Ep.102 When You Bless Your Enemies, Your Destiny Shifts

0:06David Ghiyam:Welcome everyone to the David Ghiyam podcast, where I talk about the energy of the week and month and how we can use Kabbalistic wisdom from the sages in order to create miracles in our lives. First, I want to start by saying thank you for helping bring this podcast out to the world. Every time you post about it, share it in your stories or share it with a friend. it is the organic way that we are bringing this wisdom of the sages to the world to make it a better place and giving people tools practical tools an understanding of the system of the soul so that they can see miracles in their life the last two years i think we've had close to eight million downloads and views for this podcast thanks to you the other thing is i want to speak very quickly about the power of David AI and how you guys have been using it literally to bring miracles to people's lives.

0:59David Ghiyam:David AI now is the number one spiritual AI coaching platform in the world. In June alone, it did 100 ,000 coaching sessions and each session averaged about 10 to 12 minutes. That means that from the moment you got onto David AI, whether that's by voice or text, It's 50 % people talk to it, 50 % of people type to it. You asked a challenge in your life, a relationship issue you're going to. Maybe you and your partner or spouse sat down with David AI and you both shared something you're going through, a conflict. And then David AI would give you the spiritual explanation of why your souls are going through it and then give you practical and spiritual advice on how to resolve it.

1:43David Ghiyam:And it does that all in under 15 minutes. So if you haven't used David AI before, please try to use it. It's going to bring you so much wisdom, so much support. It's going to be a guide for you on your spiritual work. And that is how it has been trained. And it is completely private. No one can see your conversations or see your data. And some of the most helpful prompts that you can use is you can ask it, for example, here's a little bit about my father, a little bit about my mother, a little bit about how I grew up. why is spiritually my father in my life? Why was I born to my father? If you had a certain dream, you can explain the contents of that dream and it can do a dream interpretation for you.

2:27David Ghiyam:The more you share with it, the more it spiritually understands why your soul chose this person, this path, these parents, these siblings, any circumstance that's in your life. And always I'm listening to and reading all your feedback. So whether you message me or tag me on social media or you write it here in the podcast platforms. I am reading all the comments. So what is the energy of this week? We are entering a period of time where it's one of the most sensitive periods of time for the soul because in the first and second day of Libra, which is coming up in a few months, we receive a new soul, a new destiny for the coming year.

3:11David Ghiyam:And what determines what you receive? We've learned this in Kabbalah. It is the nature of your vessel. It doesn't matter if you're a good person or a bad person. It doesn't even matter what you've done or haven't done in the past. It doesn't matter even the mistakes that you've made. All that really matters is, what is your vibration at this very moment based on whoever you were in the past? What have you transformed about yourself? The greatest vessel that receives miracles is the vessel that has affinity of form with the creator. The creator is a force of sharing. To the extent that we become a sharing force, we create a vessel for miracles.

3:48David Ghiyam:The creator is a force of certainty. Certainty beyond logic. Certainty that everything is good. If you have doubts or worries, it means your vessel is broken because you do not have a vessel similar to the creator's, which is a vessel of certainty. If someone is being unkind to you or someone is withholding love from you or someone is speaking badly about you and it makes you upset, makes you angry, makes you vindictive then you try to find ways to hurt them who are not like the creator. And so you do not have a vessel to hold miracles, but it's not fair. Look what they're doing. I need to stop them.

4:22David Ghiyam:I need to hurt them back. Maybe, maybe there is a component of self-defense in certain cases, but the question is, is everything you're doing similar to what the creator would do? If I asked you right now, if God came down right now in this exact situation, what would God do? And if it is different than what you would do, then you do not have a vessel for miracles. So from now until the first day of Libra, many situations will begin to come back. You're gonna hear me talk a lot about this in the upcoming podcast, social media, and my classes, especially on the new journey that we're gonna start.

4:56David Ghiyam:We're gonna start a journey in August to prepare each of our souls on how to receive a new destiny. So people are coming back right now. Old thoughts are coming back, old wounds and traumas. how we handle that is actually quite easy because when it comes up now that you know why it's coming up you can transform this darkness into life one of the first things that comes to my mind to share with you is the creator has a male and female component it says that there's a male aspect of the creator and a female. The female aspect is called the Shekhinah. That's the code name that the Zohar and the sages call it.

5:40David Ghiyam:The Zohar also says that it relates to the energy of the king and the queen. A lot of metaphors around the king and queen energy. And the Zohar says that if we want to see miracles in our own lives, we have to ask ourselves, are we behaving as the king would do or the queen would do. Think about right now, a part of your life. Think about your relationships. Think about your love life. You might be in a relationship now. You might be married. You might be divorced, single, dating, or maybe you're not doing anything. Are you the king and the queen? The king's energy is never reactive, is never needy, is never depending on someone else for their happiness or their power or their wealth.

6:31David Ghiyam:The king is the source. The queen is the source. People don't have direct access to the king and the queen. What does that mean? It means that you value your time. You value your energy and you value your presence. At the same time, you don't think you're better than other people. You don't think you're greater than other people because the king and the queen, a successful one anyways, one where its kingdom wants to serve the king and queen? The king and queen is with the people, taking care of the people, making sure that everyone has what they need relative to their vessel. The king and queen that stays in their castle enjoying their royalty, but not taking care of their people is also not a true king and queen.

7:17So when it comes to your love life, where are you not acting

7:21David Ghiyam:like the king? Where do you not have certainty in the light of the creator? Where are you worried right now? Do you get hurt easily? Do you get offended easily? If you are a king, most likely there are people who want to kill you, people who speak badly about you. That is normal. Do you do what King David did? When there was a person who followed King David around, speaking badly about him, putting down the king. King David's general said to King David, just give me the word and I will kill this person for speaking against the king. And King David said, this soul has come lifetime after lifetime to be with me.

8:04David Ghiyam:His job is to cleanse me of my negativity. That is why he's speaking negatively about me. We cannot kill him. King David saw what a real king would do. You do not destroy your enemies. You realize they have a spark of the light of the creator within them and there's a lesson for everyone. Once you learn the lesson, the Zohar says, your enemies, which is in Hebrew, Oyev, becomes your lover, which is Oyev. Very similar words. You have people right now in your life who are against you, who you're upset with, or maybe they're upset with you. Maybe it's an ex, maybe it's a business partner that you had a falling out with.

8:43David Ghiyam:Maybe it's a challenge that you're having with a sibling or a parent. They are not your enemy. As long as you think they are your enemy, you cannot be a king or a queen. And so you are holding yourself back from your own soulmate, from your own prosperity, from your own healing. You might have an issue right now with your throat, with your joints, with your digestive system, with your back. you have pain in your spine you have pain somewhere in your body that pain cannot leave until you stop blaming your enemies even the desire to destroy your enemy is lowering your vibration from becoming like the creator see even in the bible it says about Joseph the story goes that Joseph and his brothers, they were all very high souls, very, very high souls, some of the greatest souls ever to live.

9:42But his brothers saw a prophecy that in the future, the lineage of Joseph

9:48David Ghiyam:would be a very destructive one. There's some part of his lineage, by getting into the details, that would be very negative for humanity. And as prophets, because they were prophets, they saw that. They thought that the creator is giving them a vision of this prophecy, that they need to take matters into their own hands and kill their brother, Joseph. But you see, they didn't see the whole picture. They saw only a part. And based on the part they saw, they made a mistake. They tried to kill Joseph. In the end, we know that Joseph survived and eventually he became king of Egypt and his brothers became enslaved to him.

10:25David Ghiyam:But Joseph didn't take retribution on his brothers. It's a really beautiful story. We can get into another time. Joseph saw that the whole thing was a blessing from the creator. That even his brothers seeing a limited prophecy, which caused Joseph to almost die, become a slave in Egypt, go to jail and eventually become the king. Saw that the whole thing was part of a process of the creator. He didn't take vengeance upon his brothers. He didn't wish for his brothers to die in the way his brothers once had. And that is truly the mercy of the light of the creator. Many of us right now, if we're going through some kind of judgment, a legal judgment, a health judgment, love judgment, maybe you're trying to get pregnant and you can't have a child, you're having a miscarriage or you're going through IVF treatment.

11:14David Ghiyam:Failed attempt after failed attempt. This is often indication of a judgment in the upper world. It means there's a blockage, like an artery is blocked. In these moments, especially, you want mercy, right? Often we want everyone else to go through judgment. We want ourselves to go through mercy. We want the creator to overlook our negativity and have mercy on us. But other people, justice, justice. Everyone should have justice, but me, no. I often ask, would you want your daughter or son to go through the same thing that you're hoping for your enemy? If your daughter or son made the same mistake that, let's say you have a business partner who stole from you and now you hope he or she goes to jail.

11:54Okay, that's justice.

11:57David Ghiyam:Well, if you found out that your son made a mistake and he stole from a company that he worked for, do you also hope that he goes to jail? Or are you going to cry to the judge or cry to the company that is pressing charges to have mercy on him? Of course, you're going to ask for mercy because he's your son. You see, we always want mercy for ourselves and we want judgment for other people.

12:24David Ghiyam:And it says that the creator is our shadow. The creator will be a mirror to whatever we are. Do you want to live in a world of justice? Fine. That means that you must abide by cause and effect in a very strict way, no second chances. If you make a mistake, you have to receive the retribution of that mistake. If you by accident hurt someone, or on purpose hurt someone, or you say some negative speech, which we all inevitably do, are you okay with that negativity coming right back at you immediately or to you and your family to you and your business of course not of course not you ever watch social media and you see someone very powerful or wealthy fall oftentimes you see people saying oh billionaires shouldn't exist or very successful people say something about other people the right versus the left and all these opinions and everyone's yelling at everyone.

13:20David Ghiyam:Everyone wants justice for their side. It's a very dangerous energy to be part of because the moment you tell the creator that this other person doesn't deserve what they have, doesn't deserve their wealth, doesn't deserve their family, doesn't deserve their love, doesn't deserve, what do they do to get that? The moment you point at that person and you say they don't deserve, the creator has to look into your files and say, well, we must hold you to the same standard. I remember, and I've shared this story before, my nine-year-old, very sensitive soul. Before bed, I was sitting with him in bed and he said, it's not fair.

13:56David Ghiyam:Something happened and one of his brothers got something that he didn't get. He said, it's not fair. He got this thing and I didn't get this thing. And he went on and on about it's not fair. It's not fair. It's not fair. So I said to him, I said, listen, would you like to learn a spiritual lesson about fair? And he said, yes. I said, you have two options. If you want everything to be fair, this is what it looks like. I went and I measured his room. And I said, look, your room is whatever it was, nine feet by 10 feet. I said, let's go measure your brother's room. Your brother's room, seven by seven feet.

14:30I said, do you know that your room is bigger than your brother's?

14:33David Ghiyam:And he said, okay. I said, if it's going to be fair, then for the next six months, you should go stay in your brother's room and your brother will come in your room. You have to go in the smaller room. And in fact, you have another brother and sister that have even smaller room, half the size of yours. Maybe you should go take the air room. It should be fair. We're going to rotate rooms. And it looks at me and says, no, no, no. I don't think I want it to be that fair. I said, look, when we pray to the creator for things to be fair, almost always, in fact, as they just say, every time, every time you say to the creator, that's not fair, your life immediately gets worse.

15:07David Ghiyam:Why? Because the creator has given you so much, has given us so much that we have not deserved or worked for spiritually or physically. The creator says, well, if you want to live in a fair world, I then have to take away something that I've given you that you have not earned. It's very dangerous. We forget that there are no other people in this world. It's en od mi vado. It's only us in the light of the creator. So when we look at all these illusionary people and we say, well, the creator should do this to this one and this one's not fair. And why is it this way? And this person should change.

15:38David Ghiyam:All you're doing is talking to yourself. All you're doing is talking to your own judge in a courtroom and telling that judge how to treat you. You're actually not making any change as it relates to other people because other people don't exist. It's all an illusion. When you're demanding justice for other people, you're just calling judgment and justice upon yourself, which by the way, may not be a bad thing. It may not be a bad thing for you to live a life of justice. You're going to get punished very quickly for the things that you do wrong, but at least you'll learn quickly, right? See, we don't want to learn through pain and suffering.

16:13David Ghiyam:No doubt, pain and suffering is a great teacher, but is that the life you want to live? Do you want to learn your lessons by losing things, by painful moments? Of course not. In the month of cancer, the entire month of cancer and the first half of Leo is considered to be one of the most intense times of the year. It says that the light is so strong, there isn't a protective layer that is called the Shekhinah. This female aspect of the creator is not present during this time. This nurturing, protective aspect of the creator is not available during the entire month of cancer and the first half of Leo.

16:48Most notably, from the 17th of cancer

16:51David Ghiyam:to the 9th of Leo becomes the most intense time that it says it can be a time of great miracles or a time of great destruction. The light is so intense. What are you gonna do to not let this light burn you? You must live by mercy. That is the vessel for intense times. Whenever you feel like things are intense, intense, intense, intense, mercy. Mercy on yourself. Be soft on yourself. Be gentle on yourself. And mercy on other people. So when things are intense, we often get harder on ourselves. We work harder. We become more scrutinizing of ourselves and other people, of our time, of our energy.

17:25David Ghiyam:That's the trick, not to do that. Times are tough. Times are intense. Go for a walk. Go for a walk. Enjoy yourself. Be kind to yourself. Right now, there is most likely a person in your life who's feeling judgment from you. You're trying to teach them a lesson.

17:48David Ghiyam:You're trying to get, and all in the name of helping them. Like, I'm really helping this person. I'm gonna set my boundary with them. Okay, maybe. Maybe a boundary is the most merciful thing. I don't know. but you have to ask yourself the question, is any part of this coming from you wanting to hurt them? Or is it 100 % truly because you want to help them? That is one of the laws of confrontation, by the way. You're not allowed to teach a lesson, set a boundary or confront someone as long as you're still taking it personally. And if you do, the energy that you put towards it is only going to come back and backfire in your face and cause pain.

18:34David Ghiyam:So what is the lesson that we're learning here? There is no one besides us in the light of the creator. Being hard on other people or demanding justice or even subconsciously hoping that someone falls or loses something because you don't think it's fair that they have it or you think that's what's best. Now you become the judge of this world and you cannot do that. If you become a judge, then you will be judged. Personally, I'd rather not have the creator to look through my files because no doubt I am not perfect. And if you think you're perfect, then fine. Go be a judge to everyone else. But even Moses himself did not think that.

19:10David Ghiyam:Abraham did not think that. Jesus and Muhammad did not believe that. Everyone knew that they did not want to be under the microscope of the laws of cause and effect. We want time. We want time to change. We want time to learn our lessons. So leave the pain and suffering aside. That's what we should be telling the creator. And so we should be blessing other people. We should be seeing other people with a good eye. We should stop trying to teach lessons to people or preach. Preach online, preach on social media. Tell everybody who they should be. Let it go. Focus on yourself. Keep your side of the street clean.

19:47David Ghiyam:Trust me, this will bring you more joy and happiness than anything else. And that's the greatest lesson you can teach your own kids. You want your kids to act the way you are? Hard on everyone? Hard on themselves? Be gentle with yourself this time. Go for a walk. Be okay to receive. Buy yourself something nice. Believe it or not, it's actually quite spiritual during this time. To take care of yourself. Be kind to yourself. In a period of time where we cannot afford more judgment. Not for ourselves personally. Not for our country. And not for the world at large. Let's do a meditation together. I want you to close your eyes take a deep breath in just hold it for a moment feel the oxygen expand inside your lungs and your body and release

20:45I want you to feel what it feels like to be a true being of mercy of compassion of love. I want you to visualize the light of the creator shining through you. Through your crown all the way through your body. Removing all the negativity all the demons all the pain all the trauma all that your soul brought from past lives, it's not part of you anymore. You are a force that is whole and complete. Because often we know that hurt people hurt people. When we have lack, we cause lack in other people. When we're upset with ourselves, we get upset with other people. When we feel something's not fair, we want other people to feel that lack of fairness too it's the pattern that we must stop at this moment I want you to know that you can heal yourself of all your trauma and all your pain in one moment simply by asking the light of the creator to become one with your soul you are allowed to borrow your future perfected self yes each one of us is on a journey of perfection a journey of healing but if time does not exist the future is now can you not connect to your perfected self now of course you can draw that light now into your soul take a commitment upon yourself to treat other people with kindness and a good eye.

22:51Stay silent. Stay compassionate. You desire this for yourself. You desire this for your children. You desire to have love in your life, to have a true partner, not through pain or loss. you desire it through inspiration do you not? so be kind to yourself be kind to your body be kind to your soul don't run away from yourself don't disconnect from yourself don't become too busy because you're afraid to be with yourself I want you to rub your fingers together against the palm of your hand like this I want you to feel yourself feel your energy this is so powerful such a powerful energy you have such a powerful energy there's a force that's telling you otherwise it's not true you are what you believe you are why do you believe in the lies something is wrong with you why do you believe that something is wrong with you who told you something is wrong with you there's nothing wrong because we think something is wrong with us we're always going out there in the world trying to make it right it's a game that we're playing it doesn't need to be played a light is already here that is what it means to be in the image of god it is a total illusion that you are missing something it's a total illusion that you need to go out into the world and fix everyone save everyone.

24:36Don't worry. Let the creator do the fixing. The only fixing we must do is to know that there was never any fixing that needed to be done. This is the energy of the Sabbath. The day of rest. It's a code. It's a code of perfection. Which means that you can connect to this energy of perfection whenever you desire.

25:06who comes to your mind that you still have pain in your heart for? You have ire. You have anger towards who is the face that comes to you. See them before you.

25:31What do they look like? What are they wearing? Imagine you standing there before them. Who are they? Who is this person that you are so upset with? What did they do to you? What did they take from you? What are you still looking for from them?