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28:22But we was in love. Yeah, bear in mind, I just had a cheeky night out, do you know what I mean? And I had said, fuck, but anyway, that was besides the point. So this fella now, on to me like Annie's going fucking what's the issue with my bird and I went whoa whoa whoa whoa said easy fella I said look I don't want no trouble look I'm not yet to cause trouble I just come to see the girl and I've been seen you ain't been fucking seen I said look come on don't be silly for you now mate I said looking at her going like who the fuck is he you know thought we were in love like what's going on yeah this girl is ringing me every day and um he's getting really really arsy again and he's going you don't fucking know I said oh look mate fucking videos of my phone with her sucking me off if you want to fucking see him and he's thrown an A-maker over the top of her.

29:09I've ducked and he sort of stumbled. I grabbed him and I said, listen, pal, I said, look, I really don't want no fucking trouble over here but you do that one more time and I'm going to put my hands back on you but I don't want to fight. I don't want to fight over here, especially in Thailand. I don't want no trouble, you know? So I said to her, look, are you going to fucking tell this guy you are? She looked at the both of us and she pointed at me and she went, he fucking lying. to me I went what the fuck and this guy said leave us alone he said she's coming to live with me in Canada tomorrow he said I'll fucking leave us alone I went tomorrow look to this I thought if I had come when she had sort of planned for me to come but I can't bear in mind I come early to surprise her she wouldn't have even fucking been there so I went right whoa I said do you know what on that note enjoy your time in Canada I ain't gonna go and finish my fucking breakfast I went over and sat there I was like what the fuck but in a way I was glad that it had happened more or less the beginning because I was there for eight weeks then you know and boy did I fucking enjoy myself after but I learnt a very big lesson about the whole bar girl scene I thought I'd met a girl and we'd fallen in love together fucking hell I just this sort of cunt of falling in love with a fucking hooker.

30:32I mean, that's the reality of it. But so many guys make that mistake, you know? Well, me and my mate used to sit, we used to sit there and we used to look at, we used to call them the short timers or the long timers. And we'd see, I mean, you know the crack now, but we'd see the suckers going to the cash point. Yeah. Oh, me love you long time. Yeah. It's like, ah. But I didn't really. He thinks that she loves him. Yeah, yeah. But you would believe it with you. Yeah. I mean, a lot of people over there, you'll get some fucking 60-year-old fat fuck with nothing going for him with a bird half his age.

31:06So you can see how he could fall into that track. Yeah, yeah. But you... But I didn't know what her motive was because, like I said, I weren't sending her money. She wasn't asking me. What is God? So what was her... There was some ulterior motive there, but I just didn't really know what it was. Was I going to get... Was she keeping me as an option if it didn't work with this other guy obviously had a few more quid more than me? or was giving her more money? Was she keeping me on the back burner, maybe do me for money for a bar in some... I don't know. There was a plan there, you know? But I just fell off line and sank off her at all.

31:41All I seen was this fucking bird, incredible in shape. Like, she's fucked my brains out for the full week that I'd spent with her. You know, I was... Fuck, I was... I was having the time of my life. But I learned a very valuable lesson, I think, because after that... Did she reverse cowgirl you? Oh, she done everything. It was fucking... Did she hold your toes while she was doing it? Oh, she sucked my toes. She done everything. She was fucking... But she was... We were going to these... I was taking her to these barns. She was so pretty. I'd walk down the road with her and other guys were fucking...

32:15They gave me high fives and fist pumps. She was fucking beautiful. But like, you know, I'm walking around with her thinking, fucking, this is my fucking... Look at my bird, yeah. I've made it. Yeah, it's costing me 80 quid a fucking night, but this is fucking my bed and then you'll have people like me sitting in a bar watching you thinking he's a long timer she's caught him yeah but I was taking her to some of these naughty bars in Walkend Street some of these little side sides off Walkend Street and there's one called the Windmill Club I don't know if you ever went to that one and it's all sorts gone birds going out here with each other and they got all the toys out and fucking it's outstanding.

32:59I loved it. I loved it. It was great fun. When you say toys, do you mean Duplo or are you talking double-ended dildos? Oh, probably, yeah. They are fucking at it with each other. It's this bird, they'd be taking it in with me because women can't win it on their own, but if you've got a bird and you want to take it in with you, then you can go in as a couple. And she's up there and she's got the toys and she's having a go on the other go. Fucking her, the guy's coming on to me. Is that a bird? Yeah, yeah, yeah. She's fucking great. And she loved it. It was the fun that I needed at the time. It was great fun.

33:31But like I said, I learned a very valuable lesson. So apart from the whole, I suppose it's the female love a boy method, and it convince you that they're in love with you and you're completely cuntstruck and can't wait to get back out there and a lot of Brits send them money back. Oh, yeah, it's going on all the time. Yeah. You know, I started making reels. You started doing overtime to send her money back. I was actually taking a piss when I come back one time and I was making these reels sort of about my experiences of what I'd gone through. And they were like memes, but like, oh, voiceover, these memes on Thailand.

34:14Some of the really earliest stuff that I was doing. But they were so relatable, you know, and people were loving them, you know, especially a lot of people that were travelling to Thailand and they were seeing these themes and then they were having millions of views. And I must have done about eight or nine of them that had over four million views, you know? And then the page started growing and growing. Obviously, I'd go back to Thailand again and then it'd grow again when I was over there. But then I met my missus when now, one time I was over there then. We'll come back to the missus down the line because that sounds a bit too boring for this podcast.

34:50Yeah, yeah, yeah. People falling in love and living happily ever after. people don't tune into the show for that shit they want to know like the fucking raw stuff so let's talk about the dark side of Thailand let's talk about this guy that I keep I invited him on but then people from Thailand that I know said don't have him on he's causing fucking trouble over here and he's going to end up getting himself killed Danny Boy was it Danny Boy 83 or whatever he was being held hostage at knife point by a brass and some other geezer and he's still pulling out his phone recording it and then he went on some fucking rant saying how much he hates Thai people and they're monkeys and I'm watching this video thinking I've been to Thailand you're going to get yourself taken somewhere he's going to disappear remote and someone's going to fucking murder you and bury you and you're never going to be seen again is he acting or is he just a fucking no he's a fucking div that guy he upset a lot of people over there but that rant that he said about the Thai people, like I don't usually comment on other people's stuff, but that got under my skin.

35:59I'm not going to lie, that really got under my skin. He called them fucking monkeys, fucking rice and egg-eating rats and it pissed a lot of people off. I had a few phone calls, people saying, look, you know, they're living over there. Do you know where we can find this guy, you know? Oh, really? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm not surprised by that. And I just said, look, although I do the social media stuff, he is absolutely fuck all to do with me. And I think he's just an embarrassment. The guy's an embarrassment. He's sprouting his mouth off about everyone. He's falling out with everyone. Like when I spoke to Mariner this morning, Mariner said he's just a functioning junkie.

36:38That's what he is. The fact that he was in that little yabba den or whatever he was where he was getting held with a knife in the first place. Oh, is that a yabba den? Of course it was. That's what he was up to. You know, who puts themselves in that situation unless they're doing that sort of shit? Your favourite friend group is back. FX's Adults follows five roommates living in New York, leaning on each other to navigate love, work, friendship and family, while tackling pressing questions of your 20s like, what if the person who inherited your fake ID is cooler than you ever were? Why does being around your family make you regress into your worst self?

37:17And how do you tell your roommates, you have other friends? FX is adults. All episodes now streaming on Hulu. This episode is brought to you by ChatGPT. Hey, it's Bill Simmons from the Bill Simmons Podcast. Have you guys heard about ChatGPT work? It's the new way to use ChatGPT for bigger multi-step projects. And when you need more than just answers, give ChatGPT work access to your apps and files, and it can create real work documents like spreadsheets, slides and structured reports get started at chat gpt.com by selecting work mode available on plus and pro plans and for people that don't know what yabba is just give me a brief or my audience a brief overview because when i was back and forth like i see someone looks as fit as a fiddle as you maybe nine months later i went back they've been on the yabba fucking couldn't recognize him i mean I mean, that is a fierce drug, isn't it?

38:15Like a tablet. Yeah, I know they smoke it. They burn these tablets from, I don't know too much about it because it's not an interest of mine, you know. But it sends them fucking scatty. I remember watching a documentary once on Billy Moore. You know that Billy Moore? Yeah. And about his, because he gawked on Yabba when he was in Thailand. I've got a lot of time for Billy Moore. Yeah, he's very honest about all of his stuff. Yeah. So, yeah, go on. What is Yabba? Yeah, and it's like a tablet. And they burn it on the foil and then they smoke it, you know, and it sends them absolutely fucking duly.

38:51I'm trying to think. It's a whole mixture of, like, the worst kind of fucking drugs that you can imagine. Yeah, I don't actually know what it is. I know ice is a big drug over there. And then it's this yabba, whatever is in that yabba. I'm not too sure. So, yeah. So he's in a yabba then. He's a functioning junkie and he's upsetting. Yeah, he's upsetting. but it's an embarrassment. But then he falls out with everyone and then he pipes up and slags them all off. Like, he can't back up anything that he's seen. The guy's a fucking dickhead. And people like that are the people that I can't stand over there, you know?

39:26Disrespectful prick. I mean, fucking hell, when you're in someone else's country, be respectful. Yeah. To be going on a rant saying, I fucking hate Thai people, they're all monkeys, they're this, they're that, fucking rice, egg eating cunts and blah, blah, blah. I'm watching it thinking, I know what goes on in Thailand. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And if they see that, it made the... Crime Asia, didn't it? Yeah, Crime Asia. So it's already made the local news. So yeah, if he gets murdered, I won't be surprised. Jason Madden, I put a video up apologising on behalf of, you know, anyone from the UK that is over there, you know, for his behaviour.

40:05And good on him, because we should all call our community out. Yeah, yeah, and I had a lot of respect for Jase. Jase's a pal of mine, and I thought, when he put that video, good on you, Jase, because Jase doesn't usually get drawn into things like that. And he said that to me this morning. He said, but I felt the need to mention that, you know? And then that prick piped up then, make the video saying, fuck it, Marin is this, he's a fucking dickhead, I'll fucking do this. He ain't going to do shit. and now he's just created even more of a problem for himself. Like, he's probably going to have half of the old school Chelsea hair dunters looking for him now.

40:42If he thinks that people who Jason know, fucking he used to associate with, you know, aren't going to get fucking pissed off and want to weigh him in for that, he's a fucking idiot. The guy's an idiot and he's a fucking dead man walking. But, you know, he's made his own bed and we've got to lie in it, you know. And he's fucked ladyboys, isn't he? He's put videos out with women that have got Instagram accounts because I've been watching him thinking, I can't believe what I'm seeing. And then people have said to him, you do know that's a geezer. Yeah. And he's like, well, she only gave me a nosh.

41:14Like, it don't matter. You still did get your dick sucked by a ladyboy. By a guy, isn't it? Yeah. By a guy because that's what it, like when I first went to Thailand, the whole ladyboy thing, never been around anything like that before. So it was a little bit like, you know, they're everywhere. It's Thailand, you know. They're in all the bars, you know. They've got their own bars where there's full of them. And now you'll be in a game of pool in a bar and they'll walk past and they play full things and they'll make these silly little noises or they'll try and touch your arse. And, you know, first up, I was like, fucking hell, mate, you know.

41:49Fucking go there, son, you know. Really, I didn't like it. I've seen a group of ladyboys kick the fucking living daylights out of someone. Are they still? Oh, yeah, and it's usually the fucking Indians because them starving cunts when they fucking get their own lady body. They're all trying to fucking chip in for one and share it between fucking five of them. Do you know what I mean? And then they end up getting their fucking heads kicked in. Yeah, I've seen them. They're really fucking... People forget. It's like, yes, they're dressed like women, but they're geezers. Yeah. Down on Beach Road, it's like you'll have a lot of freelancers, as they call them, and a lot of the Indians, don't get me wrong, I've got going on all of them.

42:35I know a few Indians who've got businesses in Thailand and they're fucking really respectable fellas. But then you get a lot of them that come there on holiday and, oh, fucking hell, man. And they are the ones that they try to get things for free. They don't pay for this and then they end up being involved in fights. You see many videos of Patea and if a ladyboy is fucking filling someone in, it's usually an Indian guy because he hasn't paid for something, you know? What's the maddest thing or, yeah, like the wildest thing you've ever seen in Thailand that people wouldn't know about? I've seen a woman get smashed off her bike by a lorry and she flipped over a lot.

43:17She was dead. She hit the floor, bang, breathing out the eyes, all twisted up. And I was on the back of a motorbike, so I've got the guy, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. She said, she's fucking dead. He just drove around her. All the cars just driving around her. Like it was normal? Yeah. So when we stopped and I said, the guy, fucking hell. I said, what the fuck? I said, that woman's dying. You know, she's, oh, you know, very bad. He said, you know. I said, why wouldn't you help there? Like, what's that all about? Sometimes in Thailand, he said, you stop and you involved, you know. So it's like you can get drawn into things over there.

43:52And I've learned this with other things that have gone on. if you see things happening if you see someone held a gunpoint getting robbed sometimes say fuck or say nothing because if that gets blown up with the media and it becomes a big thing and then you've given a statement if they can't find out who's done that crime and the police say look you've got to nip this in the bud social media are all over this you've got to finish this bad for the area they'll do whatever they can to end it so they could turn around on you and say, you've fucking got to say that you made that up. Right. And that you've never seen how you were drunk.

44:30And then all of a sudden you're done for falsifying police reports on that kind of two years. Say fuck all. See, this is why I think that that Danny boy is going to end up getting himself murdered. Yeah, I do. And I think this is part of the reason why a lot of people are sort of tuning in to what he's doing. It's not because they're a fan of it. It's because he's a fucking car crash. but then Twatman, like this guy's an absolute fucking idiot and he's behaving in that way in that type of country where, you know, he said something about the Thai Mafia and I'm thinking, fucking hell, this guy is, he's going to disappear.

45:06He's going to, something bad is going to happen to him. Yeah, and because I've been to Thailand so many times, I know how it goes over there. Like you do more so than me. So yeah, I am tuning in thinking at what stage is, is he going to disappear? But let's move away from Thailand, as enjoyable as that's been, because you're also very funny online and you're funny in the flesh and you're a big bundle of joy and laughs. And we'll go into how you absolutely destroy the trolls that attack you. I mean, and you do it with absolute style. But why do you think so many people have lost their sense of humour nowadays?

45:49Have you sat there and thought, there used to be, because we're a similar age, there was once upon a time where everyone had a laugh and there was fun. Even comedians have lost their sense of humour. I've even got well-known comedians that won't come on my channel because they think I'm controversial. It's like, well, fucking years ago, you were making fun of all sorts of stuff. It's because of the ridiculous things that are being made acceptable today. That's one of them. Like, at least fucking being able to identify us whatever you want to be all sorts of ridiculous things are going on and then it's sort of us losing the freedom of free speech as a as a country and not being able to react to these ridiculous things are going on or say things about these ridiculous things are going on without being punished for it it's fucking ridiculous you know i know i don't care what anyone's sexuality is right i couldn't care less you know but then you've got people now that are being accepted in society, we're being made to accept these people identifying as fucking objects.

46:50Like, what the fuck is going on here? I've read something of some guy identifying himself as a coffee table. Like, what the fuck is going on? Like, you ain't a fucking coffee table, son. If you were born a boy or a fucking girl. You know, if you think you're a coffee table and you've got fucking problems, mate, you've got to be sectioned. It's not normal behaviour It's fucked up And then you've got That other fucking idiot Then that singer Who's the Sam Smith The fish of the Sam Smith Oh man Fish of them The fish of them prick Fuck Come on man It's funny I don't know exactly Who you were talking about If you want to be Or dress up With all this fucking weird shit Do it in the house Do be wherever The fuck you want to be But You know You identify as People identifying as objects And he said He made a statement and saying I'm fed up of being non-binary now, what can I identify as next?

47:48Oh, the world is my oyster. Oh, maybe I'll be an oyster. You ain't a fucking oyster, Sam. You fucked in the head, you silly cunt. Do you know what I mean? Why are we all accepting this? Why is this being made acceptable, Tufts? Come on. Mate, do you know what? What the fuck is going on here? I am in full support of this whole identity politics is absolute nonsense. and I don't agree with anybody identifying with something that they're not. But if Sam Smith was to wake up one day and announce, I'm going to identify as a cunt, I'd say agree. Yeah, spot on. I would agree with that one. But this guy has got a big platform.

48:28He's got a big platform. He's got a lot of children. I look up to him. I like his music. And it's not acceptable to be pushing that fucking shit because that's what it is, shit, isn't it? It's shit It's annoying Because I like his music as well Fucking hell And then you've got all this This furry thing as well That's going on People You know Allowing their children To be furries Like when I first What the fuck are people on about What's this furry shit And Swansea's pretty mad For like left wing ideologies Isn't it Yeah So it was like I never heard this When I sort of dug into it How is this real This can't be real You know People Dressing up as animals and identifying as an animal, like as a cat or a dog.

49:14Like, come on, man. And some of them even allowing their children to be able to know that. Now, that is fucking child abuse. And not being funny, right? If one of your pals, right, woke past the road with this fucking kid on a lead dress, a cat, he'd be saying, what the fuck's going on about that? Oh, my son's a fucking, you know, he's a gerbil today. you were fucking, you know, you're like, what are you doing? Come on, tough. Let's be real, yeah. Like, what the fuck are you doing? Oh, you're sitting down, giving an absolute bollocks. Fucking hell. The world is fucked up, man. It is. And I get a lot of stick from these type of, these people, they go in with me, and especially when I ever go back and I'm thinking, fuck you.

50:00Like, you ain't got no right whatsoever to fucking criticise me, you fucking weird cunt. Fucking hell. it's fucking true you're dressing up and you think you're a cat you fucking dickhead let's be real you're like you're either a boy you're born a boy or a girl there's no fucking you ain't a coffee table son Sam Smith you ain't a fucking oyster mate do you know what I mean you ain't a cat what the fuck is going on ya it's ridiculous it's ridiculous shit and I am fucking outing them outing them if they come in on me I am fucking outing them back simple as simple as this is so refreshing to hear But I'm not for me.

50:41I'm not doing anything. I'm really enjoying this. That's not. I'm not lying to you. No. These are straight up facts. But you're well known for not giving a fuck what you say or who you offend. Why is that? I'm turning negativity into humour. So I'm turning a negative into a positive. That's the way I see it. and at the same time I'm fucking ripping back into these fucking idiots as well. Like I said, a lot of the negativity do come from, you know, that sort of thing or whatever they are. I don't even know what you call them. You know, like mentally ill. That's the word. Have you got like your favourite troll that you've had the best fun with?

51:26I've had a few. I mean, I mean, every day you seem to find a new one. Yeah, I enjoy, like I did, I had this young lad, he must have only been around 19 then. And he went in on me pretty bad and sort of dug him out a little bit. And I didn't really have much to go off with him. Bad-looking kid, you know. Good-looking lad, you know. Fucking hell, he's quite sporty. I'm fucking struggling. Can't suck it. So I fucking started messaging his mother, dropping a few messages to the old girl. And she fucking, she took it. She took the bait. So I'm into his mouth. So then bang, I responded, boom, I didn't even go there, son.

52:08I meant you fucking old girl, son. Before you know it, I would be fucking upstairs fucking slamming. You were fucking old girl, son. Oh, and I went in on him. And then his brother got involved. And then, fuck, he was just some fucking shapeless. I ruined him. And then it was almost at the point, and I'm still playing the old girl. I'm feeding the old girl. and then like I mean she's she's putty in my hands you know I'm almost going on a fucking family holiday with them all I mean that's how far I've taken her with the mother and I am ruining him to the point now when they'd all argue and then he's not coming on fucking holiday with us it almost become like a fucking like a like an episode of fucking you know like a full series of fucking extenders I I enjoyed that I enjoyed trolling him back I guess you know I can't even see the joy in your face.

53:04Oh, I loved it. I loved it. But it's like, you know, like I said, if you're going to be prepared to give it, you've got to be prepared to take it. That's what I've always been told growing up, you know. Go fucking give it, son, if you can't take it, you know. And growing up was fun in the 80s. It was good laugh. It was good banter. The comedian side of things. I grew up watching stuff like Eddie Murphy's sort of like Delirious and Raw. They were outstanding. Chubby Brown, you know. Oh, mate, Eddie Murphy Delirious. I think he was about 21 when he was so young. I mean, what a fucking genius. And do you know what I've said?

53:43I've said this before. You know, we all get offended like, oh, racist this, racist that. Some of my favourite sketches of Eddie Murphy in Delirious is when he was imitating the white person. Yeah. And he spoke in the white voice. But his Bill Cosby impression and his Richard Pryor impression. That was amazing. And Mr. T when he was talking about Mr. T fucking him in the ass. And how he's going to clench his cheeks and rip his dick off. You just don't get that. Your favorite friend group is back. FX's Adults follows five roommates living in New York, leaning on each other to navigate love, work, friendship and family, while tackling pressing questions of your 20s like, what if the person who inherited your fake ID is cooler than you ever were?

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55:09No more. You don't, but then this is part of the problem, because people feel like you're not allowed to see those type of things, you know? And, you know, I say whatever the fuck I want. And I'm a confident person in who I am. I know I'm a good guy, you know? I'm not fucking racist. I'm not this and that. all the things that people can call you. But I will rip into someone and say that he fucking, you know, your fucking mother's probably taken it up the ass with the big fucking black ones. Do you know what I mean? And then the abuse that I'll get, oh, you fucking... How am I? How was I making fucking race?

55:43It's just a choice that I decided to see. Fucking a lot of them. Couldn't care less. Have you ever ripped into the wrong person and thought, oh, shit, I fucked up here? Like someone that's, no one ever has turned up to you in person or. No, I did have a, I did have a weird situation going back about two weeks, three weeks ago at my cafe. I got sent a video on Instagram and it was a video of me on CCTV walking in Thailand with my missus. And I can hear someone going, is that the cunt? Yeah. And it was really strange. I was thinking, what the fuck is, what's that? that's like it was almost like CCTV footage and someone recording like this it was really strange and watching well anyway there had been a guy that had come in the cafe that had been a bit of a bit of a fucking awkward customer staff the female staff had made them feel uncomfortable and stuff I weren't there at the time but I had a phone call the following week to say look that guy came and made the staff feel uncomfortable he's back can you come down so I went straight down straight away as soon as I arrived he stood up and he went there he is the fucking cunt and I was sort of like I went okay yeah I don't mind the banter but when we got customers in the shop there's a time and a place you know this is my business you know especially if we got fucking children in there as well look mate can you you know pipe down a little bit like a little bit of respect oh yeah yeah yeah he sat down and straight away I thought I can see He's going to be a bit of a donut, this one.

57:26And I was sitting there then, sort of watching what was going on. And when he finished his food, he went up and he walked around the side door by where the kitchen door is outside, where the staff are cooking. And one of the chefs, she looked in, she went deep. And so I went up. I said, what's the matter, mate? I want to pass on the compliments to the chef. I said, yeah, sounds. I said, I'll give the message. She went, no, no, no. I want to fucking speak to her myself, he said. I said, I'll pass on the message. Like I said, she's busy. at the moment, so I will pass it on, thank you. No, he said, I want to fuck it.

57:57I said, listen, pal, I've just told you twice now, the staff are busy. I said, can you leave by here and go back inside, you know? I fucking, I just come back from fucking Thailand, no, he said, and I was over there, I was on the fucking yabba, and I still know how it goes, bro. I said, I don't know how that goes, bro, to be honest on my fucking thing, you know? Yeah, I had this girl driving me around, and he said, oh, he was fucking everywhere. He said, I went, oh, he said, fucking shut up. He said, I got four female staff in there and he was fucking speaking like a fucking dickhead. What do you fucking mind doing that again?

58:34Did you see the video I sent you, bro? I mean, fucking recording. So the recording video that I had was off this prick. So he's obviously one of my haters then that had sort of come to the restaurant. but what I think he was trying to do because he said because when I sort of went in on him a little bit he said you're as arrogant in real life as you are online and he said and I don't like the fact that I have to go up and fucking pay first for my food in a restaurant I said one is not a fucking restaurant it's a cafe I said if you don't like it fuck off if it's good enough for Nando is it's good enough for us he when my business partner jumped in he went don't leave it I think he he wanted me to put hands on him, I think.

59:20That's where he was going with it. Sounds like he's got an obsession with you. Yeah, but he was the guy. When he said about the video, I thought, fuck, I could hear that in the background of that video, there's the cunt there. That's a very weird... Weird one, yeah. Potentially dangerous, these stalky type fuckers, when they fixate on you. Yeah, 100%. I've got to be careful. I worry for my sort of... I can look after myself, but when I'm with my children, some people are fucked up, and they're fucked up. And they will target people that you love that are weaker than you because obviously you've got a background of fighting, and you do the Muay Thai.

59:55Don't you run boxing events? Yeah, yeah. Because I used to, well, I still do run a security firm, so I've done security for loads of boxing events, and I know just how fucking out of control they can get. You haven't just got two people having a fight in the crowd. You've got fucking 50 people either side just kicking off royally, and people that go to those events can have a good fucking route. Oh, yeah. What's that been like for you? It's been lucky so far. I've got the second one coming up on September the 12th at the Warehouse in Swansea, and it's a big one. I've got ex-world champion Gavin Rees, Welsh world champion Gavin Rees fighting on the show.

1:00:32I've got bare-knuckle boxer Sean George fighting on air, Joseph Hapgood. It's a big show, but I've also got Gavin Rees fighting a traveller, ex-pro traveller and we all know nice enough guys but they're a fucking handful when they're all together oh fuck you so and this is a big fight they both come in to fucking go you know so yeah it is going to be a little bit we are going to have to have a lot of fucking security in on that night you know I mean I've always got on with the travelling lads because if you give them respect they give it back yeah of course yeah and I admire the way they go about a lot of things and they stick together like glue but it's going to be a big fight this one and I'm excited they're doing well it's a proper level up from the first one you know I got in there with Liam Williams Liam the Machine Williams on the first show and oh nice it was funny people were like why the fuck have you probably gone and picked one of the best fucking Welsh boxers around at the moment he's a fucking well seasoned pro as well and he fucked me up you know he smashed my ribs in and he busts my nose, and he only used one hand, you know.

1:01:46That's how good he is. But for me, it was more along the lines of, do you know what, like I put on these men's mental health evenings, I see these guys that are struggling, they're going through the fucking mill every day. All I got to do is survive six minutes in a ring with a guy with padded gloves on, I'm like, yeah, he may be fucking really good. But that's all I got to do, you know, and then it's over. These guys are going through the mill every fucking day. And that's another thing I like about you. You talk about men's mental health a lot. Some people talk about it and I'm not convinced that they mean it.

1:02:20I just think they do it because they know it brings in a certain audience. But yeah, I see what you do and I think, yeah, he sincerely means. So when you talk about mental health, what's breaking men today, do you think? because I put on my own mental health evenings once a month I get a bit of feedback you know say feedback you pay attention I gauge yeah what they're struggling with some of them will talk some of them want and then afterwards some will say oh look I enjoyed I get the feedback I think I really enjoyed the day and then they'll talk to you personally I think financial stress from the way the government of you know doing things to the country is a big thing for people, just not being able to afford to do anything and putting pressure on them to support their families.

1:03:11You know, there's a lot that struggle in the group there with stuff like that. There's many different aspects to the mental health. I think like childhood trauma seems to be, you know, a big one. And grief. A bereavement that you just can't get over. And I can relate to that. My nan's been gone 16 years and I'm still fucking devastated. Like 16 years. So I totally get our, yeah, people completely underestimate a bereavement. Oh, yeah. It's normally people that haven't gone through one. And when I look at someone that hasn't lost somebody yet, I think one day you're going to get a phone call that you're never going to recover from.

1:03:51And I always let people know who I love. I'll be there for you. Yeah. Because I know how fucking serious that shit is. Oh, it's tough. And, you know, people say to me, fucking, I think they're part of the reason, like I have sort of opened up that sort of side a little bit to my social media where, but I didn't in the beginning. It was a little bit, you know, uncomfortable showing that sort of vulnerable side to me, I guess, where I talked about the losses I've had in my life, you know, both parents, my gran, both parents and a young baby, you know. and it brought me but showing that sort of emotion it's brought so many people to me you know as they got a lot of comfort from it yeah and fair play did you find it helped your healing journey by you speaking about it we don't ever get over it do we no no no you never get over it for me I feel like you learn to cope with it You know, you put it to a side and focus.

1:04:56You always get your moments where you get your trigger points and, you know, whether it's some music or a place or any, I can have a little tear, you know. And then it's like, come on, let's get, you know, let's get on with it. I'll still cry once a month. I've got the song tattooed around my neck that I played at my nan's funeral. And when that song comes on, I think, no, listen to it, fucking deal with it. And I could be in front of a group of people. if I feel like I need to cry and this is I mean fuck me we took a shift in this conversation but I think like if men bottle up their emotions they become very dangerous they become loose cannons and it's bad for their relationships if you bottle it up and you can just get yourself in all sorts of mischief but yeah for me if I feel sad and overwhelmed with that grief coming back because it comes in waves you can be absolutely fine and then the song comes on in the kitchen it's like fuck I'm in tears It's like, yeah, it's trauma that you've not recovered from.

1:05:57But I don't think you ever do. I just think you learn to live with it. Yeah, and the way I always look at it as well with my parents and stuff, because my dad died on the same day as my mum within three years apart. They both died on the same day within five minutes of the time. Fucking weird as that. 10th of March, you know, 2021 and 2024. 10th of March, 12 and like 12 or 5. Fucking hell. hell off. Fuck yeah. That's, I know. Carl, what a horrible day for you. It was a double, double whammy sort of thing, you know? Yeah, and do you think your dad died of a broken heart? No, they were both, my mother struggled with dementia, for many years, and they, my dad had to have his legs cut off, so it was diabetes, vascular disease, and so they were both put into separate care homes, and just deteriorated on their own individually, you know?

1:06:49The same day though? Yeah, Yeah, strange, isn't it? See, things like that I look into. I think is that, I don't know, is that like a sign of like the love for each other, that he clung on for as long as he could and on that day just gave up. Not that I want to talk out of place because it just gets my mind going. But I look at her and I take sort of, when I get moments when I'm upset, I think, oh, fucking hell, a little song or something, a little reminder. And I think, oh, do you know what? You can't just keep being, you know, sad. Like you get people that really, really struggle, depending on the circumstances of how you lost somebody as well.

1:07:24There's a lot to do with how you get over, you know, a loss. You know, if there's something really tragic, then fucking hell, I guess, it's a hell of a lot more tougher to deal with than, you know, going in the way that you're supposed to go, I guess. You know, like you get old and, you know, you get ill and you die sort of thing, you know. But I tried to look at it and think, right, okay, I've got to get on with it. You know, one life we got and my parents would want me to be doing my best and I'm going to go, same as how I'd feel if I was watching down on my kids. When I'm crying all the time, come on, son.

1:07:57Boys, go and live your life, you know. When you go to a grieving counsellor, they're having therapy, they do always say to you, you have to remember yourself because you're still alive and you've got to continue living. And, you know, we're here for a very short stint of time, really. and we'll all meet again, I hope. Not that I'm a religious person, but spiritual, I am. You said about losing a young one. Yeah, a young baby with my ex-partner. We were away in Magaluf on holiday and she was given her clear to fly. She was like seven months and I was quite late, but the doctor said it was all okay to fly.

1:08:38We were there for like three weeks and she started getting pains. and we just thought she'd eaten something bad but it was sort of like the last day or two of her holiday as well. I didn't have much money left. It was a while ago, so we were on mobile phones and stuff and a bit of a big thing back then. Although I had a phone with me, they weren't on you all the time like they are now, you know, so it was sort of in my bag with not much charge on it. But yeah, a doctor come to see her and said, look, you know, the pain's you have and the baby's on his way, you know. baby come in is what they said the spanish doctor i need ambulance yeah um and i only had my eldest son at the time which was from a different relationship um and he was five and um yeah an ambulance came to take her said baby baby's coming you know uh me and my son tried to jump in oh no no you can't come in the thing you've got to find your own way there i think i had something like 20 euros left of my name as well um oh i was it was horrendous it was a really really horrendous time of life they they they took her to this hospital called sauna spasus in my in my oka fucking absolutely huge fucking hospital couldn't nobody spoke english it was like it was a disaster i walked seven miles up a dual carriageway with my boy on my shoulders um just to save the last little bit of money i had just in case you know i needed food water or whatever i was it was it was a tough tough time tough time the baby was born then i was making plans little little boy brocco and um everything was fine he was you know he's you know moving his hands everything was fine and i was making plans to get my son on because they said look because it's premature you need to make sure that you stay here until the baby's strong enough for you to leave you know and i was making plans to get my son on all right we need to stay here for a month or two and then yeah bombshell they just walked in with like an interpreter they said oh baby baby I bleed on the brain if he live survive he gonna be like a plant need to decide turn off machine or not and off they fucking oh that's a fucking way to do fuck she's crying that's a hell of a way to deliver a message like that yeah yeah just do him straight be like a plant if he survives that's what they said and everyone's just crying and I was like, oh my God, we were going down and he just seemed fine in the little incubator, you know, moving his hands around, like, oh, fucking hell.

1:11:14How do you make that choice, you know, to fucking hell? But then, you know, at the same time, it's like this, you know, giving him a life for you. Oh man, it was tough, but we didn't need to make that decision. I was sitting down there with him and sort of had my hand in the thing and then I shut the bar I was just watching and then a flat link. Boo. And they come running in and they look at me and look at them and they just shook their head. Your favourite friend group is back. FX's Adults follows five roommates living in New York, leaning on each other to navigate love, work, friendship and family while tackling pressing questions of your 20s like, what if the person who inherited your fake ID is cooler than you ever were?

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1:12:44Tough time. My ex-partner still struggles with all that now. Oh, I bet, yeah. I don't think... How do you have... Yeah, to think, yeah, to grow a human in your body. Fucking hell, you know, even trying to get... And we tried to rearrange flights then, and then, you know, we managed to rearrange flights, even getting a charger for my phone. They wouldn't let us use the phone behind the reception. It was a nightmare. They rebooked flights and then cancelled them last minute because they said you can't leave the country until you get a death certificate and you need to go to the courthouse. Courthouse is closed until Tuesday.

1:13:22You need to stay here now for three more days. We probably were up in a hostel, which was in the hostel, all crying for three days. Like, fucking horrendous time. But, yeah, that was the loss there of a young child. Yeah. Well, I'm sorry to hear about all of your losses because I know they're not nice and I know that they never leave us. No, I don't. And I can totally relate. Yeah. Now that people have seen the human side of you, which who knew that that was going to come out? What's the biggest misconception about you lot? Who's the real Dean? Yeah, people think that this social media character, this Dean, because it is entertainment as well, Tufts.

1:14:02You know, it's like people think that I will, you know, someone will give me a bit of shit and bang, I'll just fire back these one-liners and this mess. But, you know, I decide, I dig them out. Look, I put material together. How am I going to deliver it? How am I going to make it funny? I'll record it sometimes and then it doesn't come across. I can be a bit more aggressive on that part. You know, I create, but like people think that you're just, bang, firing them out shit, you know. Just a ruthless machine. Yeah, and then they expect you to be this character, this Dino character all the time.

1:14:41You know, I get a lot of people that come to my CAF to show their support and come to meet you and stuff. And, you know, some go, oh, actually quite disappointed. You're actually really nice. Yeah, you're a normal human being. I thought you were going to call me a fat slag when I walked through the door. But it's like you haven't said anything bad to me. So I'm not just going to, I'm not a fucking idiot. I'm just going to abuse anybody for no reason, you know. But, yeah, I think that's the biggest misconception. People think I'm going to be, you know, this abusive fucking maniac. And how would you want to be remembered in 10 years from now?

1:15:16Couldn't give a fuck, Tufts. Couldn't give a fuck what people remember me for. If they had a laugh, great along the way, but my whole purpose is my boys and for them to look back and for what they think of me. Say, don't worry, my old man. Didn't give a fuck. And he had a go, you know, tried his best. That's the best answer I've ever been given when I asked people that. Yeah, good things are coming. Good things are coming. Well, good. And if you want to see the good things that are coming, I am going to put Dean's links in the description. Follow his journey. Great fun. Doesn't give a fuck. And you've now seen the human side of him.

1:15:58So like and subscribe to the page so I can keep bringing people like Dean on the show. But just so you can confirm what I've said, what's your tag and where can people find you? Dean Alls World is my tag on Instagram. Yeah. I'm Dean Phillips on Facebook and Dino's World on TikTok as well. And anything else you want to finish this interview with? Anything I've not asked that you just like? Final message to the masses. Keir Starmer's a cunt. Oh, on that note, thank you for coming on. It's been a pleasure. I really enjoyed that. Thank you, brother. You're welcome.

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