Is this beauty controversy on your feed, too?

23 Jun 2026 · 46 min · 23 chapters

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In short

The hosts recap Dua Lipa’s wedding fashion (Chanel dress, run-up outfits, book-themed details) and then discuss two beauty/industry controversies: whether jobs should be landed via social media campaigns, and the “Patrick Ta transitional blush” dispute with makeup artist Painted by Esther.

Guests/hosts

Madison Sullivan Thorpe, Naima Fatima, and Joanna Fleming (hosts of Stylish). No external guests appear in the episode; featured people are referenced from clips.

Key claims

Social-media hiring can reward creators (e.g., Nimi Mehta’s World Cup fan ambassador role) but risks public backlash if the candidate isn’t the best fit. The blush controversy centers on alleged insufficient credit to Painted by Esther, plus a trademarked product name (“transition blush”) that Esther says restricts her opportunities; Patrick Ta says he trademarked names/products, not the technique.

Notable examples

Nimi Mehta’s 15–20 video series for Visa at the FIFA World Cup; Zara Jarvis/LinkedIn wrap-up; Patrick Ta’s Transition Blush launch; Maura Higgins using the look; Esther’s prior COSIS video; Patrick Ta’s earlier payment apology dispute with Ivana Sunshine.

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Dua Lipa's Wedding Buzz

0:08 to 0:45

Discussion about the excitement surrounding Dua Lipa's wedding.

“I know that you usually speak first, but I'm just going to cut in and go straight to the wedding.”

How Dua Met Callum Turner

0:45 to 1:46

Exploring the romantic story of how Dua and Callum met.

“I was like, oh, this went up at 10 o 'clock and I went to sleep at like 9.30 on a Saturday night.”

Dua's Wedding Dress Details

1:46 to 2:42

Detailed analysis of Dua Lipa's wedding dress and its unique features.

“Because like how would he have not known who Dua Lipa was?”

Fashion Moments and Trends

2:42 to 4:08

Highlighting past fashion moments and the significance of the wedding attire.

“It's those little details, isn't it, that just makes the whole look so much more unique.”

Wedding Reception Insights

4:08 to 5:57

Insights about the wedding reception and the couple's love for each other.

“you guys to know that I'm actually wearing Chanel not this strapless bubble hem number you've created for me.”

Podcast Introductions

5:57 to 6:15

Introducing the hosts and format of Stylish podcast.

“This is Stylish, a podcast for fashion, brand, beauty.”

Rom-Com Discussion

6:15 to 8:06

Discussion about favorite rom-coms and the impact of a new film.

“I don't always intro this podcast, do I?”

Social Media and Job Searches

8:06 to 12:32

Discussing the trend of using social media for job recruitment.

“We haven't seen a rom-com this good since the early noughties.”

Social Media and Job Searches

12:37 to 13:45

Discussing the trend of using social media for job recruitment.

“Hi, it's Stylish's senior producer Kate here.”

Nimi Mehta's Viral Campaign for the World Cup

14:00 to 16:40

Explore how Nimi Mehta utilized social media to secure opportunities in sports broadcasting.

“And this is not a new concept to me, having been someone that was heading up a whole content team.”
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The Power and Risks of Viral Hiring Campaigns

16:40 to 19:40

Discuss the implications for brands and individuals when using viral content for job applications.

“Now, she didn't just post this video, which went viral.”

Creativity in Hiring: The Role of Content Creation

19:40 to 21:40

Analyze how creativity and social media presence impact hiring decisions in creative roles.

“Can I ask, does it stress you out for the person creating it or the brand?”

Dissecting the Patrick Tarr Blush Controversy

26:15 to 28:03

Understand the online controversy surrounding Patrick Tarr and the concept of transition blush.

“controversy that's been playing out online.”

Introduction to Patrick Tarr and His Products

28:03 to 29:19

Learn about Patrick Tarr's reputation in the beauty industry and the controversy surrounding his new products.

“I think if you asked the average beauty gal what you think of when you think Patrick Tarr, those sort of cream and powder blush duos.”

Credit and Popularization in Beauty Trends

29:20 to 30:46

Explore the origins of the gradient blush technique and the role of Painted by Esther.

“And it's actually other makeup artists from way back when, you know, famous names like Kevin Aquan, Danessa Mirix and Pat McGrath, that she's very much credited as the inspiration behind this.”

The Impact of Ripped-Off Techniques

30:47 to 31:41

Discuss the implications of black creators not being credited for their work in the beauty industry.

“Well, it's like, why am I seeing it again?”

Past Controversies and Apologies

31:42 to 33:36

Review Patrick Tarr's previous controversies and the significance of accountability in the industry.

“Patrick also had to make a public apology as reported by people to content creator Avona Sunshine after she posted a TikTok video claiming Patrick Tars' brand still had not paid her.”

Trademarking Techniques and Names

33:37 to 35:08

Understand the challenges of trademarking in the beauty industry and its implications for creators.

“So if we bring it back to the present, Patrick Tarr is then seen to be using this technique on a number of his clients, one of which is Love Island UK star Maura Higgins.”

Responses to the Trademark Controversy

35:09 to 37:48

Examine the responses from Patrick Tarr and Painted by Esther regarding the trademark issue.

“And I will say as well, the trademark has yet to be approved too.”

Collaboration Opportunities and Missed Chances

37:49 to 40:24

Discuss the potential collaboration between Patrick Tarr and Painted by Esther and the implications of her declining.

“it is again I will reiterate listen I did not start anything I am 29 years old that would be ludicrous of me to claim ownership for anything but what I did do and what you will not belittle is my influence babe.”

Closing Thoughts on Influence and Recognition

40:25 to 42:00

Reflect on the importance of recognition in the beauty industry for creators and their contributions.

“It's like, why would I go to you because I've put in all the hard work.”

Analyzing Controversy in the Beauty Industry

42:00 to 43:50

Gain insights into the beauty controversy involving creators and ownership issues.

“but it feels to me like there's some sense of remorse or some sense of understanding or I'm misunderstanding.”

The Impact of Cultural Appropriation in Beauty

43:50 to 45:25

Explore the implications of cultural appropriation within the beauty space.

“So the issues are the trademarked name, obviously limits painted by Esther's opportunities in future.”
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0:07Kaitlyn Bristowe:This episode of Stylish is sponsored by Aura, the world's smallest smart ring for sleep, cycle tracking, activity and woman's health. Tua Lipa's wedding.

0:19Kristin Cavallari:Tua Lipa's wedding.

0:20Kaitlyn Bristowe:Just Tua Lipa. I know that you usually speak first, but I'm just going to cut in and go straight to the wedding. Let's discuss.

0:28Kristin Cavallari:I don't usually anything. My name just in our run sheet since the dawn of time. It was Maddie to intro stylish. And then when names disappeared in the run sheet, it was everyone still looked at me to intro it. And now we're here. We're here. What do we all think? I jumped out of bed on Sunday because I was like, this needs to go on social right now. I was actually devastated. I was like, oh, this went up at 10 o 'clock and I went to sleep at like 9.30 on a Saturday night. I know. How dare you not be awake at all times? To be honest, I am glad I wasn't out and about at a bar being like, yes, perfect.

1:03Kristin Cavallari:I'm going to miss this. Jewel of Peeps wedding. The first photo? Magical. Yeah. Magical. I love them in a way that is not healthy. And I know we're going to talk about the wedding dress, but I think let's talk about just them as well. Yeah. Because how they met, for those who don't know, their story is, and I say their story, I believe them. was that they were sitting at a cafe and they were reading the same book and he asked, what are you up to? And she replied with the chapter and he said, looks like we're on the same page.

1:36Kaitlyn Bristowe:I didn't know this. Did you not? I'm a big Dua fan. I didn't know. I've never even like looked up how they met.

1:41Kristin Cavallari:I'm a big Callum Turner fan after that. That is Riz master if ever I've seen it.

1:46Kaitlyn Bristowe:How long would they be together? Don't know. Because like how would he have not known who Dua Lipa was? Surely he's like, wow, this woman is incredibly. Oh, he knew exactly who she was. I don't think that's at play here.

1:57Kristin Cavallari:I think they'd met once before at like a bar maybe like a year ago. And then they ran into each other in LA and they were kind of, I think, solo there. And he was like, oh, like, what book are you reading? And it was the same book. And they were on the same page. He was probably on like Service 95's page being like, what book is she reading at the moment? How do I get in? This segue is so good for my swap, but I'm going to save it. What if we think, because this is Chanel's first mature blazey real life bride.

2:24Kaitlyn Bristowe:And I have to flag as well, 480 ,000 beads, 25 ,000 feathers. Wrap your head around. That's a lot of embellishments. And one hot bitch wearing it. Exactly. Exactly. And a six-metre veil, I think she had. Yeah. And the feathers in the hair. The feathers in the hair, honestly.

2:45Kristin Cavallari:It's those little details, isn't it, that just makes the whole look so much more unique. And this isn't the first time Chanel has worked with Dua Lipa. She was the face of the Chanel, I think it's the Chanel 25 bag. Yeah. And I remember it wasn't a campaign, but there was footage of her and him like spinning around underneath the Eiffel Tower at some stupid AM a clog. They're like clearly a bit drunk and he's just like twirling around. Dancing to no music. It honestly could have been a Chanel ad. Yeah. They could have recreated it. I still stand by Chanel team should have done that. That was like a bit of a, you know, Calvin Klein moment again for me where I was like, fucking give me what I want.

3:22Kristin Cavallari:but maybe they're playing the long game they're like don't worry we've got the big white dress I thought this was so her but so Matt or Blaisey as well like he is so about fun and intricacy and I think we're seeing Chanel have fun for the first time I don't think Karl Lagerfeld would have ever made this dress no she's just such a girl like even her caption Mr and Mrs like I was like oh you're my friend like this dump is perfect the carousel curation perfect and like even the little caption and I love that she did not go to Vogue yeah she just said here Instagram have it yeah she's like give the people what they want yeah I have a fan theory that she actually got sick of seeing all of those putrid dresses that AI kept putting yeah yeah fuck this shit I want you guys to know that I'm actually wearing Chanel not this strapless bubble hem number you've created for me.

4:13Kristin Cavallari:And what about the run-up of outfits? The vintage Versace, which was originally worn by Kate Moss on the runway. Then we went into the courthouse look, which was the Schiaparelli, the two-piece, amazing. Then we had the custom Bottega, the leather like weaved low back, amazing. His hand on a low back. And there's all these videos of them on the honeymoon and he's still like, hand on touche.

4:38Kaitlyn Bristowe:The amount of like photos I've seen of him just like fully loved up. Like he's spinning her around like these two just really love each other. And it's so nice to see. There's a photo of her like lying literally on top of him reading a book.

4:52Kristin Cavallari:And it's like, you guys are so in love. I'm obsessed with it. It's so hot. Back to the book note point. Did you see that in their like welcome drinks, they had all these bookshelves with books on it to like tie back to how they met. I did not see that. That's the nod, Cedro. It's all in the details. I'm like, like, I know there were like breadcrumbs of what the actual wedding looked like, but I'm dying to see that. But from a wedding dress perspective, I actually don't think anyone could have worn this but her. And that might be the unpopular thing when everyone's like, gag, this is going to be like the next bridal trend.

5:24Kristin Cavallari:I'm like, respectfully, I disagree. Yeah. I don't think that everyone is going to be wearing this dress because that is a dually, but that is a pop star's wedding dress. Agreed. Yeah. And spectacular photos. I love that she went for a fashion photographer too. Yeah. Like David Sims, I think, took the photos and I just think the photos are so them. Like all the ones where they're like not just smiling, like actually just pulling faces. I think, I don't know, just I love them. Yeah. They've got the je ne sais quoi, that's for sure.

5:53Kaitlyn Bristowe:And on that note, should we introduce who's here today and what we're doing? Go, Jo. In case you're wondering. I'm going to do it. Okay. This is Stylish, a podcast for fashion, brand, beauty. Is that everything? Lifestyle. Sorry. Almost forgot it. I have Madison Sullivan Thorpe to my right and I have Naima Fatima to my left. Hello. And I am Joanna Fleming. There you go. So there you go. I don't always intro this podcast, do I? Not anymore. The swap before we get into what's on today. Yeah. All right. You're looking at me.

6:22Kristin Cavallari:You go first, yeah. I don't watch a lot of television. But when I do, I lock the fuck in. Okay. Voice notes to Isabel. has chemically changed my brain. Now, one thing that you should know about me that you could probably guess after my infatuation is really the only word for it of off campus is that I love love. And the only thing I love more than love is a rom-com. What I'm establishing is rom-coms specifically written by women are my forte. But fun facts about me. I watch How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days every year. I watch The Holiday about three times a year. They're my comfort shows. I'm going to go as far as to say I would put this movie alongside Crazy Stupid Love, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days and The Holiday.

7:04Kristin Cavallari:Wait, so is this a movie, not a series? It's a movie. It's a two-hour movie on Netflix. And it is a love letter to the power of love, the very complex intersection relationship with grief and how love and grief kind of symbiotically coexist and opening yourself up to love and just a yearning man. and we always love a man who is in yearning. And it is so fucking funny and so fucking sad. And I sobbed and I laughed and I sobbed and I laughed and I'd done our social event the day before. We had a social club event at Upstate and my abs were a bit sore because of that and then a bit sore because of the laughing.

7:43Kristin Cavallari:And then I was sobbing and then it finished and then I just sobbed some more for half an hour. And usually I have to watch the Holiday or Marley and meet a force cry. So now I have unlocked a new cry show. Perfect. New one to the repertoire. There's Taylor Swift songs in it. One of the Haim sisters was one of the music consultants on it. Shess kiss, all of it. Ten out of ten. No fucking notes. We haven't seen a rom-com this good since the early noughties. Okay. I love it. It's been all over my TikTok. It's beautiful. I do feel like I've seen a lot of it. And again. By clips, by a TikTok, to be honest.

8:15Kristin Cavallari:Don't ruin it with the TikTok clips. Yeah. Commit to the bit. Okay. Lock in. Watch the full two hours. I text the same girlfriend that is usually behind Christina. up. Very, very behind in TV shows, I recommend. She did watch off campus when I said, I said to her lock in and I'm going to need you to stick on the train of watching things as they're live. Don't let TikTok ruin it. No, I'm all too swap. Oh, mine's not as emotional. Mine are sheer socks. I've got a new like hyper fixation. You're modelling them today. I'm like, whip a leg up and actually you're in a skirt. I'm like, how do I not off skirt you?

8:49Kristin Cavallari:Yeah, I don't know. Whoever's clipping this, just blur. So I've got a new winter styling hyperfixation and they are sheer knee-high socks. I find like full-length black tights can make me look short. I am 5 '2", which is the average height of an Australian woman, so actually just average height. Is it really? Yeah. So you can see that that's a chip on my shoulder. Yeah. I looked up like that. All I heard in that sentence was, Maddie, you're tall. Yeah, exactly. And I'm a giant. A key supermodel I'd go with. I'm actually giant for a Bangladeshi woman. That's like, they're very small. I find that, yeah, sheer kind of like black tights I need to wear like a heel with to feel comfortable in or make me feel like I don't look short.

9:41Kristin Cavallari:And I very rarely wear a heel. I am a loafer girl. I'm a flats girl. I'm like pretty constantly in either of those or like a sneaker but I find that a sheer near high sock always works because there's a little bit of a gap in between your dress or your skirt and the socks and I think they're my new like just a they add just a little bit of interest to a winter outfit. Does your little knee get cold? No because we work in an office with all women and the heater is always on about 25 degrees.

10:12Kaitlyn Bristowe:Okay yep just wiring on the commute you know.

10:15Kristin Cavallari:Yeah I've I've got a big coat on, obviously. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've got the full coat on. And I also catch a train. So it's like I'm always in like multiple different temperatures at all points of time. I think you get to winter and you're a bit like, oh, I don't know what to wear. You're kind of wearing the same stuff all the time. But I found this is an easy way to bring in some of my more summery, more spring items into winter with these socks. Great little trans-seasonal. And I can attest you look quite tall. Thank you. Yeah. Because I am tall. in spirit and with a sheer high knee sock.

10:46Kaitlyn Bristowe:Jo, what have you got for us? Well, I've been using the same Clear Brow Gel for, I want to say, like not the same exact tube. I have swapped tubes, but I've been using the Benefit one really consistently for like years and haven't really ventured away from it, but I ran out of it. And so I got the Rare Beauty Brow Harmony Flexible Lifting Gel in Clear. It does come in different colours as well. So you can get ones with a little bit of tint to them. But I got the clear one and it's actually really fucking good. Like it really holds them down, but they're not stiff and crunchy, which I don't like.

11:19Kaitlyn Bristowe:I don't like that real crunchy look. I kind of want them to still look quite flexible. I got very long eyebrow hairs.

11:25Kristin Cavallari:Yeah.

11:26Kaitlyn Bristowe:One thing about me, you've really got to trim them down. I was just going to say your eyebrows look great. Oh, thank you. Do you have the... I do. I have the stuff in now. I don't tend to fill my eyebrows in very often. Like I don't really use a pencil that often, to be fair. Maybe if I have like a full face of glam on. Yeah. But otherwise it's just a little bit of clear brow gel. But yeah, they hold them down really well.

11:43Kristin Cavallari:I did see a photo of you the other day and I thought, shit, she's got good eyebrows. Oh, thanks. It was probably this. There you go. Yeah, there you go. Watch me add that to can't. I've got like wig glue to get mine up. I've got the got to be glued stuff, which is like originally for wigs. And that's what I use in my brows because I've got such bushy like.

12:01Kaitlyn Bristowe:They go wild sometimes. Yeah. They've really got a mind of their own.

12:04Kristin Cavallari:Really stick them down. I've only just started using brow gel for the first time in 31 years. I just, and they're big. There's a lot of them. It's not, I just think I haven't probably cared enough. It's probably not because I didn't need it.

12:15Kaitlyn Bristowe:What were you doing before?

12:17Kristin Cavallari:They just sort of lived it.

12:18Kaitlyn Bristowe:They just existed. Wow. That's amazing. I love it. That's why they

12:22Kristin Cavallari:look like that and yours look like that. Okay. Today we're going to be discussing whether we should be landing jobs via social media. We're going to also be unpacking the Patrick Tarr transitional blush saga, but that's going to be right after a word from today's sponsor.

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13:55Kaitlyn Bristowe:Our first headline of the day is, should we be landing jobs via social media? And this is not a new concept to me, having been someone that was heading up a whole content team. I hired people all the time via social media and kind of finding their profiles and seeing what they were up to, and then also getting them to submit videos. So that wasn't really a new process for me, but you might've seen this play out online before, even if you're not in this industry, you know, a brand puts a call out on their socials and they ask people to send in a video or they might have to pitch themselves via social media for the role.

14:28Kaitlyn Bristowe:So they're like kind of competing for attention amongst other applicants. And sometimes that really works. I actually saw a video recently from creator and sports presenter Nimi Mehta. She launched a one-woman social campaign about wanting to get work at the World Cup. So she produced a video highlighting all the experience that she has in the industry. It gained like millions of views. It was actually a really good video. I really liked it the first time I saw it. And then we brought it up again when we were talking about this particular segment. But she ended up landing a couple of, you know, smaller roles at the World Cup, despite not getting the roles that she initially, you know, went and travelled and interviewed for that she spoke about in her original video.

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15:06Kaitlyn Bristowe:We'll play a little bit of that for you now. Most embarrassing thing I have ever posted or the thing that changes everything. If you don't know me, hi, I'm Nimi. I'm a sports broadcaster, football, tennis, combat sports, worked for ESPN, interviewed Laminya Marl, Neymar, Drogba, Piquet. The list really goes on. And I don't just do broadcast. Social media content, millions of views.

15:31Kristin Cavallari:I know how to tell a story. I know how to make someone feel like they are in the moment. And now, Hugh, the embarrassment. All of this is still not enough for me to be working at the World Cup in 38 days. Let me tell you i have been hustling the last eight months to make it happen i screen tested for a major broadcaster in the region i flew to la actually got in front of fox sports meetings in london with brands so many calls so many connects and still one of the biggest sporting events on the

16:04Kaitlyn Bristowe:planet and i have nothing look i don't just love football i'm really bloody good at what i do and I'm already going to be in the States for the whole six weeks. So for some deluded, hopeful reason, I still believe there's a chance for me.

16:20Kristin Cavallari:I don't know if that's just silly. I guess with quite literally nothing to lose, brands, partners, sponsors looking for on-brand creators at the FIFA World Cup

16:32Kaitlyn Bristowe:who actually get the sport, call me. My diary has a very suspicious gap in it. Just saying. Now, she didn't just post this video, which went viral. She then followed up with multiple videos and it became like a series and people were really getting on board with it and really rooting for her to get a role at the World Cup. And she has since posted that she's officially landed a role as an official fan ambassador for Visa at the FIFA World Cup.

17:01Kristin Cavallari:I loved this so much. I loved the initial video probably the most because I think the opening line that she says is this is going to be either really embarrassing or... And in the Stephen Bartlett interview where he says embarrassment is the price of success, I don't think anything resonates more. It's like it's really embarrassing to upload something like this. She's had to admit that she's had all these call-ups, all these test reads, all of these interviews, and she still hasn't landed something. And it's like, OK, I may not get anything out of this, but I'm going to give it a red hot go. And I love that that went viral, but I think one viral video can sometimes be brought down to luck.

17:39Kristin Cavallari:So the fact that she did this six-week series, multiple videos in this winning format. I think I counted it was somewhere between 15 to 20 videos.

17:48Kaitlyn Bristowe:That's a lot of work.

17:50Kristin Cavallari:Yeah. A lot of work but also what it does is showcase her ability to communicate and storytell which if you are going to be a presenter or an ambassador or a content creator, you have to be able to do. And I think she did it so superbly, again, in that winning format where a lot of the mechanics and, you know, format was the same. It was really, really clever. The song. She used the same song. She used the XX song over and over again. So you knew exactly what was coming when she posted the video. So even something as simple as that, she's such a content person. I love that stuff. Now, obviously, this is it on a global scale.

18:28Kristin Cavallari:we're talking about the FIFA World Cup, but we have seen this happen a lot, especially locally, for roles particularly in social media. What are some brands that come to mind when you think about this?

18:40Kaitlyn Bristowe:Jagger and Stone, Jazz Handmade, Remy by Riley, Sofa Dofa, yeah, All for Mimi.

18:46Kristin Cavallari:The brand was overseas, but the person applying was local, Zara Jarvis. I saw a lot of her journey on Instagram, but then I saw like the kind of final like wrap up on LinkedIn. And I felt so much pride about that. I was like, go girl. She like flew over there within like 24 hours. Yeah. From memory. That's a whirlwind situation. Yeah. And I remember her uploading the video of telling her boss. Yes. Like imagine having to be like, hey, so might still need this job. Yeah. But gonna go apply for that one and gonna need annual leave as of tomorrow. Yeah. When you see this kind of content. I feel like what often happens is there is kind of like the people's person that the community and audience will all kind of rally behind to support.

19:31Kristin Cavallari:Do you kind of see a risk for brands or a reward for brands with that happening? Yeah, it does stress me out a little bit if I'm being perfectly honest. Can I ask, does it stress you out for the person creating it or the brand? Both. I mean, I am such an advocate for shooting your shot and like getting rid of the cringe of it all. Part of me getting a job here was because I posted online, like because I posted TikToks, because I talked online, because I gave it a shot and I was a contributor here. So mine wasn't as like, I didn't go viral and there wasn't like a groundswell campaign to get me employed here.

20:08Kristin Cavallari:But I am such an advocate for posting the thing online and giving it a go. because who knows what might come of it. And the worst thing that could happen is that zero people see it, you know. But from a brand perspective, the thing that stresses me out a little bit is what if there is this groundswell where you've essentially got like the people's princess, right? Like someone that people are really going behind. But when you get to the interview stage or the actual skill set stage, they're actually not that matched to the role. Yeah. What happens then? Well, then the rejection becomes public.

20:43Kristin Cavallari:Yeah. And it feels like the brand's rejecting the person rather than a HR department rejecting the role, which is essentially how it does work in the real world. When someone doesn't get a role, it's just privately done behind closed doors. Yeah.

20:56Kaitlyn Bristowe:And there's a risk as well of opening up these potential candidates or eventual employees to backlash online or like a bit of hatred and negativity online that maybe they didn't realise they were signing up for when they put their video up to be part of the hiring process is that everyone else might really love someone else that's applied for the role and that has created a piece of content and then you've got kind of like the enemy.

21:21Kristin Cavallari:It's like are you new here?

21:23Kaitlyn Bristowe:Literally but that is a big risk not only for the brand because they're opening themselves up to that but they're also opening up a potential candidate to that who might be really well suited to the role and then they give that person the role and everyone's

21:35Kristin Cavallari:like fuck that person I haven't seen you yeah yeah yeah wait we lost our people's princess and now we've got you yeah yeah it's interesting that is a really good point I hadn't even thought of that one thing that I always think though is the risk of not having something like that for roles like social media or brand or things that might be a little bit more creatively fueled like design or content creation because I think if you are in a social media role being limited to a CV that most of the time now is either sitting in a HR inbox or running through AI driven platforms to filter out is not the truest display of what you will be doing day to day and how your creativity shines.

22:14Kristin Cavallari:I agree. Which is why any time I've ever worked with any brand, I'm like case study, case study, case study, case study. I don't think that in order to be successful in hiring someone to run your social channels, you need to run a public campaign. Yeah. But I do understand how it helps. A public campaign is so funny. It is. It's like a full election. And also, this is really smart from a brand perspective as well, because look at All for Mimi and Bailey. Yeah. Daniel from Girls with Gems and Bailey from All for Mimi. I think my two crushes. Like, my internet crushes.

22:45Kaitlyn Bristowe:I absolutely love the relationship between Soph and Bailey as well. Like, obviously, you know, she's the employer and he's the employee, but they just come across as best friends. Yeah. Which is really nice and it's very endearing to watch on socials as well. Yeah.

22:59Kristin Cavallari:I would say also Bailey made something that was very unique. It's something that you probably are seeing across more and more people now, but I think Bailey was the first to make it in the Australian landscape. So he had an unique idea that, to be honest, like you might have thought was cringe, but he made it cool. If anyone hasn't seen it, do you want to rake out? He took a really native route to TikTok and it was social media assistant and he was talking to the camera. He had all these transitions. It was very funny. So you saw his personality up front and it was addressed straight to Soph as well.

23:35Kristin Cavallari:You know, it was like something different and it cut through. I don't think if someone made that again now, it would have the same groundswell effect.

23:43Kaitlyn Bristowe:Yeah. It's also just a great way to see a personality higher. Yeah. Like to immediately go, they're going to be a culture fit.

23:50Kristin Cavallari:Yes, we can teach you on the job. And it is that generation though, and not to dis millennials, because I'm not saying we can't do it but I just think Gen Z have been brought up on this idea that by having an idea creating a piece of content packaging it up to storytell and have it in a really like visually appealing format is their DNA so it is the perfect way for them to shoot their shot and showcase like it's interesting that you say you don't think it could happen again because I do think for the right brand if you kind of shot it in a way I feel like we've seen it in this FIFA instance like what would it be to be like hey you know I don't know Louis I'm gonna raise my legs every day for a week and tell you why I'm the best to run your social channels if they were hiring.

24:30Kristin Cavallari:It has to be like a specific idea like I think there's been multiple circumstances where people have tried to copy and paste Bailey yeah like here there has to be some sort of cut through because it's like on TikTok people see stuff all the time there has to be something that's a little bit different about it to come through. The thing that makes me laugh a little bit is I cannot see this maybe happening for like an accounts payable person.

24:53Kaitlyn Bristowe:I was just going to say this only applies to media and marketing roles. There is no other industry this would be appropriate. Imagine if it became a thing like to get into the police force, you had to do like a video on TikTok.

25:05Kristin Cavallari:It's like on zero. This is how quickly I touch time.

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26:14Kristin Cavallari:Okay, so I'm going to be the one responsible for taking us through the Patrick Tarr blush controversy that's been playing out online. There's been a lot of conversation, there's been a lot of debate and a lot of opinion and a lot of facts. And today what we want to do is not necessarily give more opinions, but dissect all the nuances and conversations that are happening online.

26:35Kaitlyn Bristowe:Because I was struggling to follow the story a little bit. I saw like little bits and pieces then are like, hang on, wait, how's this person involved? And so this is, I need this recap.

26:42Kristin Cavallari:It was a very big moment of the meme with all the red strings. And we were sort of going, do we cover it? Don't we cover it? And then we went, hang on, let's do like a bit of a chronological order of events.

26:53Kaitlyn Bristowe:Well, he did the interview with Emma Greed. And I think that's what got us talking again, because it kind of passed us. And then we were like, hang on a second, let's rewind. We've got to come back to this. Exactly.

27:01Kristin Cavallari:And perfect place to start, Joyce. So Patrick Tarr appeared on Emma Greed's podcast last week. On the podcast, he spoke about both his career and business journey, as well as all of the recent online controversy between him and makeup artist painted by Esther. So if you're wondering how this all sort of started, in late May, celebrity makeup artist Patrick Tarr, in his namesake brand, released a collection called Transition Blush featuring blush duos. If you haven't heard of what a transition blush is before, it's a makeup technique that creates a really soft, lifted, gradient look between your under eye concealer and cheek blush.

27:36Kaitlyn Bristowe:It's like ombre between your, yeah, it starts almost at the start

27:40Kristin Cavallari:of your eye. Yeah. Yeah. And it's like one big, like a gradient from like eye to cheek. It's like blush. Yeah. Yeah. I love the word ombre. Yeah. Love that, Jo. So according to the cut, they described it as a seamless transition from one product to the next, leaving a complexion that appears airbrushed, sculpted and flushed. Or our conversion ombre. So Patrick Tarr is very much known for blush duos. I think if you asked the average beauty gal what you think of when you think Patrick Tarr, those sort of cream and powder blush duos. I do have one of them at home. You like it? I do. Yes. Okay, great.

28:18Kristin Cavallari:I haven't, I don't, I've never tried it. Sells a blush every three minutes. Oh, wow. Fun fact. Yeah. Look, and in the podcast episode with Emma Grades, she did refer to him as the blush guy. So, you know, this isn't just our opinion. It's very much what he's known for in the beauty world. Once that collection launched, things kind of turned pretty quickly online via social media. And according to the same article I referenced earlier, they said Tar seems to have designed his new products specifically for a technique, which was popularized by Gozi Esther Edema, who is best known as painted by Esther, a makeup artist very much known for this doll-like blush glam and he's getting criticism for not crediting her enough during the rollout.

28:59Kristin Cavallari:We'll use her username Painted by Esther throughout the segment because that's how she likes to be referred to online. She sometimes even says PBE. Yeah. It's a bit like How I Go By MST. Yeah. You know? There's one piece we want to kind of earmark here which is that Painted by Esther didn't create this technique or name this term. And she doesn't

29:17Kaitlyn Bristowe:claim to as well. She's very specific about not claiming to have come up with this technique.

29:23Kristin Cavallari:And it's actually other makeup artists from way back when, you know, famous names like Kevin Aquan, Danessa Mirix and Pat McGrath, that she's very much credited as the inspiration behind this. If you haven't seen what Kevin Aquan is known and done, I really urge you to check it out. Like absolute innovator in this space. Just a side note, you're probably thinking of a mascara at Mecca, but like one of the most famous names. I was thinking of the lash killer. Oh yeah. Okay. that too. But, you know, gradient blush, so to speak, isn't something that was created by Painted by Esther, but it very much is something that has been popularised in recent times and re-emerged by her.

29:58Kristin Cavallari:And, you know, she has created that look on her celebrity clients, like Love Island's Alandria and performers like Dochi and SZA. I would say that's where I've seen it the most, Alandria. And that's probably a point we should touch on as well, is a lot of the people she does this technique on are people with darker skin tones, so black and brown women. And the overwhelming commentary is how beautiful this high contrast blush looks on dark skin tones. And, you know, it's this trend that really has been created for people of colour, which is, you know, doesn't happen that often. So yeah, this was actually one that really stood out in the algorithm.

30:41Kristin Cavallari:Totally. And a lot of things now are not necessarily created by someone, but they're repopularised and brought back to the front fold by their creation. Well, it's like, why am I seeing it again? Like, why am I seeing it again now? And I would say a lot of that came from Painted by Esther. Yeah. So when Patrick uploaded a tutorial using the new transition blush, the comment section was flooded pretty quickly, to be honest, with people accusing him of ripping off Painted by Esther. And I think it's really important we take a moment to note here that a lot of time black creators, brand founders are not often credited for their work, their origins, their popularity, or their role in things like this re-emerging.

31:24Kristin Cavallari:It's not so much just the invention, it's the creation or regurgitation of something. Specifically for black women, I would say they do create these moments around these specific techniques. And a lot of the time they can then be popularised by someone else without the credit. Yeah. It's worth noting as well, this isn't the first time Patrick Tars had to make an apology for something similar. So this is back in 2024. Patrick also had to make a public apology as reported by people to content creator Avona Sunshine after she posted a TikTok video claiming Patrick Tars' brand still had not paid her.

32:01Kristin Cavallari:And in the video, she's snapping Tars' blushes and contour palettes in half, or she claims she never received payment for promotional work. She snaps a lot of compacts in that video. Avona said in the video, I'm sick of seeing companies profit off the black dollar and they're not paying black creators. Yeah. So this also got referenced in the interview by Emma Great. And we've got the clip to play for you now.

32:24Kaitlyn Bristowe:I think this conversation became even bigger because several years back, I had an incident with this creator. Her name is Ivana Sunshine, who is a creator that I met through Sephora Squad. And I loved her energy. I saw her content. It was so authentically her. I reached out to my team to work with her on a brand level. And there was a delayed payment on an invoice, which was fixed. But not knowing back then how this happened, I hated that that happened. And it was really important for me to take a step back and pause for a second and really understand what happened. Realizing that this was an administrative issue, we did a complete overhaul on our accounting process to make sure that this never happens again.

33:22Kaitlyn Bristowe:But I also understand that, like, when you are building a brand, mistakes happen. Like, people are not perfect. And I am not perfect. Okay.

33:37Kristin Cavallari:So if we bring it back to the present, Patrick Tarr is then seen to be using this technique on a number of his clients, one of which is Love Island UK star Maura Higgins. but he took the additional steps of lodging an application to trademark the term transition blush with the USPTO for his product release. We're going to play another clip for you now in his response to this.

33:58Kaitlyn Bristowe:And when we talk about like the trademark issue. Because that's what people have got their knickers in a twist about, right? Like people feel like the fact that you trademarked it is the overstep. Like that's the thing that's got people like super riled up apart from the fact that she's not involved and her name isn't mentioned it's like you've gone out and taken this technique and put a trademark around it so what people don't understand like i did not trademark the technique you cannot trademark a technique you trademark the name i trademark the name and i trademark every single product name well and i just want to and

34:33Kristin Cavallari:i don't want to cut you off but i do want to just say so do i and given the size and scope and scale of these brands. This is not an opinion, this is just a fact that it is very common for a brand to trademark the product's name, particularly when brands of this scale are probably looking to be sold at some point. I would be very shocked if Patrick Tarr was not actively looking to have someone buy this brand. We are constantly on this podcast talking about who's buying what. I mean, at one point, I think we were like playing roulette about, is it L 'Oreal? Is it Estee Lauder? Is it These are very common things that big brands at scale looking to protect their IP are doing.

35:11Kaitlyn Bristowe:And I will say as well, the trademark has yet to be approved too.

35:15Kristin Cavallari:Yes, yes. And I think that delineation that he's clearly trying to make in this episode is that he wasn't trying to trademark the technique. Yeah. But the name. The name is part of the technique. Exactly. Yeah. I think the two things feel very tied together. I understand he's saying that they're not trademarking the technique, but it was popularised because of the name as well. One thousand cent. And if we're going to get really technical about this from a law perspective, if a creator then goes and makes a video about transitional blushes as a paid collaboration, that's boosted as a paid ad, that is technically a trademark infringement because you could say it's implying it's that product.

35:52Kaitlyn Bristowe:Well, that's kind of the argument here, right, is that painted by Esther, then her income is potentially impacted by the fact that she can't go talking about this technique that she's popularised herself.

36:03Kristin Cavallari:Very recently, she had a video with COSIS where this was the technique she was talking about and referring to. There's so much work that's done before you get to a name. So I think she's done the research to test all of these things out. So by this trademark, it's not just about the product. I do think it is hindering her future collaborations and her future creativity as well. I'm going to go one step further that I wouldn't be at all surprised if she was considering making her own line. Yeah. That would have been tied to that name as well. Oh, you're so right. Yeah. I didn't even think of that.

36:35Kristin Cavallari:So marketing girl. Yeah, yeah. So on May 24, Patrick posted a TikTok he claims was filmed on March 5th, where he credits painted by Airstar. I really want to note here, not in the video, but in a caption where he credits her work for popularising the technique and that he's been doing this look since 2021 and tags her account in the caption. And to clarify as well, there were at least five or six videos about this range already live on TikTok before this video went up. Exactly. This wasn't the, I'm launching it and I'm crediting her in the first of that. So painted by Esther then responds with a video via TikTok on the same day responding to the situation we've got an excerpt from that video we want to play now

37:17Kaitlyn Bristowe:i'm actually getting tired of constantly being um spoken for and being scared to speak because i am a black woman if that was really a part of your thing a part of your a key ingredient in how you do something you would have he would have been marketed it let's be for real you know it's not so I'm just I'm getting tired of the constant chitter chatter it's annoying it's very annoying God bless every single person that sees it for what it is God bless every single person that sees me for what I am that sees my work for what it is again I will reiterate listen I did not start anything I am 29 years old that would be ludicrous of me to claim ownership for anything but what I did do and what you will not

38:07Kristin Cavallari:belittle is my influence babe. I think that video spotlights how deeply thought out that response was it was really raw and emotional and I think like so valid every corner of it and I think whether you agree that Patrick Tarr should have made that product or not you can't deny that this was popularised by her and she's deeply hurt by this and very justified in that hurt. Yeah. I can really hear how much creative effort has gone into this because the thing you see on social isn't the first try. Like she has perfected this over time. She has tried and tried again and getting that, you know,

38:53Kaitlyn Bristowe:technique perfect has taken time. And to create such recognition around a make-up technique or a style, that takes a lot of work. Like to actually be recognised. People will always say like, oh, that's a painted by Esther look. Like you can see who's a client of hers. That doesn't happen overnight.

39:11Kristin Cavallari:It takes a long time. And also her inspiration are not YouTubers. Like Kevin Aquan is a very, he's a deceased makeup artist. References. Yes. Like we are going back over editorials. We're going back over fashion shows. We're reading books. Like, it's not just a four-second clip or a photo of a finished face that is the IP. It's the expertise and time that goes into it. Look, all of this to say, we're saying how recognised her work is, how prominent she is in this space. You might be sitting there wondering, well, did Patrick Tarr's team ever think to collaborate with her or to put her front and centre in this campaign?

39:46Kristin Cavallari:The answer is yes, according to Patrick Tarr via the podcast. He said that they did reach out about a collection collaboration of which she declined. He said to Emma, I personally reached out to Esther. My team reached out to Esther and unfortunately she declined the opportunity because she wasn't taking paid collaborations at the time. I really wanted to work with creators that loved blush.

40:07Kaitlyn Bristowe:May I theorize that their strategy as a brand was that they wanted to create this product and they were banking on her saying yes to that collaboration. And when she turned around and said, no, I'm not available for it. They went, oh shit.

40:21Kristin Cavallari:Yeah. Yeah. I completely agree. I actually think that makes a lot of sense about the point you made, Mads, about if she is maybe bringing out her own range. It's like, why would I go to you because I've put in all the hard work. I don't want to just be a paid partnership collab post. I want to be front and center because I've done the work. Or even if she's not creating that product, I don't want you having a collection named after a phrase I've coined. Yeah. Yeah. Going back to the episode with Emma Greed, I actually listened earlier this week and I have to be honest, I did feel like a lot of the answers were being fed to him.

41:03Kristin Cavallari:Not fed to him, but there was a lot of handholding through this interview where I think when she initially throws to the apology, you can hear him kind of start to talk about it. But the actual summary, I think, comes from Emma. And we're going to play that clip.

41:19Kaitlyn Bristowe:this launch has been a very hard launch for me. Like I created this like with like, with like such heart. And, um, it feels to me, Patrick, like you kind of understand that launching this particular product without a mention of her influence of the technique kind of felt like an erasure of her influence. And again, I think she's been very vocal. She didn't create the technique. She's somebody that's more recently popularized the technique, But the fact that you guys went out with it in the way that you did feels like she should have somehow come up and been credited and she wasn't. And because it so frequently happens, specifically with black female creators and artists, it has it's escalated into something that is disproportionate to what you would have perhaps hoped for, considering that you went out to her.

42:13Kaitlyn Bristowe:but it feels to me like there's some sense of remorse or some sense of understanding or I'm misunderstanding. Yeah, I'm really sorry for like, I am genuinely sorry for like the hurt and the frustration that I have caused and that for anyone who has ever felt like overlooked or not recognized on like their contributions, like that was never my intent. My intent was only to create a product to allow people to make this technique like more, more accessible at home.

42:42Kristin Cavallari:I think she didn't probably want a fluffy answer here. She wanted to kind of get to the core of what the issue was. And I'm really glad she did, you know, really steer down this avenue. To be honest, Emma's been through similar things before. She mentioned an occasion around a face mask with someone reaching out to her saying that you've, you know, copied our product. And she said that she then reached out to them and cancelled all the products altogether. There was also the skims and kimono situation that she would have had to go through as well. So that's probably one of the reasons that I would say he's chosen to go on this podcast.

43:17Kristin Cavallari:I think the strategy to go on Emma Grade as a long form podcast was a very deliberate one because I don't think the usual apology strategy that we see from brands when they mess up, which is three or four sliding Instagram stills that's usually written in the notes app, like they've poured their heart out and, you know, it's straight from the founder's mouth would have worked in this instance, particularly not in Patrick Tarr's case, because this is not the first time we have seen a controversy surrounding a black creator.

43:44Kaitlyn Bristowe:And to give you a bit of a summary as well, for those people that have listened to this whole set up and are like, wait, let me just get to the crux of it. So the issues are the trademarked name, obviously limits painted by Esther's opportunities in future. The powder puff, she argues, especially in her video, why didn't he create a powder of pop then if he thinks that this is part of his usual technique that he follows, which is very signature of her technique. The other thing was copying some wording that she used in an instructional video. She used the word the back of my palm when she said that was actually a mistake.

44:19Kaitlyn Bristowe:I should have said back of my hand. But he says in his video, back of my palm as well. And she's like, that's a very clear, you know, someone's watched my video very closely. And then also his business partner, Reema, booked Esther for a makeup application, like a, what do they call it? Yeah. A paint and go or something? Yeah.

44:38Kristin Cavallari:It was meant to be that she would just do it and then leave. Yes. But then there was a...

44:43Kaitlyn Bristowe:But then the agent calls Esther before the appointment and says, well, they want to film it. Is that okay? And she says in her video, I wasn't okay with that. So I canceled the appointment because I don't normally take things on like that. So that was her kind of spidey senses going off. So there's like several different touch points that have made this escalate into what it is currently. But that is the general summary of what people are picking out. And I've gone through the comments and kind of seen all these common threads. And again, a lot of that anger is around taking something from a black creator that she should have absolutely been credited for and fairly been credited for.

45:19Kristin Cavallari:Yeah.

45:19Kaitlyn Bristowe:When there's a long history

45:20Kristin Cavallari:of that happening in the beauty space. Yeah. Particularly in the beauty space. And that's all for today's episode of Stylish. If you enjoyed this episode today, we also have a weekly Stylish newsletter that drops every Wednesday. It's a roundup of our best recommendations, our best tips, interviews. The link to sign up is in the show notes. Thank you so much to the team, head of podcast Lucy Hunt and senior podcast producer Kate Emma Burke. And, of course, thank you to my co-host Maddy and Jo. And thank you, Naima, for being here. Thanks so much. See you next Tuesday. Next Tuesday. Wednesday. bye bye

46:00Kristin Cavallari:this podcast was recorded on Wurundjeri land always was always will be Aboriginal land

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