Amy Jackson Westwick on Bollywood Fame, Marrying Gossip Girl Royalty & The Secret She’s NEVER Told Ed

27:52It's like, especially if you're jumping on a plane left, right and centre and you're like, I mean, you can't even go to the shops. You can't even get a shower. You can't even get a shower without them needing you.

28:02Olivia Attwood:So that's having to think before you pull the trigger on anything and you have to account for this human that needs you to survive. Yeah, and I'm like, sometimes I'm still like, oh, I've got two kids. I still feel like a child myself, you know? But it did come naturally in that sense. It's funny, it feels like the only thing I am not good at, but it does come naturally, you know? like I have to work like with the acting that didn't come like easily and learning that and still even to this day I'm still like trying to train and you know the modelling and all it was kind of like I was learning my way there and still feel like I am but like with the boys I feel like alright like I know what to do maybe not in my own life but I can handle yours very well that's really lovely yeah Ed Westwick is your husband I mean if you don't know Ed Westwick He's been in many films, but he's known probably best for Gossip Girl and playing the famous Chuck Bass.

29:00Olivia Attwood:How did you guys meet? We met on a car rally. Yes. And it was the lead. That's not my fault you were going to say. Exactly. And I come and it's at like Silverstone Racecourse. Okay. And I'm dressed ready to race because I'm quite competitive. So I was like, it was me and like, I think it was 12, 13 other guys. And I was like, I'm going to win this. Was it like a charity thing? Like, what were you doing? No, it was Aston Martin. Oh, so it was like with a brand. Yeah, with a brand. You were going to go and like basically drive some cars, do some content. Okay. Yeah, it wasn't me like, you know what, Saturday morning, let's get on the racetrack.

29:36Yeah, sorry, I didn't explain that very well. Sorry, imagine. Just my little hobby. I was like, just your side hustle. Yeah. So we were racing cars and he was actually with a friend, a mutual friend who I knew. So me and him were chatting. He comes over and we're talking. And at that point, I was a year out of the relationship with my son's father. Okay. And I was kind of just about ready. I was like... Am I going to put my toe back in? Yeah. I mean, I had a few dates prior and I was like, this is... No. I was like, you know what? This is... It's cemented. I'm never going to be with a man for the rest of my life.

30:15Olivia Attwood:And does dating change post-separation when you've got a child? because you're probably looking at men through very different eyes because it's not just you that it affects. Do you know what? And that was the main criteria. Obviously, there was, you know, when you, I wouldn't say it's failed relationships, but, you know, you go through your 20s and you have these relationships and you learn more so what you don't want as well. And, you know, I grew a lot. You know, I did the work on myself. It wasn't a one-way street when it comes to, you know, the relationships failing or separating. so I knew what I wanted I knew what I didn't want but having Andreas in the picture that was a whole different ball game and you know I did go on a few dates prior to meeting Ed and I thought I could never ever introduce you to my son I was like you are a man child I was like do you know I even dated older as well I did try and I thought it doesn't actually make that much difference I think if they're immature they're immature they're immature they are like lifelong immature and also I read somewhere it's terrifying but apparently a man's frontal lobe doesn't fully develop until he's 40 I don't know if I'm like am I I don't know if I'm I don't know if I'm Stephen Bartlett-ing this with a medical statement but yeah I read that somewhere and he's probably part of that as well but I read that and I was like oh my god I was like no wonder we've all our 20s were fucking miserable these men are running around with like the mental age of like a 15 year old we're trying to get them to settle down and they have no intentions they just they don't have the capacity for it yeah what was it about Ed that stood out to you that was different because you said previously that you felt that you was a bit of a narcissist magnet me oh god my 20s yeah what do you think it was about you that attracted them kind of guys well that's the thing I can't blame them because obviously it was me as well I probably fancied them and that's a real toxic trait so I think Again, it's the kind of industry It's the kind of places I was going It's the company I was keeping And I think they liked the idea of me But when they got to know me

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32:47And now on a serious level, I think, you know, I have, I'm opinionated and I have a wild side that I will not tame, but I will channel it for the right person. But if that person is going head to head with me and it doesn't happen instantly, right? You know, you warm up, you don't see those narcissistic traits. and once you're in it's like oh all right they're the red flags but let me tell you I was dodging those red flags they were like just waving on past me so it's I can't put blame on all of them it was me as well but I got to the point where I was like all right it's just the compatibility right yeah we were two very different people that goes for a lot of a lot of the relationships I was in before Ed yeah just different personalities it was a real clash and And he stood out to me because he's the opposite.

33:40It's so funny because when you mention like his, the role, he couldn't be further from that character. That's so, I mean, thank God. Yeah, thank God. Oh my God. I know a few of them, but he is the complete opposite. And I think number one, I was very open from the get-go, as you said, like with Andreas. He was my main priority. Of course, I wanted, you know, to be in love and have a great relationship, but that had to go hand in hand with having my son yeah and then also which was like a breath of fresh air not instantly but like the communication I'd never been with someone that you could actually talk to like I lost the ability of having like open frank conversations and like talking about like feelings and like he's a proper cancerian so he loves to so he kind of drew it back

34:26Olivia Attwood:out of you that's really special yeah he got it back out it took a while though do you think it's because he's an actor and he's like in the arts and he's like slightly more connected to himself like emotionally maybe it's a really good point it might be like a little bit more if you have a guy that i don't know maybe does something that's slightly more of a toxic environment they shut off that you maybe because he has to draw on his own i don't know emotions yeah i think definitely i think that why that's why he yeah i think he's gone into that profession i also think he's got a really nice relationship we'll had a really good relationship with his mom yeah she was fantastic and like they had a amazing bond but they also have an older brother and he is their stepbrother so that was very normal as well in his upbringing and he see you know so he wasn't phased by the fact you had a son completely unfazed it's all green flags and then you got proposed to in switzerland on a bridge gorge were you expecting it i haven't told him this

35:38we were in the car we did the school pick up and me and andreas were in the back he's like mommy get in the back with me mommy get in the back of me so yeah of course i do pick him up and we're in the back. Yeah. And obviously at the front, like your messages pop up. No. Right? And not necessarily the entire message, but Michael Diamond dealer popped up.

36:06And I was like, were you like, ah, ah, ah. And then I saw his face. He looked at me like in the back mirror and I was like, you know, do you want some? I was like, do you want some juice, babe? You know? I was like yeah what's that out the window oh that's funny so it was kind of there

36:21Olivia Attwood:if you hadn't been posed to in a kind of close proximity you'd be like who the fuck's getting a diamond 100 % where the fuck is this diamond it would have been what's the film Love Actually and you're like where is my diamond bracelet so you thought it might be on the cards I thought it might be on the cards and then you know a few months passed and I thought alright and then you're living like day to day and you're like when is it going to happen like constantly get me nails done in the nail salon just ready whenever the question when he gets down on that nail like okay they've got to be done um and then we did it actually like you say in Switzerland it was for my birthday and I didn't know exactly when or how so it was a lovely it was a lovely surprise it's like I mean it's getting engaged I think it's like a 10 out of 10 experience how did you get proposed to in can I just say before you judge me I would never I feel like we were one of the very first couples on my Instagram to do Dubai on the beach.

37:17Olivia Attwood:Now, if someone did Dubai on the beach, I would say no because it's just, if I see one more Burj Al Arab engagement, I'll vomit. No offense to anyone's engagement, but when we did it, I... You were a friend, Sata? Thank you. So I feel like it was early enough that like it wasn't, like it didn't, yeah, I loved it. And I didn't, and it was a bit like the same. I was like, I kind of thought it was coming, but I didn't think it was going to be that day. But it is, oh my God, getting engaged is great. I always say this, You get told how amazing you are. You get a diamond ring. It's what it's not to like.

37:45Olivia Attwood:Yeah. It's a win-win for everyone. Do you know what? Great. This is when as well, I thought you were absolutely brilliant. This is when I came across you as well. Liv. Oh, what are you going to say? It was the wedding. Oh! It was a series, right? I saw it on TikTok. And it was so funny. And at that point, I think I just got engaged and I saw the TikTok. And I was like, oh my God, who was this girl? She's hysterical. It was one with your mom. And you were like, and she had a little cough. and you're like, you better know. I sound psychotic. It was very like, yes, no, on decisions and when I was doing my wedding photos, my mum was like, you better calm down because you've literally just nearly thrown your nan off the stage because I was like, right, next, next.

38:27It is a lot though, isn't it? How did you find it? You know, we had the civil and then we had the big wedding. Yeah. And don't get me wrong, the big wedding was... I know what you're going to say. With the civil more special. Yeah. I know. And I don't like saying that because he's bent full tune. but it's just probably more peaceful and you're like probably a little bit more present massively and it was just i didn't not that it was a performance but when you've got so many people you want to make sure they're having a good time and you're the bride so everyone wants to speak

38:53Olivia Attwood:to you everyone everyone so then you're doing the whole room yeah it's it's quite did you that night when i got into bed i actually felt like i've done a marathon 100 i was my body was like in uproar and we did three days jesus three days of that so i made a point of the first day i was like don't drink because you're gonna ruin it yeah you're gonna ruin the wedding day and i was like okay well we'll ease into it and then everyone else is drunk around you having a good time you're like no remember what you're doing you're getting married tomorrow be on point so yeah i did really i enjoyed both they're both beautiful um but the civil like you said um we did it in italy gorgeous Yeah, it was lovely.

39:33Good food, good weather. Hot though. Gorgeous.

39:36Olivia Attwood:Hot, hot. Yeah, hot, hot. Like sweating your tits off in your dress. Yeah, and it was, I felt a little bit bad for the guests. Did you get married outside? Married outside. I was like, you know, you had the whole vision. Everyone's like just dripping in sweat. No, literally. And I think there were a few complaints and I was like, oh, but I left fans out there, boy. But the pictures were banging. So that's all that matters, right? And Ed was on location filming around the wedding. Is that correct? so he literally flew in flew out is that i didn't have a fiance for the half of it we had we had a really short engagement as well we did it in january and then we wanted to do it at that summer and it was it was really quick so we were like right let's make decisions let's get it going and then he booked a job literally the day we were viewing wedding um yeah wedding destinations and he was like well i'm gone now and i was like right right okay but maybe it was a good thing We didn't get sick of each other.

40:30We got through the wedding. You probably got to make all the decisions. Make all the decisions.

40:33Olivia Attwood:You were like, yeah, that'll do. We'll have 20 ,000 of them. Exactly. And he was like, what are you up to? No, so he wouldn't meet me in Italy because he was filming around the corner, basically. Yeah, I think it was like an hour flight. So he would meet me there. It was quite, you know, romantic. He'd get a little time, a little break away. And then he had to fly back. And he didn't go on a honeymoon. Didn't. Now that's a touchy subject. Sorry. When did you realise you wouldn't be able to do the honeymoon because of his job. So he got another job booked after that. Jesus. Yeah. You wanted to be busy, but also you were like, I've got to pay for this wedding.

41:07So you know what? There was acting jobs a few and far between. I was like, take it. Don't worry. But we booked Kenya and like that was our honeymoon. Yeah. It's not cancelled. It's just postponed. Okay. But now we've got two kids. And then I found out I was pregnant like a few weeks after that. So I was like, okay. So it all happened really fast. Yeah. This is postponed for the foreseeable. Okay. Yeah, but I'm going to remind, and when I get back now, thank you for that. So Kenya is still pending. Yeah.

41:36Olivia Attwood:How do you find being married to an actor? I mean, you are an actor, so that probably puts you at an advantage to understand. Like, what's it like? What's the reality of it really like? Do you know what I always said? You know, because you work with actors, and they were great, but I was glad to see the back of them after the film. Bye. Because it's a very consuming industry, right? And I've never acted with Ed, so maybe that's a good thing. Yeah. You know, it's not put me off. But he's very, he's just very chill. And then when he's in actor mode, he goes into that mode. So I've not kind of, it's not, it's not kind of, you know, infiltrated the relationship.

42:16But I like it. As you say, he's very emotional. He's in touch with his emotions, which I find like it's refreshing. Yeah. Yeah. So, and also, I think now that we are, you know, married and he goes away, I go away. Having that understanding, Liv, I think that's huge. I didn't know how difficult it was for, like, the other person in the relationship. But it was also so difficult for me because you're leaving. And then they don't get it. So then the games kind of start, right? Yeah. And you're like, well, you're away, you're gallivanting, you're having a good time. And you're at home working. working like 18 hours a day stuck in a trailer like yeah I'm not out partying exactly so I think having that understanding is really key to making our relationship work anyway this is an immature question

43:04Olivia Attwood:but I have to ask I've always wanted to ask an actor's wife do you ever get jealous? madly do you? oh my god I love it you're so honest I can't no I'm sorry I can't pretend I'm not I would be up the wall oh my god I am like I with age I've mellowed a little bit okay but no I'm just you know I'm a jealous cow don't kiss my husband even though it's a fucking job oh my god the amount of times I have to just quickly scroll past TikTok because these bloody gossip girl things keep coming up and you know what I do actually love their relationship I do like if I wasn't married to him I wouldn't find it's so um annoying oh my god amy i'm obsessed with you that is so funny i was like is she gonna give me the pr answer of like oh it's just you know of course not a job okay so were you actually a fan of gossip girl before you met ed so i was i was working at the time it kind of released right i was working a lot in india i didn't didn't come on your radar as much as all of us Didn't really have the time to sit there and binge watch.

44:12I wish I did. But I must admit, it was actually, and this is going to sound really soppy now, but it was when he was away, when I was pregnant, and I was like, I really miss him. I'm going to put something on the telly. And I watched it, and I was like, I don't think I can do this. I was like, I was like... Oh, your hormones are raging anyway. And I was like, he'd call me, and I'd be instantly in a bad mood. and I was like you know what literally literally so I was like you know it's not a good move I appreciate it for what it is though and yeah I mean he he still gets people coming up to him now it's uh it's beautiful it's yeah it's a it's a proper like world isn't it I mean and I that

44:58Olivia Attwood:show's just like survived every era of like I mean even like you like it don't you like 23 do you know what i mean like every generation is like reconsuming that series and they like fall in love with it it's true it's like moms and daughters yeah coming up and you know it's very nice dolls this part of the podcast is brought to you by garnier good who with their range of spicy blonde shades are bringing a new era to spicy and as you can see i am here for it in my shade hot honey blonde. So today we're doing a spicy showdown because spice isn't just about your hair color. It's a mindset. It's main character energy.

45:41Olivia Attwood:It's choosing the thing that makes you feel good. I'm on a mission to understand what the new definition of spicy means to me. So the team have put together some fun would you rathers. Here we go. I'm scared. Would you rather book a last minute girls trip and pack in 12 minutes flat or have a perfectly planned itinerary with dinner reservations six months in advance. The second one, I'm a type A. I need the reservations. I need to see the details. I need a booking conf. Booking confirmations on my love language. Would you rather take a huge career risk and go after the thing that you really want or stay in the same job because you know that you're good at it?

46:19Olivia Attwood:Huge career risk. I would take the career risk. I'm all about that memory making. You know, we're only here once, guys. If you've got something you're good at, you can always go back to it. And I think that you want to take the risk, take the challenge, have stuff to write in a book one day. Would you rather try a new restaurant or order your usual? I always order my usual. I'm a creature of habit when it comes to things like food, hotels, even clothes. I know what I like. And I just kind of think, I don't want to be disappointed. So if you go onto my Deliveroo or any other food ordering website, I have the same.

46:56Olivia Attwood:Favourites are in the basket. What is your usual? I love getting delivery no boo. Would you rather do a full 45-minute glam every day or just have a fresh face? Oh, I have to do glam almost every day because I'm old and ugly. But I do prefer the feeling of a fresh face and it's so long sitting for glam. And even doing your own makeup, like who can actually be bothered? If I had to choose one for life, it would be glam. Would you rather have a bouncy blow-dry or a slick bun? Bouncy blow dry. Like, I'm all about the big hair. I don't need to look like a Q-tip.

47:38Olivia Attwood:She's got a beautiful round head though. I've got a small ratty head. Would you rather have a spontaneous night out or PJs and a face mask? I'm an out girl. I feel that this year I'm going to be very outside of the house, like an outdoor cat, you know? One of the ones that just goes out around the neighbourhood, and comes back when it wants and just looks at its own and goes, feed me. And then leaves again for three days. That's me. I'm going to be one of those cats with a bad attitude. Final one. Would you rather hot honey blonde or cool icy tone? Hot honey blonde. I feel that the warm tones are taking over.

48:14Olivia Attwood:It's very 2026. It's very in fashion. It's very complementary to almost every skin tone. I think everyone looks better with a slightly warmer hair tone. That's the thing. spicy isn't about doing the most it's doing what makes you feel your best and that's exactly why I love my Garnier Good hot honey blonde no ammonia no drip so no stress I literally apply it on like a mask and leave it on while I'm doing bits around the house which is perfect because you guys know I can't sit still so dolls enter your spicy blonde era Garnier Good is now available at Boots and amerson you're a podcast host now should have added that's your intro fucking balls it up go back and drop my thing well i'm playing at it live i turned up at these studios today and i thought oh my word i've got these guests like trampling over mud to get to like my glorified shed set up i'm just showing off here at spotify just like how the other half live um how you finding podcasting you enjoying it what kind of what made you want to start scouser just chatting chatting chatting chatting over a good cup of tea proper northern as well love a cup of tea and uh you know what also i i love a good chat and then the people i've had on are people that you know i love or i know and and they're like it's just a conversation it's a conversation and it's fun and it's very different to being told you have to be this person today it's just you being amy yeah it's just you being you which i finally i've like you know settled into that you know just being me which is nice and also on a practical side if I'm being honest having the kids and like you know running the house and and working from home primarily that was a big must because you can't jet off at the minute for me like 30 40 days away it doesn't it just won't work for me and like you say you you want to probably have your own identity have you career that you're a hustler like you've always worked like you say that then means you can do something that fits around your life exactly you walked the Paris L 'Oreal fashion show it was what was that the first time you've walked it first time and what was it you've got the likes of like Eva Longoria Kendall Jenner like Molly May that was Molly Molly who nearly didn't make it on the catwalk but she did she did I'm so proud of her and you know what she owns it yeah she really didn't when she got down there she was like this is me to be fair people give her such a hard time but it's like if you got as much shit as she did you probably ever think it as well 100 % I think because she's so much in the public eye you know she's it's only natural even me like when I see like certain comments and things on social media it knocks you and then you it's in the back of your mind but I think what she does is amazing and she really like stands firm in who she is which I have full respect for so yeah she got down there the only thing with me I was told Did you enjoy it?

51:09I loved it, but I wish I could have gone again. You wanted to, once you got the nerves off. Yeah. Yeah, but that's like life, isn't it? Can I just retake? I can do it better. Now I've done it and I know I'm not going to fall. And I had this, I was wearing this suit and it was like leggings in with like really like killer heels like this, but they were all as one. And I think the shoes were plastic inside. So they were inside almost like a catsuit type thing. Exactly. So it was at the very end. so I'm freezing because it was really cold but because you don't get your anxiety so my palms are sweaty my feet are sweaty and I get on the stage and I go oh my god my feet are going to fall out my shoes and I can't put them back in so I was like I'm going to slip everywhere so I wasn't like giving it that full force but you're almost scared if you over commit you could lose your shoe

51:54Olivia Attwood:and go outside oh my god so I was half in half out and once I knew they were attached I was like alright I'll go again one more you know but it was great it was such a and the L 'Oreal girls are amazing is your son aware of you and like what you do how much does he sort of like understand at five what can they do at five you know what he's very world understand he's he understands a lot that's the problem okay yeah you're always trying to are you trying to shield him a little bit from just in general like his emotional intelligence i was never like that when i was growing up no and like if an adult said to me the sky is neon pink i would be like but he questions everything he you know wants to know the ins and outs things which i love yeah it's hard graft as a parent but you know for the outside world that's good yeah but he's inquisitive and he's smart yeah you're like almost like slow slow your horse so like people will come up to ed to take selfies and things and he's like mommy you're not that famous Ed gets way more selfies than you and I'm like thanks babe I'm like maybe that's a good thing that's so funny so he's aware of things and you know I will tell him going to do the show and he wants you know he really wants to come and be a part of it obviously he's in school now so it's tricky but we were showing him the video and things but he's been on set before and he wants to get involved he's yeah he's that's cool yeah my little sidekick I mean he probably is how cool going to school and being like my mum does this, does that.

53:30Olivia Attwood:Like, come on. It's pretty cool. Yeah, I don't know whether he fully understands it. But when he's older, he'll probably be like so impressed by you. I hope so. When he's fired by you. Or not like got the ick and he's like, he's not going to end up like ticky-tocky, is he? Like when he's got such an amazing power. How? When he's got a mum that's like an absolute boss bitch. Oh, that will not happen. The ticky-tocky. Ticky-tocky. No, the ticky-tocky. The ticky-tocky. That was his name? Yeah, no. I'm like, you're trying to be this anyway. don't even get me started on him something ticky-tocky i was like come on mates i was like even off the back from what was that ridiculous no so just before we started recording i'm going to try and really have this conversation we both love a handbag yes we do we both love the ms game we both got done coming off the euro star i thought it was just me i wasn't going to tell anybody that because everyone was like i actually felt better that i'm not the only one that was that's stupid we're in it together and you know what i felt sick to my stomach so i feel like you're getting a bit of a bargain yeah right and of course you know it's gonna follow the law but can i just say i'm gonna go i'll go on a limb and say this right and the guy at customers was like not having me at all he was raging and i understand it is your personal responsibility to educate yourself but when you're in paris and you've got your amex out they're throwing stuff you can get all the tax back and they've used that as part of their so you start going their sales?

54:53Olivia Attwood:yeah I'm going to get my tax back you don't and then when you obviously because we're not in you know EU anymore when you come back you're meant to declare and then so I don't understand what I saw what to put him in claiming it back because there's no point it's a bit of a like Ponzi scheme I think it actually costs you more when you claim the tax back it does I was like more out of pocket I was fuming I was late as well for the school and I was like oh she jumped off the Eurostar battery had died no And they're going through all your bits and pieces. Your pants and your makeup bags. Are we like the same person?

55:23Olivia Attwood:I've never met anyone else. Every thong was like unrolled. I was... Me too. Can I say this? I've never said this to anyone. I was... After a while, I went on for so long and I started to feel so like ashamed just like going for my toiletries. And I was like, what do you think I've got in this bag? Like seriously, I was like, I'm off the telly. I'm off. you gotta use it when you need to use it I was like I literally am on loose swimming what do you think I'm doing smuggling like a gram of heroin through like what do you there'd be a revolver in there like what do you actually think I was like yes I've got a handbag I didn't like you know declare it but like can I just go home now I think they get off on it I know I'm off the telly you know what I was trying to be like as if I was at least I'm gonna do anything illegal like what where would that get me But yeah, he just looked at me and was like, okay.

56:16Olivia Attwood:Kept rummaging through the thongs. Kept going through my thongs. I was like, right, this is actually mortifying. What's the last handbag you bought? Oh, it was that time in Paris. I treated. It's put you off ever since. And I was like, I'm going to treat myself. And I was like, right, Ed, make the appointment. Yeah. I was like, right. Yeah. It's like, don't worry. I'll treat myself this time. Yeah. And he was like, all right, do you need me to come? I was like, well, just come for the ride, you know. and yeah let's see let's see what happens bought a beautiful 30 inch Birkin and it's called a colour I should really know what I'm talking about I'm zip on it is it the cargo?

56:55no I wanted the cargo and I was like you know I wanted something special I used like you know it's our first year of marriage card and this that and the other I was like anything special is it like a zip on like an angle? no it's straight and the zip is just across about this big but he said i haven't got the cargo but this is something a little bit different and i was like sold done let's go pop it in the boot let's go yeah put the techs on it that's what i

57:22Olivia Attwood:asked for when i was in paris cargo we got one day babe i know one day we'll manifest this one day i have to say i've got a friend that works for hermes and he's like when you get on your tiktoks he's like you say the color wrong you say the leather wrong i'm like for someone that loves the bag actually i'm quite uneducated me too i'm like this got a little zip in the corner i think people always think people talk to me about bags i'm out and they'll go i've got a and i'll go oh that sounds i think i have no idea what were you talking about well i always panic when i go in there as well and they ask you and i ask my girls who are like like fully fledged oh they know it and i'm like what do i say and what leather do i want and they're like giving it and i'm like and i just don't remember any of it and they know and they're quite you know okay let me show you instead.

58:05I'm like, that'll be best. Yeah, I'll be like sold.

58:07Olivia Attwood:Because I was like, I need the leather that stands up to more because I'm, I look after my bags but I have to use them. I don't want anything to have to be too precious over. Anything on the wish list right now? Cargo. Cargo, babe. No, cargo. And a mini Kelly. Guys, we'll have to put a picture of the cargo on the screen because otherwise people are going to be like, 100%, what is this cargo then? It sounds awful. It's really cute. It's really gorgeous and a little mini Kelly I would love. Yes. I've got one in like a really bright green colour and I absolutely love it. It was the first mini Kelly I've ever got offered and I adore it.

58:37Olivia Attwood:But the only thing with a really bright kind of bag, there's only so many times you can, because I've asked people like, oh, here she comes with that bastard green bag. With that bright green bag again. Yeah, the back ones you can kind of just have. Yeah, just use every day. So you're a dark colour if my SA is listening and I know he does. I love that. You obviously, you do Dilemma's advice on the pod. So I thought I'd get the Huns to write in, do a couple of questions for you and we can give them together some of their advice tackling some stuff so oh god this is like one of my biggest icks now that i'm single my boyfriend follows loads of girls but he says doesn't mean anything is there anything i could can or should do i saw a thing the other day says the biggest ick is a man's following looking like he runs a nail shop oh that's so true though that is an ick but it is isn't it it's got a whole list of them one after another and it's like in their pictures well i know it sounds so you know blase just a little like but there's something in that you've got to take the time out i don't care how immature it says if you're in a relationship it's disrespectful i massively agree with that i i mean i'm not gonna lie i unfollowed all of my ex's lists i was like let me go through and i'm unfollowing and i suppose that's my toxic trait because they're just gonna make a fake account aren't they but that's that's probably what they did do but i don't like it and my my kind of outlook on it if if they wouldn't like it done to them don't do it to me very true very very true how to distance yourself from a 30-year friendship that you feel like you've outgrown but they want to keep friendships are hard it's like a breakup it's as hard as that because especially on you know a friendship level but i think sometimes friendship breakdowns can hurt as much as yeah if not more if not more because they really know you and they've been through all the different versions of you but i suppose not everyone grows with you right and you do grow and i suppose in your 20s you're exploring and you have different like hobbies and you have different like takes on life and i suppose it just the distance is there but i don't think it needs a big you know message or or like any confrontation i just think the outreach kind of just kind of lessens maybe a little bit yeah and you always be there for one another and you know you've always got that person but life happens right so true i'm in a long distance situationship i'm in ireland he's in spain do i continue it or end it well i think if you're in a situationship you know what are you you're neither there or here i think especially and honestly i'm speaking from a place of experience when it comes to long distance relationships if there's any confusion if there's any doubt that is just amplified by distance you've got a really foundation haven't you to have distance like that yeah situationships i think are fine until they take up like negative headspace and then it's like what's it even for because i if i think of a situationship it's like you're neither here nor there but as long as you're both neither here nor there if one person wants more or thinks it's more that's when it gets that's the problem that's when it gets normally one person does always think it's more or want it to be more and the other person's keeping it in a box my best friend who's female thinks andrew tate is really cool oh what i don't want to this is real no i can i don't want to stop seeing him as well i just think this is really weird what should i do do you know what i was i'm not going to say her name okay but i had a hairdresser she was colour in my hair and we were you know there for three or four hours I was like so are you dating like what's going on she was like I don't know what the brother's called oh um Tristan Tristan she was like I've been speaking to him and I might and I was like what and I was like it's actually potentially even worse than the main one I know I was like I was like I would not be openly saying that but I just I do not I mean number one I don't understand the attraction whatsoever but in what world would you want to be some women are really drawn to misogynistic men and i always wonder if it's maybe what they saw growing up that they're kind of accustomed to it or maybe i don't know maybe they they look they look at the person and they look they're attracted to them they look at everything else through rose tinted glasses but i mean that's a fucking road to nowhere.

1:03:08Olivia Attwood:That is a proper rogue. That's rogue. To nowhere. Yeah. I think if you are, if you're a little bit unsure about yourself or a little bit lost as well or you don't really know what you want, when you have those men who claim that, and that was one of the comments on that manosphere, women don't really know what they want. I saw this clip down. And I was like, what? Like, what is that comment? But I think if you are a little bit unsure, they know they target those kind of women. Saying that, no, she fancies him, isn't it? it's the other way around. She's fancying Andrew Tate, the friend. The friend thinks he's cool.

1:03:43Olivia Attwood:Cool. Oh. I mean, what, I mean, where? But do you know what I thought was interesting about those men and like the comments that was made on that documentary about women don't know what they want and stuff. There isn't a successful man I know in my life who doesn't credit a lot of his success to the female and his, do you know what I mean? My dad, like, you know, he would have achieved a lot about my mum but he'd done it looking like shit and probably with two left shoes on and like do you know everyone like this he's always the one and all the men i've had in my life it's like you know god as soon as i'm away for a week it will just fall apart fall apart it's that emotional stability isn't it it's like and it's not like and i'm not talking about because i've never been one of these that's like you know slaving away over a dinner or anything i'm just i'm not as a domestic goddess but i'm like the structure of our lives comes from me i'm the foundation it's like so many women i know create the foundation they rely on us more than we rely on them I actually think generalizing massively we are more resilient as a species like then look what women have to overcome from like you know periods to childbirth to menopause we're just having things thrown at us since the day we're born and we kind of yeah I'm making it work I agree and this is pretty steady but the moment something happens go to bits go to bits they need us girl I don't want us to win I don't live before I let you go yes I always do this I always take a referral from my guest who do you think I should interview who should be in the hot seat next alright so I saw you had Chris on Chris Appleton love Chris now you've got a double whammy that you've got to have Nikki makeup you've got to have Nikki wool oh that's a good one that's a good one guys they are yes I got my glam done by the pair of them and I was like oh my god who is that?

1:05:34Was it unreal? I was unrecognizable. It was amazing. So I would say Nikki Wolf Okay, that's a great one. at Nikki Makeup on Instagram. The producers all

1:05:44Olivia Attwood:got their phones out. I believe an email. An email is being sent as we speak. Send it immediately. And she's got some stories as well. She's a magician. Okay, amazing. And who should we ban? Who's on the blacklist? Well, we know. Tiki Toki. Tiki Toki. Tiki Toki is on that blacklist. They're all on there. Although I do think it'd be quite funny to have a ticky-tocky here. By the way, if you're listening to this, I've got like 10 women in a gallery of women. It'd be quite interesting to see how he did with all these girls just staring at him. Oh, exactly. He might just crumble a little bit. But yeah, for now, definitely bad.

1:06:20Olivia Attwood:Amy, do you know what? I've been a fan of you for a long time. I like that, you love. And like I said, I mean what I said earlier. When you came in, you've got that energy that lights up a room, but it's not like forced, not like conceited. You're just very warm. You're funny. Thank you for being so candid. Thank you. Thank you for coming on. You've been amazing. Thank you for having me. That was amazing. I know they've loved it because they're all grinning me as it is. I loved it. Thank you very much. Amy, everybody. Bye!

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