, I'd love to have a conversation about this, get them on.

41:59Person is like dumb as heck. I'm not, I don't want, it's not a judgment, but clearly AI or somebody else was writing this stuff for them because I asked like these layup questions and it was just, and I can't pull it out, but that, but that's cognitive surrender. Like, like AI is writing people's books and their posts and everything else. So they're not, it's like that MIT study that a lot of people talked about. MIT did a study with their students and they had them write essays and they put them in group A, B and C and group A use chat GPT to write their essays. Group B use Google, group C didn't use either.

42:34And then they see, they, they, they scan their brains to see which one was, you know, more cognitively engaged. And obviously C was most cognitively engaged because they had, they had no help, right. From technology. Um, and group A just was not engaged at all, right. because they didn't have to earn it. Just like if you were to look at people's the intensity of their muscles, lifting weights or whatever, they weren't lifting any weights. But when they tested them on their comprehension, their memory about that subject, Group A hardly remembered any of it because they didn't have to earn it. And neuroplasticity, again, it's the whole basis of this word.

43:09Neuroplasticity is challenge equals change. And my challenge is everybody wants convenient and they want comfort. and life is difficult for one of two reasons. You either leave your comfort zone, you start that business, you start that relationship, you work out, you study, become an expert or life is very difficult if you stay in your comfort zone. Choose your heart. Yeah. I think AI could be one of two things. Either it could be incredibly stimulating, it could strengthen your cognitive function, it could help you become smarter or it could go in the other direction and just do things for you.

43:45I mean, I've used AI. One of the things I've done with AI is, because it's an incredible synthesizer of information. It's the best we've ever seen. That's what it is. And we've never had in history something that was able to synthesize comments, reviews, and forums, and compile it and put it together to give me a consensus. Never had that before. We've had studies. So what I've done to learn certain things is now I've taken studies, and then I've taken people's reviews. Now there's millions of them, hundreds of millions of them online. Anecdote plus studies. And I've taken anecdotes, lots of them, studies.

44:21I've put them together, find the commonalities, have AI sort out. And I'm coming up with some crazy conclusions and ideas around certain things. And it's very stimulating because I'm prompting, I'm going through, and I'm saying, okay, are those commonalities and lots of things? Find the two things that seem to be standing out, and then I'll find that. I love that. Oh, and it's remarkable. Well, you're using it, like you said, like a partner versus like an answer, which I think a majority of people use it almost like a sophisticated Google search, right? They just give me this, you know, prompt it like that versus you're pulling in ideas and theories and together you're formulating an argument with it as a partner versus a tell me what's better, you know, which is how most people.

45:05I'll be specific with you because I had fun with it a while ago and I was messaging these guys about it. So I got on there and I'm very fascinated. For a long time ago, I got really fascinated with the science of cannabinoids and terpenes. There's a personal story. I had a family member who had cancer. And so I got into how it could potentially help her. So I had some base knowledge. And so I said, what are the different cannabinoids show in the studies that they can help cause produce? So I got this list. What about the different terpenes? And I got some ideas around there. Then I said, what do the reviews say on the best strains of cannabis for pain relief?

45:40Give me the top five. I got the top five. Then I said, what of these top five strains, what commonalities do you see with the combinations of cannabinoids and terpenes? And they gave me an answer. I said, of these commonalities, which ones are common in all the strains and which ones seem to stand out the most? And what I ended up getting was a terpene cannabinoid combination that probably is really good for pain. but it's this really fun process of going through and asking these questions and i think you do that with ai yeah and i i think and the difference that makes the difference is your human intelligence compared to somebody else that's that that doesn't have those distinctions or the interests or the discipline or the life experience and references that you have because you're interacting with a different and that's what i mean about you know people leaning into their human intelligence being more important than AI.

46:26Because again, AI can amplify and scale. Like if somebody is confused and incompetent and unclear, it's going to amplify that, right? It's going to make you a bit more of that as opposed to somebody who's competent, clear, concise, has character, then it'll amplify that also as well. Well, I'll share an opposite story of the usage that I've shared on here before with you guys is I have a family member who was taking HRT and the way he prompted it, uh, you know, can HRT be dangerous for me? Was the, and so of course, what does the AI do? It searches all the probabilities of how it can be dangerous.

47:02And so he sent me this thing. He's like, I have to get off. This is terrible for me. And I'm like, that is such a stupid way to prompt that. And you could flip that on its head and say literally the opposite. How is it positive for me? And it'll give you a list. And so you have people that are coming to conclusions because they're prompting it so unintelligently. And then they're taking that answer as the truth. And it's like, Whoa, oh, you got to understand how to prompt this correctly if you want it to give you a less bias, but it's giving you a bias based off the way you're prompting it. So it's going to be interesting to see how that, you know, separate, like how many people will have the intelligence to approach it the way Sal is approaching it, and how many people are going to just use it to dumb them down.

47:42Well, Jim, because this is your field, and you write and learn and are passionate about all things cognitive-focused, and you coach people, are you seeing a greater demand for some of the stuff that you teach or a reduced demand? So I think how it's delivered might be changing a little bit. Like we have the largest academy of accelerated learning in the world. We have students in every country, speed reading, memory enhancement, critical thinking, creativity, brain optimization, all this stuff, right? I feel like courses probably are going down, I would imagine, industry-wide in terms of going through online when people could go to ai and say oh how would how would jim quick memorize this you know stuff at study and so on and which is great i think there's a big part of our community or anyone that's built a brand that that's special because you've earned their trust right you there you have relationship equity i think i think yeah because again like like there's this whole i'm in a lot of author communities and there's whole thing with AI writing, you know, doing that.

48:51But some, some readers just don't want to read anything AI and publishers are taking a stance on it because that person has not gone through the experience, you know, the authentic, transparent experience of what, you know, what they're talking about. If it's a piece, if it's AI writing, that's something. So I feel like, you know, if you've built a brand out that's out there and most businesses have a brand or champion of spokespeople for it, then that relationship is, is a big asset, you know, Because in times of confusion, people will go to people that have earned their trust repeatedly, consistently.

49:23You guys have episodes on five a week on this basis, and you show up for people, and that earns trust. And so just like if you're in a relationship, or somebody promises they would do something at work or whatever, and then they break that trust every single time, how much stake do you put in their word? And a brand is often a promise. but think about how we break our own trust, right? We say we're going to do something. I think the number one meta habit, I talk about this in the book, it's a daily book, like Daily Stoic. And like any daily book you pull from Christianity or Judaism or Buddhism or Stoicism, this pulls on science.

50:03So it pulls on science of the mind, which is psychology or science of the brain, which is neuroscience. So it's a brand new idea that actually gives them prompts. So like the prompts you give to AI and you were talking about a family member that maybe is not the most empowering prompt that gives them a biased answer. We're doing that to ourselves all the time. Because think about the prompts, the questions we're asking of our own intelligence instead of artificial, our natural intelligence. Why can't I ever lose weight? Right. Okay, great. You're all the reasons. Like just like on AI or, you know, why don't I deserve love or whatever.

50:36Or even the questions we ask are not the best kind of questions. And we talk about, you know, so every single thing here has a question that gets people to prompt and then exercise to build that mental muscle, you know, if you will. But I would say in terms of the future of this work, right, certain things are never going to change because the hardware is not going to change in the brain. It hasn't changed in 300 ,000 years. We pretty much had the same, you know, brain as people did, you know, all the time ago. So I think exercise and diet and sleep and relationships, always very important. I would say also very important nowadays to take a pause, meaning whether it's meditation or time in nature, that's for me, walking the dogs is my pause, like a little brain break, because the brain's not meant to go 24-7, right?

51:24It needs these little, you have to disconnect to reconnect. For me, like it's interesting, if you pause a camera or a computer or a television screen, a machine, it stops working. I found working with clients and myself, this personal experience, that when we human beings take a moment to pause, we start working. We start in different ways. We start recalibrating. We start recovering. We start reimagining things, right? But people aren't scheduling that white space to think anymore. And people can't be bored anymore, right? They have to take their phone. Remember bored. Right. Even in the shower or whatever, they always have to have a screen on or they can't even sit in a line to be able to do this.

52:01or at dinner tables, you know, I see couples like, you know, a bowl on the phone, whatever it happens to be. And I feel like, you know, we're talking about children. And again, we have a three-year-old and a one-year-old. Like, I don't want them super stimulated all the time, especially they don't grow up on what we grew up watching, right? I'm trying to eliminate, you know, reduce screens. And I have empathy for that also, right? Like for white parents, you know, use screens sometimes to be able, you know, for kids. Jim, we're in a similar age group. So I don't know if you've experienced this yet.

52:31Cause I have kids too. And I have two little ones. I have a five-year-old and a three-year-old. Yeah. And we put on Mr. Rogers. Yeah. Okay. It's painfully slow in comparison to the kind of stuff that kids watch today. It's, it's crazy. If you watch it now, in fact, there was a scene on Mr. Rogers where he had a clock on the screen and he goes, let's see how long a minute is. And the screen just focused on the clock with the second hand going down. And you just said to watch it for a minute. that's so amazing that would never happen today i don't think an adult could do that no yeah no and so so this is what we're putting on for our kids because i notice a difference in their behavior when they watch completely and so we have a list of shows that we approve yeah because of exactly what you're saying earlier too we were talking about school and how that's you know that structure has changed a bit and i've you know like private school and we've experienced this as well as like they've gone back a bit more to analog.

53:29They've gone back more to actual reading and then like application and actually project building amongst each other. And I feel like that is somewhat of the answer in terms of the exercise of it and being able to have that human knowledge and experience. And then we can get to the digital stuff and, you know, AI kind of coming in after. Is that really, do you see a big need for that? I think a hybrid, kind of a whole self-learning where it's taking the whole child into consideration. So not just left brain, right brain, conscious, unconscious, but it's also their sleep and their diet and everything else that affects it.

54:03So everybody in society sometimes wants the magic pill. The one thing. Yeah, everybody, right? And I just feel like there's not a pill, but there is a process for this. For kids, I'm very interested. it. I've had the opportunity to meet with a lot of founders of different schools and tour and advise. I mean, they use our strategies in some of the top school systems in South Korea and Finland for accelerated learning, meta learning, learning how to learn the stuff that we teach, right? Learning faster. I would say devices are a challenge, right? I wouldn't want to be a teacher. It'd be very hard.

54:37My mother retired a handful of years ago from New York public school system. She started as a public school special ed teacher to help me with my learning disabilities for my brain injury as a child. Teachers could be some of the most caring, competent, compassionate individuals. But I can't even imagine like, you know, holding the attention of kids that grew up. Our generation grew up on video games, right? Yeah. Which is one thing, but on screens. And going back out to like the kid, like our kids will watch occasional stuff. We do try to put some borders and boundaries when possible. but like I like there's certain the content of what they're watching is very important like you said like today's stuff like if you go on youtube the stuff that goes viral that has you know millions billions of views it's it's it's it's noisy it's fast yeah the flashing the sounds the lighting everything is so stimulating I mean you have you seen these videos we don't even allow youtube for that reason yeah youtube is built on an algorithm of addiction yeah and so the last thing i want is my seven-year-old watching something that's being that's programmed to feed him something that's addictive yeah so like that the platform itself is just not an ideal you hear all these ideas and i don't know if they're about if they're if they're true but all these founders of these tech companies now they don't let the kids screens no yeah and just taking a reprieve from your screens for two weeks brain scans before and after like some some of the decisions like their brains uh like go go back you know 10 years that is training yeah and And it's just, but sitting in boredom is, is that there's a challenge.

56:07You ever see these, these kids that online where you take the advice away and they just like, you're taking, lose their mind. Yeah. It's like taking away like crack. Like it's just like that kind of like addiction and that, that's, that's, that's a challenge. So, you know, I see schools reducing screen time or, or, or going back to analog. I don't read on, you know, screens particularly when I travel, it's harder. Cause you know, I don't want to carry like all these books with me. but I always like to read physical. I just something, there's something about a physical book. Well, I'll tell you the difference.

56:39Read off of your phone before bed and see how fast you fall asleep and then read a real book. Yeah. And see how quickly you fall asleep. And I read fiction at night too. Cause sometimes if I read something too stimulating, like on science or business, whatever it is, I'll get in my executive brain. I'll have all these ideas, but fiction reading has been shown to reduce stress upwards of 60%. I don't know. I didn't know that. I've been better, better sleep also. Interesting. And also, because I used to read all nonfiction stuff. That's me. I want to know. I'm guilty of that. The fiction reading, there's a vote for this.

57:08Higher EQ, intelligent, like narration, storytelling, empathy, creativity, perceptual positions, be able to jump from other people's point of view. All this stuff that's so very important. And it's soothing, right? As opposed to something that might be a little bit more technical. You know what I started doing, Jim, just recently? This was my wife started it, and then she encouraged me to do it. There's a device called a brick. I don't know if you're familiar with this, but it's like this, it's like this plastic square and you bring your phone up to it and you can, you can select whatever apps you want to turn off or whatever.

57:39And you'll brick your phone, leave that somewhere. That's kind of hard to get to. So I leave it downstairs. And so all my social media apps, my texts, everything is inaccessible from that point on. The only way to turn it off is to go back to that physical brick and turn it back on. And that's, and that's the key for habits, right? Is it, is controlling your environment? Yes. Right. You want to make the things, one of the principles for habit design is you want to make the things that are good for you easier. And you want to make the things that are not good for you more difficult. And that's the thing.

58:09Having your phone by your bed on your nightstand is a challenge. I was talking to one of our students the other day, and she was telling me how she scrolls at night. And I was like, we looked at it, it was like two and a half hours. People don't realize how much time goes by just going like this, because you can do this infinitely. Right. And besides the sleep issues that the blue light thinking, you know, you're not creating melatonin because my nervous system still thinks it's daylight. Besides the stimulus that you're watching that could also stimulate you, you know, the context switching, all of that.

58:40You know, I said, I was like, wow, that's interesting. And she was using something to justify it saying, well, I had a really long day. This is my way of de-stressing. And I totally understand that. And then, but the question I asked, because I always want to question people's assumptions, just getting that metacognition, people thinking about why they do what they do and how they think. I was like, okay, would you wake up two and a half hours earlier to do what you're doing right now? Like, to scroll like that. And the answer was obviously no. But logically, like if you're going to stay up, you know, two extra hours, would you get up two extra hours?

59:13Do you want to do that? And it was instant, right? And the challenge, you know, with this habit, just like, you know, you make the things, you know, I have a pull-up bar in my, like right in my, the doorway in my office, right? Just more likely to be able to do that because I'm making things that I want to do, you know, easier for me to be able to do. For, um, here's a hack for everybody. So when you wake up in the morning, cause it's high leverage, the only thing that's equal, not everyone has equal education or network or, you know, income or whatever, but everyone has 24 hours in a day, right?

59:44And so limitless, not about being perfect. It's about leverage. Like how do you leverage those minute. So it's not even about time management. It's really about mind management, right? And so here's the leverage point. When you first wake up, there's something called sleep inertia. And sleep inertia is when you transition from a sleep state to a waking state. And you would imagine certain things are coming online. Like your attention's coming online. Your conscious awareness is coming online. Your alertness is coming online. Your working memory is empty, right? So it's kind of like you're waking up and it's like fresh snow.

1:00:15Not everyone, no one's like, there's no tire tracks and in other people's footprints, it's like, it's pristine, right? It's clear. In that window, there's something called attentional priming. And what that means is that what you're putting in, the mental inputs in that window, and that window could be, depending on your sleep quality, depending on what stage of sleep you woke up in, whether it's deep, you could be more groggy or whatever, about 15 to 45 minutes, right? When you first wake up. Now, the mental input you put in those 15 to 45 minutes has a disproportionate effect on the rest of your day.

1:00:48disproportionate. So think about this specifically in three areas, what you focus on later on that day. So what you prime, intentionally prime in the morning, you're more likely to focus on number two, how you feel throughout the day, your mood. And like, think about it. Like you could get, let's say someone picks up their phone. That's what most people put in this window. And so what is, what is it amplifying their focus? So what do they, so what do they start focusing on? Whatever they saw first thing in the morning, comparison, depression, conflict, war, whatever, whatever it is, or just pure distraction.

1:01:20Like nobody would invite 200 strangers into their bedroom first thing in the morning to talk about whatever the heck they want to talk about. That's kind of what we're doing consciously or unconsciously. So your focus, what you focus on here, we prime to what you focus on later, how you feel and also how you frame your day, like how you frame situations, conversations, challenges? Is it a crisis? Is it an opportunity based on what you primed your mind for? So the challenge with, you know, I just saw a video that I have on Facebook, you know, those Facebook memories nine years ago, me and Simon Sinek, somebody cut this video of 38 million views.

1:01:56It says, just me talking about don't touch your phone the first 30 minutes of the day or the last 30 minutes of your day, right? Really, really simple. And then talk about the anxiety that comes with the phone. And, but when you pick up your phone, you're priming your attention in, it's not just attentional priming, it's emotional priming. So what are you priming it with? Distraction, every lecture, whatever, and reaction. Cause you get a message or social media comment that puts you in a mood for hours, right? Or a voicemail or WhatsApp, you know? And so what do you, what are you priming? And so you're priming reaction, meaning you're fighting fires right off the bat.

1:02:28You're on the defense. How do you create an amazing day? If you're just like, if you're on your heels first thing in the morning mentally, right so i always say like it's mine before media at least for that window right it's it's what's your intention for the day before interruption yeah like what's your direction before all this distraction and so when i wrote limitless daily which is 366 days you put everyone's on the same date it's meant to be to be read ideally like in that window because then you prime the things that make sense so start your day off read the day for the day sets you up for better attention better reaction good emotion because what it does the conversations that you we had a couple of conversational specialists like Jefferson Fisher and other people on our podcast master conversationalists and I was saying the most important conversation is not with your clients even your kids but it's the conversation you have with yourself because that's a conversation you've been having your whole life and so that makes a difference so this is a way of you waking up and before dealing with everyone else's agenda for your life and everything else, directing your mind, it's like when you wake up, it's like your computer is rebooting.

1:03:44And until later on, you have all these tabs open because people are opening them for you, whatever. But here it's clean. It's not using up a lot of energy. You have plenty of memory. Your working memory is empty. Your focus is absolutely clear because you haven't distracted yourself. And so for this, when I wrote about it, the big question I got from Limitless which sold a couple million copies. You know, it just, and we donate all the proceeds to the charity built schools for girls in Ghana, Guatemala, Kenya, offered healthcare that kept them out of school. You know, clean water because a lot of these girls are spending six hours a day catching water for their families and also Alzheimer's research for women in memory, my grandmother.

1:04:21But books for me is, is, is changed my life. You know, I didn't have these connections and everything. And then my teachers wouldn't be surprised if I read a book, much less, you know, wrote books. but I was what I I didn't think the world but the question I got from people reading limitless is this is you know great you know owner's manual for your brain your brain you know doesn't have instructions but like how can I live this every day because I didn't I didn't think people need another because everyone wanted the next book and I was like I went to a pub show I was like people don't need another book I love books right read every day I'd rather go honestly a day without you know eating than a day without reading you know not that I skipped meal like but I that's how important it is for me.

1:05:03But I don't think the world needed a book where they could read for a few days, put it back on the shelf. I wanted a daily practice because that's what changes people's lives, right? Is the action and the implementation, the habit. People need a new habit. They don't need another book. And what I wanted, it was to develop a five minute, low friction, no excuse, first thing in the morning, like you get your workout done first thing in the morning and you're, you know, you do something difficult first thing and you earn your dopamine, right? Yeah. I'm sure your audience knows dopamine is a molecule of motivation.

1:05:30Most people think I have to be motivated to take action. No, you take a small action, then you earn the dopamine, you know, and then that fuels future action and momentum, right? As opposed to people getting dopamine, not earning it, scrolling, going to a website, eating junk food, whatever it happens to be. So this is a daily mental practice to upgrade your technology, just like you upgrade your Zoom, your apps, the new chat GPT, you get by the new phone five minutes a day to get your mind right, to be able to win for the day, you know? And I mentioned to you guys, like, you know, I wrote this, uh, this, it wasn't going to be a book.

1:06:06I wrote it for my, for my kids, you know, when my daughter was born, you know, um, it was different when I had daughter, I'm always telling it straight up. Like, I don't know, like I love my son, but I got both. So, but it's, um, when I saw my wife holding her. And then my son, two years old, like in the hospital bed. And when she was just born, it was just different. I write every morning. That's I, I, I like, I'm, I'm just very creative in the morning. Like I, I break my day with three C's. I create in the morning, I consume in the afternoon and I clear at night and that's a task batch, right?

1:06:39I, I, I create, I write books, I, I map out podcasts, courses, whatever, create that I consume. You know, I do research, you know, I read books, I prepare for a podcast, whatever. And then at night I clear, you know, where I just, I talk to my wife on my day. I clear it out because I want to be able to sleep. I journal or I do some yoga nidra or I do something that just, I write what I have to do tomorrow, right? Get it out. I clear and I can sleep so much better. So that's how I task batch. So I'm just not multitasking and not using up a lot of energy. And so, but in the morning when at the hospital, instead of writing gratitude or what I want to do that day, I started writing to my kids because, you know, I am in my fifties and God forbid I'm not here 20 years from now, you know, If they're going through a hard day, a limited day, what would they need to hear from their father to get through it?

1:07:27I started writing about fear of failure, burnout, overload, distraction, imposter syndrome. I mean, negative thoughts, self-doubt. And then I had a friend who was going through a really hard time, stage four cancer. And I gave him some of my notes and he was like, this is so crazy. Like every single I've been reading this each day, it's like exactly what I needed to hear. So much of healing or success is a mindset, right? Getting your mind right. And so I went back through this and I was like, oh, this could be, this could be the book. This could be the practice. And I went through, I put the science of every entry.

1:08:04So every, every page has a specific date. You go to August 20th, whatever. It'll have a new idea written in an inspiring way. So you're motivated to do it. A two minute implementation. So there's no excuse, right? And then a new identity statement in terms of who you're becoming. And I feel like success or transformation doesn't come from just occasional bursts. You don't just work out for a weekend and you're done. You don't brush your teeth for three hours and you're done for the year. All of success is that progressive overload. It's the consistency, just like building a muscle. And this is something people could do every morning to kind of get their mind right to win the day.

1:08:40When I open that every day and I read for the day, how long does it take to read and implement on a daily basis? What does that look like? Five minutes. So five minutes a day. Including the implementation. Awesome. So it's a five minute practice every single day. And it's a mental, cognitive exercise book, essentially. To get your mind right. Because it's kind of like when you wake up in the morning, imagine you're getting on a plane, right? And hopefully you know the city you want to end up in. But just like in our day, we have turbulence and we have headwinds. We have all these things that are vying for our getting to where we want to go, you know, and just being off.

1:09:15And some people are, their planes being hijacked by other people's agenda for what they want from you. And so even a 1%, if you're going this way and you just take a 1 % difference this way over the course of a day or the flight, you can end up in a completely different city or a country, right? That's the difference that makes a difference. So this is about getting your mind right, pulling you from the passenger seat up into the cockpit and you are the pilot of your day. You're not, you're not the passenger. Like one exercise I just read recently, cause I'm rereading, I'm reading this myself now, um, is like this exercise.

1:09:48Like when I, when I wake up, I, I imagine, I just thought experiment. I imagine myself coming back to bed like later that night. And my wife asked me, how was your day? And I was like, and I imagine myself saying, wow, this day was amazing. Like totally crushed it today. Right. And then I asked myself what had to happen in order for me to feel that way, for me to say these words to my wife. And I think of three things personally, three things professionally. And that becomes the things I focus on. And I actually don't even pick up my phone until I get one of those six things done. And that's kind of my personal rules, my self rules.

1:10:19And people, they don't have to understand, do my process, but the principle behind it. And that's like one entry. And I talk about the science behind why this works and everything else. Because how are you going to know you had a great day by default? This is by design, right? Like you have a goal in mind and it's hard to stop somebody who knows where they're going and why they're going there, right? So this is to help people get in flow throughout the day, right? We have an event coming up and we have, you know, Stephen Kotler talking about flow states. But, you know, the reason this work is so significant is because if you remove every day distraction, burnout, you know, imposter syndrome, all the things that would keep you out of flow where you feel your best and you perform your best, right?

1:11:00That's the friction to flow, right? So the goal here is if you want to win the day, you have to win those for a few minutes of the day with attentional priming and sleep inertia time. And I think the best athletes, whatever, they're protective of their time and their attention. You know, attention is currency. Like think about the words we use when we talk about attention, pay attention, right? And like if everybody had to pull out their credit card every single time they put their attention somewhere, you go on Facebook and you have to pull out your credit card and enter that information, people would treat it very differently, right?

1:11:33Or, and then they go to Instagram, they'd pull the same credit card and do it again. We wouldn't do that. We'd be thinking about, how do we save and preserve our attention, this currency? How would we invest it into something that's worthwhile? And I really think the most important thing is to keep the most important thing, the most important thing, right? I think a lot of people listening, there's a section on burnout, like a day, you know, one of the entries. I think we're not burnt out always because we're doing too much. You might feel that way, but some people are burnt out because they're doing too little of the things that matter, the things that make them come alive.

1:12:03There's no purpose. Yeah, yeah. But until people have a conversation about that, especially first thing in the morning when you're most impressionable, then I feel like we're on default. We're just kind of going with the flow of things. And I think that is a recipe, just like with AI. Like if we're not deliberate and intentional of what we're doing, what we're doing it, then we can't be upset again. And if, because then it's just like fate or just like luck or something else. And those are horrible like strategies. There's great data on this on people who deal well with stress. And it's not because they have less stress in their lives.

1:12:42It's because the stress that they have is something meaningful and purposeful. So like people who like volunteer in third world countries, like they are out there. It's dangerous. It's hard work. And they feel great about what they do. And then you got, you know, John going to his office, you know, every day and he's overcome with stress because he's like, what am I doing? Yeah. I don't have any purpose behind what I'm doing. So what you're saying is just, it's so true and it's so backed by the data. It's interesting when we talk about purpose and meaning, right? Like what gets us up and gets us through those difficult times.

1:13:14I feel like more people lean into that and have these kind of honest conversations. And maybe that this conversation will inspire them to do that with their loved ones and everything. because that's what I think that makes us, that's one of the pillars for being human. I was going to ask you, Jim, because you said earlier that your ability, one of the measurements of intelligence, as other people have defined it, is like your ability to essentially change your mind. You have an opinion and then you get new information and you can change your mind. When's the last time that happened to you? When was the last time you had an opinion where you were like, oh yeah, I think this is right.

1:13:44Then you got new information. You're like, oh man, I'm totally wrong. Yeah, I mean, even writing this book, I thought I was going to write another book and I probably will. I have a couple ideas in mind. But even changing my mind, because I didn't want this to be, this is a deeply personal book because I wrote it for my kids and they're the most important thing in my life. And so that's what I put into this book. But doing it daily, I was like, oh, I don't know if that makes sense. So that was a small one in terms of that. Another one is this belief about my sleep. I've had this conversation with you guys before.

1:14:20I have very bad sleep apnea, obstructive. I stopped breathing 250 times a night. From 2010 to 2015, I slept 90 minutes a night total. Wow. Yeah, like it was that bad. CPAPs weren't working, dental devices. And I had Matt Walker. I have everybody on speed dial. And it just wasn't working. And I just realized, and I had a surgery at UCLA. They took on my tonsils, my soft palate, and it was obstructive. So my sleep went up to four hours and four and a half hours. But I've created this perfect storm back as a kid where I would pull all-nighters because I had to work three times harder as the other kids to get to pass.

1:14:55And then, so that didn't develop good sleep habits. And then in my career, I've given 2 ,200 keynotes at companies, corporations, conferences. I could be in three continents in a week, right? So the jet lag, sleeping in four environments. But I had this whole thing, I had to reframe my beliefs around sleep. My belief back then was I have so much to do. I'm on mission, I have purpose I don't have the time so I'll just borrow from my sleep It was like a bank account I kept on drawing and drawing until I went into overdraft and now I just see sleep completely different where it's just you could reach but you have to rest and you could repeat but that also I think I was gaining their secondary gain I think when people complain to friends all the time because they feel heard or they feel significant or they go back to therapy and I'm not, I'm not, I'm not going to judge them on therapy, but they'll go, there's a secondary gain of feelings.

1:15:55Wow, this person really listens to me. And they'll maybe stay in a situation longer than they want to or need to because there is a secondary benefit. And I think part of my secondary benefit was like people say all the time, like, wow, Jim, you're doing all this on like three hours of sleep. And I was getting like, well, I say, I'm kind of cool. But here's the thing. It's just like people going around just two hours ago. So I was talking to a friend. It's like, I was like, how are you doing? And he's like, I'm so busy. And this person is always busy, but they use it as a badge of honor. And I was like, because what is it saying to them?

1:16:25The secondary is like, I'm important. I'm, if you're busy, I like you. So I'm so significant and important. And I'm like, okay, if that's what you value and that's your belief, then it's no wonder you're designing your life to be busy all the time, be able to maintain that. And I didn't want to get any secondary gain or sympathy from lack of sleep, even though I've literally went from Estonia to Nashville, to New York City, to Scottsdale, to LA, to here. Is that what you just did? Yeah. Oh, you weren't in here. When he first came in, he was totally like, so did you have good sleep last night? When you, okay.

1:16:59So I imagine when you're coaching people, you probably do before you really start giving advice or get going, you probably take inventory of what their day looks like and what, you know, right. So do you find that your initial advice when helping people is more eliminating stuff in their day or adding stuff into their day? That's such a great question. I mean, you guys know, like coaching is all about taking somebody where their current state is to their desired state, right? And be able to help them close the gap. one of the two things that I find that are most important for a coaching client that I sort for is they have to be they have to be motivated to make a change and they have to be open minded because somebody could be open minded but they're not motivated or someone could be motivated but they're very close minded on how things should be done and I'm just getting too much friction and so I feel like they have to do it's a co-creation process I definitely look at their calendar I think a calendar is first of all, I think it's one of the number one productivity performance tools we have that we don't schedule.

1:18:05It's not going to happen like workout or reading or implementation or anything that's, you know, or even scheduling your sleep when to go to sleep. I mean, like you have an alarm clock to wake up. There's, I think there's huge benefit of having that same alarm clock to go to sleep even on the weekends, but I know no one does. It's perfect, but to the degree you stay on a schedule, you're going to overall sleep long-term is just going to be better. I mean, without a out. I mean, it's just as humans being wired for. Um, but if I look at their calendar, I can see what's important to them, right? Just like where people put their time, their attention, their resources, that's what's important, no matter what they say, right?

1:18:38If they're not doing that, like spending the time with their family, they're not doing the things, right? Um, and so yeah, I do an audit because everything I teach is measurable. I, you know, besides the metrics of sleep and HRV and everything else like that, just like in the fitness world, like I can measure, I can measure focus, I can measure memory, I can measure reading speed, reading comprehension, and everything. So I got a baseline and then, you know, we could grow them. Um, I would say, uh, in terms of where the, the sticking points are, um, motivation is, is a challenge. Keep people going.

1:19:10And I talk about purpose, having something that they feel because if they can intellectually know they want to, but they're not doing anything about it because they don't feel it. Right. And we're feeling creatures, you know, and the, I would say another one is having enough energy to do the thing because an exhausted mind is, is a coward. I mean, you're just not going to do the things if, if you're just tired, right. You're not going to take on that, that challenge, you know? Um, and then the other thing, the art of, I think of this is, is breaking things down into small, simple steps, right?

1:19:40That's why I did this as a daily of five minutes. It's like, what's, what's the phrase? It's like for people, it's like the heaviest weight at the gym is the front door for a lot of people, but that, but it's true. I can't believe I've never heard that either that's really good yes that's our field yeah it's our field that you gotta see this is one of those things where it's like people aren't working out put on your running shoes like it's a small like my kids we had a biological dentist on our podcast talking about you know oral health and brain health and the mic and the microbiomes and the inflammation and beyond brushing like oil pulling tongue scraping all this stuff and i was just you know i started to take our three-year-old starting to floss right but it was like this was it was it was a little bit of a thing but i was just like, okay, small, simple step, one tooth.

1:20:22So nobody stops one tooth. Like somebody doesn't read 30 minutes a day. That could be a big jump. Even though 30 minutes a day, even for a workout or whatever, we know that's 2 % of your day. Like, like, come on. Like, and so, you know, opening up the book is a small, simple step. Reading one line because nobody doesn't stop on one line. Right. And little by little, a little becomes a lot. And I feel like that's how you do it because you will eliminate the friction. And I asked myself, was it tiniest action. If I feel stalled with a client, I'll have them ask them, so like, what's the tiniest action you could take right now that will give you progress towards this goal where you can't fail?

1:20:55Just one line, little tiny action that you can earn and do, you know, and then that becomes the evidence that you are who you say you are. I think the number one habit is to do what you say you're going to do. Because if you start bringing trust, you say, I'm going to read, I'm going to read every single day or work out, whatever, in a certain amount of time or whatever, and you don't do it, like you wouldn't tolerate that from people around you or you wouldn't trust them but what's that about ourselves right that we don't show up for ourselves and then getting ourselves and doing difficult things it provides evidence that we are who we say we are like one of the things i was talking about reading you know and those stats is so is so scary 16 of people read every day that's it a book or magazine 16 across age gender and that includes not just books but the books magazines It means like 16 % read, no, read every day.

1:21:4451 % don't read one book a year. You know, and that, this is what's happening in, you know, especially with, you know, TikTok and everything else, the attention span and reading is so very important. And I can give, I could do a masterclass on this, but I was like, okay, you know, the part of this agenda for this book is get people to read a little bit each day. And after a few weeks, they start seeing themselves as, it's like, oh, I don't have to try to do this. It's like, I am a reader. And then once they start seeing themselves those is I am a reader. They'll start picking up other books and start reading.

1:22:12When I read in the morning, I read, I tend to read more throughout the day. Yeah. It tends to set me up later in the day without the goal of being that. Yeah. Because you're priming, you're doing attentional priming because of the things that you do. And it's just like first thing in the morning, if you ate a bunch of donuts and muffins and some like whatever Starbucks, Starbucks, Starbucks, I'm one of your sponsors, right? Like, like, but that, that will, that will have a disproportionate effect. on your focus, on your mood, and how you frame the rest of the day. Jim, it's even more than that.

1:22:46It's really weird. So it definitely impacts your behaviors later. There's data on that. But did you know that what you eat in the morning, first thing, affects your blood sugar for the rest of the day? That's crazy. Regardless of what you eat for the rest of the day. So if you eat a high-protein breakfast, you'll have better, more stable blood sugar throughout the day regardless of what it is the rest of the day. This is your high-protein mental breakfast, right? There you go. you want to you want to you really i mean if anyone gets and and but here's the other thing people whether they get this book limitless daily.com whether they get the book or not like that that sleep inertia time some people use it for prayer some people use it for gratitude like if you if you if you use that for gratitude you'll see more blessings throughout the day that's a hundred percent there's there's no doubt right and so like i'm saying this is the high was one of the highest leveraged things you could do first thing in the morning or if you connect with a loved one, right?

1:23:37There's certain positive things you could do first thing in the morning, you know? And, and what I wanted to do is this, like, this is so simple because it's a, it's a one-year journey and a lot of people end up keep on going, but it's like brushing your teeth, right? You brush your teeth for a few minutes, read for a few minutes, and then the rest of your day, you're, you know, you're good. Excellent. I love it. So it's a year program, five minutes a day. Yeah. Get your brain. So good. 366 mental upgrades. I made that for the leap year just to but it's it's really to to to train your brain to master your mind to win every single day and that that's really the promise very cool i'm excited to use it yeah and jim you're just so great uh thank you guys you've stuck around remained relevant because what you talk about and teach is legit it's real yeah we adapt i appreciate you guys a lot you know i remember this was years ago when i first came on the show and i appreciate you guys really on a mission and so not only what you guys do but also the manner you do it people don't realize what goes on behind the scenes and I know you guys have really hacked your lifestyle to be able to spend things doing what you want, the things you want to be able to do and I'm at the also stage in my life where I just it's less transactional, I just want to be with people who are just doing really cool things where I'm learning, they're making an impact we're having fun in the process I was in San Francisco I'm a big Bruce Lee fan.

1:25:01Oh, me too. For his 70th birthday, I was with his wife and his daughter. Really? Yeah, on his 70th birthday. We went for dim sum. And then afterwards, we went to the hospital that Bruce was born in Chinatown in San Francisco. Wow. And they had never been there before. And then we went to the room that he was born. And I got goosebumps. I call them truth bumps. And later on, they tore down the hospital. but I learned a lot. I kind of modeled a lot. I didn't realize it because as a kid, you guys know, I poured myself into comic books because I wanted to escape. I couldn't read. I taught myself to read comic books.

1:25:38But the other thing I was pouring myself into was like these martial arts movies. But I realized that Bruce Lee, I didn't even realize how much modeling I did for this where, you know, he, you know, JKD came from, it wasn't just like one way, like Wing Chun. It was fencing, right? It was Western boxing. Have you read Tao of G? Of course you have. I got that book. And I love this because he integrated like, because so many people in a space, this is the only way of doing something. Right. And so, you know, even with like, there's ancient mnemonics, but I was pulling in from all these other areas to build our systems.

1:26:08Then he opened up schools and I had learning centers. I started working in Hollywood and I started working in Hollywood. And I saw this like, this parallel arc, you know, not to say I'm Bruce Lee, but at all, but he was really inspiring for me at that time. But I bring this up because he has a quote that I have on my office wall saying, the key to immortality, talk about living longer. The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering. And for me, the memory training I've done over the years, it's not just facts, figures, and formulas or whatever. It's remembering who you are. Like we, we, we could have confidence because we remember our past successes.

1:26:43We could have, you know, fear because we remember all our past failures, right? We could have wisdom because we remember our lessons. We were, you know, we have expertise because we remember our experience, right? And all these other things. And And so memory for me, maybe because I've lost loved ones to dementia and things I felt beyond my control. I feel like my message for people is remember who you are. And that's what I feel like this book does. It's a conversation with yourself about remembering who you are before the world tells you who you are. You remember shrinking of other people's opinions and their expectations and feeling of looking bad.

1:27:21But, you know, and I just feel like life is difficult for one of, like, it's, change can be scary, right? You know, you want to be in survival. The human brain's not, you know, meant for growth as much as it is for protection, safety, right? So change can be scary. Growth can be hard. But nothing is as scary and hard as being stuck somewhere you don't belong. You know, and I feel like your community understands this. And that's why they're with you. They tune in all the time, you know, because they need these conversations happening because maybe they're not getting it from their friends and their family.

1:27:54You know, and this is the wonderful part of technology that allows all this to happen. You know, to be able to share new ideas and have new conversations, forming new opinions. And, you know, but living a life worth remembering. Perfect, perfect. It's LimitlessDaily.com. It is. There's a bunch of launch gifts and bonuses and all that fun stuff that come along with it. But it's a year-long journey. and uh awesome yeah very cool jim thanks again always always a pleasure man yeah thank you you guys are the best thank you thank you for listening to mind pump if your goal is to build and shape your body dramatically improve your health and energy and maximize your overall performance check out our discounted rgb super bundle at mindpumpmedia.com the rgb super bundle includes maps anabolic maps performance and maps aesthetic nine months of phased expert exercise programming designed by Sal, Adam, and Justin to systematically transform the way your body looks, feels, and performs.

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