Ep.56 The Mindset that will change your life Immediately

0:02Welcome, everyone, to podcast episode 56. We're going to podcast episode 56. We're going to So we're going to be talking about the types of thoughts and desires and frequencies that we often experience throughout the week that cause us to disconnect from this reality of miracles. And practically, what do we need to do? What do we need to be thinking? What can we be meditating on? What are some practical ways before we leave our house that we can prepare our consciousness to only attract abundance and be able to rise above the reality of pain? I want to take a moment just to share because people are always asking from all around the world.

1:00I don't do formal marketing, so I do appreciate the fact that you're always sharing this podcast with your friends and family. It's been one of the fastest growing podcasts in the spiritual space, and I appreciate your support in helping me do that. I also want to share that many people are listening to my content on social media and Instagram and this podcast, which are free resources. I have a masterclass, which its cost is you can pay whatever you feel is right. It's a three-hour digital course called Your Infinite Soul. And I have formally outlined the most powerful foundational Kabbalistic teachings that when you learn them, you begin to understand the why of your life.

1:43I was at an event yesterday and someone came up to me and they were asking me questions about their life, about their relationship, about specifically with their boyfriend. And they asked me a very basic question. I said, well, how long have you been studying with me? They said, I've been following you for about a year. I've been taking all your content. And I said, well, the answer to this is literally in the first module of my masterclass. She's like, oh, I didn't know you had a masterclass. So maybe that's my fault. I don't do the best marketing, but she had only been listening to my social media content and my podcasts.

2:15and I don't often go as deep as I would like as I do in my masterclass. So please head on to yourinfinitesoul.com. Pay a dollar, pay any amount you want, but just start listening to it. And you can listen to it on your walk, in the car, you can watch it on video or just listen to audio. I promise you, you're gonna learn the entire framework. That's the best way to study Kabbalah. And if you've already taken it, I have a level two. I have a level three coming out soon and I have recorded sessions of my live seminars, which is called the Limitless series. My most popular one being the Limitless Abundance that you can also take.

2:55I will be coming to Mexico City in August 31st. Then I'm going to Miami, New York, Dubai, Tel Aviv, and London. So if you go to my website, you'll see all my events there. The live events are so special. And I just wrapped up LA and we had the most incredible experience. All right, so let's jump in deeper into the energy of this week. In the Old Testament, actually, there's a verse by Jacob, and he says, It's a verse that says, I have everything. I have everything. And when you think about the power of words, what does it mean when a person says that they have everything? everything represents the endless it represents the light of the creator and we've learned through kabbalah that the way we connect with the light of the creator the way we remove darkness from our lives is by having affinity of form with the creator that means that when i feel whole i immediately vibrate on the same frequency as the creator when i have lack when i have fear when I have insecurity, when I have questions, but these questions worry me, they bring me anxiety, when I'm blaming someone else, I'm worried about my children, I'm worried about a health issue, maybe it's a small issue, and I'm worried that it's going to become a big issue.

4:20Immediately, we shift down in destinies to a frequency that is opposite the light of the creator. And when we don't have the light of the creator with us, time gets longer. so pain lasts longer. A person begins to literally decay or age the moment they are disconnected from the light of the creator. When you're connected to the light, darkness is gone, you literally become immortal. When you have certainty and when you feel whole, you become immortal. No negativity can touch you. No viruses can enter your body in that state. but of course one second of doubt then there's an opening most people 99.9 percent of their lives are living with some kind of frequency of anxiety stress worry fear and lack and as a result they're not actually experiencing the level of miracles that they could i remember um just to tell you like uh one time i was at a i was at a wedding and my cousin he's he's one of like i didn't know but he's one of the leading ENT surgeons in the world.

5:31And he looked at me and he said, I can tell right away, because it also runs in our family, that you, he's like, how do you feel your breathing is? I said, I feel I breathe very great. I think it's wonderful. And he said, I don't think you know what perfect breathing is. He said, come in and see me and I'm going to take x-rays. I'm going to look at you and I'm going to show you that I bet you're only at 30 % of how much you can actually let oxygen into your body. And lo and behold, I went and he did some things and I was like amazed. I said, wait, I've been living my whole life not knowing what it's like to actually breathe at even a 70 % capacity, let alone 100 % capacity.

6:14And most people in the world, they live with maybe majority challenges, stress and fears in their lives. And they have moments and pockets of miracles. They work so hard. We work so hard. We stress over things. We try to make all this money. And then for a moment, maybe in the end, we can enjoy ourselves. Or maybe now that I have money, I'm not going to worry about all the things that I once worried about, which we know is not true. I can tell you it's not true. In fact, the worries amplify. Maybe old worries leave, but new worries come. They get bigger and bigger. because more vessels you draw.

6:51More children you have, more money you have. These are all vessels that draw energy, but they also draw negative forces that try to attack to take that energy. So no, getting more does not solve your problems because Jacob's brother, who was considered to be the antagonist in the story, Esav, he said, I have more. Jacob said, I have everything. Now let's understand these two terms. Having more implies that we don't know where it stops. A person who wants one, say the sages, will eventually, after they receive one, want two. A person who receives two will want four. A person who receives four will want eight.

7:33A person who receives eight will want 16. It never ends. A person never feels satisfied or fulfilled. They always feel like they're lacking something. And because they feel that they're lacking something, they attract other lack into their lives. They attract toxic relationships. They attract thoughts that wear them down. Their body begins to metastasize different negativity that's inside of them. The cells don't heal as quickly. When we feel we don't have everything, we create an opening for the negative side to come in. But when you know at any given moment you have everything right now, that everything is complete, even the fact that maybe you're in the middle of something and it doesn't make sense and you're confused and there's darkness and there's pain you have genuinely you have pain in your body there's some part of your body that actually has pain or you have pain in your relationships there's some kind of confusion you don't know if you stay with this person you don't know if should leave so many situations that person's such a nice person somebody told me this recently How can I leave them?

8:38They're so good. They're so nice, but I'm not happy. This is pain. Even in this scenario, the fact that you don't know what to do, the fact that you're stuck, you must say, I have everything. You must say that all the light exists in this moment. There is no light in the future. There's no future where it's going to get better. You need to know that. We need to know that. There is no future where it's going to get better. That is the illusion. That is the mirage. That somewhere down there, somewhere over there, somewhere when I have someone, somewhere where the money comes in will be better. It will never actually feel any better.

9:26You may have more things. You may have, Rav, you may have more. but you will not feel, actually feel consistently better. The only way we will actually feel better and as a result of feeling better, we will physically attract that reality because lack attracts lack and wholeness attracts wholeness is by reminding yourself at any given situation, especially the most painful ones, that you have everything at this moment because the creator has everything. And the creator created you and the creator created this moment. And the creator, which is whole, doesn't create something that is lacking. So why do I feel that I'm lacking?

10:07If the creator only creates wholeness, why do I feel that I'm missing something? Why couldn't the creator just create me as whole and make me feel as whole? We've learned this in your infinite soul. It is called the bread of shame. It is because we ask the creator to feel the opposite of wholeness so that we could choose wholeness. Because when someone takes away your free will, how upset are you? You remember that scene from Braveheart? Famous movie a while back, the one Academy Award for Best Picture, where Mel Gibson, basically the whole movie, they are fighting for one thing, their freedom.

10:45Freedom is so important. And freedom equals free will. The moment a person loses free will in a relationship, they resent the person that took away the free will. And sometimes that happens because someone's giving you so much, so much love, so much energy, so much money, so much, so much, so much. They are smothering you. It takes away your free will. Sometimes that happens because someone's controlling you all the time, criticizing you all the time, judging you all the time. You feel like you can't do anything. You can't move. You can't spend. You can't be who you want to be. You lose your free will.

11:16You begin to resent the person. Why? Because we asked for only one thing when we came to this world, for free will. And the only way to experience free will is to step away, at least the illusion of stepping away from the creator into a place of darkness. The creator never wanted this reality. It is us. We asked for the reality where we feel something is missing. You right now, think about your life right now. You're driving, you're walking, you're sitting, you're standing. Of course you feel like something is missing. It's natural. All of us, these thoughts that come through is always what I don't have.

11:55It's not thoughts of what I have. The negative side keeps putting in thoughts of what I don't have, especially when we see other people who have. This one's pregnant. I want to get pregnant. This one has success. I want that. This person has validation and fame and love, and I want that. You just have to feel the things you don't have. You must remind yourself. You must have certainty right now. without trying to control the future and plan the future. Don't think about how the creator is going to help you. Don't think about how the creator is going to perform the miracles for you. Don't be busy with that.

12:30Be busy with one thing, the only reason your soul came to this world, that you have everything. Yes, Lee Cole, I have everything right now. Now. Well, what happens after that? I have everything. I said it, but I still don't have everything. don't fall for that. That is not going to be your lifestyle. Your lifestyle is not going to be, show me, show me, show me the miracle, creator. Where is my miracle? Your lifestyle is not going to be doing something, doing something positive, revealing light, doing spiritual work, and then looking over your shoulder saying, where is it? Ah, it didn't work. If that's your consciousness, you're not of the vibration of unconditional, another quality of the creator.

13:16Unconditional certainty. That's it. You've got to make the decision. Your whole life is going to be one thing, just certainty. It's not, okay, I'm going to have certainty just to get something, and if I don't get something, I'm not going to have certainty. No, it is a decision that no matter what, I'd rather die than live a lifestyle that doesn't have certainty. It needs to be a choice. The same way some people, why do they fight for their country? So many wars going on. Everyone's fighting for their country. What are they fighting for? Everyone's fighting for some level of freedom and autonomy.

13:45me. People are giving up their lives for freedom. Why? Because they know if they don't have freedom, if they don't have choice, if they don't have that ability to connect with the light, there's no point in living in that same vein of consciousness. You must make a decision now that there's absolutely no point in living this life if it's not going to be one of unconditional certainty. That means that I'm going to do the work of acting like the creator as we've learned. I'm going to transform my negativity and my tikkun and my fears and my reactive behavior, all the things that we've talked about in your infinite soul.

14:23And I'm sorry, I keep plugging it, by the way, because I want to make sure everyone takes this course. Everyone takes this course. Because it is not enough. It is not enough. I'm learning this because I'm talking to people. I meet people all around the world, people coming up to me saying, oh my God, Kabbalah is changing in my life. I'm like, but the basic questions you're asking me, these all get answered in the course. The transformation of our tikkun and our reactive behavior, this desire to live that life, which is going to bring you everything, everything you've ever wanted, it will bring you, has to be an unconditional decision to live that life.

15:03Because if the negative side knows that you have a give up point, you literally have a choke point, you literally have a point where you're willing to walk away from the spiritual path, the negative side will ensure that it delivers it to you. And it doesn't always happen by the negative side making you not experience miracles. Sometimes you know what the negative side does? The negative side actually gives you something knowing that the moment you get it, you're going to stop being spiritual. How many times has that happened? In relationships especially, I see this happen. person does all this work on themselves they're connecting with the light they're seeing miracles and then they meet someone they fall in love and it's so nice and it literally was everything they been waiting for it's like they were so thirsty like in a desert for so long and this person is literally coming with with fresh water and it's everything you've ever wanted but what happens the intensity of spiritual work often even the existence of spiritual work is no longer there and now it's all about the man or the woman that you found.

16:03It's all about nurturing the relationship, sure, but what about you and your connection to the light? And so what happens is you got this thing, but you transferred it to the energy of I got more. Because when your happiness depends on this relationship or this person or this man you've just found or this woman you just found or this money you just got, or even you just, maybe you're in a new career and you just love your career and it fulfills you. If that is the overriding feeling in your life, if the number one thing in your life is your career or your relationship or your children, even your children, if that's your number one and it's not your connection to the light of the creator every day as if you have nothing and you need to start over, then all those things that you're depending on will leave you.

16:53The safety and security of all those things will leave you if the people themselves don't leave you. You are not allowed to lean on people as your source of energy, not as your primary. Your primary is your unconditional decision to be one with the light of the Creator, which is a universal force beyond religion for all of us. What is your relationship with the Creator? Are you thinking about the Creator more than you're thinking about people? Are you thinking about the creator more than you're thinking about making money? Are you thinking about the creator more than you're thinking about food?

17:28People think about food all day long. Food. What am I going to eat? What am I going to eat? How am I going to eat? How much should I eat? I ate too much. I'm thirsty. I want a dessert. I want something sweet. I want something salty. I want some chips. I want a snack. You're walking into a gas station. You're walking into a convenience store. You're walking into a grocery store. They're walking into a meeting. What we're thinking about is, I don't need to drink something. I need to eat something. It's crazy. It's crazy. We're just thinking all the way about food. It's like either food or it's sex or it's do people like me?

18:00Am I going to get what I want? We're not actually thinking about, wow, I have everything. I have everything. I have the creator always with me. Carry this aura, this vibration. When you walk into a grocery store, don't look for food. Basically walk into the grocery store and say, I have everything. You see, your consciousness needs to be, I have everything. Then your hands will reach for items and bring food in the basket. But that's a secondary thing. Still do everything that you do, but just tell yourself you have everything. And you have the light of the creator. Everywhere you go. It's like an aura is created around you when you feel you have everything.

18:43Never walk into a party feeling you don't have something. Never walk into an event feeling you don't have everything. Never go on a date feeling you're not already married. Already you have it all. And I'll end on this because everyone's thinking the same thing. Maybe not everyone, but this thought will come across at some point. Well, if I have everything, well, what's the point of even leaving the house? I'm afraid if I have everything, I won't have a desire anymore. And I'll just shrivel. Well, why am I going out on a date if I'm already married? We have this fear that if we feel whole, life will cease to exist.

19:25Why? Because we've been trained only to work from a place of lack. Everyone's been trained to be productive and be busy because they're missing something. Maybe there's a childhood wound of validation. And so I'm going to be successful to get everybody to like me. Maybe it was you grew up in a poor home or you saw what happened to your parents when they had money, they didn't have money, and you swore you're never going to be broke again. So now you're motivated, motivated to make money. There's always some kind of lack that's motivating people. Sure. But what we're saying here is let the lack motivate you.

19:58But the moment the lack reaches its peak of lack, you say, no lack, I already have everything. and together let's enter the world and create and give. Why should you go to a grocery store to take? Why should you go out on a date to take something? You should go out on a date saying, I already have, the creator is already my boyfriend. I already have a boyfriend and he's the creator. Now, now that I have a boyfriend, and it's like, you wanna laugh a little bit, you can say, I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend is the creator, but he's open to me having an open relationship with you, but only you. That's the consciousness.

20:35I'm sorry to have to take it there for a moment, but I feel you'll remember it. You have a relationship with the creator. The creator is your boyfriend. The creator is your husband. The creator is your wife. And now you have been given permission to have an open relationship with one person in this world. So go for it. Go on a date. But your number one is this partnership. A partnership between you and the light. Your soul and the light of the creator. when you are full and complete, you actually open up the desire of your soul. You are not going to die. It's not going to all end. You're not going to lose your motivation or your drive or your courage and your strength.

21:17You're not going to lose it. In fact, it's going to come from a deeper place. It's going to come from a greater place. It's going to come from the light of the creator. Let's do a mantra and a meditation together to help ground this energy into our soul.

21:37creator creator creator creator I ask

21:45to always be given the strength and energy to know that this moment is complete

21:58I desire to feel whole and know that all that is destined for me is already revealed at this moment.

22:16Whether it is in my relationships, my family, my children, my body, it's already perfect. it's already complete I don't have disease I don't have sickness

22:39I don't have doubts I don't have fears

22:44I'm not single I've been married since the day I was born

22:54there's nothing that exists on the outside

23:01that is going to actually add anything to me on the inside because there's nothing to add. I step forth into the world for one purpose. To reveal what is meant to be revealed by me for the purpose of creation. I myself don't need anything.