Harlan Coben Sold 100 Million Books. Here’s His Advice for Aspiring Writers.

8 Sep 2026 · 36 min · 19 chapters

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In short

Harlan Coben’s memoir/writer’s guide Plot Twist, Life, Craft, and the Messy First Draft, focused on how to start writing, persist through self-doubt, and build page-turning plot twists (including how to adapt novels to TV). He argues “you can always fix bad pages, you can’t fix no pages,” and that writing must be a priority, not a hobby.

Guest backgrounds

Harlan Coben is a bestselling New York Times suspense novelist and TV creator/executive producer; he has sold 100+ million books worldwide and has multiple Netflix adaptations (including I Will Find You). Host Anthony Scaramucci discusses his own author work.

Key claims

Specificity (e.g., New Jersey) can be universally appealing; self-doubt fuels improvement; first drafts should be ugly and unseen; twists work best when they add emotional reconsideration and lead to new questions.

Notable examples

Theo of Golden and Where the Crawdads Sing reaching publication at age 70; Mary Higgins Clark writing 5–7 a.m. with five young children; Coben fictionalizing real NJ towns after “killing somebody in a real house.”

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Chapters

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The Importance of Writing

1:30 to 2:20

Harlan Coben shares his insights on the writing process and starting your draft.

“Don't worry that you started in 2014 and really you want to start in 1974.”

Motivation Behind 'Plot Twist'

2:48 to 3:40

Coben discusses his motivation for writing 'Plot Twist' and its themes.

“But what I love about this book is that it's a masterclass on writing.”

Suburban Roots in Storytelling

3:40 to 5:00

Coben reflects on how his childhood influences his writing.

“What motivated you to make Harlan Coben the main character of a story?”

Dealing with Self-Doubt

5:00 to 8:00

Harlan Coben shares personal experiences of self-doubt and overcoming it.

“I hope Plot Twist also inspires that as well and motivates you to do that.”

Prioritizing Writing

8:00 to 10:40

Coben emphasizes the importance of making writing a priority and shares inspiration from other writers.

“because I know viewers and listeners love that arc of the story.”

Adapting Novels for Netflix

10:40 to 12:10

Coben discusses adapting his novels into successful Netflix series.

“You have other things in your life more important than writing.”

Cultural Specificity and Universal Appeal

12:10 to 14:00

Coben explains how specificity in storytelling can lead to universal appeal.

“Well, I always thought they'd be good many years ago.”

The Power of Specificity in Writing

14:01 to 15:20

Learn how being specific in your writing enhances universal appeal.

“I think in general, what a writer has to know is that the more specific you are, the more universal the appeal.”

New Jersey: A Cultural Melting Pot

15:38 to 17:09

Discover the diverse elements that define New Jersey's identity.

“It's a lot of fun and lots of commentary about what's gone on in the U.S.”

Advice for Aspiring Writers

17:10 to 19:39

Harlan shares practical tips for those looking to write.

“That looks like the nightmares, beginnings of Terminator.”
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Crafting Effective Plot Twists

19:40 to 22:37

Learn the art of surprising readers while maintaining emotional depth.

“And I think it's a good segue to the messy first draft part of your book.”

Authenticity in Storytelling

22:38 to 25:09

Explore the importance of authenticity and personal experience in storytelling.

“It turns out that you were born in Livingston.”

Themes of Hope in Writing

25:10 to 27:38

Understand how themes of hope and missing persons enhance narrative depth.

“There's something about the denseness and the diversity and everybody kind of growing up in that same sort of melting potish area of Livingston where we had all sorts of different people.”

Personal Plot Twists

27:39 to 28:03

Harlan reflects on significant life events that shaped his writing.

Life's Plot Twists: Harlan Coben's Story

28:03 to 29:19

Discover Harlan Coben's personal experiences and the hidden elements that shaped his life and writing.

“But the issue is called Plot Twist, but this is such a straightforward book.”

The Creative Process: First Drafts and Family

29:20 to 31:29

Harlan discusses the significance of first drafts and the balance between family and writing.

“which I didn't realize, including my grandfather, as I found out later on, was part of it as well.”

Empathy Through Storytelling

31:30 to 32:40

Explore how storytelling enhances empathy and the importance of observing the world.

“So I say the two words plot twist what do you say?”

Defining Thrillers: Suspense and Page-Turning

32:41 to 34:09

Harlan shares his thoughts on what makes a thriller engaging and the craft of dialogue.

“And so, you know, there's my little, we are the world speech, but that's kind of one of my hopes that the book does and it motivates you to do it.”

Final Thoughts with Harlan Coben

34:10 to 35:28

Harlan expresses his excitement about his book and the personal insights shared within it.

“at sharing that in your fictional characters, which I greatly admire.”
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Transcript

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1:30Harlan Coben:You can always fix bad pages. You can't fix no pages. You just got to get something down. Start writing. Don't worry if it's crap. Don't worry if it's in the wrong order. Don't worry that you started in 2014 and really you want to start in 1974. You'll do all that later. You can fix everything later. No one should ever see that first draft. Just start writing. If your dream is to be a published novelist, Theo of Golden that came out this year, he was 70 years old. When the crawdad sings, she was 70 years old when that book came out. It is not too late. It is never too late. That's the beauty of writing.

1:59Harlan Coben:And what's the harm if it is? What's the harm if you fail? So what? So you've done some fun writing and research. It's the same thing as your friend who's painting all day long or as a hobby. Your hobby is going to be writing. Just start putting pen to paper. You'll be surprised how much quantity will inevitably make quality. You just keep writing. Just like anything else in life, you're going to get better at it. Welcome to Open Book. I am your host, Anthony Scaramucci. Joining us today is bestselling author, New York Times He's a bestselling author. He's a creator and executive producer, Harlan Coben.

2:31The new book is a little bit different than the old books, I should say, because he is a prolific fiction writer, amazing storyteller. I've read so many of your books, Harlan. So I'm really grateful that you accepted my invitation. I just want to tell the viewers this. Viewers and listeners, you've sold more than 100 million books and you've had your work translated around the world and so many of your stories have become major television series but the title of this book is called plot twist life craft and the messy first draft a memoir on writing i gotta tell i really enjoyed this book because i i uh i live vicariously through people like you daniel silva brad thor these are buds of mine uh who i admire greatly brad thor is actually up on the, he's in the Arctic right now, Harlan, sending me pictures, okay, making me jealous of this once-in-a-lifetime trip.

3:33But what I love about this book is that it's a masterclass on writing. And so first question is, why did you write this book? What motivated you to make Harlan Coben the main character of a story?

3:50Harlan Coben:Well, first of all, it's great to be here, Anthony. Daniel silva and brett are good friends of mine as well so i could just see you getting along by the way with thor he's you know that's a he's a great dude he's always always has something interesting to say and always doing something uh interesting i you know um i just written two uh written 37 or 38 um suspense novels but i'd written two this particular year my own and i'd written one with reese witherspoon and i was just kind of like i need something different and i was thinking a lot about how I do it and I had done one of those master classes online where they you teach you probably seen the ads go by the videos I'm a subscriber to master class yeah I know I've seen you on there yeah I'm on the BBC maestro um master class you you said you had no the thing about you though is you said you had no process but it turns out you really do have a process yeah when you do something like that you know I was surprised by my own answers as I was doing the class i'm like oh wait i really never kind of thought of that before and i've always sort of distanced myself from the process i've jokingly said what do i know about people disappearing and murder and mayhem and all of that i just make it all up but i realized that all of it came from my life really every bit of it and so it became a half memoir half i'm not i mean it's a writer's guide but i really like to look at it more as a as a creator's if you if you're interested in writing music if you're interested in painting sculptor if you're interested in i mean hopefully any kind of entrepreneur business.

5:20Harlan Coben:I hope Plot Twist also inspires that as well and motivates you to do that. There's so many similarities between how a novelist does it, how a musician does it, how a painter does it, and how an entrepreneur does it. I was shocked at how many people are telling me, oh wait, this relates to what I do, not just writing. Yeah, it's so interesting because in reading your books, I have you as this sort of Robert Luglum global James Bond of literation. You know, that was my, my frame of reference. When I read this book, I'm like, wait a minute, you're a suburban kid from Livingston, New Jersey. That's right.

5:59And you've been, you've been able to channel all of this great creativity. I think, I think one of the things that I was surprised by in the book is that a lot of the stories trace back to your suburban childhood, and I'll just throw out some, okay? Tell no one the strangers. Fool me once. Tell me a little bit about that self-discovery where you're like, wait a minute, I just channeled ideas from my own upbringing.

6:26Harlan Coben:Yeah, I mean, a lot of fiction writing, we know a lot of fiction writing is asking what if. We just go around life asking what if. But just the small, strange things that happen. And in the case of the New Jersey suburbs, which is, you know, it's the sort of the battleground of the American dream where a dream is supposed to sort of come true, right? My parents had bought the house. They had two cars. They had the garage. They had the basketball hoop in the yard. They had the barbecue in the backyard. And where all these dreams come true, it's also very fragile. It's a bubble. And it's very, very easy to kind of make it burst.

7:00Harlan Coben:And so I love that idea that I read a lot of my books. It's sort of the every man in the extraordinary circumstance, the ordinary man. And if you think, you know, in a placid pool, very placid pond, even a little ripple, even a little stone can cause tremendous destruction ripples. So that's always been my battleground for my books. I guess the one thing I also got, you know, we have this tendency to think, OK, there's Harlan Coben. He's sold 100 million books. It's all inevitable. But you write very candidly about periods of time where you had self-doubt. I have a relationship with Billy Joel because he lived out here on Long Island.

7:41My uncle used to sell him motorcycles. And he once said to me, yeah, I had so much self-doubt. I drank a bottle of shoe polish once thinking I wasn't going to make it. He's one of the most prolific songwriters in the world. And here you were talking about your self-doubt and saying to yourself, maybe this isn't going to happen for me. Take us there and take us how you built out of there. because I know viewers and listeners love that arc of the story.

8:07Harlan Coben:Well, I mean, now the term imposter syndrome has become just a little too big, but I do think it fits. I don't only, one of the things I always say is only bad writers think they're good. I worry about the writer who thinks that they're sort of, you know, you're always in doubt. And I know this from, I'm friends with John Grisham and Stephen King and a lot of these guys. and I don't know any writers who don't have self-doubt. It just has to, it's part of the process. If you're not doubting yourself, not questioning yourself, you're probably not pushing yourself quite enough. The self-satisfaction is sort of a danger and eventually you just sort of live with that.

8:46Harlan Coben:I mean, I live with those voices. Every book, you know, I say, oh my God, you know, I lost it, I was so good before what happened to me and then five minutes later, I'm like, oh my God, this is genius. Someone's going to read that book that's already out there. And so I think insecurity and those doubts just have to, you have to imbue them. You have to, there's two ways you can look at it. Fear can either paralyze you or it can fuel you. And so I try to make it fuel me. I try to make those self-doubts and the I'm not good enoughs, instead of torturing me and paralyzing me, I use them to say, how can I make it better?

9:22Harlan Coben:How can I work even harder? How can I use it as fuel to get me someplace new? You mentioned John Gershom is also a prolific writer and his works I genuinely enjoy. He called this book a romp, a riot, a joy to read. It's humorous. You're describing the self-doubt, but there's also process here. And, you know, one of the things that you said in the book, if it helps me produce pages, if it doesn't, if that's good, if it doesn't, well, then that's bad. It's the most self-indulgent writing ritual that you've killed by that test. Self-indulgent. You have to, here's the thing, you have to battle for your time.

10:11Harlan Coben:So a lot of writers will say to me or people who want to write, I don't have time, you know, my life is too busy. So understand that that's not the way to say it. I wouldn't say I don't have time. I would say that writing is not a priority for me. That's all. Because we all have 24 hours. None of us have more. None of us have less. And so if you can't fit it in, then you're not a writer. I understand we all have busy lives and things like that, but it has to be a priority. You have to fight for those times. And if you don't, it doesn't mean that you're a bad person or anything like that, but it means you're not a writer.

10:39Harlan Coben:And wake up and face that fact. You have other things in your life more important than writing. And so you don't do it. The example I often use is my old friend, Mary Higgins Clark, who passed away a few years ago. And when Mary was 38 years old, I think it was 38, maybe 37, she had five children, five young children, and her husband dies. The next day, her mother-in-law dies. This is way back in the early 60s. You know, no insurance. She has to work every day. So Mary would wake up and write from 5 a.m. to 7 a.m. at the kitchen table, then wake the kids up, get them to school, then take the train into New York City to work.

11:10Harlan Coben:So don't tell them you don't have enough time to write. Mary had enough time to write. It may take longer. It may take 12 months instead of 10 months, but don't tell me you don't have time to write. And so part of that, yeah, I'm being a coach and kicking your ass a little bit, but I just don't buy it. Yeah, but I also think that what you've expressed in the book and so many people feel is the passion. Bonnie Garmis has been on my show. She wrote Lessons in Chemistry. She's got a new book coming out. It's a bestselling book. Her debut is a bestseller. She wrote it at age 65, and she always had that burning desire, right?

11:43So I think the message from your book is if you've got the desire, you've got to hit it as hard as you possibly can. I want to talk about this Netflix series, I Will Find You. This is, to me, a real element of your staggering success. This is the biggest original debut on Netflix. So tell me about it. When did you figure out that you could adapt your novels into these award-winning, eyeball-catching series?

12:17Harlan Coben:Well, I always thought they'd be good many years ago. I don't think regular TV, though, sort of fit my brand. You know, 40 minutes, it's got to be solved at the end of the 40 minutes, new episode, 22 episodes, all of that. with streaming and places like Netflix where I, there's currently 13 of the shows on right now in various languages. You can make them six episodes, eight episodes, 10 episodes. I can make one 45 minutes, one 50 minutes, one 35 minutes, whatever needs to do for the story. So it really kind of works for me. I, to me, it's like, I'm slapping the novel right on to the screen rather than trying to make it fit in some other way.

12:55Harlan Coben:It doesn't mean I don't make changes. I make a lot of changes because what people don't understand, there's an old saying. They asked one time, I'm going to grab this book over here. They asked James M. Cain, who wrote Postman Rings Twice, don't you hate what Hollywood has done to your books? And he said, they've done nothing to my books. They're right there on the shelf. So the adaptations don't change anything about the book. I just love, you know, I love doing it. It's been really fun. I Will Find You has been a remarkable sensation. and the actors and I, Sam Worthington and Britt Lauer and Milo Ventimigli and the rest, we're having such fun, you know, watching people's reaction.

13:32Harlan Coben:And the audience size on Netflix is just psychotic. And so we're just proud to be there. It's also going to help future book sales. Everybody's addicted to your books. You wrote something I find this interesting, and I want you to give us some insight here. You sell more books overseas. Yeah. You know, and I don't know. does that say something specific about New Jersey, that it lands universally? What do you think that is all about? I think in general, what a writer has to know is that the more specific you are, the more universal the appeal. In the case of New Jersey, I always use the three S's, Sopranos, Sinatra, and Springsteen.

14:13Harlan Coben:The more those guys and those stories are New Jersey, the more universal bon jovi is missing you right now john john knows john knows i love him and his music i just doesn't he doesn't have an s so i'm gonna stick with my boys right now but i love i love you i'm with you great great dude and great music but the but the more specific you are to your story so a lot of people in the writing think oh how do i appeal to somebody over there i have to make my town every town usa instead of the more specifically my novels are new jersey the more universal the the appeal and i don't know exactly why that is but france is my biggest country per capita i am the jerry lewis of crime fiction i often tease my german publishers i want to be the david hasselhoff of mystery dome as well but hasn't quite happened as well over there um but yeah i think that's the key is to be very specific to your place don't don't try to pander don't try to do any of that sort of thing it's just people get that and think about yourself as a reader most places when you're when you talk about a place or a specific person, it's because they're very specific that you love them, not that they have all this kind of universal appeal.

15:19Guys, thank you so much for listening and subscribing to Open Book. You know, we've got 200 authors on this show. It's been a lot of fun for me, but I'm also an author now too. And I've got All the Wrong Moves available. Go to scaramucci.net backslash all the wrong moves. You can buy your copy today. It's a lot of fun and lots of commentary about what's gone on in the U.S. over the last three decades. You know, it's interesting. I mean, so I love your novels, but I also love New Jersey, those three S's. But there's something else going on in New Jersey that you, I think, identify. And I just want you to react to what I'm about to say.

15:59I feel like Jersey has got industrial notes to it on I-95. It has rural notes to it in Western Jersey. It's got the beautiful shore. And so it's almost like you've managed to take all of those elements and shake them up for people. And so if you're in France or even if you're here on Long Island, it's like that's America. I mean, Jersey to me is America. Am I getting that right, Harlan?

16:28Harlan Coben:I think you're absolutely right. And I would add in New Jersey, maybe a dash of attitude. I remember one of the New Jersey Hall of Fame induction things that I went to, Springsteen was inducting Danny DeVito. And he was sort of saying, like, he's comparing Danny to New Jersey. And he's like, New Jersey's small. Danny's small. New Jersey's dense. Danny's dense. New Jersey's a little angry. Danny's a little angry. And so there is this sort of attitude, I think, about New Jersey. You know, we're really not a state in the sense that we're also half as the suburbs of Philadelphia, half as the suburbs of New York.

17:06Harlan Coben:Then you got the shore. Then you have the reason we're called the Garden State. Then you're driving on New Jersey Turnpike. That looks like the nightmares, beginnings of Terminator. So you have all this sort of interesting mix together. But mostly we are suburbs. We're much more about our suburbs. We have some wonderful cities, but we're mostly known for our suburbs than we are for the cities. You know, listen, you know, a few of your governors have been my bosses. You know, John Corzine was my boss at Goldman. Phil and Tammy Murphy are some of my closest friends. Best people. And they have this undying love affair in New Jersey, as most of us do here in the Northeast.

17:45You said it a little earlier, but I want you to go back to it. If someone is 55, and you talked about Mary in the 60s, but if someone is 55, they have a full-time job, but there's a story in their head. What do you recommend that they actually do on Monday morning?

18:02Harlan Coben:Right. Just write. Don't think so much about it. Don't worry about it. You know, one of the quotes that I use in the book, it's my own one, I guess, because I finally looked it up wondering if I was one who first said it, according to every place I looked, I am. But you can always fix bad pages. You can't fix no pages. You just got to get something down. Just sit there one day. You have a, if you like writing by hand, but just start writing. Don't worry if it's crap. Don't worry if it's in the wrong order. Don't worry that you started in 2014 and really you want to start in 1974. You'll do all that later.

18:34Harlan Coben:You can fix everything later. No one should ever see that first draft. Just start writing. And the point you're making is really valid. Okay. When I was young, I wanted to be a pro basketball player. That dream is over, guys. That's dead. I'm not going to be a pro basketball player. But if your dream is to be a published novelist, besides the names you just mentioned, Theo of Golden that came out this year, he was 70 years old. When the craw dad sings, she was 70 years old when that book came out. It is not too late. It is never too late. That's the beauty of writing. And what's the harm if it is?

19:08Harlan Coben:What's the harm if you fail? So what? So you've done some fun writing and research. It's the same thing as your friend who's painting all day long or as a hobby. Your hobby is going to be writing. If you want to call it journaling, I'm not a big fan of calling it journaling, I'm cold journaling. Fine. I don't care. Just start putting pen to paper. I like that. And the older folks like me like that. But or just go right on your laptop and start typing. But you'll be surprised how much quantity will inevitably make quality. You just keep writing. Just like anything else in life, you're going to get better at it.

19:41I think it's so well said. And I think it's a good segue to the messy first draft part of your book. according to harlan colbin harlan colbin is a messy first draft writer right so you you you

19:57Harlan Coben:don't even like your first draft do you i think every i actually think most writers um either subconsciously or consciously do this my favorite quote on it is from ann lamont who calls it the first draft um and that is you have to pretend no one's gonna see it because no one is no one should ever see your first draft you know i i don't know any writer who gets it right in the first draft i mean you ask brad and yes and yes dan they'll say the same thing it's like you know there's that one guy who says he does it but none of us like him or want to hang out with him you know the first the first step to me it's like diamond mining the first draft is taking this big rock out of the ground and it's ugly and you would never want to wear it but that's where the value is and then your next draft you're going to start chipping at it and shining it and polishing it Making is something you want to wear.

20:42Harlan Coben:So that's the key. Don't worry if it's ugly at first. Well, the thing about you, which I still can't figure out, and maybe you can provide some insight here, 30 years of observing you, reading you, and you are the most famous in my mind for the plot twist. I think you do it better than any of those other authors that we're talking about. But yet for some reason, you're constantly fooling me. Okay. I figure, okay, I know this son of a bitch. I've read 20 of his books and I'm going to anticipate where this is going. And it always goes in a different direction. So I guess my question, I was dying to ask you this.

21:18How difficult is it to fool the reader after 20 or 30 years of, of writing? It's hard. It's hard. I try to fool you several times. What do you do? You walk into the garden and say, Scaramucci thinks the story's going into arc A. So now I'm just going to screw him and go into arc Z. What do you do?

21:37Harlan Coben:flip a coin what do you do there there is there is some slight of hand but mostly it sounds corny but i try to rely on making the twist have an emotional component if the twist has an emotional component it always ends up being better if it not just fools you but makes you reconsider look at everything differently like a camera coming into focus and you think it's you know you see long dark hair and you think oh maybe it's like you know maybe it's uh cindy crawford and it gets more and you see like a nose maybe it's share in the last turn you see it's howard stern and he should have known it was howard stern from the very beginning he cut the camera coming into focus it's sort of that kind of a thing i'm also always trying to think of ultra alternates what hasn't been said before what hasn't been done before how to mislead and it probably is you know there there's parts of your skill you develop and parts that are natural and i probably have a natural inclination toward knowing how to do plot twists and writing them but you can the one other secret i talk about this a lot in the book is to is to move your twists up to challenge yourself to not just give me like a big mystery and then wait to the last minute to solve it give me a lot of mysteries along the way if you watched i will find you we kept asking questions and then you answer those questions but the answers to those questions satisfy you on one level but lead you further down into the rabbit hole that's the real secret don't frustrate your reader or your viewer let them have answers but figure ways of making those answers lead to even more questions so you know in the beginning of that story i will i will find you sam worthington gets you know he sees a photograph of a boy that may be his you know that leads to more questions so what does she have in her she has this photograph okay we're going to reveal the photograph right away we're not going to hold it for two episodes we're going to show you now what is he going to do with it and then all those answers just keep piling up on each other and that helps get the twist going it's a real tribute to your creativity it's good with my producer had created some questions for this show but I had my own because I'm a New Jersey file.

23:52Okay. It turns out that you were born in Livingston. There's another guy that I'm close to. He's born in Livingston and he would be, the Italians would say Gabba Dos, which means he's got cement in his head. And that's Chris Christie. And by the way, I had Stevie, I had Stevie Van Zandt on this show to discuss his memoir. And one of my questions to Stevie was how the hell did Chris Christie break down Bruce Springsteen? right because if you remember they were at loggerheads together back in the day

24:19Harlan Coben:yes oh i i've witnessed it quite a bit so i've gone to concerts with chris chris and i were actually both born in newark and grew up in livingston right outside so livingston's right outside we both we're both um newark new jersey and we were both on the same little league team when we were 10 years old coached by his father and we were both inducted into the little league um hall of uh fame which was kind of a joke because neither one of us was particularly great but we're both on the same team and they decided to let us go in together. What's in the water in Newark slash Livingston that would create Harlan Coben and Chris Christie?

24:55Harlan Coben:I don't, you know, I don't know. We had a lot of, I ran to a lot of interesting people over, this is just a very, I think, we're East coast and you know, the East coast. And so we're snooty and think differently than everybody else we think, but everybody sort of thinks that. I don't know. There's something about the denseness and the diversity and everybody kind of growing up in that same sort of melting potish area of Livingston where we had all sorts of different people. And we all had parents at that time who were sort of first generation and really pushing for us to succeed. I think that was a lot of it too.

25:31Harlan Coben:There was a generation that wanted to see the next generation do better and work hard at it. I'm not sure our generation has done as good a job with that, with the next generation. But so a lot of these problems today, I think, are our fault in that way. I see in you and Christy, though, authenticity. And I think that's, to me, if you were going to say, what does Jersey represent to me? It's something that I think we sort of take some pride here on Long Island with, too. You know, we've got a bunch of banana heads here on Long Island, too, whether it's, you know, I mean, I could name all the banana heads, but Howard Stern would be one of them, Eddie Murphy.

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26:11Then there's also, of course, Bill O 'Reilly. I mean, we've got a bunch of banana heads out here, myself included. But I would say that it's authenticity. I think that's the thing that people like me admire and you, Harlan, is the authenticity. One of the things, though, that I always think about you is that you've got dead bodies buried everywhere. You have buried more bodies in half of the towns in New Jersey. Did you ever get a call from a realtor and say, Hey, stop burying bodies here in short Hills or something like that? Does that ever happen to you?

26:41Harlan Coben:I did. I mean, I did change and sort of fictionalized certain towns because I realized I was killing somebody in a real house in Livingston, New Jersey. So I sort of changed it. I made it, I've made a fictional names for things. I combine towns now and, and fictionalize it just be just because of that. I'm also bigger. I'm not really, I mean, I do have a lot of murders and a lot of dead people, but my initial hook is, is usually missing. people. I prefer missing people to dead people because if somebody is dead, they're dead, right? It's going to be solving a crime. You can have justice and all that.

27:11Harlan Coben:But if somebody is missing, like in the case, again, if I will find you, or he realizes his son may still be alive, there's such hope. And hope is a wonderful thing to write about because hope can make you sore or it can crush your heart like it's an eggshell. And so in almost all of my stories, like the way Agatha Christie did have a dead body, right? I usually have somebody or a family member who's gone missing and that's just more compelling to me because the person could still be alive that's such hope you know when someone's missing there's hope you know you're praying to god that they come back you know yeah so this is the you know you know the this book which is a memoir on writing and i said this to you before the podcast started reminded me of robert cairo on working his was more on how to build a non-fiction uh biography this is more about your master class and fictional writing.

28:05But the issue is called Plot Twist, but this is such a straightforward book. I'm wondering if you could tell us what is the biggest plot twist in your own life?

28:14Harlan Coben:I wanted this book to also be a memoir just because how much it will relate to the writing. So I think the stories of my parents passing, both my parents died at a fairly young age. They were both dead before. My dad was 59. My mom was 60, or I say around 60. She lied so much about her age that I'm not allowed to actually say her specific age or she'll come back and haunt and haunt me. I changed my own name when I was six years old. We grew up in a town that had two weird rumors about it, two weird rumors about it. One was that behind Richie the Boot, Boyardo, a mafia leader's house, was a furnace where he's disposed of bodies.

28:54Harlan Coben:And behind this um, Riker Hill elementary school where there was a lot of, uh, no trespassing signs. There was a nuclear missile base. And when I grew up, I found out both of those rumors were true. So you had this hidden in this sort of idyllic suburb of New Jersey in New Jersey. And so I think already we kind of grew up with these sort of things in our life where things weren't as they appear to be. There was a great deal also of, um, uh, crime, uh, a crime or organized crime in our area, which I didn't realize, including my grandfather, as I found out later on, was part of it as well. So all these sort of hidden things and secrets, I think, have sort of formed me into doing what I do.

29:36You've had an amazing life. You're an incredibly accomplished author. I've got us down to the five words. So if you listen to my podcast before, my producer and I take up five words. I'm going to say the word and then I want you to give me a one or two sentences, sort of a Rasha test. Okay. So the first two words is first draft. I say first draft, you think of what?

30:02Harlan Coben:A nonsense, scribbles, not worrying if it's any good or not, not even worrying if it has verbs, just vomit it, throw it up, get it down. Unfettered creativity is a really good point. And your book is really resonates with that. Just throw the spaghetti at the wall, see what happens. All right. I say the word life, Harlan. Oh, the first thing that pops into my head is still my family. It's always the thing. I really am. I'm sort of one dimensional, which I think sort of helps in being a writer where I only have really have two interests and that's my family and writing. Yeah. I try taking up other hobbies.

30:37Harlan Coben:I've tried playing golf. Why I don't smash a glass and jam at my, I don't know, but I took up golf instead. but really at the end of the day i really just like i worry about my family and i and i try to focus on writing and because i'm so one-dimensional it's not like i i don't collect things i don't have you know any of that sort of stuff i don't go antiquing i don't like shopping i don't like anything else and so i'm able i think to be more obsessed with creating and making stories and i think that's a that actually is helpful to be that sort of one-dimensional not as a human being maybe but as a writer it does.

31:10Well I mean one other thing that came out in this book about you is gratitude. You know when I think about you I think you feel tremendously blessed and grateful that you've had this opportunity to share these stories with the rest of the world and that they've been receptive to it. So there's a there's an earthiness to that frankly that I admire. So I say the two words plot twist what do you say?

31:37Harlan Coben:it's sort of the i think it is the two words that define me as a is certainly in my writing life um where i'm always trying to find the way that hasn't been taken yet in a hopefully positive way and i hope in your life too i mean i hope in one of the my my goals for reading this book is and it sounds so corny i really want to change your life i want you to start looking at everything you know i have the call the writer's mind frame where every human being i taught my kids every Every human being that you walk across, if you're walking the streets of New York, you say, I always say to myself, that person has hopes and dreams and what are they?

32:11Harlan Coben:It's a great way of creating character, but it's also a great way of getting empathy, of humanizing people, of making us all sort of better and richer in all of our lives. And I tried doing that with everything. I want you to end up being a little more observant by the end of this book, trying to look for story in your own way, in your own life. that because I think, you know, the great thing about reading and the great thing about story is that it makes us empathetic. And whatever side of the political aisle you're on, boy, we could all use some empathy right now in this world. And so, you know, there's my little, we are the world speech, but that's kind of one of my hopes that the book does and it motivates you to do it.

32:48I'm with you. You know, you have to have self-awareness. You know, Christy and I were on one side of things, further observation. We had to switch to another side of things just to be honest with ourselves. You know, ultimately, you can make a lot of mistakes in life, but the self-reflection and the self-awareness, I think can bail you out at the end of the day. I want to go to word number four. I say the word thriller. Some people think of Michael Jackson. I think of Harlan Coben. So when you say thriller, what do you think of when I say the word thriller?

33:21Harlan Coben:I think of suspense. I mean, I think if you're, you know, I write what I call the novel of immersion. I want my book or, or the Netflix show, whatever it is. I want it to be, I think it takes you away and that you can't put down. You go on vacation, you want to get outside, but you want to stay in your hotel room. Cause you have to know what happened to David and Rachel. You know, you, you, you want to, you're going to bed at night. It's 11 o 'clock. You're just going to read for 10 minutes. And next thing you know, it's four in the morning. Cause you have to turn pages. So I like, when I think of a thriller, I think of page turning.

33:51Harlan Coben:I think of suspense, which is really wanting to know what's going to happen next. That's always the key for me. I think, you know, again, one of your great skills among many is the dialogue. I love the dialogue in your books because a great fiction writer can impart what goes on inside the mind. You know, there's a part of us that we don't share with other people, but you're great at sharing that in your fictional characters, which I greatly admire. Okay, those are the last two words, and then I'm going to give you the last word. I say, Harlan Coben, you say what? Lucky to be here and so happy to be here and can't wait to share Plotist with all of you and get you all motivated to start creating as well.

34:34Harlan Coben:And maybe, you know, you'll learn something about me in the process, which egotistically is not, I'll enjoy, though I'm a little nervous about it. I've never been quite this exposed, you know, telling a lot of things about my past that even my kids didn't know when they read the book. I think if nothing else, just the reaction of my kids made this experience. My kids, I say kids, my kids are all a little older. The youngest is 25, the oldest is 32. But that they got to see a lot of things about me that they didn't even know. And I hope you do too. Yeah, listen, I love the book. The title of the book is Plot, Twist, Life, Craft, and the Messy First Draft.

35:12If you're out there thinking about writing, get writing. this is a memoir on writing from a guy that has sold a hundred million books plus harlan coben thank you so much for joining us today on open book it was great anthony so much so nice to hang

35:27Harlan Coben:with you man

From the publisher

He has sold more than 100 million books, but what I love most about Harlan Coben is that he’ll be the first to tell you he still wrestles with self-doubt, and that fear can either paralyze you or fuel you. We talk about why it’s never too late to start, why your first draft is supposed to be messy, and what one of the greatest storytellers of our time has learned about failure, creativity, and having the courage to just get started.

Harlan Coben has over 80 million books in print worldwide. Harlan Coben is the #1 New York Times author of thirty-five novels, including WIN, THE BOY FROM THE WOODS, RUN AWAY, FOOL ME ONCE, TELL NO ONE, and the renowned Myron Bolitar series. His books are published in 46 languages around the globe.

Get a copy of Harlan's brilliant new book (out today), Plot Twist: Life, Craft, and the Messy First Draft: A Memoir on Writing

Anthony Scaramucci is the founder and managing partner of SkyBridge, a global alternative investment firm, and founder and chairman of SALT, a global thought leadership forum and venture studio.

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