Ep.73 The Secret To Becoming Spiritually Attractive

0:06Welcome, everyone, to the David Ghiyam podcast, episode 73. We are going to talk about how to tap into the realm of miracles because there's a very special energy that begins on the 25th of Sagittarius, which is this coming Sunday night.

0:22David Ghiyam:and each one of us receive a taste of our perfected self, of our perfected soul, which means that there is a time in the future where we will be in a state without fear, without doubt, without the spiritual baggage that's been holding us back in our lives. We'll be able to see clearly. We'll be able to have vision. We will be able to see the future. We'll be able to be fully connected to everyone. We'll have abundance without ever having to worry. We're going to be able to understand truly how to love and to have partnership and to feel connected to humanity. That is the perfected self. Each one of us might be experiencing some parts of our lives that is connected to our perfected self, but all of the universe's energy is always pushing us there.

1:13Either we get there through mercy, through compassion, through growth, which is something that we proactively choose, or the universe is pushing us there through chaos, through pain, and that feels uncomfortable. So if you're going through any kind of pain right now in your life, if you're going through any kind of discomfort right now in your life, it is divinely guided. The universe in its infinite calculation does know that this pain you're going through, even though you don't see it, is absolutely perfect for you to become the perfected vessel, to receive this realm of miracles. Luckily, these eight days, which begin this Sunday night, this realm is open for all souls of humanity to be able to get to their perfected self faster without pain and suffering.

2:02I'm going to talk about the four spiritual laws of magnetism. What makes someone attractive? It's something that a lot of people have been asking me about. And these four spiritual laws, when you emulate them, when you make them part of your life, anywhere you go, people feel that vibration. People feel that there's an energy in the room, that there is a presence in the room. And in my seminar recently in Miami, my love relationship and soulmate seminar, I asked everyone in the room, what is the most attractive quality for you in a man or a woman? Unanimously, where we came to is presence, presence.

2:46And presence has really two meanings. One is when somebody walks into the room before they even say anything, before they even do anything, you feel that they came into the room. What is that? How are you able to feel someone's aura? How are you able to feel that there's something important about this person before they have even said or done anything and you don't even know who they are? That's the energy that each one of us has the ability to tap into instantly simply by shifting our consciousness and elevating it to a higher level. When a person is at this vibration, miracles happen for them.

3:26You have green lights. Whatever question you're having that doesn't have an answer, suddenly the answer can come because you are collapsing time and bringing the answer to you. Whatever pain you're having, whatever uncertainty you're having, suddenly, whether it's an internal certainty that has awakened or on the outside, something happens in your favor to give you certainty, you are tapping into that reality. So let's begin.

3:54David Ghiyam:I want you to think of an area in your life where you feel stuck, you feel there's a blockage, and you would like to elevate yourself to that vibration of miracles. And let's set our intention that whatever you're about to learn, these four stages, energetically open that area up for you. In addition, I want you to keep this secondary intention in mind because by doing so, you're increasing your chances for miracles. I want you to think of the collective souls of humanity. I want you to think of other people who are going through pain and that you want this wisdom and energy not just to benefit you, but I want you to meditate that it benefits them.

4:48David Ghiyam:When you think of someone else who is going through the same problem as you, or you just think about the world collectively, you open yourself up as a channel so that you become a river, not a swamp. A swamp collects, a river transmits, and flows. And when you think about other people who have similar issues to yours, you open the gates for you to receive the answers faster. The first level of spiritual magnetism is that feeling that you have inside of yourself. Do you feel complete or do you feel that you're missing something? We've spoken about it many times before, but we must always check in.

5:33People who feel whole attract miracles. People who feel incomplete attract lack. Lack attracts lack. Wholeness attracts wholeness. It's kind of like the idea of the rich get richer. Why do the rich get richer? We sometimes put a negative spin and connotation on that, but someone who feels rich, who has the energy of being rich, will always attract more riches. So in your life, are you walking your streets? Are you entering your car? Are you sitting in your office or on your couch thinking, and subconsciously we always start this way, that I don't have something. I'm missing a relationship. I'm missing children.

6:20I'm missing a connection with my husband or my wife. I'm missing what all these other people have. I'm missing true financial security. I don't have that. I don't feel abundant. Or maybe you actually have everything in your life, but you feel disconnected. This feeling that you're having is your spiritual responsibility to overcome before the external comes to validate you. Meaning, if I feel something is missing, I must awaken myself to feel whole, even if I have to become delusional. Even if I have to rise above my logical mind, which is what we always talk about, certainty beyond logic, and connect to that feeling of wholeness before something from the outside comes to make me feel whole.

7:15Before the relationship comes, before the money comes, before the friendship comes, before the answer comes, before the clarity comes, you got to get clear before the clarity comes. You have to feel complete before the relationship comes. Why? Because if something were to come, if something were to manage to slip by the laws of cause and effect, meaning lack attracts lack, but all of a sudden you were lacking and a relationship did come to you, by definition, you must lose that relationship because you do not have a vessel to hold it. This relationship probably snuck through in order to give you a lesson, to teach you something, to elevate you, but you won't be able to hold on to it forever.

8:01So we don't want to receive when we're in a state of lack. This is why the rebound relationship doesn't work. The rebound relationship can't last because by definition, it's a relationship that It started to make you feel whole before you felt whole by yourself. Before you leave your house, whatever it takes, whatever meditation you need to use, and I can give you a mantra in a moment, whatever breathing exercises you need to do, whatever music you need to listen to, whatever exercise allows you to feel more connected to yourself. Even taking a cold shower will awaken something inside of you, will awaken a vibration where you feel happier.

8:43Feeling whole is essential when you walk out those doors. Do not walk into a business meeting with anxiety. Do not walk into a date with a feeling that something is wrong. Something is wrong with the way you look. Something is wrong with your life. Any kind of worry or anxiety. Do not speak publicly thinking that you need something from other people or that something is missing. One of the mantras that you can use is, I know that I am whole and complete exactly as I am.

9:13David Ghiyam:The way that the creator has made me in the day that the creator has created is perfect. And from this perfection, you awaken a new desire, not a need, but a desire to receive even greater light. A lot of people think that if they are whole, then what purpose do they have to exist? I must not have a desire anymore. I won't have motivation anymore. I understand that's what your logical mind tells you, but please know that when you connect to wholeness, the creator awakens a secondary desire that comes from your soul to be able to hold this light of miracles. The second spiritual law of magnetism and attraction is, do you believe you deserve to receive everything?

10:12If I told you to write down your list of the perfect relationship and you wrote it all down, and I actually presented you with that man or that woman right now, do you think that you might sabotage him? Do you think that that's actually what you want? In business, we all have hopes and dreams, but if I told you, here is$100 billion I'm going to wire to your bank account. I mean, of course, everyone says that sounds nice, but does that feel natural to you? If you suddenly got$100 billion, would you feel that that's natural? Would you feel that's very unnatural for you? To the extent that you feel something is natural means you believe you also deserve it, which means you have a vessel to receive it.

11:06I'll say that one more time. To the extent that you believe something is natural for you to receive, you now have the capacity and the vessel to receive it. When you feel that something is unnatural, it means there's a part of you that doesn't believe you deserve to receive it. And as a result, when you don't feel you deserve to receive, your vessel shrinks and then the light of that blessing cannot fit. I'll give you an example of two people who work equally hard, are equally smart, are equally talented, and did everything exactly the same. One of them made a million dollars that year, the other made$100 ,000.

11:46And everything they did was exactly the same. Now, you may say, well, the person who made a million, he was lucky or he had some kind of opportunity that the other person didn't. Spiritually, I can tell you why they made a million and the other person made hundred thousand. The actions you do to generate wealth are what we call the male energy, the masculine energy, meaning those are the actions we do to align with the vibration of the creator to draw energy in. The female part of our spiritual work is your deservability, your belief system about what you are allowed to receive. The only reason that person received a hundred thousand, and the other person received a million given that they did the exact same actions, the exact same work, the exact same effort, is the person who received the$100 ,000 believes that that's all they deserve.

12:41The person who received the million dollars believes that they deserve a million. In fact, we could have a third person who worked exactly the same as the first two, but they believe they deserve$100 million. And those same actions, that same amount of time, that same amount of effort would have generated$100 million. Everything comes down to your consciousness and your belief system about what you deserve to receive. And a lot of us have shame about receiving. A lot of us have subconscious belief systems that limit us, that cause us to sabotage receiving. We're not aware of them. I talk a lot about them in, if it's financial limited belief systems, I talk about that in Limitless Abundance.

13:26It's one of my courses. If it's more about relationships, or general life about creating miracles and the limited belief systems we have, I talk about that in Limitless Manifestation. If it's just about the general spiritual laws of life and our soul corrections and how those soul corrections create limited belief systems, I talk about that in Your Infinite Soul. Anyone who wants to be able to learn more, that is the content that I have created for you to be able to understand yourself. Also, and I didn't mean this to be like a plug of my products. I wasn't even thinking about it. And the truth is, my products, as you know, is pay what feels right to you.

14:06So I really just want people to know that they exist and have the opportunity to listen to them. Because I just sometimes realize people don't even know that you can learn this wisdom even deeper beyond my podcast. Those of you who have access to David AI, which all of you can have access to, you can ask David AI, based on your current circumstance, what are my limited belief systems around receiving wealth, receiving relationships, receiving healing? One of the limitations around receiving, for example, is that you may believe that by becoming wealthy, you are hurting your family members, or you are hurting your brother who's not as wealthy, or you are hurting your sister who doesn't have as much as you do.

14:57Or you have a belief system that the wealthier someone gets, the more evil eye and jealousy they attract. And you just want a simple life. You don't want to be bothered. You don't want to be judged. Now, this is very subconscious. Or you may believe that the more money a person makes, the more legal issues they have, the more children issues they have, the more family issues they have, the less work-life balance they have. and so subconsciously you are going to sabotage the receiving of that wealth. And we can come up with so many different limited belief systems that are very subconscious that are sabotaging us being able to receive endlessly.

15:35David Ghiyam:The third spiritual law of magnetism is every time you are looking for validation from the outside, either from a person or from an accolade or an award or an achievement, you become the effect versus the cause. Your vibration drops and you appear to be a black hole in every room that you walk into. As soon as you need someone to like you, you become a black hole. We talk about it often that the sages used to be able to smell the lack on a person. Imagine smelling someone's lack. The way someone has body odor because they haven't taken a shower in four days. We have spiritual BO every time we need someone to like us.

16:26Imagine walking into a room and you have the worst BO. Now you think, by the way, nobody smells their own BO. We know this. Nobody knows that they have BO. You can't smell it. You're immune to your own body odor. You're immune to the fact that you haven't put on deodorant in four days. You are immune to the fact that you haven't showered and you've been sweating and it's been hot outside and a little humid maybe, and you've been wearing the same clothes, so the clothes also have BO, everybody can smell it but you. Now, people are becoming more and more sensitive to energies. People feel things without knowing what they're feeling.

16:57So when you walk into a room, someone will just look at you for a moment, not even know who you are, look away and just register that you are looking for validation. You are looking for validation from women. You are looking for validation from men. You are looking for validation from your father, even though your father's not even in the room, but you're thinking about what your father's thinking about you. And just that thought alone drops your energy and you have spiritual BO in the room. They don't realize what they're thinking or feeling. All they know is they don't want to get next to you.

17:27They don't want to get next to you. Your spiritual BO also rubs off in your company. It rubs off on your products. Have you ever been in an Uber? And the guy before had BO. And so you get in the Uber, you're smelling the other guy's BO because the physical scent rubs off everywhere you go. So when you are in your own car, in your own house, everything you touch inherits your vibration as well. Everything that's part of your vessel, your ecosystem inherits your vibration. We always talk about this in my Limitless Abundance that the founder, whatever the consciousness of the founder is, trickles down to the employees, trickles down to the products.

18:11You want to create a great product that sells millions and billions of dollars worth of sales? It all starts with who's at the top. Who is the CEO? Who is the founder? Who is the seed? That energy goes all the way down. And if somebody is looking for validation or I need you to like me to feel good about myself, to whatever extent I need that, I do not have the aura of magnetism and miracles. Where in your life are you looking for someone to approve of you? Where in your life are you looking for someone to say, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, Jamie. I'm so sorry, Alan. And I'm so sorry, Cheryl. These are names just coming to my mind.

19:06I'm so sorry. And you know what? You're like, thank you for saying sorry and validating my pain. Now I can move on with my life. If you're waiting for someone to apologize to you, you are the epitome of the effect and you are pushing miracles away. In fact, haven't you realized when somebody needs something from you, you don't want to give it to them? like when someone is needy of your energy or needy of your time or feels like they deserve something from you you like push it away you don't want to give that to them but someone who doesn't need it you want to give them everything

19:46anywhere you're in your life that you are still waiting for something to happen someone to apologize someone to acknowledge you someone to recognize you someone to stop treating you unfairly, let that go. That is wasting your time, it's wasting your energy and it's giving you spiritual BO. The fourth level of spiritual magnetism is connected to what we just said. But every time you put a person, place or thing in front of the creator, meaning you make that person your God, your source of energy. You make your business your God or your source of energy. Something begins to control you externally means that they are now your God.

20:37It's like an idol that you worship removes your aura. It drops your vibration. So think about this. why do people go through pain pain comes to whatever area you are holding on for energy instead of knowing that the creator is your source of energy when a person knows that it's the creator truly has certainty in their connection with the creator let's say in their business so they're able to navigate the highs and lows of business. There are legal issues. There are up days in revenue, down days in revenue. Your consciousness stays up here steady and certain because you know that the creator has your back.

21:28You know that the spiritual determines the physical. You know that as long as you're doing your work, the darkness that you see is an illusion. It's a temporary book on the screen. It's here today, it's gone tomorrow because you have certainty. You're not subject to this world of time, space, and motion. It's a fun game for you. The most successful people are the ones who are having fun. When you're having fun, you become successful. When you're so serious and uptight about everything and worrying all the time about something, that means that it is your God. It is your source of energy. You don't really believe in the creator in that department.

22:11You believe that this girl is the creator or this man liking you, not liking you, texting you, not texting you, appreciating you, not appreciating you is your source of energy. How many times are you going on the scale to see that I gain a pound, that I lose a pound? How many times are you checking in with certain scenarios? Am I relevant? Am I not relevant? Am I doing well? Am I not doing well? And by the way, I'm a big fan of data and analytics. I have hundreds of dashboards showing the data behind every metric I can find. In my companies, in my personal life, I have an aura ring. I love to measure things because you can't grow what you can't measure.

22:57That's a spiritual and physical law.

23:01David Ghiyam:But when you are obsessed and it controls your mood and it controls your energy, now you're the effect. And some people are the effect of the aura ring. And some people are the effect of the scale. I was talking to one of my friends at Human Garage, Jason. Someone who's such a wonderful human and has helped me and given me so much value. And you know, I rarely talk about people or I rarely will mention even the name of someone, but I am because he's such a good man. And he's all into health and wellness to such a level that is inspiring. So for example, he lives a very non-toxic lifestyle. And I said to him, what is that point where you're so obsessed with wellness and so attentive to having a toxic free lifestyle that you begin to worry about it and the stress and worry of, am I healthy?

24:05Am I healthy? Am I healthy? Begins to be worse than the actual not being healthy. Meaning, if I just ate whatever I wanted and lived that, quote, toxic lifestyle, but I was happy and I never worried. Would my body be healthier than someone who lives a very healthy lifestyle, but they're always worrying about it? And he said, the moment I begin to worry about the toxic towel or the toxic liquid or the toxic paints or whatever, the moment I begin to worry about it and have anxiety, I must let it go completely. Because there's nothing more toxic than anxiety. There's no heavy metal that's more toxic.

24:50There's no mold that's more toxic. There's no fragrance that's more toxic. Nothing is more toxic than doubts and anxiety. Do we all have it?

25:01David Ghiyam:The question is, are you hugging your anxiety? Are you hugging your doubts? Are you dwelling in them? Or are you rising above? Are you making every effort possible to have certainty beyond logic, knowing that there's a higher force that is protecting you. Don't worry. Don't worry, I promise you. I can tell you personally. I can tell you anecdotally from thousands and thousands of people. Everything is going to be fine because everything is fine. You will receive everything in due time. The only delay is coming from you worrying about it. The only delay is coming from you not being present. Be present in the moment.

25:56Stop trying to control the future. Stop thinking about the future. Right now, be present.

26:07David Ghiyam:That is perhaps the all-encompassing concept of being spiritually magnetic, of being attractive, of receiving miracles in our lives, then I promise you that if right now you start being present, surrendering the need for other people's approval, having true trust and certainty in the creator, feeling whole inside of yourself, feeling that you're not missing anything, and knowing that you deserve everything, that it is natural for you to receive everything in life, and that takes time, to grow into, but you also can tap into it right now if you want. And if you do those things, if you follow those four steps, there is no miracle that will not come to you immediately.

26:59Let's do a meditation now to connect to that vibration

27:03David Ghiyam:so that it will carry us throughout the day. And you can always come back to this podcast. I know people who just start their day with the podcast, or you can skip right to the meditation. If you would like a few minutes every day, just to set your mind to the right place. If you're capable right now, sit comfortably and try to disconnect from the physical world around you so that you may enter into the only real state that exists, the spiritual state, the state above time, space, and motion. Take a deep breath in and fill your lungs with the light of the creator and exhale.