Ep.114 Hard Work Will NEVER Make You Wealthy

28:39David Ghiyam:I saw over and over again that one of the main reasons why these celebrities or very wealthy people needed my support or Kabbalah's support was because they were dealing with a lot of issues with their children. It was less about, hey, help me make more money or help me find love, even though that was part of it. There was a lot of issues with their children. And it seems like there's this pattern, at least a pattern I noticed, that the wealthier you are, the more your children suffer or you attract souls of children that are troubled. And we've seen this.

29:21David Ghiyam:and I think that also played a large part in my belief of not wanting to draw abundance or at least too much of it because I don't want to have children who will face those problems obviously I learned that that was a limited belief and I had to do some work to transform it and this is the kind of work that we're going to do together over the next week and the moment I was able to kind of unlock that limited belief that the creator, the positive belief is that the creator wants me to have both endless abundance and amazing children with amazing souls who will have their own difficulties and challenges.

29:55David Ghiyam:But for me not to think that my drawing of wealth is what is creating difficult or unhealthy children. Sometimes I think we see wealthy wealthy people aren't really, are spoiling their children or are not, you know, present with their children. And these are all just limited beliefs. I actually know a lot of people who are very wealthy, who have incredible children, raised very well, and these children aren't cursed. But it's work I had to do on myself. It's kind of sad because recently it was in the news that one of the children of one of the couples that I was connected to passed away. And it's interesting because, I mean, obviously, in hindsight, now that it's happened, it was meant to happen.

30:55David Ghiyam:And it was obviously the creator has a larger plan. And it's a whole different course that we can go into. But I do believe, I do believe that we as parents, if we do our work, we can minimize the pain and suffering that is in our lives and especially our family and our children's lives. And if my father is ever not feeling well, I know that it's upon me to do extra spiritual work that I may not be doing because light travels through your parents to you every time you do work. So if you ever wanna know how to help your parents, it's what are you not doing in your life right now? What are you doing behind closed doors that is disconnecting you from your soul and change that immediately?

31:43David Ghiyam:Or at least take it to another level. And same with my kids. If my kids are having trouble at school or getting bullied or something's happening, I'm not calling the principal to try to solve the problem. I'm calling my own soul to say, well, what is it inside me as a parent that I can do better or more of without feeling guilt and shame to bring additional protection and awareness to my children. And knowing that we are responsible is powerful. Do not think that you are to blame. Your children are not getting bullied because there's something wrong with you. Your parents aren't sick because there's something wrong with you.

32:20You are not to blame, but you are responsible.

32:24David Ghiyam:And that's really important. Because if you blame yourself, you're also hurting the people around you. We're not here to blame. We don't blame. We don't shame. There's no connection to miracles in the light of the creator when you do that. Okay? So going back to the first concept, it's where are you limited? Where are we limited in what we believe we deserve to receive? Where are we limited in thinking that if we do receive, there's going to be other problems that we subconsciously don't want to receive? that's something that we're going to workshop in a moment, but I want you to think about that.

32:59David Ghiyam:Let's go to the slide again.

33:03David Ghiyam:So let's say you are a person who does not have an issue with the size of your vessel. You have unlimited belief systems. Some of the wealthiest people in the world, if you sit with them, what you'll notice is unlimited in the way they think. You know, I share with you, I don't ever like to talk about this stuff. You're never going to see like a post of me in a private jet on my Instagram. Like, that's not my thing. Like, I'm not hawking abundance courses to you and saying you can also be on a jet. Like, forget that nonsense. And the last, yesterday, I had a friend and he was flying to a business convention.

33:40David Ghiyam:And he said, do you want to come with me? I have a plane. And if you want, I'll make it easy for you to come with me. And I said, look, I don't really need to be at this business convention. But I think being with you for two to three hours, in addition to the two other people who are going to be on that flight, is very expansive to me. So I will come just to be on the flight with you. And then the flight was actually going to come back to LA, I think, eight hours later. So we're just going to fly there for three hours and then fly back for three hours. I went on that plane with them because I wanted to be in their energetic presence on the flight.

34:18David Ghiyam:In fact, when I got there, it was in Seattle. When I got to Seattle, I was just doing phone calls on the street, waiting for everyone else to finish. Then I got back on the plane and I went back. But being on that plane for three hours with, it was four of us total. I learned, I expanded myself because I was around people who have unlimited belief systems about problem solving, unlimited belief systems about scaling, building unlimited belief systems about, I mean, every aspect of the business. Now, some of us had more unlimited belief systems than others. So I was sharing where I have limited belief systems and where I have, like, for example, one of my friends is like, David, with your business, Mary Ruth Organics, you really should have gotten into the snacking game.

35:06David Ghiyam:You really missed the boat on snacking. And he's right. I missed the boat on snacking. And he's like, why did you miss that? And there's other companies that came out with snacks. Like we would have been a great brand for snacks. Instead, we focused on beauty and hair and sleep and other things. And I said, you know, I have a limited belief systems that snacks are low margin products and therefore hard to sell and high R &D. And I just didn't want to go down that path. He's like, well, these two other brands are doing so well. And so they're proving you wrong. And I'm like, you know what? You're right.

35:40David Ghiyam:You're a hundred percent right. And it's funny because Mary Ruth has always told me I want to do snacks and I'm the one always telling her, no, I don't think we should do snacks. So I realized that the creator was telling me, hey, be open. Be open because you may be limited in what is going on. There's an opportunity maybe the creator wants to give me and I need to just at least be open, at least be open. So one practical thing from that is spend time with people who are expansive. Like you've heard this many times before, but I want you to hear it from me. Spend less time with people who are shrinking you, making you anxious, speaking evil speech.

36:27David Ghiyam:Like that's a big thing. Once people start speaking evil speech, I realize it's radioactive toxicity. Just walk away. and look at your calendar this week. Who are you spending time with? Like, I have old friends who hit me up and say, let's get together. And I politely decline. I say, look, we had a great time together. I care about you. But I need to know why it would be expansive for both of us to meet right now. It's just not. And I have to set boundaries in my own life because it's endless. I mean, otherwise you'll just be meeting people all day long and nothing gets done. and it's not, is it good for you and them?

37:06David Ghiyam:Is it a win-win? Sometimes it's just a one-sided win for them and not for you. And it is important for you to invest in yourself because if you're limited, then everyone around you is limited. If you're giving all your energy to people who aren't able to reciprocate that energy, then when you get home and you are with your wife or husband or kids, like you don't have anything or your employees won't have anything or your clients won't have anything. Now, what about being charitable? What about being there for people unconditionally? 100%. I've dedicated, at least, I have a rule, which is the same rule around tithing of money.

37:41David Ghiyam:10 to 20 % of my time I will give without calculation. In the same way that the Bible says, a person who can be charitable with 10 to 20 % of their money is going to see miracles. Now, the Bible is clear. If you give over 20%, that is actually bad. that is actually counterproductive energetically. So why not just give all my money away, right? The creator laid out the spiritual laws. If you give all your money away, this is actually not good for your soul and for the souls of other people because you need to retain that 80%, 80 to 90 % in order to invest and build yourself, by the way, invest and build yourself.

38:25David Ghiyam:Like the creator wants you to go on a one week vacation to invest in yourself because if you are a happier and a better mood, in a place that you love, and you can be more creative and more expansive and more spiritual, that's the whole goal. Remember, the whole goal of life is to receive, not to give. The word Kabbalah means to receive. In fact, the most ancient, powerful spiritual wisdom of the world is called to receive. Yes, because the creator created us to receive. So if you're not receiving, you're doing the greatest sin of all. right rabbis priests everybody wants to tell you you're sinning i'll tell you what the greatest sin is the greatest sin is not murder or adultery or theft it's not being a vessel that can receive people are taking all day long taking is different than receiving receiving is when the host wants to give to you because it makes the host happy it's like the story i always say if it's your birthday and you come home and there's a surprise party waiting for you.

39:32David Ghiyam:And everyone's like, happy birthday, happy birthday. And you're like, oh my God, thank you so much. You didn't know there was going to be a party, but you're also so hungry. So you go to your kitchen, you go to your fridge and you see there's a cake that all your friends got for you that's in the fridge, but you're hungry. So you go, you stick your hand into the cake and you start eating the cake, get cake all over your face. And all your friends walk in the kitchen and like, what are you doing? They're like, well, I'm hungry. It's my house. It's my birthday. It's my cake. I'm just eating cake.

39:58And they're like, well, we just came in to bring the cake out to you and sing happy

40:04David Ghiyam:birthday for you. And now you ruined it. So this analogy is how most people are in life. They take, and then the creator comes out and says, what are you doing? You're like, I was hungry. I was needy. I have sexual desires. I have these desires. I wanted to fulfill them. And he's like, well, I was just about to bring it out to you. Like, why are you taking it? I was about to bring it to you, but now you ruined it. You got cake all over. I can't bring out this cake that has like a hole in it. You have cake on your face, right? You see how upset your friends are? It's not about like, well, I took it because it's mine.

40:44David Ghiyam:You have to wait for, you have to build the vessel so that the creator can give it to you. It's a very deep concept. I'm sharing a lot of concepts right now and some of them are very, very deep. I know you can feel the energy of them and obviously we'll expand upon them in the following week. That's what life is about, about receiving. And the first part of the formula of receiving is overcoming the limited mindset. Now, what is a reactive? Okay, let's pause right there. We shared a lot. Gosh, it's already 9.30, guys. All right, we're gonna give you a little bit more time. All right, Madeline, you have a question for me?

41:23Yeah, most people are just asking how can they find where they're limiting themselves? They feel like they're limited. They're like, how do I find the exact belief?

41:34David Ghiyam:Okay, I'm going to give you a workshop right after this to do. Obviously, I'm going to give you a lot more workshops in the next seven days. We need like hours together, truly. But yes, this will be one of the most powerful things that we're able to overcome. um all right let's go let me just share the next concept and then we'll do the workshop so you guys have a practical takeaway today we have to transform the reactive vessel what is a reactive vessel every time every thought word or action which comes from lack or fear is a reactive vessel so let's go back to my flight sitting there with three other people who have clearly unlimited belief systems about receiving.

42:19David Ghiyam:That's not really their issue for the most part. Obviously relative to them, they can think more unlimited, but that's not as much of their issue. A big issue for the bigger your desire is and the more unlimited your vision, where you might fall into the trap is being reactive. So this is something very interesting. Bigger desire means bigger reactive nature, bigger selfishness, bigger ego. Is that so bad? No, that's the game. One way to reduce your ego, by the way, is to reduce your desire, but that's cheating. If you reduce your desire, you reduce your vessel, now you can't receive and the creator's like, well, that's not the point.

43:08I always tell my students, I want you to have a really big ego.

43:15David Ghiyam:Where's your big ego? Why are you being so spiritual? He said, well, I'm afraid if I get too famous or I get too wealthy, I'll have a big ego. I said, great. Have a big ego. Build your ego and then we'll deal with it. But to suppress your ego, which is your belief about yourself and your belief about what you could do, like, that's not helping anybody. That's just like, that's just like fake humility. And what's more selfish, someone who is fake humble or someone who thinks they're better than everyone? Fake humble is more selfish. At least the person who thinks they're better than everyone is like doing something.

43:52David Ghiyam:You know, they're going to come out with a product. They're going to come help people. They're going to like make moves. They're going to make impact. The fake humble person just stays at home and says, I'm humble. I'm humble. I don't want anything. I don't need anything. And then the whole world's like, okay, thanks. You've done nothing for us with your fake humble, right? The fake humble is the person who's just like going on silent retreats and meditating and studying Kabbalah privately. Okay, you're adding no value to the world and you're probably not even addressing any part of your tikkun because your tikkun, your soul correction, is going to come to the surface when you are with people, when you are in a relationship.

44:30David Ghiyam:I can't tell you how much tikkun comes up for me running a business. Sure, I would love to sell the company and never have to think about it again. I'd have less problems. But also, how would I see what my soul correction is if I don't have employees that reflect it? If I don't have people who sue me? Oh, getting sued is amazing. Getting sued is, I'm not saying you should try to get sued. But when you get sued, what's happening? The creator is sending you a person or a situation so that you can see your own negativity. Do you know how I get lawsuits dismissed? I've had this happen so many times.

45:07The lawyers give me this advice and I say,

45:10David Ghiyam:well, give me 48 hours to look inside myself to see why the lawsuit even came. It's not about the lawsuit. It's not about the demand letter. It's not about all of that. And I can't tell you how many times through prayer and internal work, the legal challenge disappeared. Okay? Yeah, and some people are going through divorces for three years. Some people have been wrapped up in legal battles in court for decades. So what? You should get a better lawyer? You should get a private investigator and try to force their hand? That's all in effect already. There's something inside of you that hasn't changed.

45:51David Ghiyam:And the moment it does, case dismissed or case settled or whatever. I've seen it my gosh so many times so many times and if your divorce is taking a long time there's something that needs to change in you not in your ex-husband or your ex-wife so stop trying to change them oh but they're speaking badly about the kids oh but they constantly want me to suffer oh but this oh but that you think that they're in control God in one moment can make this all go away Do you believe in God? And if you do believe in God, do you believe in your ability to be a vessel for God? Because if you do, case dismissed.

46:34I was going to ask about partners. People are asking, what if I'm in a marriage and then it's my partner limiting me and whatnot, but you just said it.

46:41David Ghiyam:Yeah, what if you're in a marriage or a partnership and your partner's limiting you? I mean, what are we talking about here? You chose this partner. You chose this partner, which means that there's a limitation inside of you that chose the limitation inside of him or her. Now you have a couple options. You can just leave them, but that doesn't change the limitation that's inside of you. You'll attract another partner with the same limitation. And if you try to change his limitation, you know what's really interesting? I've seen a lot of people try to change their partner. And sometimes they send them my content and they say, listen to this.

47:16I had this one guy and I said,

47:19David Ghiyam:how did you find Kabbalah? He's like, well, my ex-girlfriend got me into it. I said, why ex-girlfriend? He's like, well, she kept trying to change me. She kept sending me your content. Finally, I listened to it. And finally, I started to change and grow. And then I realized I don't need to be with her. She was so focused on changing him. He ended up growing and elevating and then realized she's not growing. So he left her. So we should not, I mean, it's great. We can send these reels to our boyfriends or girlfriends, but we should send the reels to ourselves. All right. So an expanded plus a proactive vessel is the key here.

47:56David Ghiyam:So let's do a quick workshop. Step one, let's name it. Which fear is limiting your capacity to receive? And you can throw this in the chat or just write it down. It's good to have it out on something that's not in your head, but out on a surface like writing or typing. examples can be i don't deserve this promotion wealth abundance some people don't believe that they should have passive income some people are making themselves the product so you only make money when you're working and when you're not working you're not making money some kind of limited belief there i'm afraid of the responsibility of more okay if i get more if i receive more i Right?

48:43David Ghiyam:So many problems are going to come, right? Not true. You will have challenges, of course, but this is your soul's destiny. And every challenge, as long as you have the right consciousness and support system, you're going to pass these tests very easily. I'm afraid of losing control, right? I have a good life. I'm in control. Things are good. Why would I want to change all that? It's true. I'm not saying make your life more complicated. but if the creator wants to give you more and you are destined for more and that's going to come no matter what, are you open to letting go? You just got to be open because if you're fighting destiny, destiny will fight you.

49:29David Ghiyam:A lot of people don't want to receive abundance or love because they're afraid they're going to lose it. so better to have never loved at all than to have loved and lost is the tikkun here

49:50David Ghiyam:step two let's rewrite that belief what belief would expand your capacity to receive so if the limiting belief was if I become more successful I will have more pressure and responsibility. The expanded belief would be, the more I receive, the more resources and support I can create to hold it.

50:21Okay?

50:35David Ghiyam:Yeah. Madeline's question was, is it enough if I feel that I don't deserve it just to say I deserve it? Or do I need to get more elaborate? I would get, I mean, that's already better than I don't deserve it. But let's get more elaborate. Why do you think you don't deserve it? okay so you could say i don't deserve it because

51:00David Ghiyam:for example let's say you have a hard time with the fact that you have a wealthy family and maybe you're getting an inheritance or um you're you're in your family's company so you never really felt like you earned it. Maybe you were given this as a favor, whatever it is. And as a result, you always have this shame that you carry. And so you don't feel like you deserve to receive. Listen, if you got an inheritance or if your family is wealthy, the creator has a master plan. It's not for you to say you deserve or don't deserve. The creator wants you to have it because the creator believes that after having this wealth or whatever you're getting, then your spiritual process is going to begin.

51:50David Ghiyam:So don't worry. There'll be challenges waiting for you. For now, embrace what you've been given, appreciate it, say thank you, and then be open to receiving more. A lot of people have like survivor's guilt. If one of your friends got hurt or passed away or maybe lost something, or sometimes we take on other people's process and emotional responsibility and we cause that to limit ourselves. It's kind of like if you are a parent and you have two kids and one of your kids is not doing well in school and the other one says, you know, mom, I'm gonna also fail at school because I don't want my brother to feel bad.

52:35David Ghiyam:And so your other kid starts like acting up and failing and you as a parent, are you happy that your one son is doing poorly and badly intentionally in order to make the other son not feel bad? As noble as that sounds, as a parent, we want each of our children to thrive regardless of the other child. So the creator is the same. the creator also knows that if you thrive the light that will come from you will inspire other people okay every single person how many people we have here i have 4 000 live i mean there's a couple of zooms going on we have 20 we have 20 000 people

53:25i i would love more than anything for each one of you to be financially free and abundant

53:34David Ghiyam:and go out into the world and you don't have to say it's you heard my content you can just say it's kabbalah and my relationship with the creator as a result and then everyone will be like huh and i want to learn kabbalah and guys i don't honestly i don't even care if it's with me or somebody else there's a lot of great teachers out there but what's going to happen is the world is going to have a better relationship with our soul and the creator, which means more miracles, more everything, more everything, more everything. But if we ourselves are not successful, if we are not abundant, then people are going to look at us and say, well, why should I study Kabbalah?

54:21David Ghiyam:Look at you. And I've had many, you know, 80 % of my platform is women. I know that will change at some point. We'll have 50-50 men and women. But I talked to some of these guys whose girlfriends or wives come to my seminars and I said, well, have you been open to Kabbalah? And they're like, look, my wife is so reactive at home and I'm like, this is Kabbalah? If this is Kabbalah, I don't want it. So I go to the wife, I say, listen, what you're learning, you have to more than anything, you have to be a miracle in the home because you're making God look bad towards your husband. I had these two women do a full day coaching session with me.

55:14David Ghiyam:It's not something I publicly offer, but they asked for six hours of personal coaching with me. It was a big financial investment. I said, okay. And they came for six hours. They flew into LA to sit with me. And they wanted to know how their business could hit like this huge revenue number. And I said, look, I can sit here and talk about your business and we'll do that in the second three hours. But the first three hours, I just want to know what is your relationship like with your husbands, with your children and with yourself? Long story short, a big blockage financially for people is they're not aligned in their relationship.

55:56David Ghiyam:because if you're not aligned in your love life, your financial life is not going to have blessings or at least as much as it could. When she got home that day, her husband was so happy with her takeaways. And he's like, I don't understand. I thought you had a six hour business session. Why are you now doing all these things for me? And she said, well, I learned that if I truly want to be successful in my business, I have to first be successful in my marriage. So that's my first homework. and he's like, wow, I wanna learn Kabbalah. It was like literally that simple. It's really that simple. It's like, that's Kabbalah, sign me up.

56:33David Ghiyam:What does that mean? It means that if we wanna inspire people, we have to be an inspirational energy towards them as well, especially the people closest to us because that's usually where we are ignoring the spiritual work, okay? All right, step three. this week, even the next 24 hours, what is one action you can take

57:03David Ghiyam:that goes against your limited belief? What would that be? Write it down. Anything. I'll take anything. Something to say, something to do, somewhere to go. If you don't believe that you deserve to have a good life, go out buy yourself something nice go and buy something yeah something you've been avoiding to do um

57:34David Ghiyam:it could be hiring someone it could be firing someone by the way i've seen revenue always goes up after you fire someone the reason we need to take an action is because we have to take the spiritual and bring it to the physical world. We can sit here and talk about theory all day long. But if I don't encourage all of us to do something physical with it, this wisdom has nowhere to land, has nowhere to manifest. The minute you do something physical, anything at all, the wisdom starts to become clear in your mind and your soul. okay all right let me now wrap this up yeah madeline is now telling me it's i gotta tell you about the course all right put up the last slide guys you know i i don't i'm not i'm not a sales guy so we're starting this friday i know most of you are registered if you're a member you're already part of this, just make sure you opt in.

58:42David Ghiyam:If you're not a member, you can pay as little as a dollar. It's fine. And we'll have seven days together. Every day I've recorded something for five minutes. I just recorded that this week. Really powerful content. So you'll get that via email and in your library online. So there's a library of content courses. The recording of this will be in the library. So the recording is available for those who are part of the seven day journey. You will get a meditation. I did a meditation to unlock sustenance. And this is really exciting. So as you know, I always create a bonus for those who are paying the suggested.

59:24David Ghiyam:The suggested is very inexpensive. It's$99. This is the most powerful bonus I've ever created. Something I haven't told you, which I will soon, is that I have invested a lot of financial resources and time into building an AI infrastructure. Hence, we have David AI, but I also have over 100 agentic employees just on my platform. On the Mary Ruth business, it's a whole different base. These 100 agentic employees of mine probably replace 15 to 20 people I would have to hire, which would be close to$100 ,000 a month in payroll potentially. It is so automated and so well done. And I have a team of, we have a team of four, five people that are acting as if it's a team of 20.

1:00:25David Ghiyam:How I got there is what I want to teach you. So one of my good friends, Her name is Callan. She is one of the best AI architects in the world. She's helped me a lot. I've helped her a lot. I asked her as a favor to come on a two-hour webinar masterclass for you to teach you high level how to build this for your own personal life. Okay. Just to put this in perspective, she usually charges$100 ,000 to$200 ,000 for keynotes or anything like this. She's doing it for free for me and as a value to you. So that bonus will come for those who pay the suggested. I highly suggest to come to that. It's going to be life-changing because I also want to start giving you very practical tools of what you can do in your business to make more money.

1:01:20David Ghiyam:And this is all part of a journey that leads to another journey. And for those who want to go deeper, want to have more personal time and build your businesses and whatnot, I'm going to provide solutions for you that I never have. I do one-on-one coaching. I do not advertise it because I only do about one session a month. And in those sessions with people, it's only 60 minutes. We create life-changing experiences where people see incredible results in their business. I want to bring more of that to the public at large and to teach that content. So that is what this is all about. So join the seven days of creating prosperity journey.

1:01:57David Ghiyam:do if you can afford it pay the$99 for the um for the suggested do book the time to come to the two-hour master class we haven't got the exact date yet but that will be end of October and then just sit back and relax starting this Friday we'll guide you through a journey and everything will be taken care of okay and members join just by going into their library and opting Again, it's free for you. Oh, yeah. The masterclass is automatically included for you as a member. That's a big hack. All right, guys. You've been amazing. Thank you so much for the time. I can't wait. Our live webinar for the journey will be next Thursday.

1:02:39David Ghiyam:All right. Take care, guys.