How Gary Vee Predicts The Next Facebook (Every Time)

22 May 2024 · 52 min

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Episode Overview

  • Title: How Gary Vee Predicts The Next Facebook (Every Time)
  • Hosts: Sam Parr and Shaan Puri
  • Guest: Gary Vaynerchuk
  • Main Topics:
  • Gary's investment history and insights
  • The evolving landscape of attention as a currency
  • Perspectives on prominent figures like Mark Zuckerberg and Logan Paul
  • Mental frameworks for gratitude, risk, and accountability in entrepreneurship

Key Moments and Discussions

Intro

  • (0:00) Introduction to Gary Vaynerchuk, known for investments in major tech companies like Facebook, Twitter, and Slack.
  • Discussion on his past academic performance, revealing how traditional education metrics do not define future success.

The Value of Attention

  • (8:12) Gary discusses the concept that "attention is the only universal asset class."
  • Emphasizes the importance of capturing attention in business and marketing.
  • Connects to the evolution of communication and marketing strategies.

Investment Insights

  • (28:43) Gary reveals his approach to personal finance and investments, maintaining a safety net of $1 million while investing the rest in opportunities.
  • Discusses the thrill of betting on businesses reminiscent of his early investments in Facebook and other tech giants.

Perspectives on Influencers

  • (39:08) Gary shares thoughts on figures like Mark Zuckerberg and Logan Paul.
  • Zuckerberg: Described as underrated and understanding the value of attention.
  • Logan Paul: Recognized for his entrepreneurial spirit and adaptability in evolving from social media star to mainstream business success.

Gratitude and Risk

  • (31:41) Discussion on micro vs. macro gratitude.
  • Sam reflects on how personal experiences changed his view on luck and success, emphasizing a more granular appreciation for daily moments.
  • Gary discusses the romantic idea of "going backwards," embracing risks instead of fearing failure.

Cultural Insights

  • (25:44) Exploration of the difference between millionaires and billionaires.
  • Discusses how people in these financial brackets view risk and accountability.
  • (37:45) The importance of resilience and the often-unseen struggles of everyday heroes, reinforcing the value of hard work and accountability in entrepreneurship.

Closing Remarks

  • (45:44) Gary expresses admiration for those facing adversity, emphasizing the importance of tenacity and grit in overcoming challenges.
  • The episode wraps up with mentions of upcoming projects and ongoing conversations around evolving technology and business dynamics.

Key Takeaways

  • Attention: The most critical asset for any entrepreneur or business in today's market.
  • Investment Philosophy: The significance of believing in both the person and the idea behind a business.
  • Mindset: Embracing risks, owning one’s journey, and recognizing the value of both micro and macro gratitude can shape personal and professional success.
  • Cultural Commentary: Understanding the struggles of individuals who may not be in the entrepreneurial spotlight helps ground the conversation around success and fulfillment.

Additional Resources

  • Gary Vaynerchuk's Website: [GaryVaynerchuk.com](https://garyvaynerchuk.com/)
  • Break The Web: [breaktheweb.co](https://www.breaktheweb.co/)
  • Perplexity AI Podcast: [Perplexity.ai/podcast](https://perplexity.ai/podcast)

Final Note This episode of *My First Million* not only delves into Gary Vee's insights and predictions but also challenges listeners to rethink their approach to business, attention, and personal growth. The dialogue encourages embracing risk and valuing gratitude in both personal and professional realms.

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0:00All right, we got Gary V in the house. Everyone knows Gary V because he's all over Twitter and Instagram and LinkedIn. And he's invested in Twitter and Slack and Facebook before they IPO'd. Gary's fun. We brought him on. Our goal was, let's ask him a bunch of questions that we're genuinely curious about. Which of those investments actually paid off the most? And it was a very, very surprising number. We also talked about what he's excited about now. And we asked him about the mindset and what he noticed hanging out with people like Zuck or Logan Paul or different characters like that. So enjoy this episode with Gary V.

0:31It's a good one.

0:40Gary, what's going on, man? How are you? I think Sean saw something recently that you'd posted that I thought everyone knew about you. Sean, what was that thing, the report card? Most podcasts start with an intro. We start with a little ball busting. So I have here Gary's high school report card, which you tweeted out to be fair. So I'm not putting it out there you didn't already do. But I thought this is kind of amazing. So you tweeted out a picture of your high school report card. I'm just going to read off a few of your achievements. Gary got a C in ceramics, a D in English, an F in German, a PE, you got an A.

1:15That's the only A you have on this report card, I think. Algebra, D. This one's kind of amazing. Speech, which you are known for speech. You got a D, driver's ed D. Gary, you were, what a turnaround. What a turnaround. What's your reaction when you see this? That a lot of data in the world is dirty. It's fake data. And I think school grades are just not a tremendous indicator of what's going to happen. The speech one is crazy. The report card I tweeted out was the recap of all four years of high school. So little fun facts to build on top of what you just said. I got an F in all four marking periods of German one freshman year.

1:57I retook it sophomore year. I got a D in the first marking period and then proceeded to get all Fs. Failed language my freshman and sophomore year. And in the state of New Jersey in 1994, if you did not pass two years of language, you could not graduate high school. So I'm walking to junior year high school and took Spanish one with all these ninth graders as a junior. And I had the pressure on and luckily I got Mrs. Senora Kennedy saw something in me and forced me through the system. Otherwise it was over for me. But yeah, I mean, the speech one really stands out to your point, Sean, right? Like to think that I got a D in speech, which was give a speech in class, right?

2:42Which I did well. It's just that I told my mom and I talked about this this weekend. I literally did not open a book in four years of high school and did zero homework. Everyone who's listening went through school, I think. They would assign a book report. And it's not that I did it poorly. It's that I didn't do it. just like didn't ever I literally in four years of high school did zero homework zero like I something happened where I just knew that you know at that point high school I was already working my dad's like restore and selling a lot of baseball cards at shows and just kind of and it was look this is pre-internet the world was different I grew up in an immigrant family We just moved to rural New Jersey.

3:32When I tell you we lived in our own little four or five person cocoon, my family, we really did. It was very, very, very, in hindsight, deeply immigrant. You know what I mean? My parents didn't have American parent friends. My mom wasn't friends with any of my high school friends' parents. My mom asked me about what I'm doing for college February of my senior year. I was like mom it's over I'm not going to college she lost her mind and forced me to like go and I got like a postcard in the mail from Mount Ida college filled it out and that's literally how I went to college like so you know I think if I was growing up today my intuition is that it would have been okay for me not to go to college and it would have just all been handled differently.

4:22And honestly, I think my teachers would have said to me, I have a bright future instead of saying what they did back then, which was, you're a loser. You're going to be a garbage man. That was the big thing, Sean, Sam, in the 90s. Your teachers would tell you you're going to be a garbage man, which I think is really crazy because actually it's a very good living with a high pace. It has a high pace now. Our friend just started a garbage business and he's doing like 300 grand a year of it. Joke's on you, Miss Kennedy. Yeah. One of the things we do is always just, what are you excited about? Like, what products are you seeing?

4:56What people are you seeing? What cool stories are you seeing that are kind of, that you're genuinely excited about? Have you guys seen Break the Web? No, what's that? Dude, they got a great tagline. So it's breaktheweb.co, the internet's official scoreboard. This app's got my attention. Trending topics on Twitter was so big for me back in the day when it was desktop only. Break the Web is an app. It's just what's trending right now. And it seems like the underlining tech is pretty damn strong. You know how everybody loves to throw around AI or this and that. And you're like, if you're smart, you're like, this is just a collection of APIs or anything like this one's a little bit better.

5:30And like, I don't know, I've put on my home screen, which is not something I've done in a long time. Why? Why do I like it? Well, yeah, I mean, it's like, I'm looking at it now. You just showed it to me. It was all the new stuff. I don't really pay attention. I saw the word Gaza, Trump, and five other words where they're important. But I'm not going to read news. First of all, great observation, brother. For me as well, honestly, something that's on my mind is everyone needs to consume less news because all it does is push fear and negativity. And it's just so scary how fucked up that is. So it's funny saying, brother, I don't really click into that stuff.

6:08So right now, it's brand new. when I met with the founders, I only met with them for like 10 or 15 minutes. I asked them real quick. I'm like, can we get this categorized out? And they're like, yeah, that's on the roadmap. I need pop culture and consumer trends. So to me, when I look at Madonna fan, I'm like, what is that? Madonna mistakenly scolded a fan. Again, right now, what's interesting though, is that it's a great indication of where we are in society. Back to when Twitter trending topics, It was less political and it was really valuable. Like the reason I like it or the potential of it, and obviously we're in an election season, so now this will get eaten up to your point, Sam, on this stuff.

6:51But it is an indication of the pulse. Like I'm always looking for what's the indication of the pulse of what people give a fuck about. Dude, so these guys, it looks like it only has 90 reviews. Oddly, both of these guys used to work at a bakery. The CEO worked at Pete's Coffee. The other guy used to work at Specialties Cafe. and Bakery. So they're both lovers of baked goods. Then they decided to launch this. It's three years old, though, but it's not popular yet. So what's your prediction? This thing's going to be huge? There's no prediction. Back to shooting the shit, to your point, Sean. I'm not overly like, oh, Break the Web's going to be the best.

7:26The concept of date... So I have a new book coming out soon this year, right? I finally feel like I've synthesized what I actually do. Like, long form Twitter. I think literally have a meeting today where I'm going to post my 100 most successful YouTube videos on Twitter here over the course of the next couple of months. Try to stagger it a little bit because it's just very clear that Twitter is going to push it, right? I don't know if that's going to work. I agree they're pushing it, but I just don't find myself using it that way. Yeah, that's a great call, Sam. What I know is that I never have an interest in guessing if something's going to work.

8:05I have an interest in executing on anything that might work and then dealing with the ramifications of the upside. Why guess when you can test for cheaper than it's almost cost to guess, right? Like it's not expensive to take your best YouTube videos and have somebody repost. That's an easy way to learn. Because you talk about day trading attention, right? All trading is mispriced assets. That's right. And I would argue that attention is the most mispriced asset right now that most impacts everyone. So why is that? There is nobody that will ever listen to this that doesn't need attention as a currency to achieve what's in their stomach.

8:39Whether they want to raise money for their PTA, be president of the United States, get more listeners to their podcast, sell their sneakers. The only asset class that I think is universal is attention. Even a parent trying to home parent two children need their kids to listen to them to be able to get the message across. The currency of listening or consuming is profound. And we're living through the mass fragmentation of that, right? If you think about, let's use parenting. It was a lot easier to get your kids to listen when in 1954, 80 % of families sat down and had dinner together for like an hour and a half and you did it.

9:23right? And like, so those parents were able to message in a very interesting way. Whereas now, they still can. And we have technology, you can send a text or a Sam and Sean clip to your kids to get them to think of something. But there's also so much supply, right? With the demand side being the same, there's only so many hours in a day. Now the human brain, I think, has capacity to keep a lot more information than we think. Nonetheless, for me, more narrowly, as someone who loves business and loves to think about it, it doesn't matter what you're selling, and it doesn't even matter what you're saying until you first get their attention.

10:02And then everything is about what you're saying. What's interesting to me is I think of it, the acronym I use internally at VaynerX, VaynerMedia is PAC, platforms and culture. And so break the web plays in culture. There's two different currencies that I think about constantly or two different frameworks. One is platforms. What are the top 25 platforms that have people's attention doing? What do they care about? From Snap to Pinterest, to LinkedIn, to YouTube, even within themselves, YouTube Shorts differently than YouTube. It's a collective of 15, 20 places that really have, quote unquote, the attention.

10:38What are they up to? How do their algorithms work? What are their features doing? I think about them on a day-to-day basis. right and then and then i think about culture like what is the slang what is what is the things of interest the people of interest right um and and then it becomes a framework of like what's overpriced and underpriced execution so for example i think super bowl is the most underpriced media in the world it's very hard to get 130 million people to watch 30 seconds of a video and actually want to and pay attention to it, right? So that$7,$8 million vig I think is great. The problem is the creative is the variable of success, right?

11:17So the media might be a great deal, but if your 30-second video is forgettable or stinks or you overpaid for making it, right? Verizon paid Beyonce to be in that commercial. If they paid her$500 ,000, I think they stole her. If they paid$40 million, I think they overpaid for her. I don't know what the number is. My guess is it somewhere in between. But that is basically how my brain works and how I think about communication and marketing and brand building and perception changing and just the whole world. It's how I think about the world. Have you guys seen, let me ask if you guys have seen this in terms of cool shit.

11:51So Perplexity is awesome. But they have this new thing. I didn't see them talk about it a lot. It's called Perplexity AI slash podcast. They've come out with a daily podcast that's five to 10 minutes long that's written by Perplexity. and it has beautiful background music and they've got this British guy. Have you ever seen those Planet Earth videos where it's like, now we see the mother cheetah go after them. Yeah, they've got this voice that sounds exactly like him reading the script and it sounds awesome. The voice is powered by this thing called Eleven Labs. Dude, I went to Eleven Labs, Sean.

12:27I uploaded a ton of our voice and I was like, fuck it. Let's just see if I can make a podcast. It's the best thing I've ever heard. Have you guys seen them come out with this podcast? Gary, if you ever want to see Sam speak Hindi, Eleven Labs made a clip. They just translated the podcast, auto-dubbed it using AI into Hindi, and it's phenomenal. By the way, it's something we've been working on for about a year. I think next year is the full year where every single thing I do, every video, every language, we're there. Dude. Sam, I haven't seen the podcast, but I just took note. I can't wait to listen to it.

13:00It's so good. And they've not made a big... This has not been a big hoopla. I randomly came across it I was listening to it, I'm like, I'm going to listen to this every day This is great, it's David Adborough telling me about the news, it sounds awesome Which language are you going to do? Should we do Hindi? Is that the one? I'm doing everything If you're going to do one, you might as well do all I just think that I also think everyone's going to go after For example, I get excited about Portuguese I'm like, fuck it, everyone's going to go to Mandarin and Hindi and the big number I'm like, I'm just going to own Portugal and Brazil like you know just like but but that's tongue-in-cheek i think the reality is over the next three years all of it's going to go down and cost so much that it won't even like the the us in seven years are going to laugh that we ever had it just in one language if they won't even understand they're like dude have you ever seen that talk that this guy alex schultz gave about facebook's growth he was the he was the top facebook growth guy like early on he was when they created the growth team as him chamath and uh the guy i think javier who now runs it and he's like, he put a chart up and it was a YC talk and he puts a chart up on the screen.

14:07There's a bunch of dots. He's like, you know, all these dots are feature releases and you can see one dot where everything starts growing right after that. He goes, anyone want to take a guess what that dot is? People in the audience like photos, photo tagging. It's when you release mobile, you know, what is it? We don't know. And he's like, language translation, local language translation. He goes, the biggest growth driver in Facebook's growth, bar none was when we, when we localized the service, which he's like, was not easy. They actually, I don't know if you know this Facebook had to do like a Wikipedia thing because there was, you know, there's 186 countries that they had to deal with.

14:41And so they were like, we need users to basically re-translate the site for their local region. And they incentivized people to do that. And that's how they mass translated overnight. No other social network did this and it took off. So that was the first time I heard about this. The second was when we did, um, our basketball camp with Mr. Beast, which Gary, I invited you to. You got to come next time. Mr. Beast basically, we host a basketball camp at his house and he did this presentation. He's like, here's one thing I'm doing that nobody else is really doing, which is every video I do, I now created channels in Portuguese and everywhere else.

15:13He told me, Jimmy told me that whole thing several years ago. Like such a good bet. By the way, tell me about this basketball camp because I'm playing basketball tomorrow at 6 a.m. Like this is how much I love it. I'm 48. Like you'll fit right in. There's plenty of wheelchairs and ice bags of ice. Dude, it's hilarious. But I'm a 90s Knicks fan, so no easy layups. Is that politically correct in this basketball camp? Yeah, yeah. You can hack your heart away. It's all good. Actually, I wonder if you do anything like this. So we do this thing where it's called Camp MFM. It was my first million MFM.

15:48So we were like, we like the idea of getting together. like you know when you go to a conference you end up having a good time if you go speak somewhere you end up having a good time but there's kind of this dread in my stomach of like fuck you had another conference like i just don't want to do the boring i just i guess have a resistance of doing the same thing everyone else is doing in general and so we were like how do we get the benefits of going and networking without ever calling it networking or a conference or anything else and so we created basically an adult summer camp it was like what if for a weekend we just rented a house and in this case we actually just stay at mr beast house now because he ended up wanting to come.

16:21And so we go to his house and then we bring in a trainer from the NBA. He treats us like we're washed up NBA players, basically puts us through their program and we just play ball all day. When is it? One just happened, but it was big. It was like the founder of Airbnb, Mr. Beast, all these guys. Joe's the best. I have an email from Joe that says, Gary, we're fans. We want you to look at our company. And it was Joe at airbedandbreakfast.com. and I never saw it, you know, or maybe I did and just like, but I look at that email. I haven't owned a separate laptop and I look at it once in a while just to like, I love it.

17:02I'd like, this is actually a fun segue back to chopping it up. If it was just us three and everyone's this, where we're going, where do you guys sit on losing? So we just talked about basketball. So I was just thinking about me going to this basketball thing. And like my favorite thing in basketball in pickup is to lose the first game it is my favorite and i talked about this on steve bartlett's podcast i got a billion fucking emails about this there's something that just like the blood in my head like everything transforms in my chemicals and then everything in life like everything stops and the only thing that matters to me in the world is that we have to win game two that's so funny he said that when we did the camp the same thing happened uh the very first game i'm trying to be the host of the event so i'm like okay yeah yeah you guys play i'll sit out first no problem we get in i'm like i'm passing the ball i'm like oh that's joe gabia let me not let him drive i'm not gonna try to hurt the founder of airbnb or mr beast oh that was cool man you know i see someone taking a video i'm like that's cool that's gonna be a cool clip it's gonna go viral then i'm like wait fuck that i'm in the clip he's scoring on me and i was like he's no longer mr beast that's jimmy and that's joe and now we're competing to win and then the whole event got a lot more fun when it equalized everybody all the job titles dropped and it's basically who's here to win, who's here to play.

18:17And that's when it got real. It's why I love entrepreneurship. Where I'm going with this is that email excites me. I'm like, yeah, eat it, Gary. Dude, that one would have been a bigger one for you than Uber too. No, it wouldn't have. Maybe, but no, because they both probably, believe it or not, this is how much startups were back then. They both would have been priced between four and eight million. That's crazy, right? I know, bro. I got into Tumblr's B round. B, series B, not angel, not seed, not series A. I got into Tumblr's series B. This is actually it right here. This is my Twitter, Tumblr, Facebook stock.

18:57I got into Tumblr's series B at a$14 million valuation. That's like, you know, pre-seed now. that was literally 2007 or eight right we're only talking 16 years ago so like you guys are young dudes so think 16 years ahead how old will you be in 16 years sean dude i don't even want to know 52 50 i don't know what sam how old am i right honestly no bullshit i don't know if you guys hang out with like 60 70 80 year old business people like i do a lot of that because it's the best i mean to me the two extremes are the best right hang out with the 17 year olds that are like shitting listening right now shitting on all of us saying these fuckers are gonna wait till they see what i'm gonna do and then 73 year olds who are like just like the amount of 67 of 60 forget i think it's like literally children 70 and 80 70 and 80 to me just it's stunning to me how many 73 75 77 year old businessmen and women i know that go at it because they love it it's still what they do and it gets me excited because at 48 it's like man i'm still like i'm in halftime right like i'm in like you know i get excited about that i wanted to ask you about that so i think you and i kind of have similar backgrounds where it was like raised around like like kind of a rough crowd every once in a while yes and still kind of have a little bit of that where like i enjoy like doing like hood rat shit every once in a while same and uh gary sam's nickname on the pod is hose water because he's just no water fountains baby just drink it straight out the hose So you used Sam Hosewater Park.

20:31Dude, I loved it. Man, Hosewater was the best. It's the best, dude. Summer Hosewater. I drank out of the hose literally from 1982 to 1989. Dude, I peed in the backyard more than I peed in the toilet. Oh, 100%. Yeah. They used to call me Lickmon No Hands like every day. So listen, I had a question. So look, we're all three probably a little bit similar where it's like we kind of did a bunch of crappy stuff. And now, Gary, you're older and a little further along in your career in terms of success than we are. But we've both done some interesting or we've all done interesting things where we're able to hang out with some of these guys who are like legitimate billionaires.

21:07I'm sure you're I don't know if you are or not, but you're in that ballpark. And I see with Michael Rubin and whatever, you know, you hang out with some of the shot callers of the world. What do you think is the difference between the store owner who's doing like, you know, a retail guy doing half a million or a million dollars a year? the$10 million a year business, the$100 million net worth person, and the billion dollar net worth person. Do they all have similar-ish mindsets? Just maybe luck or industry? They picked a different industry. Yeah. Two things. It's 1234. I still don't know why 1111 has everyone's attention and 1234 doesn't.

21:43The 1234 is just so cool. Should we make a wish real quick? I don't know if we should make a wish, but we should start a trend and try to make 1234 matter for entrepreneurs.

21:54That's a really fucking fun question, Sam. My brain, as you were asking it, goes in me. Well, it's focused on one, two, three, four. Yeah, I just happened to look over and see it. I've always thought about 1234. I've always thought it was interesting that it has no pop culture relevance. I believe the first thing that goes through my mind on this question is risk tolerance and fear, right? So I think it's fear. I just had an idea. 1234, I get it. I got to use it. 1234 should be where you shoot your shot. I love that. When you see 1234, that's when you got to send that text. You got to send the tweet.

22:30You got to send the email right there. That's the idea for 1234. We can make this a thing. Can you get somebody to register like 1234.org? I feel like, you know, I don't want these hustler kids, like the 13 year old me would listen to this and immediately register 1234.com. I think it's fear. I think about my dad a lot. My dad, I think it's how people view their ability to go backwards. So I think there's something very scary about my chemicals. And Sam, I've always felt this in you as well. It's funny that you brought it up. I don't know you well enough to know this. And I'm not even sure you're going to believe me when I say it.

23:16But I do think you have a good shot of understanding what I'm about to say. My favorite Rocky is Rocky VI when he goes back to Philly with nothing. Yeah. Sean, there's something so weird in me. And it's almost like, am I sandbagging myself? I'm going to be very vulnerable here. I don't view it as I'm cool. I actually view it as I'm potentially flawed. There's something in me that romanticizes being okay with it all falling down. I'm back in like queens in a you know four hundred dollar a month apartment the entire internet is like see he was fucking overrated I told you know all the people that love me all the friends they have that don't love me are like see your fucking guy was a loser he fucked it up he sucks that I don't know why I like that but I believe Sam to answer your question it's something to do with that chemical I believe the people that I think you brought up some good stuff I think a lot about if my dad had a supermarket instead of a liquor store, I would have taken that to way bigger heights because liquor was, you couldn't ship it.

24:25Sure. That's like the luck component. Yeah. There's a ton of serendipity. Honestly, I think a lot about if my dad didn't want me to work in his store, I would have went to, because I fell in love with tech, I might've went to California and who the fuck knows what I've created in 95, 670, could have had one of those Mark Cuban moment. So I think about that or, you know, like I think when you can sell. When you can for all of everyone who's listening and if you have kids like this, if you can sell, you're in the game, right? Like if you can sell, you'll never be like zero. Right. And so what do you got here?

25:01Is one two three four dot com available? No, dude. One two three four is owned by like a telecom. Yeah, that's what I figured. That's impossible. I like the one like the one 37 yeah do that um are you kidding me dude i love that that was so i'm so pumped about this bro the funny thing by the way ben my guy he he texted us a screenshot of godaddy one it's one two three four dot org 15 000 he just said pull the trigger question mark no no don't don't don't pull that one we're good actually it's a good one i never think you should overpay for names because i think names are made dude i agree i agree right sam but do you know who disagrees fucking uh dharmesh dharmesh at uh i know dude i've been with them multiple times so dharmesh founded hubspot which bought my company and i've gotten close with him he's like he's like dude i bought chat.com or chat chat.com today i'm like why he goes because it was available i was like what are you gonna do with it he's like i'm not sure i'm gonna figure something out but i paid eight figures for it yeah look he's smart he knows like that you know look as long as dot com i mean And to me, the scary thing for, let me take a step back, not go too fast.

26:09He's smart enough to know he could probably flip that because it's a very, very, very big deal. On the flip side, there is a little concern for me of what happens when this no longer becomes the remote control of our society, right? Like I'm very fascinated by 20 years from now, talk about 16 years ago on Tumblr, 16 years from now, if you told me that 16 years from now, we live in a predominant VR world, I would be like, maybe. I can see that possibility. You could see that it's pushing in a direction. I don't think it's going to end up being these Apple Pro, Google Glass, Snap, the Facebook thing, Quest.

26:54My intuition is that it's going to have to be much more lightweight, but I never underestimate the human being. I'm positive somebody's going to make the contact lenses that work like this. And then we're off to the races. Because now, back to the way I think about day trading attention, this no longer houses the attention. Now it's housed here. Whoever controls that paradigm wins big. And then all of a sudden, does.com even matter, Nat? Is that how the UI UX works? Because.com didn't matter at all in 1990. Dude, that's how I feel about SEO businesses right now. Well, that's exactly what happened.

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27:26If it's ChatGPT and Google's just trying to give you the answer. That's why VaynerMedia never did search. When I started the company 14 years ago, everyone's like, what the fuck? Why don't you do search? And I was like, first of all, I thought if I built a very big company, I'd be able to M &A search if I wanted to add it, right? It was already established. I grew up on search the decade, the 15 years before. And so here's a good one for the kids. If you're building towards the future, if you're capable, remember that you could always buy the current. And that's how I thought about search. I was going to master social in 2009.

28:01And I felt like social was going to eat up search anyway. And I think it's starting to happen now. Like search is in a weird spot. Like Google's in a weird spot. Like it's in a great spot in some ways. But yeah, I think search is definitely a different world. Like if your business, I actually spoke to somebody Thursday who is really getting hurt because he was one-dimensional on search. And that's such a fear of mine that if you sell your stuff via email, via your podcast, via social media content, via search, you must develop into a Swiss army knife because if you're just a fork, if you're just one-dimensional, you're going to get caught.

28:42Hey, Gary, let me ask you about that. You were saying a second ago, you're like, I'm not afraid to go back. Yes. do you so like the way that I run my personal finances is I've got like my safety net so I've got this like account that has enough money that I'm good forever and and so that's in Vanguard and bonds and so it's like I've never touched that and then anything anything above that amount I'll bet it and I'll like to start new shit same so you're talking about like you don't mind going back but it's but it sounds like that's not exactly how you'd run your your finances so do you have like a safety net and then anything above that you're like dude bet it bet it or do you just use profits from Vayner to make these bets?

29:21How does that work? Yes. I'm going to be uncomfortably transparent. I'm very fortunate. So my zero is a million dollars, but that's it. That's it, Sam. Wait, so you only keep a million in your liquid portfolio? That's your safety net? No, no, no. I have other things. I have money in all sorts of places, but I have this one place that has$1 million and literally everything else is in play. wow now sean i want to paint a very clear picture here because i don't want to create hyperbole i haven't bet everything on everything but if i ever feel the way i felt about facebook in 2007 when i put i 236 000 in savings i put 200 000 into facebook right if that ever happens again like i'm willing to bet very large because that feeling similar to the feeling i felt about the internet when I saw it in 95, similar to the feeling that I felt about Friendster, MySpace, that little like, oh, the internet's changing.

30:24I look for those moments. And again, I'm willing to go big. But to your point, Sam, it's not like I'll go to zero, zero. A million dollars is a lot, a lot of money. And especially if you're capable. If you're capable, I don't know, I feel very And your reputation. Yeah, correct. I also think about face-off, like where you change. I have these very deep, Sean, it goes back to wanting to win a basketball game. I think the worst thing for my love of entrepreneurship that's happened is what Sam just said. I no longer can do it without anyone knowing. It's a whole different game. It was so fun when people didn't know.

31:09What you're saying reminds me of, well, two things. I think it's super interesting that your answer to what's the difference you've seen in the mindset, the psychology was who's willing to go backwards. And almost what you said was you almost kind of crave. There's like a romantic idea about going back, which I like a lot. I resonate with that a lot. It's almost like there's TV shows I wish I could go watch again for the first time in the same way. Like there's no greater feeling than going from not making it to making it. once you've made it and you try to make more, it doesn't have the same thrill, adventure, satisfaction, self-respect.

31:41You have to almost go into different games. I worry about that. Let me rephrase. I don't worry about it. But I sense that there's a day where I talk a lot about never retiring and dying at my desk. And then there's an equal part of me that realizes that I'm very wired in a way where I just might make wake up at 79 and be like, you know what? Like, I'm done. I'm just going to focus on my grandchild. Like, like, I just, I don't know. I have like, I think we're all very, like, I think we underestimate how long life is. You know, I think we underestimate our capacity to make hard decisions to different directions that we can't see along the way.

32:28then there's back to luck and you know i mean look we've lived through a lot of prosperity with everyone the three of us have gotten very fortunate of where we lived during what era right like there's a lot going on in the world like you know there was people in the roaring 20s talking shit like this over dinner and then you know a very challenging 30 years punched him in the face right right and all seemed so great in 1927 america was on its way it's gonna be awesome. And then, you know, massive world war and atomic bomb and Korea and Vietnam and social unrest. And so, you know, all these things are like fun to think about.

33:06It's like fun to like romanticize about the future. But I will say this, I'm actually going to ask you guys this. What do you think your personal relationship is with gratitude versus taking for granted? it. I changed on that once I actually sold my company and was financially free. And then like two weeks after the sale of the company, the CEO got into a life threatening accident. And I was like, Oh, that could have ruined my deal. And like, like everything like this all could have been ruined. And then I like hit like some threshold. I'm like, dude, I did not work any harder than anyone else who else like who have done similar things but failed.

33:46This is 100 % luck and I'm so grateful that I like it just has worked in my way in many ways I feel like I am the luckiest guy around and it just seems like I'm so gracious for the luck that I have it's changed to more so I've just been gifted this and I'm so lucky and I'm thankful good for you Sam Sean where are you at with it I have a different so to me I'm like alright I think people make a mistake they're grateful in the macro so if you say to somebody, you're like, what are you grateful for? Almost everybody. My family, my health. And to me, this is the, I'm not saying they're wrong. Obviously those are great things, but it's sort of like when a company says our values are integrity and excellence, it's true, but not useful.

34:32It basically has me, leaves no register. And so I try to, my focus is how do you be grateful in the micro? Meaning, can I be, if I'm in an elevator, can I find something in that moment, can I get a rep, a practice rep of gratitude in that? Because that actually shifts me. When I can take a breath, be grateful for the fresh air, I can look at something my kid is doing and how silly they are and just in that moment find something. And if I could do that, you know, 10, 15 times a day, that is, you know, like the antidote, you know? Yeah. I think that's how micro and macro and micro work together.

35:08I really do think of it as being alive. Like, just thank you for that. I'm not, that I didn't die last night. Right. Like I, and I, to your point, I think when you're macro is that, I think you're actually, I think I love what you said. You're just talking about applying. Yeah. That's how I apply it. Exactly. That's my relationship with it. That's right. But like, if you're getting to that place, that's how I live. I'm like, like literally like, it's like a nice sunny day in New York today. And I'm just like, yeah, That's awesome. You know, like just choosing positivity. Like I think people have been so sucked into like focusing on what they don't have or what's not going well.

35:47Naval has an amazing definition of happiness, by the way. I don't know if you've ever heard this. He goes, happiness is what you feel when you don't feel like anything's missing in your life. Right? People think happiness is something you got to achieve, something you got to go create, something you got to get. It's like, you know, you think you don't need to accumulate things to have happiness. And he's like, actually, it's just when you're not focused on what's missing. Well, that's right. I think simplicity is just so fucking, fuck man, it's so right. But your life is not simplistic. I mean, I don't know what your personal life is like.

36:19I don't know if you have multiple homes and what you own, but your professional life is not simplistic. I'll tell you why it's simplistic. I'm not attached to my professional success or who I am. I'm like in a very weird place with my winning and losing and my Gary V of it all. I care so much, but it's a game. My professional life is a game. I don't want to be unhappy. I fight for happiness too much, and I think it is in the simplicity. You're right. The day-to-day is chaotic. There's meeting after meeting after meeting after meeting, right? But I like it. I like juggling 17 balls, and I'm not upset about the 13 that fell on the ground and broke.

37:02joke and more importantly i'm not worried about the people who are watching me juggle boo when the ball breaks that i think is massive yeah but when theo von makes fun of you it's pretty hilarious that is like the ultimate like because i love theo like like to me back to like where we came from sam i'm like my god like i've gotten to a place where someone as epic as theo on or any other comedians tim dillard like i love these guys i'm always fascinated when people struggle with a comedian razzing like i think it's like you've that's like such flattery yeah that was awesome it was awesome i saw that i was like oh the guy i look up to he's uh he's crossed over to mainstream it's awesome um sean what were you gonna say well i want to ask two questions one uh you showed those stock certificates on the wall speaking of winning uh i saw okay you invest and Twitter in 09, Slack pre-IPO.

37:54I think the Liquid Death guy, we used to work with you, work for you. Yeah, he literally worked at VaynerMedia the day before he started Liquid Death. Facebook pre-IPO. I'm curious, what investment was the best investment for you? What paid off in terms of, you've made a bunch of bets, right? And those are the winners. Facebook, I haven't sold one share yet. Oh shit. That's insane. But that goes back to it. That goes back. Like insanely good. Yeah, that goes back to jockey over horse. I tell all my friends who get into investing, I'm like, man, they're like, what have you learned? I'm like, what I've learned is when I only invested in the person, I've hit this new state where I'm really trying to be obsessed with the person and the idea.

38:37And if either one isn't an A +, then I'm like, eh. You said and or or? And, right? Okay. Jockey and the horse. That's right. But if I or it, fully person, not idea. What year did you do that? Did you do that deal? Facebook. 2007. Oh, my God. So, I mean, I don't even know what that. You'd be up 400 times? I don't know. I mean, a lot. A lot. 100x at least. I want to get your rapid take because I know you've – one of the things we do on this pod is we kind of, um, we love anecdotes and also little, little insights on people that we think are wired in an interesting way. Maybe not even the way we want to be wired, right?

39:23Like Elon's really interesting. We don't think he's perfect. We think there's a bunch of things he does that are cringe. We think there's a bunch of things that he does that are Epic. So I'm curious you've bumped into, or I've studied or have an opinion on any of these people. So I want to go rapid fire. See if you have something, give us, give us like either an opinion or story. So, yeah. So is this from outside observation or if I map them inside observation? Either one. Or if you have nothing, you could say, pass. I don't have anything on them. All right. So first one I want to do is Zuck. You've talked about Facebook and the jockey.

39:51Give me Zuck. Dude, I think he's uncomfortably underrated. He's the only person that I met back in 07. In this era now, I think it's getting more obvious, but he understood attention. He literally tried to buy Twitter. He bought Instagram. He bought WhatsApp. He tried to buy Snap. He just understood attention was the only asset. And he's so nice. He's a nice kid. He's just a very simple, nice kid. I'm happy with the way things are going for him a little bit right now. People can see how doofy he is. You see him in the corner of the UFC thing, and you're like, this is just a nerdy kid who's like, you know what I mean?

40:31And he doesn't give a fuck. Now, people will think it's because he's got a trillion, but he's just like a dentist's son from Cadet. He's just a fucking nerd with no bad intent who fucking spent his childhood coding, which put him in a position, right? He put in the hours. I'm a fan, man. I think he's a very good operator. And the reason I've never sold a share of Facebook is I've been committed for a long time in this in my own mind, which was I'll never sell until he's gone. Logan Paul. So do you know that Logan Paul was starting to emerge very little on Vine when VaynerMedia for Virgin Mobile did a campaign called Finding the Next Vine Star?

41:14You guys kind of discovered him, right? Like when he was, I think he had like 15 or 18 ,000 followers at the time. It was crazy. And by the way, full disclosure, Jerome Jarre, who was one of the 10 most followed people on Vine, who was my partner, Jerome and I launched the first influencer agency called Grape Story back in 13. He was the one who said, you know, he let me pick from three people. I think all three of them got big. But I think Logan is, you know, he grew up in the limelight, right? You think about like what happened in Japan or all this stuff. Like it's tough. These kids are, you think about child stars when we grew up, we all knew that like child stars would be fucked up, right?

41:53And now I think like everyone's going through that. The limelight is hard. So I think Logan is well-intended. I think he's very entrepreneurial, very entrepreneurial. And I've always thought of him as a Marky Mark or a Fresh Prince or The Rock, meaning I always watched him from afar. And as I got to know him a little bit, I was like, okay, this kid is Logan Paul today, just like Marky Mark was Marky Mark before he was Mark Wahlberg, just like the fresh Prince of Bel Air, you know, what Will Smith was before he was Will Smith. I've always thought that Logan would cross over and he has obviously with WWE in a lot of ways.

42:36And I think that will continue. Like if you told me Logan is like an action star and it's like the way John Cena was at the Academy Awards last night, like is Logan doing that in 15 years? I'm like, that makes sense to me. That's how he's wired. Sam, you know, he's only 28. He's only 28 years old. The dude basically like when he was 14 or whatever, like one, he won in the social media game. Now he, and then think about the pivots, right? Both him and Jake, but the thing about the pivots now he's got impulsives. He's got the podcast where he's super chill. It's the opposite of crazy vine prankster guy.

43:11He pivoted to like, he's the guy asking questions. He's inquisitive. if he's curious, he's got the popular podcast, goes WWE, becomes a champion in WWE, creates Prime, which is going to make him a billionaire by the time he's 28, 29 years old now, because Prime is probably going to be worth tens of billions. They did, I think,$2 billion in sales last year. I'm in this world. Prime is definitely like a two, depending on the time they decide to trade it, it's$2,$3,$4,$5,$6,$7 billion. That high? I talked to Mr. Beast, and he was like, 20 billion is where Prime is going. That would be very, very...

43:49I never underestimate Jimmy's foresight because he's great. I've known him a long time. But just being in M &A at CPG levels, my intuition is that they won't be patient enough to get to that big of a number. Well, the beauty is they're not operating. The other guys are... Well, I know. But the other guys operating are... Yeah, they're pretty young too, though. Yeah, and more importantly, like I said, shit changes. Everything's ha-ha-ha until it's actually in front of you. It's all kicks and giggles. And we're going to 20 until you fly to Atlanta and Coca-Cola actually offers you 5.9. And you've got to sit there as KSI and Logan and those guys and say, okay, if we say yes, because you know what they're going to say, you guys are like this.

44:30So you're going to really understand what I'm about to say. You know what they're going to say? They're going to say, huh, we can do this right now. And then in 24 months, start a new thing, a shampoo. or a deodorant and sell it to Doug. So I think it'll be interesting to see how long they hold their breath. And don't forget, one bad year, you guys know this, how businesses work. One bad year takes a lot of leverage off the table in a negotiation. And so they'll be thoughtful about that because no matter what you are, once you saturate distribution, and don't forget, they're selling on something that's more like supreme.

45:08They're selling on cool. right kids are buying it literally to drink it for the status symbol like a fashion brand and that can only last so long Zeke Cavaricis were only cool for so long those are great points that's the point me and you have no fucking clue that Zeke Cavaricis reference was for all the jersey boys that grew up in the late 80s early 90s people who Google it they were the hottest jeans pants if you didn't wear your Zeke Cavaricis you were nothing I didn't have them by the way I was in great life but they were fucking it. You just compared Prime to JNCO jeans. What were you going to say, Sean?

45:44Well, I asked you a bunch of names that are, you know, basically names that people know. I'm curious, who do you think is dope? Who are you learning from? And who are you kind of admiring? Who do you admire? Who do you learn from? Who are you inspired by? Because, okay, a lot of people are inspired by Gary V. Who is Gary V inspired by? That's a great question. I'm a little weird on this one, but I'm glad I brought up Break the Web. I'm, like, inspired by the collective more than an individual. the field. Yeah, I love the field, brother. I spend almost all of my time on the collective, so I don't even have the allocation of time.

46:22I also am very inspired by the following person. Show me the person that's currently living through massive adversity. I'll tell you somebody who's 10 times more inspiring to me than I think I am or deserve to be to others. show me the kid that's listening right now whose father passed away from a stroke he's 16 he's got three younger siblings and his mom has to now work two jobs and he's holding it down for the fam right he's literally a sophomore in high school and he's basically the father figured out for three siblings he had to quit the fucking football team because he's also like like I'm the son of two parents who lost a parent before they were 15.

47:09And back to gratitude, I think I got really fucked up by being scared that my parents were going to die my whole childhood. But it kind of converted into this gratitude framework that's insane. It makes me unstoppable. And so, yeah, for me, it's less Bezos or Elon or Oprah or anything. It's much more like someone none of us know that is really in it. That bodega owner energy. That stuff I grew up with and I fuck with it. But that person I think has it lucky back to earlier, our simplicity, like owning your own little business, living within your means. That's fucking kind of chill. It could be really epic.

47:50It doesn't put you on this podcast, but it's like a great life in a lot of ways. And I see it a lot. I lived it, what building my dad's business from 22 to 34, I, not that person. The one that's like, back to your point, Sam, the spin of the wheel really created real adversity. I'll say it again, and not a peep of complaining. There's a very small group of kids that get that, and they just convert into leader instead of woe is me or rebelling. I admire that level of tenacity and grit and accountability and fucking like, fuck it. Like this is, I got, this is, it's on me. I got to put this shit on my shoulders.

48:34I'm going to do this for my three siblings. Like I admire the fuck out of that kid. I wrote down a quote when I was doing the research for this that I think is exactly what you're talking about. You go, forget rags to riches. Some people are just rags to rags just so that their kids have a shot at rags to riches. And I respect the shit out of that. I love that quote. Yeah, bro. Thank you for finding that. But I really, man, I'm really affected by that. Sam really hit it on the head. I hate the word luck because I think that people weaponize it against people that have worked really hard. But I believe in serendipity and luck quite a bit because it's just the way, like I was born in the Soviet Union.

49:12I got lucky to get out of there when I did. If I didn't, I would have come to this country in 1991 when it fell. I would have been 16, 17. I'd sound like Ivan Drago on these podcasts. I like it would have been all different and you know I just I I I just really do admire people who I really do think entitlement and lack of accountability has become a disease in first world countries in 2024 and I just really admire people who play the other way we appreciate you doing this man you got day trading attention coming out I think on May 21 right that sounds right you're the man we appreciate you hanging out thanks for coming on man I gotta jump to board meeting.

49:50I appreciate it. All right. Take care. Love you guys. Good luck.

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Episode 588:  Sam Parr ( https://twitter.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://twitter.com/ShaanVP ) chop it up with Gary Vee about which of his investments paid off the most, how much cash he keeps as a safety net and what he’s noticed from hanging out with people like Logan Paul, Zuck, and MrBeast. 

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Show Notes:
(0:00) Intro
(1:28) Good news for the “C” students out there
(5:31) Break the Web
(8:12) Attention is the only universal asset class
(12:26) Perplexity.ai/podcast
(14:30) Alex Schultz on growth and language translation
(16:23) Adult camps better than conferences
(20:06) Millionaires v billionaires
(25:44) Planning for a post-iPhone world
(28:43) Gary's safety net
(31:41) Micro v macro gratitude
(37:45) Gary's best investment
(39:08) Gary's take of Zuck, Logan Paul
(45:44) Who Gary admires

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Links:
• Gary Vaynerchuk - https://garyvaynerchuk.com/
• Gary on Twitter - https://twitter.com/garyvee
• Day Trading Attention - https://tinyurl.com/yckc8erw
• Break The Web - https://www.breaktheweb.co/
• Lecture 6 - Growth - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_yHZ_vKjno
• Get HubSpot's Free AI-Powered Sales Hub: enhance support, retention, and revenue all in one place https://clickhubspot.com/sym

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Check Out Sam's Stuff:
• Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/
• Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/
• Copy That - https://copythat.com
• Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth
• Pitch your startup for a shot at a $1M investment with Sam Parr as the MC https://clickhubspot.com/pitch

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