Episode 057: "Altitudinous Privacy"

0:02Two best friends, both alike in dignity. Nurturing phantoms and courting the muse The hag divines when something must die Yes, that was Poog But this is huge The ego loves to seek But never to find It was Berlant and Novak The whole time Did you straighten your hair? Are you joking? Straighten? You look, something's going on Is it the angle? Like you're like, you're angled Like the camera's at a crazy angle? Guess what I pulled out of the mix Okay, wildly I found it on the shelf I just go what? What's going on there? The app's not even on the phone anymore I just grab it I see some random clear stuff I slap it on There she goes Who knows what program it's on But it was working She's talking about the Zip microcurrent device Which I swear by for acne By the way This is like working out Start working out, something else goes wrong I'm breaking out from like sweating, I guess.

1:04And then maybe not immediately washing my face enough. I don't know. Well, tell out there. I mean, you're wearing SPF on the way to the workout, I imagine, in the car. Are you sitting down? Sometimes I don't. I go raw if I'm going straight to the workout because. Well, yeah, I mean, no, who does? I know because it feels ridiculous. That's why you have to wear a full face smock, which I do, again, think we might want to consider. What's the deal with UV blockage in the car? Maybe just the eyes peering out? Yeah. Well, what's the deal with UV blockage in the car? You haven't seen this? No, I've seen it.

1:34Images. Yeah, where it's fully, fully faced. But like. Just the eyes peeking out. Yeah, but. Can you believe I've been to the Grove already today? Grove and back? Well, here we go, folks. First of all, let's just call it what it is. Talk about not morning poog. And it ain't morning. But this is a crazy poog time. I've lived six. I've lived six and a half years today. Every day is a freaking lifetime. time and this one oh and i just mean emotionally mentally it's such a vastly different place to so anyway it's 422 folks it's 422 420 poog and i was going to join jacqueline this morning for a workout but i was feeling a little depleted and my aura ring told me to take it easy today and i thought you know what listen she listen to your body but more importantly listen to your orering listen to and no right right right because listen to this yeah so listen to this just let's everyone listen in wearable caper land once again she bitched and she moaned years ago i know i know now look at her now she's i'm staying home or i told me to stay home so proud and happy because as you know i my whoop data is and i'm gonna get the two competing i'm gonna get them i know you You brought me.

2:51You brought me. Plus Apollo. Where's Apollo? Yeah. Or versus Warp. Oh, versus Apollo versus Neurobot versus, I saw something today. I go, yeah, I'll be looking for that too. Okay. So I last night was at an event. Back on Mocha. I was at an event last night. It's actually incredible. I am in episode one of All's Fair, the Kim Kardashian-Ryan Murphy show. Oh, hell yeah. Right. Okay. And I'm there and I see a woman wearing an outfit and I go, I like her outfit. I go up to her and go, excuse me, who makes your outfit? She goes, oh, you know, my friend collaborated on a line with Nordstrom and it actually just dropped today.

3:36Really? So you ran off to Nordstrom? And I go, I want it. I get the name. Little bitch. Okay. Well, you did see if I wanted to come, but I was listening to my whoop. I did text you. and deciding that you're missing because i was listening to my whoop deciding that i would go to the workout but you know i'd be mindful of my effort this is my whole new thing okay mindful of my effort during the workout i could still go i can bring it down i could do 70 percent right right right yeah you don't have to go full you don't have to go for me it helps because routine the routine of like you know not resisting the going you know the the whole like the routine is putting your pants on and getting a car the routine isn't working out because like a lot of times the rest will happen naturally now i am someone that will drive studio city and you know decide it ain't happening and you know go to the hardware store so that's turn away if we all have to have a different way to take back sorry sorry hello i go up to her and i'm like you know so i get the information the outfit look it up it's a leopard leopard blazer leopard maxi skirt and And the skirt retails$99.

4:46Wait, was it the exact one she was wearing? Yes. The skirt retails$99. The blazer retails$130. I go, I'm going to freaking get that. I call around some malls today. Wait, you still haven't told the brand yet? The Grove goes, we have it. I mean, I know it's a Nordstrom collab, but is there a reason you're not saying it yet? I will not gay keep. I will not gay keep. No, I will not gay keep this. it's Sarah Walker, Samantha Leopard Sarah Walker with WAIF W-A-Y-F, I have no clue does this item look particularly expensive? no, but it's fun, here wait, I'm going to send you a picture of myself in the dressing room wearing it so it was incredible so I have an ecstatic experience calling Nordstrom's, I call the Americana we don't have it in store right now in this size but I just sent you a picture though.

5:39Look at the picture of me in the dressing room. And I talked to Nancy at Nordstrom's. Wait, is it denim? I can't tell. What is it? No, no, no. It's fabric. Cool. But Nancy on the phone, it's great. I'm going to come in and get it. I go, you know what? I'm driving to the Grove, middle of the day, very unusual, kind of rare feeling. Going to the Grove. I'm in there and here's what's funny. So I talked, I'm like, oh, I'm looking for Nancy. It's Nancy. Hi, Nancy. it's kate you you set aside that leopard uh set for me oh yeah she comes over she grabs it and then i me trying to force community i go you know coming in to try on in person i mean it's like it's like the olden days and she it doesn't register because for her obviously it's just like this is normal right but i was trying to force it i go i go here i am in person not ordering it online coming into the mall in person of course she wouldn't she was unamused You know, she's like, sure.

6:35She was so nice. She was a doll, but like that just didn't really register for her, which is fair. And then I started to engage in, oh, do I get this size? Do I get that? I did mix and match different size blazer and skirt. And guess what, Jacqueline? I had money on a Nordstrom gift card from my dentist. So my dentist also bought me, we all know my dentist bought me hugs. And then I had leftover and my dentist couldn't. Historically, it was pants. No, no, the pants I never got. The pants. But now he bought me part of this suit. So it's huge. And I want micro Uggs. I want micro Uggs. The ones that are the tiniest.

7:12Didn't you want them last year for Christmas? So I got those for Christmas last year. They go above the ankle. And then famously, the shoe salesman who sold them to me lives in my neighborhood. And we ran into him in the street. It was explosive. These are micro under the ankle. Right. Which are? For a house shoe. So interesting. Cape Relent Uggs. What? Well, it's the deepest part of myself. It's what I wore in middle school. Well, it's the true snob or not snob brat. Or just sort of, well, by the way, what the fuck? What am I, a fucking man? Why am I recording this podcast at a desk? Like a fucking cock knocker?

7:53By the way, I know. As soon as I lean back, I go couch poop. By the way, because I've been thinking. People are tired of this shit, okay? this this is art that people need to be reminded with a little bit of selective okay i am gonna i'm gonna try nothing clears my mind like a new visual i'm gonna create i have a couple couch pieces that might be floating upstairs we'll see point is you people don't know what what what's coming i'm gonna be in reclining i'm gonna recline i'm gonna do all sorts of crazy ass shit okay because this is this is interesting but wait wait i want to tell you the rest of the story what if we were no i want it but what if we recorded prone

8:39what you know you know you lie prone that's wrong i think that's on your stomach by the way jack in the middle of the night i was like laughing thinking about i was in the frog position with the one leg up on my stomach one leg up ready to leapfrog escape the bed launch out of the bed oh you know i saw this exercise don't don't don't wait hold hold hold this story don't forget it i saw an exercise it was like primal movements and someone's like look it up you know and they're like it almost was that movement and then you flop it was called i think it was called primal it was like you flop and then you switch directions and then you do it again and do it again and helping people with their brains these children etc so we're gonna have to look into that all right go on okay well of course the story it's not too much of a thrill but the point is i was there at the mall i talked to another woman it's just we're having a ball i get this day i go go i'm going to new york next week perfect for fall she goes oh it's perfect for fall so glad so glad it worked out i'm i am breezing through the mall feeling just light as light as a feather i go down to the chanel beauty counter i've had my eye on a chanel foundation listeners may recall i'm sure i talked about it on the pod i went to two or three beauty counters in one day none of they were all out of my shade i saunter up today they've got my shade i buy it go by brandy melville have to billy bit out brandy melville bleep now you don't have to really believe it out but got a couple shirts what did i notice since i got there that was different at the Grove.

10:13Also, what do you do? What do you do about this? I had a thing happened where someone came up to me and said, hi, this is at an event. The person comes up to me, hi, I think it's someone they're not. And I say to them, I'm covering details here. I don't really know. I go, I thought they were the owner of a restaurant that closed. And I said, oh my God, hi i miss name of the restaurant so much and the person looks at me and they do the perfect thing where they don't say anything and they kind of go like well it's really good to see you and they walk away i instantly realize it's the wrong person damn what do i do so i go what do i do but did you realize who it was or merely who it was not so then they walk away i go wait it's not that person still you still don't know who they are i go it's not that person i go i think it's this and I was correct I was like this is the association I think I know them from here I was correct I later learned so I go what do I do do I go up to them I go hey sorry that so I I do tell me if you think this is a weird fib I don't call it a lie but I declare it's a fib I go up to them and I go maybe that's the name thing I miss blank so much maybe that's the name of a friend that moved away I go the friend died I go let's not go death let's go they moved away I go you mean the lie you're quickly creating yeah so let's just say i don't i'm right right so let's say the restaurant was called i'm jumping i know yeah it's just called tana okay i go so again i said to the person oh my god hi i miss tana so much blank stare smile good to see you they walk away i go fuck so then i go what do i do do i go oh my god i thought so so then i say to them i thought this would be the bravest thing i know you're not going to give the name of the restaurant right Yeah.

11:56But although actually the name of the restaurant doesn't fuck anything. No. Does it not? No. So actually maybe can we work with the real name of the restaurant but not the friend? Because it really does affect matters, right? So do you want to give the name of the restaurant? Okay. Okay. Jewel. The name of the restaurant is Jewel. Exactly. So that's where you go because you were launching in on name of the restaurant. That could be a friend who died. And I'm going, well, if the restaurant was called, you know, pasta, pasta, pasta. Okay. It could be an issue. So I'm going, okay, it's Jewel. so I miss Jewel so much right so you're going now here's my question is Jewel in your opinion known enough that this person knows no well could be could be good fucking let me just play with it for a moment before we get to what you did I just want to play with it for a moment it could be it actually really could be everyone can join in thinking how would they get out of this right so I go I miss Jewel so much okay and also I have an announcement guess what you could play it off like you said y 'all look at this a person the person does bear a resemblance to like they look similar okay look but look at this no i hear you but look joel joel yeah no you know joel right joel mccabee so so i said i go wouldn't it be brave if i went if i went up to this person i said you know what i'm so mortified i'm so sorry i cannot place where i know you from wouldn't that be so brave?

13:21Wouldn't that be so, and there I am too scared. So here's what I do. The person's still kind of near me. So I go up to them, I smile, I go, I'm so sorry. I thought you knew my friend Jewel, but I realized that I don't think you do know my friend Jewel. Right. But I know exactly who you are, but you don't know my friend Jewel, right? Waiting for them to tell you. And then the person, and then the person goes, no, I know you from, and I was correct, says where I know them and I go, oh my God. And again, in my defense, I haven't seen the person in 10 years. So it's like, it's not egregious. And we were never closer.

13:56And the point is, was the lie strange? Was it weird that I went up and I said, you don't know my friend, you made it not. I could have just said, God, you look just like the person who owns this restaurant, but it's not you. But I didn't. Sometimes that you want to protect who you want to protect them from who you thought they were it's it's strange strange game but but but now i'm just wondering how can we know the kind of world yeah can we know the kind of world that you knew them from because this really academia oh my god a fellow student or a teacher teacher so what why are you protecting that this is this is not i don't know why i'm protecting so much There's nothing.

14:39I would tell this. So a teacher, okay, comes up to you, says hi. Again, not my professor. Just a professor at the department. Who you had engaged with in some capacity. Intellectually? A little bit. But I was never in their class. Like, no. But you knew their name? No. So it seems like they were out of control by even coming up to say hello. I was like, oh, of course. No, no, no. That's not true. When they turned away, I was like, I feel like their name is this. the first name I had and I was correct. They, by the way, they weren't offended. They were like, oh, from this. And I was like, oh my God, of course.

15:14I was like, I mean, my God, I haven't seen you in so long. And then I kind of doubled down. It's been what, 10 years? They go, yeah, it's been a long time. Yeah, I just think I really, I want to call them up and tell them what I think. I think it's outrageous for them to come up and you just give a big old hey, staring at you, not identifying themselves. Yeah, not go, it's me, blank, blank, blank, from blank, blank, blank. From the blank, blank, blank. From the blank, blank school. Yeah. But yeah, I mean, I think, yeah, this is this weird thing where there's this moment where it's so simple. And I've said it before, and I feel like it's so obvious that it's almost imperceptible.

15:47Okay. And therefore, it's no longer obvious, which is if you mistake someone for someone else, right? If they don't know each other, okay, if the two people don't know each other, it's like there's some level on which I think you are embarrassed in front of the person who owns Jewel, even though they are not anywhere in this interaction. Do you know what I'm saying? Right, right, right, right. Yeah. The person that would feel bad about it truly is not there. So you actually have not offended the person you do know by like, basically, you see a stranger, you think they're your friend, right? Tony?

16:20Okay. No. Okay. So Tony? No. And then you're like, oh God, you feel embarrassed as though Tony saw it, but Tony didn't see it because guess who's not there? Tony. Right. I fear where do I, I can't place you or where do I know you from? because is because that almost defines like an associate an associated value to the relationship like where do i know you from is like you know me from class like where do i know you from is not you know i'm your second husband right you see what i'm saying i can't place where i know you from your previous home right it's like yeah yeah where i know you from means like i know your face from somewhere not we have a relationship so the fear would be i can't place you and it'd be like we went on a vacation together yeah okay i can't place now now where do i know you from it like you're expecting um well by the way we see each other at the gym i have fear around this yeah exactly i have fear around that's my fear i chronically introduce people who have known each other for years or who i even met one of them through the other person like chronic might be too strong a word that no but that borders on like a humorous character detail of like of the self-obsessed or whatever right like no i know i'm like i'm like oh my god and there i am trying to be polite i go so and so meets so and so they go yeah we all went to paris together we introduced you yeah we all no no jacqueline i've had it happen we knew each other i've had it happen a couple times where i i go introduce two people and then i catch myself right before i go you fucking idiot literally you all went to spain like like like in a way that's like Like an entire experiences are gone.

18:02My mom does tell me that my memories. She'll be like, remember that? And I'm like, I wasn't there. She's like, yes, you were. What's that about? Trauma response. No. I mean, sure, but no. The mind and the way that it sits, it hovers around the brain, continues to elude. So much eludes. I love this reclining. Look, look, look, by the way.

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19:38What's in there? Have we shown these on the air? No. These are the Noshinko. So I believe I got, did I get the cappuccino glass and you got the Cortado glass? Wait, I have an announcement. Are you sure it's Noshinko? Isn't that the name of the hand sanitizer company? Honey. i think you got your brand scrambled scrambled you know what's so funny about that so i actually was congratulating myself earlier for spontaneously pulling no shinko going you do remember things right i mean i know i remember things but wait let me let me let me so when i search for things it's always through it's always through keywords like when i have to find some like a text message i'll remember an arbitrary like word they use and that's how i get them i'm like remembering the conversation i'm like oh yeah what you said falcon paisley here it comes you know what i mean so yeah like right now i'm gonna say cortado no that's pretty obvious okay point is we were gifted some gorgeous glasses right no yeah no no i i when you when you said i'm like you're absolutely right that's those are those spritzes right we like the hand sanitizer i got false confirmation because i looked at the bottom of the glass where there's something imprinted okay and i go yeah yeah that says nashinko okay the brand folks of the so this is a kate you got yours in emerald i got this blue color it's really pretty you see but is yours cortado size yes oh no you got the amber i got amber amber cortado wait wait wait wait do you want to know what the brand's name yeah please not neutral not neutral No Shinko.

21:17What's not neutral? The name of the brand. Not neutral is the name of the Tumblr brand? No. Can't be. Okay, hold on. I really don't think so. I really don't think so. Now, why do you not think so? Let's just play this game. Because I feel like I have the name in my head and that it's one word. Yeah, totally. Of course, you could be completely right. No, but like almost like a No Shinko, but not. Yeah. You don't feel two words, right? I feel one word. Maybe even starting with an n yeah yeah i hear that okay and then jacklyn's doing a share screen do you see what it says holy shit jacklyn's right not neutral okay much respect you're also right i still don't think i still don't think it's right you're also right it's one word she said okay it's it's the The eavesdroppers are eavesdropping.

22:09Okay, but that is the Vero. Here's what I got confused. Vero. I think I got confused with Vero. Oh, wow. Like I thought the brand was Vero. Yeah, so we have, you have Vero Cortado glass. Cortado. That's my blue that I have. You can put coffee in it. You can put a little tea in it. You can put a little cocktail in there. It's really nice. Wait, is this the Cortado? Yeah, did I size up to the little pig? Did I size? I think I did. I think I said, you know what? I'm really making something more approximate of a cappuccino here at home. I think I did. Yeah. Do you like my blue? I want you to admire my blue.

22:44I do. Then I'm showing. Then I'm showing. And this is going somewhere. I have a reason for bringing this. Look at that amber. Look at that central amber. Okay. That's what I got. Yeah. Ooh. Even the clear is pretty. Clear is beautiful. The gray is beautiful. Wait, I'm worried that it's not. No, it is. It is. My voice is lulling them into glory. Okay. because I'm headed somewhere with this, which is I'm envisioning, maybe we'll see if I can reach out in time for the holidays. I'm imagining an etched Vero glass in one of these colors, and I'm imagining that it says something special on it because I'm working on a few holiday collabs, last minute, of course.

23:25Anyway, wouldn't it be glorious? You know what I love? What? Champagne. Really? still i've got i've gotten back into champagne ordering at a bar last night i go let's have champagne what no i just i just noticed i'm not neutral because i'm fantasizing about a collab i just noticed some mugs that could be morning that could just be sacred morning it could be morning poo kind of mug i'm just i'm just envisioning um the holidays are coming this is this is a good oh the holidays are coming up really fast really fast they literally produce custom drinkware for coffee shops restaurants and hotels worldwide that's crazy that's crazy jack so i'll look at they do do the etching i didn't dream it oh imagine that imagine by the way that's like sacred geometry and it says sacred mornings or something i completely agree i think it's great all right i'll be reaching out let's do it should we should we sprint right now here let me let me get rid of this should we sprint right now to cross this small train i know i mean By the way, this is what we're going to talk about.

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26:19We did it. We went to Gracias Madre double date. When I tell you, this is what's really cute to me, all four of us, each couple, two couples, four people, everyone ordered the same entree, guys. Oh, yeah. That is so cute. So Naomi and I go, and the car ride over, because Naomi had previously gotten the Oaxaca bowl, and I go, I kind of want to experience your bowl because I only got a couple bites last time. I'm really hungry. It was great. So I go in going. I'm going Oaxaca. We're each going Oaxaca. That's so funny. I'm going to get Oaxaca. Next thing I know, Chris, I'll do Oaxaca too. He goes, what, am I not going to do it?

26:55Because we, on the way there, were thinking, look, we've got, last time we were there, I think we got, we were with a group once. We got tacos, you know, it was a whole kind of thing. I was thinking I was going to get one of the bowls. And the ones I remember to my mom was like Madre or something, another one. Suddenly the Oaxaca bowl comes into play as a consideration. So it was both ordering what I had, we had planned to order bowls. I just want to let you know, okay. With a spirit of flexibility. But with a little pizzazz of, wait, what's the Oaxaca Bowl? Yeah. Sorry, I just was imagining. I just cut to me defending this podcast as art to a man.

27:33Okay. And I go like, you don't understand. Right there when I'm sort of going Oaxaca Bowl, I'm working them. I'm working their vibrations. Like I'm doing, I'm moving their ears through an experience. I'm going, I'm going. And then that's when I decided. Oaxaca Bowl. it's it's the music of the everyday no I actually feel by the way me right now recline doing poog talking about Oaxaca bowl talking I feel I don't know what this feeling is it's bliss it's it's I feel so gratitude I just feel gratitude for poog and for the eavesdroppers I know I know but listen listen listen we're Jacqueline, I have it.

28:18I have it. Oh, they won't do it. They won't do it. There's no way. I go, we do a poog pop-up at Gracias Madre. Take over the whole patio. For 48K. For 48K. So here's a, everyone needs to know this. Everyone needs to know this. Remember patio only? You think you get it cheaper? No, no. So you'll recall, you'll recall on a previous episode, Jacqueline and I had the plan to go to Gracias Madre. It was raining in LA. I repeat, it was raining in LA. And I said, and we had all suggested, our minds went there. Do we freaking reschedule? Because Gracias Madre is about the patio. The eavesdropper wondered.

28:52They wondered the same thing. Are they going to go? Do they reschedule for the patio? We go, no, of course not. We got to just do it. The rain lets up, everyone. So I'm driving there. I call the restaurant. Hi, I have a reservation in 30 minutes for Kate Berlant under four. I was hoping it might be possible to sit at the outdoor. at the table by the outdoor fireplace the round table he says we are not able to hold tables however i will do my best and i kind of went okay game meets game oh my god you're making me work for it you're playing hard to get and that's fine i step on the pedal there's actually a good impression of of the um of that guy because really i spoke to him when i arrived the the host for the night because i was like it's kind of sticky almost right because i was like i was like hi i I was like, we're here, you know.

29:44What happened? I never heard. I know. I'm going to be joining a group like, you know, like, hi, we're here. The reservation's under, they're not here yet. The reservation's for under Beland. And she told me, this is actually hysterical. Because actually, in a way, it was a false report and he knew it. Okay. I'm realizing. Without, because you told me like something like. A false report. Oh, no, wait, wait, wait. Sorry. Now we got to go to the books. Okay. Okay. Because you said, you said, you go, make sure when you get there. you go the reservations under four i think you said something like i reserved the four top by the fire fireplace right yeah and i go i think and and so i interpreted it as i thought we were just we had decided in the morning fuck it it's fine we're gonna eat inside and and i made peace with that okay and and chris and i go in and you know and whatever i've got the text right right Give it to me.

30:36Give it to me. Give it to me. And then I'll tell you what happened. Okay. I, this is so cute. The text above, because I was like, oh my God, I can't wait for dinner. I'm so hungry. And you said, already scared. He said, already scared. It's going to be over too soon. But Chris and you could probably implement standing res. Penciled. Yeah. And then he got penciled in after, like, like to be like, you know, of course, free to, free to, Chris could manage that. Like I would, I would now look, I'm trying to get into reclining too. I'm trying to recline at the desk. Okay. So then I said, I called them.

31:11This is 30 minutes before the reservation. I called them and requested the round table by the fireplace. If you get there before us, it's under my name. You say, this is, you know, 20 minutes later. So I go in and I say, hi, my friend has the reservations for 400 Beland. My friend says she has reserved a table by a fireplace. I see no indoor fireplace because I was so thinking that this was all still indoor. You see what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. Of course you were confused. Understand the music of the mundane. What was the false report? What was the, what was the false report? Oh, sorry. So I go, I go, she, she was pretty certain about, she was pretty certain, like make, make sure that I checked.

31:52Like, like I'm basically like, she was pretty, pretty serious about having reserved that, um, fireplace table. Yeah. Yeah. When in fact, like he had, and he kind of chuckled, like, like I almost was doing a, like, you know, I almost, I was almost doing like a, like, like, and believe me, she's going to go nuts if we don't get that fireplace. Like, like, we all know it's very, it's very important if you get the fire. But like, I forget, I was trying to make a crack to not like sound like knowing nothing from your end. Just, just kind of like, just from his perspective, hearing it, I have to wonder, what did he think?

32:27Well, we're going to interview him. He'll be our first guest. But no, no, no, there's no sorry. But the point is, love the table, love the meal. We had an absolute blast. And then I didn't share this with the group, but there was a nearby table for Top. I think it was someone's birthday because they were very dressed up. And she said in a way that I thought was so cute. She'd never been there before. And I heard her say, I love it here. God, this is so beautiful. And I just thought, aren't we lucky to be alive and to take in? You know, we can be jaded. we can be jaded take in the patio get the patio table take in the patio when you can oh my god i mean and we wrote a prayer we all wrote a prayer anywhere okay it's called if you can manage el fresco you'd manage el fresco oh you go al fresco but but me going we wrote a prayer we wrote a prayer realizing people don't know what that means at grasse as you exit you can light a candle no we talked about this right there's an altar with candles and it's glorious in a prayer box and And Kate said she'd never know.