5 Conversations that broke our frames this week

12 Mar 2025 · 1 h 14 min

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Podcast Summary: My First Million - Episode 685: 5 Conversations that Broke Our Frames This Week

Episode Overview In this episode, hosts Sam Parr and Shaan Puri engage in stimulating discussions about intriguing conversations they had throughout the week with various thought leaders and entrepreneurs. The theme centers around independent thinking and exploring contrarian ideas.

Key Participants

  • Sam Parr: Co-host, entrepreneur, and founder of The Hustle.
  • Shaan Puri: Co-host, entrepreneur, and investor.

Notable Guests Discussed

  1. Justin Caldbeck
  2. A successful investor known for spotting potential in companies early on.
  3. Shared insights on his investments in Grubhub and Snapchat, detailing his unique approach to investing by connecting with founders directly, including cold calling and personal visits.
  1. Steve Houghton
  2. A billionaire investor who transitioned from door-to-door sales to real estate and energy investments.
  3. Emphasized the importance of leveraging opportunities wisely and shared personal anecdotes about his family dynamics and values.
  1. James Currier
  2. Founder of NFX, specializing in network effects.
  3. Discussed the concept of life decisions as network-based choices and highlighted the importance of remaining in influential networks for personal and professional growth.
  1. Furkan Rydhan
  2. A tech entrepreneur and co-founder of AppLovin.
  3. Explored his long-term investments in emerging technologies like VR and blockchain, showcasing the importance of sticking with interests irrespective of current trends.

Key Discussions and Insights

Contrarian Thinking

  • The hosts elaborate on the concept of contrarian thinking—valuing independent thought and the unique perspectives of the guests they interacted with.
  • They emphasize that true contrarianism is not self-identified but recognized by others based on actions and outcomes.

Network Effects

  • James Currier's insights on network effects serve as a pivotal discussion point.
  • The hosts reflect on the value of belonging to influential networks and the impact of physical location on business opportunities.

Personal Development

  • Steve Houghton’s family dynamics provided a contrasting perspective on values and relationships, showcasing a supportive family environment that encourages personal growth without humor at the expense of others.
  • Discussed the "tortilla principle" from a sushi restaurant experience, which illustrates the significance of product storytelling in influencing consumer perceptions.

Emerging Trends

  • Sam and Shaan speculate on emerging markets, such as ocean technology, positioning it as the next frontier much like space tech has been in recent years.
  • They explore the potential for VR and related technologies to evolve as essential tools despite current trends leaning toward AI.

Key Takeaways

  • Independent Thinking: The importance of fostering a mindset that values unique perspectives and the stories behind successful ventures.
  • Networking: The necessity of staying connected within influential circles to maximize opportunities.
  • Storytelling in Business: Highlighting the product's narrative can significantly improve consumer perception and sales.
  • Long-Term Vision: Encouragement to pursue interests deeply, irrespective of current market trends, as foundational investments in personal and professional growth.

Conclusion The episode serves as a rich tapestry of lessons on entrepreneurship, investing, and the significance of personal values and networks in shaping one's journey. The hosts encourage listeners to engage thoughtfully with their networks and to consider the broader narratives at play in their business ventures.

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0:00Not gonna lie. I haven't heard a word since you said leverage to the tits. You know, it's like getting a new haircut. Loaning affirmations. Yeah. I can pull this off. Leverage to the tits is my version of having bangs. You know what I mean? I feel like I can rule the world. I know I could be what I want to. I put my all in it like no days off. On the road, let's travel, never looking back. Sam, it's just me and you, no guests. This is nice. It's like a date night for us. The kids are out of the house. Well, let's debrief. I have done a few things. Do you want to go like back and forth of the interesting people that we hung out with?

0:51I have got like two or three. How many do you have? Yeah, I got three or four, but I have a theme with mine. I don't know if yours would fit this, but the theme with mine is all people who are contrarians in some way. And what I mean by that is not like contrarian, like, you know, there's like an annoying kind of contrarian. Not that. Like if you call yourself a contrarian, it's like you're not contrarian, right? Correct. Exactly. They wouldn't say this about themselves. I would say it about them, which is what makes it kosher. The way I would say it is they're all independent thinkers, meaning when I hear the stories of what they're doing, I don't even want to ask about the thing.

1:25It's like, how did you even think of doing that thing? You know what I mean? It's like, all right, before you tell me all the details, how did you even get into that situation? Why were you even looking there? Why were you even deciding to do that? Okay, I can fit within that framework. Okay, yeah, I'll go first. So I hosted this dinner in San Francisco, and invited maybe, I don't know, 15, 20 people to this thing. You did? Yeah, yeah, exactly. I know. You're always growing up friends and hosting things. In the city. You drove to the city and did this. I drove to the city, yes. This is a true fact.

1:56And so we go there, and there's a guy there who I'm friends with. His name is Justin. Justin Coldbank. And Justin is a tremendous investor. He was an investor early on in Grubhub, Snapchat, Stitch Fix, boom. like just like a bunch of companies that have done really well so let me tell you the story so i i was talking to him about um some of his big win investments so i'll tell you a quick one so there was a grubhub one i was like how'd you get into grubhub he's like oh grubhub was a he's like it was a funny story like they were doing well but nobody knew them and i don't think they had raised much money yet and i tried to get a cold emailed him i called cold called them i called the office couldn't get a hold of them so he's like so i just flew to chicago I just hung out in the lobby until I bumped into the guys.

2:40And I was like, hey, guys, I'm just really a believer in this thing. Sorry to bother you, but I just really believe in this thing. Ends up doing that deal. So, okay. Classic meet cute. So I was like, how'd the Snapchat one happen? And he told this great story. He goes, I met Evan. And he's like, I will just never forget meeting Evan. He's like, I walked out of that meeting being like this guy, he's one of them. He's like one of the people that's going to build this like legendary company. He's at the time, I think he was still a student at Stanford, a student in college. And I go, was Snapchat taking off?

3:09Was it like a rocket ship? He goes, no, no, it was like really small. He's like, it had maybe like 100, 150 ,000 users, wasn't growing fast. And everybody on the outside viewed it as this like this silly little thing. It was like this toy. It's like, oh, is it just used for disappearing photos? Must be for inappropriate pictures or it's just a stupid college thing. And he's like, so I was like, so how did you invest? And he tells the story. So he's like, you know, first I met Evan. I heard him out and he shared the story that he's like, Snapchat, people think it's about photos. And when they hear photos, they think about Facebook and Instagram.

3:44It's like permanent public photos that are for your memories. And he's like, but actually we use photos for communication. It's like a back and forth. And so Justin goes, hmm. So it's like messaging. He's like, yeah, it's messaging. He goes, okay. And so he goes home and he does some research. He goes, I think everybody's been comparing this to Instagram and Facebook. And because of that, the metrics don't look as good. But if you compare this to iMessage, I wonder what this looks like or WhatsApp. So he hustles and he gets in touch with somebody at Apple. And he's like, hey, I just have a good question for you.

4:15If somebody sends an iMessage, how many, what percentage of them send an iMessage every day for the next seven days? And they run the query for him. Yeah. Like if you use iMessage, you're going to use it every day. That's just how you use messaging apps. He asked somebody at WhatsApp, same question. He asked somebody, And then he gets in touch with somebody from Instagram. And he's like, hey, for Instagram, if you post a photo, what are the odds you post a photo the next seven days? They're like, well, super low, right? He's like, okay, what about even just using the app? I'm like, it's just a reasonable, healthy number.

4:45And he goes back to Snapchat. He asks them the number. And Evan, he's like, I don't know. Let me look it up. He looks it up. He's got the iMessage number. And he's like, this is communication. And he's like, and nobody else was really that eager to invest. And he was like, I got to go all in on this thing. And sure enough, he did. and you hung out with him and he told you that story at dinner? Yeah. Did you have any other interesting people at your dinner that you want to talk about or no? Yeah, there's a couple guys. So there's one guy, Will, who's coming on the podcast. Will O 'Brien, he's this Irish guy and he's coming on the podcast because he had this sentence that caught my attention.

5:21He goes, the ocean is the next space. Ocean is the next space? What are you talking about? He goes, well, you know how recently all these people, you know, there's a bunch of investment now in space tech. So SpaceX, obviously, first, but then after that, there have been more and more companies that have been funded, Varda and others that are all about rockets and satellites and getting to space, mining asteroids, mining minerals, whatever it is. And he goes, the ocean is the next space. Like the ocean is this other vast, mostly unexplored, mostly untouched by tech space. And he's building an ocean tech company.

5:55And he told me about four or five other ocean tech companies. And it was a finger to the lips. You got to come on the podcast and talk about them there. Don't waste this at a dinner, okay? That's actually a really interesting concept because right now, space is hot. Robots, so hot right now. Having a moment. Is Ocean's the new it girl? I'm looking for it, bro. I'm looking for it. I'm like, what's going to be hot in five years? Is she like the hot girl who just has glasses on for some reason? She's still the nerd and then someone's going to take her glasses off and be like, makeover dud. You're the echo.

6:30The rom-com where all you had to do is take your hair out of the ponytail and take off the glasses. Yeah. You're now beautiful. Is that the ocean right now? Who is that? That's Callie. No. She shows up at prom. Who's the new girl? It's not a new girl. Imagine them giving their pitch to their LPs or to their investors. Wipping off the glasses. Yeah. And it's just like... Ladies and gentlemen, have you seen She's All That? Yeah. How about 10 things I hate about you? Yeah. Then, my friend, let us introduce you to our new ocean startup. You get it. Exactly. I thought that was great because he's just thinking a lot and living in a space that I...

7:17It's like, you know, sort of right under your nose, but you never really think about. That's pretty cool. All right. You want me to tell you about someone I hung out with? Yeah, give me one. All right. So we had this guy on the Money Wise podcast like a month or something ago. And he's like in his 60s. His name is Steve Howden. He's a billionaire. I had a great time talking to him on the podcast. And like on the podcast, he was talking about like, you know, making money and all that traditional career shit. He's a billionaire from what, by the way? Yeah. So he is worth, he says it on the podcast, he's worth something like$2 billion.

7:49He made his initial money doing door-to-door sales, selling something. and I forget what he sold, but he made like 100 grand. And with that 100 grand, the savings and loan crisis hit. Do you know what that was in the 80s? I don't completely understand it, but basically a bunch of cheap land became available. He got leveraged to the tits and bought all this property and that made 3 million. The 3 million, he then bought some storage units that turned into like nine. And then using that nine, he bought a bunch of, they say oil and gas. I don't know, like these Dallas guys like say oil and gas, but basically it means you buy lease rights, meaning you like not gonna lie haven't heard a word since you said leverage to the tits i've just been waiting for us to talk about that quick quick break quick hubspot ad break discuss that i kind of liked it well done yeah i'm trying to get on it was it okay i'm trying to get on just it was like uh you know today i'm gonna wear a turtleneck and i might try to say leverage to the tits like you know it's like getting a new haircut you know like affirmations yeah this is my leverage to the tits is my version of having bangs you know what i mean all right so makes a bunch of money oil and glass and land got it okay so you didn't just talk to him on the podcast then you went and you did an absolutely normal human thing after the podcast you invited yourself to his family reunion or something well after the pod I was like, could I come over?

9:19Like, can I come and just like hang out with you? And he was like, yes, absolutely you can. And so basically he lives in Dallas. He has this huge mansion. I know that because I look the way I look. A lot of people think that I know about like skiing, but I don't. But he was like, I have a ski in, ski out house, which I didn't even know what that meant. I've never skied in my life. And I had to like figure all this out. But we went to Utah at his huge mansion. It was a ski in, ski out thing, which if you do ski, that's like a fancy thing or whatever. And I learned a few things. The first thing that I learned, I had no idea, but his three daughters are famous.

10:00So his wife and two daughters are famous. So his wife is Jen Houghton. She's got an Instagram called Turtle Creek Lane. I think she has 1.5 million subscribers and basically your followers. And basically what she does is she decorates their home in like the most crazy over-the-top way. Like, so for example, for Christmas, like it looks like a Christmas dollhouse, but that's like her real house. And so she got famous doing that via Instagram and then brought in the other two daughters to do, you know, their shtick, which I actually don't know what their shtick is. But I know that a million people follow them because when I was around them, I was like, they're just living.

10:36And people just like love watching them. Were they just like snapping content constantly or what? No, that's funny. They weren't. I mean, they did a bit, but it wasn't any different than anyone else who has like a thousand followers, you know, or like it was not obnoxious. And they actually had mentioned that they worked with you on a company you invested in. And they were like his company that he invested in. They did a great job of hooking us up. So they knew you. Yeah, yeah. One of them. Yeah, for sure. But I didn't know maybe from there. I think they do a good job in their personal, the daughter's like personal content.

11:08It doesn't look like I'm the daughter of a billionaire type of thing, right? It's like super relatable. It's fun. It's, you know, it's easy to follow. Easy to like. So I didn't know that they were like these famous people. The second thing I didn't really know, I didn't know they were Mormon, but they weren't just Mormon. He was like King Mormon. Like he's on the board of BYU. And so I think I learned this the first morning when Sarah and I get up at 7 a.m. to go hang out and everyone were sitting around the kitchen and we're just kind of like patiently waiting for them to get the coffee ready.

11:36You're just vaping? rudely in the kitchen. I'm just like sitting in this kitchen and we're like, do you guys do coffee? What's up with that? They had to tell me that they don't drink coffee. And they're like, but we went and bought coffee beans to accommodate you. And we have this coffee machine. We even went and bought a coffee machine. We don't know how to use it, but it's like over here. And like, they had to like, and like, I don't even know if they bought the right beans. Like they literally had never gone through this experience, which is like, imagine like not knowing like, do you get the beans?

12:03Do you get the grounds? You know, like how does, what device do you need to ground the beans? Like, is this the right machine? Or is this like a, there's five different types of machines they didn't know. And they went to accommodate us, which was hilarious. But what I learned with the Instagram stuff is, dude, Middle America Moms, who's their following, so much more profitable than like comedy, like doing comedy bits for like millennials or Gen Z. You know what I mean? They made, they kill it. And they would like post like these gummies that they got or this candy or this other widget that someone had sent them.

12:38And they were like showing me how many of the products that they sell. And it was the craziest thing I've ever seen. Like it was like, why are the people listening to this podcast? They're like, I want to do things for the creator economy. No, just do it for Lisa in Oklahoma. The mother economy. That's who you want to sell to. Oh, my God. It was it was crazy. They were like super Mormon. And I I'm not into religion. I don't like religion in particular. particularly, but I learned a lot. And the one thing that I learned was they like explicitly stated their values. So like, you know, when you're with your family and you'll make jokes with your sister, like, yeah, you know, like you'll bring her down.

13:16You'll be like, hey, you said you're on a diet. Why are you eating that? Or like, you just like mess with her, like just teasing. There was not one bring them down joke. And I was like, and I asked him about that. I'm like, you guys haven't made fun of each other once. And they were like, well, like, you know, we're taught in this religion that you got to treat like, you know, you got to be Christlike and like, he doesn't make fun of people. So we don't make fun of people. And they had like all these, like, I would ask them a variety of different questions. Why don't you do this? Why don't you do that?

13:43And they all had like very explicit answers. It wasn't ever like, ah, it just feels good. Or I don't know, we just kind of do it was all like, well mapped out. And I thought that was really cool to be like, super intentional about living. When I asked them, I was like, why don't you guys drink coffee? And they're like, well, we're taught not to like, you know, try not to be addicted to things or try not to like overly rely on stuff. And I was like, all right, that's a good reason. And so it was crazy to learn all that stuff. But here's, let me tell you this last thing that I learned from this family.

14:09It was like a 15 ,000 square foot house. And I learned that, you know, you've heard me talk on this pod. And I think you feel the same way about like owning stuff in a big house. It's kind of like, it's like, oh, that's a lot of work. I don't want to do that. Dude, it's such a life hack for like being around your family. It's the greatest thing ever. I've noticed this amongst this family, but also a bunch of other really wealthy families that if you can acquire a home that's big enough for your grandkids and everyone's super comfortable to stay there, they will want to stay there more. And thus, you will spend more time with your family.

14:42We didn't have a private chef. We didn't do anything. Almost the entire weekend was us just sitting around a kitchen table and we cooked our own meals and just hung out. And it was the way to live. Was it awkward being at their family reunion? or what was... Dude, they were so, they were like, come on in. And like they might... Even more awkward. They're so nice also. God, what did you do? They were so nice. I just think these guys are nice all the time. And I asked them, I was like, why are you so nice? And I was like, why do you guys have so much fun? Like they had like activities. Like we went like, they're like, let's go in the pole, coal plunge and then get into the hot tub.

15:13And then we're going to go do, like they had like activities planned that they all did as a family. I was like, what are you guys doing? And they were like, we just want fun to be the center

15:24know when you're a bad kid in school and they take you to like jail and they want to like shock value, like show you what your life could look like if you just keep going down this path? Yeah, I just got like hugged really hard. This is like the opposite. You're like, hey, you want to see what a really healthy family dynamic looks like? I'm going to take you there for a weekend immersion. It was the healthiest family dynamic. I have never seen anything like this. And then they have a subreddit. There's a subreddit dedicated to making fun of them. And it's, have you ever seen this? So first of all, do you know why there's so many Mormon influencers.

15:54Basically, Mormons are explicitly told you should journal. Journaling is a good way to reflect on life and it slows you down. That led to Mormon mommy bloggers, which they're inherently interesting because they're really into... I think Mormons are told they need to prepare for the end of the world. Fucking awesome content, right? Talking about your packing system for all your nuts and stuff. That's really good content. Parlay that into Instagram. And that is one of the reasons why there are so many freaking Mormon influencers. And I didn't know that. But they have... And so because of that, they have a whole subreddit.

16:28It's called like Turtle Creek Lane Snark or something like that. And every time that they would post something, people make fun of them for the silliest stuff. Like one time we were in the house and one of the kids was eating a piece of cheese. And for some reason, a two-year-old shouldn't have cheese. I don't know why, but that was a post that someone made fun of them. Or there was one time where Sarah, my wife, made it in the background of one of the photos. And they're like, who's this person? As if she was like a new cast member. And they like were Googling her and like listing out her name.

16:58It was crazy. And I asked them, I was like, does this stuff bother you? And they just, it totally like, like they were like, no, like why, like what they care about us is their business. It doesn't bother us at all. And so this family had the most positive outlook on life. And it, it did wear off on me, to be honest, like, you know, I'm not about to go and like, become a Mormon or anything, but I want to hang out with them a whole lot more. Right. This is wild. By the way, didn't he get in like a helicopter accident like the next week or something? The week after. Yeah. He, on the podcast on Money Wise, he talked about how much he loves flying helicopters.

17:31I don't know all the details, but like three days afterwards, they were flying a helicopter. I think he was. He's flying it himself? He, in this particular, he does. But in this particular case, he was the passenger and they got in a wreck and it was not good. And he survived. he's going to be fine but it was a it was a bad it was a bad wreck uh and like if you go to their instagram you'll see like all 10 of their family members like surrounding him at the hospital and so yeah he's going to have a um a lot of issues to deal with but like this was like the kindest sweetest family i've ever been out been around do you know raleigh williams he came too and uh it was like me and raleigh williams and then the houghton family and raleigh williams uh And his kid was amazing.

18:14She's 10 years old. And she was the most articulate little girl I've ever talked to. I was like, how did you learn how to talk this good? And she was like, for the church, they teach us how to do a homily. That's what we call it in the Catholic Church. I don't know what the Mormons call it. We talk in front of 500 people at church. And she was like, in doing that, I learned that Anita told me all the principles to speaking confidently. And I was like, you're the greatest person. I was like, I'm Navy, my next daughter, Navy, because of you. But this freaking family was awesome. It felt honestly like I was in a reality TV show, but there's no drama.

18:49There was zero drama. It was like the happiest thing I've ever seen. And the husbands, by the way, are the managers. So the husbands are the managers of the two daughters. One guy was like, yeah, I used to work at Amazon. I helped create, I think, Alexa or something like that. But then when I saw the potential for this influencer stuff, I quit right away, and now we make, and they told me how much money. And it was just an astronomical amount of money. It was crazy. So that was my weekend with a billionaire Mormon family, and it was awesome.

19:21All right, where can we go from here? This might feel like a letdown after that. Let's see. All right, I'm just going to give you three numbers to pick from. I have three people on this list. Give me what you want. Number one, number two, or number three. Number one. Or maybe I could rapid fire these, and then you can tell me which one you want to talk about. Okay. Hung out with my friend, James Currier. We did a podcast together. It's going to come out soon. He has this one bit that I just really liked. So he's all about, his fund is called NFX as in network effects. He's all about network effects.

19:54Like nobody on earth knows more about network effects than this guy. And he has this great blog post and this thing that we talked about, which is called like your life on network effects. I hadn't really thought of it this way, but the contrarian thing he said was he was talking about leaving San Francisco. We had a bunch of friends who we used to hang out with that have moved out of San Francisco during COVID because they were like, oh, everything's online now. So we'll just leave and then it'll be like good for taxes. And he goes, he's like, look, everybody, you know, personal choices, do whatever it's like.

20:21But if you wanted to be here and you left because of taxes and because you thought it's the same, it's same, same on Zoom, he's like, that's idiotic. You know, he's like, you're just going to save 13 % on your taxes and you're going to lose 13, you're going to make 13X less money on that same money-saving decision. Moving for taxes, when someone tells me they do that, I think they're stupid. I think that's a foolish thing to do. Do you agree or disagree? There's a lot of people that do that. I think it's foolish. Sorry, they're not stupid. I think that decision's foolish. Or rather, I don't agree with it.

20:54That decision, and actually several other decisions they make are probably also stupid. But don't you agree? The point of succeeding is to do what you want, not to have to move to Puerto Rico. If you want to live in Puerto Rico, then great, do it. Exactly. But if taxes is the number one reason, I think that that is your, what's that phrase? You can't see the forest and the trees or something like that. I mean, I kind of agree. That's why I'm still here, but yeah. So I thought that was interesting. And when he talks about your life on Network Effects, his idea is basically everything, if you could take all your decisions you make and instead of thinking of them as things you did or decisions you made or just like events in your life, If you looked at it as you either joined a network or you left a network, you either added into a network or you subtracted out of a network.

21:42So, for example, where you choose to go to college, it's not just a college. It's not just an education. You're picking a network to join. I joined the Duke Alumni Network. And that alumni network is going to have certain benefits down the road. It's also going to lead me to maybe certain careers that that network tends to go towards, which is like Wall Street, finance, things like that. Where you live, obviously, is a huge one. So like what city you live, if you join the Hollywood network, you're going to be joining a certain lifestyle, certain career opportunities, et cetera. And when you leave, you are opting out of that network or you're getting yourself away from the white hot center of the network.

22:15Even just skills you pick, like let's say you want to learn, you learn marketing. Well, you're actually joining a network of other people who know marketing and that's who you're going to hang out with. Those are the opportunities you're going to get. And that's where that's the sort of the next decisions are going to be heavily influenced by the network decisions that you're making, the initial network decisions that you're making. And did that make you reflect on the decision that you've made or thinking that you did the right thing or the wrong thing? Or how will you implement this? Because that makes me, I don't regret.

22:48I don't regret. I moved mostly because of family, or only because of family. But I do wish I was in California. Which is its own network, right? You opted into your own par family network or whatever, you know, you opted into, you opted to like be more dense there and have more connectivity there, which is going to be great for your family raising and all that. But you opted out of the tech network of San Francisco, let's say. Which by the way, if I could live anywhere, like if family weren't a thing, it would either be an SF or a suburb, like 20 minutes away. But I would live there in a heartbeat.

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23:24And what did it make you feel like? Well, he kind of points out, he's like, you know, there's some things that you don't choose, like where you're born, right? Things like that. But then there's, after that, it's a lot of what you start to choose to do. And even little things like, you know, language is a network. So, you know, if you're in China right now, like choosing to join the English network is actually like a really powerful decision you can make that's gonna like completely change the trajectory of your life, being able to do that. If you start to look at things, English is not just a language, it's a network.

23:55It's a network of people who all can communicate with each other using certain syllables and words and vowels and phrases, right? Money is a network, right? So joining the Bitcoin network early on turned out to be a really profitable decision because you picked, hey, we're a bunch of people who all believe that this thing is going to be valuable network, right? So it just made me more aware of that. It made me, you know, why did I host that dinner in San Francisco? Partly because James was like, yeah, one of the big mistakes I made earlier in my career was I got successful and I kind of siloed myself.

24:23I kind of just wanted to do my own thing on the edge of the network. He's like, it was great for creativity because I was just in my bunker just doing my thing. But it was terrible because he's like, you know, I turned down that lunch meeting with Travis when he was starting Uber. And I, you know, I was too egotistical to take that job at Facebook early on when Mark was trying to recruit me because I just thought, like, I'm going to be off in my own land, creating my own little castle over here. And he's like, again, fun for creativity and for learning, but a little bit foolish to how extreme I was with that.

24:54And so for me, for example, I moved 45 minutes out of San Francisco. That reduced a lot of the serendipitous meetings that I could have in the network of people that I like to be around. Interesting, ambitious people. Would you move closer then? Well, I don't think I'll move closer because the family network's out here. And it's just better. The school that we're in and all that stuff is better out here. But I'm like, yeah, I could definitely drive to SF twice a month and host a dinner, do a couple of live podcasts with people there. That'll be great. And that's not that much of an effort, but just to stay, just to keep one, almost like in the diagram, right?

25:28One line connected to the white hot center of the network. Yeah. And I mean, you live near BART, right? I do. But BART's a network I don't want to be a part of. You're opting out of that one? Yeah, I'm opting out of that one. All right. I have another person. So basically, I don't speak at conferences unless my wife wants to come with me, if Neville wants to join and do it with me. And if Nick Gray will attend. Those three things have to happen. You know, I need my entourage. All three or one of the three? All three. All three have to happen. All three have to happen. That's your like, I only green Skittles.

26:03That's your rider? That's my rider. Is Sarah's got to, the reason I don't like traveling, but I like to travel if it's for a conference because I love going somewhere and the first two days are conferences. The next few days are fun because you meet someone at the event who's going to tell you cool shit to do. and also I just like doing some of my friends and so I went and spoke at this thing called the newsletter conference which was pretty wild because like 15 of my ex-employees were speakers and are all like many of them are millionaires or making a whole lot of money doing newsletter stuff and that like made me feel proud but I met James Altucher you know who James Altucher is?

26:39Yeah he's been on the podcast he's a what is his like he's an author like what's his like title in life? I think James might be the craziest person that I've met in the last six months. So if you Google James Altucher, you're going to see that he's like, the thing that sticks out is his hair. He's got this like crazy haircut. And in real life, he sort of looks like a rock star. Like he kind of like, like he's not trying, but he looks so different that he looks super cool and awesome. And so James is the type of guy who, well, he's got the story. I don't know his full background, but he's like created a startup, made a bunch of money, blew it all on stocks or bad investments, did another startup, made a bunch of money, lost it all.

27:21And now I think he's on like mountain three. And he has a thing called Choose Yourself Financial. It started out just as a newsletter where he would just write about his interesting opinions and things like that. He sold a portion or all of it to Agora. Agora is a large newsletter business that makes something like$1 or$2 billion a year in revenue. I don't like their company. I think that they have like 15 or 20. It's basically, it started in the 80s as one newsletter. Now they have like 20 and they acquire other people's newsletters. And I think they do a lot of nefarious stuff. So I'm not trying to promote those guys, but now they're not all bad.

27:57And he sold to them. And now he's their highest or one of their highest earning newsletters. And his newsletter, Choose Yourself Financial, did 130 million in revenue last year. And it's like crazy. The numbers are crazy, very profitable. And he said all this on stage. Everything I'm saying is public. And so I hung out with him and his wife, and we had a great time. And he said one thing to me. He said it in passing, and I was like, the record skipped. He was like, yeah, I love DoorDash because I don't leave my house for three or six weeks at a time. And if I need a pen, they just bring me a pen.

28:31And I was like, what? Did you just say that you don't leave your house for three to six weeks at a time? And he told me, he's like, yeah, like sometimes I just get so into something that I literally will not step foot outside for like four weeks at a time. And so he, but he, but he said like five other things like that where he just was so fascinating. And it was proof that, you know how like, I think it was in the Peter Thiel, what's his book called? Zero to one. Zero to one. he said there's like a graph where it's like a bar chart or something like that where it's like extreme success means that you're likely going to have extreme personality traits and those extreme personality traits like come off as weird or undesirable in many settings you know you could be like elon which means you're going to be kind of mean sometimes you could be like albert einstein which means you're like forgetful all the time and like wear two different socks or whatever like he like has these examples james is that guy he very much has the like brilliant but forgetful and quirky scientist vibe to him and it was just wild seeing him just have normal conversations because his opinion and the way he looked at things was 100 fresh and different from how i looked at the most like normal things for example when he said he didn't leave his house i was like that's horrible he's like he was shocked that i was criticizing him and which is pretty funny because he should live his life and be happy.

29:57And that made him happy. And it was like, or in the green room, he was playing chess the whole time with Steph Smith, who was also there. I was like, you guys know each other? And they're like, well, we've never actually met, but we play chess constantly together online. And he meets a lot of his friends playing chess online. And there was just so many little tidbits about this guy that made him so fascinating to me. And by the way, if you know Agora, You know, they're famous for these like long form sales pages and like incredibly aggressive advertising. Do you remember in like 2020 or 2019, James's face was everywhere?

30:33Yeah. He was like, I hate that. I hated it. I hated it. I hate our landing pages. I hate how long they are. I hate how they look too aggressive. And he was like, I tried to write differently and like make my own landing pages. None of them could ever convert nearly as good as like the crazy shit that they would write. So did he make a ton of money off that Agora thing? yeah yeah all right or uh maybe the yes and also i i think the answer is is and is still and is still okay gotcha um all right i like that one james uh i have another one that's less weird but more um side questy so shiel shiel monat who came on the podcast uh recently you You can see his episode.

31:20The numbers crushed. Yeah, he did. He did really well. We, so he was at the dinner too. And S.H.I.E.L.D. tells these stories and you're just kind of like, if you just listen to the stories, you'd be like, wow, this guy is fascinating. You would never know his day job because S.H.I.E.L.D. is an epic side quester. So his day job is he's a VC. He invests in fintech companies. That's his job. And there's a lot of that. The weird thing is that if you listen to him, he's like, oh yeah, I'm, I'm taking like courses or like whatever. I'm getting certified to be a travel agent now so I can access all these travel discounts.

31:56And he's been doing that. He's like, yeah, I actually looked at buying the ambassadorship position for like being an ambassador of a country because it has these perks. He's like, basically like your friend who's like really good with credit card points, but for everything, including credit card points, by the way, I think on the podcast, he gave us like a pretty good credit card point tip, but he just has like all these epic side quests he's gone down over and over again. He's like, yeah, I got married in the metaverse and like Taco Bell sponsored it. Oh, and hey, guess what else I did? You know, I started this auction company to go and buy and sell like the domain endings like.app and.photography.

32:34Like that was his business. It's like, these aren't even normal. Even his businesses aren't normal businesses. They're just weird side quests that made money. I think his side, Thistle, his, is that it? Yeah, Thistle was another one. He's like, oh yeah. Like, um, so the story he told on the thing was, he was like, I was interested in this like food delivery space. It got really hot sprig, et cetera. I was ordering from all of them, but I just thought there's no way this thing's making money. So then as a side quest, I signed up and became a driver for a month and I drove around and it was, it was amazing.

33:04I met all these people and I learned the model and I realized that this thing's never going to make money. And he's, he was right. Sprig went out of business. So did all the others that were doing it. And he's like, but we could do this other thing, thistle. And I got my friend to do it. And now thistle is like i forgot what he said what did he say on the podcast like an absurd number i think it's a hundred million plus uh over a hundred hundred million plus of revenue and i was like wow this guy is just always on side quest so for example he was talking about he's like um he's like oh yeah uh mr beast posted this video about like i i'm on this abandoned uh island or whatever like this this abandoned island i'm the only one here and there's nothing here blah blah blah and then she was like hold on i've been to that island but but without the video like and he's like no wait that's not abandoned there's like a there's a bar like three minutes away from where he is and there's this motel so he tweeted about this and then jimmy calls him and he's like hey man like what are you talking about like that is an abandoned island he's like no it's not it's three minutes away from a bar like he's like no technically it's abandoned if you look at xyz and i was like this guy just constantly gets himself into situations wait Jimmy called him because Jimmy like felt his integrity was under attack.

34:14Yeah. And he was like, did you give Jimmy my number? I was like, no, I didn't even, I didn't even know this happened. And, and shielded back down. He was like, no, it's not, it's not an abandoned Island. Or were they both right? He's like, where are you? He's like, look at it. Three minutes away. There's a place. There's a pub. It's like, it's not abandoned. And I think technically maybe there was something where it's like the, the, like the border or like, I don't know. I don't know what this, I didn't get into the details. obviously I don't give a shit. But I just thought it was amazing that there's people that just do things for their own amusement.

34:44And I'll bring this home with a little TikTok I saw. And it was the TikTok was, there's like this TikTok had gone viral. And I'm glad it went viral because it means that other people are similarly really attracted to people who just do shit for their own amusement and really for no other reason. So the TikTok that went viral was like, I forgot the name of the dance, but it was basically like, shout out to my boy, Willie. for spending all of our bachelor party weekend trying to learn this dance. And I guess there's like some dance and he's like this awkward looking white guy. And there's like two black friends trying to show him how to do this dance.

35:18And it's just like everywhere they went during the bachelor party, he's just practicing this dance just to like see if he can learn it in a weekend. And like he starts off really bad. And by the end, he's actually like pretty good at the end of the weekend. And then they cut to the wedding and he's doing the same dance just for fun on his own on the side of the dance floor. Like not part of a performance, just like just doing his thing over there. And I respect that. I think I respect that more than I respect like someone's achievements in life. I kind of respect people that value their own amusement as the highest order bit.

35:52And I think Sheil is an example of that. Like the shit he does, he's not doing it because there's some outcome he's seeking. He's just amused by it and therefore like follows it. And he ends up in these situations that at the end become really good stories. But I don't think that's why he's doing it. I think, you know, we've done close to 700 of these episodes. Sheil would be in my top 10 of people who I admire most. I think that Sheil... Did you... Like, people... I don't even know if we mentioned this one. Do you know that Sheil's in a Justin Bieber music video? Of course he is. Why wouldn't he be in a Justin Bieber music video?

36:25How did that happen? Like, I was watching from the outside. So I think the way it happened was during COVID, an online version of Bachelor, like The Bachelor. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I watched this. It was great. And what was it exactly? It was, was this during COVID? It was Bachelor on Zoom. I think it was called The Zoom Bachelor or something like that. Yeah. It was Sheil, The Bachelor, and there was a bunch of women that would pop up and then he would like eliminate, give out roses and eliminate them and then he'd pick someone in the end, they went on a date or something. And somehow, I could be confusing all the stories, but somehow this, it was a hit.

36:59It was awesome. and then he then there's a video of him where he's turned around like this and it looks like he's making out with someone like this in the video yeah so he i think he is i'm watching this all from outside i think he posted that video and then he turns around and he smiles and he looks so happy and that clip made it into a justin bieber music video and if you go and watch the music video his clip shield's clip is the best clip oh i have it i have it it's there what what was it called like love yourself was it love yourself and he's like it looks like he's making out with someone but play it play that clip and like watch that oh my god this is so funny it turns around he's got a huge mustache for some reason and he's just teasing do you know another crazy thing about him by the way you know the podcast startup on gimlet media i think he created that yeah yeah Yeah, I think he did.

37:58He had his hands in it. Maybe we'll say that. He just has had, he's had so many weird things happen to him. Let me tell you another one. Another person who I think is doing their own thing. So my buddy Furkan, who you know, he's also been on the podcast. So Furkan and I try to, we were co-founders. We tried to start a bunch of companies together for like, you know, six or seven years. I know Furkan super well. One of the things about Furkan is that he is, he's just a grinder. And it doesn't matter how successful or wealthy he's gotten. I mean, his last company, AppLovin, is like a$100 billion company.

38:31And it's absurd. Why is it taking off so much, by the way? Like AppLovin, for years, it was sort of a joke because when you would drive in San Francisco, they had billboards where they were trying to recruit engineers. And the name AppLovin came out right... We still associated it with McLovin. and it was like, is this a real company? You know what I mean? And now it's one of the most valuable companies in the world. Yeah, exactly. So he's been, so Furkan has been early into a bunch of like tech things, right? He's basically like a hacker's hacker. So he was really into crypto before crypto was cool.

39:12Like I remember literally being at the office and he was like not paying attention because he was buying into the Ethereum ICO at like, you know, 17 cents or something like that. I was like, Ethereum, like literally like dorkiest fucking name, never going to work. So I didn't buy because your boy's a genius. And that's why I'm a podcaster now. And he's a billionaire. And so... Is Furkan a billionaire now or... I don't know. I don't know if he is or is it. But something, he started a$100 billion company. I don't know. He's not like three zip codes away. Maybe he's two. I don't know. He's getting close.

39:40So he got into crypto early on. And then when Web3 happened, remember when Web3 happened and everybody was like, like piling into Web3. And Furkan was building a company in that space. Literally, this company is called Third Web. And he was just really into the actual like technology behind it. He's like, oh, I think I can make these tools easier to use for developers and blah, blah, blah, blah. Dude, one time he like did a talk on, remember the Raspberry? Raspberry Pi, yeah. Yeah. And like he like one time spent like 45 minutes explaining to me all about it. And he knew everything about it. Yeah.

40:11Yeah. He knows everything about everything. So he's, and the second thing he got really into was VR. So he bought me an Oculus just because he was like, I don't want to tell you about this and like hope that you go try it out here. Here's the new Oculus headset. Go home and put this on. OK, that's that's that's not a friend you need. And so I go home and I put it on. I'm blown away. And I'm like, wow, this thing's getting really good. And then I think he bought me like another one when it got better. And then I started buying them and I'm like paying attention to VR. But, you know, I'm like every other lemming out there.

40:41It's like I pay attention when shit gets hot. And Furkan, the reason why Furkan is so great is because he doesn't pay attention when things get hot. He's like in the hardcore nerd bucket where he's like, I pay attention because it's interesting to me. I don't care if it's popular or not. I don't care if it's hot or not. I don't care if it's here or not. I want to be on this train the whole time. And so he was telling me about his, so he's got this lab called Effing. And he was telling me first about ThirdWeb, how it was growing and how it had real revenues now. I was like, oh, wow, that's great.

41:09Then he's telling me about VR. and like Sam, like how many people do you know that are interested in VR right now? Like everybody who is interested in tech is interested in AI. Where's your Oculus sitting right now? Dude, where's the biggest pile of dust in my room? I think it's back there. Yeah, it's gone. Same. My, I mean like I did what everyone did. They got it. This is awesome. This is going to change the world. It's going to change everything. I don't know where the charger is. It's in my drawer somewhere. Yeah. Let's go back to scrolling on my phone. Yeah. and he didn't do that. He's like, he would tell me like we would hang out and he's like, I'm working in VR today.

41:46Once a week, I go co-work in VR. I'm like, what? And so guess what? His interest in VR, there's not, it's not popular right now. In fact, they went to a VR conference and this VR conference was like, you know, crickets basically and he sends... Is VR the new ocean? It's the old ocean. That's the problem. It doesn't even have the new tag and so our buddy Hubert who works with him goes there and he wears a t-shirt all black that just says I invest in VR huge on the front he's like dude it was like being the only girl at like a like a prom or something like that there was like everybody was interested in him because he's in he's like the only guy left investing in VR and he's like dude it's actually kind of working he goes you know if you look at the top 15 apps like the top 15 apps in all of the Oculus store these three guys over here own three of the top 15 he's like they're printing money right now like this thing is amazing Yeah, it's not like, it's not the hot thing right now, but like, I don't know, if you can make$10 million as like a small team building these apps and you're the frontline of this and you're the only people who are like specializing this technology, like good things are gonna happen.

42:55So it just kind of reminded me of like, you know, all the money is made either and being sort of right on time, but timing is super hard. And so the same way that Warren Buffett was like, don't try to time the market, focus on your time in market. Furkan is doing the tech, the engineering version of time in market, where once he's interested in something and he believes in it, he doesn't let his interests go in and out based off of popular sentiment or VCs or exits or anything like that. It's just based on, is the tech getting better or not? And I think that's just such a strong thing that's gonna help them be super, super successful.

43:32To all the young people listening who are looking for a thing to do, I feel like that story is maybe, a life-altering... This is a very good premise. And I'm on board with this premise. I do think VR... It's actually... And it's not... This isn't a secret. Mark Zuckerberg, who has a really good ratio of getting things right, has said this is the thing. And also, do you know who also loves VR? Sheil. Sheil posts videos of his... Or not... It's not VR, but the... Spectacles. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or what's it called? The Ray-Bans? Ray-Bans, yeah. He loves those Ray-Bans. and it's very clear how there's like, you know, that's all in the same ballpark of VR and how this can all work.

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45:18That was what I was going to bring up next. So I love those two. I have them. I bought some for my sister just like for her birthday recently. And I think that it's a great product. It's actually like, do you have them, by the way? No, I'll go buy them right now. What do they do? Like, what's the point? The first, the very first easy thing is they're basically AirPods. AirPods. So people don't really realize this at worst case scenario, you just bought a pair of AirPods that you're probably not going to lose. So the audio from the, like the glasses, the, the, the part that goes behind your ear, it's not in your ear, but you can hear like music, podcasts, whatever, super easily.

45:50Um, so the audio is the, the AirPod type of feature is great. And then the camera, right? Like hands or camera, if you have a kid, like for kids, this thing is incredible because I wear them to like my daughter's like soccer games or whatever. and like, you know, the moment passes so quickly with kids. And if you're fumbling, get out of your pockets, unlock face ID, nope, nope, type in my password, get the camera app open, it's over by then, right? And you're now looking through your phone at life versus your glasses. That's where you're already looking. It's on your head, it's on a swivel. All you do, literally, if something's going on or something's interesting, you just tap the thing and it starts recording.

46:25And the video looks great, by the way. It's really, really good. So for if you're traveling, if you're out and about, if you've got kids, if you're at a sports thing, if you're at a concert, this thing is amazing. And so to me, these are the future. I think Meta knows this. They're like investing in it very heavily. I think it's interesting because it's kind of uncontested right now. Like maybe Apple will get in the game. Maybe if they still have like the juice to do it. Snapchat seems to have fallen out. The famous, like, I forgot what the thing was called. Magic Leap. Those guys died or are dying.

46:57And the humane pin died, right? Like all that stuff is kind of dead. And I think Facebook has this sort of uncontested right now. And the thing I was going to say, though, is I remember when I was in San Francisco, this company called Leap Motion got bought. Do you remember Leap Motion? Yes. Did they did that become a video game or like part of a video game? They got bought by Facebook. And what they were doing was they were they were like it was like this thing you wore on your wrist. And then you could just move your hands and do like hand gestures to control a computer. Essentially, they never really found product market fit because guess what?

47:28Not a lot of people want to sit in front of their desktop and like hand gesture like the minority report. Like replacing the mouse and keyboard wasn't like super sick, I guess. Yeah, but it's pretty sweet if you have some physical disability, which I mean, there's a lot of like amazing applications, I would imagine. Maybe, but you still got to use your hand, your arm, right? So it's like, you know, same thing as I guess a mouse really. But the team that was working on it was like cutting edge at this kind of like gesture control. And guess what? Like being the best team in the world at gesture control or another example of this was, they got bought for, I think, 100 million plus.

48:01Another company that got bought for 100 million plus that never hit product market fit was the company that was working on face masks. So before, remember when Snapchat came out with those face filters? It was super hot, like the dog face filter. Bitmoji? No, it was called Masquerade was the name of the company. And so Masquerade, I think it was like a European company. It was just a small company. and again got bought for like$100 million plus. And then Facebook bought another company that was doing a very similar thing. Or maybe I'm mixing up who bought Masquerade. But I guess my point is being at the leading edge of just the tech, you get two shots to win.

48:35If you make the breakthrough app that actually does get product market fit, then you get to win in the billions. If you're just the most hardcore tech team at building like good functionality and like working on these new platforms, your team of 10 really strong engineers, if you could actually build a strong team, your floor becomes like a 50 to$100 million company. I don't think most people realize this. I think most people think starting a company is really risky. Yes, but there are less risky versions of this. And right now, if you were working on the Meta Ray-Bans platform, which like today, there's no app store for it.

49:11There's nothing, but guess what? There's gonna be, right? Like that form factor is for sure going to exist. And there's for sure gonna be apps that are built on it. And so if I was a pretty hardcore tech team, or if I worked at one of these big companies, like let's say I was at Facebook or I was at Snap Spectacles and I was on that team, the smartest thing you could do is spin out with your five smartest friends and be like, hey guys, the floor of this company is a 50 to$100 million company. And the ceiling is like a billion dollar company or 2 billion or whatever it is. And all we're going to do is we're just going to live at the cutting edge of this.

49:40And we just have to survive five years. We have, we need time in market. Like we just have to survive five to five years in order to like be there. and we're going to just work out all the kinks about the spatial recognition, about getting gesture control correct, about all these little tech problems that you need to do to make things great. Because either you're going to do it and crack the app or they were going to buy you because you've solved a bunch of gnarly problems. There was, I'm reading this book called Digital Gold. It's about the, have you, you know that? It's a, that book, it's about Bitcoin and the founding and like the early community and things like that.

50:13I don't think I've read that one. It's great. There's not actually that many books written about like the early characters, which is why I wanted to read it because we had Nick Bilton on and we did American Kingpin about Silk Road. I was like, these stories are really fun. And now like I know of a lot of the early characters of Bitcoin and like them talking about going to their first conference. And on the first conference, there was like 50 people there and it was like a shitty restaurant and just like all these like stories of like, yeah, like this checks all the boxes of like early like crowd of just nerds who are regarded as freaks and no one takes them seriously.

50:48And then one legitimate financier is like, okay, there's something here. And then another one. And then another one. And then there's a controversy. But they overcome it. And then it fits all the stereotypes of these types of stories. And what you're describing is that same thing. It's like a group of weirdos. What did we say about... I had some guy pitch me a company that I thought was really stupid and now it's huge. It was like, this product is dumb. Oh my God, people are using this. They're dumb. Oh my God, everyone's using this. I'm dumb. You know what I mean? And like, it's like, that's like how you go through.

51:22That's like the process of some of these things. And like when you're talking about these metaglasses, you're talking about VR, you're talking about oceans. I'm like, oh my God, there's like a story here, a story there. Like it's the same pattern over and over again. And it's a really fun pattern. Speaking of crypto, I have three crypto things for you real quick. Number one, James on the podcast tells a story about, because he wrote this blog post a long time ago. He tells a story about how his friend thought he was Satoshi. And the reason why is because. How flattering. I know, by the way. What's up with my friends, dude?

51:56Who, me? Not even a long shot? You think I'm Satoshi? No. I could never. What an honor, though. But the thing that he was saying was he wrote this blog post. It's on his blog still. It's called One Currency to Rule Them All. It was about one world currency, about creating a digital world currency. And he tells a story on the podcast about why he was interested in that, how he was interested in that, and what happened. So he was like, him, I forgot who it was. It was him. It was Philip Rosedale who started Second Life, which, by the way, like still to this, you know, basically Second Life to this day is probably the best execution of a metaverse.

52:36Like they had like millions and millions of players. They lived their lives in there. They formed relationships and marriages. They had like, they have their own currency in there. Like - Is it its own thing still? I don't know if Second Life has officially like died. I don't know if it's still going. I'm not sure. But like at the time they had Linden bucks or whatever, Linden dollars. And it was like a whole thing. So him and Philip Rosedale were like interested in this. And then it was, there's a famous VC. I'm forgetting the name now, but he tells a story about a famous VC. And they used to meet once a week and they would talk about like, okay, how are we going to build this world currency?

53:07And they were like, here's what it needs to do. and like all the things that bitcoin eventually did they're like they're like it needs to have um it needs to have this it needs to have this and what they did was they went to the lobby conference which if you know is like this 100 150 person conference and they you i went to the last year of the lobby conference it was awesome it was all internet ogs it was so cool so they were at one i guess and their their little breakout conversation was about this they're like hey i think there's something, there's a need for this. And he bought the domain blue.com, B-L-U-E.com.

53:39He was going to launch it. It was going to be called blue. And like, you know, the dollar is green and this currency was going to be blue. And they had the whole thing sort of like planned out, I guess. But they were like, they couldn't figure out how do we, if this ever becomes a thing, like the target on our back is going to be too crazy. Like we can't do this. And the problem was they were like, we've already talked about it at lobby. And he's like, once we realized this, this thing would need an immaculate conception that it would need to be totally anonymous or pseudonymous, like a start and nobody could know who did it.

54:11They're like, we blew it. We said it at the lobby conference. There's 14 other people now who have heard us be interested in this. And when the white paper came out years later, Philip called him and was like, dude, I can't believe you. You cut me out. No way. He's like, have you seen Bitcoin? He's like, yeah. He's like, that's you, right? He's like, no, it's not me. He's like, I thought it was you. If it was either of the two of us, it'd be you. You're way more technical. He's like, no, it's not me. Who the hell is this? How cool is that? That is awesome. That is one of the greatest stories I've heard.

54:43It's weird that multiple groups of people start working on the same thing independently at the same time, isn't it? And they had the same conclusion that it had to be an anonymous creator. Yeah, exactly. And you know what? The other crazy thing, you saw this Jack Dorsey, like, is Jack Dorsey the same thing? Dude, that was the stupidest thing, man. Like there was some compelling evidence, but then what they did was they completely like spoiled the broth by putting in there. Jack loves wearing Japanese clothing, like as like examples of why he is Satoshi. Do you know what I mean? It was ridiculous.

55:14I didn't think that was that bad. What's wrong with that? There was like multiple pieces of compelling. It's supposed to be compelling evidence that says like Jack wore a who is Satoshi t-shirt to the to the Olympics. Like it was just like ridiculous stuff. No, I thought it was ridiculous. You didn't think it was ridiculous? First I did, because I was like, Jack Dorsey? No way. You know, then there's this deck, right? Do you read the deck? There's this actual full slide deck about it. There was a bunch of good points. There was a bunch of good points. There was a bunch of good points about it.

55:47Things I didn't know. I did not know that Jack was like in those early cypherpunk communities back when he was like 15 years old or something like that. You know what I mean? Like he was actually in that. whoever started this thing was likely in that really small community of about, I don't know, 1500 people that were on those early mailing lists. Well, he was, and he, and he was, I didn't know that. So that was kind of new information. Okay. Interesting. Um, other things that I didn't know. So there was like, um, there was like a lot of the timing things with when he was starting Twitter. And when he was like, basically the timing of when Satoshi was active and then when Twitter took off and then when he stopped, when he left Twitter and he was like, I'm excited about new things.

56:27And then all of a sudden, that was like, he tweeted like, someone needs to create this thing or that thing. And it was like right when Satoshi was creating that thing. There was all these weird coincidence in timeline. Exactly. But then there was other stuff where he was like, look at the code here. That sounds like Jack's favorite restaurant in San Francisco. Or Jack said he wants to be by the US Mint for his office, which Twitter was. Therefore, I just thought it was huge reaches. There are huge reaches, and I don't think it's true. But I thought, wow, this is a lot of stuff about Jack Dorsey that I didn't really realize.

57:04And like, you know, for example, you know, one of the, I think the biggest reaches of the thing where they would look at like strings of the transaction IDs or whatever. And it'd be like, see, this says D2MP, dude in two mint plaza. That was his address. You're right. All right. I don't think D, just because D2MP showed up in the middle of a string doesn't mean that he's saying, you know, one dude SF, one DSF. That's him. You know, it's like, those are the ones where it's like, okay, I don't think that stuff is true. It's like trying to like figure out if Tupac's still alive. Like, did you hear what that, he said, Shug shot me.

57:43Like he said it in the song. You know what I mean? But I would definitely go read this deck. The deck was very entertaining and it was presented in a very like serious way. And I just appreciate the seriousness that which somebody took this research. By the way, that two-minute plaza, that's where we were for the dinner. And so I was like, and it was the same day that the thing dropped. I was like, hey, this is, maybe I'm the creator. Maybe you're Satoshi. That should be the takeaway. That was my takeaway. I've got one more thing for you. Go to chisos.com. So C-H-S-I-C-H. Sorry. Start over. Chisos.com.

58:19All right. I spelled it all wrong and you still got there. Is it Chisos? Is it Spanish? Chisos. Boots. Do you see the boots? Incredible craftsmanship. I see cowboy boots. Yeah. So I own a pair of these boots. I have no stake in this company, nothing. I just think it's cool. And the founder is part of like, I recently became friends with him, but he's part of my friend group in Austin. He was like friends with Nick and I met him once or twice through Nick. His name is Will Roman. And this company - You bought a thousand dollar pair of cowboy boots? I think$500 or$600 pair a year, like a while ago.

58:57And this company, he owns the whole thing. And he was explaining to me at like, we were hanging out and I was like, dude, this is a good story. Can I talk about it? So he gave me permission. But the company does like low seven figures in revenue. And the way it started was he worked in tech, like at a normal tech company, quits his job, moves to Mexico to learn, because Mexico is where a lot of like great boots are made, like spends years there, like learning the craftsmanship. Like apprenticing? Yeah, apprenticing. He's like, I want to learn how boots are made and I want to make bespoke boots.

59:25That was his dream was to make bespoke boots. He's a Texas guy. He's like, he's kind of looks like a cowboy. And he quits his tech job, moves, learns how to make boots, creates this company called Chizos. And he was telling me the other day, he didn't say this, but I got this read on him that he's a little burnt out. He was like, the company's like growing 10 to 15 % a year. I own the whole thing. And he was explaining his vision. He was like, there's Chicovas, which are like kind of cheap, but they sell hundreds of millions of dollars for the boots. It's a startup. And then there's bespoke bootmakers who are just mom and pop stores.

59:55He's like, I want to be a little bit closer. I want to be closer to bespoke than to Kova. I don't want to be cheap. I need the highest quality and I refuse to sacrifice that quality. But I want to build this into a huge company. And I was like, do you spend on marketing? Do you do this? And he's like, no, we don't do anything. I just make the greatest boots. And I Google the boot name, Chizzo's Boots, and Reddit and all these other companies or all these other forums are talking about this is the best boot on earth. And I see all this and it starts formulating in my brain. I'm like, this is it, my friend.

1:00:23You have it. The hard part is done. Surely there's some type of nerds out there that could help make this company big. But I thought I'd bring this to you because I criticized the D2C world a bit when, well, I have that criticism often about this world and how there's not enough emphasis on product creation and story and things like this. And it's mostly just arbitrage. And I came across to this. And I was like, that's an example of something that I think, I don't know anything about this world, but I think could be blown up and be made pretty huge. Yeah, this is really cool. By the way, great branding by this guy.

1:00:57So like, dude, he has everything good. Go to their website. It's very clean. And like this, like sawed in half video. Like what I like about this is a, I love that story of moving to Mexico to like apprentice and actually like learn the craft. And I just kind of want that to be like a TV show. But the second thing is, um, sometimes the people who are really good at making the product can't show it. There's a little story. So Ben's brother bought into a restaurant or like helped co-found a restaurant, um, where they live in, in Phoenix. So we go there for lunch and we're there and it's his brother.

1:01:33And it's, and I was like, so why'd you do this? He's like, well, the chef is amazing. He's, he's like, you know, recognized as like one of the best chefs. So he's this great chef. He's like, I just really believe in this guy's product. And I thought we could turn it into a business. He's like, the problem is when you partner with these artists, sometimes they don't A, know anything about how to like convey that or show that. And B, they just won't compromise like price or quality or whatever. There's uncompromising. He's like, bro, like we need to make this. Like we're so expensive compared to everybody else.

1:02:01Like that's, but nobody really is like, we're so expensive and that's hurting our business. And I was talking to him and he's like, he's like, for example, he holds up these tortillas. He's like, you know, these tortillas, like these tortillas cost this much. I forgot what it was like, whatever. Let's call it. Let's pretend it was two bucks. It's$2 a tortilla. Most people get their tortillas like 20 cents. And I was like, well, why? And he's like, because he demands that every morning we get fresh tortillas that are trucked in from Mexico. And I was like, wow. That's awesome. Why don't you tell anybody that?

1:02:32And he's like, what? I'm like, yeah, you should like tell people that we truck our tortillas in fresh from Mexico every morning. I'd gladly pay$2 if I knew that. Your problem isn't that the chef is not willing to compromise and cut costs. Your problem is that you're not marketing this in a way that actually tells the story of why this food tastes better than anyone else and why this is fresher, why this is more authentic, why this is better, why this is higher priced. And so that became like a little, like one of our core things in my little team, me, Ben, Diego, we talk about this all the time.

1:03:04We go, we call it the tortilla principle. It's like, when we look at businesses that we're either going to buy or our own businesses, it's like, where are we trucking in tortillas fresh from Mexico? And are we doing a good job of telling that story? And almost always the answer is no. Like the things you do in your business that are like the blood, sweat, and tears to do something great, you take for granted because they just seem like table stakes for you. And you're not even telling the world about why you do that or what you do there, why you're different than anybody else, why you've gone the extra mile there.

1:03:33Yeah, Joe Sugarman, one of my favorite copywriters, he was like, I used to sell so many of these particular watches. I forget which company. It was Casio, maybe. And they were like, we... And he was like, we make this out of this aluminum. Or they were... Casio was explaining to Joe Sugarman, the copywriter, how they make their watch. Because he was like, tell me everything so I learn. And he was like, yo, we use the space-grade aluminum to make this watch. And he was like, wait, so this aluminum is strong enough for spaceships? He's like, yeah, but every watch company ever uses the exact same stuff.

1:04:03He's like, so? And then this quartz movement is special for this reason. But again, every company uses that. He's like, space-age aluminum? Precise quartz movement? And that is what sold a lot of Casio watches. And Casio, the makers, it's called the knowledge complex. When you know too much about it, you think that that's not interesting. and Joe Sugarman, an outsider, a copywriter, was like, no, this is so interesting. And that's what someone needs to do. Google Will Roman, that's the founder. But dude, look at his website. You started your story with, this guy worked in tech, had an everyday job, wasn't perfect, quit his job, moved to Mexico for three years to learn the art of bootmaking.

1:04:47Guess what? Not on his website. I know. Three years of life, three years of marketing collateral that he's not using, right? Like that's a thousand days of his life that he's not putting on the website. Like even if you click down the more tab, you're right, it's like more, our story. You go to our story, it's like true small business. Hi, I'm Will. I'm a hardworking guy, passionate about craftsmanship. Guess what? Everybody says that. Guess what everybody hasn't done? Moved to Mexico for three years and apprenticed in this boot factory. I was like, Will, do you use Reddit? He goes, I don't really know how to work it.

1:05:19I go, let me show you something. If you Google what's the most, if Google comfortable cowboy boot Reddit, the top post someone asked that and chizos the top line it says this is the most comfortable boot i've ever worn and there's 117 comments agreeing with that top post and he's like oh that's awesome he like saw that i was like are you insane man this is it you have it this guy doesn't have a tiktok is that right i don't think so does he not know that like every niche nostalgic profession is now like the coolest kid on TikTok. Like if you plant like beets or something like that, if you have a beet farm.

1:05:58Dude, there's like Victorian porn where it's like people like wearing like, you know, like old doll dresses. Like, you know what I mean? Like there's like the weirder, the better. And the more physical real world, the better. Go look at epic gardening, right? Like if he wants to do this, like go, go teach people about this, go show them the process, show them how the factory looks like, show them cutting a boot in a half like stuff like that i think would be would be just fire on on tiktok and i i only brought it up because i the story was amazing i also want to go on record as like this might be like another like of our like uh feather in the caps where we called it moment because i do love their boots it's so good and i love meeting people who 80 of the work is done this other part a lot of people can help you and get it done um and and i don't know maybe not that 80 of the work is done because like actually 80 % of the work is the marketing and like operations, but it's, they did the one hard thing that others aren't really, really willing to do.

1:06:52Yeah. That's what I mean. Like, it's like a great product. Like the product is good. We did this in my sushi restaurant. So the restaurant that we started, we started as an online, a virtual restaurant, right? It's before DoorDash and Uber Eats, but we like create a website. We would drive people to the website and you would order sushi and like, we would make it in a commissary kitchen and we'd deliver it to you in like under 20 minutes. And so we had our menu and we go and we'd meet with Dan Ariely. Do you know who that is? The author. Yeah. He wrote this book called Predictably Irrational. So he's a behavioral economist and he just happened, he was a teacher at Duke.

1:07:22We were Duke students. So we get in with him and like normally companies pay him whatever, six figure, seven figure contracts to like consult with them. He's willing to meet with us because we're just like three, you know, dumb asses that were like in like at school. And we go, Dan, we want to like drive more sales you're the guy what should we do it's show me your menu we look we show him the menu he goes oh okay you want to you want to make more money um you want more people to buy from you raise your prices you go what he goes uh we go but like you know we thought we could make it more accessible more affordable that was the whole pitch we won the business plan competition by telling people we're going to make sushi more accessible more affordable he goes yeah but when somebody looks at this they just see cheap sushi um so guess what people don't want which is the worst sushi she's the worst type of sushi exactly so he's like that's not what you want he goes and so we and by the because we were the reason i bring this up we were an online restaurant so we could literally a b test now we didn't have the tooling we weren't like smart enough to even know what an a b test was i didn't even know the phrase but we would literally switch it by day so we would do day one we would show menu a day two we would show menu b then we would look at the number at the end of the day, be like, how do we do?

1:08:31And so we raised prices and not only did revenue go up, but conversion rate went up. So we actually converted more customers and more money per customer. It's like, oh shit. Okay. Dan, what else can we do? He goes, sushi and the wine industry. I forgot the name he had for it, but he goes, they create their own language around their products. And we go, but that's why it's so inaccessible. I don't understand what any of that stuff means. He goes, exactly. And if you do know what it means, you feel smart and you feel like an insider and we were like what and he goes so we tested three three models of language so we had what we had before which was what we thought the accessible version right uh the philadelphia roll salmon and cream cheese wrapped up tastes great right that was like literally how we used to write and then we had the next one which was language he's like so same joe sugarman principle he's like um do you freeze your salmon and we're like no awesome fresh never frozen atlantic hand you can caught salmon or something like that right same roll same salmon more words boom conversion rate up like oh god it works this is true and then we we just kept doing the same thing with the whole menu and it showed me two things one man restaurants should really a b test their menus and i don't think they do a good enough job of this and b uh you can like the same thing can be sold just with better words, with better marketing and dramatically change your business.

1:09:57It's not like just something you slap on at the end and that's good enough. It's like, no, you will get this like multiplier on success based on how well you do this one thing. It's not just like a 10 % improvement. It was like a 2X, 3X type of improvements you could get by stacking these on top of each other. What was your cute way of explaining cream cheese? um i don't know i think we might have just not even not even mentioned it just put it at the end and a smooth you know the other stuff yeah whatever yeah i remember like and the funny thing was with salmon it was like we were so excited about fresh never frozen salmon and it was like our calling card not like those other guys just frozen frozen salmon um and we used to go even further we don't we don't even have a freezer in our restaurant that's how fresh this is and then we like met uh the chef and he was like you need to freeze a salmon it kills the bacteria we're like oh shit sorry whoops well and also flash frozen salmon to kill all of all of the bugs and like all like have you ever seen the documentaries when they when the japanese catch the salmon that they're going to use they drop it into the boat that has it like it's a freezer like they freeze them like you know it's flash frozen yeah so like i remember like learning about i'm like oh shit everything i've been told to is a lie yeah um all right that's it that was a good pod what do you think yeah i mean this was a good uh it's a good catch-up it's fun to hang out fun to talk and i feel like i don't know if other people feel this way but just debriefing interesting people we met and the way their mind works or the little schemes they got into is kind of my favorite thing.

1:11:37Well, I stole it from you where I actually started writing. Like, I'll write notes right after I meet someone. Even if you don't refer back to it, it's pretty good. It's good. All right, that's it. That's the pod.

1:11:58Hey,

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Episode 685: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) talk about the most interesting things they’ve found this week. 

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Show Notes: 

(0:00) Justin Caldbeck

(8:02) Steve Houghton

(20:15) James Currier

(38:36) Furqan Rydhan

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• James Altucher - https://www.jamesaltucher.com/ 

• Agora - https://theagora.com/ 

• Sheel’s MFM episode - https://youtu.be/-HfUCbnapKo 

• Digital Gold - https://tinyurl.com/5n6kvm8d 

• Predictably Irrational - ​​https://tinyurl.com/4beh8axz 

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