Ep.92 The #1 Reason the Creator Delays Your Miracles

0:06Welcome everyone to the David Guillem podcast where I talk about the energy of the week as shared with us from the great sages thousands of thousands of the day of life. One of the things that I wanted to talk about is that we are so powerful. Our soul is so infinite. And we often don't realize that or feel it because of the limitations that this physical world has put upon us. And we believe in what we've been told as children. when we believe in the limited beliefs and limited mindsets that's been given to us by friends and family and society, and maybe even brought down from past lives, no one's really ever shown us how infinite we can become.

1:06And it's kind of like if you ever got the opportunity to talk to someone who's accomplished so much in their life. Maybe they have huge successes they've achieved or they're an incredible athlete that's reached Olympic levels. People who you might admire, maybe you've seen on TV, you've heard about, and then you meet them in person, you talk with them. All of a sudden, your whole world opens up and you're like, oh my God, I've been living in a world thinking that nothing is possible. It's like I was here in Los Angeles. I went to my kid's school for an event and I don't have a vehicle actually anymore.

1:44I just drive, I'm either in an Uber or what we have in Los Angeles, which is the self-driving cars. So there's no driver. It's an electric self-driving car. It picks you up. It's very affordable. And so I use that. So I ordered the self-driving car and there was this person who was obviously a tourist, doesn't live in Los Angeles. And he was just standing there by the car, just taking photos of it. And I walked up to it, opening the door because I was ready to get in and go. And he looked at me and said, this is the coolest thing I've ever seen. And to him, obviously he doesn't have self-driving cars wherever he's from.

2:22And it's like his whole world opened up to what was possible because he saw it here. In Los Angeles, it's probably one out of every 20 cars is a self-driving car by now. So it's very common for us. And that is that feeling that we have when we actually meet other people who have broken through limitations and created miracles in their lives. And why is this important? Because when we know what is possible, when we know the power of our soul and what it can really do when it's fully activated, when we know, as Dr. Joe likes to say all the time, the pharmacy that is built in our own mind, our own consciousness, that you literally have all the medicine inside of you that you can activate it.

3:07It's just that we all have challenges around how to activate the full potential of our consciousness and our mind to awaken that medicinal power inside of ourselves, not to have to take exogenous medicines or to take pharmaceuticals. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with pharmaceutical. What I'm saying is that anything a pharmacy has created also exists within your body and soul, and you can activate it. No one's taught us how to activate it, and as a result, we have to rely often on external things. The time of King Solomon, it says that there was a book that revealed the cure to every disease, and it related it to an herb.

3:52It says the sages share that there is an herb in this world for every disease that exists. means there is a plant or there's something in the vegetable or animal kingdom or the minimal kingdom that exists to cure every disease there is so there's something out there that cures cancer there's something out there that cures ALS something out there that can vaccinate us against the most challenging diseases that we're facing today it says that the creator hid this book so that humanity would not know what the cures are because then they would rely always on the external solution and not the solution that exists within them.

4:35No one would seek out the creator in times of pain, in times of health, if they knew there was just always a fix on the outside.

4:48And this is often why we go through challenges in our lives and things get taken away or there's delay. Every time there's a delay in your life, a delay in love, a delay in certainty, a delay in achieving the peace of mind that you crave, a delay in the prosperity that was once promised to you. The deal that was supposed to close is now delayed by three months. You amassed some kind of fortune or wealth and then somebody took it away or somebody stole it or somebody litigated against you to take it from you. or maybe a reputation, you had a great reputation and then somebody took it away. All of these are delays.

5:29Even when something's taken away, it's a delay. It's a delay to the life that we want to live and that we are meant to live. Why are we having delays? A delay is only because it is the mercy of the Creator in protecting us. It is known that if we were to receive whatever it is that we desire at that moment, it would absolutely destroy us. we know this from when our children ask us for things that we know if they had it it would destroy them i asked my seven-year-old middle child the other day i said what is it that you desire right before bed we have these kind of conversation what do you desire so he said i don't want to sleep i don't want to go to school i just want to watch movies on the iPad and eat ice cream.

6:16This was exactly what he said. And he's a very smart kid. And I said, okay, so you don't want to sleep. He has no idea what would happen to him if he was deprived of sleep. He has no idea that he would be exhausted and non-functioning. He has no idea. He says, dad, I don't want to sleep. I'm just going to stay up all night. He has no idea what would happen to him if he didn't go to school, if he didn't learn and he just played video games all day. He has no idea, but it's his desire. He has no idea what would happen to him if all he did is eat sugar all day. He thinks he knows what he wants. My job is, as a parent, to help him understand the relationship that eventually he will have with the Creator.

6:57And as parents, actually, that is what, whether you're a parent now or you will be in the future, your role in this world, or even if you never decide to be a mother or a father, but you have people who are, look to you to be responsible for them. Employees, students, friends. The relationship we have with everyone is just to teach them the relationship that they eventually should have with the creator, which is we must help and support people to become their greatest vessel for miracles. We have to help them find the solutions to their own problems, not just give them the solutions. We have to help them learn how to fish, not just give them a fish.

7:39We have to teach them how to have self-worth and to know what it is to build things on their own, not just build it for them. And so we always have to find that balance of when to help and when to pull back, but always with the intention of I care about you. And so when my child learns that he cannot have whatever he wants whenever he wants it. But he also knows that his father is merciful and desires to give him everything. Then he can understand how the creator desires to be with him. And that's why when a boy becomes 13 or a girl becomes 12, they receive the new level of a soul that is called Ruach.

8:21They begin at birth with the level that is called Nefesh, that is the first level of the soul. It's the basic level. And then they receive the Ruach at the age of 12 for a girl, 13 for a boy. What that means is they receive now the free will to have a relationship with the creator themselves and not via their parents. Everything that a child goes through before those ages has to do with the spiritual work of the parents. So if a child gets sick at the age of six, child gets a cold, child falls on their knees and scrapes their knee, it has to do with the consciousness of the parents wherever they are, whatever they are doing.

8:55It has to do with the spiritual work of the parents. Whether those parents are present or not, whether it's the biological parents or step-parents or foster parents, it's the parent that is responsible for the child has their soul correction tied to the child until 12 or 13 and then it breaks. And then at the age of 20, there's a final break that happens and the child is fully independent. it. So whenever we are truly thinking about the people in our lives and really caring about them, if you want to know what it really means to care about someone, it's to help them develop themselves to be the greatest versions of themselves.

9:37I was talking to an employee a while back and I said to him, I said, look, my greatest desire for you is for you to be happy whether you work at my company or not. If I don't think this way, then I am not fulfilling my spiritual obligation of what my soul came to this world to do, and eventually whatever I do will backfire. That means that if I deem it as best for this person to work somewhere else, if I think that they will have more happiness, more fulfillment, more growth somewhere else, it is actually my responsibility to make them aware of that. It's also my responsibility to be open if they desire that.

10:09But often in life, we're always controlling things. We don't want to let go of things. We're afraid of truly caring about other people because we don't know what it's going to do to our bottom line.

10:24And so this is the first lesson of this week because we're living in the time of the Omer. We're right in the middle of it. It's actually one of the most difficult times of the Omer. And the Omer is a 49-day period where the soul is being reconstructed. And so whatever you haven't dealt with in the whole year comes back during this time. So you're probably feeling it and experiencing it. And in the time of the Omer, it says that true compassion and mercy, truly caring about somebody else's process, not just fixing the process for them. That's not when you're fixing something for someone, you do not care about them.

10:51When you just give them whatever they want. Like my child, my five-year-old, I make him buckle his own seatbelt every time. Sometimes it's very hard for him. He can't reach it. He's got a car seat. It's a whole thing. And it would be easier if I just buckled it so we could just get going. But I have to wait 45 seconds and watch him fumble around with it. And he's upset with me about it. But I know when that click happens, when that seatbelt clicks in, his self-worth goes up. And if I buckle it for him, he will not have self-worth. So he'll go to school or he'll go through his life not really knowing who he is or what he's capable of.

11:26So we have to allow our children to go through pain just the right amount so they can learn their lessons and be there for them to guide them. And so that is how we must treat everybody in this world. Even the people that we hate, even the people who have hurt us, we have to really be thinking about them. Even if you're in litigation with someone, Even if you're going through a divorce with someone, usually it's all about what can I take from you? What's the most I can strip away from you? You hurt me, so I'm going to hurt you back. You have to know if you think this way, you're going to lose.

11:56Even if you win the case, you're going to lose the miracles in life. You will not be blessed. Your children will not be blessed. Your business won't be blessed. Nothing will be blessed if you come from the approach, I'm going to take whatever I can get. I hear it daily. I hear it daily about people who are going through divorce or separations on a business level, on a romantic level. It's just chaos. Everyone's ego is just playing a game that, what can I take the most from you? How can I really hurt you and teach you a lesson for what you did to me? This is not the vibration of the creator. It's not the vibration of miracles.

12:30Do you want to be right or do you want to be with the light? You can't have both. Always like, what does it mean to be with the light? Remember this morning, Mary Ruth, my ex-wife, who I'm very good, close with, and business partners and friends, she asked me for something that I actually disagree with. I don't think that, I didn't think that it was the right thing, but she said it was very important to her. I said, you know what? I'm not going to say yes because I'm compromising. I think even the energy of compromising is a low level. I said, the most important thing that I want you to know is that I trust you.

13:05And I know that by trusting you and having unity with you, no matter what you do will be blessed even if I disagree with it. So please move forward and I will make sure to be unified with you knowing that my unity with you and my belief in you even though you are my ex-wife will bring blessings to our business and to our children and to my whole life. And that's the way I want to live my life whether that's my ex-wife whether that's my friends whether it's random people I've only met recently. And this energy if you carry it now in the Omer you will see blessings you will see miracles. try to avoid the separations that exist.

13:41That doesn't mean you're a doormat. That doesn't mean you just roll over and say, yes, everyone. It's the intention. I want you to come from a place not of what's best for you, but what is best for us. If one person wins and the other person loses, then you are not with the light. Most people must win. And wherever you're hearing this podcast, whether it's on Apple or Spotify or YouTube, please know that I actually look at all the comments. Sometimes I respond to them. And not only that, I have seen that the comments that you write are read by other people and there's a community formed, especially on YouTube, I admire.

14:16There's thousands of comments often on each podcast. People are responding to each other. So based on everything I've shared with you now, please share what does this mean to you? What are you going through? How does this relate to you in your life where you could have more unity, where you could have more peace and you're willing to let go being right? you're willing to let go of the trauma you're willing to let go of whatever your ego is telling you in order to have blessings and success and it's hard because you don't know what blessings you're going to get I'm telling you that the sages say you will have blessings but you don't really know what that looks like you must trust you must trust that you will have more I want you to test this out if you are fighting with someone just pause for a moment and be like how can I treat this person as if it was me.

15:06How would I want to be treated? How can I create a win-win, not just how can I take as much as possible? So please take the time to write those comments. Comment on other people's comments. Let's create a community in the social world because I think that the process that we're all going through, especially the spiritual process, requires that community. The final thing that I want to share with you is going back to what I said before.

15:34every day when you wake up remind yourself of the the pristine nature of your soul such a powerful atomic energy if you really believe that your consciousness creates your reality would you even waste one moment in the frequency of doubt the frequency of fear in the frequency of laziness, procrastination. Every night before I go to bed, I ask myself, when I wake up in the morning, I ask myself, who do I need to be right now? So that when I wake up in the morning, I'll be proud of the person last night. So often what I do is I organize my next day. I time block my morning, especially the first two hours.

16:25Every 15 minutes, I actually write down, what am I going to do? I lay out the clothes that I'm going to wear the next day. I arrange even the water bottle. I fill up my water bottle. I put my electrolytes in. I squeeze my little lemon into my, so it's ready for me in the morning. Because you know what happens when I wake up in the morning and I'm disoriented and I got a lot of things to do. I got to feed the dogs. I got to run to take the kids to school. I got to get myself ready. I got to meditate. I got to pray. I got to shower. I got to get dressed. I got to do this. I got to do all of that in a 90-minute span.

16:57I can't tell you when the David that wakes up in the morning is so grateful for the David who the night before took the time to organize himself. Everything is there waiting for me. It's almost like the David of last night becomes the butler of David in the morning.

17:18And all of that is coming for me in me trying to constantly realize how important I am and my soul is because the more I treat it with care and love and take care of it, both physically and spiritually, I will be able to give so much more to the world. I will be able to bring more blessings to the world. I'll be able to achieve all the goals that I'm writing down even for myself. Are you taking care of yourself? People always say, how do I love myself? You know how you love yourself? Start by the night before thinking of the person in the morning that's going to wake up and what does he or she need?

17:53That's the beginning of loving yourself. It's not something, this esoteric meditative concept of how I love myself. Just take care of yourself. Start by saying, what's going to make me happier in the morning? Yesterday we had a guest over at our house and I usually never have people over. I usually have nobody disturbed between the hours of eight to tens, because I have seen that when you don't go to sleep in the right way in the right time, then you're just being selfish. You're hurting yourself and you're hurting the world. So at least for me, going to bed, and somebody came over as a friend.

18:29We got into a conversation. I realized that for whatever reason, the creator wanted this conversation to happen. We were helping each other. But there was a moment where I said, okay, if I let this continue, this is damaging to David in the morning. And I must take care of David in the morning. I must take care of that. That is how I'm going to build self-love. And so I ended the conversation and I have no problem sometimes even if I have an event at my house to literally turn off the lights and tell everybody they need to get out. Why? Because I care about them. I want them to go to bed, right?

19:08Let them go to bed so that when they wake up in the morning, they say, you know what, I'm so happy that David kicked us out of his house. As opposed to, you know, keeping people and then they do more, they might drink more, they might eat more, and then they suffer the next day. Why are we torturing people? Just have moments of happiness. And I'm not saying all the time. Once in a while, of course, let's do things that maybe we wouldn't do all the time, but start to think differently. This is what self-love is. And here's the other thing about self-love. When you can think of the people in your lives who have hurt you the most, who have betrayed you, who maybe you invested in, you give your time and your energy and they just, not only were they not there for you, but maybe they hated you.

19:55If you can send them love and you can bless them with light, like really visualize them with light. Really, even if you have to fake it in the beginning, get to a place where you genuinely want the best for them, you will love yourself. Because the reason why we don't love ourselves is because we do things that remind us of the bread of shame that existed in the endless. Those of you who are newer to my content, the bread of shame is a concept that I explain in my level one course of the soul chose to come to this world because it felt shame that it had not earned the creator's light. It had not earned miracles.

20:35So it has to come to a world of darkness to earn these miracles. And here we are. We don't know where love is. We don't know where prosperity is. We don't know where peace of mind is. And we got to go out and find it. Nobody taught us how to find it. Nobody taught us the rules of the game of life. We are learning it now. Kabbalah is teaching us that the way you earn all of these blessings the creator will give you is when you transform your nation to become like the creator. And so whenever we are reactive, whenever reactive means a thought, a word or an action which comes from a place of fear, responding too quickly to someone because you want to control the situation, shutting down because, you know, or trying to avoid the situation.

21:17Both of them are just reactive. Speaking negatively about someone is reactive. Having doubts and worries and fears and letting it permeate your mind is a form of reactive behavior. hoping that the other person suffers is a form of reactive behavior. Lying just because you want to be comfortable is a form of reactive behavior. I mean, we could go on and on. Every time we are reactive, we start loving ourselves less because we start to have shame. We are reminded of why our soul came to this world in the first place and then we have shame. And then when you feel shame, the second reactive behavior happens when you start to beat yourself up, which is even worse than the first.

21:57reactive behavior. So you got to stop that. All together stop that and say, you know what? I'm not going to beat myself up, even if I made a mistake. I'm going to forgive myself at this exact moment. And I'm going to forgive. I'm going to at least desire to forgive the other people, even if I don't know how to do that. And a lot of people say, how do I do that? How do I forgive? I don't want you to even know how to. The creator will show you how. I want you to want it. if you want to know what you're going to experience in life it's whatever you want you may not know how to forgive someone you may not know how to love yourself you may not know how to be a billionaire don't worry just want it very badly the zohar says based on whatever you desire whatever you want, the Creator will guide you.

22:53If you want to be better than everyone, okay, the Creator will guide you in that way, but that's limited. If you want to forgive someone because you know it will unlock greater miracles than anything else, then the Creator will show you how to do that. It will come from above, it says. It will come from the upper worlds, beyond your logic. This is what the wisdom of Kabbalah is teaching us. It will come from your future perfected self. It's called your neshama, the highest level of your soul, which you don't have right now, but you will eventually. So, if in the future you will have it, it means you have it right now.

23:27So many secrets and lessons to that.

23:33In summary,

23:37let's wake up every morning realizing how powerful we are. Let's go to bed at night preparing to honor and cherish our soul. Whatever you've done in the past, whatever mistakes you've done, how far you think you are from miracles, how deep in debt you are or how much in the darkness you are, forget about all that nonsense. Creator doesn't see your past. There's no past. There's no future in the realm of the Creator. There's no time. There is just this moment. So choose right now who you want to be. Choose right now how you want to love yourself. Choose right now how you want to bless your ex. Bless those who have hurt you.