In short
Virgil Hunter and Andre Ward (his godson/trainer) revisit their long relationship and how Hunter helped Ward avoid “going downhill” after Ward’s move to North Oakland. They discuss boxing development, discipline/structure, and Ward’s early temptations (weed, drinking, then street activity), framed as a spiritual journey.
Guest backgrounds
Virgil Hunter is a boxing trainer and 2011 Boxing Writers Association Trainer of the Year. Andre Ward is a former youth standout who became a national-level amateur boxer; the episode recounts his upbringing, training, and later struggles before returning to boxing.
Key claims
Hunter says “hitting and not getting hit” was his specialty and that Ward’s father’s vision prevented excessive punishment. Hunter argues structure and discipline are necessary to reach world-class status and that boxing never left Ward’s mind. He claims he used timing and psychology (e.g., guilt/“playing to conscience” during calls) to steer Ward away from drinking and street escalation. Hunter also says Ward’s competitiveness and drive were always present; Ward just needed “timeouts” and the right environment.
Notable examples
Ward’s first gym meeting (Ward as a 10-year-old hitting a heavy bag); battle-testing with Nenito Denier/Glendon; winning Silver Gloves in Lenexa, Kansas; sparring pros at 13–15; Curtis Stevens at Silver Gloves; Hunter warning Ward before the North Oakland move (“you’re going to go downhill”); Ward’s first visible “buzz” in the Junior Olympics; Ward later selling drugs and feeling convicted by praying for his mother while selling nearby.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOWelcoming Virgil Hunter
3:00 to 4:54
Introduction of guest Virgil Hunter and discussion about his background.
“Welcome back to another episode of the Art of War.”
First Meeting and Early Memories
4:54 to 6:14
Virgil recounts the first meeting and early memories with the host.
“of a conversation with us, just kind of talking and vibing just about the history and how we got to this point.”
Impact of Parental Guidance in Boxing
6:14 to 8:02
Discussion on the influence of the host's father on his boxing journey.
“Man, and it's, you know, that day my dad, you know, you had a conversation with my dad, and I was actually training with another trainer at that time.”
Virgil's Personal Struggles
8:02 to 9:01
Virgil shares his struggles and the impact of training young kids.
“Well, it's definitely a spiritual journey that you can't deny.”
The Spiritual Journey
9:01 to 11:12
Discussion on the spiritual journey of both Virgil and the host.
“It was for a reason long before everything manifested itself, long before the potential showed up and everything.”
Reflections on Family and Background
11:12 to 14:01
Reflections on family dynamics and understanding parental choices.
“When you see the plan unfold, then you begin to realize why I was in this plan because long before you came to stay with me, you were staying over, spending the night.”
Reflections on Parental Influence
14:01 to 14:40
Understanding the impact of parental choices and societal context.
“And, you know, I even look at my mom and my dad.”
The Euphoria of Escape
14:41 to 15:35
Exploring the allure and consequences of substance use.
“You know, like even my mom being in and out of my life, yeah, that was a wound.”
The Path to Boxing: Early Challenges
15:36 to 17:41
Discussing the rigorous training and early fights that shaped a boxer.
“So it's a double-edged sword Yeah, so like they didn't know how the long-term consequences of crack They didn't know the long-term consequences of heroin.”
First Tournaments and Learning Experiences
17:42 to 18:50
Recalling early tournament experiences and personal growth in boxing.
“very important to me because I knew it was important to you because I saw the competitiveness.”
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Rising Through the Ranks
18:51 to 21:35
Navigating the competitive landscape of youth boxing tournaments.
“That's the first time I ever seen snow being from California.”
Sparring with Veterans: Gaining Experience
21:36 to 23:24
The importance of sparring with older and experienced fighters.
“I'm the best in that weight class in the nation.”
The Drive to Succeed
23:25 to 25:04
Examining the internal motivation and drive of a young athlete.
“You know, maybe not man's strength, but enough for sparring.”
Signs of Struggle: Breaking Down Barriers
25:05 to 28:00
Identifying early signs of struggle and the impact of environment.
“What did you notice about my drive, my competitiveness, just my desire to win, and even my desire to train hard?”
Understanding Environmental Influences on Choices
28:00 to 28:50
Explore how the environment can impact decision-making and behavior.
“Of course, you know, you moved and I knew that the environment where you was moving to was going to subject you to some things, the environment.”
The Importance of Support and Preparedness
28:50 to 30:40
Discuss the significance of having a support system and being prepared for potential challenges.
“So I was hoping that you wouldn't go to the street, but I was prepared.”
Psychology in Parenting and Guidance
30:40 to 32:30
Learn how psychological tactics can influence and guide youth behavior.
“But I needed an opening to really bring that into focus that, hey, you got to go in another direction.”
The Quest for Freedom and Structure
32:30 to 34:00
Examine the balance between the desire for freedom and the need for structure in life.
“So me making that move to my mama's house in North Oakland, you know, she had been in and out, you know.”
The Impact of Childhood Sacrifices
34:00 to 36:20
Discuss the sacrifices made in childhood for the sake of future success.
“Yeah, you wasn't going to have the structure.”
Struggles with Substance Abuse
36:20 to 37:40
Delve into the challenges of substance abuse and its effects on family dynamics.
“Every time I would smoke some weed or smoke a black and mild or drink something, I'm like, bro, you wasn't raised like this.”
The Hypocrisy of Addiction
37:40 to 38:50
A powerful moment reflecting on the conflict of praying for a loved one while engaging in the same destructive behaviors.
“And I can always tell when, you know, my mom was struggling because the house started looking dirty.”
Spiritual Guidance and Support
43:20 to 48:23
Virgil discusses the importance of spiritual support and guidance during challenging times.
“Output is for informational purposes only and is not an investment recommendation or advice.”
Reflections on Growth and Relationships
48:24 to 55:40
Virgil reflects on personal growth, relationships, and the journey through life's challenges.
“because she wasn't ready to set the tone yet.”
Boxing Journey and Challenges
55:41 to 56:00
Discussion about the ups and downs of a boxing career and personal struggles.
“I don't know, to this day, I just marvel at it.”
Reflecting on the Past
56:00 to 56:40
Discussion on personal growth and reflections on past experiences.
“You know, so it was set aside, you know, and today I just marvel, you know.”
The Golden Gloves Experience
56:40 to 57:10
Sharing insights about the Golden Gloves and missed opportunities.
“So I was supposed to be, I wanted the local and the state Golden Gloves.”
The Initial Connection with Jay Prince
1:01:59 to 1:02:50
Virgil shares how he first connected with Jay Prince over a boxer.
“Well, actually, Antonio Leonard was the first person who called me and inquired about you and said, man, we've been hearing great things about this kid and this and that.”
Building Trust and Relationships
1:02:50 to 1:04:30
Describing how trust developed in the relationship between Virgil and Jay.
“So when Jay called about 30 minutes later.”
Lessons Learned in Tough Times
1:04:30 to 1:06:30
Virgil opens up about personal struggles and lessons during tough times.
“were able to bring another dimension into the whole thing.”
Finding Support Through Community
1:06:30 to 1:07:30
Discussing the role of strong male figures in Virgil's journey.
“Again, it's how things are maneuvered and steered into the proper place and alignments and how things are supposed to go.”
The Journey to the Olympics
1:07:30 to 1:10:02
Virgil describes his path to qualifying for the Olympics and the challenges faced.
“When I was around Roy, the few times I was around Floyd, I just felt like I could do this.”
Journey to Athens: Overcoming Doubt
1:10:02 to 1:14:06
Learn about the personal journey and faith that led to attending the Olympics.
“I ended up getting on the team, qualifying, and you know I fought at a higher weight class because I thought I was gonna grow.”
Olympic Challenges and Strategies
1:14:07 to 1:19:08
Explore the challenges faced at the Olympics and strategic insights for success.
“as I was getting ready to hand her my credit card, I got a tap on my shoulder.”
Lessons from Experience: Coaching insights
1:19:09 to 1:23:52
Understand the importance of experience and body language in sports performance.
“So when I beat him, they said, who is this kid from the United States of America?”
The Importance of Body Language in Boxing
1:24:00 to 1:25:12
Learn how body language can impact performance and perception in boxing.
“And something that I know because I was trained this way and I did it, the body language for a lot of those athletes, some of them lost because of body language.”
Overcoming Mental Barriers in Competition
1:25:12 to 1:26:09
Understand the mental challenges athletes face when competing against renowned opponents.
“Don't look fatigued, but it starts in the gym though.”
Building a Supportive Boxing Team
1:26:09 to 1:27:07
Discover the importance of having a supportive coaching team in boxing.
“before the foundations of time for such a time as this.”
Navigating Coaching Dynamics
1:27:07 to 1:27:53
Explore the dynamics between athletes and coaches, focusing on communication.
“Hey, man, he's going to want to do more.”
Transcript
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2:56We got to win every single round. You hear me? You're great, man. This is what greatness is. Robinson done got up. Leonard done got up. Arlene got up. You got up. Do it. Welcome back to another episode of the Art of War. Today, I got a man as my guest who is very special to my heart. He is my trainer, godfather, and the 2011 Boxing Riders Association Trainer of the Year, and one of the greatest minds in the sport of boxing. And y 'all been asking for me. I want to welcome to the show Virgil Hunter. V, what's up, baby? How you be, baby? Man, I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. You got your Stevie Wonder thing going on, man, with the tent.
3:37What you got going on? Actually, these are Blu-rays. Okay. Yeah. So they keep everything calm, the cortisol down and things like that. I found out that it works. I sleep real good at night now. See, that's the age stuff. When you start getting older, you start going more for comfort and functionality over looking. Well, it takes skills to get old. You know what I'm saying? You just can't harbor on one thing. What you did in 20, you can't do in 50, and so on and so on. So it's all about preservation. You got a rollie on? Trying to be here. I wear it every now and then. Yeah? Yeah, just to keep the click moving.
4:10Mm-hmm. Man, I'm back in the gym, man. This was home for many, many years for us. The house that you built. Yeah, I remember me and my wife, man, we were looking for gyms because we're training in Oakland, and we just had a lot of traffic coming in, especially as we started really growing and I became a champion. We needed something private, man, and we're looking at all these industrial buildings, and, man, we built this from the ground up, from the mirrors to put the mats over here, heavy bag speed bag. The bag's equipment. Man, we done had some great moments in this gym, man. And, man, it's good to be back.
4:45And I just want to take, you know, normally I do, you know, I have my notes and I do my thing. And, you know, I just want this today to be just more of a conversation with us, just kind of talking and vibing just about the history and how we got to this point. You know, I think it's a lot of things we can talk about that will bless a lot of people and just give people insight to the journey. You know, they see the fight night or they see the interviews, but they don't really understand a lot of the process, man. So I want to go back to, I think it's 95, you know, when I first met you at U.S. Karate and Boxing.
5:18It was a karate school and a boxing gym in Hayward, California. And my dad was in there, and you were in there that day, and I was hitting a heavy bag. Man, what's your earliest memory from that moment? Well, I was in there working out myself, and I had finished and completed my workout. and I was sitting on the side of the ring and I just heard a little pop over in the bag. So I happened to look over and there you were standing there, a little kid hitting the bag. And every now and then you turn around and look at me and I nod my head in approval like that. And at that time, didn't think much of it, just a kid in there.
5:55You know, I don't know why my attention was diverted over to where you were. I don't know why, just nodding approval. I don't know why our eyes met, but they met several times. So that's my earliest recollection. I believe it was 94 because you were 10 years old. You were born in 84, right? Yeah, so I think it was 94. You might have just turned 10, you know, around that time. Man, and it's, you know, that day my dad, you know, you had a conversation with my dad, and I was actually training with another trainer at that time. We call it the house trainer, the guy that trains most of the people that come through the gym.
6:30But the style, my dad didn't like the style. It was a style of take two punches to give one, And my dad was, you know, he boxed as an amateur in high school in San Bruno, California. And he liked to dance, you know, in the ring. You know, he was an Ali fan. And y 'all started talking, and he said something to you. He said, man, I want to teach my son how to hit and not get hit. And you told my dad, you said, that's my specialty. Well, we got into a conversation. I think your dad was watching me work out. He felt comfortable approaching me. And he says, look, I have my two sons here. They want to box and everything like that.
7:07He said, I'm not really happy with who's training them right now. So my question to him is, well, what are you looking for? What do you want? What do you want them to get out of boxing? He said, well, I've always been a big Muhammad Ali fan, so I like the idea of hitting and not getting hit. And I said, well, that's my specialty. Yeah. Man, it's crazy. I thought about this recently. Just that conversation alone and my dad having that type of vision. Mm-hmm. Right? saved me from so much punishment. My quality of life today is what it is because my dad wasn't one of them dads I was like, nah, man, you gotta make him tough.
7:44Just make him tough, get him in shape, and teach him how to fight. I want him to fight. If that was the case, I don't know where I would have been mentally, physically, because it just would have been a hard road. Because I was a kid that had drive, I was competitive, and I wasn't scared. Just that one conversation saved me from so much punishment in amateur boxing and pro boxing. Well, it's definitely a spiritual journey that you can't deny. The introduction was spiritual because if you remember, I told you later on, during that time I was going through a little mild depression because I thought I had a son that I initially was working with and he was taken from me.
8:22So I cared about him so much. I loved him so much. I was going through a depression, a mild depression. I was coming home every night, pouring a shot of tangeree or two, smoking a couple of cigarettes this was a ritual every night even though I wasn't a smoker even though I wasn't a drinker just to deal with what I was dealing with it really hurt me so but I snatched away just snatched away like that so I went to the gym to stay in shape try to keep my mind intact try to keep my spirits up and you know that day happened that day happened and from that day on I knew it was for a reason. I just knew it.
9:02It's something deep down. It was for a reason long before everything manifested itself, long before the potential showed up and everything. I just knew it was for a reason because I also was training kids at the probation department and I would get them real good while they were locked up. And then when they would get out, they would come to the gym and they trained three or four months. But eventually, you know, the home situation, the money situation, the peer pressure, they would always go back to the street. So I kind of got fed up with that, and I made myself a promise. I said, if I ever start again, it's going to be a young kid, young enough where the temptations are not there yet, to where I can give him a foundation that when the temptations come, he'll have something to fall back on.
9:47He won't go across the line. He might toe the line, but he won't go across the line. That always stayed in my mind from the beginning. Yeah. You know, and then you had the support that you had. You had your father there supporting the situation. So I needed that situation, too. I knew that you were taken care of, that your needs were being met. So I didn't have to worry about you leaving the gym and then got to go to the block to make some money so you can eat that night or go to the block that morning so you can buy some shoes for school. I didn't have that worry. So it allowed me to relax and gradually I began to heal from the depression because your presence replaced all of that Man, it's crazy because like, you know, my dad I had my father there me and my brother He was raising us as a single parent and then we had different mothers So Jonathan my brother his mom was doing what she was doing and then my mom was was was fighting an active drug addiction So, you know, we had stability, but we also had some instability to you know And we didn't understand everything that was going on, but you know It was good because once we started locking in, you know with you and Millie, you know your wife For those that don't know, you know, we were able to go to y 'all house sometimes Give my dad a break and then you know, we was going back and forth So we ultimately ended up losing our house because my dad had to go back into a drug program You know, it was a good fit for us to go and stay with y 'all, you know But it was always in the plan, you know When you see the plan unfold, then you begin to realize why I was in this plan because long before you came to stay with me, you were staying over, spending the night.
11:22I would take you up to the country, and we would go to Santa Cruz. We would do a lot of different things together. I was giving your father a break on the weekend because I know he worked hard in his business and things like that. A lot of times you were telling me, man, I got to stay home today because Dad is tired, this and that and the other. Millie fell in love with you guys right away. My wife, the only person that I know, the only woman I know that would take in two young boys like that. So when that time came and your dad came to me and he said, look, you know, I'm going to have to go into this program.
11:54I'm going to have to let the house go. The thing is, is where I'm going to have Andre and Jonathan, he said, because I talked to my sister. And they said, oh, well, maybe a week or so is good and things like that. And, you know, so I told him, I said, they can stay here. They used to be in here anyway. They spend the night all the time they used to be in here so they could stay here. So that's what happened. I think he told me that you guys wanted to stay with me. Yeah, we really didn't. The truth is, we didn't really have no other options. Yeah. I know. And I don't fault nobody for that because you got a 10-year-old, 11-year-old.
12:29Maybe it was 12 and 13 at that time. Somewhere around there. That's a lot. It's a lot. To just get that. Yeah. Get two boys like that put in your life from a monetary standpoint. Feeding. eating your food, like buying your clothes. But the truth is, is you and Millie were really the only option that we had. Well, that was the only option meant to be, you know, spiritually, that was the only option meant to be because I understand this to be a spiritual trip, a spiritual journey. I'd look at it that way. That's the only way I can look at it. I can't deny I dispute it. So everything was just in place, step by step, brick by brick, you know, layer by layer.
13:04Everything was in place. The world never got a chance to meet my father, but what was your earliest memories of him? I felt your father was a man of principle, and in spite of our struggles, we can have principles. In spite of our struggles, we can have character. In spite of our struggles, we do have genuine love in our heart. It's just sometimes our struggle can override that, and we question it sometimes, but what's there is going to be there. Sometimes you can get diverted by other things and other activities that are going on. But in this situation, he gave you a foundation, a foundation of respect, a foundation of caring, a foundation of intuition, a foundation of comprehension.
13:44He gave you all those things. So when you came, it wasn't like you had to be programmed into those categories right there. It was already existing. So it made things a little easier. You were able to communicate. My dad was big on respect. My dad was big on, you know, doing things right, looking people in the eye, shaking their hand, you know. We start using slang. Hey, man, what'd you say? You know, he'd correct us. Like, that's just who my dad was, man. And, you know, I even look at my mom and my dad. You know, as I've gotten older, you know, when you're young, you start looking at what your parents didn't do or how they could have did it better.
14:21But when you understand the beast, the 60s and the 70s, you know, like, they didn't know what they was getting themselves into, experimenting with them drugs. They were just looking for escape or looking for a hide-a-party, and it's like, boom, you know, benediction came in, and then you carrying that thing into the next decade. To the next decade. You know? And I just, I've been able to have more understanding about that and more grace and mercy, just understanding that. You know, like even my mom being in and out of my life, yeah, that was a wound. That was a mother wound, and sometimes I still got to fight to this day.
14:54You know? But I know it wasn't intentional. I know it wasn't on purpose. You know what I mean? No. I don't believe it was on purpose. Again, when you're confronted with a situation like that where you have something so powerful and mind-altering, and at the same time, it gives you euphoria. You feel euphoria. When you're able to forget your problems and everything like that, you're going to gravitate to that. If a cigarette is able to make you forget your problems and you're euphoric and you're happy with everybody, you're going to gravitate towards that. And at the time that you're gravitating toward it and getting the fulfillment of the euphoria You're not thinking about the long run that euphoria goes away now all of a sudden you need it not to get sick You need it just to function.
15:36So it's a double-edged sword Yeah, so like they didn't know how the long-term consequences of crack They didn't know the long-term consequences of heroin. No, you know By the time you figure it out, it's too late. It's too late back to the gym in the boxing man So you and my dad, y 'all didn't let me fight right away. I was in that gym getting battle-tested with Nenito Denier, a great Filipino fighter, his brother Glendon. A lot of people don't know him, man, but he was a beast. And he was older than me, stronger than me, but we were the same size because he was Filipino. I had to get through him and get battle-tested with my brother for that whole year and some change before I even had my first national.
16:18Why was that important for y 'all to make sure that I was battle tested before I had my first fight? Well, when I first started putting you in with Glenn, of course, you're the same size, but he's three or four years older. And Seraphine at the time was coaching him. So you're not going to take no mercy on you. Right. So Seraphine was the coach that was originally training me at the gym before I went to Verge. He would just pound on you, but you would keep your hands up and you just move and run all over the ring. and stop and then move and run again. And I just watch. And I remember your father coming up to me.
16:54He said, Virg, I don't think he got it, right? I just don't think the kid got it. I said, just be patient. I said, he got to learn how to defend himself before he start attacking people. I said, it's something I'm waiting on right now. So every time, I don't know if you remember, every time Glenn would land a real big punch, I'd stop it. I'd say, stop, that's enough, right? And Seraphine would get mad. and we went through this four or five times right you just move around the rainbow and boom that's it stop it right and then one day it happened and you said i'm okay virge i'm okay that's what i was waiting on i was waiting for you to say i'm okay because i realized that you have to have the trust in me that early on i'm not gonna let you get hurt yeah i'm not gonna let you get beat i saw the competitiveness in you so winning early on when you did start boxing was very important to me because I knew it was important to you because I saw the competitiveness.
17:51And even then, you had tears in your eyes, but it wasn't tears of fear. It was tears of anger. You know, why is he doing this to me? I can't, you know, and if you remember, when you told me that, I said, okay, we're going to work on just one punch. I said, because every time you stop, he's so confident you're not going to throw nothing. He's not going to protect himself. He's going to look at what he wants to hit. And when he does that, crack him and move again. And we Pretty soon two pieces started landing. And then within two or three months, they didn't want to spar no more. It developed that quick.
18:23It turned around that quick. So it took me about, I probably had like, I don't know, 10 fights. My first fight was San Jose, California, San Jose Powell, Samuel Roscoe. I still talk to him to this day. And I lost my first fight. I thought I won that fight. Of course you won. Yeah. And I avenged it, I think, my third fight. So I had about 10, 11 fights, and then I had my first big national. So I won the local silver gloves and I won state and I won regional. So I'm 10 fights, 11 fights in Lenexa, Kansas at the silver gloves nationals. Man, I was crazy. That's the first time I ever seen snow being from California.
18:56I know what snow look like. And, you know, it's an indoor hotel. And I'm green at that level. I've never been at that level. So I would be you would be like you go you stay in the room, but you would be downstairs at night with the coaches, you know, and everybody bragging about that guy. You had, you know, Uncle Dre from New York. You had Detroit, Philly, you know, Concrete Jungle. I mean, it was some real hitters, you know, from these different cities. Ohio. And I ended up battling my way through the tournament. It was like a five-day tournament. But the dude on the opposite side, Curtis Stevens, we on opposite brackets.
19:34I didn't know him. And I said this in my book, how, you know, at them nights when you and the coaches was hanging out, Uncle Dre was like, man, that's my nephew, man. He grew up under Mike Tyson's doorstep. Like, what was the interactions like? I mean, you got young kids in the room at night. They finna rumble, like, but y 'all, you know, adults. Well, you know, when we first got there, I, of course, watched everybody that was in your bracket fight. And Curtis stood out right away because he was knocking kids out. I mean, that's the first time I seen a kid knock another kid out, just out, you know, and seriously out.
20:10but I saw some other things in him that I knew that that was his only hope was to land a punch but at that time I used a lot of psychology I don't know if Dre remembers it or not we've talked about it and laughed about it in the workout room Curtis was in there hitting a heavy bag and I said man, this your kid? he said yeah, I said boy he could really hit you know and Andre, because he's so nice and cordial you know, and such a genuine person he responded to me to where a genuine person would. Not suspicious. He just responded to me the way a genuine person would. Yeah, coach, he's a killer. He's knocking out everybody, this and that.
20:51And so I said, well, man, my kids fight scene tomorrow night. We're just glad to be here. We're just lucky we got this far. So we're glad to be here. So I want to congratulate you now. And left it at that. But I already knew. And I beat him. And you beat him. But the power was real though. He can crack. Yeah, no doubt. Some dudes you fight, you feel like they got bricks in their hands. Like even if they graze you or they partially hit you, you're like, dang, I don't want to get hit with that claim. Well, he was built to punch. Yeah, he's stocky. Blow to the ground. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Strong thighs.
21:25He was built to punch. Yeah. So I won that tournament. And once you, I think that was at 100 pounds. I think it was. That was 100 pounds. 95, 100. I think it was 95, 100. I'm the best in that weight class in the nation. You know, so we come home, you know, you got newspaper, local television. So my name is buzzing now locally, man. And I continue to do my thing. But like even when I started sparring, right, like I'm getting 13 now, a little bit older, 14. Now I got to spar pros. So I'm sparring vets, local vets in the area or guys that come into town. So I'm rumbling with older men that can't keep up with my speed.
22:07They getting embarrassed, but they also got the strength on me So they trying to bully me to hit me on my hip And you know, I used to come back to the corner, man, he hit me on my hip, man He fouling me, and you said make him stop Why did you let me at 13, 14, 15 years old spar those type of guys? Because I knew you had the ability And you have to remember before I would let you spar with anybody that old I would observe them sparring So I knew outside of them hitting you with a lucky punch on the button that it was going to be tough for them. I already knew that because styles make fights. And at that time, your style had matured to the point.
22:45And you have to remember, you did have the physical strength because after you won the first tournament at 10, you were granted a scholarship to sports medicine. You didn't even have to pay. So you had the benefit of getting all that work, all that strength and conditioning at early age. Don Chu. Don Chu. So you were strong. And that was two or three years of that. And actually, we never stopped. We went there three days a week. We never stopped. So you had the benefit of years of strength and conditioning, the right type of strength and conditioning. Not weights and anything, polymetrics, poly balls and things like that, that speed treadmill and things like that.
23:22So I knew that the strength was there. You know, maybe not man's strength, but enough for sparring. So I was very confident in that, and it turned out to be true. And my brother, like, I think my brother was built like Tommy Herms. Exactly. With feet, though. With feet. With floating feet. Yeah, he had natural, good footwork. He had a lot of ability. Sometimes I say I think he had more natural ability, certain things he could do. What do you think the difference was between me and my brother even early on? Desire. John liked to participate in boxing. He had the ability. I mean, people forget John.
24:02When he quit fighting, I think he was 56 and 6, something like that, and a national champion. But he didn't love it. He didn't love it. And that's what you have to do. You have to love it. There's no other way. You just can't deal with that. And you can go so far liking it, but in order to really put in the time, in order to really get the benefits out of it, in order to really follow your dreams, you have to love it. And that was the difference. As soon as he got home, he was down there watching cartoons and things like that. When you got home, that's another thing I noticed about you at 10, Lizzo.
24:35You watched fights. All the time. All the time. And it didn't matter who was fighting. Ham and Eggers. What was the Hispanic channel? Telemundo. And then Gillette Tuesday night fights. Tuesday night fights. USA Tuesday night fights. You watched every single fight. So that let me know early on you were a student of the game. Yeah. So I knew you were getting it up here as well as everywhere else physically. What did you notice about, because you've been in the probation department, you've been in juvenile hall for years, you've worked with a lot of fighters, you've been around a lot of fighters.
25:07What did you notice about my drive, my competitiveness, just my desire to win, and even my desire to train hard? Because I worked hard, even as a kid. What was you noticing early on, 12, 13, 14? Playing basketball with you. that I knew that you were an athlete. Even though you weren't a basketball player, you could play basketball. So if you remember, we used to go out there all the time and play, and I could feel your strength. I could feel your desire, your tenacity. I just kept coming. You just kept coming. You never gave up. You never gave up. I had to use my experience to beat you all the time, right?
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25:41But you never gave up. So I knew the tenacity was there. I knew the drive was there. And I remember one particular session where you're fighting a pro. I think he was like 30-2 or something like that. I can't remember his name. And you guys was going at it. And his coach there, Serafine, said, do you want to stop? And you said, I'll stop when he stops, right? So I knew that that drive was there, that that was going to be hard to knock over and make you compromise the drive that you had. So you got the silver gloves, and the next big tournament is the J.O. So I remember my brother, he's a year older than me.
26:20So I think you took him to the jail. I took him to the jail. You took him to the jail, the Junior Olympics. Him and No Need To. Marquette, Michigan. Me and my dad was back home, so we calling every night. What happened? What happened? So he lost. But I remember you said something on the phone. You said, hey, man, this is the most violent tournament I have been to for y 'all's age group. I never been there. I was like, for real? And, man, that's put the fear of God at me that night. I remember I ran that night. you were standing at Hayward. And I ran down the street around Mission. Like, I was just kind of spooked.
26:55Like, man, he said, man, I'm seeing dudes get knocked out. I'm seeing dudes get clipped. I ended up fighting the next year at the J.O.'s. And that's the first time I ever been buzzed. Like, really, really visibly hurt. I remember I fought the dude. I forgot his name. He's from, like, Orange. Brown was his last name. Brown, but he's from, like, Orange, New Jersey. He was from Jersey, yeah. He was telling me, hey, man, he got a short left hook. You know, you got to stop pulling back. Make sure your hand up. Sure enough, man, dude hit me with a punch so short inside. Boom. My legs wobbled. I recovered.
27:24But that was like the first time that I really got buzzed in a fight. You know? And I ended up winning that. And then I went to Junior Olympic Worlds. I think Pueblo, Mexico or something like that. I won that. And I hadn't started getting in trouble yet. You know, I think that came a couple years later, man. But when did you first start noticing that some stuff was going on with me in terms of like, you know, being in the streets or cutting schools, smoking weed and stuff like that? Well, I didn't entertain it too much, you know, while we were together. Of course, you know, you moved and I knew that the environment where you was moving to was going to subject you to some things, the environment.
28:12So I started tripping a little bit before I even moved. Well, no, what I did was it was ineligible that you was going to move. And I think that you deserve to move at that time because, you know, it was with your mom. And I remember that, I don't know if you remember, we were sitting on the steps the night before you left. And I told you, I said, you're going to go downhill from here. I don't remember me saying that. I was mad too. Yeah, I said, you're going to go downhill from here. Because at that time, you're an honor roll student, going to school every day and things like that. But me having all those years in the probation department, I knew the enticements and I knew all the things that entail for a kid that's in that particular environment.
28:55So I was hoping that you wouldn't go to the street, but I was prepared. Because I told you, I said, no matter what happens, I'm going to be here for you. Right. But I was prepared for you to go to the street. So everything that I would hear coming from the streets and things like that, I wouldn't really react right away because I knew what type of kid you were. I knew that you would go to the line, but I knew you wouldn't cross the line and that you had something that you built that you couldn't deny. It wasn't no guesswork game. You knew you had ability at that time. Any coach in the world would have took you any coach in the world would have took you.
29:33so you had that to fall back on so that gave you a little cushioning to go out and explore and experiment you know so i knew the temptations was going to come because you hadn't gone through temptations and at that time with the the hip-hop game and then the the draw of oakland you know the oakland mystique the draw of it that you got to be part of this and you got to be part of that And if you whatever, right, whatever movement, whatever hood you in, you got to be down for that particular hood. If you're going to walk and talk and associate this hood, you got to be down for it. So but I had already had experience in those situations, so I knew how to handle those situations.
30:18But the good thing about it is every tournament you come back and train, stay with me and then you go back. I barely make that thing. I get in just enough shape to do my thing. Six, eight weeks, which is enough. And I disappear again. So at that time, I wasn't concerned about Andre the boxer. I was just concerned about Andre the man. But I needed an opening to really bring that into focus that, hey, you got to go in another direction. I needed an opening. That was the time to turn it around. Of course, you were going through some things and everything like that. And I constantly remind you, look, man, you're going to be sorry one day.
31:00You're going to look up and somebody's going to be in your weight class on a team that you knew couldn't beat you. So I would put these little things in your head. That's all. Just put something in your head because I knew you respected me. I knew you loved me and I knew you respected me. So I would put those things in your head. even on the drinking thing, when your grandmother called me and told me, oh, he's drinking, right?
31:28So I didn't call you and say, man, you drinking, you drinking, you doing this, you doing that. I didn't say that at all. I use a psychology that I learned over the years. Because you'd call me once a week, twice a week, you'd always call, checking what was going on. So I waited till you called. Hey, Virg, what's going on? I said, oh, Dre, I'm not doing too good, man. What's going on? I said, man, my friend is having so many problems with his son. What's happening? Man, he keeps his son is just drinking every day, and he's concerned. He can't stop him from drinking. I'm glad you're not doing that.
31:57I'm so glad you don't drink. I don't know what to do, right? So I played to your conscience. I remember that. And I would tell you. I'm glad you ain't drinking. I'll be on the phone like, what are you talking about, man? Yeah, because I knew you respected me, and I knew that I stood on principle. So that wasn't going to stop it But that was what was going to put a guilt trip on your mind Man, I'm disappointed If Virg really knew what I was doing He'd be disappointed He really believes in me You see what I'm saying? So psychology is so important On raising a kid and keeping them in the right direction And I'm just glad I had the battlefield and the battleground to be able to decipher all the right things that need to be said at the right time.
32:46Yeah. You know. Man, just take it back a little bit. So me making that move to my mama's house in North Oakland, you know, she had been in and out, you know. My dad was a functional addict for periods of time in his life. My mother was a full-blown addict. She started getting herself together, right? I'm living with y 'all, you and Millie. And then I'm like, man, I'm going to live with my mama. You know, I hadn't, I hadn't like, that was like the one thing that I never got to feel. Like a lot of my friends had their grandmother or their mother and not their father. Some of them had both, but a lot of them didn't.
33:25But they had their mama. And I'd be sitting there like, man, bro, your mama in here cooking food and like, you know, man. And I was super grateful, man, for you and Millie, you know, and what y 'all did, you know, and what y 'all was doing at that time. But like not having that, you know what I'm saying? It's always going to be a void there. So that's why I wanted to go to the flatlands in North Oakland and live with her. But you told me that. You was like, man, you're going to go down here. And I remember being like, because I want to go live with my mama. I didn't see it. I didn't see it. Because you were going to be given freedom.
33:56I wasn't going to have that structure that I had with my dad and with you. Yeah, you wasn't going to have the structure. But the truth is, I really didn't want that structure. No, you didn't. A lot of my life was going to school, getting up, going running, going to school, coming home, chilling for an hour or two to the gym, rinse and repeat. It's interesting, man. I was asking Roy this when I interviewed him.
34:24And I think, man, you talked a little bit about it at one point, but can you make a Roy Jones or Andre Ward without living that type of life? Because I had to give up a lot of my childhood, and I gave up a lot of trouble that I probably would have got in, too. But I had to sacrifice a lot. Now, 42, I'm not complaining. You know, I see a lot of my friends that had all the freedom and look like they could do whatever they want to. And I see what happened. But can you produce a great or an all time great athlete without having them with that type of structure? Well, I'm trying to think who's on top right now that didn't have structure.
35:09You know, whether it be Shakur, whether it be Keyshawn, whether it be Benavidez, whether it be some of the greats. if you look at them, they all had structure. And they all had something that at an early age, they knew they had something to fall back on. Now, of course, you get a kid like Mike Tyson to come up to Catskill at 15, 16 trouble. What happened? He got structure, right? So I don't think you can get to the top without structure. I don't see any long wolves out there. Now, you got some that don't want to follow the script, but in order to get world class, you have to have some sort of structure.
35:45But then there's another level after structure. There's following the script. Structure is very important. It is the foundation to success in any sport. I believe structure, discipline and structure. And even though you might get off the beaten path, that structure and discipline never leaves you. Because no matter what you were doing at that time, when you were going through your phases, no matter what you were doing, boxing never left your mind. That's structure. That's foundation. It never left your mind. That's familiar as well. There's been many a night that you might have been doing something, I guarantee, I never asked you this, but you could tell me now that you told yourself I'm blowing it.
36:23Oh, yeah, for sure. You see what I'm saying? Every time I would smoke some weed or smoke a black and mild or drink something, I'm like, bro, you wasn't raised like this. Yeah, you're blowing it. And you're blowing it because I'm tearing up my lungs, you know, my wind. Like, that's my thing in boxing is, man, I can go. So I went to the north. I went to North Oakland, man, and I did go downhill. just like you said. Mm-hmm. You know, and it didn't take long. You know, and it's crazy because it's like, I felt like I needed a break from boxing. Mm-hmm. You know, I've been doing this, I've been nine years old, and it was like, it was a grind, man, and it's like, in my young mind, I wanted freedom.
37:02I wanted to breathe, I needed to exhale. I don't wanna have to go to the gym. I don't wanna have to tell my friends I can't go. I'm trying to go to the party for once. I don't ever get the chance to go to the party. And you just don't understand what you're saying, but I took it from like just wanting more freedom to now I'm delving into street activity. You know, my mother was doing good for a while, but her being in that environment, right, the dope house right around the corner, it inevitably, them old demons start coming back on her. And I'm grateful for my mama, man, because she, you know, I get a lot of my fight from my mother, man, because she a fighter.
37:39But at that time, she started dibbling and dabbling. And I can always tell when, you know, my mom was struggling because the house started looking dirty. My mom was a neat freak until she not. And when, you know, the house started getting dirty and staying dirty, smelling different, I'm like, man, it's happening again. And so I seen that, me and her arguing and fighting a lot because I'm mad jamming her up about that. She, you always accusing me. I ain't doing nothing. I'm looking at her eyes. I know my mother. and her using drugs again means us not being together. I feel like it's just a matter of time.
38:18So I start using drugs and numbing and drinking a lot and then I start selling dope. I didn't know how to cook it up, but I had connections around the corner too. You know what I'm saying? I buy a bunch of rocks and go do my thing and it's like, I said this in the book too, that like it was crazy because I'm praying for my mother to get free from an active crack addiction on 55th and Market in them apartments, but I'm two blocks down serving somebody else's mother. That's crazy that my mindset had been there. And I remember God convicted me and just, I was like, man, you're a hypocrite. Like I'm praying for my mama, man, God, take this from her.
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44:17He, you know, he hanging with this person. I seen him. And you never, you never panicked, but you would always say the right thing at the right time and it would sit with me. And I'd be fighting with you on the phone like, man, hey brother, listen, I'm telling you, you ain't gonna get away with nothing. And I'd be mad. Cause I'm thinking you speaking something on me that's gonna happen. I'm like, man, I'm just trying to, you know, live my life, man. You just, man, just cause I ain't boxing, you gonna say that? You said, man, it's deeper than that. God got his hand on you. So I never felt comfortable being in the streets.
44:45I never felt comfortable. And you said something to me one time that really rocked me. You say, man, you out there playing. And I laughed and I'm like, I ain't playing. Somebody run up on me. I'm talking to you. You said, brother, listen, if you ain't if you ain't sell your soul to if you haven't sold your soul to the devil and you ready to kill or be killed right now, you play. then that's the type of treachery you dealing with out there. I knew deep down that that wasn't you. I wasn't trying to kill, man, and I for sure wasn't trying to be killed. Exactly. And you have to remember, where I worked, I had my ear to the street.
45:21I had kids in the neighborhood telling me everything. In that neighborhood, North Pole, coming in, being incarcerated, and they telling me everything that's going on. Because at that time, you had been in the newspapers, and they knew who you were. They knew what I did, right? They knew who I was before they would come. Man, you Mr. Hunter, huh? Yeah, man, I stay down there. Andre doing this and he doing that and he doing this. But I didn't look at it to condemn you. I just thank God that he was giving me the info, right? So I can plan, so I can maneuver, so I knew what to pray for, so I knew what to say, knew where to go, and just told God, you know, whatever help you have out there for, because I don't want to do this by myself.
46:05I know there's a team around you, even your best warriors, David, everybody else, they had a team around them. So, but he gave me the peace, but he gave me the info. And getting back to your structure, it's your structure that kept you from going over the line. The end there that, like you said, I'm getting ready to blow this, I'm going to blow that. That lets you know what you were talking about early on, people coming in and already have it. You see what I'm saying? already had that instinct, already had that drive. That drive was already there. The competitiveness was already there. You just needed a timeout.
46:44You just happened to be in the wrong place to take your timeouts. That's all. You just needed a timeout, what every kid does. Even today, when amateur coaches come to me and ask me for advice when the kid is 10 or 11 years old or 12 years old, I'm not ashamed to say some of the mistakes I think that I made. and that is when they're that age you got to give them a break because if you don't they're going to get a certain age and they're going to resent it and they're going to go off on their own and everything like that especially if there's no promise there if they're not getting the accolades that they're not you got to give them a break you just can't go 365 days seven days five six days a week you know you got to give them other alternatives let them play other sports They're not going to lose nothing.
47:30They're going to come back fresh because their mind is refreshed. It's going to help them. So, and I learned that from when you played football, right? When you played football, you came back fresh, you see? So I encourage all coaches to do that however they want to do it. Don't grind them because what you teach them, they're not going to lose it. They're not going to lose it. It's like a basketball player tears his Achilles. Once that knee is healed, his game is right back to where it was. It's the same thing in boxing. You're not going to lose it. So those were not tough times. They were times that I realized it was all part of the journey.
48:09You know, I never panicked. I never got discouraged. I never lost my stance on how I interacted with you. I always came to where I said what I felt. I never cowered. I never went down and just everything and let you set the tone because she wasn't ready to set the tone yet. So I know you needed that in your life. They have somebody that, hey, I'm going to disappoint this man, right? Somebody that if you're hiding stuff from me, you respect me. You see what I'm saying? If you're hiding stuff from me. But it's like I said, in this lifetime, it's such a spiritual journey. It's such a journey that when I look back, I marvel at how everything turned out because your faults now are somebody else's testimony.
48:55Somebody else's, your false became your testimony to help somebody else. And that's how it all works. You know, what I did bad gives me a testimony to stop you from doing it, right? Because God put me in a position where I am somebody. I've done a whole lot of things. I'm known all over the world. I'm just not somebody down the street trying to tell you what to do. I'm somebody that's been where you've been, and now I'm here, and I'm going to tell you everything that could befall you as you take this journey into the, going into the crime world, going into the dope world, going into anywhere. I can tell you what's going to happen to you.
49:32And during that period, it was probably like a two or three year run, man, where it's like, you know, I would go to, I would win. I never went to the Golden Glove Nationals. I would always win locally and then boom, I'd disappear. My first U.S. championship before I really went left was 2001. I missed 2002. I was catting off. And then 2003, I was still messing up. But you was like, man, you got to, you know, we getting close. You used to count on your hands when I was a kid. Like, man, we identified what Olympics I was going to be eligible for. Man, we're going to nine years, man, eight years, man, five years.
50:05You even had a notebook where you wrote in there, man, I'm going to be a preacher, commentator, a Hall of Famer, world champion. You wrote that in a notebook, and it's like during the period that I was going through, what I was going through is the opposite of what you were saying. Yeah. Actually, it was a diary I had, and I'm still looking for that diary today. I was just inspired. I think you were 15, 16 at the time. I was just inspired to write this, and I wrote in that diary, kid is special, don't know it yet. But this is what I see in this future. I see Olympic gold medalists in 2004. I see a middleweight champion that at some point other champions will be afraid to fight and I see a first ballot Hall of Famer and I also see a top broadcaster because of his intuition because of his insight because of his ability to comprehend I see all that in his future and I just left it out and you picked it up one day and read it and you said you write this verse and I said yeah I wrote it and put it back and then I don't know where it is I wish I could find it.
51:19I think it's in a container somewhere. But it was instilled in me. Because, you know, I understand that if you hadn't went to Washington, see, God got a plan. Right? And sometimes a plan is not what we expect as God-fearing people. We think it's got to be perfect. We think it's got to be thorn-free, weed-free, just a rosy path to wherever our destination is meant to be. But you'd have never met your wife. You see? You'd have never had that opportunity to meet your wife and develop a relationship to where you know, hey, I love her. This is who I want to marry. The boxing might have been another thing, but it might have been a whole other situation for you.
52:04But you met somebody who was the perfect complement for you. So that lets me know that it was always in the plan. Right? It was in the plan. And I remember when you came to me and said that you guys wanted to get married at an early age. And everybody was against it. But I told you, I said, look, because you guys live with me. All the ladies in the family. Who was this girl? Who was this girl that wanted to marry Dre? Yeah. They only see it from one side. They only see it from one side. The age part, right? Well, they looking at the age. You know, they look at it like, who is this girl trying to take our baby and, you know, get married?
52:40That's how the ladies look at it. But what they didn't realize is that you guys stayed with me, right? So I was able to watch over the years you guys interact. And I always saw you guys were never apart. Wherever you went, you had the kids with you. I watched how Tiffany was so great with the kids early in the morning, feeding them, bathing them, making sure all their needs are met. And you guys were inseparable. So to me, he was already married, right? So I told you, I said, if anybody could do it, you could do it. Don't let all these old people tell you we've got problems in their relationships and things like that.
53:13Don't let them kill your vibe. For real. You know, go ahead and get married. That's what you want to do. And you guys did. And look today. Yeah. Mm-hmm. It's a blessing, man. You know, we'd be fighting and arguing, just not knowing how to deal with life, pressures of life, relationship at that level. You know, and you would sit us down and be like, look, you know, this is, because Tiffany didn't understand the magnitude of what I was chasing. Right. Like I told her, I was like, yeah, I'm, you know, I box. She was like, yeah, I play basketball. I'm like, nah, like I box. Like I'm the best in my weight class.
53:42She was like, oh, that's cool. And it wasn't until she moved to California and really was like, started asking you questions. Like, wait, so she went to one of my fights. She was like, oh, he won? Oh, that's cool. And then started really understanding. He was like, nah, he going to win a gold medal. You ain't got to worry about nothing. Right. No, one day. I told her. I said, T, if you understand what I'm telling you. and if you really look into what you got you got an ox and if you follow the script you'll never have to work a day in your life has she had a job today so just right just just raising the kids and holding the house down man which is what she wanted to do exactly i mean so you got the perfect situation in an you got the perfect wife out of an imperfect situation you see what i'm saying and I was challenged too because I always thought you would be siding with her I'm like why you already siding with her we got an argument or something but I was growing up I'm learning how to treat her the right way and you know because I didn't have I didn't have a lot of great examples I didn't have a lot of throughout my family line strong marriages you know like it was just relationships and it's like I seen dysfunction I seen disorder so that's what I know so when the pressure hit that's what you're gonna be dysfunction so you and Millie man y 'all would sit us down you would sit us down, man, and really open up the word, man.
55:05And I think that was the difference maker, you know? Your life wasn't perfect, but you never strayed from that word, though. No. Sometimes you have a glass of champagne and a cigarette in your hand, but you say, look, man, and you take us to the word. Yeah. And you'd be like, look, this is what God says that a husband is supposed to treat his wife. I didn't want you guys to hear what I needed to say. I wanted to hear what the word said so it would be true. It's not what I said. It's what the word says, right? And the first thing I told was to you, I said, it's the scripture that said, he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord, right?
55:39So I used to go from that. I don't know, to this day, I just marvel at it. It wasn't even under my own understanding. It was just the understanding that God gave me for that particular moment to open my eyes to see what was going on in the battlefield that he gave me. So when that war, when your war came, I was able to assign you the proper weaponry and the proper strategy to deal with it, even though I hadn't done all that in my life. You know, so it was set aside, you know, and today I just marvel, you know. It's every time I think about it, it just enlightens me. It's just when I see you on TV, when I see all the things that you've accomplished, when I see all the beauty that your wife is doing and the kids raised up well and everything like that and happy, it's just a marvel.
56:31During that time when I was, you know, doing my thing, getting in trouble, you know, I said this when I interviewed Jay. You and James Prince start talking. I think I forgot what year it was. Maybe 2002 or 2003. So I was supposed to be, I wanted the local and the state Golden Gloves. Right. And then I just, I dipped on you. I was like, I'll be back first. And I just left. I was gone. Never showed up. But Jay and his team kept hearing about Ward, Ward, this kid Ward. They went to the, I think it was in Vegas. They went to the Golden Gloves and I wasn't there. And somehow he got your number. and y 'all started talking.
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1:02:16Cameron Duncan was calling me. The guy over in Europe, I can't think of his name, he was calling. Gary Shaw was leaving, you know, people like that. And I never was comfortable. When they would call, I never could sit down. You know, I'm just listening because it was all about money. It was all about what they thought. They thought that's what you wanted to hear. That's what I wanted to hear. You know, they're bringing the money up first, not the person, right? So I get a call from Antonio Leonard and he said, is it okay if I give you a number to Jay Prince? And I said, yeah, he'll give it to him.
1:02:51So when Jay called about 30 minutes later. Did you know who Jay was at that time? Yeah, I knew who he was from Floyd. I never met him at that time, but I knew exactly who he was. So when he called, it's Mr. Hunter. Yo, this is James Prince, right? This is James Prince. So after about two or three minutes of us filling out each other and everything like that, you know, trying to get the motives of one another and this and that and the other, I was able to sit down and listen to what he said and able to tell him. I said, you know what? If you can help me with this kid, because everything he was talking about, never about money.
1:03:29It was about family. It was about help. It was about his life. We talked about 30 minutes before I even said this to him. And, you know, he was telling me everything that he had been through and this and that and Floyd and this and that and Roy and all these things. So something just lightened me up, you know, where I knew that I wasn't going to make say the wrong thing or put myself in a position that I would regret later on. So I said, you know what, Jay, if you could help me with this kid, he'll win us a gold medal. And he said, yeah. I said, yeah, he'll win us a gold medal. I guarantee you he will.
1:04:04and he so that's when i gave him your number and i called you and i said man i talked to j prince he's interested in you but the beautiful thing is it was a godsend again because you came home and we went to houston right now you're able to see how people live right whips whips everything big houses everything like that then he put your idol on the phone to you roy right so his connections were able to bring another dimension into the whole thing. Then we started going to all the big fights. Yeah. So long before you fought in the Olympics, long before you turned pro, you'd been exposed to it. You saw what it could bring you.
1:04:47In the locker room. In the locker room. At Jay's Mansion, going to the nightclub of Floyd there, things like that. Because I was still, you know, I wasn't all the way right yet. No, you wasn't all the way right. I was still trying to get right. Right. I remember we was at a, I think it was Roy Jones, John Ruiz. And I had an all gold suit on, top hat. And we were staying in the same room. But I'm still, you know, I'm still drinking and stuff. So I don't know how I got it. I got like a personal bottle of Hennessy or something like that. So I think I'm being slick. So I got the personal bottle in my bag, tucked in some clothes.
1:05:24So I drink a little bit, tuck it, leave, go do my thing, come back, drink some, tuck it. One night I go in there, I look at my bag. I'm like, bro, where my bottle at? And you holding the ace card, you ain't saying it. I'm like, man, he got my bottle, bro. I didn't have to say nothing. I'm like, he got my bottle, man. I'm like, either he got it or the cleaners. I said, how do cleaners know it's in my bag? So I'm tripping. That's worse than somebody finding it getting mad at you because you ain't saying nothing. I'm like, what's up, bro? What's up? You acting like ain't nothing happening. and uh i think didn't you say something when we got back home or something like that back to the bay i don't remember but i knew you wasn't gonna question me because you knew you knew i had it right so it wasn't enough to be questioning you didn't want to hear me come back and say man why you got this boom boom boom i just that was my time because at that time i don't think you knew that i was aware of what was going on i didn't want you to know and you didn't want me to know But when I got that bottle, now you know I know, right?
1:06:26So that's all I had to leave it at. I didn't have to go no further. Now you know I know. So now the next move is on you, right? But at that time, it was a great time. Again, it's how things are maneuvered and steered into the proper place and alignments and how things are supposed to go. Jay was a blessing. He was a blessing because he cared about you genuinely. And I respected him. And he respected him. And he came to, he came to rescue you for different things that mattered when you needed a bigger vehicle for your kids. You didn't ask him for an Escalade with big rims on it. He said, I just need something for my family.
1:07:04He provided a nice pre-certified, I forget, Toyota expedition, things like that. So he was always there when you needed him. He was always there for me. But after Jay became involved and we began to team up, all the other stuff just began to disperse. It started going away and then you started locking in. You're going to focus because you had all the examples around you. God put you in that arena where you could see this could be me. Right? I could see it though. Right. When I was around Roy, the few times I was around Floyd, I just felt like I could do this. You could do this. I see myself here.
1:07:41But brushing shoulders with them and like, you know, that did something to me, man, especially at that time in my life, because I lost my dad. In 2002, man, my dad was here today, gone tomorrow, and I was already, you know, teetering, and that just took me over the line, man, and sort of gave me an excuse to continue to self-destruct, man, but, man, God is good, bro. I got in trouble one last time, man, and I was like that breaking point for me, and I just surrendered, man. I just, I told God, I was like, you know, I was like, man, I'm sorry. You know, I know I've been running from you. I know I've been, you know, just doing what I want to do, you know.
1:08:17But it's crazy, though, because you spend some years getting some bad habits, right? It don't go overnight. It can, but it took some time to get, like, the desire to want to smoke weed out of my system, the desire to want to drink out of my system. Never went to a program, never did none of that. Some people, that's the route. But for me, man, he just took it. And then with Jay being there and then Tiffany moving to the Bay, I felt like, what do I need to leave for? Like, I got a year and a half to try to make this happen. Well, and the major thing was you was taking out the environment. Yeah.
1:08:49See, if you'd have stayed in that environment, you don't know what you would have done. Yeah, but the environment was right down the street too. Right. But you were taking out the environment. It was down the street, but we were all centered in the house together. So, you know, even at the car wash, I had connections there. I had my ear to the street at the car wash. I had my ears to the street on 82nd and MacArthur on the corner, where I had kids that I had that was running those blocks and telling him, look, when he come down here, don't bubble, don't do nothing, don't give him nothing, and don't mess with him when he comes down here to this store.
1:09:17So everything was in order. But it's so important, and getting back to JP, it's so important, I think, and I'm just saying this for young fighters, to have many men in your life. Now, notice I said men. I didn't say fellas. I didn't say hanger-ons. I didn't say get the man that's gonna backstab your coach or backstab this or put anything that's negative in your parents head about what's going on not negativity but real men everybody needs more than one man in their life man it's a blessing cuz I lost my dad but then you was already playing a dual father role and you had to step up completely mm-hmm and you know God brought Jay and brought other people that you know he knew that I will respect and I would listen to.
1:10:02I ended up getting on the team, qualifying, and you know I fought at a higher weight class because I thought I was gonna grow. Should have been at 165 but I fought at 178. You know I'm in Athens, Greece. You somehow not only get there but you get front row tickets to the fight. We had just went to war too so security was, we had a Secret Service agent with us everywhere we went so what like just freedom to roam like it was it was strict. Yeah. And somehow some way, man, you got front row tickets to every fight. Well, I mean, that was an incredible blessing right there in itself because I didn't think I could make us at that time to war.
1:10:40And then when you look over the staying accommodations, they were real high, right? Just one bedroom was like$1 ,000 a week, two bedroom,$3 ,000 a week and things like that. The airlines and this and that. And then you had to think about food. And I'm like, man, it's going to kind of be kind of tough, you know, to getting over there at these prices. And one day I was just sitting in the den. And this voice came in my ear. It wasn't audible, but I could hear it. And it said to me, you don't think I can get you to Athens, Greece? And I started crying because I knew this voice. Right. I started crying like because I was so ashamed of the doubt that I had that I couldn't get there saying I couldn't not instead of looking at a way where I could.
1:11:30So when that happened. I immediately on my credit card, look for a plane ticket and I got one round trip for nine hundred dollars. I had to go through Germany to get to Greece and things like that. So I got the plane ticket. That was my first step out in faith. And so now I'm sitting there worrying about where to stay. And then all of a sudden, Charlotte, she used to work at a dental office. And her best friend was Greek. And her brother, who was the dentist, was Greek. And so I called her. I said, do you still talk to Mary Katsoulis? She said, yeah, I do. I said, well, can you give me the number?
1:12:07She said she still works at the dentist's office. So I called Mary Katsoulis, and she knew I was. And I said, I'm going to Athens, Greece, and I just wanted to talk to your brother about it to see if he had any recommendations for me. She said, well, George is out of town, but he'll be back tomorrow. I haven't called you. The next day, George calls me. And you were actually going to school with his son, right? He told me that. He said, look, I'm going to Greece a week out from the Olympics because I'm an honorary athlete in the Greek Olympics. The Greek Olympics is going to be a week before the regular Olympics.
1:12:40So he said when I get there I'll look around for you So he gets there and he calls me from Greece. He said how many? I want to come I said five. He said my friend has a flat in Kalimaki Athens Kalimaki which on the beach beach is one block away all the shops and everything He says in the summertime he owns a restaurant out on some island in Greece It's a creed or somewhere out there in the island And he goes out there and stays out there for the summer and he leases out his place He said, so you guys just pay$500 a piece a week. So that's three weeks. That's$1 ,500 plus$900. So that came to put$2 ,400, right?
1:13:21So that's way in the ballpark. So I said, okay. So got on, went to Greece. He took us all down on the bus lines and the transportation lines to see where we could get to the arena and things like that. And we went on. So when I get to the fight site the first night you were gonna fight I went up to the ticket booth and Once again, I'm gonna charge these tickets, right? But here comes the enemy's voice in my ear You gonna buy tickets for all four nights What if he lose you ain't gonna want to come to the fights so you gonna waste money buy one ticket at a time And I told lady I'm on four tickets in this arena right here for the event.
1:14:06As she was getting ready, as I was getting ready to hand her my credit card, I got a tap on my shoulder. And I turned around and it was Eric, the director of USA Boxing. He said, what are you doing? I said, I'm getting ready to buy tickets for the event. He said, no, no, no, no, no, don't do that. He took me behind the booth, opened up his briefcase. He said, how many of you guys want to come? I said, well, there's five of us. He gave me front row tickets for all five of us for all four nights. So I didn't have to pay for the tickets. And then after he won the gold medal, George came to me, his friend who owned the flat.
1:14:38George had met a girl in Greece and he took her out to the restaurant. He told his friend, I'm bringing a girl to the restaurant. You know, give me a table. Treat me nice like I'm somebody this and that. He said when he gets to the restaurant, he has to stand in line. And he said he wouldn't even give me a complimentary bottle of wine. Right. He said, so look, when he comes and collects the money tomorrow, don't give him 500, give him 200. and tell him I said so, right? So when the guy comes, everybody gives him$200 a piece, and he's looking like, I said, George said so. So he knew right then, so he left.
1:15:09So the whole trip ends up costing me under$2 ,000. Just like that. And then God pays for the trip. I get home. The envelope comes from USA Boxing. I open it up. It's$10 ,000 in there for coaching you to a gold medal. So the whole trip was paid for a hand sum. that's how it worked. That's how the journey's been, man. It's crazy because moments like that, man, you call them memorials. You know what I'm saying? Like it's moments that you set up in your life, in your mind. So when you face new challenges, new giants, new stuff, you go back and say, man, it's the same God that got me through that. It's the same God that got me through that.
1:15:46Exactly. So that whole Olympics thing, me being in a weight class that I really wasn't supposed to be in. Exactly. I had never fought at that level. I fought, you know, Ireland and Mexico and Germany and Korea. Canada. But I'd never fought the Cubans and the Russians before. And I think ESPN had me possibly winning a bronze medal in that weight class. Though I hadn't lost since I was 14 years old. 12. It's a debate. I like 12 better. No, it was 12. I looked at it. Yeah, we'll go with 12. But I hadn't lost in a long time. And he's like, he probably going. And I get it because I, what was your thinking with being the number one unranked American for many years, but then not allowing me to go to certain tournaments or certain like world championships, never been to a world championship before the Olympics, never went to the Pan Am Games before the Olympics.
1:16:38That's my route, right? Don't USA Boxing, don't get mad at me. That was my route. So some of y 'all kids, y 'all got to decide what y 'all want to do with that. But you didn't want the overexposure. I have four years to make it happen, or really three years to make it happen. Why did you not let me go to certain tournaments on the way to the Olympics? Well, the year of the Olympics, after you had qualified it, and they came to me and they wanted to go, I think, Pakistan, different places like that. And I told them no. Oh, why? He could get the experience. I said, I never see nobody get an experience.
1:17:13Every time they go, they lose, you know? But it was one thing that I knew. I knew as a light heavyweight, even though you wasn't a full-fledged light heavyweight, He was really 170, 171 without cutting weight and just eating and stuff like that. I knew the weight class was 178. And the weight class was 178, right? But after I'm looking at these guys on TV, they're 6 '5", 6 '6", coming to 178. So I'm saying, Jesus, man, this means if he fights on a Monday, he got to make that weight that morning. Yeah. Right? Then he's gonna, after he's get two days off in between, I think you guys got two days off in between bouts, he's gonna eat.
1:17:54So he's gonna put on another five or six or seven. So his whole thing is fighting, putting on the weight, taking off the weight. Fighting, putting on the weight, taking off. That's gonna weaken you over a period of time, right? Especially in a week's tournament. So, but I knew that you had something that if they never saw, they wasn't gonna beat it in four or two minute rounds. Because they're not gonna have no tape on you. They're just not going to figure you out in four or two-minute rounds. I knew that, right? And then I knew that if you could eat and didn't have to worry about making weight, you could train harder, right?
1:18:25You're going to sleep better. You're not going to be stressed with the, oh, man, I want to eat, but I'm scared I'm going to gain three or four pounds, and I've got to take it off. It's constant work, constant stress. So I took that stress level off of you. I knew you were physically strong enough to beat guys 10 pounds heavier than you. And I told you, I said, they're not going to take you serious. because you're small until you get to the second fight. I said, and after that, they got to take you serious, but it's going to be too late. It's going to be too late because they're going to have to turn around and figure out how we going to beat this kid.
1:18:57It's too late. You don't have no tape on me. Once I beat the two-time world champion, Yvgeny McEnrenko from Russia, they knew what time it was. They knew what time it was. I wasn't supposed to beat him. Oh, even Clemente Russo because he came back to the next Olympics and won. But Yvgeny, though, he was the one. He was the two-time world champion. 6 '6 or something like that. He was the one. So when I beat him, they said, who is this kid from the United States of America? And, you know, the rest is history, man. We won a gold medal, man. And it's like, I was a crazy faith builder for me because we had talked about it.
1:19:30You had talked about it. And it was a lot of stuff God was doing in Athens, Greece that just confirmations that we was there for a reason. And it's crazy that I'm the last male to win a gold medal since 2004. and it's bittersweet. You know, on one hand, it's like, it's cool, but like, that's supposed to be broken, man. You know, like given the talent and stuff that we have here and obviously, Claressa Shields hasn't done her thing, but I'm saying as a male, we got to break that. Yeah. But that's a long time. That's what, 22 years? Well, I think one way to break it is, is USA boxing. The European countries, they 25 and 26 years old fighting amateur.
1:20:09Yep. But they get compensated for that, so they don't have any incentive to turn pro too early because they're getting a steady check from the state. They might get a flat from the state, a car from the state. They get everything. So their needs are met. So they don't have no, that's guaranteed money. That's not like I got, well, when are you going to give me a fight date? Or when I get a fight date? That's guaranteed money every month. That's medical. That's every, all your needs are met. So they have incentive to stay longer. That's why you only see maybe the cream of the crop. Every one or two come out of those regions and get into the pro game.
1:20:40You don't see many of them go into the pro game because they get well compensated. in the amateur game. If the USA Boxing realizes that they need an NIL. They need an NIL program, right? They get paid. They get paid, but they need to up the pay. Yeah, I think they need to up the pay, and I think, and I've been saying this for the longest time, and for whatever reason, USA Boxing just keeps plugging their ears. Yeah. USA Boxing needs to have an open door with alumni. Mm-hmm. We talk to these kids on social. We do video calls with them off to the side, but it's like we beg to get into the program to influence these kids, to encourage these kids, to let them know, hey, man, I did it.
1:21:20You can do it. Nobody's trying to take away from the head coach. The message is still the same. Whatever your head coach, we're going to implement the same message. But there's nothing like brushing shoulders with somebody who's already walked the path that you walked, and they can reach out and touch you and say, hey, man, man, I appreciate you coming through. You can't quantify what that does for a young athlete that's trying to get where you got. But it's like they just want to keep them to themselves. You got to beg to get in there. That's one of the biggest mistakes. Cubans don't do it. The Russians don't do it.
1:21:53All the previous champions, they're around the program. So they get to see, oh, that's Felix Savone. Or that's, you know, whoever. Right? They get to see that. Man, that's so-and-so. Man, he won two gold medals in a world championship. shit. And they get to brush shoulders with them and they get to get advice from them and be around them. You can't quantify what that's going to do for those athletes. I think that's one of the biggest mistakes that they make is not allowing the alumni to come back. We only had one guy come back and that was Andrew Mayner. And I appreciated him coming because he was in my weight class.
1:22:23He went to go and medal in 88. David Reed. David Reed because he was with Al Mitchell. But we love being around them dudes like, man, tell me something, man. Man, I'm getting ready to go to these Olympics. You don't know what it's like till you get there. Well, you know, I never aspired to be a USA boxing coach because I saw early on it was cliquish. And that's not to put nobody down. I'm not going to say no names or anything. It doesn't mean that they're a bad person. But the threat of somebody coming in, maybe doing it better than you did it, that's the threat, right? Instead of realizing it's not about me as an individual, it's about a team, okay?
1:22:59Six sets of eyes is better than one set, right? But that six sets of eyes has got to be on the up. You can't come in with an agenda, a negative agenda. You can't come in criticizing. You got to come in with your eyes and be a team worker, an asset. How can I help? What can I do this? Hey coach, you know what? If he just did this right here, his right hand would land better. And the coach could look at this guy and say, man, he's knocked out a lot of guys with his right hand, so he know what he's talking about. Okay. Guy comes and has been in the pros knocking you out with left hooks. If he say, hey, coach, if he throws his hook this way or, you know, maybe this way or get it off this way, it'll be better.
1:23:34You're going to listen to him, right? But once you get this salary and this team has been given to you and you got a couple of coaches up under you, you don't want to get off that pedestal without realizing it takes a team to keep you on the pedestal. No great man is great without a team. It takes a village to also raise these young. I'll give you an example. So they just had the Youth Under 19 World Championship for the girls and the guys. And something that I know because I was trained this way and I did it, the body language for a lot of those athletes, some of them lost because of body language.
1:24:10You saw fatigue set in, they falling over their feet, they holding, the referee has to warn them. That's giving the opponent some energy and some, you know, hey, man, I'm tired too, But I see you more tired than me and it's also for a judge who's trying to figure out who's winning this round They gonna go with the person that looks the freshest You're making his job easy, but I learned that being at the highest level as an amateur The Cubans never break form. Mm-mm the Russians never break form They even when they tired they look like they're not even when they not in control They still got their stance.
1:24:41They still look like they they always look like they in control That's something that like somebody who's done it can implement to them kids say hey get your body language together Don't lean over the ropes in between the rounds. The Cubans don't even sit down in between rounds. How is that for body language? But it's stuff like that, that if you don't have guys who did it, those are key things that like that seem small that can be the difference between a win and a loss. Exactly. Stuff like that, body language. Like you're falling over your feet. You look fatigued. Don't look fatigued, but it starts in the gym though.
1:25:14Hey, don't put your hands on your knees. Hey, don't lean on the ropes in between rounds. Don't do that. That's a standard. The other countries that's winning, they do it. And the other countries are so involved in technical stuff. Technical ability really wins amateur matches at that level in that short duration of fighting. So if you're more technically sound and you're more technically competitive, you can be the more talented kid who's not that sound or not so sure of himself and that's why he'll fatigue and have body language because the mystique of the Russians, the mystique of the Ukrainians, the The mystique of the Cubans, the reputation, they're fighting the names.
1:25:50They're fighting the country's names. That's what they always say. I mean, you fight the Cuban. Yeah, you fight the Cuban. You fight the Russian, this and that and the other. So you're already self-defeated before you even get there. But I think what the kids have got to understand is in this game, all of them need to understand that when your mother and father got together in an act of intimacy, that lets you know you was chosen before the foundations of time for such a time as this. So never get discouraged. and we could build a great amateur team, but you have to have the financial support.
1:26:19You have to have the coach's support. You have to look at it from a team perspective, but you also have to respect every coach who has brought a national champion to that level. Every coach that has developed a kid that is qualified for that team, that coach should be there, you see, because he knows his kid more than anything else. I don't know why the USA Boxing does not put a financial package together for every weight class, your coach is coming to work the corner with me. I'm the head coach, but I need your coach here, too, because he's going to see things that he's seen for years that I only see in one camp.
1:26:52Well, that's what my head coach did really good, man, Bashir Abdullah. He put his ego to the side, and he stayed in contact with you for the year or whatever that he had me before we went to the Olympics, and he said, man, I need to know this kid. You said, hey, he's going to overtrain. You got to pull him back. Hey, man, he's going to want to do more. Don't let him. Hey man, watch his way because his way to drop that type of stuff right there. You can't you can't put a price Exactly that type of information about these athletes I said he's gonna be number one in every single run the team do yeah We're gonna be number one.
1:27:22He ain't gonna settle for number two, but Bashir was a blessing Because he did communicate with me and the most important thing I told him was don't coach you Just let you be who you're gonna be but if you want to type of course you can say something But just, I said, because he's going to improvise. He's going to do whatever it is, whatever it takes to win. That's what he's going to do. I didn't say nothing to you about retirement. You was the last person I called, man. Because I just, it was tough. There's days, even today, where I feel bad. I feel bad because we had a system, we had a program.
1:27:59And just that one decision shook everything up.
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For the first time ever, the man behind Andre Ward’s undefeated career and 2004 Olympic Gold sits down on THE ART OF WARD... and they go all the way back.
Virgil Hunter, 2011 Boxing Writers Association Trainer of the Year, pulls up for Part 1 of a two-part conversation 32 years in the making.
This isn’t just a boxing conversation. This is the full story.
The day a 10-year-old Andre walked into US Karate & Boxing in Hayward and locked eyes with a quietly depressed Virgil, still grieving the loss of his first prospect. Frank Ward’s simple request: “teach my son how to hit and not get hit.” The years Andre and his brother Jonathan lived with Virgil and his wife. The crack era in Oakland that pulled Andre into the streets — selling rocks two blocks from the apartment where his own mother was using. The psychology Virgil used to pull him back: the guilt-trip phone call, the jailhouse intervention, the Hennessy bottle quietly pulled from Andre’s bag in Las Vegas. The James Prince connection. Marrying Tiffney young against everyone’s advice. Losing his father in 2002. And the 2004 Olympic Gold in Athens and how Virgil had to move mountains to be there ringside.
00:00 - Intro & Welcome Hall of Fame trainer, Virgil Hunter, to The Art of Ward
02:30 - The First Meeting & Frank Ward’s Request
06:02 - Virgil’s Depression & Why That Day Was Spiritual
06:47 - Building a Foundation Before the Temptations
08:30 - Andre & His Brother Move In With Virgil & His Wife
10:30 - Frank Ward, Andre’s Mom & The Mother Wound
14:00 - Battle Testing With Donaire & The First Fights
16:00 - The Silver Gloves Nationals & Curtis Stevens
20:00 - Sparring Pros at 13 & The Strength Behind It
21:11 - The Difference Between Andre & His Brother
21:57 - Drive, Tenacity & Being a Student of The Game
24:30 - The Junior Olympics & When The Streets Started Calling
27:13 - The Oakland Mystique & Virgil’s Focus Shifts
29:39 - The Psychology: Guilt Trips, Interventions & The Hennessy Bottle
32:06 - Can You Make A Great Without Sacrifice?
33:16 - Structure Is The Foundation of Greatness
35:33 - His Mother’s Relapse & Selling Dope Two Blocks Away
37:00 - The Prayers Working & Virgil’s Street Intelligence
39:41 - Structure Kept Him From Crossing The Line
42:47 - Virgil’s Diary Entry & The Full Prophecy
44:50 - Washington, Tiffney & Marrying Young Against Everyone’s Advice
49:04 - James Prince Enters The Picture
52:17 - “He’ll Win Us A Gold Medal”: The Guarantee To J Prince
53:22 - Exposed To The Life: Floyd, Roy & Dre Losing His Father
58:00 - Surrendering & Locking In For The Olympics
01:00:10 - “You Don’t Think I Can Get You To Athens?“: The Faith Moment
01:02:35 - Front Row Tickets & God Paying For The Whole Trip
01:08:13 - The Last American Male Olympic Gold & USA Boxing’s Problem
01:11:24 - It Takes A Team & No Great Man Stands Alone
01:13:34 - Body Language, Technical Ability & What Wins At The Highest Level
01:16:46 - The Decision That Shook Everything Up
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