The Power of Resilience: Why Adversity is Your Greatest Asset

8 Jun 2026 · 1 h 6 min · 30 chapters

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In short

Resilience and adversity as the foundation of success, framed through sports (especially the Knicks), plus how leagues and entrepreneurs “create heroes” and build global stars.

Guest background

Gary Vaynerchuk (“Gary Vee”), serial entrepreneur and media/marketing executive (VaynerSports, VaynerMedia). He discusses consumer/media strategy, sports-business investing, and alternative sports investments (Big3, pickleball, wiffle ball). He’s a lifelong Knicks fan and ties his viewpoints to his son’s AAU basketball experience.

Key claims

  • “Adversity is the foundation of success”; resilience beats “weaponized luck.”
  • Sports commissioners (David Stern) succeed by turning stars into “superheroes” and building stories.
  • Adam Silver is doing the right kind of innovation; critics are “nitpicking.”
  • For basketball, the Knicks’ success hinges on defense, size, and guarding the paint/“the yard.”

Notable examples

  • Knicks 7-game streak; Mike Brown’s coaching; Brunson ISO workload.
  • Knicks vs. Cleveland matchup; Atlanta defensive dominance as a model.
  • David Stern’s role in the Knicks getting the 1985 #1 pick (Ewing era).
  • Investments: Big3 with Ice Cube/Joe Johnson; pickleball via Annalie Waters; live-shopping/social commerce; Wemby card investing; Rachel Tipo/McMac exit.

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Chapters

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The Knicks and Euphoria

0:00 to 0:43

Discussion about the excitement surrounding the Knicks and the potential impact of their success.

“If the Knicks win the NBA championship, the fucking Statue of Liberty is going to be floating in the fucking Hudson River.”

The Value of Sharing Knowledge

1:34 to 2:47

Gary V talks about the importance of sharing knowledge and giving back through interviews.

“We appreciate you spending some time with us.”

Understanding Adversity and Success

2:47 to 5:50

Gary shares his perspective on how adversity serves as a foundation for success.

“The host will always take you to a place that you don't normally go.”

Youth Sports and Competition

5:50 to 6:32

Discussion about youth sports, competition, and the challenges faced by young athletes.

“But I really do think adversity is the foundation of success.”

The Knicks' Current Performance

6:32 to 7:30

Analysis of the Knicks' recent performance and their chances in the playoffs.

“he's gonna be nice I'm just dropping some ball knowledge to make sure you all know I know it that's my little cousin look out for him I'm clipping that receipt in three years when he goes number one overall.”

Cleveland and Eastern Conference Insights

7:30 to 10:04

Gary discusses the Knicks' competition in the Eastern Conference and the strengths of other teams.

“The way they ran their offense the last couple of games to take a sore out.”

Nostalgia for Knicks' Glory Days

10:04 to 14:00

Gary reminisces about past Knicks successes and the culture surrounding New York basketball.

“You can see he's happy about facilitating.”

The Knicks and Their Legacy

14:00 to 17:02

A deep dive into the cultural significance of the Knicks in New York and their historical impact in the NBA.

“You need to get it from not you and you're just jumping on bandwidth.”

Jalen Brunson's Impact on the Knicks

17:02 to 19:16

Exploring Jalen Brunson's role and significance in revitalizing the Knicks.

“I'm just older young enough where I already loved Bernard and Bernard was cooking for us when we got Ewing.”

The Future of Basketball Memorabilia

19:16 to 23:55

A discussion on the value of basketball memorabilia and insights on players like Zion and Wemby.

“I don't know why they do it, but fuck it.”
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Gary Vee's Insights on Wemby and Competitiveness

23:55 to 26:58

Gary shares his perspective on Wemby and the importance of competitiveness in sports.

“Like, I think I'm a good CEO because I look at my talent and I'm trying to reverse engineer them to put them in the best position to succeed, not what I think is the way to do it.”

Evaluating Adam Silver's Leadership

26:58 to 28:00

Gary Vee discusses Adam Silver's approach as NBA commissioner and the challenges he faces.

“What is your thought on what you've seen from Adam Silver thus far?”

The NBA's Evolution and International Influence

28:00 to 29:14

Explore the changes in the NBA, including new owners and international growth.

“Whether you like the NBA Cup or not, whether it ultimately works or not, it's completely irrelevant.”

Innovative Changes in NBA Draft and Season Timing

29:14 to 31:26

Discussion on the potential changes to the NBA draft and the idea of starting the season on Christmas.

“Yeah, so I think, I could be wrong, I just crossed my radar the other day because of the, they were saying it was the last year of that, right?”

Balancing Game Strategy and Fan Experience

31:26 to 33:44

Insights into balancing team strategies with fan expectations and experiences.

“So when you're a nerd and you fuck with it that heavy, you like every part of it, right?”

The Decline of Linear Television

33:44 to 35:49

A deep dive into the struggles of linear television and the rise of digital platforms.

“I can't spend$8 million to get 180 million Americans to watch a 30-second video, no matter when I'm at my AAA game.”

The Power of Quantity in Content Creation

35:49 to 36:40

Understanding the importance of producing a high volume of content for success.

“They think there's a conflict between quality and quantity.”

The Evolution of Sports Commentary

36:40 to 39:33

Reflections on the changing landscape of sports commentary and media.

“You've always been the head of the curve.”

Investing in Alternative Sports and Nostalgia

39:33 to 42:00

Discussion on investment in alternative sports and the nostalgic appeal of classic matchups.

“not trying to talk about live i've been watching live shopping there's another clip i thought that's where you guys might go where i was talking about live shopping 15 years ago i've been waiting every day.”

The Impact of Nostalgia in Sports

42:00 to 43:36

Explore how nostalgia shapes our connection to sports and entertainment.

“Because I do not believe the world understands the value of nostalgia.”

The Rise of Pickleball and Wiffle Ball

43:36 to 45:04

Discuss why sports like pickleball and wiffle ball are gaining popularity.

“back to television, there wasn't enough channels back in the day.”

Creating Heroes and Stories in Sports

45:04 to 48:00

Learn about the importance of narratives in elevating sports figures and leagues.

“Wiffle ball is gonna work if we can find our Wilt, our Muhammad Ali, our Joe Namath.”

The Role of Resilience in Success

48:00 to 50:38

Understand why resilience is crucial for athletes and entrepreneurs alike.

“If you told me 18 years later that motherfucker was gonna be in threes, I would have laughed you out of the room.”

Navigating Adversity and Emotional Strength

50:38 to 53:22

Discuss how facing adversity can strengthen emotional resilience and relationships.

“When you're going through all the circuits and you've got a personal chef instead of eating McDonald's or White Castle, it's different.”

The Importance of Calibrating Words

53:22 to 55:56

Explore how managing reactions to words and criticism reflects emotional strength.

Understanding Insecurity and Confidence

56:00 to 57:08

Explore the dynamics of insecurity and the impact of tearing others down.

“When you break it down like that, right?”

The Power of Building Up

57:08 to 58:59

Discuss how to build success through talent rather than tearing others down.

“first thing to come to mind, let us know.”

Creating VFriends: A Personal Journey

58:59 to 1:00:07

Learn about Gary's project VFriends and its purpose in promoting resilience.

“selfish because I'm gonna build a billion dollar company sell it and buy the Jets win a Super Bowl selfless because I'm writing comics kids books putting out content teaching resilience resilient at Red Devil.”

The Importance of Personal Stories

1:00:07 to 1:04:58

Hear about Gary's childhood stories and their lasting impacts on his life.

“But I'm coming on some real love shit, bro.”

The Value of Authenticity in Conversation

1:04:58 to 1:05:57

Explore the significance of keeping conversations real and relatable.

“One guest you want to see on All the Smoke.”
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Transcript

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0:00If the Knicks win the NBA championship, the fucking Statue of Liberty is going to be floating in the fucking Hudson River. That city is going to burn itself to the ground out of euphoria and I can't wait for it. NBA Finals 1982, tape delay. 1982 NBA Finals on tape delay, they played golf on CBS when the Sixers and Lakers played and aired it at night. You've got to create heroes. This is why Caitlin Clark is important. This is why Steph is important. Steph's a superhero for all the people under six foot. David Stern is misunderstood of how all-time great he is. David Stern understood the number one rule of being a commissioner.

0:40Make your stars superheroes. This is the Gary Vee Audio Experience. Welcome back to All The Smoke. Good to see you, bro. My brother. You know what it is. Monster. Put your glasses on for real quick. Look like him real quick. And deliver the line. and deliver the love. Well, take him off the motherfucking set. What about when the college recruit come to see Ricky? Oh, hey, you know, hey, can I get one of them scholarships? What you mean? Y 'all play baseball, too. You know what I mean? You know, a nigga like me, I just want to go to college just for the bitch. There we go. He's back. So good. We got him in L.A.

1:18Man, welcome to the show today. A serial entrepreneur, advisor, very outspoken about the land, the media landscape, consumer habits. Real one. Someone I learn a lot from. He saves me a lot of reading. I appreciate him. Welcome to the show, Gary V. My man. My man. We appreciate you spending some time with us. We were kind of just talking, before we get going, we were talking about how busy you are and you're taking some time to jump on some shows and be interviewed and, I guess, give the world some more game. what are the benefits you see from doing that? Because you are someone that gives so much great information and you're always ahead of the curve.

2:02When you sit down and you allow people like us and some of the under interviews you've done, how does that benefit what you do? I think it scratches kind of my selfish and selfless needs. Selfishly, like there's people who've never heard of me that are going to listen. I'm going to drop something of value, I hope. And I'm like, damn, let me look into that guy and that may lead to a million different things, right? They may buy a bottle of wine from my dad's wine store or they may just say something good about me, which I'm very big on, like karma and reputation. There might be some people watching right now that don't fuck with me.

2:38They're like, you know, because they didn't like something I stood on or something else, but they love you guys so much and we chop it up. Maybe we'll talk a little ball. I'll show other sides of me. The host will always take you to a place that you don't normally go. And they may be like, wait, you know what? fuck it he's all right you know like it could be that and then and then selflessly like i've been living on guilt and gratitude a long time you know i was you know just you guys it's fun to say this to athletes you guys were gifted with something we all wish we had which was the athletic ability to play at the highest levels a lot of us were like that i was like that i wish third fourth grade my hand eye was so off the charts i'm like yo i'm gonna be an athlete you know by sixth grade though i was like damn i'm gonna own a team not play yeah you know and so you know because athleticism size speed all that shit started to come in but at the end of the day i i really feel so grateful for the gifts i was given and that is you know yes all my entrepreneurial gifts and talents but i have a real fortunate perspective i keep it really cool in the middle you know it's really funny like sometimes i'll watch like extreme left and extreme right personalities and politicians follow me on the same day because i feel i'm very purple i'm not scared to talk my truth i'm not willing i'm not scared to be misunderstood for a minute i'm desperately trying to be historically correct um and so you know i enjoy and plus i enjoy people you know it's funny you can see i'm already looking at them as much as i'm looking at y 'all like i just like chopping it up um and i'm grateful to be here well we appreciate your time how's life what's going on with you right now well i'm a dire nicks fan okay so let's get right into your bag right now you're in your bag real real good in fact back to like traveling a lot i've never spoken in san antonio in my life and i've spoken everywhere and i i saw the schedule and i'm like motherfucker i'm in san antonio for game three of the nba finals which sucks because i'm usually in the garden so that's a problem and i don't like to cancel so i won't cancel And two, I'm like, shit, that's it.

4:43We're playing San Antonio. And then after, you know, we're filming this after the game won. And, like, I'm like, that's going to be – it's written. It's Nick Spurs. You got to go. And the last – you know, obviously my last NBA finals was Nick Spurs. That didn't work out super well. You can't miss that game. You got to be there. Jack was just begging on camera earlier today about getting some courtside. So maybe you and Jack can enjoy game three. Yeah, I mean, shit, I want a championship there. They should offer me some goddamn seats. To be honest. He's shooting shots right away. I'm already hurting.

5:11Because I remember that series very well. Very well. It's like too soon and it was fucking 27 years ago. Yeah, things are good. Everyone's healthy. Back to like simple perspective. I'm not joking about the Knicks thing. Sports is my great outlet. So this feels real good. I was up in Springfield, Mass. The Basketball Hall of Fame this weekend. My son was in an AAU tournament. Oh, cool. How old? He's 13. Okay. It's serious. AAU is a beast. Yeah, and they got smacked up. They got put in the wrong fucking bracket. That's time consuming too. And they got smacked. But honestly, I was super happy. You got to see it.

5:47Well, that I love. And obviously those are memories forever. But I really do think adversity is the foundation of success. I really do. And when you lose 55 to nine. Yeah. No, I meant they had to see that kind of level of competition. And he knows that. The kids, they didn't grow up like us. My son knows every seventh grader that's going through the league. with social media they know everything I have an agency as you guys may know we just started getting into basketball we rep Brandon Miller which is a good one and now we're getting serious and we're getting deep into the kids stuff I'm using him to recruit 10th graders he stays all day consuming all that AAU content you know he knows about Marcus Spears' son two years before I do that's my little cousin we were just talking about him he's gonna be nice I'm just dropping some ball knowledge to make sure you all know I know it that's my little cousin look out for him I'm clipping that receipt in three years when he goes number one overall.

6:41Yeah. Let's talk about the Knicks. Let's. Please. Let's talk about the Knicks. That's really why I'm here. Okay. I mean, it's hot at the right time. We know playing in the league, it's about getting hot at the right time. I think they won, what, seven straight? First year coach Mike Brown. There's always been a knock. It's hard to win when your best player is a point guard. I think we can think of what Isaiah Thomas and Steph Curry. So Jalen Brunson is trying to break into that mold. Cleveland, scary team. But what do you think the chances are for you guys? And we'll just stay with the Eastern Conference first.

7:17I think it's really good. And by the way, I wish you knew me like that. I'm not really blindly optimistic. In fact, getting to the Western Conference, I think we match up different with the Spurs. OKC does not feel like a winnable series for me. And so if I'm keeping it real, though, obviously I'm a delusional fan and you hope and dream, but if I'm keeping it real real on wax um Cleveland I feel good about you know because you know this like and I don't even know why it happened you guys are more knowledgeable than me like Detroit funked up you know like they fucked up too because they're out but they funked up they just like it felt different and I did and I was already on the they're still a young team is this the time you know are they a year early obviously we beat them last year it was a tough series i was at i watched every minute of that series like i was tough you know those early couple games it could have gone the other way the knicks could have lost that series yeah um i don't know why but but even in you know and i thought orlando actually could beat them and orlando barely got in they got blown out by the backup celtics and in my knicks thread if i pull up the receipts right now i'm like guys i think orlando because i thought orlando could be big with them what i didn't anticipate was cleveland was able to be big with them and they did a lot of smart shit.

8:33The way they ran their offense the last couple of games to take a sore out. Cleveland coached up and he can coach. They coached up, right? So I think the casuals don't know about the adjustments. This is what's so, even becoming an agent years ago with my brother starting an agency, it's crazy. I was a diehard knowledgeable fan, which is you make fun of the casuals that don't know. Then I got into the agency business and now I'm like, oh damn, I know more. And then you guys really know. And so what I mean by that is I think Cleveland did a lot of good coaching. I think the Knicks understand themselves right now.

9:10But again, back to Atlanta, this is crazy how much this feels like 99. Like they swept the Hawks in round two and four games and blew them the fuck out in a way that I still, every time I see Steve Smith anywhere, I smile because I'm like, we fucked you guys up in 99 in that four game series. And they just ran it back against the Sixers. obviously they were an eight seed that year and it was crazy and they stunned the heat in the first round that was a half season right 99 that's right it was a you know and and they were an eight seed and then ewing got hurt which took a lot of heat out of it for us especially because we saw the spurs were coming young tim duncan he was just on stuff it's crazy the wendy i mean i'm like this is some deja vu crazy shit more athletic tim duncan well yeah wendy's just like impossible to understand and so anyway i think we match up well it's funny i gotta give cleveland some flowers we did this to them several years ago it's been my feeling about them that you can punk them like you know like and I love like Demon I love Spider I love but I've always like Mobley like I was stunned how much we punked them three years ago two years ago three years ago I think like we really punked them like that obviously they're older you know back to Tim Duncan when Mobley came out into the league I'm like damn this guy could like really get there he's that talented he's shining you know what Donovan did in game seven stepped up real proper um but I don't see Alan doing that like Mitch and Cat matter and Cat after that going into game three obviously you saw what happened we adjusted the reason we won seven in a row and we're down one two prior to that is they've made some tweaks they're running more through Cat you know his favorite his dad's favorite player is Magic Johnson I think he's a little bit in his Magic Johnson back right now You guys know it better than I do.

10:58You can see he's happy about facilitating. That's a different version. And he's a big boy. He's big. And I think we're going to have too much size for them. But... The biggest thing, y 'all are going to have to guard the yard. They got two players that get to the basket at will. And they're going to ISO Jalen Brunson as much as possible and make him work. If New York guard the yard, because the defense they played against Atlanta was unbelievable. That's why they just blew Atlanta out the water. Mike Brown had those guys. I went to my, the physical team, the more aggressive team because I went to a game in Atlanta and the way they was playing defense, it was at another level.

11:33So if they can do that against Cleveland. And by the way, that continued. I mean, like, Maxie, Joel flopping all over the place and hit the big boy. Like, they played real D and Bridges woke up. Yep. I mean, it's all time. Again, you guys know this too well. He's key. He's key. Deuce McBride's last game fucking hit 8-3. Like, you know, like Deuce was hurt quite a bit. Mike Brown is due too. He due too. He's due. I'd like to see, I mean, because we've talked about Mike Brown's first year in spots is normally well and it kind of goes down instead of up. That Clippers run was crazy. This could be a new situation for him.

12:15You know what I mean? And you went in New York. I mean, what would it be? Let's just put it in the atmosphere now. Who cares if they play them? what would it mean if the Knicks got a championship? There's going to be a parade in every state. My friends, has anybody watched the clips of when we win a regular playoff game? Like on some real shit. Let me give some flowers to Mike and the Mad Dog. For the youngsters that don't know or that are not around the New York. Mike and the Mad Dog, pre-internet. I'm 50. Pre-internet. Mike and the Mad Dog. Sports Radio 660, 24 hours, was everything. I used to drive somewhere randomly just to listen to them.

12:59Mike Francesa, maybe in 91 or 92, I was in high school, he said something that I've never forgotten. I'm recalling this shit 30 years later, 35 years later. He was on this ramp. You know what it was? Actually, I'm going really deep in my bag. It's when the Knicks beat out of nowhere the Bulls in game one in Chicago when the Knicks were starting that Pat Riley run. We thought we were going to lose by 30. Bulls had just won a title. They were clearly going on to the next one. And we won game one in Chicago and Ewing was in his best. And I was like, I hated school my whole life. I could not wait to get to school the next day.

13:39Fucking shit. Because everyone was a Bulls fan. By the way, everybody who was a band, I don't know, you got nine cameras. Anybody who was a Bulls bandwagon fan in the 90s that lived in like New York and Boston and Atlanta and LA. I just have like a public service announcement. You're a bitch. Like I don't like, you know, like I don't understand this. Because you don't have enough self-esteem for yourself. You need to get it from not you and you're just jumping on bandwidth. So we had more Bull fans in my high school in Jersey than Knick fans or even because, you know, and so I couldn't wait to get at them.

14:11But anyway, during that series, it was all Ewing. Starks might have just Mason and this was not later also we loaded up in 93 and 94 with those guys 92 season it was Ewing it was Gerald Wilkins guarding Jordan you know it was Oakley it was but it was Ewing this is where like Ewing doesn't get his proper it was Ewing and Ewing was the he was the modern guy like he was 7 foot and by the way he was a defensive player in college he developed his offensive game Yeah, a hell of a shot for a big man too. Anyway, when people talk about stats, I'll tell people in the office, you would get 30 and 15. They're like, uh-uh.

14:54I'm like, bro, the score was 69 to 68. People don't know it was a different NBA. Anyway, Mike and the Mad Dog, Mike Francesa went on this three-minute rant. I'm recalling it 36 years later and giving him flowers. I hope one of his relatives are watching. He said, listen, New Yorkers love the Yankees, boy. That man's wearing that hat right now. New York loves the Yankees. He's like, the Giants? This city loves the Giants. He's like, but let there be no fucking, he didn't say fucking, he said, let there be no confusion. New York is a Knicks town. And it just hit me and it made sense. I was like, right, because I was a Jets fan.

15:31So Jets and Giants, Mets and Yankees. I was a Yankees fan. I was a mix. But the Knicks, this is before Brooklyn came, which by the way, it's funny. When the Knicks got to the playoffs and Randall that first year. That's when I knew New York was a Knicks town because Brooklyn had a super team. It was the year they lost by the pinky, the little toe to the Bucs. Katie. And the Knicks fucking won a, one gate, got into the playoffs and the guard, and New York was going crazy and no one gave a fuck about Brooklyn's super team. I'm like, by the way, here's another one. Brooklyn, you need to, they should move.

16:07Brooklyn should move. I mean it. The Brooklyn Nets should move because they had Katie they had Kyrie they had a super team that was gonna win a title or get there and no one gave a fuck and the Knicks barely making the playoffs the city was on fire that's a long ass that is a long ass winded story to say the following if you think about it like that if the Knicks win the NBA championship the fucking statue of liberty is gonna be floating in the fucking Hudson River that city is going to burn itself to the ground out of euphoria and I can't wait for it they lose it please God Where does, as a lifelong Knick, where does Brunson rank in the hierarchy of Knicks?

16:50Obviously, it's still a lot to come from him, but up to this point. Well, he's well on his way. You know, he's well on his way. And, you know, it's all contextual, right? We were starving for so long. Even for me, I'm just young enough. I'm just older young enough where I already loved Bernard and Bernard was cooking for us when we got Ewing. We sucked, but Bernard still went off for 50 on the Pistons. And like, we still have Bernard. It's been so long for Knick fans, right? It's why I will forever love Julius Randle. He was the first domino for us to start the tide. But what Jalen has come in and done is so incredible.

17:27You know, listen, what Clyde Frazier, Willis Reed, you know, those guys really deserve where they sit in Knicks Mount Rushmore. I think for anyone that's old enough to have watched him play, Ewing is like right at the tippy top. people you know I love Mello and he you know those guys did some work um but Brunson has listen they win a title it's him because we have recency bias you know this when everyone talks about the Mount Rushmore's in the NBA guys with all the respect like we had to change the entire sport because of Will Chamberlain we had to change like every fucking rule you know how crazy it is to be an athlete that changes like multiple rules so that's like a level of like but we but we didn't watch it like that so you're there's a recency bias big time collector if you could own any piece of knicks memorabilia what would it be that's a great question um i would take the iced out envelope that david stern was searching for to make sure the knicks got the number one pick in the nba lotto when patrick ewing was coming out that was good right i went in my bag there thank you friends thank you friends and if you don't know what i'm referencing look it up look it up how crazy are win beach prices as a collective win you know it's funny let me contextualize this because i have the internet receipts to back it up when zion came out the card hobby was starting to blow up you guys might know this because what you do for a living i was really that guy i really was like sports cards are coming in 2017 18 yannis all that and then a couple you know that next draft was the big one or us for rj we all wanted zion and i did not buy a single zion i knew there was a lot of production because i came from the 90s with junk wax and i knew panini was just printing money and making a lot of zions so i knew there was a lot of zions and i was genuinely concerned about his injury risk and so i never bought zion and zion's one of the worst plays of the last five to ten years in collecting you know he's still it's crazy how good and young he still is like i desperately wish that he can turn it for himself and all that and i think he'll be like a vet that like has a run one day it'll be really fun for all of us because you wish good on everyone wemby was different for me all the people around me my brother included and still might be right we're like and by the way i love how seven foot six guys want to be seven four you tall guys are funny to me like all of us are like adding two inches in real life.

20:01Durant doesn't want to be seven foot. Why be seven six, bro? He ain't seven four. I don't know why they do it, but fuck it. He can do whatever he wants. Anyway, this man is seven six. He's fucking hitting threes like he's Steph. He's so crazy. I'm so glad because you just saw, I've always felt weird about Wilt. I always felt like Wilt will never get his, he just missed the media era. If we could watch the highlights of that hundred point game for real, we'd all be feeling different. Right. And I feel like Wemby's almost doing it for that type of person. Anyway, long-winded for me to say, I went all in on Wemby a couple years ago.

20:36I bought the fuck out of him. In fact, I waited to him getting dinged up. I have a Kaboom Gold, which is only 10 of. Which is, yeah, it's a real card. And I caught the absolute bottom, the blood clots. Everyone was scared. And I'm like, you gotta zig when everyone's zagging. If you're trying to invest, you can't be like, when everyone's like, you're buying Bitcoin now when people are like, I'm not sure. When everyone's like, Bitcoin, Bitcoin, Bitcoin, that's not when you buy. You don't buy when the area got cleaned up and you buy real estate. You gotta see it. You know, Wemby still can be injury prone and not become who he, you know, I think about Brandon Roy all the time.

21:18I think about him all the time. And again, I'm dropping that for y 'all. You guys know, the kids don't know. One of the best to ever do it. Bro, the kids, you know, we talk about Grant Hill and it's crazy what his career was, but if you really knew what he could have been if he didn't get dinged up, Livingston, another guy who had a real career. But man, I wonder what he would have been. You know, Wemme could still go, Derek Rose, D. Rose, right? So Wemme could go through that, God forbid, I wish no injuries on anyone except Tom Brady, but that's already wrapped up. And I just think he has a real chance to be a top five player of all time.

21:55He's just so crazy. It's so crazy. and you know what he has that I really fuck with? Because I wasn't very big on that whole era of like everyone going on banana boats with each other. That motherfucker is trying to compete. Yeah, he got dog in it. You know, when he's like, when they're asking, you just won game one. You can be gracious. You got a long series. You're not trying to rile up the other side, right? You guys know. He won that MVP. And they're like, did you try harder tonight because you didn't get the MVP? He's like, yep. I sure did. And like, for fans, that honesty, like we fuck with that, right?

22:26We like authenticity. And if you're a competitive person like I am, that's the shit that gets you going. And when I saw that last night, late last night, because I didn't catch most of the game, I was out working, I was like, yes, motherfucker, yes. Yes. Yeah, there's no secret. He wants, he's put it out there. Yeah, the all-star game. That all-star game was fine. Everyone's like, we gotta fix the all-star game. Wendy fixed it. He tried to play. Camelo just said it on there. he understands what it means to be the face of the league on a global scale. I think he understands that. I have some fun DMs with Wemby because I really follow shit.

23:05So I started talking to him when he was like 14. And I knew that. That's one of the biggest reasons I actually bought his card of like this fucking guy. First of all, anyone who like replies with like Gary V. You're the goat. I'm like, yeah, he's smart. No, but on some real shit, I could even tell in our interactions back then when he was in France, I was like, this guy's got it. If you was part of his business team, what moves would you make? I would reverse engineer him. Meaning the best, the reason VaynerSports has become so big so fast is I am who I am. My brother is who he is. The people around us are who they are.

23:40We're good because we reverse engineer the truth. Meaning I can't answer it because I don't know him like that. Right. Right? There is no right way to do anything. Right. There's no try to get on the video game cover, try to get that bag off the field. Don't do anything off the court. for three years and getting your basketball. Everything's different. It's what great coaching is. I'm sure you guys feel this, right? Like, I think I'm a good CEO because I look at my talent and I'm trying to reverse engineer them to put them in the best position to succeed, not what I think is the way to do it. Right.

24:11So, you know, I would think a lot about where he's at, what's he trying to do. And then a lot for me would be like, the reason the NBA is so awesome, the reason basketball is so great is it's a global sport. For me, it's football. The Jets are number one, the Knicks are number two. I'm football, basketball. But football, and to their credit, they're starting to finally get their shit together the last five years. They're starting to get a little more global. The Germany, Brazil games, all that. But the David Stern, man, people do not understand. I'll say it again. I'm just doing this. I'm starting a new podcast called The Flower Shop.

24:45I just love giving people flower. You can see I'm doing it all day right now. David Stern is misunderstood of how all-time great he is. David Stern did, first of all, David Stern understood the number one rule of being a commissioner. Make your stars superheroes. People don't get this. Like, this is why Caitlin Clark is important. This is why Steph is important. Steph's a superhero for all the people under six foot. Oh, wait, if I can get my hand, I can speak from firsthand watching my son. My son's minuscule, you see it? But when I was growing up, I tried to be Ewing. like you know they don't know this y 'all you don't know about the 80s kids we were all trying to be under the rim trying to be centers or do some Jordan shit I never did it because I hated him so much but you know but my kids era you guys know this they're all my son's handle he it's crazy his range he's in deep NBA threes and he's I don't even know how he has that strength he's so small Steph's a superhero to them Jordan Magic Bird right?

25:54It's superhero stuff. And that's what Stern did and he went global. With Wemby I would try to make him known in places that he's a little less known. Whether that's Asia, whether that's Africa whether that's South America but all of it he's known. That's the sports global now. I'd have him on shit like this to show his competitive side you know. But again only if I knew he was about that life. If he was like fuck you Gary season ends I'm next day I'm in the gym and I'm just like going you know when Rudy Gobert said that shit about like what kind of like fucking water filter he had you see that clip you guys saw that where Rudy was making that joke about like Wemby hit him up about like what water filtration he has in the house I'm like alright I'm getting into like I'm understanding Wemby's thinking about it exactly the right way so I would want to support that if I was on his team because you can get to all the shit later look at y 'all look what you're doing right now life is long he can get to everything i promise you if he has seven rings there'll be way more doors open and if he wants to work and if he wants to work on his game even though i'm gary b the business marketing guy i'm like go do you yeah let's talk about a little bit about the the business of basketball um thoughts on adam silver uh how has he done in your opinion he takes a lot of shit but you know you just spoke to david stern and he took a lot of shit but he had a vision that, to your point, made superheroes and made superheroes within a team setting.

27:22What is your thought on what you've seen from Adam Silver thus far? Anybody who's shitting on or looking down on Adam Silver are in the business of nitpicking. Nitpicking. They're looking to find something. How is there any confusion? And by the way, I'm a fan. I'm very empathetic that the games are on 97 different channels, you know, all the stuff. But like, I mean, he's navigating. When you're a commissioner, you know, like, things we already forgot about. Gambling scandal five minutes ago, that's already passed us, right? Players not wanting to play. He's innovating. Whether you like the NBA Cup or not, whether it ultimately works or not, it's completely irrelevant.

28:11it from my standpoint as someone who builds real things he's trying to do shit right he's trying to do shit the new owners that are coming in do you know how good of like net new owners matt ishbia and ryan smith are utah and phoenix these are real people they're young they have ideas like like he i think he's doing a lot right um the g league is like a good thing like we have a real minor league like you guys you guys are second both of your second round picks you guys i was in the d-league yeah yeah you guys really know what i'm talking about like it was the cba i'm gonna love it was a cba isaiah was running it yeah yeah like you guys know that developmental shit was really secondary you guys felt it you guys understood it you knew it but now it's good like now is like now it's good like fringe players like you can really do things um the game's more international than ever the stuff they did in the middle east i like a lot um nba africa now which is a real thing i'm really excited about that you guys think wemby's crazy wait till we see these nine foot three african dudes come in 10 years nah they got a couple of my guys that i see too bro i see them in seventh and eighth grade right now and they say they're 12 or 13 but they're really 26 yeah they say baseball yo but but me personally he's also a good human being like again you guys know this i have the luxury of i don't know adam like that but i have so many friends that are very around and like i just have enough context he's a good dude like that's always a plus always like you know like people don't know the world's better now at exposing people but like a lot of times people aren't and he is and he's thoughtful i think he gives a fuck about the fans look him maximizing the the the tv deal that's what he's supposed to do yeah and honestly like we all have all these streaming services anyway like you know what i mean so like i don't know i think he's done an extremely good job um and uh i'm excited about this draft thing they're talking about that looks like it's gonna pass where like the bottom four teams are actually negatively impacted by being in the bottom four, like that lottery.

30:27I didn't see that. Yeah, so I think, I could be wrong, I just crossed my radar the other day because of the, they were saying it was the last year of that, right? Bottom four teams with the worst records, they dropped down in the odds for the number one pick. Right? So now all of a sudden tanking is a whole different thing. If you're in the bottom four, you're guaranteed to get a top three pick. That's how I normally be. And just expand to 16 teams too. But see, that's what tanking coming in. Now you can't do neither one of them. That's right. If you have a suck season, your ass just going to be a suck next year.

31:00If the best odds are being the fifth worst team, you can't control it the same way. Yeah. I think they're doing a lot of stuff. Listen, my number one thing that I would love to see the NBA do, number one. If I had Adam's job tomorrow and I could, there's so much that goes into us. This is actually the next question. Really? Yeah, I swear. so literally literally the number one thing I think the NBA should do is start the season on Christmas Day let me tell you why if they start on Christmas Day they then we're all hyped you know they own it that's opening day but then it goes into August and they would fucking own it they wouldn't have they would be they'd be away from the NFL you think we're locked into the NBA playoffs now could you imagine if all of August when everyone's chilling yeah we ain't nothing to watch are you those ratings insane man i would just move it a little bit that shit would fucking cook right could you imagine august we would be chill it would fucking crush so just the just that extra 12 weeks or whatever eight weeks and it would be from mid-october i think that shit would cook that would be the move would you still go 82 yeah i mean listen you know this is when you love it so much as a fan you want it you want to watch those games like the load balancing all that stuff i'm empathetic to like why people do it how they think about it i'm okay if they went to i don't want to see them go below 65 and this is just completely no rationale just gut answer to you um i'm thrilled with 82 like when you love something like i love when hawk purdy is in there as much as like like i love it i love watching my team i love watching mo and the rest of the guys develop and think about who they might be in three years.

32:45So when you're a nerd and you fuck with it that heavy, you like every part of it, right? It's like beauty, right? Like when you think something's beautiful, you love the blemishes as much as you love the things everyone else likes. As a diehard, I want 100. You know, like I just want to watch it. But I also don't get all bent out of shape when somebody's trying to strategize. I'm all about win a ring over everything. Of course I'm upset. That's the goal. Listen, I'm a very empathetic human being. It breaks my heart with the thought of family saved up for fucking four months because they don't have financial status like that.

33:24Just to let their little son or daughter go see Steph Curry and Curry's sitting that night, that hurts. I understand the emotion of that. But as a Knicks fan, I want Brunson and Kat and everyone to sit as much as possible if that's what they think's appropriate because I want a fucking ring. period and a story the future of linear television where are we at with that i mean i mean i know i've been on i've got plenty of receipts on this for the last 20 years we're on the last fucking breath where linear television is on some fucking i fuck with the retirement home because i think wisdom them is underrated but like linear tv it barely exists right and by the way though i don't i don't get romantic about the distribution channel like youtube and social and streaming like netflix does not feel different to me than abc like it's not like we're still in the 80s where you got to go up to the tv and move the dial like you know like like it's all the same shit i mean linear tv is you know I don't know for people that don't know the reason I talk so much about linear tv is I've owned a very large advertising agency for the last 15 years and all of my clients waste all of their money when they run television commercials outside of the super bowl which is under priced at eight to ten million a pop because we all yes under price because I'll tell you why Jack because I can't spend eight million dollars and I know how to spend marketing money on Facebook or TikTok or podcasts.

35:05I can't spend$8 million to get 180 million Americans to watch a 30-second video, no matter when I'm at my AAA game. And so that means the Super Bowl is the best buy because you can get 180 million Americans. And we lock in. We watch it on YouTube the week before. We watch it on the morning shows the day after. We watch it. The important right now in this space of content to be winning in the social and the digital space. One of them right moves? Yeah. Volume. And this fucks with people. Matty, people get so mad at me when I talk about quantity because people want this dream of quality. They think that if you make a lot of content, it can't be good.

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35:51They think there's a conflict between quality and quantity. This podcast that we're doing right now, If I was running shit behind the camera, we would have at least 40 to 80 clips from it. It would be posted on nine to 10 social networks. We would transcribe the audio into written form and we would have a full sub stack and beehive about it. And it would be posted on 40 other handles that are not your main handle, that are alt handles because we now live in interest media, not social media. and a clip with us on a net new TikTok account that has no followers, could get 2 million views and could lead to more subscribers, which leads to more ad revenue, which leads to a fucking business.

36:38Thanks for that. You're welcome. Appreciate that. I know why I'm here. I know exactly why I'm here. You've always been the head of the curve. Let's take a look at this clip from 2008. Oh man, this is crazy. You want to say something cool? Let's zoom in over here. We have 125 people watching me on the street. How many of you read the newspaper every day? Go. No, no, no, no, no. Hell no, no, no, no. Yes, yes, no, no. Gucci would be far better off going to every watch blog and buying ads there. Because not only are the prices and the ROI, CPM, CMO, CTC, whatever. The value they get on the back end is so much higher.

37:15And here's a better one. They can track it. You don't have to guess what this meant. I don't see companies going away from online marketing. and when they start embracing social media marketing, it's really gonna explode. And listen, that's a decade from now, but... In your bag. In my bag, man. That edge up. I just knew. You know when you know? Man, yeah. Back to when I talk about athletes. Do you know when you knew, you're like, fuck, I'm good at this. Whether it was eight or 11 or you bloomed late. I don't know how your guys journey, but at that point, that kid right there, I was like, I just know business and marketing better than people.

37:52You had, you had, you had like a serious energy about yourself right there. Like confidence. Like, yeah. Because what, what's crazy about that and it's what I'm going to do now. I, I stay in my fucking lane. Yeah. When I talked about that, I wasn't talking about it in theory. I was doing online and social marketing to help build my daddy's business. I only speak. I'm not trying to guess out here. I ain't trying to let you fuckers clip something where I'm crazy wrong. Right. You know, this is why I'm so grateful that I'm not a talker. In an alternate life, if I didn't have entrepreneurial DNA, I would have been a very substantially popular sportscaster.

38:32But my timing would have been fucked. Because when I was growing up, you weren't pontificating your random opinions trying to fucking get clipped. Pontificating, write that down. You know what I mean? You were facts oriented. You might bleed a little bit into something, but it was grounded in knowledge. which is why I always listen to fuckers like you because you played it but now like you're forced to like just say random dumb shit you think like how do you think fucking people feel when their clip is showing that they said that Iguodala should be taking the last shot not Steph yeah how do you think people feel when they're saying you know all the crazy clips we see of like worst takes ever clickbait you know what I mean and I'm empathetic to everyone on ESPN and other places the culture's forcing you to do it yeah what's your options you either say some random shit that you probably kind of believe or you're guessing yeah or you're not on this is why this medium is the best you don't have to worry about that dumb shit yeah and all of a sudden for me i'm not trying to talk about live i've been watching live shopping there's another clip i thought that's where you guys might go where i was talking about live shopping 15 years ago i've been waiting every day.

39:46I've been watching China for a decade. I'm like, this shit's coming to the US. This shit's coming to the US. And then finally, two years ago, whatnot, TikTok shop. And then I got loud. I'm not trying to guess. Even Wemby, did you notice how much I hedged about injury? Like, it's hard. But I'd rather speak from a place of knowledge. The reason you saw that confidence is I wasn't guessing. I was living the benefits of it and I could see it was growing. New New York shit. Say no more no more pontificating today okay? You know what that means? No but I'm assuming he's doing it. Yeah I know he's doing it.

40:24Whatever it is I know he's doing it. Whatever it means you guilty of it. It's a shooting from your ass for no reason. Oh that's definitely him.

40:38Let's get to the big three. I'm happy you're involved in the league. You're invested in the big three. Tell me how that happened. and when you're 50 triplets when you're 50 joe johnson yes sir when you're 50 years old and you grew up in edison new jersey and you went to martin luther king elementary school and ice cube calls you say yes that's actually how that happened you know it was a good time in my life you know cube had good people around him as well that had a vision I'm very bullish on alternative sports I made a real bag in pickleball I was really right about that I wrote my brother and I wrote one of the first checks into unrivaled the female version which is different because you know it's real players like that um but you know Cuban them had you know had a CBS deal so you know people see it I knew at that point social media clipping was about to explode so I'm like okay this could get more exposure um I'm actually very there's actually I get to talk on this.

41:41You got your championship too. Yes, sir. Thank you. But here's a fun one. I'm going to pitch you guys something right now. This is really fun for me. One of the other reasons I invested in Big 3 was because for years, still, as I sit here, I'm about to pitch it to the world. I have this thesis that if Magic Johnson and Larry Bird played one-on-one on pay-per-view and there was a gambling overlay, like there is now on everything, and they did a 24-7, like they did with boxing back in the day, where we watched Bird and Magic for eight weeks get into the best shape they can, that the ratings on that game would blow you away.

42:18Because I do not believe the world understands the value of nostalgia. Mm-hmm.

42:38Oscar, Meyer, and Hines. I know everyone in this room would be popcorned up and watch the fuck out of that one-on-one. And so, you know, Joe and many others, like, nostalgia still matters. And good ball comes in different shapes and sizes. You know, back to me just being in Springfield, we toured the Hall of Fame before his game. There was a girls game. they were probably 13 we got captivated in that game me and him watched a full end because it was a tight game and it was just like that's what's beautiful about it right? it's like fighting we all love the best UFC and the best boxing match but we loved watching Kimbo Slice fuck Kimbo up in backyard fighting too so you know I think that there's a lot of room for not the best in the world at that moment there's a little more room back to television, there wasn't enough channels back in the day.

43:41If you weren't on TV, you weren't known. But now, and so, esports, pickleball, slam ball I'm involved in, big three. Hold on, what about wiffle ball? I invested in that as well. I found those pages. Those are so dope. They're basically back to my childhood, but they got the feels, and they're throwing that ball so fast now. No way I could hit that shit. What did you treat you with that? No way. So let me go to pickleball and then I'll explain. It's the same answer for wiffleball. And I'm glad I said it earlier. Do you know why I think pickleball is working a little bit? It's got a long way to go.

44:17But it's because of Annalie Waters. We rep at VaynerSports and she plays for my team, the Fives, the New Jersey Fives. A 19-year-old girl who is the best player in the world. And she has the potential because of her personality. And she's the best. and unlike other sports, basketball and tennis, the best girls player in the world is the best player in the world. She's the best player in the world. Like when they go one-on-one with males, because pickleball's crazy, that's why your grandma can beat you. It's like a sport that's designed to level the athleticism playing field. I felt like I could make her famous.

44:56Now she's on Fallon. Now she's on McAfee. Like Maha, like we're all working together to build her up. Ryan Harwood deserves the most flowers. Wiffle ball is gonna work if we can find our Wilt, our Muhammad Ali, our Joe Namath. Let me just be a Jets fan for a minute. Joe Namath becoming actually famous, as famous as the Beatles, is one of the most impactful things that happened to the NFL. Boys, ladies, Super Bowl I, 30 ,000 empty seats in the Orange Bowl. Back to David Stern, NBA Finals 1982 tape delay. 1982 NBA Finals on tape delay. They played golf on CBS when the Sixers and Lakers played and aired it at night.

45:46You've got to create heroes. You've got to create stories. In Wiffle Ball all I gotta do is find one person that feels like Babe Ruth that feels like Sandlot that feels like a celebrity and I changed Andre Agassi for tennis. You guys know When I say it like this, it makes sense. You're like, damn, Ronda Rousey and Conor McGregor, do you know what they, that's why Dana White, Vince McMahon, did it in Make Pretend with Hogan. But Vince McMahon, Dana White, and David Stern are all very similar. They created stories around humans that got us fascinated, that made us tune in. Do you know what wrestling was before Vince McMahon?

46:26It was a fucking circus on the side that your weird uncle watched. there was no Hulkamania. There was no, like, The Rock. So, same with the NBA. Bro, the 70s were rough. Boys were doing that white powder. Shit was crazy. Like, the league was in a tough spot. And then Magic and Bird played that NCAA game, and they took that weight, and then Jordan came along, and it was over. What's your role? You have any role with the team, like, on a day-to-day basis? No, the way that deal structure was more of an, like every other thing I'm involved in besides big three I have a much bigger role your coach is Dr.

47:04J yes yep which is like got Joe Johnson on the team and and Lisa Leslie in the past yep she's the one coached to the championship y 'all beat us in the championship here in LA of everything you invested in what's your favorite success story McMac McMac is a company that just sold Rachel Tipo big shout out to her I invested in company in three minutes only because of her. I didn't even love the idea. I loved it. You'll laugh. It was QVC for social media. So it was live shopping a little bit. But I didn't like the way she had it structured. But it's kind of like being a GM that drafts on talent, not at that moment.

47:41I just saw her. And let me tell you the number one thing about having a long career in the NBA and being an entrepreneur. Adaptability. Changing along the way, right? You guys know, you guys played along. Yeah. Vince Carter being a three-point shooter? compared to the kid we saw day one. That's crazy. I'm still blown away by that. Like still to this minute, I'm shook. That man was fucking meek. He was dominiking it. If you told me 18 years later that motherfucker was gonna be in threes, I would have laughed you out of the room. Wow, what work ethic to be adaptable. Rachel pivoted Micmac multiple times.

48:19On its deathbed multiple times. I also wrote a check when I didn't have money like that to keep it alive so it's personal. to see her have such a significant, meaningful eight-figure exit, maybe nine-figure exit, like a real exit. Feels very fulfilling. Obviously, Facebook was crazy. Like, picking that in 2007 was crazy. Twitter, Tumblr, Liquid Death. I wrote the first check into Liquid Death. He was my employee. That one actually is in my petheon because I actually didn't know if he could do it. I wrote that check only because I'm a good person straight up he was he literally resigned from my company VaynerMedia it was like I got this idea Mike and he's like I got this idea I'm gonna start this water brand he's he's like would you like to invest I'm like yep he was a creative director and I'm kind of like like I'm a stereotypical businessman who's like oh that's like the creative art person they can't build a business they just got ideas so I didn't know him like that I wrote that check only because I wanted to be supportive because I didn't want to be a hypocrite.

49:25Right? If I believe in the entrepreneurial dream, I can't be holding down my employees. I need to build them up. So I'm going to make real paper out of my biggest thesis, which is nice guys finish first, but the world's got you all twisted thinking they come last. What's the most important thing a company needs to possess to succeed? Resilience. Resilience. Yeah, man. There's going to be ups and downs. Yeah, man. And like, this is where I get mad at people weaponizing lucky. I'm sure you guys heard this. Like, you know, to become a professional athlete, you know this, a lot of guys came up with you that were better than you.

50:00A lot of luck. A high percentage of them was better than that. That's right. A lot of luck. But what they don't understand is there's multiple other parts. There's this, there's this, and then there's work. The best athletes in jail. Yeah. Right now. I'm just keeping it funky. That's just true. And many. and then you know we're in a better world now where the kids from the streets are smarter because they got more information but they may not be in jail they just might be a fucking you know agent they might be or good they're just selling insurance there doesn't need to be drama like that but they didn't put in the work like you guys did there's adaptability there's serendipity but when people weaponize luck they're on some loser shit that's their excuse and so same with companies man none of them not Facebook not fucking Amazon not Oprah like there's nobody who made it without resilience this thought that someone had it easy even when they shit on rich kids you guys know this like we grew up in a way that's different than the benefits of our children but like I don't know how you guys are but like that's not always an advantage right starting behind is not an advantage you know like adversity is foundational to success.

51:19Grit matters. When you're going through all the circuits and you've got a personal chef instead of eating McDonald's or White Castle, it's different. Plus, those kids have... That's why, bro, my flowers for Bronny are off the charts. I couldn't even imagine being LeBron James' fucking kid. I know people won't get this and I might get some shit for this I think that's the most adverse shit and of course someone's like in the comments like yo fuck you I'd love to have you know that house and like I get it I'm talking just about like do you understand the emotional fucking damage you get like you're just dealing with it.

52:05Always in the shoes everywhere you go you're in your daddy's footsteps everywhere you go I mean you have to be very emotionally strong like big shout out to the parenting that goes on in that house has to be i think one of the biggest things you said like something i learned i think is one of the biggest things i learned in my lifetime to make love to the good and bad times the same way well because you had real adversity yeah you know at the time when that shit all went down in the palace like i don't even know where you were young as fuck man i can't imagine what the fuck was going through your head but now these little gray beard yeah you now know that's some of the best shit that ever happened yeah it's just the truth yeah like you don't know it at the time yeah you When you're waking up that morning watching ESPN and your boys are going, this shit is so fucked up.

52:51You didn't know what the fuck was going to happen to your life. You're a child when that went down. Today, you know what the best part of having some real shit happen? Is you learn real quick who the fuck your friends are. One of the great things of going through some real shit is that shit exposes quick. Everybody. Right? And both of you have been through some public shit. You learn real fucking quick. and two in hindsight now when we get to chop it up like this you're like that made me stronger that made me learn how to tune out this you go through some real real shit where people say some things that really hurt you in your soul especially when someone that you thought was your fucking boy you start to learn how to calibrate words yeah you know what i mean that's the biggest vulnerability to everybody most people don't know how to calibrate words break that down for us because i know people like what you mean by calibrate most people are bitches yeah like most people try to act tough yeah and then somebody says something and they break down and want to fight yeah yeah and that's fine i like fighting i grew up in that era like i believe in it a little bit in fact actually i'm a little bit pro our kids need to fight a little bit more i think the reason everyone's such a fuck face is people can say shit without getting punched in the face especially on keyboards so i'm pro fighting on the record meanwhile meanwhile meanwhile if i call you if i call you know like i think about this for a lot of tough guys i grew up with i was like man this person thinks he's tough i can say one thing right now and this kid will completely lose his shit oh wait like not having the emotional strength to be able to deal with judgment hot takes two cents people trying to tear you down that's real strength that's real man fucking hood you know and i listen i do think there's a time to like go there yeah but not on an insult like watch it bro real talk all these tough guys are on social media right now fighting like 13 year old girls like like girls like children like i don't know if anybody i promise you if we took this way back 40 years ago and people watched how people are fighting and i'm talking like i love steven a because i'm a knicks fan right like when steve a is fighting with whomever or even you guys like like fighting like on some real girl drama shit if it wasn't social media and they and they wouldn't get they couldn't get attention from a lot of people wouldn't be saying this stuff but let me say this social media is exposing yeah you know when we grew up this shit was just happening at dinner tables people crying about dumb shit people always crying about dumb shit we're just now being exposed by it yeah i don't think people are emotionally strong i don't think people understand that people's words are only a reflection of them you know why i like giving flowers because i'm good and i want people to literally i'm saying all this shit i can i can feel it in my body right now i'm like i hope they see it feels nice feels i'm sure i mean you guys when you get flowers you get plenty of flowers feels nice like that was nice right i'm glad they like you know it feels nice like wallow say i've never heard nobody doing work doing better than me talking about me never it's so rare it's so rare it's just the way it is and like listen i get listen i spend my life thinking about insecurity versus real confidence frameworks mindset perspective honestly when people shit on me i feel bad for them like real talk i couldn't imagine spending two minutes going around the internet looking at something and then wasting my time I'm trying to hurt someone.

56:21I do not. That's the craziest shit ever though. When you break it down like that, right? Like it's a really sad thing. Like it's like. Wake up thinking about it. You know, like really? You like took your time instead of building some shit for yourself. You wake up. To go and try to tear someone else down. I don't think they're, I don't hate them. I ain't mad at them. I fucking feel bad. Yeah, because it says life kicking you in the ass right now. Yeah, you're just in a bad spot. Exactly. You're in a bad spot. If you're trying to spit poison, you got poison in you. Tough to spit it when it's not in you.

56:52You got to demean somebody to get ahead. You ain't going nowhere. Nah, man. You ain't going nowhere. One of my favorite sayings, two ways to build the biggest building in town. One, tear down everyone else's building and your little building looks good. Two, just be fucking talented enough to build the fucking biggest building. Quick hitters, first thing to come to mind, let us know. Five dinner guests, you plus five, dead or alive. Macho Man Randy Savage. Oh, yeah. I snap it to that Slim Jim I'm going to go to the top of the jump rope and I'm going to jump down. Macho man is going to do it. Yeah.

57:27The reason Macho Man is who he is is literally everyone's got their version of a Macho Man. I love the Macho Man. He was the best. My number one. Macho Man. They weren't just Newton Powder in the 70s, I guess. No, they were. They were. Both of my grandfathers. I didn't get to know them. I actually met my mom's dad. I knew him until I immigrated from the Soviet Union to the U.S. when I was three. He died right when he was starting to immigrate over, which was devastating. But I don't remember him, which is crushing because my mom tells me I have a lot of him in me. Jim Henson. Muppets. So check this out.

58:00I'm in my Jim Henson era. I have something called VFriends. So I'm building the next Pokemon. I'm putting that on wax. I'm building the next Pokemon. It's called VFriends, 250 characters, Tenacious Termite, Patient Panda, right? You know, Respectful Raccoon, Entrepreneur Elf. rare robot, very, very, very, very lucky black cat is the logo, because I'm trying to change perceptions. Why's a black cat gotta be unlucky, by the way? Think about that one for a minute. Anyway. Everything black is bad, that's what we were talking about. Trust me, I was leading the witness. Everything white was right. It really fucks with me that black cats are unlucky.

58:38My whole life I felt that way, and so I made the logo. My Pikachu, my Mickey Mouse, my Kermit the Frog is the very, very, very, very lucky black cat. anyway I'm building this world when I started it five years ago I'm like oh I'm Walt Disney Vince McMahon like that kind of stuff but then when I was going through it I was like damn Jim because for me friends for me is the most selfish and most selfless thing I'm doing selfish because I'm gonna build a billion dollar company sell it and buy the Jets win a Super Bowl selfless because I'm writing comics kids books putting out content teaching resilience resilient at Red Devil.

59:15I'm doing a really big play for girl dads. If you're a girl dad out there, please go check out V Friends. Two of the 10 biggest characters in my world are Fearless Ferry and Ambitious Angel. And she's a nice little brown girl that's gonna build the biggest company in our world. And so I'm doing these stories to real self. I'm trying to help parents. I grew up in the 80s. When we watched He-Man, you remember this? He-Man would, Adam would come on in the end and be like, and remember guys, be nice to your sister. I'd be like, oh, nice to my, like now we got all this fucked up content. And parenting, It's hard as shit.

59:43I'm like, I'm gonna build a world, do the Gary Vee thing. Because listen, I know that a lot of people fuck with me, but I know a lot of people don't fuck with me. They don't like the cursing. They don't like the energy. They don't like that I'm a white dude. I don't know what, that I, like I can't be the vessel for all 8 billion people, but these 250 characters can. So Jim Henson would be number four because I'd love to pick his brain. Do you know what Fraggle Rock, do you guys remember that? Jim Fraggle Rock. Do you know what Fraggle Rock's brief was? When they invented it, they create a framework.

1:00:08It's called a brief. Usually it's very long. you explain you know what a brief is do you know what fraggle rock's brief was end war wow i had a homeboy that looked like one of them characters i used to call him no fraggle but but real talk though for a second right real talk like end war so for me i would say number four is um is is jim henson i'll leave number five to think through moving on the side you just said something but a lot of people like me fuck with you because you don't give a fuck i think that's a lot that's why a lot of people relate to you because you don't give a fuck you want to keep it raw real at all times and that's what the world is scared of yeah you know a lot of people keep it real but they're real pieces of shit yeah you know what i mean and like a small group likes them because what they're doing is they're they're demonizing another group and they're like yeah i like that guy because he's shitting on that but i think with me, I am not scared, which is the only way to keep it real.

1:01:10But I'm coming on some real love shit, bro. I can't comprehend why I wouldn't want every person that I'm looking at right now to win. Why wouldn't I? And if they're better than me, listen, fuck it. It's why I fuck with sports. You guys did the greatest thing in the world. You did something that no one could fucking cheat. It was 114-109. You won or you lost. It's why I love business. It's the second closest thing. Like either you build a business or you don't. Either this podcast gets ratings or it doesn't. You either get sponsorship or you don't. It's the next closest. You can fuck around a little bit with taxes and all the bullshit.

1:01:49Sports is just, and it's why I really love UFC and boxing. With sports, as you guys know, there's a lot of pieces to what y 'all did. Coaching, ownership. Hand-to-hand combat. When you go in the fucking cage and it's you and the other person, that shit is the realest shit of it all. Ain't no tagging. Oded Weinstock. You know what that is? I do. Because I beat him in a fight three out of four times. He got one. I'm still bitter about it. He kept coming back though. He got heart. Bro, we had a straight Ali-Fraser rivalry from second to seventh grade. And we had the apex. Just like the thrill in Manila, we had the apex.

1:02:24Marcos Hill, outside of John Adams Middle School. The buildup was crazy. Fucking 25. The buildup was super crazy. Here's why. I was 2-0. I beat him in second and fourth grade beat his ass but then he got bigger remember I told you I was really good in second, third grade but then he got bigger he went up weight classes and in sixth grade I talked some shit I talked some shit I turned around this motherfucker pushed me into the locker skinny ass little fucker and the fucking you know the fucking lock thank you that shit caught me in the ribs and it didn't feel good and then he got me in a sleeper teacher came in broke us up it was before homeroom so I thought it was minor by lunch everybody in sixth grade was like Odette beat up Gary.

1:03:03And I'm telling you, besides when my sister started swimming three seconds before me because I was scared that I was gonna die swimming and I jumped right in because I couldn't have her swim before me, there was no other time that I knew I had to do something more than I had. And I, out of like an 80s movie, got up in fucking lunchroom, walked over to Odette and said, me and you, Marcos Hill, after school. Like, three. Three-thirty. And, you know, there was probably 17 to 29 people there when i tell the story there was 40 000 in attendance and it's crazy he was like a real fucking scrap in before homeroom was like crap this was a real stand-up shit and he's winning early and he's on top of me like really on top of me and i'm like on some straight like just dodging shit not catching a real one to this day i'm 50 years old that was like the most apex moment of my life i knew that if i didn't figure something out quick it was about to be over that my whole life was over so i started doing the you know and i finally somehow somehow because fucking fucking god thank you somehow got him off and i fucking kicked this dude in his face and through like i was like a little like you know some people thought i actually hit him his fucking face exploded bleeding and he got up and thank god oded was a bitch and he cried and ran off stop panicking i saw that blood man it's the best i'm so glad i got to tell that story they probably picked up thank you so much for the platform but but but the reason i tell that is like that's just it oded can't run around and tell that story that was it i know you're trying to get me out here but this oded story is my life i don't i don't have i don't have this.

1:04:51This is it. Y 'all, nothing I will ever accomplish. I'm going to buy the Jets and win a Super Bowl, and it still was better to beat Odetta. Mark O'Shill in 1986. Three and one. Three and one. One guest you want to see on All the Smoke. Ooh, that's good. You haven't had Pat on. McAfee, we have. No, no. Ewing. Oh, Ewing. That's the only Pat. Ewing. I think Pat, with all the Knicks stuff going on right now, I think it's time. And he's a complicated dude. He's an... There you go. He's interesting. It's funny you said that. He's interesting. He came up to him at the Knicks game. Did he? Yeah, said what's up.

1:05:23He said, like what we doing. Listen to me on Pat. I know, I get it. Don't worry. Respect. But I'm telling you, on the Pat thing, he's interesting. Yeah. He'll give you that Jamaican fucking parents upbringing. A lot of racism Pat went through with Georgetown. He went through it a different way. Was really tight against Players Union guy, the Jordan relationship. Like, Pat's interesting. Very educated. By the way, he might be very hard. The reason I want to see it is I don't know if you can get them to open like that. But if Pat ever opens, Pat. I think we can. All right. G, appreciate you. Thank you.

1:05:58Thank you so much.

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From the publisher

In this episode of The GaryVee Audio Experience, I sit down with the legends on All the Smoke to discuss the biggest shifts in media and business. I explain the current state of linear TV and how you can win by mastering "interest media" through content volume. I also dive deep into why I believe nice guys finish first and how to build the emotional strength to tune out the noise of judgment.

You’ll learn about:

  • The Power of "Interest Media"

  • Career Advice for Modern Athletes and Entrepreneurs

  • How to Build Resilience Through Adversity

  • How to Overcome the Fear of Being Misunderstood

  • How to Deal with Public Judgment or Criticism


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