Alysa Conger: How Ignoring Your Intuition Could Be Destroying Your Life

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2:02Darin Olien:Just type in Darren, D-A-R-I-N, and magically, you get 15 % off. I'm super stoked for Therisage. I love their company. I love what they're doing, and you will too. This is a different, obviously, sit-down podcast for me, but something that I don't even know if people know, but something that, and whatever that something is, we'll unpack. Ominous something. Yeah, that world or the embodiment of the plasma of reality is something I've always been curious about and always been open to and certainly have a bunch of stories throughout my life in that. And so I saw you on Instagram and I love that the way you start that because that's the first medicine is to realize that it's not some necessary.

3:01Darin Olien:Obviously, people have talents and abilities, but and or and the access of self is I'll go on a limb, probably the greatest disconnect. Huge. on the planet and, and leading and, and creating from that either connection or disconnection or disconnection in this space is, is the genesis of everything. Yeah. Big agree. I know when you approached me about this, the way that you summarized your understanding of what I'm trying to do felt really good. Cause sometimes I feel like I'm speaking into the void. I'm like, you guys, uh, it's cause like the job title psychic medium, you know, I've adopted it cause I do that as a job, but it is a bit, um, gimmicky.

3:51The title, it's got a lot of taboo stuff. It's got a lot of whatever.

3:54Darin Olien:It's like saying religion or yeah. And I've had a lot of resistance with that because I was like, I was like, it's just, yeah, I can do these things, but it's not, that's not the meat of what's going on here. So when you were approaching it as the understanding that I'm just trying to get people to like turn on the light switch, that we are way more capable of connecting than we think that we are. And that's been proven because I also make people very angry when I say that because that then requires accountability on their part right of their life and their choices and their lack there and that can be really hurtful for people but yes that is i i feel like imagine the world big big dream picture if everyone is operating from a centered connected space more than they are now imagine the choices people are making and the difference that that would be rather than what we're the shit storm that we're in right now right you know yeah and and it's plagued humans for a long time um and yeah because as you start you have this this little i don't have it down but you're memorized you say it like a thousand times but but that catchphrase is is what um yeah i introduced myself i'm a psychic medium and so are you if you want to be right and that therein lies the choice and and really again breaking that down and that is you know the again the the thing that most people don't do is become quiet and still they just want another thing to do yeah and i think also i think there's a layer to understand here about kind of the way that this works is there's a few versions of people approaching intuition so let's just apply intuition as the umbrella for all of the things right whatever unseen um and there is the like people who are jonesing for a quick fix around like i need to talk to my dead loved one and it's like really intense there's that version of things and then there's the version of like i am living a life that i hate not me personally somebody and what do i do i don't know how to fix this and it's like if you can tune in you're going to be able to hear the quiet things in your mind and in your heart that are like hey like why don't you go check that thing out go do this thing follow this path and you'll see that life will change quite quickly if you do that but people don't know that they can right they've been totally disconnected from the trust with self.

6:09So anything that I'm teaching isn't, I'm not teaching something new. It's not like I'm like, I've just discovered something. People have been doing this for a long time. We've just been all totally removed from that. Social media has a big part and even bigger disconnection. Everyone is outsourcing. They want to like, before I trust what I think, I'm going to ask you, well, what do you think about this? And then this person. And you just see that people are drowning in their own like outsourcing information. Right.

6:34Darin Olien:And then I would imagine it leads to more mistrust of yourself yes because you're just constantly looking out there listening out there and then where is that where am i in that mire right where am i in that constant i mean this world is so nuts in the sense it's such a it's such a it's such an input heavy system yeah And so it's almost like, good luck, people. Yeah. Right? Yeah. And so it's almost like, I wouldn't mind putting this on it, but you're giving the permission to wake back up to what I would also say is a intelligence with nothing in between it. Yeah. no religion no guru no whatever just the isness we're just in this right the soup and there's more available than we are originally brought up to believe right so let's go back to the origin story because i'm dying to know oh mine yeah okay yeah so like so i mean it's number one i give you kudos because uh it's bold to own i mean i think anyone owning part of ourselves that feels different and and strange or words that are put on it but you're owning it yeah and you're actually helping people and teaching people and again your your mantra of how you you're eliminating the I am not special.

8:18Darin Olien:You are. Yeah. If you want to be. So how did we get here? How the hell did you get here? Okay. Well, um, I guess I don't know what you know about me or honestly anyone listening, but this, the, it's going to get a little bit dark. We're going to go there. Um, and I, I would like all add a little thing when we get there. So basically the boring part of it is the classic story of most people have some ability, some experience as a child, you get denied as you grow up until you disconnect. Okay, fine. So that's classic stuff for me. Then my dad decided to kill himself. Whoops. That, this is where the caveat comes in.

9:00I had a conversation with a client yesterday that this has become very important to me now to speak on. He understood that I have taken my dad's suicide and turned something good out of it in my life. And he asked me, is my own, is my death to the benefit of my kids? And I think it's important before I go any further to talk about how this all developed is that my dad's death was a catalyst, but it was me that changed it to good. Not everybody's going to take a death like that and make it a good thing. So just for anybody listening, I am never going to say off yourself for the sake of the people around you to have an experience but people like to take it that way right yeah yeah and i'm i'm you know i'm

9:40Darin Olien:glad you because you you have to be clear about this stuff because it's it's so you know my dad died from alcohol and and you know he's traveled he traveled with me for a long time and i can get into i don't have to get into what happened recently you can go full dead dad stuff yeah Yeah, yeah, yeah. But his message, that transition anchored something inside of me that just was completely not even close to being anchored in terms of my commitment, in terms of why I'm here, in terms of what I'm committed to doing in the world or being in the world. and I'm still a work in progress. But it's funny, and I'll just say this, because again, I purposely didn't want to know because we're kind of coming into the psychic zone in a sense.

10:30Darin Olien:And it's funny because I was getting my dad, but then I was like, I think her dad's around. He's been showing up. Like he's harder for me to connect to in a way that I trust because the way that I connect is like, if I'm reading somebody, I'm getting their memories and feelings that I know are not mine. I'm like, I don't. care in my own system about someone else's uncle but like i want my dad to like pull up you know but that that's it's harder to connect in but it's important from his his death it's i think people misconstrue sometimes they're like oh she started doing this because she just wanted to talk to her dad that's like nice sure it is that but actually what i saw is i was like someone doesn't kill themselves if they're connected to themselves or to the community or to the greater whole and my dad's thing kind of leading up to his death and his whole life was feeling for him it was disconnected from god because he was devoutly christian a disconnection from self i watched him abandon himself his whole entire life i don't think the life that he was living was even remotely close to what he actually you're freaking me out here could be because my dad's got a script exactly like that yeah but i mean not you don't drink yourself to death because you're stoked right I don't think I I consider like dying from alcoholism to be yours if I read those energies they're real close to suicide right my dad just chose a quicker path well so that's not to hijack but do it but at seven years old I turned to my dad literally I could couldn't even see over the you know the the dashboard of the car and I said what do you want your life to be and then he he told me i want to do this i want to be in the ocean i want to like he expressed something that i'd never heard from this angry guy right and it seeded in me yeah boom and and that changed my life i didn't wasn't even conscious of it at the moment but but my dad then had these moments of blossoming and then he'd crush himself and do all the and and had all bottom line is he had all these dreams that he told me and then he didn't express them yeah and a hundred percent that's what quote unquote killed him yeah right so i just wanted to say that because i because again this is a strange you know it's an interesting situation because my dad's screaming at me today and just the fact that in five minutes of a conversation, there's some sort of resonance with your dad.

13:09I had a feeling because I was driving here and I was like, I wonder how much Darren knows about any of this. I was like, where are we going to enter in on this topic? Because not everyone knows that it's like a suicidal dad situation and that can be jarring, but yeah, there must have been something. I had a feeling that there was something there. So you get it. Yeah, that turns on the lights that I have to, our arguments or our discussions with my father and I were always around. I was like, dude, don't you see? Like, can't you try these things? Like, look at this a different way. And it was always this, you know.

13:40While he was living.

13:41Darin Olien:While he was living. Yeah. He didn't give a shit now. He's like, I'm good. He's doing whatever he wants. He's obsessed with tits. He gets to go look at them now. Sorry, inappropriate. It's just that my family will know. um he it while he was alive we are very similar the things we struggle with i feel very they were very similar i handled my stuff differently than he chose to and i was just i wanted to just like shake him just like try anything else that like makes you feel more aligned you're an artist you like to dance you like to sing and then said you're an aircraft mechanic and you're just like i go to church and this is what i do and i'm miserable i'm like right ew so i saw that and leading up to his death the week before it wasn't um indicators like he was giving me indicators about anything it was indicators I kept like getting weird hits this is before I was like really trusting my own ability of like what I was receiving and I was like I don't know it feels like me my mom's dad's gonna pass I was like there's like a gunshot involved I was I didn't really get what's happening I get the phone call and I was like oh shit like my dad just shot himself and he's dead and that like you know for the first few months rocked my stuff to a degree that was very traumatic.

14:47It's bad. But yeah, that is the slingshot into kind of cultivating this, almost like a body of work that I'm now trying to shove down people's throats nicely. I have the same like feeling towards them. Can't you just see? Just like try anything other than just like being on the hamster wheel that you've put yourself on. And that like ties into intuition and the whole bit.

15:13Darin Olien:well and you know you too and me too and i think anyone listening can kind of find a friend or a parent who you're like you see something in them and then they choose not to do it and how crushing that is and and and and they're surviving it but it's not good yeah and then you add on top of it this world and the distractions that are littered within it yep and it just keeps pulling you listen i'm not infallible to it either like we all slip into it you know it's like jesus christ what what's happening i do monday is my doom scroll with the tv on day and i have to sign off and be like this is what i do on mondays i i fall into my void on mondays not saying it's good but you know that's where the the system kind of has its hook in me for a minute yeah yeah well Well, it's also you can do it consciously, which is different than just they're not conscious.

16:14Darin Olien:Yeah. You know, and it can easily lull us all to sleep for sure. And there's part of whatever weird part of the matrix that is. Who knows? But so, OK, so obviously that's a catalyst. Yep. And what you do with that has two choices. Yeah. It can spiral you down to hell. Yeah. or and so what how did that shift how did it shift um basically at the beginning of it i you know spirit hire yourself god whatever you want to call i was like okay clearly you are ringing the bell very loud over here but i need to be shown that this is absolutely the thing needs to be happening because you know growing up and having like intuitive hits and understanding things or seeing things or predictive stuff and you go tell the world or your parents and they're like no and then it's never validated someone's fault it's just people don't validate that stuff right i also kind of thought that everyone had something like that going on which they do but maybe at the level i was having it neutered a little bit it's been neutered so i you know i asked for that to be delivered into my space and then i had consciously choose that chose that you go let i was like let it rip if you want me to do this you know whatever the you as a cosmos as you have to make this so clear that like i can't play anymore um because this is stepping off onto a ledge where it's a it's it's a really big thing to proclaim that i'm doing if i'm not doing it um so i need to know that i'm doing it um and listen like the imposter syndrome still comes through i'll have an amazing session with like tons of evidence and i'm still like do i know what i'm doing and sometimes no you don't it's this is all part of what it is but But so then I had some things that occurred right after that around.

18:03I was, you know, my time in L.A. I've like modeled for 16 years. So I was going to set and there's a new makeup artist there. And we had this exchange where I'll keep it private. But basically on my way there, I was getting like names and images of stuff. And I was sitting in the room and I start talking to her. And I'm asking her about this like character that I'm seeing and some imagery and a name. And essentially she was wearing pajamas that had the image on them that morning. her husband had died and he like used to sing this song and i was like oh and his name was the name that i was like pulling on my way there i didn't know that i was gonna see her ding ding it was a lot in a row it's not always like that but i was like okay hurt like heard and received

18:42Darin Olien:and then i had yeah like that that's the small brain going i need it to be clear so that i don't blow it off again yeah and it then it happened again weirdly it all happens within like the modeling world which i think is there's something funny about that because that's so not this world but i went with my new agent and they were testing me like okay do something and i was like at like a big board table in new york and you know i'm on the spot i'm like okay and this is before i've held sessions before so i was like scared and there's people just like looking at me and i start i caught i was describing his father and like said his father's name and i was like yeah he's like standing right next to you but i'm sitting like sweating and then he's crying because i was right so it was like those kinds of things which then to anyone listening asking for experiences that like you cannot deny are a part of this you have to because it's when you don't it's not like i see ghosts walking around the room i don't see like your father sitting in the corner taking notes yeah so that's kind of how it happened and then from there it's just been you know kind of evolving what my priority is in it the mediumship and like the psychic nature of things i think is a really good way to help turn on a light switch for other people right people are interested in that they want access to that and so you mean that you mean like when you come in and you tell someone like that the guy at the board and you tell and all of a sudden you're like how would she couldn't possibly know that so then there's that inflection point for them to go like, okay, are you going to just pretend that this thing that you don't understand, this mystery is just a mystery and you have no access to it?

20:19Darin Olien:Or are you going to use that opportunity to go, there might be something more. There might be something more. And then if the person who's doing it is telling you like, why don't you give it a shot? It doesn't mean you need to go be a medium. Like you don't need to start hosting a podcast doing a mediumship readings. You could, you might as well try if you want. But it turns on the awareness of like, okay, like maybe there's something here. And then the trickle-down effect is how am I making choices in my life? Am I listening to the thing where I'm being pulled? Is fear talking or is it my intuition talking?

20:49And it's all, because it's all the same stuff. So, I mean, there's so much.

20:56Darin Olien:I love this. So, like, the listening to the voice, because I slip, too. and there's times like I'll just say this one story so when I got to LA I'm from Minnesota lived in Colorado came to LA and I was like I was kind of pushing my other world I don't want to do any of that other stuff and physiology and nutrition I want to but I'm here I'm new I want to do all this stuff and then I was losing money and I needed to so I got to a point where I just moved my entire life out here and i got i woke up early and i usually journal and stuff and i was so pissed going i may have to fucking leave yeah so i screamed out loud to god and i was like you gotta make this so fucking clear because what the fuck am i doing here yeah and i slammed the door like literally had a argument right yeah i slammed the door and went for a run it was like i was living in fucking studio city and i went for a run like hey i said what i had to say you figure it out and i got like hour into the run i just got stopped like a wall and just got downloaded yeah and i spent a two years writing from that space like something opened up but i so i really understand what you're saying when when you demand it enough and go i am a feeble little small brained human yeah in the sense like we can't know this all but you gotta give me something yeah right so i just wanted to say that because it's not a flippant thing it's not it's like anything in life you want to if you want to commit to your life you got to commit to your life yeah this practice isn't just because i'm Like, oh, yeah, I feel like doing the amount of like, I've had with making this my job and trying to make this be the thing for my life.

23:04It's both come with ease in some areas and other areas. It is a lot of like reflection with self. I have to sit down and have some talks with myself a lot. We got to get real. And it is a practice. It's like if you've never done a push-up before and now you got to learn how to do 100 perfect ones. You got to like be dedicated to it. Interesting thing that you said about the run, which I wanted to touch on moving your body which I know some people get their panties in and out because they're like that's moving your body to the degree that you can move your body will help you receive downloads it opens up energy your body it just if we're all sitting like this all the time nothing's going to flow right if you want answers to something you don't feel necessarily tapped in I go do a super hardcore sculpt class for me I push myself to my edge and And then when I'm laying down, all of a sudden, all the questions I had before, I'm like, oh, duh.

23:55Creatively, I'm like, oh, duh. Like the stupid little tag going on my Instagram videos came because I was talking to Spirit. And I was like, dude, I don't, social media pisses me off. I don't know how to do this in a way that like makes sense. And I laid down in class and I was like, oh, do this.

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27:55Darin Olien:And again, it's not I'm here, you're over there. Yeah. You're creating an invitation. And clearing the space to receive it. Right. And usually physical movement will help kind of get the brain out of its own way a little bit. And honestly, like after a workout, I would for years would do intense breathing stuff after. i mean oh my god like an ivy of dmt almost right it's like just like ancestors and just like holy shit so it's it is true like you move your body and then i don't know i i that breathing stuff just oh breath works like that so along with just like the intuitive stuff that i do i went and got myself some credentials because people like a cosign if you're going to be right dealing with them so like i am educated in like somatic therapies and all that stuff just because usually i'm encountering people who are they're stuck there's some stuff they're holding out a lot of grief whatever that is breath work key thing to explore if you're feeling stuck in some stuff especially when the analytical mind is getting in the way breath work and then moving your body the way i'll like run someone through a session and i was like okay like we're gonna we're gonna dance but like we're gonna dance until you're sweating and like i don't want to i'm like you're moving and it's not just so like i can have a good time watching you it's it's because you're moving the energy around and then you're gonna drop into breath and then your brain can kind of just like for a second that part of the mind the mind that's chattering at you all day long about whatever it's it's it's tyrannical yeah isn't it yes mine's just because i do this doesn't mean that doesn't over here yapping right all the time yeah and what what's the is there a feeling that you get i mean the chasm opens up the more you acknowledge right so you so your your ability your muscle gets stronger and like i've been humbled the last month i'm definitely in an inflection period of of i asked for it it's a whole nother conversation i was like fuck i didn't think it was gonna show up like this yeah but right and And it's weird because I feel like I'm in a different space and I'm seeing the different kind of voices inside of myself.

30:22Darin Olien:But it's a weird, I don't know. What am I trying to say? I'm trying to say that I'm pretty good at following my deep knowing kind of unconventionally. I've lived a life just I felt something and I went for it. I'm in a weird space where I don't know where. It's different. It's different. There's a different sense of information coming and my ego is flipping out like crazy. I'm like, what is going on? So I realize it. I'm surrendering to it. I don't know when it's going to shift. Blah, blah, blah. Do you find that? Do you find like certain, you know, when you say I'm going to do this and then it demands something of you, maybe the body, maybe nutrition, maybe some things that are allowing you to open up more to receive?

31:23Yes. And actually, it's interesting that you're saying that because I've not yet had this conversation. I've got like a few colleagues, peers, whatever people that do what I do that we talk. and I've been having this experience as well where, and as you're saying this, I feel like what it is is we're getting a download of like a new vocabulary. It's like a new language on top of the, that's what this feels like. And maybe you're having the same thing where I'm like, I do tap into this. This looks familiar, but maybe instead of Spanish, you're now teaching me Latin. And it's kind of what it's feeling like because I'm getting stuff coming through.

31:55I'm like, what do I do with that? right um and i i do feel like that might be part of the do you want to call it a level up of my own personal practice or i'm asking to go further with it i'm asking for stuff and so they're like okay well then you have to learn how to translate this stuff i'm like but i don't know i'm just a i'm just a girl right um yeah no i do i do feel like there are calls to it can change in and out but like whoops if you drink a lot and you want to do this work i'm not saying you can't do this work if you're drinking, but there will probably be a time where information will come through more clearly to you and you'll be cued to release that.

32:34I mean, I, I, I'm not a sober person, but you know, there's things have gone in their waves in life and experiences, but the, the more I want to dive in, the clearer my channel has to be.

32:44Darin Olien:Right. So, you know, it's that kind of thing, physical movement, your health. Um, for me, my biggest thing right now consistently all the time is boundaries that are always evolving and changing. And I'm getting really weird things coming in. As my work is like entering the consciousness of more people, I'm also feeling really strange things from the living, not the dead. And so I'm asking for my work to reach more people. And those more people are showing up. And I'm like, oh, I have to like readjust how I deal and who and what. And it's very interesting what's happening right now. Yeah, it's a new playbook.

33:23Darin Olien:It's a new way. And I want to go back to the language thing, because I've always felt this to be true, is that you can assist, you specifically can assist people in opening up and trusting themselves. And at the same time, what I find is like it's literal language coming directly to me from source. No one else can really decipher it directly as I can. So it's literally learning a language. Yeah. Right? Do you find that? Yeah. I would like to ask you for when you receive this like language from source, what is your experience when that comes through for you?

34:19If you're going to deliver me a message, source dropped you a message for me today. How are you translating that to me?

34:27Darin Olien:I'm going off of things in the past. Okay. Like references? Referencing? Yeah. Yeah. So, um, it has to be a safe space. Yeah. like it has to be a space where there's some receptivity right i'm not blasting people with that they're not gonna have a message for you right right um earlier in my i'll just tell a little story earlier in my life when i was doing so i graduated did physiology worked with on a lot of people physically i bet you received a lot of stuff while you're doing that and then there was a certain point in order to in colorado in order to physically touch somebody i had to get you know a rehab license and a massage license I just powered through because I already had the understanding so then I was touching people accidents and all of and one was a friend and I was sitting there one day and I was consciously starting to feel a lot deeper and I just turned to her and she was on a table and I was dealing with some injuries and I go, do you mind if I share something that I'm getting?

35:39Darin Olien:And she was like, yeah, sure. And I go, there's a red plane and your dad. And it was super clear, like crystal clear, like a TV. And he wants to, you know, whatever message I gave to her. And she instantly started crying. My dad died in a plane crash and the plane was red and blah, blah, blah, blah. so from from that standpoint i started kind of opening myself up and i would get tons of stuff you had a big validation so you know what that felt like right yeah so then then there would be like you know another friend in an apartment or old friend of hers died suicide and blah and then that came through and then turned on the radio and i started telling her turn on the radio she just sitting next to me and it was that person's favorite song and she instantly like so but since then i've shut that off to people because it's like i actually had a massive download of a i did a retreat and i had a huge download this recent one recent yeah a few weeks ago and it was about this person that owned the land and i saw the land and i saw what needed to be done and i saw the person and then in the middle of getting information, I was like, Oh, that's none of your business.